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| 2 | Mixed feelings about this meme. Yes, you can be replaced at work. But if your "home" is with a man you can be replaced there too. I would argue a lot of jobs are less likely to replace you than a man is and more likely to benefit you for a longer time. Thoughts?♥️⭐ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 02:43 PM |
| 3 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?They booked PERFUME (jpop) once and I hope they book them over him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:53 AM |
| 13 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?He seems to be a complete misogynist. And a manipulative person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:52 AM |
| 6 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?Yeah, I was wondering the same. How is he even getting support. How does he still have fans. And if a woman would have done it, there would have been a fierce backlash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:50 AM |
| 2 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?Ikr!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/22 05:49 AM |
| 24 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?Rofl true. And nothing yet from what I checked (but I don't actively following these news) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 04:22 PM |
| 94 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?Naming accurately and objectively the things they do is an insult This is so true. It was even in the Lundy Bancroft podcast. It irks me so much when the supposed logical gender can't follow the most basic of logic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 04:21 PM |
| 88 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?This has been worded very eloquently. This is what Eillish should have replied | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:56 PM |
| 55 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?ignoramus TIL, new word 'ignoramus' demonstrated with a great sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:28 PM |
| 65 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?Oh reading that gave me a headache...I wonder how hiss brain even came up with this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:26 PM |
| 109 | I need someone to help me make sense of this...You want apology because the lady was being considerate? Because she had common sense?I don't follow it too, that's why this makes no sense! Why are you demanding apology from someone doing the humane thing?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 03:25 PM |
| 81 | Mixed feelings about this meme. Yes, you can be replaced at work. But if your "home" is with a man you can be replaced there too. I would argue a lot of jobs are less likely to replace you than a man is and more likely to benefit you for a longer time. Thoughts?Home is where you can be yourself. It's where you charge, where you heal, where you dream, where you are you. Doesn't really mean a man has to be there, or a family is to be there; can be only you or maybe your friends, or your pets. So I would still argue home is worth more, because it's ultimately your life's comfort abode where you can relax snuggled up with your comfort food. If it happens that your workplace is your home (not by coercion or necessity), than that's okay too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/22 02:55 PM |
| 46 | How to deflect dating questions from friends/family/coworkersThis is perfect. In my case I've rarely had anyone tell me they are happy in their marriage, so when they ask I just give them a are-you-stockholmed/masochist look and say "didn't you just tell me yesterday you feel like dying due to your marriage?" (Then watch them fall over themselves trying to justify their marriage (to themselves mostly) "oh that happens with everyone, it's part of life bla bla") | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 07:00 AM |
| 27 | How to deflect dating questions from friends/family/coworkers"Have you got a man?" Oh my, I didn't know they were up for purchasing now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 06:56 AM |
| 60 | How to deflect dating questions from friends/family/coworkersI was also wondering why so much smiling..... I'm not aligned with the idea of putting them at ease after they create a deliberate faux pas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 06:54 AM |
| 40 | She quit her job and is live-in childcare for her husband’s affair baby and is now being asked to cancel her birthday trip to babysitDo I spy an Ace Attorney reference? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 08:31 PM |
| 19 | Are they ridiculous, or do you have a husband that won’t do basic shit!Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 05:27 PM |
| 61 | What to do?Just dropping by to say, it's never "overstepping" looking at your life partner's phone. You're supposed to be together through thick and thin, and I don't understand how someone can keep phones as secret in such a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/22 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Inspired by the Anne Boleyn post, what other women in history were done dirty by men?Is there somewhere I can check out the Taylor story fully? What tags do I search for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/21 02:51 PM |
