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Tbh it’s an empty life if all you think about is getting women. You won’t understand until you’re in the position, I do however hope you are one day so you’ll understand what I’m saying. To be in this position however you have to work on yourself, workout, drink lots of water, build new skills, get comfortable being uncomfortable those are the things that will make you more attractive to women. That alongside finding the hairstyles that work for you, upgrading your wardrobe and overall taking be…
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:30 AM
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21 year old here who's currently in a 7 months and going relationship. After learning the art of seduction I've seduced a lot of women sometimes without even being aware. It's a quite difficult thing to get over but my inner drive for a genuine connection and to settle down made it easy to knock the habit. I still see women who I find attractive but I don't chase them, I focus my sexual drive on my gf. For you, you'll have to figure out what's important to you is it the meaningless sex, a genuin…
/r/seduction23/07/16 04:59 PM
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Yeah, yes we are. -sighs- I can't give up on this girl, I care about her too much.
/r/seduction10/01/16 05:25 PM
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Yeah bro this I'll have to pm you about.
/r/seduction10/01/16 04:20 PM
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I most definitely can. Won't see her tomorrow so I told her that if I don't see her today I'll call her tonight and talk about a few things.
/r/seduction09/01/16 06:29 PM
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Bro do whatever makes you feel comfortable. Just be free about it and honest about your desires, if you wanna bone her just let her know.
/r/seduction09/01/16 04:01 PM
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Winging has always been my thing. Thank you so much for your help I feel great knowing some stranger out there takes time out of their day to help someone else with a problem.
/r/seduction09/01/16 03:52 PM
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Sure man, I'm all ears.
/r/seduction09/01/16 02:47 PM
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I'm thinking to get her back but this time it should be different if she can't communicate with me I might as well just do what I need to.
/r/seduction09/01/16 12:42 PM
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Saw her yesterday when I went by my university I ignored her and didn't even look her way cause I wouldn't even know what to say. Last night she called for a few and asked why I was being so distant so I told her that she said she needed her space so, then she wanted to know if I had anything to say to her to which I basically gave her the cold shoulder.
/r/seduction09/01/16 12:13 PM
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Lol I synthesize information and pick out what's useful and what isn't. So I don't just make rushed decisions.
/r/seduction09/01/16 02:32 AM
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I feel you on every level. I understand what you're saying so much and I can relate to what you said. I agree the time off thing is bs but to be honest man as much as I love her I'm really not gonna let her walk over me again. If she does come back around things will be different in every aspect.
/r/seduction08/01/16 09:15 PM
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I swear you're a life saver man and you've opened my eyes a lot. I appreciate you sharing your wisdom with me.
/r/seduction08/01/16 06:21 PM
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Bro I just read your message and man you're right. I got the whole showing emotions thing messed up lol I thought it would mean saying how you feel constantly and reassuring her everyday. Boy was I wrong.
/r/seduction08/01/16 03:43 PM
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Lol yo when you said that Logic- contact just started to play in my head.
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:28 PM
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You're right.... I can't just give up like that. At the same time I have to also have an honest talk with myself about what it is that I also want.
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:12 PM
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Sighs you have some solid points bro and to be honest I'd like to discuss the full story with you. Pm?
/r/seduction07/01/16 05:57 PM
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I understand. Sad to know that you'll have to go through heartbreak after heartbreak each one changing you in different ways before you can finally find the strength and courage to go back there again without certainty it will all workout.
/r/seduction07/01/16 05:36 PM
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Lol I've browsed their before and it's like a sea of mostly bitter people. But you sound like someone I can level with and to be honest what you said about the buffer thing was what I was actually thinking.... Sighs it's painful to think that I can potentially lose her just like that.
/r/seduction07/01/16 05:07 PM
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You're right about the last part.... How do I cross post this to r/relationships ?
/r/seduction07/01/16 04:41 PM
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Get the fuck over here man that was epic
/r/seduction21/12/15 12:19 AM
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No prob bro hit me up if you need any more advice.
/r/seduction21/11/15 06:30 PM
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If you're a natural don't mess your game up with pickup, stay away from it.
/r/seduction21/11/15 06:08 PM
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Alright bro the first thing you can do to change up your look is change your hairstyle with your description of yourself I can tell you're the same height as me which probably equates to you having the same size head. Look at MGK's new hairstyle and try that one out and tell me how it goes.
/r/seduction21/11/15 06:07 PM
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Bro I too learnt The Game and it has ruined my life in a few ways mentioned by you. 1. Yes it makes you feel powerful and makes you feel all macho but it ruins your outlook on women (as you pointed out). 2. It makes me overthink simple interactions with women. I'll constantly wonder if she means what she says etc. 3. It makes you manipulative and vindictive. (That's why the guys hate you). The goal is to be more sociable and more liked, not by women but also men. This will widen your social circ…
/r/seduction21/11/15 05:58 PM
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Well that was a pretty epic report. Btw do you mind sharing what kind of bike you have?
/r/seduction09/07/15 08:22 PM
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Your determination is admirable. I wish I was strong like you were in order to beat an addiction I have.
/r/seduction30/06/15 01:46 AM
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Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction10/01/15 01:56 AM
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Lmao I guess you could say that.
/r/seduction31/12/14 03:32 PM
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Lmao y'all are something else
/r/seduction28/12/14 06:03 PM
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What kind of pic were you expecting?
