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A good amount of posts are gonna say "Nah it's good man, next time" blahblah. While it is true, you also need to figure out what the hell went wrong. For your next FR I would detail it WAY more on the interactions, because here you are describing a basic scenario that could be interpreted as bad or as awesome. Secondly, either the girls were not as into it as you perceived or they were quite drunk. Keep in mind that drunk people in general can flip in a hurry. Third, though it is good to run thr…
/r/seduction31/07/12 03:35 PM
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Good read, but somehow I am having the exact opposite issue. I want a quality girlfriend. I have tried many areas, but still have a "terrible" first world problem: All the girls I meet just want a fuck buddy. Even when acting directly contrarily to some of the advice given here. Makes me laugh and sad at the same damn time.
/r/seduction15/07/12 03:50 AM
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Awesome, that's how it is done. Just stay chill and keep relaxed. Also, while a high number of numbers flake, if she called you it is a pretty decent sign. Nice dude.
/r/seduction14/06/12 11:25 PM
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THIS. ANY girl I know, who would not like being called out for not smiling, would really hate being told they look like a killer. You did something else and it worked.
/r/seduction14/06/12 09:12 PM
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As an aside, I was casually seeing one of my friends for a few weeks. She did not want to continue so we stopped, but we still go out regularly and she meets up with guys while partying with me. I maintain mood, do whatever I want (alpha I guess) - but these new dudes offer or do buy me drinks all the time. It's like they are trying to get in good with me to get to her when I have never met them. Also had a blonde chick I never even opened hand me a beer at the bar and peace out. feelsoddbutgood…
/r/seduction12/06/12 08:13 PM
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If Cajun is the master, then I am doing a hell of a lot better than him - and I am still quite novice, though I try much less too. I am sorry, but I just think there is much better game out there. All they ever got were shaky number closes and cheek turn kiss rejections - even when the reached the "pinnacle." The pinnacle is when a girl will seriously re-evaluate her company or make major plan changes for you - without you asking.
/r/seduction12/06/12 06:51 PM
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Not that I am any kind of advanced PUA at all, but I do take issue with your post title and content. You did not overcome AA, you were opened by another guy with her. Then number closed her on facebook, which is good except that she probably considers it low risk as you are 10 states and 6 months away from a meet. Truth be told, not much happened here. Ok, if your still reading past me being an ass: this is awesome! Why? Well, for one I would not invest very much time in her. Chances of a meet a…
/r/seduction31/05/12 08:42 PM
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Read the sidebar. Then read it again. Then go start talking to people, EVERYONE, before you consume more material. By the way, Seddit is massive these days and the main page is not all the good advice it used to be. Stick to the sidebar and the most upvoted posts of all time. I will say right off hand I read hardly any of the busride thread. Maybe you could have made something happen, maybe not. Either way, read ore here and go forth confident. Cause shit, you already accidentally made the front…
/r/seduction26/05/12 08:33 PM
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You need to redevelop rapport. I typically bring up an inside joke and ask how life has been. Just did this after 4 weeks of no talking, she replied back in like 3 minutes.
/r/seduction21/05/12 12:59 AM
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I am shocked this is being asked, this is the number one example shit test out there that has been handled extensively in the sidebar. Even more shocking, the most classic and proven answer is not being posted. As with any other ST, agree and amplify. This should work especially well if the girl is ballsy enough to call you out. Just owning it is not enough. "Yeah I am! My phone never stops ringing!" Etc. Just make sure that you are obviously joking or doing cocky/funny, otherwise you just look …
/r/seduction16/05/12 04:02 AM
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I agree entirely, and find no conflict with my statement in yours. Inner game and confidence, are without a doubt, the two aspects of social interaction with ANYONE that apply to every situation imaginable. I was speaking more to things like routines, kino (especially ladders), negs (if they are even still in use), and more specific/applied techniques.
/r/seduction02/05/12 04:08 PM
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This feeds into a theory I have developed....seddit is good on many girls, but generally works better on lower quality women. I know datfeel, Im looking for a genuine girl and relationship, but can only find the girls that wanna fuck or are not my ltr standards.
/r/seduction01/05/12 11:59 PM
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Just read the sidebar and add that shit in instead of replacing comedic things. Girls like a guy that makes them laugh. The love a man confident enough to follow it up with some suave and sexy shit. Switch between the two.
/r/seduction30/04/12 01:13 AM
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As a high achievement nearly graduated college student, and former forever alone - here it is. BALANCE everything. Like a friend of mine who is a lawyer says, work hard and play hard. Go get some fucking money working, get some decent ass grades, and get some women. Do socially outgoing things. Become a leader. Do not give a FUCK what others think of you. I've been criticized for something in my life, then used the exact same thing to attract women. You will ALWAYS have haters. Go watch Katt Wil…
/r/seduction30/04/12 01:09 AM
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Read more sidebar and decide how each outcome will affect your life. I REALLY do not like such specific questions, but here are my thoughts on the little info you have given. IMO, relationship kicking off with a two month LDR is bad news. How much touching/flirting, and what kind? Relationship or not, things are going to cool down when you are away for 2 months with nothing other than Kino to build on. If it were me, and she is a genuine girl (aka you have gotten to know her not to be manipulati…
/r/seduction29/04/12 08:37 AM
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Yup, this shit isn't new. Way back last semester there was a gorgeous girl in the back of one of my classes. I obviously checked her out, got nothing but turn arounds, ignoring, and at one point I thought she scoffed at me. Took two months to break my AA and talk to her, finally had like 3 conversations leaving class with her. Read my november posts in seddit if you want to know the rest.
/r/seduction20/04/12 03:46 AM
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Ohh I see, sounds good. Good luck sir!
/r/seduction19/04/12 12:24 PM
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The two major points I pulled out of that post are that you are on a hi-hi basis/she pretends to not see you, yet you think there is a friendship to lose. I think seeing someone and playing it off like you do not see them is a REALLY bad sign for any friendship/existing attraction. In seduction there is almost nothing you should NOT say to a girl's face to face regarding feelings, if you are gonna say it at all. Mature talk on feelings if confident and an alpha trait, though something that needs…
/r/seduction16/04/12 02:50 AM
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Your reply depends on a couple things. Does she know you are interested in her? Are you guys good friends I.e. is there a friendship to lose here? I would not reply as you wrote it, but I can give more information once you reply to this.
/r/seduction15/04/12 06:52 PM
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Even being religious myself, that link just seems off to me. I just cannot put my finger on why. It also goes against many basic tenants of seduction and basic interactions between humans. Very rapport destroying.
/r/seduction15/04/12 03:11 PM
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This is probably one of my largest sticks aside from simply approaching. I tend to filter for only high quality girls, so I want to girlfriend all of them. I made a self reddit post about this a couple days ago.
