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| 2 | Do I drop him?Some tough love here OP. Seriously drop him. This is embarrassing. First sign of disrespect: Eyeing your chest. Second sign: Fast food place. Well established couples do that not a guy trying to impress you. Even then it’s not a date it’s just catching up. Third sign: Going back to his for a make out session. He obviously wanted to f- There is more in your post but honestly three strikes and he most definitely is out. And review the handbook. It’s not just about him paying for your dates…. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 08:58 AM |
| 2 | When is enough enough? It’s time for women to boycott these apps.Sorry OP you need to remove the name of the sub you got this from :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 10:30 PM |
| 80 | How do you feel when people say “ a man needs to feel needed”?A man should never be needed in a woman’s life. Any guy that says that to me is an instant rejection. He can be wanted. But never needed. I have a partner who is HVM. But I don’t need him. I want to be with him because he enhances my life. He’s kind, considerate, makes things easier for me. He’s intelligent, ambitious etc. But, life would still be good without him too because I can quite happily say I’m all of those personality traits too. The minute men feel they are “needed” in your life and n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/21 12:55 PM |
| 14 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???Oh I already have some DMs arguing their case. Like whatever 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 03:41 PM |
| 262 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???I think what infuriated me more was the fact he said “I don’t want to screw my wife and her parents over.” What a lying piece of…. The comments are supporting him. Giving him advice on how to check the land registry to see if he’s on the deed. Saying because they’ve been together for so long he’ll be entitled to 50%. One commenter said because there’s a child involved they might not be able to sell the house immediately as the needs of the child come first. But he’ll still be entitled to the mon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 08:15 AM |
| 187 | “Age is just a number.”So is a prison sentence.There’s a reason why LVM prey on significantly younger women 🤢 You have nothing in common with these men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:26 PM |
| 329 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.😂😂😂😂 For him that’s aLot Of effort. Why isn’t she grateful??? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:34 PM |
| 96 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.I literally died of laughter 🤣 next step she needs to block and delete, then she’s sorted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:33 PM |
| 216 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Wilful ignorance that every girl wants them 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:33 PM |
| 276 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.He deffo went back to his “coach” who would have reassured her that he was too good for her anyway 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:32 PM |
| 179 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.💯 Sandra’s Energy is FDS energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:31 PM |
| 602 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Sandra said “I’ve got better things to do with my time 🤣” She probably wasn’t even thinking about him until that moment. Whilst he needs a football coach to figure out how to speak to a girl….m EDIT: H*ly shit. Thanks so much for all the awards and upvotes. This is so cool XD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 01:31 PM |
| 2 | How to talk to men about money?This gives me LARP vibes because what woman says “If I hear equality etc I just break up.” As well as a couple of other phrases. Anyway, if on the chance you are a woman: You’d be better off putting this on the “Ask FDS” subbreddit if you want advice. FDS doesn’t advocate for SAHM because then you’re financially dependent/ easier to be abused. So you’re not going to get any advice here advocating for that. Read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 07:37 AM |
| 14 | The fact that she still has to come on that sub to ask for advice..Someone needs to introduce FDS to her real quickShe needs to end this relationship rn. What a disaster. OP you need to remove the name of the sub otherwise this post will be taken down due to bridging :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 01:01 PM |
| 131 | Princess Diana: “I am a free spirit. Some don’t like that but that’s who I am.”Princess Diana was an absolute icon. May she rest in peace x I thought the “revenge dress” was absolutely show stopper. Prince Charles, absolute epitome of LVM, attempted to embarrass/ belittle her through their relationship. Cast aside any thoughts of the royal family assassinating her… Princess Diana was a humanitarian, philanthropist, feminist icon. She’s a definition of HVW. Edit: thank you so much for the awards. It’s so sweet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 06:08 PM |
| 270 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡It’s heartbreaking. She should be able to enjoy the game as much as the next fan, and instead she’s being objectified by some creepy weirdos on the internet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:39 PM |
| 52 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡Honestly men who are obsessed with football are a big red flag to me. They are usually intoxicated with alcohol, overweight, verbally abusive and racist. And that excludes any gambling addictions they may have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:38 PM |
