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Has the Wellbutrin worked for your food cravings?
/r/RedPillWomen07/12/19 07:33 PM
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...Okay?
/r/MensRights05/12/19 06:04 AM
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I’m happy there’s at least a few in the MRA-sphere that are okay with traditional gender roles. A girl who doesn’t cook, clean, etc. is failing as a woman.
/r/MensRights05/12/19 05:19 AM
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I disagree with this. I wouldn’t have mentioned my comment if some of these high weren’t high-value. These guys were probably all of higher value than me since a lot of them were successful whereas I am not very physically attractive. And, at least personally for me, sleeping around lowers a guy’s value in my eyes.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 04:23 PM
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I’ve already found lots of guys on Tinder who were willing to date. That said, I do think most of them were originally on there for hook ups, but I genuinely believe RPW grants us magical fast tracks to a guy’s commitment triggers. For all they know, I could have been lying about the whole thing (me not sleeping around, me only accepting certain standards for myself and for men, etc.). Play your cards right by following RPW guideline, you’ll be perceived as a high-quality woman, and men will flo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 01:39 AM
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SIMPLE: DON’T HAVE SEX UNTIL HE IS COMMITTED TO YOU. This is all over r/RPW. Please do some research before posting questions.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/19 01:33 AM
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That isn’t what I meant. Also, I’m sure if I’m like this, there are other girls like this too.
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 04:33 PM
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Of course I want one.. Honestly, I think my rhinoplasty was botched, and I can’t afford to have another one until I’m near 30 years old..
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/19 04:16 PM
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LMAO
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 08:09 PM
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I’m lonely too, OP 😪 I haven’t been alpha-widowed, but I seriously want to kill myself, especially after my ex left, because I have no one to connect to anymore. Maybe we could try for female friends? If you’re willing, I’d love to have an internet RP friend as well. Being a RPW with suicide ideation is a certain niche for sure
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/19 07:53 PM
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Your post at least helped me realize how ridiculous I am, because that’s how you sound: ridiculous (and I mean that in the most tough-love kind of way). Chances are, you’ll find someone else within the next 10 years. It might take a while to get over this one, but, maybe 5 years tops (and I pulled a ridiculous number out of my thin air). That means you’ll be ready to date again at 24. I think you’ll be OK.
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 05:42 AM
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Honestly, right now, I’m grateful for myself. I’ve been single for the longest time since my first ever LTR started, and although I’ve spent almost all of the past 2.5+ years in two different LTR’s, I’m surviving being single. I honestly didn’t know how I would make it, but here I am. I’m very lonely and depressed and EXTREMELY sexually frustrated, but at least I’m not running to other men to fill this void. It feels hella weird being single, but I’m going to start getting used to it. I’m thinki…
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/19 05:36 AM
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My intent is to dedicate my life to my future husband. So essentially, if he asks, everything. If he is willing to take on all my responsibilities in life, I consider his word my law. ​ That said, I think I'm feminine in the sense that I can find happiness and fulfillment in my home (and the internet haha), and the fact that I'm a hardcore introvert, so I don't need much human interaction to sustain me. I also don't have family in the U.S. aside from my mother, and I don't know the rest of my fa…
/r/RedPillWomen23/11/19 11:43 PM
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Please please please, OP. If something doesn’t change, your child’s risk of developing an eating disorder is increased. I’m in school to be a dietitian, have had an eating disorder since I was 12, and have met hundreds of other girls with eating disorders. Most of us had our parents controlling our food intake in some way or another. If it’s to the point where “your children can’t eat more salad until they eat chili,” it’s getting out of hand. Also, lying or exaggerating to your husband isn’t ju…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/19 07:38 AM
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Please OP, talk to a dietitian rather than some rando. Eating mostly animal products is a recipe for heart disease, and I say this as a dietetics student who is literally anti-vegan.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/19 07:34 AM
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Yes, it was the same guy. He told me about the FFM thing before we started dating, but I caught feelings too early, so I didn’t vet him thoroughly enough. Not all guys who turn down threesomes are hyper-monogamous, but all hyper-monogamous men would turn down a theoretical threesome. I am single because my break up was fairly recent, and I’ve entered a state of semi-nun mode for the next 1-2 years (I want to improve myself as much as I can to really catch that perfect man), but I was curious to …
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 10:48 PM
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It’s not how the masses live, I agree, but why would I want to live in the messed up state that the masses are? Okay, so you’re just not equipped for strict monogamy?
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 09:46 PM
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I’m specifically talking about FFM Rejecting a MMF is of little value, because as you said, most guys wouldn’t go for it anyway I agree that the double standard is disgusting. My ex has also rejected two girls offering a FFM in the past while he was single, and I was so proud. He told me he was disgusted by the idea (and yes, his sex drive was extremely high).
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 09:44 PM
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Wow, this is one of the best comments I’ve seen in this sub in a long time. If I wasn’t a poor college student, I’d give you gold.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 06:57 PM
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A man of virtue is way more of a real man than some needy man whore. Sticking to his integrity like that and not lapsing into hedonism is what really makes me attracted to him.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 06:02 PM
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It makes you feel good about yourself when you know other people want you You really need validation from other people that badly? Just need to look at it that way. You’re rationalizing it away..
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 06:01 PM
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Honestly, I think it’s because society deems it as okay. Most people aren’t extremist monogamist, so they don’t see microcheating as actually cheating. Me on the other hand, I do see it that way. I literally broke up with my ex the first time I caught him flirting with another girl. My zero tolerance policy probably makes it almost impossible to find a man, but you only need one to be the exception. Hyper-monogamists are out there, they’re just extremely rare. I agree that it’s VERY disgusting. …
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 05:35 PM
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LPT: You don’t.
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/19 05:54 AM
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The study that said that men and women have equal average IQ’s is false because that was done when they were 11. Adult males have and average higher IQ than adult females, but no one wants to talk about it.
/r/MGTOW13/11/19 04:09 PM
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I get it. I’ve wanted to kill myself over my looks before. I feel a lot better about my appearance, not because I’ve gotten prettier or anything, but because I realized that attraction goes beyond the physical IN LONG-TERM RELATIONSHIPS. I’d probably still hate myself if I was still sl00ting around because that world is so shallow, but the men I talk to now are much more interested in my ideas than my appearance, which makes me feel a lot better about myself (of course looks are still necessary,…
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 05:33 AM
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Barely about average honestly. I’m definitely not a Stacy. I’m honestly probably closer to a normie or MAYBE a Becky-lite on a good day. I also have pretty bad body fat distribution, as I am an apple shape (more specifically, an inverted triangle); I have wide shoulders and store zero body fat in my hips and butt, which is very unattractive. Believe me, I’m surprised too. When I was a whore in my teens, no one wanted to date me, and I wasn’t pretty enough for a man to even want to date me short-…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 11:36 PM
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Fascinating Womanhood. Yes, it’s meant for Christian girls, but as a fellow atheist, the God-talk wasn’t at all intolerable. Find it on libgen for free
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 11:08 PM
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This should be the top-voted comment
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 11:02 PM
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The biggest issue I see here is that you’re sleeping with them first and then asking them for relationships. Girl.. 1) make your standards upfront 2) Don’t choose men who sleep around and 3) Don’t sleep around with men
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 11:00 PM
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I disagree with your edit. I’m also 21 AND I live in the liberal hellhole of Southern California, and my recent experience has been a poop ton of guys of all ages (so yes, even 21-22) wanting to date me long-term/eventually marry me, have kids, etc. You just need to specifically be looking for traditionally-minded men, the ones that know that they want children and the white-picket fence family one day. They’re not the majority, but I’m flooded to the point where I get virtually whatever pick of…
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 10:40 PM
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I was going to ask if you I’d you had a BDSM kink as well haha
/r/RedPillWomen10/11/19 01:52 AM
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I was giving you the benefit of the doubt...lol rip, your passive aggressiveness is comical. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 06:15 PM
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Why you think we’re shaming you, I have no clue
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 05:46 PM
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You’re gonna listen to the guy who has 12 downvotes? Lmao, why even post here
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 04:51 PM
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Same. My IQ is over a standard deviation over everyone else’s, so I don’t get to feel too intellectually inferior to too many people. So when it does happen, I can be certain that my partner is a competent man, and it allows me to relax for once..and makes me feel a little less lonely in this world So basically, rarely am I dominated in this facet, so when it can happen, it’s hot af (Of course, if he interrupted me but was an idiot, bye bye to him..it would just make him look more stupid)
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 04:50 PM
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Have you actually noticed a difference in your skin since you started focusing on it? My skin is relatively clear already, but I’d love to take it to the next level to make it virtually flawless
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 02:31 PM
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Erhm, probably just baking..but I really want to learn how to knit!
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 02:27 PM
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This isn’t really a compliment tbh..not a nice one at least
/r/AntiFeminists09/11/19 02:13 PM
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Yes, this is true. I wouldn’t exactly go bragging about this like OP did (more likely, it would make me sad for the reason you stayed), but I can see why OP did. It depends on the girl.
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/19 12:34 AM
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some people will lie if someone comes at them with a "you're already in trouble" tone. I know that’s what some people do, but doesn’t that mean her captain is a beta cuck? That said, we do disagree on what the bigger offense is here, so I know we have a difference in what we value most/perceptions
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 10:08 PM
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I broke up with my ex because he microcheated and lied about it as well. I took him back a couple days later because of all the conflicting advice online..and of course, I was still attached to him. Proceed to me treating him like shit for 5 months, becoming suicidal again, and him leaving me to rot because he couldn’t take it anymore. If you’re the type of girl who is okay with slightly non-monogamy (i.e. porn, checking out other woman, etc.), then this is perhaps work-aroundable. But if you’re…
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 10:05 PM
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Why does her tone matter? He still lied and did something immoral. Bad tone is not at all an excuse for microcheating
/r/RedPillWomen08/11/19 09:54 PM
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I completely understand..I feel like RP strategy is like a direct line to a man’s heart; it almost feels like cheating (is this how the men over at TRP feel about sex?). Sometimes I feel very guilty at all the high quality men that are interested in having a relationship with me now that I could never get four years ago (before I discovered RPW)...but that’s just motivation for myself to work harder to become the ideal woman...because if I think they’re so amazing, they must deserve a girl who i…
/r/RedPillWives08/11/19 03:12 PM
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Still microcheating I’d much rather only have eyes for my man and vice versa..much more wholesome, and to me, that is true freedom and euphoria. Are you fine with other men looking at your naked woman? You can’t have both
/r/MensRights08/11/19 04:11 AM
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Like that means so much to us lmao Getting plated by a Chad would only lower our values
/r/MensRights08/11/19 04:09 AM
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You are not perfect..suggesting the investment was a bad move as a woman on your part That said however, blocking you is completely unacceptable. He sounds impulsive. He needs a major reality check. You can try some other methods, but, worst comes to worst, you’ll need to be ready to create some distance between you two. I suggest you continue working on yourself in being a good wife in the meantime, however. Perhaps you can figure out how to mitigate his stresses. Leave all the financial decisi…
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/19 11:12 PM
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Meh, I've met a ton of guys off of OKC and, yes, even Tinder, who have wanted to commit to me. I think if you do things the right way, you'll be able to find men to commit to you basically anywhere (I'm sure some of the men on Tinder were there for hooking up, but they still very much so were willing, and even wanted, to commit to me after they saw my profile or I began talking to them about my views). That said, I suggest Hinge. Also, OP, you look brand new to the RP community. I've cultivated …
/r/RedPillWomen07/11/19 06:34 PM
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I'm so happy for you! I can't believe you saw results so quickly! Keep up with it!
/r/RedPillWomen05/11/19 10:31 PM
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Isn’t that a sign of weakness in a captain that he’s too scared?
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/19 01:37 AM
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Just be direct with your boundary. Tell him that you have a policy set in place that you won’t have sex without commitment, but also that as soon as you do have commitment (or whenever is the right time for you), that you guys will be fucking like rabbits every single day for the rest of his life. He will both respect you and be excited by what you said. At least in personal experience, that is typically the point where men will voice their desire to “wife me up” or whatever. Guys just want to m…
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 09:01 PM
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No, I do, but DNA damage is a thing. The human body is funny. There are so many unknown things that can happen when we screw with it (for instance by taking embryos outside of the body). We also don’t fully understand genes (we definitely cannot detect all genetic issues).
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/19 09:31 AM
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Shoot, perhaps I should have said “things”. Homemaking skills would be a superior word choice Hmmm, most red pillers are against shit testing because it gets annoying. But you have an interesting point nonetheless. Personally, what I do to achieve that isn’t “being shitty to my man” (AKA shit testing), what I do instead is playfully be a brat, which is more similar to BDSM bratting. The tone is a lot lighter, and although I still need to be put in my place, one can tell that I’m not genuinely co…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 07:14 PM
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Well, if we’re talking caricatures.. An abstinent girl who was raised on the prairie (where she was raised with all of the things she needed to be a good homemaker), who has 0 goals for herself that don’t have to do with pleasing her husband in some way or taking care of their future children. She follows a schedule every day, and she has for her entire life, which includes things like making sure she works out and stretches everyday to keep her body tight for her man, and reads to make certain …
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:28 PM
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Is she ever not home? Can’t really re-do something that’s already cooked.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:18 PM
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I honestly sometimes wish I was born in Japan because I feel as though the culture would suit me a lot better.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:17 PM
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Mmhmm, yes, very much so. Why? You’re not claiming that’s what I’m doing, are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 06:12 PM
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What is my secret??? :( I’m so confused
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 06:10 PM
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You sound like me. I got a breast lift/reduction, and that helped me immensely. I got a nose job too..idk, probably gonna go under the knife again to make my boobs even smaller and fix the crooked nose job I got. I’m trying to cope by developing my other skills. To be quite honest, if we looksmaxxed, we could still probably be 5/10’s. That’s enough to inspire commitment from a man provided that all of our other qualities were pristine. As an aside, yes, I don’t fear the wall as much because I’ve…
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/19 06:04 PM
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I’m a dietetics major, so my answer might be skewed: butter. I try to never use any shortening with my personal baking/cooking, but not just because of taste, but I also can’t ignore the health-perspective because of my profession. But in my food science courses, we use shortening most of the time because my school is way too poor to waste money on a bunch of butter for us kids haha. Why do you ask?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 05:36 PM
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I really don’t think RPW is LARP’ing...I’ve quite literally dedicated my life to being one, and I know I’m not the only one.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 03:06 PM
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As a female, this is amazing. Honestly, if I were in your shoes, I don’t think I’d have the stamina to put up with this all these years. But your loyalty is honestly extremely respectable, and I’m very glad you chose to give her a final chance instead of dipping out immediately once you started getting attention from other females. It speaks volumes about you. I rarely lurk on this sub, but it’s funny..this post honestly reminds me of what we do over at r/redpillwomen, the only difference being …
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/19 06:38 AM
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Lol wut. I haven’t come across these conspiracy theories..and if they’re out there, I’m sure most red pullers don’t believe in them. There are idiots in every group.
/r/ExRedPill25/10/19 06:17 AM
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Actually, we did talk about how, if he wanted children (which he does), it would be literally impossible for his lifestyle without a woman that wanted to stay home and do all the wifely/motherly duties. I took no issue with this. However, it was quite the opposite in fact. I’ve spent years developing parenting, homemaking, etc. skills for this very reason. I mean, I thought RPW was all about keeping the home in check while the man went off to go fight in the world. Genuine question: do you think…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 09:20 PM
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What? He is definitely not a red piller..I’m sorry, did I say something that made you think so? I’ve been ostracized by my peers since I was child. I was teased a lot for being the “weird kid” at school. As a result, my emotional development was greatly hindered. It’s actually me who is backwards socially and him that is greatly skilled..which tbh, isn’t any much better.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 09:14 PM
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I never claimed this was how most men operated. In fact, there are more men on the submissive end of BDSM rather than the dominant. That said, I’ve had no issue finding men who crave dominance like this. Yes, they are rare, but they aren’t nonexistent. It’s not shit testing, it’s called bratting ;) Thankfully for me, brat tamers are a thing The unhealthy point is something I haven’t explored though that could be very much valid..
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 09:08 PM
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Unhealthy? My ex claimed that for him, it took no effort because he didn’t see it as work. And the current guy I’m seeing, he wouldn’t even date someone if he couldn’t have this dynamic because “he needs it”.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 05:34 PM
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How did you convince yourself to become theist? I converted to atheism at 15, and although I follow all the virtues that Judeo-Christianity preaches of my own accord, I can’t actually make the leap to convince myself again I that God actually exists..and it feels as though I’m lying to myself when I try. It definitely sucks because most of the men I’m interested in happen to be Christian.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 03:52 PM
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Yes, I love it. I literally am searching for a 24/7 BDSM relationship where I can be “put in my place” at all times. I crave profound submission and need it in order to thrive.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 03:46 PM
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Look at my most recent post. I met him off Hinge (yes I paid for it). I had like 3,000 likes off Tinder, and a few hundred matches, but I didn’t meet up with anyone off of it because again, on both Hinge and Tinder, I was banned from both in a week (I had subscriptions for both; it was ridiculous) It’s like $40 for a month and honestly kind of not worth it. I honestly think the reason why you’re so anxious for messages though is because you only get a limited amount of swipes per day. When I upg…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 04:25 AM
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I haven’t been on Bumble (something about the woman calling the shots grosses me out), so I don’t know much about it, but I was on Tinder for a week before I got banned, and I honestly recommend getting Tinder Gold if you can cough up the cash. That way, you can just like back everyone who liked you, and let me tell you, you will get swarmed with messages, so it’s no longer an issue of waiting around. It’s a huge confidence boost for you, and you’ll realize how little a single person’s messages …
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 03:02 AM
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He didn’t open my message for like two days, then last night at 12:30 AM replied with this: I wouldn’t ever want you to have to be okay being alone forever first.. there’s so much that’s happened.. I read everything you said and took it all in. Would you be available for a call anytime soon? I woke up at 1:30 AM and replied, but he hasn’t opened it yet (I know he works until about midnight and then goes to bed, but who knows why he hasn’t opened it the next day. (This has happened two or three t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 02:40 AM
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As obvious as it is, keeping your weight stable is HUGE in keeping your skin from sagging. Yo-yo dieting as you age takes a huge toll on you; your skin won’t bounce back from it like it did when you were younger.
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 01:40 AM
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This is called nun-mode. Honestly, it’s going to take you around 2 years-ish to lose the weight. You could do it faster, but then rebounding becomes a huge risk (and then you WILL regret not being patient and just taking the two years to do it, because I’m the end, you’ll be overweight for longer). I’m studying to become a dietitian, and if you can, see one. Or if you can’t, I’m telling you right now, the ONLY way to lose weight is to consume less Calories than you burn. Diets like keto are just…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 01:36 AM
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What specific dating app(s) are you using?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 01:28 AM
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Would you be interested in BDSM? I’m extremely submissive as well, and vanilla dominance/submission that RPW advocates for isn’t enough for me. To get what I crave, I have to go into kink territory. This includes things like my partner giving me a list of rules that I must follow, and if I break any, I am punished. Just food for thought
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 01:27 AM
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Man, seriously? I’m really lousy at reading that type of stuff, but I was aware before posting that there was a risk for it and was really hoping this sub wouldn’t be prone to the jealousy, especially because I am aware of my own difficulties with discerning it. Yep, I am aware that it was unhealthy..but I couldn’t help myself. When I attach, I attach hard. The only reason I was even able to go on a date with someone else is because I realized that my ex did not intend on reciprocating that loya…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 01:18 AM
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Hang on, really? (Sorry, you often give really good advice on this sub, so I value your opinion a lot)
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/19 12:28 AM
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Wow..and just think..had you listened to RPW, you would have lost everything.. this is eye-opening for me; thank you for sharing your story.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 09:32 AM
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I read an article a while ago on TRP that said, “Don’t waste your time with anyone whose answer isn’t a ‘fuck yes’”, and I think I internalized it. My first relationship, the guy only kind of wanted me, and I never want to repeat that ever again. Do you think it’s a poor strategy for women to employ?
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 08:32 AM
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I’m scared of IVF because I’m scared of unknown genetic issues. Is your son a normal, healthy child?
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/19 02:52 AM
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I always follow the male’s set pace and never chase. To be fair, he came on very strong, and at the beginning, I actually had to tell him to slow down. I left out those details because they were irrelevant.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 12:06 PM
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I’m sorry, but judging by your deleted post history (using redditsearch.io and removeddit), I don’t trust your judgment. To preach to RPW, you should probably live the RPW lifestyle first.
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 03:40 AM
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There is some level of defensiveness. I tried to eradicate it because I want the most rational answer, but perhaps I didn’t do a good enough of a job. The only issue I have is that, yes, your argument makes 100% sense if he was a normal dude in today’s culture who engaged in hooking up. In fact, if he was one to have sex outside of relationships, I wouldn’t even try with him. It would be far too risky, and yes, fishy. But what does he get from lying to me if sex isn’t on the table? I don’t even …
/r/RedPillWomen22/10/19 01:56 AM
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Lol, he’s not your typical millionaire. Most rich guys disgust me. He has an n-count of 3 and is only interested in LTR’s (his previous relationships have been 4 and 1 year [he WANTS to find his life partner]). I would not be at all interested in him otherwise; it isn’t like he’s the first rich guy I’ve talked to (again, I did NOT like them). He’s different. He doesn’t want the money for himself; the money is a means to an end for him to have a genuine, positive impact on the world. His benevole…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 11:46 PM
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You know what? You’re entirely right. I’m trying to take into account that most people cannot fathom the kind of lifestyle he has (he quite literally works 7 days a week, morning until night, and he said he could never have the typical, 9-5 lifestyle), but you’re entirely right in that I should listen to the person who can most relate to this kind of schedule. Thank you so much, your comment helped me more than you could imagine.
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 09:39 PM
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He did. I didn’t think this information was relevant for this post, but we’re both heavily into DD/lg, a subcategory of BDSM that revolves around ageplay. It might not be the same for others who aren’t in BDSM/DDlg communities, but believe me, we both joked that I’ll never have a better first date in my life haha
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 09:34 PM
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Believe me, I’m doing none of the chasing. If he doesn’t text back, we don’t speak. And I would never initiate a date. (We’re both into BDSM, so this dynamic works for us on all levels). But you make a valid point. It’s not just the $700 or whatever that he spent on that day that he loses, but the potential thousands that he loses by not working that day. As I said in my post, he pissed off some of his rich Asian clients to be with me. And he told me straight up that if he wasn’t feeling it, he …
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 09:08 PM
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Mmhmm yes, I agree..which is why I’m trying to be lenient here. If you read the other comments, not everyone here agrees with you. I just want to do what is right, so thank you for being the counterpoint. Although, I am a bit confused..what do you mean by “it’s his job to pursue the relationship”?
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 08:47 PM
4

