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Question For MenMarzipan-Happy/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:31 AM
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Question For MenMarzipan-Happy/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:21 AM
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Question For MenMarzipan-Happy/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 06:15 AM
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Question For MenMarzipan-Happy/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 02:59 AM
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Question For MenMarzipan-Happy/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 07:36 PM
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Ehhh. I've got a career, and work hard but still feel like I'm garbage. Ymmv
/r/AllPillDebate14/06/23 03:15 AM
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Well, my husband had no idea how to
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 07:06 PM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 09:04 AM
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Bullshit. In my relationship I am the one that does all that, right down o changing batteries when they get too old.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:59 AM
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I do the grilling and the dead animal disposal, but beyond that, my husband does a fuckton around the house. He works from home, but I have a job that requires me to drive 100 miles a day round trip. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:57 AM
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Why would women even need to be held in check? Shouldn't men be too in that case?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 05:45 AM
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This. People have different ideas about what modesty entails as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 11:49 PM
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You missed what I was saying. I was saying the men are controlling, however one would think they ought to fear the woman becoming influenced and deciding to leave. Just because a man is controlling does not mean the woman can't leave him. She very much can. Yeah, she may have no family or friends here, but it still can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 01:29 PM
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Being a massively successful woman with kids and husband, while pursuing her dreams despite being told she was worthless and trash. ...oh wait, I am living my own fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:46 AM
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I feel like that's a little sick, plucking a desperate woman that they can control. You would think that these men would be afraid these women might get ideas and bail once they got here.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 05:39 AM
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Um. No.
/r/AllPillDebate23/04/23 12:25 AM
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Never had one personally. I'm too much of an introvert and too unwilling to risk cooties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 09:31 AM
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I work in a filthy warehouse sooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 11:05 PM
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Even death at one's leisure is illegal. Y
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 04:30 PM
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It's not like they are spending my money, so why would I care?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:39 AM
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On the school thing : My kids schools ALLWAYS call me first even though my husband is the primary contact. It's irritating as fuck because clearly there gender bias going on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 03:12 AM
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I work full time, salary. I basically live at my job during my workweek. I come home, eat, usually something he cooked, do homework (graduate school) and pass out. My husband works from home, cleans the house , cooks, does the majority of the heavy lifting with the kids. I clean our bathroom, and keep our bedroom clean I manage finances. (According to my kids I am a tightwad) He does way more work at home than I do. But I also have more demanding job, and a ton of school work. I appreciate every…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 02:59 AM
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It's kind of expected for women to outlive their other half. Morbid but true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 12:24 AM
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I thought we were playing word association:p
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:09 PM
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Well that got dark fast 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:45 PM
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Noun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 08:40 PM
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🤢🤢🤢 I know a few women like this. It's icky.
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 06:41 PM
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It was dumb as shit and super egotistical.
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 06:35 PM
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Well.... she asked for it.
/r/AllPillDebate12/04/23 06:34 PM
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Because they think girlfriend = sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 06:24 PM
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Woman here.... I hardly buy anything. I work too hard for my money to do more than spend it on bills and buy a book or embroidery kit every so often. I look at something and mentally calculate how many minutes/ hours I had to work for it and the appeal is lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 03:16 PM
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But why would they logically do that? If he truly care about her and his children he would want her have a backup plan if something happened to him
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 06:38 PM
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I had four kids and then got my masters degree, so yeah, I guess I'm super old now 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 05:52 PM
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A great job because you need that to survive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/23 01:43 AM
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Okay, but does this mean you want a woman who does not wear makeup or body shapers ?
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 11:24 PM
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Why?
/r/AllPillDebate04/04/23 09:15 PM
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That's just weird paranoia tbh. Beautiful people can have Beautiful babies, yes, but they can also have ugly babies. Same for ugly people and Beautiful babies.
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:23 PM
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Why do you think that? I mean, women get stuff done all the time, so why can't a man?
/r/AllPillDebate03/04/23 10:11 PM
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Wants a certain number of kids x point in the relationship, needs needs a lot of emotional work ( a lot of attention) has distintict plans for the future of the relationship. So on and so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 09:33 PM
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Right? I'm 5'5" and anyone who is taller than me... is just taller than me. Has a better ability to get things off the top shelf. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:27 PM
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Jason Segal over Chris Hemsworth any day. I'm just sayin'
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:22 PM
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I've known some pretty complex men. I just think it's an unfair (to men) stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:18 PM
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And it's all one big messy damaged bruise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 07:16 PM
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I had four kids 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I also have a good waist to hip/ bust ratio. I am very healthy beyond my weight. My heart is in "remarkable" shape, I don't drink, I don't smoke, and I'm vegetarian. I also am very strong, which is a byproduct of the job I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:29 PM
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Eh, whatever. You do you as long as you aren't being rude or hitting on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:25 PM
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I'd be pretty miserable sing I think. And very bored. Any time my husband takes the kids on a mini vacation I have like... two days of "yay!!!!" And then I'm very sad, and lonely, and bored. The only thing that does not get old is staying in bed with tea and books.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:23 PM
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Ebay
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:19 PM
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I've known a couple of these cases, where the wife keeps her her appearance, and them man gets very fat, hygiene gets lousy, ect. But they still expect their wife to stay perfect. What exactly do they expect?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:18 PM
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I would beg to differ. Related note : if I got divorced, I would lose out significantly because I make a lot more than my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:15 PM
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I would disagree on the cardio and calorie point. I eat two, maybe three meals a day that are small ( think half a sandwich ) and I walk , on average 15 miles a day. Still obese. Sometimes your body just adjusts. (Yes I have been to the doctor, I was told I'm perfectly healthy, despite my size. So here I am. I wear a us women's 14)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 03:29 AM
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I'm cool with passing on clout. I like my cheap leggings because if I accidentally destroy them at work, it's not the end of the world, just annoying. (And before anyone makes some stupid remark, most of the women at my job do, it's just more comfortable, along with a baggy t shirt. If I'm pulling a 500 pound cart, I'm doing it in comfort)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:23 PM
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YACHTS! Just ask Jeff Bezos
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:07 PM
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Pleaseeeeeeee. I'm the one that reigns in the spending in my relationship. I have, on many occasion, asked my spouse if he even bothered looking at the price of something.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 10:03 PM
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10/10 agree with the designer remark. The cheap ass 12$ leggings I buy last me years, literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 09:57 PM
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Hotsauce in his condom ? Yeowch. Rape no, deceit yes. It should be punishable, but that would be hard to prove.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:52 AM
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As long as I never see the sex doll.... whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 01:48 AM
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I have three dogs, four cats, and a few chickens. Doggy bags, and a litter shovel. My neighbor across the street cleans the coop and uses the poo for her flower beds. Best deal I have ever made hahaha
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/22 01:03 AM
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Be happy with what she has. Not have kids. Find a man who never wanted kids. Foster pets. Enjoy her life.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 05:11 PM
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I just couldn't even. I just noped right on out of that one.
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/22 04:53 AM
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My husband says he would have done it to take away my pain if he could have, but the idea is absolutely terrifying. He saw me give birth four times, and after our last had no problem getting a vasectomy because I told him I couldn't do it again.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:21 PM
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The beauty of labor is that you (usually) forget the pain afterwards, otherwise women wouldn't keep having babies. I remember the pain being so awful that I was begging to escape it, but I don't remember that actual feeling of the pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:14 PM
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Just as a fyi: the US has the highest maternal death rate of the first world nations. We have a serious problem here with it. That being said, having given birth for times without medication for three of them (one was really, really awful) I would never request such of my spouse, personally. The only thing that got me through it was remembering that it was going to have to end eventually, because the baby has to come out. https://www.commonwealthfund.org/publications/issue-brief-report/2020/dec/…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:11 PM
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But the only way to end it is when the baby comes out! There's no quit button in real life ( and let me tell you, every laboring woman out there wishes there were)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 05:00 PM
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They are adorable and the little gator suit made my night. Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:17 AM
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I would love some
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:11 AM
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Now I gotta go look
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:01 AM
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My week has been pretty fucked up, and thanks to the related insomnia I just read all 310 comments in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 07:00 AM
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That guy was such a puss. I was embarrassed for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:56 AM
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Pibbles are the best carpet hippos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/22 06:51 AM
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I was a housewife, I got my first degrees while my kid were babies, and now I am (in graduate school, doing for my DPH) the primary breadwinner. It became necessary for me to work, and then I became successful. Sometimes roles have to be altered. I am not a feminist by any means, just to clarify. I just got lucky, found my calling, and was very happy with my choices.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 06:47 AM
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They will tear each other apart and destroy one another if it means getting ahead. I don't do that stuff because I've had it happen to me, and completely fuck me over.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:51 AM
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My last was a happy surprise, and the pregnancy and the birth were physically awful. I wholly attributed that to my age. Getting pregnant now, at 40? Untenable.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:48 AM
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Im with you on hookup culture. I think it is inherently toxic.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:17 AM
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Having had my first at 24, and my last at 33, there is a huge difference in endurance and energy. 33 was just brutal.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:11 AM
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A good portion of women are vindictive, mean, and cruel. Particularly towards other women.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/22 01:09 AM
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If I were single I would message him in a heartbeat. He's cute, he appears to be really sweet, he's intelligent, and he follows similar dietary preferences. I could easily drop dairy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/22 05:11 AM
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My husband looks at porn, our sex life is fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:49 PM
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Not nessicarily
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 08:27 PM
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I have to say, you have complimenting down. I'm impressed. No, seriously. I don't get these compliments, I think because I am pretty ... unassuming? Quiet? A wallflower? I bkend in to the background well. My parents taught me it was better to go unnoticed, and I have perfected that well, and it's an unconscious habit at this point.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 06:33 PM
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Looking at porn is NOT cheating. Jeebus.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 06:16 PM
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Women should have the right to vote. I would also like to point out while men get drafted, women give birth, and thus provide to the governments military, even if it is a long return.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 06:08 PM
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I know there is a disconnect, I'm just saying that it doesn't happen as often as some of the people here think it does. I am almost never complimented by men, unless they are saying something about my brain. It's been a long while there, and I'm married. Yep.
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 06:37 AM
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It's so unhealthy for your skin and pores to do that (thr face spackle) I cover up my vitiligo, because in buisness, appeance is everything, but I keep wipes in my car to wipe that shit off as soon as my day is over. Because ew. I personally live in leggings and dresses in the winter, and dresses in the summer. I own two pairs of jeans, that's it, and I'm happy with that
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/22 03:06 AM
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The last time I was complimented was back in June when I was in Chicago for a work thing. It was a woman, and she was complmenting my hair. Most of the compliments I get are on my eyes, so at least I know people are looking at my face. I have pretty great eyes. Ngl.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 11:11 PM
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Reacted. According to my husband I get hit on all the time, and he agrees with you that women get hit on all the time. I am apparently too oblivious to notice
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 09:56 PM
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It's more like... women what to be the one who men pay most attention to, and that's where some of it comes it. The one gap to rule them all.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 08:53 PM
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Abridged version- I'm short, the shelves in our garage are high, the step ladder wasn't tall enough and the box slipped.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 08:09 PM
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It's true that women think that's how they need to look, but that comment about the looks and the designers was a classic.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 08:04 PM
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Compete with each other because it's all about who the prettier one is. Seriously. It's stupid, but a lot of women do it. If there is a pretty woman at a party, then all of the inherent women want to be just as pretty as her. Haven't you ever heard a woman say "Wow, she's really pretty, that bitch!" ? Maybe it's just a California/Los Angeles thing.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 08:04 PM
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See, here's I think where a huge disconnect is between what Red Pillers think and what reality is. A lot of women do feel invisible to men. There arent hordes of them knocking on our doors, asking us out, telling us how pretty we are. Unless a women is on some dating app, she's not going to be approached by men very often. The thigh gap thing is seriously a huge stupid thing, at least was a few years ago, and in the Los Angles area, a lot of my peers were obsessed with having one. I will never, …
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 07:59 PM
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Contouring is the worst. It's an awful trend. I know so many people that do it, and I feel like... dont they feel smothered? For parties and Buisness stuff I do light foundation because I have vitiligo, and I want to smooth out my skin tone a bit so I don't look like the human equivalent of a calico cat. Otherwise, on a day to day basis, it's lipgloss and a little bit if eyeshadow if I'm feeling it. Right now I'm doing concealer regardless because my stupid ass got nailed on my Eyebrow with a bi…
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 07:45 PM
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It's "woe " is me., and what I was saying was that I am surprised by this, that is all. I do not feel sorry for myself, I was just commenting that filters and such can make a person feel less than, because one realistically can not compete with that. I was saying that based on that, I feel no need to attempt to attain that because it's just not reality. I could do what some women do, and put on ten tons of makeup and massive caterpillar eyelashes, but at the end of the day that's just as fake as…
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 07:39 PM
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I watched the whole thing. I am a woman, heads up. -womens own sense of self and beauty is also defined by the male figures in their lives. My father loved "heroine chic". So I've always thought I was too fat. -I'm surprised by the thigh gap thing. It is very true that around women, it's spread that if you don't have a tight gap, you are basically unseen by men. -I'm a lot more attractive than I realized. -the filters that are used now can really destroy a woman's confidence. It has mine. There …
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 05:26 PM
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Your baby won't care. Just read them whatever you think looks cute. Chicka Chika Boom Boom was a favorite for all four of my kids, and it teaches them their alphabet. I read it to them so many times that even though my youngest is now in second grade, I can still recite the book by memory. Same goes for toys. They don't care, they just want what's fun. My older sons favorite toy was a purple cat that you could pull on a string. All of my kids (boys and girls) loved Thomas the Tank Engine. Sarah …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:29 PM
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Thank you, you are an absolute sweetheart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 03:21 PM
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Eh. My husband has told me this over and over. I'm not the thought police. I just pretend it's not a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:34 AM
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I want to hug you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:30 AM
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I'm intelligent, I have medical knowledge, I'm quiet, I'm low maintenance, a good listener, ummm. That's it. I'm basically a house plant with the mouth of a sailor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/22 04:27 AM
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I know a few men who think love is bullshit. But, I belive in it. I love my husband, I know he loves me. My sisters husband loved her until the day she died, and still feels that love for her. He carried her through terminal illness and was amazing. I think, I guess my point is, both me and women belive in love equally, but there are as many cynics as not.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/22 01:53 AM
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No, I have a husband and boys in puberty. The hormones are rampant here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:38 PM
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I live with three males. Trust me, I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:22 PM
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Both of them are high functioning, yes. My two younger ones are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:03 PM
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He is very cool. I just hope that if he does decide to date, he can find someone who really appreciates him for him, and doesn't mind his fixating. This morning I had to run him to the store before I had work so he could pick up more dowels for his current project 🤣. I was supposed to take him yesterday, but family stuff happened and it just couldn't be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 04:00 PM
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Me too. I'm always impressed, if not exhausted from hearing about it 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 07:03 AM
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He builds models using our 3D printer to create the parts. He makes some crazy cool stuff. He's just.. hyper focused? All joking about his hobby aside, I'm sure he will eventually discover girls. I was a really late bloomer too, but my obsession was reading.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 06:53 AM
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OK, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 03:31 AM
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He's not. He would tell us. The girl next door (how cliché) has a crush on him, and it's like she barely exists... until she wants to talk about trains . I only know she likes him because she was asking my daughter how to get him to talk to her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:47 AM
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They don't work at all, it's hormones that make you vomit, and it's pretty hard to combat
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/22 02:01 AM
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You have not seen is obsession with trains. And it was sort of... a joke. Sort of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 11:02 PM
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Seriously, same here. I lost 30 pounds my first pregnancy, and my subsequent pregnancies wernt much better. Each time I ended up in the hospital because I couldn't keep anything down and it was putting both me and the baby at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:22 PM
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My older boy (teen) is train obsessed and has no interest in dating. My husband and I have basically written off ever getting grandchildren from him. My older daughter (teen)has social anxiety, and (shes very pretty ) can't have a conversation with any boy that she thinks is cute because she can't help but "walk away as fast as possible" due to her anxiety. I try to encourage my daughter as much as I can, but in reality there is only so much I can do. I feel bad for her... but at the same time I…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 10:10 PM
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When there are conflicts at home it can be difficult to compartmentalize them and not allow it to affect your job, and I think that has more to do with maturity than with gender. Women tend to express their emotions more, however, and this can create an uncomfortable dynamic if they are in a male dominated career. I keep my emotions locked down, and thus I do fine, however I have been told I am a very difficult person to read.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 07:53 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 06:11 PM
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I'm 40 in a week (dear God help meeee) and I have a career, and am actually switching as of next month to a new one. I have four kids, but I honestly thrive when I have a challenge to work through.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 06:05 PM
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Why do you feel this way?
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 06:03 PM
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Fair enough. My youngest is what we call a "happy surprise!" . I was 3 months in when I figured it out (the timing was God awful) and the window was past for corrective action, but beyond her stubborn streak, she's a sweet, funny, smart little girl, and and I can't imagine life without her.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 06:03 PM
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I agree, both genders are very sexist.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 05:59 PM
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Think is fair, I've heard about a lot of really stupid interactions gone bad.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 05:57 PM
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Eyebrow pencil because mine are... lacking . Special? Sometimes a little bit of concealer if I have a blemis. Eyeshadow, eyeliner, lipstick or lipgloss. Takes me about 15 minutes, and that's only for special occasions. Regularly a little neutral Eyeshadow, and lipgloss. My cousin in law practically spackles her face. She does insta tutorials, and I can't imagine how uncomfortable it must be to wear all that crap, especially in the heat. I just get my hair wet and run my fingers through it. I hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/22 04:06 AM
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He's right. Find a positive cause. Volunteer to be a big brother, at an animal shelter, read books to people in an old folks home (they never get visitors, be a bright spot in their life) volunteer at a zoo (neat!) Do city work, conservation corps. A suicide help line (they train you), a food bank. Places the NEED you. I've done a few of these over the years. It's worth it.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 04:01 AM
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Then we will have to disagree.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:41 AM
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We are all human and we all have our flaws
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:38 AM
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Nope. I'm the only calm one in a crisis in my family, and the only one that is able to think logically and not panic.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/22 02:29 AM
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The women I know who are my age (40 in like a week) really regret not having children. They feel like they missed out.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:26 PM
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I spit my tea all over my phone. Thanks for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:13 PM
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So how do you feel about the unfairness of men having to sign up for drafting but not women?
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 09:37 PM
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Besides the risk of rape as a demoralization tactic by the enemy why do you think this?
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 08:59 PM
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So, do you belive that all fertile women should have children (I'm assuming that aren't mentally ill, or addicts) ?
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 08:43 PM
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I guess because it makes him seem super desirable or something? Because women are followers ? I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 05:58 PM
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Right? I mean why get bothered by it? I know the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:46 PM
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I would roll my eyes and let him tell whatever story he wants if that's what makes him feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:45 PM
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I've seen some bikinis that get preeeeeetttyyyy close
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:44 PM
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B) in both cases they got married, and are still togther 💕💕💕
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 04:40 PM
2

