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| 134 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoredon't forget its infantilizing as well, I swear some of these thins these woke white women make some of the racist assumptions you'll ever hear IRL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:32 PM |
| 37 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreI wish it was, but a woman wrote this sadly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:30 PM |
| 39 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreInteresting, I'll bookmark it for later | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:14 PM |
| 53 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreI have heard about this from time to time, any sources though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 01:11 PM |
| 182 | I have no words, this isn't even pick-me behavior anymoreI have encountered my fair share of "woke white women" here, while all of them are annoying and can be unintentionally offensive in ways they don't realize, I think most mean well but this is not even that anymore, selling out all women to appear a little more woke and appeal to the egos of shitty non-white men also the super racist insinuation that its normal for non-white cultures to have cat-calling and so we shouldn't be complaining, like what the hell does she not realize how incredibly rac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 12:57 PM |
| 2 | I am not fond of any of the Kardashians or pete davidson, but even I find this disturbing and disgusting and no one should have to deal with this BSI have some black female friends who have told me similar things, they do believe that the Kardashian's exploited the rap community for their own benefit and fame but they still feel bad for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 04:16 AM |
| -25 | I am not fond of any of the Kardashians or pete davidson, but even I find this disturbing and disgusting and no one should have to deal with this BSokay what kind of eugenics thinking is that, both me and my husband suffer from mental illness(that we both manage) and we have a child together do you think we should just leave him cause our "genes" aren't worthy procreating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 04:24 AM |
| -4 | I am not fond of any of the Kardashians or pete davidson, but even I find this disturbing and disgusting and no one should have to deal with this BSthat would be more respectful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/22 04:21 AM |
| -1 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerAre you accusing my Dadi Ma(grandmother) of being pedophile ? I do think its a little different, most boys physically mature faster then girls, at just 15 most middle school male athletes can out preform female Olympians, there is a difference between the sexes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 04:30 AM |
| -1 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerHe was 15, that's an age where many young men go off to fight in wars in most of the world. Including the west I really don't see much wrong with it, maybe its from my own cultural perspective but I do think boys have a responsibility to age faster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerI guess its a difference in culture, Its odd now but my grandfather only 15 when he married his first wife who was in her mid-20's | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 03:46 AM |
| 33 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerI remember reading a story of a wrestler who played an Anti-American character and he was not only given death threats but people used to throw food at him and one man actually tried to stab him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 06:44 PM |
| 7 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerMy first 2 languages are related(like dutch and English) so its not that hard and I think my spoken English is decent enough, its just writing can be very confusing cause in the perso-Arabic script written words tend to be very district and direct, this is not the case for English and the roman script | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 06:42 PM |
| 169 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerThis Most people don't see old man and young woman couples and think, "what a chad alpha man" they find it odd and pathetic for both parties | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:29 PM |
| 27 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerI don't know if its sympathy is the right word, but I believe men can be better that they have the potential to be good human beings on a mass scale | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:24 PM |
| 80 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerdon't forget the ageism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:14 PM |
| 88 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerMy husband is very into boxing, I have watched some documentaries and films with him about this The story is 90% of the same, I feel bad for some of them as the factors of their lives were truly hard but with others I lose sympathy, like one guy whose name I forget but he fought Mike Tyson he had so many idiotic purchases(a nightclub, mansions in different countries and Hispanic women to "accompany" him) he even a made a disgusting comment about it, something along the lines off "oh those purto … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:12 PM |
| 105 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerTempted to delete this post now cause I just realized that I wrote "there' instead of their I mean English is my third language but I have been living in the UK for almost a decade now, so I get really embarrassed when I make these stupid mistakes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:03 PM |
| 180 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerThe only rich guys with harems are degenerates and they aren't rich for long, think of how many athletes and rappers who always end up broke cause of their degenerate lifestyles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 04:01 PM |
| 92 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there poweralso with hugh jackman and Aaron Taylor-Johnson wives, with a common rumor that the former is gay and the latter was groomed as if a young man wouldn't even dream of marrying a woman older then them, its that absurd for them My grandfather was 15 when he married his first wife who was in her 20's, his older brother's widow and adopted her children It was a custom among my people, that the younger brother would step and take of his older brother's wife and children if he ever died and that happen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 03:57 PM |
| 62 | How dare rich and successful men not have harems of 16 year old virgins, like I would have If I had even 1/10th of there powerokay but being rich or not doesn't mean one is a HVM, it means they either inherited wealth or were better at gaming the system I think what matters most is what a man does with his money, you have so many rich rappers who will likely never pass on that wealth to there children cause they basically bankrupt themselves with frivolous purchases | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itAll Tribal societies constantly change and evolve, The ancient bare no resemblance to the greeks in the byzantine era, I don't wanna turn this into a discussion about Islam I'm just disagreeing with what you were somewhat implying about me(that I'm a self hater) when I have respect for my culture and heritage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itA late reply but I really hope you and u/burntbpd see this reply, so I can make my points clear I am a married to a south asian man and have a son with him I do not despise our race and the men of our culture, what I despise is what they have been reduced too, from proud and humble warriors and agriculturists too Arab and Turk worshippers with no self respect of their own, actively erasing their own heritage to be better muslims which means to claim to have Turkic ancestry somehow and trying to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/22 06:29 AM |
| 3 | I thought they always said cat ladies were gonna die alone.sorry for your loss, may your husband rest in peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/22 08:48 AM |
| 10 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthwell historically it's always been a bit more complicated then that many cultures though out the world preferred lighter skin over dark skin for one simple reason, darker skin people often were the tenant farmers who were forced to work the land and so compared to their natural share they would be least 2-3 shades darker, it was only recently in the Industrial revolution where the masses moved to cities did this trend stop In fact in the west it became reversed, light skinned meant you were some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 09:37 PM |
| 60 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthokay but this post is not about fetishization of other races, its about colorism with in the same ethnic groups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 07:12 PM |
