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That's a better way of wording that idea. He said "anything else here," leaving endless possibilities.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 11:26 PM
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Really? This is the only way to handle this situation? Really? Why are you endorsed
/r/askTRP21/01/19 10:13 PM
2

You're just idolizing a person man, it's unhealthy
/r/seduction07/01/19 07:23 PM
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Any girl that gets one number and posts it to social media doesn't get hit on much
/r/seduction12/12/18 06:03 PM
21

This guy memes
/r/seduction12/09/18 10:11 PM
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The feeling of being strong is far more important than being strong. You back yourself more. Your internal strength starts to express itself outwardly. You're more confident in interactions I can't re-iterate how true and significant this is for me. I'm 6'2 190, <8% bf with my life in order. It's like, all the sudden I can speak the damn truth without fear. Yesterday at the supermarket parking lot a dude who just got out of prison came up to me asking for money. He fakes a stutter and a handshak…
/r/TheRedPill23/08/18 04:48 PM
2

He's doing the opposite of coddling.There's a more effective middle ground between coddling and self-righteous reprimanding of others in disgust. I'm done trying to reason with you.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 10:32 PM
2

So what? Cuz it's an important character flaw to identify How can a man be so damn weak that words from strangers bother them? Quite easily. You're exhibiting the same type of self praising tough love. It's important to empathize with other's weaknesses
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:29 PM
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he's not being holier than thou He said "unlike you I got off my ass and did something" lol
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 07:06 PM
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Your sound very holier than thou Maybe be a little less resentful of another man's weakness. Empower and encourage, but what you're doing is like slamming a bat into broken glass expecting to fix it.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:11 PM
2

Of course they are- parents shape you every day for the first 18 years of your life.... I'm not saying it's not time to accept personal responsibility but let's not pretend that the family in which one is raised doesn't have very much to do with a person's development.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/18 06:08 PM
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Ah- first cold rejection. Feels good eh? Breathe it in good. Suffocate from it while it lasts. Many more to come brother, and they're all gonna sting even less than the one previous.
/r/seduction04/06/18 04:42 PM
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He's not encouraging anyone to slack on frame. He's making an objective analysis on the correlation between the importance of frame and your SMV.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 07:45 PM
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Your post is riddled with spelling and grammar mistakes and I haven’t the time to check, but I think that is a common misquote of Einstein. However, your post was helpful nonetheless. I especially like relying on a structured method of dealing with negative habits. Conscientiousness at its finest.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/18 03:29 AM
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Thrice!!!!
/r/RPChristians18/03/18 11:24 AM
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This article is saturated with claims and no sources.
/r/seduction14/02/18 06:33 PM
2

Self amuse, don’t be self-conscious. You’re second guessing if you look good instead of just feeling good.
/r/seduction03/02/18 03:20 PM
16

You're the male inverse of feminism
/r/seduction05/01/18 05:42 AM
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Keep in mind the dude is surrounded by women working at a sports bar.
/r/seduction22/12/17 06:54 AM
15

Can somebody transcribe for those of us who don't have 13 minutes to spare
/r/seduction19/12/17 08:24 AM
6

Probably. Girls are emotion-driven. They feel things. So in the moment when she's feeling flirty and vivacious, you're exciting her when she thinks of all the possibilities that could follow after agreeing to go out with you. But a whole different set of ideas come to her mind weeks later after that guy that never asked her out finally decides randomly to ask. Either way, don't think or worry about it too much. Lesson learned. If you're feeling chemistry with a girl, definitely ask her out- righ…
/r/seduction12/12/17 07:34 AM
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I don't know why you're so upset it was a tongue-in-cheek joke
/r/seduction12/12/17 07:14 AM
1

There’s a difference between “doesn’t work” and “goes horrendously badly”
/r/seduction11/12/17 03:02 PM
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Look I'm going to tell you something that may come as a surprise, because it is doesn't seem to be something that has crossed your mind once since you began this habit of yours... Some women actually dislike receiving unsolicitated pictures of your penis. Strongly.
/r/seduction11/12/17 07:39 AM
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How is this information going to help you?
/r/seduction06/12/17 10:40 PM
1

Walk around campus and meet girls dude
/r/seduction06/12/17 10:39 PM
2

Put everything you have into it. Pray about it every morning. Remind yourself of it constantly. You seem to get where she’s at and really understand it- but are you permanently in the right place? As you start to behave more compassionately, can you focus enough to make these habits stick? I️ say this not because I️ doubt you, but because it’s generally so easy to have a revelation and then fall back on our changes and slip into old habits. I️ urge you to find whatever you can to help keep you e…
/r/RPChristians20/11/17 09:55 PM
2

