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| 20 | The Rise of Gen Z Celibacy (PATREON EXCLUSIVE)Omg you’re back 🥹❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/22 01:20 PM |
| 2 | "The Tinder Swindler" on Netflix is a parade of red flags 🚩🚩🚩I watched a few minutes and was like smh lemme come on and see what FDS says about this coffee date mess lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | To ladies who DO NOT make six figures, don't date for money.Souls like me in NY lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:26 AM |
| 2 | To ladies who DO NOT make six figures, don't date for money.I’m struggling with this. I’m set to make $80-105k in my state. Salary is usually avg around $90k. My partner makes $80k doing physical labor with no degree and I’ve been programmed recently not to marry down. I love him to pieces. We are both trying to be better with money. I have a lot of student loan debt. He has very little. Advice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 11:15 AM |
| 39 | This almost makes me want to redownload dating apps to do the same!Love it. As a black woman, I can’t tell you how many I’ve matched with just to see if I could smh. Send them all to jail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.a bedwench is someone who would get in the bed before the slave master to be raped by them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.Girl cause our whole system is out of wack lol but where do the 999 folks come from? Are they therapists? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:20 AM |
| 27 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.Sounds like America | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:18 AM |
| 30 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.Yes! I had a guy “friend” call me a bed wench bc I dated a white dude, but then when he would get upset, tell me how he’s gonna clean his place and commit suicide. He would talk about it all the time. It’s like “sad boy” was his aesthetic. I then found his mom on fb when he went silent and he got so mad and called me disrespectful. Should’ve left when he called me a bed wench. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:17 AM |
| 53 | Today a grown ass adult man threatened to kill himself if I didn’t let him out of a contract he signed.Yes! I wanted to date a dude who told me off the bat “I have attachment issues bc my mother left me in another country when I was 3” he was like 34 or something. Also said he didn’t want a relationship, but would try dangling the carrot. I’m like okay you told me who you are. Bye. Then ofc he asked “can we still be friends? Can we still fuck?” Sick lol I’m busy getting help for my own issues that I’m not using to be a shithead in my 30s lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 10:15 AM |
| 16 | Almost burnt outThis. I love saying thank you for your patience. Thank you for understanding etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:44 PM |
| 10 | Almost burnt outI’m black and my kid has waist length hair. She said it hurt as I was brushing. I almost wanted to tell her to deal and I recall how toxic that is. When I was a kid we’d be popped with the comb for touching OUR hair and called tender headed. I don’t want her growing up thinking grooming is a chore and is painful. I even remember my dad telling me beauty is pain when he would perm my hair. I told her sorry and am working hard to correct some of the stuff I know now wasn’t right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 06:43 PM |
| 12 | I just got flashbacks of a bearded man on a "date", talking about his beard for 45 minutes, while stroking his beard... also why do they make that facial expression?They’re showing how crazy they are on the inside lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Find a healthy obsession, something you never want to stop engaging in. If you have one, what is your obsession?Zero. -a healthcare “hero” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:14 PM |
| 11 | Other relationships subs need a lot more of this energy. Inspired by horror stories being shared here.200% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Why is this so accurate? Have men always been like this?Treadmill lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:10 PM |
| 2 | Why is this so accurate? Have men always been like this?The accuracy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 04:10 PM |
| 7 | My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago.Thank you lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 02:00 PM |
| 18 | Ashamed to say I’ve been there. Got the dummy prize of “wow he’s spending $60 on me so this can be more pleasurable” and the “I’m a dumb pick me tshirt” lol grateful for this message and FDS, merry Christmas.Your comfort is at risk when taking oral contraceptives and using condoms and your life is at risk with having an IUD slip and risk perforation or a pregnancy that won’t come to term. Why is that not cringy of him to want to keep sleeping with you and not get a simple procedure instead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:13 PM |
| 37 | Ashamed to say I’ve been there. Got the dummy prize of “wow he’s spending $60 on me so this can be more pleasurable” and the “I’m a dumb pick me tshirt” lol grateful for this message and FDS, merry Christmas.He sounds gross and he’s prob the type to wear magnums with a small dick that’s likely why you’re having condom problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:11 PM |
| 30 | Ashamed to say I’ve been there. Got the dummy prize of “wow he’s spending $60 on me so this can be more pleasurable” and the “I’m a dumb pick me tshirt” lol grateful for this message and FDS, merry Christmas.👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 girl you’re up on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 03:08 PM |
| 21 | My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago.No lol don’t go back to this man and explain shit he doesn’t know or care about. That’s not your problem, never was. Him being that way in the relationship was a red flag as is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:18 PM |
| 58 | My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago.This is low key manipulation to make you look “crazy” my friend’s husband does it. She doesn’t even have to be upset about him, but he leaves when she cries. I get that it’s uncomfortable, but that’s your wife. You’re supposed to validate someone’s feelings even when you “don’t understand” aka don’t really agree with them. Been there done that. Been the one who’s been like “sorry YOU feel that way” (weak ass “apology to my ex bestie). My version of self respect is having an open door policy. Peo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:16 PM |
| 13 | My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago.Someone drop the narcissists prayer please lol sounds about right here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:12 PM |
| 11 | My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago.Wow. I guess that makes mom and dad invincible too lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:11 PM |
| 23 | My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago.See, not even smooth, but happy. Making the person happy. I think we think that a lot, like “I wouldn’t have to be bitching and moaning, if they just...” but the last thing these people are concerned about is our happiness, that’s where the “chill, relax, I was just joking” comes into play...to “smooth” things over so they don’t have to address our hurt feelings. Whereas, someone else would listen, validate, and change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:11 PM |
| 4 | My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago.Whew. Family too. Good on you. This is a great reminder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:09 PM |
| 9 | Mood. She found out her husband was cheating, left and worked 3 jobs to raise 5 kids alone. Never remarried.Cause marriage isn’t super beneficial to a woman’s health lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:12 PM |
| 5 | Mood. She found out her husband was cheating, left and worked 3 jobs to raise 5 kids alone. Never remarried.I like responsibility shirkers, bc some, like mine, go out and date and blame the woman or diminish their role, so they can date whatever ignorant pick me they like. I was that pick me too lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Mood. She found out her husband was cheating, left and worked 3 jobs to raise 5 kids alone. Never remarried.Oop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 01:43 PM |
| 3 | Mood. She found out her husband was cheating, left and worked 3 jobs to raise 5 kids alone. Never remarried.Yes!!! Whenever I get down I’m like you did this WITH years and years of added responsibility, so don’t compare yourself to him. I was already more HV than my CF and am on a better (but slower) track it seems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 01:42 PM |
| 9 | Mood. She found out her husband was cheating, left and worked 3 jobs to raise 5 kids alone. Never remarried.Ikr. And she’s fab in all of the videos. I’m like she got all of this alone. Doesn’t make me feel so bad about staying a single mom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | HorrifyingYeah this sucks. I hate when women cry when they’re being changed. It makes me feel so guilty. I had a guy who’s wife had dementia who would pay a volunteer for blow jobs and talk to his wife like she was some kind of strange puppy. Like “hi princess. Say good morning” it was funny bc when she would see her husband with that lady she would grunt and her eyes would change, even though she didn’t speak or appear to know what was going on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:21 PM |
