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I kind of see your point. The last few days I got back to just laughing at everything and not taking stuff so serious. At one point in my journey, I had RP principles internalized, but what I learned is coming back from betaization is kind of like being a recovering addict... Relapse is always a real possibility, especially in the first couple years. I only post when I'm in a bind, but what I've found is posting the embarrassing stuff (I know it's anonymous so it shouldn't be) nets me the greate…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/17 05:47 AM
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Yeah, I think there's a subgroup there for sure. I have read ex-addicts stuff. I read a lot on here but don't comment a lot. Usually I post when my head is all tangled in knots and I need help getting stuck out of the mud. Your post was the first one where I could completely relate, but I was left wanting more; the solution part of the story
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/17 01:48 AM
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I just think you're onto something there that can help a lot of guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 05:40 PM
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Rewrite it, but include more of the solution. I think that's why it didn't go over so well... And change some of the lame names. Otherwise I think the story has potential if you refined it a few times. I guess it depends on how much effort you want to put into it
/r/MarriedRedPill26/09/17 01:47 PM
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Hey Buddha was 6 ... Once
/r/askMRP26/09/17 02:05 AM
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Funny, right after I read your reply I said to her"oh I hope I can handle you this weekend in the love shack. I have a feeling you're going to be a handful." She smiled big and started squirming a little and said "baby, I'm very bad.' I have a feeling this weekend is going to be out of control. edit Had sex right after I replied to you
/r/askMRP26/09/17 12:32 AM
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When's part 2?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 07:11 AM
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B+ since it's based on me
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 03:41 AM
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I read it. This lie she told was huge. Don't want to go into details. You just came across as a lil butthurt yourself bro. Reread what you said. Haha Anyway its neither here nor there. I got my head straightened out, and shit is back on track. This place really works when you're stuck in the mud.
/r/askMRP25/09/17 03:29 AM
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Ok name calling aside, you left because you caught her in a lie unrelated to cheating? But anyway, not all your shit is golden on here + do you have the balls to post when you fuck up? Oh wait, I'm sure you never fuck up. Dick.
/r/askMRP24/09/17 10:30 PM
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I didn't catch her cheating or anything related to cheating.but it was a huge lie. If I do it, the timing has to be right too. It's not right now for various reasons.
/r/askMRP24/09/17 09:22 PM
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She had a good reason for the phone number. The guy needed a ride, and my wife and her boss picked him up b4 work - I verified it.
/r/askMRP24/09/17 09:19 PM
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She knows I am
/r/askMRP24/09/17 09:18 PM
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Lol
/r/askMRP24/09/17 09:01 PM
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Kinda
/r/askMRP24/09/17 08:54 PM
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I wish it was that easy bro. In some ways I've made a lot of progress, but if it is gaslighting, from what I've read about it, rather whole point of it is you don't know your being gaslit, and it happens slow and subtly over years. I can tell you this. Everything was great For many years, then I caught her in a very major lie (not cheating). It's been all downhill and distrust on my part since then . I never thought once that she would cheat until I caught her in this major lie
/r/askMRP24/09/17 07:12 PM
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Is it possible that this woman actually has been gaslighting you for quite some time and you are losing it This is what I need to figure out
/r/askMRP24/09/17 06:04 PM
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Yeah I've been there and I slipped big time
/r/askMRP24/09/17 04:44 PM
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I think she's way too smart for that. If it's happening it's with a coworker on a high level like her who's probably married also and communication is in person or subtly over company email. Not sure if a keylogger would catch any of that but she does check Emil on her phone a lot
/r/askMRP24/09/17 04:17 PM
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Fair enough. I guess I just wanted some warmth even if it was fake, being out of town with limited options. Intimacy is probably not the right word
/r/askMRP24/09/17 04:14 PM
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After fucking 3 times how did you have the energy to go lift? I'm middle aged but been working out for 30+ yrs. it wasn't even slightly an issue When she says you can’t handle me, it means she wants YOU to fuck the shit out of her. I did
/r/askMRP24/09/17 03:39 PM
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good point. Prob not a shit test
/r/askMRP24/09/17 03:24 PM
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I've only been to a titty bar twice in the last 10 yrs. I'm in a city where the club lines are 3 blocks log... And the happens to be a tittle bar next door. As far as running away, the advice I always see on here is when she's being shitty, remove your presence
/r/askMRP24/09/17 02:56 PM
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You should be happy your wife is even letting you fuck her 2-3x a week bro. A lot of guys here, they aren't getting that, and they are working way harder than you Yeah that's one area where I didn't have to work that hard... Was already at 1 time per week pre-MRP, and I've always lifted so... It's my frame that got so betaized over the years.