| 89 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡Ohh I’m so glad they deleted it. They are all deprived individuals. It’s bad enough mocking a child for crying, but then using sexual terminology is definitely p*do behaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:36 PM |
| 979 | imagine being happy because a little kid is crying 🤡🤡Imagine a grown man calling a child a slut?! Predatory behaviour has no limits. Absolutely disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 10:49 AM |
| 163 | POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you.The logic makes sense 😒 This post is just a massive mess. In order for it to make sense you just have to exclude the: financial abuse, power imbalance, reproductive coercion, incubator vibes. The OP even added on an extra layer of objectification of women, naivety regarding parenthood and complete disregard for her own dreams and aspirations. Careers can be stressful but they can also be rewarding. What is the reward for being a 40 year old man’s personal bangmaid? Because that’s what you’d be, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 08:21 AM |
| 199 | Friend says I’m being a ‘psycho’ but I don’t agree. This is a huge red flag right?You’re not overreacting. I’d cut this all of right now because if this is the beginning of the relationship, it’s only downhill from here. I don’t know how long you’ve been together but the fact you’re “recently” going out with him suggests it’s far too early for you for you to be going to his place for dinner. There’s every possibility he could’ve been a murderer, rapist etc and it’s better not to be in his home until you’ve established a lot of trust. So he’s low value in itself for even sugge… | /r/askFDS | 24/06/21 06:19 AM |
| 20 | Finally met my HVM 🥰I was about to throw so much shade. Then I saw your username (my fav) and relaxed 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 10:07 PM |
| 23 | Traits of HVM when you start dating in HS/CollegeI love the post :D I don’t really understand the American year groups e.g. sophomore? Because I’m in the UK. But being at uni means I perpetually budgeting so I understand dating on a budget. Financial literacy is incredibly important to me, so I don’t want a guy to go into debt to date me because that’s just irresponsible. But, I’d expect when dating that he has enough income from a part time job to be able to date appropriately. I 100% agree with this point. My LVM ex’s idea of a date was just… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 08:06 AM |
| 21 | Q: Any suggestions for a response when an out of town guy asks you to pick a restaurant?I know it’s hard. But the phrase give them an inch, and they’ll take a mile is so apt. You seem really flexible which is good when in an established, respectful relationship. But before you get to that stage (and after of course), you deserve to be wooed. Not just be the planner all the time. 😂😂😂 They keep cockblocking themselves.I’m not a rotational person, and that’s okay. Just make sure to have standards that you’re happy with and not compromise on them. Absolutely no worries. | /r/askFDS | 19/06/21 05:12 PM |
| 82 | Q: Any suggestions for a response when an out of town guy asks you to pick a restaurant?I’m failing to understand his point. I’m failing to understand what HVM traits he’s demonstrating…, Why do you want to meet up with this guy? He has the internet at his fingertips. Look at the places in the local area, Look at the menu (see if it’s affordable, available and appropriate for a date), then look at tripadvisor for unbiased reviews from previous customers. He doesn’t need to pick somewhere random?? If it’s a first for both of you, then it will either be amazing (lots of positive revi… | /r/askFDS | 19/06/21 01:39 PM |
| 10 | If he wanted to, he would. Dating a HVM is heartwarming.Ahh the med school life 😭 Sometimes it’s so insane we’re basically study buddies. But that’s okay because ultimately I came to uni to get my degree not to find a man. And he knows that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:55 PM |
| 7 | If he wanted to, he would. Dating a HVM is heartwarming.Aww thank you so much xx Your username is so apt. Life is too short. HVM or nothing is my motto | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 21 | If he wanted to, he would. Dating a HVM is heartwarming.Definitely. We’re both very busy with uni and working but he always makes time for me. He’s also an amazing communicator, which I really appreciate because of our time constraints. He’s kind and funny to everyone, which after seeing some of the dusty basement dweller of Reddit is really important to me. PS: I love your username. I’ve seen you comment on a few things and you seem so cool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:26 PM |
| 59 | If he wanted to, he would. Dating a HVM is heartwarming.Context: I’ve been with my bf for the last three years. We’re going into final year of medical school (can’t wait to graduate because I’m over being a student 😭) Anyway, the last month has been hell for me. I’ve had end of year exams, moved houses, been working insane hours to have some money for the next academic year (medicine assumes everyone is rich which is not the case 😡) and had family issues too. Ultimately I’ve been not really present. He’s been incredibly supportive, an amazing listene… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | If he wanted to he would: A goodnight message 😊Relationship Context: I’ve been with my boyfriend for the last 3 years (We don’t want to get married in med school, both in our early 20s, although we’ve had the discussion and he’s happy to) Current context: I’ve had an incredibly busy last few weeks. We’ve both had end of year med school exams, moved out of my flat in Uni (why do I have so much stuff😭), I’ve been working my summer job for 12 days straight. So I’ve had no time for going on dates. We went on a date yesterday. He picked me up fro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 07:57 AM |
