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There is nothing wrong with enjoying cleaning :) I think I like it because its relaxing to me and I like seeing the finished piece. I don't have any twinkle lights hanging up but that is a cute idea. I like to have dim lights/natural lighting. I think it makes the house feel warmer.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/16 01:47 PM
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I can't stand to watch TV anyone. It's 90% shows with the husband being an idiot and the wife brow beating him constantly. Or its about a single woman who can't find love and is giving up on men. Can't I just watch a show with a man and woman in love :)
/r/RedPillWives12/06/16 04:58 PM
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And the funny part is I remember Lana Del Rey catching a lot of flack for her music videos showing her being overtaken/weaker than a man.
/r/RedPillWives12/06/16 04:55 PM
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Oh man my hobbies are all over the place. My mom always gardened when I was younger. Flowers, fruits, veggies... she was very good at it. That hobby carried on to me - I love gardening and working in my flower bed! My mom was also an amazing cook and she shared that with me. I enjoy discovering new recipes and cooking. I'm not much of a baker so I try to avoid that when possible because it never turns out :) I also really like doing my nails with acrylics. Its something I find relaxing, girly, a…
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/16 04:50 PM
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The fact that he follows TRP is a big giveaway. That and the fact they already have a child together. He's probably thinking, what's the point? We're together and have a family, why "complicate" things with a marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/16 03:46 PM
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I know, I'm happily married and have BPD :/
/r/RedPillWives08/06/16 03:43 PM
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Seriously. When I got together with girlfriends in collegw, we talked and complained about men. I'm happily married and have nothing to complain about. I don't miss those years at all
/r/RedPillWives10/05/16 05:05 PM
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This is very similar to what happened in my marriage. I have major depression and BPD - for maybe two years I put my husband through the ringer! I took all my anger, frustrations, anxiety, and everything all out on him. God bless him for being so patient...anyway, things didn't get better between us until I started working on myself (doctors, medication). I think you both would benefit from a very open conversation and you getting self help. I laid everything on the table with my husband when I …
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/16 05:03 AM
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Fancy :) thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/16 04:57 AM
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Oh duh sorry. Earls 20s, married, together 5 years. Please :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 11:09 AM
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I had an old one that said Redpill Woman :)
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/16 03:25 AM
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I wasn't a banned user but I just want to say that this change has been very refreshing! Welcome ladies :)
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 09:25 PM
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I've started taking a closer look at this list lately! While my weight is okay, I wanted to do more things that my husband would enjoy and that up my game. I make sure my hair is good when I leave the house, I started getting brazilian waxes (more personal)..really the little things that make me feel more put together make me feel more like a woman.
/r/RedPillWives04/04/16 09:20 PM
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"oh that would be nice if we went to see them in a concert together" I'm going to piggy back off of this. Maybe you're drinking a coffee, or you see him eating whatever, try mentioning a local restaurant or cafe to him. "You like coffee? Have you tried such and such cafe?". That would open the door to mention how'd it would be fun if you guys tried it together.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/16 04:23 PM
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None of these traits really matter in the context you are talking about. Do you have hobbies? Oh God all kinds of YES. Just because you're a pretty face doesn't make you a good rpw. You could nag, make him feel less like a man, sit on your butt all day long. You need to sit and think about what YOU bring to the table. If you make him look forward the coming home every day.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/16 01:07 AM
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These break my heart. So many women once they have babies, put their children before their husband. They neglect his needs and everything revolves around babt. I really want to be a mother but my husband will always come first. Our marriage and our love for each other was first and is my biggest priority.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 02:02 PM
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feminist activists make a living off of finding issues Oh amen. I'm pretty tired of extreme feminists making everything a big deal.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/15 07:58 PM
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You're a side piece to him, nothing more.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 09:24 PM
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Bahahaha. I have a new job. My old job never gave me time off when my husband was in the hospital it was always a fight when it came to FMLA. My husband is much healthier now thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/15 10:50 PM
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I think in regards to femininity, it is what you make it. I worked at a correctional facility for two years and it always surprised people when I told them that because I'm a fairly feminine person. I don't fit the typecast i suppose. I think cj type women get a rap for being masculine. I ended up quitting that job because it was very demanding and took time away from my marriage. I never got time off and was working overnights. It was dangerous and stressful. I knew that going in to it...but on…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/15 09:01 PM
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You referred to my comments (vibrators =/= permanent damage) as "hearsay" , so I gave you the evidence I could find supporting my hearsay :) And the topic was vibrators damaging sensitivity, you replied that it happened to you with casual use. So I assumed we were talking about damaging sensitivity since YOU said it happened to you in the same chain of comments.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 10:33 PM
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http://sexuality.about.com/od/sexualhealthqanda/f/sex_question38.htm I'm on mobile so forgive me. There haven't been many studies directly looking at the impact vibrators have sensitivity positive or negative. Some studies show when people held vibrating objects for 30 minutes there was a temporary change in sensitivity, but not permanent. There's no research showing permanent damage though. Have you heard of Russian electrical stimulation? Its a machine used by occupation therapists where they …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 04:59 PM
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I believe they have proven that's a myth. You'd need to use it constantly, I'm talking all day long, to damage sensitivity.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 01:13 AM
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Prior to when my dad and I made amends, I'd easily get upset with my husband. I'd belittle him pretty often - it's what my mom and dad did so it was what I was "used" to. When my dad and I worked through our issues and I looked back at the struggles my dad dealt with and the good things he did for our family, things improved with my husband and I. I dont want to end up like my parents, always bickering about little things. My husband is not my father so I need to keep the two memories (attitudes…
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/15 05:06 PM
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That is a very good way of looking at it, thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/15 03:38 PM
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Yes yes a million time this. I had much anger for my father due to his alcoholism and issues he had. It did reflect it my relationship with my husband which wasn't fair to my husband AT ALL. But when I finally was able to forgive my father for his disease and help my father, I was able to move on and help myself.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/15 03:37 PM
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Reading comprehension isn't your strong suite is it?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 05:44 PM
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Do not blame your father or past for the way you are. I had a rough childhood and it'd be much easier to write things off as "daddy issues". But it's not your dad/parent's relationship making you act or react the way you do. It's you. It may influence how you see things, but it's time to break the cycle and be your own person in your own relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 05:03 PM
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X2 on the makeup. If she's running around "no don't look at me I don't have my face on yet!!!", I think that's much worse than if he were to see her without makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 05:00 PM
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Perhaps you missed the part where I said I'm married? shrugs My husband does diffuse situations, he's a pretty passive person. But if someone threatens harm on me (which has happened) he does stand up for me.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 04:57 PM
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I've only been married about two years, but I was giving great advice by a friend who has been very happily married for almost 30 years; marriage does take work. Don't come in to this thinking it will always be the "honeymoon phase". You'll have ups and downs-learn to work TOGETHER don't just give up or think you can do better. And like the others have said, never stop dating your husband. Treat the 1st year of marriage, 10th year, 30th, and so on like you did when you first met- make him feel s…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/15 06:02 PM
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That's where I'm at on this. Now, I'm not expecting my husband to go Jackie Chan and start kicking people's assess. But I'd be a little, I don't know, embarrassed? Concerned? If all he did was move me over and say "Oh pardon us, sorry!"
