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Sewing circles and cooking classes/clubs do get you out of the house. Some community colleges (depending on location) have programs where you learn to work with different animals.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 03:49 PM
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Moderation Note: Be polite, or be quiet. Do not attack the OP or behave rudely. Those that jump straight to rude bluntness will be banned for 10 days right off the bat.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 06:26 AM
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You so badly need to develop your personality and interests. You should have things that you enjoy doing....because that's how you meet friends and romantic interests. Your are young and you have so much ahead of you. Improving your life and rounding out your personality will make you more engaging and memorable. There are many practical skills you can learn. How to sew, cook, raise farm animals. If you like movies, then you could find a way to study film and work within that industry on some le…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 06:24 AM
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Comments and posts. :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 06:16 AM
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Doxxing is a major concern for any red pill leaning (or traditional) group. If you are talking about posting a listing on a local group meetup site for your area - then keep it simple..."Baking and Books" where you could read a book and also learn to cook dishes from that time period, or figure out how to create meals if it's futuristic. You wouldn't have to specifically bake, but it sounds catchier than 'cooking and books'. This isn't a discussion that can be had within this sub however, simply…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 06:11 AM
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I'm not the person you were talking to originally :) That's /u/catsuramen but I'm certain she will appreciate your kind words when she reads them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 06:23 PM
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Flirting, confiding in other women, giving them the time and emotional attention that should be reserved for a significant other. Many physical affairs start out as emotional ones and escalate over time.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 05:52 PM
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Summarize what happened (what the discussion was about, where it went wrong). In general, texting is not a good medium for complete conversations.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/18 12:12 AM
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Your thread has been removed, Whatsapp requires people to sign up/share their cell phone number. This opens you and others up to doxxing, which is something this community works hard to avoid. If you edit the post and leave out the Whatsapp portion, then reply to this message. I will review and re-approve if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 07:17 PM
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Tell you what, as soon as that sub adds RPW to their sidebar, we'll consider doing the same.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 06:58 PM
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This comment is unduly aggressive and rude. Please rephrase things and keep in mind that ND that newcomers do not have the breadth and depth of knowledge as regular users... Other than that, keep in mind that sarcasm is unhelpful.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/18 06:22 AM
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No one has ever been allowed to encourage other women to accumulate higher N counts, that's goes directly against RPW advice. If there are such comments being made, they should be reported. Other than that I would have to see specifically what you are classifying as 'dissenting opinions'. People have different interpretations about theories, relationship dynamics etc...that's all normal.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 11:16 PM
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This is not RPW relevant advice. If you cannot give RPW appropriate advice, then don't comment. Only warning.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 09:18 PM
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This is not RPW relevant advice. If you cannot give RPW appropriate advice, then don't comment. Only warning.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/18 09:17 PM
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You need to edit your comment. User history is of course relevant. Many users leave out (or lie) about important information. Your comment has been removed for rudeness and insulting other users. Reply to me once you have edited your comment to comply with the spirit and rules of the community.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 01:46 AM
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Wrong again. I am issuing a 2 day ban. Use this time to review the sidebar and understand the community. Do not comment here again unless you can abide by the rules and spirit of this community.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 01:43 AM
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Lying is not acceptable advice on this sub. Read the sidebar, and understand the updated male participation rules. Aside from giving non RPW acceptable advice you are also praising the women here, which is not allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/18 01:42 AM
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It is fine to disagree, but do so in a polite and thoughtful manner.
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/17 08:51 AM
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Please PM me or message the moderator mail from your normal account. I will approve your thread after you have done so. Unfortunately throwaway accounts have a bad habit of 'drive by posting' and don't play ball and actually engage with the thread. This means that people spend their time and energy giving advice to someone that doesn't reciprocate. Your main account will not be mentioned in the thread, but it's possible there is other relevant information that you either forgot to mention, or th…
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 09:32 PM
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I think that's a good idea. :)
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/17 09:26 PM
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Moderation Note: Insulting the OP, disparaging the quality of the man mentioned in the thread, making baseless assumptions, or writing comments without actionable advice will result in a a 30 day ban. Instead of assuming you know details that haven't been covered, ask the OP questions. This thread will not be used to insult the OP, or attack her, or the man. Please be on your best behavior. Any male user commenting here needs follow the rules of the community and comply with the updated male pos…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 10:11 PM
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From the post: Ask open ended rather than yes/no questions! You are limiting the feedback you can receive by structuring your question in terms of yes or no. Instead you could ask "is there anything else I should be doing to put myself in a position to have children?" "as a couple, what should we be aware of as we try to start our family?"
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 10:04 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean by that...but "life isn't fair." It seems odd that anyone that understands RP ideas and concepts would complain about 'fairness' anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 09:56 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. You have insulted this community, and the OP. You are making baseless assumptions. Your idea of 'beta' is typically shallow and says more about where you are in your life than the man in the original thread. The community focuses on finding good men, and the process of vetting. According to your logic, 'alpha men' run from their problems, ditch women, and never commit. Alpha and beta are not actual personality types, they describe characteristics and behaviors. Read the si…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 09:22 PM
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You seem to have a listening problem. A moderator told you to give useful and actionable advice. You have contributed nothing to the conversation other than negativity and anger. she never states how it happens. No form of birth control is 100% effective. a 29 year old with a 40 year old is different from some 20 year olds. He met her family, he isn't running. It may not be how she planned for things to happen, but this is also why vetting is so heavily stressed here. She vetted him, and he show…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 08:51 PM
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It's understandable to be nervous, which is why it's important to sit down and talk with him when you can. It sounds like he is intent on doing right by you, but you should be prepared and planning for all outcomes. Be positive and vulnerable with him. It sounds like he is a confident and masculine man, one that isn't shy about taking what he wants and being clear about his expectations. I don't see any reasons for you to worry, but I understand why you are given everything that's happening. You…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 08:47 PM
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Your thread is now visible. Good luck. I will simply say that at 40, he knows himself and what he does and does not want. At 29 you should also have a clear idea of what you do and do not want. Stay positive and be happy if you want a baby and trust this man. Good vetting upfront makes everything easier the more serious you get. You do need to make sure you are both on the same page, but if he has stuck around to meet your family, then I think you have far less to worry about than two 23 year ol…
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 06:35 PM
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Just a different take on the saying "beating a dead horse." Meaning when someone refuses to listen, comply, or stop pursuing something. It's a plea/joke on my part as a moderator. "Please stop being a troll/making snarky comments/arguing". If people listened to the flair more often, I'd have less work to do around the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 06:13 AM
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Read the sidebar. Men that violate the rules are automatically banned for 2 days.
/r/RedPillWomen26/12/17 04:17 AM
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Men that do not follow the rules are automatically banned for two days.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 10:24 PM
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There are updated Male participation rules. Men that violate the rules will be automatically banned for two days.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 10:17 PM
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Men that violate the rules will be automatically banned for two days. Read the updated Male participation rules.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 10:15 PM
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Ignore, it was a troll is remark.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/17 10:09 PM
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This community only deals with exclusive, heterosexual, monogamous relationships. Try /r/polyamory or /r/relationship_advice
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/17 03:55 AM
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I sent you a pm with my response because reddit said this comment was deleted, but that was a mistake obviously.... That is something you have to decide for yourself. This community values relationships and does not encourage divorce lightly. I think there is a lot of room for you to improve, and as a byproduct, he may change as well, but you cannot expect that to happen. There is also the fact that dating is harder for older, divorced women. I would suggest focusing on self improvement, and rev…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 07:23 PM
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If the person is sincere, then they will benefit from the community and participating here. If the person is a troll, they will be removed if they violate the rules. In the future, if you see something that looks suspicious or breaks the rules, it's better to hit the 'report' button so the material gets flagged. This expedites the moderation process. You can encourage users to review the rules and refer them to other threads. Be an example to others by writing thorough and detailed comments, and…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 06:45 PM
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The sidebar has been updated, so make sure you understand all the material and rules. Good luck and welcome.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 06:37 PM
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Everyone is here to learn and improve. Participation is how many people identify things to work on. People will also care more about helping a user that has developed a reputation and participated within the community.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 06:31 PM
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Please comment more on other threads and be active in the community. There's no possible way anyone could give useful feedback to you....because you already detailed, in excessive fashion, every mole and blemish. If you need to know about your relationship, just re-read what you wrote. It may help to use two different names, sometimes we 'see' things more easily when it's happening to someone else. Your thread has been removed and will not be re-approved without some major editing down and simpl…
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 06:18 PM
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Drop the attitude immediately and do not presume to tell a moderator how to moderate. The thread has been removed, I am talking to the OP. Your opinions are irrelevant, and unwelcome.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 06:08 PM
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I'm not sure if you are a troll or not, and I'm willing to give you the benefit of the doubt but please tell me what the purpose of your post is? You have so many random details, and no clear direction. I'm still working my way through and I have no idea why you are sharing all these things or what you hope to hear back
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 06:04 PM
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Your post has been temporarily removed. Please introduce some formatting to your thread, it's very difficult to read right now. In addition, please explain how this is specifically a RPW related issue. Respond to me after you have made the edits and I will re-approve your thread.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 03:33 AM
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You are correct on both counts!
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 01:25 AM
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Your thread has been removed because it is low effort, and there are other threads currently up that deal with this exact topic. If you would like insight on your specific situation then you need to write a post with details about what's going on.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/17 01:16 AM
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Why was your proposal awful?
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 09:31 PM
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I. identify your personal roadblocks. The things that prevent you from being able to effectively meet, date, and evaluate men as potential romantic partners. if you are still hung up on a past relationship if you have negative behaviors as a result of a past relationship (suspicious, closed off, cynical, scared of getting hurt) II. Identify your general behavior based weaknesses. you trust new people too quickly, and have a tendency to overshare and become very intense you are emotionally volati…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 09:21 PM
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Ex boyfriends should be out of your life in every way. If the relationship ends, their place in your life should too. you are very young, n count isn't a concern as long as you wait for exclusive commitment prior to having sex you need to work on your AWALT behaviors. The sidebar will be a useful resource for you You are chasing this man, he's not pursuing you. That's your first clue he has doubts, isn't as interested, or just wants you as a plate. When a masculine man wants to be with you, he w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 07:02 PM
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Your time would be better spent describing the issues in your marriage and what's going on. The Surrendered Wife is meant more for overbearing and dominant women that don't know how to shut up and take a back seat. There is no magic bullet. Reading something won't automatically make you a better wife. You have to be willing to work, and find a way to be honest about your failings and issues as a woman and a wife. Here is the video, and here is a summary of the video for those wondering if it's w…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 06:35 PM
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My guess is that the other user assumes the age gap is malicious. It's a common shaming tactic, that is generally meant to target older men dating younger women. In reality, an 18 year old is a legal adult. Some will be more mature, others less mature. Men typically want to be with younger women, and a 7 year gap is really not a big deal. Especially today, when most people aren't really turning into full fledged adults until their late twenties anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 06:11 PM
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Yes, there was a documentary about the book and it examined four different women and their relationships. Every single woman was high maintenance, controlling, and distrustful of their men. It was a really great watch (and read). I haven't been able to find the thread again unfortunately, but if I do, I'll share a link. Edit: Here is the video. There was a really great breakdown and summary though, because it's a long video to watch without knowing more about what you're getting into. Edit 2:Fou…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 05:51 PM
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The TV show he did with Michelle Gellar is worth watching too.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 05:08 PM
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Please re-write your comment without the over the top cursing. You can make your point without being so brutish and abrasive. You also need to everything starting at "I love" to the end of your comment because it violates the "do not insult the community or members" rule. Reply to me after you have re-worked your comment and I will review the changes.
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 01:53 AM
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Your comment has been approved. The automoderator will continue removing them for a while. I will do my best to make sure they are approved as quickly as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 09:21 PM
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You are making assumptions that may or may not be true. Ask questions if you want more details, it's unwise to jump to conclusions. There are several possibilities, and it's not currently possible to determine what exactly is going on. It's possible she has done something that is questionable, it's also common for people that are cheating to become obsessive about checking up on their partner, it's also normal human behavior to be curious and look through things.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 09:07 PM
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What's the use of talking about marriage if you don't know if or how to deal with his family and he's made it clear that he won't handle them? Do you have actual timelines? You are 28....if you want to enjoy marriage before having kids you are already at 30 which is the 'beginning of the end'. The way you talk, and your inability to handle these types of situations makes you sound more like you are 19, you also give off the impression that you think you have a lot more time than you actually do.…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 08:03 PM
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Additional questions: have you talked about marriage? are you prepared to deal with this woman for the rest of your life? have you ever had other relationships?