She told me she felt like she lost me because I was acting different, and she needs comfort right now while she goes through the healing process. Then comfort her dude! She needs compassion right now.
/r/RPChristians20/11/17 07:37 PM
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I went up to a girl alone in the yoga/private studio at the gym, she was so beautiful. Turned out to be a Miss Oklahoma pageant candidate, dancer, cheerleader, super rich, etc. She was kind and welcoming at first, and I got her number. But when my investment in her somehow got brought up after having just met her, I made it pretty clear that I wasn't very invested in her liking/dating me, and that I'd be fine no matter how she received me. In response, she kinda conveyed that she didn't care if …
/r/seduction21/10/15 05:31 AM
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Rampant, drunk sex is fun but after a while is unfulfilling. One must realize that love is far more satisfying.
/r/seduction09/09/15 12:44 AM
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Just be consciously aware of your speech. Hear yourself before you speak.
/r/seduction13/08/15 10:19 PM
2

I am gullible so I just read some bits and pieces of Mein Kampf. Hitler needs a lesson in logical reasoning.
/r/seduction20/04/15 06:00 AM
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Is there a FR on this?
/r/seduction20/04/15 02:38 AM
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Yeah man I would've been so upset over losing out on her.
/r/seduction19/03/15 07:05 AM
1

I think my girlfriend of one year would disagree with you :P
/r/seduction19/03/15 07:03 AM
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Gotta disagree with #2. No social media here but unlimited women.
/r/seduction19/03/15 06:47 AM
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If you're attractive, the more she hangs out with you the more she'll get a chance to realize that. If she wants to hang out with you, hang out with her and be yourself, and do it confidently. Stop being inside your head and live in the moment. There is a possibility that you'll grow on her, and maybe she'll start showing you signs that she is attracted you. That's when you pull the kino and escalation you've read up on. If you don't want to waste time, tell her the honest truth about your attra…
/r/seduction17/02/15 05:22 AM
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I always thought Texas would be home to beautiful women It is
/r/seduction31/01/15 05:34 AM
1

Gain some confidence in yourself.
/r/seduction10/12/14 12:25 AM
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This is far too often the case.
/r/seduction10/12/14 12:21 AM
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Embracing your chance with a woman is like shooting a basketball. You can choose not to shoot and you will surely not miss, but you don't have a chance of making a shot at all unless you shoot. You must look at women in a confident way in which you don't fear the chance of being rejected. Life will be relatively the same even if a women expresses she is not interested in you. You gain from the experience by learning from it and you could possibly improve your confidence from this by realizing th…
/r/seduction10/12/14 12:21 AM
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Oh my goodness, I sound like a superhero now.
/r/seduction09/12/14 09:23 PM
43

"ALERT THE MEDIA, WE'VE DONE IT!"
/r/seduction09/12/14 08:14 PM
7

Thanks. Do they go into detail on how to drop one's voice?
/r/seduction09/12/14 08:02 PM
0

Find out. Ask her. It's easy. Be honest about why you're asking, too. "I'm interested in you."
/r/seduction09/12/14 07:52 PM
32

Can someone tl;dr this please
/r/seduction09/12/14 07:51 PM
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I really hate it. Kate Upton isn't worth seducing?
/r/seduction10/10/14 10:00 PM
2