Right? I have someone I talk to that is the same age as us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:29 AM
1

For me what makes them gross is their values, Musk is kind of an awful guy. I've met wealthy men who are incredibly sweet and do very good things, and they are not gross. But Musk with his ego and the shit he says is vomit worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:27 AM
2

The anger at any woman is what gets me. It's as if every woman is to blame for every rejection they get... rather than the women that turn them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/22 11:22 AM
3

Holy shit dude, congratulations on your progress!!!
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 02:40 AM
14

I've got to agree with you on this. It's all just an excuse to make themselves feel better for "being picky" just own it that you only want the top teir looking dudes.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/22 02:38 AM
10

So why are you going after me when I haven't done either? Go find one of them and direct your frustrations appropriately.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:59 PM
16

It's a debate forum, not an advice forum. So, no, it's not. If I were in dating advice, yeah, it would be. But here we are, in a debate forum, debating.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:41 PM
16

I'm just here out of curiosity and for the mild entertainment value, also thanks for calling me old. I'm 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:18 PM
3

That is so very sweet. I am sorry for your loss, losing furbabies is the hardest.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 10:12 PM
8

This is another big one, because you are are with someone long enough hilarity will occur in the bedroom.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:30 PM
5

loves your pets as much as you do This is a huge one. Love me, love my dog and my cat, and trust me, they will be all up in your business.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:29 PM
3

Have you really looked at those dudes?.... grosssssss. Who needs tons of expensive shit when you can go to Target and find cute stuff for a fraction of the price.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 09:26 PM
22

I've been married 18 years, still works for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 07:05 PM
36

Marrying a man who brings me chocolate and lets me nap in peace. That's romantic af
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 06:03 PM
12

If my husband put a tracker on my car I would be fucking pissed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:48 AM
2

Nope! He said we weren't alike enough. That he wanted someone exactly like him , we never got serious, and I always figured it was because I was a virgin and not ready to give it up, and especially not to someone who told me he was looking for someone better than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 12:06 AM
2

One guy I dated, but never slept with. After we broke up and he was transferred to the other side of the country he called me up and asked me if I would consider marrying him. Noooooopeeeee
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 09:04 PM
1

I'm not sure. Physical attraction can start it, but if I'm talking to a really hot person, and they are dumb as a brick, it's not happening. I'm I'm talking to an eh guy and he's really smart? Panty dropper.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/22 06:52 AM
1

He is a little bit, but it's an interesting struggle because I don't buy into any of that bullshit
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 06:26 PM
1

He's very anti-reality TV, and anti romance novels. He also makes fun of the music I listen to. I just tell him to go eat a giant dick.
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 06:16 PM
2

I was just talking to my husband about women who have a new guy a week, and I said the same thing about it filling a void, and how it is an unhealthy dysfunction
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 05:55 PM
3

So what sort of person do you have to be to overcome a dragon? Well, to start, you don't run away from a small problem. You don't use the excuse that it's small to ignore it. You have a problem. You deal with it. So your husband is spending way to much time playing games. You go up to him and say "We need to talk about your gaming addiction." He'll come up with several excuses, "I'm so stress from work." You push that aside. "I'm playing with my friends, it's the only time I can socialize." You …
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/22 04:30 PM
1

Womens culture has been toxic other the last few decades. Also .. really? (In regard to the men's comment)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:55 PM
3

I am aware, but there are still quite a few dingbats who belive that it literally means loose.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 03:53 AM
1

7$ a box a target for me 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 02:11 AM
2

I just feel like wasting money on my appearance is stupid. Won't fix anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 01:01 AM
2

I have the money, I just would never do it. My hair is naturally curly, and long, so it's pretty forgiving for mistakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:51 AM
2

Holy crap that's insane. I use a pair of scissors and my bathroom mirror. I would never pay that much for a haircut.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:33 AM
4