| 74 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthI never get that though, cause racially speaking most brown Indians have the same exact same racial characteristics as Europeans, with the exception of height and melanin, I mean just look at what happens when an Indian suffers from albinism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:34 PM |
| 53 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthThose cases happen less though, Pashtun, Gujjar, Seraiki are all tribals, they start blood fueds that last centuries over women or something so even the most light-skinned loving pakistani wouldn't go after these women, not cause of the morality but he's scared of the just punishments that he will likely end up receiving | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:13 PM |
| 41 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthlmao you aren't wrong I probably should make a post about this topic to go in more detail, but see in my nation pretty much all the naturally lighter skinned men and women are Tribals who are mostly mountain peasants, they are inbred, violent and illiterate but they keep to themselves mostly and don't bother others but the women(and to a lesser extent the men) are fetishized by our society and agents often venture to these villages to get a client, however due to the Islam foothold and conservat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 04:08 PM |
| 46 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthI feel a strong kinship with you, my maternal family are from an ethnic group that descended from a mostly Tibetic peoples my features have always made me an outsider when I lived in Pakistan, I had probably the worst combination of features by Pakistani standards for women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:56 PM |
| 119 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthalready posted this, but both Pakistan and in the UK Pakistani girls who are from light-skinned ethnic groups often end up receiving the most fetishization and planned abductions against them by other Pakistani men, the only reason these issues don't progress much is cause Pashtun, Gujjar and many Jatt men don't play around they will beat anyone who mess with "their" women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:52 PM |
| 86 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthI want to also state that even being lighter skinned comes with its share of issues My husband comes from a fairly lighter skinned ethnic group(Pashtuns) and his female relatives often get messaged and even one time stalked by other Pakistani's, overall here in the diaspora community and in Pakistan, Pashtun women get fetishized by many Pakistani and Indian Muslim men, marrying a Pashtun or Turkish woman would be a dream for many south asian Muslim men so it's either disdain for your natural ski… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 114 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthEven the one's who will claim that they will never "marry" a white woman(they will sleep with them of course, but expect their future wives to be virgins) still prefer light skinned women of their ethnic/racial group this happens a lot in south asian diaspora communities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:33 PM |
| 52 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthAs awful as my paternal south asian family can be, I'm really glad they weren't colorist like most other families, they had loads of other issues and bigoted views but I never saw any of them expresses colorist views I guess I'm thankful for that cause I'm a bit darker then most of my family members and no one in my family ever pressured me into using skin whitening creams or remedies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/22 03:00 PM |
| 4 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?that's more or less ,majority of what happens south asia, like literally I explained it in a post here what happens is mothers form bizarre emotionally incestous relationships with their own sons, but on a societal level | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 08:09 PM |
| 0 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?hobosexuals what is hobosexual ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 06:21 PM |
| 0 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?that could have the opposite effect and make him kinda weak and have no way no sense of self control, for better or worse he needs some paternal figure to guide him in life, that can some from IRL male or a media figure like Kevin Samuels You can teach him to be compassionate and kind but he will need some male friends and activity, I always think martial arts(specifically full contact karate) is something that helps a lot of young boys, I've seen it help them become better young men in real tim… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 06:18 PM |
| 13 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?good for you, my greatest fear is my son becoming type of Islamic extremist cause he feels he can't identify with british culture and will think Islam is his "real culture and heritage" something I have seen a lot with second generationers I would recommend trying to get your son into some form of martial arts, mostly cause it teaches self-discipline and control, something young men these days need | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 05:05 PM |
| 20 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?sorry English is my third language, so I can't communicate my points properly some times I meant to say that he's appropriating terms from FDS but twisting them and using them to attack women with standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 14 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?I am so sorry, I sorta know what it's like I have cousins and nephews who I loved like they were my little brothers, but many of them ended up becoming traditionally misogynistic muslims that are common in my family Imagine knowing some one who you held and took care of when they were baby now condemn you and say your going to hell for not being a Muslim anymore with regards to your son, it is his father or older male figure that should talk to him more the anyone(that's how my husband sorted ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 04:17 PM |
| 51 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?looked him up online, he seems ridiculous I feel most awful for mothers these days, imagine if this is what your son grows up to be like and these are the men he looks upto I have a son of my own(he's small and cute) and I love him with all my heart but I am not gonna baby him forever, I want to raise him to be a good man who is a net positive for the world, I want him to be like his father | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 02:53 PM |
| 21 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?I was not aware of that, I was assuming he was using FDS terms but twisting them and using them to attack women with standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 01:56 PM |
| 11 | did Kevin Samuels appropriate talking points and rhetoric from FDS ?I didn't mean he uses FDS talking about, rather that he appropriated some of the rhetoric and uses them against women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 01:50 PM |
| 22 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesIt's not even meme science, it is a man's natural state to be lean and toned both when man was a hunter and farmer, In my country large regions are still agricultural and they are by far the best looking males in the country the men who are farmers and laborers who have never exercised their lives but still live a traditional feudal farmer life are toned, they have muscular arms and flat stomachs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:20 AM |
| 5 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesmy main point is that men don't live up to even 1/10 of their biological potential, of what they are capable off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 06:17 AM |
| 12 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesI don't know what it's like in the US but in my home country, it was a reality that most couldn't grow proper beards and they always came as pubey and never connected(like ever) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 01:55 AM |
| 39 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesGod I hate those pube mustache beard so much, I'm originally from a Muslim country and I've seen so many of those awful monstrosities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 11:56 PM |
| 56 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesI'm not an athlete but I had a friend who played football and she told me similar examples of women losing their periods when trying to use male training schedules | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:43 PM |