/r/askMRP24/09/17 03:46 AM
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That's the big thing I did right last night. I STFU. Just left and went to a titty bar, and never said a word. Must have done that right cuz we fucked twice and I ate her out today. She cummed 3 times today. I cummed twice. She was talking about fucking the 2nd time before we even left the restaurant at dinner.
/r/askMRP23/09/17 11:17 PM
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Thanks. This helps
/r/askMRP23/09/17 11:15 PM
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Yeah similar but I didn't feel like I could put it into words like last night
/r/askMRP23/09/17 11:13 PM
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Yep fucks me on the reg. I'm surprised sometimes. She cums every time her body quivers like a tornado. Not bragging, just a fact. The sex is good.
/r/askMRP23/09/17 08:42 PM
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Trust but verify. I've looked into the keylogger but every time my concern is getting caught installing it. The risk seems really high
/r/askMRP23/09/17 06:46 PM
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Ok that made me smile
/r/askMRP23/09/17 06:42 PM
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I've had that thought
/r/askMRP23/09/17 05:21 PM
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Strangely it worked and I felt better
/r/askMRP23/09/17 05:21 PM
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You are still caught up on the Blue Pill idea of love. This occurred to me about a week ago. I thought I let that go so many times, and my BP hope keeps bubbling up.
/r/askMRP23/09/17 01:41 PM
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Repeated accusations of infidelity are enough to kill a marriage I'm starting to wonder if the damage is already done. But I don't think so because we're still having regular sex
/r/askMRP23/09/17 01:17 PM
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your idea of dread is going to the strip club No I had real passive dread at one time. I've gone so far backwards. I need to get refocused
/r/askMRP23/09/17 01:09 PM
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Holy shit. I'm that guy
/r/askMRP23/09/17 08:28 AM
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Damn dude AWALT. She did you a favor by getting you pissed enough to get your balls back. Never forget that moment
/r/askMRP23/09/17 05:18 AM
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Damn dude, she was blatantly cheating. Well, at least you woke up. I'm interested in hearing about you leaving? Was there a main event?
/r/askMRP20/09/17 02:33 PM
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Maybe to hide his past posts... But what do I know
/r/askMRP20/09/17 04:50 AM
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Why did you change your user name? There are some benefits to keeping the same name to track progress.
/r/askMRP08/09/17 10:27 PM
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That made me laugh when I see how rediculous I've been acting in writing
/r/askMRP13/08/17 12:43 AM
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I packed my suitcase, and she back pedaled quickly
/r/askMRP13/08/17 12:37 AM
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I lift. It's my frame that's been weak lately.
/r/askMRP13/08/17 12:36 AM
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Wow. Thanks for that insight
/r/askMRP22/06/17 01:43 AM
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Yeah I started to, and I stopped myself, said lets just drop it. Then, we moved forward
/r/askMRP21/06/17 11:53 PM
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That's what I needed to hear. My emotions are out of whack, on about 4 hrs sleep
/r/askMRP21/06/17 10:58 PM
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She travels often. I've had some suspicions with some time frames, but usually she can explain them with things like unpacking, took a bath etc.
