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| 0 | Let's say your a stay at home partnerThis isn't an ad, it's like you read it and decided your own meaning 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/26 06:19 PM |
| 2 | Basing off the 80/20 theory- for those of you in the 80% would you rather not have sex or be alone?There are billions of people so realistically, there is someone you can have all that with, who also wants to have sex with you, so in the real world it's better to leave and keep trying. NOW For this unrealistic scenario where you only have these two options, I'd say go for the loving relationship. If you're one of the last survivors of a nuclear fallout and there is a small village and like only 100 people left alive for miles and miles, and there is a sweet girl that is asexual, but you love … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | What do you value?Valid, but people have different standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/26 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, have you even not been into someone despite them being good in bed?I do art, how df did you know. What's wrong with art 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:37 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, have you even not been into someone despite them being good in bed?Thank you, I've been with 6 women. Never had a gf(just intense unofficial situationships), I always wanted one. A lot of the girls I hook up with are friends, and we even repeat hook up, but whenever I'm like "wanna be my gf" they're like "nahhhhh, but we can hook up from time to time" which is disheartening, but my dad be saying "if you're good enough in bed, it'll make a girl that doesn't want kids, want em". I know that it's insane, but I just needed to hear that it was insane from someone el… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 01:05 AM |
| 2 | What's the difference between red flags and flaws in your opinion?Some girls don't like guys nights out, it's just a preference on what someone wants from a partner lmfao. Some couples prefer more modest relationships, but I don't see anything constructive coming from this, so I'll leave it at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 07:56 PM |
| 2 | What's the difference between red flags and flaws in your opinion?Ahhh interesting 🤔 Yeah for me personally girls nights out, and male friends are red flags, but for others they aren't. I think your point is valid, because any guy that asks that probably wouldn't match well with you, but guys that don't would, and that's okay! I don't think there is anything wrong with girls nights out, or having a ton of close male friends, just personally I wouldn't want to date someone like that, because that's my boundaries and doesn't fit into my life plan. I guess we're … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 07:40 PM |
| 2 | What's the difference between red flags and flaws in your opinion?That seems sort of immature no offense. I understand that for you that's too personal of a question, but girls ask me that first all the time and willingly give up the information even though I never ask for it. Personally Idc because I know someone can lie so there is literally no point in asking. However, I think it's not a bad thing if a man or woman asks it. Taking it to the extreme of disrespecting someone by laughing in their face, instead of communicating that for you that's too a persona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 07:31 PM |
| 2 | What's the difference between red flags and flaws in your opinion?That example was beautiful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 07:28 PM |
| – | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Elaborate | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.So true lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:18 PM |
| 0 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Exactly 💯, people aren't trying hard enough in my opinion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/25 01:13 AM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Maybe you have a point. I will say that she's the second really attractive girl I've slept with, the rest weren't bad looking, just not as good looking as her, and one other. Like maybe no boobs, or a tummy which is okay. No one is perfect and looks isn't all that matters lol. But yeah, maybe that nigga pulls 10's regularly, who knows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 11:38 PM |
| 2 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Valid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 10:20 PM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Interesting take, I won't agree or disagree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:53 PM |
| 2 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Valid, she definitely did not seem interested in anything more from me. However, it seems like all these guys here look at being alpha as getting laid with no strings attached | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Thanks I think lol, I agree confidence is important. I wouldn't say he's better, or I'm better, we're both just different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 08:50 PM |
| 2 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.True, but that guy has a degree and I don't so I wouldn't say I'm smarter than he is lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 06:47 PM |
| 4 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.You're definitely right about that, she did not care about me at all. It was still a fun experience though, got laid, had someone to talk on the phone with, text throughout the day, hang out with as well briefly. That's what dating is about, it isn't always meant to last forever. You just have to let life come and go, and enjoy the little moments instead of looking for someone to be perfect lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 04:16 PM |
| 2 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.And get no play? You do you brother 😭🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 04:10 PM |