| 22 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesI never said I hated fat people or fat men, I just think it just looks disgusting I'm from a south asian where 90% of urban men are skinny fat, I would see at least only one flat stomached man a week I don't even really blame men for this, I blame our neo-liberal consumer based capitalist society | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 117 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesI've actually seen men lose their pudgy beer bellies in a couple weeks with just jogging and mild exercise, male metabolism seems insane | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:16 PM |
| 136 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesIn one of previous posts 2 users commented about this mentality that men have u/Ana_jp A lot of guys can’t seem to accept that it doesn’t have to be all or nothing. If you’re building muscle to be more attractive, there is a point where they will get diminishing returns for their efforts. Chris Hemsworth is hot, but so is Tom Hiddleston. Most men could get Tom’s physique. u/]extragouda replied Problem is that men do not think that Tom is muscular, when he is. They think that they need to look li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:14 PM |
| 21 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesI still think anyone can have depression, as someone whose been told that their depression isn't real or just a "white people" think by my own family mind you, I'm not gonna like it when other people's depression is under valued | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:09 PM |
| 53 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvessorry english is my third language so its hard to get some points across to other people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:16 PM |
| 70 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselvesI mean depression is a serious issue though, I've suffered from bouts of depression my entire life, where I just lost motivation to even wake up in the morning we shouldn't judge anyone for their mental illnesses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:15 PM |
| 117 | I know most men can't help being facially hideous at times but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat or skinnyfat and can't even groom themselveswell thankfully I'm happily married to a man whose very fit, doesn't have a six pack but has broad shoulders, muscular arms, and a flat stomach that is hard as an oak | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itDo these mama boys’ men finally agree to an arranged marriage out of defeatism/reluctance or extreme filial piety? Or is it contentment towards another step to gain family inheritance? I have never heard of the latter case, but most of the time its just both parties have to honor the wishes of their families, the decision is made by your father and mother and not yours, you technically do have the choice between a number of pre-selected suitors but that's as far it goes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:45 AM |
| 11 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itas stated in the post, the son-mother relationship is based more on her emotional needs that her husband never gave her this article goes more into it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 06:22 AM |
| 14 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itI have to wonder though, the exact psychology of these women and the net-negatives of raising your child like this I have a son and I love him but I don't ever want this type of relationship with him, I want him to become self reliant and a good man because I love him and want what's best for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:55 AM |
| 22 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itI clearly stated certain regions of South Asia as a whole and I commented that the tribal ethnic groups such as Pashtuns, Gujjars, rural jatts, seraikis e.t.c don't follow these customs I guess your right that I can's speak for south asia as a whole as I'm only from Pakistan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 05:53 AM |
| 58 | Explaining South-Asian mama boy's culture and how it effects the women and the men caught in itI have cousins and some friends stuck in these types of living arrangements, it's just something else really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/22 03:43 PM |
| 41 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerat least they'll have some muscle tone on them or underneath In Pakistan the men have never exercised in their lives, there is no school fitness and the concept of recreational exercise also doesn't exist, men's bodies aren't supposed to look like this without physical labor and exercise they turn their entire lives, it ends creating some of the doughiest human beings possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 23 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerThe thing is most of these men aren't even rich, any ugly and poor man can get a wife in Pakistan as long as he's from the cities, mostly it will be one of his cousins | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 01:20 PM |
| 23 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerHonestly any improvement is something to celebrate In my home country the prospects aren't looking any better cause the birth rates are still very high | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 01:18 PM |
| 113 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerMen exist to hunt and labor, that's what they evolved to do, so I don't ask 99% of men to look like Chris Hemsworth, cause most can't physically but they can at least try to be physically fit, shower daily and groom themselves those are completely rational human standards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 11:10 AM |
| 74 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerI have actually seen men lose their entire guts in a couple weeks with moderate exercise and walking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 10:38 AM |
| 82 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerSeeing men fat honestly makes me somewhat angry, I know most can't help being facially hideous, but it is a waste of testosterone when they're fat, skinny or skinnyfat. Combined with disgusting attitudes, those "men" deserve to be put in labor/re-education camps cause It's men's natural state to have low body fat and look toned, Women can have body fat with being sedentary because our bodies are meant to hold onto fat. Meanwhile skinny fat men are hideous and unaesthetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:41 AM |
| 83 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerThis might be controversial but I feel like a lot of users here can't even comprehend the level of misogyny outside the west | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:14 AM |
| 50 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerYour country might have a problem with men becoming ugly after they secured a partner I aboustetly didn't say that, they are never good looking, they do not exercise or groom themselves at all their entire lives, I don't understand how you interpreted my post to make your conclusion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 09:03 AM |
| 72 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerI know this is a non-issue in the grand scheme of thing but Its something that just makes me cringe to no end The Horrible fucking beards they try to grow, they just cannot grow proper facial hair and it always looks awful and yet they still grown those disgusting looking pube beards and it always make's me uncomfortable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:37 AM |
| 88 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerPakistani I’m guessing? Yes, specifically from a region with a high rural birth rate, even the Arab world is having a decline but not us, 60% of the population is illiterate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:15 AM |
| 40 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerAre there any movements to get arranged marriage made illegal? No, I mean there are a million things wrong with my country. arranged marriage being an issue is not on anyone's mind | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 08:13 AM |
| 41 | what happens to men's physical appearance when they have a guarantee that they will find a partnerwe already have a female infanticide problem, I don't think it could get any worse https://www.dawn.com/news/1529607 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/22 07:28 AM |
| 1 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesAre you really doing this again, This is what I'm talking about Western women desperately wanting to think that their situation is just as bad and could be just as bad as women in the Muslim world and let me tell you this is so insensitive cause you will never have to deal with even 1/100 of what I had to deal with when growing up women even 100 years ago had more legal rights and freedoms then Muslim women world as of now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesThe general rule in Pakistani politics is that anyone who isn't a hardcore Islamist is mostly always some brand of ethno-nationalist who blames other ethnic groups for his peoples problems and openly talks about committing ethnic genocide Its a good thing Bangladesh left | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesOh wow that's actually progressive, I mean don't take this take the wrong way but I'd take your family over my paternal family any day Like their horribly racist, ignorant, violent and inbred(hell their proud of being inbred) though I have to ask did your husband convert to Islam to marry you ?, my cousin married a Polish immigrant and he had to convert to Islam to get approval(though funnily I don't my family would ever let her marry a Bengali Muslim) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 04:19 PM |