Honestly, my only issue with what he did is that he didn’t tell me beforehand. He also seemed to not really react much when I told him that, but perhaps I’ll talk to him about it again when he actually finds time. For me, loneliness is more about feeling lack of connection than a lack of time spent together. I also posted this because my mom and sister started putting doubts in me. They keep saying that, “There is no way for him to be that busy for a straight week” and that, “He obviously has ti…
/r/RedPillWomen21/10/19 08:07 PM
1

My first ever relationship, my ex had a lower sex drive than me, so I promised myself I would never date someone like that again, and it’s worked out just dandy since then. What was your husband like before? Has he always been like this?
/r/RedPillWomen20/10/19 09:35 AM
1

This is anecdotal, but I haven’t had an issue finding men that don’t sleep around. Like, I’m taking about guys who have women who throw themselves onto them, but they reject them (and it’s not like they have low sex drives either). If I hadn’t personally experienced this, I would probably believe all the other commenters here that say that this is impossible (I imagine a lot of the men here are projecting), but while it’s definitely rarer, it’s definitely not impossible.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 10:58 PM
1

Personally against in. In my past relationship, we were both pornfree and the benefits were amazing. I’m looking for a similar dynamic again.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/19 11:20 PM
1

Look up DD/lg if you haven’t already
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/19 04:50 AM
1

Okay I’m sorry, but this is NOT what being a RPW is
/r/ExRedPill11/10/19 03:59 PM
1

Funnily enough, off an app called Hinge! I was on it just seeing what was out there, and he was on it on a whim because he’s been unable to find what he wants in a woman so far (I’m actually the first girl he’s ever asked out off that app) I may write a field report depending on how tomorrow goes, because this guy is like the pinnacle of what RPW look for. I mean, he’s 22 and he’s easily affording taking me to Disneyland for the first date tomorrow. But that’s not what makes him so high-quality.…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 01:21 AM
1

After being completely heartbroken by my previous boyfriend and not wanting to continue on with life...I met my dream man. He’s taking me on a first date to Disneyland tomorrow. He’s the first man I’ve met that has BOTH the IQ and EQ I’ve been after, and he’s EXTREMELY masculine...and because I was treated so horribly by my ex, I’ve been able to [mostly] move on from him to allow me to open up a new chapter in my life. I didn’t listen to this sub when they told me to leave my ex. I just couldn’t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 05:43 PM
1

talk to many men that you find attractive, even sleep with a few Lol...mods!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/19 03:40 PM
1

What’s your MBTI type?
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/19 03:19 PM
1

Are you unhappy now?
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 09:28 PM
1

Hm, see I literally will say that to the male directly...I think I see why people call me so honest now; I don’t think I have my social conventions down. Thank you for filling me in.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 01:24 AM
3

RPM often describe love goggles for their wives when they age
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 12:28 AM
1

What do you mean by too easy for one of you to be talking about yourselves?
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/19 12:25 AM
1

So just to be clear, if your partner did or asked for a divorce, would you eventually move on to someone else? Or what would you do?
/r/ExRedPill28/09/19 08:38 PM
1

I am a female and feel this way about a man.. I would never tell him, “If you don’t get back with me, I want to literally kill myself,” because that’s deemed abusive by many, and I don’t want to manipulate him..but that is truthfully how I feel. I literally feel like he is my meaning to life and that no one will ever be able to make me just as happy. It doesn’t help that I think everyone else is ugly
/r/ExRedPill28/09/19 08:06 AM
1

Yes, they will, but I’m hoping you’re not including yourself into that. The poor way you’re phrasing your behavior would be damaging to a RP girl who didn’t know better. And do realize that there are confounding variables into that study (for instance, low n-count people are more likely to be religious, and therefore less likely to seek divorce because it is against their religion. And I mean, they’re also more likely to be socially conservative/traditionalist as well.) I am glad you can actuall…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 07:44 PM
1

So it was you that had the problem with it lmao And I’m sure you know there are vaccines for the strains of HPV that cause cervical cancer Anyway, I was asking for you anecdotal issues. I know what the stats say, but stats can potentially mean nothing on an individual basis. You should probably edit your comment to say something along the lines of, “I took issue with...” instead.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 07:30 PM
1

How did it become an issue?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 03:05 PM
1

What is an unresolved LTR?
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 12:29 AM
1

^ My number of partners I’ve had oral sex with is medium/high-ish, but it hasn’t affected my ability to pair-bond because I was not emotionally attached to these men whatsoever. However, I have gone on to have penetrative sex with my LTR’s, and one of the reasons why I want my most recent ex back is because I know my ability to pair bond will be very much affected if I try to move on to someone else. I had a very strong attachment to him, and sex with him was absolutely amazing (what I never had…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/19 06:55 PM
1

Isn’t that hypocritical though? Like, I agree that no man should do housework, but at the same token, can’t one argue that no woman should be forced to work? I mean, a woman bringing home money is also a relatively new (and arguably feminist) concept.
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 09:46 PM
1

Forgive me if I’m wrong, but isn’t it wrong for a woman to be expected to work a full-time job AND be the full-time homemaker? I would be more okay with this if he was bringing home all the bacon..then of course I would expect you to clean up after him without a fuss, but if you’re taking on his job (and being a nurse is exhausting, I’ve heard), isn’t it fair that he takes on part of your job too? I think a woman should cook, clean, and do the child-rearing, yes, but not if she’s also working ha…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/19 05:32 PM
1

Are you kidding? Heck yes. That’s an accident; it could happen to anyone. I would be upset, but not at him, at least, certainly not for a long period of time. I would feel extreme amounts of empathy for him; I would know how horrible it would be to be in his shoes. I also intend to love my husband more than my children. Don’t get me wrong, both will be in extreme amounts, but I think the family dynamic works best when spouses come first then children second. A one night stand on the other hand? …
/r/RedPillWives01/09/19 06:57 PM
1

Hmm..maybe “forgiveable” would have been a better word to use. I said irreparable in the sense that if both parties made an effort. But that does exclude extreme examples such as him turning into a serial killer or something lol I also said the phrase “in my mine” for a reason. I included that other women could possibly get over cheating, but this is only in regards to my personal tastes.
/r/RedPillWives01/09/19 06:40 PM
1

What’s your opinion?
/r/RedPillWives01/09/19 06:21 PM
1

Your example is the reason feminism exists as it does today. This is a beautiful example of it. I always say I’m anti-third wave feminism, but many don’t seem to understand that that mean I am pro-first-and-second-wave feminism. I am so glad that the first and second waves of feminism occurred, because OP, you don’t deserve to stay in a relationship like this. Cheating, in my mind, is the only thing that is irredeemable in a relationship. Everything else can theoretically be worked through, and …
/r/RedPillWives01/09/19 01:52 AM
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Shit dude..this is my biggest fear..I’m so sorry. I hope you can post here again later when your account becomes more established
/r/RedPillWives31/08/19 09:58 PM
1

I stalked your post history too now. You’re argumentative online and blunt when your opinion differs, with a dash of insulting to illustrate your slight superiority complex surrounding your mind. You remind me of me. Haha, I like you. Not to say you like me too but /shrug
/r/MensRights30/08/19 03:32 AM
1

Such as?
/r/MensRights30/08/19 03:26 AM
1

Ew, my post history has been trash the past 1.5 months :( because break up Sad lyfe of getting judged on the internet
/r/MensRights30/08/19 03:21 AM
1

Right? I am a highly esteemed female, superior to all the other women who pine after money rather than true love. I’m r/notliketheothergirls
/r/MensRights30/08/19 03:06 AM
1

I don’t think anyone going through a divorce is necessarily happy. I’d much rather be married to someone with little money, if he were the loyal love of my life, than to be a billionaire’s ex wife, that’s for certain.
/r/MensRights30/08/19 01:48 AM
1

You sound jaded or at least hurt by men. That’s something RPW advocates against. Not only is it harmful to you, but baggage similar to yours is unattractive to men, as it opposes youth. Heal yourself first before you find your ideal match.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/19 04:25 PM
1

Yikes. Obsession does not bode well for an eventual marriage. It means they like their idea of you rather than the true you, and do you believe obsession is sustainable? Unless you’re hyperbolizing, they are the wrong path to go down. You have much to learn. Go into nun mode for a few months at least.
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/19 03:51 PM
1

How was your boyfriend attracted to you killing a bug? For me personally, my partner used to take pride in being able to take care of insects for me, and therefore take care of me. Your experience is just interesting to me because it doesn’t really seem to follow suite in RPW line of thinking
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/19 05:41 AM
1

Meekness =/= weakness
/r/RedPillWomen23/08/19 04:04 AM
1

I am so sorry. You are right though. We can be the perfect wives, but if we don’t choose the proper partner to begin with, it’ll all be worthless, or worse, even harmful to ourselves. I just imagine what you’re going through must be really rough, and you truly have my condolences.
/r/RedPillWives23/08/19 03:22 AM
1

Yep, I do. Unfortunately, I’m still stuck in that cycle. Being a RPW with BED is difficult because on one hand, I care about my weight because of RPW, but on the other hand, my therapists say the only way to recover is to not care about my weight >.< it’s impossible
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 04:18 PM
1

As someone with BED, this is especially true for me.
/r/RedPillWomen16/08/19 01:39 AM
1

CICO. Also, metabolism slows ~100 Calories/day a decade.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/19 01:22 AM
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Yep. There is a definite red flag here; something isn’t adding up with his logic.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/19 02:46 AM
1

taking everything from RP to heart makes me extremely suicide. Yes, I’m female. But no, I’m not a Stacy. Makes me think that all men care about are looks/they’re extremely visual, and if they had a choice between the same personality with my looks vs Stacy’s looks, they’d always choose Stacy.
/r/ExRedPill19/07/19 11:49 PM
1

As an almost 21 yo female, I actually would prefer a virgin, as long as he was okay with me not being one (I couldn’t handle being patronized or attacked out of jealousy). That said, I am also RP/traditionally-minded, so yeah. Also, I wouldn’t be able to date someone who had a high body count because that would honestly just disgust me. Everyone is different; don’t assume we all have the same preferences.
/r/ExRedPill16/07/19 10:21 PM
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I read this stat once that read that most girls prefer tall men and most men prefer girls of average height. It also said that most girls prefer taller than them and most men, shorter than them. The last part is a bit obvious but /shrug Sorry I’m too lazy to find and link it Also, height is one of those things that is subjective. I’ve seen some men love having a 5’2 girl while others want girls that look more like models. It depends on the man.
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 06:11 PM
1

This is a bit too pseudoscience-y for my tastes. That said, I agree with the overall conclusion to keep the number of relationships you’re in in your lifetime minimal, but yeah, I can’t write off pseudoscience of the left if I don’t write off this too. Too many double standards, not enough evidence, and too much bias.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/19 05:06 PM
1

Yeah no. Leave now while you can, before you’re attached. I’m not saying you couldn’t possibly muscle through it and make it work somehow, but it wouldn’t be the most ideal relationship and you’d have a lot of doubts during it if you did try to pursue it. Your ideal mate is elsewhere. Good luck.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/19 07:12 PM
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Yeah..I have had professional help..no luck with it :/ I’m actually worse now than when I started lol..What you described is actually something we did that they called grounding, but I liked your version better.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 11:25 PM
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Thank you for this. I have BED, and dissociating is the main thing that perpetuates it (It’s the only way I can binge, and it’s when I’m the most helpless in terms of stopping it from happening). I’ve been trying to find an answer to my BED for some time now, and this made me realize that maybe I should attack it this way.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 10:29 PM
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That’s what I would have suggested. That’s the best compromise.
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 07:17 PM
2

My boyfriend had to be taught that I don’t want him to ask for my permission to go do stuff with friends or family. Sometimes he’ll still ask, “Is that okay with you?” after he tells me he’s gonna go do something, but it’s fine because he doesn’t mean it in the sense of “I’m not going if you don’t let me” sort of way. It boggled my mind the first time he said, “Can I go see “so and so” this weekend?” I would never flat out just say, “Yes.” I would always reply with “Don’t ask me that,” and it to…
/r/MensRights28/06/19 07:51 PM
2

Yes. My boyfriend and I are in a 24/7 BDSM relationship, and it 100% involves the 1950’s-esque lifestyle. Like yes, he is my dominant in the bedroom, but he’s also my dominant outside of the bedroom. He says, when he goes to the gym, his motivation is to “get as big as he can to be able to protect me”. He looked for work this year “to be able to spoil his little princess”, but also to learn to be more responsible to build the traditional life we have together. I hope to have the white picket fen…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 07:38 PM
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Future children are what fuels myself too. Even my choice in a captain, is only partially for selfish reasons and primarily for ‘whoever I think will make the best father for my future children’. As a child, I didn’t want any, but everything changed at 18 and I found RPW a couple years back.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/19 07:27 PM
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Innocent fun? What does that even mean? Flirting doesn’t really seem innocent to begin with... Become a woman you find respectable. Are you keeping this a secret from your husband? Living in secrecy, living a life that requires secrecy from your loved ones, will signal to you that you know you’re not making the right choice.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/19 09:52 PM
1

Okay, makes sense! Thank you
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/19 05:54 PM
1

Okay, but that doesn't explain that HIIT isn't also better for the 20 year old
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/19 05:51 PM
2