| 2 | HorrifyingIronically as someone with multiple degrees, I hadn’t take my education seriously until I had a child and became single at the same time lol I saw it as a way to provide for my child. Wish I’d been on my FDS from the beginning, but no regrets I guess. I’d always wanted a man to take care of me and “fix my traumas”, but look where that’s gotten me lol Also when they mention education being put down culturally, I was listening to someone say JW shame education, and I’ve seen it with the family I u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:07 PM |
| 2 | B-but, Sex Work Is Empowering! [Journalist doxxes nurse trying to make ends meet with an OnlyFans]Yes. I’m a broke af student and medical worker. I had a cousin boast that another nurse cousin was “killing it” on there. I asked how much she made. She didn’t know. I would hate to risk my career for a couple hundred bucks. Plus I don’t like men enough to pretend I’d like to give into their gross requests and tendencies. Once you put something on the internet, you can never, ever get it back. Like KAT said, the market IS saturated, if you’re doing something to get noticed on a huge level, the “… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:49 PM |
| 1 | B-but, Sex Work Is Empowering! [Journalist doxxes nurse trying to make ends meet with an OnlyFans]Thanks for saying your mind wasn’t developed yet. I did this same shit with student loans and credit cards with 17 and my parents weren’t involved. I tend to blame myself. Your statement gives me relief. And I do believe a lot do the women doing OF feel they have no choice. They have kids. I feel it’s exploitative for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Never once did my exes ever do anything close to this.. take note ladies.I FUCKING LOVE when you ask for ice cream and he brings multiples lol but then I get mad bc weight management lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Russell Wilson is HVM inspirationCiara and Russell are goals. Had my future already lol I just don’t know if I can get this without being religious? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Lingering FeelingsI second the list part. Good on you for getting out sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | May you meet someone who IS a feminist, not someone who SAYS he's a feminist.Girl say it louder for the pick me inside me who had to block a guy like this. He was so “feminist”, pride flag in his apt etc. was into BDSM and non monogamy but he was so “nice to me” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 13 | HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3Lmao the way I just keke’d smh. Yet I feel like the men who are 36-40+ have something wrong with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 10:23 PM |
| 18 | HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <334 seems like a good age in the manosphere lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 7 | HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3Oh yay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!Oh me too! Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:07 PM |
| 15 | HVM proposed with a Tiffany diamond after 1 year, then surprised with a bouquet and a thank you note <3Congrats. How old are y’all if you don’t mind me asking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:04 PM |
| 5 | Texting adviceNegative or the nagging term in the handbook? I’m sure it was either way lol He’s like red looks good on you? What’s your best color...black like in all the other pics like I wear all the time. I’m deleting the app because I’m too irritated to even mesh well with the right guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:40 PM |
| 18 | Texting adviceNoted. I had a guy ask me to come help him cook turkey. Unmatched. One who asked what makes me cry. Unmatched. One who asked what my best color is. Unmatched bc annoying lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:38 PM |
| 1 | NVM destroyed meYes. I second that book I never finished lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:23 AM |
| 2 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresYes! I’ve been watching “who the bleep did I marry” And it’s a lot of “save the marriage for the kids rhetoric” with horrible ass men (and some women) but damn. Lol I’m like wow y’all would’ve been better getting divorced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:13 AM |
| 2 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresI got banned from there just for being here lol no posts. No comments. Nada. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:10 AM |
| 1 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresHaha I just sent this to my friend with “felt. Understood” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:09 AM |
| 1 | She realized she’s basically single but with more choresTbh I feel this. Most relationships feel like trash and having a kid to take care of plus life, is hard enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:07 AM |
| 2 | 😂😂It’s the comment summarizing it for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Middle aged man angry that his young fwb is dating other guysIt’s the age gap for me. -former age gap girl who know what that shit is about. He needs his ego stroked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Am I bugging or is this a real thing? The first thing I thought was “sounds rapey to me” I’ve had this happen to me, but idk how the person could really be sleeping. A lot of folks in the comments agree that it’s a thing.Societal standards lol smh plus she’s only been with this dude a month I’m like #breakupwithhim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Am I bugging or is this a real thing? The first thing I thought was “sounds rapey to me” I’ve had this happen to me, but idk how the person could really be sleeping. A lot of folks in the comments agree that it’s a thing.Were you under a lot of stress or the influence? I assume sleep walking is diff, but the top commenter said he was stressed, not getting any, and smoking a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:31 PM |
| 49 | Am I bugging or is this a real thing? The first thing I thought was “sounds rapey to me” I’ve had this happen to me, but idk how the person could really be sleeping. A lot of folks in the comments agree that it’s a thing.Word and the fact that he came back with a towel and everything. Sounds fake. But the comments section is full of men and women being like yeah me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:29 PM |
| 7 | Thought you ladies might like this oneI said “I’m talking” last night and was so happy. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:15 PM |
| 3 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythAww haha we don’t say wholemeal here. I need to travel. Idek if we have heinz maybe just bush’s haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 02:07 PM |
| 5 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythHaha nice like baked beans, white toast or? I gotta google this. And an English breakfast lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 12:38 PM |
| 7 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythLol you’re British, right? I gotta try that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 12:04 PM |
| 18 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythOh girl I’m sorry and it’s sounds just like a NVM to expect them to be just like their mama and not eat their damn vegetables. Man child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 12:01 PM |
| 3 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythAlso people love struggle love smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:59 AM |
| 20 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythUgh. I was pregnant and my child’s father who turned out to be a deadbeat sent me a meme that was like “no man wants to battle the world, then come home to round 2 with his woman” and I sent him my books and said no one wants to come home after working full time plus weekends while pregnant and have to study chem after battling with... too much? Wasn’t too much. The battle for him was prob me asking him to pay some of my copays during a high risk pregnancy. Don’t do it ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:57 AM |
| 3 | As a woman, you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.I just. And tell you not to be vain or materialistic. Same ones that ask you out for drinks or coffee or to chill or hang. Broke asses lol smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 02:23 PM |
| 2 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!For real. It’s such a mind fuck. I have to ask myself, can I depend on this person and share my personal life with him? If not, the sex just doesn’t seem worth it. I don’t want a moment of vulnerability to feel like an emergency, or to fall for someone who I just chose to sleep with bc of red flags or Bc they didn’t meet my standard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:16 PM |
| 7 | Don't ask me how though.I feel this lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 0 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!That these toys are so good. I’ve been looking into Tracey’s dog bc the reviews are hilarious and I must admit I did once use a glass dick and it was nice. But idk I’m more of a finger stim, clit only girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:02 PM |
| 30 | As a woman, you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.As if it’s so much lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:00 PM |
| 14 | As a woman, you’re damned if you do, and damned if you don’t.Never. Again lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:00 PM |
| 0 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!Girl go somewhere. Who said that? I said idk bout the quality of these toys. Still a fingers only girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 04:59 PM |
