RPW on Plastic Surgery?

_wingnut_ · 2014-07-09T12:04:12+00:00

Aside from the part about telling your mate so he's not deceived about the appearance of your kids this has nothing to do with the red pill. Of course you should get plastic surgery if it will make you more attractive and help catch a better mate, if you believe in it.

TRP isn't some religious and moral system.

DianaDewAsmr · 2014-07-09T07:08:38+00:00

I am not a man but I really need to say this - if you have cosmetic surgery before you meet your partner DO tell him about it and quite soon because if in future you decide to have kids they may take some of the looks which you tried to change with surgery therefore you might "trick the genes" like my mom says.

EDIT: I am not a MAN not a woman :)

Butterflyskirt · 2014-07-09T07:13:19+00:00

I've always been self-conscious of my nose (it's slightly large and with a "bump"). And I probably would have been inclined to have a nose-job were it not for the fact that my father randomly told me "Don't ever do anything to your nose", out of the blue one day when I was a teen. After that, I never really let myself consider it seriously.

HappyWifeLife · 2014-07-09T13:19:31+00:00

I don't believe RPW has a stance on plastic surgery, how long your hair is, what you wear, etc.

The more important issues are how you behave in your relationship and how giving you are with your partner.

So many women come here to focus on the outsides and not the insides. yawn.

MrsStrom · 2014-07-09T14:22:58+00:00

I'm in my 30s. After I had my son, my nursing bras were GG and were too small. I'll be having the sisters adjusted in a few years.

Tl;dr: plastic surgery is a personal decision.

TempestTcup · 2014-07-09T13:37:45+00:00

RPW doesn't have an official stance on every specialized subject in the world. If you want plastic surgery, get it; if you don't then don't. If you feel you need it to look your best, then go for it.

The Red Pill basically boils down to "Men need respect and women need love". Respect your man and he will love you. It's that simple. The looking good and cooking stuff is all icing on the cake.

FleetingWish · 2014-07-09T20:27:15+00:00

There is nothing wrong with getting plastic surgery. It's no less "natural" than using make up or braces to enhance your beauty. That said, you absolutely don't want to do any plastic surgery that is going to make you look worse, and just like make up, you want it to look natural. I've had my nose done, I've gotten a chin implant, and even had a little liposuction to get rid of some stubborn neck fat. With all that, no one, not even the people I see everyday, not even my family, figured out I had work done. That's because it looks natural. I do not have good genes, and the plastic surgery helped me to overcome that barrier.

Next I'm getting my breasts lifted (and probably reduced), getting my facial hair removed, and removing a giant mole off my face. None of this is "natural", but so what? What am I supposed to do, live the rest of my life with a giant mole on my face because it would be "cheating" (or something) to remove it?

little_red_ · 2014-07-09T23:23:14+00:00

RPW's stance is to look your best, however you choose to interpret that is entirely up to you.

MeowZedong- · 2014-07-09T08:03:22+00:00

I have a bump in my nose due to breaking it when I was little and never having it fixed. For years I have been very self conscious of it. I've gotten a little better but sometimes it still bugs me. I feel like if it's things like that and like what you mentioned (excess skin) I see nothing wrong with it. But you should be honest with it with future partners.

inkedpink · 2014-07-09T10:52:45+00:00

I always at around thinking if I had money to get plastic surgery, what would I get?

Everytime I boil down to the idea that I can't imagine changing my face in a way that is unfamiliar. My breasts are tiny and I can't see myself with them any bigger, I'd look like a caricature (32AA@105lbs). But I also down think I've aged badly either, maybe in ten more years I might be singing a different tune.

L7261 · 2014-07-09T11:34:45+00:00

Tbh I never really considered it aside from more repair-type purposes when I get older (early 20's now) because I have really big boobs and I do plan on having kids so after all the kids that we plan on having have been birthed and breastfed, I DO plan on have some sort of breast lift/reduction (in my 30's/40's). I have definitely been tempted to get a breast reduction around now (finding clothes that fit is hard if you're small waisted but large breasted somewhat comically) but I've come to love my comically huge tatas.

Baby_Panda15 · 2014-07-09T14:18:23+00:00

It depends, if it is a drastic change (example: drastic nose job) and you want children eventually I don't see the point because those altered traits won't be passed down. You may have a kid with your old facial features that now looks nothing like you and your husband. If the kid finds out you had it taken care of, it's not a good self-esteem booster until she or he can also get it fixed.

I do believe you should get something fixed if it prevents you from getting jobs or if multiple complete strangers come up to you and ask about it. Example: I am part Indian, I have very dark circles but it's just due to the shape of my skull. Strangers have assumed I was on drugs or not getting any sleep, etc. I have been denied jobs because of it. If I could afford it right now I would get plastic surgery, but as for right now I am making due with foundation.

Tattooed eyeliner or hair removal is subtle enough not to be a big issue.

Bakerofpie · 2014-07-10T01:16:41+00:00

I'm going to get a boob job and Brazilian laser hair removal so I don't have to mess with waxing so much. It isn't super high on the priority list right now and I want to have kids before getting a boob job because my body is bound to go through some changes. I see no problem with it at all, unless it develops into an obsession.

Title	RPW on Plastic Surgery?
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Date	July 9, 2014 6:53 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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