Who TF pays 80$ for a haircut? !!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:23 AM
8

My husband thinks it's adorable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 12:08 AM
0

My husband constantly picks on me for being shorter than him. I'm not that short! I am 5'5"! He's a meanie.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 11:57 PM
4

Oh my godddd. Also hang out with a short woman surrounded by tall people. 9/10 will be bitter towards tall people.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 09:31 PM
4

Penile erosion will occur and nothing will be left
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 09:09 PM
13

Okay so, back when I was 14!!! My step mother told me that if I hung out with boys and did not put out, I would be labeled as frigid. I think that the sexual revolution has been poisonous to women's sexuality. There's too much pressure for women to express their sexuality, to wear skimiper clothes, to appear as sexual objects, ect. What happened to being the kind, accomplished, woman who's worth wasn't attached to how many men she could sleep with? The sexual revolution has been good for removin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 08:04 PM
2

We are biological beings. Like other animals, it is our goal to reproduce. Despite being completely sentient, we still feel that drive to procreate. Thus, it really could be argued that an individuals need to reproduce could easily have an effect on their well-being, regardless of the fact that they may not actually spawn.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 06:10 PM
1

Two. I mistyped replaced the w with an e. Keys are right next to each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 06:00 PM
1

I would also like to add, that my husband grew up with his mom managing the money, and his dad being oblivious. My mother in law is historically secretive, and she was diagnosed a few months ago with pancreatic cancer. She has declined rapidly, and her cognitive function has as well. My father in law realized that none of the bills had been paid since shortly after she was diagnosed, and started panicking when he got their first foreclosure notice. My mother in law has refused to give him any of…
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 05:54 PM
3

I had another paper I wrote today. It was awful. I hate finals. I sat in front of my computer for 10 hours and I kind of wanted to die.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 06:25 AM
1

I think that technology has made things more difficult, and (don't hate me) easier access to birth control. Women are more selective and careful when there is the possibility that they might get trapped with a baby. Men are as well, and this can reduce the chad effect. Point in case? I have four kids. If I didn't love my husband as much as I do, I'd be trapped anyways. Kids make it a lot harder to separate yourself from someone.
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/22 04:55 AM
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I'm just here out of curiosity. I've only had sex with two men, so no smash and dash for me. A good male friend of mine is RP and it made me curious about what it really was.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 04:36 AM
1

🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:37 PM
1

Only child 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:34 PM
3

I'm very annoyed that Microsoft Word keeps trying to swap codon for condom when I mistype. That is all. I just needed to share
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 09:33 PM
1

Ahhh okay. Thank you for explaining this.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 08:55 PM
1

Plz explain to me what alpha windowing is. I'm genuinely clueless.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 08:22 PM
2

I handed my husband my laptop to review a "short" paper I wrote for one of my courses to check to see if I made any stupid grammar mistakes. (He's read every paper have ever written, the poor man). As I was walking away he yelled "What the fuck Jen!!!???". My shortish paper is 16 pages long. On health care legislation. I'm sure he had as much fun reading it as I had writing it.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 07:21 AM
1

Ha! I'm not going to suddenly become 20 years younger (I'm 40) and a size 0. It's just not happening. I'm not what he is physically attracted to, and as a result, he's free to sleep with whom he wants, but the rule is that we (the kids and I) come first. I'm not inclined to fight, I have sex when he wants it, I cook dinner when I am home to, and for the most part, I'm not an asshole. I'm also not getting plastic surgery to satisfy his sexual needs. Sorry not sorry. Even if I did lose an unhealth…
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 02:43 AM
2

I always assume the man is going to sleep with other women. Every make I know has at some point or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/22 02:37 AM
1

Oh my God 😂
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 02:13 AM
1

He makes that choice. Every so often I end up with a captive audience, and I'm able to go over the state of affairs with him. He knows what we pull in monthly, around what's in our savings and retirement accounts, but when it comes down to day-to-day what we spend on school for the kids, food, utilities, gas, ect He really couldn't give a shit. It's not like it's a secret, my planner sits on my desk, and he could, at any time go through it and see where the money is going down to the penny.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 02:08 AM
1

It's been 18 years, I make more, the bills get paid, he is happy.
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 12:46 AM
1

No it's not that much, like 50k. He's got way more in his retirement and assets that are in my name, and honestly, as long as he promised to to fuck our kids up on the process, I would be fine with keeping the savings and letting him have the rest. Also, I am no damsel in distress, this princess can rescue herself thank you very much
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/22 12:45 AM
1

Yes, and no. It's possible to really fuck someone, and money can dissappear before the lawyer gets involved. You have to know where it's at, and the account number. He has the majority of the assets in his name, but I make more than him, so at the end of the day I would be paying more them him. You can bet your ass that account would be emptied out if he ever decided to dump me for barbie. Legally, if the money is gone, there's no responsibility to replace it by partner that yanked it before the…
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 11:38 PM
1

All of that is accounted for, bi monthly pay checks, 75 a check only amounts to 150 a month. That's nothing.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 11:29 PM
1

My husband works for a law school, and I unfortunately know how much I could get screwed if things went really bad. I don't see that happening, but I just like to protect myself.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 11:28 PM
1

Honestly? If he decided he had enough, everything is on his name, I'd be fucked. Except... I have the savings in my name. Cold, but true. I would never leave hom, but what if he decided that he wanted a younger, hotter wife?
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 11:10 PM
1

Right? But she wanted to make sure he had an out. They are upper middle class, I came from poverty.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:12 PM
2

Exactly, then there is no fight over resources
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 05:03 PM
1

Yep, she didn't want me to trap my husband. You know, the kid he asked for.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:42 PM
3

We ended up with separate hobby accounts (even though I'm more practical with mine) because we fought so much about how much he spends on his hobbies. Now it's his issue if he wants to spend a ton of money on computer parts/ tabletop gaming stuff/ whatever. My hobbies are cheap, the reality is I spend about 20-30 a month.
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 03:42 PM
2

Count me in!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:36 PM
2

Our checking is in his name, same with our cars, butbour savings is in my name. Keeps it safer
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/22 04:05 AM
1

My father in law adores me. My mother in law hates me. One of his cousins hates me. Well, she might be starting to like me after 18 years. When my husband and I got togther he had just been left by his girlfriend of six years. Always done up, nails done, nice clothes, and she was besties with his cousin ect. I moved in with him as his roommate. He had like three other girls he was fucking, and he was trying to hook back up with her. I was just the roommate, no sex. We ended up hooking up, but I …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:37 AM
1

D. Being there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 03:18 AM
2

We need a "Member of the pill anthropological Society " flair!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 01:35 AM
2

They need a pill curious flair 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:57 PM
1

About 100 I belive, depending on where it's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:58 PM
22

I'm just pill curious. Also : it's entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 04:35 AM
2

Right? I would also be fucking annoyed at the waste of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 03:01 AM
2

My kids look exactly like me, down to the ble eyes, the luckily did not get my curly hair. But I'm the mom sooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 02:59 AM
1

Ouch
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 02:07 AM
2

.... I never had a hoe phase. I considered the risk of pregnancies a d sti's and noped on out of that life marker.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 01:41 AM
2

I honestly spend my free time watching dumb shows, and I paint, sew or knit at the same time. And I agree completely about fighting for better wages, and less working hours. You have a very long an eloquent response, and I'm sorry but after a long day working and writing paper my brain is full of slop and I'm not giving you the response you deserve other than yep.
/r/AllPillDebate19/08/22 12:31 AM
1

I agree with this, I just find it interesting how there is in some cases, the need to govern what a woman does . For instance: my husband is always telling me I shouldn't watch alone ( dumb reality survival show) because reality TV will rot my brain. I have my masters in public health. I think I'm good.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 05:30 PM
1

Okay, so I am an asshole, but I feel like actors and actresses are liars for a living,and therefore untrustworthy. I agree with you , though. Like, think of only murders in the building, the artists on the show are all unbalanced.
/r/AllPillDebate18/08/22 03:25 AM
1

What the actual fuck. :Hello, Freud? We have a fresh one for you"
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 06:34 PM
1

I would disagree. In my marriage my husband controls both the affection and the sex.
/r/AllPillDebate17/08/22 01:42 AM
4

It might be because I'm older, but people tend to blend into this gender less mass for me. I don't notice people, or how attractive they are. I just notice if interactions are particularly negative or positive. It does cut down on emotion a lot of ways I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:11 PM
1

I think honestly? It's my own bias. I grew up in an area with a high rate of teen pregnancies. Most of the girls I knew had kids either before or shortly after they got out of high-school. A lot of them had an sti at some point in another. As a result, I tend to equate large numbers of partners with a lack of self control and inability to make good choices. It's me, and my bias. You do you, I gotta deal with my own judgment issues. Part of why I joined this sub was to see different experiences a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:50 PM
1

Does my pearl clutching offend you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 07:22 PM
1

No, that's not what I was saying, I'm justbsaying it surprises me is all, based on my own experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:46 PM
1

Because I'm at 2? And I'm 40?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:17 PM
6

Love is very irrational and can make even the most intelligent of people do stupid things.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:24 AM
4

Me either, and it strikes me as very insecure .
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:19 AM
4

I always am shocked when I see numbers like that tbh 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 06:13 AM
15

.... women aren't consumer commodities And why would you talk to your dad about how many men she's had sex with? Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:46 AM
1

I dunno. I think you are a cutie, and my 15 year old daughter agrees. Don't be so hard on yourself.
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/22 02:39 AM
0

Holy crap read my comments again. Calm down. This discussion is over because you lack the ability to communicate in a polite manner. You are being rather abusive. Hard pass.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:11 PM
1

I didn't give a picture, I gave a li k to the article. What are you on about.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:08 PM
0

Pubmed , national institute of health, run by the United States Government. Peer reviewed articles only.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:06 PM
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That was from the U.S. government research archives. Look at the address. It was redacted, as someone sent me a DM about and I have discussed this in the comments, your snarky comments make you look so legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:54 PM
1

I asked men what they thought about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:31 PM
1

My stupid ass can't figure out how, I tried to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:36 AM
1

Physical: hands. Masculine hands , but that aren't dirty. Behavioral... hmm. I'm not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 08:33 AM
9

Don't forget a lot of women expect a flat stomach for men under their shirts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 07:42 AM
1

That's cold
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:50 AM
1

Which is distressing and gross that women do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:31 AM
1

I know I'm an outlier, but my husband does his own thing (safely) once in a while, and I'm fine with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:31 AM
2

It was posted eariler, but thank you 😁, my whole point was just to see how men felt about this, and what they thought about how valid this might be from their own viewpoint ( would they, wouldn't they) .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:30 AM
1

But wouldn't it be better if he got sex elsewhere but stayed with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:28 AM
1

But do men see potential for this? Or does the average man feel that this is an aberrant anomaly? (I'm voting this) My view, as a woman is that if there is divorce, there likely is extra extenuating factors involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:22 AM
2

I wasn't. Read again, I was asking how men felt about this study. I just wanted discussion and opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 05:17 AM
2

You are welcome?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:43 AM
1

I would argue that, but it's a discussion for a different place.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:43 AM
3

Yes, this has been covered in the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:19 AM
1

Please tell me you are being sarcastic
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 04:11 AM
5

Insecurity, and a lack of self love and self awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:58 AM
1

I don't understand how this occurs, my husband lives for our kids. My father dumped me, but he is? Was? A horrible walking peice of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:57 AM
3