/r/askMRP21/06/17 10:51 PM
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Unfortunately, by your reaction, I think it got under your skin because there was a grain or two of truth embedded in the remark? You nailed it here if I'm being honest w myself
/r/askMRP24/05/17 05:56 AM
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I defused the whole thing, and everything's good. I realized that she's stressed from work, so I simply asked her about work, and she let the steam off and then told me how much she loves me. I guess i am improving. Thanks for your feedback.
/r/askMRP04/05/17 12:37 AM
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So far, so good. She's back and I maintained frame very well. But, she's got that look like some testing is coming. I've been doing this a minute, and I know her look before some angled shit tests are coming. I'm going to have to maintain frame, and i actually have a couple errands I need to do as a backup ( leave and come back with a smile, of course).
/r/askMRP04/05/17 12:00 AM
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She did ask if I was pissed that she left early when I talk to her on the phone, and I just replied I'm fine. I think what I am going to do is play around a little bit and tell her that I got rid of one of her favorite things on accident. Then when she starts to get a rise out of burst out laughing because it will be funny
/r/askMRP03/05/17 11:42 PM
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Good call. Didn't think of that approach
/r/askMRP29/04/17 03:55 PM
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Touché
/r/askMRP29/04/17 03:53 PM
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I kinda did some of that later. I genuinely started chuckling when I thought about how butthurt he got, and of course she asked what I was thinking. I told her I was amused at how butthurt he got.
/r/askMRP29/04/17 08:55 AM
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I didn't cancel it - owned it. Had sex with my wife a couple time that week. Thanks for you input!
/r/askMRP27/04/17 06:15 PM
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I got a black eye patch for 1.99 at party city Thanks mate
/r/askMRP16/04/17 02:37 AM
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Great info . Thanks
/r/askMRP24/01/17 03:31 AM
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It was all torn up at delivery. They had to stitch her up. She told me that this morning
/r/askMRP24/01/17 01:08 AM
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Good idea. I threw that by her earlier, and she was open to the idea
/r/askMRP23/01/17 09:37 PM
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The pussy is essentially a big muscle. It's loose if it's weak. This is essentially what her gyno doc told her at her last exam; that the walls were extremely week and ordered her to do a shit ton of kegels per day. She probably only did a third of the prescribed amount, and that was only for a few weeks. Honestly, I'm starting to wonder if I want to stay in this marriage if she doesn't want to put in the work to keep our sex life healthy. The dialog is still open, so I guess I'll take it in bab…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 02:28 PM
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Wow great points. I have to be careful of being too coddling. She has one of the most busy weeks of her life thls week (literally) and that's why I was going to look into the Dr, but not as I contemplate, when she really wants something she finds the time. But like I said on another comment, the kegels results were limited. She did say that during childbirth there was a lot of tearing, so that obviously could limit the kegels effectiveness. But, I told her in the meantime that she should start d…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 02:00 PM
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You might try actually reading BPP's post; he talks about during sex. Yeah she was doing that and I noticed a difference. I asked her about it this morning, and she said "I still try to do that. " But I've been doing some research and sometime kegels just aren't enough if it's torn too much. So even when I noticed a difference, I'm not sure it was a huge difference. Your point is valid though, especially when you added: Are you really worth putting in the effort for, yet? That kinda stung. Usual…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 01:53 PM
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her gyno actually tole her to do kegels. She did them for a couple weeks, and I did notice a difference. She has a hard time with self discipline - sticking with stuff like that. It's weird because she's a beast at work / top 5% successful, but when it comes to consistently working out, eating right, or doing kegels she never follows through long term. I don't care about the working out/eating cuz I find her extremely hot in a voluptuous way, but her personality is just that way. That's why I wa…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 07:05 AM
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Yes, I realize the comfort tests will be coming. But, one thing I noticed already is she almost immediately started mixing in a few shit tests - mostly requests for me to do random stuff that she can do herself. I did a couple things, and put a pretty quick stop to that. I'm not going to open that again. I also realize that my initiation/success rate will go down, but I plan on initiating less until the surgery / healing. So, it's a probably a short term hit, but long term it's a big gain as lon…
/r/askMRP23/01/17 06:14 AM
