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[–][deleted] [score hidden] 5 years ago stickied comment (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]Report_Topside 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Overly invested. Overly emotional. You have had one conversation with this girl and you are already utterly head over heels. I get it. She actually sounds wonderful, but you gave it all up and left exactly zero mystery. Unless the person feels exactly the same way at exactly the same time this approach is simply not successful. It isn't over yet but I highly recommend that you DO NOT send a follow up. You have already followed up when you did not need to so another one would send a clear shout of desperation.
Another theory is that she is attempting to protect herself due to the distance. LDRs suck hard and she probably doesn't want to get involved. Or she may have some hectic personal stuff going on.
Either way. Golden rule do your own thing. Enjoy your life. Live an enriching meaningful life. Don't let hinge dictate your emotions.
[–]Kommoncents1 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Totally, completely correct. Advice for next time? When I meet girls I connect with like this, I do tend to get wrapped up in it.
Thanks for taking the time to read/write.
[–]revente 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
This is some random thot 80 miles away and you are writing a fucking disseration over her dude. I know pandemic is a shitty time, but maybe try to go for some real life girls when possible.
[–]converter-bot 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
80 miles is 128.75 km
[–]Kommoncents1 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also completely accurate
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