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:23 PM
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Lmao
/r/seduction28/12/14 02:58 AM
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It works to occupy your time otherwise sometimes.
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:00 AM
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The pic isn't loading :/
/r/seduction28/12/14 12:00 AM
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Lol gracias
/r/seduction27/12/14 11:33 PM
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I think she does also lol
/r/seduction27/12/14 11:33 PM
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This reminds me of the time my friends gf was trying to seduce me. You did great bro I'm glad you thought about the aftermath and not just the present.
/r/seduction27/12/14 09:44 PM
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It surprised me too when I saw it, thanks bro :)
/r/seduction27/12/14 09:37 PM
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It's a one way ticket to the friendzone if you haven't made a move before.
/r/seduction27/12/14 09:33 PM
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Maybe you were too smooth for her.... A girl once mentioned this to me saying I was too smooth for her so she couldn't figure my intentions out. -shrugs- maybe that's what happened, don't sweat it you'll be fine bro.
/r/seduction27/12/14 08:34 PM
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You are most definitely right bro, I've realized that getting good at "gaming" as seriously messed with my way of thinking. I find far easier to cut women off without a care even if we were really close, it's messed up and I realized that. If you guys watched The Expendables 3 you'd know what I'm talking about, there's a scene where Stallone said something about living a life that pushes people away. The pickup life is like that sometimes. Think about it, we learn so much and apply them that we …
/r/seduction26/12/14 02:57 PM
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Discouraging it.
/r/seduction14/12/14 01:14 AM
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I get you bro, avoid porn if you can it's a drive killer
/r/seduction14/12/14 01:13 AM
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But you did in the past right? That could account for the emptiness you feel right now. I was big on seduction also.
/r/seduction13/12/14 05:51 PM
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Have you been masturbating a lot lately?
/r/seduction13/12/14 04:52 PM
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Yes we need to avoid that kind of negativity or else we'll be consumed by it.
/r/seduction13/12/14 03:27 PM
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I was in the same boat as you just a few weeks ago. The girl seemed interested (kino, smiled a lot, always came around me etc.) the problem was she had a "bf" who didn't seem like he was interested in her at all (quite frankly I think he only wanted sex from her and he wasn't getting it or probably got it so his demeanor changed.) I read her signs as her being interested and I tried to go for a kiss and then things got very awkward between us (she barely returns messages, always has some excuse)…
/r/seduction12/12/14 02:17 PM
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When we masturbate we lose zinc and it makes us feel lethargic and makes us not feel our natural sex drive as we've already "satisfied" our sexual needs.
/r/seduction12/12/14 03:37 AM
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One thing you did wrong in addition to your list is watching porn before you went out. If you want me to explain why I will.
/r/seduction11/12/14 03:58 PM
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Thanks :)
/r/seduction05/12/14 12:31 AM
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Yeah I agree it's a bit scattered. I will rewrite it, it's a bit of a continuum of previous posts though.
/r/seduction04/12/14 06:23 PM
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Sorry about that my brain was kind of jumbled when writing all this, how about I do a TDLR?
/r/seduction04/12/14 02:33 PM
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However I have updated it :)
/r/seduction03/12/14 11:28 PM
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Sorry about that I was highly distracted by emotions and people around me when writing it.
/r/seduction03/12/14 11:14 PM
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Bro, you sound similar to me. What you need to do is approach, fail and get rid of your comfort zone.
/r/seduction03/12/14 10:00 PM
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Huh?
/r/seduction03/12/14 09:02 PM
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It depends on around who, some people would love to hear about these shortcomings to tear you down, while others will to help build you and connect with you.
/r/seduction30/11/14 09:25 PM
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When girls ask me where I'm from, I say, " Here, there and everywhere."
/r/seduction30/11/14 01:57 PM
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I've been there bro, I'm a Psychology student. Just hang in there man, it will get better. Don't overplay the confidence thing. If you really want to connect with your fellow med students or pickup med girls just be honest about how you feel (regarding you feeling overworked). People can associate better with you when they see that you have flaws and shortcomings just like them, rather than if you try to be perfect.
/r/seduction30/11/14 01:54 PM
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I probably would talk to her but I really wouldn't be too invested in her.
/r/seduction30/11/14 01:45 PM
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I'm in the very same position at the moment. The only difference is that the girl I'm talking to bf is one of those player types and he doesn't pay her any attention.
/r/seduction30/11/14 01:42 PM
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For education and to feed my curiosity.
/r/seduction30/11/14 02:32 AM
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I do have her interest, I'm sure of that. The signs are there.
/r/seduction30/11/14 01:29 AM
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Lol she figured out she liked me when I was scarce and moving on with my life.
/r/seduction29/11/14 03:21 PM
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I get you, I've been in that situation before. I'm somewhat still in one where the girl I was pursuing wasn't interested, talked about other guys before me etc. and it really hurt my feelings. Now she's begging for my attention continuously texting me and trying to push sexual conversations when I told her I can't be involved with her. Frankly she's even using the guise of wanting to be friends so we can talk. Then she'll start with sexual stuff.
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:36 PM
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I'm 19, I think you guys read that in the wrong way. I was asking that because I have grabbed her ass before and played with her waist in a rather sexual way and she didn't push me away or anything. Frankly she was playing in my hair when I was doing all that.