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I appreciate your comment, but all that has been covered by the other replies. My main take is be indifferent to shit tests and STFU or use AM/AA and act pleasant when she's not shit testing. I handled a comfort test with her the other day, and we are back on track. I've concluded she is not demonic, but more along the lines of AWALT. I'm doing me now, focusing on dread and starting a new career. I've made strides getting out of her from since the main post, and I plan on continuing MAP, living,…
/r/askMRP03/11/16 06:31 AM
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I did realize that I was pretty much agreeing with everything. But at the end of the day I'm going to take some of it and leave the rest behind. By the way, I'm always the first to pick what they want in the restaurant - just for the irony. But you're right I'm brand-new to this RP stuff after a betaization of many years so I'm gonna have to chew the shit out of this
/r/askMRP31/10/16 08:58 PM
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My fantasy more or less revolves around this year freedom but some fresh pussy couldn't hurt
/r/askMRP31/10/16 08:35 PM
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Thanks I always appreciate real life experience to help
/r/askMRP31/10/16 08:34 PM
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Hard to argue with any of that
/r/askMRP31/10/16 08:23 PM
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Sounds to me like the answer is obvious. Don't. guess i just needed to see it in writing. She is going to hem and haw and use guilt tactics, but i have to do whats best for me.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 06:10 PM
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I do have kids but they are older. One is in college, so I'd like to stay close to them, but the relationship. Sometimes i wonder if its worth al the work when I could be banging 20 yr olds. I seriously had a early 20 yr old chick go out of her way to hit on me the other day in a department store. I think the wife might have seen it too.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 06:09 PM
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Hmmm... deciding what you want to do, and then doing it? What a radical concept. Sounds like a great place to start The tricky part is we only really see each other on weekends, and she wants to do other family stuff on the weekends too. So yeah I'm in her frame due to the circumstances. On one hand if I go off and do my own thing I basically won't see her at all since we really only have the weekends right now. On the other hand if I go along with her plans, we hang out with family or I should …
/r/askMRP31/10/16 05:25 PM
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I've thought about it. I found myself fantasizing about Splitting the assets and breaking off.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 05:19 PM
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OK I'm not sure how to interpret that LOL
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:59 PM
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You are right. I can see that, and she has even alluded to the fact that I should do something that I'm passionate about. And you are both right
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:59 PM
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That's exactly what I needed to hear. Or see. That kind of answers my question about whether I should go on her business trip this week. I need to do me, and going on the trip would just put me completely in her frame. She's going to shame me because of the cost of the plane ticket and how I am I don't want to spend time with her and Yada yada yada
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:57 PM
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This tells me that I might need to get a little more drastic, or at least more stern
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:50 PM
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I have never seen a woman respect her man when he does not work, and to a large extent, make more money than She does seem to respect me a lot more when I'm working, and this is the first time I've ever been unemployed in our marriage. To get to her level of income has taken her 20+ years, and she is in the top 5% of income earners. That's a pretty depressing thought that she might not be able to ever fully respect me since I am nowhere near getting to the levels where she is. I just have to sta…
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:47 PM
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I'd sure like to hear exactly what the main event is. I actually kind of viewed this as a mini main event though, so maybe I should have tagged it that way . or maybe it wasn't even that
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:42 PM
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Good point. Maybe she was just in a mood for a day or two, she's actually been pretty cool lately. The biggest issue is she seems to plan the whole weekend with Other family stuff, and then we get one day together every weekend. I'm thinking that maybe I need to do some social stuff during the time she's doing things that I don't want to do with family, or don't need to be there
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:39 PM
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Dripping sarcasm lol
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:36 PM
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Wait a few hours. Then give a thumbs Good call . I just gave the thumbs up almost 4 hours later. Seems like nobody wants to touch my question about whether I should go on the business trip or not. But my RP instinct tells me to stay home and take care of business and social life