| 23 | Being a Woman of Color, how do you navigate racism and colorism in your search for a HVM?I’ve only ever dated black men (as a black woman), so I can’t comment on any other experiences. But hope this helps a bit :) I have a two pronged approach. Firstly observations. How does he interact with black women or other WoC he doesn’t find attractive? Wait staff? Colleagues? Older women? My friends? His friends? Are all women treated with respect and politeness or only ones he finds attractive? Secondly just conversations. My SO and I have ALOT of conversations about the big issues. Racism,… | /r/askFDS | 14/06/21 07:54 AM |
| 7 | My new tank just came in! "Know your worth, then add tax"Looks amazing! 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 11:25 AM |
| 51 | Porn, and the patriarchy, has truly destroyed morality because now NVM engaging nec*ophilia should not be KiNK SHaMeD.Everyday it’s a new low to be honest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:34 AM |
| 47 | Porn, and the patriarchy, has truly destroyed morality because now NVM engaging nec*ophilia should not be KiNK SHaMeD.The mental gymnastics he must have gone through to get to this point of blaming her 🤦🏾♀️ But as women we’ve been conditioned to be “accommodating and understanding” which is why I think OP is questioning herself so much. Whereas if she said playing dead was the only way to get her off, he’d be running out the door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:33 AM |
| 154 | Porn, and the patriarchy, has truly destroyed morality because now NVM engaging nec*ophilia should not be KiNK SHaMeD.The comments of this thread, during the time I read it, were absolutely nauseating. As a future doctor, cadavers are absolutely an education tool and nothing more. Moreover, it’s so infuriating that someone has kindly donated their body to science and it’s now a spank box for some deprived piece of shit. One of the top comments came from a BDSM user who had extreme kinks (but not necrophilia) who encouraged OP to CoMMuNicate with him about his kinks. She had the right to be shocked, but apparent… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:25 AM |
| 106 | I'm worried my personality is off-putting to most men.Don’t dim your personality for fear of being “off putting” to men. If you’re confident and outgoing, that’s you and you should be yourself whole heartedly. If you’re happy being single for now, there’s no rush to be in a relationship. You’re more likely to end up being in a bad one with that mentally. FDS isn’t here to get you to be appealing to “most men”. Rather, it’s a community to find the inner confidence and self love all women deserve. Those attributes will make your life a lot happier in… | /r/askFDS | 24/05/21 06:50 AM |
| 45 | Is it unreasonable to expect a guy I’m dating to congratulate me on graduating with a first?Firstly, congratulations on your first class degree 🎉 It’s not unreasonable to expect a partner to want to lift you up in your academic/ career/ personal projects life. If they only care about your looks, sex or what you provide for him that’s a big red flag. Personally, my academic achievements/ career goals will always come before my partner 🤷🏾♀️. They won’t leave me or more importantly, I never want to be dependent on a man financially. So if he doesn’t celebrate it, then he needs to go. It … | /r/askFDS | 19/05/21 10:21 AM |
| 32 | Anyone else have a sour mother's day? The moms of LVMs failed as parents they don't deserve a holiday.I’m not going to derail the conversation too much because I agree that it’s important that mothers raise men who are independent and don’t expect their son’s girlfriend to be a bangmaid. These women are incredibly problematic because they are usually bitter towards the girlfriend for not treating their sons like God. However, I think there’s a lack of accountability to fathers in your post, but also in wider society. Fathers need to be positive role models for their sons: -They should be contrib… | /r/askFDS | 11/05/21 09:33 AM |
| 34 | British/ European woman in their twenties, how do you navigate dating while sticking to FDS principles?Honestly FDS are life changing :) I didn’t get my hopes up and was ready to drop him at one red flag. We both went home for the summer (3 months) and he still made consistent efforts to come to see me (an hour away). He was always really well groomed, polite, attentive, paid without even asking. He found all these cute places with waiting lists as long as my arm, and made sure he booked well in advance. It was definitely one of the best summers I’ve ever had and by the end of it I think that’s w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 09:11 AM |
| 94 | British/ European woman in their twenties, how do you navigate dating while sticking to FDS principles?Ahh I’m a Brit too :D I temporarily lived in the states too. Honestly, the LVM are everywhere. It’s a universal phenomenon. Personally, I don’t even explain my standards, if you’re willing to low ball me on a walk/ drinks date I’m not even wasting my time. My current BF, is British, didn’t even suggest drinks initially when we were initially dating. He picked a time (asked me when my exams were finished), place (convenient to me) and booked it all. Then paid for it. He later explained he wanted … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:21 AM |
