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| 9 | My ex-husband is in an age-gap relationship now and I feel sick to my stomach!This reaction is exactly what he wants. Doesn’t matter what you say, you’ll be seen as the bitter “older” ex wife jealous of the young new thing. After everything he put you through, you want him to get off on you being this bothered by it? She’s probably around 27 or older. Age gap is always a crimson flag, but she’s not a teen. This is her adult mistake to make. Shake it off and don’t let him see her her age or anything else effect you. You have a young child, you’ve got years of his bullshit … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 02:41 AM |
| 63 | Why are men often so short sighted they sabotage themselves?He told you he wants a relationship to get in your pants. There is no vetting strategy like waiting. Sad reality is, a lot of women/girls will give into the pressure to get sexual fast because of the relationship carrot he’s dangling in their face. Never trust a man’s words, only his actions. But I feel you on the shitty logic. I think it’s because it’s not actually about sex, it’s about power and ego. Why do men hit and quit women instead of at least making her a FWB? Because it was never about… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/22 08:11 AM |
| 23 | All of my commitment-phobic exes…Thrice? Wife? LOL OK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 03:30 AM |
| 35 | I call BS on his “Parental Instincts”, and am I the only one who thinks this? I think he abused his powers towards minor girls.A parental instinct is to emphasize to people making your food that your son is deathly allergic to peanut. Failing to do so but taking your guilt endured rage out on the teens you neglected to inform is called projection and abuse. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 04:14 AM |
| 62 | A question in regards to single motherhoodMost women end up single moms anyway. Be prepared for some of the hardest years of your life…but at least you’ll be mentally gearing up for it. Most women are financially strapped, raising an infant on their own while dealing with a broken heart and abusive scrote baby daddy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 03:20 AM |
| 135 | The OP gets her exes head above water and wonders why her new boyfriend is mad. Put yourself first, stop being "cool", and let a guy manage his own finances. It was never up to you to SAVE him in the first place!Who wants to bet the ex was 10+ years older and happily paid for a college girls company while already in debt. If he wants to f*ck you and feel like a hero he will pay no matter his financial situation. Women keep projecting their morality on men and it’s never going to compute. It wasn’t from the kindness of his heart. It was from the throbbing of his d*ck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/22 04:42 AM |
| 37 | I’m the girl who exposed him to his long term girlfriend. I believe he has more victims.Yeah I’m surprised this amassed so much response. 95% of this absolute mess was a result of her boldly and confidently ignoring the FDS advice the first time she came here posting about the scrote. She deleted the post and is only running back when things aren’t working with him again. She’s clearly obsessed with him and is not asking for advice but looking at yet another Avenue in which to write essays about him and get strangers invested too. Every comment suggesting she take accountability is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 02:37 AM |
| 8 | Does anyone else feel the pressure to explain your single hood to partnered people?Whew. Couldn’t have said it better myself. And it’s ironic too because I’m one of the most positive, resilient and non bitter people at my job. Like probably because I’m blissfully single!! Why would I change that at this crucial point in my career? If it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. But misery loves company. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 08:17 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone else feel the pressure to explain your single hood to partnered people?That’s actually exactly what I mean! That is a perfect example of feeling the need to justify or explain your singleness to someone. Like why is that initial reaction even a thing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 08:08 PM |
| 3 | Tell me you've never actually been in a relationship, without telling me:All of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 07:16 PM |
| 2 | He was fine with 50/50 until she told him the cost of having a childCan you please send me the link too? Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 05:00 PM |
| 66 | 🎶Let's just dress up infidelity and terminal self-centeredness with trendy vocab!🎶If Quote-a-scrote is not a flair, it absolutely should be 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 02:47 PM |
| 31 | Kind of mad I wasn't born 2-3 generations later so I can experience "enlightened" menY’all think it’s getting better for men?! 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 02:04 AM |
| 16 | TikTok “Feminist Woke” Man With Millions of Followers Exposed In Violating Informed Consent via Unprotected Sex & Cheating On His Partners Who He Mislead into Believing They Were ExclusiveIf polyamory was truly a dealbreaker for her she would have demanded exclusivity before sleeping with him, much less flying out to see him and doing it unprotected. He was VERY manipulative but she also rushed the process to run from her pain. She’ll never learn if she doesn’t take accountability for that. If exclusivity is important to you, you must require it. As sad as this story is, regardless of it all, they were both single. And he was a single dude who proposed polyamory multiple times an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 02:22 PM |
| 26 | FDSers who are waiting for marriage to have sex or have sex later in committed relationships, have you found that HVM (even non-religious) are willing to wait?Men who are secure of themselves, and genuinely want love connection will wait. Best bet is to find a man who has been practicing single celibacy on their own for a year plus, despite having many options. Similar concept goes for women (although a woman is 100 times more likely to be able to to go from having casual sex to monogamy). The fact is many women who can’t be alone and are constantly casualty dating and having hook ups is unlikely to settle down with a HVM because they’re deep down des… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:53 AM |
| 263 | Almost every comment is telling her its none of her business, don't get involved. Not only would I tell her immediately, I would convince her to dump him 💅Ahhh the last minute desperation manipulation ring. Yikes. OP doesn’t know that he is even more aware than she is that her best friend is ready to walk, and would rather be a single mother than continue to be used by a breadcrumbing scrote who likely brings absolutely nothing to the table anyway. Men only do facetious “180”s when their lying, cheating asses are about to get dumped. I agree with your title 100%. Sounds like the type of scrote who will propose in front of family and friends just t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/22 06:24 AM |
| 4 | Dating strategy: If you're single, carefully cultivating a group of male friends is a great way to vet for mate compatibility and secure resourcesPersonally, I agree with this, but it will not work for many women because it’ll take work, strategizing and an exhausting amount of effort because making quality male friends is not natural to them. I think a lot of outside and personal factors contribute to a woman’s ability to make quality male friendships and acquaintanceships. For me, I’m extremely close to my brothers and father as well as my sisters. I am the youngest, so I Grew up bonding with both genders and have always, even as a youn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/22 05:59 PM |
| 111 | On dating married menWait, wait, wait. Was he cheating on you with her for 3.5 years? They were long distance? Ew that’s so gross of her. And to only tell you in punishment of him. Pick mes are the WORST | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Internal Red Flags: TextingNeeded this. Ugh. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Internal Red Flags: TextingDealing with this for the first time now, and I would love your advice on how to proceed with this behavior. Was talking to a guy who’s text habits were spotty even before meeting, but he was eager to meet and planned an awesome date for us. We had a lot of fun but I admit I stayed too long. He texted me the next morning but left me on read all a day after I replied. Hadnt heard from him since which I’m admittedly a little bummed about, more for my ego than anything else because it was the most … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/22 09:42 PM |
| 127 | I can't get over my ex-LVM dating someone 15 years younger than him. Also, thank god for this sub.Why is it that you can’t believe a woman would…fall into the same exact trap you did? The thing that trips me out is he's not.. he's... hmmm... Ill just say it - he's short, fat, bald and broke. Seriously, 5'7, 200lbs+, went bald at 25, makes half what I make. I. DON'T. GET. IT. I want to shake her!!! I want to scream "YOU CAN DO BETTER!!!!" Meanwhile this was you for a long time: For a while I was extremely depressed and wanted him back but wanting him back made me even more depressed because I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 149 | Current guy I’m talking to lied about his height on dating appAnd women like OP who have been conditioned to play the cool girl about it is exactly why they continue. Not that it’s your fault OP, but when certain manipulation works on women and yields desired results (I.e the girl won’t leave him for lying about his height) they’ll continue to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/22 03:10 AM |
| 11 | Advice: He seems wonderful but isn’t as financially secure as meHe’s already talking about prenups? Girl do not discuss your finances with this man. And moving forward, I’d suggest you down play your finances and assets to whoever you date He’s looking to date hypergamously with you. It’s literally in his patterns to make commitments and break them when the going gets tough. Marrying you, trapping you with a baby and walking off with child support and alimony checks is very much another entrepreneurial endeavor for him. Probably his most profitable yet. Keep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/22 02:38 AM |
| 98 | Do any of you NOT want to get married one day?Marriage at least puts a price 💰 on a man wasting a woman’s time, youth, and energy. Married and unmarried women are serving men in the exact same way, bearing their children, stalling careers and more. If and when the man inevitably f*cks up beyond repair, the married woman can take him to court for alimony and child support. The unmarried woman is not only left with nothing, but are severely handicapped financially and emotionally with nothing to show for it. Of course marriage should only be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 05:24 PM |
| 7 | Having a baby via sperm donorYour insight is so incredibly valuable and unique. Not everything is exactly comparable and your situation has every right to be elevated for potential donor mothers to consider. Thank you for sharing and I’ll share this perspective with others as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:38 AM |
| 294 | It is SO easy for women to access sexMen regularly fuck up the best relationships of their lives to sleep with women they wouldn’t want to be caught dead with, then subsequently squeal 🐽🗣HYPERGAMYYYY when their partners dump them and immediately upgrade lol. That’s all hypergamy is. Men’s jealousy that women will date better than him each and every time as soon as she’s ready (many times HVM surprising her before then). Meanwhile boys rolling in the pig pen with desperate pick mes gets boring quick after they’re dumped. Vicious cyc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 02:29 AM |
| 23 | Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags.What I mean by “he saved you from yourself” is that by leaving, he saved you from wasting more time on him. It seems he effectively manipulated you. When a woman is in that deep, especially with a man objectively beneath their league, it usually takes something outrageous, or the man leaving her, for her to let go. I apologize if my post came out harsh or brash. Clearly he knew what he was doing, but never underestimate a man’s entitlement to random hook ups, especially when they’re single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/22 01:11 AM |
| 33 | Sort of warn out from my first sort of romantic interest after a year of being purposely single. I'm new to this and must be missing red flags.He’s not looking for a relationship, never said he wasn’t looking for low value hook ups. I’m always baffled when women think the line “I’m not ready for a relationship” means men will then delete hookup apps, sign up for therapy, and remain celibate until they’re ready for marriage. No the “with you” is silent and they’re still going to try to meet women with lower standards to have sex with. He’s not some simpleton you can save. He’s a man with his own agenda. Honestly he saved you from yourse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:58 PM |
| 1 | My sister is dating a guy who lied about having kids, thoughts?To be fair he utterly manipulated her. The honeymoon phase with someone you think is a good person is an incredibly binding experience. This bait and switch of his was very devious, especially considering she’s child free as you mentioned in another post. Men do this intentionally when you’re emotionally invested. Imagine you’re genuinely falling in love with someone and you learn he’s a liar. It’s hard to just quit cold turkey, and if she’s not on FDS it’s even harder to not ignore the crimson … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:15 PM |
| 152 | My sister is dating a guy who lied about having kids, thoughts?To be fair he utterly manipulated her. The honeymoon phase with someone you think is a good person is an incredibly binding experience. This bait and switch of his was very devious, especially considering she’s child free as you mentioned in another post. Men do this intentionally when you’re emotionally invested. Imagine you’re genuinely falling in love with someone and you learn he’s a liar. It’s hard to just quit cold turkey, and if she’s not on FDS it’s even harder to not ignore the crimson … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Men that are still parenting step-kids after their divorce?I called bullshit when I read she lives 4 hours away. Sorry, if he wanted to be in their lives that bad he never should have moved that far away from the kids. And if she was the one to leave, can he not take a hint? I’m not saying it’s wrong for him to maintain the relationship but it kind of gives me “praise me for being an every other weekend step father” vibes. If neither of them could put their egos aside to remain married and do the hard work of being an example and safe space for the kids… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | The biggest issues I find in LTRs with both genders is that Men tend to be inconsistent with their effort and Women tend to be too volatileBiggest example in my life was when I dated an ex and I had a whole trip planned for her in secret. Things had been rough and monotonous but I couldn't wait to surprise her UNTIL one day out the blue she threw the biggest bitch fit I've seen in on literally the same day I was gonna tell her that I gotten tickets for us to go on a cruise. Nope. Your problem here is thinking giving a gift is an appropriate response to a failing distant relationship. Instead of addressing the issues and communicati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/21 09:34 PM |
| 23 | Meagan Good and Devon Franklin Divorce. Accusations of Negging and Emotional Abuse/ Control Games on His PartYep. And let’s not pretend that pastor’s congregation is not FULL of thirsty pick mes who throw themselves at him daily. He wants to be the only one like that in a relationship lol. She can easily find a hot god fearing man who is proud of who she is rather than competitive. I remember my pastor talked about how he went on a men’s retreat with other pastors and they shared stories of women in the congregation offering themselves up to them on the daily. Even slipping their numbers in at offering… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 08:24 PM |
| 97 | Saw this on Twitter and it felt discussable/appropriate to share hereIt’s not a double standard. Men enjoy having sex with (r*aping) kids, teenagers and young women 20+ their minor. It’s actually in their favor when women refuse to accept it for what it is. They WANT kids. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 07:40 PM |
| 32 | Meagan Good and Devon Franklin Divorce. Accusations of Negging and Emotional Abuse/ Control Games on His PartPastors are notorious cheaters and gas lighters. It brings me joy he felt intimidated by her profession because she works with some seriously delicious men who probably are obsessed with her, as they should be. Further proof that being the Madonna (which she was for him) and the “whore” (she’s gorgeous and her sex appeal is undeniable) which is what men claim to want still isn’t enough. She’s probably even in higher demand more than ever. Meagan Goode is goals IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:56 PM |
| 31 | Should I reciprocate a gift?It’s only been a month. In the future though I enjoy giving experiential gifts yall can do together IF he passes further vetting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 05:53 PM |