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 07:54 PM
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Your thread has been removed. Read the sidebar Insulting your significant other, or men as a group is against the rules You not only insult him repeatedly you also have a serious ego problem. It is clear you assume you are better than he is due to how you dress. This sub does not support changing men or 'getting them to do things' because it's what you want. If you cannot accept your SO due to the clothes on his back, that is a you problem. Practice gratitude and grace. Be proud to be with him, …
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 07:44 PM
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Are you a battle-ax? Do you constantly fight his leadership, disrespect, and vie for control in the relationship? TSW is specifically for dominant women that don't know how to follow. It's for control freaks that haven't found balance yet. It's not 'RP' for men to handle finances, nor is it wise if the man is genuinely not great about money. /u/walkingtherpline if it makes more sense for your relationship for you to handle the finances, that's fine. The important thing is to understand that mist…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 07:20 PM
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Drop the attitude. read the sidebar Everyone is welcome here, what is not welcomed is 'snowflaking'. This means that if a trans woman really believes they are a woman, they should never mention being trans, bisexuals should never mention that and only focus on their heterosexual relationships or use 'so' and 'spous' if they talk about someone of the same sex. I'm not sure you understand what the red pill is if the heterosexual thing surprises you... It has always been about heterosexual relation…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 05:15 PM
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Congratulations you just upgraded your 5 day vacation from the sub to 30.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 04:55 AM
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You seem to have a listening problem either that or you mistook my moderation note as a an optional suggestion instead of a warning. Take 5 days to think it over.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 04:52 AM
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If you cannot discuss the topic in a thorough and polite manner then be quiet and move to something else. The users that disagree with you have both explained their thoughts in a detailed fashion. Your comment has been removed for rudeness and snark. You may edit out those portions and then reply to me. I will then review your edits and re-approve your comment if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 03:29 AM
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Welcome to the sub. Your post has been removed because we only deal with and talk about heterosexual, monogamous relationships. In the future, don't mention that you are bisexual. There is an alt TRP sub if you need to talk about that side of things with others.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 12:40 AM
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Please be thorough with your comments and explanations. It's fine to disagree and point out errors, but you must do so in a polite and detailed manner. Your comment has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 05:47 PM
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Just imagine for a moment that he read your post. Would he want to stay with you based on what you've said? How you have described him and yourself? To know that despite all the great things he does and who he is, you still only think of him as "close enough" when you clearly have so many faults of your own? Food for thought.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 05:45 PM
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Here is a thread on education and employment and the roles they play in dating.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 05:07 PM
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You aren't his girlfriend, you are his main plate. Break up with him immediately and spend more time vetting. This sub only encourages monogamous and committed relationships. You don't have his loyalty or his commitment. You are a plate which is fine, but a very risky strategy with no clear bath to becoming either a GF or a wife, which is why this community advises against open relationships and being a plate. I wish you luck, but your thread will not be approved.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 05:05 PM
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Please only give RP advice on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 04:59 PM
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Please only give RP advice on this sub.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 04:58 PM
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This is a RP sub, and we focus on effective vetting and dating techniques. Telling a newcomer "well it *can work out if you sleep on the first date..." is not RP advice and it does not belong here. Yes, a woman can end up marrying a man that she sleeps with on a first date, and you could win the lottery. Things that 'can' happen doesn't mean they are likely to, or that they are the best way to approach things if a woman is interested in an LTR and marriage. Your comment unfortunately amounts to …
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 04:54 PM
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The RP advice is that sex should only happen when you are already in a committed and monogamous relationship. It's unclear if you mean dating (casually seeing someone and going on dates, but no commitment), or if you mean something else. It should take you 3 months at most to enter into an exclusive relationship with a man. The more important thing to think about, especially since you are inexperienced with dating, is how to effectively vet for a good man. Kissing can happen when it feels right,…
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/17 04:44 PM
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Being honest, even when that honesty is hard to accept is a cornerstone of this community. Rude and counter-productive comments are removed. You mistake honest assessment and thoroughness that doesn't paint you in the most dazzling light as 'rude.' Read the sidebar, it's important that you understand the mission statement of this community. If you cannot hear honest feedback, then you should not seek advice. The other user was not out of line, and you would do well to consider their words. You h…
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 08:28 AM
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Both of your replies have been thorough and insightful. OP overreacted to your evaluation because it was 'harsh,' but that does not make it inaccurate. Thank you for being polite and thorough in both comments.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 06:34 AM
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/u/TheLaughingRhino was not being rude. You posted a thread seeking feedback and advice, you do not then get to decide that evaluations are 'bad' simply because they don't praise and flatter your ego. Your comment has been removed. If you wish to disagree with someone, do so politely.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 06:29 AM
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Read the sidebar and be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen18/12/17 06:26 AM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet. I am not sure why you cannot conceive that people think while doing things, but regardless your condescending judgment is neither helpful nor wanted.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/17 07:25 PM
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Can you provide some additional details? do you have an example of a situation when you found it difficult to trust his leadership? what types of situations tend to cause the most friction? can you describe the overall dynamic you have now? You say it's complex, examples and descriptions would help.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 08:45 PM
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Can you please provide some additional information? how long did you date prior to marriage? is it possible that he's trying to hold it together because he doesn't want you to see his pain? have you talked to him and described what you need? "I'm really struggling, will you hold me?" It's not unreasonable to want additional support from your husband right now, how you ask will make a big difference.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 08:30 PM
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I am very sorry for your loss. Your thread is now visible. Moderation Note: Please be sensitive and respectful to /u/veavx's situation. ANY rude comments will result in a 14 day ban. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 08:03 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 07:52 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 07:50 PM
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Hello /u/new2read your thread has been removed. read the sidebar and understand the rules of the community RP ideas only deal with heterosexual dynamics. If you are curious about homosexuality or bisexuality there is an 'alt TRP' sub. Women are more sexually fluid then men, in that man women will go through 'experimental phases' in their youth. Kissing and making out with other women. Compare that to any straight man, and you're exceedingly unlikely to dig up a story about two males in college '…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 04:33 AM
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Please create paragraphs, the next time you comment. This one is very hard to read right now. Your comment has been removed You focus a lot on the MGTOW crowd which really doesn't make up a very large slice of the male population, you go out of your way to insult and rant about a group that has nothing to do with this sub your comment then wanders back to the personal, where it becomes clear that you need to read the sidebar, identify some goals and get to work
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/17 02:41 AM
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imgur.com just drag, drop, copy the link.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 09:34 PM
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Agreed. One formula I heard "halve the total duration of the relationship and allow that much time for the person to process and heal and move forward" So for a six year relationship, she could reasonably expect comments that gradually decrease and shift for the next three years. It may not be accurate in every case, but I think it reminds the other person to respect just how long a previous relationship lasted, while also making them realize just how little history they have with this person. T…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 05:01 PM
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Everyone is required to read the sidebar and follow the community rules. Every comment you have made thus far violates the rules. I am giving you the chance to avoid a ban. This conversation is not productive, continuing it would be an unwise move on your part.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 07:07 AM
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Read the sidebar. You clearly do not understand the male VS female RP sexual strategies. No one here is manipulating men. The community focuses on self improvement and vetting for a good, compatible man, that shares similar goals. The last thing anyone here would do is push an unwilling or unsuitable man to marry. Last warning. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 06:54 AM
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This is entirely false. Read the sidebar and figure out if you can participate here in a productive manner.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 06:46 AM
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You are assuming too much, and you need to read the sidebar. Marriage, LTRs, and having children are the RPW goals. It never needs to be justified and no one here is 'pushing' men to marry against there will. Posting the same comment from multiple accounts will not help your case and will only get you banned.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 06:45 AM
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Do you surprise him with oral or dress in something sexy for him? Do you stroke his ego and praise him? Are you a source of youthful femininity and joy? Do you build him up with positivity and support? It's not enough to say "oh I've read these things and I go to church" if your attitude and behavior still act as a drain. When is the last time you got a babysitter and actually went on a date with him alone? Relationships require maintenance and work. He may need something to help his testosteron…
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 05:46 AM
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Please quote the portion of the OP that leads you to belive this man was 'forced' into marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 05:35 AM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/17 04:15 AM
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This is nearly a 13 minute video, please provide a summary of the contents. People are unlikely to watch or listen to videos that are longer than 2 minutes without being convinced they should. Reply to me once you have edited your thread and I will re-approve it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/17 09:58 PM
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He may not trust that you have changed yet. Be calm, and don't yell or 'return fire'. You can preempt escalations too. "you aren't chatting enough..." "I was distracted with [TV show, reading, insert reason], but I'll refocus now. What would you like to talk about?" If he calls you a name "ouch, that hurts my feelings." Is he stressed out because of work? Does he have a lot on his plate? If these outbursts always happen after he has been drinking, then he doesn't know how to moderate his intake …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/17 09:55 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/17 09:48 PM
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This does not answer the question posed by the OP. Please be detailed and thorough in your comments. You should also read the sidebar. Reply to this comment once you have edited your own and I will review and re-approve if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/17 01:04 AM
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This thread is for asking questions. You seem to be talking about astrology, and not anything tarot related. Your comment has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/17 12:42 AM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day. From now on, men should only comment on this sub if they also have already put forth the time and effort to participate on one or more of the following subs: askTRP, TRP, or MRP. If you are a man reading this, and you have no activi…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 09:57 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 09:49 PM
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I am a moderator of this sub I am very familiar wth RP theory, blogs, and reddit communities You do not have to be 'blue pill' to successfully move through society, be popular, happy and successful Having traditional values is not a disadvantage to men, what's disadvantageous is to teach them only the feminist version of traditional ideals. Traditional values (personal accountability, skills, critical thinking, sense of right and wrong) doesn't mean 'Bambi eyed and trusts everything.' Your appro…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 09:44 PM
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I am giving you every opportunity to avoid a ban here. Just stop.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 08:38 PM
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This is false. It's entirely possible to teach children to be responsible, capable critical thinkers, confident, and set them up for success socially, and with their education without going straight to 'scared straight' and extreme tactics. Raising children with traditional values, and teaching them the value of hard work and intelligence is fine. You can instill RP ideas without having rooting those ideas in fear and paranoia. RP is not 'brutal', and understanding the world and the way things w…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 08:34 PM
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If the differences found in the above studies are real, the evolutionary purpose of men’s higher symptoms from viral respiratory infections remains unclear. Zuk postulates that “if males require, for example, testosterone for aggressive behaviour and the development of male secondary sexual characteristics, selection for winning at the high-stakes game males play may override the cost of any immunosuppressive effects of the hormone.”30 Likewise, the authors of another study speculate that reduce…
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 08:11 PM
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Your thread has been removed. You need to read the top posts and sidebar. If your goal is to find an Ltr and get married, you are doing everything wrong. This sub does not promote being a plate or a slut....so there is zero reason to be jealous of those women. Casual sex is easy for women, but that's not what you want, you want an LTR...if you don't want a monogamous relationship, this is not the right sub for you.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 07:45 PM
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You are overreacting. The comments are in no way similar. The first user was making general observations about common patterns many men exhibit, and the comment ended on a positive note. Your comment was directly insulting a member of the RPW community which is against the rules. Please do not mistake a moderation direction as an invitation to argue and debate. You can edit your comment or move on. I won't ask again, and continuing this conversation would be an unwise decision on your part.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 07:29 PM
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You may disagree with a user, but you must do so without being rude and snarky. Edit your comment and reply to me. I will review and re-approve if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 06:52 PM
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Your thread has been temporarily removed until you fix the formatting. You need to introduce paragraphs.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 04:47 PM
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Your comment will not be approved. You should try /r/sex.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 04:40 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/17 04:34 PM
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Depends on your goals, flaws, strengths, vetting parameters, and if you can really trust this man and want to be with him for the long term
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 10:32 PM
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I hope so. A few years ago when I talked about losing weight he would get really upset and he has threatened to break up with me because he would no longer be attracted to me. I'm glad you ladies don't have the same experience but you all have down voted what is clearly a personal experience and not a rule. and I'm plus size and my SO enjoys that specifically...and I feel dread all the time! There's so many fat women! Ones who have more money to buy better clothes, who have bigger butts. It's te…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 09:01 PM
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Glad you're losing weight. Your relationship still sounds questionable however, based on what you have shared.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 08:34 PM
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the other user referred to another situation that highlights just how unhealthy your actions in your relationship are, and how messed up the dynamic is. That you are insulted by her observations is irrelevant You will have to be more clear about which user you are talking about. Several people have replied to: /u/littleangelfuxk, /u/--cunt, /u/purplestater, and myself. In your initial comment you focus entirely on how insecure you feel because there are other women fatter than yourself, and then…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 08:29 PM
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I didn't say you are a proponent of HAES I said "The other user [you] is in a niche relationship with a very specific fetish that does not apply to the RPW community." You are choosing to be with a man that supports you compromising your health, and your emotions are how you justify staying fat. You may not believe in HAES, but you do believe that it's okay for you to make your body suffer at a higher weight for your SO....which in some ways is worse. You're not even doing it for yourself, you'r…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 08:20 PM
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The other user is in a niche relationship with a very specific fetish that does not apply to the RPW community. You are correct, no woman should deliberately do harm to her body and health just to please a man....especially if it's just an LTR and not an actual marriage. One person's experience doesn't change the fact that RP advises everyone to be healthy and fit. Why? Because that is the best way to attract people, and boost confidence. This is not a HAES or fat acceptance sub.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 07:30 PM
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Anyone can subscribe to the sub and vote. Complaining about downvotes won't accomplish anything, and there's no way to know who downvoted you or why. Don't waste your energy chasing windmills, and focus on writing the best comments and replies you can to the people that are actually having a conversation with you. Other than that, this sub is not a kink or fetish community. Being deliberately fat to meet the desires of one man goes against RP advice to look feminine, be fit, healthy, and feminin…
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 07:27 PM
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The topic of the original thread may have been 'cheating with an underage child' but cheating as a broader concept is still relevant. Please do not tell people what they may comment about. Reporting is the way to go, which you or someone else did. But the comment the other user wrote is valid. If you would like to disagree with him, that is fine, but you must do so in a thorough and polite manner.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 04:17 PM
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Your comment has been temporarily removed. Please clarify what you mean by 'lunacy'.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 03:37 AM
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It's fine to suggest that she end the relationship, but please take the time to explain why she should in a thorough and polite manner. Your comment has been temporarily removed. Reply to me once you have edited it and I will review it and re-approve if appropriate. Please be sure to read the sidebar and community rules as well. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/17 03:12 AM
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Not a problem! :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 09:35 PM
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You seem to have mistaken moderation direction as an invitation to argue and debate. You have now made two rude comments and you are continuing to argue. Again, the quality of those men are unknown irrelevant not why the conversation is useful to the RPW community You are making blind assertions about people you don't know anything about, on a thread where those people are not being evaluated for romantic compatibility, competency, or overall quality. Move on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 09:34 PM
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This comment does not add to the conversation. If you'd like to expand your comment, then you may do so. Reply to me after you have added appropriate content. You should also review the sidebar, so you understand the community rules as well as the standards of conduct that every user is expected to meet.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 09:31 PM
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Once again, your comment has been removed for rudeness. Adjust your attitude immediately. The content of the discussion is the topic and purpose of the thread. The character and quality of the men is [1] unknown, [2] irrelevant, and [3] not why the exchange is useful to the RPW community. OP is not trying to date these men, and certainly is not vetting them for romantic compatibility or leadership skills. RP men will observe and note the behaviors, comments, and interactions they have with women…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 09:26 PM
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Not sure why by the link to the first post isn't working. Here is the link to part 1 of this series. Edit: The user you are trying to link to (I believe) is /u/girlwithabike. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 09:20 PM
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How do you encourage fitness and health? be fit and healthy yourself make sure they are always playing at least one sport go on family hikes and bike rides boost their confidence without being overly critical teach them about nutrition and how to cook home cooked meals As a parent, you have a lot of power, and you can introduce your child to many hobbies that will shape their interests later on. Focus on having fun, teaching, and positive encouragement.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 06:20 PM
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Men have a lot more leeway in the looks department than women. They can create attraction through social proof, reputation, and personality. This is why the male focused subs focus so much on personality and frame in addition to physical looks.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 05:51 PM
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This comment adds nothing to the discussion, in addition to being rude. Please be sure to read the sidebar. Disagreement is fine, but it must be done in a thorough and polite manner.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 05:45 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 04:49 PM
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The Declaration of Independence :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 04:14 PM
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I am glad everything else is good and the move makes total sense now! LDRs are almost always a 'do or die' thing. You have to take the leap if you want it to work, but it's a gamble that could go horribly wrong. Did you move to him, or did he come to you or did you both move to neutral ground? If he lost his license due to speeding tickets, then he has to realize that disqualifies him from having an opinion even more! He has been deemed too irresponsible and dangerous to have a license because b…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 04:13 PM
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You were not rude, so please do not feel the need to apologize. These are things several people have been asking.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 03:49 PM
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Yes, we're on the same page. :) Hopefully the OP will provide additional details. Regardless, this serves as another example of why vetting is important and that the vetting process continues even after a relationship is formed. Have a good night!
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 05:19 AM
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I said 'be careful about...' and explained that this is not a religious community so that you can keep that in mind as you participate here. Please do not mistake moderation notes as invitations to agree debate, disagree, approve or disapprove of what has been stated. Your opinions about mod notes are irrelevant. It's a direction to keep in mind as you participate that will help you keep the parameters of the community in mind. Your comment was removed due to formatting, not the religious conten…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 05:16 AM
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Depending on where they live, a driver's license may not be as common or necessary. Large cities like New York for example, and many places throughout Europe. If he doesn't have a license by choice, that would be one thing. Though I do agree that seems unlikely given his temper and the fact she describes him as an aggressive driver.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 04:53 AM
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Please add paragraph breaks to your comment. It's not currently readable. Reply to me once you have edited your comment and I will review and re-approve it. This is also not a religious community, so be careful about basing your advice on religion unless the person you are talking to has stated they are religious.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 04:17 AM
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I have already told you that you need to differentiate between opinion and fact, and this is partially why. When one person uses evidence based in research while another uses only personal anecdotes, there is only so much that can be discussed. You don't even appear to be working from a RP foundation in any sense. You do know that RP states plainly that single mothers are at a severe disadvantage both in finding a man romantically and raising a well rounded and stable child? RPW works from premi…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 03:36 AM
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Insecure men and unfit leaders can absolutely behave in this manner. Hopefully OP will provide additional details.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 03:27 AM
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OP has made her case via the use of RP ideas, articles and studies. If you would like to assert that your comment is factual then you must substantiate it with evidence. If you have no links to refer the OP and others to, then you need to edit your comment to state that you are sharing your opinion. Please either edit your comment or move to another thread and do not mistake moderator instructions as an invitation to debate.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 03:23 AM
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General note to all users: women do not need to 'justify' their desire to marry talking about the advantages of parenting children within marriage and the risks of doing so outside of wedlock aligns with the RP advice frequently given to men to be wary of single mothers no one on this sub aims to 'force' unwilling men down the aisle. Male contributors: do not comment on this thread unless you have read the sidebar and your activity reflects the necessary benchmarks outlined. Mainly, regularly ac…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 03:08 AM