Then why don’t they provide for their own children themselves? Hahhahahahah, roasted
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/19 08:10 AM
1

Okay, as a dietetics major, you are understanding everything completely wrong. Like, I think you are misunderstanding the foundations of cellular biology/metabolism. Like, digestion is not the same thing as metabolism. Digestion involves your body extracting nutrients from the food. Metabolism involves all cellular processes of catabolism and anabolism technically, but in nutrition, the conversion of these already-absorbed monomers from food into either ATP or stored energy (fat/muscles) for lat…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/19 03:26 AM
1

Lol, temporarily I guess..does nothing for actually fat loss, but I suppose if you only care about what the scale says that day then /shrug I wouldn't exactly call it a life hack for weight loss though
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/19 12:23 AM
2

Thank you for this. I actually started off at 158 pounds as a teenager and after years and years of trying, it finally all clicked one time and I lost all the weight in a matter of months at 20...so if I lost it once, I can lose it again. I just remember how fucking awful it was to be overweight/almost obese (I'm 5'2), but I suppose being pregnant isn't necessarily the same as being overweight. Going back to that place does terrify me because I work so hard to not gain the weight back everyday, …
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 10:55 PM
1

Okay..why would HIIT work better with age but not extended cardio?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 10:23 PM
1

I mean..you can end up thinner after pregnancy if you really want it..
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 10:21 PM
1

Ye. I started gaining weight on a 100% strict paleo diet. CICO is king for weight loss/gain.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 10:19 PM
1

How do digestive enzymes cause weight loss? Shouldn't they do the opposite?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 10:18 PM
2

Your BMR has only decreased by about 100 Calories because of age. In fact, the fact that you gained 30 pounds increased your BMR as well, so tbh, it probably evened out your BMR to give a net change of close to 0 Cals/day.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 10:10 PM
2

I think people misspeak and mean "fat loss" instead of "weight loss"
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 10:07 PM
1

How much did you gain for your pregnancies? I'm a tad over 100 pounds, but want to dip into the 90's, but the thought of going from 98 pounds to 140+ pounds in the course of a few months seems terrifying to me. Like, I know average woman aren't supposed to gain that much weight during pregnancy, but the thing is, underweight women (and possibly petite?) are. If it's too private, don't answer ofc.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 10:03 PM
1

Haha, closer to the beach maybe..but further inland, nah, there's a lot of overweight folk here too..usually not until after high school at least though
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 10:00 PM
1

Haha, the first thing I thought when she said "size 14" and "not fat" was, "Well, they must be extremely, extremely pear-shaped..or maybe these are the senior population.."
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 09:58 PM
1

Why can't they be fat if they want a career there?
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 09:55 PM
1

As a dietetics major, no.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/19 09:02 PM
1

I can't read your post, as it got taken down, and I'm too lazy to removeddit it, but from the first two sentences I saw on my feed, it might interest you to learn about the copper IUD. I can't deal with hormones. I had the arm implant originally, which is supposed to have some of the least amounts of hormones, and it was some of the worst two months of my life. I went absolutely crazy. I couldn't control my own emotions, and the lack of control over myself was literally painful for me. I would c…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/19 08:40 PM
2

Yeah, whatever your current comment says, I completely agree with, and my original reaction would be unjust.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/19 07:41 PM
1

Wtf..did you edit your comment? I couldn't have sworn it said "...all women are potentially dangerous" not "all bad women are potentially dangerous." If you didn't, I completely misread. I'm sorry, dude.
/r/ExRedPill03/06/19 06:39 AM
2

You're implying that women are different than men in this context. Why say it like this?
/r/ExRedPill02/06/19 03:26 AM
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You can say the same for men, with that logic.
/r/ExRedPill01/06/19 07:16 AM
1

It's so she won't get it somewhere else Isn't this desperation?
/r/BlackPillScience01/06/19 07:07 AM
1

Ahhh, you're a Canadian. Makes sense /s
/r/MensRights01/06/19 03:25 AM
1

u/userleansbot
/r/MensRights01/06/19 03:24 AM
2

To be fair, I really doubt that it was females who came up with urinals and their social appropriateness That being said, I could never do that. I can barely do it in American stalls as is haha
/r/MensRights01/06/19 02:30 AM
1

Really? Why not under that for everyone?
/r/MensRights01/06/19 02:25 AM
0

wow what a tool you are. This made me laugh irl hahaha
/r/MensRights01/06/19 01:59 AM
1

Smh bruh, this isn't right I also guess red pill subs don't count lol
/r/MensRights01/06/19 01:58 AM
1

u/userleansbot
/r/MensRights01/06/19 01:55 AM
1

WHAT THE HELL, THIS IS AMAZING
/r/MensRights01/06/19 01:55 AM
4

I think people are obfuscating feminism and equality. Or at least, the definition of feminism is not agreed upon whether it does or does not mean equality. On top of that, there is a nuance between pragmatic feminism and theoretical feminism, which people are also obfuscating.
/r/MensRights01/06/19 01:54 AM
4

I don't understand this? Lol You know that there's quite a few of us female MRA's on this sub? We're not super uncommon, especially not on here. This chick isn't a rarity, at the least.
/r/MensRights01/06/19 01:51 AM
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Hence he was "promised"
/r/MensRights01/06/19 01:49 AM
9

Love isn't enough to sustain a good marriage, as sad as that is.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/19 05:36 AM
3

I mean, to question herself having gender identity disorder means that there's definitely something going on in her head.
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/19 09:52 PM
0

Lol, you should divorce your wife.
/r/MGTOW27/05/19 09:41 PM
1

I was more so advocating that OP shouldn't do it if she doesn't want to, as with any other sexual act, and vice versa, but note taken. I actually rewrote a few sentences that were precarious in that post because I didn't want to be misinterpreted, but perhaps I didn't rewrite enough. Note taken. I'll try to be more articulate next time.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 10:32 PM
1

Even the most atrocious of acts wouldn't scar someone who was psychologically 100% healthy. That doesn't make the act any less atrocious though. I was speaking about a theoretical act in general ("the act" the the second sentence referring to "an act" from the first sentence) not moralizing my own preferences. That would be logically incorrect and stupid of me.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 10:21 PM
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That's how I tried to frame it at the time...you forgot to mention that that "different hole" isn't biologically designed to accept things backwards. It's why weakening of the sphincter and prolapses occur. Sure, there are ways to minimize this damage, but do not mistake it for being designed to accept things in the same way the vagina is. You're right though. Even the most atrocious of acts wouldn't scar someone who was psychologically 100% healthy. That doesn't make the act any less atrocious …
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 08:54 PM
5

I did anal for an ex when I really didn't want it. I completely regret it. I don't have physical scars, but I do carry emotional ones now. I'm not saying it'll mess EVERYONE up like that, but I do think it has the potential to for some people. Some people genuinely hate it. In the same way, sure, a threesome wouldn't physically hurt me, but I would kill myself before having to endure that honestly. Watching the one I love having sex with another girl would be THE most painful thing in the world.…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 05:41 PM
6

This is why I am adamant about vetting that my partner not even have fantasies involving other girls in the first place. I couldn't even deal with the knowledge that the man I was with was suppressing his desires for me and to please me. I'm sorry, OP. Your situation truly made my heart wrench. This is terrible indeed.
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/19 05:35 PM
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I personally asked my boyfriend all of this before we started dating. Yes, I included the bisexuality questions as well. They would be deal-breakers for me, but as someone else mentioned, our tastes don't affect your situation.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/19 12:46 AM
3

How did you overcome your nihilism?
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/19 10:50 PM
8

I have/had binge eating disorder. You are starting to develop BED. This is not hyperphagia. Please, I struggled with BED for 8 years and now it's turning/turned into bulimia; please seek help before it's too late. Prevention is so much easier than trying to recover from it. It has literally ruined my life and is now slowly starting to ruin my health. Feel free to PM me if you have any questions. EDIT: Okay, I peeked at your profile, and you post to r/1200isplenty. Yep...you're starting to develo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 12:06 AM
3

THIS. I can't believe no one else said this. This isn't clinical BED yet, but she's on the path of getting there.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/19 12:00 AM
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Ditto..well, except I pluck my eyebrows and longer hairs of my upper lip. And shave everything else.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/19 07:31 PM
2

I looked at it and said to myself, "Wow, I must be very immature too because I don't find it that bad." And then I scrolled a little bit further down... I moved from NYC to FL to be with some asshole guy who manipulates me and makes me feel broken. I want to leave but it’s not that easy for multiple reasons. BRUH. facepalm
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/19 02:15 AM
1

Right..this is for my own benefit rather than OP's, but do you think a man who has soiled his fidelity like that can be worth keeping?
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/19 10:06 PM
2

INTP 5w4. 4w5 is my secondary enneagram and 9w1 is tertiary. Also, sp/sx. INTP is by far the closest personality model I relate to on all the scales I've found thus far.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/19 09:50 PM
1

Wouldn't the fact that he is a liar be his own fault though? Like, don't you think, if he was a man with integrity, he would be honest upfront and accept the fact that OP could leave him if she didn't like it? Why would he want to be with someone who wasn't with him for his authentic self? That would seem to lead to imposter syndrome almost..and for certain it makes it seem like this would just make evident that he wasn't good captain material to begin with..
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/19 09:16 PM
2

Not to say you're wrong, but I don't really see any excuses for calling an ex. Like, no matter what OP did to have a fit, none of it equated to doing something this horrible, right? Why would he call her in the first place? In my eyes, this is cheating that is grounds for terminating the relationship for that call alone. There is no faithfulness there. Of course, I'm not sure if my mode of thinking is 100% right and would love to be proven wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/19 09:13 PM
1

Why did you bring up horoscopes? I hope you don't think they have anything to do with personality...
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/19 09:08 PM
4

Jesus Christ this sub is littered with INTJ's haha As it pertains to your question, I am an INTP dating an ESFP man. Before I met him, my preferred type was more ENTJ (primary) or INTJish (secondary), especially because my attraction placed so much value on intelligence, particularly ones higher than my own. I'm naturally submissive, and want to be led by someone more competent than I. Of course, being an INTP meant that I measured competency by that raw intelligence that I found so attractive. …
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/19 08:59 PM
1

Of course but...you need to remember that you're the common denominator here. You're choosing these men. And with the victim mentality you were expressing prior, even the good men will probably find you insufferable. You will never be happy until you change your perspective. Happiness that is 100% dependent upon other people is always fleeting. You will never be able to control others enough to your liking; they will always disappoint you eventually with a mindset like that.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 03:06 PM
1

This sentence is exactly why you need it. The problem is you, not other people.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 03:01 PM
1

Bruh, you need therapy.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 02:56 PM
1

Hmm..I wouldn't be too quick to make that judgement
/r/ExRedPill10/05/19 01:51 PM
4

I think there's quite a few women on here (including me). I'm not sure if most are from BP or RP though, but there's definitely females here
/r/ExRedPill10/05/19 05:03 AM
1

I'm pretty sure this sub is satirical..it's literally a mirror of TRP
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/19 03:13 AM
1

Eliminate the soy boys who let the feminists take over. HAHAHHAHA.
/r/MensRights07/05/19 05:50 PM
1

I wonder if registering yourself as female/trans would get you out of the draft 🤔 Actually..I wonder if trans-males get drafted 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔
/r/MensRights07/05/19 05:48 PM
1

How is it woke?
/r/BlackPillScience06/05/19 06:25 PM
8

I was not aware fellow Western females were into K-pop lol. I've seen the off nerd-type girl talk about it occasionally, and mostly just online, but irl, at least in SoCal, this isn't really a thing lmao. I least not from what I've seen.
/r/BlackPillScience06/05/19 01:09 AM
-1

Right..my own error then..apologies
/r/MensRights03/05/19 04:44 PM
-3

No no, that is MY point as well. I understood that perfectly well. What I'm saying is the left would do that, but two wrongs don't make a right. Unless..am I misunderstand OP by thinking that's he's saying that we should do that too? Or is he just merely pointing out the hypocrisy in it and in fact not giving a call to action?
/r/MensRights03/05/19 04:42 PM
2

Hmm, curious..has she been proven guilty yet? Don't get me wrong, I still think she should rot in hell for this, but we've been attacking the left for females slandering males and everyone believing the slander before trial has even occurred yet. We can't be hypocrites. To stray from anything other than "innocent until proven guilty" is a dangerous road indeed.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 04:22 PM
8

Yeah..it made me feel awful for the kids when they grow up.
/r/MensRights03/05/19 04:18 PM
3

This might be unpopular opinion, but if you can't handle it, leave. I personally wouldn't be able to date a man who was a stripper, so I can empathize with you. If anything, it feels as if you were deceived. I'm not gonna blue pill to you and pretend that you should accept her for this. That being said, people do genuinely change. It's rare, but it happens. But if you can't handle this, it's still in your right to leave. I don't know how rational it is, but you can leave for whatever reason rega…
/r/ExRedPill03/05/19 04:16 PM
1

False analogy with the pesticide thing because marriage is not natural..and akin to how guns don't kill people, birth control isn't the issue, it's people ofc...but holy fucking shit, I NEVER thought to apply economics to this, but it makes SO much sense. While I'm not sure if I would entirely agree with the whole video, the Supply/Demand argument is literally rock-solid, and it alone makes this video spectacular. Well, at least that argument.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 06:09 AM
1

I am a female with an ED. I cannot deny that this possibility has crossed my mind before. (Although I'm not sure why you mentioned the negative self-perception part, as body dysmorphia is literally a prerequisite for anyone diagnosed with an ED) EDIT: Oh yeah..my boyfriend is an ex bulimic...so I'm not sure how this theory would coincide with males with ED's
/r/BlackPillScience02/05/19 03:32 AM
4

I mean, it is closer, but that doesn't at all mean that it's passed. I'm having a difficult time finding information that supports what you think it does..but then again, I merely skimmed. Would you mind quoting something so I know what you're specifically referring to? And preferably something that isn't from Whisper? Yes, that very much would be confusing. How long have you been following RPW? If it has accidentally led you astray, my condolences. I know not quite everyone agrees with everythi…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 02:57 AM
24

I don't think most RPW here would ever advise sex before exclusivity...when you said you were waiting to have sex with him, I expected much, much longer. "Cuddling for one night post-sex for the first time ever" is not a very high bar. It doesn't mean at all that you "passed" the test. I'm sorry for being harsh, but it needed to be said.
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/19 01:47 AM
1

Right right right....but the main part that stands out to me most is the "insecure assholes" part. Weight and height are definitely apples and oranges, don't get me wrong, but the part about judge someone's appearance like that is more similar than not (also the, it's not only about weight part). Do you think a straight woman is less attracted to a short man than a straight man would be attracted to a fat woman?
/r/ExRedPill27/04/19 06:39 PM
1

You're not the only female like this. (Surprise, surprise). Find other female friends who click with you better and you actually enjoy.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 04:38 PM
3

I mean, I don't know about the "official RP opinion", but personally, while that's okay I guess as a supplement, it really can't replace the real thing, especially not with your man.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 09:38 AM
21

As a fellow, inexperienced 20 year old, you sound incredibly naive and foolish.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 05:18 AM
5

Yikes..I feel like you did literally everything that I would consider ideal for a RPW (as pragmatically as possible), at least from your perspective, and things still ended up like this? This is really scary to me tbh, as incompatible sex drive is especially the one counterargument I could see against abstinence until marriage. I hope to read other responses from others here.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 03:25 AM
2

Right. You're good then. You didn't promise her anything. Don't beat yourself up about it. You sound like a good person. You have a conscience and are striving to be moral. But don't take on the burden of others at the expense of your own, for that would be a long, long road ahead. Take care.
/r/ExRedPill25/04/19 06:17 AM
1

Meh..did you give her reason to believe that you wanted an actual relationship before you slept with her though?
/r/ExRedPill25/04/19 04:00 AM
1

Did she tell you about the rapes before or after you had sex for the first time? If it was after, you are not an asshole in the slightest. If it was before, you are slightly closer to an asshole, but no, I would not deem you an asshole, as long as you're not falsely leading her on. My own, personal views are very different to most people's when it comes to rape in relationships. But regardless, you are not required to be her shoulder to cry on. You don't owe her anything. Being the partner to so…
/r/ExRedPill24/04/19 10:22 PM
4

Huge respect to you..especially considering you're only 17!
/r/MensRights24/04/19 01:40 PM
1

Yes, I'm not saying they're the same in regards to that, but I'm wondering what you would advise her to do. Would you tell her to lose the weight before she put herself out there? How would you suggest she deal with the comments online?
/r/ExRedPill22/04/19 07:04 PM
1

No that's the thing. Height is a deal breaker for me, as 5'6 or below is too short for me, but I just didn't most guys really cared aside from not wanting someone taller than themselves.
/r/ExRedPill22/04/19 06:54 PM
2

Right. I guess working your way up is the catch here. I'm sorry if you thought I was putting them down. I've worked fast food and have nothing but empathy for those people, so much so that I feel guilty ordering food at most places because I remember how much I'd hate every time a new customer walked in at my store. I just don't see too many high-quality men with women whose goals involving staying at a job like that forever (and stopping at like shift manager), that's all.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 07:12 PM
1

Hi! You sound like where I more or less would love to eventually be in life, and I have two questions for you, if you don't mind. 1) Did you ever volunteer in a hospital while working closely with nurses before you made your decision to enter the field? Or did you never see what their day really was like before you entered it? 2) I'm going to graduate $40+K in debt to become a dietitian, but I don't want to stay in the field for very long. I did my undergrad at community college, and was fortuna…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 05:40 PM
1

I'm (trying) to do the same, but I have a huge advantage because I'm living at home. My commute is just under an hour one-way, but I see the money I save as worth it because I wouldn't want to spend 20-30 hours a week working minimum wage (don't get me wrong, I think everyone should do it at least once in their life, and I do work over summer, but I just would rather focus on school during the year, especially because I have tried balancing the two in the past). My plan is to get through school …
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 05:15 PM
7