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 01:24 AM
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Ha, well we were "living in sin" for a while (bought a house together) when I was 21. We talked about marriage a little, looked at rings. Then my husband became very I'll and we made the decision to have a very quick wedding. So, I guess you can say we bought the ring and 3 months later were married.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:47 PM
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Exactly. From what OP said (and of course, we don't know everything) but it really sounds like OPs doing everything right. You're going out of your way to make his days brighter, you're avoiding the confrontation when he called you names (!) by walking out of the room. I hate to chalk this up to depression or anger issues but like LadyRomanoff said, keep an eye on this behavior. I have bipolar disorder and it's a bitch for my husband and I. If this is something deeper just rememebr if you stay w…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:37 PM
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I'm very happy for you! My best friend is very opposite of this. She may have a few RPW tendicies but overall she is NOT! I have a few casual friends that are total blue pill. But, I think it keeps the world interesting to surround yourself with a mix of people! I'd like more RP ladies though :)
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/15 04:28 PM
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Ha, I tried waking my husband up with a bj once. He mumbled something and rolled over. Not a morning person.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/15 03:22 AM
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I have loads of recipes that I can share, some healthy and some not so much! My husband cant have vegetables or wheat (no colon) so I hated when we had previous recipes swaps and they included wheat, broccoli, carrots, etc. So I made a collection (300+) recipes that suite his needs that I think people would love!
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/15 12:51 PM
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I'm so excited! Im on her e-letter list and love getting her stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/15 12:59 AM
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I've been there too with with the man I was with before my husband! It upsets me that feminists and the like want to categorize those encounters, like I had, as rape. Was it a lack in judgement, did I feel pressured, did I regret it? Yes, but ultimately it was MY decision and I wasn't forced so let's not call these lapse in judgments and unfortunate encounters rape!
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/15 01:29 PM
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Yeah, THAT'S the reason you will never get with a celebrity...
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 04:55 PM
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Kind of how mine is. He's not a huge fan of the outfits, really frilly sleepwear. He likes me naked or cute panties.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/15 04:48 PM
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Exactly. You could be a hot piece of ass that cooks and puts out, but if you're mega bitch and belittle your man, aren't faithful/trustworthy, etc is the relationship REALLY a good LTR?
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 09:24 PM
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Insecurities are loud. You shouldnt need to stand up and shout about how you're a 9 and Miss Thang. Let the beauty speak for its self.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 11:30 AM
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X2 do it
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/15 02:19 AM
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I bring it up as casually as I can because I don't want to come off bitchy or like I think I'm hot stuff, if that makes sense. If I'm out somewhere and guy is striking up conversation with me I might say "oh yeah blah blah my husband and I love to eat sushi have you tried? Blah blah". I don't want to burst out with "I'm married!!". granted, I'm never really in a conversation with a stranger long enough to be "wasting his time".
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/15 04:43 PM
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Make sure you have good posture! My aunt (mom's mom) was a tall woman, 6ft I believe. Very stunning from all the old photos I've seen of her. But my mom said she was very self concious of her height so she'd hunch over a little, sometimes without noticing. It really hurt her appearnce my mom said. Don't do that! Wear it proud. If you are worried, wear cute flats or shorter heels. And if there's a guy that thinks youre too tall, forget him!
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/15 05:22 PM
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Jesus christ is right. Hows that "no label, no drama" thing working out for her? Because she sounds pretty freaking lonely and miserable that she doesn't have someone to be"steady" with.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 11:58 PM
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Obvious troll is obvious :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/15 12:30 AM
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X2 on the fake it till you make it. Learn to use your hands with your mouth. I have jaw problems so my jaw is cracking while I'm trying to do this - kinda painful! I'll go as deep as I comfortably can and use my hands under my mouth if that makes sense. It gives the illusion (feeling wise too) that you're taking in more than you really are.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 12:33 PM
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THANK YOU. She's basically saying, "my boyfriend has an opinion that's stupid and I don't like it and I keep telling him how STUPID it is but he won't see how stupid it is. RPW help me show my boyfriend how STUPID his ideas are!"
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/15 02:38 AM
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Fruit and veggies have a surprisingly high amount of sugar and carbs. They're great at the recommended amounts but if you plug them into myfitnesspal you'd be surprise all those carbs you're chomping on.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:28 PM
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In our relationship, things improved between the two of us once I started working on myself. I lost 30 pounds and started taking better care of my skin, clothing, etc. So I'd totally start there. I use the myfitnesspal app and that's a good place to start-it really opens your eyes to what you're eating! As far as girly clothes, I was the same way as you up until high school I when I started small with feminine tops and jeans or long skirts and t shirts.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:18 PM
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He prefers I wear jeans but I usually wear skirts and dresses. He isn't afraid to speak up when I'm wearing something not so flattering which I really like. I'd that the only "dress code" we have is if I were to go out without him, like dinner or for a drink with my female coworker, he will have a say in what I'm wearing. Like someone else said, my husband doesn't like it when I dress like I'm still on the market if im going in public without him. With him, he doesn't really care.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 12:53 AM
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I don't think you are necessarily doomed, but things will be much more difficult. Kudos to you for putting your career and hopes/dreams first but as someone else posted, with that comes with some consequences. Some men might see you as too old, some might see you as established :) I was 18 and in college when I met my husband. I initially had plans on joining the military and making a career out of it, but I "sacrificed" that to be with my husband because he was of more value to me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 05:56 PM
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Reminds me of the quote,"no matter how hot she is, some man somewhere is tired of her shit".
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 05:46 PM
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I'm building off my previous post :) Sometimes getting over jealousy and becoming more confidant in your relationship just comes with time. When my husband and I was first dating, I'd say the first 7-8 months I was the jealous type. You need to get yourself into the mind frame that he is with you because he cares about you. Be confidant in yourself and don't look to him to build your confidance, that's your job.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 04:13 AM
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You talked about the physical thing you're trying to improve on: cooking, clothing, sex life, etc. But what about your attitude? You said that you've had several jealousy explosions and arguments and you've only been dating 6 months. I think that is something you really need to work on because if you continue to push him away it's only going to hurt your relationship especially since you haven't been together long.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 04:08 AM
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I have a silk robe from VS, good quality worth the $50 (I think that was the price). How was your experience with Le Bomb Shop? I know you said they didn't have anything small enough for you, but other than that were they pretty true to size? No issues with shipping?