| 16 | Word-salad victim blaming in progress. The highest voted comment blows my mind. (Rapido is a cab service but on a motorcycle). Let's hijack this thread and upvote the ladies' comments there.Ah sorry. I meant it half heartedly. Thanks for letting me know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:14 PM |
| 28 | Word-salad victim blaming in progress. The highest voted comment blows my mind. (Rapido is a cab service but on a motorcycle). Let's hijack this thread and upvote the ladies' comments there.Being a creep is the only way a guy can show his concern for a gal. 😒 All the sane comments in that post are downvoted to oblivion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:03 PM |
| 65 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionJokes on him, she still looks glamorous, way more than ever does or ever will. I never liked Chris Pratt even in movies, he gave off a weird vibe, good to know my scanner wasn't wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 04:25 AM |
| 6 | If he can’t pick up a box of tampons for you, he aint it!And here my bf takes secret photos of stuff that I may need (like hygiene wipes and wash, liners and pads) when out with friends and messages it to me if I need anything, and to check if my stock is running low. Or to just ask me if I want to try this new brand or product :D And he does it secretly around his friends only so as not to make me uncomfortable since I'm a very secretive/reserved person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 09:23 AM |
| 135 | Men who are virgins late in life are red flags.Hmm...not sure I agree with this one. Also, it's a cultural thing too. And I've seen some amazing people focus on financial stability in the first decade after getting a job, so they focus more on themselves and less on relationships (both genders). Edit: I just meant that I disagree with this being generalized as a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 07:04 AM |
| 59 | Rewatching Friends and realizing sweet, funny Joey is actually T.E.R.R.I.B.L.E.Lol, I always watched How I met your mother and Friends and Big Bang Theory (initial seasons, they improved later on), and thought "how can people ever like this?? It's disrespectful and demeaning and rude and downright shitty at times". Not to say I didn't skip those parts and try to enjoy the rest of the show. But even 10 years back (or whenever they released), I still found it yucky and annoying and I always told that to my friends (who always went 'but that's how the world is' or 'that's jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 05:53 AM |
| 23 | I Leveled Up my Home Improvement skills today!I've always been lucky to do a lot of the home repairs and installments by myself most of my life since childhood, and I know how much of a difference it makes in your day to day life (when you can fix your own power extension if it breaks during work, or balance precariously on furniture while repairing your lights and fans when immediate help is not available). I'm so glad to see you getting into these too! Way to go <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 05:38 AM |
| 26 | Men are such pick mes trying to gaslight me into being a pick meOhh yes this, I just replied this :P I have a great skeptic + sarcasm face and tone for situations like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 05:34 AM |
| 29 | Men are such pick mes trying to gaslight me into being a pick meby saying I'm going to stay single acting like this I just reply with "And?....." with no expressions on my face. And just continue with "And/So...?" a couple of times more if they try to justify it. Then they trip idiotically over themselves unable to justify anything. It's even more hilarious if you add "oh but lesbian ladies are into this *insert whatever behavior provoked their unwarranted advice*". They just stand there looking pissed off and floundering for words like a cranky woodpecker… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 05:33 AM |
| 3 | Bachelor Party And Strip ClubsDo you want to live the rest of your life wondering when your fiance is going to toe the line and not tell you because he is the best husband in the world? I'm not going to say leave him immediately, instead let him know in clear words you'll leave him immediately if he doesn't stop enabling his friend, and if ever even sniffs a stripper club customer, never mind the club. World is enough sucky without you having someone in your corner ready to stab you; where's that corner is for someone supp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 06:40 AM |
| 1 | When are women ready to admit LTR don't mean shit? It's not soft marriage.What's ltr? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:46 AM |
| 11 | Cringeworthy :/Is this post by a gal? I think a guy wrote it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 05:26 AM |
| 8 | One of the MANY things I’ll never do for a man: compete for him. You think you found better, then go!!!!!! Please!!! Get as far from me as you can!!!!! Feel so bad for this woman…Can we help her? Show her to just kick him. What the hell does it even mean to earn the love back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 05:04 AM |