/r/seduction15/04/12 03:09 PM
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CD is much more applicable to personal space, so you are right there. Hahaha yeah, I live in a CD state and love it :P
/r/seduction15/04/12 01:12 AM
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Interesting read, first time I have commented on seddit in detail in a while. 2 things: I am giving you the advice you did not ask for, and you are not going to like it. Please try to take it as best as possible anyways. I am doing this because I WAS you a few years ago. And it fucking BLOWS. The sheer number of other women you have missed out on in the expansive times gaps of her absence is huge. I have done the same thing, and it is a mistake. Even thinking about her that much without any kind…
/r/seduction15/04/12 01:10 AM
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Excellent guide. I have always felt as though I am sitting like a king or prince at leisure when following this. Taking up space is critical. In other news, the OCD self defender in me feels the need to correct you. G. Zimmerman was thought to use the Stand Your Ground law, not Castle Doctrine (which applies to dwellings) - but I believe recently his lawyer said neither would be implemented in his defense. Nice job on both Def. Guides!
/r/seduction15/04/12 12:22 AM
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I cannot believe this has not been mentioned yet, so pay attention. Even if you are "friend zoned", DO NOT...I say again, DO NOT treat it like a beta friend zone. Occasionally I even teasingly call it "the friend zone" and the shit works wonders. Like The most interesting man in the world would say, "Stay flirty my friends." Keep things sexual and light hearted, and never stop flirting - even if they are 100% total friends. Be yourself, act like you would when courting a non friend, and it will …
/r/seduction10/04/12 08:51 PM
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You are not an asshole. 2. Please STOP and do none of the above. If she is still willing to meet up with you, you are still fine. One should rarely apologize for doing something socially awkward because it just adds to the awkward. Go chill with her and have a blast on St Patties!!
/r/seduction16/03/12 11:44 PM
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You should have taken it wherever you wanted. Seddit has become to questioning of its own motives, and you are here too. Most would have continued conversation, isolated one, build comfort having a good time, then go for whichever close one prefers that night. Furthermore, you may have been tipsy but I think you could have done it. Why? I don't do tricks, Dogs and hookers do tricks, I just make quarters dissapear around gorgeous women. Because that is probably the BEST possible line to pull in r…
/r/seduction16/03/12 02:18 PM
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Everyone has pretty much nailed it: monitor your own time. I killed a ton of my video game time holes by getting busy as shit at school. Find some high achievement activity you like, and slowly your desire to play will abate significantly. So. My opinion is Do not sell the xbox. I have a SNES, N64, PS2, PS3, 360, two surround sound systems, and a TV too big for my small room. Just mention it in a no big deal fashion, I play mine up as a small home theater - and the only seat is the bed ;). Even …
/r/seduction16/03/12 02:13 PM
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Welp, she dumped you into a sea of cock hungry women, that sucks. Throwaway makes a good point about nosex being a dealbreaker, but it still sounds harsh IMO. I would say this changes nothing about seduction, except that you have to tell them about the condition if things are getting hot and heavy. I would just do so in a normal fashion. Own that shit, show that you are entirely comfortable and not shameful or nervous about it at all, and it will be chill. Also, to help with the lack of sexing -…
/r/seduction16/03/12 02:03 PM
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Yeah, the you should have gone for the kiss first - you may have seriously broken her comfort with such a brazen move so quickly. However I know exactly how you feel with kiss anxiety, it is just something you have to work on. What helped me is accepting how much make outs do NOT even matter, and then seeing evidence of it from girls in my life. Things I have seen and things others on this board will tell you that in a club, girls that make out may actually have high flake rate if you do not clo…
/r/seduction16/03/12 01:56 PM
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Jeez, assigned library seats? Fascist educational system is fascist...Ah, would make sense if computers are limited. Here you just hope to God there is an available system
/r/seduction13/03/12 07:39 PM
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Damn dude, this is solid. I can see this kind of game working super well or not at all - and she definitely took the time to write extensively, good IoI. I love how you made eye contact too - you humanized the situation and helped remove possible creepy tendencies there. Good kino opportunities later on as well. Note the probabaility of this working is is likely WAY higher is she sits next to you, rather than you next to her. Classic text game for the meetup, good work dude.
/r/seduction13/03/12 03:33 AM
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Remember to stay outcome independent. While study groups are often popularized in media, unless the girl has pre-existing attraction to you, they often do not work well for seduction. This typically happens because many people do actually want to study in a study group. Secondly, you are following a trend in seddit that tends to ask for situation specific advice. This is time consuming and largely useless for two reasons. Number one, seduction material used to be very calculated and specific, bu…
/r/seduction13/03/12 03:27 AM
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LOL NOPE. Let her get to feeling better, but do NOt pull the FZ ima-gonna-make-you-all better coddling. If she is laid back I would tease her very lightly about it, or even go for the date and just set it up post-sickness.
/r/seduction12/03/12 07:05 PM
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DLEDOO is right on spot, and I'm surprised it is not the most upboated comment. You need to work on your inner game; your entire post in negatively framed. It sounds liek you did not escalate at all and like you are in the friendzone. Read the inner game side bar, then do that shit. Then, do as Senor said and go talk to other women! If she can talk about her FWB, you can talk about your dates with other women. Also, ask her out again. Escalate and see if you are in the FZ. If you feel you truly …
/r/seduction27/02/12 02:02 PM
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Seems like an ok night. I understand being tired (I school full time and work part time), but the girl that wanted you to come back AND came to your house? You had that shit. Even if one is exhausted, cuddle sleep is better than alone sleep. Getting called a player seems like a mild shit test. agree and amplify. The jewelry comment was interesting. I think it was just another shit test or something she heard. I wear a necklace, large watch, bracelet, and two rings. All but the rings are basic, b…
/r/seduction21/02/12 02:16 PM
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Denzel all day. "My Nigga!"
/r/seduction20/02/12 06:10 AM
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A lot of times I sit in the bars and muse at the guys hitting on girls and neglecting to touch them at all, or once on the arm. Listen, I've been you. I have gotten girls in my bed, basically begging for contact and been scared. In clubs, no one gives a fuck. You need confidence (fake is ok) and you need to progress somewhat like the DeCarlo ladder. I do not buy into the specifics of it, but start with the arm. As long as she does not freak out, continue. I actually have trouble hearing in clubs…
/r/seduction18/02/12 04:37 PM
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Holy fuck. Get a new wing or get him to straighten up. He entirely fucked you over. In a TON of ways. Anyways, could she have read anything that outright mentioned pickup material? Also, her friend may have been calling and got her to trip balls with things like "you dont know them, they might drug your drink, theres two of them and one of you" etc. Legitimate worries for sure, considering how fast you guys met. Then your "wing" started harassing her in the middle of a mild freak out. Not OK or …
/r/seduction13/02/12 04:32 AM
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Surprised I have not seen this before. I occasionally wear a full suit out, not often though - it tends to beckon "what are you dressed up for?" However, I do wear a button up/tie every day to school, and a blazer over it along with dark jeans and light DVS shoes. Yep. And I typically get the "you look really nice/good/dapper". If I am questioned, I simply say I like to look nice and prefer the style. Attention and congruence with my own motives, even if I am one of 3 people wearing more than a …
/r/seduction13/02/12 02:19 AM
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Upvote, I have come across this as well and am not sure. I typically would just assume the girls are out with other guys as well, but that is only marginally effective.