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:09 PM
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I gotta try this
/r/seduction29/11/14 02:07 PM
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I wish I did too. Sometimes you can bring it out of them with a few thought provoking questions.
/r/seduction29/11/14 12:01 PM
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But Internet Explorer doesn't have much to lose.
/r/seduction29/11/14 11:59 AM
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Yeah, like how some guys would insult a girl if she's not interested.
/r/seduction29/11/14 11:58 AM
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Lol solid point. I've escaped the dreaded "friendzone" before.
/r/seduction29/11/14 11:57 AM
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I get you bro.
/r/seduction29/11/14 11:56 AM
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Lol that's true
/r/seduction29/11/14 11:55 AM
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Noted. Thanks for the advice bro.
/r/seduction29/11/14 11:54 AM
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I mean without telling them lol but I'm not afraid so I probably might. Also if I was in the friendzone I wouldn't be able to grab her ass and stuff like that wouldn't I?
/r/seduction29/11/14 11:49 AM
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That's true bro, thanks for your advice
/r/seduction29/11/14 12:40 AM
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That's how it went with me too. So far models is all about being a better you without having to resort to the lines, peacocking and all that. It also has focus on being open and "vulnerable" meaning you can openly express how you feel in an healthy not needy way.
/r/seduction28/11/14 09:06 PM
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I'm with you on that bro, I started with Cocky Funny, then the Game theories, then I'm in the process of reading Models by Mark Manson. The theories of the Game are a bit more focused on outer game (Using routines etc.) while Models is on inner game (being confident with yourself). The best approach in my opinion, for our generation is the models method.
/r/seduction28/11/14 11:55 AM
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You could continue kino and use a line like, " See I told you pretty girls make me nervous." Or show her your hands and say, " Do all guys get this way around you?"
/r/seduction28/11/14 11:40 AM
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I just replace them with more interesting people -shrugs-. If I send a girl a message and she reads it and doesn't reply I don't send her another one I just let her do her thing and continue talking to other people.
/r/seduction28/11/14 11:38 AM
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Interesting, I'm going to try this today and see if I get the results I'm looking for. Thanks bro.
/r/seduction28/11/14 11:32 AM
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Lol I've been in the game for quite a while now, left it when I got depressed. I know I have a few Nice guy ways but believe me I make sure a girl is interested in me before I even make a move. Yesterday I was there for her because last week she was there for me when I was feeling down (i had a really bad day).
/r/seduction28/11/14 02:41 AM
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Thanks bro, I did that today and yesterday. She was having an headache yesterday and I went to her class after school and made her feel better. Even her friends said they know who to call next time she's feeling like that.
/r/seduction27/11/14 11:44 PM
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Lmao yeah that was crazy bro
/r/seduction26/11/14 11:35 AM
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I'm not a bad looking guy, I just had low self esteem so I basically started with Internet gaming then went on from there.
/r/seduction26/11/14 12:25 AM
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If this wasn't serious I'd be laughing like fck right now
/r/seduction26/11/14 12:23 AM
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Thanks bro you are right. I do experience a bit of guilt. It's from the whole "Nice Guy" thing and I will go for it, if I lose so be it I'm no longer going to be a little punk!!
/r/seduction25/11/14 06:08 PM
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Thanks bro, I've lost too much bro not gonna let anything get in my way this time.
/r/seduction25/11/14 06:05 PM
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I was interested till she went all melodramatic for no reason.
/r/seduction22/11/14 02:04 PM
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Bro I could fist bump you right now xD yeah I've read it, it's a very interesting book and yeah i was also a nice guy. I need to reread that book but I'm currently reading Models. I do tell her how I feel you know, I even told her that I was tired that evening that's why i wasn't 100% into the convo. Shit I even told her everything I did that made me tired -_-
/r/seduction21/11/14 12:10 PM
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I do look for the good in them, the thing is they do the same to me at times but I know it's because of something I said. However it's not like I'm being controlling, I just don't like drama or unnecessary quarrels and attitudes you know.
/r/seduction20/11/14 01:22 AM
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No you didn't really fuck up, sometimes girls just wanna have fun . You see girls are funny maybe she was just using you to have sex and fill a void or maybe you seemed a bit needy with your willingness to change plans and constantly ask her to meet up or maybe you just didn't or couldn't fill her core needs and she met a guy who could. I once had a girl that even though she had a bf she still sent me seductive pics and talked sexual. To me they seem to like adventure and trying new things shrug…
/r/seduction15/11/14 07:57 PM
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I've had a friends girl (they are still together) give me clear signs of wanting to do stuff with me. She sat in my lap touched my dick with her feet when I was sitting etc. if he wasn't my friend I would have gave in to her temptation but I told her straight up that he cares about her and she cares about him and I can't do that to him.
/r/seduction15/11/14 07:14 PM
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Having low sex drive basically. You know how normally you'd feel a natural desire to talk and interact with women? Having a low libido makes you lack that drive.
/r/seduction06/11/14 01:59 PM
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I'm in that same position bro, the thing is I can easily trigger attraction in women the problem is we suffer from low libido because of our porn usage and masturbating. Join the brotherhood for support, /r/Nofap
/r/seduction06/11/14 03:18 AM
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Lol for real this post is funny
/r/seduction05/11/14 10:30 PM
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Exactly bro be mysterious and promote Good vibes
/r/seduction05/11/14 05:49 PM
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Just have a positive mindset. Start by saying I will have a great day and a good conversation regardless of how this goes, I will learn from it.