| 65 | Seriously, what a QueenThe same men who call us “horrible monsters” are simultaneously jacking off to anime underage incest rape monster porn and this is not even close to an exaggeration. Every time you worry about looking bAd to a man understand his depravity knows no bounds. Most men will sexualize their daughters friends and sons girlfriends (if not their own children). This is the reality. If it wasn’t like this before, their porn addiction has reworked their brains to make it so. I’m not carrying and raising a c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:14 PM |
| 107 | Do you think you would have an easier time finding a HV partner if you were attracted to women instead of men?Eh. It’s probably because like men, they’re much more likely to orgasm off of sex with women. Only one not getting orgasms are women who sleep with men. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 03:06 PM |
| 0 | How do you feel about men who “upgrade” to better girlfriends once they become successful and leave the old one?Nah he just deflected so he didn’t have to denounce the male behavior. “Women do it too”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/21 08:08 AM |
| -10 | Love seeing men educating other men :)Mmm maybe if he had Aspergers? Like if your partner genuinely thinks this is okay then there’s probably a SEA of other red flags you’re ignoring just to say you’re not single. Shit men are shit men but like this is giving mentally handicapped, or intentional punishing, which is why I thought it was the latter. The bar is below hell if is this is relatable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 07:34 AM |
| 52 | Strategic ignorance of women is what keeps the majority of relationships aliveIn my post I said even if he was stalking you while in her bed, he’s done the same to you with other women because that’s who he is. The fact that the majority of your response is: I know about the stalking because I would see the subtweets from him every time he thought I was talking about him, or IG story views, or he'd bring up a topic that I tweeted about long ago and deleted after ~48hrs of doing so. Tells me what I wrote originally is spot on and you might want to reflect a bit more about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 07:12 AM |
| 24 | Love seeing men educating other men :)Mmmmmmm anyone else refuse to believe men don’t know not to do this to their wives? Like am I actually watching a step by step tutorial on how not to make a wife put together her own gift while the man plays video games? Nothing ignorant or incompetent about it. Passive aggression doesn’t even seem like enough. Maybe pure aggression! Had to stop the video because it felt like a teacher explaining a very simple task to a second grader. It was an intentional choice he made to hurt his wife. He wou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 05:55 AM |
| 97 | Stop Oversharing and Be SecretiveI’ve been like this since I’ve been single and the men who harp on me being “hard to read” or “closed off” have always been the ones with the most red flags for narcissism, love bombing and Peter panning. Like no Jake, I’m not telling you about my last heart break on the first date so you can cry about your ex and create a fake trauma bond so sex happens faster. It’s an easy block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 05:48 AM |
| 93 | Strategic ignorance of women is what keeps the majority of relationships aliveShe chose not to hear that her first boyfriend had me on his mind their whole relationship. That he was stalking my SM while in bed with her. That he fantasises about our sex when he makes love to her. I felt bad for her until now. Sorry but sis, he’s lying to you as much as he’s lying to her. He lied and manipulated both of you, after knowing each of you intimately. Yet most of this post is about her ignoring you, whom you to her are a stranger at best and a jealous ex at worst. And the fact th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 05:29 AM |
| 51 | hot take: pickme women are worse than lvmIf all it takes is for a woman to complain about her long legs to convince a man to cheat on his wife, he is negative value and is objectively worse than that trash pick me. Because if all a man had to do was brag about his muscular arms to get a woman to cheat on her husband and kids, she, not he, would be judged and dragged to hell and back. Saying pick mes are worse than LVM is to again dismiss the utter depravity of men and excuse them from atrocious behavior. Don’t get me wrong pick mes can… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?So do many women who rebound. That doesn’t answer the question. After a break up are you out here rejecting a number attractive women who want to date you because you are more virtuous than chads and other women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?Lmfao dragging women for hopping into bed with men after a break up AND dragging women for healing and taking time to herself? The mental gymnastics in this whole thread is wildly entertaining. Y’all are really just unhappy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Do women really scout for other options before ending a relationship?Is it because you’re so much more virtuous than women or Chad or cause…you don’t have a choice and would happily move on with different stacies if you could? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/21 04:34 PM |
| 28 | The kids are gonna be alright! (Scroll for comments)Got you, girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 11:43 PM |
| 82 | The kids are gonna be alright! (Scroll for comments)He posted that he leads women on knowing damn well he just wants to use them for sex. In the comments the women are insulting him saying “aren’t you too old for these games?” He’s claiming to be 28 even though he looks 40 on a good day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 10:25 PM |
| 367 | Sometimes men of all classes just don’t listenReminds me exactly of when Offset hijacked Cardi B’s concert to beg for her back after cheating on her repeatedly. Kanye had already started dating some other woman earlier this year. He’s a narcissist and I’ll be curious how Kim goes about this. I give her grace because she has handled this all with so much class and more dignity than Kanye deserves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 04:16 PM |
| 9 | What are some early on signs he’s a cheater?What’s the story here?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/21 01:21 AM |
| 13 | How do you feel about the comments hating on her? (Possible trigger warning)Scotes projecting their insecurities that they could NEVER protect themselves, much less any one else in even a mildly inconvenient situation, much less a deadly one. And they wonder why women are repulsed by them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/21 09:51 PM |
| 18 | Dog bites man because girl is screaming during sex and his reaction makes him a “keeper”?What an astute connection. I think you’re totally right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 04:26 AM |
| 11 | Imagine celebrating men for doing the bare minimum!It’s all the awards that makes my skin crawl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 12:36 AM |
| 123 | I deserve better than this relationship, but I have never experienced love this deep.Believe it or not, broke guys tend to be the kindest to women they know are out of their league. I know you could never imagine it, but you don’t know how this guy would treat you if he was up on his luck, getting paid well, and getting attention from other women. Broke and or ugly dudes know they have little else to offer than doing everything else “right”. You can stay with him but the moment he fucks up in a major way, you’re going to be scarred. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 04:03 AM |
| 29 | A warning against having children with NVM. Can’t even join a pregnancy sub without seeing this shit. Oh but it’s okay because she can work on her “insecurities” and of course ComMunICaTe! 🙄Guys will do this without guilt but let her bring up or even THINK about her ex with the bigger, thicker, meatier dick than his and all the sudden all hell will break loose 🙄🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 07:06 PM |
| 8 | Need advice: I met the real deal but don’t know how to get him…You sure you’re FDS sis? 🧐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 11:30 PM |
| 640 | Male friends and brothers will 'pity' my bfThese are not your friends and hanging out with such low vibrational men who are resentful and jealous of you will only bring you negative energy and low vibrational experiences. If you insist on keeping them in your life, do not introduce them to your bf ever. Men are cattier than women and will sabotage you, even your “friends”. Also, good men will find it to be a glaring red flag if the girl they’re dating surrounds themselves with LVM. Just a tip. Other than that, happy for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 03:08 PM |
| 14 | Be careful around maintenance men if you live alone. If possible, have a male relative with you when you need something installed/repaired. I’ve heard some ladies say to have used men’s shoes just in case they try something u could say ur husband will be back soon. Imagine if she was alone with him😳This is giving male cuckhold fan fic. Like who experiences this, does nothing, then tells Reddit a detailed retelling about how he did nothing? A lot of dudes jacked to this story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 01:04 AM |
| 39 | Pick mes like this are the reason bisexual women have to hide our sexuality.Ironically she admits in the comments she bought her breasts. Sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:16 AM |
| 24 | Realizing the “cool girls” you used to be friends with were just total pickme’sSure, but let’s give literal preteens and teens grace, cause wtf wasn’t insecure, envious and confused at that age? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 04:40 PM |
| 18 | One way to say "if he wanted to, he would"It’s crazy because it both calms me to know #allmen and it didn’t just happen to me…but it infuriates me because it’s like wow so I never had a chance…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 12:48 AM |
| 328 | [deleted by user]Re: Deadbeadroom Scrotes fella, are you just gross? he’s physically repulsive. 💀 🎯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:53 AM |
| 2 | Why LVM don’t care about creating single momsMost women think they marry hv until divorce happens. That’s why I said it brings out the worst in men. My point is to Marry HV and work to keep the marriage because there is absolutely no telling how divorce may change the man, seemingly hv or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 11:28 PM |
| 6 | Message for side plate pick me’s. You’ll never win by disrespecting yourself & other women.I’m sorry but please stop entertaining him. Jesus, he cheated on you and you’re still emotionally supporting him while he cheats on his new woman? You do realize you’re still apart of his harem and boosting his ego. If you love yourself you’ll block him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 05:40 AM |
| 71 | Why LVM don’t care about creating single momsA lot of men will just move away or have a rotation of girlfriends in and out of the house who may compete with and traumatize your kids. Kids in 50/50 situations often feel massive instability which causes many to act out because they lose respect for one or both parents, since the rules and the vibe will be different each week. I’d focus on having a HV partner. Divorce can bring out the worst in men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 03:58 AM |
| 34 | When it comes to "High Value" communities targeted to women, many are belong in the trashWell this is the problem with being a pick me to the point of baring children and buying houses with men who don’t want commitment to which the bangmaid eagerly agreed. She was such a cool girl and realized too late that building a life with a dude without the expectation of commitment was a dead end trap. Divorce and separation have a huge impact on children, and it pisses me off when pick mes breed under the pretenses of being a cool girl, then fuck up their kids realizing so late that being a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 05:52 PM |
| 20 | When two people try to out-LV each otherNot him having a heart attack and losing is job 😂😂😂😂 love it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 04:06 AM |
| 94 | When two people try to out-LV each otherLMFAOOO not condoning LV behavior but damn it felt oddly entertaining to watch a LVM get his energy exactly matched and more 😂😂😂 I was like dang he was so low value she just stopped giving a single damn. Scrotes are so comfortable with their bs they believe every single woman is going to take the high road. It could never be me but I hope my scrote ex dates a LVW like himself next. 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Can Dropping Out Of College Be A Good Idea???Question - how many years left do you have and will you have wasted more money spending 1.5 years worth of tuition with nothing to show for it than you would if you completed your degree, even if you don’t get a well paying job off the bat? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:21 AM |
| 31 | The Ick💀 💀 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 12:11 AM |
| 238 | When negging is made mainstream!The gremlin that said “damn” at the end is an actuate visual depiction of the exact aesthetic of every male who mashed the like button this video and said “that could be me” 🤡 🎪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 03:56 AM |
| 213 | How to you feel about the idea that "most men don't marry the woman they love the most. They marry the woman that’s around when they’re ready to marry."I’m glad you brought this up because this terrible, misleading saying implies the “women they love mOsT” actually exists. Spoiler alert: They don’t. They take every single, and I mean EVERY single woman they’re in long term relationships with for granted. Their wrinkled, ran through d*cks get hard for multiple women a day. They’re are literally insatiable in their lust, entitlement, delusion and selfishness. And no woman should marry a man unprepared for this reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 4 | Are Men Incentivizing Low Birth Rates?It’s just disappointing because your post is really fucking good lol. Still fascinating watching them avoid the truth though. They’re main complaint is that women initiate divorce by here fore they’re impossible to please. This article contains the premise that always comes to my mind when I hear complaints. Women just don’t want to be married to cheaters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 10:10 PM |
| 1 | When it comes to dating/relationship/sociosexual dynamics, what's something you see talked about in this sub that you've never seen actually happen?What happened to the model tier ones? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 08:22 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men are actually advocating for women to be more picky (you’re choosing the wrong men), while simultaneously whining that women are being too picky (80/20)Orrrr, and here me out, women, just like men, seek and like different things in their 30s than when in their 20s because they’re totally different, with different things that attract and excite them and fulfill them. Women don’t want to settle down in their early twenties these days anymore than men do. You’re right, women do bemoan “where are all the good men”? But look online, men ask “where are all the good women?” Everyday all day online on their forums in between jerking it to sibling porn … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Are Men Incentivizing Low Birth Rates?You posted an excellent article with evidence with a terrible question so the manosphere can just say “nO iTs CaUsE kIds aRe ExPenSive” without addressing what’s actually in the article because, again, bad question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 08:06 PM |
| 33 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeI know that’s what would be most comfortable to believe, but it was definitely real. There are real pick mes out there who do this shit, quite a few of them, and they’re ALWAYS out of the guys league. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 05:11 PM |
| 83 | We have to do betterYeah but there is an astronomical difference in the amount of porn children are exposed to when comparing kids with iPhones and kids without. We all found ways to find inappropriate shit but it shouldn’t be sitting in your lap 24/7 as a preteen/teenager. Yes talk to your kids AND block their internet access within your power. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 03:52 AM |
| 295 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeThe ones that baffles me the most are the couples posting for a threesome. I recently saw this profile that said “we are getting married soon and I want to give my fiancé a night to remember with another woman. I always wanted to watch” Of course she was beautiful but cleeeeearly low self esteem and he looked like a gargoyle - no exaggeration. Fat, ugly and old looking into the camera like how tf did I such a hot, dumb girlfriend? Idk it’s just fucking sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 10:43 PM |
| 52 | Be careful out there ladies: Comments under a tic tok about most dangerous people you’ve met- man kills wife, justifies it claiming infidelity. Men need to hold one another accountable, not justify violence and in this case murder.Well, not anymore. I never have and I certainly never will expose a woman for cheating on a scrote (unless he’s my brother who is a non murderous HVM). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 06:04 PM |
| 34 | Be careful out there ladies: Comments under a tic tok about most dangerous people you’ve met- man kills wife, justifies it claiming infidelity. Men need to hold one another accountable, not justify violence and in this case murder.These are the same men who will have bastard children on their pregnant wives scream how she needs to die for nagging about it or divorcing him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 05:23 PM |
| 244 | It’s so heartbreaking to see how women always have to be on high alert in public spacesThis is his 38th arrest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 06:44 PM |