| 2 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesSadly this is the par of the course with Muslim scrotes, they believe that its a form of righteous Jihad to take non-Muslim women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:56 PM |
| 3 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesAt least 4 of my first cousins are in these types of relationships, they are also from "liberal" families i.e they vote Labor but their still racist and homophobic even by Pakistani standards, there are many people in my people who consider Bengalis and Urdu speakers to be lesser human beings and thing the ethnic cleansing was in the Bengal war was justified Just the worst group of close minded racist bigots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:53 PM |
| 19 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesWhat does "a lot" mean to you was every single Church praising the Taliban's victory, did over 3 million of your countrymen, women and children cheer during the fall of Kabul and eat Matahi(a celebrational dish in South Asia) cause that's what happened in Pakistan This is what I mean, western libfems always try to make it seem like your nations that were more progressive ever 100 years ago can be just as bad as ours | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 12:54 PM |
| 17 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesI could have been in one of those situations If I ever got married to the wrong man and there would be no escape for me, I'd play the part of the meek housewife not cause of feat social isolation but fear of my own life When your own life is one the line then you know who you truly are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 12:26 PM |
| 9 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesLatin American and East Asia would probably nations I'd consider westernized and actually have potential, way more then the Muslim world birth rate is declining and the population is getting urbanized, there's some potential | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 09:44 AM |
| 35 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesHonestly I think Pakistan could be worse scrawny but also doughy and soft, and growing ridiculous pube beards, I think the pube beards are the most awful to look at cause their faces just can't grow beards right yet they insist on growing those awful eyesores probably the only good looking males in my country are the illiterate peasant farmers who still live under feudalism, pretty much every "good looking" Pakistani male is from these communities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 09:37 AM |
| 9 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesI'm not saying that either, Its just a behavior and mentality I've noticed online and IRL with certain western feminists who seem to believe its a choice and can't seem to understand or are unwilling to see the unique cultural issues plaguing non-western women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 08:13 AM |
| 38 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesThis is the I was talking about, western radfems always try to make it seem like their just in a worse as a situation as women in Sindh You always try to undermine us and do this whole "were all women and we all suffer" shit and I'm tried of it, You should thank god that you will never suffer anything as bad as living in a Muslim nation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 07:22 AM |
| 37 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesI wouldn't say its a white thing, Its mostly an upper middle class university mentality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 07:06 AM |
| 37 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesIts not even pretty to look at, imagine 9/10 males being skinny fat i.e no muscle mass and little pudgy stomachs that jiggle when they walk that was the situation I saw growing up with males, to see a man with flat stomach was something I took note off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 06:59 AM |
| 40 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesI don't know the specifics about west africa but I'm sure that if any male population had a gumtree that they would find a virgin wife who will serve them, well I'd say then most would devolve into the lowest males humanly possible see my post here to get what I'm talking about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 06:26 AM |
| 76 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesI wish more people would understand, I'd say 90% of content here would very well likely have gotten me killed in Pakistan It only works for western or incredibly westernized nations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 06:24 AM |
| 189 | This might be a controversial statement but I feel like a lot of western FDS users really don't understand the level of misogyny in the third world and what women HAVE TO DO to survive in our culturesI've lived in both Pakistan and England, I know for a fact that there is still sexism and misogyny but Its not even in the same level as Pakistan were talking about civilization level | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 06:00 AM |
| 9 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenfor real, as I stated that most of the advice would get many women killed if they weren't living in a western country we don't get a choice, we have to make comprises and settle cause we don't get to be single, we will be suffering beatings if we don't | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Religion is by men, for menHonestly its the one of the few things what I'm some what proud of about my family, they are never servile to anyone and have too much ethnic pride, In fact they are openly racists towards everyone including Arabs My own brother states that Arabs lack "Martial Genes" and that's why they lose against Israel, a lot of 19th century British racial theories are still wildly believed in the northern Punjab region Its called a Martial Race theory https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Martial_race#Criteria | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 12:18 PM |
| 10 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenThat applies to most Urban desi males in general, but even what you described is still considered "progressive" compared to what goes in with more tribal and rural people's, that's just how awful it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 10:48 AM |
| 20 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenDepends on the ethnic group, Urdu speaking Punjabi and Muhajirs are awful but in a physically harmful way, Pashtuns will straight up murder you if you think disrespected them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Religion is by men, for menas someone married to a Pakistani man(though he hates being considered Pakistani and is an ex-muslim) I agree with you servile, insecure arab worshipping men with no sense of pride | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 04:51 AM |
| 11 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenI guess you said a deadly combination of Arab colonialism and pre-existing tribal family structure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 04:50 AM |
| 22 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenIts funny that your description applies to at least 7 of my male cousins, except they are also massive racists who think even other Pakistani ethnic groups are "inferior" to them I remember when on my cousins decided that he wished to marry an african american Muslim and some of my family members went a tangent about how we "Jats" are a high race with "martial warriors genes" while "blacks" have a servile nature and mixing would be awful for bloodline that said my entire paternal family is racis… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 04:49 AM |
| 27 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenThank you for writing this. I'm so fortunate to have been myself raised outside of much of this, but have watched cousins and friends forced into these marriages. It is such a helpless feeling. I also think there is sometimes a sort of "survivor's guilt" if that is not our individual fate. I understand, I feel helpless and awful seeing what happens to these girls including my own family members and the fact that I can't do anything just make's me feel like a failure, I've cried about this and th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:23 PM |
| 37 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenwhat your friend did is actually a fairly standard strategy(finding least awful), no one has delusions about what married life will be like but unlike women in the west, they do not have a choice in the matter of staying single its always about finding the least awful seeming male, but you also have to be wary of the family , the mother in law, father in law and even his cousins might disprove of you, maybe not for personal reasons but cause they think you make the family(the tribe) look bad and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 06:08 PM |