Your Guide from the College Daygame Master
/r/seduction19/08/14 03:13 PM
21

This just screams "I'm the fucking shit yo"
/r/seduction19/08/14 02:52 AM
2

I would never try this, seeing as picking up hot women by simply meeting random ones in person is such an easy way to get laid. That being said, if I was to write one, I would make sure to shamelessly share my intentions and see if anything happens.
/r/seduction27/07/14 02:46 PM
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Well even if you're not dealt a good hand, you gotta play your best. Enjoy the little time you get with her. If you're a very busy person, expect to spend very little time with someone else who is also as busy. There are lots of women out there :)
/r/seduction06/07/14 11:01 PM
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This should help
/r/seduction04/07/14 07:24 PM
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You guys are dissing how he didnt clearly state how to keep her attracted, but he did. Basically, make her feel like there is always something left to discover about you.
/r/seduction09/06/14 05:23 PM
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Girls don't respond because they aren't attracted to you, simple as that. Try to create more attraction in your interactions with them. Be vulnerable and confident, don't be afraid of what others think of you. If you're nervous, be vulnerable by literally telling her that she makes you nervous because she's so pretty. Don't try to impress the girls. Do you think the best PUAs go up to girls and try to impress them? If you're secure with yourself, you shouldn't need others to validate you, and yo…
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:50 AM
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The point I want to make is that it's important for you to be and do what you consider attractive, and find women who appreciate and value exactly that. That's how great relationships are made.
/r/seduction25/04/14 06:45 PM
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Well it is difficult to do because very few men have enough courage to be able to walk up to many beautiful women and comfortably face the possibility of rejection. The reason I proclaim myself a master is because I had consistent great success doing that.
/r/seduction25/04/14 06:14 PM
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imo what matters is what you think about how attractive you are.
/r/seduction25/04/14 06:26 AM
1

Yeah I've hit on women in that age range at grocery stores, malls, and coffee shops. I don't change anything, except act in accordance with the fact that they have more experience and maturity than girls my age.
/r/seduction24/04/14 08:52 PM
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Ey man, I'm gonna check up on you every once in a while to see how things are going; it should be helpful to have someone to share your progress with consistently. You've got the lifestyle changes down and I applaud you big time. Why not approach women more too? Just go up to the pretty girls in your high school and tell them they're pretty, and why (eyes/hair/style?). Meet them, get to know them a bit, ask for their numbers or tell them you'll see them around and consistently meet all the hot g…
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:35 PM
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It's a sensationalist title, but the ideas presented in the video are there in an effort to live up to the title. I don't see a problem with it.
/r/seduction22/04/14 06:56 PM
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In my opinion, it's a horrible waste of time. I spent hours perfecting my profile and never got a date (and I'm rated 9/10 by girls on the site on average). Then I manned up, approached women and got tons of dates quickly.
/r/seduction19/04/14 03:35 AM
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Dick on the shoulder usually works for me.
/r/seduction18/04/14 08:24 PM
5

I met 10 hot women today by going up and talking to them.
/r/seduction17/04/14 08:20 PM
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Yeah be honest with yourself, don't "try too hard" as the proverbial saying goes. Basically, the less invested you appear in winning her over and getting her to like you, the more you're going to seem like you don't need her, which is attractive. Don't seek her reactions, seek to self-amuse. Doing anything else is needy because you're trying to win the approval of others to satisfy your ego and feel validated, implying that you don't have confidence in yourself.
/r/seduction17/04/14 08:13 PM
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Watch how to hold conversation like a man. Approach irl
/r/seduction25/03/14 05:33 PM
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Umm, my thoughts. It was a solid date, this girl's stupid for not wanting a second date with a guy that really made her feel sexy and happy. Couple notes, though If you are attracted to the girl and you want to go somewhere and isolate her, be honest about the fact that it's a date. Oh, and if you're on a first date and she just told you she has bad experiences going too far on first dates, don't ask to go to her place!!! Girls like to be loved for their beauty and for who they are. You certainl…
/r/seduction25/03/14 05:14 PM
1

Just look her in the eyes man. It shows genuine interest and women love having the attention of a man. I challenge you to make too much eye contact.
/r/seduction24/03/14 05:39 AM
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Go research and study eye contact man!!
/r/seduction24/03/14 04:37 AM
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Last month I contributed this post and it has a lot to do with some core concepts found in Models. Check it out. The book really is that amazing.
/r/seduction24/03/14 12:30 AM
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Whatever you do, don't create an ego in which you try to fulfill being something you, yourself, are not. That being said, you are probably a very interesting person and you won't have to fake it.
/r/seduction24/03/14 12:28 AM
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Tell her how you feel and don't be afraid to do so, you should be so grounded in yourself that her reaction shouldn't affect your frame or confidence. So, just say what you feel. What is special about her that makes you like her so much? Fearlessly and shamelessly tell her exactly that, don't break eye contact when you do it. If she responds positively, and she will if you do it like I'm telling you to, just ask for her number and tell her you want to take her out.
/r/seduction24/03/14 12:23 AM
1

What's the trick?
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:39 PM
1

Yeah if she stares at your lips don't you ever hesitate to kiss her right then and there. A) You want to kiss her B) You're not providing
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:39 PM
1