Most high-quality men wouldn't really want to date a woman who only has her HS diploma and is working minimum wage at retail or even as a waitress though, no? EDIT: Wait, do you mean that she could work up in her company instead? Because if that is the case, I don't see what the advantage is that is versus going to school and getting a career in a field she actually doesn't hate.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 05:03 PM
2

I'm curious, what would you say to the overweight woman who wanted to enter the dating field but was anxious over it because of stigma/comments that she read online from all the men over at TRP? What would you say to her if she were in a relationship, and her man claimed that he loved her and her body, but she didn't believe him because (again) of the comments she read about overweight women from men on TRP?
/r/ExRedPill20/04/19 04:28 PM
3

Yeah..short and bald aren't value judgements. If person A describes a man as short/bald in a neutral tone and person B takes that as a negative value judgement, then person B is projecting their own values on person A's words. It's only a bad thing if you perceive it to be.
/r/ExRedPill20/04/19 04:15 PM
2

Yep. I'm 5'2 and my boyfriend is 6'0. He says that dating a short girl is something he has always wanted, and that he saw his ex's height (it was like 5'8-5'10? I really don't remember lol) was a flaw in his eyes. Me being me, I couldn't believe that a taller girl's stature could ever be seen as a flaw by a man. I'd understand it if she were taller than him or even the same height, but I was in disbelief that even a few inches wasn't enough for my boyfriend. Granted, he didn't come close to brea…
/r/ExRedPill20/04/19 04:12 PM
2

If her self-esteem depends on how young she looks is or even how she looks in general to other people, she is bound to be a very unhealthy mode of life. As I said in my second comment, my words carry no weight whatsoever if she is happy/content with herself. On top of that, I merely made an observation about her looking her own age. I didn't assign a value judgement to it. I also explicitly said that my comment was not intended to be kind (hence the lack of assigned value judgment [it was devoid…
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 12:22 AM
1

Sorry, I meant to reply yesterday, wrote half comment, then fell asleep while writing it. To expound, yes, I actually did stop and think about 3/4 of those things (not the necessary one, admittedly), specifically because I knew what sub I was on. I didn't think what I said was kind, but I also didn't think what I said was mean either. I tried to keep my tone as neutral as possible. When I thought about the truth one, I figured that there probably really wasn't an objective truth for this one. Ju…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 02:52 PM
-5

No need to justify yourself to me. If your perception works for you and makes you happy, carry on with whatever you're doing. My words/opinion have no pragmatic weight to you, if that is the case.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 05:04 AM
-6

Imo, your face (at least in that picture) looks mid-20's, but your body looks your age.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 04:54 AM
2

Not necessarily saying anything specific, but I find it difficult to trust people's words at face value as the truth. Not because I think they are lying, but because people often don't know the truth themselves, often even the truths about themselves due to lack of introspection. Although, people lying to try to protect my feelings is another big one for my distrust. It's a boy-who-cried-wolf-type thing. Or, people often do that because they think it makes them better people somehow, and they do…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/19 07:04 PM
15

Working is hard. SAHM is hard. We know this. Life is hard. This might be useful in a different community, but you'd have to be blind not to know this as a RPW. That's the whole point.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/19 08:40 AM
1

Would you be willing to give an example of how it messed up your sexual development?
/r/MensRights06/04/19 05:57 AM
5

Porqué?
/r/BlackPillScience04/04/19 01:37 AM
3

Wow, this is exactly what I meant in my comment on this thread! I didn't even know this sub existed
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 12:09 AM
9

This. My boyfriend will often continue to gloat about himself more when my response is simply hugging into him and quite literally "looking up to him" with a face full of admiration. I noticed that the size difference between us places into that, but even if you are of similar height as your SO, finding a body position/leaning into him that causes you to artificially have to tilt your head up to look at him would probably produce the same effect, perhaps even more pronounced since it wouldn't be…
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/19 12:06 AM
9

As a female with narrow hips and wide shoulders, (yes I hate my body type), I can confirm this.
/r/BlackPillScience04/04/19 12:00 AM
2

Ew wtf, that's as bad as a RPW getting pissy because she doesn't like the way her captain does things even though they're both acceptable. I personally am unsure of what to think about mommas' boys, but if it's anything like that, that would get so irritating. I'd feel like I was dating a woman with all that nagging.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 03:25 PM
2

Yeah..you sound a lot like past me, so that's the only reason why I recognized it. Personally, therapy was what helped me, but I'm certain that there are other resources out there if you can't go. Like, I'm sure my therapists just get a lot of the handouts from online. Unfortunately though, I'm not the right person to ask about that, because I really haven't tried finding them before Other than that though, introspection served me well. Introspection serves everyone well. The problem with cog di…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 09:19 PM
5

CBT, or at least similar resources you can get on your own if you don't want to/can't go. What you're portraying is a cognitive distortion.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 05:54 PM
3

That example you listed comes from a recent post that everyone here thought was ridiculous. I'm sure there are other instances out there, but usually, problems that extreme are the fault of the user.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/19 02:04 AM
2

I think he said he wanted to know more about me, so I brought playing a game of 20 questions haha. We just switched back and forth in asking each other a question.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 04:37 PM
5

I think wife/husband goggles are a good thing tbh. How else are we expected to be monogamous otherwise?
/r/ExRedPill29/03/19 04:27 PM
2

You were 24 and your boyfriend was 29 last year. There are other other inconsistencies with timelines as well, but I don't care enough to write them, and this one is concrete.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 04:25 PM
4

Something about this story seems fishy. I thought it couldn't be real. While I admire you made an attempt with a credible recent post history, the timelines of ages are way off. Where's the 5 year difference with your LTR of last year? Did he regress in age? Good luck, try again.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/19 04:08 PM
3

By the same token, I was 19 and my boyfriend 20 when we started dating, and we never "partied" together. For one, I have never attended party outside from one HS party when I was 15, and for two, I probably wouldn't have dated him if he expected that from me. I'm wasn't the wild, party girl. I was the girl who was grounded, and wanted nothing less than a serious man who could shoulder the responsibility of working towards a family from day one. For clarification, yes, he goes out to parties occa…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 11:46 PM
2

I can understand her leaving for considering that cheating, but to make it all about her by saying, "How could he do this" is abysmal. Then again, this story seems really off in general.
/r/MensRights27/03/19 06:24 AM
1

That's why I have Paraguard. Best thing I ever did for myself for BC. I have no regrets. I could only handle hormonal birth control for two months, and I had the arm implant in, which is generally a low-hormonal BC. I have no clue how girls handle the pill everyday for years.
/r/MensRights26/03/19 03:14 PM
2

Yeah, weight distribution like that is primarily an anorexic/starvation thing. OP won't have that problem, assuming her body hasn't been deprived of anything, and especially if she adds exercise/lifting.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 03:28 PM
1

You're allowed to have whatever arbitrary standard you have for yourself. The thing is, once you've found a person acceptable for your standards, you must fully trust and accept everything. You can't hold anything against her. If you're choosing to stay, you must learn to let go of her past. One quick thing, people do change. I'm sure you did things in HS you wouldn't even dream about doing now. Are you the same person you were in HS? Of course not. A more accurate representation of a person is …
/r/ExRedPill25/03/19 02:52 AM
6

I agree. OP is a strong woman, and I don't think I myself could have pulled off something like that, at least, not in my current state. I would have probably just said, well if you want to leave, then leave. She is definitely someone for us to look up to.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 02:22 AM
8

This is an amazing manifestation of RPW. Seriously. Keep it up. There literally could not be a better result, and you could not be doing a better job at handling this obstacle. Thank you for updating us.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/19 02:20 AM
3

My my boyfriend and I were going through something not as severe but similar, he told me he didn't care if I posted half-naked pictures of myself online. Turns out, that was a lie, and he was just trying to not be a hypocrite, to both me and himself. He would allow it at the time, yes, but he didn't disclose the fact that it would indeed make him feel at least a bit uncomfortable. You just sound a bit unsure, and I wanted to put that possibility out there.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 05:58 PM
3

That means a lot to me. I always assume every man prefers the hourglass and pear shape much more, as I'm pretty sure that's what the trends indicate. It's hard to believe it when men find me attractive simply because I have a more-masculine body type. Thank you for that. As a stranger, you have no reason to lie to me out of pity.
/r/BlackPillScience23/03/19 03:06 PM
2

Yeah that's true, but that's only because my body fat % is too low. I'm sure if I was fatter... You know what, it's okay; it doesn't matter. Don't answer that. Thank you for your contribution.
/r/BlackPillScience23/03/19 02:58 PM
3

Yes, I ask this because I myself have the apple/inverted triangle body type with wide shoulders and narrow hips that sometimes makes me want to kms. How is this body distinct from the lesbian one?
/r/BlackPillScience23/03/19 02:49 PM
8

TheFeminineWoman has good videos for some RPW newbies who want to learn about vetting!
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 02:41 PM
6

Yep, my mother was the stronger one. Their marriage was dysfunctional, and now they are finally divorcing. You are very fortunate to have traditional parents. Consider that a blessing.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 02:34 PM
12

Do you think it might be that they have more testosterone than the average female?
/r/BlackPillScience23/03/19 05:20 AM
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Yep..I didn't do it to your extreme, but I definitely spent all of my childhood/teens thinking that it was masculine feats that would bring me happiness. And while I do have certain masculine tendencies, primarily just in terms of thought processes, I was purposely stepping way beyond my own proclivities. I was doing it because it was expected of me. It wasn't until I found TRP at 18 when I actually discovered happiness for myself. I think my [beta/feminist] father still gets a bit sad over the …
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/19 05:18 AM
3

She's lucky she has you to guide her a little bit. Thank you for sharing this; this is a great tale of warning.
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/19 02:21 PM
14

I know..I honestly cannot fathom how anyone could think it was okay to rape someone, let alone was proud enough to flaunt it to the entire world. I don't know the details of the story, but if what the other person said is true, that bitch should be locked up right now. She made a joke out of a horrible crime. I would have loved for police to greet her after the first time she told the world that bit.
/r/MensRights20/03/19 03:19 PM
60

That's honestly deplorable. Ew.
/r/MensRights20/03/19 12:27 PM
1

Intelligence? What? This is interesting. Would you mind expounding upon that point?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 07:03 PM
9

Someone else mentioned psychotherapy, but I would recommend CBT. It's an overall good therapy for many people, and it'll teach you how to cope with your insecurity issues, depression, etc. EDIT: Also, not provoking your partner is something that can be learned here. It is talked about in CBT, but mastery over it can be attained here.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 07:00 PM
1

How long have you been implementing RPW, and was it before or after he became distant?
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/19 04:32 AM
1

True. I expounded in a later comment.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 10:44 PM
3

I agree with all of this (except, many lawyer females don't ever return[dont have the stats on that though]). My advice was catered to OP's position only, as she seems to lack proclivities towards what you pointed out. I personally can't imagine life without chemistry. I could never do something like ECE; if I tried forcing myself out of STEM before and was very unhappy. Everyone is different.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 08:27 PM
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Ah, a more nuanced question. I apologize for my assumption and not being able to spot your nuance prior. As you say, it depends on the type of man. Entering a field such as STEM or law is usually most beneficial for being exposed to and being able to meet many high-quality men. That being said, men compatible with RPW do want high-quality, competent women, but competence for us can be shown elsewhere. For instance, communication. Sure, a female lawyer probably has great communication skills that…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 06:59 PM
4

Lol, I was going to say this. OP, this is literally the most ideal field you can choose as a RPW. EDIT: OP, if you don't know the tenet of RPW that states "Men aren't attracted to women based off high-value/powerful careers as women are to men," I suggest you have some more reading to do on here before posting future questions.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 05:30 PM
1

I have heard of this effect..though two quintiles (40%) is a significant portion of people. Like, that's close to saying that the chances of someone judging their intelligence correctly is 50/50
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 03:42 PM
2

First off, you’re probably not a good person to decide if you’re smart or not Intelligence =/= humbleness or humility
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 05:46 AM
2

We magically came to be perfect sexual matches somehow. It took a couple months of progression over our BDSM kink, but it was completely organic. We both have naturally very high drives (couple-times-a-day type thing for both of us). I am very, very lucky, and it's something I put a lot of value/gratitude towards. I've spent my whole life before this relationship sexually dissatisfied, so this is honestly amazing to me.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/19 12:04 AM
4

If the date leads to him inviting you to sex, just politely decline. Tell him you have a midterm tomorrow or that you need to feed your cat or something. Or that you're just not interested. Could she just be honest/blunt and say she doesn't do those types of things right off the bat?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 11:59 PM
1

Just because it's near his room doesn't mean he's going to take you there and expect sex. Some might of course, but not every single one will. Some may just like the convenience of proximity or maybe it's a place he enjoys frequenting, but how will you know if you preemptively assume the same for all men? If you like the guy, go on the date with him. If he invites you inside his dorm, politely decline.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 11:57 PM
1

It's as if you didn't read my response..wow..
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 07:51 PM
5

Yes, gel nails for instance. Or perhaps even taking care of one's nails without any varnish.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:29 PM
4

Honestly, most of my clothing is just a lot more feminine. EDIT: Hair hasn't changed because it's always been long/free, but I guess I do take care of it more now Nails are difficult because I have naturally very weak nails, but it's something I can at least improve on somehow Everything I buy is now is pink and cutesy now, but I think that's only because of RPW and DDlg combined.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:25 PM
6

Acrylics make playing instruments impossible, but you can still take care of your nails without having gaudy ones..
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:23 PM
1

And, OP, literally, just eat 5 spoons of nut butter before you go to bed or whenever once a day. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:21 PM
2

I chose dietetics, which is 100% STEM, but it's a very feminine major (half the reason I chose it was because of RP [though it's ironic that when I tried to force myself into humanities, I chose the most masculine field there: philosophy]) 1) I'm sure there are other feminine STEM fields out there 2) I agree with you in that even conventionally masculine majors such as engineering or compsci can absolutely be balanced with in a RPW (and yes, perhaps help find a high-quality man). Yes, issues ari…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:42 PM
2

Well, I was specifically talking about low n-count/traditional females not preferring high n-count men; I wasn't talking about Stacies or perhaps even average females in today's society. But I would certainly agree with everything else you said, especially if you're talking about the average female. I was referencing conservative females because of the sub we are on..and I was assuming that most high n-count males would want a traditional female like the ones on r/RPW, but I'm not sure if that i…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 04:29 AM
1

Yeah, I was just wondering what your ideal was..but fair enough
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:55 AM
1

Ah, that makes sense. Question: would steaks be women who capitalize solely on their femininity or would they be women who cultivate both their femininity and career/intelligence?
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:52 AM
5

women are attracted to a man who has the confidence of an abundance mentality because it demonstrates that sex is no big deal to him, which likely displays preselection and the possibility he will value an LTR more than meaningless sex. Anecdotally, I've read about/talked to hundreds of females who claim otherwise. Many low n-count females want low n-count men. At least personally, high n-count men are a turn-off to me due to disgust, appear trashy, and are an automatic disqualification for a re…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:50 AM
3

I would say, for a certain subset of women, being a SAHM alone is not fulfilling enough. Many great females throughout history did something outside of the home as well. And I'm today's economy, it is very unlikely most can afford to be a full-time SAHM. You don't need to be a SAHM to swallow the pill.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:41 AM
2

What is granola in this metaphor?
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 03:37 AM
1

My bad
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 09:45 PM
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Bruh..I thought this post was going to be about you not wanting to pay for 100% of the trip for you two 😂, not 50%. You suggested it and wanted to go, you pay your own way at the very least. Does he want a freeloader?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 05:44 PM
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Sounds like immaturity on his end. Perhaps he rushed into this life too early with you before figuring out if it was what he truly wanted. I certainly sympathize for you. From what I read, you're honestly doing the best that's possible from your own end. It does sound like he might lack meaning in his life, but the onus is on him to fix that. Perhaps you can try steering him towards that direction by recommending something like Jordan Peterson to him?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 04:59 PM
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Ask him if he's noticed the change in himself without stating your own opinion first. It's an innocuous enough question. After that, you can decide how to proceed or even update us. There could be a multitude of reasons, so it's very hard to tell from an outside point of view.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 04:52 PM
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Has it been an LDR the whole 9 months you've been together?
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/19 03:54 PM
1

I really think it depends on the country. I live in SoCal, and my friend growing up hates his own dick and was super self-conscious about it because he wasn't circumcised. When he found out his little brother was, he was pissed. I think most men in porn are circumcised. Growing up, most males I knew who weren't were scoffed at and made to feel inferior. And conversely, most males I knew who were circumcised were very grateful to be so. But that's just the culture here, as the majority of males h…
/r/MensRights09/03/19 06:24 PM
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Idk was this is down-voted. There is definitely a high probability of this being the case. If one party has a higher sex drive than the other, they're going to have to compromise.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 10:58 PM
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Yes! That's precisely why I want to do it! I honestly didn't see it as that important until I did research on human development. It's so, so crucial for mothers to have skin-to-skin contact at the beginning of life. And while I'm perfectly fine sending my kids off to school at 4, I just can't agree that kids should be away from their mothers that much before the age of three. There is so much developing at that crucial stage, and I don't want my kids to develop an aversion to feelings like I did…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 10:09 PM
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My man told me that if we have a life/kids together, I'm not allowed to work full-time (until they leave the house ofc). That's basically all I ever wanted, to not be forced to leave my future children in daycare all day and raised by people other than me/us, so to be basically mandated to do it is my heaven. He also wants me to be a full-time SAHM while the kids are young enough to breastfeed. For basically the whole time we've been dating, I wasn't sure if we could financially have that. But h…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/19 09:25 PM
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Yep. I practice BDSM with my SO, but we can't do anything extreme because usually there are other people in the next room. He usually just uses his own hands/weight. He probably isn't as big as a football player, but he's huge compared to me (like 90+ lb difference). Vaginal tears are a very, very common occurrence. Like, they're not a matter of if but rather, a matter of when. I'm usually out of commission for a few days to a week because of them. And even if we're not actively engaging in sado…
/r/MensRights07/03/19 03:24 PM
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Wow..you are the first MRA I've come across that actually has admitted to this view. Thank you so, so much for this. I honestly could not agree to a single point you made more. To be quite honest, seeing all the hatred towards my gender on subreddits like r/TheRedPill kind of gets me down, so I do my best to help spread the word that there are women out there who agree with you guys as well. But I'm often afraid to speak up because sometimes I think there is actual misogyny on some of the forums…
/r/MensRights07/03/19 12:58 AM
2