| 54 | Why don’t LVM directly breakup with women?You’ve answered your own question in the second paragraph :) Honestly he’s not worth the guilt/ stress. Relationships are supposed to be reciprocally positive. PS; the fact he says he didn’t break up with you shows he wants the ego boost of having you in a LDR, and most likely break up with you first. He’s disgusting. Keep him blocked everywhere. | /r/askFDS | 05/05/21 06:53 AM |
| 43 | Why I probably won’t have a kid: the work that goes into raising/caring for a child is hardly recognizedI really respect your thought process and it’s interesting to see from a CF perspective too x I’ve already said to my boyfriend (only if he’s a husband by this point) that he’s paying me when I have kids 🤷🏾♀️ What I mean by that is I want a set amount of income when I’m in maternity leave that goes directly into my account. Nothing to do with the kids/ house. He was more than happy to agree because he’s seen how crazy insane pregnancy is, and also acknowledges even the best father in the world-… | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 05:53 AM |
| 2 | All this for a 2.5 month relationship? Nah, sis-let this man go!Really interesting convo on this thread :D this is an insane amount of mental and emotional energy for a 2.5 month guy. Tbh for any guy at all. Also OP I think you need to remove the name of the subreddit you got it from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:26 PM |
| 52 | Let’s just make reproductive coercion seem like fun now /sConsidering how widespread reproductive coercion is worldwide, it’s nauseating and scary to see videos making fun of it. The underlying message that if a woman is about to enjoy herself, her freedom should be restricted by having children for these sick men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 100 | Men only know to console you through physical affectionThis is not normal amongst men. I think that’s just society’s way of conditioning women to accept the bare minimum. By saying it’s “normal” you are excusing his behaviour. Don’t. Some men are capable of having emotional maturity, empathy and problem solving skills. I’d say it should be a HV trait to grow as a person and not just simply go for the superficial, non specific responses. My partner is an absolute godsend when I’m upset. He knows when it’s time for a joke, a hug or I just need some al… | /r/askFDS | 22/04/21 04:52 PM |
| 39 | Just sharing my favorite gem from a scrote (before I disabled my chat) Their definition of HV cracks me upThis needs to be on FDSsuperfans 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:03 AM |
| 25 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘🤦🏾♀️ that thread is just going to turn into another “relationship advice” one give it a week. Will you DM the name too? I just want to lurk 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 06:52 AM |
| 3 | I saved my friend from her LVM now exYou sound like an amazing friend :D she’s so lucky to have you and I hope she is able to start her recovery and journey towards happiness x I was wondering, what red flags did you see in their relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:35 AM |
| 8 | If he’s letting himself go (both fitness wise and diet), it’s over 🤷🏾♀️ I’m sure you ladies can guess what the comments are saying 🤮I didn’t not see that. OMG that’s such a disaster 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 10:36 AM |
| 11 | If he’s letting himself go (both fitness wise and diet), it’s over 🤷🏾♀️ I’m sure you ladies can guess what the comments are saying 🤮The top comments empathised with her (it’s okay not to be attracted...) but also said that she needs to: A) Help and support him through it as he may feel insecure. Why? B) Consider stress/ anxiety/ depression as a root cause. So, again help and support him. C) Get one of his friends to talk to him about it because his feelings might he hurt if it comes from her. I don’t think that’s reasonable at all. It’s not a woman’s job to be a project manager for a man’s health of all things . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 06:57 AM |
| 48 | If he’s letting himself go (both fitness wise and diet), it’s over 🤷🏾♀️ I’m sure you ladies can guess what the comments are saying 🤮Even if there is a medical issue his behaviour is inexcusable. If he was making active steps without her input at all, that’s a very different conversation. He’s not even being considerate of her sexual needs. Sex with him sounds so painful, he should be embarrassed of his performance. Instead, he’s probably stuffing crap down his throat because he’s iNSeCuRE I have no empathy for him at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 45 | If he’s letting himself go (both fitness wise and diet), it’s over 🤷🏾♀️ I’m sure you ladies can guess what the comments are saying 🤮Me too! I get such a rush from working out and eating right. Like we all have our days where that cookie looks too tempting but not to these extent?! Is self control not a thing anymore? Your grandma is speaking the truth and nothing else 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 95 | If he’s letting himself go (both fitness wise and diet), it’s over 🤷🏾♀️ I’m sure you ladies can guess what the comments are saying 🤮I can’t comment too much on your journey, but the fact you’re reflecting on your eating disorder and slow metabolism is a bigger step than this Scrotes will ever achieve. The financial implications towards his family (they have a daughter together too). Plus, she’s taking the emotional burden of even worrying about his weight and their relationship. She’s better off using that energy on something else’s. PS: Hoping your journey is a successful one sis we are all rooting for you xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:01 PM |
| 295 | If he’s letting himself go (both fitness wise and diet), it’s over 🤷🏾♀️ I’m sure you ladies can guess what the comments are saying 🤮A man letting himself go: CoULD he bE DePRESsED? The double standards are disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 06:53 PM |
