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I can only hope to find someone as kind and understanding as your partner
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/21 03:42 PM
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Exactly. And if you are lukewarm about the idea of being a parent or spouse: you are more likely to be a bad one if your heart is not in it. If you are lukewarm about chasing a career over a family: you will burnout.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 12:44 PM
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I think it's good more people are being reflective and deciding to opt out of commitment. It is not logical to sacrifice your true dreams to settle down with a partner because of temporary "lovey feelings". This goes for any gender: if they are not ready for the sheer sacrifice and occasional dissatisfaction of married life, do not get married. It leads pain for all parties involved. This why I have respect for men and women that recognize they don't value long term relationships as much as othe…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/21 05:12 AM
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And I wouldn't get too heavily into the mainstream self-help community for this, since its well known to be a bit of a scam. Yeah, online self help has become a strange cult.
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/21 10:33 AM
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Honestly, H&M is always my go-to.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/21 07:05 PM
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Yeah, you're right it's more responsible to tell them. What I am gonna do, not tell my kids about death too? That would be ridiculous.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 04:36 PM
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Great points
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 04:26 PM
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I just have to disagree here, but maybe the word I used "hate" is strong, but questioning the way things are is a good thing. You can do both in a healthy way. You don't have to be obsessed and talk about how the world is bad all the time and call everyone a piece of shit, but there is no possibility of changing the world for the better if you don't point out things that are detrimental to people. Also, I'm not really concerned with the intimate relationship aspect as much as just the people are…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 04:18 PM
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"Don't hate the game" Well, why not hate the game? People can improve themselves and criticize the way society is set up at the same time, no matter level they are at.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 03:49 PM
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You're right, there are many paths to happiness
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 03:03 PM
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Some more thoughts: while all the "good traits" mentioned in the post can make certain aspects of life easier, these people can often be surrounded by others who don't seek genuine relationship connections with them, and are only after what they can offer. It can be hard for them to find friends/lovers in that respect. I think this important to highlight that fact and I wish I mentioned that in my original post. It's not all necessarily sun shine and rainbows for them.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 01:58 PM
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I'm not a mod, but I always value comments from different perspectives, including men.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 01:45 PM
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Everything in life comes with a risk, including love.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/21 11:30 AM
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I have a regular cotton-poly blend I suspect. I will try long underwear, thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/21 02:41 AM
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I love that lounge music that makes you feel like you're in a 5-star hotel lobby or upscale apartment.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 08:44 PM
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That's fair. I hope you find some tunes you like!
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 08:26 PM
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This isn't music but I like podcasts on whatever interests me or makes me laugh. There are so many podcasts out there I kinda stopped listening to music as much.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/21 05:54 PM
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I used to be like this. I know it sucks. Personally, what helped me is just improving whatever I thought was "wrong" with my SMV i.e. eating healthy, working out, and reading. Along with therapy and being careful on social media looking at models (it can wreck you if you are not in the right mindset). I was so busy trying to improve myself I had less time to sit and think about "hey what if I'm not good enough". I still have those thoughts but I try to direct that energy to making myself better.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/21 11:58 AM
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I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Believe it it not I relate a little bit. Ok so a lot people are are going to tell you to "grow up" and "get your shit together". Neither of which is advice, they think it's helpful but really it's just a dog owner barking orders at a puppy. You're a human being who is perfectly capable of making her own decisions, and I'm going to treat you as such. I suspect not a lot of people have given you the benefit of the doubt in your life. Take a breath. First and …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/21 11:51 AM
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Yes, it's scrubbing. The only thing I do is use sunscreen, retinol, and some stuff for my acne (benzoyl peroxide 10% and adapalene). Those are the only things I've read that are backed by studies/dermatologists.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 12:52 PM
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Some background info: I am young and I have oily skin that isn't very sensitive. Keep in mind my needs may be different from yours.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/21 12:41 AM
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I can relate. I was in 1 relationship but it was long distance, so I am still a virgin at 21.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/21 02:45 AM
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I just have one from Walmart that I use to create easy Eisenhower Matrices for each day. The Walmart ones are suprisingly well made and cheap. I also have one for my side hobby of creating stories/characters. I decide the journal into multiple sections for what I need.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/21 05:21 PM
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I've heard good things about fasting, will definitely try it!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/21 12:58 AM
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I suppose I meant to say incorporate more plants/whole foods, but yes I don't plan on going vegan. I'm not Latina, but I learned Spanish in high school since I live in an area where there are a lot of Mexicans. Looks like I'll be investing in weight training! Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 11:16 PM
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You make fair points. It would be limiting on myself to not at least try to date more outwardly masculine men.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 10:48 PM
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I'm 115 lb. I'd like to do strength training but I am afraid of injuring myself. I'm considering getting a physical trainer for that. I'll admit that I am simply just attracted to more sensitive personalities and therefore I'm more likely than average to date someone who is feminine. I know many on this sub would not see that as "high value" trait, but that is a risk I'm willing to accept. You bring up a good point on kickboxing. Dancing certainly sounds intriguing to me, thanks for that suggest…
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 10:01 PM
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Thank you for the recommendations!
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 07:30 PM
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Thank you! I actually do have a bullet journal! I love it! Right, I consider 6 months to be pretty tentative, not a hard/fast rule. Therapy is so important it's a shame it isn't affordable for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen08/04/21 06:39 PM
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