I'm sorry, but I'm very, vey curious. What do you mean by "she could have been so much more"?
/r/MensRights07/03/19 12:27 AM
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Do you believe that the man must be more competent than the woman in order to have a traditional relationship?
/r/MensRights07/03/19 12:10 AM
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No no no, I agree about what you said for the majority of western society. I just wanted to point out that the opposite is possible if specifically sought after. I do not feel attacked in the slightest and apologize if I sound as though that was the case. You weren't even replying to me; I just wanted to add to your comment on this post. I'm sorry.
/r/MensRights06/03/19 03:00 PM
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Correction, we want a 1950's-esque relationship. That said, I have a level of safety that girls in the 50's didn't have. If he ever did something to harm me, (i.e. cheat on me) I could easily support myself with my career choice. I have a degree of choice. ALSO, I recommend you visit r/RedPillWomen. It isn't as one-sided as you think it is. It takes on the Captain/first mate dynamic. It isn't as though he is this tyrannical, sadistic overlord. He consults with me and takes my needs into account …
/r/MensRights06/03/19 02:54 PM
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In a world where he can get taken to court for a sexist joke, which is something I do on a daily basis mind you, of course I have the right to be somewhat worried/empathetic toward him.
/r/MensRights06/03/19 02:39 PM
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What?
/r/MensRights06/03/19 02:31 PM
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I mean, I have exactly what you described..but I also have been following r/RedPillWomen since I turned 18. I don't know if that has anything to do with it, but not all hope is lost yet. In fact, we were just talking about how a life together would pan out last night, with me working part-time so that I can do all the wifely/motherly duties, and his word being ultimate law in the household. It all sounds so wonderful to me. I'm personally anti-third-wave-feminist, but it's ironic how the most "k…
/r/MensRights06/03/19 01:13 PM
7

Same. I hate that it's going to be hard to face the world for my partner as the years drag on.
/r/MensRights06/03/19 01:06 PM
5

I actually didn't enjoy the physical act of sex at all, with any guy (nor even my current at first) until my current boyfriend started showing interests in my kinks. Up until him, I never really had anyone that fully indulged me in them. I had a Master/slave kink before him, but he wasn't into that, so we kind of accidentally fell into DD/lg for the first time together..well, turns out I like DD/lg even MORE than M/s...and I was a huge fan of M/s, so that's saying quite a lot. What I'm saying is…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 04:58 AM
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Yeah..my boyfriend just exists, and I find him insanely attractive. He can just be sitting down doing nothing, and my attraction doesn't waver. That said, he does put in work other times(though he says it's not work to him), but it isn't as though he has to constantly be doing something for me so that I get the tingles every time I see him. It's a combination of his dominance and the fact that he matches my physical ideal to the T. However, there would be a lot of room for his looks to falter th…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 04:51 AM
2

In the end, you conceded though.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 04:39 PM
2

I still don't think it's right to claim this. To claim that there is a 100% adherence to a rule in human behavior would be a grand claim indeed. Unless this means "act in such a way that 100% of men adhere to this rule because the ones that don't are infinitesimal in numbers"
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 03:35 PM
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I'm not the best person to ask on this because I lack experience and knowledge. But I can tell you, after hanging out at TRP communities for quite some years, most of the men there will say AWALT and that it wasn't that the women didn't like the sexual Chad behavior, but rather, you fucked up on their image of you as Chad somewhere outside of the bedroom. I'm not saying this is right or wrong, but make of that advice what you will. Unfortunately, my scope of knowledge is more catered towards hig…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 03:28 PM
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If he's ever wanted/had a threesome in the past. I can't deal with someone whose proclivities are not toward monogamy. Also, if he's ever cheated..for the same reason. EDIT: I don't have a past with this, sorry. It's just a deal-breaker I have always held.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 03:16 PM
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This post is going to get removed soon but.. I don't see what the problem is. 1) Most females like to be fucked roughly. 2) Why would you want to fuck emotionally unless you were in love? Also, don't equate a softer motion with more emotions. It depends on the female and on her preferences. I also don't enjoy cunnilingus, and can't even remember the last time my Captain has done it on me (maybe before last summer?). I would prefer to keep it that way, though I don't mind the quick pecks there he…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 03:11 PM
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Yeah, I hit puberty at 12/13 too. By the time I hit freshman year of high school, I had like D cup boobs. I too overcompensated, but instead, because I was bullied and ostracized at school before I grew boobs. Full disclosure, I lost my PiV virginity at 18 because I was suicidal at the time and didn't want to die a virgin. It didn't feel good at all. We tried like 4 or 5 times. Each time, it either hurt, or felt like nothing, so I gave up. I thought my sexual bits were broken, as I had only ever…
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/19 03:09 PM
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I wouldn't be concerned about the "not doing anything for 2 months". To lots of people, three months is ample time. Micromanaging him on this is your own fault. The part that worries me more is going to school for a career transition. This not a red flag. This isn't even a pink flag, depending on the circumstances. If he didn't like the office gig, is working hard to get some other type of career, AND you have ample time to start a family, then there's nothing wrong with him in the slightest. Ho…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 07:55 PM
3

Understood. Thank you so much for taking the time to write such a thorough response.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 07:45 PM
2

Really? I always wondered if that was possible for me. Maybe I'm just not adamant enough about mra here, but that possibility has crossed my mind multiple times.
/r/MensRights02/03/19 05:57 PM
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What happens when the woman has a higher earning potential than the man and she's more frugal than him? Lol
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 05:37 PM
2

Haha, as someone who is getting a breast reduction done in June, I wish there were more guys like you. I always felt like shit before being all boobs and no ass.
/r/MensRights02/03/19 05:34 PM
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Oh, most definitely :) I definitely think it's really easy for INTP's to fall into a sort of superiority complex with competency. I myself can become very tactless and somewhat callous when I think someone is wrong. People tell me I make them feel stupid, but I do it in such a way that they often want to rise to my expectations rather than just write me off as incompetent. It's kind of odd, and I'm working on toning it down to become more feminine, but I can't even imagine how that same act woul…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 04:44 PM
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Realize that people can change if it comes from within. It's not often that people have a complete 180 on their lives, but it happens. I personally basically rode the CC in HS. It was a huge area of concern for me when I first joined red pill, but now I don't really think twice about it. Do I regret it? Of course. But I accept that it happened. I also accept that it made me who I am today. Not all guys are going to accept you, but to be honest, if you're a 10/10 in all other categories and you'r…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 03:41 PM
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Even if he was 25, wouldn't you want to know his age? LOL, WTF?! Bruh. Is he retarded? Unless he wants you to go on birth control? He wants to risk pregnancy?
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/19 03:07 AM
1

Oh, duh. I'm an idiot. Haha thank you.
/r/BlackPillScience02/03/19 02:48 AM
1

Ah..yeah, my ex did not do that. I agree though. It almost seems as though the men don't actually love their wives when they do that either.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/19 02:43 AM
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I had anal with my ex because of the red pill. I was in tears all the time because of it, but I wanted to be the "perfect woman", and I thought that if I didn't haven't it with him eventually because at that time that was his preference, that he would leave. I am very much into BDSM, but anal is the one thing that I really didn't want to do. It's one of my biggest regrets. Everyone I know outside of the red pill community told me not to do it. I thought they were "brain-washed liberals". I was 1…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/19 12:08 AM
2

I'm sorry; I'm dense..what do you mean by this?
/r/BlackPillScience01/03/19 11:49 PM
3

Welllllll, I already participate in a 24/7 BDSM relationship. I'm into rapeplay and sadomasochism, and as such, getting forced on and slapped in the face/choked/grabbed/scratched/hit/etc are things that are welcomed. On top of that, we are planning a life around myself being the submissive and him being dominant, in a cross of both BDSM and 1950's-esque relationships. And I also am more extreme to the point where I don't actually have a safeword.. But that being said, this is also something I wa…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/19 11:09 PM
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Yep, as someone who become conservative at 18, I don't know why RPM can't ever get their heads around the fact that I wouldn't date someone with a high n-count. I'm no saint either because of my time in HS, as I was raised liberally, but high n-counts in men disgusts me as much as high n-counts in women does for them. While I am an atheist, I definitely have standards of my husband being a man's man and providing/protecting my family, and also him allowing myself to take on the womanly duties. B…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/19 11:04 PM
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I'm not talking about the skeleton-like models, but often, shorter models/celebrities with BMI's of 16-17 are seen as ideal (think Adriana Lima or even k pop singers). 13-14 BMI area is usually seen as far too boney, yes. Being as though you had a BMI of 14, I'm assuming you had an ED. Full disclosure, I have an ED too, so I understand how frustrating it is when people say things like what I just did. Please note that the only reason I said this to OP is because she is a teenager who is naturall…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 10:47 PM
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Ah, rip. Well, if you do wanna gain weight, I'm sure you know the basics. Caloric surplus with weight lifting, so you're certain you gain muscle rather than fat yadda yadda yadda. And of course, you can't control where you body gains fat, but you can more or less control where your body gains muscle. I'm sure you can do some more research on your own...just, as a dietetics major, don't get swept up on under any diet train by people who follow like keto or whatever; those are insufferable. But ye…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 10:40 PM
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I definitely agree. I don't think red pill is at all perfect, but I do think it's better than what's parroted in mainstream society. I do definitely agree that it is very frustrating that red pill only has two groups of personality: men and women. If you argue with this, more often than not, you get banned. Ffs, MBTI is heavily criticized because it only has sixteen categories. NT females are often an interesting species. We have masculine minds trapped in feminine bodies. It's very difficult to…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 10:30 PM
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I want a 1950's marriage, but I would not want to live then. I don't know what I would do without the Internet. There was no birth control, so I'd always be so worried about constantly popping out kids and wouldn't want to have sex for that reason alone. And finally, men cheating happened all the time. Worse off, yes, the women couldn't leave if that happened. I would kill myself if I was chained to a man who was unfaithful to me. Or if it was such a norm to cheat that I had to feel like the onu…
/r/ExRedPill01/03/19 10:01 PM
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I disagree, along with some others, but I know that's 100% subjective. Do you not live in the US/Canada? Or is it somewhere else?
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 09:44 PM
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I can assure you, there are many guy who would like you at that weight. I personally would love to have that BMI. Small is attractive. Most models have BMI's that low. You're most likely fine. If you want to tone up or gain weight in your glutes or whatever, that's fine, but I'm telling you now that lots of people probably do not find your weight unattractive.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 09:29 PM
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Jesus Christ, woman, no wonder you're having issues with this. I definitely think it's still possible, as personality does not dictate one's life (and of course, the validity of MBTI is a bit awry), but I can definitely see how an ENTP female would have a ton of issues fitting into the RPW mold. RPW is probably most ideal for the XXFJ types, INFP, and maybe ENFP (ESFP as well if she can hone in attention-seeking behaviors). As an INTP, if it wasn't for my quiet meekness, I do wonder if it would …
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 09:25 PM
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I'm going to go against the grain here and say my submissiveness 100% has to do with my passiveness. I am an INTP; aside from the theorist trope, a main quality that sets us apart from INTJ's (our brother type) is that we're really fucking lazy, to the point of passiveness. A lot of it is apathy, and a lot of it has to do with our common 9w1 enneagram types (5w4 is my main, and most common for INTP's, but 9w1 is in there somewhere). This means, on the Big 5, we are usually more agreeable and fil…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:32 PM
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Incompatible sex drives and values, and you're not attracted enough to him. I also think his age bothers you. Try again with someone older, and vet properly next time. I have zero idea how you could have gone through the whole courting phase without so much as even finding out his age. NEXT. EDIT: I also think there is nothing wrong with waiting, and actually encourage it, but waiting isn't the true issue here. You framed it as that, but the issues in this relationship go much further beyond tha…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 04:51 PM
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To add this this, sexual compatibility. Attraction doesn't even matter if you can't do something your partners wants and vice versa. Well, attraction does matter if you can sacrifice monogamy this, but this is RPW; most aren't willing to do that here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 11:09 PM
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This. u/catsuramen I'm only 20, so I'm nowhere close to bearing children yet, but with my current SO, I doubt being a SAHM could be a reality for me because of finances (at least, not during the time I bear children). That being said, I chose a somewhat flexible career path on purpose, and am going to do everything in my power to explore more options, possibly even working online. Not that most people in my career work from home, but so many things are possible if you start early and work desper…
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 11:06 PM
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This is the part that most upsets me when feminists talk to me.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 10:57 PM
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If you can't indulge his kinks and sustain them, let him go. You'll always feel as though you're hurting yourself to satisfy him, and he'll always feel sexually unsatisfied. Bedroom incompatibilities are extremely important, given that monogamy entails deriving all sexual satisfaction from one person. If you were polygamous, it couldn't work out. But since you're not, that's a NEXT.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 10:56 PM
3

Maybe..it's still wayyyyy too early to tell, but working part-time until my future children can attend school at the least is definitely the compromise I am striving for in my future.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 04:59 PM
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I want this, but I don't know if it's really feasible for me and my partner :/ :(
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 04:53 PM
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I'm a 45 minute drive (over an hour during daily traffic) away from my SO, so it's not THAT long, but I still have to deal with not being able to pop by for a short visit randomly. But usually, we text and call a lot. He's given me stuffed animals that I cuddle with when I miss him, and sometimes he even lets me borrow his hoodie to wear. Other times, I'll make him something, whether is arts and crafts or baked goods. Finally, if I have to do something productive, I remind myself that I am worki…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 08:20 AM
1