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Comments can encourage thoughtful exchange or increase the chances of escalated rudeness. You set the tone with a confrontational and insincere comment. Saying 'sorry' the way you did doesn't convey remorse or regret, it is instead most commonly used by women that know they are being rude or snarky.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 02:48 AM
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Your proof amounts to nothing more than your own personal own opinion. You need to clarify that this is your own perspective and opinion, or include sources that back up your statements and elevate them from opinion to conclusions rooted in research.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 02:45 AM
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...It is an insincere use of the word because you clearly are not sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 02:37 AM
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Remove 'sorry' from your comment. It is an insincere use of the word. You need to explain why 'marriage doesn't matter' in greater detail. Your comment dismisses a well sourced and thorough thread with a vague dismissal that lacks credibility. Please read the sidebar and understand what this community is about.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 02:33 AM
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Remove 'sorrry' from your comment. It is an insincere use of the word because you clearly are not sorry. Disagreement is fine, but it must be done politely and in a thorough manner. Reply to this comment once you have edited your own and I will review.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 02:31 AM
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He is being rude to the person that cares enough to drive him wherever he needs to go, whenever he needs to go somewhere. Why did you move in together so fast? Is he angry and quick to flare up over other things? This is absurd, and he should not be so ungrateful. Why is he worthy of your trust? What makes him worth following? What were your vetting parameters? The solution is simple, print him out a bus schedule or buy him a bike. He is creating an unsafe situation for you as a driver by stress…
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 10:51 PM
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On this sub marriage is valued and divorce is not encouraged, especially when children are involved. You will notice that the other user was pointing out that divorce could result from the OP's bad behavior. It's a potential consequence, not actual advice.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 09:51 PM
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Celebrities and public figures are 'high risk' and in many ways, women must be willing to be a plate to the man and hope she gets upgraded. It's not a conventional or frequently promoted dating strategy because the likelihood of success is minimal at best. Every woman has to decide for herself how much risk she is willing to take on, and the temperament necessary to competently handle the life that goes along with dating a celebrity is very specific. She has to cope be confident enough to trust …
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 02:30 AM
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Very possible. I was merely relaying what I remember of the other thread. Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 10:53 PM
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In a previous thread... Which now seems to be deleted, OP shared that he is a minor celebrity as a known comedian. He also stated that he is moving soon, and cannot have her over because his roommate is odd.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 10:48 PM
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Your comment has been removed for snark. When disagreeing with someone, please be thorough and polite. Attack the content of the comment and not the author of the comment.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 09:58 PM
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You need to remove the portion of your comment from "..., but to get..." to the end. Reply to this comment once you have made the change. Be sure to read the sidebar and review the community rules.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 09:57 PM
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my point was always 'men and women should know the name of the person they are going on dates with repeatedly' knowing the last name is not the same as calling them by their last name continuously. However, it is not I heard of for someone to be called by their last name in some cases. you have shared your opinion, OP will figure out what to do for herself drop the attitude, I will not ask again as I said, this conversation is no longer productive. Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 09:21 AM
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Cat name, eye color, and ethnicity are minor things to know. What you are called is not. Driving hours to see someone isn't necessarily an imbalance, it's a sensible investment so long as the man is also investing in significant ways. You misunderstand, "knowing my name" shouldn't even be on any list regardless. It should be an automatic given, something that never even warrants consideration. Yes there are other things to consider first when vetting, but men disqualify themselves all the time b…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 08:12 AM
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This woman drives two hours a pop to meet this guy, he didn't even get the first letter correct. Men that are attracted to and invested in women remember reasonable things, like their actual name. Why in the world are you talking about cat names and eye color? They are nothing like knowing a freaking name. Drop the attitude immediately. As I said, read the sidebar, and understand that vetting is a tool exactly for situations such as this. When a woman is investing more than the man, and the man …
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 07:51 AM
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It's important for women to be aware of unreasonable entitlement. I noticed another user mentions how they struggled to remember the names of the people they work with for quite some time. The issue is that you don't date your entire office, you aren't romantically pursuing them. Remembering that a name at least starts with a particular letter is setting the bar extremely low. Yes, I also agree with the other user that talks about how women have to earn the commitment of a good man, by showing h…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 07:13 AM
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Please read the sidebar and understand the goals of this community. Vetting is a crucial process, and it's how women determine the compatibility and quality of a man. One that cannot remember what letter a woman's last name starts with after two months of regular dating is clearly indicating that they have different priorities. If it were as simple as forgetting a birthday, which only happens once a year, then the 'calm down and relax' advice would be fine. With social media and information read…
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 06:57 AM
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Ignore the other user. Forgetting a day that happens once a year is nothing like forgetting, or not even knowing your name. You should seriously consider moving on and distancing yourself from that man. When someone cares about you, they won't forget what you're actually called.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 06:53 AM
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The terms 'alpha' and 'beta' only apply to male traits and behavior. Women cannot be alpha or beta, though the women that do refer to themselves as 'alpha' are really just trying to excuse their bitchy behavior. you are sort of trying to explain the 'queen bee' type. Female social groups are not the same as male groups. You should read this blog post about the female social matrix as for your numbered list, many of the things you mention are not exclusive to less dominant men. Jealousy and mate …
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 09:15 PM
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Please report any comments or posts that are pro feminist or violate the community rules.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 03:37 PM
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Remove everything after the dash (-). Reply to me after you have edited your comment and I will re-approve it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/17 03:35 PM
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Read the sidebar. Your post has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 10:21 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 10:15 PM
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Remove the middle paragraph that starts "or raise..." and end "choice". You may rephrase the idea you are driving at in that paragraph. Reply to me once you have edited your content and I will review. This is now the second comment in the same thread I have asked you to edit. Please be more mindful of what you say and how you say it. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 07:22 PM
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Your comment is now visible.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 04:21 PM
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Remove the 'duly...' part at the very end and I will re-approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 04:11 PM
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To say that this community or the users here 'have enemies' is to treat RPW as a collective group with a collective goal. Yes the women here have similar goals in that they all want a good man, marriage, and family, but that is not what you are describing. All RP subs are just individuals using a set of principles and tools to achieve goals. A man that spins plates is not an enemy, a man that is beta is not an enemy, a woman that sleeps around is not an enemy. Women here are looking for a good m…
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 04:07 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/17 01:02 AM
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You make a lot of assumptions about this OP's husband when you cannot possibly know one way or the other. Focus on what can be reasonably deduced. Reply to me after you have edited your comment. I will review and re-approve if appropriate. Edit: Your comment is now visible.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 11:21 PM
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Moderation Note: Everyone should keep this thread from the sidebar in mind. Please follow the rules in mind. This thread does not violate any of the community rules. It does describe outsider mentalities, and it expands on the concept of "finding a good man." Be polite and be thorough Any rule violations will result in a 7 day ban. If you are unsure about your response, you may message me directly or the modmail. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 05:48 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 05:16 PM
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Curiosity isn't a problem, but you should pay attention to how you convey it. Expand. this is a command, it implies authority, and possibly judgement or disinterest. Expand? this is a question. Concise without being rude or demanding. Please expand? polite, concise, encouraging. Indicates sincerity and interest. Just consider your words and the signals they send in the future. :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 04:04 PM
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Moderation note: Anyone that comments on this thread must be thorough and polite. Insulting the OP or asking her to justify her desire to marry and have additional children will result in a 7 day ban.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 01:33 PM
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Asking a question will get you better results than issuing a command. Another comment on the thread goes into more details about each character. The user you replied to is simply saying that it is possible to learn from positive and negative examples. How? You look at all the problems and mistakes Thales bad examples go through and you pinpoint behaviors and negative traits to avoid.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 01:29 PM
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Remove the first paragraph and do not flatter or compliment the women here. There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day. Edit: your comment is now visible.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 05:43 AM
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I'm not entirely sure you understood the discussion topic. No one is talking about 'life or death' scenarios. The focus is on how to balance giving attention to your husband and therefore focusing on your marriage, or giving all energy and effort to the children first. The RP approach states that women need to remember to be wives first. A happy marriage will make both the wife and the husband better parents. There's too much focus on helicopter parenting. A woman should not forget that she is a…
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 02:25 AM
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All right I am going to step in at this point. Both you and /u/sonder_one have explained your respective opinions, which is good and will give anyone reading some food for thought. /u/sonder_one seems to focus on the non-RP segment of the female population. This is technically fine, but tends to lean more to the pessimistic and cynical side of things. Generally speaking, the male users that have the most to offer this community come from a pro LTR and marriage perspective, and have fully moved p…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/17 10:50 PM
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It's a very subjective thing, and there is no one correct answer. Some women need to feel drama, attraction, and dread in order to stay in line, other women prioritize security over excitement. Yes you have to be attracted to a man enough to have an active sex life with him. The fevered desire and extreme lust generally fades for most people after the honeymoon phase of a relationship. In truth, most couples experience an ebb and flow of attraction and desire. Every couple has to work to maintai…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/17 07:40 PM
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Did you mean 'such' ? To answer your question: no, tingles are not inherently good or bad, they are an indication of attraction. The problem is that many women don't bother to vet when they feel tingles. Attraction alone is not a strong way to evaluate compatibility or gauge the measure of a man. tingles along with standards and a thorough vetting process ---> good, normal, sensible way to date using tingles as the way to determine which men to pursue ---> impulsive, short sighted, risky
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/17 07:28 PM
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Studying male and female behavior can be useful, even if the person behaves abysmally. I just re-watched The Fifth Element for the first time in years, and it's even better than I remember it. Yes, Leeloo is very strong, but she is also innocent, feminine, and vulnerable. Wonder Woman portrays another strong, but feminine woman. The titular character is sweet, compassionate, and has strong maternal instincts. There's also a very interesting scene at a ball. I won't include any spoilers, but it's…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/17 07:25 PM
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Respect and complacency are two different things. Trusting anyone to the point that you forget your standards, and fail to do regular 'spot checks' will lead to disaster. In order for a woman to be in a place where she is willing to listen and follow a man, she must respect his intelligence and ability. Respect for a man is essential in order for him to feel fully responsible and invested in the relationship. Respect is something women also need, but not as much as feeling loved and cared for. A…
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/17 04:02 AM
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Read the sidebar Do NOT insult any RP user or community.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/17 02:49 AM
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These are general trends, and they won't be an issue for everyone. If you are happy at the current level, and you are aware of what entitlement can lead to, then you have nothing to worry about. Just monitor your reactions when you feel like snapping, and yourself why you are feeling irritated. The purpose of understanding the most common thought processes is so that we can monitor ourselves for similarities. My personal opinion is that women vary a lot when it comes to what they think of as fin…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 07:50 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 04:10 PM
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Glad I could help.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 03:38 PM
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You may do a search of threads as there are many dealing with this topic. Other threads on this topic: https://www.forums.red/p/RedPillWomen/1033/rpw_101_cultivating_a_feminine_frame_of_mind https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/7cgaeg/what_is_the_value_of_femininity/ https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/75pyau/fr_tragedy_when_femininity_should_take_the_lead/ https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/5q551t/who_do_you_look_up_to_for_femininity/ https://www.reddit.com/r/Re…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 02:48 PM
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This is the correct distinction, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 02:01 PM
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This is not appropriate advice for this sub, nor is it true. Please read the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 02:00 PM
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You may not directly link to other reddit threads. Create an archives link and respond to this comment for review. I will re-approve if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 01:55 PM
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You may not directly link to other reddit threads. You must create an archived link, or omit the link all together.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 01:44 PM
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This community does not tell women that they must accept cheating, or justify cheating as acceptable or the concealment of infidelity as a compassionate act. Valuing the bond of marriage and commitment does not require the acceptance of infidelity and dishonesty.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 02:28 AM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/17 11:31 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/17 07:06 PM
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What outsiders think of the community is irrelevant. The community emphasizes personal accountability because it is the most effective way to prevent issues (vetting) and resolve them. Although the preservation of relationships are encouraged as often as possible, especially when the woman is married, no one advises women to accept chronic lying or cheating or destructive behavior that risks personal safety. Your comment has been removed for now. Your point is valid, but in it's current form, it…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 11:33 PM
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Any opinion from a man is limited to personal preference, and not an accurate representation of wider sentiments. If the personal preference is an accurate representation of the larger opinion trend, then the individual should talk about that, and omit what they personally want or think. Speaking about general RP male trends and activity on TRP is possible without inserting the 'self'. If OP wants individual opinions from men that comment on TRP she needs to post on askTRP. It is easy to extrapo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 09:58 PM
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book club cooking group or class painting, needle work, sewing, crochet, quilting group pottery or sculpting gardening group You can also look into nature photography, bird watching, hiking classes or clubs.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 09:48 PM
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Hello, You need to add a longer summary and explain why this video is useful and relevant to the community. Reply to this comment once you have and I will review.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 05:27 PM
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Your post is now visible. Welcome to the community!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 05:24 PM
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Personal Questions: If you had to describe your relationship with a song title, what would it be (and please link to the song!)? What's the last thing your man did that made you want to snap at him? what personal improvement project are you currently working on? what chore have you been ignoring recently? when is the last time you surprised your man with some spontaneous sexual attention?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 07:42 AM
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church traditionally feminine hobbies older women volunteering Professional Women's Association or similar clubs and leagues sports
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 07:32 AM
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Do you mean 'female friends' ?
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 07:18 AM
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Best thing I think you can do is suggest it as a birthday gift to him. This is the most pertinent piece of advice from the comment. I initially misread part of what was written. TL;DR: It's a risk either way to suggest a three-way, proceed with caution.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 07:01 AM
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You are correct, and I will edit my comment to reflect that. However the point is moot. Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 06:58 AM
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This is inaccurate and I have never seen anyone on the male RP subs say that it would be preferable for a woman to suggest a male-male-female threesome. That's actually worse because it's confirmation that she wants to experience another man and she wants to put him in a position where he overrides his heterosexuality. The best case scenario would be female-female-male, because then at least the guy has a prayer to be the center of attention. Your assertion that only bi-sexual women would want a…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 06:49 AM
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Your personal preferences are not relevant. There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 04:23 AM
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Hello /u/Rollo-Tomassi, Can you please add a summary of why this topic is relevant to the RPW community? No one here is under the illusion that men do not sacrifice, and great pains are taken to make the women here aware of just how much men do. While being sensitive to the struggles of men is important, right now it's unclear how this information is specifically meant to help the women here be better girlfriends, wives, or improve the way they date and vet. Please reply to this comment once you…
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 03:50 AM
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You need to delete your comment starting at: In the past, I had spent several weeks... to ....ever have. Reply to me once you have made the edit and I will re-approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 02:47 AM
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appreciation for our men... appreciation vs gratitude showing appreciation appreciation letter SO appreciation day why he might consider marrying you how to: the multifaceted RPW we love and respect our men what are some ways you make your man feel appreciated? what are ways you show your love things to look out for when you 'love languages' are different from you SO's you make me feel like I don't have to be ashamed to be a man too reaffirming
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 12:25 AM
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Glad I could help. :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 11:15 PM
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"Night Out" carries a certain connotation among many age groups in the western world. The entire idea is to 'get away' from normal life. Like it or not, much of social culture today involves clubs, drinking, and random hookups. It's not abnormal for that type of 'going out' to raise alarm bells for men and women in relationships. What you describe isn't the issue at all and is not only fine, but very healthy!
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 09:28 PM
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Hello /u/eggstink, Your post has been temporarily removed until you can add more information. how old are you? how old is he? have you established that you are in an exclusive relationship beyond his simply calling himself that? in what situations does he talk about his ex girlfriends like this? do you compliment him? what are your weaknesses? what are your strengths? how did you meet him? After you edit your thread to include this information, reply to this comment. I will review and re-approve…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 09:21 PM
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This is not helpful. You may tell her that she's better off ending the relationship, but this is not an appropriate response.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 09:18 PM
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tips on how to STFU?
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 08:26 PM
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when did you discuss your timelines? how to show loyalty? when he maybe wants kids for single ladies 'late to the RP'...
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 08:23 PM
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Problem is, the older people get, the more they tend to get set in their ways. Bad habits get learned and ingrained. Things they spent their 20s doing because they worked, become habits that are liabilities post-wall. If this were actually true, TRP, MRP, and RPW should all delete the communities immediately. The key is your first sentence, people have to want to change. All RP communities focus on self-improvement and a desire to grow for the better, therefore talking about how women of a certa…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 07:57 PM
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It's not the age that creates the problem, it's the accompanying behavioral traits that make the woman a 'hardened battle-ax' which drives off most men. This also is not a BP feminist sub. Women that want to learn and change absolutely can be and have been helped due to the efforts and knowledge of this community.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 07:47 PM
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The other user is not saying that men or women should say "you're too fat" and then break things off. It's a general observation about how BP folks will have standards that they deny. Examples: "We just weren't a good fit" is what they say when "she's too old" is the reality "we're not a good match" is what they say when "he's too fat" is the reality No one is worried about false accusations here, that is strictly a male concern. One which I have never heard of being prompted by references to we…
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 07:44 PM
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Remove the last sentence and I will re-approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 07:37 PM
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Correct, every woman here wants a 'good man' which is a flexible definition that will mean something different to every woman. It is deliberately vague so that personal meaning can be hammered out and clarified. One of the first steps to vetting is actually figuring out what 'good' means specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 06:55 PM
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Yes, you have done an excellent job explaining the details and ins and outs that go along with trying to navigate things that can happen at this stage of life. Unfortunately, this is a situation many women find themselves in, but it should in no way doom them to a life of single-dom if they have other goals. :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 06:44 PM
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/r/asktrp
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 06:06 PM
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Yes, there are risks for both men and women when children and marriage are on the table. This is why vetting for compatibility is so heavily stressed here. No one is interested in tricking or changing a man's mind if he is vehemently against marriage and children. There are also many that hesitate, but really do want these things. It is not an impossible objective, but vetting is crucial for both men and women, as well as creating a healthy relationship. We recognize the risks involved for both …
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 03:44 PM
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Please report comments you think may violate the community rules. We promote and understand the importance of marriage, but this is not the same as denying the many social issues that exist. Motherhood and fatherhood are both devalued, along with marriage. There are risks for both men and women. Out of wedlock births harm the woman, child, and father.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 03:38 PM
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TRP is not 'muddled'. As I said, read the sidebar "RPW and TRP" specifically. It is your characterization of TRP that is the issue.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 04:30 AM
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Read the sidebar. You may edit your comment to comply with the rules and then reply to me for review. no snark or insulting any RP community Your evaluations indicate that you know just enough about RP to sound convincing, even though your conclusions are heavily biased and incorrect.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 03:47 AM
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Your post is now visible.
