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| 327 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and Lessons | MinxXxy | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 01:13 PM | |
| 178 | "Can you hold my bag?" | MinxXxy | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 09:55 AM | |
| 59 | Why do I see so many interesting and reasonably attractive older men with unnattractive women? | MinxXxy | /r/seduction | 16/09/14 02:29 PM | |
| 20 | [LR] Sometimes You Just Get Lucky - My First Same-Day Daygame Lay. | MinxXxy | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 01:00 PM | |
| 17 | [FR] My worst night of game | Field Report | MinxXxy | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 09:28 AM |
| 16 | [LR] "I knew what you wanted the moment you stopped me" | MinxXxy | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 10:49 AM | |
| 15 | [FR] Only mad dogs and Englishmen | Field Report | MinxXxy | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 01:35 PM |
| 2 | Anyone doing day game in Berlin? | MinxXxy | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 05:27 PM | |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman in Copenhagen | MinxXxy | /r/seduction | 12/08/16 10:40 PM |
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| 1 | [LR] "I knew what you wanted the moment you stopped me"Hey man, thanks for reaching out. 1) I do always send that standard text. I then try to date request as quickly as possible, to keep the vibe up. No girl has ever questioned why I send that message. 2) I always front stop. Recently I have been trying out walking with the girl a bit, and it has worked quite well a couple of times. I still think the front stop is the way to go for me though. 3) I stopped taking notes on how many approaches I have been doing as it is a little bit frustrating to do.… | /r/seduction | 14/07/19 09:58 AM |
| 3 | My First Time ApproachingIt seems that you are just naturally good at projecting your intention when you approach women, and I think that is not so common, and is a big difficulty for the majority of beginners. I speak to a lot of women in the street/library/supermarket, and I have found that unless I am really in a sexual mood, or I am verbally direct (you look nice), then women will often say "i'm sorry, what do you want?". This is just my experience, but for me being verbally direct was scary, but transformative in m… | /r/seduction | 30/06/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | My First Time ApproachingAgree on always taking her number instead of giving yours. Lots of things can happen between number and date, and having her number stops you relying on her to make a move (which women never do anyway, for whatever reason). Disagree on not complimenting when you first meet. I think it is very important to set things immediately as you being a man who is sexually interested in her as a woman. I don't go overboard, I always say "you look very nice", but it is still important. If you are really goo… | /r/seduction | 29/06/19 10:03 AM |
| 2 | [LR] "I knew what you wanted the moment you stopped me"It just comes with practise. And when you stop practising the fear comes back. But then the flip side is true too, that when you get started it is easy to keep going, and situations like this (1 approach, 1 lay) can happen. | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 08:32 PM |
| 1 | [LR] "I knew what you wanted the moment you stopped me"Shit | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | [LR] "I knew what you wanted the moment you stopped me"Just the usual. "Hi, I know this is very cheeky, but I wanted to say you look very nice. What I noticed about you was..." Standard daygame that I do to everyone. | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 06:15 PM |
| 4 | [LR] "I knew what you wanted the moment you stopped me"I completely agree. I think that daygame creates this atmosphere even in your own city too. Women know you will never meet her friends unless she wants you too, so you can be her little secret | /r/seduction | 20/06/19 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Part of having "game" is your physical self! Grooming, hair, fitness, dress.Sounds pretty good. I would recommend keeping some data. This was me last year and I'm on about double that number of approaches, and almost double the daygame lays. Nice to see consistency, I find it brings me confidence in the process. I'd be interested in hearing your experience, but ive found that I only get laid when I am consistent with my daygame, but when I show my body more (vests etc) I get more "yes" girls, and more "no" girls, I become more polarizing. I think if a guy isn't get laid… | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Part of having "game" is your physical self! Grooming, hair, fitness, dress.How much cold approaching are you doing, and what is the structure that you are following to learn it? I do agree that being fit helps a lot (I am 5'5, but I have ludicrous forearms and a pretty nice upper body) but I think being able to project your sexuality while cold approaching is still the most important skill. | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 06:24 AM |
| 5 | You're Already Good Enough!If you hold eye contact in a super intense way, then yes. Just know that almost all business and social skill advice recommends holding eye contact. Either you are telling yourself a story that people find it creepy, or you are doing it in a creepy way. Holding eye contact while speaking is a sign of confidence. Staring someone down across the bar is weird. | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 07:25 AM |
| 6 | You're Already Good Enough!Yes you are overweight. Lose the weight and start speaking with more women. What is most important is developing your social skills. Second is being seen as a man that is sexually desirable. Your money and your (above average?) height are irrelevant | /r/seduction | 05/04/19 07:22 AM |