| 2 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Exactly 💯❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 04:09 PM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.All happened long before me, and I didn't ask how they met. I did stalk his profile when me and her first met, he seemed to be a regular kid who was into anime like the rest of us. However he just ended up being really tall, and he got really muscular and played sports, this nigga was significantly taller than his dad. Just happens, but I can only assume that's why she picked him to begin with, but idk their story to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 04:08 PM |
| 4 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Those people in my opinion have just given up due to being afraid of rejection. I've been rejected a lot. Hell the girl I mentioned in the post above, I didn't even think I had a chance with her, I just shot my shot for fun. But eventually we ended up hooking up, which definitely surprised me, had I not tried and assumed I'd never have a chance, then I wouldn't have had a chance. Tbh when I met her, I wasn't even on a mission to hook up with her, my goal was to get her into video games, but then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 04:05 PM |
| 3 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.I won't deny you do have a strong argument. However, anyone can change, and there really are so many different types of people, I think there is someone for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.We're all late 20's I don't wanna be too, too specific because what if she sees this post somehow lol. Me and her are the same age, and he's a year older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:55 PM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Hmmm, you might have a point 🤔☝️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.I think the guy is attractive in my opinion. Idk know if he knows I exist or not, I did publicly tag his bm in a post, but I eventually took it down when me and her parted ways. He seems like a chill guy, but imo I think he is too hung up on her, and he needs to let her go based on his posts. He has never contacted me, even tho it wasn't hard to see that me and his ex had a connection for a time, but after me and her she had a connection with someone else, then someone else after that. I moved o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:47 PM |
| 6 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Lol, ikr. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:36 PM |
| 4 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Interesting 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:35 PM |
| 5 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Tbh, I think the only reason me and the girl I mentioned in the post hooked up, is because I went out of my way to find this candy she likes that was hard to find. strange that I to this day still believes that was the breaking point for this 25 year old lady with a degree and a full life, but I truly think if I had not found that candy, me and her would have never hooked up. It was like a $1.25 and I had to search for it, she only casually mentioned it haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:25 PM |
| 3 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.I understand, and I'm sorry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:19 PM |
| 3 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.Valid, but I think those ideas are holding you guys back. Just go out to bars, clubs, even the grocery store or the park and talk to women. If you ask out 100 women, atleast 50 will give you their Snapchat, insta, or number. 25 will text back for a week, 5 will be friends for life, and 1 will sleep with you. ATLEAST. You can only do this so many times in one area before you start accidentally running into women you've already met, so you might have to jump from one spot to the next when you do t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:18 PM |
| 0 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.The guys paying aren't trying hard enough. I'm literally not the most attractive guy, and I literally had one chick that was attractive not only sleep with me, but she bought me like $50 worth of snacks. It was equal tho because I spent $50 on the day after pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.My definition is a male that is seen as overall more fit than the other solely due to genetics. Look at squirmy and grubs, bro is literally disabled with a genetic disorder and still managed to pull an attractive wife. Personality plays a major role. Plus women's personal preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:12 PM |
| – | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.I agree. Especially in today's climate where some girls like feminine guys, and some like masculine ones. One of my sisters only date short guys as she finds them more attractive and her husband is like 5'5, while my other sister only dates 6'2 and above. Meanwhile my last sister is gay. Humans are so complex, the thing I realized that pulls most women to me is my ability to draw. I usually can be on the edge of rejection, then I show some of my art, and suddenly I have their phone number, and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:09 PM |
| 3 | I don't think there is a such thing as alpha and beta males, and everything is in our heads.You're very well spoken, and your words hit deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Why do some ladies do this?Bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/25 03:24 PM |
| -1 | Why do some ladies do this?See this is what I be wondering, but like also if they don't add me on social, I feel like asking for a number would be wayyyy too much haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Why do some ladies do this?Maybe this is it lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Why do some ladies do this?Ahhhh, that shit be making my ears feel like they're on fire and I be regretting I said anything at all lol. I guess it's just apart of being human. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Men can't date/marry out of their league with career success and moneyI had a summer fling with a girl way out of my league. Idk how but it happened lol. I met her while in line at the grocery store, asked for her socials. Things escalated quickly with the number, talking, meeting irl. She makes more money than me and looks better than me, but somehow it still all occurred. I lowkey found out how ugly my family thinks I am because they expressed their surprise more than me 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/24 09:07 PM |
