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2

Spit on your ween my friend. Works wonders.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:47 AM
2

This is the answer
/r/seduction08/05/22 10:41 PM
2

Yes lol. YouTube search “butt exercises” and you’ll find lifts that will break through a lot of those genetic walls.
/r/seduction02/05/22 10:54 PM
2

Exceptions to every rule brother. This is a pretty broad generalization to make - but I hear where you’re coming from. Just means you need to look harder
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:04 PM
1

I needed to. It’s helped my proceeding relationships immensely
/r/seduction28/04/22 07:55 PM
2

I feel crazy for saying this as a relatively straightforward guy with women but The Cube is actually sort of brilliant. May try this.
/r/seduction14/04/22 09:24 PM
2

Whenever I see or hear something beginning in “fact:” followed by a description of oneself - I know it’s gonna be a wild ride
/r/seduction09/04/22 06:35 PM
5

Send that dick!
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:50 PM
6

Literally have everything in the bag here except the weight thing. If you’re as disciplined and focused as you sound - spend some time looking into diet and exercise. Recommend 5-6 days a week of an hour of lifting followed by 20-30 mins of cardio. Can work up to this by doing 3 days a week followed by 4, by 5 etc. Cut out all processed foods 6 days a week, and let yourself eat something shitty one day a week (being perfect is unsustainable with food, as much as I’ve tried). You’re going to feel…
/r/seduction31/03/22 05:16 PM
3

I hit them with the “I’m a virgin, I hate sex” line. Have enough social confidence where they know it’s not true and they usually get a laugh out of it. Sitting around 80 and don’t feel like that’s a very charming number. If they really insist - I tell them I stopped keeping track bc I felt like a scumbag for having a list and it made sex feel disingenuous.
/r/seduction08/03/22 12:32 PM
9

This is the right answer. It’s GOOD to have good girl friends. Not every girl you cold approach needs to be a sex partner. I’ve met two of my best friends off of online dating and we just never slept together but still text and talk often. Admittedly it’s a pretty big red flag that she’s down to meet up with a random guy who was trying to pick her up for drinks when she has a boyfriend. Perhaps tread carefully lol
/r/seduction07/03/22 11:32 PM
101

Attaching a value judgment to evolutionary biology seems a bit counter productive. It simply is what it is
/r/seduction02/03/22 02:48 PM
1

Takes years in the gym to get a good physique. Stick with it. Go to the gym for your mental and physical health - not to pick up chicks…
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:06 PM
8

Seems like a dangerous path using male attention as an anecdote to loneliness when you’re already in a serious relationship. Almost certain this will end badly if it continues…
/r/seduction15/02/22 02:13 PM
1

In high school this will actually make you the man. Keep up this energy. IF they’re actually into it… plus fuck it if you’re new, there’s no reason not to approach new people and make new friends
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:29 AM
1

Do you want to be her friend? Then be her friend. But don’t go in with any expectations or motives that it will ever be anything more
/r/seduction12/02/22 02:28 AM
1

How is that wise lol? If a woman has HIV but wants you - do you still do it? If a woman murdered her family and wants you - do you still do it? Extreme examples - but “wise” phrases are usually not that easy to tear to pieces.
/r/seduction07/02/22 09:16 PM
3

Keep em comin
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:59 PM
3

Yep - confirmed
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:53 PM
1

From the phrasing of this post I can already almost certainly say you will not succeed. Send me my gift card now please.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:36 PM
2

Lotta the times I’ll compliment something quirky about their outfit like their shoes or their hair and then introduce myself. It’s not about WHAT you say - it’s about HOW you say it.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:50 PM
1

Only way this could be bad is if she sent you nudes. If not - you’re fine. Every state I know of in the US has a 3 year age difference rule where if you’re within 3 years you’re fine. Naked pics of anyone underage is super, super illegal tho - so delete those immediately if she sent them.
/r/seduction06/01/22 06:40 PM
2

Good question lol very niche tho
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:37 PM
1

This would actually throw me off bc then I’m entering the interaction on a lie. Would sort of feel like this guy is trying to swoop on the girl I’m talking to?
/r/seduction02/01/22 04:51 PM
7