| 9 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!“They sayyyy I’m crazy.” Sam smith voice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:32 AM |
| 55 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!I’m screaming. That part. Here I am in my thirts just ready but men aren’t worth more than a conversation. At that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:31 AM |
| -28 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!I still don’t believe y’all lol Edit: sarcasm. About the toys only. I know men are basura. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:29 AM |
| 2 | If This Ain’t A MOOD!!Whew. This part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Just when I was gonna cut him off. He better be for real.I asked what he’s looking for. I struggle with when to ask that. I filter guys who put “relationship” on their profile though. I asked and he said nothing serious...then all of that. I guess I’ll let actions show me and cut him off if I need to. FDS has made me a lot more comfortable with cutting people off. But I also feel like it’ll make dudes change their answer for other women. Like one guy said he got out of a relationship a few weeks ago. Asked if it was a problem. Told me I was cute and f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:42 AM |
| 5 | Just when I was gonna cut him off. He better be for real.Y’all don’t play lol thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | He’s a pharmacist. I work in healthcare too. And he expects me to come out of my bonnet for coffee or drinks. A meal is only like $60 and I dont even order extra stuff. (App, dessert) Even if I did. Unmatch...Yeah I was thinking of this sub when I said coffee would be a digital date. I’m like they’re gonna roast me lol I get that you can’t be super invested before you know someone but the “what do you like to do in your free time? Where do you work? I’m just looking to make a connection/see where it leads shit” is beyond me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 08:07 PM |
| 1 | He’s a pharmacist. I work in healthcare too. And he expects me to come out of my bonnet for coffee or drinks. A meal is only like $60 and I dont even order extra stuff. (App, dessert) Even if I did. Unmatch...Basieeee love your name! Lmao can’t wait for next season. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:55 PM |
| 1 | He’s a pharmacist. I work in healthcare too. And he expects me to come out of my bonnet for coffee or drinks. A meal is only like $60 and I dont even order extra stuff. (App, dessert) Even if I did. Unmatch...Yep. And in NY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 02:18 PM |
| 10 | He’s a pharmacist. I work in healthcare too. And he expects me to come out of my bonnet for coffee or drinks. A meal is only like $60 and I dont even order extra stuff. (App, dessert) Even if I did. Unmatch...I was probably being too nice in general. I know this. A “date” would mean me paying for daycare and me risking COVID so nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 11:38 AM |
| 1 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)Haha yes some people can’t handle fds but I’m glad she leveled up and sorry y’all went through that. I’m amazed to see dads continue to be shit people even as older adults. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 07:40 AM |
| 2 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)Girl it comes back in waves lol I just remembered how my cf told them swimming isn’t a real sport and when I met him he was terrified of a 4 ft pool. And I had a baby by this LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 02:20 PM |
| 3 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)Yep. Low effort reminds me of my ex being like “you look great either way” (cool) but then being like wow why are you dressed better than me? “You make me feel like a bum lol” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:44 PM |
| 4 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)She was fighting people in the comments too. I’m sure she may have had her issues, but doesn’t help at all that porn sick bf was being emotionally abusive. I doubt he’s suddenly switched to supportive, mature, realistic and reasonable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:43 PM |
| 4 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)I feel this! Haha I had an age gap relationship and he would complain about other vaginas while complimenting mine but still. Big. Red. Flag. And my titties have always been done for so how dare he even try to complain at his age lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:40 PM |
| 4 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)Gotta “keep your man” or else you’ll be a bad woman, ungrateful, not working with him. You know I was watching some woman’s video and she said the church will be the first to say “pray for your marriage” I’ve even heard that straight up abuse is not a grounds for breakup. Overall, the idea that women have to stick around for any and everything is crazy. I was even this way with friends too. Less so, but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:39 PM |
| 5 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)Yep yep yep! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:36 PM |
| 3 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)That’s crazy. He also whined at my appt because I had to be on pelvic rest aka no sex. Turns out he was having sex with me and cheating since v early on in my pregnancy. Your dad also has the audacity bc you came of that. And even if that was his sis...the nerve. Are they still together? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:35 PM |
| 3 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)Wow what an asshole. Like mine. Just had to tell a friend that her friend that says that about her facial hair isn’t a even if he says “relax it’s just a joke”. Shame isn’t a good motivator to make someone do what you “think” they should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:34 PM |
| 123 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)BUT I WANT THEM BIG!! Stomps feet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:28 AM |
| 135 | If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”)If there’s anything they ALWAYS have, it’s the audacity. When I was pregnant my child’s father told me “if you get those deep stretch marks, I’m leaving you” (he made it to be a “joke”) and now he’s a deadbeat (cause he always planned to be apparently) and I’m sure this started off as a porn sick mentality. If it wasn’t for FDS I would’ve keep putting up with these jokes and considered stuff like this “being considerate of my man” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 11:20 AM |
| 1 | You don’t necessarily have to say thank you for not cheating. But say thank you for not cheating.Edit: got too excited to share after the first 60 seconds. Not condoning anyone cheating. Bottom line is men aren’t and will never be the prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 10:31 PM |
| 6 | Women in Poland are Rioting After Gov’t Bans AbortionUS soon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 11:11 AM |
| 3 | Gag.Shoot in NYC it’s $1k a bedroom. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Gag.I need to move where you live bc a 1 br apt is $2000 by me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 01:13 PM |
| 5 | Gag.I’m guessing NY/LI/NYC it’s real out here lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 01:11 PM |
| 4 | Gag.I spent $15 on concessions at a drive in movie and whew the money I felt I wasted lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Gag.Hers is A LOT more realistic lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 01:10 PM |
| 12 | Gag.Yeah this is gross. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 25 | Gag.Girl same. I’m like that doesn’t even touch daycare smh lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 1 | My guy friend who’s a proclaimed feminist sent me this. He’s been very nice in the past, but FDS is the reason I blocked him. I don’t want anyone in my circle with this shit mindset.Yeah I blocked him. Ironically I also had a male friend for 15 years. Strictly platonic. I actually stopped crushing on him when he opened his mouth. He was “witty” though. We went out together a lot and once he sent something to a group chat that was like don’t have everyone around your kids, that’s the problem with single moms. Etc. meanwhile he’d never really stepped up as a male role model to my kid. Now he’s married to a mutual friend. Also a single mom. But I realize some women adore build… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 08:37 PM |
| 1 | My guy friend who’s a proclaimed feminist sent me this. He’s been very nice in the past, but FDS is the reason I blocked him. I don’t want anyone in my circle with this shit mindset.We are doing the same program. He’s usually ambitious and humble and has had access to me but for him to think I would just “keke” at this like “yeah those baby mamas is dumb. Guess I was way too “cool girl” for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | My guy friend who’s a proclaimed feminist sent me this. He’s been very nice in the past, but FDS is the reason I blocked him. I don’t want anyone in my circle with this shit mindset.For real. If a man wants the woman, he will step up/become involved when it comes to the kids. This is a friend who’s known me like 2-3 years so him thinking that’s funny is wild and annoying. I honestly don’t know if I want another kid, but a dude who shows he dislikes kids or thinks single motherhood is funny or always the mom’s fault is a no go for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 05:19 PM |