It's definitely not a smile, it may be considered somewhat expressionless. But to be honest, holding eye contact for longer than usual time with a stranger is an expression (of interest) in itself. I'm clearly very, very focused on her so my facial expression doesn't even matter.
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:22 PM
1

Well the makeout was after the girl and I went out to lunch and hung with her friends so I had gotten to know her pretty well, plus we were isolated. Another girl I met yesterday rejected my kiss, and I laughed, but then we shared some kisses on the cheeks. Anyway, boldness works well but if you get rejected from a kiss, which is what will usually happen if you just met, laugh about it. She will love that you're okay with however she reacts when you try to advance.
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:17 PM
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I smile very little, but I do smile. I laugh a lot however, and this always includes a smile. When I want to turn on a girl, I give her a sexy little smirk and look in her eyes. Right when I spark up a new conversation with a girl, after she positively receives me I tend to convey a little excitement and appreciation of the situation in my facial expression.
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:12 PM
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Good question. My idea of alpha doesn't at all include being pissed off or negative.
/r/seduction22/03/14 07:09 PM
2

I do focus on what I'm saying because it is very important in making an impression. I just place more importance on establishing that psychological connection. And no. Assuming they're good stories, this is a solid way to convey your value. Make sure to be a good listener and, if possible, try to make your stories help you connect with her on a deeper level.
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:59 PM
0

Yeah it's definitely something I've succeeded with before, but in general it's a much more suitable environment outside of class.
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:54 PM
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Just laugh at the bitchiness. It's actually pretty funny that a woman would think to act that way.
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:49 PM
2

Honestly, if you'll read the Power of Now it will help you overcome all the worries and discomforts you experience. Those are all driven by fear in your thoughts. The book will show you how to overcome that thinking and instead live in the moment, where there is nothing but joy and peace.
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:43 PM
2

I found myself reading many, many sections several times over to fully grasp their message.
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:40 PM
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Yep, don't complain because nothing in the moment is really lacking, the problem you're complaining about is an illusion.
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:39 PM
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Read it!
/r/seduction22/03/14 05:39 PM
2

Yeah that's simply the nature of the game in 2014.
/r/seduction22/03/14 03:44 AM
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Upvote me because my comment is worthy.
/r/seduction18/03/14 05:35 AM
2

Barbell curls + pull ups. Do 'em.
/r/seduction11/03/14 09:19 PM
6

If you think of willpower like a muscle, knowing that you can overcome sexual impulses purely out of the desire for self-improvement is quite a great way to strengthen your willpower muscles. How willpower is helpful in the field should be self-evident. Furthermore, you start having stronger sexual desires and you lose the desensitizing and inaccurate portrayal of sex, passion and desire that is porn.
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:14 AM
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I have great success with women and I'm Plat in League of Legends AMA
/r/seduction26/02/14 04:09 AM
2

Just keep the mindset that she'd be lucky to have you and you're selecting her because she is special. Women like to be desired. Just flirt to keep attraction there. Don't be so afraid of being physical, do whatever comes naturally. Keep in mind that girls like a bold man.
/r/seduction25/02/14 07:05 PM
-1

Yeah but did you bang the hot girl in PHIL?
/r/seduction25/02/14 04:50 AM
2

I often hold eye contact and then look away after so long as if I was unimpressed and the person failed to live up to my expectations in the 2 or so seconds of eye contact I let them share with me. My face kinda says "Ok, whatever"
/r/seduction24/02/14 07:36 PM
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If I could add something really valuable that helps me have sexy posture like this.. Focus on having your shoulders back and concentrate on having deliberate and focused relaxation. This is pretty much my only posture tip. It brings your chest out, aligns your back better, and it's sexy as fuck when your shoulders are just back and relaxed, and once you're truly relaxed, you just naturally have a badass nature to your posture, strut, and standing habits.
/r/seduction23/02/14 06:15 PM
-3

I'll post whatever the fuck I want however the fuck I want bud
/r/seduction22/02/14 06:11 AM
-7

You're assuming way too much about my attitude based on my choice to use a frowning face.
/r/seduction22/02/14 05:15 AM
-7

I'll just game girls on my college campus and at the gym for now :(
/r/seduction22/02/14 05:05 AM
-9

But I'm broke :(
/r/seduction21/02/14 11:33 PM
-6

But I'm not 21 :(
/r/seduction21/02/14 11:28 PM
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Keep it light and crack some jokes in new interactions, people will warm up to you easily this way. Give people your opinions shamelessly and be assertive in steering conversations (preferably away from small talk) to add value. More of this, less of this. Be the king, not the jester.
/r/seduction20/02/14 06:40 PM
0