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:53 PM
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How to handle it? Just do you bro if you know that you're not a man whore it shouldn't matter what anyone else thinks of you.
/r/seduction05/11/14 02:48 PM
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It boils down to if you masturbate with or without porn? Sounds to me like you got ED bro or you're overstimulated from porn. I'd say give it a month without masturbating (I know it will be hard but give it a try). Also if you find yourself fantasizing in bed when you're having sex with her you could be addicted to it. From "a not so addicted" Fapstronaut
/r/seduction05/11/14 12:13 PM
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I didn't say they were disloyal. I'm just saying they'll be more into you when they know less about you. My main goal isn't attention, frankly I don't like unnecessary attention. If I wanted attention I wouldn't have been observing I would have jumped in the convo and stole his moment. My main goal is to be the best me possible, get rid of all negativity in my mind, become as social and less bitter to the world like I used to be, enjoy life and have no rejects as each mistake is a stepping stone…
/r/seduction05/11/14 04:13 AM
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It will she seems desperate in that she told 2 other guys in my school that she likes them and they are all my friends.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:09 PM
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I've given her the bad body language (Not looking at her when I talk, not looking her way, positioning my body away from her when she comes to talk, the attitude etc.) Seems like she just tries harder.
/r/seduction03/11/14 03:14 PM
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Lol I was never into her bro, I know it's the best thing to do (completely cut her out of my life) but I'd have to have a good reason as it would be somewhat unavoidable (she got my number from a friend in class).
/r/seduction03/11/14 03:04 PM
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I have to see her everyday for the next 3 years so that would be a bit outta the picture.
/r/seduction03/11/14 02:51 PM
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Hell yeah!!! Lol avoid getting a boner though.
/r/seduction03/11/14 02:46 PM
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Lol I'm the type of guy that grabs the girls asses in my class and they don't protest because they know that's how I am.
/r/seduction03/11/14 05:03 AM
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Yeah and they become so clingy and you feel guilty trying to flirt or talk to other girls cause you feel bad for them.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:26 AM
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That's true bro lol now I know what it feels like to reject the girl I don't want.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:19 AM
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Yup once then I heard that she likes me, then she added me on Facebook and basically started messaging me.
/r/seduction03/11/14 04:18 AM
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I hope she doesn't have one. We. Only spoke once so I doubt she has an obsession, but considering how crazy some women can get she might just have one.
/r/seduction03/11/14 01:27 AM
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I know bro, it's all apart of the Game though. I now have an idea of how girls feel when they have to let down a guy.
/r/seduction03/11/14 12:23 AM
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I know bro -sighs- but you know how society is. Even when you do your best not to hurt a girl's feelings you're automatically seen as the bad guy because you don't like her. Smh
/r/seduction02/11/14 11:45 PM
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Lol I've heard about it.
/r/seduction02/11/14 11:09 PM
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Thank you so much bro. And I'll work that angle with what you recommended tomorrow when/if I see her. Thanks again bro!!
/r/seduction02/11/14 11:08 PM
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Bro that is golden I wish you'd have commented before I even sent her a reply.
/r/seduction02/11/14 11:00 PM
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I'm saying bro, sounds like some Red Pill ish.
/r/seduction02/11/14 10:58 PM
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I replied to her asking me if I like her I said,"Honestly no I don't and I don't say this in a harsh way." And one of my friends just out of the blue texted me saying, "seriously". Smh
/r/seduction02/11/14 10:53 PM
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Sorry bro that response wasn't directed to you, I accidentally posted it under your comment. I understand where you are coming from with the whole fuck you mentality.
/r/seduction02/11/14 10:34 PM
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You seem bitter dude, women aren't the enemy and no matter how much bullshit we go through with them it doesn't mean we should deliberately hurt them.
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:43 PM
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Sounds like you're just a "texting buddy" and not someone she would want to actually invest time otherwise in. Sorry bro, just move one.
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:37 PM
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Op isn't thinking of women as retards he's just psychologically maneuvering the situation, you know like how in public speaking they'll say think of your audience in their underwear if you're nervous? That's a somewhat similar strategy.
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:33 PM
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That's exactly what I'm trying to do bro, she's trying to psychologically force me into a position where I'll feel bad if I say no and that's why I came to people like you for help. Thanks for your advice bro! I appreciate it.
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:26 PM
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What?!
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:24 PM
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"Just score her multiple times"? Bro are you saying I should have sex with her multiple times? Just so I could mess up and she'll leave me? Seems like you really didn't get what I'm saying so let me make it clear. I'm not attracted to her, neither in a sexual way nor a physical way. I would not just have sex with her as we share no connection whatever and because she "likes" me as they say and she says and I don't like her I just want to let her down easily, as I have another girl in my class I'…
/r/seduction02/11/14 09:23 PM
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Dude you sound just like me lol, in class and outside of class I make sexual comments and sexual jokes with all the girls, I grab their asses, touch their stomach, rub them etc and I've been touching them since I came to school last semester so they aren't weirded out by it. Lol the downside is that you'll have a hard time getting with them if you like one of them as they'll think you are just a flirt and think you'll do that with every girl.