| 3 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Interesting take, in Japan the average height is 5'7, I'm 5'8.5 so it'd be like me being 5'10.5 in the usa. In the Philippines it's like 5'5 for men, so it'd be like being 6'0.5 there lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?LMFAO | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:12 PM |
| 2 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Probably 50/50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 06:07 PM |
| 1 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Eh people are more complex and complicated than that. Like the person I know who wanted a tall son and is tall and has a tall husband. She's a wonderful mother, seems to be atleast. She prioritizes him over her job, turning down a better paying position to spend more time with her son, she's setting up funds for his future, and everything to ensure his happiness and security. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:59 PM |
| 2 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.As a man in my mid 20s (25) I think I'm qualified to give an insightful answer. Most of us are in fact getting laid, but not as much as those who are like top 10% in attractiveness. Some of men the in their 20s aren't getting laid at all. Let's say you have 50 men and 50 women in their 20s (all straight for this example) lets say 5 of the women aren't able to get laid at all, 25 of them are in relationships with 25 of the men, and the remaining 20 have something casual with 5 of the most attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:42 PM |
| 2 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Damn, yeah that'd be wild if I accidentally got a 6'3 daughter, but I mean I wouldn't push her into sports, even if I got a tall son, I wouldn't push him into sports either lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:33 PM |
| 2 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.That's fair, but hey that's just the mindset of some people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:23 PM |
| 0 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Yeah, I'm avoiding girls that do that, I don't need a home body, but if she gotta go out it can be somewhere other than a night club, and I should be able to join if I want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Drugged isn't cheating, it's rape. Also, if she wasn't a druggie or an alcoholic then that wouldn't be an issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:46 PM |
| 2 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.My boss raves about how tall her son is and her height and her husbands height lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:44 PM |
| 1 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Ohhhh, yeah I did see it like that. But I can see what you mean, a childfree woman might still be attracted to height, and a woman who wants kids might not care about height (my sister only dates short men cuz "tall men scare her") meanwhile 20% the girls in my phone are 5'10-6'0 We all have our preferences I do think some people do consider genes when picking a partner, I've definitely heard girls say "I want to have tall kids so I'm picking a tall man" I've heard multiple girls say this on num… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:43 PM |
| -1 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.I think this subreddit would be much less bitter if people realized that. For example that's like a guy being mad at highschoolers for wanting to date athletes only, like highschoolers opinions are worth considering. Same for college girls and guys (relatively speaking) atleast to 30 year olds. Idk I'm 25 and I'm in the middle. "I'm little bro and big bro all at once" ~ jcole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:13 PM |
| 0 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Ok so what if she wasn't going to cheat on you. Like lets say there was a guy that even by your standards was "better" than you but she still wanted you and didn't even want him. She also has a kid, would you be with her? I've been in situations where a girl has favored me over what I felt was someone much better than me, but then again their personality is different than mines, even if they're more attractive and make more money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:09 PM |
| -1 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Plus girls at their "peak" are just immature and young. Those kinds of guys put so much weight on what a 20 year old halfway in college thinks, as if she knows as much as a 30 year old would. Most 20 year olds are chasing the guys they feel other girls their age wants without even knowing what they even want, 30 year olds know what guys they truly want and need. You sir are a gentleman and a scholar and I've enjoyed reading your comment 💯🥂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?You'll live on if you achieve this goal, much longer than having 1000 kids will ever help. It's like who are Einsteins kids? Even though we know, do we care? No, we care about him and the legacy he left behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:01 PM |
| 1 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Even if she had only one kid, made her own money, and was extremely attractive, treated you well, and was a great partner, and if you wanted kids would have several more with you. You couldn't look past accepting one outside kid? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:59 PM |
| 0 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.I mean people can do whatever they like lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Ahhh fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:55 PM |
| 3 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Why so aggressive, also congrats you don't pick your partner based on height I guess??? Some people literally have a minimum, literally nearly all the girls I met have told me the shortest they'll go is 5'8 and I'm 5'8.5 barely making the cut lol. For a lot of people it does factor in and that's okay 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:54 PM |