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 09:27 PM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:18 PM
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Pasta salad, bruschetta, and deviled eggs with a little spice on top like my mom used to make. For the bruschetta I kept the topping in a separate container until we got there so the bread didn't get soggy. Simple things for a warm night!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:16 PM
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Thank you! My husband and I hve two cats and I thought it was a fun play on words.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 07:13 PM
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That's a very fine way of looking at it!
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/15 04:09 AM
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What I'm hearing is, "Please help me! I'm just practicaly perfect in every way and all these guys want to wife me but really I just want to ride the cock".
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/15 08:26 AM
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Stick to the facts. Like someone else said, don't turn this into a sob fest or a pity party. I'd just briefly touch on the points but I would make sure to make it clear that you've moved on. Don't give him the impression that you're stuck on Mr Piece OF shit ex that cheated and lied, because now he will think you have lots of baggag coming forward from it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/15 10:19 PM
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This whole thing STINKS. Red flag: you weren't invited. Did he say why? Even if he knew you might have been busy with work, if you were bf/gf, exclusive, whatever, he would have invited you I feel.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/15 08:41 PM
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I wouldn't even say I'm flattered. For her to say that she's flattered is like she's giving him the time of day and acknowledging his persistance/advances.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 07:01 AM
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You do sound very insecure. Stingray said it best-he chose to be with you for a reason. And constantly asking him these questions is, whether you realize it or not, is second guessing his ability to pick a woman. Look at how you ended your post-"I fear I've ruined this relationship". Stop. It is screaming insecurities! He is with you because he cares about you and he's staying with you in this ldr because he really cares about you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 10:57 PM
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Haha. He wants us to tell him "don't worry sweetie it'll all be okay, youll find the perfect woman, just wait!" He came to the wrong place if he wants boost.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/15 04:36 AM
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I would like to hear what they're argument is for that. What makes it okay in their eyes for a woman to walk topless down the street all in the name of "free the nipples", but it's degrading if she posed nude for a men's magazine?
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 11:35 PM
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It's refreshing to see people not agree with it for once :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 11:06 PM
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I live in a bigger city so have more access to meet ups but I do struggle with making friends with women, I've always been that way! I was raised by all boys (dad and brothers) so they didn't really teach me how to relate to ladies. Anyway, I'd suggest if you can find it, classes in areas that interest you. Usually community colleges offer cooking, jewelry making, pottery making classes. Something like that you're bound to find friends! Also have you tried the library? My library offers a summer…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 11:04 PM
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I know this wasn't the comment you pointed to but the first comment really stood out to me. Something to the effect of, she's sooo worried about what people think about them and keeping up appearences, but what is SHE actually DOING to maintain the marriage. And that she needs to work on herself or else her husband will leave her. That is the million dollar question I think with a lot of relationship problems!
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/15 10:57 PM
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That's where I met my husband. I liked that they had a lot of in depth questions.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 05:25 AM
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X100 on the smiling and generally looking approachable. I always use Kate Middleton as and example because I know nothing about her personality but because every time I see a picture if her she's smiling and looks feminine. it makes me feel like I could just walk up to her and have a conversation wit her despite who she is. That's the a very powerful affect to have I think.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 10:15 AM
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Constantly call, text, and anticipate your needs? My goodness you sound like the clingy one! I joke ;) Ok. I've always had the attitude that you shouldn't compare a current SO to an ex because all you're going to be doing is looking at flaws or thinking "we'll he did it this way, he'd never do that, we'll he would have done that differently". What a miserable way to live a relationship: constantly comparing the present and past. Like another person said below, you need to be the type of person y…
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 10:06 AM
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Talk to a professional! I studied mental health and they preached therapy + meds as the best combo to treat mental things (if you go the medication route). The therapist will of course be the one who decides if medication is right for you, we can't decide that by reading your story. I'm young as well and have issues and was VERY hesitant to take anything. I always thought it was bad "mojo" to mess with the brains chemistry-too many side effects. However I weighed the pros and cons with my husban…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 05:28 AM
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I wanted to cook something at home but he's really looking forward to going out to a nice restaurant! Then I want to come home and cook his favorite dessert (lava cakes) together, exchange some small gifts, and maybe watch a movie together or play some video games together. We usually sneak off to a fancy hotel for the night but out wedding anniversary is coming up soon so I think we are going to stay in town this year.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/15 09:50 AM
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A lot of people here gave you an answer (told you not to worry about it) but when I read your comments, I can't help but feel you're trying to fight it. You have a very, "the nerve of this woman shacking up with her boyfriend!" attitude. You even said yourself you are being judgy. You hate the thought of anyone being ungrateful to your man--but your coworker and his girl havent even stayed at your place yet! You're acting like they've moved in with you, haven't paid rent in months, and trashed t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/01/15 10:47 AM
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Thanks for sharing :) I really need to work on my language and being more "pleasant/ladylike" in conversations. I have a little bit of a resting bitch face, it's gotten better but there's always room for improvement. I think I have the nice appearance down though so that's good! A while ago I read on here a wife offers treats and appetizers whenever her husband had friends over and I've been doing that. I'd like to start doing hostess gifts too like the list suggested (last night I brought some …
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/15 08:23 PM
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I think she's a great example. Always looks so classy and put together every time you see photos of her. I imagine she's a very pleasant person to be around, and that's a great image to have.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 03:14 AM
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Read her post history, going past this rpw post
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/14 02:02 PM
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Haha, oh.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/14 02:56 PM
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I always wondered what people thought the correlation between number of sexual partners and divorce rate was. Is it because a woman has slept with 10+ people, she's a hoochie momma, and will probably cheat, which will lead to divorce?
/r/RedPillWomen15/12/14 12:19 PM
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If you really want to tone up, look more into lifting for women.cardio shouldn't be your focus.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 05:37 AM
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+1 on this. Some women are much too focused on cardio. They see it as the only way to get fit and they avoid lifting like the plague. Lifting is your friend! Ive been doing 4 times a week for the past month and it's a great way to tone up (hello, firm ass) but with it you will HAVE to eat more.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 05:36 AM
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For jeans try this. You can wear jeans with a "frilly" or girly top, NO sneakers, and a nice necklace or nice jewlry :) https://thedaintydoyen.files.wordpress.com/2014/09/image34.jpg
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 12:15 PM
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I assume English isn't your native language? "Dress for the job you want" is an expression which I think got lost in translation :) In this case, it means dress for the man you want. If you look like a "slob" wearing baggy unflattering clothes, you're not going to attract the best man.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/14 12:11 PM
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Mmm thanks everyone for sharing. I am a GOD awful baker so I need help.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 11:45 PM
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Follow the instructions on the package to bake it in the oven. Less mess and gets just as crispy.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 06:37 AM
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Yeah that part got me too!