I didn’t get a car until 23 - I did just fine without it.
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:28 AM
1

That’s wild
/r/seduction31/12/21 04:12 AM
9

This is genius. I may start doing this as a non drinker. Who doesn’t want some fire root beer at a gathering?
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:11 AM
34

It’s certainly become LESS important than it was historically. Women can make just as much as men and oftentimes significantly more (in the US women in their 20s make more than men) - so I think there’s a major trend in the direction of money not being in the top 3 most important factors to seduction. However, a LACK OF money is still absolutely huge. But I think for simply practical purposes mostly. Like if you don’t have your own place or can’t afford to go do fun things, why would anyone want…
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:29 PM
6

Break up with your girlfriend - obvious answer
/r/seduction18/12/21 03:26 AM
8

Dope
/r/seduction13/12/21 09:38 PM
1

Horrible take
/r/seduction04/12/21 07:27 PM
6

They’ll completely fuck your libido long term. Source: Google. But also was prescribed vyvanse and Ritalin for 5+ years
/r/seduction25/11/21 06:38 AM
7

Same here. I’m convinced women on hinge are more serious about actually meeting up
/r/seduction20/11/21 05:15 PM
5

Lmfao
/r/seduction19/11/21 08:28 AM
4

If your friends cares and you care about your friend - then don’t. If he didn’t care it’d be different.
/r/seduction14/11/21 06:22 AM
17

“Let’s go back to my place for a drink”
/r/seduction13/11/21 02:43 AM
4

A girl saying this to me is usually a huge indicator that she is going to sleep with me at some point lmao - shows that it’s on her mind. I usually toss back a “perfect I hate sex”, or “this fits right in to my plan to friend zone you”, or “waiting till marriage?”. Something to throw them off guard and laugh. Doesn’t have to end in awkwardness.
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:34 PM
297

I’ve never seen a post so simultaneously both low and high effort
/r/seduction25/10/21 08:43 PM
0

Don’t even think about the number of pounds as healthy or unhealthy IMO - if you eat healthy foods in medium portions and cut out processed ones (and sugar), and exercise for moderate to high intensity 4 days a week, you’re not too heavy. If you’re not doing those two things then do them for 6 months and see how it changes your weight. If it drops - then you were likely at an unhealthy weight. If not - then you’re just fine!
/r/seduction25/10/21 02:20 AM
1

Girls mature faster than guys. It’s basically a cliche at this point, but it’s true. I’m 25 - when I talk to 21 year old girls, I can have an actual conversation with a pretty high level of emotional intelligence. When I talk to 21 year old guys? It’s almost always totally dry.
/r/seduction24/10/21 08:14 AM
12

Nice work - hate the “don’t ever talk to girls at the gym under any circumstance” mindset I see here a lot.
/r/seduction21/10/21 11:24 PM
2

In these scenarios it’s just really really important that you don’t sleep with this person. Kissing and dancing is not going to be a potentially traumatic experience. Waking up the next morning naked next to someone who you have no idea they are - will almost surely be traumatic. Is this a bad take? I’m a guy - would love to hear a girls opinion on this
/r/seduction17/10/21 08:55 PM
2

I don’t know what you define as 8’s and 9’s but I largely define that category of girl as so distinguishably hot that there is no question they are an 8 (abstract description I know but it’d make sense if I wrote out the entire scale). To claim that women at the higher end of the scale do NOT have a significantly lower chance of doing a one night stand is outrageous. They themselves have an abundance mentality, and women, at the average, largely do not find meaningless sex as fulfilling or inter…
/r/seduction12/10/21 04:20 PM
4

It’d be like having a full time job - absolutely exhausting, and you’re not enjoying it after a while. You’ll be settling a LOT bc 8s and 9s rarely do one night stands. Sounds fucking horrible.
/r/seduction12/10/21 02:57 AM
37

There’s something wise in being able to acknowledge this while simultaneously retaining “zest for life”. Takes time and mindfulness
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:59 PM
2

She did it because she wanted you to bang her. Go get her champ.
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:41 AM
-1