| 58 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenShe had basically had the choice between a few men her family had picked and deemed "appropriate" and after meeting each of them she had chosen her current husband That's the default condition for most women here and a lot of regions from the Muslim world, you have to pick between a pre chosen suitors that your family has selected for you and sometimes you don't get even get to choose(I didn't) and sometimes like with your friend and like me it can sometimes work out, still you never know cause … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 14 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenThose were Spartans, that was an incredibly and isolated unique situation as a civilization they had found themselves In | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 04:35 PM |
| 11 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenI don't understand how that would be possible, you might know if their own families might approve | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:57 PM |
| 45 | Developing dating/marriage strategy for non-western womenAncient Roman women who has their lives controlled by men would align themselves with the nicest or most sympathetic man That's more or less many middle and upper try to do, they know they have limited options so they work with what they have a lot of Vetting, research and sometimes just blind faith and prayer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Religion is by men, for menI agree and disagree, as an ex-Muslim who had to suffer under that faith I hate religion more any of you can understand but just cause I hate it doesn't mean I have to create made up bullshit for the sake of my hate I hold the belief true atheism can only come when you understand the scripture, it's history and how it developed organically and how it's still changing Judaism was a henotheistic Semitic doctrine that gradually become monotheistic, Christianity came as a result of the mixing of a s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Religion is by men, for menIts not that simple, Muhammad is the greatest human being who ever lived in the Islam the reason these types cases are so high is cause for muslim men, is that they are allowed to "plunder" as a form of jihad, when Muhammad and his companions were fighting the Quraysh tribe they would raid their trade caravans and take the loot(these included the women) and for Muslims Muhammad is the greatest human being who will ever exist so this form of warfare its self became holy and was common in various … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Religion is by men, for menin my country's which is already 96% Muslim, we still have around 5000-9000 "conversation marriages" a year, basically Muslim men find young non-Muslims gilrs(Sikhs, Christian, Hindus) kidnap and rape them and basically force them to get married and convert, once your a Muslim in Pakistan you legally cannot change back, the crime for leaving Islam is death | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/21 03:18 PM |
| 4 | Literally what is wrong with women in HollywoodAll of his previous exes Carly Aquilino Cazzie David Ariana Grande Kate Beckinsale Margaret Qualley Kaia Gerber Phoebe Dynevor and now Kim Kardashian | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:09 PM |
| 6 | Literally what is wrong with women in Hollywoodwait I don't know about that, what did he say ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 12 | Literally what is wrong with women in HollywoodHe's now dating Kim Kardashian and I will admit he's probably a better option then Kanye which says more about Kanye then Davidson | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:47 PM |
| 12 | Literally what is wrong with women in HollywoodI would understand if this was someone who looed like Zac Efron(when he was young and cute) but Pete Davidson just look at him, he looks like the average drug dealer in my neighborhood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 12:45 PM |
| 5 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleI had so much hope for him but oh my god he's even worse Nawaz Shariff, man literally just bows to Arabs and Turks and wants the country to do the same thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 04:59 AM |
| 29 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possiblewell technically we are all equal under Islam but Islam is very much an Arab-centric religion the primordial language of Heaven its self is stated to be Arabic, before the tower of Babal fell all human beings spoke Arabic, you are only allowed to pray in Arabic, its considered more Holy to read the Quran and not understand anything rather then read the Quran in your language, you have dress by the standards of 7th century arabs, you have to base your diet and daily schedule around the standards … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 09:26 PM |
| 21 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleI find it depressing that such an intelligent woman is forced to work with right wing parties but I get it, for whatever the European left has no interest in confronting the problems of Islam | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 09:24 PM |
| 19 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleshe's a Sudanese Arab. literally the most mentally colonized people on the planet, also massive racists from what I've heard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 09:23 PM |
| 29 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleHonestly you dodged a bottle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:46 PM |
| 34 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleI should have gone into that topic in my post, but well yes generations and generations of cousin marriages creates a lot of unfortunate people I've had at least 3 cousins and 2 nephews and nieces who died before they even reached the age of 3, I have a lot of relatives with Asthma. biological deformities, breathing problems and heart conditions Its depressing to see, especially with the kids cause they never had any choice in the matter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:43 PM |
| 43 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleIDK how British men can think that ? we have tons of Polish women who don't take shit from anyone some of the toughest women I've ever met | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:40 PM |
| 11 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleThat is true, but I've seen a lot of Chinese women(who I know are a different racial group from SEA) go for the worst looking white guys and even Low Value Pakistani guys and its mostly EA girls who go for these white guys, I don't see this with black and desi women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 08:36 PM |
| 44 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleI guess around the Muslim world, though I think some change is happening even there the Arab world is having a record birth decline and more and more of the population is getting urbanized, there is some instability but I do believe there is more potential for progress there I think Pakistan is only getting worse, the high birth rates and the Increasing Islamic sentient with in the populations, as well the Middle class males in our country becoming porn-sick and degenerate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 29 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possiblecompletely untestable, my husband is technically Pakistani but he's Pashtun and doesn't recognize Pakistan as his country, he's more associated with his Afghan identity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 06:02 PM |
| 13 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possiblesorry sister I did not at all intend to offend, its just a stenotype that lower low value males are super into east asian women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleI've only ever watched some clips of him online, didn't much or anything about him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 05:24 PM |
| 53 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleagain I wish I could tell you that there are some good males here or some secret technique to find a decent man but you know that's not true I did make this guide to avoid pairing up with the worst Pakistani males | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 05:19 PM |
| 41 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleAs I said In this post that will likely not happen, most of these women are very religious and watch hours and hours of religious programming every day, so you have a commination of Islamic misogyny and tribal familial identity I am from the rare middle class minority and it took me years to wake up, so I know its not ever gonna happen the only hope for us is maybe forced secularization under a dictatorship for at least a generation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 04:27 PM |