| 0 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.I agree, I think one clear way to avoid it is having fun yourself in your youth before settling down. You don't have to match up bar for bar with your girl. Like if your body count is 3 and hers is 7, doesn't matter, so long as you had your fun. I could understand how a guy could feel bitter knowing his girl has 20 bodies and she's his 1 and only. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 12:33 PM |
| 1 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Fair enough lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?What are you mixed with? For example if it's white and asian, would you date an asian person? Or they specifically had to be white and asian? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 12:30 PM |
| 0 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Tbh I've dealt with women who only want to have sex, and that shit feels empty. I don't mind a fwb, but I've dealt with girls that wouldn't even watch tv with me, or have a meal with me. They would come over, have sex, and leave repeatedly and eventually you just get tired of it. Also I rather date someone 22 and older because they play less games. I know a 20 (nearly 21) year old girl that is actively trying to get me to like her, even though she has zero interest in me, and younger me would ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 12:26 PM |
| 3 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Ahhh like for you, your mans income and height would be irrelevant. He could be 5'0 and make half what you make. No kids would be burdened by it, and if he's kind and good in bed then it's all a win win | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:58 AM |
| 0 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?America isn't sexist like that towards women, come here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:56 AM |
| 4 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.I wouldn't mind dating a girl with no kids, I'd prefer it actually lol, just so long as she is willing to have some with me going forward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?If you don't mind me asking, what country are you in? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Some guys help with their kids, to be fair the situation you described might be more common sadly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:06 AM |
| 3 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Tbh an older woman wouldn't be on my radar as I probably wouldn't date anyone anymore than 10 years older and that's pushing it, and women with no interest in kids ever don't interest me either as I want children some day. So as far as women unaffected by these topics, I wish them the best lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:39 AM |
| 3 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Interesting view point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 06:26 AM |
| 3 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.I agree on the part of if the biological dad is around. Idc how well they get along, if the baby daddy is in the picture and they have to regularly meet because of the kid then the relationship isn't for me, not the worst, just not for me. However, if the baby daddy is completely out of the picture, and you raise the kid from a young age, then it's basically your kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 06:25 AM |
| 2 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.This is the hard pill we all have to swallow. I started to realize this while I had experiences sleeping with a 22 year old with no kids, vs a 28 year old with a son. They have very different priorities, and move very differently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 06:23 AM |
| -16 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.You're entitled to that preference. They're not my first choice, but if it's just one kid, especially if they have a son, then it's not as bad as it can be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 06:09 AM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Ur an honest person living an honest life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:12 AM |
| 2 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?There's nothing wrong with that, you're helping the spark of human intellect and curiosity live on! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:04 AM |
| 0 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?That's still tall lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Do you care if your genes are passed on, why or why not?Ur a young grandfather? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 03:27 AM |
| 1 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?That's fair, but you're just above average, and if your standards are above average as well, then I'd say technically it is high, like most guys here aren't even 5'10 and a 5'10 guy is still too short for you lol. However, despite you're standards being proportionately high, it's reasonable atleast. Even if a 5'0 girl said 6'5 and taller, there is nothing wrong with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 09:41 PM |
| 4 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?I'm sorry, genuinely | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 06:23 AM |
| 8 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?You don't have high standards, yours are too low. Jkjk but I skimmed over and your standards are decent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 06:19 AM |
| 3 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?Lowkey afraid she'll one day find my reddit so I don't wanna be too specific lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 05:07 AM |
| 13 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?I feel like ur standards are valid, I do believe it'll be hard to find a person to meet all of them. But atleast you're not 5'0, unemployed, no degree, and saying those are your standards xD Which I guess to someone who is, to each their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 04:39 AM |
| 9 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?I mean sort of, like if you knew that most guys could only hold their breath for 3 minutes, but you wanted one who could hold theirs for 5, that's a high standard. Not that there's anything wrong with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 04:32 AM |