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:36 PM
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Great. She got the cup. Who cares if she's pissed she didn't get it before? This is an area that I have improved tremendously. I used to be her fucking errand boy. I was getting really good at the whole leaving thing, and this thread has really made me realize that I need to get back to that. When we set those BS rules, one of them was can't leave. She must have realized that that was working so well for me . Damn these chicks are fucking smart and crafty LOL. Oh well, lesson learned. I'll get b…
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:31 PM
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Sometimes you can say where you're going, sometimes not. Then leave. She will try to shame you for this. Ignore it and leave. That's where I failed some. Allowing her to shame me. I started off strong with this leaving. just as I was getting very strong at this, she said the rule that we can't leave during a dispute. I fell for it. SMH
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:24 PM
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Not a bad idea
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:20 PM
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I told her straight up that it feels good being a man and there is not heeling wrong with being masculine. But I DEERgress. I know... Needed to see it though
/r/askMRP31/10/16 04:19 PM
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You're not trying to be great, you're trying to find ways to impress your wife and get better sex. That's fucking pathetic. Just work on being a better you. Oh man that hit home. But really I've view sex as a symptom of how the relationship is doing, but maybe you're right. Maybe I need to See it as a symptom of how I'mdoing.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 02:14 PM
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That's kind of what I was doing yesterday. Every time she got bitchy, I would go take off and do stuff upstairs or go for a ride. I was getting really good at that for a while, and I let her trick me into setting a rule that we shouldn't leave while we are in the middle of a dispute. So, I kind of backtracked there . I guess I just need to get back to leaving the situation without getting into it with her.
/r/askMRP31/10/16 02:00 PM
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You're probably right. I'm probably not putting nearly enough weight on the unemployment aspect. I need to at least start putting forth some action plans and moving towards something productive
/r/askMRP31/10/16 01:57 PM
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Tagging along on your wife's business trips and her career, brutal. Pretty much And stopping hanging your hat on her comment about you enabling her career success I think on one hand she means it, but mostly she's trying to control me. Like I said, I started seeing the dread after I started developing my social life… Come to think of it, that's when the sex was really good. Then, when I started doting amon her and going on her business trips the sex started becoming a starfish in the excuses sta…
/r/askMRP31/10/16 01:53 PM
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That means almost nothing. She had nothing else to do so she texted you. It was about her seat, not you, not the two of you. Stop looking for meaning where there is none. Yeah I'm not going to reply. She actually said something the other day about how she couldn't have had such a great career if it wasn't for me, and she kind of thinks of me as a housewife I think. I'm starting to think fuck all that shit. She wants me to get a job so that I can have flexibility to be able to travel with her so …
/r/askMRP31/10/16 01:32 PM
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Does she have any redeeming value that balances this small event... or is this a constant thing that can't be balanced? She does. Things are mostly good but we seem to have one of these mini events every couple weeks. She ended up coming back to bed, and we kind of hugged it out. After your comment, I'm not sure if I did the right thing or not. I just got back from the airport a little while ago, and she texted me some nice comment about how she got a good seat on the plane, followed by two hear…
/r/askMRP31/10/16 01:11 PM
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OP, read this and absorb it like a bad sunburn Yeah it burns
/r/askMRP31/10/16 12:55 PM
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I agree, but there has to be some give sometimes too. Here's my current dilemma: she springs on me that we are going to "the aquarium" this Sat so we can take pictures of her son proposing marriage. In my head, I'm like WTF do I need to be there for. But, there's a trade off where I get to plan the whole day Sunday. But she's got Sat night planned too. So, I migh say fuck the aquarium and go to see my daughter during that time since its been a while. I feel like she's always got plans for every …
/r/askMRP27/10/16 05:52 AM
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I think I got myself a good one, and I don't want to screw it up. I'm thinking it's fear-based since I've been cheated on and over and over since the age of 15.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 08:39 PM
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I figure all I can do is give her the benefit of the doubt and work on myself. If something is amiss, it will come out sooner or later
/r/askMRP26/10/16 08:35 PM