| 26 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possiblemost of my paternal family is already light skinned so there's not much of a colorism issue cause they mostly marry with in the family | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 04:21 PM |
| 82 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleI have no hope, with regards to the Muslim world no progress can ever be made I know Americans view themselves as the "good guys" who fought against the evil Soviet Empire and I know some feminists online who genuinely hold the belief that all forms of Patriarchy are the same and we shouldn't make a distinction to any side, well here's the thing, Islamic patriarchy even in its most liberal forms is fundamentally worse then any form of patriarchy on the planet, there are accounts of Russian women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 03:20 PM |
| 15 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possiblecan you PM what your exact job is(it seems very interesting) and I won't ask for any more details | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 03:11 PM |
| 17 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleI'm curious what countries have you lived in btw ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:45 PM |
| 92 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleyes that's why women are used basically as breeding stocks here, thankfully we don't have much female infanticide though it still happens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:37 PM |
| 91 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleI have known women who found Japan to be more liberating then being in Pakistan, you have no Idea of how awful it is to be a woman in these countries unless you've lived it, I think the difference about your example is that its technically an exception, In muslim countries this is a civilization level norm that most people don't see anything wrong with the only thing that keeps most women loyal to these awful nations is Islam, Islam is something I don't wanna get into cause I know there are some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:34 PM |
| 80 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possiblethis is more or less what's happening with my country, the metropolitan urban population is basically exploiting rural people's including their own direct family, this is the due to the wealth disparity this also happens with Arabs going to other Muslim countries(Indonesia, parts of West Africa and Pakistan) and getting treated like basically royalty, cause Arabs are considered more Holy for Muslims, some literally give their own daughters to Arab men cause it would be a blessing for an Arab gra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:23 PM |
| 99 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleHonestly its some progress, better then nothing I think we should have a seperate post in the handbook that addresses these concerns specifically. agree, there aren't any practical methods for women living in non-western countries/diaspora communities I also ask for advice from my fellow FDS sister's as to things to look out for and techniques. Especially ones who've gone through this process. I find it unlikely that there would be many, since how patriarchal our culture is and how much misogyny… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 165 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleIt has to do with literal Tribalism, lots of sons meant more fighting males in your tribe so that they could fight other tribes less then 100 years ago my great-grandfather's family went to war with the Sardars over some land, my tribe won and my great grandfather beheaded 3 people in one day, my grandfather spoke of him like was some kind of great mythological king but now Tribal wars aren't a thing anymore(except for the Baloch and Pashtuns) there's no reason to continue this moronic tradition… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 01:34 PM |
| 56 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possiblenot really, most of us were still tribals who didn't like outsiders, we married those who were in the same clan as us for my country we exist in the 21st century but were still tribal, we identify ourselves by ethnic and tribal groups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 01:28 PM |
| 124 | Arranged marriages fosters and breeds the most lowest value males humanly possibleI have little to no contact with my family other then my siblings and a couple of my cousins, though its cause me and my husband are ex-Muslims | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 01:26 PM |
| 4 | South Korean women and their crusade against patriarchyI mean its venting, but its not doing anyone any favors It likely confirms the fence sitters(male and female) assumptions about feminism and causes less and less people to want to associate with the movement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:45 PM |
| -13 | South Korean women and their crusade against patriarchyI have mixed feelings on this(I swear this isn't what your thinking) hating men as a class will always be based and justified, but hating specific ethnic/racial groups of men is a lot more complex Most women will signal out the males who directly oppresses them and so are often the males from their socio-ethnic group, so Asian women will call out Asian men, Black women will call out black men and White women will call out white men and that's all well and good but troubles start arising when you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 04:41 PM |
| 2 | For users dating men of different races or ethnicities, If he doesn't call out his friends and family members micro-aggressions against you then he's not the oneInteresting, see my paternal family speaks Punjabi but they don't identity as Punjabi, they identity as Jatt's first and secondaly Khokars, and they hate other groups of Jatt's more then any other group | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:12 PM |
| 3 | For users dating men of different races or ethnicities, If he doesn't call out his friends and family members micro-aggressions against you then he's not the oneWhich region are you from BTW ? As for what you said, This is a very unique type of racism and bigotory that I don't think most Americans can't even comprehend, I do believe their is a issue of racism in America but it seems so much simpler compared to what I grew up with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:01 PM |
| 11 | For users dating men of different races or ethnicities, If he doesn't call out his friends and family members micro-aggressions against you then he's not the oneBelieve me I know, my parental family is bigoted asf against every single racial group in Pakistan, their even racist against people who are the same race as them but belong to different ethnic groups In fact their bigotry and hatred against people who are the same racial group as them and speak a different dialect of the same language is far more then any other group, funny how that works sometimes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 3 | Bye to LVM, I love this!!Decided to look her up cause she seemed like a cool person, she seemed cool for the most part but then In a January 2018 interview with Vulture, Badu was asked about accusations of antisemitism based on a 2008 Haaretz article quoting her thoughts about Louis Farrakhan. She denied being antisemitic, but said, "I see good in everybody. I saw something good in Hitler." After being asked to clarify her comments, Badu praised Hitler's paintings.[185][186] She also defended Bill Cosby, saying, "I love… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 6 | Bye to LVM, I love this!!same, feminism isn't just posting memes of writing break up songs and any woman that defends a Confirmed Child rapist and groomer like R.Kelly is not worthy of praise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 14 | For users dating men of different races or ethnicities, If he doesn't call out his friends and family members micro-aggressions against you then he's not the oneWell he grew up in a tough environment and knows how to operate Kalashnikov, so yeah he's pretty tough | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 02:07 PM |
| 1 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.I mean globally men are going to shit cause of porn, shit diets and in My case with Pakistan the only good looking, not-skinny fat, non coomer men are the literal tribal peasants under feudalism, Pashtuns, Gujjars, Bhatts, Khokhars Only good looking men in my country but their all mostly illetrate tribal peasants who abuse their wives and treat them like baby makers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:46 AM |
| 35 | For users dating men of different races or ethnicities, If he doesn't call out his friends and family members micro-aggressions against you then he's not the oneThe few people who would stand up for me was my parental grandfather, he was a good man, few of the HVM in my country and better then all his sons and brothers combined | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 05:25 AM |