You shouldn't have small talk in the first place
/r/seduction20/02/14 06:35 PM
1

thinking about how bad you wanna FUCK ALL THE GIRLS
/r/seduction20/02/14 06:20 PM
4

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pj6qhHYLeMU Go to 18:00
/r/seduction19/02/14 09:23 PM
1

Are you asking for a kiss or going for it?
/r/seduction17/02/14 01:09 AM
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Post: Requests for relationship advice and updates to previous posts only
/r/seduction12/02/14 05:12 AM
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/r/relationship_advice
/r/seduction12/02/14 05:08 AM
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By practicing! You don't just flip a switch and suddenly know how to gauge a woman's emotions by looking at her body language, it takes time and effort. Study body language online and go put in work by chatting up all the girls you want. They say eyes are a window into a person's soul.
/r/seduction12/02/14 04:55 AM
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Yep. Girls will be drawn to your genuine nature.
/r/seduction10/02/14 03:07 AM
2

Just have a thought to yourself for a moment.."Yeah, several girls are drawn to me right now. I suppose this is natural and I'm not surprised." Then continue doing or talking about whatever you want with them.
/r/seduction10/02/14 03:07 AM
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She'll open up to you the more she trusts you. Show confidence and trust in yourself first and foremost. Be honest with her. Show her you can put your balls on the chopping block by becoming so vulnerable and sharing yourself with her. She'll open up in a heartbeat once you do that. One other thing..the more you seem invested in her opening up, the more anxiety you're going to create.
/r/seduction10/02/14 03:01 AM
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As soon as your feelings for her are stronger than hers are for you, you are investing more. Asking her out on a date is not very heavily investing. For example, girls often commit to dates without actually having any genuine interest in somebody.
/r/seduction09/02/14 12:02 AM
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You get it
/r/seduction09/02/14 12:00 AM
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Initiation and investment are different. You can and should initiate without being overly invested. A quote straight out of models You should only be willing to sacrifice your thoughts/ feelings/motivations for a woman less than she is willing to do the same for you.
/r/seduction08/02/14 11:59 PM
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Sah-weeeet!!!
/r/seduction08/02/14 07:10 AM
2

Models is a fucking incredible read.
/r/seduction03/02/14 10:38 PM
-2

How to hold conversation like a man
/r/seduction03/02/14 06:40 AM
2

Dang those last two paragraphs really resonated in me. Can you share some things you wish you would have done more?
/r/seduction28/01/14 07:27 AM
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Marc Maron = Comedian
/r/seduction28/01/14 02:16 AM
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Marc Maron Nice guy xD Great points and I agree with all of them. We just make this point all the time so that guys can wrap their heads around the fact that text game is relatively ineffective at creating attraction.
/r/seduction28/01/14 02:04 AM
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Good point. Did you hear that story about the redditor who picked up chicks by talking about memes in person and recommending to girls that they post nudes online? Yeah; me neither.
/r/seduction27/01/14 10:31 PM
1

Aight I read your first FR too. Awkward dancing is usually not a fun experience for a girl. Take the lead by ceasing if you can tell it's awkward and choosing to do something else together (gently put your hand on her lower back, tell her to come with you to somewhere you can sit, put your arm around her while you sit and talk, play some games like Fuck/Marry/Kill, or anything to allow you to lead her where you want her to go, and where you can inject your personality, humor, etc.) I don't know …
/r/seduction27/01/14 09:31 PM
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You're welcome bro. One of my few serious relationships was actually crippled by the fact that I wasn't "good enough" for her to get over the breakup with her ex. It was quite a learning experience. Take this perspective on the situation. She's just gotten out of a long relationship, with a guy who clearly wasn't worth it. She's just had a huge emotional connection with someone eliminated right before her eyes, there's a void to fill. She needs someone stable and trustworthy, but who is not need…
/r/seduction27/01/14 09:11 PM
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That's way too fucking long for me to read, sorry. I read your second FR. If girls are attracted to you they're going to give you their phone number. You fucked up when she made a move to exit. At this point, as soon as she doesn't seem interested in leaving with you, you should just accept that you didn't create enough attraction to get her to abandon her friends for you, but that you made an awesome connection and she likes you. So what you do is, you tell her to give you her phone number and …
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:54 PM
1