| 6 | Needing advice and supportI’m just going to be blunt: if he’s capable of killing himself, he’ll take joy out of killing you first. Read all of the comments about how to get out of a DV situation extremely seriously. If you stay too long or leave too carelessly, your life will be in grave danger. You need to get out, move out, and change locks very soon. Hope you wake up to that severity soon girl. He hates you. Please save yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 06:08 AM |
| 34 | Two things are going on here. 1. He can’t grow up 2. He probably has, or will at some point, have an affair with someone from back home. Making this a normal routine sets up a guaranteed 3 days a week that he can do whatever while not being checked in on. C’mon sis!Anyone else getting “Weekend” by SZA vibes from this post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:58 PM |
| 30 | How do you avoid turning into a LVW when you’re at a point where you want to start a family?I think some true, HVW don’t always make it to marriage much less marriage with kids because those are the ones who hold themselves accountable to leaving men who end up being low value. A vast vast vast majority of men are low value. Even the ones that try to be HV can turn LV, just like you said women can. We ALL are capable of become LV. That’s the problem. Women think men are permanently HV if they act high value for a certain amount to time. But when the mask or effort slips, or when faced … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:31 PM |
| 8 | Recent discontent with (potentially LVM) bf - need insightIt does concern me that your reoccurring excuse for his failings as a partner all go back to it being “normal for a long term relationship” when it hasn’t even been a year… It’s not a long term relationship yet sis. Not by a long shot. Sounds like this is your longest relationship and you’re putting wayyy too much stock on how a “long term relationship” should be when this should still be the honeymoon stage where he’ll do anything to impress you, make love to you, and adore you. With HVM this i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 12:43 AM |
| 28 | Weekly FDS Check-inthe most high value men I've met don't care about womens' careers so much. I have a friend who went to Oxford but she chooses to do temporary jobs like everything from creative stuff and freelancing to bartending to working in retail. She has never had any trouble finding men who spoil her, treat her well, etc. she just picks them well. LVM look for meal tickets and "strong career girl who will also go 50/50" mommy bangmaids. I do believe this is a bit nuanced. I find men actually do care about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 04:06 AM |
| 132 | WSJ article cites how males are completing college education at almost half the rate of women, with porn, drugs, and video games as major "distractions."Literally end of discussion sis 😂😩💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Multiple kids without marriage- thoughts?Most of those women purposefully get pregnant by high status, rich men for the check. It NEVER seemed worth it to me, but maybe it’s not so bad raising them with nannies mothering off camera? There’s a reason why women like Blac Chyna have slept with countless men but only get pregnant by and keep rich high status men’s children. I will say most children out of wedlock are born genuinely by accident but LVM play stupid games and win stupid prizes with pick mes everyday then cry about it for 18 y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Cheating isn't okay butttttt FIANCE of 11 years? Bro you basically asked her to leave. Court marriages are still valid & cheap. There's no excuse for this.She’s a clown if she takes this loser back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 02:40 AM |
| 15 | the default should be leaving/independence, not forcing stayingWell, men “leave” emotionally, sexually, and romantically but rarely “officially”. Once again just cheating and talking shit behind her back , leaving the woman to fight for a “relationship” the men are too selfish, egotistical and weak to admit is dead to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 01:49 AM |
| 14 | What are examples of a LVM playing red pill mind games ?Dudes don’t have to be constantly strategizing and Red Pill to just be naturally LVM without trying. Who cares if he’s telling the truth? He’s exhausting and expecting you to carry his emotional load. Next him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 12:18 AM |
| 334 | Skip the date rape and just move in. These scrotes actually believe porn can be reality while they capitalize on sky high rent prices and openly take advantage of naive young women. He's even gleefully admitting to not having thought the situation through. Wow.And many young abused girls will apply :/ Sad shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 01:44 AM |
| 170 | Excellent reality check for older men who think they’re about to trade up99% of the time men leave women no choice but to leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:05 PM |
| 253 | Do you believe that men are only as faithful as their options?Men with no options still have escorts, porn and whatever the next only fans will be. All men have options to be deprived. Never think you’re safe if you’re with an ugly scrote. They’re the first ones who creep on prostitutes and teens online. They’ll despise you for being one of the few girls that tolerate them then punish you by cheating by any means necessary to make them feel like a Chad with a harem (iTs OnLy FaIr). That said, I think men are only as faithful as their morals and/or what ser… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 12:19 AM |
| 27 | My heart breaks for all the women who thought they could build a career around Onlyfans 💔 This is why you can never rely on men: they'll happily use you and then toss you away the moment it's no longer convenientI mean…there will be other porn sites. Men will always find creative ways to exploit women? So you can sleep soundly I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 03:20 AM |
| 101 | Confused and at loss for wordsThe saddest part about this, is if he was this defensive and rude towards you, he absolutely told his ex and/or his best friend about your “reaction” and “jealousy”. You did the right thing and this revealed something very important about him. 4 months? Chalk it up to the game and bounce. This is not your future husband and the longer you stay the harder it’ll be to leave. Learn from your experience with your ex-fiancé and get out now before it gets that far. You are not a failure for this not w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 01:12 AM |
| 40 | Why is it the most hideous men that are Ethically Non Monogamous (ENM)?And the women are a million times better looking than the man 🤢🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 12:06 AM |
| 26 | This queen! 👏This is honestly so profound I need to save it. I thought advocating for yourself and correcting literal wrongs was common sense. But you’re totally right, people are mercilessly judging us for like, not having their crippling need to never ask a stranger a simple question for the betterment of not only yourself but others. Love this take. Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 07:06 PM |
| 107 | Men's selfishness really knows no boundsThere’s a reason you’re top comment girl cause 💯. Nothing more nothing less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable?It’s not solely the men’s responsibility but women want head til they cum and that’s more effort than these dead bedroomed men want to make. They did it in courtship but suddenly it’s the woman’s job to make herself cum on her own when marriage comes? So then men should be fine masturbating by that logic. Men get selfish asf in bed which is why women starfish and are totally turned off during sex in which selfish men use them as living flesh lights. If you make her cum she’ll make you cum. In so… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable?Considering most husbands don’t make their wives orgasm, nor do they invest even a fraction of the same energy in foreplay as they did in the dating phase, women simply don’t want bad sex anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/21 12:56 AM |
| 204 | Can you even spell my name?Are you actually breaking up with him. I have a feeling this is just the tip of the iceberg if y’all been together 4 years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 10:54 PM |
| – | Women, what’s the difference between love bombing and desperation?You do know both have negative connotations right? Do you think love bombing is a good thing? It’s bad to be desperate and it’s bad to love bomb. Has nothing to do with attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/21 04:17 AM |
| 2 | Women are the "wild" gender nowI wasn't being literate about it at all, and you know it. Don’t we all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/21 07:17 AM |
| 403 | Why do men think we are in love with them after 1 date?He’s already trying to triangulate you with an ex who dumped him a year ago? In fact I got more friend vibes from our connection. Tell him this and block lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 03:20 AM |
| 22 | The Hook-up That Ended All Hook-upsTurn this into a series and I’ll subscribe 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 10:27 PM |
| 86 | This is what 50/50 should meanLmfao except only post the dior bag on your story with your vetted female besties. In the words of JT (whose problematic but can spit some gems) “Post up the food, but don’t post the buyer Post the bag but don’t post the spender Kiss and you tell? Imma suspend ya (bye) Free game but my time is expensive (period).” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 03:24 AM |
| 15 | It’s always a breath of fresh air seeing Queen Shit in the wilds of Reddit 👑👑I mentioned Queen shit because she was replying to a broader post in an advice sub where OP is another lost soul who asked something along the lines of “My bf prefers porn over me and won’t have sex with me anymore. What am I doing wrong?” Perhaps it is Queen shit to have never made such egregious mistakes (I just call that having self esteem and boundaries) but I appreciated her sharing her story inspiring others to throw out scrotes like literal garbage as soon as you wake up out of your pick … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/21 07:03 PM |
| 38 | This is how you savagely troll an insecure egoOmg what did you say?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:43 AM |
| 24 | 🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...Lmfao that’s what I said 😭 I can’t! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 03:56 AM |
| 65 | 🎵If he's married and you know it, just say no,👏👏 if he's married and you know it...No married man will leave the comfort of his wife and family for you. Nor should any woman want him to. If this is a consideration for any woman, she’s a NVW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/21 03:53 AM |
| 207 | Naomi Osaka documentary: Hard to watch due to her LVM boyfriendShe’s going to regret featuring him when they break up. That’s like having a boyfriend included in all your family member’s wedding photos. I told my ex to kindly step aside when it was picture time. No regrets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 06:40 PM |
| 0 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.Whenever a dude gets flustered by the truth they start to demand data and statistics. I’m sure you’re typing “percentage of ugly girls who bang Chad and how often” into Google rn. Lol Go outside and participate in the social scene. Make friends with women of all types and get close enough for them to tell you the truth for 25 years and you may be surprised that what I’m saying isn’t far off. The biggest problem is men don’t want to hear the truth. No not every girl is smashing Chad. Many girls l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 07:00 AM |
| 0 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.Your argument: nuh uh!! Lol okay bro. Truth hurts, I understand. Nothing I said was controversial. All of it is common sense if you take two seconds to think about it. You wanted to know why women don’t dumpster dive. If you don’t wanna accept reality and continue to act confused and perplexed, that’s your right. Self protection is important for the mind after all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:49 AM |
| 1 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.Depends on the context, realistically Chads have a plethora of options to choose from. In all different levels of attractiveness, he's not going to be fucking unattractive women “regularly” when he can do better. They don’t need one Chad to have sex with them regularly. They just have multiple at any given time. I said if top tier women* fucked you regularly. Not one. I don't believe in that model to a degree. Of course not because it isn’t applied to men. But again if hot women wanted to fuck y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:38 AM |
| 0 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.It's called looks match just because chad decides to drunkenly pump and dump a below-average chick one night does make her all of a sudden above average or in his league. That is something unattractive women will never understand but should. But it does. If top tier women fucked you regularly, you wouldn’t settle for a flabby one even if she was in your league. And if you did, you’d follow the same afbb model you demonize women for. But unattractive men will never experience this, so they cant c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:22 AM |
| 1 | The rise of sexlessness among men is NOT NORMAL, the reasons given for that is major coping by men and female gaslighting to hide the real reason. Women are not having less sex they are just having fewer sexual partners.It’s hilarious how you call “Chad”s who sleep with average women dumpster diving but want the average woman to dumpster dive for y’all? Call her a b*tch for not? If we find the average man unattractive why tf would we dumpster dive for him? Women would rather be alone and that’s something unattractive men will never understand but should. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/21 06:14 AM |
| 19 | Avoid throuples, open relationships, ENM, etc. These people are not your friends. They are definitely not your partners. And they will throw you to the curb the moment things get sticky. They’re just using your body.Can you tell her anonymously? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 05:47 AM |
| 8 | Red Flags that indicate he doesn't see you as a fully autonomous personIt’s very very easy to use someone’s fingerprint while they sleep so please purge everyday!! Stay safe 💙 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 12:45 AM |
| 13 | Shift your energy, queens. 👑My unconventional advice? Use the anger! Use your rage. Use your embarrassment to drive you forward. My rage is what got me pumping iron and running miles in record time when prior to the break up, I couldn’t run half a mile without stopping. I used my rage to perfect my resume. I got a new job and am making 25k more than I was last year. Use the negative feelings to drive you forward, and they’ll naturally begin to fade as you have new experiences, friends, and accomplishments to focus on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:01 PM |
| 297 | Wild Take I received while vetting:My vetting process man (38)…over snapchat BLOCKT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 08:14 PM |
| 225 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.They also masturbate to incest porn, which is probably why that also doesn’t work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 01:45 PM |
| 25 | In this thread: Hundreds of LVM and Pickmeishas squealing to the high heavens that an elite 23 y/o woman at a top tier university will NEVER find a high paying, traveling job post graduation, and should shut up and be a compliant wife and mother to boring old scrote who trapped her in her youth. 🥴🤮Tea ☕️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 08:55 PM |
| 31 | In this thread: Hundreds of LVM and Pickmeishas squealing to the high heavens that an elite 23 y/o woman at a top tier university will NEVER find a high paying, traveling job post graduation, and should shut up and be a compliant wife and mother to boring old scrote who trapped her in her youth. 🥴🤮this doesn’t make sense for many full time employees, But it does for her. She’s already making 5 figures as a student and clearly has lucrative opportunities attending a top tier school. I didn’t go to a top tier school and still pulled this off, as did many of my best friends. My 20s has been full of travel. If you want to you will. I think she is better off not being married, save her money and live her travelling dreams alone or find a partner that wants the same lifestyle. That’s the answer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 07:37 PM |
| 63 | In this thread: Hundreds of LVM and Pickmeishas squealing to the high heavens that an elite 23 y/o woman at a top tier university will NEVER find a high paying, traveling job post graduation, and should shut up and be a compliant wife and mother to boring old scrote who trapped her in her youth. 🥴🤮Really? I didn’t see her having an existential crisis at all…just a normal young woman who wants to travel and see the world before settling down and starting a family. Maybe I’m partial because I did the same thing after college and it was the BEST decision of my life (I also left an angry age-gap older scrote to do so lol) But I agree with everything else you said! She’s finding ways to achieve it, he’s like I’VE TRIED NOTHING and I’m all out of ideas! 💀 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 07:11 PM |