| 3 | My guy friend who’s a proclaimed feminist sent me this. He’s been very nice in the past, but FDS is the reason I blocked him. I don’t want anyone in my circle with this shit mindset.Oh girl. I’m like boy you’re barely a soggy bottom bag fry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:41 PM |
| 3 | My guy friend who’s a proclaimed feminist sent me this. He’s been very nice in the past, but FDS is the reason I blocked him. I don’t want anyone in my circle with this shit mindset.I totally have a kid who he met. He would be kind to me, let me study in his apt while he was there etc and I’ve never criticized his world views so for him to think this is a joke is annoying. I’m more ambitious than some childless people (no offense to anyone). I feel I should be commended, not put down and even if I wasn’t a single mom, that would be annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:41 PM |
| 1 | My guy friend who’s a proclaimed feminist sent me this. He’s been very nice in the past, but FDS is the reason I blocked him. I don’t want anyone in my circle with this shit mindset.Yes the not being affected emotionally is big. I told my therapist about this dude I was dating making a “grand gesture” and she said block him. He also text me after that. Mundane things like finding something small of mine. They love to live on in our heads even if we don’t respond, so restricting access can be important. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:39 PM |
| 3 | If he gets it in 1920, he has no excuse in 2020.Oh awful smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | An interesting read! Haven’t read the whole book but it certainly sounds intriguing, and will be next on my audible wish list!Love them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:27 AM |
| 1 | They’re. So. Fucking. Annoying. Meanwhile I feel mean for being like what do you want? I’m getting dressed up and getting a sitter just to see if I like you? Every low effort date I’ve had has been a fail.Y’all know I what’s app video chatted this man for shits and giggles and he said “you know. Like meet up” I told him if I wanted that, I would speed date. He then said “you know like coffee and share a danish” the man is 36. Lord. And to believe I gave my pussy to men like this in the past. Can travel the damn world but wanna SHARE A DANISH. Ugh. Blocked. Was gonna be blocked anyway. This other dude is a landlord and started off with I’m scarce on time and money. Okay cheap and inattentive? NEXT… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 06:12 PM |
| 1 | They’re. So. Fucking. Annoying. Meanwhile I feel mean for being like what do you want? I’m getting dressed up and getting a sitter just to see if I like you? Every low effort date I’ve had has been a fail.You meant “let’s waste your time” I think he meant a vibe is a figure of speech, but I’m not 19. He then proceeds to say “I’m not going to take a 4 hour road trip. I’m just saying things are uncertain” sir. Are you dumb? If you think it’s gonna take 4 hours why would you wanna go for DRINKS? Tf. It’s like they wanna vet you to see if you’re worth taking to a $60 dinner. Annoying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | *internal screaming, forever*I had to tell a dude “your breath really smells. I think you should get your stomach checked out” he was responsive but still. It’s next worthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:49 PM |
| 0 | FDS success for black womenMy weed out game is so strong now. So I’d say I’m getting pretty good at dodging bullets which huts sometimes, but boosts my self esteem ultimately. I’m also divesting, esp. as a single mama. I watch a lot of Chrissie and chloe_. Tbh I think the pink pill is kinda raggedy looking, but she has some good points. I also like that French lady, forgot her name, Karine alourde, feminine fancy (she has a white bf) and dr. Nina who’s cool w chrissie. It’s honestly helped to shape my thinking about how I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Louder for the people in the back who don’t get it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:24 AM |
| 2 | It’s amazing that so many “red pilled” men think women can’t take accountability for their actions and yet these scrotes can LITERALLY ABANDON CHILDREN and somehow make it women’s fault.I’m so sorry that happened to you. Here from your other comment. I feel bad for the women who are dependent on men financially. (Think SAHM with multiple kids) This is why I want to further my education before I even look at another man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:22 AM |
| 2 | PROTECT YOUR WOMB LIKE ITS THE LAST THING YOU DOThat’s so true. It’s scary to me. That’s why I’m trying to be okay with one and done, but keep my heart open. Vetting def helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Stay awareGot a baby by one lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:12 AM |
| 3 | Stay awareWow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:11 AM |
| 12 | PROTECT YOUR WOMB LIKE ITS THE LAST THING YOU DOYes! My CF apparently cheated the entire pregnancy and slept with me (unprotected) because “it was available” and then came to just enough events and appointments to make my delusional ass think he cared before he bounced. #imtrappedforlife lol but I love my child. They just deserved a much, much better father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:10 AM |
| 5 | PROTECT YOUR WOMB LIKE ITS THE LAST THING YOU DOTrue. A single single mom here. Now I gotta double vet...if it’s even worth it. May just become the rich, fine traveling auntie lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:01 AM |
| 0 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.Why bother then? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:29 AM |
| 1 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.Yet she remains particularly trapped bc of their kid and the money. Also happy cake day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:28 AM |
| 15 | YesSame. I’m like I really waited a year for this? He made some lame excuse. Disappointment central lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:41 AM |
| 10 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.A friend of mine knew someone who’s family was murdered by her father when he was diagnosed with cancer. A selfish shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:51 PM |
| 7 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.Makes me not want any other kids lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Idk how y’all do it. I swear the dense ones weed themselves out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:11 PM |
| 6 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Yes! And you know there area already men in my DMs like so I guess I’m a chode and others are pickmeishas huh? Sir. Just say you’re broke with no skill set and go away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:08 PM |
| 3 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!You KNOWWWWW lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 8 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Virtual high five | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 5 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Pretty lil thang! Yes!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 14 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Lmaooooooooooooo LET SIS EAT! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:02 PM |
| 25 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!That’s wild. It’s like you’re a WOMAN. Who frequently buys stuff for men? I wouldn’t mention it bc men are jealous by nature, but it’s a woman’s femininity that makes a man want to DO for them and they’re proud of it. I feel like we should just accept it with grace. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 11 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Maybe I misspoke. I’m friendly and charming more than anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 23 | Ladies! Use your female/pretty privilege!Run the jewels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:39 PM |
| 6 | HVM in media done right, David is a HVM and all the rest, in my opinion, LVMOmg lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | This is what dating men is like lol see how shallow I found out that was after I got just a little deeper? It’s like a bait and switch. (Lid for scale)Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:28 PM |
| 28 | The look on his face was worth every pennyThis!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:49 PM |
| 4 | The look on his face was worth every pennyGoals. In my older, paid for vehicle lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:48 PM |
| 3 | How not to do 50/50?No income is a no-no unless he’s in school or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:25 PM |
| 3 | How not to do 50/50?You must live somewhere with a lower cost of living. 50k is like nothing here housing-wise. Most dudes I date make around $70k. I really think how the money is spent matters most, but its expensive af here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | How not to do 50/50?Oh I’ve learned not to need men long ago. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolYeah I had someone shoot my shot for me at a PT at work and that failed. So. He was too young, cute and dumb. I quit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolUsually not but I’d like one that has one. A good one if that’s possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:00 AM |
| 1 | How not to do 50/50?You just made me remember how Russell Wilson set up a college fund for future’s 8 or so kids. I’m trying to be like Ciara lol he took on her son like his own since he was a baby and I’m sure she gets financial “support” from future for him, but Russell is a dad to all of his 3 kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 0 | How not to do 50/50?Age. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 01:32 AM |