/r/seduction12/02/12 04:06 PM
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I may or may not be full of shit right now. Please God force all the politicians to tag anything they ever say with this.
/r/seduction12/02/12 01:58 AM
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This is so encouraging because it is what I am ultimately after. I mean, sex is nice - but my standards for that are even fairly high so it has been a challenge lately. This is a good point - anyone else pull the LTR-close? Lofty goal is worthy of being lofty...
/r/seduction12/02/12 01:29 AM
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That was pretty damn insightful. I think the challenge part of it is especially important - attraction seems very based on being good enough to get what others cannot.
/r/seduction11/02/12 09:42 PM
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Nailed it, dude. I used to be wallflower status as well. In most situations, drunk gaming is not good...however, it took one night of getting wasted with a FWB to not give a fuck and learn to dance. Seriously, I went out - got drunk (not serious face'd drunk, but not even close to sober) and taught myself. I had a sexy ass girl and could not have cared less about anything. I discovered I have a good ass and excellent hip rhythm. To be honest I still think I look slightly gay dancing, and I don't…
/r/seduction11/02/12 09:34 PM
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And so are you for posting this. Lulz and down votes were had :)
/r/seduction11/02/12 07:09 PM
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What. the fuck. Was not really even in state, ran into an old friend and her friends. We went to lunch together. +4 new aquaintances, one girl who is cute sits by me. number closed her, meeting her later at a club, and good possibilities...then I number closed naother girl I have seen and chatted with a couple times. FR later.
/r/seduction11/02/12 01:12 AM
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I am in the same situation, and have the same EXTREME rationalization of pussification going on like the OP- even though I am better at daygame than night game. Tomorrow, shit is going down.
/r/seduction10/02/12 04:55 AM
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Just court her like normal, except don't unnecessarily bring up the purity ring and be especially aware of her boundaries. You want to stand on that fine line of NOT crossing them, but being physical regardless. IMO after a couple dates you will know if shes holding onto it for marriage or not. Conversely, you could just downright ask her about sex. Riskier, but even if it doesn't work you could talk to her about it and have a good conversation. Growing up and even as young adults, people who ar…
/r/seduction08/02/12 01:49 PM
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Fuck yes, lived by this line since 2005.
/r/seduction07/02/12 10:31 PM
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Read the whole thing haha. Your social circle is fucking awesome, I wish I had access to that many parties at once. However, you need to escalate MG asap! She's definitely into you and the k close would have been no problem, if not leading to more. Good shit but be more aggressive!
/r/seduction06/02/12 08:51 PM
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Anyone else hear that? That was the sound of the universe caving in from the continually expanding awesomeness that is Teddy motherfucking Roosevelt. I'm not a quote man, but that is one hell of a quote.
/r/seduction06/02/12 08:38 PM
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This is not as much of a mindfuck as you think it is. Firstly, you have a very dated emotional comfort set up with her that never seemed to dissipate. I think she has oneitis with you, at least in the background of her mind. Therefore, it was very easy to be consoled with you in a time of sorrow. Furthermore, I've noticed times of sorrow can make a girl very vulnerable, emotional, and seeking of emotional reciprocation. Then she mentions her boyfriend - in my opinion, this was an attempt at self…
/r/seduction04/02/12 11:01 PM
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Lulz at this thread. So I think in the sidebar there is something about gaming bartenders/cocktail waitresses. Basically the idea is to be incredibly different from the crowd, because they get paid to be flashy and try to get hit on. I think this is one of the few cases where a lot of the interaction simply depends on how much they are attracted to you from the outset. I have made friends with 1 bartender and 3 cocktail girls at bars I frequent. I have yet to try hard on any of them, but am not …
/r/seduction02/02/12 04:38 PM
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Interesting. I can definitely relate to you a TON. I went from the middle of 3rd grade to my sophomore year of high school being home schooled. In that time frame, I had two friends (each about a year apart) and went to youth group at church once a week (starting in about 7th grade, where I almost never talked to anyone). There is no exaggeration there at all. In high school, I went full blown goth in about 3 months and held that until my sophomore year of college. I was the epitome of anti soci…
/r/seduction01/02/12 09:28 PM
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"The reality is that latter. I'm assuming you are a cool guy with awesome value to offer. This being the case, you are the selector. Your approach is actually you filtering candidates for what they can offer you." Mother of God...(sunglasses drop)
/r/seduction01/02/12 01:31 PM
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Are you too old? Not necessarily. It would probably be sexually awesome. However, you will encounter social stigma for this. Even more important, this is your workplace. Young girls ARE emotionally unstable and that can be very bad in the workplace, ESPECIALLY if it is anything more than entry level. I am 22 and can hardly relate to 19 to 20 year old girls. AND she is still in HS. Graduated would be one thing, but this just sounds like a lot of possible issues. Also keep in mind: High value 18 y…
/r/seduction31/01/12 05:10 PM
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That gives you a month to read all the sidebar material and get out to practice! And fuck you, a kiss CAN happen. Pay attention to everything kino on here. Incidental touches ALL the time when making a point, go for arm on shoulder or around back when walking. Just do not take it seriously because it isn't. If she shies away, slow down but feel no remorse. You are just a naturally touchy individual. Unless you are looking at less than a half hour timeframe, you got this. What you need to also ke…
/r/seduction30/01/12 10:39 PM
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Girls just don't respond sometimes. It sucks, but you WILL come off as needy pestering them. I get the opposite feeling when an immediate response occurs, good IoI. I would check out the sidebar text game. Good stuff in there. Something like the sports commentary was perfect. Pick something either absurdly funny that happened to you or a cool/adventurous event in your life. Do not be afraid to skip a week. Make the times irregular so it does not seem to be planned. What is also good is you seem …
/r/seduction30/01/12 09:59 PM
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Firstly, asking about a single girl is usually r/relationship advice turf. Seddit opposes trying to go after just one girl specifically, but you are vague in that intent. Secondly, not bad. A little awkward in progression, but some girls do want a friend first. Always keep seduction and attraction up here, and always be just slightly pushing the boundary. On your notes, in order: She wants to see you. This is very good, shows she is not to serious - which contrasts much of her other behavior. Th…
/r/seduction30/01/12 09:10 PM
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You are right. That's why it works. High confidence/outcome independence sets you apart from the pack.
/r/seduction30/01/12 09:01 PM
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I love this technique. If guys are being downright creepy or offensive, it is very easy to play off them by being different. Just be friendly, comment on the situation, and move to regular conversation.
/r/seduction30/01/12 02:20 PM
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Melt has a good point. I am also interested in what you do and where/how you socialize. Some will disagree, but in a college town where I live the quality is very seldom at the bars. I go out with high quality girls to the bar, but have never met one there where a better relationship was fostered outside. Day game is much more useful here.