/r/seduction28/10/14 05:04 PM
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That's true bro, also in my country if you smile all the time you'll be an easy target for robbers but I'll keep a joke at the back of my mind.
/r/seduction28/10/14 04:51 PM
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Say for example in your country women just genuinely hate a certain behavior and you do it you'll never get through to them. Because they have been socialized by society just to hate that behavior and get turned off by it.
/r/seduction28/10/14 04:48 PM
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Just talk to them. Like you'd talk to any other person, talk to them like you are a buyer and they are attending to you. Engage them in intellectual conversations sometimes, make a few friends just get to know them.
/r/seduction28/10/14 04:41 PM
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The age old truth that we still fail to grasp.
/r/seduction28/10/14 04:37 PM
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I kind of agree with you to an extent. See the problem may be that he's more inclined to be relaxed around his friends and he is not so relaxed around women so it seems like he's being fake but give him time and experience and he'll be good. Lol I also haven't had sex in like 2 years and no one seems to believe me.
/r/seduction28/10/14 04:29 PM
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I'm Jamaican and I can apply it. You see the game is like this, you take it, apply it and fine tune it to apply to you, your country or the culture you are in. It's not country specific.
/r/seduction28/10/14 03:30 PM
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You sir.... You are my spirit animal
/r/seduction28/10/14 03:24 PM
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That's my problem right there, I still have traces of the old mentality of the game in my head.
/r/seduction17/10/14 03:18 PM
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I agree also Good Cologne is the best way to go I've collected quite a collection.
/r/seduction17/10/14 08:28 AM
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Well I'm also a mixed black guy. My day's side is Scottish and my mom's Panamanians and I'm Jamaican. I'm not a bad looking guy (Women say I'm handsome everyday) and when girls I've never talked to say they like me and want a relationship with me, I get rather annoyed and say,"You don't even know me nor do I know you." This makes running game seem like a waste of time to me and makes me feel a bit empty. Just like OP said I feel like I'm merely a sex object. I work my own money and I'm independe…
/r/seduction17/10/14 08:18 AM
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Thanks for the recommendations bro. Funny you should mention NoFap lol fellow Fapstronaut here bro. The hobby part is a bit rough as when I get home I get tired and just watch a movie and sleep but I will look into that. I used to workout but I got lazy again as I'm always tired when I get home. Flirting with girls isn't a problem for me it's escalating and taking them back to my place is. I'm somewhat afraid of them thinking I'm a perv or something like that. I'm trying to rid of that mindset t…
/r/seduction17/10/14 08:04 AM
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My point is that I have 8 problems and I need help with them.
/r/seduction17/10/14 01:58 AM
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Story of my life bro, story of my life. Going through the same thing you are going through.
/r/seduction16/10/14 08:41 PM
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Thank you bro, I'm just trying to find the best way to tell him you know and I'm just looking for solid advice and a way to get it off my conscience.
/r/seduction13/10/14 02:37 PM
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Grammar or format of the text? Lol sorry I was trying to get it all out quickly.
/r/seduction13/10/14 02:28 PM
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Bro it's conflicting I didn't know how to explain it straight to the point as I thought all information was needed.
/r/seduction11/10/14 06:06 PM
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Thanks for telling m that bro saved me a few dollars lol
/r/seduction08/10/14 03:32 PM
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When did it come out?
/r/seduction05/10/14 01:28 PM
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Maybe you have one but don't even realize.
/r/seduction05/10/14 02:27 AM
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That's true, thanks. I tend to jumble my thoughts up when writing on here, I'm like what do I say etc. but hey it's all part of the self improvement game bro
/r/seduction05/10/14 01:59 AM
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Naa not Kingston
/r/seduction05/10/14 01:58 AM
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Yeah I do.
/r/seduction04/10/14 09:47 PM
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And I'm Jamaican and those are my major problems lol
/r/seduction04/10/14 08:13 PM
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Yeah sure we could be buds I have no prob with that.
/r/seduction04/10/14 02:15 PM
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Oh sorry I was just trying to get the thoughts out first then I'd explain it in the comment section. I need help with getting back into seduction, help with being positive and thinking before I let my anger seep out. I know you can never always have the right words to say but at one point I had 97% of the right things to say. Also this is crazy but I've became more of an introvert over the past few years and i want to be more of an extrovert now, if you get what I mean.
/r/seduction04/10/14 02:14 PM
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Naa I meant Parallax lol Although I was going to run with paradox but here's the definition of Parallax that I ran with to make this post, "The effect whereby the position or direction of an object appears to differ when viewed from different positions." Which I'm basically saying is that the perspective of me people have is different from the one I have of myself.
/r/seduction04/10/14 02:11 PM
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Naa not America, Jamaica and it's basically the same with GPA's 4.0 is the highest and I'm at 3.63. Also I say it's a parallax because here's the definition according to Oxford, "The effect whereby the position or direction of an object appears to differ when viewed from different positions." So basically if you view my situation from the outside you'd say I have it good and I'm having a lot of sex and girls flocking me etc. But that's not necessarily the case.
/r/seduction04/10/14 02:09 PM
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Yeah... I was really into her too but hey that's life. Plus she moved a 100 or so miles away from me and we hardly if ever speak anymore.
/r/seduction04/10/14 04:04 AM
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I was in that situation before but the thing is I knew both girls and her friend hinted at a few possibilities between me and my date but I blew it (I jokingly said she looked old) that fucked it all up for me. I can guide you with tips.