| 11 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?Anything above average, especially if it's across the board. Average American height for males is 5'9, meaning if your standards are 5'10 then the majority of guys wouldn't meet that. It's just an example, it's okay for someone to have high standards, not like they can be stopped lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?What does fwiw mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?Ohhhh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 03:48 AM |
| 3 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?Been away from what for months? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 03:46 AM |
| 3 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?How old are you now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 03:43 AM |
| 7 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?Very solid, I know someone who's partner is 6'2 and who makes 6 figures and they still complain about his height and income lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 03:42 AM |
| -2 | Ladies with high standards, no judgement, what are your standards and how do you justify them?LMFAO, bro you're funny asf, if I had an award I'd give you gold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 03:17 AM |
| 2 | People that play games, why? Be honest.I agree, and thank you lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 07:01 AM |
| 2 | People that play games, why? Be honest.True lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:21 AM |
| 2 | People that play games, why? Be honest.I think you're not a person I should listen to, you sound very biased. I feel like if the scenario was swapped you'd be singing a very different tune and saying I'm autistic if I had done what she did to me. You take care random stranger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:10 AM |
| 2 | People that play games, why? Be honest.Me: A girl I met irl got my number, texted me for 2 weeks, sent an address and said come over, then didn't come outside You: you misread the entire situation sir, you have autism Me: 👁️👄👁️ There is the thing called "projecting" when someone has something they are ashamed about they often accuse others of having or being that. For example a narcissist will call others narcissistic for no reason. You pulling out the autism conclusion is really telling 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:06 AM |
| 1 | People that play games, why? Be honest.Perhaps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 06:01 AM |
| 4 | People that play games, why? Be honest.That's an extreme stretch fam. The entire generation isn't a monolith. Me and that girl also didn't meet online, we met in person. She's barely a Gen z as she's 26 and I doubt that has anything to do with it. If she was 2 years older she'd be a millennial, would that change the discussion? I think you're hyper fixated on this hypothetical free pass zoomers get for standing people up in your mind. Again, no I'm not autistic, not trying to be accusatory but are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 05:58 AM |
| 5 | People that play games, why? Be honest.I don't see me being the problem or not understanding people when a girl sends me her home address and doesn't come outside 💀, no I don't have autism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 05:53 AM |
| 2 | What would make you take a casual hook up serious?Ahhhh that's fair. Yeah the girl I made the spaghetti for did just come out of a break up. She agreed to eat spaghetti with me, then cancelled, then came over the next day and we hooked up. I offered her some of my spaghetti then, saying we could heat it up, but she said nah, and left lmfao. She's a really sweet and timid girl, taller than me which I lowkey like. But yeah, I guess it's just bad timing 💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What would make you take a casual hook up serious?I'm no ladies man by any means, nor a fuck boi. I'm a nerd lmfao. So I don't think women avoid a relationship with me because they think I'd treat them bad because I wouldn't treat them bad lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 05:19 PM |
| 1 | What would make you take a casual hook up serious?Most girls usually won't give up their numbers, the ones that do end up replying at the same rate as the snapchatters lol. I did get a few Instagrams, facebooks, and tiktoks, only one girl from Facebook met me at the gym and plays video games with me lol. (Rarely) I'm 25 and my body count is literally 4. I've probably asked out hundreds of girls with a low success rate, but out of the few girls that I've actually completely slept with, none seem to be interested in a relationship, but more so in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 04:49 PM |
| 2 | What would make you take a casual hook up serious?Just out and about, I'm an average looking guy. Average height, average build, bald at 25 lmfao. I own a house and some land, and I have a decent job with benefits and my car is nearly paid off. Most the girls I meet have the same level of education as me, some college but no degree etc. Whenever I see an attractive girl I talk to her and ask for her Snapchat. Most never really text back, some do and eventually ghost, then some meet up and we hook up a few time, but they just don't seem to be in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Got it 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Philippines is 18k no restrictions on single men. Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Well I guess I'll have 1-2 kids instead of 2-4 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Looks like Ukraine is only 40k for egg donation and surrogacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Mexico has surrogacy starting at 50k so I could use them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on single parents by choice?❤️❤️❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Despite how you feel about men, and gay men, you can't stop people from getting surrogates, so I guess stay mad? 