| 2 | How not to do 50/50?I don’t want him rich. I just want him to be great with money and to take care of me. Lol It’s looking like I’ll have to settle for below my earning potential. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:46 AM |
| 2 | How not to do 50/50?I think that both partners should contribute to the child like it’s their own (package deal) and whatever I get from my child’s father is a bonus for the whole family. Stuff like my student loans are my responsibility but I do not like the idea of “his kid, my kid”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:33 AM |
| 3 | How not to do 50/50?And thank you so much. Wishing you the same. Also I get that her dad is responsible, and he contributes, but I want a partner who’s invested in all ways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:39 AM |
| 6 | How not to do 50/50?Yes! This. If I’m good with my money and I take care of my kid, why wouldn’t I want someone to join me and do the same? Why would I want to play 50/50 in this area and put my kid as an outsider? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:38 AM |
| 4 | How not to do 50/50?I feel that esp on the part of “it I’m gonna pay for everything I may as well stay single”. Daycare is $1200-1400 a month where I’m at and I don’t see myself paying that all alone lol and I get that it’s expensive as shit. I honestly only chose to pursue a field where I’ll make that much because I am single. I’m already degreed. Had I chose another field or not to go back to school, I could be making $70k right now and it would be easier to find a man who makes more. I want a man who makes money… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 10:44 PM |
| 15 | How not to do 50/50?If I’m married to the person, I expect to split child expenses and don’t intend on living with someone I’m not at least engaged to if I can help it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:41 PM |
| 5 | How not to do 50/50?Subscribed already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 09:41 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Also he’s in great shape too. I just hope he doesn’t drink a lot. Driving doesn’t seem like an issue to him. He drove 3 hours for the date and waited 2 for me to get there so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:09 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Yeah I mean first date and haven’t seen him since undergrad and his only ambition seems to build and rent properties so far. Since I have a kid, I think I understand more than him how much it costs, esp out here where daycare is $300/wk. He seems to be the type who always wanted to go into the military. I have a family member who retired in the military who’s not a bad guy, but has been married a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:08 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.I don’t think he cares much for either lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.He said he would leave the military if it was a big enough deal breaker. I just wish he would go to grad school or something. I’m sure there’s benefits (housing, tuition) there but still. I think he would but if he didn’t go down on me before sex, dealbreaker. He makes less than $60k and I live in NY lol that’s not much here. I think a lot of it depends on me deciding what kinda lifestyle I want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.But I try to date in that area bc I don’t like the quality of men by me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Yeah I’m kinda by NYC and that seems flooded | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:00 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Damn lol but yeah I can’t figure out if he’d add to it but im not sure he’d hinder it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.He didn’t say he expected it. I asked if he liked it and he was like sometimes and I’ll do it then lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:57 PM |
| -8 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Idk if I’d know how to friend zone him bc we made out already and is very physically attractive to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.I already knew him from undergrad. We spoke about everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 5 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Haha! Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:28 PM |
| 5 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Yikes. OOOOH I get the acronym now. Means do what’s best for you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:27 PM |
| 10 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.True true. I think he’s getting a pass bc I knew him in undergrad. I really have to think to myself “what does he add to my life?” At this rate dinner and laughs won’t be enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:25 PM |
| 3 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.I feel like supporting a man financially would make me resentful esp as a single mom who’s busting my ass. He said he would “lick my plate”, a joke from this video he showed me, and cares about my pleasure, but I need to decided if I wanna let it get that far. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:23 PM |
| 5 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.I just feel like it’s hard to find everything I want at 100-130k+. Like this lawyer sporadically texts me and I asked if he’s trying to get me on a date. He said getting to know me so he can take me on a date 🙃 need to block him but it’s like I’m weeding through shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:22 PM |
| 6 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Not at all lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 03:21 PM |
| 1 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Which ones? I’m mainly focused on the hypergamy lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:39 PM |
| -3 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.I think it’s a cultural thing but I was like so this is a dealbreaker. Then he said he would but I like enthusiasm. I’m like you enjoy head, right? And tbh I don’t give head like that but still...I pretend it’s the best thing I could ever be doing. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:39 PM |
| 18 | First date - field reportOop. You talking to me too? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:11 PM |
| 5 | First date - field reportThis is how it’s done! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 02:10 PM |
| 11 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Like I don’t need it all the time, but when I get it, it better be good and enthusiastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:35 PM |
| 10 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Lmao I just. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:34 PM |
| 10 | I kinda like a guy but he has less earning potential than me.Lol my coworker told me all marines are crazy. Dude is a marine. Never went to a war zone but | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolInterested in wasting my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:30 PM |
| 7 | This girl supported her “aspiring author“ boyfriend for 4 years, then he proposed and demanded a prenup because he’s actually super wealthy and never told her.... where would you even start??Haha it gets back fast. I was like FDS sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 12:57 AM |
| 1 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.From another app bc he seemed okay enough to have my number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Damn lol that’s what I’m on. I try not to let it get to the point where they have my number but they are sometimes good at appearing decent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I wish all this shit I posted was fake OLD is making me feel exasperated lmaoI just watched this shit in s:1 ep: 10 in Norah from queens. He was being a dick to the server at an xpat bar and was like YEAAAAH WE IN CHINAAAA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.I would’ve been PISSED. I think he’s an engineer or something ofc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:19 AM |
| 9 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Y’all I bet if I didn’t say I was dating other people he would have future faked or something and not mentioned paying or said he always pays. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:49 AM |
| 6 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.I don’t even like that he asked if I’m dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Thanks!! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 11 | I wish all this shit I posted was fake OLD is making me feel exasperated lmaoI honestly feel like they’re the worst profiles. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:46 AM |
| 17 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Not from this black woman. I was like lol block. He really said half ALWAYS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:42 PM |
| 12 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Cause if there’s one thing they DO have.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:41 PM |
| 7 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Kinda glad I didn’t tell him about my kid yet, per my other posts. He def would’ve milked it or just ran. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 10 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.PUSSY CRUMBS! 😂🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:38 PM |
| 15 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Sis if I’m paying half, I may as well be alone. Let me have half the company and have the damn near guarantee of enjoying myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:37 PM |