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/17 03:16 AM
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Great point! Reddit Is Fun is that app I am most familiar with, and changing between my RP and non RP account is very simple as a result of this feature. I know that Bacon Reader was my favorite mobile browsing app until I found RIF.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 08:09 PM
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This is false. The manosphere that predates the reddit community, which also is responsible for establishing RP theories, consisted of married men. This carried over to the actual reddit community /r/TheRedPill. Marriage, LTR, and casual sex have always been valid RP male goals. TRP has changed over time, as most communities do. Right now there are many more active, young, male users, and divorced men. The men working on their marriages tend to stick to /r/MarriedRedPill, which makes perfect sen…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 07:54 PM
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There are updated male participation rules that every male user needs to know about and follow. From now on, men will be issued an automatic 2 day ban if they fail to follow the rules. It is cumbersome for moderators to repeat the same instruction throughout the day.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 07:20 PM
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TRP has a linear view of hypergamy and AWALT behaviors because the most popular goals RP men pursue are plate spinning and casual sex. The types of women that are comfortable with being a plate, are the types of women that are also far more likely to possess a constant 'upgrade thirst' and more severe AWALT behaviors. TRP pays more attention with what it takes to secure consistent sex, with the understanding that one woman is very much like another. Abundance mentality and developing the skills …
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 07:15 PM
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Are you religious? How old are you? What are your strengths? Weaknesses? What does your personal vetting process involve? How do you normally meet men? In addition please be sure to review the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 05:46 PM
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Hello /u/RedPillSailor, Please edit your comment to comply with the rules. You may reply to this comment after you have edited your own and I will review and re-approve this if appropriate. Be sure to read the sidebar as well.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 04:22 PM
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Hello /u/letmylightshine, please read the sidebar. Specifically this post.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 04:13 PM
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If you post a link or video, please elaborate with a discussion on the content. Low effort posts will be removed. Please add a summary to your thread and explain why it is relevant to RPW. You may either edit this post, or create a new one that complies with the posting standards. If you edit this post, then reply to my comment when you are ready to have it reviewed prior to re-approval.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 04:11 PM
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You overestimate your own worth, you have no vetting structure, you fall for men that do nothing other than feed your ego and you justify your bad patterns through illogical hamstering.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 04:17 AM
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There are threads on psychological femininity, awalt behavior, vetting - revisit them.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 04:02 AM
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Cut the attitude immediately and stop following this user around to snark at them. Read the sidebar I will not warn you again.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 03:53 AM
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This is both inaccurate and unhelpful. If you wish to fully explain your perspective without the snark, then you may edit your comment. Reply to me after you have done so and I will re-approve this if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 03:52 AM
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Trade out "abusive" for "incompatible and rude" "Abuse" is a serious term that should not be bandied about casually. Annoying and even angry messages in no way add up to 'abuse.' Reply to this comment after you have made the edit and I will re-approve.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 03:50 AM
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Read the sidebar, and top posts. You don't seem to understand your own hamster.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 03:42 AM
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off-topic and unhelpful. Statements should stand on their own merit. 'SO' or 'spouse' should suffice.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 11:19 PM
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What would you have lost simply by going with his plan? You can laugh mishaps off and suggest a nearby deli or something low key if the timing didn't work out. Reservations also allow for some room to show up late. It's not uncommon for people to arrive at or after the time of their reservation. Ease, flexibility, and grace are sometimes more effective than trying to dictate changes. Always be mindful of your own femininity and how you come off to a man. What you considered helpful, he may have …
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 10:18 PM
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Read the sidebar. TRP and RPW both work from the same wellspring of RP ideas, but the goals of each sex are often at odds. Male goals: spin plates, casual sex, LTR, marriage, kids Female goals: LTR, Marriage, kids Marriage has been the social marker to unite and form new families, preserve lineage, legacy, and establish legitimate standing on all fronts (social, religious, economic) particularly in the western world. Marriage does not need to be justified here within this community. The 'ridicul…
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 07:20 PM
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We do not insult men here, and only actionable advice should be given.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 05:05 PM
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No one here is trying to date you. Read the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 05:03 PM
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No one here is trying to date you. Read the sidebar and know the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 05:02 PM
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Your post directly conflicts with the RPW approach and is entirely inaccurate. The thread has been removed and will not be approved. Do not push 'sex before commitment' to the women here. Your inability to earn commitment is directly related to your vetting process and the men you target.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 04:59 PM
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Edit your post to including de a summary and explanation of why this link is relevant to the sub. Reply to me once you have, I will review and re-approve if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 05:01 AM
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I don't know why the other user included that information specifically, but it's irrelevant to the conversation. Your comment has been removed as it violates the "do not insult other users" rule.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 01:47 AM
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Read the sidebar remove 'as a guy'
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 01:46 AM
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You need to read the sidebar. no 'man here' or 'my gf' type comments. Your sex is irrelevant and all comments should stand on their own you need to participate on one or more of the following subs before commenting here: askTRP, TRP, or MRP
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 01:41 AM
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Read the sidebar. "not a girl" is the same as "man here." Edit your comment and then reply. I will review and re-approve if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/17 12:18 AM
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General note to all users: women do not need to 'justify' their desire to marry talking about the financial advantages that both men and women experience is not 'gold-digging' behavior no one on this sub aims to 'force' unwilling men down the aisle. Male contributors: do not comment on this thread unless you have read the sidebar and your activity reflects the necessary benchmarks outlined. Mainly, regularly activity on one of the following subs: TRP, askTRP, or MRP Please note that all accusato…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 11:32 PM
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You need to actively participate on one or more of the the following subs TRP, askTRP, or MRP before commenting here again. Please read the sidebar. No one is trying to force men to marry, the goal of this community is to select men with compatible goals via the vetting process.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 07:42 PM
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Glad I could help. I will clarify that how a man reacts, approaches, and behaves around the topic of N count makes a big difference. A man that obsessively questions, and appears 'hurt' by a woman's history, especially if her behaviors are entirely normal or below average, he can come off as insecure and weak. A man should be vetting for behaviors that generally go along with a questionable woman. Family history, mental stability, personal morals, how she behaves over a period of time. TRP regul…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 07:28 PM
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It's up to every woman to figure out the give and take between physical intimacy and commitment. I will say that the men that apply the 'sex within 3 dates' rule are disqualifying themselves, which does actually help a RPW more successfully vet incompatible men out. I will also say that three months seems long. Another user pointed out that it should not take very long for an LTR to be established if it's something both people want and they are compatible. Conservatively, I would say that 3 mont…
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 06:20 PM
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Read the sidebar No on here is trying to date you, so your personal preferences are irrelevant edit out 'man here' and all related statements. All comments should stand on their own merit and your sex doesn't matter. Men are only allowed to participate here after they have contributed to one or more of the male subs: TRP, askTRP, and MRP.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 11:30 PM
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Wrong again. Women are allowed to comment on the male subs. What is not allowed is "woman here..." type comments, which carries over to RPW ("Man here..."). Read the sidebar
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 06:36 PM
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Be polite or be quiet, and read the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 06:33 PM
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The other user's observation is not accurate. RPW and TRP are not kink based. Some users within the communities may be into BDSM, but to say "men = /dom" and women= /sub" is not accurate. RPW is not a kink community. Your initial advice was perfectly fine, as RP does not specifically have any theories that deal with this topic. The closest is just the advice men are usually given to go 'no fap' which will also, over time, make a woman more sensitive to stimuli.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 05:52 PM
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C/FM is not synonymous with dom/sub. Great care and effort has actually been taken to stress that RPW and the relationships described here are not kink based. Other than that, the advice the other user gives to abstain from porn and masturbation will make people more sensitive over time. Being aroused will vary. Women react sexually, and it's rare for one to consistently have a more masculine sex drive (easily turned on). Other than that, RPW has no theories specifically relating to this topic, …
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 05:49 PM
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I am glad that you found some useful advice in your other thread. This thread has been removed however. If and when your relationship ends, you should review the sidebar, and do some searches on the sub. It is difficult for anyone to give you specific advice without details. your weaknesses strengths deal breakers must haves how you normally vet men We do not encourage branch swinging, or tell taken women how to find new men. You can't start meeting new men or figure out how to until you are act…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 04:22 AM
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Please read the sidebar, particularly the updated male participation rules.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 08:15 PM
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This has been removed for now. Write a summary and share why you think it is relevant to the sub from either a practical or theory based lens. Reply to this comment once you have made the appropriate changes.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 09:31 AM
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What can you do? Stop saying things like that, which can only be taken as an insult. Read the sidebar, work on you being humble and grateful and learn when to keep your opinion to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 09:28 AM
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Your post is now visible so others will be able to read and comment.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 02:40 AM
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Yes, there are also rules about linking to a person's social media page like FB. A few communities have been banned due to unruly behavior that went too far over the years. Protecting an individual's identity, whether it is their actual one, or just another reddit account they use, is always a top concern on RP related subs. Too many people have been trolled and harassed, which is unfortunate.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 01:22 AM
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You misunderstand the type of doxxing I am referring to. It is against reddit rules to 'out' someone by stating account A is run by the same person as account B. It's not the same as doxxing a person's real identity. There may be relevant information on her normal reddit account that is relevant here, but publicly writing on this thread or in a comment "my main account is ___" would result in people being able to tie the two accounts to the same person, thus she would continue to be bothered on …
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 12:44 AM
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READ THE SIDEBAR. I cannot state this more clearly. Male participation is only allowed when the individual participates on a male RP sub, MGTOW sub participation is irrelevant. Changing someone for the better does not include nagging them over minor things that don't matter.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 12:27 AM
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No, she should not just link her account on the thread. It would be a form of doxxing herself and re-creating the same issue she's trying to avoid. It is normal practice for users that create a new account to notify moderators in modmail or private messages about the old account. This is done with mods and away from where just anyone can see for privacy reasons, and to prevent the continuation of existing issues.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 12:24 AM
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Read the sidebar. actionable advice must be given women cannot control or change their men no 'man here' comments men need to first participate on askTRP, TRP, or MRP edit flair to reflect sex and relationship status
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 12:12 AM
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Dedicated RP accounts are recommended and standard procedure, I know. The normal account is still likely to have additional information that will be useful here.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 11:56 PM
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You thread has been temporarily removed. Please message me from your normal account. I'm not sure why you are judged by it, but there could be important information that needs to be included here. If that is the case, I will let you know which portions to add. As it stands, the only thing anyone can say is "ignore them and just smile and be polite."
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 09:59 PM
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You post will not be approved. Read the sidebar and top posts, you fundamentally misunderstand this community. No one here is specifically trying to date a man that comments on TRP, the women here are simply trying to find a good man with compatible goals and values.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 06:14 PM
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It really is. There are innumerable accounts on TRP by men that talk about how amazing a woman is, only to wink and nod at everyone else about how "she thinks I'm going to commit" and other accounts discouraging men from committing even when the woman is great and would be a wonderful GF or wife. There is nothing wrong with men that spin plates and date. RP men should pursue those goals and strategies that satisfy them. RP women should behave in a similar manner, and the only focus here centers …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 05:40 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. Remove the snark at the end and I will re-approve your comment. Players are not going to be players for the rest of their lives in many cases, and I did not state otherwise. What I said is that women should avoid players because he may change, but is just as likely to stay the same. It is not a wise use of her time or energy to pursue a man that at the time they meet is only interested in casual, non-committed sex. If you cannot understand why, between working on a player …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 04:53 PM
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You are overreacting. You shared your sources, now move to another discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 04:37 PM
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You are talking about verbal negotiation, which is fine. Men and women both need to be clear about expectations and boundaries. It is very important for people to figure out compatibility prior to getting in too deep.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 04:34 PM
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A man that genuinely wants to be with the woman and in a relationship, not to mention any man that knows what he's doing in the sack, understands that women can be taught. Why do people pretend that no one learns, adapts, or changes for a partner in bed? I think it's the popularity of porn. Guys expect a porn star experience, even though an inexperienced woman is a blank slate. Someone that can be taught to hone in on his preferences and likes. Particularly a woman that cares for the man, and at…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 04:32 PM
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Not sure why but the auto moderator removed your comment. I have approved it, and will keep an eye out. . Usually it only happens with brand new accounts, and sometimes when someone includes a link to other sites.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 07:48 AM
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Yes. Adhering to boundaries, testing them, and backing off when it doesn't work is common behavior that knowledgeable and skilled men often exhibit. Dating is a negotiation between a man and a woman, each one has a higher priority that conflicts with the other person's goals in the vast majority of cases. Women want security and commitment, then they want to jump into bed; and men want to have sex and then consider a relationship. But the more experienced the man, the less urgently he will make …
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 06:14 AM
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a man only interested in sex, and that wants to be free to sleep around, will not commit to any woman regardless of how amazing she is. He will, on the other hand, seek to make her a plate if possible, which is in no way advisable for a RPW. it is not a rationalization to identify men as plate spinners or players, it is a descriptive term that tells you about the priorities of those men. Just as it is not rationalization to identify women that are easy as slut, or crazy do to undesirable AWALT a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 05:59 AM
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You both agree diet is more important, and that exercise has benefits. There are more important things to worry about.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 04:37 AM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet. Only write comments that are thoughtful, thorough, and provide actionable advice.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 03:57 AM
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Masculine men will always try to push your boundaries, the best responses will depend on your personality and what you are comfortable with. Have you made it clear that you are looking for a long term relationship? Have you told him you don't put out unless it's within a relationship? His age? How long you have been getting to know him? Is he a player? Does he want a relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 01:22 AM
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You are getting hyper specific here. Regardless of anything else /u/earthboundfrommars' point still stands: working out makes up a lesser portion of weightloss, but getting healthy is about more than the number on the scale. Building healthy habits, and improving strength are valuable. Diet is the more important part of weight loss, but weight loss is not hindered by exercise or irrelevant.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 11:57 PM
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Yes, it applies to both. I focused on the female side of things due to the sub we're on. :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 11:45 PM
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When an ultimatum is set based on a deal-breaking item, then yes it is the best course of action to issue one and be prepared to live with the outcome. The issue is simply when women use them as a controlling tactic and issue ultimatums over imagined or minor problems. Nothing in a relationship is ever really 'one person being horrible,' or at least, I have never come across a situation where that is the case. Everyone plays a role in creating or disrupting harmony within a relationship. It woul…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 11:20 PM
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One downvote is a stray opinion that could have come from anywhere. Concern happens when comments are set at -10 and a brigade isn't taking place. The value of comments should also be judged by every individual based on content and not popularity anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 09:43 PM
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You need to work on your reading comprehension. Aside from that your comment does not belong on this sub. Please read the sidebar and understand the differences between the male RP sexual strategy and the *female RP sexual strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 09:22 PM
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This is common. "Woman with daddy issues tries to fill that role with an older love interest." You have to set yourself right first, and start dating men a bit younger or at least expand your range from "same age-older."
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 07:41 PM
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Edit out "as a man" and I will re-approve the comment. I will say that OP is not trying to date anyone here specifically, so personal preferences are irrelevant. Unless you know every man in your age range throughout the world? Other than that, it's far more likely OP merely has a fantasy. She hasn't actually had a relationship or really even gotten to know men her age or slightly older. It's not unusual for some women to develop odd fixations such as this due to other factors, and they usually …
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 06:53 PM
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*fewer You did not at all convey that your conclusion mirrored the points outlined in the post. Take the time to fully and clearly articulate your thoughts, especially with new users that are still learning.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 06:31 PM
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Career and education both play an important role in dating, just perhaps not exactly in the way you are thinking. Please read this thread to learn more. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 06:30 PM
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Incorrect. Please review this thread
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 06:29 PM
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Your top comment was excellent. The other use has been dealt with.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 06:26 PM
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To everyone commenting, the OP does NOT have to justify her desire to marry. Any comments asking her to do so will be removed until that portion has been edited out.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 06:17 PM
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You are in a very difficult situation, and I am sorry for the anxiety you must feel. A few questions to help provide more context: were you clear about wanting to marry when you first started to date him? By that I mean, did you make it clear that you desire a husband in your future while still young? did you both have conversations about marrying each other, where he was actively engaging and telling you what he wanted as well? are you both financially stable? Are there other goals he wanted to…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 06:16 PM
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The point is that men used you for sex and moved on. You could also argue that you used them in the same way. 'pump and dump' more accurately describes women that want relationships, so they put out early thinking that will 'hook' the man. Of course, they then find themselves dumped and forgotten. If you only ever wanted sex, then sleeping around was a perfectly fine approach that served your interests. The issue materializes only after you are tires if casual sex, and instead want a relationshi…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 06:52 AM
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Removed. This is not relevant to the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 05:50 AM
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Cut the snark and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 02:18 AM
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Please write comments that are less accusatory and condescending. You give some actionable advice in this comment at least. It is especially important to be firm and fair with new users, which you have failed to do twice now. You should be setting an example and encouraging women to improve, not cutting them down at the knees.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 01:47 AM
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This is false. (A) You do not know, and therefore cannot speak for every man in the world, (B) not all men have the same boundaries and desires, (C) only actionable advice is allowed. Be polite and helpful or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/17 01:11 AM
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Wrong answer. Drop your attitude immediately. And ill explain the concept of marriage again. And i could care less if i sound like a man and that you dont care about what men think. It is foolish on your part not to Get out of your fairytale bubble of hundreds of years ago and into reality.
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 07:44 PM
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I am going to step in here. Women here never need to explain why they desire marriage or children. These are the highest goals any RP woman can obtain. The way you talk, in combination with your brand new account makes me think that you are in fact a man, posing as a woman. I may be wrong of course. Other than that you will stop being rude immediately. Your comment has been taken down, edit out the snark, then reply to me. I will review and approve if appropriate. Please read the sidebar as well…
/r/RedPillWomen22/11/17 03:20 PM
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I asked the questions to better help others that want to give you advice. I will say that virginity is only attractive in youth. You are now pushing into territory where your virginity is no longer attractive, and will actually drive many away, unless you happen to be religious? If so, you should date older men that share your faith. Read the thread I linked you to, as it is all about education and profession and what it can and cannot do for a woman that's trying to find a good man. I'd also sa…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 10:36 PM
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What do you mean by 'older' exactly? Where do you meet these men? What other criteria do you use to identify a good man? What are your flaws? You should review the sidebar and this post. Right now it is unclear how familiar you are with RP ideas.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 10:24 PM
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This is both inaccurate and unhelpful. no one knows exactly what she means by 'older' There are many things she could very easily be doing wrong, or not well enough to generate interest from the right kinds of older men. vetting for a good man is a complicated process for many "you [women] provide the sex, men provide time and commitment." This is really the only portion that's actually somewhat correct, but it's incomplete, and misses a big portion of what actually goes on when two people court…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 10:22 PM
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Read the sidebar Your thread has been removed and should be re-submitted to askTRP.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 10:07 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 10:01 PM
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Having children outside of wedlock has always been a bad idea for women.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 05:01 PM
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Thanks! Really interesting explanation by the way. :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 05:12 AM
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Please remove "As a...man" and review the sidebar. Reply to this comment once you have made the edit and I will put it back on the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 04:16 AM
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You should read the sidebar, read the top posts, field reports, and do some research. Your thread lacks any useful details. what are your character flaws? do you have open and inviting body language? do you dress well and flirt with men? do you have female friends that can give you pointers? If you have social anxiety, then you should get a job as a cashier, or something that deals with people constantly. When something becomes routine, you won't feel as anxious.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 10:54 PM
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You are conflating "bad female behavior" and the examples that are talked about which highlight that behavior, with "non RP women are bad humans." It's a "hate the disease, not the patient" type of distinction. Feminists, on the other hand, are walking plagues. :) Your thread has been removed, please read the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 07:58 PM
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Your post has been removed because it is off topic. RP is not a social movement, nor a political one. To be 'red pilled' is slang for 'understanding the truth of the world.' Some individuals from RP communities are alt right, but RP is only a set of ideas and theories that individuals use to pursue their goals. Someone that understands science can work to solve problems, or they could create new and devastating weapons. The actions of any scientist does not make all scientists good or bad. Lastl…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/17 06:08 PM
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Hi /u/Redditisdrugz, I'm not sure if you think people here are saying 'brains don't matter' or if you are just trying to reinforce the importance of education. This post, and this one both talk about the topic of education and the role it plays. Additionally, there is currently another thread posted by a user that just passed the bar. I think you would benefit from reading "Reputations, Interactions, and Respect" because it specifically explains why you are being negatively received. You are ass…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/17 05:07 AM
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This is not helpful advice, nor is it true. Removed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/17 08:51 PM
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Attention everyone: be sure that your advice is RP, useful, and do not insult TRP or RP men. This thread will be closely monitored and anyone insulting other RP communities or users will, in this instance, be banned for two days. If a moderator tells you to alter your comment, do so without argument or complaint or you will be banned for two days. Be polite, thorough, and stay on topic.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/17 05:49 PM
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Remove 'guy here' and read the sidebar. Reply to this comment once you have made the edit. You also need to stop commenting here until you have actively participated on askTRP, TRP, or MRP. You currently have one comment on TRP which is insufficient.
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/17 09:09 AM
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How are you evidence of this? What do you mean?
