The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨

herbivorouscarnivore · 2022-01-26T22:44:29+00:00

lol Things like this make me think of the Redditor who pressured his girlfriend into an open relationship. Surprising no one but the scrote, she was bombarded with 🍆 and he got nothing.

Pryras · 2022-01-26T22:54:11+00:00

It’s funny when women are often the ones worrying about finding new partners but the reality is far different.

Men on the other hand are CONVINCED that they’re missing out and have an abundance of options once they leave their wives. News flash it’s crickets

Reptilesathome · 2022-01-26T21:39:25+00:00

I’m 26 and I don’t want to date a man older than 28 ideally, and 30 is the absolute max. Seriously, why do older men think younger women find them sexy? I’m pissed off and annoyed when older men flirt with me but I don’t have the wisdom or confidence of a 40 year old women to tell them to fuck off. Men think because a younger woman smiles and nods at them when they speak that they like them. No, we just don’t have enough experience to know how to get you to leave yet.

Note to older men: If a girl’s friend keeps inconveniently getting in the way of you hitting on a girl, it’s on purpose. She’s smiling at you but texting her friend like crazy to come rescue her.

vitryolic · 2022-01-26T22:38:05+00:00

I love this for his ex wife. Trash takes itself out

TheMostOfMe · 2022-01-26T21:40:17+00:00

Yeah my last boyfriend wasn’t allowed to sell drugs if he wanted to stay with me, and he was convinced my “controlling rules” were holding him back from success in life. So I kicked him out. He’s still homeless years later. I guess it wasn’t me who was preventing him from thriving. Weird.

SerialGeneralist · 2022-01-26T22:39:59+00:00

Older men swear up and down that they are the top picks for young, youthful women. The delusion is quite scary. The wall is the their greatest karma.

JulyParade · 2022-01-26T21:52:59+00:00

There's a post on r/science right now about how men are more likely to be depressed and suicidal after exiting relationships. Lots of removed comments on that one. And the comments that did stay up are proof that men use women as appliances and therapists instead of working on themselves.

AyemHerself · 2022-01-26T22:54:58+00:00

I love it when stories have a happy ending.

ramblingkite · 2022-01-26T23:15:39+00:00

When my ex and i broke up i tried to maintain a friendship with him at first because we still lived together. He cheated on me, it was traumatizing, i was in denial at the time, i’ve learned my lesson (the hard way) and am very pro-FDS now lol. So we were joking around about being on the apps, he watched me swipe left on most men and match with every man i swiped right on. The look on his face when i swiped left on a guy for something as simple as “he’s too tall” was priceless. He was heartbroken to learn i had plenty of options lol.

melympia · 2022-01-26T21:18:23+00:00

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Gologic34 · 2022-01-27T01:20:05+00:00

I dated a divorced guy who didn't out and out say he wanted to but everyone in his circle wanted to date a lot younger. When he brought up his friend wanting to get a job at the mall to date teens and he seemed to think it was a great idea, I knew is was time to go. A dude's friends say a lot about his values. Check that out.

ButterfliesHurricane · 2022-01-26T22:27:46+00:00

Sadly they rarely leave without securing the alternative first.

lansburysoda · 2022-01-26T22:18:18+00:00

Being with an old divorced man vs. being alone? I choose being alone 🥰 I’m in my 20s btw

Novemberinthechair · 2022-01-26T23:19:29+00:00

These fucking delusional guys.

depressed_aesthetic · 2022-01-27T00:21:57+00:00

Divorced men are usually pathetic.

plumeriaworld · 2022-01-26T21:24:06+00:00

I dated a guy pushing 40, he was frugal as hell and he was just very uncool. Physically, intellectually, and spiritually, I was way out of his league. When we broke up one of his last texts to me said ‘good luck.’ Guess who kept texting me and reaching out afterward with excuses and pity stories? And guess who got blocked? They always think they’re going to level up and move on to something better… But they never do. While I have leveled up so much that I don’t even relate to the woman that was with that guy. I am better in every single way since him.

corkymuu · 2022-01-26T21:36:40+00:00

What’s so strange to me is why do so many of them think this? Not even just old farts going for young girls, but ugly ass men of the same age going for beautiful women. How do they feel so good about themselves? Women have a pretty good idea of what our “league” is, men have no fucking clue.

queeninprogress · 2022-01-26T23:33:16+00:00

My dad's reason for divorce. He asked me if I thought my mum would take him back a few months later lol (in my head I was like FUCK NO). Wasn't til years later I told her and she was also like FUCK NO. He treated her horribly pre divorce, she was delighted to see him gone by that time.

karma-chips · 2022-01-26T23:02:45+00:00

I have no compassion for these men whatsoever, which makes me even more angry at them because I want to feel compassion towards all suffering beings on this planet and I blame them directly for taking it away from me.

blackmetalbetty · 2022-01-27T02:17:24+00:00

Lmao

Equal-Ear2312 · 2022-01-27T08:59:22+00:00

I will always support a man in achieving his dream by setting him free.

:)

there's potential and then there's reality.

Jinxhourglass · 2022-01-26T22:12:34+00:00

I love this song

Title	The Fantasy vs The Reality ✨
Author	MarshmellowMedic13
Upvotes	1721
Comments	78
Date	January 26, 2022 9:07 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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