How many men are walking around proudly, hand in hand with a woman he cheated on, feeling like an absolute king because in his head, he’s just too valuable to lose?

Every time you entertain a shady scrote after he’s betrayed your trust, he is interpreting it as a direct reflection of how incredible and irreplaceable he must be, because if the roles were reversed, he would end things with you, or start revenge cheating vehemently in order to cut you down.

Honestly, I think men get off more on cheating and finding a woman to stay than the act of cheating itself.

It doesn’t matter how much snot is pouring from his crusty nostrils when he begs you to stay. If you stay, he will not respect you. If you stay or go, he will continue to entertain other women because that is clearly his prerogative. But if you stay, no matter how “mad” you are and how “much you make him prove to you he’s cHaNgEd” he has won and has accomplished keeping the main girl in his harem on his leash. And so the ego inflates.

This is coming from someone who stayed with a cheater. There’s a million reasons why women stay. Mine? My self esteem was way too low. I SHOULD have dumped him and leveled up, but instead I leveled up within the relationship before I dumped his ass.

Although it felt amazing to dump him with a six pack, I cringe thinking about the ego boost I gave his dumb ass by staying. The loss of respect goes both ways but NO man is worth validating with your presence after he has proven to be low value.

Also, men know that having a girlfriend attracts pick me’s like flies, so sticking around only makes him more attractive to others, blowing up that ego into oblivion. Sis. Just Go.

Interested in your thoughts and experiences!