What?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 02:14 AM
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Would wearing lingerie underneath clothing be a bad suggestion? That way there is no expectation if he is too tired because he won't be able to see it, but if he does make a move, there will be a surprise? Or is that a bad idea? Genuine question, sorry
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 01:31 AM
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Some women do get attached and brokenhearted which is a common scenario in a FWB situation. Too much heartbreak can make you jaded and that is probably worse than a higher n-count. This. I'm not advocating for a girl to have a high n-count at all, but I do think the damage that a serial dater receives from falling in and out of love multiple times is drastically underplayed in the RP communities. I'm not sure if you were strictly making this point in the parameters of long-term FWB relationships…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 01:12 AM
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Well, obviously. I wasn't referring to your situation. Only the one of the girl I was originally responding to. She already said her boyfriend will agree with her if she points out a man first. I made my point based on the parameters of her situation, not yours; I never said my point was universal.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 12:18 AM
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Wow, your first paragraph..I never even considered the possibility for the low n-count exes you've had. Like, even if one prefers low n-count men, I guess one should be careful to screen for whether the low n-count is the result of direct choice or simply because he was unable to get the girls he wanted into bed, which perhaps even led him to giving up. I originally thought it didn't matter, but I guess..it really does.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 12:15 AM
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Note, I said red flag "in this game". Not a red flag for him. I don't want anyone misinterpreting me. But yeah, it's just a double standard. If her boyfriend was truly and FULLY comfortable with her looking at other guys (like, to the point of apathy), he would point out some men for her to look at too.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 12:06 AM
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Wow..I completely agree with everything you said. It sounds like something I could write. I'm atheist, but I follow Christian values because they are by far the most superior system out of any religion that has come out this far to advance society/our species. I didn't know the Bible said visual infidelity is a sin, and I think it is a dangerous road to follow to be the thought police, but I completely agree that there is literally 0 harm in looking away. We do so much to turn off our "natural u…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 03:45 PM
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The fact that he never points out any men for you is a huge red flag in this game, imo.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 03:33 PM
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I was thinking the same thing..honestly, reading this story made me feel very sad for OP. I guess, according to the voting on these comments, the RPW disagrees with this. My boyfriend and I were both heavy porn users before we started dating. We started dating and poof, our near decade-long dependencies on porn completely vanished. We weren't even trying to do this, as neither of us were against porn in relationships at the time; it just happened spontaneously. I know my post history appears as …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 06:16 AM
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Would you be okay with pointing out other men to your SO and boding over that?
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 05:57 AM
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Hey 💕 I struggle with an ED too. I think it was the main thing that ruined my last relationship. My ED tells me I need to be underweight. Red pill tells me I need to be at a 19 BMI or less. I think I'm at about a 21 BMI now. My ED tells me a 21 BMI is fat. RP tells me that I need to keep losing weight no matter what to meet my ideal weight/attractiveness. My ED tells me that RP is right, therefore my ED is rational. My boyfriend tells me he adores me no matter what weight I am, and that he'd be …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 05:44 AM
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I texted my current SO first and tried to keep the conversation going like twice before it was established that it was normal for us to text (after he asked for my number of course). I think it was just a normal conversation with more friendly than flirtatious vibes but...That is by far the most extreme step I've ever made in terms of being the pursuer (with any guy). Lol. Aside from getting the ball rolling there, he literally made every other advance to make us us. I don't think it's a negativ…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/19 05:26 AM
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I thought it was just "shake my head" lol
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 06:52 AM
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Also I do not intend to dig at you, but perhaps in the past you have said “I trust your judgement” only to bring it up later? It’s important that if you do trust him that it’s not used as cannon fodder in a later argument. That will undermine his trust in you and turn your foundations into pillars of salt. This is what I was going to say. OP has already said in a previous post that her husband said that she made him feel stupid with some other petty thing. It's going to take a lot to build his c…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 04:59 AM
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the princess title is so much better than the queen title to me tbh 💕 congrats
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/19 03:08 AM
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..oh dang, wait a second..haha, I didn't even see your username until now 😅 probably shouldn't be giving you advice; you know much more than I do
/r/RedPillWives24/02/19 08:45 PM
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Yeah..that's what I was thinking.. I can probably save like $100K or so by around that time if I choose to continue living with my parents after I graduate..but would that even be useful? Like, I'm not sure if a large sum of money is as useful/secure as a steady, month-to-month income. EDIT: Especially if $100K can go easily away when just buying a house and appliances and saving for retirement.. And of course, that means I can't get a Master's, which is borderline necessary for my field startin…
/r/MensRights24/02/19 06:51 PM
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I know, and I completely agree with you :/ Did you see my other comment on this post though? I don't know how it would be possible for us when he's barely going to finish school for physical therapy when we're 28/29. :/ I've already brought up this issue to my boyfriend, but he says he thinks we'll still be fine. I don't know what else I can do besides trusting him.
/r/MensRights24/02/19 06:37 PM
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I know..before I met my SO I really wanted to start trying for children by my late 20's..but unfortunately, he's not going to be done with physical therapy school (university) until that time, so I don't really get that luxury :/ Our timelines not matching up was a huge issue in our relationship a couple months back because I was petrified of my own biological clock, especially because he's going to school long enough to be like a doctor, but he won't at all have that doctor pay in the end to ta…
/r/MensRights24/02/19 04:25 PM
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Agreed. Out in the serious dating world early while I still have my youth. I already have my darling love, but due to finances and poor decisions earlier with uni on his end, marriage is off the table for about full decade. Kids won't happen for another half-decade after that. But I'm 20. I'm not looking to get married tomorrow. He's finally getting into Jordan Peterson, so I think he's starting to find his way now. I'm not giving up on him; I'd rather help build a castle than marry into one.
/r/MensRights24/02/19 09:03 AM
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I have mental health issues..it's almost entirely binge eating disorder. The BED started when I was 12 from a combination of being bullied/ostracized in school and probable ADHD-PI (getting tested for it this week, so I'll know for sure later). This went untreated for years until it finally started developing into other mental health issues including: social anxiety, body dysmorphic disorder, bulimia, and suicidal depression. While I don't tell acquaintances any of this (apart from in a speech d…
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 08:56 AM
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Makes me excited to have a husband one day
/r/MensRights24/02/19 08:37 AM
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That's a damn shame. Sex is pleasurable for both parties though, so I don't know how some women hold off on it/aren't lustful for their men. Like Jesus Christ, it's not like they only get to touch their oral orifice to your genitalia and that's the extent of every sexual session. It benefits both people, so why would a woman not want to have sex with her man? I lack a lot of experience, so this question really isn't rhetorical for me.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 06:20 AM
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Sorry, I was specifically talking about within the context of romantic relationships. I thought the point of vulnerability was to be strong enough to expose your weaknesses to your SO. To me, strength is knowing my partner can get shit done despite his weaknesses, or perhaps even working to overcome his weaknesses. Strength is also being able to expose yourself naked, without fear and needing to hold onto an article of clothing for the protection it brings. Moreover, most people don't even know …
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 05:35 AM
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If you're okay with this, sexting would be great. Sending nudes or even a video would be good, making sure to tailor them to his tastes.
/r/RedPillWives24/02/19 04:23 AM
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Hmm, my knee-jerk reaction is to claim that dishonesty of any form is a sign of weakness, but when you put it like that, I guess I can see both sides of the argument.. Though, I wonder if that kind of lying by omission is only actually beneficial for protective parent/child relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 02:56 AM
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Isn't vulnerability a form of honesty, and therefore should be sought for by both women and men?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/19 02:42 AM
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I forgot to mention the part of him being able to voice his opinion too! OP, you should ask him to pick a few things that he would like you to try on! :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 03:49 PM
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Omg! That's amazing! :) I'm sure you know to show appreciation like a RPW would, but just make sure to! But seriously, that's awesome; it's great he's helping to chip in
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 04:24 AM
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Yep. I'm 20 as well. I've been thinking about cutting my hair because I've experienced hair loss, but if I had short hair, I'd cry. My long hair is literally the reason my current SO noticed me. Even when I met his parents, my hair was the first thing they commented on. Just make sure to take reallyyyyy good care of it. Long hair is years old. I haven't taken care of mine until recently, which I regret. It's super crucial to take care of it, as yes, damaged long hair can look bad. But as a fello…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 03:24 AM
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Hold on..on his tab or on yours?
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 03:17 AM
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Hi, OP. I have similar issues. My wardrobe used to consist of just t-shirts two years ago because I didn't have any money. Over the past year, I have slowly starting adding in more feminine pieces to the point were I don't have to wear t-shirts unless I'm working out. I have bought most of my clothes from cheaper stores (think Ross). For nicer brands, I always buy them used off sites like Poshmark or Mercari. Finally, try thrifting. Most clothing there is a miss, but you can occasionally come ac…
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 03:12 AM
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Just a comment on the hair..I don't think cutting OP's hair short is the answer to her issues. She's 20 years old. Long, voluminous hair is almost always more feminine than short hair. And at least anecdotally, all the guys I've ever asked much prefer long hair. If she was older, maybe. But not at 20. She was just a teen very recently.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/19 02:50 AM
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Using sex as a bargaining chip is a big no-no. RPW should spoil their husbands with sex; negotiating with it is a sign of disrespect, and, like you said, un-attraction. I know you basically used the converse of this as the premise for this thread, but I still think it should be said regardless, as it is such a huge one.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 09:11 PM
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No wait, I forgot. It also cinches my waist! That line brought a very warm smile to my face, OP :) I saw my boyfriend's mom's apron hanging in their kitchen one time, and since then, I've been obsessed with getting one. She even had such a cute Santa suite apron for Christmas time! I told my boyfriend about wanting one when we get a place together one day, and he said he wants to buy me a pink one :) Aprons are so symbolic of the feminine side of 1950's-esque, traditional relationships; I would …
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 09:07 PM
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Oh shit.. wow..dude..that's meta
/r/MensRights22/02/19 08:53 PM
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No, this is more than you would deal with. Look at the tone of your words in this post. You don't want this.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 06:56 PM
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This is a total shit show. I couldn't even get a few paragraphs in before I became flabbergasted and stopped reading. Jesus Christ, OP. Stop postponing the inevitable, start over with a new man, and don't fuck the new relationship up by cheating.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 06:26 PM
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>am woman >can't mansplain Checkmate. smirk
/r/MensRights22/02/19 05:50 PM
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How dare you you patronize her women's studies education! /s
/r/MensRights22/02/19 03:33 PM
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LMAO nooooo
/r/MensRights22/02/19 03:33 PM
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As someone in therapy, no they will not do this. Do not expect them to help you or even really back you up in finding a red pill man. What they can help you in though, is being non-judgmental and helping you see what it is you really want so that you can stop serial dating and leaving people after being engaged to them.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 03:30 PM
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This was exactly what I was gonna say. OP's requirements are specifically to weed out guys who don't fit them. If a man doesn't want to take on that role, why would OP want to entertain them? The whole point is to weed out many to find one.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 03:26 PM
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This is exactly what my SO is/was like. When I first met him, he told me he "prided himself on trying to be liberal". Yeah..this was a 6'0 jacked 200 lb cis white dude saying this to a Hispanic girl. As a conservative, knowing how unfair the political climate is becoming to straight, white males, I knew, if he realized it was okay, this was going to be easier than not for me to influence him to change. But of course, I didn't make this observation until I heard his life goals and how he was rais…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 03:23 PM
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:/ Yeah I know.. He says he wants to change to be a better man/leader to me though, and RPW made me aware that I would not have been happy with him in his past state..but he's getting really into Jordan Peterson and responsibility now, and he wasn't happy with where his life was going either, and I'm definitely not at all blindly in love with him anymore, so we'll see how it goes with these changes..
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 06:28 AM
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I wish you didn't delete your posts, as I'm trying to refresh myself on your situations and I'm too lazy to go and find copies of them rn, but regardless, the RPW method works. It's general advice really: work on yourself, understand yourself, and choose someone based off of these things, making certain to vet properly. I know it hurts right now. During my 3 breakups (two of which were with my current SO), every single time it felt like the sky was black and my world was falling. Time heals almo…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/19 12:07 AM
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My boyfriend's mom will sometimes treat their family to breakfast for dinner. It's not something I've ever experienced, but apparently it's enjoyable.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 11:47 PM
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You find someone better 💕 you still have time. Vet very thoroughly and properly next time
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 11:00 PM
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At school. We had two classes together one semester. On the first day, in the first class, he noticed me. Later that day, when he walked into our second class together for the first time, he recognized me by my "long, beautiful" hair, and he took the empty seat next to me. I was totally oblivious to this at the time.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 03:58 PM
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"Ouch." That's it.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 12:31 AM
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Yes yes, of course. Mostly I ask because I'm probably going to fit that demographic you're referring to..thank you though!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:57 PM
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That makes sense. And I do agree that the success in marriages has more to do with the way that the people problem solve, interact, etc. (which can be learned in places like r/RPW) than it does with more extreme compatibility.. Okay, thank you so much for this.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:49 PM
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I'm sorry, I don't think I was articulate enough with my words. I started off with TRP and fully agreed/agree with a lot of the trends it claimed about society, but what I'm saying is that r/RPW isn't about Stacies trying to get Chads to settle down. OP was critiquing RPW in the sense that she believes that RPW go for the alpha Chads instead of the purple pill men that is generally advocated for on here. I may have made a mistake in implying and projecting that RPW don't want Chads, but nonethel…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:44 PM
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I mean, I started here from TRP as well. I just don't agree with OP that RPW actually believe that the highest quality men are alpha Chads who pump and dump. I reckon most girls here value things like loyalty, dedication to family, etc., a lot more.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:39 PM
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What do you mean? Most girls don't really believe the stuff from r/TRP, right?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:25 PM
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I'm not trying to make an assertion here because I have little knowledge in this, but is it not good to hold off on marriage as long as possible so you guys are certain you are compatible before you permanently tie the knot?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:22 PM
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Hmm, yeah, I do completely agree with you that one should judge a man based on his actions rather than his words. You have a higher tolerance with this and are a better woman than I; good for you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:17 PM
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This is very contradictory. Seek therapy if you have insecurity issues. This isn't his problem; it's yours.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:15 PM
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I agree, but I don't think RPW actually believes what you claim they believe. I think you're conflating RPW with TRP.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:13 PM
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Yikes..you put up with that? I would take personal offense to that, as monogamy is a quality I put on a pedestal. What do you think of questions like that?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:11 PM
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Yeah, being friends with an ex is a huge red flag for both men and women. Ask yourself, what matters more? Your relationship with your ex or your relationship with your current SO?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 11:08 PM
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I think his audience tends to be men, but there are plenty of women who follow his advice, myself included. I recommend you watch some of his YouTube videos and see whether or not you agree with/like him. I don't think the book would be as effective to someone who didn't already know him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 08:50 PM
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Try introducing him to Jordan Peterson instead!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 08:36 PM
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You're not attracted to him. Break up if you want what's best for both of you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/19 08:35 PM
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I'm so happy for you. Another RPW success <3 Just keep it up! Don't drop the ball on this and slip back to your old ways!
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/19 09:33 PM
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This would lend to a perfect apology. I would like to second your emphasis on the introspection portion. Full introspection would allow OP to fully understand and voice the areas in which she went wrong, and I'm sure her boyfriend would very much appreciate that level of comprehension.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/19 09:20 PM
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Yes, but please realize actions are louder than words, and also that words without actions to support them are vacuous.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/19 09:18 PM
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Apparently it's someone he knew in HS. He is a very strong ESFP; he has a huge heart. He's had a lot of body confidence issues for years that's he's just recently overcome (he is a recovered bulimic). In his mind, he saw it as supportive because he "doesn't want people he knows to go through what he did". HOWEVER, he does see how what he did was wrong now, and completely agrees that giving slutty girls online (he's met them all irl I guess) attention isn't "supporting them". He sees this now and…
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/19 04:11 AM
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And that's fine. If he doesn't realize it, then /shrug, it's probably so covert because it's minor anyway. But men aren't stupid either. As soon as he realizes what's going on, it's expected of him to completely stop unnecessary contact with his orbiter. If he's so oblivious that he can't tell the motives of an obvious orbiter that is way overstepping her boundaries, well he's probably too doltish to be a good captain in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 08:16 PM
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I didn't know that RPW should stay away from narcissistic men..if anything, I thought RPW would be compatible with them. Of course, this is only IF the man also wasn't abusive. Do you think it's possible for a narcissistic RP man to not be abusive? EDIT: For all the downvotes, this was a genuinely curious question. I wasn't trying to assert anything at all.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 06:57 PM
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As soon as he realizes she's acting weird, it's his responsibility to no longer be nice and ignore her, if he has any respect for his relationship/woman that is. Same for us women.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 05:02 PM
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He told me that as long as my intuitions were friendly, he wouldn't care :/ But he said he realizes why what he did was wrong now because it could be perceived as flirtatious and that there are other ways to support people outside of their looks.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 03:58 PM
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Bruh. You were the one who closed the door on this, not him. My comment on the other post still stands. I'm sure everyone else's does too. You didn't add any new or relevant information to your situation in this post. I have never used this jargon, but stop hamstering; it's painfully obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/19 03:24 AM
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He is an emotional cheater. What he did to her, he will do to you. If he was a good man and really wanted you, he would have broken up with his girlfriend before reaching out to you. Imagine how upset his girlfriend would be if he found out what you guys did. You guys are both at fault.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 05:55 PM
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I suppose a stupid, incompetent man might think that..but why would she want a man like that? Intelligent, competent, and traditional men usually want an intelligent, competent counterpart. Of course, they'd probably want one lesser than them, but unless she's a CEO of a company or has an IQ of 140, I'm sure she isn't too smart/competent for a high-quality man. It could be looks, but unless her BMI is 25 or higher, it probably isn't. It's really hard to judge what the flaw is here without much m…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 04:45 PM
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But the supposed cons you listed aren't even bad things? In fact, I'd probably say they are on the pros side.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 04:25 PM
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RPW accepts hypergamy in its own doctrine The doctrine isn't "most women are like this", the doctrine is AWALT; it says hypergamy isn't the case for "most women", it says hypergamy is the case for "all women", and that it has to be the case for all women. No, anecdotal evidence isn't at all valid to disprove or prove things logically. I wasn't even trying to contend this point; I was simply expressing and trying to understand my own confusion and views on the subject.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 04:18 PM
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No, RPW accepts this as true. Also, nothing about my lack of hypergamy is conscious/logical. That's why it bothers me. I didn't do anything for this. It's my natural setting. To be hypergamous and branch-swing would probably go against my own nature.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 04:02 PM
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Nope, didn't say that. A square is a rectangle, but a rectangle is not a square. Those vacuous things happen to be feminine, but not all feminine things are vacuous. Actually, not even most vacuous things are feminine. I was referring to the things OP was talking about specifically.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 03:15 PM
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For what it's worth, I understood and agreed with you from the start. I think we all agree, actually. And again, I place the miscommunication on the fault of my own shoulders. I don't put as much effort into my comments as some of the ladies on this sub despite agreeing with them. I also think..wisdom is the quality that trumps intelligence, by quite a lot. I often direct people to this short video, as it's something that helped me a lot personally. Just because someone is intelligent does not m…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 02:19 AM
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I've always been confused because I don't have a hypergamous nature at all. The part of hypergamy about wanting a superior? Yes, that is very true for me. But the part about women branch-swinging? I've been in two LTR's in my life, and I can honestly say I have never experienced this part of hypergamy. In my relationships, I truly believed/believe that the "plenty of fish in the sea" trope is a lie, and that I literally do not want another man. I have blinders. Though, I cannot say for certain t…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 01:07 AM
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I mean, I agree with "equal but different" in terms of femininity vs masculinity. But on the same token, I have a strong proclivity towards STEM, have an above-average IQ, and have a horrible EQ..as such, I tend to converse "like one of the boys", am biased, and I do think that liberal arts degrees are useless compared to STEM degrees. Of course a degree in computer science is going to be worth much more than a degree in liberal arts. The person with a CS degree is likely to have a higher IQ and…
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 12:52 AM
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Okay..if that is the case, you probably don't have a lack of intellectual value. If you're interested in things like Peterson, having knowledge in STEM I kind of superfluous for you.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 12:12 AM
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OP has a degree in liberal arts. I probably should have used different language to make my point. I don't think a 100 IQ female is at all doomed to an inner life that isn't "rich". Richness =/= intelligence I do agree that I should have made my point a lot more nuanced though..that is to my own fault.
/r/RedPillWomen15/02/19 12:10 AM
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Do you have a proclivity towards intellectual interests? It's kind of difficult to force those things if you really do enjoy more simple/superficial things. I would actually go as far as to say that those kinds of simple interests are much more feminine. If he really wants a feminine woman, he should stay with you and be proud.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 11:43 PM
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Wait, are you saying that if she kept thinking this was true, he would indeed eventually think she was boring?
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 11:41 PM
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Don't get fat. I know you said "diet and exercise", but seriously, just focusing on weight, don't get fat. It's one of the worst things you can do to yourself because your skin will forever be stretched out/scarred even if you do lose the weight. Especially if you're older, it's almost impossible to fully bounce back from.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/19 06:49 AM
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I understand and completely empathize with you. Especially because I grew up in "Gifted and Talented Education" programs and I'm like almost or at 90th percentile IQ, it was pretty much expected of me as a child to have an amazing career and be a doctor or something. Well, I wasn't happy. All blue pill did was make me incredibly depressed, suicidal, and irresponsible, and it wasn't until red pill when my life changed. Society has changed since the 1950's. Instead of forcing women to stay at home…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 10:44 PM
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How is he going to financially support a family if he doesn't work? Life is work. Work is investment. You can't enjoy the fruits of life while being a bottom of the barrel scum. I mean, you could depending on your goals, but goals that would allow this are not compatible with RPW. Do you want children? Because if so, he'd be a terrible father. If he finds happiness in being a poor nomad, then by all means, that's his goal. But do you want this kind of life for yourself? If he wants the joy that …
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 09:42 PM
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The best gift you can give them is introducing them to the pill. Whether or not they swallow it is another deal entirely and not your responsibility, but even introducing them to it would mean wonders.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 08:55 PM
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I fully agree with the latter point. That's why I said: Any woman worth her own weight won't even give her captain a reason to think she isn't 100% dedicated and loyal to him. It's behavior deserving of contempt.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 01:32 PM
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Exactly. This is akin to saying, "How do you deal with the Stacies wanting my Chad"..like, if your Chad didn't entertain the Stacies or flirt back with them in the first place, they would probably stop orbiting them after the first encounter with him or so. Any woman worth her own weight won't even give her captain a reason to think she isn't 100% dedicated and loyal to him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/19 01:17 PM
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Yeah, I really think that just takes practice. It takes a while to change your whole mindset to be thinking about submission/RPW 24/7 around your SO. Though if you look at your captain with the correct lens, and fully accept him as your leader, it gets easier.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 08:52 PM
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Okay, I've probably been doing things in the way you think is right then, especially the latter. Thank you for responding.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 08:31 PM
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What if you actually are smarter than your husband? Lol It is not uncommon to see a higher-IQ woman unable to find a man who has a higher IQ than her.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 08:09 PM
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Are the snippy remarks worth hurting your husband? No. Then practice biting your tongue and stop. If things about your husband really do bother you, you can go about it in a better, more graceful way, a way that will be direct instead of passive aggressive. Passive aggressive remarks get you nowhere and all they do is hurt. When you stop them, you'll probably notice the happiness it brings when you choose to be a good woman to your husband, and want to repeat that more. But the first step is doi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 08:07 PM
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Yikes! I had Nexplanon removed after just two months because of the lack of sex drive and the insane mood swings. I moved onto Paraguard, and aside from initial pain, it's amazing. You really shouldn't have allowed a dead bedroom, tbh. That's like the main tenet of red pill.. If you want to salvage it, you're going to have to act fast and change immediately. First step is actually having sex with him.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/19 05:18 AM
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Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 11:03 PM
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I'm thankful for myself. After spending years battling insecurity, I never thought I'd reach a point where I'd be as strong as I am now. Moreover, I never thought I'd be able to say or think that I'm thankful for myself.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 07:37 PM
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That's the thing. My ex continues to claim that all the girls' half-naked pictures he was liking and the interaction with the other chick were nothing but FRIENDLY. Even you, someone who thinks breaking up is an overreaction, believes what he did was flirtatious. If anything then, he is a liar that won't own up to the fact.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 09:05 AM
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Nothing more than is to be expected. What does that mean?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 07:30 AM
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Do you think he was flirting though? That is my question here, as he denies it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 02:29 AM
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I always want to learn where I can improve for my future. I have learned quite a lot from this thread, even if I do seem resistant. And from this break up, I realized I must grow as an independent rather than have the blue-pilled dream I was still carrying about being able to be fully/completely intertwined with one other person. Thank you for your advice despite me being hostile towards you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 01:03 AM
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Breaking up while being angry is not healthy behaviour I would have broken up with him the next day or whenever I calmed down as well. I do not regret breaking up with him for this. It's something I've held on to and valued for virtually my entire life. It's something I have always said that if he ever did, I would leave. It's the only strict condition I've ever had. I broke up with him fully willing on the very likely possibility that I will never cross paths with him again. I didn't want to. T…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 12:57 AM
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Is it not better for someone to break up with you for not liking your genuine self then having someone love you for a version of yourself you know is a lie? No. The issue wasn't his response to the matter really, the issue was him doing this in the first place after I made myself very clear I would never tolerate this kind of behavior (he said himself today that I was clear on that).
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 12:39 AM
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He has lied now. Very severely so.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 12:31 AM
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It's relevant because I must take into account the people these opinions are coming from. I would not take financial advice from someone who is broke. I haven't ever had issues with trust. And you are correct, he should not have lied. Because I value honesty so highly in myself, I lost a lot of respect for him for this.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 11:48 PM
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I mean, I don't want to get married to a man 20 years my senior while already having a plan to date other people once he dies, so. I want to be lifelong partners. Nothing less. If I become widowed, I won't look for another captain.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 10:54 PM
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I was 18. I was suicidal. Was introduced to red pill by someone I met online, and I was hooked from the beginning because I'm naturally submissive and it made so much sense to me. It was at the same time I discovered Conservatism as well because the arguments from the right were much more rational than the arguments from the left. RPW and my newfound political views kind of just went hand-in-hand. All blue pill and liberalism brought me was depression. The right and red pill have helped create m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 10:49 PM
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You know what? You're fucking right. I think the reason this hurt me so badly is because he started off with such a comment right off the bat. I guess if it flowed in with a conversation, it wouldn't be as bad (though that would definitely still hurt me), but the fact that he was so forward with it is what destroyed me, as it makes it seem as though he could do it so easily to any girl (which he did agree with because it wasn't a huge deal to him, but it is disgusting regardless). Thank you so m…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 10:34 PM
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Does it make a difference that she messaged him first? Or was the other girl's message too innocent? It is someone he did know in HS after all.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 08:04 PM
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I'm getting a lot of conflicting opinions, from myself and other people >.< I don't know what to do :/
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/19 06:57 PM
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To me, flirting is cheating. Flirting is unfaithful. I'd like to add that almost everyone agreed that this was flirting.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 11:26 PM
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This is the kind of response I turn to the internet for. Thank you for this. The issue is, I did trust him. I never asked to look through his phone. I've never cared about him going to parties. I literally never had a reason to not trust him, and I completely did. That's why I trusted his lies at first. I only questioned them because they were blatantly obvious. When I was searching for evidence about the lies, I was searching for evidence to prove his innocence. I found the opposite. I also am …
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 11:10 PM
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Tbh, I don't even like looking.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 11:01 PM
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Yep. I agree. I'm certain if we got back together, breaking up a third time would be the final straw. I'm just not sure if I was being unreasonable, and I've done SO much work for the relationship this past month and fixed literally everything that was causing us issues before, so the fact that this happened completely blindsided me.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 10:32 PM
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Yeah, the issue is that he is not at all a chronic liar. He's a very honest person. So one lie is forgivable. What isn't forgivable for me is flirting, so I wasn't sure if I should give him another chance. And lol, I didn't realize that was a common lie. It was ridiculous. I had to pull up IP addresses and some online history I found on him Google account to prove him otherwise. It was so stupid.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 10:30 PM
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More details can be found in this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 09:58 PM
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I don't think it's hard to. If you're a catch and you're having trouble finding someone local, he could be going through the same thing. If he has high or particular standards, it wouldn't seem surprising to me. What's more of a red flag to me is a guy with low standards with a history of lots of gf's.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/19 09:49 PM
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What do you think should be done if the woman's sex drive is higher than her husband's?
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/19 04:15 PM
2