I go for the kiss on the first date - every. time. It makes your intentions clear. 98% of the time they reciprocate. Stop overthinking it and just go for it. What is this - “it seemed like she didn’t give me a window to kiss her” - shit? While walking next to her you stop, lightly grab her arm, turn her towards you, smile, and kiss her. It literally is that simple.
/r/seduction05/10/21 05:07 PM
0

Dead it
/r/seduction04/10/21 01:13 AM
2

You need to tell him. I’d probably tell him over the phone because you’re very likely in physical danger at that moment (and perhaps in the future). You need to do some serious work on yourself - therapy, self discovery (go on a solo trip, somewhere out of your comfort zone, and really think about WHY you did this). Do not rationalize this under any circumstances. We, as humans, tend to want to find ways out of the uncomfortability of “I did a horrible thing”. This can manifest itself through av…
/r/seduction02/10/21 01:36 AM
1

Amazing write up. Would love to see more pieces from you - following.
/r/seduction01/10/21 05:20 PM
2

I’m the best with women I’ve ever been at 25. I had the most one night stands around 22, but those have since gotten old. I now use my pickup ability to go on dates with interesting and attractive girls in efforts to make them into something more than just a bang. I’m happier now than I’ve ever been. It’s a constant uphill climb, in a good way, if you make an effort to improve yourself and your communication/people skills. Just keep putting yourself out there my guy
/r/seduction29/09/21 04:55 AM
5

Nailed it
/r/seduction29/09/21 03:01 AM
1

Agree with this - there is not a one problem=one solution approach to game. Allow for nuance and time. Stop jumping to conclusions.
/r/seduction18/09/21 10:16 PM
2

Lmao I remember in my early 20s when a good night out at the bar just meant I spent no money. The great nights were spending no money and bringing home a girl. Make it a game where you try to pick up chicks without spending any money doing it. It forces you to find other ways to initiate and keep their attention. Learned a ton in the years I was broke, and got me to stop feeling uncomfortable being clear about things like splitting bills and Uber’s.
/r/seduction17/09/21 06:44 PM
1

This. Also a number shouldn’t be anywhere in your top 10 list of judges of character - there’s so many more important things/red flags to recognize.
/r/seduction16/09/21 07:33 PM
1

Dessert is literally always a great date, at any age - love where your heads at
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:59 PM
2

Honestly - keep working out. Gym 4-5 times a week for rep ranges of 8-12, increase weight by 5-10 pounds every other week. Legs twice a week, HIIT cardio 3 times a week (High intensity interval training - google this). The gym isn’t just a great tool for looking hot - it’s excellent for confidence and mental health. Nothing like moving heavy metal around paired with natural endorphins to make you feel on top of the world. If you have a rocking body - you are immediately, at MINIMUM, a 6. Dress u…
/r/seduction16/09/21 05:13 PM
2

Awesome - keep it up
/r/seduction14/09/21 11:54 PM
63

This is the hidden truth that one discovers after years in a gym.
/r/seduction07/09/21 04:41 AM
2

Getting with girls that have boyfriends is simply more trouble then it’s worth. Can lead to a whole slew of issues.
/r/seduction06/09/21 05:06 PM
4

It will make you comfortable with discomfort - an important skill in the social realm and life in general. Social situations are almost always uncomfortable to some degree during first time interactions. Have to overcome that to build relationships.
/r/seduction03/09/21 08:22 PM
287

Reading through all of your responses - you’re incredibly, incredibly negative. That’s where you need to start. Stop shutting down every single piece of advice with the “why I can’t do this” and start thinking in terms of “how I could”. Do one new thing every week. Something out of your comfort zone that you might not like that much. When someone, a friend or family member or coworker, asks you to go out and do something say yes every time. When in situations like this - on Reddit - before you r…
/r/seduction03/09/21 04:16 AM
3

Sounds like you’re on a great track - keep it up! You learn a lot from each heartbreak
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:27 AM
6

This has got to be a joke right?
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:29 PM
3

You’re must be more of a natural killer than I am - keep these coming! I’ll be following along the journey.
/r/seduction28/08/21 06:18 AM
12

This was a great read - nice work on the dates and the write up OP. Do you not get exhausted with the back to back dates? When I was in Florida for the first half of the year I had a 7 days 8 dates streak (one in the morning and one at night same day) and I was burnt out big time after. How do you keep the energy for it?
/r/seduction27/08/21 03:16 PM
18