| 65 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.I should’ve know when he said “someone who respects my opinions and decisions” on the app | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:36 PM |
| 5 | How disgusting! This douchebag really thinks the world wide web revolves around him. 🤮This can’t be life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:38 PM |
| 182 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.He said “split for me always...” BLOKT lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolOmg!!! Lmao just seeing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:32 PM |
| 1 | This is what dating men is like lol see how shallow I found out that was after I got just a little deeper? It’s like a bait and switch. (Lid for scale)I meaaaan haven’t been consistent enough to reap the benefits. It’s an “after shave cream” type of deal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 4 | This is what dating men is like lol see how shallow I found out that was after I got just a little deeper? It’s like a bait and switch. (Lid for scale)Emphasis on the dumb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 1 | This is what dating men is like lol see how shallow I found out that was after I got just a little deeper? It’s like a bait and switch. (Lid for scale)I mean, spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Why men really don't like single moms...Oh great -a black, single mom. I won’t even look lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Why men really don't like single moms...My own child’s father lies to women about me. Says he doesn’t see his kid bc we don’t get along and meanwhile he’s just a selfish deadbeat. He says women don’t really ask and see how well he gets on with his other child. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.Yes thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.I get your points, but you say “official record” as if you’re going to have it on a contract and a LVM will say “true true” or there’s anything you can do, but leave when you find out he’s lying. I want to get it from his mouth early bc I mostly get these responses, but I know there are men who “future fake” as y’all say. My child’s father did that through and through, mirrored me and positioned himself to pretend to be what I wanted for a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:11 AM |
| 4 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolYes. Like are you 15. I was on a date and a guy said “I’m a vibe” worst date ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:05 AM |
| 2 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.For real. I end up being like I have no spare time. But for one guy, after he went on about hiking and eating and blah blah bullshit, I told him I cared more about moral and personality compatibility | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lol😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolYes. Thanks haha. Don’t even keep asking me how I’m doing, you trying to be married or nah? I feel like they’re either looking to “chill and vibe” or think you want to marry THEM tomorrow. But the ones who want marriage say of course or yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:13 AM |
| -3 | When and how do you tell a guy you’re a mom?I don’t plan to keep my child a secret, as I wouldn’t want a guy to either. Just deciding the time between talking and the first date to do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.Why is paying not HVM? I wanna get “flewed” out too lol just under diff circumstances | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.He just wants to fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Male (7 years older) wants me to go visit him in different state that’s in lockdown.No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:45 PM |
| 66 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolYou have friends? Sir, I’m not intending to raise kids with my friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:44 PM |
| 4 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.Lol I’m like gag but also men will give it a pass bc I would question it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:43 PM |
| 11 | Ok I’m really hanging up OLD. I unmatched after this. I’m almost 31 and want to be married. What age range do y’all search? Wait, I said I’m quitting OLD lolAnd these will be career, seemingly HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:42 PM |
| -19 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.Eh idk. We can get to it fairly soon. I feel like guys will write me off too fast. I think it’s a good first convo and I’m considering it a first date thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.It suckkkkssss I feel like I’m someone people open up to so it’s ass to be on a date and find out a guy just became single like 2-3 months ago or lives w his parents and doesn’t intend to move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.lol ty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.Also thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 7 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.This. I’m a NE girl and that’s annoying but I also don’t like “so tell me what you do in your spare time” “you can find out a lot about a person from their musical tastes. What music do you like?” As openers. It’s annoying. Maybe I’m jaded and irritable idk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:39 PM |
| 5 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.Lmaooo a permanent girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 6 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.Thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 10 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.I have a child too. Not sure where to reveal that, but as you’ll see from my other posts, I get a lot of “a vibe” and “seeing how things go” when I ask. So it weeds them out, but I bet they just go more undercover with the next woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.What should I say when he asks me what I want then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.To prove his high sex drive 🙃😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Classic LVM opening lines...and another reminder that a preliminary pre-date meetup is not an actual date so don't even second guess entertaining that nonsense! If he was potentially a HVM, he knows it's 1000% more risky for us to meet up with them and doesn't require an initial screening interviewWord. I don’t know you, sir. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:11 PM |
| 3 | Kinkmeisha Reform School 101: The BasicsOh I’ve experienced that before. Shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.Hinge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 35 | Is this still pick me behavior? Roast me if necessary lol I still have a little “I can change his mind” only like 2 guys I spoke to said marriage straight out.Edit: he asked what made me join the app. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:00 PM |
| 3 | Bonus points for the colourful languageOop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Y’all are so spot on. I used to feel guilty when I unmatched or unworthy when I got unmatched. Now I unmatch all the time. Lol for good reason that I would’ve ignored beforeYes! Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Kinkmeisha Reform School 101: The BasicsWhat’s the death grip? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:27 PM |
| 1 | How much are dating apps costing you?What’s cluster b and good post? Def costs me all those energetic things and time I could be by my damn self or with friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Classic LVM opening lines...and another reminder that a preliminary pre-date meetup is not an actual date so don't even second guess entertaining that nonsense! If he was potentially a HVM, he knows it's 1000% more risky for us to meet up with them and doesn't require an initial screening interviewYeah. I’m black. A dude sent me “whatup bae” I’m like so never do that again in your life. Should’ve just unmatched lol he did say how are you? Or something but I was already turned off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Classic LVM opening lines...and another reminder that a preliminary pre-date meetup is not an actual date so don't even second guess entertaining that nonsense! If he was potentially a HVM, he knows it's 1000% more risky for us to meet up with them and doesn't require an initial screening interviewShit. I’m about to prescreen a dude I went to undergrad with who was interested in me then. No one gets a pass from here on out. Also I hate when they’re like “how’s your day?” A million times a day while avoiding important questions. Prescreen and set a date with me or go | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:57 PM |
| 8 | Y’all are so spot on. I used to feel guilty when I unmatched or unworthy when I got unmatched. Now I unmatch all the time. Lol for good reason that I would’ve ignored beforeFirst dude had I’m interested in “interracial relationship” with hella emojis as if that wasn’t enough of a red flag. Told him it was cringy. He then went on to boast that he’s a “product” of IR. Ew. I’m still a recovering pickme y’all. Bare with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Told him I'm spending the day at the beachIdiots. Then the apologize and expect you not to unmatch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 12:48 PM |
| 5 | Pre-Screening Phone Call Script for OLD- Weed Out Time Wasters in 10 MinutesWhat do you do with a “see where it goes”, just block? Some say “hopefully a relationship.” actually, let me rephrase the question. What do you want to hear to find out hes marriage minded? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:13 PM |