| 39 | Why we don’t do clapbacksYou’re right. This is anti-FDS for a good reason. The problem is with your message is although you’re replying with indifference, your whole message still requires LVM/NVM validation. What do these interactions add to your life? The fact these men “keep texting you” and you “keep saying no” shows you’re giving them time and attention, which is exactly what they want. I hope you’re working on stopping. The time you spend on a text message, you could spend texting positive friends, family or mento… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Don't forget to head over to r/askFDS and help a fellow FDS lady today!I’d like permission to give advice please :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 08:06 AM |
| 360 | Females After A BreakupI get the principle of this message. But the word females makes me shudder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 07:29 AM |
| 31 | Please remember to block out screen names when posting screen caps from reddit. This is to protect our sub and our members. Failure to do so will result in a 3-day ban.Quick question: Are we required to hide the subreddit name as well or just the username? :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 08:24 PM |
| 18 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.Omg same. I’m younger than her and face palming all round | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:54 PM |
| 37 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.Yeahh hence the “Nah Sis” caption. You’re literally enabling his behaviour at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:09 PM |
| 81 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.Honestly it was just reading red flag after red flag. There are do many things you could be doing with that money. For now it’s his money but soon it’ll be hers too.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 09:08 PM |
| 347 | Absolutely Speechless- Scrotes doesn’t get GF an Xmas present but gives £1000 to his OnlyFans lady. GF doesn’t dump him.The rest of the post was more drivel of her just asking for reassurance that it’s okay. When clearly it’s not. This is why FDS does not endorse OnlyFans. Before FDS I used to believe that it was a woman’s choice. But the wider implications of sex work and OnlyFans are brushed over with that argument. Never ever consider a relationship with a man who utilises such services... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 08:51 PM |
| 232 | Not that he is actually going to care for them himself. We all know it's a status symbol for men.Scrotes literally perceive women as incubators and then sexually available childcare. On my Obs and Gynae placement, the number of absolutely useless/ thoughtless “partners” is shocking to stay the least. One women was literally bleeding out with doctors surrounding her and her boyfriend was on WhatsApp videoing HIS mum. Speechless. Anyway, this situation is absolutely ridiculous, she needs to end this relationship ASAP before he messes with her birth control or worse... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 48 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.Get bent leech needs to be her final words to him as she slams the door in his face 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:37 AM |
| 2 | His pregnant wife escapes to her home with family. LVM response= steal the only form of transport she has to punish her.I literally subbed to AITA because I liked the more grey area discussions, but it’s just become increasingly worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:47 PM |
| 5 | Serial rapist and murderer wants to find a girl to marry so that she can keep him company and bring him things in prison. Even when he's on death row, he's still looking for one last woman to use.This is absolutely terrifying. He’d probably kill her too just before he goes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 15 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.Of course, why didn’t she think of that? /s Sorry slightly unrelated: Your profile caption is actually the best 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:42 PM |
| 7 | His pregnant wife escapes to her home with family. LVM response= steal the only form of transport she has to punish her.I think I’m logging off Reddit for tonight. Recap for you ladies who don’t have time to read that massive wall of useless scrote text: PREGNANT WIFE. -Misses her family (probably her support network because this scrotes certainly isn’t) -She does ALL cooking and cleaning but he has the audacity to say “she basically just wants to be cooked for and cleaned after.” -Did I mention she’s pregnant? -She MOVED 100 miles for him, but he makes it out to be a chore to take her home. Please just divorce h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:39 PM |
| 83 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.Honestly she’s too kind because the next three months are gonna be hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:20 PM |
| 234 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.IKR. I can’t believe he thinks he’s doing her a favour... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:19 PM |
| 109 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.1000% I’m so glad you’ve seen a shift in your experience. Because I just find Reddit so depressing unless I’m here or asking about my degree 😂 everything else is trash. There still needs to be a mindset shift that women don’t even tolerate any of this behaviour at any stage of a relationship. No is a full sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:16 PM |