Ahhh okay 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:55 AM
12

I would disagree. My father in law is caring for my mother in law who is dying of pancreatic cancer, and she has become absolutely vicious and cruel, and despite that he still insists he be by her side and is refusing help to care for her. THAT is love.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:53 AM
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Okay, but do they warn them due to stereotypes, or actual experience in having patients dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:50 AM
1

I'm not a feminist. I was just asking a question. There was no accusation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:48 AM
2

My mother in law has pancreatic cancer as well, she was diagnosed with it just before mothers day, and it has absolutely destroyed her, cancer is vile. It's sweet how your family pays tribute.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:43 AM
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Dude, I was just asking for men's thoughts on the study, which if you read the comments, was retracted at some point. I was just curious how men felt about the assertion of this idea. I in no way lambasted men, nor did I say anything against them. I have even commented that it is easy to see how a realtionship could dissolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:42 AM
4

I can agree with that. My husband married me even though I am covered in surgical scars.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:38 AM
2

I can see that, because I guess the inability to function within a position shows a lack of competence or responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:38 AM
1

I am so sorry for your loss
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:36 AM
3

I can too. I feel like men do the outside sex thing a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:05 AM
3

I think that things like that place so much stress on a couple, that sometimes they can't handle it, and things dissolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:04 AM
-2

I have feelings about alimony. If the man cheats or abuses, then it should be given, otherwise grow up and get a job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:32 AM
2

Eh, I'm the breadwinner. But I like my job, and I appreciate not having to attend parent teacher meetings. Because I am an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:28 AM
1

I think stroke, because a person can come out of that severely disabled and may struggle to function
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:22 AM
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Wow. Good for them. "a culture has developed in which only certain conclusions are allowed ... and put social grievances ahead of objective truth" I agree with this. I feel like we have entered a culture of validation where any dissent is demonized and everyone needs to feel special and accepted, even when they chose to do things that cause self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:19 AM
1

I'm just curious what men think about this? Is it understandable, fucked up? Ect. I know of one case where the guy super bailed, and a current case where one man is sticking it through despite how awful its become.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:10 AM
4

The what now?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:08 AM
3

See, I don't understand the loosing jobs thing. Job loss happens, particularly if you work for a huge company that lays off people as soon as the economy gets shaky. They will get another job eventually. It's not the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:07 AM
-5

That doesn't show anything, its just a single statement with links to other research articles, can you quote it for me or dm me with a screenshot? I'm genuinely interested. As I said to an above commenter, it just caught my eye because when I was in my early 20s a friend of my died from a brain tumor. Her husband bailed on her and their kid about 8 months before she died, and two years later, came back and took her mom to court to get custody back. On the flipside, my mother inlaw has pancreatic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 02:05 AM
4

It honestly caught my eye because I knew a case of it happening personally BUT, the whole situation was fucked from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:38 AM
1

Why makeup ? ( other than holy shit, you don't need to fucking spackle your face)
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/22 01:22 AM
5

Not according to my husband 🤣🤣🤣🤣 (he was born in 77)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 08:25 PM
5

My dear, I am a millennial. 1982. I think, it might be because I found what I really enjoy. Most people go into college and get jobs because of the financial outcome. I fell into my career choice after starting for money, and ended up taking a slightly diagonal path after I discovered I really hate one of my undergraduate minors, and here I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 07:22 PM
1

Errr. Bodily fluid art is revolting.
/r/AllPillDebate14/08/22 07:12 PM
10

Bro, not true. I have a career, goals, and am driven. My husband makes less than me by about 30k, works from home, stays with the kids. I've never given a shit about income. It's about compatability. Dont get me wrong, we have our problems, but fighting about money, chores, and the kids do not factor in to those problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:31 PM
5

This is really sweet, and recognizes the struggle women have. I appreciate you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 06:27 PM
2

Very true. Clearly these individuals are disturbed. I would die for my children.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 05:37 PM
1

I don't know how someone could not. Everything I do is for them. My goal is to see them succeed in life, and know they are loved.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 05:29 PM
1

My girls got my artistic streak as well, so I guess it does provide value that way as well, because they rely on me for guidance.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 05:12 PM
1

What about work trips ?
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 05:05 PM
1

How is doing something you enjoy wasting your life? I love to emboider, but the most value it gives is that it puts pretty things on the walls or cute things on my kids clothes. Painting? It makes me happy : Happy mommy, happy family.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 05:04 PM
1

I can see how it would cause issues.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 08:02 AM
1

I've met guys who are convinced any woman that is in artist is, by default, batshit .
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 08:00 AM
1

Wowwwwwww
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:13 AM
2

Insecurity plays a strong role I think. Hence why a lot of wealthier men are less jealous, particularly when they are dating a woman from a lower social structure, which is the same reason she would be territorial.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 07:11 AM
1

I'm not, I'm so boring haha
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/22 05:40 AM
1

Except, probably coming back smelling like horse 🤣. There's mini horses about 4? Blocks from me, and now when they see me they run to the fence for face pets and ear scratches.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 05:14 PM
1

That's actually pretty neat!
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 04:33 PM
1

You would be surprised. Even my husband picks on me because I like to watch Alone while I knit.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 04:31 PM
3

I play video games 🤣🤣🤣 I developed that hobby long before I started dating lol.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 04:28 PM
2

I have two, 😶 Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 04:26 PM
5

Seriously, I know an engineer who makes six figures, and his women have to be only slightly shorter than him, so thin they are near anorexic and have at least a d cup. I think every woman he has dated has had a boob job.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:05 AM
5

I've met a few. It's eyeroll worthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:56 AM
2

He is just, I don't know, overzealous?
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 07:39 AM
0

What if they have only one or two friends? Vs. A ton?
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 07:29 AM
-1

He's... peculiar. Nothing particularly healthy I think.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 07:28 AM
5

They are so cute! Following them now! Also check out Sookie and ivy. Their owner makes these funny videos where she Crochets them food related hats, and then has them taste test the foods with funny subtitles.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:39 AM
3

I have not! Now I have to go look! Ollie is adorable, he does a booty balance!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:36 AM
3

You gotta follow all the doggos. Have you seen good boy Ollie or Carrots the Boston terrier?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:30 AM
2

Voodoo baby, Santeria
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:26 AM
6

I'm the breadwinner in my family. I like that I can give them the stability I never had, and leave my husband time to pursue his hobbies. It makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside. Bonus: he's the one stuck with the awful parent teacher meetings 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:24 AM
4

For reference my hobbies are : water color painting, drawing, knitting, embroidery, reading, and going on walks to pet the horses and goats in the neighborhood.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 06:18 AM
1

I know one. He was pretty successful dating wise? Popular, wealthy, but decided that he wanted to prioritize his own projects that were important to him to finish , so nah, he didn't get dumped, he just wants to accomplish his goals before he gets too old.
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 06:11 AM
1

Okay, so.... looked him up. What the hell ... ?
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 06:09 AM
3

Gotta look the dude up
/r/AllPillDebate12/08/22 06:06 AM
12

5'7 or above and 110 pounds with large breasts. Sooooo.... you want a Skeleton with tits?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 03:29 AM
2

There are just... much better role models lol
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 05:31 PM
2

We're great now, it was just a... unique? Time? Learning experience? Seriously though, she's fantastic. Hilarious kid that loves terrible puns and dad jokes. Skipped a grade. Taught herself to read.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 07:24 AM
2

I have four kids, my last child was a "happy accident " horribly timed, the result of having sex once in three months, she was a valentines baby. I didn't realize I was pregnant with her until I was about three months in. Based on circumstances I know a few people that would have terminated it, but she's a pretty neat, cuddly 7 year old ( who is currently spending her days pretending she's a wolf cub) She was a premie, born not breathing and with no heartbeat, But recovered amazingly, and amazin…
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 07:19 AM
1

I wish my husband would do it more for the stress relief alone.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 06:59 AM
3

Fair enough. Simply put I would not let my sons watch him, and would never let him near my daughters. I would lock them in a room first 🤣
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 06:58 AM
2

Contraception I think falls under bodily autonomy, but not abortion, because after about 13-15 weeks the brain develops, and imo, that's a person at that point and no longer just simply replicating genetic material. A woman should have the ability to decide if she wants to put her body though the process of pregnancy and birth, and have the ability to control her menstrual cycle, which for some women, like myself, can be a nightmare, not because of mood swings or cramps, but because of the flood…
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 06:56 AM
1

Exactly, how do you ensure a population dissappears? Breed them out, and the women pay for it.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 06:49 AM
0

Contraceptives give women control over their bodies, and everyone deserves the right to bodily autonomy.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 06:44 AM
4

Any group that takes ideologies to an extreme without forethought or logic is idiotic. Feminism, the manosphere, Maga, extreme left, religion, You name it. I belive women should earn what men do, that they have the right to vote, I belive that women deserve bodily autonomy, and that menstruation should not be treated as shameful. I am not a feminist.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 06:41 AM
2

He's a dick. I think he's toxic with his mlm, and the way he talks over people.
/r/AllPillDebate11/08/22 06:37 AM
17

This is very true. I know a few people like this, who prefer to live on their own, have non-serious relationships, and close ties with their families. They just enjoy the freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 06:29 AM
1

I am seeing that! The wobbly walls! Oh my God! 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 12:49 AM
2

I don't use it as much as possible because of how awful I started feeling about myself, and I honestly have been more accepting of me since. I'm 40, of course I'm going to have fine lines and a few grey hairs. I'm human and I don't pay for procedures. Hell, I barely wear any makeup at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 08:35 PM
9

I've noticed a lot of this when I babysit the social media for a friend's business when they go on vacation. I've also noticed the amout of people who get lip fillers is un-freaking-belivable. No one looks real any more. I think the most editing I've ever done to my photos is to change it to black and white b/c I was sunburned.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:46 PM
5

Oh my God why did you give me that rabbit hole
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 05:42 PM
10

That is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:38 PM
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I think a lot of people here use Instagram and media for their representation of the average human being. And then imagine then thinner of these people in bathing suits, I promise you most of them won't be super fit. I went to a water park yesterday and was, going in thinking my shorts and shirt were not coming off. Then I saw everyone there, and lost all self-conconsiousness about myself, let me tell you. The thin women had little tummies and cellulite, the men with fit arms had bellies. People…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:11 PM
2

My 15 year old daughter can't be bothered to do it, so I guess it depends on the kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:43 AM
1

I shave it all. Except I only shave my legs to my knees. I honestly can get away with nit saving my legs if I wanted too because I have minimal body hair but I don't feel comfortable don't that. I have almost no hair to speak of on my thighs, so it's pointless. I do love how silky my legs feel right after I shave though. But then I look like a weirdo petting my calves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:41 AM
2

I was desperate to get back to work. 😂😂😂Joke was on me, finally did it then covid hit and I was working from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 07:25 AM
1

Yeah, but at that point, what can you do? You can't force abortions, it's bad enough that states are removing that right as is. States are already burdened with a child's education anyways, every child receives a free education. As far as welfare goes .... wellllll. Living on welfare is a shit deal and a miserable way to live, but that doesn't doom the kid to an adult life of the same.
/r/AllPillDebate10/08/22 06:45 AM
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She pays the costs of being a parent. He's free from child support. He has to pay for half the birth. It's pretty cut and dry there. It's one hospital stay, one deductible/copay. Maternity visits in the US are co pay free. It's only giving birth that had to be paid for. What I'm saying is : if he does not want it, and they are in a state that allows abortion, he should have to pay her a one time fee of half of what an abortion would cost. She could use it for whatever baby expenses Then? He's of…
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 09:08 PM
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Well, then the guy needs to pay her half of what an abortion would have cost her, or if they are in a state that does not permit it, half the cost of giving birth. After all, half his mistake. After that, it's not his problem.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 08:44 PM
1