| 50 | “She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes By The Sink”Oh thank goodness I'm not the only one feeling yucky reading it!!!! I felt so uncomfortable reading it and I thought maybe I'm being overly critical. Good to know that article reeks of self-entitlement and removing responsibility from men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 04:51 AM |
| 10 | Men continue to stay in power because the average woman does not understand how they truly think.Any forums suggestion or subreddit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/21 04:35 AM |
| 55 | It’s the little thingsWholesome content like these need more upvote and maybe some sidebar! And so happy for you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | I always wanted a platinum engagement ring, my bf agreed. Then he saw this video and messaged me "now you're getting a diamond ring"You're awesome to figure out what suits you now! And thank youuu. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:15 AM |
| 2 | I always wanted a platinum engagement ring, my bf agreed. Then he saw this video and messaged me "now you're getting a diamond ring"He wanted me to go to shops to window shop for jewelry. I was too tired to go. I think with efforts like this, he'll figure it out eventually :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:14 AM |
| 1 | I always wanted a platinum engagement ring, my bf agreed. Then he saw this video and messaged me "now you're getting a diamond ring"Yes, you're right :) (I wish I had your way with words, you put it so eloquently). He didn't force anything and he never will. This was just his way of showing he cares and we can always discuss more anytime we want. He will never make me feel like he knows better than me; worst-case scenario, he will buy me two rings lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 05:13 AM |
| 5 | Leveling up this weekI did a staycation with my bf after being long distance for the last one year. And it was wonderful! I needed the break from work and a change in scenery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 03:46 AM |
| 6 | I always wanted a platinum engagement ring, my bf agreed. Then he saw this video and messaged me "now you're getting a diamond ring"True, it's just that I tend to lose rings a lot, especially embellished ones. Simple ones tend to stick on my finger more since I don't fidget much with them. So I was inclined towards a simple one, but I got upgraded now anyway :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/21 06:44 AM |
| 19 | Even China knows the detrimental effects of too much video games and they are protecting the next generation. Our millennial addicted men however are addicted to the point of reneging on adult responsibilities and sharing choresI so agree, this post is wrong. Just because this move happens to have a good side effect doesn't mean it's the correct thing to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 05:13 PM |
| 50 | I always wanted a platinum engagement ring, my bf agreed. Then he saw this video and messaged me "now you're getting a diamond ring"Yes that's what I wanted initially. And that's why I wrote an explanation in the middle paragraph (level up one) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:38 PM |
| 7 | I just…🤦🏻♀️oh my god TW: DVOh I was thinking of the same thing, like how do we pop in FDS rescue workers in such situations! Glad I'm not alone :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:42 AM |
| 7 | I just…🤦🏻♀️oh my god TW: DVWoah, he has mastered levels of manipulation and control well ahead of his age. Congrats to him! And she hasn't even learned basic boundary-setting at her age. As disappointed as I'm, I understand how this world works, and want to help her before she wastes 10 years of her life understanding this basic lesson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:41 AM |
| 5 | No. No thank you. Please don't. Don't give stalkers more toolsInvasion of privacy much!!!! Google glasses failed to take off for this reason, and for some reason, this start-up thinks that the way ahead is MORE intrusion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 08:37 AM |
| 2 | So...I wanted to try out K-beauty (inspired by fds) and what do you know, my bf (hvm!) not only encouraged me, but surprised me by footing the entire bill and now ensures I'm actively doing self-care and not forgetting to use theseThat's so kind of you, your reply made my day ❤️ And I understand, so many guys see beauty products and make-up as something shallow and deserving mockery. And at the same time they want ladies to look beautiful so they can continue to be into them. They just don't want to invest in them (be it emotional support, moral support or financial). K-beauty is such a meditative way of self-care and levelling up. I hope you find someone who loves seeing you happy and always invests in keeping your happi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | So...I wanted to try out K-beauty (inspired by fds) and what do you know, my bf (hvm!) not only encouraged me, but surprised me by footing the entire bill and now ensures I'm actively doing self-care and not forgetting to use theseRepost with proper flair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:44 PM |
| 2 | So...I wanted to try out K-beauty (inspired by fds) and what do you know, my bf (hvm!) not only encouraged me, but surprised me by footing the entire bill and now ensures I'm actively doing self-care and not forgetting to use theseFDS Handbook is the culprit that got me into this <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:41 PM |