| 131 | In this thread: Hundreds of LVM and Pickmeishas squealing to the high heavens that an elite 23 y/o woman at a top tier university will NEVER find a high paying, traveling job post graduation, and should shut up and be a compliant wife and mother to boring old scrote who trapped her in her youth. 🥴🤮As if remote work doesn’t exist and hasn’t expanded exponentially since COVID🥱 As if business women aren’t constantly traveling 🥱 As if consultants, Entrepreneurs, educators, leaders in medicine, engineers, mathematicians and more don’t travel have opportunities depending on their role??? Because I just came back from a month abroad and I make almost 6 figures and I didn’t even go to a top tier school for undergrad. many of my friends have unlimited paid time off as engineers, and travel for wee… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 05:14 PM |
| 24 | 22 ConventionWill they be telling these women that despite their efforts they’ll still be second to porn and mistresses? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 01:46 AM |
| 20 | Don’t be settled forI’ve never felt so heard. Every word was spot on. Don’t be settled for but also don’t be used as triangulation material by playing therapist to his made up woes. LVM are two-faced opportunists. They don’t settle for us. We settle for ungrateful LVM and that’s the tea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:00 PM |
| 66 | LVM Men Can't Be Friends w/ Women + My ExperiencesI feel like there’s often an false romanticism of this subject that needs to be addressed but never is. “Oh he’s friends with you cause he likes you hehe!” No. These LV “friends” want to sleep with you out of convenience, validation, and laziness. Men who are willing to blow up friendships for sex are just as horny and desperate as all the other losers out there - or are worse even - because 9 out of 10 times, after you finally give in to their demands and sleep with them, their pOsT nUt cLaRiTy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 04:34 AM |
| 165 | Don’t be settled forThis is true but also remember most men don’t think any woman is good enough, and if they do snag their “dream girl” aka a woman who is inarguably out of their league, their insecurity will cause them to cheat anyway. Also know that men will often down play their relationships to other women to keep women constantly judging and in competition with each other. On this post you’re pitying this woman based on what he told you. But behind closed doors I can guarantee you he’d be snot nosed crying if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/21 02:58 AM |
| 122 | Again with the height thing....LOL meanwhile In real life, most dudes are writing “I’m 6’3 cause I guess that matters??” On their OLD profiles to get a leg up (no pun intended haha) on their sub 5 foot competition. All the short men complaining just taught tall men to monopolize on their height now that they’ve learned how attractive it is to women. They’re going out so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 10:31 PM |
| 3 | What does FDS think of men who post a lot on social media?I think no social media is a good thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 02:24 AM |
| 257 | Step sister waited over 13 years for her boyfriend to propose to her.He’s definitely settling but he will never give up looking 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/21 01:34 AM |
| 0 | FDS women's overlap with mental health subreddits (and other interesting subs)Let’s get some stats on all the various types of rape and furry porn any average male Reddit user uses regularly and talk about that lmao. Man: Oh no she posts in raised by narcissist!!! Same man: subscribed to 20 NSFW sites counting down when 12 year olds turn 18. Just finished jacking off to their friends gf’s bikini pics and getting hard to incest fantasies daily. Men are actually sexually sick but y’all are never ready for that conversation which is why I’ll never take any male on this site … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:42 AM |
| 1 | Does an over reliance on advice hyper-focused on self-esteem and self-worth cause women to avoid the type of advice that may lead to painful realizations about themselves?You don’t like the messaging but the result is the same. FDS says “You’re a queen” so don’t get with a guy who… - is low effort - lies - manipulates - is in a relationship - juggles multiple women - negs They explicitly tell women not to date until she has shed her toxic pick me dating behaviors. The list goes on. Unavailable men have all the characteristics of a LVM. There are plenttttty of posts from women explaining how low self esteem and self worth caused them to chase unavailable men. The … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:35 AM |
| 1 | Men's problem with the current dating sceneWhy do women value themselves so much? Cause “hard working superior” chumps like you fund them and validate them simply for their looks. Then get resentful after using them to feel better about yourself LOL. You’re using each other. But don’t for a second think you’re better than her. You’ve accomplished so much but in the dating realm you’re desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 09:12 AM |
| 91 | Ladies please be careful while dating! Men like this still exist!“Will dump you and show no emotion” 😂😂 Aww scotes sad 😢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:01 AM |
| 0 | I’m confused - why very attractive women stick around dating apps?🤣🤣 You’re right. The average man is definitely the prize in the dating market. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/21 06:36 AM |
| 6 | I’m confused - why very attractive women stick around dating apps?It’s funny how men are so pressed to shame single women, meanwhile being a single attractive woman is one of the most powerful times in a woman’s life. But since guys can’t smash the hot ones they cope with “she’s crazy and secretly desperate for a relationship. Her single life is hell.” Trust. In this day in age, a woman can get a LOT out of being hot and single. Very few men are worth getting into a long term relationship for, and even then playing the field is fun as hell if you’re smart abou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 11:31 PM |
| 4 | I’m confused - why very attractive women stick around dating apps?Yes, reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/21 11:28 PM |
| 249 | Women just need to lower their standards 🙄“Date an ugly man, the ONLY reason he’ll pretend to court you longer is because he’s utterly desperate.” Ugly men use attractive women to sky rocket their own sexual and social value and it WORKS. It’s a no from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:21 PM |
| 9 | A HVM won’t be in contact with his ex….you know they were banging right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 07:50 AM |
| 7 | Hold upQuarantine in a nut shell. Quarantine saved me life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 06:15 AM |
| 2 | Another Reason to Never Reveal Trauma, You May Not Have Thought OfThis is the one, the two, and the three. I needed to hear this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 05:55 AM |
| 45 | Straight from the scrote horse’s mouth. When you take shit from men, they look down on you. Reason number 162738382929201 to never tolerate their BS.He is literally telling you he doesn’t have respect for you whenever you stay with him despite his bullshit. He insulted you so bad you’re making a Reddit post about it. It’s so obvious from the outside. But on the inside it’s like you’re in the house of mirrors with a fucking clown and you don’t know what’s real anymore. I’ve been there so I feel her. It took me one year to realize my ex lost respect for me everytime I took his scrote ass back, despite the snot nosed begs and pleads (which made… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 08:21 AM |
| 32 | On a popular sub not even an incel sub, i used to enjoy that sub but good lord it's a circle jerk of misogyny. But men have great senses of humor right. As long as no one jokes about them.Oh but if that sign said this ride only accepts people 6 feet and taller there’d be a nationwide mutiny. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 06:58 AM |
| 65 | NEVER AGAIN will I...Ooh I’ll join! Never again will I date a guy who... Doesn’t make me orgasm Isn’t a good kisser isn’t physically attractive betrays my trust more than once holds in and masks all of his feelings and emotions (passive aggressive f*cks) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 47 | Picture of men spending their time and energy writing hate paragraphs in my DMs only to be blocked in .01 seconds.10/10 post 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 11:05 PM |
| 64 | This is absolutely domestic abuse and he should be in fucking jail. I'm outragedCut her labia off for a guy who refuses to go down on her. Obviously any circumstances unacceptable but..like what?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 09:39 PM |
| 15 | Thank God for FDSHe’s for the streets. Awesome job love! 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/21 04:22 AM |
| 21 | So, you’ve exchanged social media handles with a man in your (sc)rotation (inspired by the FDS podcast episode on online dating).If you’re dating a guy with social media I don’t see how scrolling through his followers to vet if he’s following deprived sh*t is too much work? I do agree overall the state of dating right now is exhausting all together, which is why I’m not dating at all, but for women dating in today’s world this is necessary and not really heavy of a life imo. One porn star or PUA and you next him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 21 | How to parent a boyYou really can't prevent a teen from owning a smart phone / phone with internet. They will find a way to get to the internet without your supervision either through a friend's phone or buying a phone themselves and finding WiFi somewhere. Plenty of my friends with strict parents did that. This is like saying you couldn’t prevent your kids from seeing Playboy back in the day, so just buy them the pornographic magazines - they’ll see it anyway! Of course kids find ways around things, but that’s pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:57 AM |
| 18 | How to parent a boyYep. And to reiterate there’s a huge difference between a phone and a smart phone. No one actually needs a smart phone, especially not kids! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:38 PM |
| 13 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerWhat is the vid, if you don’t mind me asking? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 10:00 PM |
| 10 | BOYCOTT DATING APPS! (TRIGGER WARNING: R*pe, violence) Ladies, you are not a product to be consumed or a tool to be used and discarded by men. Especially not men like this. Protect yourselves by removing yourself from the equation.Just be 100% sure they’re not on the apps and never have been. It’s just one click away and 99% of men are porn addicts regardless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:36 PM |
| 43 | Stay Woke: Experts Predict STDs Will Spike This SummerMy question is, why does no one talk about HIV any more? Just cause it’s more manageable these days does not mean it’s not something we can’t catch anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:25 PM |
| 57 | How to parent a boyMy tips: don’t give him a phone with internet until he’s 17. It will be unpopular but at least he can form a functioning view of women during his adolescence before devolving like the rest of them. I truly believe children 6 - 16 who are in critical stages of cognitive development have no business with smart phones. It’s lazy parenting imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:23 PM |
| 52 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneHe’s a surgeon? Take him to the mother fucking cleaners. I know that’s the last thing you’re thinking of, but when the time comes, be merciless. That’s one of the main reasons why he doesn’t want you to leave. This may hurt to hear, but romantically and sexually he will move on very quickly when you leave. Make that alimony check hurt. Sorry not sorry to this vile scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:21 PM |
| 169 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneI’m so sorry you’re going through this. I saw so much of myself in your post. I felt the same way about both of my exes before going through their phones. Have you told him that you know? Edit: Just saw your other comments and see he’s already gaslighting you to hell and back. Oh this hurts my heart. Why do men love traumatizing good women? Is sick. Even if you start having passionate, animalistic sex with him everyday, it wouldn’t satisfy the level of depravity he has gotten used to with his pr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 09:17 PM |
| 129 | Why We Need A Sexual Double Standard (Against Men)High body counts in men are made up of 2 types of women: 1) Women they find very physically and emotionally unattractive and otherwise undesirable 2) Women who have humped and dumped them due to their poor sexual performance. In my experience, women with any moderate to high value and self awareness do most of the humping and dumping (if having sex at all) because, as we all know most men suck in bed and/or end up having below average penises. 99% of the time we don’t get to find this out until … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-inI mean, of course. Bisexuals come in every size, shape, and personality type. What matters most is whether YOU are attracted to him. I just know men being sexually attracted to other men is a visceral turn off to some women, so I wanted to raise that possibility in the case that’s something that matters to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:35 PM |
| 23 | Weekly FDS Check-inI have found a number of men very much like this that have turned out to be bisexual. Especially the very open minded, progressive, clean type. Non deprived bi guys tend to make good boyfriends to women because they’re sensitive, clean and more empathetic. This guy may be totally straight, but it’s something to look out for! I’d recommend engaging in a very light hearted conversation about sexuality. You’d have to be very disarming, but ask if he thinks it’s a big deal for men to experiment with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:25 PM |
| 79 | Had to share thisCan’t wait for each and every last one of their mistresses to get pregnant and refuse to leave the state for an abortion 🤣 Make sure to tell TMZ sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 10:01 PM |
| 15 | I'm sure we have all experienced this especially coercing you into sex because they're upset you don't like themGirl - 💀 Carry on 🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 08:50 PM |
| 47 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!Don’t judge your teenage friend for being targeted by a literal pedophile. It’s normal for girls to experiment with style and make up. It’s never okay for a grown ass man to zero in on a minor because of it. It’s disgusting and there is NO excuse. Nothing about the way she dressed warranted his disgusting behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:20 PM |
| 119 | Yes you CAN be intimidatingly beautiful and that's why scrotes don't approach you (a blessing in disguise)!Lol that’s hilarious. We’ve grown up to think this kind of behavior leads to the most romantic relationships.... But please, trust him and move on 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 4 | How to detach from men you have crushes onOoop this deserves its own post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:57 AM |
| 2 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?SAME IM SO INSPIRED BY THIS THREAD!!!! Can’t wait to get out there and kick some ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 5 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?I’m inspired by your baddassery!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 03:09 AM |
| 198 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."“Because matrimony is like an electric battery...once you join hands you can’t let go, however much it hurts” Okay Madam Margret with the bars 🤯 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:21 PM |
| 157 | Why 90% of Men Aren't Worth ItFantastic post lunatics who would rather eat out Stacy than be treated well by good woman like me!!!!! They want both!! They believe they deserve it all, at the same time. God forbid you tell them you’re bisexual. They want a wife who wipes their ass while they juggle multiple side chicks (aka affairs with low value women or innocent women who they’re lying to and ultimately traumatizing ). That’s why they beg for forgiveness every time they cheat. Cheating is their best shot at having a harem. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:15 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Yes this is all true, but men do this as well. The only difference is that they’ll sleep with nearly anyone and anything, but who they bring about in public or even talk about with friends all takes those same things into consideration. This is why you see men hiding bigger girls and only claiming thinner women. If your boys think your FWB is ugly/annoying/a hoe (despite you also being a hoe) you’re not going to claim her unless there’s a reason why you gotta (usually you love her or she’ll leav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 04:49 AM |
| 0 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?Deliver food? What do you do for work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/21 03:45 AM |
| 5 | I see your lovely dudes and raise you.... Charlie Hunnam in literally any formThis the onnnneee 🔥🔥🔥😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:11 AM |
| 5 | Stumbled upon this nugget while on OLD. Posted by a guy who looks like a clogged shower drain 😒 The scrodacity!Clogged mfking shower drain 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:44 AM |