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/17 04:31 AM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 11:56 PM
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You need to read the sidebar, particularly the updated rules for male participation. Do not comment here again until you have contributed to askTRP, TRP, or MRP in a meaningful way.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 11:54 PM
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Wrong answer. Read the sidebar, particularly the updated male Participation rules.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 11:36 PM
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Do not comment here again without participating on TRP, askTRP, or MRP. Please read the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 10:40 PM
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You need to understand the male vs female RP strategy, aside from that you seem to have a limited understanding of these concepts. Starting with the fact that men start from a completely different place than women. The men go through an anger phase, yes, and they use a lot of locker room talk, as men are inclined to do. This comment has been removed, and you are being issued a warning. Insulting RP users or communities is against the rules and you will be banned if you persist.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 10:37 PM
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good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 09:47 PM
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This thread has been removed and locked. The male and female RP sexual strategies aim to achieve different goals. Men prioritize: plates, LTR, or marriage, the underlying must to all of those things being frequent sex. Women value commitment from good men, and sex comes very easily to women. It is fine to talk about those traits that make a man a good or faulty leader, as well as behaviors women that are LTR focused should avoid. What you may not do is shame men, particularly RP men, that seek s…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 09:45 PM
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but I think the main question I ask myself is if I should trust in him as I have felt like I've been able to, or if letting him make the decision for us and waiting is overly dismissing my own feelings and not healthy The time to question his ability as a leader, and his capacity to consider your well being, and whether or not you can trust him passed when you both said "I do" unfortunately. I wanted to ask here because I feel like this sub understands that you can come to trust, Love and commit…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 09:41 PM
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Please understand that you cannot 'submit' to or 'follow' an absent man. You are responsible for your own well being, and while you should talk to him and be supportive, it's extremely concerning that you married on a whim, and that he may or may not come back.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 09:17 PM
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You are arguing. Threads that focus on reality TV have been removed previously. You can edit your thread to talk about these ideas without the video or you can move to something else. I do not want to ban you, but I will if you do not listen. You are a brand new user, so you should really read this thread. You tick off 1, 2, and 3 at the moment. Stop.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 06:10 PM
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You mistook my comment as an invitation to argue and nitpick. You can either write your thread again without using the videos, or you can move to another thread.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 05:15 PM
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Your post has been removed, RP says nothing one way or another on abortion. It is something every individual and couple must figure out for themselves and a topic such as this tends to encourage debate and animosity.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 05:07 PM
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I do not want to ban you, but you have to listen to what I am saying instead of being reactive. You can disagree with other users, but you must be polite and thorough in the process. You may disagree with what the other user has written, but she was detailed, patient, and did not insult anyone. You can challenge the content of her comment, but you may not insult her or anyone else. Make your case with explanations, not insults. Lastly do not argue with me. Either change your comment or move to a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 05:03 PM
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Please be sure to read the sidebar, pay particular attention to the updated Male Participation rules. This comment is fine, but you need to comment on askTRP, TRP, or MRP before participating here again. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 08:27 AM
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Please remove 'as a guy' and read the sidebar. Reply to me once you have edited your comment and I will review and approve it once more.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 05:45 AM
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Remove the last two sentences. It is fine to disagree with a user, but short, curt, comments such as the one you wrote do not promote thoughtful and thorough exchanges. Your comment encourages a more antagonistic conversation, and that is not what this community is about. I encourage you to add more details, and alter the tone of your comment. Reply to me once you have edited your content. I will review and re-approve if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 03:27 AM
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Your thread has been removed. Basing observations off of reality television doesn't create a strong foundation for the rest of your thread. TRP refers specifically to the male RP sub /r/TRP. RP refers to red pill ideas and philosophies. Other than that you have several spelling errors. You have a fairly solid start to what could be an insightful thread. You wander too much in some parts. Keep in mind your audience as well, you are speaking to a group of women, so advice for men should be omitted…
/r/RedPillWomen15/11/17 02:12 AM
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Removed for being rude. You need to read the sidebar and wiki before you comment here again.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 11:37 PM
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This is inappropriate and rude. If you wish to disagree, do so in a thoughtful and thorough manner. I will also add that you seem to be misunderstanding the purpose of this post, you should re-read it with a my charitable mindset. If you feel the need to help or correct someone, then you must do it in a polite or neutral manner. Equating any behavior to the removal of body parts is absurd and unnecessary. You may either edit your comment or write a new one. If you want to simply edit your existi…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 11:33 PM
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Thanks for sharing! It can be exhilarating and daunting, so don't burn yourself out trying to absorb everything all at once. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask. :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 09:03 PM
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Removed for rudeness. You can disagree with others, but you may not insult them. You may edit your comment, or write a new one, but drop the attitude. The other user's explanations are reasonable, but your initial comment on the thread also does not break any rules. You can chalk it up to different writing styles if you like. Be polite or be quiet. Additionally you are a man and you need to stop commenting here until you have participated on askTRP, TRP, or MRP. Please review the sidebar and wik…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 09:01 PM
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This is getting a bit sidetracked. The other user seems is trying to say that men are not going to be inclined to micromanage a woman's clothing choices by and large. Some men are very opinionated about their woman's style, but men generally don't have much of a fashion eye. One dress looks more or less like another. A man that dates a well dressed woman, isn't likely to encounter her suddenly being slovenly in dress provided he is keeping her attracted to him. I am not sure why everyone seems t…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 07:22 AM
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Remove "as a man." Please read the sidebar, including the updated male participation rules. You can edit your flair to reflect your sex, relationship status and age. Reply to me once you have made edited your work and I will re-approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 06:10 AM
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Not a problem. You can edit your flair to reflect your gender and relationship status as well.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 12:22 AM
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Okay both you and /u/mrpthrowa need to stop, this exchange is petty and accomplishes nothing. Additionally you are both right and you are both wrong. Some men are very opinionated about how their GF or wife looks when they go out together. Some never really register what they are wearing beyond "I like that" and "that looks awful." In some cases a man will be very vocal about what his women wears, other men really don't give a shit, they just don't want her to look homeless. If you wish to disag…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 12:02 AM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 10:07 PM
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You don't have to give up your ambition! You just need to vet for a man that has his own ambitions and shares your vision for what a happy life looks like. I will say that it is worthwhile to learn how to temper your ambition and experience life without a competitive edge. You learn to slow down and enjoy things regardless of where you are in the group. Once it is less like a constant pressure you cannot control, and more like a candle you decide to light or extinguish, you will discover a new l…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:57 PM
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Remove 'as a guy' and read the sidebar. Reply to me once you have made the edit and I will re-approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:30 PM
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Some women stay at home, others continue to work. Either because they want to or because they must. Either way your thoughts on the matter are irrelevant. Do not presume to give advice unless someone has asked for it. No one cares what your wife will or won't do, and your relationship is not interchangeable with OP's.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:27 PM
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I am glad you found it useful. Definitely a lot to think about and consider.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:25 PM
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Be civil of be quiet. Stupidity is not against the rules, but rudeness will get you banned.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:24 PM
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Your thread has been removed. Please read the sidebar and wiki.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 09:52 AM
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I am not in the habit of reviewing a user's history unless they are causing an issue. There are simply too many people to keep track of. I don't understand what you are talking about, there really isn't a gray area based on anything you have said. Just stick to making comments on threads and do not PM female users.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 06:06 AM
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It's odd that you cannot understand the sentiment in an abstract way. All the same, message the RPW moderators and we will review any message you are thinking about sending to a woman. The example of "only say things in a private message that you would write in a public reply" still stands and should be simple enough for you and others to comprehend. Err on the side of caution if you are concerned and don't PM any women.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 05:56 AM
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Here's a good litmus test: If you can't write it as a public reply to the person, for everyone to read, you should not say those things in a message privately. Another example, if you would not say those things to your mother, sister, grandmother, or daughter, then you shouldn't say them to a woman you do not know in a private message.
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 05:34 AM
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Please remove the 'male here' portion of your comment. You can edit your flair to reflect your sex and relationship status. Please review the sidebar posts, including the updated male participation rules. Reply to this once you have edited your comment and I will approve it so that others can read and respond to you. Other than that, welcome to the sub! :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 03:33 AM
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It never ceases to surprise me when MGTOWs mock others, especially considering how upset you all get when others do the same to you.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 06:53 PM
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Please remove the 'dude here' statement and I will re-approve your comment. You can edit your flair to reflect your age, sex, and relationship status.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 06:51 PM
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Hello /u/Kiddingyoself your comment has been removed. Please read this thread You need to stop commenting on this sub until you participate on some of the other subs.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 07:41 PM
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I understand, and there are many reasons. Some want to help women, some want to make sure the male perspective is not ignored here, some are new and want to make a splash. RPW is smaller than the male subs, it is easier to be heard here and it takes less time to build a reputation. Curiosity would be another motivator. Sometimes it is a way to confront and work through their own hang-ups. Some probably done have a reason in mind, they just felt like it. :) I may create a more general mod post th…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 05:38 PM
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Your post has been removed. If you see comments that break the community rules, please report them.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 05:28 PM
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Looking at your examples, and once again you seem to be harping on things that just don't back up your claims. This stress thread is absolutely a reasonable balance between 'look at your own conduct,' evaluate his behavior, and do what you can but understand your limits. Relationships are all about vetting for compatibility. At no point is a GF required to 'stick it through' with an unreasonable man or one that she simply doesn't get along with well and understand. All of that also applies to yo…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 06:12 AM
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I am reading your comment now, but this is your last warning. Drop the attitude or you will be banned.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 06:07 AM
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This is not a concierge service where you can pick and choose which people 'tend' you. Last chance to either comply or move on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 06:06 AM
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Hyperbolic sarcasm intended to insult the conduct of users on another RP sub, when their actions are in fact understandable and necessary for them to effectively pursue their goals. You already have two warnings from a prior situation. Either edit your comment and then reply to this message after you have done so, or move to another thread.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 05:54 AM
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Because it violates the "do not insult RP communities or the users" rule.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 05:49 AM
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I understand you point here, but you need to remove the bulk of your last paragraph. Reply to this comment after you have done so and I will re-approve it.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 05:32 AM
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Data: I read the bulk of activity on this sub and your claims are false. Advice that is not specifically RP is removed, there are standards for participation. Women asking for advice are consistently scrutinized and asked to share more about their own faults and shortcomings. Your example with the depression thread has already been addressed by another user. Your thread has been removed because it criticizes the sub and the content that the community generates. As I said, if you have specific ex…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 05:30 AM
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I'm not sure what threads you have read that give you this impression, but it is not an accurate evaluation. This thread has been removed because it is not actually relevant to the sub, and it's too vague to be of any use. If you would like to quote specific threads that encapsulate your claims, then we can have a discussion.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 05:00 AM
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Nowhere in your previous reply did you say anything that suggests you agree with Ruby. Your entire comment boils down to 'girl power' and 'you don't need a man.' Other than that you are entirely wrong. Men do place value on education and employment. As stated in the post, these just aren't things that will be primary attractions. You seem to have missed the entire point of this thread and the post it links to (here). Many of us are business owners with numerous different interests, jobs, and pas…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/17 09:12 PM
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Your comment is excellent overall, but you need to remove the "riddle me that..." sentence. Reply to this comment once you have and I will re-approve this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/17 04:39 PM
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Remove your 'edit'. Please read the sidebar and change your flair to reflect your age, sex and relationship status. Then you should read the pinned mod post. Lastly you are not allowed to comment on this sub until you have participated on TRP, askTRP, or MRP.
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/17 04:36 PM
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Please read the sidebar. These updated standards have been made in regards to male participation. If you see comments that violate the community rules, please report them. Other than reporting comments, you could lead by example and make worthwhile comments. I will caution you to not insult any users or RP communities however, as that will get you banned. It's perfectly fine to disagree with incomplete or inaccurate comments. Just be thoughtful, polite, and thorough. "Be the change you wish to s…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/17 05:35 AM
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There are several issues with your comment, and it needs to be edited if you want it to be re-approved. Remove all "as a man" statements Remove all personal dating preferences. OP is not trying to date you specifically, she is trying to date men in general. Your preferences are irrelevant. It is fine to say "generally people look for the following things when deciding whether or not to date someone..." It doesn't matter if you do not know men that would disagree with your evaluations, again, OP …
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/17 05:31 AM
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I really don't want to ban you, but you are making it exceedingly difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 08:12 PM
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The issue is that your advice was too vague, and you presented certain things as 'absolute' when RP advice does not go that far. I'm not 'after' you, I know you don't have much activity on this sub, which is one of the reasons why you are under additional scrutiny. My point is that the research is limited, and it doesn't cover the 'why' which is vital to understanding what's happening in these cases. The sub focuses on giving actionable advice based on RP ideas. So it's fine to have a discussion…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 07:50 PM
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There's nothing 'wrong' with having a career that you enjoy and want. This thread and the other user's comment are simply explaining how employment and dating can intersect. In the mean time, please drop the feminist "you have worth!" rhetoric. No one here has ever said, or suggested otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 06:57 PM
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I am telling you the RP philosophy on this topic. We advise women to limit their N count, but virginity until marriage is not required. Be sure to give actionable advice to people, and be clear about how they can alter their behavior to better follow that advice. These stats do not cover 'why' they only state a pattern. Correlation does not mean causation and there are undoubtedly other factors at play.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 04:41 PM
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Read the sidebar, wiki, and pinned mod post. Do not tale an attitude with other users or argue with a sarcastic tone. Comments should be thoughtful and clear. Your prior comment is exactly what you need to avoid.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 04:37 PM
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Low N count is good, and virginity is not required. It is actually weird and undesirable as a woman grows older, especially if she is not religious. Other than that, your advice does not help OP achieve any of those things, nor does it tell her how to date in a successful manner.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 02:36 AM
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This is your only warning. Change your attitude immediately.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 02:11 AM
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This thread has been removed. If you re-submit a thread that omits your personal dating history, and instead poses a general question then that will work better. You also seem to have overlooked widows that are also mothers. Their situation is completely different from a woman that had a child out of wedlock, and both are different from a woman that was married but then divorced.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 02:03 AM
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She is not saying that. She is saying that the optics and public 'reputation' of MGTOW is of 'loser, bitter men'. Unfortunately, the behavior of the men on the MGTOW sub does little to alter that impression. Additionally, do not assume that noticing a community has a certain reputation is the same as saying that community matches the reputation. It is possible to have great compassion for men but not agree with the activity and discussions that happen on a particular forum. You seem to have misu…
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 01:49 AM
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Thank you for expanding. However, this: Men simply don't care about your career. I'm sorry to say that all your effort at work has zero effect on your value in a relationship. None whatsoever. Is misleading and incorrect. Please read this post and the corresponding sidebar post. It is too misleading and simplistic to say "work and education do not matter at all, nor do they serve any purpose in a relationship." First, because it's not correct, and second, because it fails to identify what the ac…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 11:00 PM
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Please write a complete and thorough comment, it's easy for newcomers to misunderstand which two things you are referring to. They will also not understand what things should have been listed. It's important to be detailed and patient with new users and those that are still trying to understand RP.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 10:17 PM
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Let's break this down a bit, because there's so much ground to cover. A. RP concepts and theories the moving pieces and ideas that need to be identified how those pieces and ideas relate to the male sexual strategy how those pieces and ideas relate to the female sexual strategy B. What the OP is seeking advice about concepts she needs to be aware of, and how they specifically relate to her advice that she can act on while pursuing her goal (A) First we need to examine the RP philosophy and advic…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 07:44 PM
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Attraction can happen instantly (visual appearance) or it can happen during the process of interaction (she has a great laugh, and oh! She knows how to rock climb and she went to a great school). This is particularly important to understand, because the same applies to men. Education and job status can also be immediately communicated and attract a person as well. A woman sees a firefighter or a policeman, the uniform is a status signal and indicates the potential for many other desirable traits…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 06:12 PM
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This is a misconception. A man will not pursue a woman specifically because of her job or education, but both can be added perks that raise her worth in a man's eyes. For more information please read this post. Particularly the following portion: Most ladies that a gentleman goes on a date with will most likely mention either their schooling or job. Some of those women don't know when to stop talking about such things, or they go into a date thinking "I have this awesome degree" or "My job is sp…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 05:44 PM
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Hello /u/baileighann, your thread has been removed. If you would like to ask for advice, please take the time to follow these guidelines: If you are asking a personal relationship question, please provide context by updating your flair, and answering: What is the problem, and what do you think is the root of the issue? How have you contributed/attempted to mitigate the problem? What is your current relationship status? Be honest with yourself about what background is needed to help the community…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 05:09 PM
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Both you and /u/JimiJons have reached the limits of this exchange. I agree that you should both focus on other conversations and threads.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 05:05 PM
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Disagreement is fine, but please remove the sarcasm and snark from your comment. Reply to this after you have done so and I will review prior to re-approval. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/17 05:03 PM
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This entire exchange has been removed. This is not appropriate conversation for this community.