Lmao back in my college town there was a girl walking around outside my house looking for a guy’s place she was supposed to be going to. She knew my roommate who I was with (cheating I know) and we all started talking. Within 20 minutes her and I were having sex. Funniest part was a couple weeks later me and my roommate were at a bar and he points at a girl and says “look who it is”. I follow with, “who’s that?” - not knowing the girl he’s pointing at. He loses it laughing and tells me it’s the …
/r/seduction20/08/21 10:42 PM
24

Use the exact phrase “do you like that?” as you proceed to escalate sexually, and move to “do you want me?” before you penetrate if you’re worried about being clear. It’s still sexy and it’s explicitly asking for consent. Easy.
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:34 AM
2

Perfect response
/r/seduction30/07/21 08:45 PM
2

Yeah bro how dare people come to a sub on seduction on questions about seduction. That being said OP this question is in fact meant for r/askseddit
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:55 AM
5

They’re out there. Since the beginning of this year I’ve probably been on 30-40 first dates (sounds outrageous but was in Florida and now NYC and made game a priority). About 5 of them have been absolutely awesome people. NYC is littered with really interesting, funny, driven women - but I have found that status is important here. Don’t get stuck in the headspace of “it’s so hard to find a cool girl”. I imagine it’s equally as hard to find a cool girl as a cool guy.
/r/seduction15/07/21 10:42 PM
3

“Extraordinarily rare” is an aggressive overstatement. I can’t solve your depression for you in a subreddit. You need to get help if you have any desire of wanting to live. Things get better but you have to try to make them better first.
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:59 PM
4

Bro 16-22 are simply NOT your best years. It’s wild that there’s a conception around them being so. Currently about to be 26 and I’d say this last year or so has been the best of my life and it’s not even close. YOU decide what the “best years of your life” will be. Don’t fall victim to the trap of believing otherwise. Your brain isn’t even fully developed yet - how could they be?
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:46 AM
2

This undoubtedly stems from a deeper issue. A good therapist changed my life - I’m sure a good one would change yours.
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:36 AM
1

Yikes - just block him!
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:18 AM
1

Bro THIS. This gets overlooked so often.
/r/seduction09/07/21 01:53 AM
2

Cut the emojis. Learn to articulate emotions, humor, and tone with your words, not little silly faces. Practice makes perfect. You’ll blow it with a ton of girls texting before you get good at it - speaking from experience. Be funny, be yourself, keep it light, don’t overthink it. It is an invaluable skill to have, namely for online dating and cold approaches. Good texting will actually lead to real dates - it increases their comfortability with you (makes you a “real person” instead of a strang…
/r/seduction07/07/21 02:46 AM
1

You could have been misinterpreting it or 2. Shut it down anyway.
/r/seduction02/07/21 12:38 PM
3

There are exceptions to every rule. An at work approach where they can get in trouble for giving out their phone number seems like a completely valid exception.
/r/seduction02/07/21 02:41 AM
2

Just don’t go after girls with boyfriends. I think it’s unethical - imagine if someone was pursuing your gf. But even more importantly it opens a huge can of worms that you simply don’t want to deal with. There are plenty of single ladies out there - why go after one with a bf?
/r/seduction01/07/21 10:42 PM
18

Don’t listen to the guys saying “never leave it up to her”. I think this was the right play here.
/r/seduction01/07/21 08:51 PM
3

My comment is not based on YouTube videos at all lmao. I just spent the last 6 months living in Florida - that’s how I know. What a strange way to project onto me, very interesting. While I agree that I could’ve explained the background on why I feel this way, I also find your wording weird lol.
/r/seduction29/06/21 12:51 AM
70

If you’re in good shape - beach day approaches are literally the best way to pick up chicks. Don’t listen to the haters.
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:59 AM
2

Agreed that I also wonder where this stems from. When I used to feel this way, it was because I was worried about my ability to please my partner sexually.
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:13 PM
0