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?I don't work at a grocery store, and yes I will do this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?You need serious help | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Agreed 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Fair enough, they give their complete gene layouts, so I'll research a lot. All the donors have degrees and phds for some odd reason lol. They're all healthy, I'll pick one with the best genes, and for my son, I'll try to pick the tallest girl still probably. People tell me I'm funny, and I've managed to have fwbs but all the people I mess around with never want a committed relationship. Tbh most of the girls I've dealt with have had multiple fwbs, but anyways I'm not giving up on love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 05:28 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on single parents by choice?That is very encouraging to hear, thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 05:11 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Thank you! That means more than you know 💯🙏✨ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Thnx, I might consider a relationship one day, who knows. For now I'm going to have atleast one kid, and focus on building my wealth up, I want to retire by 30-40 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?I'm a man that will explore the surrogate option in about 6-12 months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?I see what you mean. So be honest with me, do you think deliberately having a tall son might be a bad idea? I'm nearly 5'9 and I saw egg donors well over 6'0 and was going to choose one of them. But you genuinely have me reconsidering this, will my son being tall be detrimental to his health and life? Like let's say he's between 6'0-6'2? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?I've been changing diapers since I was 10, my siblings are damn near old enough to be my parents and some of their kids are closer in age to me than they are actually lol. Grew up baby sitting nieces and nephews who felt more like little siblings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:50 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?How would you feel if they had created artificial wombs and they were 100% tested, and many couples and single men and women used them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:48 PM |
| -3 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Nahh, I'm all spent up I feel. I'm just tired of all the time wasters, games, and drama. In 5 years and some change I'll be 30. I'm really just tryna do me you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Opinions on single parents by choice?So for a single dad, so long as she has a good female role model it's fine? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 05:05 AM |
| 0 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Thnx! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Ahhh well too bad us men have this option anyways and can do this lol 🤣 :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 04:27 AM |
| 6 | Opinions on single parents by choice?You originally said "straight man" then edited it, why? Also why specifically a man who wants this should be dropped into a volcano? Would you say the same for a woman that gets a sperm donor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 04:24 AM |
| 0 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Eh, literally everyone I meet just wastes my time lol I feel ready to do my own thing, and am tired of people wasting my time. I have a house, some cars, and a decent job with benefits. So I feel atleast financially ready, and idk I'm just tired of all the games people play these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Thnx! But idk I think I'll probably do it. I'll see how I feel in a year when I have the 18k ready to go | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 03:00 AM |
| 0 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Nearly 25 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:54 AM |
| 8 | Opinions on single parents by choice?Retired parents who know about my idea and both said they'd be down to watch the kid while I'm at work, they will be watching my future nephew soon when he's born in a few months | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/02/24 02:44 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, who aren't in college or school, and got a boyfriend in the last 12 months, where and how did you meet him?The flirting finally made it out the gc, nice lolol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/02/24 03:22 AM |
| 4 | Ladies, who aren't in college or school, and got a boyfriend in the last 12 months, where and how did you meet him?They ended up dating and she enjoyed his company. So if a guy is interested in a girl and approaches her, even if she says it's okay it's still creepy??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, who aren't in college or school, and got a boyfriend in the last 12 months, where and how did you meet him?Oooo, that's wholesome asf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, who aren't in college or school, and got a boyfriend in the last 12 months, where and how did you meet him?Oooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:10 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, who aren't in college or school, and got a boyfriend in the last 12 months, where and how did you meet him?Ahhhh, damn it's over for me then lol Edit: jk ofc, thank you for your input! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 11:05 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, what made you choose your boyfriend?Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, what made you choose your boyfriend?Mind elaborating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?It's just a scenario, ofc some people fall in between but in the scenario the girl has these two options and makes this decision. I framed it this way for the discussion about this specific situation, in the prompt I even covered how this is just one of many possibilities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/24 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Yeah, I think when people are dating they look for a combination of both or settle for one or the other. Men too not only women, however women have more options so they can be more out there with how they go about obtaining what they are looking for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Which do you feel a woman values more?I'm thinking it'd be easier to find a 25-30 year old that's already ready for kids to date instead XD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?You worded it perfectly. I've been Guy 1, not often tho because I'm average but due to right time, right place, and attractive females being comfortable with me, I've managed to have casual sex (although not frequently) I'm financially stable, house, 2 cars, land, job with benefits and I'm 24 years old. However I haven't managed to become guy #2 yet, not that I think I won't ever be that guy, but I mean in a few months I'll be 25. In 5 years I'll be 30. Most girls take years to decide to have ki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?I agree, it's interesting to see how people can see it any other way, but some guys have made a valid argument. I still think 2 is more valued, but I love discussions like this, they scratch a certain itch that I feel like men and women can't reach or discuss otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Someone gets it lol People will place whatever assumptions on this which says more about them than the prompt. I've been Guy 1 a lot, and wish I could be Guy 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Being Guy 1 is all about right time and right place. I'm an average male, 5'8.5 (5'9 in shoes and mistaken for 5'9) I'm nerdy, however am told I'm very funny, and I'm outgoing Lost my virginity at 21, and have had sex with a few people after that. The girl that took my vcard was having "a hot girl summer" I met her on tinder, I'm a 7 without trying, and an 8 when I actually try. She was a 10, but extremely nerdy. She said she had only had sex in relationships before me, but had recently got out … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Which do you feel a woman values more?What kind of girls should guy #2 go for then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?That's fair and healthy but most wouldn't rather be alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?What if one didn't want to commit no matter what | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Which do you feel a woman values more?That's fair | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Perhaps | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:50 PM |
| 0 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Yeah, if I get 100 girls numbers, maybe 5 will actually try to get to know me, maybe 1 will actually be willing to take things further than just texting. I'm sure it's because they all have other options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?I have to try hard for any attention lol Asking out a bunch of girls, most don't even text back after the initial number getting. The few that do things never lead anywhere When I do hook up with a girl, she only wants to hook up, doesn't want a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:35 PM |
| 0 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Some men do, most or the women that have casual sex goes for those men, the majority aren't in that category and it's just tough. Not the end of the world though, but some will hiss and whine about it, me included. Doesn't change anything tho lol. I mean I've had some casual sex, but I'm average and have to tryhard to even be given the chance. It's just life and natural selection though. So many other things to focus on in life though, but sometimes I like to discuss love life etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:28 PM |
| -1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?It's because unlike women, most men can't easily get laid. So it's more so insecurities, and them being able to get laid or desired for sex is a boost in confidence and self esteem. It's why they feel being wanted for sex is being more valued. It stems from insecurity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 11:23 PM |
| 0 | Which do you feel a woman values more?You hit it right on the nail in my opinion. I think I agree with you atleast 90% Love it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?I said anyone can answer, also it wasn't to find out what they value as women are different from each other so the question can never fully be answered by anyone. It was more to see what men and women thought rather than what the truth is, their opinions and thoughts. You seem rather angry and bitter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 10:48 PM |
| 5 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Well tbh in most cases guy number one doesn't meet a genetic dead end, guy number 2 might end up having that fate himself by raising guy's number 1's kids in a relationship with the mom. So many different ways things can play out though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Fair point of view! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Interesting view point 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 09:22 PM |
| 5 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Nicely put, however I do disagree and think some guys fall in-between 1 and 2 often. There are guys who girls see conventionally attractive whom also would make good fathers and partners and would treat the girls right. They might not be the majority but aren't scarce | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?It's just a scenario, I said it doesn't cover everyone's situation or all cases. But maybe for one instance, maybe the guy could be physically attractive, but not daddy material (has kids already who he doesn't take care of) a girl told me she was hooking up with a guy like that but wouldn't date him for that very reason. Or The other reason( which is just one out of a million and doesn't cover all of them or all situations) maybe the girl wants to settle down, and she sees this guy as atleast s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 09:17 PM |
| 7 | Which do you feel a woman values more?True, well said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:51 PM |
| 2 | Which do you feel a woman values more?You've made a wonderful argument | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:48 PM |