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/17 11:30 PM
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I don't think she was wrong for kissing him either. It's a normal thing to do, but it does open a door to escalation. It's a risk, and normally a perfectly acceptable risk to take with the vast majority of men, but still a risk. Whether she had waited 1 date, 2 dates or 6 dates wouldn't have made a difference for a man who's, as you say, not mentally stable. I agree. The only thing that delaying physical activity does is allow a woman to observe a man's behavior and hopefully notice red flags th…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 10:27 PM
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I agree that he was not a good man, and she should have left as soon as things got weird. :) Why is a man in his 30's with seemingly no mental issues doing stuff like this? And is there a problem with what men are being taught in their younger years that might lead to behavior like this? It doesn't matter. We can only control ourselves, and it's unwise to walk around expecting strangers to behave properly. We can talk all day about how people should act, but that won't actually change anything. …
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 09:01 PM
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It's not extreme. Women should be cautious, it's really not difficult. Don't go to a house or room alone with a man be sure that a friend or family member knows when you should be home give others his contact information and where you will be going don't get drunk, limit yourself to one drink anyone can appear nice, make sure you study his behavior and actions at all times Everyone has to find a balance between caution and trust. You want to extend enough trust so that you can get to know someon…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 08:38 PM
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Thank you for taking the time to write all this out. I hope your comment will clear everything up for the other user.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 08:25 PM
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I keep asking you to explain the concept of how to challenge a decision that has been made by a man I already said this depends on the situation. Where to eat for dinner vs moving to another country. Details always matter. "Never say no to sex" is a good mentality, but if you are sick, just had surgery or something extreme, then the woman is not 'bad' for turning down sexual advances. A good captain will not injure his first mate, he will not ignore her needs, or desires. Vetting is important be…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 08:17 PM
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I have tried, but the most likely options (the "assertive" post and the "bring your problem" post) don't really address that at all, and the "how to be a first mate" explicitly says: This is too vague. What was the issue? What was he deciding? What did you want to happen instead? Is he trustworthy, capable, a good leader? Does he have any habits or addictions that make him unreliable such as alcoholism, gambling, mental illness? The bolded parts seem to explicitly contradict what you're saying h…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 07:44 PM
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Trump has talked about political aspirations many times over the years, so that is a bad example. Your entire comment is odd and completely misses the point. She was ambitious before she met Trump, and this is not something he randomly decided to do without talking to his family at all. Unfortunately this example fails to prove your point entirely. People change, but not over night and radically. Any woman that complains about an irresponsible husband, has undoubtedly ignored red flags and bad b…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 04:28 PM
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Yes people can and do lie, regardless of sex. Women can take advantage of monetary funds, endless favors, and attention. Women risk their safety when they put too much on the line. The only way to decrease the likelihood of danger is to be cautious, patient, and thorough in how women approach vetting and dating.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 01:44 AM
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Actions have consequences. This is why RPW as a community warns against partying with strangers, drinking on dates, or trusting men that are unknown. You did open the door with your behavior, whether the man was right or wrong is a separate issue. You can be 'wrong' for moving forward with him physically, and he can also be wrong for trying to push past your boundaries. We cannot control the way other people act, respond, or behave. We can only control ourselves. As women we must be the first an…
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 01:08 AM
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Your post will not be approved because it is far too vague. Please read the sidebar, wiki, and top posts. You can then try to be more specific about what you would like to know more about and what aspects of RP you are struggling with.
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 12:09 AM
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This is incorrect. RPW has never sad "follow your man into poverty and homelessness. STFU and let him gamble, drink, and cheat." This is not a fetishist philosophy where women blindly follow irresponsible men into ruin. Vetting is extremely important, because women must align themselves with competent and capable men. No woman should 'STFU' when life, security, and safety are on the line. It is irresponsible to sit idly by as your man drives off a cliff. Once again, the issue being discussed is …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:31 PM
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You are not in a position to extract commitment. You already let him 'have the milk for free.' /u/OwnedAndLoveIt is correct. You are a plate and should end things immediately.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 11:24 PM
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Be the change you wish to see. A knowledgeable user can give RP advice to help others achieve their goals, even if they do not personally share those goals. MRP is another option as well.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 09:21 PM
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:) We are working on that. Already had to escort one out today. Use the power of the report button if you see anything of the sort!
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 08:40 PM
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This is a complex question that requires far more information about the couple in question. Some men want full obedience and compliance no matter what, and other men value a FM that will pick up the slack and refuse to let him make questionable decisions without solid reasoning. There are different types of leaders, and they will in turn desire different kinds of women. Many RP marriages operate from a position of mutual respect, and both recognize each other's strengths and weaknesses. Delegati…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 08:30 PM
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OP is here, asking for input which means that she wants to learn. She is also not clueless or a typical BP woman. She is not a failure, and saving sex for marriage is not seen as desirable or normal unless the woman is religious and dating a religious man. Especially as she enters her 20's, her virginity will become less alluring and more of a red flag. Virginity is only attractive and desirable when a woman is young, after 25 if a woman is a virgin and not religious, it becomes a red flag that …
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 08:15 PM
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It was not one sentence. You edited everything out of the comment, but that doesn't erase my memory. You insulted the user and you were obnoxious and rude throughout your response. Last chance to move on.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 07:17 PM
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Removed and you are being issued a warning. You were doing so well with the updated comment. Move on to something else.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 07:12 PM
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/u/loneliness-inc tagging you so that you see this user's response.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 07:08 PM
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Your comment has been removed because it is stuffed to bursting with insults. Disagree politely and thoroughly or be quiet. You may reply to this comment after you have edited your comment and I will review everything.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 07:02 PM
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Okay, I am stepping in at this point. There is no ironclad RPW law that says how a C/FM dynamic must look and operate. As with every RP approach and skill, things will vary to suit the individual and the couple. Nothing /u/girlwithabike has said is incorrect. It's good that you know how your relationship functions, but please do not assume that your approach is the only RP or 'correct' one. /u/md816 and /u/franky19902 I am tagging both of you as well.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 06:53 PM
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I just looked through your posting history and saw nothing from askTRP, MRP, or TRP. Therefore, you need to stop posting on this sub, and comment on the other ones for a while. Again, give advice appropriate to the OP and in line with their goals.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 06:18 PM
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If you have no activity on these subs, you should take a break from commenting on RPW and instead concentrate on helping other men There will also be a new addition to the male participation rules. From now on, men should only comment on this sub if they also have already put forth the time and effort to participate on one or more of the following subs: askTRP, TRP, or MRP. If you are a man reading this, and you have no activity on any of those subs, then you need to take a break from RPW and co…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 06:13 PM
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We are not going to give a concrete threshold that has to be met. There are several subs you can participate on as noted in the post: TRP, askTRP, and MRP. The point is that male users should first focus on improving themselves, helping others, and showing that they have a comprehensive understanding of both the male and female side of RP. If you have no activity on these subs, you should take a break from commenting on RPW and instead concentrate on helping other men. It really isn't hard to he…
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 12:15 PM
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Remove 'as a guy' then reply to this comment.
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/17 05:03 AM
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Please remove the 'as a guy' portions, and review the sidebar and pinned mod post. Reply to this comment after you have made the appropriate edits and I will re-approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 04:10 PM
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Your post will nor be approved as it is low effort. Read the sidebar, wiki, and top posts.
/r/RedPillWomen04/11/17 03:46 AM
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Great point! I will add the 'report' reminder to the thread now. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 09:51 PM
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Possibly a troll, but some worthwhile comments have been made by others all the same. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 03:57 AM
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That is not what I said. You can criticize the OP, but you must do more than leave a short, snarky remark that provides no actionable advice, or legitimate insight. No one here is mystified by the fact that TRP, askTRP, and MRP all exist. You mistook my explanation for why your comment was removed as an invitation to debate the matter. If you edit your comment to actually contain something of substance, then let me know and I will approve it once more. If you don't wish to do that, then simply m…
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 03:33 AM
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This comment is unhelpful and adds nothing to the conversation so it has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 02:23 AM
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Be polite or be quiet. I explained why the comment was removed so that you can avoid this situation in the future. Read the sidebar, wiki, and this post before commenting here again. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 02:20 AM
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Disagreement is fine, but you must do so in a thoughtful and detailed manner. Your comment has been removed as it adds nothing to the conversation.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 01:13 AM
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Removed. Please read this post.
/r/RedPillWomen03/11/17 12:59 AM
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If you want to damage yourself and create long lasting issues, there are faster methods that involve less effort.
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 10:32 PM
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Please read the sidebar and familiarize yourself with the community rules. Your gender is almost always irrelevant. Using the phrase "As a man..." is considered a faux pas. You can now make your own custom flair that will indicate your gender, but don't write about it in your post. Don't pet the unicorns. Some of the most cringe-worthy posts include fawning admiration of "the lovely ladies" here. Comments like these also do not help to build our environment of humility and self improvement.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 11:07 PM
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Your comment has been removed. If you wish to disagree with someone, please do so in a respectful, and thoughtful manner. The idea behind the other person's comment is this: Happy people do not try to control their friend's or unilaterally decide that someone's relationship is 'bad' just because the couple does things differently. I'm not convinced you were actually trying to ask a question, and your comment makes you seem like a troll. If this is not the case, then I encourage you to change the…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 10:39 PM
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Men, particularly older men, do not hesitate to let women know what they want. If he meant to make you a permanent feature in his life, you would not be here wondering about his intentions.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 09:42 PM
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Please do so immediately before commenting here again.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 09:32 PM
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Don't pet the unicorns. Some of the most cringe-worthy posts include fawning admiration of "the lovely ladies" here. Comments like these also do not help to build our environment of humility and self improvement. (AWALT!) Beware, we can do something much worse than remove such posts: we might leave them posted! Please review the sidebar and posting guidelines. Your post has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 08:52 PM
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This post has been removed. If your man wishes to learn he should be reading TRP and seeking advice on askTRP.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 06:57 PM
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You need to read the post again, because you seem to have misunderstood it. OP'friends are the ones claiming she is his 'slave' and that she needs to 'take charge.' OP is not in any kind of kink relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 03:12 PM
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I have approved your post, but I will caution you against relying too heavily on what any one person has to say.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 03:07 PM
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How old are you? 20 year old woman dating 30 year old guy is different from 30 year old woman dating a 40 year old man.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 04:31 AM
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Your thread is now visible.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 04:28 AM
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AWALT applies to all women, but not every woman displays AWALT behaviors in exactly the same way. Where one woman might cry, another may throw a fit or lie. It's a spectrum, and men are better off being on the lookout for AWALT tendencies. Women also need to be aware of their own impulses to act or react in a typical AWALT manner, and work to avoid that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 01:58 AM
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Both you and /u/ReddJive are making things more complicated than they should be. Use whatever analogy works for you personally, but the only one officially talked about and recognized by RP is "Captain/FM."
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 01:55 AM
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Hello /u/jeniferlane2017 Please include paragraph breaks in your post. It's just hard to read at the moment. . Reply to this comment once you have and I will approve it. :)
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 04:02 PM
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N count is 8, not 2. If you and willow persist you will be issued temporary bans.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 03:35 AM
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Only when the advice on keeping a man is in line with RP philosophy and ideas. Move to another thread.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 03:34 AM
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diaper comment strongly suggests she should mock his position and not take his feelings on this matter seriously. everything you said after that had nothing to do with what she could or should do and was simply a criticism of his behavior and advice on what he should have done in your opinion. Nothing in your comment was useful or relevant to a RP woman.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 03:32 AM
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Removed again. RP has nothing to do with 'sex positive' feminist ideas, or anything else you talked about. If you cannot give RP appropriate advice then you should refrain from commenting.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 03:29 AM
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Women are not encouraged to engage in 'man up' behavior, and it is unhelpful to discuss what a man could, or should, have done. Women can only control their own behavior and reactions.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 03:13 AM
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This is not a gossip tabloid. Move to another thread.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 09:57 PM
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It doesn't involve you.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 09:37 PM
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As the other user pointed out, read the sidebar and understand the community before you participate. Only RP advice is allowed here, and your opinion is here is not in line with RP.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 06:52 PM
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Hello, I have tried to approve your comment several times now, but it's not working. Try removing both of the links in your comment, they are broken anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 02:52 PM
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You mistook my explanation as an invitation to debate the matter.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 02:17 PM
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Removed. Please review the sidebar. You can edit your flair to reflect your sex. Reply to this comment once you have edited the 'male here' portion out and I will approve it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 01:15 PM
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Only RP advice is allowed here.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 01:13 PM
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Yes it is. Please ignore the other user.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 01:11 PM
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Please ignore the other user. They have been invited to reflect on whether or not they can participate here in an appropriate manner.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 01:10 PM
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Your comment will not be approved in its current form.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 06:33 AM
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attempting to tone police a user that knows what they are talking about being wrong about the content of the comment and it's value
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 06:31 AM
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Edit your comment and remove 'original'
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 06:29 AM
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You need to read the sidebar and be sure you understand what this sub is about.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 06:19 AM
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What do you mean 'original'?
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 06:15 AM
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Removed for being irrelevant and unhelpful.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 06:11 AM
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This is incorrect and your comment has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 06:09 AM
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Your comment was removed by another mod, and rightly so, but I want to advise you to review the sidebar. Nothing the other user said broke the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 06:08 AM
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Everything is sorted now. Have a good evening, and thanks for the clarification. :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 02:20 AM
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This comment has been approved.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/17 12:50 AM
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Please read the sidebar, particularly the one about male participation. You need to edit your flair to reflect your sex, not announce it in your comments. RP does not say women should only count PIV sex, and leave out all other sexual acts.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 10:45 PM
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Removed for the 'man here' portion and also because your comment is incorrect.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 10:16 PM
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Ignore the other user, they are wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 10:16 PM
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Incorrect. N count is for actual PIV sex and every other derivation of sex. Men become irate with the kind of hair splitting you talk about.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 10:15 PM
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This post will not be approved. You need to read the sidebar, wiki, and top posts here and spend less time on TRP for now. You have a classic misunderstanding about the two subs. TRP is for men that want to increase the frequency of their sex life (primarily), and also possibly working on LTRs and marriage. RPW focuses solely on LTRs and marriage, which requires vetting for a good and compatible man.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 10:13 PM
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Remove the first sentence and I will re-approve your comment.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 10:05 PM
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Your post was caught by the auto mod, it is now visible.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/17 09:17 PM
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Many relationships sour, and sex frequency declines. The fact remains, for men it is easier to get commitment, and the promise of commitment is one of the easiest ways to extract what they want from a woman (sex). RP concepts do not cease to be real just because someone finds it 'hard to believe'.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:49 PM
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This is an anti feminist sub. You can be a feminist, but you can't talk about (promote) it here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:45 AM
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Read the sidebar, wiki and top posts. Removed because this is a low effort post.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:36 AM
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Removed again for snark. Last chance to move on and alter the way you participate here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:32 AM
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Removed for being rude. Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:25 AM
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Removed Yet AGAIN for rudeness. Move on to another thread.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:23 AM
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Please ignore this user at well.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:11 AM
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Another comment removed for the same reasons. Edit your comment and change your tactics immediately.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 04:10 AM
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Not a problem, and I'm glad I could help. :)
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:25 AM
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Removed for being rude. Read the sidebar.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:24 AM
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Please ignore that user. I have now removed three of their comments, and will deal with them if further action is required. You can always report rude comments. That makes it easier for the mods to clean up. Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:22 AM
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Another comment removed for inaccuracies and rudeness. REVIEW the sidebar and do not comment again unless you can follow the rules and actually understand RP, and RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:20 AM
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Another comment removed pending quoted portions you consider to be proof. This comment will not be approved until you edit out the insults and rudeness.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:18 AM
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Please quote the portions you are counting as proof of infidelity. Comment removed pending proof.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:17 AM
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Removed for being rude. Prompt OP with additional questions and ask for specifics. There is a comment I wrote and she replied to with additional information.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:14 AM
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Removed. Be polite or be quiet. Remove the insults and reply to this comment. I will review and re-approve if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:12 AM
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This comment has been removed. Read the sidebar and understand what this community is actually about.