Nailed it
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:11 PM
1

I genuinely, on average, prefer a relatively higher number (~20). I’ve realized that girls with lower numbers don’t really know what they’re doing in bed. They also to know what they want sexually from a partner, which I think is important. I’m at 60 or so, so I recognize that the amount of people you’ve slept with doesn’t necessarily define you in any negative way.
/r/seduction25/06/21 05:09 PM
3

Agree with this. Biggest takeaway from my years online dating is send my phone number within 6-10 messages (establish solid banter) and tell them to text me. Over text I concentrate on figuring out when they’re free and where we should go do something. If at any point they fall off - oh well.
/r/seduction23/06/21 05:07 PM
3

I rarely find a post on here that I connect with super strongly but this one is absolutely excellent. Bravo. Thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction16/06/21 09:36 PM
6

Love this - it isn’t always about getting the number or setting up a date. If you know you’re going to see them again, building rapport can be a powerful way to increase your percentage of closing.
/r/seduction08/06/21 09:30 PM
10

Incels in this sub hate the idea of female friends. Run me my downvotes.
/r/seduction18/05/21 08:51 AM
3

Brain chemicals released during sex are different than during masturbation. Should be fine.
/r/seduction11/05/21 11:35 PM
29

Sounds like she actually has a boyfriend. Didn’t misread the situation. Nothing to worry about
/r/seduction02/05/21 02:24 AM
1

Fuck em. Means they’re too insecure or uninteresting to have a friendly conversation with a stranger. Onwards.
/r/seduction29/04/21 03:25 AM
177

Bro you fucking rule.
/r/seduction25/04/21 05:57 AM
2

There is no “secret to success”. Pick up is practice makes perfect like anything else. Don’t give up. Learn to accept that feeling of disappointment and push through it. It will make you a stronger person in all areas of life. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/04/21 04:56 PM
3

If they say they have a boyfriend I immediately leave as well
/r/seduction08/04/21 10:14 PM
1

Assume whoever you’re approaching is attracted to you.
/r/seduction04/04/21 10:46 PM
1

Yes - gets old after a while, but it gets old less quickly for sure.
/r/seduction04/04/21 08:29 PM
6

Assume attraction is huge
/r/seduction03/04/21 07:18 PM
7

This is hugely valuable information to a lot of people - overcoming objections from OTHER GUYS in the group. Being able to cold approach MEN is just as valuable to pick up as being able to cold approach women confidently. Glad you broke through the douche-barrier. Onward!
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:18 AM
0

Found the incel 🤦🏼‍♂️
/r/seduction30/03/21 07:16 AM
7

Can confirm - moved to Florida for the spring and it’s honestly a fuck fest down here. Wild.
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:03 PM
3

I swear it’s getting harder and harder to gauge the age of girls these days. These YouTube makeup tutorials have fucked everything up.
/r/seduction08/03/21 07:33 AM
3

Same
/r/seduction08/12/20 03:52 PM
3

This is actually turning out to be somewhat false - the idea that we do NOT control the way our mind works. I’ve talked with MANY psychologists and psychiatrists (personally been in therapy for 10 years and also work closely with many graduate students who are working on psych degrees) that are reading research that suggests mindfulness/meditation which is a tool of mindful redirection of thought processes and things like gratefulness journals (what am I grateful for today) work exponentially be…
/r/seduction19/11/20 07:13 PM
1

Very cool. Thanks for taking the time to write back. Sounds like you’ve really found the way to do it.
/r/seduction19/11/20 05:47 AM
3

If it’s that infuriating to you, and I get it, spend your time and energy making yourself 100% of the best person you can possibly be - intellectually, physically, emotionally, spiritually. Re-evaluate your priorities. Women will come once you are standing on the mountaintop.
/r/seduction18/11/20 07:24 PM
4

Wo guy. Sounds like you’re on the upward trajectory and all of a sudden you’re giving up? Changes don’t happen in 75 days. It takes years, and work, and misery. Do this challenge for 2 years and I guarantee you you will be getting hot ass, and your life will be incredible. Stop feeling fucking sorry for yourself. Can’t is the cancer of happen. Get back after it. Discipline = freedom.
/r/seduction18/11/20 07:21 PM
2