| 5 | Pre-Screening Phone Call Script for OLD- Weed Out Time Wasters in 10 MinutesGood thing I searched see where it goes. I’m getting A LOT of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 11:10 PM |
| 38 | Reading this makes me both sad and mad at the same time!!!Yes. This was me. Not even 30 and dated a 50 year old. And then woke up. I felt like he may have been grooming me and called women his age bitter and menopausal. Meanwhile, he couldn’t even get it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a man is late?Naw fuck him. That’s wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:11 AM |
| 1 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.Commented below. Ended in unmatch ofc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:22 AM |
| 1 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.Commented below | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 12:22 AM |
| 2 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.LADIES HERES THE OFFER. WE BETTER RUN Respect Optimism Commitment for Life Money and Luxury High Sex Drive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?Lol they have no business even charging then lol smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?Wait what? How much did you pay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Unconventional red flagsHappy cake day btw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:20 AM |
| 14 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.Ladies he replied: You say lots of women. Well, then i am on the right track and platfrom All of my unrealistic expectations are going to come true Men are so fucking annoying. I’m about to unmatch and take a seat. Ofc didn’t say what he has to offer. Guess it’s just the audacity lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:15 AM |
| 3 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.You’re right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Remember when I asked how to do FWB with that hot doctor? This winded up in my DMs (from a man who calls himself a former incel ofc)Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 01:49 AM |
| 19 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.Nothing yet haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 24 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.Lmao if they don’t have one single thing... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 36 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.Girl yes. I JUST told myself that I get to CHOOSE. I’ve always felt lucky and liked a guy when he liked me. Which led to too many relationships with “nice” guys I’d settled for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 03:18 PM |
| 14 | Unconventional red flagsYes these. Speaks about himself a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:42 PM |
| 56 | Unconventional red flagsAlways has issues at his job. Not a good worker if you work with him. Treats workers poorly (waitresses etc) bad tipper. Road rage over nothing. Complains a lot about everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:42 PM |
| 7 | Unconventional red flagsHad a baby by #2 and slightly #1. I think he has ASPD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:38 PM |
| 89 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.Right? Be a fuck doll wirh a perfect personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:33 PM |
| 80 | I ignored high sex drive. Men are so annoying. I bet he can’t “find” these things bc he’s an asshole. Idk why men pretend to ask for simple qualities most women have.Edit: his profile said his expectations were too high for the app. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:17 PM |
| 3 | Black men have the fucking audacity to say this shit after decades of putting down black women and leaving them single mothers? Anyways...“A job with benefits” what a prize. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Dating as a black woman on dating apps be like..Gag but true smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Ladies wtf is this and how do I respond? Is this dangling the carrot? When and how do you ask what a guy wants? I always get some derivative of this.EDIT. this usually freaks me out bc self esteem (working on it. I understand it isn’t me) he said he would be open but sometimes people don’t click. But if it does, he has no problem taking it up a level. May be bullshit but | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 04:32 PM |
| 3 | What do you do when a man is late?I’m sure there’s a lot. It helpful for the big problem of people pleasing, low self esteem and prob some abandonment issues I and others may have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 04:21 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?Shhhhh lmao she was like this isn’t a professional recommendation but she was already seeing the trajectory of my dating life and I told her I watch crissle and chloe on YouTube | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 04:20 PM |
| 11 | Who here can relate?My date this week and also yay to your username lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?My therapist is the reason I’m here lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:37 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?Thank you! For me a lot of it is self esteem and trying to fix people and things my whole life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 10:13 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a man is late?He didn’t forget. He didn’t call. He said he was so busy trying to get to me. He took the day off and decided to work on his way to me (and back) and forgot his laptop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a man is late?I haven’t been on an official date in months so yeah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 11:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?Yeah we ate then I got a wonderful matcha and said “so what you finna do?” Lol smh was holding onto his lateness the whole date so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 10:54 AM |
| -1 | What do you do when a man is late?I'm not dependent on random scrotes to keep my car running. That part lol and yeah he stood me up. Didn’t give a fuck so I went to “safe” guy’s house. I know. I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:43 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?This was pre-handbook lol and after a few meetings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:40 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a man is late?Nope. Apparently work is the priority. Claims he has “time to date” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a man is late?Yes! I said you knew you had to leave time. luckily he was smart enough to buy round trip for when I ended up sending him back with 9 mins to spare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:39 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a man is late?(Another guy btw) So he put air in it and I was like I have a long drive, can you check if it’s a slow leak or something. He asked me to stay in the car and somehow it was shredded inside. I guess it wore wrong despite the wheel alignment and rotation I just got. He didn’t mention it until I asked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:38 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?That’s wild. Sorry you had to go through that? Was he late to his own shit. Also he apologized and said things like “do you forgive me?” “It’s so sad that we are meeting under these circumstances” which made me even more pissed but if I showed it, he would’ve gaslit me more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:36 AM |
| 1 | For anyone doing fwbSome guy just DMd me telling me that no husband would want to know I was fucking another man esp while we were dating or until we were official. Men are annoying af. I gotta follow the handbook to a t lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?Word. He said he had to get his laptop to work on the way to me but I’m like welp. The worst part for me is that he didn’t even think to call. I feel like leaving him while he was on the way would’ve been savage but he also gaslit me and told me, when I asked, that he could do this at work too bc it was flexible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:27 AM |
| 0 | What do you do when a man is late?Oh you know the pick me in me didn’t and he asked for feedback and asked if it didn’t go well since I ended it abruptly but I won’t be texting back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 09:24 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when a man is late?And I don’t really get upset, I just side eye. But when I’m upset it’s never fun obvs. I think he just wanted to see me side eye him and hear me bitch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?Yep. Finds it cute. Not the first time someone said that to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | For anyone doing fwbYeah I don’t think I could compartmentalize with this particular dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:31 PM |
| 1 | For anyone doing fwbWith trembling fingers, I unmatched lol he was so fine too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:30 PM |
| 1 | For anyone doing fwbBut he’s a cute doctooorrrrr. Okay okay I hear you lmao def don’t wanna get dumped for a Persian doctor/lawyer lady and used for practice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:26 PM |
| 0 | For anyone doing fwbYeah this part. And I don’t need new male friends but I don’t wanna be tooted and booted so maybe I can’t handle it lol it seems to always be my feelings or a guys (nice but not a provider man) on the line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 0 | For anyone doing fwbPage 3, 18 and 133. The FWB must put our effort. The FWB can be used to scratch an itch. I know. I know. Fuck. But it’s in there lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:23 PM |