They both made a stupid choice didn't they? It's up to the courts then.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 04:53 PM
1

Ok
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 06:16 AM
1

I posted that hours ago , and totally forgot about the thread.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 06:08 AM
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Anybody in the right income bracket can get a Pell grant for college. Just saying. Also, under the ACA prostate exams and colonoscopies are free gentlemen! Also, if a man bails on his kids, he should pay child support. If she leaves with his kids, and there's not abuse involved, that's a whole different story.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 05:00 AM
1

Ummm. No. My husband is, essentially a house-husband. He wfh, and I am the primary income earner, and I am perfectly content with our situation. I did the housewife thing when our kids were little. It fucking sucked.
/r/AllPillDebate09/08/22 12:39 AM
4

There is so much truth to this. I had two back surgeries as a teen due to an injury and this group of guys called my scars disgusting one time when I wore a top that was lower cut in the back. I haven't worn anything that shows my scars since.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:24 AM
0

I really wish people would do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 04:19 AM
2

I think harsher monetary consequences for women (no alimony) and better odds for fathers to get custody would help. I know a few fathers that have struggled to get fair custody, but then I also know a few that totally bailed on their kids. I also think longer waiting periods, proof of mediation or counseling. A lot of churches offer it free.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 02:30 AM
5

I only care about my marriage tbh. I think people keeping finances separate and "paying their half" is akin to having one foot out the door already, but I think people working harder to keep it together, do marriage counseling, work through the really hard things would reduce rates. I've seen people split up over things like chores, so ymmv
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 01:57 AM
1

This is kinda wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:54 PM
5

That's fucked up, selfish and vain of her
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:24 PM
1

I'm flattered and embarrassed if anyone asks me out. It's not the norm for me, as I am often wearing my wedding ring, but when I'm not and I do I'm usually super flattered/embarrassed/ desperate to escape the situation
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 08:23 PM
1

This is exactly it. And everyone is desperately trying to get those looks, numbers, whatever. It's unhealthy. The expectations from both genders is highly unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 04:49 PM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:31 AM
3

Yeah, but men expect orgasms. Women have to ask for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 05:05 AM
2

Eh, if men have money, and look good, they don't need to exude sex, and can be lousy in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 03:54 AM
7

For women, a lot of value is placed on their sexuality. Are they hot enough, are they sexy enough? Are they dumb enough? If they aren't it's medications, surgery, diets, there's ten pounds of makeup to contour their faces, every ducking bra is a push up bra even when the boobs are so big you don't need to push them up. Men have to have sex appeal right out the door, they get angry and bitter because of what a plastic culture we have become, and how women seem to be constantly selling themselves …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 01:04 AM
4

It's toxic for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 11:17 PM
7

I took prescription iron supplements.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:49 AM
6

I have four of them, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:41 AM
8

14, because my periods were so heavy that I was severely anemic. After about two months on it, I was finally normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:25 AM
3

So they hate them for not being worthy, like it is their duty to or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:16 AM
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In same cases a shitty person is a shitty person, and you would be an idiot to miss it. It's not mind reading, it's just painfully obvious. Other people are manipulative and psycho, and you catch it the first time they pull something shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:49 AM
1

I mean, kids are fucking stupid. Survival of the luckiest? I guess? I know I did some really, really dumb shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:21 PM
1

Prettttty much. I was out wandering the desert all day, climbing rocks, digging holes, ect, but holy shit, climbing around in some of those caves unsupervised? Wtf was wrong with me!?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:55 PM
1

Not by choice. I was offered a lucrative position about 6 hours away. I'm getting a short term rental while I find a home big enough for the six of us. I'm hoping it will be for a lot less time, but we are expecting about two months. The decision was made mutually by my husband and I. I was actually the resistant one, but both he and my older brother convinced me that I should.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:44 PM
1

When I was a kid I was never home, and I am honestly shocked that I didn't get myself killed. The idea of my kids getting up to the shit that I did practically gives me hives.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 05:25 PM
1

Two of them are teenagers. They only appear when it's time to eat or do chores. Otherwise it's gaming in their rooms, the two younger ones are 9 and 7, and the 9 year old mostly plays video games with his big bother (it's summer so he can't be outside a lot) . My 7 year old is really the most "attention intensive one" but it's pretty easy to distract her. Once kids reach a certain age you mainly need to make sure they are fed, aren't doing stupid shit, and have an ear to listen to them when they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:07 PM
1

It's not like I have a choice honestly. We tried to work out every scenario possible, and this is the best option. I think he worries because I am very much a person who likes quiet, and that's something I never get. He grew up in a house house full of people and noise. I grew up in the middle of nowhere, and we didn't have TV. My tolerance level of chaos is a lot lower than his.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:05 PM
1

I'm not so sure about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:52 AM
2

Ahem, I will have you know that I am the one expected to remove the big ugly bugs in the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:12 AM
2

Wayyyy to much work on top of a full time job.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:43 AM
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My husband is anxious that I'm going to be gone for two months finding us a new home and starting a new position. He thinks that I will discover what it's like to live without chaos and dissappear into the ether. ( we have four kids, three dogs, 10 chickens and two cats). I won't dissappear, but you can bet I won't even be turning on the TV. I'm just annoyed I can't find a good yoga studio.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 02:24 AM
1

You clarified. I mean, I get what you are saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 10:02 PM
2

I was just asking because I was am trying to clarify what you mean without misconstruing. You don't need to get your panties in a wad, I just didn't want to take the wrong meaning.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:48 PM
4

I'm not trying to be insulting, is English your first language?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:42 PM
2

But if they are focusing on getting as much sex as possible, isn't that placing priority on themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 06:24 PM
5

Wait, what? This is kind of hard to follow. Are you saying that by encouraging women to be traditional wives, it's hindering men, and the encouragement of thus outs them as simps and not actual redpillers?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:32 PM
16

My husband and I had this conversation a few years ago : " Marriage is just legalized prostitution, you give her money, a roof over her head, you feed her and give her gifts, and in return the woman is obligated to have sex with him" My response was "You are a twat." Everything in life is essentially a reciprocal transaction. You work, in return you get money. You give money to your landlord, in return you have a place to live. You plant a seed, and water it, and in return you ( hopefully) get a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 01:13 AM
1

But you can never leave
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:35 PM
1

It's like Hotel California
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:16 PM
5

Yep yep yep. Socially awkward is only cute to a degree. If you are more Socially inept than I am, it's just not feasible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:28 AM
3

It really is, and you learn at the same time, which is an added bonus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 06:48 PM
3

A stellar motto, if I may say so.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:56 PM
7

My husband once asked me how I survived without texting (I was a teen when that began). "Easy, it all went to voicemail". I avoid phone calls like I avoid parties : as much as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:50 PM
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I spend an incredible amout of time on my sewing projects. Absolutely gobsmacking. So, yeah people who are really into their hobbies do. I prefer reading over TV, and I prefer watching lectures in my field or listening to podcasts for the same while I sew. Just because you are staying home does not mean you are on social media or glued to the TV. I mainly use my TV for video games, as a giant monitor for my pc 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:48 PM
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Right? And different careers attract different types of people. I work in science. At the end of the day we all just want to go home and be left alone. Hell, I get annoyed when someone calls instead of texting first.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:41 PM
2

My husband likes to be attached at the hip. Me... ? Not so much. I need alone quiet time. I am a homebody though. I couldn't imagine being with someone who needed me to be out with them all the time. I would die inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:14 PM
2

My husband always paid. We both have a side account that a small amout of our paychecks go into for hobby purchases (mainly him, he's got expensive hobbies) and gifts for each other so we can't see what's been bought. Our main account is where all bills and regular spending comes out of. I keep about 8% of each of my paychecks, I don't remember what he keeps of his.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:21 PM
1

Noooope. My n. Count is really low, never lied to my husband about anything previous. There was a few instances of hilarity when he had to explain something to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:17 PM
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It didn't. I was just commenting on the other person's reply
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 03:09 AM
0

Which is really wrong. "If you don't have something nice to say...." really applies in these cases. Penii and vulvas are a lot like fingerprints. Every one is different. There is no "normal" the average person won't have porn perfect genitalia and I think that reality needs to become more normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 09:29 PM
0

Or my 7 year old daughter. Hollllly shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:39 PM
12

It's unkind, and joking about someone's "treasures" male, or female, is never acceptable. Penis, breasts, vulva, ect. There is no reason to rip on someone for the way they were born.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 07:37 PM
1

Not the se provider, but my husband works from home. ... we hire someone to clean twice a month. Because it's just easier that way. 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:57 PM
1

Okay, that's gross The focus should be on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:54 PM
1

Hard pass. I'd rather be doomed to a lifetime of mastrubation to shitty erotica.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 04:36 AM
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I showed my husband a few of Tates videos, and he said that the guy is selling sensationalism and control. I mean, that's basically what televangelism was right?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 11:19 PM
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I know my husband could find someone thinner and prettier, I also know he prefers younger women, who are thin and small boobed. I'm none of these. But I gave birth to his four children, so I'm sure he has some emotional attachment, luckily for me. So yes, everyone is replaceable I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:20 AM
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I love this analogy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 10:01 PM
1

Oh HELL NO. Also: ew, one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:40 PM
1

Which is horrifying, and the fact that he may successfully get elected again is really depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:40 PM
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I was being a smart ass :) I really hope he's doing a lot of it as a way to get likes, instead of deluding himself into believing that tripe. I agree with you, completely.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:59 PM
6

OK, cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:06 PM
8

Because some women would gladly put up with the bullshit in exchange for the "lifestyle" he offers. Some wouldn't. I know offhand three women that would, and I know more that wouldn't, including myself. I wouldn't touch that man with a ten foot pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:05 PM
7

Does it always have to be about facts? It was just commentary. Geeze.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:02 PM
6

That still does not change the fact that his personality is odious
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:31 PM
8

Jesus. I wasn't talking about that. I was talking about brain damage from getting knocked in the head one too many times, it was a tounge in cheek comment on what a shit he is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 03:23 AM
7

My husband works from home, I work outside of the home. It works for us. The kids are fed, clean and not assholes, so we're doing OK.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:08 AM
5

"Brosciopaths" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:05 AM
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I genuinely wonder if he's such a twat because he has been kicked in the head too many times and ended up with a brain injury Ala Phineas Gage ( yes, I know it was a spike, but you get my meaning).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:03 AM
2

I'm busting up at thr bot calling out your haiku. Sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:59 AM
1

So you should either have a POS or a HMO, correct?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:15 PM
1

The same could be said for women, honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 05:48 PM
1

Are you in the US or another country?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:20 AM
1

Also, I don't know if you are aware of this, but you have to be mindful of not reducing your calories so much that your body thinks it is starving. This will slow down your metabolism even more because your body begins to hold on to its fat reserves. It's a survival mechanism so you don't starve to death during periods where food is scarce.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:19 AM
1

There are other, less expensive medications that you can try as well, such as Topiramate, it's worth asking your primary about.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 06:08 AM
0

Every teenager my older kids are friends with play video games, It's becoming more common, so you may be in luck! Or my kids are realllllly dorky. Have you played Stray yet? It's great.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:12 AM
1