| 1 | When does approaching ever workThis is terrible advice given by a child. I hope that no one reads this and thinks that any of this is correct. | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 11:58 AM |
| 1 | When does approaching ever workThis is not a structure. Watching this would give a basic framework of what you are trying to achieve. Once it all becomes natural, then you can start to play around with how you go about, but you have to start off with a structure. https://youtu.be/Q-Sehh-yD-c | /r/seduction | 29/03/19 11:55 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsNo problem at all man. This is something I enjoy talking about. Firstly, are you following a structure? I follow Tom Torero' s model to a T, and it makes a big difference. Secondly, your sets are too short. 5 mins should be minimum, 7 is meant to be best. Anything less and it makes it very likely that you will get a flake. At first I was getting a lot of numbers, and 0 dates. What I was doing wrong was not qualifying girls enough. At first i did it in a very unsmooth way and said "what are you i… | /r/seduction | 05/03/19 06:08 AM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsWhere in the funnel seems to be the issue? Are you getting numbers? Going on dates? Getting girls to yours without sex? Also how old are you? Most men (especially American, and therefore reddit) have a ridiculous belief that 18-21 are men's prime, and anything after is too old. | /r/seduction | 04/03/19 07:37 PM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsWhich stats are the same? | /r/seduction | 04/03/19 06:49 PM |
| 2 | [LR] Sometimes You Just Get Lucky - My First Same-Day Daygame Lay.Actually I think I'm including a nightime approach in there, so it is 5 in around 300. My strategy has changed (for the worse), as before I would do a 2 hour, 10 approach session every day. I now have a job and it is winter, so it makes it harder to do long sessions during daylight. Instead I'm being lazy and just doing 5 or so approaches a week when I get a feeling that a girl is checking me out. My lay to approach ratio has improved because of it, but I'm getting fewer dates now. It doesn't bo… | /r/seduction | 18/02/19 06:49 AM |
| 4 | [LR] Sometimes You Just Get Lucky - My First Same-Day Daygame Lay.I think your social anxiety will start to fade the more you get used to approaching, which should hopefully help motivate you a bit. Once you start seeing patterns of responses, you stop worrying about negative reactions so much, as they very rarely happen. I started mid August, and didn't get any results till October. Since December I haven't been doing much since I started dating one of the girls I met through day game, but we have recently agreed to make our relationship completely open (as I… | /r/seduction | 17/02/19 09:27 PM |
| 3 | [LR] Sometimes You Just Get Lucky - My First Same-Day Daygame Lay.Yup! I'm not ashamed that I get scared all the time haha | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 10:31 PM |
| 3 | [LR] Sometimes You Just Get Lucky - My First Same-Day Daygame Lay.The main shopping streets, busy work areas, near university libraries (this is best in my opinion). Once you get the skill set down, then anywhere is an opportunity, but getting the volume in early is important | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 10:30 PM |
| 3 | [LR] Sometimes You Just Get Lucky - My First Same-Day Daygame Lay.It's a cliche, but shopping street, shopping malls, tourist areas in your city. I've heard it said that you want to be in a city of 1m people or more. Check out Tom torero on YouTube. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone feel like a Loser here? Is Game actually a skill set?It is interpersonal skills, but man to woman, not friend to friend, which is a very different interaction. If you don't know how to act in a sexually polarizing way, you have to learn how to. That is the aim of this subreddit (and game in general) Evidently this all comes very naturally to you, which is why you struggle to see the difference. For me it didn't, despite me finding it very easy to make friends and be social in general. I lost my virginity at 18, and had sex with 2 new women a year … | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 05:44 PM |
| 7 | Does anyone feel like a Loser here? Is Game actually a skill set?I agree on working on yourself for the sake of your own improvement and happiness. The issue I have (which is very very commonly put out there) is with the small part of "In turn you will get women". This doesn't happen, essentially. Never in my life has a beautiful woman stopped me in the street and flirted with me, asked for my number, asked me out on a date, gone to kiss me first, invited me into hers, led me to her bedroom, or undressed me first. No matter how authentic you are to your lif… | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 04:31 PM |
| 2 | [LR] Sometimes You Just Get Lucky - My First Same-Day Daygame Lay.Thanks man. This classic /r/Seduction post says "boys worry about game, men worry about logistics". Only since getting to the situation where I am taking women home regularly have I appreciated this. | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 03:30 PM |
| 22 | Does anyone feel like a Loser here? Is Game actually a skill set?Yes game is a skillset. A lot of men don't learn it growing up, for whatever reason, and modern society can be an incredibly isolating place. If you are in your mid 20s with a full time job and you like to play video games every evening, you will never learn this skillset. But actually, it is more than this too. It is a myth that if you are high enough value then women will come to you. While this might happen to the absolute top men (actors, athletes, etc.) it is an impossibility for the vast… | /r/seduction | 13/02/19 03:21 PM |