| 5 | So close...I mean for me it's a compliment to the guy (and maybe a necessity) that the guy be not laid before!!!! Where did this guy get the data that women use this to insult men? It's always the men using these insults. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:29 PM |
| 1 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....Exactly, What the heck kind of video was that? All it did was justify that men look for maids/submissives to boost their ego, and I'm sure that's not what he was trying to portray. Talk about low gray matter in brain, he must really be struggling in life. Oh wait, there are similar low gray matter people following him. Good they can all club together and make it easy for us to avoid them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....Lol I didn't know that's a shower curtain. I've seen similar eyelets curtains in my country used as room curtains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Is this why old men in current government dont care about women’s rights today? Because their dad’s wrote & believed bs like this?Why did you make me read this T_T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:19 PM |
| 3 | It's amazing to me how anyone can justify manipulation!Lol loved this!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:16 PM |
| 29 | Some women get so desperate for the ring they end up accepting any situation just for the sake of being married. Better be single than with scrotes like this...When a guy says 50-50, he's viewing the marriage as a BUSINESS transaction. And he'll definitely try to gain the profit, that's what business is about. You want to marry for business? Do it by all means but then be ready to play hard for your profit. If you view this marriage as life long partner journey (which is what real marriage should be), then you're in for a rude awakening. Why not stay single till you find a LIFE partner and a relationship based on love, instead of settling for a busines… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 02:02 PM |
| 7 | Why do I get angry when someone says 'You need to Calm down' - Show this to your partners, doctors, and others if they say this phraseYup, automated belittling responses. And I tried to answer your question here: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/p8tjo3/why_do_i_get_angry_when_someone_says_you_need_to/h9tzfkm?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3 (A couple comments down or so) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:25 PM |
| 22 | Why do I get angry when someone says 'You need to Calm down' - Show this to your partners, doctors, and others if they say this phraseAh yes, parents. And doctors. People in authority tend to be so dramatic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:08 PM |
| 12 | Why do I get angry when someone says 'You need to Calm down' - Show this to your partners, doctors, and others if they say this phraseGlad it was of help :) And it depends...when my bf said it to me (not out of ill intentions), I just sent this ss, he apologized and never said it again. If my parents say it, same with ss. If doctors (which they do a lot), I try in a joking way to tell them that's rude and also that's not a diagnosis. Usually they feel embarrassed and change track. But like someone else said in another reply, just turning around and walking off is also effective, specially if you feel this is being deliberately… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 09:07 PM |
| 58 | There's a "promaledatingstrategy" to contradict FDS. Men really don't know how to act when women have had enough.I can't wait for them to reverse my #high-value-things post 🤣 I wonder how that'll work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:06 PM |
| 118 | There's a "promaledatingstrategy" to contradict FDS. Men really don't know how to act when women have had enough.Lol what did I just read? Where's the logic? Down the drain, apparently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | Ways to HVM ;)<3 thank youuuu, I would also love that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 04:56 PM |
| 64 | Why do I get angry when someone says 'You need to Calm down' - Show this to your partners, doctors, and others if they say this phraseYeah, it usually happens when you're speaking in a normal tone but about something they don't agree with. So they come up with 'calm down' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleAsking someone to 'Calm down' is considered downright rude and patronizing; how are these people even doctors?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:37 PM |
| 14 | I finally put NO ONS, NO FWB in my bio and...What is ONS? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 03:09 PM |
| 2 | TW: Just a reminder. What we learn here can save your life.Is this available for download somewhere? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 10:35 AM |