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< Hahaha dude take a reread of your post. IF you're not a troll this is fucking pathetic. TEST HER PANTIES? Jesus. You say you read but you haven't internalized a thing. You are completely reactionary. GET IT THROUGH YOUR SKULL: If she is going to cheat...there's nothing you can do about it. There's nothing Brad Pitt can do about his girl (yeah i know). There's nothing Chad Thundercock can do about his girl. It's just your turn...and you will go on living an awesome value filled life with or wit…
/r/askMRP26/10/16 07:33 PM
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That's the thing. After reading this thread, and seeing other people's comments in my comments, I no longer think she is looking elsewhere. I've just been a big fat pussy and her frame. Today is a new day and my eyes have been opened .At the risk of sounding like a pussy, believe it or not, this is been so eye-opening I feel like crying right now
/r/askMRP26/10/16 07:28 PM
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I know I need help. I started seeing a counselor, but she was shitty so I only went one time. I'm not making excuses. I need to find a better counselor ASAP
/r/askMRP26/10/16 07:26 PM
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Lol fuck that was just a wake up call. It's so fucking pathetic now that I think about it
/r/askMRP26/10/16 07:25 PM
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Thanks bro
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:30 PM
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I have and it always checks out. But she could easily get around this by leaving her phone in the car / i fucked up and she know I track
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:30 PM
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How much that cost?
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:27 PM
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Will do
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:24 PM
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I'm kind of there, but I want my suspicions proven.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:23 PM
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Pretty sure I look Hawt , and fuck her right (due to RP) But mission and Abundance, need work for sure
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:21 PM
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Love this , thanks
/r/askMRP26/10/16 04:19 PM
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Yeah great point . I keep fucking up by getting caught checking her stuff and jumping to conclusions. I just need to STFU
/r/askMRP26/10/16 01:59 PM
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I've seen a change for a while now, but no conclusive proof
/r/askMRP26/10/16 01:55 PM
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I needed to read that
/r/askMRP26/10/16 01:54 PM
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The things you're using to conclude this are the higher frequency of showers and a calendar entry of catching up with Joe. In most marriages, that would seem thin. You must have other reasons to suspect adultery. A lot of little things, too many to mention
/r/askMRP26/10/16 01:08 PM
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I get it, but I'm not there yet
/r/askMRP26/10/16 01:04 PM
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Here's the truth - she makes a shit ton of $, and my job sucks right now. But I could do pretty well splitting the assets, and yes I know I can get better pussy. I get ioi everywhere
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:59 PM
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Nope . Maybe I should be more proactive. I wanted to get evidence first
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:57 PM
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Wow that was comprehensive. I could start with the recorders
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:56 PM
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Yeah I need a lot more work, and I knew what you said, just have to internalize it
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:35 PM
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If she's taking the bone from ol Joe, you'll know when she gets home How will I know?
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:34 PM
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That's my thought. I noticed she recently opened a google app with has incognito mode, but it could be just a side benefit of the app. What's a good keylogger?
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:32 PM
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I've thought about an investigaor - it's tough with joint finances. I'd file immediately if I found out after getting an attorney
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:30 PM
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On being errand boy fir her and her family, become unavailable - don't Rambo boy sending up signals that get her and her family's hamsters rushing into overdrive that you have suddenly become a dick good polnt. Guess I just have to take leadership where I can. I hate being told the weekend schedule, but I have been working around her schedule pretty well, and I don't want to become inflexible
/r/askMRP26/10/16 12:29 PM
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Sex was really good during her last ovulation. Rough, and often. Good point. But she had an ablation so I'm not sure if the 28 day cycle still applies. Seems like it does. But this ovulation sex is more of a recent think as I've unplugged and become more alpha.