It's a problem. There are a lot of conditions that are co-morbid with it, heart disease, high blood pressure, diabetes, joint problems, and so on. Sedentary lifestyles, particularly when people work from home aren't helping. The lack of vegetables, increase in high fats, and preservatives in foods, along with portion size are another issue to contend with. Many people do not look at the calorie count when they get fast food, and that one meal can easily be an entire day's worth of calories, with…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:09 AM
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I don't make much, enough to rent a home big enough for my family in California. I'm probably? A 6. I'm getting my D.P.H. I don't care about status, I care about making the U.S. a healthier place. I have traveled, but only to France, England, Scotland, and Ireland, but those trips were a lifetime ago. I'm female, but I have no illusions as to my status or appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 02:20 AM
1

Video games. I love watching my husband play video games. Sometimes I play with him (fallout76, Mario cart, ect) Anything that they get excited about. It's fantastic when someone is really into something and expresses excitement over it. My husband paints miniatures and it's really fun to watch him paint them.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:24 AM
3

See, I'm a woman, completely cold about the killing aspect, but as a vegetarian I would see the activity, for myself, to be completely pointless. I own chickens, and I've had to put them down, but unless I have a good reason, I'm not killing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:21 AM
1

Never underestimate the power of good food.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:19 AM
6

Disney adults are freaking creeeeeeeeeepy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:18 AM
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I'm like a houseplant, as long as I receive water and adequate nutrition, we're good to go. I like horror films, reading, and being left alone. If I'm at a party it's likely I've been abducted and am desperately trying to escape. And like a cat I shed everywhere, but it's Bobby pins instead of hair, so you always know I've been there. I'm also married, so that alone makes me not a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:15 AM
3

That's pretty excessive
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:46 AM
1

It makes total sense, thank you for explaining that to me!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 12:28 AM
1

I think that a person can value themselves while still being kind to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:41 PM
1

What even is a shit test. Please enlighten me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:37 PM
1

I'm a woman and I don't see men as such. What ever happened to just being fucking nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:32 PM
1

But they aren't. No human being is disposable, or should be seen as such.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:30 PM
1

What a horrible person
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 10:29 PM
1

That's just messed up. It's a two way street, if you go, she should be able to go, and if she go, the same. She sounds terribly inconsiderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:51 PM
2

I appreciate you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:14 PM
2

I've seen a few videos of him, one where's he's telling a woman he could go on a guys weekend, but his girl would never be allowed to go on a girl's weekend, and it was just revolting. I dislike the idea that women are things to be used and owned, like shoes. He doesn't treat women like they are human beings, and minimizes them in a social context. I find it a hard no for him as any kind of role model based on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:13 PM
6

Tate is pretty gross. I wouldn't call him a role-model by any stretch of the imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 09:04 PM
2

Nahhhhhh. Hormonal changes can cause this, stress can cause this, there are a lot of reasons a person might not want to have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:19 PM
5

Constant complaining, being judgemental, constant criticism. Avoidance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:18 PM
1

Right? It's like overhearing a part of a conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:16 PM
3

Sow your wild oats dude. You only live once, just wrap that shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:57 PM
1

You tube is good for something after all!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:05 PM
2

And we would cry because we don't know how to get half the ingredients
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:02 PM
2

But... are the cooking recipes good?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:59 PM
4

We are pure evil. We just hide our horns with the lie that is makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:57 PM
3

Afterwards, I heard that they tied up some kittens in a bag and threw them in the nearby river
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:55 PM
2

10/10 I like it because I get that extra 20 minutes of sleep on days that I do. .... but I don't drink or do drugs, so I don't know how relevant my response is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:24 PM
6

I mean, how can we really judge without seeing the dog?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:20 PM
3

Pikachu I choose you!!! .... sorry. I had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:19 PM
2

All you had to say was college lecturer 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:16 PM
1

Kids really do muck things up. It's a lot harder to end something when you have children to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:04 PM
3

Oh good lord. The Buisness administration for Healthcare requires a person take courses for anatomy, organic chemistry, microbiology, law, and more, but sure, display your ignorance. You also appear to belive that I would invest "scientific thought" into a debate forum on reddit. I'm not here to write papers, and you are investing a lot on some off the cuff remark about the creativity of other women. This is, to that end pointless. You simply desire to minimize me, and that displays a good deal …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:58 PM
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Oh my God, are you serious? First off? Gender studies is an arts degree, and second, I have my degrees in health sciences, specifically epidemiology studies and business administration for the healthcare field. Nice assumption there, though. Good try. I wasn't quoting, I was making a direct observation on the shelters that women had built, that is all. Reality TV shows people the most sensational elements. I thought their shelters were impressive. That's why I called them badass. Their creativit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:41 AM
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https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/13668803.2017.1367274 https://deepblue.lib.umich.edu/handle/2027.42/166123 https://journals.open.tudelft.nl/iphs/article/view/6519
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:32 AM
4

Peer reviewed articles conducted in the last 5 years ? Otherwise, irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:05 AM
4

YouTube is not a reliable source of information.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:00 AM
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Yes, because we women ruin things. Also, it says a lot about self control that men are so busy trying g to chase women that they can't advance society.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 06:59 AM
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Also if that were the case... why aren't men on Mars? Have we women mucked it up for them ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:41 AM
3

She was begging for attention. No body can be THAT stupid. I hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:16 AM
4

Have you ever watched alone? Some of those badass women can build. I am a manager, and have science degrees. I do think we would be jusssst fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:57 AM
3

I feel like this is a recurring thim a lot, about how disposable women become once they hit a certain age .
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 02:53 AM
1

Ages . Sometimes 10 minutes, sometimes up to 30. The disclaimer here is that I suffered spinal damage that has caused nerve issues, and I think it is related to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:38 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 01:07 AM
2

She's your wife not your maid 😋 (truth, as a two income family we have someone come twice a month to deep clean, and the kids have chores, but I do all the cooking )
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:48 AM
2

The short answer honestly is that if he wants to date outside our marriage, then the same option would have to apply for me. I'm not going drag overall salary made, education or any of that crap into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:17 AM
2

I never said she had to cook or do laundry 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:16 AM
1

Well.... will she make me coffee and clean my house?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 10:16 PM
1

Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 04:19 PM
3

Straight up handmaids tale shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 01:07 AM
3

I've always just based it on social circles and observations. There's always that one woman who has a new boyfriend every week, or that guy that tries to hook up with anything that has two X chromosomes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:36 PM
1

Peer-reviewed evidence plz.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:34 PM
1

I'm done with the internet today. No. That's a lie. I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 08:33 PM
3

I do, and when grocery shop, I make her pay and do the interactions. She's also in therapy twice a week and has been for years. In a lot of ways I'm really thankful that she won't go anywhere without us, because no teen pregnancy or stupid choices! We've told her than the best, smartest thing to do is wait until she's 200% sure, because it can be a disaster. She knows how horrible single motherhood was for my mom and what it cost me as a child. I'm hoping college will help her, my husband is pus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 02:36 AM
3

My eldest, who people tell me is quite pretty, I have a feeling will be in your same position, because at 15, she can't even order a sandwich without whispering it to me so I can order it for her. She's painfully shy, and homeschooled ( social anxiety and an inability to speak up) so here we are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:57 AM
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Seriously though. No one wants to hear me ramble on for hours about embroidery, knitting , or the fantastic way new paints and colored pencils smell. Keeping up on popular media had saved my social interactions at work functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:15 AM
3

Oh dude, I choked on my tea. Thanks for that. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:12 AM
5

Massively obese (300+ pounds) and a revolting entitled personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:10 AM
1

You mean unfortunate?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:06 AM
1

A lot of people marry because they love each other, not because they want a mannequin on their arm, and for those people, there is always plastic surgery.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:03 AM
1

He's perpetually baffled by a lot of the RP ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:06 AM
1

Yep. He was ehhhh and then he whipped out his big giant brain and that boosted his looks by 10000
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:46 AM
1

Uhhhh we left the house? No. That's a lie. I met my husband in 2004 on the internet. I would have walked on glass barefoot before I willingly left the house to do more than go to school or work.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:44 AM
8

And rub it in. Because I... I mean we are jerks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:40 AM
2

My husband's a cat person and now I will torture him with this . Thank you .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:30 PM
1

I AM A HARDCORE DOGPILLER! Jury is out on the rest 😁
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:08 PM
1

I WIN THE GAME!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:02 PM
15

Ever since I told my husband about the phrase "Riding the cock carousel" whenever I pet a strange dog he makes jokes about me petting the dog carousel. So, thanks for that. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:18 PM
1

Next time she does something naughty, ask her why she feels the need to do so, then report back. My 7 year old girl, after being asked why she felt the need to tape little colored peices of paper all over her bed after being sent to her room : "well, what else am I supposed to do with my time?"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 07:05 PM
1

Until they learn to argue with you using logic, then it's just crazy making.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 05:19 PM
2

They do exist, and there are quite a few
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:08 AM
3

It really is a cost. I set aside school for a decade, and then restarted it once my kids were old enough to keep themselves occupied for more than 5 minutes at a time.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:07 AM
5

I think a lot of women feel that with the current state of reproductive technology, they can afford to wait and live life "free" a little longer but I also think that they don't understand the realities of ART. I also think that the older women get, the harder it is to date because the pool shrinks, so it becomes a circular problem. I had my first at 24, but my close friend had her first at 35 (ivf) and her second at 38. Another friend ended up freezing her eggs at 43 because she still hadn't ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:55 AM
1

Elon Musk is a revolting human being and I question the sanity of the women who breed with him. I don't care how much money he has.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:49 AM
1

I dunno. Smart men are hot. Please outthink me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:48 AM
1

Not California lol. Alaska has some really nice people, and a lot of women take care of themselves, BUT there are fewer women than men there.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:47 AM
3

I mean, I appreciate the honesty and I know a few women that would run towards that no problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:45 AM
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I think it has to do with waiting to have children for women, and the rate of inflation causing many to feel as though they simply can't afford a child.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:44 AM
2

My cousin has too, it never works out for him. He used to work, but his muscles and bones have degenerated so badly that he can't work any more and never leaves the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:42 AM
2

I feel like a dick saying this but.... take a couple of college classes in art, because women tend to go for the art classes (the dick part is doing the gender generalization) but, you might also learn some cool new skills in the process. A community College class isn't awful cost-wise, and you aren't dedicating yourself to anything. I have medical science degrees. Don't do those kinds of classes, there aren't many women there. The higher up you go, the less women there are. Unless you do nursin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 07:57 AM
16

Cult. A cult leader
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:38 AM
16

Broke from all the kids he's gotta pay for 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 01:29 AM
2

18 years here, he likes super thin small boobed girls, still not insecure. It depends on the woman I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:52 AM
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I send my husband pictures of chicks I think he would would like. I'm only offended if he finds something that's hilariously wrong and doesn't share it with me so I can have a laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:44 AM
1

My daughter has a type. The first boyfriend she had was really well off and tried to control her treated her like she was replaceable, ect. My husband and I ended up sitting her down and telling her she needed to really re-think how he was treating her. New guy is absolutely amazing, super sweet, loves to share research articles with me. Respects her for who she is. I like him a lot better. He's more middle class. She was really swept up by guy a, but guy b started as a friendship and ended up r…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:33 AM
2

I shouldn't have laughed at this, but I did. My cousin is too, and while he's not a virgin, dating had always been a huge struggle for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 12:28 AM
1