| 1 | No real social circle, hates social media so no FB or IGLook into starting daygame. You don't need any of the above, and the transformation you will go through will be life changing. I only watch content from Tom Torero, to avoid overwhelming myself with information that stops me from getting out and daygaming | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 09:15 AM |
| 2 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyI don't know anything about you, so I don't want to comment on you personally. However, these are the most common responses of guys that don't get how it works with women. Yes, being high value is important, but focussing only on that will not get you anywhere (exactly as OP describes). Building value, and understanding how to approach, show your desire, and lead towards closing are separate skill sets. They both need to be worked on. I'm not saying don't build tor value, but for almost all men,… | /r/seduction | 12/12/18 09:24 AM |
| 3 | Holy fucking christ i'm lonelyThe most important metric of success in dating is...how many women are you speaking to and showing your intent with? Everything else you are doing is important, and will make things easier, but if you aren't approaching you can't get laid. Save your money on the escort and take a 2 week holiday where you try to do 100 approaches between the day and the night. The only way you can break the cycle is with massive action. Anyone can do it, you just have to get outside and get started. It's a good p… | /r/seduction | 11/12/18 11:40 AM |
| 0 | I will be approaching 100 hot girls to find the answer to an age old question about attraction and report the results to you guys.Nice plan. Use a good daygame structure and you will have an amazing time. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Why you should ALWAYS try to number-closeI have been thinking about social media with regards to women a lot recently, so I'm glad you have made this post and given me the opportunity to discuss it. I really don't like social media, for a number of reasons. I'll talk about it in general, and then mention my experience of it with women. I am very aware that this is just my own experience and opinion, and i'm not trying to change anyone's views here. It seems that you have thought about this a lot, so I'm excited to hear your experienc… | /r/seduction | 28/10/18 09:39 AM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsHi, Watch this video, it explains a lot. But my opener normally is "hi, this is going to sound really cheeky, but i saw you and wanted to say...you look very nice." Then I say "what I noticed about you was..." and improvise from there. It takes a lot of practise. Do 10 a day for 10 days and you will learn pretty fast. | /r/seduction | 19/10/18 09:33 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsYeah, you have to go to a large city for daygame for two main reasons. Firstly, volume. If you do 10 approaches a day on attractive girls (not every girl is attractive) you need a lot of people walking by. Secondly, you need the anonymity like you said. You don't want to get a reputation, and the girl needs some anonymity too. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 07:46 AM |
| 4 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsNot really. It is easy to get sucked into watching videos rather than taking action. The only other person I like is James Marshall, but his stuff is even more theoretical. Just hit the streets and get started I think. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 07:45 AM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThe dream is that my natural speech and actions are powerfully seductive. But at the moment I am still very much in nice guy mode. It is incredibly useful to have a structure like the london daygame model to show you the way, while you also have a natural interaction on top. The only canned lines I use are the opener, and the stack, as well as some kind of line for the investment (what do you like, what are you good at, etc.) | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 07:41 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThanks again for the quality advice, I really appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 18/10/18 07:38 AM |
| 3 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsBusy streets, ideally fully pedestrianized. I go to intersections between workers, tourists, and students. | /r/seduction | 17/10/18 12:59 PM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI think that 2 hours is easily enough to do 10 high quality approaches. If I finish work at 5 or 6 and go to the nearest good quality daygame location, I can get done by 8pm at the latest. Do this twice during the week and then a longer session on the weekend and you can be at 30-50 pretty easily. If I have my food situation sorted, I can do this and then go straight to whatever hobby I am doing that day before eating and sleeping. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 10:18 AM |