/r/seduction29/01/12 04:00 PM
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This is r/sex material for sure. By this point, it is an entirely different seduction than we use. Find out more specifically what he likes and do a little of that. Vary it. HOWEVER, do not bust your ovaries getting sex. I cannot fathom a girl with a high libido not being satisfied in an LTR. Sex is 50/50. If it is important enough to you and you both do not work towards it equally, it may be time to look at a new relationship. Remember, chances are small that you will make drastic changes in hi…
/r/seduction27/01/12 09:06 PM
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Become super familiar with the sidebar material, then just observe them if you will not ask. If a guy just wants to know if another guy is gaming at night, you can pretty much isolate and ask for the answer. I am not quite sure what this is good for unless you are looking for a wing.
/r/seduction27/01/12 02:07 PM
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Curveball called it. My roommate is about to graduate as an engineering undergrad. I feel your pain, I considered it and have watched his homework. This is a LONG way from unaccomplished. As a nearly straight A student, I appreciate those who simply pass those classes; it's a fucking testament to your intellectual power. He failed at least one, and this dude is not a slacker by any means. Also, cutting back on approach will only suffer your experience there. Ramp both school and approach up at t…
/r/seduction26/01/12 08:26 AM
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So much to address I cannot even read the other comments, most of which probably say the same thing. You are missing it, the general rues of seduction apply to everyone. Accept that you are awesome. Be sexy with what you can control. Hold high value for yourself and your life. GO OUT and meet people! Also, you are 19. You will hate to hear this and hate to accept it, but you are young and the chance for love is very slim at that age. That does not mean you should not pursue it. Find out exactly …
/r/seduction26/01/12 08:19 AM
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Bad bad bad news all over here. Personal policy on sig others differs with people here, but here is my take: 1. I don't fuck with relationships. I think it is just unnecessary. 2. As stated, if she will cheat on him she will cheat on you. Your writing style also conveys a high level of emotion, not purely a sexual hookup - more evidence against starting something. 3. You mention no very direct IoIs. In normal game, this is irrelevant. But with as much BF/career/social circle involvement, it woul…
/r/seduction26/01/12 07:50 AM
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I actually have only lit mine once to blacken the wicks. Purely decorative.
/r/seduction26/01/12 07:00 AM
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Usually FZ results from being to beta/non dominant and not conveying your intentions clearly enough. I believe the sidebar has some FZ killer tactics, but you should know it is a pretty hard place to get out of most of the time. If you actually want them as a friend, then move forward there. There is a multitude of approaches depending on what you want and how you ended up there. If you developed good rapport and comfort, but not enough attraction - keep them as a friend. You can access their so…
/r/seduction25/01/12 07:37 AM
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Also have Xbox Netflix and an HDMI compatible laptop ;)
/r/seduction25/01/12 07:23 AM
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Upvoted for everything, which I rarely do. My contribution will be the media case. I have a small bookshelf with both humorous and legitimate works on it. If you are actually smart, this will add the slight edge. I also have a shitload of movies, something like 180. Makes the "watch a movie" excuse in my small home theater bedroom so much easier. Oh and interior decorating. I have red drapes with embroidered patterns. Black tie backs. Two silk oriental rugs. Nice, coordinated bedding. Decorative…
/r/seduction25/01/12 06:20 AM
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This is classic oneitis again. I personally think that, though aided by long term practice in the seductive arts, there is a biological basis for our default personality. The issue here is that you, like myself, have a very AFC default personality. I notice it tends to slip on me from time to time as well. I think it will always be there and we have to manage as best we can by following classic abundance/confidence/inner game schools of thought. Do not be scared of this, just be aware that one d…
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:21 AM
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True story. I am a month and a half into seeing someone who was pretty damn awesome, then some bad traits start showing up. And I am in the same boat as you - being with her used to be ecstasy. This has happened a lot in life for me in general. Most attractive girls you sleep with seem awesome from the get go.
/r/seduction25/01/12 05:08 AM
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sounds like the interaction went as best as it could, she just was not into it. Next is right. I like your comment on others not noticing - my number one anxiety about the bus is other people stalking my approach. No idea why I even care in the first place. The only thing I would watch is your body language and placement on the bus. It is a prime zone to block her in (2 seats oriented forward with her by the window) and that will set off many panic alarms for a girl, especially from a cold appro…
/r/seduction25/01/12 04:58 AM
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After conversation with a couple trusted friends and a lot of self examination, I think I have settled on this a bit. I am simply going to tell her while she was not in the wrong, I feel incredibly disrespected. I will see where the conversation and relationship goes from there. I really cannot decide what I was either. Dating other people is cool, but I feel like she crossed a line by doing it while we were out together. Not everyone will agree with me, but I feel valuable enough that this is n…
/r/seduction24/01/12 10:13 PM
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If she is dating you, it is only a minor point and she is obviously attracted to you regardless. I would highly recommend inner game sidebar material, but more importantly - post this or search /r/sex. There is a plethora of material on all things sex there and it is better suited by leaps and bounds to this question as opposed to this subreddit.
/r/seduction24/01/12 06:31 AM
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Thanks Vanq, you and Curveball always read my novels and offer excellent advice. However, last night I got some news indicating something very weird and bad is happening to my inner game and self concept. My roommate and myself went over the night, and according to his sister (who I trust to be unbiased), my oneitis was also making out with a guy for drinks. At first, I was fairly non reactant. I know logically we have not declared anything besides seeing eachother. I am going on dates with othe…
/r/seduction22/01/12 04:20 PM
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I agree with all the sentiments of move on, with one exception. If the interaction was good on a platonic level, and you can be a genuine friend to her, FZ her. Access to social circle from a trusted friend is awesome. Just because a girl is not attracted to you does not mean she can't think you are good for her friend.
/r/seduction22/01/12 05:59 AM
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I have always gone for the shoulder or hand touch very quickly and lightly. As long as no negative reaction is perceived, I will go for anything else I want. This is also day game. In the club, I basically start wherever except for the face and neck. Lower back is almost always a good start for any part of conversation.
/r/seduction22/01/12 04:47 AM
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Sounds good, personally I would invite her to either coffee in a public forum or a group event with a couple friends from your side and hers. Work on developing friendship from there, but still maintain alpha traits and attractive qualities. Girls who FZ you, but trust you, are awesome for setting you up in their circle of friends. And the social proof you get is a great boost as well.
/r/seduction20/01/12 07:29 AM
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Props on finally getting out there. My collegiate game has been so so this semester. In regards to your next move, how exactly did you get her number and did you defuse the boyfriend line at all? If things went decently enough, I would just text her like any other friend. "Hey its xxx, how's it going?". If you can be a genuine friend, you access her social circle - which can be extremely valuable, especially in college.
/r/seduction19/01/12 11:30 PM
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I both love and hate when things like this happen to me. Obviously it is freaking awesome, but it also makes me IoI dependent. Just remember to assume attraction, I am losing that concept just a bit.
/r/seduction18/01/12 12:56 AM
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My opinion has changed to this. OP is now just complaining how much his miss-perceptions of our community make him angry. Not entirely sure he has given it an unbiased look at all. No one is forcing you to be here.