Jeebus. There are too many instances in this world besides single mothers that occur. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:31 AM
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That's not it in the slightest. I'm all for doing whatever you want, but I know quite a few people who have made some terrible choices, no idea who the men were but the use of the sex and the reasoning was just very unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:27 AM
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I feel like, people took the idea of being sexually liberated and used it as an excuse to fuck anything that walks without too much judgment. Both men and women, rather than using it to be free from shame for enjoying sex, and having sex within the bounds of a relationship, but not necessarily a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:44 PM
11

I think in a lot of cases people mistake being sexually liberated with making poor choices
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:36 PM
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I'm 40. Blip on the radar. It was just the sheer amout of Grey hair I realized I had that came as a shock. Apparently it started when I started graduate school and my husband and kids didn't have the heart to tell me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 05:12 AM
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I have a career, and it's not a competitive one, no one really is in my line of work unless you are looking for some kind of notoriety, and most (like me) dgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 04:53 AM
1

I definitely do 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:27 AM
3

My husband is more attractive than me IMO 🤷‍♀️ So I can't really adequately comment on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:11 AM
2

Fair enough 🙂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:57 PM
6

But on the bmi scale you were totes a chubbo, ask any Chad 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:56 PM
1

Because people get really pissed over the most inane and random shit on the internet dude. It's dumb as hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:55 PM
1

It came off as angry and embittered. Bolding or italicizing would work better without size change to keep tone less... ragey?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:42 PM
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Your choice of font sizing and bolding would say otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:08 PM
1

La should not be a qualifier for what's "hot" I work there, and pre-pandemic lived there for ten years, and let me tell you how fake some of those women are. It's all clothing, body shapers, tons of makeup... even freaking eyelash extensions. Barf.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 08:01 PM
3

I think that's there's a huge emphasis on numbers sometimes though. Even at my thinnest ( I am 5'5") I weighed 150 and worse a size eight, but my boobs are so massive that my weight was still what some of these people would consider a problem. I weigh more now, and my numbers still don't match up with dress size... because tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:57 PM
6

I mean... that's fair
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:38 PM
2

Anyone who wears patchouli is a hard no from me.Ick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:36 PM
2

Same here! The reality is, life happens and at some point he's gonna have to take over for bit for whatever reason, and man will it be a painful wakeup call
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:09 PM
2

It really is, and I wonder how well some of these men would handle it the first few weeks of a newborns life when nothing gets done around the house because there's a baby stuck to your boob and you are sleeping every chance you get because you are a slave to that tiny humans schedule.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:51 PM
2

Did I touch a nerve?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:48 PM
10

My husband makes less than me, it honestly was never a thought for me. I just ... adored him. He's funny, smart, and loves animals. My dog liked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:27 AM
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No, Jesus christ. You made it sound like you were looking for a housekeeper with sex, more a job description than anything. I cook for my family, I make the most money, and we don't argue about who does what because if we see a mess, we clean it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:15 AM
11

But what's with the need to keep the woman beneath you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 06:09 AM
11

This is what I was thinking, where I live many households are two income because the cost of living is absolutely revolting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:59 AM
9

Was annoying and a nag. Why wouldn't chores be negotiated, and the better cook.... do the cooking? For example I make more than my husband, but I'm still the cook because... well no one wants to eat his cooking. Trust me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:58 AM
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I live in California so 60k is like... pocket change 😂 and yes I accidentally got caught by my well meaning auto correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:56 AM
1

But wouldn't you be able to figure out if she did that shit while you were dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:54 AM
4

But I'm saying if they want to be in the arena with career women, why not place themselves there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:47 AM
9

Okay, but why submissive, and how much would one have to make to reasonably accept a 10?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:46 AM
6

So, why wouldn't men try and go to school or some such?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:44 AM
1

Yeah, I can generally orgssom just fine on my own in about 2 minutes flat. Super efficient. No man needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 05:32 AM
1

Duff Goldman
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:45 PM
1

We are not underwear my dude
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:01 PM
1

🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:00 PM
1

Thank you for this 😭😭😭😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:46 PM
8

Number 2. Better ltr material.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:42 PM
2

It's a bullshit move, and my response is generally "you are only punishing yourself, more quiet for me" and if you know me... you know I like quiet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:40 PM
1

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:14 AM
1

I guess, imo that's he's down with being her first? But also looks down on women for their sexual history. It feels weird and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:14 AM
2

Right? Because ew otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:08 AM
2

I gotta pubmed this shit tomorrow b/c that's crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:05 AM
1

Thank you for this
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:51 AM
3

Hello yes I love you 😍🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:40 AM
2

I genuinely appreciate this. Like seriously. So much anxiety here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:32 AM
1

I'm moving without my family to a short term lease 8 hours away by car to start a new position, and find us a home to live in. I've never lived by myself, and I'm really not doing well with leaving my husband and kids, being by myself, and it's leaving me with so much anxiety that I'm only keeping it togther with work and school, and I haven't been able to even make a decent list about what I will need with me to live and keep me occupied on my days off, besides school and sleep. Thank you for c…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 06:26 AM
4

Ahhhh, thank you for explaining this to me, I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:30 AM
3

Plz explain pair bonding. I genuinely have no idea what this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:23 AM
3

If a man smells.. warm? And clean? Yes please. Scent is like...... 1000000x a big thing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 05:21 AM
1

That was kind of my point, it will end in disappointment for them. I've worked my ass off for my career, and I will never feel regret because I did all that on my own ability and hard work. I actually (am probably in the minority here) never intended to get married, or have kids, but here I am haha
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 02:41 AM
1

I think that in some cases the men who complain, also support it too, which also confuses. It's the great porn conundrum
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:41 AM
1

Which is just mind boggling, because really, so what? It's men that pay these women. Get the fuck over yourselves, and move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:18 AM
1

I mean, how many of these women are actually making this much money really, and of these women how many are saving for when they are past their prime? Looks do fade eventually. I doubt these women are really considering this. I went to school for a very long time, and still am in school and work long hours on top of while raising four kids with my spouse, but I dont hate these women for making more than me, its just a different path they took. While these women are doing bizarre and sexual thing…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:32 PM
2

It just frustrates me that there's this idea that it's up to a woman to treat her cookie like it's the holy grail and men are encouraged to treat their dicks like the town bicycle. Like.... what happened to a nice happy medium? No one wants a damaged light Saber and no one wants a moldy cookie.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 10:39 PM
1

It feels like that, and there is a huge double standard there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:03 PM
2

It was so hard to write those responses by candle light, how did we do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:35 PM
1

My husband's elderly dog 110% only gets pet when she deems it permissible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:33 PM
1

I agree, if a dog is scared of their owner, something is up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:31 PM
2

Unclean homes are really gross, even more so with a pet, but I think those same people are generally Unclean anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:29 PM
1

Dogs can be really gross, I'll give you that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:28 PM
1

Oh that's yucky dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:27 PM
1

My husband's cats smell lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:27 PM
1

Okay, I'll give you the pet hairs, but dogs I don't think smell. Cats are kinda awful though
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:52 AM
2

Seriously though. So many women don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:37 AM
3

Self experimentation taught me how I can orgasm lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:16 AM
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Do you find pet owners attractive? Like dog owners that love the shit out of their dogs go up in my estimation 100% . No idea why.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:16 AM
1

A need to purge? I have never done this, I would be mortified 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:13 AM
0

🙄🙄🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 04:15 AM
1

But here's the thing - I don't give a shit. My head is not in the sand, I just don't fucking care. I care if my coworkers and subordinates think I am doing a professional, good, and fair job. I care about the emotional and physical state of my family and my pets. I care that I am doing a stellar job in graduate school, I really don't care if people think I am attractive. I'm only fucking my husband, so only his opion matters, and when I wake up first thing in the morning, even his opinion is nul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:54 AM
1

I mean the whole rate me thing, and if randos on the internet found me attractive. My husband thinks I'm a 10, but dude, he's biased and way wrong. What I'm saying is that I'm beyond having strangers rate me on the internet, I don't need their validation for my self esteem, or to validate my thoughts on interactions between genders, simply based on how hot I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 12:07 AM
2

Ehhhhhh. I think this is a depends on the person thing. My husband has a much higher libido than me. Most of the people I know in relationships are the same with men and women. My libido is also very conditional and mean and can end up in the gutter in no time flat, regardless of own feelings on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 11:10 PM
3

Right? I wasn't even BORN in the 70s!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:33 PM
2

Oh my God I got married in 2005 you brick
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:32 PM
3

And he thinks I am, so there you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:29 AM
2

But why tf would I care if other people found me attractive ? My husband does, and that's all that matters. Again, married, mom, career woman. As long as my appearance is neat and clean, I'm good to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:58 AM
4

Ha! I didn't appreciate my looks when I was younger, it's my biggest regret . I hated myself, but looking back I didn't appreciate what I had.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:40 AM
1

It really is, which is kind of amusing, kind of not.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 03:37 AM
2

Jesus christ dude, run like your ass is on fire. Poor guy, how was he raised?
/r/MensRights14/07/22 03:16 AM
2

Thanks! I think my fam will love these!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:53 AM
9

Because I still can look at social situations objectively, as well as be able to give input regarding the interactions between men and women. Last I checked this was the ppd, not the singles only debate forum relating dating habits and mating behaviors of individuals who may be of suspect attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:33 AM
2

Where's the recipe yo?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 02:11 AM
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That women dress and wear make-up mainly to attract /for men. Bitch, I bought that 45 dollar stranger things MAC lipglass for me, not because I wanted some Chad to think about my lips on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:27 AM
8

I'm a 40 year old mom with four kids. I'm a little bit "old" to be playing games games like rate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 01:08 AM
3

It really is. She was getting all sorts of shit about how his family felt about me from his cousin, who she was besties with, and then would leave comments on my blog about what they said seriously got very close to ruining our relationship. There's a lot more, like how she tried to force him to make me move out of his place, and other shit. It was really over the top.
/r/MensRights13/07/22 02:44 AM
3

(Woman here) My husband's ex, who broke up with him after five years, stalked me. She found out from his cousin that he was seeing someone new, and it was... special.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 08:52 PM
2

I meant porn! Damnit! Although I suppose pork is a good euphemism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:04 AM
2

I'm a chick and I like pork, so cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:47 AM
1

6 inch French bread, fresh mozzarella, tomato, easy spinach, olives, salt, peper, toasted plz
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:46 AM
2

Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:44 AM
8

Or just buy a few sex toys and figure that shit out your self
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 03:44 AM
3

Ew.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:41 AM
3

I work a job that I'm pretty eh about, but drive myself to kick ass at, and am working on my graduate degree so that my husband can stay at his non profit job that he genuinely enjoys. It's good to have marketable skills that you can bring to the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 06:17 AM
3

Why when you can just be self sufficient?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:32 AM
4

I do think women should get a good education. What happens if her spouse loses his job, dies? Divorce? Never gets married? You always need a backup plan.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 05:04 AM
2

Women place a shitton of pressure on each other and themselves. I got over this around the time my third kid was born. My husband and I had a ton of conflicts about household duties for the first.... 12? Years of our marriage. Then he got laid off of work, and I started working outside of the home (making crapall) and he was responsible for everything he said I should be "spending 10 hours a day doing" and he got his ass kicked with running the kids to school, our younger boy to his medical appo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:33 PM
1

I wish I could hug you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:24 AM
2