| 3 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsNice. Your calm attitude even comes across in the way you type. It would be very interesting. I am very much at the start of this process, so seeing different approaches would be very useful. My main focus at the moment is my voice. I can speak very fluently and quickly, which is how I normally speak...but it isn't very seductive. I am really working on slowing down in every interaction, not just with women. Thanks for your reply. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 08:27 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI agree with the sentiment, but not in practice. I think you are so right that you need to be focusing on the moment, and understanding what happened and what went wrong. Also you are right that consistency is the most important part. I took a week off as I had to return to england, and all the nerves came rushing back. What I have found though, is that the first 3 or so sets tend to suck. After that, I am nicely warmed up and my conversation can flow. I need that volume to get into my rhythm. B… | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:52 AM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsAlso about topic coming up in social circle. I live with two women, and I told them what I was doing just out of sharing my life. What I learnt is about how frustrated many women are with their dating lives. The women I live with are attractive, and date a lot of men, but are often frustrated at how needy and clingy the guys are. They were super impressed with how I am acting in a non-needy way, and it really resonated with me that it is important to not be obsessed with "that one girl". | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:46 AM |
| 3 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsDepends on how I was feeling with her. I want to try dating multiple girls at a time, so I'd like to say that I would be strong enough to turn her down to continue living the life I want. But I can't say if that would actually happen or not. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:42 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI think that it takes effort, money, OR time. Daygame requires time and effort, and no money. Daygame gets you girls using your social skill primarily, and then looks and other stuff as a bonus. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:40 AM |
| 5 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsGreat questions. At first, it was like 3-5 minutes, which is wayyy too short. When I started focusing on getting her to invest, it has increased to 6-10 minutes, and I have a much much much higher response rate from my initial text. I was trying to do 2 hours a day, but I think it was often well short of that. My aim is just to do 10 approaches. Sometimes that takes an hour, sometimes I get tired before I get there. I would say 5-10 hours is a reasonable ballpark. If that sounds like a lot to an… | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:38 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsGreat question. If the summer ever ends, I will try doing it in shopping malls, but rotating them to avoid burning them out. Realistically, the aim is that I have a few girls that I am dating and I drop the volume down a bit too. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:36 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI'm not, no. Sorry man. I actually think it is easier to keep it a secret, as having someone nagging you can be very demotivating. Give it a go and drop me a PM with your experience of your first day, i'll be fascinated to hear. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:34 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThanks man. I feel that I am reading women so much better even after so few approaches. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsFair enough. I try to avoid PUA language as I think it is really cringey too. When typing out a long essay it is easier to use them though. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:33 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsIts up to you really. I love speaking with hot women, even if they don't come out with me. I know that the numbers are going to get better and better as I improve my game. This is two months work, imagine in 5 years from now. The key is that you are building an abundance of women in your life. Yes the grind at the start is tiring, but it is also a fucking rush, and you can see the improvement every day. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:31 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThanks man. Yeah, height is an easy excuse. Life would be pretty boring if I just resigned myself to celibacy based on my genetics. Tom Torero almost exclusively. Super informative content, really down to earth, and English. His stuff is absolute gold, and I take it and try it out in the street. Often I listen to his podcast while out daygaming. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:30 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsNot since starting a structured approach. I come across as a nice guy at the best of times, so being direct and with a front stop really helps take me out of the nice guy frame. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:28 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsIt is interesting. I actually tend to forget that I am short to be honest. If I don't got on the internet, it really doesn't seem to be a problem. Perhaps I would be sleeping with more girls if I were taller, but as I can't change that it really isn't a useful thing to think about. It is the same with rock climbing. Many people complain about being short and go and sulk in a corner. There are so many other limiting factors than my height in climbing that it really isn't useful to think about. I … | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:27 AM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsIf it is because you want to make a change, then this is where you can learn how. This has been two months effort. If you start today, you will be a new man by this time next year. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:23 AM |