/r/RedPillWomen01/12/14 06:28 AM
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I think one of the biggest things (for me at least) is know how to present yourself. If youre out and about and being loud, rude, trashy, people are going to think of you as a loud, rude, trashy "woman". That affects how people approach you and treat you. I stopped being the loudest girl at a get together and immediately noticed a difference in how people approached me. I met my husband online so that's a little bit different...but I'd say being feminine, soft, and approachable will say positive…
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/14 04:19 AM
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My husband was very ill and took a year to get back to normal. We were in the hospital a month and I stayed by his side, grabbed him drinks or a nurse whenever he needed, fluffed his pillows, etc. I figured, if I was sick what would I want my husband to do for me? Sex was out of the question for a few months so I didn't pressure it but if he wanted a little bj I was there lol. Help him out whether it be running to get him a glass of water or doing physical things around the house that he might s…
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/14 08:08 PM
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I make quite a bit more than my husband but it doesn't bother him because he brings A LOT to the table. He has so many great traits like handiness, work ethic, and patience (which God knows I need) that he is valued for. The $ amount doesn't matter to me because he has all those traits! In the long run he has the potential to make more than me which I support 1000%
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/14 07:16 PM
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I literally can't read your post history. In the last few months, you've had posts about how you "can't be single anymore", just ended a one year relationship, how you're settling for a huy you're not in to, and now this. I'm not even going to give you advice because I know in 3 months we will see another posts from you "JUST ENDED MY RELATIONSHIP 33F DONT WANT TO BE SINGLE ANYMORE".
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/14 06:43 PM
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Everyone has their own opinion. I was just giving mine :) My husband doesn't mind it when I dress somewhat provocatively when I'm with him like on a date.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/14 07:47 PM
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No? If your SO likes it when you wear it, then wear it. My husband likes some of my low cut dresses so when we go out, I wear them! Some men like it when they are out and their woman is getting a few glances but he knows at the end of the day she's all his.
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/14 04:16 PM
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I think that sounds good. "Hey I know you're busy and things can pop up last minute, but could you please let me know next time when you're running late?"
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/14 09:59 AM
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Haha. If you want your marriage to last, let her walk over you while you treat her like a princess, get down and kiss her feet, and let her hold your balls in her purse.
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/14 12:44 PM
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What are your opinions on mutual friends? My husband had a lot of friends and I've grown to be friends with several of them. Is it wrong for me to communicate with some one on one? Should I not consider them "my" friends, just "our" friends? Since you say that there's also the possibility of a friendship turning sexual and that women with male friends aren't ready for commitment, I'm curious what your opinion is of the scenario.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/14 04:31 AM
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That's sort of the same boat I'm in. Quite a few women in my bubble are rude to their men or are single and sleep around. Any time they'd want to hang out, they wanted "girls night" and for us to go out and drink all night. My husband and I have mutual guy friends and they respect our relationship and we hang out with them together.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 03:43 PM
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I mostly have guy friends because they're easier to get along with. Like others have said, it seems like the girls my age are into partying, drinking, and sleeping around. I'm married and happily so I have no interest in that. There have been a few guys who tried to be more than friends (hit on me behind my husbands back) and we cut them out of our lives. I'm not saying I'm some hot piece of ass but it is hurtful when a guy who's friendship I enjoyed tries that crap on me. But with that said I'v…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/14 03:06 PM
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Not really. I also find shy men attractive-i I think it's much cuter than a guy who is large and in charge at every meetup. But with that said, if he is anti-social to the point of a disorder (like cannot get out of the house or function when someone is around), that'd be difficult for me. I'm very shy and not much of a people person so I see nothing wrong with a little lack of social skills.
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/14 06:10 AM
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A bit of a different perspective here but I think it reflects what has been said by other users. I have depression and it's something that, no matter how hard I try, will always be looming and creeping on my marriage. There's moments where I struggle and lash out at my husband. But God bless his patience, seriously. Things to do: recognize progress. Notice when he's having a good day and compliment him on it. I loved hearing from my husband, "you've been so cheerful today" because it made me fee…
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 07:26 AM
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Self-improvement: I'd like to cook dinner all week. Last week we went out to eat often but I have so many great meals that I've been dying to try, so I need top cook more! Also I'm still trying to lose a few more pounds (down 20 so far!) so I'd like to keep up with my routine. Relationship: spend max time with the hubby. Our schedules are crazy so I try to savor every minute I can with him. I also want to do little things he likes this week. For example, cook some of his favorite treats like che…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/14 05:51 PM
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That's what I noticed too. For most of them, being a few pounds heavier filled in their face "better" and made them a little younger looking.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/14 11:36 PM
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Jealousy. We bought our house before we were married and an older woman belittled me and said it'd be much each easier to break up than to sell the house when when eventually break up. People also change the subject rather quick. They ask how I'm doing, and I don't brag by any means, but it seems like if I talk about me and my husband's adventures they're kinda like "okay...." Another old cougar also said we were stupid for getting married and she would never make that mistake again. You're only…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 04:31 PM
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Christ on a stick. What did I just read?
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 04:42 AM
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I feel like if you're in a relationship where you constantly worry "what if he leaves me, what if he stops loving me, what if he finds someone else", then you need to work on yourself.love is about being vulnerable. If you can't do that then don't get in a relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 01:27 PM
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I found the wives in Dexter rather annoying!
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 11:22 AM
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This is the best advice in my opinion. A lot of people are saying "leave him a note" or to drop hints. Hints aren't working with this guy. Sit him down and say I like it when you pull my hair/spank me/choke me, can we do it more?
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/14 06:23 AM
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I think you should remove the stick from your butt so you can toot. Then have a nice laugh over it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/14 01:27 AM
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I usually reference the last time we had sex, "last night was amazing I can't wait to ### again and feel your ##". You get the point haha
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 05:53 PM
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Thank you for explaining it better than I could :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 04:39 PM
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I have an espresso machine and dear God its the best thing I ever Bought. I have perfected the pumpkin latte and I couldn't be happier. The machine was a cheap $40 thing from Target and I noticed a huge taste difference with it using espresso beans vs regular coffee.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 12:49 PM
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You will just keep your head up. I've met more domestic women through my husband (his friend's wives).