| 2 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.Here's the thing, Pakistani men and other non-White men do watch porn as well, In fact the porn search rates are higher then the west Its an environment where men have lived on porn from adolescence and thanks to the Internet their porn consumption has increase but at the same time they still are stuck in long conservative beliefs A thing I've noticed is that the younger men all over the wold think "western" women are extreme nymphomaniac because they grew up seeing white women in American porn … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:32 AM |
| 3 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.Majority of those men are Mipuri or Mipuri descent, even people in Pakistan hate them, And I'm sure white women suffer at the hands of white men their is no denying that, but when you have gone though a lot of the extreme patriarchy that many WOC have gone through, we know for a fact the patriarchy of the west is much much lesser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 04:10 AM |
| 4 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.Those complaints are usually all from WOC who get offended cause they know the men of their cultures are worse, some of my cousins want to literalky murder me cause I'm not Muslim anymore, I don't think any western women had to go through that shit Pakistani Muhajir/Punjabi men have the worst aspects of Muslim men, Indian men and western men, extremely patriarchal, skinny fat bodies, porn consumer's, no style and Muslim misogyny and honor killings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 03:48 AM |
| 3 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.All Men suck and im sure white men suck as well, and if society broke down then they would act just as cruel as men from say Iraq or any warzone, but there is something very privileged about a white Western woman saying that the men of your country are the worst in the entire world, when that's not true I grew up in Pakistan, Pakistani men are worse, we have literally thousands of honor killings here and most of the middle class males are also porn brained commers What you're saying is High key … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 6 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.Yeah I don't understand myself this mentality that mostly white libfems have about how non-whie men are any better, as a Pakistani woman I'm not scared of white men killing me cause I'm no longer a Muslim, I'm scared of my men of my own race, Including my own family members killing me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.The Region of Pakistan is rediculously ethnically diverse, we have pretty much every racial group here from people who can pass as brown, to people who can pass European, and even pretty much every race We all sorta hate each other as well, we had a State sponsored ethnic genocide in the 70s which led to the deaths of a over a million people and the rapes of hundred's of thousands of women, we Also had ethnic para military death squads killing each other in the 90s The only reason were kept toge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 05:49 AM |
| 3 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.I have dealt more racism from my own countrymen and even my family, I'm Balistani ony mothers side(Baltis are a Tibetic ethnic group in Pakistan) my fathers family are Punjabi Matt's, both my fathers family and general Pakistan society has been openly racist towards me cause of my more east Asian features, "chinky" "dog eater" "chinkstani" and other slurs everyday from the whole class, my Husband is a Afrdi Pashtun and he's dealt with racism and discrimination in Pakistan Also my people never ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 08:09 PM |
| 4 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.Colonialism ruined a million things with In the Indian subcontinent, but it didn't make the males Any more misogynistic then already were Women were treated like filth before and they were treated like filth after I'm Pakistani and I hate most Pakistan men more then anyone, you're white and you have a right to hate white men as their the ones who directly oppress you but don't pretend that non-white men are better and In My case they are worse Seriously your mentality is offensive towards non-wh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 10:08 AM |
| 3 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.Yeah I don't understand myself this mentality that mostly white libfems have about how non-whie men are any better, as a Pakistani woman I'm not scared of white men killing me cause I'm no longer a Muslim, I'm scared of my men of my own race, Including my own family members killing me I've seen so much normalized abuse in my own culture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:54 AM |
| 2 | Thought You All Would Enjoy This, I Know I Sure Did!but does seem to be a certain "belief" among some libfem woke white feminists that I've interacted with that kinda frames white people as the ones who created misogyny and homophobia, which plays into noble savage belief, how the innocent Africans and Indians had no misogyny or homophobia before the ignorant white man came and made them sexist, again not defending colonization in any way, I mean there are a million things that the colonialists ruined in the Indian subcontinent but they didn't ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Thought You All Would Enjoy This, I Know I Sure Did!yeah its very much a rare thing to happen, though I guess its somewhat exaggerated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 01:38 AM |
| 10 | Thought You All Would Enjoy This, I Know I Sure Did!I do understand their POV but I do think its kinda stupid and illogical to claim that its solely western culture that's patriarchaland only white men that are sexist and sleazy, it kinda does lowkey excuse the behavior of shitty MOC and most importantly minimizes the problems and suffering non-white go though at the hands MOC from their community | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:42 PM |
| 23 | Thought You All Would Enjoy This, I Know I Sure Did!well me and my husband and me are different races, he's a Afrdi Pashtun and mixed Balti Punjabi (I look Chinese or SEA and he looks kinda sorta white) ] back on topic the way I view it, is that for non-White Women in America and especially in Europe there's more variety and diversity in potential white parents cause of the numbers but there's far more social control over women in these communities Pakistani men in the UK will have relationships with white women and up marrying a Pakistani girl w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:15 PM |
| 40 | Thought You All Would Enjoy This, I Know I Sure Did!honestly intersectional feminism is probably the greatest waste of potential of what really could have been something that improved feminism for women as a whole, cause there was a problem in representation with in the feminist movement, upper class/upper-middle class white women especially in academia were the were the only ones whose stories and experiences were being held up as something all women go though early intersectional feminism was about including black women, Hispanic women, poorer … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:41 PM |
| 49 | Thought You All Would Enjoy This, I Know I Sure Did!eh I'm a Pakistani I probably hate Pakistani men far more then white men, cause their the one's directly oppressing, abusing and raping Pakistani women, I hate white men too but too a lesser extent, so its understandable why white women would hate white men more then say black or brown men, though black and brown men aren't any better but there is a certain "belief" among some libfem woke white feminists that I've interacted with that kinda frames white people as the ones who created misogyny an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:19 PM |
| 68 | Thought You All Would Enjoy This, I Know I Sure Did!I mean is it still right though, I mean black and Asian users here have described their terrible experiences from men from their own communities, I have gotten death threats from men of my community for allegedly betraying my nation, even though I'm Pakistani and married to a Pakistani man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:08 PM |
| 60 | Thought You All Would Enjoy This, I Know I Sure Did!This song kicks ass(love rock Music) but lets be real, I'm sure most WOC users here know and can attest its not just white men who behave like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Pakistan’s Prime Minister Links Rape to ‘Vulgarity’ and How Women DressHonestly I think we've only had 2 good leaders in our political history, everyone else was either a massive racist who wanted to commit some one or more ethnic genocides or an Islamist who wanted to transform the country into 7th century Arabia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:46 AM |
| 2 | Pakistan’s Prime Minister Links Rape to ‘Vulgarity’ and How Women Dresswell the Celts, Germans and Nanman(of modern day northern Vietnam) were warlike, despite being more egalitarian then the Romans and Greeks in those societies men were warriors and builders and nothing more, women meanwhile took the role of the doctors, heads of religion, and priestess a similar phenomenon happened in Sparta where the men were literally only warriors and so women were left to be the administrators, land owners and clerks in Sparta | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:44 AM |