| 0 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Very interesting point, you made a convincing argument, but the otherside also has a convincing argument. It's such a split topic tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Go into detail as what the clear difference is please | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:37 PM |
| 0 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Btw can you upvote the post, I think a white knight down voted it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Fair enough, hey can you upvote the post, I think a white knight down voted it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:30 PM |
| -1 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Very interesting point of view, I guess passing down genes doesn't really matter too much in the end | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Which do you feel a woman values more?Interesting, even in this scenario where Guy 1 doesn't pass down his genes, and Guy 2 does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:17 PM |
| 4 | Which do you feel a woman values more?That's my answer, but I'm asking for those who see it different to explain themselves. Because there are some people who have said otherwise, so I'm starting this discussion to understand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 08:16 PM |
| 3 | What made you willing to hook up?That's awesome! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 05:04 PM |
| 3 | What made you willing to hook up?Jesus, sorry to hear that, some people are jerks. Just know not all people are like that, maybe between 25%-40% so becareful of them, but don't lose faith in love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 04:16 PM |
| 3 | What made you willing to hook up?That's not your own stupidity, it was either a misunderstanding, or the guy deceived you, either way wasn't your fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 04:09 PM |
| 1 | What made you willing to hook up?Or worse, these guys are the boogey man themselves | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 02:45 AM |
| 4 | What made you willing to hook up?Exactly 💯 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/24 02:44 AM |
| -1 | What made you willing to hook up?Nah, that guy is reading far too into it. Guys might even have to decide wether or not they want to go through with sex with someone they find attractive but because they're other reasons they might be unsure about the person. Dude is either virtue signaling, or has some other unaddressed mental illness to be so offended about a simple question of "what made you decide to sleep with someone" He's adding a whole bunch if assumptions, and projecting hard, and reading too intensely on what I might … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 07:38 PM |
| 4 | What made you willing to hook up?You're reading far too into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 07:35 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who think women can get anything for free?Not trying to simp, but ma'am you are not ugly, not even close. You're beautiful, and shouldn't put yourself down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/23 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Women Ages 25-30 that are still in the dating scene, has anything changed with how you approach dating?Open relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Women Ages 25-30 that are still in the dating scene, has anything changed with how you approach dating?I feel that, the only reason I ever got with a 9 was dumb luck. She was having a hot girl summer some years ago. I told her I was a virgin (which was true) and she immediately changed from saying (if we fuck, to when we fuck) she came over, took my card when I was 21, and then yeah. The second girl I slept with was less attractive then the first, but still attractive. Me and her fooled around for like 2-3 years on and off. Was someone else short lived in-between that. Now I'm talking to a girl w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Women Ages 25-30 that are still in the dating scene, has anything changed with how you approach dating?Fair enough, I tend to be big on personality and then looks, and if she earns money that's an extra plus. I'm a 7/10 in looks 10/10 in everything else as far as finances and I think personality (I hope lol) Girls I get with range from 6-9 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Women Ages 25-30 that are still in the dating scene, has anything changed with how you approach dating?Grandparents had 7, my mom had me late asf so most of my siblings are way older than me, I'm closer in age to their kids than most of them. So that's why there are so many of us because some of my grandparents grandkids are grandparents and I'm literally 24 with 2nd cousins my age lol. My mom is most of their great aunt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Women Ages 25-30 that are still in the dating scene, has anything changed with how you approach dating?That's fair lol, my family is like completely different, all my siblings and nearly all my cousins wants kids. Just from my maternal grandparents descendants alone there's over 100 of us. Different strokes for different folks 😎 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Women Ages 25-30 that are still in the dating scene, has anything changed with how you approach dating?What do you consider better than average though if you don't mind me asking? You mention your social circles, is earnings a priority in your dating roster, or is it the career? How much weight does looks and personality hold for you personally? (Not judging, just different people have different values, I know some girls that don't care about looks at all and just personality, and vice versa, whatever you prioritize is your prerogative, I'm simply curious( | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 01:32 PM |
| 3 | Women Ages 25-30 that are still in the dating scene, has anything changed with how you approach dating?That's fair, it's a big decision but you are also a grown ass woman. Hope your family doesn't give you shit for it. Would you ever adopt, or all the way around just don't want to deal with kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/23 01:27 PM |
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