| 5 | Vet men based on the types of video games they playI would add to this a bit. Since killing games are all around us, I find it hard to use that as a base guide. I'm a casual gamer, and I've noticed one particular trend that's more telling. I want to focus on the games that are misogynistic. Like GTA-V (the YouTube video series tropes vs women in video games, has a good list of such games). If the ones playing these games don't find it disgusting how the creators of the game have treated the women (in-game, I know), then chances are that the guy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 08:19 AM |
| 15 | Living large and proud to show the world his mad skills as a home decoratorLol I was wondering what's that black thing at the foot of his bed, now I know 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 07:50 AM |
| 18 | WTF is wrong with people? A kink party as a second date?! This is peak Pickmeisha fuckery. ( she posts a bunch of pics of herself in extremely sexual lingerie and then freaks out because he didn’t even bother to tell her the theme is white). Just why?!? What’s in it for her? Make it make sense...Now I want to see the post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:13 PM |
| 1 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sI know....I wish I could erase it from my memory xP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 12:41 PM |
| 8 | Recommended readingWell, I can tell you NOT to read "why men always forget and women always remember". Definitely don't read if you don't want to be foaming in anger. Edit: 101 lies men tell women is good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 10:02 AM |
| 100 | What’s your best FDS quote?"If you put a small value on yourself, rest assured that the world will not raise your price". People will always bargain to set a lower price, never the other way round. You have to be your negotiator and standard-setter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 07:30 AM |
| 15 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sI've even seen it to the extreme that, when a wife asked 'Why are their rice leftovers', the husband replied 'because I had to scoop out rice myself, how am I supposed to know how much to take, you're the one who scoops every day so you should have done it'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Weak uterusI can't find the research, but the joke's on the poster. Both men and women are encouraged to drink while sitting, and from a glass. Something about better digestion and breathing. Don't know who came up with this random clickbait instruction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Welcome to FDS!That was a super quick reply <3 and omg what were they bombarding that thread with, what could they twist out of it! Yikes. Thank you mods for protecting us, I didn't have to deal with them and didn't realize you all were dealing extensively with it. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 09:04 PM |
| 77 | Woman tells her Scrote boyfriend about a bad sexual experience she had; he is upset because that means "He had a big enough dick to hurt you, and I don't. :("Block. Ghost. Move on. Enjoy life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 09:01 PM |
| 7 | Misogyny unites men from all around the world. They’re all cheering on the Talibans and these are the same men you interact with on a day to day basis.Patriarchy is in the very roots of the world. The entitlement is deeply etched into their souls. Any slighting of their entitlement grates like thousand lashes on their ego, which is so ridiculously fragile, they end up directing the self humiliation and hatred onto the easily available targets. The weak. The minority. The children. The women. They have no humanity. Only ego. They have no compassion. Only entitlement. They have no conscience. Only depravity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 15 | This girls IG is every red pill mans fantasy 🙄What happens when that beautiful, clean, calm, sacred environment is ruffled by some 'protectors' verbal abuse, anger issues, psychological manipulation, smashing tantrums, and dilly dallying cheating around? Do we feel safe loved and protected then? Is the home still sacred? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:50 PM |
| 102 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sNopes, no dramatization. And yes, dowry is rampant (although girls are waking up and refusing it a lot nowadays in metro cities, if my sources are correct) and more so in villages (so like 70%+ of the country I think). And dowry harassment is also a thing (you only paid 1000$, now we want a car also, plus some gold too...oh you can't afford it? *bam bam bam*) (the *bam bam bam* can be verbal abuse, physical or even gunshots). Girls end up marrying because their parents & society throw them out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:28 PM |
| 3 | Welcome to FDS!Hey whoever-happens-to-read-this-comment, I had a question, I went through the handbook, but I didn't get an accurate answer to a question I had. I realized a post of mine was locked today. I'm wondering does that mean I accidentally violated a rule, or the post was getting hard to moderate because lurkers were spamming or something, or perhaps a completely different reason that is on a need-to-know basis. Appreciate it if anyone can answer this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleHonestly....it's so refreshing not having to debate over everything. So many times the debates are so illogical, it's like challenging why someone likes apples over oranges, how could they be cruel to the oranges, aren't apples famous as is thanks to 'an apple a day keeps the doc away'. And of course, the support is so comforting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:05 PM |