| 5 | Anybody else feel re-traumatized and/or re-victimized over the way they're treated when they try to talk about their painful experiences with men?I’m so sorry, and I don’t mean to shame you in anyway, but please see a therapist. I’m afraid you overshare to people who do not care about you. Personally, my heartbreaks for you, but even this post is a very dangerous thing to do - posting your trauma for millions of men to get off to. They enjoy rape and pedophilia. I know it’s nearly impossible to conceptualize, but you must must must find a trusted female therapist to go to and work this out with. You are putting yourself and your mental he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 06:46 AM |
| 16 | How to stop women from seeing you as competition and more as leader/respectable friend?Just genuinely curious, why are you so adamant about charming a woman who is uninterested in being charmed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 09:17 AM |
| 255 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)This is the only type of man I’ll break my celibacy for. I’m hot and sweet. He should be too, period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:50 PM |
| 10 | I always block someone when they did me wrong, but accidentally deleted his number before I could block it. Right when I was starting to forget about him, he decides to text me today..... Please give me the strength to OFFICIALLY block his number 😕why are you contacting me after ghosting me for 2 months? You should really ask yourself why YOU’RE contacting him after he ghosted you for 2 months. Even if you’re at a time in your life where your self esteem is low and drives you to make conversation with scrotes who wouldn’t spit on you if you were on fire, find the strength to block them and walk away. I promise you in one week you will be sooooo relieved you did. I see your post is a literal cry for help. Here’s the kick in the butt you ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 267 | And you can be a whole Dragon Queen and end up with a JackassNow that I think of it, why tf was Fiona choosing between an ogre and a midget? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Men who say oddly specific things about their exThank God he’s an ex. I find that love to advertise that especially when they start cheating to lessen the blow when/if they get caught. So everyone knows you deserved it. Did that end up happening with your ex, to your knowledge? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:37 AM |
| 3 | A Valuable Message from @kitarose_ on TikTokThis the one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:55 AM |
| 7 | Men on unemployment think that this applies to them - at least it was an unemployed man who posted this. It doesn't matter how many hours some scrote works, a strong woman will NOT settle for this!!The unemployed audacity 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:46 AM |
| 191 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.If you’re going to have children, buy a house and combine finances with a man, marriage is better. That way when he cheats and fucks up you’re more likely to be entitled to what’s yours financially. Make sure your prenuptial agreements protect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 11:37 PM |
| 262 | Things That Perturb LVM 🤡An attractive woman....who knows she’s attractive 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 03:10 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-InThank you for reminding me that effeminate voices in men are one of my main turn offs. It’s one of the main reasons why I would try to do a phone call or video date before meeting a man. Unfortunately I noticed men with effeminate voices can be some of the sweetest guys out there...so rejecting them makes it extra hard. So I appreciate you bringing this up because this is definitely a standard that’s high on my list but unfortunately is tough for me to enforce when I’ve found myself dating a guy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 10:04 PM |
| 73 | LVM/NVM "Stuck" in Unhappy Relationships: An AssortmentGlad to hear you’re backing away but you need to block and delete all of these men. They’re using these women and they’re using you. These men are not your friends and they have as little respect for you as they do their wives. Don’t entertain the bitching of LVM. It is not friendship, it is not intimacy, it’s more abuse. Please walk away. They need a therapist, not more female attention outside of their relationships “lending them an ear.” Block and delete if you don’t want to become the emotio… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:17 AM |
| 18 | Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted ToIt’s quite scary isn’t it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:09 AM |
| 103 | NVM's wife raised the kids and managed their home for nearly two decades yet he resents her for not working? Feels like an abuse victim?? He has the option to retire early and live a comfortable life together but comments he rather have her work a cashier job "for the principle"Yeah cause older women without work history for 20 years have such an easy time picking up a career, post a worldwide pandemic nonetheless. Y’all how many affairs you think this man has had over the years? 5? 10? 20? On top of the standard porn addiction. Cry me a river scrote. 🥱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 03:32 AM |
| 82 | A little reminder before we select how to spend our precious time this lovely weekendYesss! And fun fact- the directors of Legally Blonde originally had the ending where she kisses her new fiancée. They changed it to focus solely on her own level up ✨ I Stan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:07 PM |
| 54 | The bar is in hell. I don’t know who’s worse: OP or the commenters!Let’s not forget he’s sexually getting off on posting about the details of his wife’s vagina so internet women can ooh and aw over him. I’m sure his wife is honored that the “coochie” she’s been ashamed of all her life is now a top post on a porn Internet site full of perverted male freaks and thirsty pick me’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 07:05 PM |
| 22 | I love tiktokSuch a Golden, underrated comment 🤣🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:28 AM |
| 27 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreIt appalled me at first but it’s genuinely the power of gaslighting - specifically by someone you believe loves you. By saying he was too drunk to remember he’s planting this seed of doubt in her head that holds her back from doing what she needs to do. Of course she needs to leave, but gaslighting is one hell of a mindf*ck. Hope sis wakes up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:18 AM |
| 17 | Reddit be likeNot pocket sized 💀 God forbid you mention ANYthing about their *whispers - private parts 🤭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:38 AM |
| 149 | The fact that a sizeable amount of men marry because they get too old to chase young women is GROSS.[They] asserted that they hadn’t become convinced they were too old for the singles scene because of one incident. It was a series of small incidents over a period of time that turned them off-usually comments made by one or more young women that made them realize they no longer fit into the place they had frequented for years. Lmfaooo this is me. I shame tf out of these 30+ year old scrotes who try to hit on me and bad mouth women their own age. I’m 25 and men 10 years older than me have nothin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:34 AM |
| 25 | 5 bucks says he’s never made a woman orgasmA lot of men are intensely jealous of us ladies, stay woke. They slut shame because our sexual poweress is absolutely unmatched. Don’t get bogged down in their projection and shaming. They want to be us. Many of them do their best to become us 🌚. It’s not a conspiracy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:29 PM |
| 15 | I Am Proud of MyselfYou get a standing ovation because sis, you were SUPPOSED to let this make you crumble. This break up was supposed to destroy you. You were supposed to take his offer of friendship then endure the pain of everything you brilliantly outlined in your post. It’s not going to be easy, healing of this nature is a plethora of ups and downs, but it does get better, and with this mindset you will improve and be better than ever. When/if the anger and frustration comes, feel it in its entirety and let if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 10:01 PM |
| 8 | Men are complex creatures....what?💀😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:25 AM |
| 284 | Instead of going on walk dates, buy yourself a trash grabber so that you can pick up trash in a way that at least benefits your local communityYessss And if you see a poor girl on an obvious first date at a park just snatch the scrote with your tongs and toss him in the nearest dumpster on your way out. For the environment of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:24 PM |
| 108 | It's okay to be sad that you're single❤️❤️❤️ What really makes me sad is that women, both single and attached all around the world are experiencing the same mourning and longing for the love we were all promised. I can’t tell you how many forever girlfriends and wives are longing for the love they thought was possible. Instead they feel trapped in a loveless relationship with a porn addict who takes them for granted. I got out of a relationship this year and my whole soul was longing for freedom, singledom and traveling. But I know … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 68 | Men Pushing Pregnancy During DatingYou know after he pumps you full of kids he will sleep with other women? Despite giving up your life to birth his spawn, you will NOT be the last woman he sleeps with. He’s not even thirty yet. He’s not even close to ready to settle down. But at your age 27 seems a lot older than it is. You raise the kids while he continues to date and live the dream. His legacy continues and you give up your life to make it so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 05:49 AM |
| 24 | The idea of "glowing up" after a break upYes yes yes! Loved what you said about waiting and doing it for the right reasons. Be careful of the wolves in sheep’s clothing that will swarm to you like hyenas now that you’re radiating a new confident energy. Everytime I’ve gotten myself in shape and feeling good, I’ve gotten swindled into a LTR. I’ve finally escaped my last one and am looking and feeling better than ever. I’ll be DAMNED with one of these scrotes try to “lock me down”. I’m living this summer single af. Focused on myself and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:44 AM |
| 5 | My hopes for the new generation of girls (from @extrafabulous on Twitter)If you notice, whoever is receiving the note has the note in their hands :) She’s definitely the one who wrote it and is giving it back. Smart girl 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 760 | If you're a Brown Woman dating a White Man, survey his inner circle of close friends and family. If you are the only POC in his life, you are a source of entertainment and validation of his liberal views, not a partner.While white men fetishizing other races is a definite and pervasive problem, as a non white woman who dates outside of my own race (both of my exes were white) it gets tiring constantly hearing that a white man can never love a non white woman and that they’re always with you for sick ulterior motives. Most WOC know the basic signs of a fetishist and racist, and while this piece of advice is a helpful clue, determining he IS ONLY DATING YOU FOR LIBERAL POINTS is not even close to absolute. To be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 05:45 PM |
| 21 | My break up continuedYou’re going to ruminate, and you’re going to ruminate HARD. Give yourself time and grace. This anger has the potential to be the single most motivating force of your life. All of the energy you spent on him is energy you will need to spend on yourself. The problem with doing nothing but ruminating for several months to a year is that despite how cathartic it may feel, it means your still WASTING your precious energy on him - except this time with zero benefits while he is out there moving on. B… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 167 | I shudder at therapists like this giving out this advice to vulnerable women.No wonder everyone on the relationship subs on this site scream GO TO THERAPY every time a woman posts about her abusive boyfriend/husband. So this kind of shit can be reinforced and the cycle of abuse against women can continue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:22 PM |
| 28 | Stop sexualizing women— not because they’re people too, but because it will benefit you more somehow. 🙄The point is most men are at least a little attracted to their girl friends, regardless of how we feel about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:23 PM |
| 173 | Starting over at 36...or "The Tiktok That Broke The Camel's Back"underage girl appreciation crowd. It’s okay. You can call them pedophiles. They jerk off to fantasies of child molestation and rape. Let’s hope his daughters were never on the receiving end of that. Vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 05:11 AM |
| 15 | For the marriage minded women, do not waste years of your life in a dead end relationshipWell I’ll clarify, no HVM repeatedly go after pickmeishas. Women are constantly blamed for “ruining” men, while men are conveniently never blamed for not pausing, seeking therapy and taking responsibility for their actions. People hurt people for sure, but a true HVM learns from his mistakes and makes more mature decisions. MOST men, like the ones you’re talking about, never do and continue chasing the wrong type of women (young and immature). Men get a lot of attention while dating “crazy women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 10:52 AM |
| 18 | For the marriage minded women, do not waste years of your life in a dead end relationshipNo HVM goes after a pickmeisha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:37 AM |
| 6 | The reason some men are so awful is because pick-mes let them get away with using and disrespecting them.Weird how mothers are ALWAYS to blame for poorly raising their sons and yet fathers, who are supposed to you know, teach men how to be men, are never ever even mentioned. 🎶 The bar is so low... 🎶 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 28 | Dating for the first time in a while and need adviceNever forget that men get A LOT more out of both casual and committed relationships with women pre-marriage. The longer you see him, the harder it’ll be to leave if you realize it’s not a match. You sound like a total prize, so don’t take it as an insult, but a man who is overly eager and pushy usually has a lot more to gain by winning your affection than you do. Whether that’s validation through sex, attention or a forced relationship. Also don’t forget COVID has been a very lonely and porn fue… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:08 AM |
| 21 | Louder for the lurkers in the backOr just beat the shit out of her so she’s still around to raise the kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Let’s talk about sexUnless you’re over his shoulder 24/7 it’s likely he isn’t 100% porn free. With meds, going 100% porn free should fix his issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 05:42 AM |
| 12 | I don't think I've come across a single HVM on dating websitesI could go on and on PLEASE DO. 😂😂😂 I have never laughed out loud so many times from a post on Reddit in my life. Lmfaooooo “THEN MOVE BITCH” 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:44 PM |
| 54 | "Top Ten Sexual Problems from Using Porn" - excerpt from The Porn Trap by Larry and Wendy Maltz... Remember, ladies, stay away from the porn addicts!Experiencing intrusive thoughts and images of porn during sex If nothing else, this is what makes me want to be celibate the most. This is the one thing women can never confirm because men won’t admit it, but straight from the houses mouth... Men are thinking about other women and literal porn scenes while “having sex” with you. If women knew the half of what went on regularly in the mind of men, even the “good” men, we’d never ever lay with one again. That I am certain of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 11:33 PM |
| 167 | Can we just laugh about howThe women are bred to be pick mes from birth though generational indoctrination at home and then further in their education system. They aren’t educated on birth control and they’re still heavily pushing the idea that marriage with kids is a woman’s only worth. Never under estimate the power of indoctrination. A lot of us in liberal states are just waking up to the severity of it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 04:02 AM |
| 6 | I don’t have a flair, but it’s so important for us to know who we’re marrying BEFORE we have kids!!!Orgasm? With him? That’s generous 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 04:13 PM |
| 93 | Mass shootings have been solved everyone! Turns out lack of access to women's bodies is why men go on violent rampages killing women/poc/children/everyone.But they already have access to sugar babies and paid sex...go on any ncel forum and they’ll tell you “it’s not the same” and that they’re still virgins despite buying sex from several prostitutes. Very very soon boyfriends and husbands will be expected to see prostitutes just like they’re currently expected to watch porn, go to strip clubs and have bachelor parties with escorts. It’s already soooooo bad for wives but nobody gives a shit and it’s only going to get worse. Literally if you have “v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 63 | How can I know if a guy who is chasing me does not see me as a consolation prize?There’s no use agonizing if you’re the hottest girl he’s going to get when it’s a known fact most men cheat “down” anyway. You’ll never be the hottest girl and he damn sure won’t be the the most desirable guy out there. Trust me, men are more concerned with this than women are. They decry “hypergamy!!” Every time a woman upgrades cause men can’t comprehend not sleeping with anything that moves. Choose a man who loves you and leaves no doubts in your mind. Many times if you’re TOO hot for him, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Women and men both know quickly in the beginning of a relationship and moral people should act accordinglyNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:43 AM |
