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So what happens when women are called on their nonsense? Lie, play dumb, justify, and then when all else fails - blame the other person angrily and become aggressive.

A gentleman (Flicky Rich on Youtube) and his family went to the beach, and I imagine it was a perfectly lovely time until he noticed two women very obviously messing with his family's stuff. He very calmly walks over to the two women and instead of yelling or accusing them - he starts a conversation. (You can watch the video here and I will transcribe the dialogue below as well.)

Gentleman: "Is That yours?" (referring to the canopy one of the women is struggling with)

Lady: "No....Yeah, but we don't know how to do it." (It's unclear if one woman said 'no' and the second interrupted with 'yeah...' if anyone figures it out, please let me know)

Gentleman: "Oh. You need some help?"

Both Ladies: "You know how to do it?"

Gentleman: "Yeah, this is our stuff."

(one lady laughs nervously, the other one wearing a pink bathing suit looks around at the stuff)

Lady: Off Screen-ish (Orange top and blue shorts)"This is your's??!" (She feigns disbelief)

Gentleman: "Yes."

Lady in Orange: raises her left hand with one finger raised "Wait a minute..."

Ladies: Both Ladies point at a bundle of blue chairs "This is our's."

Gentleman: "No. It is. This is all our's."

Lady: [Indistinct]

Gentleman: "All of it. The chairs, the bags, this is all our stuff."

Lady in Orange: points at a ball in the sand emphatically [Indistinct]

Gentleman: "My kid's, yep, that's my kid's. I'm sorry.....Yeah"

(Both women look around at the stuff, for the moment they are stunned and don't know what to say. They talk to each other, pretending to try and figure out how they could have possibly made such an innocent mistake)

Lady in Orange: "....we didn't bring, uh..."

Gentleman: "It's Ok. We'll let it slide, but I'm glad I uh made it in time. "

Lady in Orange: (Turns to him quickly) "No. I'm not letting this slide. I'm telling you.."

Gentlemen: "No -" (gets interrupted)

Lady in Pink: (her hands are now on her hips and she's raising her voice in anger) "You know what??!! Turn the goddamned camera off!"

Gentleman: "No. You know what? Step away from my shit. How 'bout that?"

(This is the first time he has taken a slightly more stern voice. The entire time he has been calm, polite, and patient. He even apologized to them earlier on in the conversation. As though he had to feel bad about catching them trying to take his stuff and exposing their lies.)

Lady in Pink: (Takes one hand off her hip and points it at the gentleman) "You know what I will, and then I'm going to take that camera and put it in the grass. Are you gonna like that?!"

(The camera tilts down to look at the sand)

Lady in Pink: "Step back" (sound of something hitting the camera) "Stop it." (The woman is trying to sound commanding and indignant - how dare he video-tape them trying to steal his stuff.) "Drop it" (The camera pops back up to show the woman in pink once again pointing at him. The gentleman is just laughing at this point. The woman in pink starts to walk towards the camera, her arm still up.)

Gentleman: "Seriously?"

Lady in Pink: "Yes!" (sound of something hitting the camera again)

The women have a small hesitation at the start, and almost tell him the truth - but then they lie and claim they are the owners of the property. When confronted, they mime confusion and try to think of a way to explain - but instead, when he says that he will let the whole incident go, one of the women says "No. I'm not going to let it slide." As though he is somehow to blame for everything. The women are combative, they deny, and become increasingly angry at the gentleman. The lady in pink only has a problem with the presence of the camera at the very end, when she's run out of moves. She is ashamed and angry at the gentleman for exposing her deceit and she knows she's in the wrong - so naturally she has to turn the situation on its head and make the gentleman the bad guy. The easiest way to do this is to become indignant about being filmed.

Ladies, this is the perfect example of the different stages of how women will twist and slide during the course of a conversation or argument. At no point, do these women say "Yeah, we're in the wrong here" - they just keep bumbling and bull-dozing ahead, hoping to somehow come out on top in the end.

Watch the video, understand what's going on, and look for similar tactics in your own behavior the next time you're suddenly unhappy or arguing with your SO.