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 12:17 PM
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Oh yeah relationships shouldn't make you miss out on anything! If it does, that's not a good relationship in my opinion. The only benefit to having stayed single is sleeping around and I'm not interested in that.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 12:16 PM
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I got married at 21 and he was 25 (I'm only 22 now). People said that to me often BUT it was a certain type of person who said it. One was a much older woman at a sushi place dressed like a 17 year old with a young guy on her arm who told me, "I'd never be stupid enough to get married again!". Thank you old, lonely cougar. I have a few friends who got married young like me and I can tell they are happy and loving life. The other friends are still getting drunk every weekend. It works out great b…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/14 06:19 AM
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The usual stuff: I felt I could be myself around him, he saw my flaws and helped me work through them. We could lay in bed for hours cuddeling and talking whereas with others I got bored. I would say we were dating a few weeks and he said I love you and I said it too! Two years later we got engaged and a few months after that we got married.
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 05:58 AM
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That's a very good point. We got married at a young age, I was 20 he was 25. We got some grief from our family about it but at that point we already owned a house and several cars together. What's adding a certificate going to hurt?
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/14 02:28 PM
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That's the problem, maybe it'll never end. She will be in her late 40s wondering why she hasn't had a solid ltr. It's sad. It's not like a car you trade in every year to get the newest and nicest looking one. It's also unfortunate for the men. what if they really cared about her? Now she's moving along to a self made billionaire!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/14 09:50 PM
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I'm 22. I would tell college age me, know your worth, being slutty isn't cute, don't drink so much, and being loud isn't a good way to get attention!
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 11:17 PM
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I tried hard not to, but I cannot stand people undermining my marriage!
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 04:31 AM
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I got into a little argument with someone from trp commenting on something I said. It essentially boiled down to me saying my husband isn't big obsessed with sex and the other redditor said obviously my husband is beta and needs to lift.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 03:09 AM
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I can see how these are loaded questions! Shame people can't leave us alone, but I suppose that's how the internet is.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 03:06 AM
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Haven't gotten anything yet. Can't even imagine what she's asking..
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 02:11 AM
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Someone a while ago posted a nice "technique" that I try to follow. It was something similar to, if you're husband is driving and youre the passenger, do you trust him? If we are in a situation where I try to take control or panic I picture us in our car with him driving and me napping/having my eyes closed. He is in total control taking the lead and I'm here for the ride. This is totally cheesy but I found little tricks like this help keep me together.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 07:44 AM
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I don't say anything and keep walking. If I ever felt threatened, I carry a firearm. But I feel like 99.99% of cat calls are harmless.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/14 03:03 AM
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You said if he was a RP man, he and all RP men are hardwired the same, it's in your DNA...or something to that effect. I simply said that he identifies as a RP man on most points, except the sex that you said they are "hardwired" the same. I feel that we are perfectly compatible and we overcame issues we had in the past, like married couples do, and I look forward to many years with him. If there is a minor issue you don't agree with, you don't just divorce the person. You work through things. A…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 08:47 PM
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And he can't eat Paleo :) I explained in a past post he can't have veggies, wheat, many grains. Thanks though :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 08:39 PM
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Lol. Now, if you actually took time to read my post history you'd see my husband has many RP tendencies. But you're so hell bent in showing your point that you jump to conclusions. He takes the lead, he's cares about his appearance, puts me in place when I'm acting the fool. Sex is where he might not be tradionally RP and that's because he doesn't want it every day, several times a day like you stated all RP men do
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 08:37 PM
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Never said he was a huge rp guy. We're never going to come to an agreement on this, so my previous agree to disagree statement is still relevant lol
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 08:18 PM
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Or you know, this is going to sound crazy and way out there, but maybe not every single man is the same.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 08:12 PM
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Don't get me wrong: I love sex and I'm a rather sexual person. But me letting my husband bang my pussy at his given whim isnt the main difference between me and some girl who is attracted to him. If she's attracted, she'd probably throw her pussy at him too. Its the bond/love/intimacy crap I mentioned earlier that makes me and her different.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 08:02 PM
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Something wrong is the bedroom may not always mean something wrong in the relationship, we are an example of that. Everyone has different opinions and we shall agree to disagree. I enjoyed hearing your opinion (and that's not sarcasm).
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 07:32 PM
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You said sex is the main thing that separates a man's SO from other women on the street, correct? I countered with my life example as to why I don't think sex is the main thing that separates me from other women on the street. I don't see how my comment was disrespectful. Sarcastic, yes. My comment agreed with Queen oops comment about how sex isn't the only thing of value.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 07:16 PM
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Tone is rather hard to determine in text.
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 07:00 PM
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Good to know that sex with my husband is the only thing separating me from all the other women he passes on the street. Never mind our bonding, shared hobbies, the fact that I took care of him on his death bed, spent our honey moon by his side in the hospital. SEX is the only thing that sets me apart! And I want to add that I don't turn down sex, I actually have a higher sex drive than my husband But this conversation has come up between him and I in the past. I used to get angry if he wasn't in…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 05:08 PM
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I probably wouldn't call this a first date. Meeting someone from Tindr at a bar usually leaves people under the impression that you're going to put out. Not that there's anything wrong with that it just depends on the image you're wanting to show. If you're worried, don't drink a lot. If you sit there and chug and chug and end up saying "omg I'm so tipsy/drunk right now" he's probably going to be thinking he will score. So drink light or don't drink at all. Guys are going to treat you how you le…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/14 05:03 PM
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Oh wow those look like they hold their shape really well!
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/14 07:24 AM
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It sounds good to me! If you don't mind sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 09:17 AM
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Oh that's a good point I never thought of it that way! In that case, I'm not as dominant as I thought:)
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 09:10 AM
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I feel like the first part of your question is personal preference. I know men who prefer a submissive partner but my husband finds it a turn on if I throw him down and give him a BJ. Personally I'd find a submissive man a turn off.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 11:19 PM
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Married. Share finances. I grab the check and sometimes he foes. Really not that much to it.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/14 08:31 AM
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Good point. these are things EVERYONE in a relationship should follow: don't cheat, don't be a bitch, respect your SO. Shame it has to be laid out like this.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 10:25 PM
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That was a very good read thanks for sharing. All valid points why someone would want to leave their relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 06:11 PM
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Beat her ass. Sorry, that's not very lady like haha.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/14 12:08 PM
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I think in some cases divorce or separation is necessary. My dad was an alcoholic who preferred drinking over paying bills (often went without heat/electricity). My mom worked her butt off to pay the bills. She didn't leave my dad until I, the youngest, was 17 and on my own. I honestly wish she would have done it sooner. It would have prevented a lot of resentment between all of us.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/14 09:30 AM
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I did family services and criminal justice. Its something that's always in demand and can be molded into many different career paths. It dealt heavily with people skills so I can take it basically anywhere.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/14 04:58 PM
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I don't know anyone who would boast to other women about their number! I suppose it happens but God that's awful. I was very open to my husband and the people I've dated before him. I figure, why keep secrets from day 1? what if down the road you marry someone and you weren't honest about things from the beginning?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 06:09 AM
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I was going to say...thought he was huge into cocaine.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/14 03:08 AM
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X2 on your comment about Sofia. She is stunning and I'd much rather have a daughter like her. I read an article where she said women should always wear heels and some makeup. To me, that is class and that is sexy. Beyonce isn't. She leaves nothing to the imagination and shoves her cooter in your face
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/14 11:45 PM
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It's one of those things you can make healthy is you tried. I have low fat mayo but he prefers dry bread anyway. Whole grain bread is great but he can't have wheat lol so he's stuck with enriched everything.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 10:21 PM
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I've recently gotten into the habit of packing my husband's lunch. He's very simple and loves sandwiches. If it's something that will make the bread/bun soggy, I pack it by its self. Sometimes I'll do leftovers from dinner if its something that can be heated up easily. I always like to do a sweet treat like a homemade brownie/cookie or fudge rounds (he loves them). Then usually a third thing, he can't really have veggies but sometimes he still wants carrots.