| 4 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThe thing is, I have other hobbies than going out. I think you make a good point about building a network in bars and clubs, but I'd rather spend my time doing other things. I actually got into daygame because I wanted to broaden the kinds of women that I interact with (rather than only rock climbing and yoga girls). You describe a good approach, but just not one for me. | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThanks for the reply, really informative. I'd love to reply to all the interesting points you made, but i'll focus on just a few first. The point about being insecure about height is interesting. I like the idea of wearing boots as it helps with that initial read a girl does when I stop her. Once I start talking then the personality takes over, but I think that the boots make a difference in that initial split second. I might be wrong, and it might just be a confidence thing. I also think it hel… | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:21 AM |
| 3 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsYou make a good point about incongruence of dressing. I do feel awkward whenever I try to dress differently to my norm, and I feel like everyone is looking at me and judging me. What I have learnt is just that it feels strange to do anything that is different from your usual. You get used to it, and if it brings good results, you will stick with it. I don't think you need to be super stylish. The thing is, most men dress terribly, so dressing kinda okay make you stand out. I literally wear a bla… | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 07:08 AM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThey are pictures from my recent travels, often actually of me with other women. More importantly, however, is that it really doesn't matter. The girls are there because they want to have sex with me. They came on the date because they believed in the possibility of sex with me, and then I didn't screw it up. The "photos" can be anything to get you alone together on your bed. People use guitars, shisha, "my bed is more comfortable", anything. As I said, women want and love sex. It seems that it … | /r/seduction | 16/10/18 06:58 AM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThank you very much! | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 09:14 PM |
| 3 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI let her walk by, then I run around in front of her with my hand out to show her to stop. Sometimes they brush by, but 90% of the time they stop to hear what I have to say. If I clock a girl from far away, once I realise that she is hot enough to approach, I deliberately avoid making eye contact. I do this for two potential reasons. First is that you really want the advantage of the element of surprise. It sounds fucking creepy I know, but a girl will stop and listen to me if she is surprised t… | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 09:14 PM |
| 3 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsPedestrianized areas, but also busy streets. You really want a high volume of people so that you can feel anonymous (and so can the girl). | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 09:09 PM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThanks :) | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 09:09 PM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI think its a comment in the game as well. Rockstars need to become amazing at music and performing, while pickup artists just need to learn to speak to women. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 09:06 PM |
| 17 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThis video taught me everything I needed to know. Hi, this is going to sound cheeky, but I wanted to say...you look very nice. - Lots of strong eye contact, cheeky smile. What I noticed about you was...(usually their walk unless there is something obvious to comment on). - Wait for her to give a topic I can improvise on, then talk on that topic. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:59 PM |
| 15 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThis is an interesting question, as I have been thinking about it recently. None of them have been clingy if that's what you mean. I am still in contact with the three girls I have slept with from daygame, but it is more a very casual vibe than boyfriend/girlfriend. I think I am more at risk of getting attached to be honest, as the girls are fun and interesting and sexy. Ask me again in a month and I'll let you know. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsTall ones too Edit: and i'm pretty jacked. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:54 PM |
| 7 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI've been experimenting, as I haven't found any other daygamers here in Berlin. I've heard there is a great scene, but I have yet to find it. Large pedestrianized areas are the best, but the main one here in Berlin is pretty soulless. I go to a big street that is a mix of universities, shops, and corporate offices. It works pretty well, but I get psyched out by the busy street. There is another street which has a lot of high end fashion shops, and while there are a lot of really really hot girls… | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsYes. Tom Torero talks a lot about the difference between solid game, and game that gets youtube views. His stuff is what works for most people in most situations, but he has <10,000 views a video. People who show crazy stuff get lots of views, but probably a lot of flakes too. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:48 PM |
| 13 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsGood questions. The opener is always the same. "Hi, do you speak english?" "yes..." "I know this is very cheeky, but i just wanted to say that you look very nice". There is a LOT of sub communication going on during this. The best sets are where the girl knows what is up and is trying to hold back a smile while I am smirking and making super strong eye contact. I then STACK into "what I noticed about you was..." at the moment it tends to be "that you have a very fast/slow walk, like you just sto… | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:46 PM |