| 3 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?Have you ever pursued a girl above your league? What tends to happen? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:41 AM |
| 5 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?Didn’t read a single lie here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:36 AM |
| 4 | Why don't less attractive guys just date less attractive girls?Men continuously hate fuck women they have no respect for and wonder why they’re so miserable and empty inside lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 07:34 AM |
| 23 | The nest post reminded me of this gem where a woman finds her husband's cumrags and thousands of piss bottles😂😂 True! One can only hope with this cesspool of a site. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 04:19 AM |
| 47 | The nest post reminded me of this gem where a woman finds her husband's cumrags and thousands of piss bottlesI mean is that much better though?? Lol either way the author is one sick scrote 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 04:17 AM |
| 11 | Men don't value friendships with women because it takes away time and effort from pursuing romantic/sexual relationships.Men benefit immensely from good female friendships. It’s the way you carry yourself though. You can be a friend or you can be an orbiter. Friends get a lot benefits, orbiters volunteer to get used. So many people on Reddit are crippingly socially inept so they can’t fathom friendships with women. It’s been quite fascinating to observe but it explains a lot of the anger and confusion I see on this sub. My close friendships are very reciprocal and genuine. The ones that become lop sided have to be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 09:38 PM |
| 110 | It may not be All men but it’s enough menMen: BUT 100% OF THE PEOPLE WHO DIDN’T SUCK MY PP ON DEMAND...YOU GUESSED IT - fEmALez!!1!! And thus The Red Pill was born which facilitated the rape, manipulation, stalking and murder of likely millions of women at this point. And yet they claim we live life on easy mode 🙃. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Personal Opinion: FDS should be private indefinitelySorry, is the community currently private? Who gets access to the private sub? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:46 AM |
| 86 | Tragic Example of The Mask Slipping AFTER Marriage and Baby. Always be willing and ABLE to LEAVE Sisters!!No. Men hardly know it’s going to happen to them. No matter what he promises prior to knocking you up, there’s no telling how he’ll “feel” when it’s all said and done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:41 AM |
| 16 | Great take on Derrick Jaxn cheating scandalWhat hurts me more is she’s one of hundreds. Thank God she came forward. All the rest just got blocked in silence. Play stupid games win stupid prizes. These side chicks just want money fame and drama. She’s not the first and she won’t be the last. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:20 AM |
| 98 | Reddit's Trying Really Hard Right Now to Pretend They Didn't Knowingly Hire A Known Pedophile Apologist and Use Them to Destroy Those Pesky Feminist Subreddits Who've Been IDing all the Rape PornWe’re going to start seeing a lot of “women” pedophiles in the near future. Lib fems will scream “See?! Women are just as pedophilic as men are!!” 🥴 🎪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 03:49 AM |
| 1 | You Got Shitty Genetics? Then Chances are that You'll never ever get Laid. At least with Whomever you wished to get Laid With!Pretty sure this is considered a woe is me post anyway. I’ll save my breath. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:18 PM |
| 9 | You Got Shitty Genetics? Then Chances are that You'll never ever get Laid. At least with Whomever you wished to get Laid With!But there's no way it is possible for people like me to date what you call a 10 or even a 7. All right that's it. Thanos was right! So you’re racist, ableist and lookist yourself but your crying because your white queen won’t date you? Lookism is real but I have very little sympathy for men like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:08 PM |
| 4 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanAs someone with a natural hourglass figure, I understand that. I support plastic surgery. Lookism gets women unimaginable perks, so I get that. It was just funny seeing a man link a body type that was fake. It’s like a woman linking a guy with an ideal dick size but the link is a pic with a man with a fake dick that’s 9 inches long. Like “yes this is fake but some men have it naturally and this is ideal please and thank you!” It’s just amusing is all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.Again, what’s the difference from a rake? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships......and how do “rakes” get sex... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.Find me a human being that’s 30 and not bitter and jaded, man or woman. Women are often jaded from a place of huge privilege. Men are also hugely bitter for different reasons. But your response shows you don’t interact with many non bitter people. Tells us more about you than anyone. That was quite the passionate rant tho lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.No they’re definitely called fuck boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:07 PM |
| 2 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanYep this the one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 04:05 PM |
| 4 | Describe a 5/10 man and a 5/10 womanNot that you care, but her body is fake. Lol. Men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 03:54 PM |
| 73 | Any teachers leave because of the misogyny or to level up?Not to mention every dude you date “yOuRe a TeAcHer? Bet all the underaged boys wanna f**** you!!!! Wish my teacher lOoKeD LiKe YoU” I always cringe and block immediately. The porn cup runeth over. As if teachers don’t deal with enough abuse at school as it is. People don’t even respect the profession, and with the shit pay wtf is the point? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 01:27 AM |
| 12 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.Attractive women with self esteem have the sex they want. They have sex with with men who have highly attractive qualities, whether it’s his physique, his confidence, his ambition/success, his adoration of her (while also being attractive in some way). Very rarely do women have sex with men they’re unattracted to or don’t get something out of. That’s something men do to themselves and rage about afterwards. Most average men with very high n counts are used to having sex with women they wouldn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.And what’s your n count? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 01:02 AM |
| 16 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.Men would call their same casual dating habits as promiscuity in a woman, while never thinking themselves as sluts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Isn’t the mere existence of TRP and FDS proof that they are effective and ineffective (respectively speaking)?Do all the men on TRP get laid by hot chicks or are most of them incels practicing misogyny with better looking men who wouldn’t be caught dead standing next to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 12:45 AM |
| 16 | Spotted in the WildMost scrotes would drive hours for sex, free food and a comfy place to sleep. It’s less of a HV thing and more of a convenience thing. You know what to do 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:37 PM |
| 22 | OLD Cautionary Tales: I rejected men that seemed good on paper.Ugh I love these detailed field reports!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?Anything but holding the scores of cheating men accountable 🤣🤣 YES SIR! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 04:07 AM |
| 2 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?Lol k. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 03:46 AM |
| 1 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?Never cheated, never knowingly been with an attached man but unfortunately I’ve been tricked by attached men as have very woman I know. But that’s my fault right? Do you still get off to whores while sleeping with your wives and children? If so, I’m proud of you. If not, of course lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?And yet men accuse women of intentionally settling for ugly dudes they’re not attracted to everyday in this sub. Every girl I know got played by the safe guy she wasn’t attracted to. You know what happens when men get desirable girlfriends, preselection. Something very popular in the TRP sphere. “Good” guys get big ass heads from locking down the hot girl. Then he gets attention from other women and his former fidelity is toast. Every girl I know has gotten played by the “good guy”. They’re usua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 2 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?Yep and like I said you’re going to “but the women deserve it because they chose bad guysss” me to death so I’m not going to waste my breath. If a woman is abused and cheated on it’s ALWAYS her fault. Especially as a wife. This is exactly why it’s not even worth it for women to get married. No one gives a shit what happens to them, it will always be their fault. We can make our own money and have our own babies now. It’s not idea, but marriage is a sham for women, and that’s the point. This narr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 01:05 AM |
| 2 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?Metro but I have lived in rural settings before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 12:48 AM |
| 5 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?All men. Short men tall men men who put their family pictures up at work and men who will never mention his family until they show up at the Christmas party. Bosses coworkers friends you name it. Men aren’t great at marriage. I think they try really hard at first but they suffer from grass is greener syndrome. But you can “those are just BAD men and it’s the WOMANS FAULT for choosing a bad man!!” Me all you want but these dudes are just like any other. Fell in love with a young woman, married he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Men using weight as a rebuttal for lofty preferencesA lot of men need to learn not to dish it if they can’t take it. Because for ever one woman who is being insulted for her physical body and does make a jab at the man’s height/attractiveness/dick size, there are a thousand more girls who will think it, but bite their tongues. There’s a lot of areas a woman can destroy a man’s ego but most won’t. FDS can destroyed a lot of men’s psyche because they’re not used to locker room talk from women. Women are socialized to shut up about it but that’s cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 12:17 AM |
| 5 | What's going to change as many millenial women are now entering their late 30s/early 40s while still single?Yeah but you can say the same thing about married women in their 40s. Believe it or not men aren’t the best at wooing women they’ve dated and raised kids with year after year. Tons of married women are exhausted in dead bead rooms. We need to stop pretending marriage is all rainbows and butterflies. A lot of women know the truth about men getting to comfortable in relationships...all of them end up cheating or humiliating their wives in some way. It’s exhausting and so unattractive. You can NOTA… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Female Dating StrategyWomen will always be wanted. If we die alone that will always be, 110% our choice. Men don’t live in that reality therefore can’t fathom that. Men and women are different and no amount of male projection will change that reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating StrategyLike choosing men who doesn’t neg you and expect sex on the third date? Yeah I think they’ll cut those losses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Female Dating StrategyYou’re Joking right? The entire FDS sub centers around looking for red flags and walking away from bad men early. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 39 | So apparently watching porn to get turned on before having sex with your partner is normal... And the comments are not even by men.. 🤢Those downvotes are mostly from lurking scrotes. Thousands of men rage lurk here daily. The mods just block their comments faster than the speed of light luckily! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:42 PM |
| 10 | The Empathetic i Am oN yOuR sIdE MaleHAH. Of course he has a girlfriend. Would you think it was high value of your boyfriend to send paragraphs of text to a random woman on Reddit going on and on almost entirely about his ex girlfriend? Low value creep and narcissist. They talk the talk and yet he has a whole girlfriend he’s neglecting as he types this. He’s obsessed with women and female attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:48 AM |
| 16 | Saweetie demonstrates how you clear a fuckboy and his attempted gaslightYou’re still confused so I can clarify. Ever met a girl try to get on your good side by talking mad shit about everyone else and kissing your ass? Pick me’s do this. These are the type of women Saweetie is saying is are not friends of hers. There’s a popular type of “friend” out there who makes friendships based solely on talking shit about others and making frenemies. That’s pick me behavior in my book but evidently not to you. To each their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 11:21 PM |
| 24 | Saweetie demonstrates how you clear a fuckboy and his attempted gaslightPick mes make terrible friends. Ever met a girl try to get on your good side by talking mad shit about everyone else and kissing your ass? Maybe not, but I have. This line resonates. It’s not good to tear women down but pick mes exist and it’s better to stay away from the drama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:35 PM |
| 49 | I can't believe thisI stopped reading after a few sentences. Whew. Just glad she’s out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 08:11 PM |
| 20 | This doctor is on Tiktok telling people porn addiction doesn't exist. Wtf has the world come to?Who are you trying to convince, us or yourself buddy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 22 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-in...this is exactly what happened to me. As I wrote recently in another comment, I grew so desperate for sex - but why wouldn’t I? I was being faithful and not watching porn. When your ONLY sexual outlet is your partner, you tend to actually value it and crave it. But your comment explains the other side of it as well. An anxiety bubbles due to all of the rejection and neglect, which causes us to kink meisha ourselves just get a crumb of sexual and emotional intimacy. This shit is so exhausting a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:32 AM |
| 4 | America's Next Top Model is male propaganda that grooms young women to think they're not allowed to say "no"If this is what they televised, imagine what real models went through and still go through to this day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:42 AM |
| 59 | How To Avoid The “Nice Guy”Well written and well organized. Thanks sis this was super insightful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:30 AM |
| 39 | On today's episode of Count The Red Flags!I’ve never actually seen a grown man out his fingers in his ears like that before lmfao. Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 10:11 PM |
| 77 | We've all heard of gaslighting, but what about when we delude ourselves? A man like this is not "amazing"!It’s not about age, it’s about new. Attractive twenty year olds get cheated on everyday (I am one LOL ask me how I know). Fun fact: Every time I’ve been cheated on it’s been with an older, less conventionally attractive woman. They beat it off to porn stars then cheat with whoever they get their hands on because their pair bonding abilities are fried. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 10:08 PM |
| 119 | We've all heard of gaslighting, but what about when we delude ourselves? A man like this is not "amazing"!I was in a similar place with my ex. They trap you with good enthusiastic sex during the honeymoon phase, then tapper off into porn dependency later on. If he’s an otherwise decent dude, is clean, respectful, financially generous etc. it becomes surprisingly difficult to leave the relationship. With all the horror stories of LVM not washing their ass or demanding 50/50, it’s easy to feel like a shitty sex life is a terrible, selfish reason to leave- especially as a woman. That’s how it was for m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 09:01 PM |
| 89 | Don’t let your guard down for a single second ladies... Exhibit A as seen on AskTRPThey’re saying female genitalia protects them from dire fate because they’re the ones who want to kll women.* The only reason they don’t is because they need women for sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:56 AM |
| 25 | Men and their double standards will never fail to astound me.If anything this video should discourage pick mes from seeking validation and respect from men through only fans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 01:36 AM |
| 3 | What do y’all think about this video? Asking because I don’t know what to thinkThe problem is she has no idea what radical feminism is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:01 PM |
| 19 | Why are men?We love a practical queen 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 02:30 AM |
| 58 | Men will date you while still looking for his wife ..“Waiting for his wife” is a false narrative. A man sleeping with a harem of women is NOT husband material full stop. There is no “waiting for his wife” it’s just waiting for his most naive victim who will let him run the same game he’s running on you. At best he’ll just hide it better and maybe show her off in public. At worst her trauma is pending. We need to stop comparing ourselves to these invisible “wives” and just leave men who do not treat us well. If you want commitment and he doesn’t? L… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 11:20 PM |