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 10:23 AM
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Planned parenthood was very good at teaching me :) Don't be shy to ask, I'm your age too and still get a little bashful at the office lol
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/14 05:59 AM
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Aw my husband knew I didn't want to have kids :(
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/14 01:24 AM
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Thanks :)
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 03:45 PM
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Well I've recently lost 15 pounds! So I'm going yo be trying on my old fall clothes and seeing what needs to get donated and then doing some shopping. It's my birthday weekend (22!) so the husband and I have all sorts of plans like dinner and going out with friends.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 03:26 PM
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I drink LOTS of water, avoid fried and very sugary goods as much as possible (still like to indulge), count calories like crazy using my fitness pal app (I've been losing about 1.5-2 pounds a week and I'm down 15 so far!), I don't do fake tanning (early aged skin aint cute), I do strength training and not cardio (love me some squats), I don't smoke, I use protein treatments in my hair every 2 washes, and I don't know what else? If I think of more I'll post them!
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/14 06:47 AM
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This doesn't just apply to husbands too. There's always the saying "I can say something bad about my parent/spouse but you can't". If all you do is run around and say negative things about someone, people are going to start believing it or start siding with you.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 11:09 AM
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We had a quick wedding due to his serious medical issues. But before that, I planned a formal wedding. It's really not that hard having a husband help, unless he doesn't communicate with you, but then that's another issue. Just say "Hey I'm thinking blah blah for centerpieces". And he might be like "I hate roses" or "sure I don't care". Take his thoughts into consideration. Before you make a big decision ask his input. Pretty simple, huh?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 11:06 AM
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That's where I met my husband too!
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 11:01 AM
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We met when I was 18/19 and he was 22/23. Now I'm 21 and we got married in February!
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 11:00 AM
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Sixsistersstuff and Iowa Girl Eats uaully have "real" recipes. I'd venture to say even Paula Deen because when I think of anti fatfree/anti low carb I think of Paula lol Edit: also try The Hopeless Housewife
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/14 10:10 AM
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It's positive. I have been building my own drag car getting dirty and climbing underneath the car to work on it! A lot of guys have told me it's awesome I do that. Its also a good way to bond with my husband. Like someone else said you can do manly things without being manly. I'll pull the engine in my car and get dirty, then go inside clean up and throw on heels, a dress and makeup.
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/14 07:28 AM
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This is your call, not ours. If you don't see him as a romantic interest don't lead him on. If you want, go to the dinner and pay for yourself as you said. You can go out to dinner and when he inevitably calls to follow up, tell him you're not romantic interested/it's a friendship/only co workers...fill in the blank!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/14 04:38 AM
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And worse if you lost your virginity before age 18 and worse if you have a generalized anxiety disorder, etc. I feel there's too many factors that go with it to sit and say half of ALL marriages will fail.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 06:35 AM
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Of course the likelihood of you getting divorced after already being married and divorced if very high like 90% high if you're on your 3rd marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 06:33 AM
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I think that's similar to what I read.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 06:31 AM
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I always heard that statistic was flawed? Edit: I read that the rate is dropping I should say.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/14 01:47 AM
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I feel like there has been a lot of questions like this lately. I don't know if people are assuming the "rpw" thing to do is the woman does everything around the house? Do what works! For my marriage it just works out that I cook (I like it and can actually cook, sorry husband) and do most of the cleaning because for some sick reason I enjoy it. If I need help I ask for it. We don't run around and say "Well I worked a longer week so I'm not doing XYZ, you can". You find what works and you ask fo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/14 07:50 PM
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Perhaps I'm biased because I have a friend who is bipolar and has anxiety issues. There are days where she is a mom 100% but there are also down days where she locks herself in her room. Now I don't know your friends situation, she could be perfectly "healthy". But if there are mental issues I feel very sorry for her.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 08:18 PM
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You shouldn't be airing your business like that to friends. Idk, I don't like talking about problems my husband and I are having with my friends. I believe you should keep the home life at home. Are you a SAHM? If so, you're lucky enough to have that. Plenty of people aren't in a position to go by on one income. Like others said, don't compare yourself to your neighbors. They might have a new car/house/whatever but they can be up to their EYEBALLS in debt.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/14 02:10 AM
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ha I wish my husband didn't like me supporting him. Don't buy him shirts. That really sounds like a mommy thing to me. Cooking and buying some simples groceries is the way to go.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/14 07:39 AM
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My laundry routine consists of me trying not to jump of a bridge. I hate doing laundry. Yes it gets done but a basket of clean clothes will sit on our floor a few days before I get around to putting them up. But I like dryer sheets! They double as a cleaner for shower doors.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/14 03:14 AM
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I never felt pressure with my husband but previous guys I did. When I was in college I put out on the first date and those never turned into relationships (imagine that!). My husband we hung out a bit. It was maybe a few weeks.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 06:37 PM
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I compliment him on his beard. Lol. But really, I let him lead, hold his hand and kiss him in public, ask for help for the manly stuff ("can you open this"). He likes the cheesy stuff. I think be likes feeling needed and God knows o need him!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 06:34 PM
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If you look at my comment history, I've mentioned pinterest a dozen times. I love it!
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 02:41 PM
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I do light cleaning daily that way it doesn't build up by the end of the week. Light cleaning meaning spot vaccuming, pick up, clean the toilet, things like that. One day a week I do the deep clean-mop the floors, scrub stuff. Unless stuff gets really bad I wait until a certain day to scrub it all down :) Check out Pinterest for food ideas. I like Five Dollar Dinners she has inexpensive meals. Pinterest has a pretty good search function so you can try "cheap healthy meals", "healthy college meal…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 08:07 AM
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Oops that should say stye. I think that's how you spell it...