/r/seduction04/10/14 03:19 AM
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Approach Anxiety I'm guessing
/r/seduction20/09/14 06:48 PM
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Fucking dope we could learn a lot from this kid he's a natural
/r/seduction20/09/14 06:24 PM
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The problem with that is that you showed a lot of interest way too fast. Think of it this way you're a Guy model a lot of girls drool over you and some girl you don't know asks you for your number without much attraction or even convo would you give her your number when you have other girls who are drooling over you? Or would you want to connect with her more to actually see if she's worth investing in? The Facebook thing isn't a complete blow off but it is a form of it, now if she adds you make…
/r/seduction12/09/14 09:04 PM
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"You must jerk off a lot, huh?" That line is golden dude I can't stop laughing lol
/r/seduction12/09/14 08:35 PM
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Since you guys are acquainted and share a similar interest you could all meet up and go sarging together.
/r/seduction09/09/14 04:33 PM
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The first step is not to put her on a pedestal. You should also not get over excited for this.
/r/seduction09/09/14 04:07 PM
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Lol I figured and you're welcome
/r/seduction04/09/14 04:26 PM
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If you're talking to me you're welcome
/r/seduction04/09/14 04:38 AM
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I just typed a quite detailed post and my Internet connection messed it up smh. Basically what I was saying is that porn makes you feel lazy or less motivated to deal with the real world as we develop fantasies and fetishes that porn can create. We'd be less interest in real life women and more interested in "pixelated women" as we can easily "pickup" any kind of women we want easily (pun intended). That means we can easily jack off to whatever ethnicity of women we find attractive. It also give…
/r/seduction04/09/14 02:03 AM
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That's a solid point bro that's all I'm really seeing on here in say 90% of the posts it's all about story telling as opposed to giving real advice and teaching solid game but to each his own. I for one learn better on my own rather than stories.
/r/seduction03/09/14 09:30 PM
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No prob man just improve
/r/seduction03/09/14 09:25 PM
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That's true bro most of solid game comes from not giving a fuck about the outcome though.
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:50 PM
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Bro you learn real game by practicing that's how the real stars are born. I'll suggest you read : Magical Tactics, The Game, Tao of Badass, The Layguide I can't remember the rest right now but start with the Magical Tactics that will give you the basics and a few advanced tactics to use then proceed to the Game.
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:49 PM
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Fellow Fapstronaut?
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:43 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you bro (I'm an introvert) I was good at the game then I just messed up my confidence and now the mere thought of an approach makes me anxious and nervous. We'll get through this bro :)
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:41 PM
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I have one question for you OP... Do you watch porn? This may sound weird to you but if you answer I'll tell you exactly why I asked.
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:37 PM
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Don't avoid those questions, avoiding them is like saying you aren't proud of what you've accomplished and coming from someone who is taking steps on quitting his "addiction" to porn this is pretty solid advice. By talking about it you'll change the whole mood of the convo to something that's more of a sad tone. I'd look at my hands, then look at her with a smile and say, These scars? Hey there's actually a very interesting story to how I got these, something like a Phoenix rising from the ashes…
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:30 PM
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What I do is not ignore the feeling of being horny but rather to accept it. Say for example I feel horny or I find myself lusting after a pretty girl I just saw I'll instantly focus on the thought, ask myself why I feel aroused then proceed to saying these words to myself, "I'll think about this later" then bam I'm back to reality. I hope this helps you.
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:23 PM
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Being cocky funny in some retrospect does not work on some girls, it makes you come off as cocky and most girls don't like that. Also one other thing teasing..... I told a girl that she looks old as a joke I was into her and all and she said I was an asshole and that fucked up my date.... I didn't get a kiss or anything and she's off to College now...
/r/seduction03/09/14 08:04 PM
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Parri yo done know how it guh lol once yo have a car yo ting seal. It's easy to run game enuh but not so easy on certain types of women.
/r/seduction31/08/14 04:45 AM
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Yeah mi thugz mi feel yo bredda. It's rough not having a car bro, I would have been to beaches at night and all sorts of clubs if I had a ride.
/r/seduction31/08/14 01:32 AM
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Ha ha ha I'm already a Fapstronaut 😏
/r/seduction30/08/14 07:22 PM
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Sorry for the formatting guys, using my iPhone and I've tried my best to make the paragraphs distinguishing.
/r/seduction30/08/14 06:21 PM
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Pipe down Moesha, that wasn't an assumption. I was just merely stating the obvious.
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:45 AM
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We don't own women, they aren't obligated to us.
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:39 AM
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I've been realizing the same thing... I need to go out and meet new people for real.
/r/seduction29/08/14 12:29 AM
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Inspiring
/r/seduction23/08/14 06:16 PM
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Looks like OP has a thing for them white girls lol
/r/seduction22/08/14 02:11 PM
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Great post man, it's on point and true. What got me thinking and reflecting though is the line about how "people don't like shy and isolated people" that reigns true in every aspect of life.
/r/seduction21/08/14 09:04 PM
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He had a dose of oneitis, it happens to all of us.
/r/seduction21/08/14 09:03 PM
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That's true bro, * it's rough it's tough it's a fight alright* but I always go in swinging even if I miss at least I put up a fight right? And the only aspect apart from pickup that needs work for me is my music. I've been lost ever since I lost my deal.