| 6 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsPsychology was my bachelors and masters, so pretty much yeah haha. I'm essentially just running a psychology experiment with the hypothesis of "I am hot" and testing it. I think some people actually go into way more detail than this, but I can't be bothered really. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:37 PM |
| 2 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI keep a journal, and it is always laughable to read back my first assumption about a person I made. This weekend I went camping with some friends, and I thought that a girl who was coming was super serious and boring but when we arrived she pulled out a bag and offers LSD to our whole group! The trick is to just go and find out, and push away the assumptions. Still working on this though. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:33 PM |
| 1 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsA pleasure my friend. I follow the london daygame model to a T. This video gives a really good introduction to it. I have found that things go really well when I just shut up and follow the model (open, stack, vibe, INVEST (what I often forget), close). For AA, the trick for me was actually to go to a different city. The first day was actually when I found myself in a really boring tourist town, more interested in the tourists than the sights. Getting 30 under my belt gave me the momentum to con… | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 08:31 PM |
| 37 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI feel this is a common criticism of daygame, and something I have thought about a lot. Firstly, I enjoy daygame, but there is a bit more to it than that. The approach you mention is what I have been trying to do for the last 8 years or so, and I've been getting mediocre results, likely due to just not having enough experience with women. The kind of volume of women I am very attracted to i've gotten in the last 2 months has made environment and social circle game much easier, as i've been able … | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 03:43 PM |
| 10 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsI feel like it can only get better too. I have found that unless I am front stopping I get absolutely nowhere. I need that masculine first impression that it gives otherwise girls don't give me the time of day. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 02:49 PM |
| 18 | My Daygame Experience So Far. Statistics and LessonsThanks. More procrastination than anything else. But great to share something that has taken over a lot of my thinking for the last couple of months. | /r/seduction | 15/10/18 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Pickup/pua podcast recommendationsActually I disagree. I think eventually we all need our own style, but as a beginner having a model to follow is vital. I've only just started doing 10 daygame approaches a day, and without the structure I've taken from Tom Torero, I would be completely out of my depth. I'd love to hear your experience of getting started without a template, maybe you've had a very different experience to me. | /r/seduction | 20/08/18 08:02 AM |
| 1 | Pickup/pua podcast recommendationsTom torero. His latest stuff is very high quality, and he is my go to resource for daygame. | /r/seduction | 19/08/18 06:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you pick up girls at the university gym?My advice is the same as what I use at the climbing gym. If you are going regularly, just say hi to everyone that is near you. Men or women. Just become a super social guy at the gym. When you see someone you have met before and said hi to, just push the interaction a bit further..."What are you training, what do you study etc." Essentially, just be social and become a part of the scene there, then ask out any girls that you like or that seem interested in you. | /r/seduction | 25/07/18 08:52 AM |
| 2 | Recurring Revenue, Sex, and Notes on Four GirlsReally awesome to read. This is exactly what I'm looking for from game. I'll be sure to check out your other stuff. | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 02:57 PM |
| 1 | 7 Things Girls Want Guys to Do (But Won't Admit)Lol not many here in Berlin do | /r/seduction | 13/06/18 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Mark Manson says the only real dating advice is self improvement. What would be your top 5 tips for someone to improve themselves?I completely agree. Hard to convince people of that, though. | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 08:28 AM |
| 2 | Here’s Why You Need To Start Meeting Women During The DayI really enjoyed this article, and your blog in general. I'd love to read more in this vein, such as your experience starting out with day game, and what you have learnt since. I had my first real full day of daygame on saturday, and i'd love to compare my experience. Thanks again! | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 08:29 AM |
| 3 | How To Take Home A Cute Aussie Girl On The First Date Full Infield BreakdownReally great video man. Great insight and awesome to see how smooth and enjoyable it should all be. Thanks for putting the work in! | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 07:48 PM |
| 3 | "Can you hold my bag?"A lot of terrible advice going around. I'd would be so embarrassed to see another guy acting like what is being recommended. Even if it is the impressive thing to do, it's still being an arsehole | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 09:49 PM |
| 6 | "Can you hold my bag?"This is the bear reply here and it's gotten no attention. Thanks for the reply. It bothered me because I thought I had a connection with this girl but other than holding her bag we barely hung out, and it frustrated me. I actually saw her again today and we had some tea together, and a really great time. When I was leaving I went for a kiss and she was really surprised and embarrassed, despite me making my attraction far more obvious today than yesterday. I realised that she is quite young and u… | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 09:44 PM |