| 13 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactPretty little liar vibes lolll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:27 AM |
| 46 | Of course the comments are filled with disgusting men 🙄Not the “pick me” at the end screaming “IM ACTUALLY 17!!!” In the middle of sex with grown men💀 Like okay sir that’s enough porn for the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:12 PM |
| 109 | Another gem from my Facebook group 😂“Let’s call it the G-Spot...they’ll never find it” 💀 💀 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 11:04 PM |
| 122 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.I thought exactly this. He never made any money and she worked hard for the career she had and wanted to spend her life enjoying that fruits of her labor. Scrote couldn’t have that and trapped her with a baby. I hope she makes a full recovery and leaves him to raise HIS kids and live the life she wanted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:25 PM |
| 561 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.My apologies in advance if this is insensitive to say, but it sounds like the infertility was a blessing for you. A man who leaves because of that was never a man worth shackling yourself to with kids. Perhaps it was your body (or his crusty sperm) dodging a bullet for you. Life has a funny way of doing that. I’m sorry for the pain that must have caused you. I’m glad the trash took itself out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 220 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.He’ll definitely cheat if he hasn’t already. He’ll leave her soon when he gets the chance. Even without all of the other horrific trauma, this is where marriage and kids with a man gets you most of the time anyway. “I hate my life. Even though it was my choice, I want out.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 4 | Absolutely sickening!!!!And...I’m supposed to have a child with one? HA. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 09:08 PM |
| 67 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"If women wanted their gross sperm to have children they could do so EASILY. All these men are the same ones who beg women to sleep with them without condoms 🤮🤮🤮🤮 Then are pikachu faced when women have the aUdAcItY to pop up pregnant. The only reason why 99% more women arent pregnant today is because we continue to go above and beyond to prevent pregnancy with these losers. I’m thankful for my IUD everyday, and yet, since being single, I haven’t had sex yet. Somehow, none of these dudes have been… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:49 PM |
| 17 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"I’m not sure what you mean by women in Denmark got this wrong? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 08:46 PM |
| 23 | Vet vet vet to prevent this!Poor girl is all messed up over a scrote who undoubtedly couldn’t make her cum if he tried. Imo that’s the real tragedy here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:09 PM |
| 64 | Vet vet vet to prevent this!If you’re going to be in the game, this is the only way to play it. I am 100% certain this man did not make this woman cum, nor was he even average in bed. And yet, all this audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Study: Women are more likely to forgive their partners bad behavior after being approached by an attractive manIn this sub? Now you’re joking 🙃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 12 | Penis size matters as much as height, but only for tall guysLollls that’s tuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 6 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offWhen I switch to “I would kick this bitch to the curb in 2 seconds” Classy. Calling women bitches. Anyway, women, like men, enjoy challenges. Hot girls get drooled over all day. It’s boring, so it’s no wonder their interest increases when a good looking man isn’t drooling all over them all the time. As an attractive woman myself I enjoy a man that is confident in himself but not cocky. What you so eloquently described may attract the type of hot girl who is high n but choosy about it. They like … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 05:45 PM |
| 106 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menSame. They don’t want us telling women to leave their abusers anymore. Sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:10 PM |
| 3 | Study: Women are more likely to forgive their partners bad behavior after being approached by an attractive manI’m not sure why my comment personally triggered you though? I’m responding to the evidence in the study. And it’s true men have very little self control when it comes to forgoing attractive opportunities to cheat. Even really great guys struggle greatly with this. Vast majority of men couldn’t even give up porn even if it hurt their SO. It’s just the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Study: Women are more likely to forgive their partners bad behavior after being approached by an attractive man....you just read that men devalue their gfs immediately after talking to a hot women and you walked away with women being shallow for doing the opposite? The mental gymnastics... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 05:17 AM |
| 5 | Study: Women are more likely to forgive their partners bad behavior after being approached by an attractive manI think this is why women tend to leave relationships without having a back up and men cheat rampantly with whichever downgrade is willing. Women have the abundance mindset that allows them to acknowledge that they have many attractive options and suitors without needing to sleep with all of them. Watch as no men acknowledge their own monkey branching and inability to respect their Long term relationships. It’s sad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Study: Women are more likely to forgive their partners bad behavior after being approached by an attractive manBetter than automatically devaluing and critiquing your partner just because someone hot comes along right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 05:10 AM |
| 13 | Most guys who don't "pump and dump" only don't because they can't without going sexless for long stretchesBut if she’s attractive and enjoyable to have sex with he’s not going to want to hump and dump? If a man is humping and dumping regularly it means he’s 1) Only Boning unattractive chicks he’s embarrassed by Or 2) Is afraid of being left first; ie insecure The point of casual sex is to have good and fulfilling casual sex. Only virgins think a man sleeping with 100 women once is impressive. If that’s the case it’s guaranteed they were almost all unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:59 AM |
| 2 | “Male entitlement” isn’t nearly as common as women make it, they project their own entitlementAs the title says, Ive never met a man who actually felt entitled to women or a woman’s body. Lmfaooo well this is just lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:42 AM |
| 20 | Girl posts about not liking her boyfriends hentai habit, gets flamed in the comments for being apparently insecure and jealousPlease for the love of god leave that loser with his cartoon tits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.just that you should view you bag as something men should care about. Uhh isn’t this directly contrary to your post? Or am I just another female hearing what I want to hear? Lolll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:54 PM |
| 5 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.Yeah you don’t like it when women have their own comfort and security. The gag is, 35 and 55 year old baristas refusing to level up in their careers are more ignored by high value men than successful women at that age. Trust, I’m 25 and have watched men all my life trip over themselves to provide for me. It’s actually insane. I’ve decided to go to a top business school and make bank for myself. I’ll be the “poor” but studious student guys love for the next couple years but once I start making ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.Women have always chosen money over men. Before we needed to marry men to get money. These days, we can skip this step. Plenty of women who married for money are lonely. Man decide being single and free is worth it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 4 | Men don't care about a woman's education, career, or money. The salesman doesn't get to decide what the buyer wants. If you want a good man you should be willing to provide what that man's looking for.Omfg. Men will fuck anything. Rich or poor. Sooo women make money to support themselves and hope a man is secure enough to not let that threaten him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 35 | Key difference between LVM & HVMYep. My “HVM” didn’t make big fuck ups often, but when he did, he addressed them the way a HVM should. Problem is after 4 years, I finally decided to stop being collateral damage to his “growth.” 3 big fuck ups a year started wearing on me, even when he apologized and “changed” his behaviors. Turns out he was porn sick and exceptionally good at hiding it. By the 4th year I said you know what, I’m out. And he FINALLY came clean about the secret porn addiction. Porn addiction manifests in MANY way… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.If you’re so iNsEcUre So you’d be fine with your gf posting faceless nudes on reddit to get off? What if that’s what she needs to orgasm and masturbate? It’s funny cause y’all could never take what you dish out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: Friends with benefits is a scam!One of them said she sounds like an prostitute or escort or something. Idk which scrote is which, I just find it ironic to find out they have the audacity to call a woman an escort when ones having a baby (and thus will pay a fuck ton of child support LOL) with a porn star. Hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Reminder: Friends with benefits is a scam!“So she’s a prostitute” Uh, you mean like your girlfriend dude? The mother of your child? This you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 9 | How lvms are created :(Yep again, that’s where the father comes in to make the correction. My mom coddles my brother and “raises” me. But guess what? My DAD coddles and adores me, his baby girl, while he is more stern with my brother and doesn’t coddle him at ALL. It would have been better if my parents weren’t divorced. In a healthy family I think the dynamic happens for a reason. The same sex parent teaches you how to be that sex. Dads should be more stern with their sons. THIS is how you fix something. THIS is how … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:32 PM |
| 11 | How lvms are created :(It’s because children, especially young boys, need fathers to do this parenting. Women can do it alone if she gives her life up for it but most can’t. I know I can’t. Ask his dad why he doesn’t teach his kid to make a sandwich rather than his mom. It’s his job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:17 PM |
| 48 | Would you consider her a pickme ? I feel like I understand her message but it seems like she’s using this for validation given the men in her comments...Just by walking next to me a man’s attractiveness to other women skyrockets. Why would I pay for the validation I am giving him with my presence? All of my guy friends and past bfs (2 LTRs) benefitted hugely just by having a smart, beautiful woman on their arm. Men use the experience they get from dating women they desire to attract hordes of other women. The confidence boost, the sexual practice (unfortunately for everyone I was young and naive and faked orgasms- I thought at the time it was th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Why is lesbian prostitution almost non-existent, yet gay prostitution is thriving?Thennnnnnnn answer your own question...? I don’t understand what’s so hard about this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is lesbian prostitution almost non-existent, yet gay prostitution is thriving?Clearly you didn’t read the thread. You can do that and answer your own question | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Why is lesbian prostitution almost non-existent, yet gay prostitution is thriving?Can you imagine if men were slightly less self controlled? Our would not probably not be such a peaceful and consenting world, like it is right now. If anything, way too many men are so used to self control, they do it too much and become depressed by it. Men can’t be faithful long term and if they’re too undesirable to get it in real life they get it from porn. On one had you say men are transparent about their nature and then admit they must hide it lest they be shunned by society. Either way … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Attractive women play "hard to get" at first to quickly filter out weak-willed menFirst night, early on. Same thing. My point stands. There will always be give and take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most relationships are initiated/founded on covert contractsThen why are the most attractive, fit women still getting cheated on? Most times men cheat down. They cheat based on opportunity and excitement. It is an utter fallacy that they only cheat when you’ve gotten fat. It’s all about opportunity for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Why is lesbian prostitution almost non-existent, yet gay prostitution is thriving?Yep. And it demands that you have as many women as you can. One will never be enough. I wish men would tell women this truth before marriage/commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 08:41 AM |
| 3 | Why is lesbian prostitution almost non-existent, yet gay prostitution is thriving?Most men cum every time from sex. Most women don’t. Shouldn’t they also have the right to get something out of sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 08:34 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Most relationships are initiated/founded on covert contractsAnd men sell women the lies that they can remain faithful and committed to them in mind body and spirit. Truth is they’re constantly undressing women they see in their minds and remain dependent on porn. If women knew 10% of what goes on I. The average male mind, they’d never marry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 08:28 AM |
| 0 | Attractive women play "hard to get" at first to quickly filter out weak-willed menIt’s funny cause the men who require you to sleep with them on the first night will judge tf out of you for it. Men don’t like whores. Whore sleep with guys they rEaLLy LiKe on the first night. Y’all convince yourselves you’re the special exception to justify going on another date with her. But ultimately these are the girls guys choose to pump and dump or have non commital sex with. “Well my ex and I slept together on the first date and we got into a commitment!” Yep and as soon as you broke up… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 08:17 AM |
| 3 | Attractive women play "hard to get" at first to quickly filter out weak-willed menOrbiters are not strung along though. They’re put into the friend zone and they agree to stay there. Stop acting likely they’re so unable to make decisions for themselves. Most orbiters just play the long game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 08:10 AM |
| 2 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.Sad and lonely men? You are all literally addicted to whores. You cannot go one week, much less a day without porn. For every one e-girl there are thousands of not millions of men ready to shell out money to watch her get naked despite having the same or “worse” body than thousands of other girls. If men are victims, they’re victims of their own Biology and dependency on sex in all it’s forms, loving and not so loving. Men desire the Madonna and the whore at the same time. The lie they sell wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:58 AM |
| 1 | If the problem with no sex (or not enough sex) isn't solely about sex, people need to make that very clear.Does he watch porn? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:52 AM |
| 2 | Is ANY contact with an ex unacceptable?LOL so your argument that men in relationships won’t sleep with their exes because they CANT. I swear all of your morality comes from the fact that you cant. Not because you won’t cause you shouldn’t. You’re not a better person just cause you emotionally cheat on your girlfriend with an ex who is stringing you along cause you’re infatuated with the attention. Everyone knows, including you, that once that ex decides to pursue a guy in a relationship, his ability to resist is zero. They hook up th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:44 AM |
| 2 | Vetting is overratedThis assumes one can continuously fall in love and be as naive as they were when they were young...for years. There’s a reason why men and women get jaded and bitter as they’re older. It’s the residual pain of their younger years. Before people vetted, and loved based on circumstance and butterflies, we danced into traps we can see as clear as day now. Why? We were young. We didn’t know better. The problem isn’t “deciding” to vet. The problem is being a functioning adult and learning from past m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 07:04 AM |
| 2 | The societal role of mother kills the sex life not the kidThose guys usually end up being the best lovers because they have little else to offer (emotional connection and longer periods of fidelity due to lack of options as well). It works for a little but these men usually end up like the rest. Uninterested in keeping up the effort. Especially when a new girl takes their interest and they can home hop lol. Seen it far too many times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:44 AM |