/r/seduction17/01/12 09:51 PM
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Almost all of the advice here, except the non-constructive, is very good. I look forward to your reply to some of it. Here are some of my observations. -You are 19, and I assume have just finished your first semester of college. You need to chill out, I did not bloom socially until second semester my junior year. You have so much more time to be taking advantage of awesome knowledge I wish I had. There are some on this board who did not hit that realization until late their late 20s. Also, it se…
/r/seduction17/01/12 05:06 PM
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Glad someone brought up this subject. I rock a beard/mustache that is trimmed short and medium profiled (eg not pencil thin, not a full beard) and have wondered if it is affecting my game at all. Personally I am of the opinion that it is entirely a girl to girl preference. However, if you are going to do it - here are a few tips I have read or heard from various sources. -I discourage going for a beard if you have spotted/inconsistent growth. You need the hair to grow evenly otherwise it just lo…
/r/seduction17/01/12 06:50 AM
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Yes and no. I was referring to value taking being bad for you, but failure is the way to improve.
/r/seduction14/01/12 04:06 PM
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No problem, we are here to make shit work. I think you are a little to much into not caring, just need to calibrate and game will be on.
/r/seduction14/01/12 04:13 AM
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I know of no professional PUAs with even a 90 or 80% success rate. You will fail. Some girls just go out for fun.
/r/seduction13/01/12 05:59 PM
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You have to make girls chase you by first meeting on some level ground, only the very outgoing will chase you from the get go. Goo PUAs establish attraction first (perhaps a trade on the picture), then tease. Jokingly walking away or pretending to put the camera in your pocket is a good move, but unless you are in GOOD with the set, don't actually pocket it and make them pull it out. If you are still untrusted by the group (as is in your current FR), such a move will go very badly. Not sure who …
/r/seduction13/01/12 05:56 PM
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There are so many things to address here. Do me a favor, and read the entire thing. Starting with the original post. I concur with bcktth. No negs as openers, you have to establish at least a tiny bit of rapport (aka a normal opener and maybe 1 minute of conversation). This did not kick the set off right, but could have been worse. However, something in your dancing turned off the girl you were dancing with. She called for help, that is that. Your best move would have been to open him and dance …
/r/seduction13/01/12 05:47 PM
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For the most part, well done sir. The most glaring part of the whole thing was you buying lunch. Some will disagree, but I never buy drinks or food until at least day2, preferably day3 unless she is a VERY good prospect. I agree, things are only awkward if you allow them to be. Fuck that, I make everything fun. It sounds like your conversation went just fine, and the kino actually sounds more responsive than you thought it was. The only issue I have other wise is hand holding. I am semi-new here…
/r/seduction13/01/12 08:56 AM
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Kino is friendly touching. Just a simple hand on the arm when you say it would be more than enough.
/r/seduction12/01/12 08:21 PM
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As usual, these guys hit it. Only two things I would add. Smile a lot, which will probably happen if you are genuinely flattered, and maybe kino him. If he take sit hard, that's his issue. Also consider adding something besides sorry by itself. "Sorry, I am just out with friends tonight" "Sorry, Im just not looking for anything right now" The wing thing is great. If he is chill and not an AFC, winging for him would be fucking phenomenal. I know some will not agree with me, but I have no issue be…
/r/seduction12/01/12 06:56 PM
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I agree with most of the advice in this thread, with the exception of a couple things. Firstly, I do not think you are out of friendzone territory by a long shot. Because this is happening during the day, you can calm the approach a little bit, but you still need to make it very clear why you are there. Start very low on the kino ladder, but push quickly (and push/pull for that matter) to just a tad outside your comfort zone. On your text game, you need to read the sidebar on it again. The line …
/r/seduction12/01/12 06:48 PM
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Up top.
/r/seduction12/01/12 06:34 PM
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No problem man. However, a quick tweak on your order of priority. Once you become self confident and actualized (in your own value is a living creature), then women come to you. I struggle with needing validation a lot too, but we will get there. Don't expect to entirely get over her. Some feelings will still be there, especially if you have known her long. Personally, I use this to fuel kino on her while we are out. Being attracted is not an issue, just do not let it interfere with other goals.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:26 PM
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I'd prefer an FR like this over a seasoned F-Close anyday. I'll be honest, I was skeptical of your first post's effectiveness. Dude, well done. Good job on text opening and teasing lightly. It seems like everything went pretty naturally, and she doe shave a nice body so respect there. You could have added more detail such as kino and conversational progression. Though her roommate was no doubt looking out, props on letting her be drunk and alone. It was the respectful and proper thing to do; we …
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:15 PM
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Well, it does not seem like she is a manipulative type girl, so you have points there. Honestly, sometimes some people cannot even make friends. I have one girl who I was pursuing hardcore a while ago, and now not at all. Truly, I do not think you are over this thing. Once you get over it, you stop giving a fuck. And it is awesome; it allows you to be a good friend and gain access to their social circle - both of which I have done (2 k-closes on friends of hers). I think you critical issue here …
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:54 AM
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That is heavy dude. Respect for posting. I also used to experience many of the feelings you mention in the FR to a high degree. It has calmed down a lot now. This will be harsh, but a few things I feel the need to point out. -You were chasing her to some degree. For an HB6, this should not be necessary at all. -If the feelings of giving up come up again during an interaction, turn that into ignoring/teasing her or leave entirely. The way it went down was dually bad: it completely dropped your le…
/r/seduction10/01/12 04:52 AM
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Watched the whoel thing, very good advice - some of it I heard before. And I kind of disagree with everyone on the college thing, and perceived it more as: get more than a BA/BS. Which is true, even the state school I got to is a considerable cost and I know a TON of kids getting art/english/BS only psych degrees. You have to be smart about your degree. Also, I do think college is no longer for everyone because it is expensive, mainstreamed, and doe snot set you from the pack as well.
/r/seduction10/01/12 04:31 AM
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So I'm gonna try to not be to supportive of your post, nut nope. Nopenopenope. do NOT stick your dick in crazy. Anywhere. It seems she's surely teasing just to get laid and possibly emotionally dependant. 2 issues here though. 1. Not only is she crazy, it may be emotionally manipulative for you to go after her unless you very very clearly state you just want sex. 2. If everything you said is true, there is no reason to even think about crazy chicks. Young, rich, attractive? Just go meet new girl…
/r/seduction09/01/12 04:26 PM
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Awww yeah! This is where it starts, excellent work destroying the AA. Yeah it was a little rough, but you closed and that just happens sometimes. Keep at it and let us know when you day2 chocolate girl.
/r/seduction09/01/12 03:16 AM
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I'm not sure you will find a ton of long term motivation in this form. I like reading good FRs to get in state, but for true motivation you need to establish good inner game. What are you doing to better yourself? Start reading lots of high level literature, working out, and establishing yourself as a successful individual. However, in the interest of your post - such inner game changes have been phenomenal for me. I mostly discovered I am a fantastic person and in order for others to appreciate…
/r/seduction08/01/12 08:04 PM
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Yep, messing with your buddy's girl will alienate both of them. Even if things go south with them, leave it alone. Better yet, endorse the relationship. Take them and a couple others out to more parties. Go back to the story of how you set them up ala matchmaker (somewhat jokingly of course). Now you have a new conversational topic and possible escalator and it will display social proof at the same time.