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 05:57 AM
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I'm in the same boat with the dark circles! Mascara worries me because a style wouldnt be cute haha! They say silk pillowcases are good for hair and skin. I'd think curling lashes is OK!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 03:30 AM
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Do not wear makeup to bed. Do not wear makeup to bed! You should always remove your makeup before sleeping. Welcome to LTR where they will see you when you're not at your prettiest (when you're sleeping). I do however think its not too crazy to get up before him and fix yoirhair. I have horrible bed head and even though my husband and I've been together a while, I'll sneak off when he's asleep and do something with my rats nest.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 03:22 AM
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What do you mean by if the woman asks the man she's giving him a "shit test"?
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 05:43 PM
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I had a friend in college who started out as a bit feminine. She later took very feminist courses, gained quite a bit of weight, stopped caring about herself (hair and clothes), got her eyebrow pierced and joined a gay/lesbian sorority. Couldn't find a man who would date her and now she's dating a woman. We have a theory she is pretending to be lesbian because she very much shows interest in men.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/14 06:37 PM
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Aw I missed the comment :(
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/14 06:35 PM
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Amen. My husband is a "manly man" who has an office job but works on cars really well. That (mechanical knowledge) turns me on much more than a pretty man who spends more time looking in the mirror than I do :)
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 06:28 AM
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I think it depends on the question but sadly most threads I've been reading have no place here. The whole "I'm a rp man and this girl is ignoring me how do i make her talk to me", or "my wife wears something I don't like how do I tell her?". If you were "redpill" you would be able to figure this out. It's a bunch of men wanting us to validate their feelings.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 06:24 AM
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Age sex location. It's popular in chat rooms and things of that nature where guys would be like "asl ;)?"
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/14 06:17 AM
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Oh Amen. This is painful for me to read. "He has a sidepiece but I know we are forever because I'm his favorite sidepiece". It reminds me of the other woman in affairs who is convinced the man will leave his wife for her. You're just another notch in the bed post no matter how you sugar coat it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 08:02 AM
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I'm beating a dead horse here...but you say you hates how she acts and its not sexy when she does xyz. Then what's the appeal? It sounds like she's driving you crazy and you're trying to cling on to some hope that she will change or it will be magical when you move past friendship.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 07:59 AM
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That's a good point. She might find value in working our crappy shift work, unsafe job. I find value in taking care of my husband when he is sick and holding down the house.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/14 09:13 PM
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Oh boy haha I don't know if I'd recommend this to everyone. This friend was very outspoken and I kinda laughed it off then. They say negative feedback sticks with you more than positive so I think that's why it stuck with me. But hey if you try it, report back:)
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/14 10:59 AM
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Ha! She's very career oriented. She's also in her latest 20's and never had a real boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/14 10:32 AM
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That's a GREAT point. I always hear women say that. "We have a busy life we don't need sex, sex doesn't matter as much after 3 kids," and variations. Never hear the husbands side to it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/14 08:37 AM
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For me, it took years. I never wanted to put someone before me, I never wanted to make sacrifices for someone else, and I never wanted to settle down. This only got me crappy men in my life. When I first met my now husband, I was a big bitch. I belittled him a lot and was very pushy. It wasn't until his friend (somewhat) jokenly said "god if you were my girlfriend I would have smacked you by now". That was the "smack" in the face I needed. I thought God even his friends notice how I am. I made t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/14 08:32 AM
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I want to be a stay at home wife SO bad. God. We don't want kids, so I'd have lots of time to dedicate to house hold crap and our cats (haha). Maybe have a fun part time job on the side. I told my goals to a co worker of mine and her jaw dropped. She said she could never do something that wasn't valuable with her life...
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/14 08:26 AM
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The article says the man decided not to press charges because shaming them was enough.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 09:21 AM
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I have a bump in my nose due to breaking it when I was little and never having it fixed. For years I have been very self conscious of it. I've gotten a little better but sometimes it still bugs me. I feel like if it's things like that and like what you mentioned (excess skin) I see nothing wrong with it. But you should be honest with it with future partners.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 08:03 AM
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And thank you very much for the kind wishes :o)
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 01:55 PM
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That was my favorite meal when I was younger, don't know why I didn't think of it! He's a meat and potatoes guy so I'll have to make it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 01:54 PM
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Oh good god those sound delicious.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 01:54 PM
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Thank you a nutrionist would be good because then we could get ideas on how to make sure his nutritional needs or met. The doctor is sort of "you'll see what works" but by that point, its too late!
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 12:18 AM
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He loves oatmeal! He actually does better with fruit than veggies. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/14 02:57 PM
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Those sounds very good thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/14 02:57 PM
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Something about heels, even low heels, give me better posture! They make me pay attention to how I'm walking and I feel more graceful than I do I'm flip flops or sandles.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/14 10:55 AM
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You put into words what I could not! I was thinking this the whole time I was reading. Throwing on a skirt and cooking a meal doesn't make you feminine. There's much, much more to it. She's totally a feminist but doenst want that title (like you said) so she's saying "But look I'm different I can be girly too!"
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/14 12:17 AM
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That's a good point!
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 11:54 PM
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Did she say he had custody of the son? I might have missed that part. Obviously there's a difference between if hes raising her or if he lost parental rights.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 07:17 PM
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It would be a red flag for me because it opens the door to lots of questions-what's his relationship like with the kid? With the mom? What happened to make him and mom break up? And plus, it'd tinder haha. Like others commented, he probably doesn't have high expectations of you because you're using a hook up app.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 07:42 AM
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I don't want kids and neither does my husband. As someone else mentioned, being a homemaker =/= being a mother. I don't identify with any religion but I'm somewhar spiritual. I also wouldn't call myself conservative...maybe somewhere in the middle.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 05:27 AM
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I was just picking ages at random haha
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 10:03 PM
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Seriously how old are you? There's not a set date when you're "past your prime" and can no longer find a man. Juyou'recause youre, 53 or 65 or whatever, and single doesnt mean life is over. The other commentors are right-it will get harder with age because there's less single older men out there. But that means you gotta be on your A game. It sounds like your dad has your best interests in mind. Just tell him you're still looking for the right one. He wants the best for you, I'm sure!