| 4 | The societal role of mother kills the sex life not the kidYou sound extremely privileged and self centered. You honestly can’t imagine one reason why raising a child could be hard? You must live a sheltered life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/21 06:17 AM |
| 3 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?It’s like....who told you insulting women was a fucking turn on for us???!!! Delusional. So glad us women are catching on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:10 PM |
| 11 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?NEGGING! It’s almost disturbing to admit how much something as simple as putting a name to something that should be so obvious has helped me weed out LVM so much faster! Now when I hear negging, all I see is an insecure misogynist in front of me and it makes me recoil. Then these scrotes are shocked when I block and delete immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:55 PM |
| 71 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.Oh PLEASE. As if Russell hasn’t probably already met and likely entertained thousands of those “bitches” before. Men who are eager to be high value and date high value KNOW what’s on the other side. These incels have never in their lives known what it’s like to have hordes of women throw themselves at them, so they can’t fathom that a man who has had that most of his life, decides to settle down and be high value. No woman will love and Cherish him like Ciara. He knows that. He’s not going to en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 1 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.Thanks for the info! Freezing eggs are one of many many options including adoption. Everything has pros and cons. I’ve watched too many failed marriages to not be open and excited to all other alternatives. It’s awesome that as time goes on these alternatives only expand and improve! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/21 08:32 AM |
| 3 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.Like do men going out of their way to find alternative routes to have children if they’re unable to find the right person? If not, does that indicate they’re not that interested in fatherhood? I just wonder what this suggests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Women should not take dating advice from women whose value and/or beauty is higher than theirsLol RIGHT. It’s like, they go in knowing men are polyamorous and addicted to porn. What do they expect, men will stop being obsessed with other women just because they made vows? Silly silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 4 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.Thanks! Do you think men taking the initiative to find alternative ways to be fathers indicate that they’re not actually as interested in fatherhood as we previously assumed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 9 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.Raising kids in your 30s when you’re miserable and wanting freedom is far more tiring. My mom had me at 42. She still runs marathons with me. I’ll be okay ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 10:51 PM |
| 7 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.Yeah as a woman in my mid 20s who thought she wanted the nuclear family like everyone else, I’m asking myself the same thing. My solution rn is to freeze my eggs in my thirties and have children in my 40s. By then I’ll have lived the life I want. If I’m not with a partner I love, I’ll have a more informed decision about going into single mother hood. I think single mother hood from 40-60 (raising the kids to adult hood) sounds amazing. I will have realistic expectations about my life, I’ll be ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 10:49 PM |
| 3 | Women should not take dating advice from women whose value and/or beauty is higher than theirsMost women are single mothers. Even white married women don’t like their husbands. Over 50% of marriages end and the rest have outside affairs/are not optimal. Marriage means little for women these days. Mostly empty promises. Don’t women initiate 70% of the divorces like y’all love to say? What they envisioned for a husband vs. what they get almost never line up. Women are opting to be single mothers are sky rocketing rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 10:34 PM |
| 17 | The widespread opinion that men do not carry their weight in marriage is a good reason for men not to marry.This is a list of exactly why women shouldn’t get married, but the outcome is the same. I don’t think ANYONE is prepared for the sacrifices and thanklessness that comes from raising a family. No one gives a shit about parents. People are too self preserving to handle it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/21 10:13 PM |
| 62 | Reminder: they literally see us as objects to possess and discard (and you should keep your personal business to yourself)and then they date/impregnate/marry exactly what they said they wouldn’t? Yep, and then turn around and cheat on HER with an entirely different type of women. Men don’t have types or preferences. Their preference is new and easy. That’s why HVM are extremely rare. They choose a woman and appreciate her. Most men get so excited at the idea of a pick me wanting sex with them, they’ll cheat on their ideal partners with women they’d be ashamed to be seen with. Videos like these try to get us off the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 10:01 PM |
| 107 | Reminder: they literally see us as objects to possess and discard (and you should keep your personal business to yourself)Every time I’ve gotten cheated on, it was with an older pick me. Men don’t care about age. They care about easy. Naive 20 year old = Pick me 35 year old. They’re all the same in their eyes. Stay woke y’all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:58 AM |
| 31 | Dispell the myth that LVM aren't smart enough to absolutely destroy MOST women's lives.Dang do you know if you can make these clickable links? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:31 AM |
| 69 | Dispell the myth that LVM aren't smart enough to absolutely destroy MOST women's lives.I read that to mean always maintain financial independence, a strong support system, and multiple other avenues of happiness and purpose. I had all of those things when breaking up with my ex of 4 years and I bounced back way faster than most women I know who gave up more. My advice, if you want to pursue love, fine. Unfortunately we cannot be vulnerable in any way shape or form with them these days, which may defeat the purpose of the relationship. That’s up to women to decide. I’m not dating f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:29 AM |
| 21 | Hot Take: There is no 'way' to meet a High Value ManAlso just because you meet him off OLD, doesn’t mean he’s not on OLD. Unless he’s in a relationship, he’s probably on old doing all the deprived things everyone else is doing. I do think men see you in a better light if they meet you off old, but it doesn’t change their LVM status. Great post OP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:25 PM |
| 1 | A study showed that unattractive women are more likely to cheat than attractive womenI didn’t say they were cheating. No one brought up relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREAlso I saw this and wanted to share. I resonate with this story exactly and I think dudes would be surprised how common it is! https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/l5dg7s/my_boyfriend_is_mad_at_me_because_i_got_myself_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREWell, not for the next year or so. I have a lot of goals to achieve, and since I’m fresh off a break up, I don’t want to be distracted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | A study showed that unattractive women are more likely to cheat than attractive womenWould it depress you to hear frat stars are worse because prostitutes and cam girls were included? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 04:11 PM |
| 32 | Flex your support system while datingYep! Love this. Also, don’t date until you have this network actually in place around you. If you moved for work you’re entire focus for the first few months should be to develop a strong network of friends before attempting to date. Easier said then done I know, but if your man is your only support system, you’re...not gunna have a good time for all the reasons brilliantly explained in this post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Unskilled "giver" men, not selfish lovers, are what make casual sex bad for womenWait so is your post saying that selfish lovers are good because they pound you harder? Just sounds like he’s a hot selfish lover who can’t and won’t go down on you so he fucks you hard but he’s hot and manly so you let it go? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 4 | Unskilled "giver" men, not selfish lovers, are what make casual sex bad for womenUhhh no. Selfish lovers rarely know how to make women cum. They over compensate by doing too much during sex, making a big show of their masculinity, meanwhile they have no idea where the clit is or how to use to to lead the woman to orgasm. It takes age and experience for a woman to realize this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 50 | Neurodivergents & the Manic Pixie Dream Girl TrapWhew I’ve always heard of this trope, but you fully fleshing it out makes me realizes I’m very much this girl deep down, although I try to mute it in professional and initial dating settings because I know no one takes us seriously, but they can never, ever get enough of us and all the joy we bring to their lives. Besides professional settings, I have pretty low inhibition. It’s brought me some of the most amazing memories I have to date. But it’s also attracted men like flies. This is why, at t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREThanks! I hope I don’t lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREYep! I got a vibrator and just explored. I always thought I just couldn’t orgasm. Or maybe that the buildup I felt during sex was the orgasm. It wasn’t until I just went for it with a toy that my whole world opened up lol. Sadly the bf I was with at the time wasn’t interested in learning how to change by the time I learned how to get off and he got offended when I gently suggested to bring in a small toy. So. Among other reasons as well, he’s an ex. And I haven’t been with anyone but my trusty t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURELol yeah the male ego can be pretty fragile, at least a man doesn’t want to be with a woman that doesn’t make him feel like a man. And men can be pretty sensitive about their performance in the bedroom. On some real shit I think that’s the main reason why we fake so much. Lol are you worried about getting too attached to a man? That’s cute Lol yeah straight up. I’ve seen women get dickmatized and I never understood why until now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 01:06 AM |
| 3 | Does being physically attractive matter to you? Does it bother you that it is a male stereotype to care about a woman’s looks over intelligence, etc.?Being physically attractive has so many advantages in life it would be almost crazy for it not to be important to a woman. Is it important to ALL woman? No. But it’s important in life and I for one want to max out the benefits in my life as much as I can. The halo effect is real, and I’d be lying to say I haven’t benefitted from it immensely. The thing is, I didn’t realize just how much my attractiveness mattered until I found reddit. Reading the incel, femcel, forever alone and yes PPD sub Redd… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 12:34 AM |
| 9 | A study showed that unattractive women are more likely to cheat than attractive women😂😂😂 I do know when you do anything to piss them off they hit you where it hurts. A lot of dudes never know, that’s the point. Making one man think you’re pair bonded to him even though your pair bonding abilities are fried due to rampant sex is one of the easiest ways to keep a guy on rotation, especially if he’s got good dick or money. I was in a sorority. Despite having different dudes in and out of their rooms they all had a favorite. I mean yes...the sluts worship one dick and are forever fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/21 12:00 AM |
| 14 | A study showed that unattractive women are more likely to cheat than attractive womenUntil you wrong her. Then she sleeps with your best friend and you have to pretend not to care. Men love sluts until they humiliate the fuck out of them. Then it’s AWALT. It’s like no Gerald, it was fun fucking the slut until you pissed her off and now she’s riding your dad 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 11:47 PM |
| 8 | A study showed that unattractive women are more likely to cheat than attractive womenThat’s all based on the behavior and the decisions of the woman who got cheated on. Men think the relationship is okay just cause she didn’t divorce (her reasons: money, kids, comfort, fear). Usually the woman just loses all respect for her husband, and either nags him to death for the rest of his life or has emotional affairs but doesn’t get caught because men aren’t as good as women at hiding it. I’d say 9/10 times she does both. But you’re right if the man catches her revenge cheating the rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 11:42 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREA lot of incorrect assumptions but I do know the male ego is very fragile so I would treat him with the utmost care. Tbf I haven’t had sex since discovering how to orgasm. I’m honestly kind of nervous for the day I meet a man who can make me do it...the attachment would probably be unreal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREMany women who are swingers also enjoy very extreme BDSM kinks such as rape pay, pain shit and whatever else goes on. I think women have sex for 2 main reasons: Extreme sexual pleasure (orgasms - they are earth shattering when real.) Most that men have seen are fake Closeness and sexual validation - this used to be me. I had never had an orgasm before and enjoyed the sexual validation of a man worshipping my body and bringing me sexual pleasure (sex is a 5 or 7 without orgasming, orgasms make it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURE“Fuck uglier guys then - they’re forced to care because they have little else to offer.” Not saying this is wrong. It’s just hilarious to watch men admit they’re only more considerate because they have to be. But alas I concur. Def go for the uglier/poorer guy if you’re looking for a better time in bed, in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURE...nearly all women are like this. Men just don’t give a shit lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 10:58 PM |
| 3 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREIn most committed relationships, women are not orgasming. Married and non married. I think I know one woman who regularly orgasms with their men. You’re right, women need to take a stand or leave. We fake it to not upset the men but we need to dump them if they fail to try enthusiastically every time after we communicate about it. It’s the only way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 10:57 PM |
| 4 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASURESo men orgasming 95% of the time (not including self inflicted issues line whisky dick, death grip and porn addiction which account for most ED that occurs) And women almost never orgasm...ever during sex...like ever. But women wanting even a fraction of the orgasms men get is women feeling entitled? Men take what they can get? Of course they do, y’all are orgasming like crazy when you have sex. I had my first orgasm as a woman a year ago. I CANT believe what I was missing out on. If a dude is t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Just because women have more access to sex doesn't mean they have more access to SEXUAL PLEASUREThis exact exchange is exactly why most men will always be trash lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 18 | new male just dropped😂😂😂😂 It’s all so pathetic Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)I always wondered this, when two people with two surnames each get married, which names typically get passed on to the children? How do you choose between the four? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 14 | Opinion on marriage and our surname (last name)Bruh, when women give their child the last name of the dead beat dad who broke up with them during pregnancy 🤯🤯 I never ever understood that, even as a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 4 | FDS has got me feelin SELECTIVE a.f.Whew I could have written this. The constant exposure to LVM does get quite exhausting though. FDS is helping me to prioritize being alone rather than settling to get out of the craziness. We need to rescue ourselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 23 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???It’s the job title for me 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 48 | PATRICK, what is u doing honey???We need to stop assuming these guys are using tinder instead of using prostitutes and cam girls. They’re doing both simultaneously, before and after your dates. This is why we don’t touch them with a ten foot pole for a long ass time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 294 | Relationship Ambiguity Is The New Backlash, and It's Dangerous and Effective Because of Its SubtletyYes ma’am! My friend labels me “avoidant attachment” because I’ve always been the one to avoid the commitment conversation with men. Even if I’m falling for them, at the 3 or 4 month mark (normally appropriate time lines) I still avoid the conversation when they try to bring it up because I need to be sure, and I mean SURE SURE that this man will bring me more happiness than I bring myself single. And let me tell you, being single is incredible. I’ve been in two LTRs and despite them ending in h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 03:51 PM |
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