/r/RedPillWomen26/10/17 01:08 AM
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I doesn't matter if you edit or not, it has been removed. If you decide to edit, then just respond to this comment after you do so. I will review and re-approve if appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 11:03 PM
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You have a few options: Listen and edit Move on and go to another thread Continue being difficult I sincerely hope you opt for choices 1 or 2.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 09:18 PM
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Removed for being unhelpful and vague. Please write full and complete comments. Joking around is fine, but it must be clear what you are joking about. This could apply to either the OP or the user you responded to, and as I said, it is unhelpful.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 08:59 PM
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Men have an easier time securing commitment then they do establishing a constant and active sex life. Women have an easier time getting sex then they do quality commitment from a man they will admire and want to follow. Between commitment and sex: commitment is easier for men, and sex is easier for women. MRP is chalk full of men that got commitment (marriage). Getting commitment is separate from having a stable and fulfilling relationship, just as having sex is separate from having good sex. No…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 08:54 PM
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If you wish to disagree, please write a full and complete comment. This has been removed as it can only create increasing snark and escalate a disagreement. Please be thoughtful and thorough when writing comments.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 07:28 PM
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As the other user stated, this is an incomplete assessment and shows a lack of understanding. Women absolutely beat down and destroy their men, and yes the men do have to allow it to a certain extent. That doesn't make the woman 'right' for her outrageous behavior, and women are not issued 'passes' here for being ridiculous and rude. On TRP, it helps to identify the weakness of men, here, and in this instance it is unhelpful and besides the point. The woman can only control her actions, so it's …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 07:26 PM
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This is false. Please review the sidebar, wiki, and top posts. TRP and RPW are not at odds. TRP: plate spinning, sex, LTR, marriage --> all valid goals RPW: LTR and marriage Women: have an easy time having sex, harder time earning commitment Men: easy time getting commitment, harder time having consistent sex Both men and women try to achieve their goals by 'holding' off on their most abundant 'currency' (commitment for men, sex for women). It's a negotiation that is sometimes a tug-o-war. This …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 07:21 PM
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It is important for anyone that claims to be RP to understand both the female and male side of things.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 07:17 PM
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Please review the sidebar. RPW is not a 'response' to TRP, it is an offshoot that was specifically created for women. This community is essentially traditionalism without any ties to a specific religion, though there are many religious women here. TRP and RPW are two sides of the same coin. Please be sure to understand the similarities and differences. This thread is a good place to start. TRP has several strategies. This includes casual sex, plate spinning, LTRs and marriage. RPW is only 'in co…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 07:16 PM
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It is not terrible advice, and the other user hits on a very important aspect: a label without substance is worthless. Labels matter more to some people and less to others. It is up to every individual woman to define the boundaries she requires to feel happy and safe, while also ensuring her value is high enough to acquire those things.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 07:14 PM
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Removed for snark. TRP and RPW are both valid, it's fine to discuss the similarities, differences, and talk about why TRP doesn't fit RPW all the time - depending on the male's strategy. Please do not be snarky, and disagree in a thoughtful, logical, and thorough manner.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/17 07:13 PM
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Please be sure to review the sidebar, wiki, and top posts. Your thread is very open ended and vague, which means people will not be able to offer specific advice. From reading your post, there are 10 things I can think of right off the bat that you should work on, and additional information will clarify things. why did your last relationship end? how do you display your femininity? what are your 5 biggest flaws? what are you trying to improve on? how many relationships have you had and how long …
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 11:02 PM
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Please give thorough and constructive advice. Comment removed for being rude and unhelpful. If this turns out to be a troll, it will be handled. In the meantime please set a good, positive example when you comment. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 10:56 PM
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Possibly, but as of yet they have not broken any rules, so let's give them the benefit of the doubt for now. Comment removed for being off topic and unhelpful.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 10:54 PM
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There is nothing wrong with the other user's advice. It is a bit more blunt, but it is absolutely RP. Yes, relationships can be nurtured back. The other comment is primarily explaining the Captain side of things, how the woman responds, and nurtures is the RPW side. Remove the insulting and incorrect first sentence. You may make your case about the female side, RPW, and Laura Doyle. You must do so in a neutral, thorough and complete manner however. Respond to this comment once you have made the …
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 06:05 PM
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Please ignore the other user. They were warned to desist, and they don't seem to understand human nature. Their comments have been removed and they won't be creating additional issues on this thread. Please keep in mind that you can always report comments that break the rules of the community. :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 05:06 PM
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Please ignore the other user. That comment has been removed. People sometimes have an overly simplistic view of what it means to be a 'good' person. The assumption is often 'good in every area, flawless.' This approach completely misses the complexity of being human. A woman can be a loving mother and an awful wife. Or, someone can be a horrible friend and a perfect wife. There was nothing wrong with your post, nor is your friend 'bad' as a person.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 05:03 PM
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That is not the issue. The point is that you are directly complaining about the OP and labeling the friendship. Essentially you are policing in the sense that you don't think this thread should be up, that OP is wrong or bad, and that you are an authority figure on what should and should not be posted here. When a moderator corrects you, it is generally counterproductive to simply argue. You need to absorb what has now been said by two different mods and alter your behavior moving forward. Thank…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 05:00 PM
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Education is necessary for many men to consider marrying a woman. Education won't make a man's jaw drop in the way a good body does, but for many successful men that want to be respected in their field and among peers, education is a necessity.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 02:13 AM
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Your post will not be approved. Please read the sidebar, wiki, and top posts. You don't seem to understand RP, or the male sexual strategy as it compares to the female sexual strategy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 12:12 AM
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Please review the sidebar. Nothing here was 'sexist'. Be sure this is a community you can participate on while also following the rules.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 07:42 PM
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Please re-write your thread and follow the 'asking for advice' guidelines.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/17 12:38 AM
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Approved! Thanks! :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 06:47 PM
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Approved! Thank you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 06:47 PM
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Please edit your flair to reflect your sex and relationship status. Your comment has been temporarily removed for the 'man here' portion. You should review the male participation rules (located on the sidebar. After you edit your comment, please reply to me. I will review and re-approve. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 05:50 PM
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Please remove the "I am a man" portion of your comment. You can edit your flair to reflect your sex and relationship status. You should also review the participation rules for men, which is located on the sidebar. Please reply to this comment after you have made the appropriate changes and I will approve it. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 05:48 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/17 09:00 AM
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Removed for being wholly irrelevant and rude. There is zero reason to turn this into some kind of sexist issue when /u/girlwithabike and her husband are dealing with a serious loss and he did these things willingly. If you cannot be polite then you need to be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 06:50 PM
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You should have realistic expectations about how much things can be improved with RPW advice... or any internet advice. No one knows what your idea of vetting looks like, or how long you actively vetted him, but the point is moot because it doesn't change your situation now. My comment was as much for other women reading as it was for you. Your descriptions paint a dynamic that goes beyond the scope of what RPW can offer. You talk about a cold in the OP but leave out drugs and financial hardship…
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 04:24 PM
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This exchange has deteriorated. Please write non-sarcastic comments if you wish to continue the discussion. This comment has been removed.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 04:09 PM
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The comments that strays from the topic at hand have been removed, please report rude comments in the future. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 02:00 AM
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RP does not hold any position on the idea of soul mates, nor does it say life long love is impossible. Two of your comments have been removed for being rude and irrelevant.
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/17 01:58 AM
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Girl Game sub search results First Date sub search results Date sub search results Flirting sub search results Feminine sub search results There is a lot of useful information if you extrapolate the theories and ideas and concepts, then tailor them to your personal behavior and attitude. You need to push yourself to think critically. RP relies on an individual's ability to understand concepts and theories, then translate them into useful tools for personal use and growth. Your abilities will dep…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 03:49 PM
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If you are using the app "Reddit is fun" there is an 'i' with a little circle around it at the top right of the screen. If you press that, the sidebar will become visible.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 02:27 PM
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You know he acts a certain way when stressed, so you should tailor your expectations for what counts as a 'happy' and 'unhappy' exchange. If you know he's going to be less patient, just try to anticipate what you can and be cheery. We all go through times of stress, and it's during those times that the patience of our loved ones make a remarkable difference. Especially if you have a harder time closer to your cycle, or when you're sick, or stressed. Does he show you extra consideration and love …
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 11:05 PM
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You have a few choices: Edit the material as requested and continue the conversation in a productive and neutral manner Discontinue the exchange, leave the comments un-edited, and move on with your day Continue being rude and refusing to listen, thus earning yourself a temporary ban. You are your own enemy in this situation.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 04:59 PM
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I was giving an example. I gave two examples in fact. First, that RP men must give RPW advice. Second, that in a similar fashion [consider the audience] extra care should be taken to explain things to newcomers. I know you are a woman. I never stated that you are a man. You need to stop. I have been both polite and patient with you from the start. I do not want to issue you a temporary ban, but I will if you persist. A moderator has made a very simple request that you have repeatedly ignored, 'c…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 04:51 PM
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This comment has also been removed for rudeness, and your original comment will not be approved in its current form, which you more than likely know already. The OP is asking for both RP advice and insight, she has already been confused and mislead by other comments. Every comment should be tailored to the specific audience in question. This is why RP men must give RPW relevant advice, and why extra care should be taken to be as clear as possible when explaining things to newcomers. I am ignorin…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 04:14 PM
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Your comment has been removed for rudeness. Remove the insulting portions and I will review, and approve if appropriate. Most importantly I will reply to your points. When you are logged in with your account, you cannot see whether your own content has been removed or not. Only by logging out will you see the " [removed] " tag. If you feel that you are being unfairly targeted or that there are other issues, you should message the moderators and make your case. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 03:53 PM
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You need to be clear that your thoughts on 'asking about N count' are your personal opinion, and not RP fact or theory. Please edit your comment and then reply to me, I will review and re-approve if everything else is in order.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 03:45 PM
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The other user is in error and did not adequately differentiate between her personal opinion and RP ideas. It is not a universal sign of insecurity, and not every man will ask directly. It may come up during the course of some conversations. N count is important for many reasons. It is often a symptom of other red flag traits and behaviors.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 03:43 PM
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You tied yourself to an unworthy man, and that is your fault. This is why we stress the importance of comprehensive vetting. Your relationship issues go far beyond turning him down while sick, and are likely beyond the scope of this community. It is not possible to 'good wife' an unhealthy and severely damaged relationship into a healthy place. If someone cooks steak with rotten meat, the skill of the chef is irrelevant. No amount of culinary prowess can turn the spoiled meat into a fresh, grass…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:41 PM
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Please remove the 'man here' comment as well as the 'speaking for men' portion. You sex is irrelevant here. You can edit your flair to reflect your sex and relationship status. Please review the sidebar, particularly the male participation post. Edit your comment, then reply to me. I will review and re-approve your comment if everything looks satisfactory.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:33 PM
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Not here they can't. This is your last warning, I am giving you every opportunity to smarten up and avoid a ban. Move on and keep what I have said in mind.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:29 PM
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You did nothing wrong, and your initial comment is correct. When you see threads or comments that violate the rules, please hit the 'report' button. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:25 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. The other user is correct, no woman should be flaunting her N count whether it is high or low here. In addition to being tacky, similar to stating your salary, it is also irrelevant except in very specific situations. Additionally men are allowed to participate here. Anyone that violates the community rules will be dealt with. Right now you are the only one breaking the rules in this exchange. Adjust your attitude immediately. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:24 PM
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Hello /u/velcroeshoes. Your post has been removed and I am issuing you a warning. You need to participate within this community with solid comments first. This post is designed to elicit strong and unproductive reactions. You have a negative karma count as well. Shape up or you will be banned.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:20 PM
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Incorrect. Removed for being false and useless. Review the sidebar and next time write a detailed comment without the snark.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:14 PM
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That is a bold statement from someone with no posting history or ties to any RP community. Anyone can say anything, which is why familiarity and reputation matter here. Your comment will not be approved without some major editing. Your tone is not going to foster a productive exchange, so work on that too. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:12 PM
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This sub was created by TRP mods, many of whom are mods here as well. Please read the sidebar, particularly the threads about male participation, the differences between TRP and RPW as well as the community rules and wiki. You do not know what you are talking about, and you need to rectify that or you need to stop participating here because you give bad advice. This conversation is no longer beneficial. Read the sidebar, and know what you're talking about next time. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 12:40 PM
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Please remove the 'man here' portion of your comment. You can edit your flair to reflect your relationship status and sex. Please reply to me once you have edited your comment. I will then review and re-approve your comment. You may also want to review the male participation thread on the sidebar and the community rules. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 04:18 AM
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Not a problem. They edited the comment and it is now visible again. Please don't hesitate to hit the 'report' button if you see threads or comments that violate the community rules. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 03:17 AM
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Just re-approve your comment. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 03:15 AM
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I am not a man. There are other comments on this thread that cover various possibilities.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 02:52 AM
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N count matters, this is a basic RP tenant. safe sex also matters your hypothetical example highlights your misunderstanding of 'n count' as a topic, guideline, and red flag. A woman that has sex 100 times with her bf is infinitely more desirable than a woman that has had 10 sexual partners, even if she only has sex once with each man for a total of ten. you contradict yourself first by saying N count does not matter and then enter by disclosing your own, as if to offer 'proof' that your opinion…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 02:51 AM
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Removed. All advice must be relevant to RP women, and in compliance with the sexual strategy of RP women (monogamy, marriage, family).
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 02:33 AM
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Incorrect. Your advice is not RPW relevant and goes against the mission statement of this community.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 02:32 AM
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Your comment is way over the line. You will edit your comment and remove the insults. You will make sure that you offer actionable RPW relevant advice. Lastly you will be careful to never comment in this vile way when participating on this sub, unless you desire a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 02:30 AM
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I am very sorry for the other user's behavior. I have removed the comment and will be replying to them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 02:27 AM
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Please be sure to review the sidebar, wiki, and top posts. You feel intimidated because there's communities are new to you. No one hates women. The shitty behavior women are prone to exhibit is what people are upset about. It's the difference between hating fat people and hating fat-logic (silly nonsense used to justify horrible decisions and reject science).
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:49 AM
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I removed their comment. And it was brief, but by no means 'bait.' Even if you are legitimately baited, you do not need to escalate. Hit the report button and message the mods. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:46 AM
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This is a female sub, and men also participate. The other user is expressing a desire to know what men think about a specific topic. This is different from literally soliciting the male users here to chime in and share en masse. If some do reply that is fine, but was not the intention of the user you are conversing with.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:44 AM
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This comment has been removed. This exchange has devolved into a 'nu-uh/uh-huh' spat. It adds no value to the discussion. If you and the other user want to return to making detailed and thorough comments, that's fine. If you cannot be detailed and civil, then I encourage you both to moveto other threads.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:40 AM
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This comment has been removed for unnecessary rudeness. If you wish to edit the comment you may do so. Reply to me and I will review before re-approving. Your conversation with the other user has devolved into a 'nu-uh/uh-huh' spat. It adds no value to the discussion. If you and the other user want to return to making detailed and thorough comments, that's fine. If you cannot be detailed and civil, then I encourage you both to moveto other threads.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:38 AM
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Your post has been removed. You should repost to a more appropriate forum. While this community does believe sex is important in any healthy relationship, the details beyond that are not explicitly stated. This is a SFW sub 99.8% of the time. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 01:21 AM
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Movie and TV Recommendations: The Paradise, based on a French book by the same name I believe. Adam's Rib Desk Set with Katherine Hepburn Charade with Audrey Hepburn White Christmas with Bing Crosby North and South Emma The Fifth Element. Leeloo is strong yes, but extremely feminine, innocent and vulnerable as well. Amelie Seeking a Friend for the end of the world Easy Virtue with Jessica Biel Call the Midwife (tv show) Sword Art Online (anime) Million Yen Women If you are interested in watching…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 03:14 PM
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Your comment has been temporarily removed. It's fine to disagree with posts and other users, but when doing so, you need to take the time to fully explain why you disagree. Drive by comments, such as this, can too easily spark an unnecessary fight. Unnecessary because taking a few minutes to fully write out your opinion in a neutral way encourages a more intelligent and useful exchange. After you have edited your comment, reply to this one. I will review and re-approve if the edits are satisfact…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 06:15 AM
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Link DT, or Dark Triad - A combination of three personality traits: Narcissism, Machiavellianism, and Psychopathy. An effective short-term sexual strategy. More information here.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 06:01 AM
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Incorrect. Your initial comment was not 'honest' it was your own personal bias and projection. When a man wants to keep a child, he says that, especially when they already have two together. You need to examine your own biases and hamster. Your comment is in no way helpful, and it breaks the rules of the community. Insulting RP users and subs is not allowed. I do not want to ban you, I am going out of my way to ignore your behavior. I really am giving you every opportunity to listen and make the…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 05:56 AM
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Hello /u/CleburnCO, Your comment has been removed for a few reasons. It surpasses 'honest feedback' and stampedes into the territory of over the top rudeness. If you read the other thread OP submitted, the pregnancy was terminated with the full knowledge and support of her husband. Her husband despises the children, and is not an enthusiastic father at this point, for many reasons. Your comment entirely ignores the complexities and nuances of this situation. Your personal feelings as a father ar…
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 05:35 AM
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Your comment has been re-approved. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 04:49 AM
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Re-approved your comment. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 04:46 AM
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Thank you. I will approve it now.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 02:30 AM
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Please be sure to read the sidebar. There is one post about RP acronyms, axioms, and a glossary.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 01:22 AM
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Comment removed for rudeness. You need to delete the first and second paragraphs. Reply to this comment after you have done so, and I will review before allowing it back on the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen17/10/17 01:20 AM
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The suspicion is based on the fact that the thread is nearly a day old, and in the past hour you have written two comments (this one would be the third), and you do appear to be ignoring 'harsher' advice. Not that such behavior is unusual, as I explained in my own reply to the other user. The other user's conclusion may or may not prove to be accurate, thus far, their observations are more correct than incorrect. This is an impression you are creating, both by responding to people in an unclear …
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 08:53 PM
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I wish I could say this is an uncommon response to information that is unflattering, yet true. BP women that try to make the switch to RP experience a wide range of responses, as do BP men trying to become RP. It's easier to ignore the comments that are harder to face, and respond only to those people that show a higher degree of compassion, and also possibly, less actionable advice. "Love yourself" is easier to hear than "stop being an idiot."
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 08:28 PM
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Hello /u/lamananadivi, You need to pair down the language in this post for a few reasons. it reads like bad porn you sound like a man pretending to be a woman It's much easier, and more believable to say "I want to make a coupon book for my husband during our vacation to spice things up. What are your ideas?" This sub is not about sexual kinks or taboo sexual acts. If you want to be more explicit, then you should really post this to a more appropriate sub. /r/sex and similar forums may be more h…
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 07:18 PM
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The individual refused to listen, unfortunately. I think there's a reason why the 'still raw' men that are trying to process TRP and RP are better off only lurking here until they have a better grasp and more complete understanding of both the male and female strategies.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 06:27 PM
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This is not what she described at all, and the fact that this is your analysis only serves to highlight why you do not belong here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 06:24 PM
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You assume a considerable amount about someone you do not know. You have no idea what her history is, or how she talks to her husband. This is your final warning. Comment in a rude and irrelevant way again and you will be banned.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 06:19 PM
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This is rude and useless. Please familiarize yourself with the sidebar and the mission statement of this community. If you cannot participate in a polite, and meaningful way, then you should focus on a different sub. There is zero reason to talk this way to a married woman about how she and her husband courted.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 06:18 PM
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Write meaningful comments, or refrain from commenting. Criticism is good, but only when people take the time to fully detail their qualms.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 06:54 AM
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Removed. If you want to critique a comment or thread, write a complete comment, drive by condescension is not allowed.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 06:52 AM
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They are two different subs, with different focuses. You did nothing wrong by posting here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 06:03 AM
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There is no rule against male participation here.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/17 03:07 AM
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Again please read the sidebar, marriage is not miserable, and does not leave people unfulfilled. Typically only people that don't grow up around happy and stable marriages (parents, friends, family) think it always leads to misery.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 09:31 PM
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RPW focuses on the female sexual strategy and TRP focuses on the male sexual strategy. Each strategy recognizes the strengths and weaknesses of both sexes. Men can easily get commitment, but obtaining regular sex is harder. Women can easily have sex, but earning commitment from a good man is not so easy. Therefore men focus on getting sex, while holding back and utilizing their ability to dangel commitment. RPW focuses on vetting, self improvement, and talks about the advantages of holding off o…
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 08:29 PM
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Comment removed for being useless. If you wish to disagree, that's fine, but you need to fully explain your thoughts. Your comment offers no insight, while also claiming authority. Please write thorough comments in the future when you disagree. Furthermore, please disagree in a polite, or at least neutral manner. Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 06:26 AM
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You need to message the mods, not delete your post. Make the post again, then reply to this comment. I will review and approve if appropriate. :) The auto mod is a robot. It automatically removes posts and comments made by new users.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/17 04:34 AM
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Thank you for being calm and direct with the other user. When you see comments that violate the community rules, please hit the report button and the moderators will be able to get to them faster. Thank you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 08:20 PM
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This is entirely incorrect, and your comment adds no value. As a result, it has been removed. Please review the sidebar and wiki. If you cannot constructively participate here, then you should move to a different sub and comment. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 08:18 PM
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This thread has been removed. Please write a summary of the video and explain what it has to do with this community.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 04:42 PM
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Hello /u/mytenthmuse. Your thread is now visible and people will be able to read and respond. When you reply, your comments will be automatically removed for a time. We will do our best to approve them as quickly as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 01:20 AM
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Your post has been removed as this community only deals with heterosexual relationships. There is an altTRP sub however, and you may find that useful. You are welcome to participate here, just don't mention that you are a lesbian, be sure that your comments are RP, and you can refer to the person you love as: SO (significant other) or spouse if you are married. Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 07:58 PM
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I have removed your comment because it breaks the rules. I have also removed the other comment. When you see a post of comment that does not belong, please hit the 'report' button. I wish you luck. :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 05:06 PM
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This entire comment is useless. It is rude and lacks any useful advice. Please read the sidebar and review the rules, and make better decisions the next time you decide to comment. Edit: Your comment has is now visible. Thank you for making the appropriate changes.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 05:05 PM
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I would hate for the RPW community to keep you from your very important and interesting life. Allow me to show you the door.