| 206 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sJust watch any Pakistani or Indian drama/tv series. The daughters-in-law and mothers-in-law will be standing at the beck and call of the male members near the dining table while the male eats (they don't help in cooking, carrying the dishes, serving, putting the plates back in the kitchen, cleaning, ensuring their wives eat, kids eat, etc., etc.). And if your head covering falls a bit while serving, you're reprimanded, if you don't anticipate filling the glass or giving more rice, you're loudl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleYes! Take multiple opinions!! I've seen doctors belittle and scoff when I tell my problems to them, and they say 'some walking as we did in our age and less computer/mobile will fix all these 'symptoms' of yours'. I couldn't afford multiple diagnoses back then, so I lived with it all for far too long. But fortunately, I could recently, and then started the proper medication. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleThat is terrible :( I'm glad you got out of it, as hard it was. I hope you stay well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleAnd it's even sadder to think that not everyone can afford multiple diagnoses :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleThis too! So damn relatable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleThis! Just because I'm not willing to give up on myself, don't take my fight to survive as a symbol of being 'healthy with a huge serving of hysteria'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleI can relate, that's the worst! You give your every inch each moment of the day, just so that you can see the next day, and then people come with their advice 'You need more will power' 'you are soft' 'did you try sleeping at 10' 'eat more vegs and fruits' and any illogical sentence. I just want to swap my condition with them for even a minute, so they can then tell themselves 'oh maybe positive thinking will fix all this' and then watch the results with grim satisfaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:50 PM |
| 9 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleThe incidents just keep getting chilling :( But glad it worked out in the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:45 PM |
| 5 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleAnd because medicine so far has been created using men as their center of research until just a decade or so back. This means women medical care is extremely lacking and based on a lot of luck that 'this works on men, should work on women too' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:44 PM |
| 10 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleOh no, that's terrible. I'm relieved you finally got the needed treatment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 27 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleThis always reminds me of the study that men tend to overreact even when they have a mild cold, whereas women always downplay even severe fevers and continue their work and responsibilities. And this is actually proved by research. Funny how science and logic are only valid when it's used against most of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:41 PM |
| 5 | Even the doctors who vow to save lives can't be trusted :( Stay woke, and get multiple doctor recommendations if possibleIt's so sad so many of us can relate to this; it's kinda hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 07:39 PM |
| 92 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sMine too!! And he also shares with me! And ensures that both our plates have food that I enjoy... That's love.... That's partnership..... Not this sick fake whatever it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 06:37 PM |
| 397 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sThis is so common in some Asian countries!! The ladies Cook, serve the men in household warm meal (the men want the bread just off the stove, not even a minute old), stand nearby the table with bowed heads while ensuring the men have glasses n plates full. Meanwhile, the men judge and berate any tiny flaw. The women then clean up everything and sometime after get to eat leftovers. I HATE it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 06:35 PM |
| 245 | Pakistan Horror: Crazy entitlement and depravity and victim-blaming and gross animalistic behavior - All wrapped in oneAnd people say "where's the patriarchy"? "Women enjoy so much privileges". Just tell me ONE incident that happened in reverse of this one. ONE! Link: source | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Welcome to FDS!Thank youuuu!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 08:59 PM |
| 253 | She's a 35 year old mom, he's 58 grandp..dadThe kid's expression matches mine right now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Welcome to FDS!Love this idea, and appreciate the efforts this requires! And request for flair please? I've been lurking a long while now, I would love to officially join. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 08:39 PM |
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