With your primary partner - how do you deal with her seeing other people? Is it a don’t ask, don’t tell thing? I’ve always thought marriage would be impossible for me in the frame of monogamy, but the jealousy/wondering of the other person being w other people is difficult, is it not? Or is it something you become desensitized to? This is probably the generic question you get the most...
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:56 PM
2

How do you juggle the attention w the rest of your life? And how’s your marriage, and how long have you been non-monogamous? I have so many questions...
/r/seduction18/11/20 05:50 PM
2

Ok 😔
/r/seduction12/11/20 08:00 PM
1

Bless you
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:47 PM
8

Try changing your diet. I felt the same way and then I went keto (high fat meat and veggies only for the most part) and I feel like a different human being. That and quitting drinking completely has made me feel unstoppable with talking to random chicks.
/r/seduction12/11/20 04:44 AM
1

Bravo. Nice play.
/r/seduction04/11/20 01:52 AM
4

Wow this is intense
/r/seduction01/11/20 11:36 PM
6

There is a 55 year old man behind that account
/r/seduction30/10/20 05:26 AM
7

Notice you’re a man saying this lmao
/r/seduction25/10/20 11:22 PM
1

Lmao this. The Eminem intro really gave it away.
/r/seduction24/10/20 06:43 PM
2

Also don’t say “ask me sum”
/r/seduction23/10/20 07:17 PM
1

Dude is 5’ 10” so he’s neither short nor tall.
/r/seduction21/10/20 05:11 AM
12

Best part of this is - most guys can become attractive by simply getting in the gym. One of my best friends is ugly as hell in the face (had many girls confirm this) but he’s yoked and has laid 100+ girls because he knows how to talk to chicks too. Moral of the story - Don’t be a defeatist asshole.
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:14 AM
1

Practice makes perfect!
/r/seduction20/10/20 06:12 PM
1

Nailed it
/r/seduction18/10/20 12:11 AM
6

Way too long. As a comment below mentions - within sixty seconds of the show being on, you go in for it.
/r/seduction16/10/20 05:58 AM
2

This is gold. Really constructive stuff - nice post.
/r/seduction15/10/20 01:20 AM
8

There’s absolutely nothing wrong with this. I do this too. Filters out the dummies.
/r/seduction14/10/20 05:53 PM
9

Agreed - nice due diligence on this. Going to work this into my dating app routine.
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:46 AM
101

This makes sense to me. It separates you from just being a not real person into being a real person
/r/seduction13/10/20 03:39 AM
1

Also completely accurate
/r/seduction10/10/20 03:58 AM
3

Underrated for sure.
/r/seduction10/10/20 03:32 AM
2

Totally, completely correct. Advice for next time? When I meet girls I connect with like this, I do tend to get wrapped up in it. Thanks for taking the time to read/write.
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:50 AM
5

This
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:07 AM
1

She’s clearly into you - she may just be a dull texter.
/r/seduction10/10/20 02:06 AM
1

I hear you, but you’re wrong. They’re escalating, but not to the point of wanting to make out with a completely random stranger. I’d say 98% of the time those girls are simply just drunk and enjoying consequence free promiscuity. Once you go in for the public kiss, you introduce consequences. Clearly you’re crushing it - harness these interactions and flirt with them for 5-10 minutes, then ask them to go back to your place or grab food somewhere first and continue the vibe. I can almost unequivo…
/r/seduction09/10/20 11:22 PM
3

Lol this is a classic case of your cock doing the thinking. Been there, and little buddy always gets me in trouble. They’re flirting with you. That’s good. That also doesn’t mean they want you to make out with them on the side of the road. As far as meeting girls outside of bars - YES. I also do this, and this is hands down the best way to meet chicks out. But hey, let your bigger brain do the thinking.
/r/seduction09/10/20 10:52 PM
9

“You have to get to the point where you are saying to yourself ‘I’d love to meet someone but I don’t know if I have the time’” bro this and this so hard
/r/seduction09/10/20 04:45 PM
5

Give it a clean cut - it’ll be best for both of you, trust me
/r/seduction09/10/20 02:01 AM
1

Never bring up her boyfriend. But also - probably best to not get involved in this whole mess lmao
/r/seduction09/10/20 12:27 AM
1