/r/seduction07/01/12 06:24 PM
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I would have winged the parents, go semi indirect with one of the map boards if possible. Then turn to her and engage her directly. Opener is not to significant, seconds-long eye contact means you have the in already. Be friendly and smile. even if it went badly (that is to say you had to part ways and everyone is still happy) she will be flattered a guy had the balls to approach in that situation and you will have one more difficult approach under your belt.
/r/seduction07/01/12 06:21 PM
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I am kind of in the same boat Imaulle, I sometimes have issues getting them invested enough. Do not forget that a portion of this is just the girls you meet will vary. Some will start closer to no strings attached territory, others in the relationship territory.
/r/seduction07/01/12 05:24 PM
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Pretty good night it seems! I think getting less jealous and better with guys will come from good inner game and opening more males when approaching. It is always helpful to handle new males coming in to the situation. It also seems you are very good at developing comfort and attraction in women, which can lead to the FZ if not done right - good work there. Now I may be going out of line here, but I do not apologize if I am. I think you should seriously look at options as a friend of daddy issue…
/r/seduction07/01/12 05:20 PM
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You can do a lot of things. Ignore them and set up a date. Say you dislike the disconnection of texting and invite to coffee, an incredibly innocent date. you could also say "Got XYZ with HBs898 to go to, Ill text you about a hangout later this week" and leave it there. Control the conversation.
/r/seduction06/01/12 04:18 AM
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Dude, you forgot to mention the part of the bar with the puppet strings and a controller in your hands. Excellent work. Not just back pats though, could you elaborate in depth how you "forced" an IoI and generally nonverbal games HBSS? I have had this happen a couple times with good EC and a smile.
/r/seduction06/01/12 04:11 AM
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Not bad, I may go to the ridiculous story on girls I'm not digging (which is a ton of the club chicks in my city). If you think there is something there, I think you did the right thing. I'm not quite sure it was beta or alpha. A bit of both, but it worked like you wanted it too. I tread carefully around the quality girls.
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:03 PM
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Like a boss. You have my commendations, sir. Also good job on a concise enough FR while retaining technique. Well done.
/r/seduction05/01/12 08:57 PM
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Story one: excellent conversational plays. Here is what I don't get. Same program. Game the cute redhead. Doesn't date classmates. Wait, wat. Story two: Good all around, I have to use that opener for night game soon.
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:47 AM
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Surprised no one has hit on the major issue here: WAY to much texting. Now I will treat the rest of the conversation as if it took place on a date (over coffee, for example). Lots of shit tests, good job amplifying them. Now the drug question is interesting, and its impact is dependent on your ultimate end game with this girl. If you are looking for something casual and very non-committed, the appropriate response would be ignore or amplify. You probably could have handled it well this way if yo…
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:42 AM
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I am with Ottawa on this, as soon as I read line 1. It seems like you invested no work in this at all. At the second party, seems like an ok game but you must have done other shit for her to agree to that so simply or she was extremely drunk. This may be considered FR worthy. Were it not for the fact it was years ago. This community is interested in the methods that cause constant and current transformation of the self socially. I call attention troll.
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:32 AM
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Well, for one - congrats. It seems your looks are good enough to get you opened, which will make life easier. Teasing after a number close with no precursory attraction/investment is not the greatest idea. Be confident and set a date to set up the aformentioned things. Yeah, something went really wrong between bar passes and bus entrance. I am gonna second the LMR or maybe she did just get the sick feeling, but invested girl's will typically apologize on site for it. I am not sure this is a full…
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:28 AM
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Very nice! How long have you known about seddit/material? Seems like the line game went well enough, let the text sit for a day or two. What did you send her?
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:15 AM
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Excellent job! Especially with day game, getting those first approaches done is incredibly difficult. I applaud how well you did as well, most starters get the creeper response many times.
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:10 AM
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The "you don't want that" line is brilliant. Playing societal impressions before she even purchases, genius.
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:08 AM
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Haha I was unclear, I quite like BP as a tool, I was referring to going after a "taken" woman. To many complications that I do not want to deal with.
/r/seduction05/01/12 09:00 AM
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It's all in the smile. I cannot describe how I got it down, but you have to have the devilish/mischievous/happy as fuck smile. I came from and am in 10+ years of depression and no smiling. The best thing for me is it would come naturally once I got a smile from her. It also becomes way easier when you DGAF (see the FR soon to come).
/r/seduction05/01/12 08:58 AM
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IMO, never on the first or second meet and rarely, only in a teasing manner after that. Seems chump status to me most of the time, even in relationships. Now pet names in a context is entirely different from babe or baby. I starting calling this girl Texas last night on the Day3. However, me and a friend were teasing her about being from Texas for a long ass time so there is a story behind it, and everyone found it amusing.
/r/seduction04/01/12 08:31 PM
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DJ DHV has got to be pretty good for opening. Excellent job playing women off of one another in the BP game. I probably would not have gone for it, but it worked for you.
/r/seduction04/01/12 06:56 PM
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I was, and am somewhat still in your shoes. Bad AA, but good dress got girls to open me fairly frequently, even at a much younger age. What you are going to find is that most of seddit endorses a very forward method, in nearly all scenarios. Your big issue, based on what information you have given, is that you are in your head to much. quit. thinking. This is relevant for everything. Last night I was on a Day3, and I got way into my head. I did enjoy the events of the night, but I thought to muc…
/r/seduction04/01/12 06:55 PM
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Massive IoI. Even if you being in the dream was insignificant, the fact she told you that without evn knowing you is a HUGE IoI. Just use basic confidence, tease her a tiny bit about it, and go for the date. You HAVE this.
/r/seduction04/01/12 09:07 AM
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In my experience it is entirely dependent on the girl. I typically use maybe one, then wait and watch how many she uses over a few days. Some girls look at it as unnecessary and childish, others see it as a trait of a fun having individual. The important thing to remember is that in seduction, texting is used for one thing: setting up the meet. Don't try to flirt with smilies unless you have no other choice (eg long time to the meetup, month or more I would say).
/r/seduction04/01/12 09:04 AM
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I have talked on this before, I get this a lot when going out. It primarily depends on where it comes from. Most girls said it is because I dress with style, one has said my vocal tone. If it is just how styled/confident you are, it is massively helpful to you. Girls love gay guys and if you ask them, many want to fuck gay guys too. However if you come off downright feminine across the board, it can hinder you. Just check on yourself and be confident in what you do.
/r/seduction04/01/12 09:01 AM
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This is one subject in the seddit community we need to go over, and one I oddly figured out myself pretty well. I live in a 2 bed apartment with a roommate. We have damn near nothing in our living room/kitchen is typical food and a shitload of beverages. I don't care how ridiculous it is, I followed ChiCity's advice on beverages. Search youtube for ChiCity fridge if you want more on that. It is just being a good host. When I moved into my new place, I said I was gonna make it reflect my personal…
/r/seduction03/01/12 09:18 PM
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Way to operate like a boss. I wish I had more houseparties where I knew 1 person. I went to alot in my AFC days and never opened anyone. Wasted time. Anyways, awesome job on HB8, but tread carefully. If they will cheat on you, they will cheat with you. I personally eject pretty quick with confirmed BFs, but others may have differing views on this.