You're fairly sure? She tells others she has a crush on you, she tells you there is a low likelihood of her continuing her relationship with her boyfriend, and then she breaks up with him. Now she's literally putting in effort and taking time out of her life to talk to you, and you're fairly sure she is interested in dating? Bro, this chick could be your wife and the girl you're with now is clearly going to be non-existent in your life very soon. Tell your girlfriend the honest truth: that you k…
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:28 PM
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Okay, it sounds like you realize where your fault is. When you look at her, ask yourself how you feel about her. Again, be honest, but also be open with yourself. You'll be amazed how well this works. I've made the same mistake. A lot of times it seemed like a girl's behavior was what was causing me to be turned off. In reality, I was just rationalizing to compensate for the intimidation of her beauty and my fear of rejection. Accept that the anxiety exists, brush it off like a vulnerable, yet d…
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:17 PM
3

Go ahead, there is certainly great opportunity at Reddit meetups. That being said, your openers belong in /r/cringe. Try something more along the lines of "Hi, I'm ____"
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:16 PM
1

You need to expose yourself. You need to accept that being vulnerable is going to conquer all your shortcomings; that it is your be-all, end-all cure to your shortcoming; that rejection itself wouldn't hurt as bad as not approaching her when she indicates interest.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:11 PM
0

The immaturity part stands out to me as your problem. Girls wouldn't be saying that for no good reason. Look inside yourself and ask yourself if your actions with those girls warranted those responses. And in general, girls are attracted to physicality. They wouldn't mind your immaturity if they were attracted to you.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:07 PM
2

Ask yourself how you feel about it. Be honest with yourself. In the future, act accordingly.
/r/seduction27/01/14 08:03 PM
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When it comes to texting, just keep it simple. Don't try to win her over or accompllish anything really, other than telling her it was nice meeting her, and scheduling to meet. You should do all the heavy lifting of creating attraction in your physical interaction with her.
/r/seduction27/01/14 05:55 PM
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Yeah. It makes you seem turned off/unphased by her asking, showing that you don't really see the need to validate yourself to her. Ignoring shit tests is a very reasonable approach. That being said, straight up ignoring a girl could easily be perceived as discourteous which is not something I recommend. All in all, responding to a shit test by rolling the eyes, or giving a smiling, dominant look on your face that says "aww...that's fucking cute" is high-status behavior.
/r/seduction21/01/14 10:24 PM
1

Sounds dirty..but ok
/r/seduction21/01/14 06:55 AM
4

but i want to have sex
/r/seduction21/01/14 05:25 AM
1

Dave Hopla makes all his basketball shots.
/r/seduction21/01/14 05:03 AM
2

Okay
/r/seduction21/01/14 05:00 AM
13

Best thing I've ever read on Seddit.
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:58 AM
6

I should add...Dick on the shoulder always works for me.
/r/seduction21/01/14 04:33 AM
1

Nic Sparks' How to Hold Conversation Like a Man
/r/seduction16/12/13 05:42 PM
3

You can see my topic on this in AskWomen here
/r/seduction16/12/13 05:38 PM
0

I would recommend considering what your appearance says about you. Your body type, your choice to groom, your clothing choices. They represent the way you like to appear to others visually, which says something about you.
/r/seduction11/12/13 03:15 AM
1

If you suffer from chronic awkwardness.. Think Ryan Reynolds in The Change Up or Michael Cera in Superbad. Chicks are often very attracted to guys who trust in themselves no matter how awkward their inner-game is. Just take your awkwardness and turn it into a special, unique trait that you have by making girls laugh because of it. Basically, embrace yourself no matter who you are.
/r/seduction09/12/13 05:23 AM
33

Being a virgin means something.
/r/seduction07/12/13 06:52 PM
1

Michael, you are incredibly helpful and talented. I hope our community as well as Youtube and the rest of the world embraces you with open arms. I found this particularly helpful: Fear of rejection is your worst enemy because it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. You’re afraid that she won’t like how you look or that you’ll say the wrong thing, so you hesitate, fidget and broadcast your insecurities to her during the approach. And if you do that you shouldn’t be surprised when you get turned do…
/r/seduction05/12/13 11:02 PM
4

It's more to create an explosion of self-worth when you overcome the obstacle of low temperature. Mind over matter. I can definitely see why this could be helpful.
/r/seduction05/12/13 12:19 AM
1