Huge. Yikes.
/r/seduction09/10/20 12:27 AM
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Agree
/r/seduction08/10/20 03:00 PM
1

I love going on dates lmao. Ice cream is also a very safe bet
/r/seduction08/10/20 03:21 AM
1

Agreed. Make the first date something super light like mini golf or bowling (those are my go tos)
/r/seduction07/10/20 11:54 PM
1

I’m really glad that people like you are on here keeping people from going full manipulative male. I used to be that way, and framing is so important on this issue. I no longer think in these pseudo-sociopathic terms and I’m much happier and much better around women than I ever have been. Genuinity is a beautiful thing.
/r/seduction07/10/20 04:07 AM
3

This is gonna bring out the absolute worst people lmao
/r/seduction07/10/20 02:49 AM
23

Agreed - second date sex is always way better
/r/seduction05/10/20 06:04 PM
1

Hey guy, why? S’vague rebuttal
/r/seduction05/10/20 01:55 AM
3

Also remember you’re doing it for you, for fun, not for the score. And just like with anything - practice makes perfect. This golf analogy is really blossoming
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:35 AM
1

Practice makes perfect. I’ve been in situations where breaking through the friend zone has been like trying to break down a brick wall with my bare hands. First, make sure you actually want to give it a shot with a girl you’re good friends with. A good girl FRIEND is an incredibly valuable person in one’s life. They can offer perspective in a way that your family, or guy friends, can’t. If you try to break the friend zone, there’s a good chance that friendship won’t be the same afterwards. If yo…
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:33 AM
3

I approach talking to women a bit like golf - you’re gonna have bad days, and you’re going to have good days. The key is trying to make your bad shots less bad, not making your good shots better. That way, even on a “bad night” you still have a chance to have a good conversation with someone you’re attracted to. Also - if you’re playing terribly, trying to still have a good time and think about every shot separately from the last one is the most important, and most fulfilling, thing you can do.
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:26 AM
6

Best feeling in the world - in my opinion it beats out every drug I’ve ever done.
/r/seduction05/10/20 12:23 AM
20

I sorta love the walk back and tell her “I should’ve asked you for your number earlier” move. Happened to me many times; in fact this made me smile thinking about past experiences. I think girls appreciate that. Everyone experiences that next step anxiety, on both sides of the interaction. It also shows how much of an impression they made on you that you just had to walk back.
/r/seduction04/10/20 03:39 AM
2

Unsure if you’re just stuck in a narrative or misunderstanding. I enjoy dating. I’ve done disingenuous “game” through college, and purely tried to bang out hot chicks for the sake of doing it. When I stopped keeping my “list”, I had just hit 60. I no longer find that fulfilling. I love the feeling of paying for the first date. I don’t always pay for the second one. Nearly every time, and I mean ~95% of the time (hence the maybe 5% max), the girl has offered to pay for it or split it and I firmly…
/r/seduction04/10/20 03:30 AM
1

This.
/r/seduction04/10/20 03:19 AM
4

Huge yikes at this response. Who hurt you? I’ve been on many many first dates with women and never gotten the impression that they were simply using me for a “free meal”. What’s the opportunity cost of that - like two hours of time for a $40-50 meal? I would never in my life give two hours of time to someone I don’t genuinely like for that price point. Gonna turn this on you and say I think you need to find yourself here. Blanket generalizations about any group of people, women included, are dan…
/r/seduction03/10/20 11:42 PM
1

I’ve started framing it in my mind as “I’m just trying to have fun” not “I’m trying to meet people”. That way, when you’re talking to people, there is no agenda.
/r/seduction03/10/20 10:32 PM
1

COVID times have wrecked my cold approaches
/r/seduction03/10/20 10:30 PM
1

Yikes
/r/seduction03/10/20 10:27 PM
3

This is like maybe 5% of women. I wouldn’t be this pessimistic lol. They still have to spend all that time with you.
/r/seduction03/10/20 10:25 PM
31

First dates are awesome. Just try to focus on having fun and walk in with zero expectations. Treat the date night as a treat for yourself - you’re not going on this date to impress her, you’re going on this date to blow off steam and have a good time.
/r/seduction03/10/20 10:25 PM
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