| 3 | Pakistan’s Prime Minister Links Rape to ‘Vulgarity’ and How Women DressI see the patriarchy more as a virus or meme that spread from culture to culture through conquest, according to Greek and Roman sources Germanic and Celtic peoples followed an semi-egalitarian(and in certain tribes matriarchal) social order, where it was more then common to see women as druids, leatherworkers and even tribal chieftains, something which was demmed "barbaric" by the romans and outside of Europe the sumerians who had a legal code that explicitly guaranteed rights for women and equa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 05:57 AM |
| 15 | Pakistan’s Prime Minister Links Rape to ‘Vulgarity’ and How Women DressHonestly I have had this convo with a lot of white feminists, I've always stated that white men aren't inherently better rather that stating that white men as being the only ones even capable of misogyny is just incredibility insensitive towards non white women who have suffered at the hands of their men it also weirdly buys into the noble savage mentality, how the pure Africans and Indians had no misogyny or homophobia before the ignorant white man came and made them sexist, again not defending… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Pakistan’s Prime Minister Links Rape to ‘Vulgarity’ and How Women DressI made a small guide for dating as a South Asian Muslim woman, care to see and how to filter men who are very much predisposed to be LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:26 AM |
| 67 | Pakistan’s Prime Minister Links Rape to ‘Vulgarity’ and How Women Dressfor those unaware of my nation's glorious scrote leader, Imran Khan I'll give you a quick summary He grew up uber privileged, Rich enough for his family to send him to Oxford and was a notorious Playboy in his youth(slept with probably close to a Hundred Non Muslim foreign women) he was the Captain of the Pakistan Cricket Team so he was megastar and lived a super hedonistic playboy lifestyle, he was Married 3 separate times and is known to have multiple unclaimed bastard children in his mid 40's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manwe both do housework, he's very spontaneous and often gives me surprise gifts but he always doe it on the 23rd, we married only 3 year before the Pandemic and used to go cafe dates once a month | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:03 AM |
| 15 | An Ideal relationshipthe meme says that you probably waste your time social media(specifically twitter) but you'd probably like a man who doesn't use social media at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 27 | An Ideal relationshipMy Husband barely ever uses his smartphone, Like at most for Uber or Youtube and of course phone calls but on most days he'll leave the phone on his desk or it doesn't leave his pocket | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:01 AM |
| 10 | Mango's>MenTrue for Pakistan as well, never tried a Mexican Mango but Pakistani Mango's(specifically the one's from Punjab) are to die for | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 04:00 AM |
| 12 | Mango's>MenMango's from my home country(Pakistan) are top-tier, they taste so good that everything else pales in comparison | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 03:20 AM |
| 70 | Mango's>Menhere's some more 1)Slept with our bodies entangled, cried with our chests touching, punished him when his teeth rattled, Who, girl, your lover? No, winter 2) He comes to me at night, and leaves for home at dawn, it's a very special feeling, Who, girl, your lover? No, Star 3) He doesn't let me walk barefoot, He doesn't let my feet get dirty, He kisses my legs everyday, Who, girl, your lover? No, Shoe 4) He fills water for me when I ask him, He quenches the thirst of my body, He's heavy in the hea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani mandon't forget the Muslim league instigating riots in major cities causing massive death and destruction, he arrived in Bangladesh(then East Pakistan) and told them they will be now Urdu from then on, when some students protested against this statement, he had them beat uo and this is the man Pakistani's worship as our great founder and leader, when in reality he was a pampered hypocritical scrote who didn't even respect the native culture of Pakistan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manyeah the state was just built corrupt, I mean the Muslim league implemented a language that wasn't even spoken by 99% of the population I mean even Jinnah was sorta of a LVM, I mean he grooms a girl and marries her when he's in his 40's and she's 19 and disowns his daughter when she marries a non-muslim, despite him also marrying a non-muslim | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani mansame with me, as I said if you're middle to upper middle class Pakistani you are likely from an Urdu speaking background | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manbut Sindhi's, Pashtuns, Baloch, Hindokawans don't have this self hating complex, even Muslim Punjabi's who are proud of their heritage don't have that level of self hatred its usually muhajirs and Urdu speaking Punjabi's who act like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manwell it's a bit more complicated then that, the people from Mirpur and Bhimber districts make up the majority of the population of Kashmir around 1/4 th total population, however the people from these aren't Kashmiri the same way those in Jammu and Kashmiri, there Pahari or Pothwari which is a sub identity of northern Punjabi's the other population are Kashmiri, but there are also Gilgits and Gujjars and other races who hate each other for one reason or another, like think of the Balkans when yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manare you Kashmiri ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 3 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manMirpuris are a no go, other then them most Kashmiri males fall into the illiterate Kashmiri males fall into illiterate peasant category which is a shame cause Kashmiri men can honestly be very beautiful and handsome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manwell it's something they'll have to accept themselves, but seeing as how they've erected statues of a random Turk in Lahore (it looks like that that day is not coming soon) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:51 PM |
| 7 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manI do think Imran khan is a decent leader but he's complacent with a lot of the horrible shit that's still happening, the abuse of non-Muslims, the escalating ant Shia violence(I mean just look at how he's handling the systematic killing of Hazara) but overall he does attract a large group of Pakistani sub males His support group is mostly from the upper Middle class and these men who are like the group I mentioned above If there are any more questions regarding Pakistani men feel free to ask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:49 PM |
| 10 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manIt's a bizzare mix of superiority, inferiority and self hatred, they hate the people most closest to them linguistically and DNA wise are Hindus and SIkhs and they just wish it wasn't the case, so they lie to themselves They claim to be Arabs, Turks, and Persians and that the people across the border who are the exact same DNA as them are nothing more then the conquered slaves of Muslims They wont' accept their ancestors fought against outside invaders for countries, rather they identify with th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:44 PM |
| 15 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manI mean it is possible, but the thing about Pakistani men(Muhajirs and Urdu speaking Punjabi's) is their very identity is based on a inferiority complex, they hate the people most closest to them linguistically and DNA wise are Hindus and SIkhs and they just wish it wasn't the case I mean one Green flag regarding Pakistani men is find a man whose not ashamed of his heritage i.e being a Punjabi or being Jatt and accepts his culture and heritage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:40 PM |
| 5 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manIran or India and yeah you're so right, other then Sindh region from my travels most rural guys in KPK, Kashmir, Western Punjab have been so handsome and good looking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:52 PM |
| 19 | Advice for Pakistani/Indian Muslim women regarding relationships with Pakistani men, from a Pakistani woman currently married to a HVM Pakistani manYeah it's almost sad, cause many do have a great history and heritage it's also a history shared by Punjabi Hindus and Punjabi Sikhs and they just can't or won't accept that, so they'd rather pretend to be related to Arabs or Turks though again it usually applies towards Urdu speakers (who even claim that Urdu is a Trukic language) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:25 AM |
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