/r/seduction03/01/12 05:36 AM
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About a 2 months ago, I go into my favorite bar solo. 3 set on my left with a very cute redhead, a couple of guys are dancing on the bar terribly. I decide to open by commenting on how bad the boys dancing were. I do not know if they were friends, if I was to harsh, what happened. I got bad looks and scoffs, not even words. I GTFO of there - that was the worst. I've also had a couple smile/ eye contacts that responded with the "Oh please" look. After being told (literally) damn near every time I…
/r/seduction03/01/12 05:15 AM
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Good to know, thanks. I may look into that and see if my phone has it. Thanks for the invite, however I am not sure I would be there anytime soon. I am in northern Colorado at university, but I fucking love this city. I have an old friend from my hometown who comes from KCMO, not sure if he is going back anytime soon though.
/r/seduction02/01/12 05:42 PM
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Thanks for the post, Showcase. I have been thinking about a wing for a while. The girl J I usually go with is way to low energy/not excited to meet new people. I am skeptical of the audio recording (hate my taped voice), however I was thinking about stepping out to pull it together last night and never did. I think it would have helped because I can boost my own confidence fairly well. So what is a red light that is not an outright "Leave now" or "GTFO" type statement? That statement on abundanc…
/r/seduction02/01/12 03:45 AM
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Genuine lol. She got it.
/r/seduction02/01/12 03:42 AM
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Owns a few, was interested in mine as well. Loves Glocks, so do I. Please expand on your second question, I don't quite understand what you are asking. Long story short, shooting is one of my favorite hobbies and something very important to me. Most girls are downright scared of guns.
/r/seduction01/01/12 06:34 PM
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I am in a similar situation, except I actually have better luck with college day game. Vanquish has it down pretty well. One thing I have really enjoyed, but have not seen mentioned in a while is having her give you her number. If you flirt well enough and she is somewhat invested invested in you, it will help. When you part ways, say somethign like "Hey, you seem pretty cool (maybe as cool as me if you can do the cocky/funny approach), what is a good way to keep in contact with her?" I think ev…
/r/seduction01/01/12 05:50 PM
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"Hi, hows it going" I am am a huge proponent of the trand lately stating "It is not what you say, but how you say it." Be confident, abundant, and entitled. You may not get those girls, but you will get some at some point using this.
/r/seduction26/12/11 05:53 AM
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Well, there is good and bad news here. The bad news first. This seems to me like needy behavior. And it probably turned the hot chick off. Do not pay for things until you know them very well. Furthermore, while the intention you had with returning was fairly boss - it may have come off creepy, and probably at a minimum was needy. I hate to say it, but these moves were just bad. Now the good news. That is some A level no fucks given. That is awesome for congruence. Know that you have the balls to…
/r/seduction26/12/11 03:26 AM
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I am going out and feel the same way, just got off work. GO OUT. Not giving a fuck can do work for you, read some of the FRs of late.
/r/seduction24/12/11 05:28 AM
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Tonality is how your voice sounds. You want to talk slowly, clearly, and with a slightly deeper tone of voice. You cant really try though, or it will be noticeable. If you have ever had to lead any group, and had to command attention - it feels similar. Brad Branson explains tonality way better, but I am not sure in which of his videos. Be comfortable and own the conversation - even if she is talking way more. Also, listen to her - truly.
/r/seduction23/12/11 07:28 PM
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What did you talk about over coffee? To be entirely honest, this is not a seddit question. Many here, myself included will tell you it is rarely what you are talking about, it is how you are talking about it. Now the topics need to be relevant, sure - but the more critical thing is to use good tonality and listen a lot. I am a huge proponent of asking very open ended questions about things they like. Get her to talk about herself, because everyone loves to do this. Even better is if she catches …
/r/seduction23/12/11 06:49 PM
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I would play off that major title so much. I am a psychology major, but currently work in a lab that also deals with airplanes. I have no issue DHV with it. Also be sure to describe what you want to do with it in the future, and be ambitious. Women love ambition and passion in conversation, and if that so happens to also be building a new fucking airliner, then cool.
/r/seduction23/12/11 09:45 AM
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Hit the club, be sure to appreciate the music though. Brings friends, preferably a couple girls who are ok to go off without you. Introduce C to your friends, start with the music as a subject and go from there. Also a CO native here, I love this state.
/r/seduction23/12/11 09:41 AM
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Nice job getting out there and dropping an FR here, Seddit needs more of this. Also, tag your FRs with [FR] before the title next time. Onto the analysis. Did you open any sets in the bar yourself? You do not seem to have much AA which is excellent. The first question I have is, how do you know your friend had a boyfriend and how committed is she? Your FR makes it sound like you could have # closed her easily, if not more. That's on you morally if there is something there, but I think it should …
/r/seduction23/12/11 09:38 AM
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/r/seduction23/12/11 09:15 AM
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True story. Just got back from being out and about to drop a good FR. Was told by one guy he thought I looked gay, in a non offensive way. Two girls commented on my tie, one said I was overdressed but that it was very nice anyways. Nice outfit OP.