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 03:45 PM
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Your comment is the reason OP deleted the post. There was no assumption. I was very careful to be both firm and polite with you. This conversation is not beneficial. Be more considerate and thoughtful when you comment in the future, or at least be detailed enough that multiple people do not mistake your tone for condescension. I am ignoring your bite back in this response, I will not do so again if you insist on continuing in the same manner.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 04:45 PM
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A user is commiserating about frustrating patterns she has noticed in movies. Your comment is not a compassionate one, nor does it set the tone for an insightful discussion. Your flippancy is more likely to put OP on the defense, which would be unfortunate. A better, and more productive choice would be to share examples that also bother you, recommend alternate media to look into, or simply refrain from replying and move to another thread. Criticism and honesty have their place, especially when …
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 04:13 PM
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Movie and TV Recommendations: The Paradise, based on a French book by the same name I believe. Adam's Rib Desk Set with Katherine Hepburn Charade with Audrey Hepburn White Christmas with Bing Crosby North and South Emma The Fifth Element. Leeloo is strong yes, but extremely feminine, innocent and vulnerable as well. Amelie Seeking a Friend for the end of the world Easy Virtue with Jessica Biel Call the Midwife (tv show) Sword Art Online (anime) Million Yen Women Movies require tension and confli…
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 04:04 PM
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You have changed your post, and I did not see the original. This means I may be missing information. Instead I offer a few things to consider: Has the frequency of sex dropped? Have you changed in physically, or altered your behavior in a way that is unappealing? Are you always available to him? has something in his life happened recently that has stressed him out a lot? Sometimes people return to 'old reliable' preferences when they are particularly down, stressed, or unhappy. You say he talks …
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 03:37 PM
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It is possible that /u/mrpthrowa means "the 100th time with the same partner" and not "the 100 different partners." The former is solidly RP and useful advice to a nervous woman in an LTR, the latter is not.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 03:26 PM
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This comment has been removed because it is unhelpful and rude.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/17 02:33 PM
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The other user means "it takes time to get to know someone, but you can only ever 'know' so much about another person prior to marriage. Once you have hit the capacity for knowing a person as much as possible prior to marriage without getting crazy, then you are only left with one last choice. That is, to take the plunge, jump in, and get married" All things have pros and cons, and there is a diminishing amount of returns as you continue to vet and become more aware and detailed. You don't want …
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 08:10 PM
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Only RP advice is permitted here, and your evaluation of this topic is not RP. I am giving you every possible chance here because I would prefer to not ban you. This conversation is done. Please move on to another thread, or you will create your own self fulfilling prophecy and earn a ban.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 05:40 PM
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Haha thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 05:39 PM
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Not sure if you are joking or not. Link The expressions “in the same vein” and “along the same line” mean the same thing (“on the same subject”), but those who cross-pollinate them to create the hybrid “along the same vein” sound a little odd to those who are used to the standard expressions. If you were joking, very good, and I apologize for the unnecessary information! :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 05:23 PM
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Thank you for more fully explaining. Your first comment was dismissive, and your subsequent response continued in a more 'masculine' vein. Clarifications are always useful, and now it is clear to everyone that reads this exchange exactly what you were driving at. Being detailed and thorough from the start usually saves a lot of effort later on. Take care. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 04:39 PM
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Some people feel things acutely, even if they understand things intellectually. Emotions are not the enemy and I would never encourage women working to enhance their feminity to be less emotional, compassionate, optimistic, and feeling. Your advice about creating distance and being more objective without emotion is fine to tell RP men but not RP women in this case.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:49 PM
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Your comment was removed for being BP, and showing no understanding of this sub. This discussion is not productive, nor is it helping you. Please keep everything I have said in mind. Take care.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:44 PM
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Many people have alt accounts that they use for other things, and those accounts can be several years old. This community gets its fair share of trolls. Precaution is just part of best practices. There is very little mod interaction. I was polite and explained things thoroughly in an attempt to clear things up for you. A 'rampant mod abuse' situation would have lead to your instantaneous ban, instead of a cautionary reply. Everything in my previous comment to you still stands. Review the top pos…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:31 PM
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It is possible to understand the world and yet be continually let down and saddened by what happens all the same.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:04 PM
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Circumventing a ban with an alternate account is against the reddit site rules. If you are a different person from the one I already banned, then I encourage you to read the sidebar, wiki, and top posts, then decide if this community is one you can productively participate in. There is a common RPW saying "do it until you're in the mood' because most women are sex ally responsive. Very few are regularly aroused without any prompting, kissing, fondling. The entire philosophy behind this sentiment…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:01 PM
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The paragraph the latter starts "I've read" and ends "attention" is massive, and too long for one paragraph. You may want to cut that one up into smaller paragraphs. Other than that, it looks good.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:42 PM
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Your post is now visible and people can read and respond. When you reply to others your comments will be removed again but we will do our best to approve them as quickly as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 01:25 PM
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Your post is now visible and people can read and comment. Your replies will be removed automatically, but we will try to approve them as quickly as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 06:26 AM
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Linking to another sub is not allowed. You may copy and paste your post here, but be sure it is specifically relevant to this community (Red Pill Women). Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:08 AM
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Hello, please edit your flair to reflect your sex and remove the 'guy here' portion. Reply to this comment once you have and I will review and approve it once more. You should also read the sidebar and pay particular attention to the thread that talks about male participation here. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:45 AM
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Hello, please reply to this comment after you have edited your own to remove the 'man here' portion you can edit your flair to reflect your sex as well. You should also read the thread on the sidebar that talks about male participation within this community. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:42 AM
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Please edit your flair to reflect your sex, and remove the "man here" portion. After you have made these changes reply to this comment and I will review then approve. You a may also find the sidebar helpful, specifically the post that talks about male participation here. Thank you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:37 AM
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Please edit your flair to reflect your sex. Remove the "man here" portion of your content then reply to this comment. I will review and approve after that. You may also find the sidebar useful, particularly take notice of the thread talking about male participation here. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:17 AM
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The user in question has been banned. If you see comments or posts that violate the community rules please hit the 'report' button. Thank you. :)
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:13 AM
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This is the correct question. OP has been given a bit of direction so that they can more successfully engage with this community in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 04:45 AM
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Your thread has been removed. Please post to askTRP or TRP, this is not the right place to receive advice and feedback for your particular situation. If you like, you can instead post a more general discussion thread about the subject of escalation, LMR (last minute resistance), and ask where everyone draws the line. Have a good night.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 04:42 AM
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Hello /u/rpw-throwaway, your post was removed by the auto moderator. I have just approved it, so now others will be able to read and respond. Your subsequent comments will continue to be filtered by the auto moderator for a while, but we will do our best to clear them as quickly as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 03:22 AM
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Hello /u/Torutuguita91your post was removed by the auto moderator. I have just approved it so now others will be able to read and reply to your post. Your responses to others will also be removed, so just message the moderators and we will try to clear them as quickly as possible.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 03:19 AM
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Thank you for the helpful and neutral direction. The user in question has been invited to review both the sidebar and the wiki, and decide if this community is a good fit for them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/17 03:14 AM
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Your post was removed because your account is new. I have approved it so now others will be able to read and reply. :)
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/17 05:29 AM
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Approved your comment. Thanks.
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/17 01:09 AM
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Please edit your flair to indicate your sex, age and relationship status. You should also review the sidebar, specifically the post addressing male participation. Edit your comment to remove the 'as a man' portion then reply to this comment. I will review and then re-approve your comment if the appropriate changes have been made. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 09:09 PM
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Your gender is almost always irrelevant. Using the phrase "As a man..." is considered a faux pas. You can now make your own custom flair that will indicate your gender, but don't write about it in your post. Please edit your flair to say that you are a man, and do not repeat that information in future comments. Once you have edited your comment, please reply to me and I will review your comment before approving it. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 04:28 PM
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Your gender is almost always irrelevant. Using the phrase "As a man..." is considered a faux pas. You can now make your own custom flair that will indicate your gender, but don't write about it in your post. Please edit your flair to say that you are a man, and do not repeat that information in future comments. Once you have edited your comment, please reply to me and I will review your comment before approving it. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 04:28 PM
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Your comments give the impression that you have not actually read the post. Right now it seems you just saw the title and decided to go off in your own direction. Your comments have been removed for now. If you edit them and connect your ideas to the post, then you can respond to this comment and I will review them before approving them.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 04:20 PM
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Hello /u/patriarchytoy From the sidebar: This is a spot for like-minded Women.... This is a sub for heterosexual women. There is an alt RP sub. If you participate on the sub, without mentioning your trans status, then no one will be the wiser. The point is to prevent the community from becoming clogged with grandstanding and diverting attention from the core purpose of the sub. You say you are a woman, so speak as one, and don't mention the peculiarities that go along with being trans, as it has…
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 11:06 PM
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If you follow the rules, there will be no need for additional action. I had to remove this comment as well because you are STILL violating the sub rules. Please listen or you will be banned. If you see comments that break the rules of the community please report them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 08:32 PM
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You are all good now :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 08:13 PM
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Approved your comment. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 08:07 PM
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You are being issued a warning for being rude to the other user. Be polite or be quiet. Disagreeing does not require insults and rudeness. Edit your comments and remove the insults and then respond to this comment and I will review them before re-approving them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 07:02 PM
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She has, and there's really nothing to address. The content is RP, and will be useful to newcomers and those that are unclear about certain ideas. Everyone needs to contribute the caliber of content they enjoy reading. Being active about addressing a perceived issue is far better than simply complaining. :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 04:42 PM
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/u/ana2018ana I have already explained this to you. I'm glad you posted a thread, but your evaluation of this post's value is incorrect. Please contribute content you enjoy reading, and do not play the part of book critic. There is nothing about this post that is incorrect from a RP perspective. Not every user is at the same level of understanding and knowledge. If you wish to see more complex RP theory, then I encourage you to write it.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 04:39 PM
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Your thread has been approved. People will now be able to read and comment.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 03:09 PM
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Be polite or be quiet. If you want to disagree with someone, do so in a detailed, neutral tone. Insulting others is against the rules, repeating this behavior is not advisable.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/17 04:49 PM
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If you prefer to see different topics and content then I encourage you to post it. Discussion questions that are unusual and interesting are one way to add a bit of interest and variety from what is normally posted. The nearly 40 comments on this thread indicate that people found this thread worthy of writing comments and talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/17 10:08 AM
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No circle jerking. Comment thoughtfully and thoroughly or move to another thread.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 10:57 PM
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Be polite or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 10:56 PM
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Your post has been removed. It is low effort. It's unclear how this is appropriate for the RPW community which focuses on dating, marriage, and family. Please reply to this comment once you have edited your post to address the points outlined above.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 07:58 PM
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I encourage you to create the kind of content you enjoy. I see people complaining, but not actually taking action, which means they are just as much at fault as anyone else. Take action and be more than an observer. :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 05:04 PM
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I approved your post so people will be able to see it now.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 04:52 PM
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Then please keep it there in the future and review the sidebar so you're familiar with the rules of this community.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 04:20 PM
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I was referring specifically to the other user's claim that was absolute in nature. They stated women play zero role in defining masculinity which is false. I agree that masculinity and feminity are more than what attracts the opposite sex, but that is not the same as stating the other sex has no role in defining either masculinity or femininity. This is why I specifically used the phrasing 'part of' and not 'all of'. If you see comments stating these ideas in an absolute sense please report the…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 04:03 PM
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'Masculinity' is useless if it repels all women. Part of being a man means having traits, looks, and personality that attract women. Just as being feminine is useless if it repels all men. Part of the purpose of both masculinity and feminity is the ability to attract the opposite sex.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 03:44 PM
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Do not be rude.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 03:41 PM
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Please pot to /r/Theredpill, this is not appropriate for the RPW community.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 03:36 PM
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Your advice is not RP, in fact it is BP (divorce rape and be petty).
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 03:33 PM
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Your comment was removed by the auto moderator. I just approved it so others will be able to read and reply to you now.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/17 05:12 AM
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I just sent you a PM, giving you the benefit of the doubt. Please ignore the PM, and know that you are now banned from the community.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/17 03:20 AM
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Be civil or be quiet.
/r/RedPillWomen30/09/17 01:56 AM
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I am giving you every possible opportunity here, please listen. I did not say you must always agree with people. I said that when you disagree, please take the time to fully explain your thoughts because that alleviates the possibility for confusion and disagreements. Your latest comment (the long one above) is good. I encourage you to continue this exchange with the /u/jotho817, because it will provide an interesting perspective. Please do not lie about what you have been told in the future. Ev…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 11:49 PM
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Your comment has been removed. Please keep in mind what I have said. Pursuing this conversation in the manner you have previously adopted is not advisable. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 11:19 PM
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Your post was automatically removed because you have not commented her before. I have approved your post, so it will now show up on the sub.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 11:05 PM
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Telling someone they 'have no idea' what they are talking about is inflammatory. Particularly when you provide no further explanation. Thank you for explaining your thoughts more fully in your most recent comment. Please only comment when you have adequate time to completely explain what you mean. This prevents confusion and reduces the chances of starting a disagreement.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 10:59 PM
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Thank you for replying in a respectful manner and ignoring the 'bait.'
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 10:22 PM
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When disagreeing with someone, please create thorough and well reasoned comments. When you reply with such a curt, and vague response, you increase the chances of instigating an argument instead of actually encouraging a meaningful exchange.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 10:21 PM
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Your tone was accusatory and aggressive. This comment has also been removed. Please follow the guidelines I outlined previously, or direct your attention to another thread. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 07:50 PM
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"rationalization hamster" and "hamstering" are the correct terms. They are descriptive, apply to both men and women, and represent faulty, emotionally driven reactions that create problems and strife.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 05:22 PM
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Your comment has been removed, it is against the rules to personally attack other users. You may try writing a new comment in a neutral tone. You also made several accusations without quoting prior comments as a way to support your claims. Including relevant quotes and links will add substance and credibility to your response.
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 02:11 PM
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Hello /u/Whiterabbit1999, your post will not be approved because it violates the community rules. This is also a low quality post, meaning it required very little effort for you to write this up. You are encouraged to try again, this time removing the insulting comments about TRP and men in general. Be more thorough in your explanations about why the relationship failed. No relationship can succeed because of one person's efforts. No relationship fails because everything is one person's fault. Y…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/17 02:31 AM
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If you make well reasoned arguments, do not resort to insults, and maintain awareness that TRP is different (not 'wrong') then there is no reason ideas and interpretations and execution cannot be discussed. The issue is when insults are made, and people do not recognize that both TRP and RPW are legitimate, and use strategies appropriate for their goals. What RP men are looking for does not necessarily match with what RP women are looking for. If you see any user breaking the rules or being rude…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 05:35 PM
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Please read my comment again. I simply asked that you explain specifically what you have an issue with, in detail. Insulting users and RP communities is against the rules. That does not mean you cannot disagree with ideas, strategy, or approaches. The key is that you have to be specific about what you disagree with, explain your reasoning, and above all else, remain respectful. Your comment does not meet any of the above requirements. I am being polite, and I ask that you do the same. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 03:07 PM
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I'm glad to hear it! You can always use the 'search' function at the top left hand side of the screen to dig up posts on specific topics. Think of it as a more limited, slightly glitchy Google. There is an option that says 'limit search to _____' and it inserts the name of the sub you are currently on. This is a very useful way to conduct your own excavations in search of related content.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 02:38 PM
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Please do not insult the RP communities or other users. Your comment has been removed. If you edit it to more thoughtfully and completely explain what you mean without attacking anyone, then I will re-approve your comment. Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 02:35 PM
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Hi I thought you may be interested in these posts: Is this the RPW anger phase? Why does RPW lack an 'Anger Phase' like TRP? Need help with anger phase
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:53 PM
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Hi there, can you please explain what you mean by "red pill"? Do you mean "have you [women] ever tried to tell orbiters [men] about RP ideas?" Or are you trying to discern if anyone here has exploited orbiters for resources, emotional validation, and favors?
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:48 PM
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Hi there, can you please write a summary of this video and explain why it is relevant to the RPW community? This video is almost 30 minutes long, and I'm not sure anyone has the time to blindly take that kind of time out of their schedule on an unknown video like this. Please reply to this comment after you have created a summary, and an explanation of why this is pertinent to the RPW sub. Thank you! :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 01:47 PM
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