| 64 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.That’s incredibly insightful. I’m not trying to say he would be a HVM just for being as mutually as useful. But at least he’d be on the right path. Good for her! I hope she celebrates her new found freedom in peace soon! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:14 PM |
| 118 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.1000% She was too kind even giving him a road map. I would have changed the locks whilst on the phone to my lawyer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:12 PM |
| 116 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.Thanks 😂 These synopsis are the perfect role play to constantly remind myself to always vet. The manipulation these men do is toxic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:12 PM |
| 127 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.I’m actually crying with laughter. I hope he drowns in my tears | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 561 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.Translation: -I’ve been taking advantage of my girlfriend for 3 years, finally got her to play forever GF for the past two years. I don’t know anything about her so I am describing her with vague compliments to pretend I care about her as a person. -She has played mommy our whole relationship. She cooks for me, gives me massages, buys things for me because I’m clearly incapable of doing things myself. -She knows I’m going to struggle all by myself so has given me a breakdown in order to get out … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | 🤪 Come check out our sub for posting all of the trolls and dragging them! 😂Thank you so much for letting me know! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:41 PM |
| 2 | 🤪 Come check out our sub for posting all of the trolls and dragging them! 😂Approval please :) Also sorry I’m not a throwaway account x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:40 AM |
| 9 | Have there been any HVW or Pickmeisha’s who have positively impacted the standards you have for dating?🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️ It sounds like an absolute toxic mess. Our place in the world is so dependent on secure finances whether we like it or not. Living beyond our means is a sure fire why to not be able to level up as women. I wonder if she is jealous that you’re so independent and can live within your means. Hence the sneering down at you... Kids are always the victim of pickmeishas. Hopefully they grow up and see the HVW that you are as a role model x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:42 AM |
| 16 | 😒😒😒🙃See I never found posts like these funny and I couldn’t put a finger on WHY before FDS. Now I realise, it’s because these posts demonise women to being dEmAnDing (for wanting a friend in a man and not a bangmaid) and men as tRYinG or simps for meeting the expectations of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:35 AM |
| 3 | Have there been any HVW or Pickmeisha’s who have positively impacted the standards you have for dating?That’s insane he told you about it in detail. Where are his boundaries as a father?! I wonder why he went for women who were smart, financially independent etc... just seems like a juxtaposition to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 10:20 AM |
| 78 | Men put barely any effort into their appearance and wonder why women don't compliment themThe dating advice subreddit is full of LVM like this. They believe they are entitled to a woman’s company and compliments just because they have a pulse.... You know the same scrotes complaining don’t work out, don’t dress well, have no skincare routine, don’t see a barber on a regular (and don’t get me started on the lack of confidence because they have no useful hobbies, friendships or career trajectory) Then they cry on reddit when they are 30 and haven’t had one long term girlfriend 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:10 AM |
| 18 | ‘I broke up with her, she’s moved on with her life, now I want her back’- NEGATIVE VALUE MALEWhat are the comments saying on this? Wouldn’t be surprised if they suggest that he does reach out of her... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:54 PM |
| 44 | LVM getting 8K likes for saying with he physically silences women because he can’t afford a restaurant 🤦🏾♀️He’s probably referring to McDonald’s or KFC as expensive. Kmt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:51 PM |
| 25 | Gamers+inherent selfishness of a NVM is clearly evident.Definitely! I’m surrounded by other women who say you should be ride or die. But this subreddit has shown me that it’s important to be uncompromising on the essential things. I used to feel horrible and stand offish for rejecting guys for “little things” like the fact he gamed for hours, or could only express romance through anime because I was seen as “shallow”. I never realised how dangerous the “hobby” could be. It makes me shudder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Promise Rings- Do they mean anything?Oooofff. Thank you for sharing your friends story :) it definitely highlights a few things I need to look out for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:40 PM |
| 3 | Promise Rings- Do they mean anything?Thank you so much! I definitely don’t want to play myself by accepting something which lets him run away from commitment. But, I was just asking because we’d be together for (4 years by the end of med school) which feels too long without some form of commitment. And I don’t want him to string me along, with the excuse of us being students, thinking there’s no commitment to be had. But I also don’t want to come across as unreasonable because he’s obviously not on a salary (UK med schools don’t pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 09:32 AM |
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