Don't feel sorry for yourself. Trust in yourself. Believe in yourself and the actions you take. Do what you know you need to do and what you want to do. Don't get one-itis. Approach all the women you want and be yourself. Make connections with people by initiating conversations with them, and add value to conversations by being a good listener and conversationalist. Treat others the way you want to be treated and things will work out great.
/r/seduction02/12/13 09:11 PM
3

My only goal is to find a girl who is perfect for me and who I want to spend the rest of my life with.
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:42 PM
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I would agree and amplify. "Of course. I'm going to pray at my shrine of you every day for the strength to get through another day without you" or something to that effect
/r/seduction02/12/13 01:49 AM
1

Yeah, its possible to have girls in your social circle -_- Flirting should make your interest clear 100% of the time. Why flirt if you're not genuinely interested? Be friendly to all girls. Get involved with whatever girls you fancy.
/r/seduction01/12/13 04:20 AM
6

Aightttt It's good to compare your own response to stimuli to the way others respond. Nothing wrong with that; just don't judge them. Comparing allows you to identify somebody's unique character traits that differ from or relate to yours. What makes a male attractive is his looks and personality. The better he can demonstrate his higher value, the more attractive he is. Groom yourself well, get fit as you can, get a tan if you need one, and wear the right clothing. These 4 things go a very long …
/r/seduction28/11/13 09:34 PM
3

What are they doing to you to get you so far out of your comfort zone?
/r/seduction26/11/13 07:04 AM
3

What did you learn
/r/seduction26/11/13 06:25 AM
1

Grats bro.
/r/seduction26/11/13 06:24 AM
2

Yo JB You're the fucking man. Will definitely open with a joke.
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:46 AM
2

I will do exactly that :)
/r/seduction26/11/13 05:04 AM
2

14 minutes in; I haven't learned shit and this girl's stupid smile is pissing me off.
/r/seduction22/11/13 10:33 PM
1

Easy way to deliver would be saying it with a straight face, waiting a second and then cracking the smile as if you couldn't hold back a laugh any longer.
/r/seduction22/11/13 12:40 AM
3

Do this because you have confidence and you desire her
/r/seduction20/11/13 08:18 PM
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He didn't say "or ass"
/r/seduction05/11/13 04:26 AM
1

"Hey, how's it going?"
/r/seduction04/11/13 10:24 PM
1

Yeah, you still have a shot with this girl but chances are seemingly low. Show that you're attracted to her, and if she shows interest in your desire, go from there.
/r/seduction04/11/13 10:20 PM
2

Hug your female friends a lot! Approaching girls can work pretty well in HS if you practice. Girls like to be desired. Read Models by Mark Manson and/or study this
/r/seduction04/11/13 08:29 PM
1

Like a month or two
/r/seduction03/11/13 06:35 PM
2

Yeah, I used it once and it went well. Girl is super attracted to me to this day :)
/r/seduction02/11/13 06:25 PM
5

More importantly, do you give a single flying fuck?
/r/seduction31/10/13 04:54 PM
1

Well it shows interest and desire for her nonetheless which is going to increase attraction; more power to you.
/r/seduction30/10/13 09:49 PM
1

Why would you tell her to kiss you? That's role reversal
/r/seduction30/10/13 04:58 PM
2

Dude, you dont go rub near her vag in public, thats why she got super uncomfortable, took your hands off of her, and left you there like some overly assertive horny freak. She obviously had initial interest in you; A k-close would have been fine, asking her to come back to your place probably would have worked, but she had boundaries that you didn't identify. On to the next one; an important lesson was learned.
/r/seduction30/10/13 07:09 AM
13

Talk about over-compensating. Sheesh
/r/seduction30/10/13 07:03 AM
1

Would not recommend
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:21 PM
1

make a nonsequitor While I understand the logical argument that is a nonsequitor, could you please elaborate by giving an example of a nonsequitor to say to a buddy in response to AMOG bashing me?
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:16 PM
1

You have approach anxiety; getting over it is up to you. There's a lot of information on how to do so in this subreddit. Personally, I just ask myself if I would rather talk to her or not talk to her; I usually can't come up with good reasons not to (I'm not about to be physically or emotionally harmed), so, in my head I basically just concluded with firm evidence that I would prefer to approach her. I usually think to myself as I'm approaching "You're the shit, she'll see pretty quickly." Self-…
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:10 PM
3