/r/seduction23/12/11 08:21 AM
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I am notorious for not upvoting, but THIS WHOLE POST. LEARN IT. I wear a button up and tie with jeans everywhere. The key is to not appear like you are trying hard, just looking a click above everyone else at the venue. When asked (and bet on being asked by both sexes), tell them it is the norm for you because it is. It throws some off, but nearly every girl I am getting to know (and some I do not even know) comments and compliments me on it. The only remotely negative effect I get on it is a lo…
/r/seduction22/12/11 11:50 PM
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On yourself: awesome start, being well educated and fit never hurt. What kind of hobbies do you have? Why do you like them? I find it hysterical you claim not to be egotistic, which is not a bad trait to have; yet you are pushing the boundaries of the body as an amazing machine. Right there is one passion to kick off some conversation with. IMO you need to form a mental image of your whole self that emulates your body. Developing a body as a perfected machine is alpha in and of itself, and in a …
/r/seduction22/12/11 11:40 PM
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Not many girls I know of pay attention to a man's nails, and if they do its typically due to being dirty or way to long. Try to put it out of mind because you are awesome and can do it. I do not personally have an issue with this. I think it would be beneficial to quit, not only so your hands look better (a minor improvement), but so you feel better about yourself. I would check out the r/motivation reddit and search for a general addiction subreddit, one surely must exist. Sorry I do not have m…
/r/seduction22/12/11 11:20 PM
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Not sure if this post will go to the original topic creator, but welcome to Seddit. Read as much of the sidebar as you can. Then go read it again. Your second paragraph already has your logistics and a fucking awesome basis for inner confidence building. Something is fishy if you are trying to be friendly and coming across as hitting on someone. Not being socially shy is excellent; it seems you need a good bit of kino and physical/emotional/psychological escalation in your life. Read the sidebar…
/r/seduction22/12/11 11:15 PM
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M who has worked retail for four years while in school. Also, I have not tried to game an employee that much beyond casual conversation however - this is what I would approach with from my perspective having worked in it for so long. Retail. The work typically sucks, depending on where exactly it is. The best approach is no doubt going to be making their day better. The key to that is to observe them shortly before you seek out assistance. If they look genuinely busy, do not try to drag out conv…
/r/seduction22/12/11 11:03 PM
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I am gonna base my time from this time last year to right now. November last year I was, I kid you not, EVERY type of stereotypical AFC. I did it all, extremely needy, no approach, just terrible. What was even worse, I actually still had girls interested and almost never pursued it. I knew nothing. Then I found Seddit in early october. Understood so much more. I have depression and I know it is not therapy, but it has done more for me than any other therapy (also a 4th year well versed psycholog…
/r/seduction22/12/11 08:01 PM
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Thread got halfway jacked. Here is my take on it. If you arrived 20 minutes late, you were not that late. I like arriving at venues earlier to familiarize myself with the place. Makes it easier to own it, especially if you know the actual venue owners. On the Russian. If table logistics were not there, that is alright because you were introduced. You could have later used that as an opener: "Hey, I just wanted to come say hi over a distance shorter than a small airstrip. Im XYZ" and go with it f…
/r/seduction19/12/11 06:16 PM
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Do you have high self esteem? It is critical for me to be in a good place when I approach. I know a girl is missing out if she does not want to talk to me. Find the things about yourself you love, and talk about them like that. Change the things you do not like. This is also effective because women pick up confidence very well, and that also applies to confidence about other areas of your life. This will lead to emotionally involved conversation (protip: eye contact) and make escalation on a phy…
/r/seduction19/12/11 06:02 PM
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A couple things to go over here. Firstly, you obviously have AA. The best way to get over this is just go approach and get shot down. Blow a set, then work on how to make it better. I still have AA too, but I almost am always amused when I get shut down, because I laugh at her and myself. Yao Ming status. It helps a lot to have high self esteem and know that SHE is missing out by not talking to you. Work in small to medium steps, one does not just ask a girl out. Go approach, kino, flirt, and ge…
/r/seduction19/12/11 05:56 PM
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This is a difficult and highly subjective question. I know some girls that are entirely turned on by it and some who have very deep, emotional issues with it. Either way, in the past I have only used it as the the somewhat final go to for the makeout tool. However, by this point most any kino will work well. I think it would be highly awkward to do it very much in a club or with a girl you havent known for very long. My approach would be to bring it up in conversation and get a feel for it from …
/r/seduction19/12/11 05:44 PM
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This. I am white as hell, but listen to a lot of rap. Not just club rap either, southern drug dealing rap tends to get me particularly motivated. It's that sense of do or die. Got told tonight I have pretty bow swagger, haha.
/r/seduction18/12/11 08:37 AM
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Alright, 2 disclaimers up front to make this a grain-of-salt post. 1, I am somewhat new to this as well ~3 months in and 2, I follow a similar set of beliefs to hers. Definitely a good start for 3 weeks in, I think you would benefit hugely as I have from Brad Branson's stuff on inner game: shit is legitimate. Onto the play by play. Good call starting on the parents, never hurts to have adults or people in positions of power to back you ahead of time. Moving inside was good, but I wouldn't call i…
/r/seduction14/12/11 09:44 PM
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In an effort not to be a total ass, over 2 years for me. We were both virgins and true sex never happened. In other news though, this is definitley either an r/relationshipadvice or r/sex question. It may be best to send your roommate here to brush up his attraction. All in all though, if they are happy I say let them be. If he isn't, send him our way to read the sidebars. The two previously mentioned forums are probably going to be more applicable though.
/r/seduction11/12/11 03:50 PM
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I am with Andre on this one. The reason she is so personally open with you is probably due to the fz. The way I see it, there's a sort of two pronged method you need to approach this with. Read the text game posts in the sidebar, both the primary and the facebook ones under the "read this then this" sections. I know it was not your intention, but you came off downright needy and like you have open days. You replicated a request, though I am not sure what her original response was. You also talke…
/r/seduction11/12/11 03:39 PM
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House parties are an ok start, but be sure to read up on them as they are not optimal zones for game at times. Truth be told, I really like gaming my classes. I am 22 and old enough for clubs, but I like gaming class so much more because of the diversity (based on what classes you are taking) of the women. Even more so, it makes situational openers and meet-ups unfairly simple and easy. I went on a date 2 nights ago with a girl from one class, and a girl from a different class is coming over tom…
/r/seduction10/12/11 07:32 AM
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King Narcissus has it right on. Not a total mood kill, but has surely put her in a fugue about my feelings. Being aggressive would have solved that issue entirely, and I knew but could not act on the knowledge that she likes me purely based on some of her texting; enough that a makeout would not be a problem for me. The point here is that you need to act, because lack of doing so will increase the difficulty of the position you need to work from.
/r/seduction10/12/11 07:26 AM
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The answer is right in your title. "I work for the government and cannot discuss it to much." Smile slyly, but make sure she knows she is not going to get it out of you. This seems like it would be an IMMENSE DHV. Her mind is immediately going to go to spy/James Bond/Bourne type things. Even one of the Sedditor's responses reflected this. Doesn't matter how boring it actually is, because you aren't gonna tell her. DHV and mysterious aspects of your life in one powerful blow. Just make sure you h…
/r/seduction04/12/11 04:40 PM
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Go for it. A short while ago I assumed all of the above was just friendliness. 1. The friend connection is alright social proof. Good start. Her asking to walk with you is a moderate IOI, at least in my experience. Girls normally can express IOIs and will not walk with me after class so good to go there. The run and hug is a difficult one. How old is she? This could be behavior reminiscent of a FZ, but I would have expected more out of class interaction beforehand. Commenting on your looks is in…
/r/seduction24/11/11 05:48 PM
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I was entirely aware of this while writing. The point of the FR is more about assuming attraction than covering how good I have gotten. I am way better than before, but still have way more room for improvement. Good notice, regardless.
/r/seduction14/11/11 03:42 AM
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Still new to reddit formatting and I am on my phone, so I'll reply by response number. Positive reply from tofutofu? Awwww yeah. And thanks for the inspiration. Eye contact and smiles are everything forbasic initial attraction. When I am walking around, I make an effort to have a very subtle smirk and bright, open eyes. When you lock eyes with a girl, I tend to drop the eyelids just barely to a relaxed state. Just afterwards, increase from smirk to smile (much easier when she IOIs). And NEVER br…
/r/seduction13/11/11 10:30 PM
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Back from school for the day, only theme in my head:This shit is witchcraft Only had 2 things to attend. After class, I noticed an HB7.5 with fire-red hair leaving. So I casually pass her on the way to the main student center, and open the door for her while opening with "Don't I know you from class etc". Talked while walking through the massive building before she had to go. Got her name and have no issues talking to her again, which works better for me than more cold openings. Went and got a s…
/r/seduction27/10/11 10:02 PM
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