| -1 | For anyone doing fwbThe handbook says something about FWB I think | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:17 PM |
| -1 | For anyone doing fwbI haveeeeee. I’m working on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 0 | What do you do when a man is late?Haha damn 7 mins. And sis I asked him if he would be an hour late to work without asking them. He said “see the flexibility” I should’ve just walked away lol he works like 60 hours a week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when a man is late?Word. That’s wild. We make so many exceptions. He’s been asking about other men too like when I said “a friend” was coming over. Tried to be sly about it, but still. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?I justified this bc he was crossing state lines to come to me. But like the other lady said, he didn’t even tell me he was getting on the next boat in enough time for me to really think. I’ve sent a guy home before on 1 hour out of a 2 hour drive bc he was gonna be late but I think bc this guy seemed nice I let it slide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:46 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?What’s OLD? Lol I keep seeing that. Online dating? Yes ma’am. Lmao shame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:45 PM |
| 4 | What do you do when a man is late?Yo I slapped my fingers into the garage door. Did that family guy owwwwwww breathe owwwwww and still managed to pick his ass up 5 mins after the arrival time. With notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | What do you do when a man is late?omg ladies! Y’all had me send him back. ESP after he said to me (while shazaming an awesome song at this cafe) And I quote “You should Shazam my voice. (Me: why?) I was trying to irritate you. I was looking for a reason. It’s cute seeing you annoyed. Upset. Those eyes you just gave me now are scary.” Yeah so I told him I had errands and walked him to the ferry that left in 9 mins. Sad bc he has a lot of traits I like. Cute French accent. Proper. Kind. But naw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 6 | What do you do when a man is late?Damn ladies!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 27 | What do you do when a man is late?Woo girl. I feel that. He said he’s always like 4 mins late to work before this and I was like tf but I’m always late too. I don’t remember making folks wait like this and if it was a girlfriend I always say something ahead of time. I should’ve just said nevermind. You’re right. But he was already on the next ferry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:14 PM |
| 16 | Which one of you Queens was this?I had a guy who would make me pay for half the dates. Like it we chilled he would be like pay for these wings and drinks bc I’m trying to test you and then he would pay for batting cages and $60 dinner takeout and my pick me ass though that was enough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:43 AM |
| 2 | “I don’t have a child”So they really ain’t shit, huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:20 PM |
| 31 | Never let your man look at the check, read it for him!I like the kind of man that won’t even let you see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?Oh yay. How long did it take you to get in? I’m like 609k on the list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?Oh yay. How long did it take you to get in. I’m like 609k on the list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?What in person dating life? Lol jk but not. My therapist did say she wants it to take up no more than 5% of my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:40 PM |
| 7 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?That part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:01 PM |
| 10 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?Did you get hinge deluxe or whatever? I like hinge better. Met some nice guys off there but I’d have to be patient bc it feels like 5 swipes a day lol also no one likes me first lol smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:01 PM |
| 36 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?They’re more loyal too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:00 PM |
| 16 | Men are dumb and annoying. I feel like calling it quits. Which dating apps do y’all like best?Y’all always say that. My friend is OKC married with her only match but here I am on tinder with like 170 matches and hinge with dudes showing their bacon wrinkled Hanes lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Tbh I read “someone who can take my sarcasm” on dating apps as “imma be an asshole to you. Accept that” Is it just me?What’s old? Yeah and then they will gaslight you into thinking you’re too serious or something smh. Lots of guys have that BS statement. I guess it’s was sarcasm when I got bit by a dog and my BD said “I’ll take you to a hospital when it (my bleeding finger) starts to stink” it’s a major red flag when I see “sarcasm” On a profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 01:39 AM |
| 1 | Maybe means no. Men will move mountains if you're important to them. Don't settle.Omg me flashing back to like a month ago when I thought a guy was sweet for driving 2 hours and paying $18 for the beach $15 for ice cream for both of us and some fucking trail mix lol help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:16 PM |
| 9 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupI’m interested in examples lol My sis is mixed and is like “stay away from those white boys” I’m a BW lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:38 AM |
| 23 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupLmao!! They kinda hate us for the most part. They think we are stuck up and mean and ugly. A lot of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:37 AM |
| 12 | Beware of men who date ONLY outside of their own cultural/ethnic groupBring in all the black men who only date out and fetishize other races bc they hate themselves/mama | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:35 AM |
| 9 | Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.Oh AIHM sorry. 238 matches smh. Dating is exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.Also I don’t think I can unmatch without blocking on tinder before we converse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.Wow I didn’t think you go back into the deck lol smh thought you’d never see them again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.I’m like so why have I only spoken to 20 people but matched with 100 seemingly fine men weeks ago for nothing to happen? Ugh! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 05:37 PM |
| 10 | Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.Also I have 100 tinder matches but they didn’t message. What do I do about that? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:31 PM |
| 7 | Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.So how do we eventually find out who’s rich and who isn’t? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:30 PM |
| 12 | Thanks to you and the handbook I’m not screaming HI IM A SINGLE MOM LIVING AT HOME WHO WANTS MARRIAGE AND KIDS! Helps me weed out the losers. I am the prize.Honestly I never do. Lol that’s why I asked the genetic “tell me about yourself” it was so annoying, I ended up getting unmatched for just dumping all my hobbies on this one guy when he said the convo was one sided. I also love when guys think drinking and traveling are personality traits. One attorney who has his own firm put ill be known for....”the most attractive and witty attorney” sir. Sir. You’re not THAT attractive for starters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | WUT?!We would have to laugh separately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Single mom wants to level upThis is the truth. I make nothing now and I make men feel like the prize. My guy friend just told me to stop being impressed by a guy with a clean place. Like that’s where I was at. My kids dad was and still is a bullshitter. I’ve gotten hurt and he didn’t even step up. The handbook is really helping with this idea. I’m looking forward to a man seeing my motherhood as an asset, not a burden. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Another LVM, about to just get rid of dating apps all togetherGlad I’m not the only one lol sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:53 PM |
| 2 | Single mom wants to level upThis is me and I get insecure about dating bc I feel men won’t want to be HVM because they see I fell for a dusty before who doesn’t even show up. But I also need to stop blaming myself. Sometimes I see these fake HVM have more issues than me without kids lol And yes I want a man to pursue me and not just be okay or nice. I need him to be special and a provider but idk how to go about it without looking like I want to be saved. Oftentimes I skip out on looks or a great salary bc I feel like I ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:35 AM |
| 3 | Single mom wants to level upA lot of men at 30 are “working on their careers” which I get bc I am. And telling them what I want runs bad men off, but I’ve become better at avoiding questions or not spilling my guts like “her father left, he’s never around xyz, sad stories” lol but yeah the vetting is hard with little support but I def realize I need to do better than picking the first guy I like. Thanks mama. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:32 AM |
| 5 | Single mom wants to level upGreat advice. The waiting just sucks. I feel like I’m gonna be 38 by the time I attract my HVM lol smh but I guess I’m better off alone instead of being a pick me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Single mom wants to level upSo true sis. Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 10:01 PM |
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