You're failing to realize that cold approaches often do result in sex and relationships. In fact, it's pretty easy. Girls are turned on by the confidence that it takes to cold approach, so you already have a leg up on every guy in her social circle who was introduced to her through a mutual friend/work/school.
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:04 PM
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How to interpret this: Fucking is a possibility. A relationship is not. How to adjust your approach to interaction: Ensure confidence is apparent, utilize kino, remind self of outcome independence, treat her whatever way seems best to get yourself laid. Don't expect to become more than a friend/fuckbuddy.
/r/seduction25/10/13 09:00 PM
0

Belief in a creator of the universe and the extensive set of morals that come along with that (and furthermore, the defining characteristics of a personality) is very different from choosing what food one likes to eat. Regardless, it's not something I care to continue arguing about. If a girl told me she wouldn't date me because I eat chicken every day, I would laugh in her face and be tempted to tell her to fuck off.
/r/seduction23/10/13 10:12 PM
0

Nah, she's a bitch. To each their own. I don't care if she makes the choice to not eat meat, but to avoid dating someone simply because they don't make the same choice is foolish. Sharing it in common with someone can definitely be beneficial to a relationship, but to disqualify somebody for this reason is not wise, fair, or acceptable imo.
/r/seduction23/10/13 06:02 PM
6

Pretty hard to create attraction through Facebook messages.
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:25 PM
2

What if I told you caring enough to continue the conversation greatly increased your chances of creating attraction to you.
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:15 PM
1

I don't see anything wrong with kissing her on the mouth the day after hooking up. Buttt if she is taken back by it being a public display of affection, accept it and say something like "sticking to private displays of affection might be best." Don't text her often, in fact the best approach to texting is not texting at all unless you're making plans. She definitely didn't mistake your kiss for what it is (a forward sign that you're confident and attracted to her). Girls don't just do that. It's…
/r/seduction22/10/13 10:03 PM
1

To answer your question, yeah it matters why you're rejected. If you know why you're rejected by a girl, it gives you the opportunity to understand how you can be accepted by a girl. Onto your examples... The first one sounds like a stupid bitch. The second one sounds like she actually just finds me unattractive. The third one sounds like she actually just finds me unattractive.
/r/seduction22/10/13 09:56 PM
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Yeah, just go be yourself bro! Have fun, talk to girls. Some things you'll want to ingrain within yourself is outcome independence, confidence, and attaining alpha male status. This will be very helpful.
/r/seduction18/10/13 07:14 PM
1

You gotta understand seduction is a game to some.
/r/seduction11/10/13 07:21 PM
2

Uh, you are clearly in an interesting position and I hope some others on seddit give you advice as well. Increasing your confidence would probably solve all your problems. Kino and escalation are like second nature to a good PUA, and those things are more easily done when you can be a highly confident and outcome independent person. If you don't like your body, do something about it. Diet and exercise are seriously so easy for most people who become dedicated to improving themselves. Ask your fi…
/r/seduction29/09/13 05:23 AM
10

You talk about meeting in person
/r/seduction27/09/13 08:48 PM
1

Talk to all of the people who you want to build a social circle with. Be the lively, outgoing and confident man who organizes social gatherings.
/r/seduction27/09/13 06:09 PM
1

How do I transition from dates to serious relationships properly? Also, I get many interested women easily now but I'm more interested in marrying some of them rather than fuck them.
/r/seduction27/09/13 06:06 PM
3

What do you mean by connections?
/r/seduction25/09/13 02:31 AM
1

What?
/r/seduction25/09/13 02:30 AM
2

Always maintain confident eye contact. Nobody said anything about holding hands with strangers.
/r/seduction25/09/13 12:33 AM
7

Humorous self-deprecation is always questionable, and even moreso when you're downplaying your confidence and success with women.
/r/seduction25/09/13 12:31 AM
7

Directions unclear, receiving sexual harassment charges.
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:59 PM
2

This does not make you seem desirable. Would not recommend.
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:58 PM
3

Probably with a short chuckle.
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:58 PM
14

Then later she says, "ok really, how many" Now what?
/r/seduction24/09/13 11:58 PM
0

You are giving her the night of her life, after all
/r/seduction23/09/13 05:14 PM
6

Drinks
/r/seduction23/09/13 02:53 PM
-1

Find a hotter girl
/r/seduction23/09/13 02:39 AM
1

plz respond op
/r/seduction09/09/13 03:35 AM
1

DAE have intelligent elders?
/r/seduction09/09/13 03:34 AM
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