Yeah..I think so too, which was why I was confused he posted this here...thanks
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 06:43 PM
1

Your assumptions on what is ideal are your personal beliefs, not universal ideals, which are rooted in basic gender constructs built on generations of systemic misogyny. They are wholly and fundamentally shallow. this this this this this. Well, not 100% sure on the misogyny part, but thinking that everyone has these ideals is retarded. Everyone has different tastes, both males and females.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 04:21 PM
4

This makes a lot of sense. I'm still working on the first half, but I definitely agree with the latter.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 04:20 PM
1

To your first paragraph, I just meant that not everyone is going to agree with those standards. For instance, one of the things you listed is ripped, but not every girl likes ripped. And to your question, I meant that the type of woman you described..well, if she's happy, it really doesn't matter; I'd be glad for her. But I know very many females who would be utterly unhappy if they dedicated their lives to achieving those standards because it would leave little to no time to develop as a wise h…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 07:16 AM
2

I think you find fault in what I say because I'm really not logically debating you. And honestly, you're right to do so; if I were in your shoes, I'd think the same. Honestly, I just couldn't be bothered, and I'm very surprised you continued to speak the way you did despite my deplorable debate skills, or lack thereof, employed in this conversation, so thank you for that. I take almost no issue with everything you said here. To be completely honest, I think females like that should be condemned.…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 06:24 AM
5

I just don't think that's how a lifelong, monogamous relationship works.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 05:51 AM
5

I really don't think that is the case. I think they're comparable. You're trying to put men against women on the same scale, and it just doesn't work like that. Females will never beat out men in strength and extreme workaholicism in the same way men won't beat out women in emotional ability and grace. They're two halves to a whole. Completely different, but comparable. On my completely subjective scale, a man with an attitude like yours makes you low-value in terms of having a relationship. Aga…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 05:49 AM
4

My LTR boyfriend continues to pursue me. I'm talking long-term here, with couples in 50+ year marriages. In traditional relationships, this continues. The top whatever percent of women also can get almost any man they desire. It goes both ways.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 05:42 AM
2

No matter what, females are still the ones who get pursued. I also think your criteria is subjective. EDIT: Okay, I kept reading, and I think you don't understand the point of this sub lmao. u/thebassoonist06 You're the only one with a similar point in the comment section. What do you think?
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 05:30 AM
5

Yeah..part of this is why I step consider myself a red piller. It's not all bad, and when I extract the information I find useful, it's amazing. Red pill started off as rational, but the more extreme it gets over the years, ironically, the more irrational it gets. An angry red piller honestly reminds me of an angry SJW. Though, you do have an interesting take on "the man is the prize". As a female, I've still regarded myself as the prize because of biology. But I guess..hmm, the most wise positi…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/19 02:55 AM
0

You see, I completely agree with this, and honestly, this would be my dream life, but what is supposed to happen during the unfortunate event that the wife is the breadwinner? You didn't really seem to bring that up, and judging by the comments here, a lot of RPW are in that boat.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 02:00 PM
2

I want kids. I want to start having them in my late 20's. Unfortunately, that's not possible because my boyfriend had a rough start at school and had to start almost completely over. It's just something I have to accept if I want to be/stay with my captain. I'm studying dietetics. Thank you for the advice though; I agree that, since this isn't 1950, I must excel at my career before I have kids. I wish I could just focus on my children after that, but that isn't feasible unfortunately.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/19 04:53 AM
0

They don't threaten me. I just carry skepticism. Doesn't mean I don't agree with you regardless.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/19 09:26 PM
1

You have a new account. And frankly, your experience seems like something a bluepiller would spit out to campaign against TRP. But yeah, the new account with no post history other than this is a huge red flag.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/19 09:13 PM
1

What do you do when you actually enjoy the act of submission?
/r/ExRedPill03/02/19 08:41 PM
3

It boggles my mind how TERPers adamantly deny that exceptions to their rules exist.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/19 08:39 PM
0

Yep. I've heard a lot of females irl actually think men were stupid. It's because of petty things like "they don't fold things correctly, they can't read emotions, etc". But I completely agree with what you said.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/19 08:38 PM
1

I know this is fake, but you did a good job on highlighting the goal for this post. I agree, TRP actually seems to be quite irrational and have its faults as well. Of course, not everything, but quite a bit of the important stuff.
/r/ExRedPill03/02/19 08:35 PM
0

I just don't think people can choose to change their minds in the same way that girls who ride the CC can't really settle down without craving for their old attention, but I'm saying that with 0 scientific backup, so it is very, very possible that I could be wrong. I guess, you just have to do what is right for you.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 07:29 PM
2

I think you omitted the sentences before.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 06:55 PM
18

I don't know. One of the best things about the start of my relationship was knowing that we only had eyes for each other. It caused me to be hopeful and very excited, and it translated very well to a fully monogamous relationship, as it set a precedent for how highly I value it and how seriously I take it. But I don't know, maybe I'm just naive. I'm also young, so I can have that liberty. I guess if I were approaching the wall, I would be forced to be more strategic. EDIT: I also think that guys…
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 06:47 PM
2

Tolerance for being okay without an answer
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 04:25 PM
1

I mean, I don't think that's necessarily the better choice. I certainly didn't choose that; I increased my tolerance.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/19 05:50 AM
10

Is children something he wants?? If so, you can still say "no children before marriage". If not though, you can tell him that you simply can't wait around for years on end because you would be sacrificing your own happiness.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 10:17 PM
2

This. I live in a leftist area in SoCal. As soon as I'm financially stable, I'm leaving. Thank god I found a moderate partner at my college, but I don't even attend college in my own city (it's a lot more conservative than my own, and over half an hour away). It's quite infuriating here. Even the next cities over, which are more moderate (unfortunately, I don't think I'll ever be affluent enough to live in Orange County, though I don't mind too much) seem much more livable-in to me.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 10:15 PM
2

He said it first four weeks in <3 we were lying in bed, clothed and sleepy from the long day spent together
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 10:05 PM
7

Yeah, I got in the habit of asking people/myself why they like the things they do because of someone in my past. I often would ask my boyfriend why he likes something, because I wanted to pick his brain, but like yours, he just doesn't know. I can empathize with both sides of this. I don't know if lack of ability to explain why you like something is because of incompetence, lack of interest in introspection, or because there doesn't always have to be a reason, but regardless, going about it in t…
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 09:59 PM
20

Please tell him this before you do end things. Be honest. Find out where his head is at. I can't encourage you to go one way or the other because I hardly have any information on the situation, but, just from the data you've given in the post, it doesn't seem completely unsalvageable. Either way though, I wish you luck.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 09:33 PM
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Yeah. Unless he's a guy who really wants kids, there's no motivation for him to marry you like that.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/19 09:31 PM
1

Really? My LTR has only made my sex drive spike like crazy, and I already had a very high sex drive before I met him. Though, it may be because he indulges my kink..idk
/r/RedPillWives02/02/19 04:51 AM
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Nexplanon was the first ever birth control I ever tried. After a month of it, I was clawing at my arm just wishing I could have taken it out right then and there. It completely messed with my emotions. I was hyper-sensitive to everything and crying every other day. I experienced mood swings like I never have before, and I literally felt like I had no control over what I was feeling. I couldn't control this emotional rollercoaster. I had it taken out around the two month mark (but wow was that se…
/r/RedPillWives02/02/19 04:48 AM
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I literally asked my boyfriend before I got with him if he would ever consider a threesome. He replied, "No" with disgust. Had he answered yes, i wouldn't have dated him. I don't think people understand how unbelievably turned on I get by the fact that my boyfriend is so loyal. It feels freeing, and I can pounce all over him without restrain due to it. I honestly find poly-anything physically revolting. No, not just mentally, but literally physically.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/19 04:19 AM
2

I went on phentermine for like 8 days, and when I quit, my appetite came back like there was no tomorrow.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 11:40 PM
2

Is it best to keep a part-time job then? I'm 20, but my boyfriend and I can't have children until mid-30's at the earliest due him having at least like 7-8 years of schooling left. Unfortunately, I'll be done with school by the time I'm 25, so would it be best to work part-time in my mid/late 30's so that I won't have a gap in my resume?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 07:28 PM
7

Someone on r/purplepilldebate told me I was lying when I said I would immediately leave someone who was cheating on me. Like, wtf? It was preposterous to me. I don't understand how he could enforce ideas on me, and I don't understand how he could think that 100% of women would forgive their boyfriend for cheating on them. You can't tell me how I feel.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/19 07:13 PM
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I'm not very wise, as I am young (so take my words with a grain of salt), but I can empathize. First off, build up the courage to start saying your true goals of being a wife and a mother. If you won't even admit that, it'll be hard to actually attain these goals. Second off, there are two ways to tackle the intelligence problem. You can either: A) Try to find a man in that small niche who is more intelligent than you AND will be a good partner (so, basically like less than 1% of males), or B) F…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 06:46 PM
1

I'm confused...this is satire, right?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 03:32 PM
3

Right? What's the point in dedicating your life to someone just to do this when his expiration date comes around?
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 04:05 AM
1

It sounds like you've both given up on the relationship. RPW would suggest that if you start working on the relationship again, so will he. Yeah, OP, I was in a similar position as you, and we actually ended up in a break up. But we got back together like a couple days after, and we're doing much better now actually. We both learned some things; I learned not to fear the future as much and be as pessimistic, and he's at least starting to step up his game a little bit in terms of his work-ethic b…
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/19 02:38 AM
3

Hasn't this information been parroted multiple times on this sub already? EDIT: Okay, judging by some of these comments, some people still don't know this. Carry on, OP.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 10:43 PM
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I don't think that was the point..
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 10:34 PM
2

Hmm, this is a very valid counter argument. If all of this is true, then the studies are deplorable. Admittedly, I accepted the studies as true because I was introduced to them by Jordan Peterson. I've always been the first to say half-jokingly-but-not-really that females are retarded, but Peterson kind of stopped my intuition from taking the conscious seat. If anything, I realized that it's my own error to trust even the greatest modern thinkers without the scrutiny I apply to everyone else. Th…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 09:26 PM
1

I'm so glad other RPW think the same thing. I tried for years to be open to TRP, and while I'm receptive to some of the ideas there, I thought I was weak for not being able to accept the actual comments on there.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/19 01:15 PM
2

Yeah, I can totally understand where you're coming from in your last two paragraphs. The sole reason I'm expecting to wait is because of college/house/careers etc. If we had the means of doing all of that by our late 20's then I'd want the same thing too. You guys sound wonderful though; I'm glad it all worked out.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/19 10:49 PM
1

Hmm, I never worried about this in my 20's. Like, I got with my boyfriend when I was 19 (20 now), and I'm actually planning on us surpassing all our 20's without an engagement of any sort, then perhaps getting engaged in our early 30's, so we'll be dating for over a decade before marriage, if it all works out. Are you guys already done with school or something?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/19 10:41 PM
6

it wasn’t “his baby” I always felt like a prick for cringing whenever a guy said this. I'm glad it wasn't unsound.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 04:02 PM
2

Yeah, I got hung up on the pelvic part. But when I think of the pelvis as attached to the hips, it's not odd at all.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 03:33 PM
2

Why come at me under that assumption then?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 06:08 AM
3

It's important to paint the world for what it actually is. Why do you find moral judgements after the objectivity has been set as wrong though? Surely you're aware that not all your claims you have made just now are backed by concrete research? Statistically, about 1/4 - 1/5 men cheat in their marriages. I agree that some men cheat for no reason other than craving variety. These men are deplorable and should be shunned away to their 1/5-women-who-cheat counterparts. Regardless, this isn't even m…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 05:53 AM
3