/r/seduction19/08/14 08:03 PM
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I started off at about 15 so I was young when I started and yeah getting into a relationship messed up my game too. I've been trying to get back my game ever since.
/r/seduction19/08/14 07:07 PM
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Oh yeah I'll cry like a bitch every 3 years lmao just letting it all out and when I'm done, I'm invincible
/r/seduction19/08/14 06:12 PM
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Yeah I'm light years ahead but I wanna stay light years ahead lol. Nothing lasts forever bro and when you continuously improve on what you're weak at you'll become a stronger person overall.
/r/seduction19/08/14 04:27 PM
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Thank you bro just had to say it.
/r/seduction19/08/14 06:30 AM
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It might also be a shit test think about it if she controls the whole interaction you're basically just going to be a push over to her. The key is to be in control of yourself and not to let her gain the role of being in control.
/r/seduction14/08/14 05:05 PM
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Lol already have, this video is for the guys who think they are nice guys when they actually aren't.
/r/seduction08/08/14 04:37 PM
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Oh cool thanks
/r/seduction07/08/14 07:32 PM
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This is totally unrelated but I've been here about logistics for a while now on this sub and I'm wondering wtf is logistics?
/r/seduction07/08/14 06:53 PM
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I've been approached by women quite a few times. Some online and some in person. I went to a party with my cousin once and there was this pretty dark skinned girl with nice hair, a beautiful smile and skin to match, as soon as I stepped into the party she hugged me (she was a friend of my cousin) girls just walked up to me and grinded on me and gave me lap dances lol I felt like a king (I'm Jamaican and not bad looking) so yeah you know girls love the accent lol. When I went home she texted me s…
/r/seduction07/08/14 06:08 PM
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Regardless of if we know it or not us "nice guys" are actually very manipulative in a subconscious way
/r/seduction07/08/14 04:58 PM
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Sounds like someone has been reading No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover
/r/seduction07/08/14 04:57 PM
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Maybe OP was the dude.
/r/seduction30/07/14 07:44 PM
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The best way is to just tell her like it is, You can do it like I do and just straight up say " I don't feel like texting all day"
/r/seduction30/07/14 07:33 PM
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Dude you're not underage lol you're 19. You're my age, lol when I was 18 this girl used to say I'm too young for her as a matter of fact two of them used to say it. One was 19 the other 20, I ended up kissing and fingering the 19 year old at school in the girl's bathroom and ended up fingering, making out and almost having sex with the 20 year old at her house lol. Don't let the you're too young talk mess with your game bro, you got this 😁. Good luck
/r/seduction30/07/14 05:34 PM
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That comment was awesome bro thank you for your insight. What you said is true I keep comparing my life to those of celebs and the guys who always get the girls you know and then I feel all inferior and think of ways to be "so interesting".
/r/seduction29/07/14 09:36 PM
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Nice quote bro lol
/r/seduction29/07/14 06:14 PM
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I for one I'm always well dressed, I use good colognes (Issey Miyake, Gucci etc.), I use to read a lot (close to if not more than a thousand books), I'm a writer and poet, singer, I rap also a dog lover (I have 4 dogs now) amongst other things
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:11 PM
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You can get it off a torrent site
/r/seduction29/07/14 11:58 AM
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Yup as a matter of fact I have a copy of it
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:05 AM
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Don't be a social robot bro... Not everything a girl does reflects pickup
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:00 AM
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Thanks bro :)
/r/seduction23/07/14 04:12 PM
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Thanks bro and I will
/r/seduction23/07/14 11:52 AM
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Lol that's true bro, I'm a good listener. Girls tell me I have a great memory cause I'll remember things they told me a year or two back, but it's just how our society is now with technology it's a bit harder to have a convo with a girl as she has many guys hitting her up daily. So I'm working on standing out again, being so interesting she'll text first.
/r/seduction21/07/14 12:05 PM
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Thanks bro and I'm an avid reader lol I've read nearly if not more than a thousand books already and I'm going to check out Ted talks. Thanks again.
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:29 AM
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You could tell her the truth, tell her you were tipsy or you could just tell her the truth and man up.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:14 PM
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Confidence leaves no room for worrying. If you want to seem confident act confident, worrying about coming off as creepy will mess with your mind. If you want to put your arms around her then go right ahead and do it if she responds negatively tell her that that's just how you are, you're naturally a touchy (feely) kind of person.
/r/seduction19/07/14 05:10 PM
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Here's what you do... Get a pack of gum, a pen and a ledger or whatever kind of book you can get your hands on and hit the club solo. You'll feel a bit weird at first but you'll be damn well happy when you think about it and say I did this by myself. So go out have fun and just don't think about bringing a girl home have some genuine fun bro.
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:53 AM
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True there are girls that get weirded out by a guy showing interest in them maybe by you giving her a compliment she felt weird so she's trying to change the subject.
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:50 AM
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The first step is to stop thinking about bonding and just talk to the girl and focus on what she's saying.
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:38 AM
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Whenever a girl asks me where am i from,I just say "here,there and everywhere." Or if you want you could tell them a really cool story about where you are from. You could even say it like this for example, " I'm from an island where the light blue sea kisses miles and miles of white sand, I'm from a place where beauty is barely a sufficient adjective to describe anything at all, I'm from a place where dreams don't come true but hope lives, I'm from a place where relationships last and love is al…
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:30 AM
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Ehhhh... Not so accurate bro lool. When they told me that I weeded them out and selected the girl I thought was right for me at that time.