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/14 02:17 AM
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I vaguely remember my mom stuffing lemon slices under the surface of the chickens skin before roasting it. Mmmm! I think she also rubbed it down in freshly cut garlic? Like massaged the skin with garlic cloves.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 08:43 AM
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Yikes. I actually prefer sex on the "rougher" side. I couldn't imagine someone crying and apologizing for spanking me, pulling my hair, etc. Glad you survived it!!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 07:12 PM
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L seems like she wasn't that great of a friend anyway for telling G all of that. Good example of why you shouldn't bad mouth your spouse and in general be careful what you say because you never know who will spill the beans if you have a fallout.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 03:21 AM
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Exactly. I don't even know her and I'm annoyed. Kudos to him :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 02:07 AM
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God I couldn't finish reading that! Talk about over analyzing and beating it to death. It's a WEDDING. Be happy that someone wants to spend their life with you. Don't pick apart every detail.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 02:03 AM
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Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/14 07:51 AM
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I'll follow a recipe loosely. I'll add things we like, get ride of things we don't. The recipe is my inspiration!
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 02:41 AM
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I don't think I'm flair worthey quite yet as I'm pretty new and still learning! But I try hard to make good comments and communicate with you all, I just never have anything good to post!
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 08:48 PM
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Good point. She doesn't offer anything is friendships either, like you said. No hobbies, doesn't care for "personal maitanence"...sounds like a fun gal to be around.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 08:28 PM
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Oh turquoise would be beautiful!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 09:45 PM
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I'll be honest...my nails are where I let my age show (21). I love bright colors, glitter, the "accent" nail. Right now they're a red orange. I will "class it up" every once in a while and do light colors but man I love a good glitter nail. For my wedding they were gold sparkles. I always keep them short and filed and clean.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 09:18 AM
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Is it bad that I take these opportunities to sort of show off? My friends usually don't put much effort in and wear sweat pants and things like that. Take the opportunity to look your best! Cute dress with practical wedges is my go to. Cute shorts/top and accessories. A little goes a long way! You don't want to way out do your friends because then you'd feel out of place.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 09:30 PM
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That was very well written. Before I started working over nights I always made my husband lunch Wish our schedules allowed it now!
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 02:08 AM
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We should write a book. Everyone gives one or two sentences of the best advice they have for a successful marriage. :)
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:01 AM
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I constantly pin meals from Pinterest. Some of my favorites are from skinny mom and groups like that. I usually come to the husband with a large collection of meals that I can prepare that week (I take into consideration what ingredients I have on hand). I give that list to the hubby and he picks 5 that he'd like to eat that week. Sometimes it varies like we might only cook at home 3 or 4 times that week but I know I'm cooking things he likes. As far as weight control- we both are pretty light e…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 11:30 PM
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That's gotta be rough! It's hard to keep things ladylike, for sure. I'm not one to push other subs but /r/childfree deals with a lot of this. I don't know if it's your style as they sometimes come off strong but they might help.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 07:28 AM
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2! It reminds me a lot of the dress I wore when I got married at the courthouse. My husband saw it before the wedding because of course we drove in together. It's timeless and classic I love it!
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 07:13 AM
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I'm not OP but one thing that turned me on to this sub is I've noticed while I browsed more feminist sub's, the ladies and a lot of the posts came off as miserable or angry. Whereas here, I rarely see a negative post. Mostly asking for guidance/suggestions. Edit: maybe negativity is the right word...not miserableness. I feel like I see lots of negativity in feminist subs and that turned me off to them.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 08:28 AM
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Hey welcome :) I'm new too and very grateful I found this sub while I'm young (21). I also first read this sub and thought "wtf" but now I can't stop reading it. I'm glad you're having a good experience here too. This sub really has a way of makjngyou reflect on yourself!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 06:17 AM
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If sacrifice was easy everyone would be selfless lol. With his issues, I've sacrificed my job (still have it, but came close to loosing it due to taking time off) and lost some pay for unpaid leave. Years ago I can't say I'd do that but today it was an easy decision.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 10:19 PM
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I've had that discussion with him already. I've apologized for the way I treated him. He and even his friends have noticed a positive change. He says I'm the "perfect wife" already which I know he's only just saying that haha. He's said in the past he likes me to calm my temper and be more supportive and that's whats I've been focusing on.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 08:27 AM
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And yes, I realize my husband is a human being who deserves my emotional support...I've always known that. Without going into a life story, my upbringing totally taught me to hide my emotions and only focus on me. I didn't come from a family of "emotional support" or "validation". My husband did. I carried my baggage to the marriage but I've been slowly unlearning the crap I was taught growing up.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 08:10 AM
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The truth is I've noticed a huge difference for the better. My husband is ill. In the beginning of the relationship I was selfish. I focused on "me" instead of "we" oftenputting what I wanted first. After the ups and downs with his health and me standing by his side in the hospital, I realized sacrifice was what it took to make a healthy marriage. Having a more balanced marriage has made me, and him, more happy.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/14 08:07 AM
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I agree with Whoopi 100%. I've always thought, if you're going to act like a man you can be treated like a man. Meaning, if you're a woman coming at a man screaming and you hit him, don't be surprised if you get hit back. If I started beating on my husband (I'd never do that) I'd expect him to defend himself. Unfortunately though it seems like the law swings in the woman's favor and if something like that happened, my husband would get in probably more legal trouble than me, not to mention the s…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/14 04:43 AM
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I couldn't agree more!! There's been a movement encouraging women to put themselves first and be sellfsh. Children should be a mutual decision- husband and wife. Not wife makes the decision with or without the husband.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 05:38 AM
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Oh, God it's been hard but I've recently tried to make it happen! A lot of women I used to be close with were very opposite of me and I felt like I needed to put up a front to get a long with them. They'd always bash their man in public, act very classless, and cuss out their men in front me. I stepped away from those people. You really have to weed them out like someone said below. You can gauge a lot about a person by talking to them. I now have a few friends with similar ideologies as me and …
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/14 05:29 AM
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It is very hard! Thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 06:17 PM
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21 married no kids. I work overnight and my husband currently stays at home. I get home around 7am, do some light cleaning, feed the cats, sleep with husband, wake up around 3-4, work out (cardio), shower, cook dinner around 5-6, relax!!! Then I may work out a little (abs or squats) shower, then leave for work at 10pm. On the weekends we always have dates! Go out to eat, golf, zoo, race track, whatever! Among all this madness I always make sure my hair and makeup is done cute! I love perfume and…
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 05:54 AM
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So they will walk aroundtopless then complain that men are perverts and that they don't like the attention. Even if it was legal in my town I wouldn't do it because I have a little more respect for myself than that!
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/14 05:48 AM
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That's a great point I'm glad you mentioned that.When I first heard about the killings it was all "He hated women, he's killing women, etc" and the media totally glossed over his roommates. He killed more men than women!
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/14 05:18 AM
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Its like looking in a mirror lol. My husband and I are the same way!
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/14 07:35 AM
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