/r/askMRP26/10/16 10:24 AM
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No, but I'm considering it. I have checked calls and text records thoroughly but haven't found anything. Wondering if she's using another method. I don't see any of the normal cheating apps on her phone, but I know there's a lot of ways. When I called her one time recently, there was a ring echo - sounded like the call was maybe being forwarded What is the best keylogger for iPhone?
/r/askMRP26/10/16 10:00 AM
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Who is she dressing like this for? Hint: It isn't you. Oh, I know. She's always kind of dressed that way though. I think she likes the attention from guys. But, the padding has gotten more aggressive, and the shirts tighter. Before TRP, I confronted her on it a few times, and she says it's for other women. That's a textbook BS answer though, and I knew that even Pre-RP.
/r/askMRP28/09/16 02:53 AM
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If she is cheating (and for the record, I think that she is), it's a near certainty that they met at her work, and that's how they are communicating, i.e., her work phone. WOW. This is EXACTLY what I was thinking. I made a huge mistake pre-RP telling her I tracked her phone one time, and a couple times at work she has disappeared for a couple hours. One time it happened while an important pick-up of a relative was happening, and I thought it was really weird that she didn't have her phone with h…
/r/askMRP28/09/16 02:50 AM
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During the week, she commutes to another state to work. She comes in on Fri and leaves Mon morning. So, technically we have 2 homes. I go there for about a week every month. BTW, she has invested in a tripod "for our FaceTime sessions." I'm very seriously considering installing a hidden camera in her bedroom "over there" the next time I go there.
/r/askMRP28/09/16 02:47 AM
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I know. I've thought about that. I made a HUGE mistake early on when I told her I was tracking her car, and I asked her why she was in a certain area. I should have never told her that. I've made so many mistakes by accusing her of stuff I had no evidence of - I'm not doing that anymore, but she's smart as hell in the first place.
/r/askMRP25/09/16 12:42 AM
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The Facebook thing is pretty concrete. The thing that sucks is I've see all of those other symptoms, but no concrete proof. I don't know, maybe there isn't any - it's possible. One day while she was home, she was upstairs locked in a room while she thought I was sleeping. When I opened the door with the butter knife, she jumped out at me and got aggressive about how she was working out, and it was embarrassing to work out in front of me. She was still in her lingerie. I thought that was strange …
/r/askMRP22/09/16 05:46 PM
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I appreciate this. I guess MY surprise visit didn't allow her to clean up her evidence so same day I find out she's seeing someone else. What was the evidence you found? Just curious because one time I did show up a day earlier than she expected, but it wasn't a total surprise. But, I specifically asked her if she had any lingerie in the place, and she said no. I checked her drawers, and she did have one piece of lingerie in a drawer. She said that it was stuck in her bathing suit, and she forgo…
/r/askMRP22/09/16 05:21 AM
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Then you will either find that you were right, or that you are a little creepy. That would be good to know, right? Agreed. But what are you going to do if she is cheating? If you find the truth you have to own it. I'm prepared to face the truth. It would be over immediately if she was. Buy you're right, I don't have a lot. I'm leaning towards a voice activated recorder if anything. I probably should do something just to put my mind at rest.
/r/askMRP21/09/16 02:49 AM
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That seems a bit extreme to bust a n $800 phone
/r/askMRP20/09/16 05:10 AM
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I've seen some of those, and I'm considering them. A smoke detector might work - anything else, she'd get suspicious. She's smart as all hell.
/r/askMRP20/09/16 05:09 AM
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I have chicks half my age eying me all the time. I'm close to 50. Wife is overweight, but she has really big tits, and I see guys looking at them all the time. I'm sure she does too - she wears padded bras on top of it and tight shirts. So, SMV value? It's always easier for a chick to get laid, but I believe my SMV is pretty good. My day game is decent.