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:18 AM
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Lol that happens a lot bro, the whole romantic thing I see it almost everyday. Girls say they want an "Augustus Waters" yet when you say you want to cuddle they get weirded out.
/r/seduction19/07/14 02:08 AM
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Lol Average Frustrated Chump... Didn't you read The Game?
/r/seduction19/07/14 01:44 AM
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My biggest wake up moments... I did a lot for girls and realized that they valued a guy who'd do little or nothing for them more than they valued me. When I did an experiment and completely changed my attitude and mentality to being an asshole who didn't give a shit... I had 15 potential girlfriends that time (15 girls told me they liked me). I was like wtf? Yet when I was nice they didn't give a shit about me. When I constantly got friendzoned for being "too nice" Also when a girl told me I was…
/r/seduction19/07/14 01:15 AM
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By asking her if she had a boyfriend directly you instantly showed you were interested in her and depending on how you came to that topic you might have spooked her (weirded her out) so she started talking to someone else. If you want to know if a girl has a bf you need to talk to her then slowly transition yourself into that question. For example you could say, " It seems like most of the good girls I know are either taken or just don't believe in relationships anymore, What's your take on that…
/r/seduction18/07/14 02:11 PM
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Can we get a slow clap going for this guy? 👏👏 Life happens when we seize the moment and this is proof of that. Congrats on your 4 months with her bro.
/r/seduction17/07/14 11:46 PM
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Lol that's so cool I'd pull something like that
/r/seduction17/07/14 05:40 PM
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The problem is you need to self improve getting women in your bed isn't enough to make you feel like a man you also need to build yourself as a brand and market yourself dress more stylish, learn a different language, learn to dance etc. on the style aspect I got you here are two of my favorite websites for clothes you can't go wrong with them... Asos.com and H&M.com .... Good luck
/r/seduction17/07/14 05:07 PM
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I have that book on my phone and laptop haven't gotten around to reading it as yet been so busy lately. And thanks bro, will do
/r/seduction17/07/14 02:10 PM
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Dude.... That was fucking awesome planning bro, you deserve a pat on the back for that. The thing is even though you had a really great date you are suffering from her still having feelings for her ex. Even though you want a date 2 I suggest you give her massive space or you'll just be the rebound guy that she comes to only when things aren't going so well with her ex. Don't be discouraged though but however don't place all your faith in her, still talk to other girls and you kinda showed too mu…
/r/seduction17/07/14 02:05 PM
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Challenge accepted bro 😏 and oh believe me I will pursue another girl for the time being then see how it goes.
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:50 PM
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Yeah that's true bro, we've always been arguing and stuff in the past but when we do have a convo it goes good and she's an amazing girl and just like every other girl comes with her own baggage and personality flaws.
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:49 PM
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Lmao that was on point and just what I needed to hear bro I've been pushing and pulling with her. Went 3 days without even saying hi or anything at all to her. The behavior aspect is all mental I'm trying to develop a few great behaviors and mental awareness traits for the next month or so. Just wondering where to start from.
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:47 PM
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Lmfao and here I thought I'd get a detailed post. The oneitis is not really the issue but it is an issue , I can get over it :)
/r/seduction17/07/14 01:29 PM
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Great post bro it was informative and thought provoking. What I'm thinking about now is what is the right behavior to emulate? And i need some advice.... I have this girl I'm talking to and she basically friend zoned me but said she was attracted to me, we were at a party she got tipsy and me danced for over an hour, the other day she said she got weirded out when I say certain things like One night I was tired and I said I felt like cuddling. Also if I put my arm around her she'll tell me to ta…
/r/seduction17/07/14 12:00 PM
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If the family likes her then make her family like you too, that way you two will be more comfortable around each other as you know each others family plus you can always go to her place with some made up story like: How you wanted to take a hot shower but your hot water isn't working you know something like that and then try to seduce her. Shit you could even use sexually charged poems lol. I'm a poet so I use poetry to implant images in a girls head other than that just be an all around fun guy…
/r/seduction16/07/14 07:59 PM
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Dude I think you need to get your mind right first. You came off at first like you wanted to have a long term relationship with her then in the ends you only wanted to fuck her... That's exactly what women don't want a guy who only wants them for sex and maybe that's why you're in that position. Look at it this way women want more romance, trust etc. before they can consider you maybe you're exactly the kinda guy she wants but you aren't quite ready in her head yet. If she enjoys being around yo…
/r/seduction16/07/14 06:05 PM
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Yeah I know I went back in and danced with her all night practically.
/r/seduction13/07/14 01:19 PM
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-sighs- dude that is what I struggle with.
/r/seduction13/07/14 08:32 AM
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Sitting outside a party right now the girl I want to get with is inside and I'm sitting under a tree clearing my head and trying to be the alpha I know I am and this post seems to offer a bit of help.
/r/seduction13/07/14 07:48 AM
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To be honest i'd say never stop improving cause it's when we start to think that way that we actually get back to our old ways, secondly if you're suffering socially it will mess with your life in ways you never thought possible... trust me i know and as far as going out goes, well to me it's a good way to meet people i haven't been out much recently but i enjoy going out.
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