My eldest is in a therapy program (autistic) and two days a week the parents have to attend therapy as well. You know what the counselor constantly expresses? That men and women are different. They deal with their emotions differently and handle stressful situations differently. Based on my husband and my boys compared to my daughters and I? Oh boy is he right.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:30 AM
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I kind of feel like there is a double standard there, particularly when it comes down to how many people a woman slept with, versus how many people a man can sleep with. I don't know. If I were in the market and got asked how many people I've slept with by a prospective suitor, I'd end it there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:05 PM
5

Ehhh. I don't think so.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:37 PM
1

I get lonely. My best female friend is 2 hours away from me, and has this massive insane schedule. We only text, and I miss her. I speak to my brother and an old high-school friend. I only see my brother a few times a year when I fly up to see him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 06:26 AM
1

I'll keep my fingers crossed for you because doing that shit SUCKS. And the anxiety that goes with it is hot garbage
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 05:05 AM
1

What kills me is they expect people to come up with that, that's like shit you gotta save up for. I'm only able to do it with minimal agony because of my moving stipend. How is your average man or woman be able to do that without roommates who could fuck you over.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 04:03 AM
2

Oh that's no lie right there. A man sexually abused or physically abused as a child, or adult? I'd be shocked if he wasn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:27 AM
2

I'm close to that soon. It's work reimbursement, but what a 600 mile move and a short term rental, plus first, last, and security will cost on a place for northern california? Stomach churning.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 03:02 AM
3

Some women are rightfully afraid of men. Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:59 AM
1

Gag. Hard pass. I would be so uncomfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:38 AM
11

I don't hate men. Am I distrustful of them? Very much so, but I have reasons that don't really relate to the whole pill debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:37 AM
1

I do, but thanks for that advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:31 PM
2

If my husband and I ever split up or he died I would never date again. The reason is simple, I got lucky with him. My mom (starting with my dad) had a series of relationships with sexual predators when I was a child/young teen. I don't trust my past enough to bring any new unidentified element into my kids lives. Hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:27 PM
1

Drop the pill and go ask your sisters and mothers how they want to be treated by a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:23 PM
5

I tell my boys all the time to not let people treat them like trash, but shitty people come in both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:19 PM
4

Bro, men can be too. That's not reserved for just one gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:15 PM
13

I've heard it, myself, and I find it extremely cringe-worthy. How would these same people feel about having their rights removed in the same manner?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 08:22 PM
1

Oh you don't want that rabbit warren.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 04:08 AM
1

Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:58 AM
1

I don't get it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:56 AM
1

Nope. Not doing this with you. Go bark down another hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:53 AM
1

Jesus christ. I was saying that he was using empathy as an excuse. Not that it was "too much for him to have empathy " arguing with you is like arguing with a damn toddler.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:39 AM
2

Your grammar is suspect. As was your meaning, and your comprehension is lacking because I in no way stated that he has too much empathy. I said he was using empathy as an excuse for his lousy logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:28 AM
2

You are not making a modicum of sense. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:19 AM
2

What evidence do you have of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 03:08 AM
2

Are you trying to say I have no empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:56 AM
0

If it's been proven time and again that the earth is round, why do so many people think it is flat? Dude, I have no idea, I just know that you have quite the agenda laid out there for those that bear the xx chromosome. It's a serious amout of vitriol for an entire population of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:48 AM
2

Ugh. Fine. I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:43 AM
0

Oh boy is it. I'm still pretty convinced you are a troll.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:43 AM
2

I would be indifferent. I'm not there for the possibility of sex. I'm there because I was obviously kidnapped and would be too busy looking for a means of escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:39 AM
0

I was here first!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:35 AM
2

Yes. It is. I think you are using that to excuse your poorly thought out logic and spew anti-women rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:34 AM
1

Dude, who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:25 AM
5

But this is a debate forum. Not a "spreading awareness forum".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:24 AM
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"You absolute fucking pinecone" I have no idea who you are, but I think I'm in love.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 02:18 AM
1

That is terrible, I'm so sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:22 PM
1

My husband got laid off from a big entertainment company, and it took him a year to find a new job making half of what he did. I didn't leave him, I got my associates and bachelor's in less than three years and now I'm working on my masters. Despite him having more degrees than me I make quite a bit more than he does now. A woman should pull her and her love up, a child runs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:38 AM
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My husband cares. Most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:28 AM
2

Um why?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 04:43 AM
5

That's adorable and sweet. I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:20 AM
3

I'm bi. Soooo. Men : taller than me. Not hard, I'm 5'5". Slightly muscular. Must have nice hands. Facial hair is icky. Women : not grossly obese. Shaves. Most of my preferences have to do with personality, so it's hard to say what I'm attracted to physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:51 PM
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Every time I talk about trying to loose a few pounds my children wail in distress (two are teens) because I won't be "soft" any more. Even the animals lay on me. I'm at the point that I equate thinness with personal space 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:45 PM
2

Out here they are minimal, but there are still places to walk, but also not a lot of cars
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:27 PM
1

Yeah, and don't forget that there are sidewalks. Fancy invention, those.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:34 PM
1

I just gagged
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:05 PM
2

They already are. Which is why I don't buy them. (Honestly, they are my favorite. )
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:51 PM
5

I live in a rural area of California, plenty of room to go outside and freaking move, still a good deal of obesity in the younger generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:34 PM
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I find this post kind of gross, but I can't argue that obesity does seem to be a bit more of an issue than it should be. I think a lot of this has to do with a whole generation of kids being attached to screens, and parents that don't unplug them and shove them outside. (I'm 39).
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 04:22 PM
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Sexual incompatibility. Also if she won't go down on you she can't expect you to go down on her. Everyone has their "thing"
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:22 AM
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Emotional. If a guy can't make me laugh, I'm not interested. I rather go with the less attractive guy that has a great personality than the eye candy whom I have no connection with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 09:44 AM
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Non threatening, attractive . Slightly muscular, but not crazy built because that's scary. Dresses well.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:02 AM
6

Woman here chiming in : M-f: Get up,shower, sometimes put on makeup, do homework, wake up kids, feed kids, do more homework, do work ( I work from home), make dinner, watch TV or Play video games with my husband, sew or read a little, bed. Weekend: wake up, shower, work, and work on homework at the same time, make dinner, write end of day work notes, eat dinner after my family, sew a little, pass out early because I'm exhausted. (I'm not including the constant cleaning that comes with having fou…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:41 PM
1

I'm over here getting my emboidery on
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:27 PM
3

My insta is my dog too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:26 PM
13

Seems like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:05 PM
4

I once saw a beater peice of shit truck truck in my home town that had a bumper sticker that said "no fat chicks" . It was hilarious, but pleasing to known their likelihood of breeding was minimal. I think standards vary, some men have very high bars for the women the fuck. But, same goes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:04 PM
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The issue here is finding the groups you jam with so to speak. My husband and I found each other on a forum about vegetarianism. We tossed back and fourth some playful insults about being introverts in pm and started talking, swapped pictures and then met up all within the space of a month. I honestly didn't know what he did for a living until after he asked me to move in with me, so we had been togther a while. I read somewhere that the problem with certain cultures, is that the first thing peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:04 PM
5

By that logic he could unintentionally knock up any woman he porks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:11 PM
2

It's the same amout of bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 07:11 PM
1

Okay, first off Napoleon was a cunt, fuck that little peice of shit. Second: yes we do have preferences but you have to understand that if you are a 300 pound man you aren't going to get a barbie doll. (This is an extreme example). I think by saying "all women want...." guess what? "All men want...." it works both ways. Being a nice guy, who is good with people, and treats others with respect goes a lot farther than a dude bro who thinks everyone should bow down to him or some skinny dweeb that …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 06:28 PM
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Bitch should be there for life.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 10:16 PM
2

I feel like it is disingenuous to blame just a single gender, while men are the most visible recently due to the Judge that drafted the dissent, I have known plenty of women who were brutally unkind about anyone who chose to have an abortion for ANY reason.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:44 PM
2

It really shouldn't be. It shows kindness and heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:12 PM
3

Men are not responsible for this mess, the conservative right are, and that's made of both genders. <I am female >
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:52 AM
0

My mom went for garbage too. Made me hate men, and I was super wary. Not much of a bc on my part. Then I met my husband. He's a good guy. I'm lucky. I got hit on a lot as a teen, I still do on occasion and I've had four kids. What got me was his big heart and love of animals. He had a lot of trouble dating, which always surprised me because he's pretty great.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:40 AM
1

It really depends on the woman. Shallow girls who have a lot of growing up to do go for that shit because they weren't taught better.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 03:27 AM
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I honestly, as a woman find the princess mentality vomit inducing. Stand up, get your shit togther, and rescue yourself. Pretty is nice but you gotta fight your own dragons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:44 AM
1

I feel like... if they don't make the effort, they aren't worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:34 AM
1

And diamond a personality can find you another diamond. You just gotta get that pickaxe and do a little dirty work.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:19 AM
1

I know a lot of people aren't wired like I am, don't get me wrong, but I know some that aren't. In a world of coal you gotta be prepared to mine for the diamonds
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:15 AM
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I'm not talking about appearance, I'm talking about personality in the case of men. If you are a dick, you won't get much, if you are nice, and not a whiner, you will get a lot. It also has a lot to do with what you are looking for, I don't know a lot of women who are down for for the fwb or fuck buddy situations, most women I know want ltrs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:30 AM
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I think the issue here is that these men go for an "8-9" appearance woman when they are a "2" on the personality scale. I don't care how hot you are, if you are a dick I won't fuck you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 09:38 PM
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Guys who get excited about seeing dogs = super wholesome and attractive. I think it's more about having your shit togther than being all broody. No one wants to deal with a mess. I'm in graduate school, in my late 30's and I have stuffed animals. Ymmv. But then I love dogs. I went to Chicago recently and pet SO many dogs. I was in heaven.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 08:19 PM
2

Nahhhh. It just depends on your social circle my dude. I got married at 22 to a 27 year old man. I have a few female friends who got married in their early 20's. I have another set of friends that I gained when I was pregnant with my first (long weird story) and the women didn't get married until their 30's and 40's. In the case of my husband and I it was a "when two introverts collide" situation it's worked well for 18 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 07:02 PM
1

Personality has A LOT to do with it, and I think that a majority of men complaining that sex is an issue don't realize this is a major roadblock.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 04:16 PM
1

She should get life, and sit in jail until she dies just reflecting on her poor choices and shitty morals.
/r/MensRights27/06/22 08:59 AM
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Girls on their level. You get what you get, and you don't throw a fit. Smarter , less slutty men get similar women. Slutty men get women who aren't looking for a relationship. It is what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 03:57 AM
1

I think it depends. I've even met below average get plenty of sex. It depends on your attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 02:38 AM
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I don't know For both men and women, I wasn't physically attracted to them, but their ability to make me laugh is what did it for me. I see people that I'm like "oh they are cute..." but I don't approach them over that, because the whole person matters more to me. .
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 07:48 AM
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I'm happy, and so is my husband. I know that my friends husband is super unhappy too. They have split up and gotten back togther 7 or 8 times. It blows my mind. I think, honestly it's more about two genuine people finding each other and that takes time. A male friend was 36 before he found "the one " and they are the happiest couple I've ever met. He is a blue collar electrician. It's all about what you look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:28 AM
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I do know women who have married for money, no doubt about that, at let me tell you : they are fucking miserable, and so are their spouses. My best friend from grade/hs did that, and it's just a trainwreck.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 03:19 AM
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I married a regular middle class man, and worked around a lot of doctors, some who asked me out. I found that my regular guy was a really wonderful, kind man, and those doctors just wanted to hear themselves talk. About themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 02:31 AM
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