/r/askMRP20/09/16 05:07 AM
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I'm considering this
/r/askMRP20/09/16 05:01 AM
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I would have a long time ago, but she'd see it come out of the account
/r/askMRP20/09/16 05:01 AM
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I've thought of both. My concern on the recorder is if it makes a clicking sound when it goes on. I even researched hidden cameras - was thinking an air vent, but I obviously don't want any lights coming on or anything. Anybody know of a safe voice activated recorder or hidden camera I can buy from a store (cash - no paper trail) ?
/r/askMRP18/09/16 01:14 AM
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Yes
/r/askMRP17/09/16 01:41 AM
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Why were you not home? I was out of town
/r/askMRP16/09/16 09:51 PM
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I know what you are going through Nf it's tough but you can get through it. We are all here to keep you from fucking up too much Yeah, I don't want to fuck up, so I'm trying to STFU. I'm thinking I need to up dread and see those results before getting an attorney.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 04:30 AM
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Get there, it doesn't matter. None of this matters. If your woman is not filling the void you need as a compliment to your life move on. I would never live a life in fear, I never have. Death comes for us all, I will never sacrifice one of my good days walking on eggshells. There is someone out there for you to compliment you, your life and your legacy. Find it! You now owe me .50 internet cents for this peptalk you Fag! I like your attitude, but you didn't have to call me a fag. Now I'm butt hu…
/r/askMRP16/09/16 04:26 AM
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Maybe use a keylogger or something. She's smart enough to not use her phone. She is very intelligent, especially now that she knows I'm suspicious. I fucked up there. Again, I have no direct evidence though. It's been haunting me for months though. It could be just my hamster.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 02:53 AM
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Does she have apps on her phone that could be used for cheating convos? Apps like Snapchat or Kik? Nope - I've checked very well The smartass in me would want to amp up the "whore" thing. Like come up with something even more insulting and derogatory, and really pile it on, just to watch the reaction. I like this, but I may have already beat a dead horse.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 02:52 AM
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Trying to control another person is a fools errand. You need to attract her into not cheating, as opposed to controlling her into not cheating. That's what I've been working on. But, if she has in the past, it's still over. That's a deal breaker for me.
/r/askMRP16/09/16 02:50 AM
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Do you care? Accept the reality that she isn't yours it is just your turn. Always be prepared for it to end. Anything! Job, you could get fired tomorrow. Relationship, she is likely sucking someone off anyway, you haven't found it. Your Life, yep that too! I wish I was there Or you could just bitch out and hire a P.I. and cry to her after you catch her...... Actually, I'd be relieved, and I'd move the fuck on
/r/askMRP16/09/16 02:49 AM
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Violence? Against a guy who just wants some pussy? What is wrong with you? It was just to see her reaction
/r/askMRP16/09/16 02:48 AM
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I've stopped talking about it for the most part
/r/askMRP16/09/16 02:47 AM
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Nice recovery!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/09/16 06:32 AM
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You're not owning much here buddy. Did you ever stop to think that your marriage could be much better now if YOU had MRP years ago? It takes time. She has to learn new behaviors also, and you need to lead by action and example. WAAAYYYY to much engagement here. A simple, "when you are ready to discuss this as an adult, let me know" would suffice. Anything beyond that, walk out the fucking door and find something better to do... something you have built... something within your frame.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 05:22 AM
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Get her the cake, and don't eat any if having a small piece will tempt you to gorge. You have much work to do grasshopper. Keep reading. Keep practicing. You will make mistakes - don't beat yourself up - just stay on the path and learn your lessons. My wife is overweight, and I am in great shape, and quite frankly, I don't give a damn because I like juicy women. In any case, focus on what you can control... yourself. Don't make a point of it if you don't have cake, just do it. Actions speak loud…
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 04:47 AM
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