| 11 | "Can you hold my bag?"Thanks for the reply, you speak a lot of sense. It isn't ridiculous to ask someone to hold a bag, but her intentions were manipulative. I genuinely didn't care at the time, but thinking back I feel she was using me (especially as she was flirting with loads of other guys at the party all night) | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Everything's so much easier for me abroad...Yup. So true. I'm from the UK and I get so little attention here, but when I travel I hook up with some really stunning girls. I was on a 2 week holiday and I hooked up with a stunning girl from Finland, but far, far less attractive girls have no interest in me here. Once in Santiago de Chile I started joking with a girl on a bus, and she invited me to stay with her that night. Later in the week she told me "I knew I was going to fuck you when I saw you on the bus". I think i need to go check ou… | /r/seduction | 21/04/16 12:38 PM |
| 1 | 100 Days of Seduction Day 2 Ups and DownsSounds like a good day. My only advice is to stop the negativity, find another way to make you approach which doesn't involve calling yourself a little bitch. Be more positive and more positive things will happen | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 08:28 AM |
| 2 | 100 Days of Seduction Day 1 Learning to CrawlDude, if a girl smiles back go day hi! | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 01:39 PM |
| 4 | Should I drop my friends and make new ones to attract girls?Normally I would say no, as having healthy friendships should come before anything else. But in this case it seems that your friend is really negative, and I wouldn't waste time with people that are unsupportive of your goals, whether it be pickup or hobbies or anything | /r/seduction | 27/11/15 12:24 PM |
| 2 | If looks don't matter, why does everyone tell me to go to the gym?What the fuck mate, you're jacked | /r/seduction | 16/09/15 09:01 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Girl from tinderBeautiful, thank you for this. I agree that there is no educational value, but I enjoyed reading it very much. | /r/seduction | 05/11/14 09:43 PM |
| 3 | I realize a lot of people are turned off by RSD but it has changed my life.Absolute quality. I had never seen this before, but it resonates really well with me. I have often tried to vocalise this opinion (albeit with regards to sport, rather than women) but have struggled. I have think that you never do anything "stupid", but rather mistakes you make are just revealing a weakness in your game, and thus showing you the area you need to work on. Thanks again. | /r/seduction | 17/09/14 09:02 AM |
| 1 | What do you have that makes your interesting and gives you value that others don't?Yeah I climb. gives you a killer body and a load of cool stories. I regularly go on several month long climbing trips abroad by myself, because its really easy to meet people through it. Best decision I have ever made was to get into climbing. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 06:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] #-Closed the BartenderFantastic, nice and smooth. I'm currently trying to find the line between playful and arrogant douche, nice to see how its done. | /r/seduction | 11/02/14 10:39 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My worst night of gameYou're completely right. Bitching out is the best way to put it. I'm off on holiday for a week in a couple of days, but when I get back I'll sort something out to see if I can make anything happen | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 12:44 AM |
| 2 | [FR] My worst night of gameKinda minor update, but I went to a picnic today, and she turned up after a couple hours of me chilling with the girls there. She seemed kinda awkward around me (which is odd for her, as she is normally exceptionally confident). So it turns out she gave the guy her number, and he had texted her twice by midday the next afternoon, to which she said she found it strange, and doubted she would ever meet up with him again. The impression I got was that it was that she was just using him for attentio… | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:13 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My worst night of gameThe impression I got was that she was sick of me not making a move, and that she was going for this other guy merely cos he was giving her attention. During the night she occasionally mentioned that she always got guys she was interested in, to which I gave her shit about her being arrogant. I guess she was genuinely serious, and that since I was being a pussy about it, she wanted to show off that she could genuinely get anyone she wanted | /r/seduction | 02/06/13 01:05 AM |
| 1 | As promised my FR from the stripper escapade.Nah not fat at all | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 09:35 AM |
| 7 | As promised my FR from the stripper escapade.5'5'' here as well. Last girl I slept with was 5'11, as long as you have good game its fine, and once you are lying down height makes no difference. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 09:33 AM |
| 5 | Highlights from the AskReddit Thread about How Women Flirt/KinoNumber 18. Jeez I see that all the time and have always wondered if it was an IOI. Especially when girls are sitting down and lean over the back of their chair, it's just begging me to look at their boobs | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 07:29 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Only mad dogs and EnglishmenSo torn whether I should downvote or upvote this... | /r/seduction | 01/03/13 06:40 PM |
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