Hmm, I can see a lot of where you're coming from. While I completely disagree that "most girls" would stay with a man who cheated on her, and possibly even that high self esteem girls are uglier. And to be completely honest, a chick with high self-esteem could easily get a loyal dude. Not all guys are predisposed to cheating. A lot are, most probably entertain the thought at least once, but there are always exceptions to the rule. I do see where you are coming from though. It seems quite abysmal…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 05:41 AM
3

While I agree with what you just said, to believe that every girl would stay with a guy who cheats on her is preposterous. Some? Maybe. But all? Literally impossible. I would imagine girls with low self-respect and a medium/high tolerance for infidelity would do what you described, however. This is mostly trashy girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 04:51 AM
2

Guy changing? As in, telling him to stop cheating on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 04:42 AM
3

Well, surely you can't actually believe that's what all women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 04:34 AM
1

That's pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 04:29 AM
2

I'm sorry?? Huh??
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 04:24 AM
1

Yep. Jordan Peterson literally goes through all of this. All of what I said, what you said, and what the other person who got a star said.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/19 02:51 AM
5

A lot of energy is sheltered in the hip and pelvic area Wait..wut??
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 08:01 PM
3

Because at least the other reasons are, to some degree, the fault of the SO (though I think there is 0 excuse to cheating). If it's variety that drives a man to cheat, there's nothing the female can do; she can be the perfect gf/wife but the man still cheated.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 07:52 PM
4

No, that wasn't the last straw per se, but it definitely was a huge blow. My current boyfriend does not think this. And obviously, I vetted him for this long before he knew my own stance on monogamy. He's turned down a threesome actually; he was disgusted by the idea of it long before he met me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 07:50 PM
2

Years? No. But a year? Just about. I'm literally squandering my dreams of having children in my late 20's and being a stay at home mom to them just to stay with the guy I love now. Does it hurt? Yes. Could I break up with him and marry a guy that could support my dream life instead? Probably. But is my boyfriend worth it? That is an ecstatic yes. I'm not going to be able to have kids with him until a decade later than I wanted, and I unfortunately am going to have to shoulder a very large sum, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:48 PM
1

Hmmm, interesting. Perhaps.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:10 PM
4

I didn't have any relationships and never fell in love until after I was done with high school. How can you say you know what I would do? All it took was my ex saying he theoretically could find a threesome pleasurable, although it wouldn't be worth the costs irl, and I lost a ton of faith in him. I have zero tolerance for the violation of monogamy, both on the giving and receiving end. It's horrific and disgusting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:10 PM
3

Yep. That's what I have done. It has/is working out swimmingly. It's great. EDIT: I stalked your post history. I love the way you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:58 PM
5

What about men who cheat just because they crave variety? That's much more disgusting imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:42 PM
2

Jesus Christ, if the stats are that high, or even anywhere close to that, what's the point in most people getting married? If I ever even suspected my boyfriend would eventually have even a small chance of cheating, I'd leave immediately. That's disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:42 PM
3

That's not what he said at all..he was literally talking about both females and males. He was talking about all of humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 05:39 PM
1

Hmm, thank you for this. This is the one area I've failed to apply red pill in, and I think it would be very beneficial for my current relationship. Thank you for pointing this out and allowing me to see where I can improve.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 05:46 AM
4

I never said "equaled the same IQ". I said equaled the same average IQ. There are more genius males and more idiot males. Females tend to not be as genius and not as stupid. The male range is bigger, but it brings the average IQ of both sexes at 100. The intellectual pursuits can be both explained away by the fact that women are less competitive and usually less "workaholic", and of course, there are far more male geniuses, yes. It doesn't change the average IQ because idiot males brings the mal…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 05:28 AM
-5

Yes, that's what your original post said. I was adding to it. And to call my post "woke" is embarrassing for you (yes, I know it was satirical) and insulting for me. This is low-caliber, trash rumination and/or drivel on Reddit I only gave a small semblance of thought while writing and immediately forgot about.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 05:05 AM
3

Alone. I'm highly monogamous. If my SO ever cheated, I'm out. If my SO ever mentioned a threesome, I'm out. One time my ex said a threesome would be theoretically pleasurable, and I instantly lost a ton of respect for him. I don't watch porn, only masturbate to my SO (he also only masturbates to me, but I didn't really have that as a requirement; he did it spontaneously), and I don't feel any attraction to people other than my SO. I'd rather die alone than break monogamy. I'm disgusted by anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:56 AM
1

Lolololol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 04:47 AM
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As much as I'm enamored with the 1950's, I don't think I would be able to stand being trapped in a marriage if my husband cheated on me. And, yes to be haughty, as someone who has an IQ that is at least above average, I wouldn't be able to tolerate being forced to submit to the entire male population. I love red pill because it allows me a way to bestow my gift of ultimate submission onto a man who I think deserves it. 99.99% of men do not deserve my submission, and nor would I ever want them to…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 04:39 AM
6

How do you put up with this? I would love to stay at home to take care of any future children during their first 5 years at the least, but I fear my future husband pressuring me to work. I don't know how I would be able to go against his wishes/demands. I'm not a spender at all, but like, for instance, my boyfriend is. How do you do this? Please teach me..
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 04:27 AM
6

Females have a tendency to be centered closer to the average, and males tend to be extremists (both in terms of superiority and inferiority). Both of these will equal the same average. At least, this is the case in IQ.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 04:24 AM
7

SAH mother/wife was my red pill dream, but unfortunately, that isn't really possible without a husband with $$ :')
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/19 04:09 AM
1

Yeah..hmmm..I would have assumed that the mother would still love her kid, and regardless, the husband would leave, but idk..I'm not sure if I'm up for giving out abortions Willy nilly for a reason so petty. Don't know...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 10:40 PM
1

Ah, much better. I feel ignorant for not knowing that. Unloved children?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 09:09 PM
2

Paying back all of the charges accrued for the child from the pseudo father, and also paying a shit ton extra for emotional trauma. Paternity testing would be readily available at birth for women who are unsure on who the father is and don't want to risk it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/19 06:40 PM
4

For two years, I followed RPW and believed that the homemaker role would automatically bring me happiness and fulfillment..but this isn't right, is it?
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 04:02 PM
5

I wrote up a tangential wall of text I deleted. But honestly, if you peel away from the computer, most men irl don't believe in TRP. As much as I like to poke fun of SJW's, I don't really see them exist (and I live in leftist SoCal). I'm sure it's the same view with TERPers.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 04:24 AM
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Because they're unhappy with their own lives and themselves so they project. People don't put others down for a reason that isn't internal because frankly, happy people can't really be bothered enough to care about harping on the misfortunes of others. Warning, Segue: ...especially misfortunes that are made up (yes, a 40 year old woman is a lot less physically attractive than a 20 year old, but similarly [as much as they like to deny it for some reason] a 40 year old man is a lot less physically…
/r/ExRedPill24/01/19 03:57 AM
0

Lol no. I don't believe in AWALT. I got your point just fine.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 12:04 PM
1

Yeah, I stalked your profile. I too am a 20F INTP with a strong taste for masculine men. You'll find someone. I promise. Just make sure to work on yourself so that your mental health issues don't blow your opportunity when you do find someone 💕
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 06:02 AM
1

I know it may seem that way, but I can assure you there's an incompatibility somewhere in there. It's virtually impossible for there not to be; you just have to take off your rose-tinted glasses and find it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 05:56 AM
4

This is by far the most important rule. Don't get fat and lose it either, at least not past the age of like 35. Your skin is not that elastic then. It'll just be a saggy mess if you do. Try to stay as thin as possible (without being unhealthy) at all times.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 05:55 AM
3

Fuck. I've had hair approaching my butt since I was a very young girl. The first thing my SO noticed me by was my hair. I never realized this was a thing, but I'm never cutting it.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 05:53 AM
1

Think about the ways in which you are incompatible with him (i.e. he doesn't love you, so he would make a terrible husband for you).
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 05:42 AM
-7

Interesting..I always thought men were more self-sacrificing than women..hmm.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/19 05:37 AM
1

No worries; I'm the one who feels like an idiot in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 09:11 PM
1

No worries; I'm the one who feels like an idiot in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 09:10 PM
2

Yeah, Socrates, as mentioned by someone else already
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 09:08 PM
1

Fuuuuuuu, you are right. Lol wtf, why was I thinking Nietzsche? I am a fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 03:31 AM
2

There's not really a reason, and in fact I should. I'm actually a lifeguard, so I have to stay in swim shape. What I should do is more weightlifting, as I kind of slacked off with that when Christmas break hit. Swimming keeps me healthy (though I hate the tan and shoulders it gives me), and weightlifting is for helping reduce my wretched apple-shaped body into more pear-shaped (I just want a bigger bottom). The issue with cycling and running is that I enjoy neither. Swimmers don't run and vice v…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 03:00 AM
2

Heh, barely. Nietzsche was an active nihilist, but heh, maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 01:10 AM
1

Yikes, what a meaningless existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 12:05 AM
2

It's been a really tough journey with the whole binge eating disorder, and my ex not being attracted to me because I wasn't losing the weight fast enough for his tastes, causing me to feel too fat for anyone for a while, so that really means a lot, thank you! And yes! Weighing half of what my boyfriend weighs is literally my goal! I would love to be 100-105 pounds while he sits at 200-210! I'm lucky enough that my boyfriend is strong enough to toss me around already, and I'm really not sure how …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/19 12:02 AM
1

Lol dude wtf
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:55 PM
0

Lol rip Sorry />autism
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:50 PM
1

Lmao, why the fuck would I care about winning/losing a socially-constructed game when I have the much more pressing and important matter of cosmic nihilism on my hands? Are you going to answer my question or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:48 PM
1

What is "the game"?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:39 PM
7

Yeah, agreed. Also, it's pretty much impossible to sign a prenup that leaves a woman with literally nothing. Well, I take that back. It's possible to sign it, but a judge will void it if it's extremely unfair anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:37 PM
4

I've recently gotten to the 22 BMI category after being in the 25-29 BMI category for most of my life due to binge eating disorder. I still have BED, but it's much more under control with meds. I'm tired of being fat, and now that I have the ability to be thin, I will be. My goal is an 18-19 BMI within the next 5 months. Honestly, I just want this for myself. I want to be tiny. I am 20 pounds away (possibly even less) from being an itty, bitty thing, and I see it in my right to do so if I please…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 10:11 PM
2

Hmm. Okay. Well, I can't disprove you, and I can't even definitely speak from personal experience, so you've given me something to chew on. Thank you for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 09:06 PM
2

Really? I always thought a string of shitty relationships wouldn't affect me as much. Well because, these people are shitty to begin with, so who cares? More so, several relationships in which you thought you'd become life partners only to have the carpet ripped out from under you would do more harm. Like, I'd lose my faith in love being a real thing because I'd genuinely attain it, only for it to fail every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:57 PM
2

You don't think people can become more and more jaded with each relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:50 PM
1

Is that the same for both sexes? Or is there a difference between males and females in this situation?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:12 PM
0

20F, 2 (currently still on the second) EDIT: Both of these were/are in 9-month relationships, and I really do think I'd have issues pair-bonding if I tried for a third time; it just wouldn't be the same. As a side note, guy #1 dropped the l-bomb at the three-week mark and guy #2 dropped it at the four-week mark. I reciprocated right after both times. I have no idea how I got these guys to say it so quickly, and I was shocked they said it so fast both times.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:06 PM
1

I didn't even know you guys did this. Definitely peaking around RPWi on Saturdays now heh EDIT: jk, this sub is more dead than ever. No wonder it hardly pops up on my feed anymore. Shame
/r/RedPillWives20/01/19 04:16 AM
13

"Pair bonding juju" is no joke. I'm on my second relationship, and I caused him to break up with me for three days and now he wants me back, but I can definitely tell I took a huge hit in my ability to pair-bond from that breakup. I hope to God that I still have enough to successfully pair-bond with him again. Luckily, since I'm going back to the same guy long before all my feelings were wiped out, it's not as bad, but I can definitely tell my ability to pair-bond would be infinitesimal by my th…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 10:52 PM
1

Yeah, that's a no. No worries, you know what to do for the next guy. I know it hurts, but you'll get someone who actually wants you if you wait to be pursued and make known you're not just a hookup.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 05:35 PM
1

Yikes, I don't think that sleeping before commitment is a dooming act (that said, it's definitely best to wait for commitment of course), but I think the major issue here was sleeping with him with false pretenses. By telling him that "you weren't looking for anything serious", it really sets you up for failure in terms of seeking a relationship with him. Another issue is that you seem the pursuer. That said, I'm starting to become more suspicious of the red pill, and honestly, nothing is imposs…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 03:04 AM
1

Maybe, because he'll make money with his new, fancy job, he'll spoil you with a tummy tuck if that's what you or him wants?
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 02:52 AM
1

Yeah, I agree. OP, please get therapy for your insecurity, if you want it. It really helped me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 02:50 AM
1

Yeah, I agree. OP, please get therapy for your insecurity, if you want it. It really helped me.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 02:50 AM
3

Your post sounds like something I could write. And honestly, thank you, because I think what you're saying is ridiculous. And if I think what you're saying is ridiculous, I know my own insecurities are ridiculous. If he loves you, he will stay faithful to you. If he doesn't, he wasn't worth it in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/19 02:49 AM
1

There are retarded males and retarded females. Unfortunately, many females are prone to emotional bias, so they do stupid things like that. However, there's lots of men who do the same thing. It doesn't fucking matter who fills the seat as long as the job is done right. Stop being retarded, people. The end.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:51 PM
2

Have you ever thought that some capable women don't actually want these high-power careers and chose to want to have a family instead? It happens all the time with female lawyers.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:48 PM
2

Never understood this. Some men are better than some women and vice versa, and of course this depends on what traits one is measuring. Trying to group half the world together is preposterous; there is too much variation. Yes, there are only two sexes, and sure there might be certain trends, but who the fuck cares about trying to group half the world into one set of social behaviors
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 10:46 PM
2

Aww, no wonder you knew :) Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 04:54 PM
1

Thank you for your kind words. If it's meant to be, we'll be back. We're going to work on our issues independently, and hopefully we can have a healthy and happy relationship again. A huge issue was that it was kind of difficult to view him as my Daddy when he was thinking about our future, but he's going to work hard the next two weeks. And I'm going to work hard to not let these kinds of things drive me insane, so that I'm able to handle them better. I think I did overthink quite a lot, but is…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 04:47 PM
2

Yep, I lost my better half today, and I regret everything I said in this stupid post and how invested I let myself get into red pill theory.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 12:55 AM
1

1) Intelligence isn't really a good, feminine trait. It's strictly because I thought I couldn't connect as deeply to him. But I think that may be incorrect. 2) Women are the gatekeepers of sex, and men the gatekeepers of commitment. I mentioned sex because it's extremely important here on this sub, not that it's a gift from me. I agree though. I think there's things I need to work on in myself.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/19 12:22 AM
2

I made sure to explicitly state my n-count to both of the guys I've been in a relationship long before we ever interacted in a sexual or romantic way. I wanted to make sure they were aware and accepted what they were getting. Granted, an n-count of 80 is insanity to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:22 PM
1

Thanks for the suggestion! I'll check it out!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/19 07:44 PM
2

Yeah..I definitely am extremely monogamous. This is my second relationship, and I honestly don't think I'd be able to pair-bond a third time. At least, definitely not to the level that I enjoy where I'm able to blindly throw myself at my SO with zero cynicism. It was hard enough the second time..and at least I could right off one as a mistake. Three though? Three is a pattern. I don't want to bounce from man to man. I just can't. I also think it's wrong to assume that I will meet a better man th…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/19 02:46 AM
1

We brought up that we both wanted children before we even started dating (I actually think he brought it up first). He's very family-oriented, and he brought up the commitment long before I did; I'm not blue-pilled. I'm pretty sure he brought up marriage a couple months in, but I didn't entertain the idea until I was certain he was sure. But nor am I stupid, the route he is choosing will not allow us to build the future we both wanted. Honestly, I could and would overlook everything if he could …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 07:08 PM
2

I didn't realize that was the case. I have tried to offer compromise since this question and to meet me halfway, but he wouldn't take it. And I realized, if not for me, I have to look out for what's best for my offspring. If he can't make moderate sacrifices and compromise for me, he won't do it for our children. He says he wants children, to stay with me, and to go at his own pace. It took about 5 times of trying to explain to him that it is physically impossible for him to have all three. He t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 07:00 PM
1

Yeah, I've also witnessed this with BP OR RP men with high n counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:48 PM
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Lol, I forget this sub is supposed to have blue pilled users too.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:24 AM
2

Lol, I've had the opposite. I've had to get accustomed to my boyfriend using emojis. Of course, I matched him over time shrug
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 03:47 AM
1

Okay. If I was reading this from an outside perspective, I'd probably tell myself to move on. But my emotional self is whispering, "she didn't say it was impossible." It's just so much harder when this is the one thing and person I actually care about. And this is especially so when he still claims that he wants a traditional marriage where he brings home the bacon and I am the homemaker. He just says that's his ultimate goal, but he wants to enjoy the ride before he gets there. It's just very c…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 01:56 AM
2

I think..you are right. I am very aware that I am approaching this very irrationally. Ffs, I've already been hysterical due to this. I just have one more question for you. I am so sorry for bothering you, but just one, please. I agree with you given these circumstances, but could I somehow change the circumstances? I'm aware that I can't change others, but what if I change myself? Like, can I change my expectations and desires to match his? Is that possible to do?
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 01:44 AM
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He takes puts me first and/or considers me in pretty much all other situations (i.e. giving me his jacket, walking on the car-side of the sidewalk, doing what he can to emotionally support me, always asking me if I'm okay, etc.) But thank you for your other comments. I am not not open to the idea that my age regression may be a coping mechanism (though I'm also unsure as to whether or not that is an unhealthy thing), so I will look into that further. Also, thank you for tagging that other user. …
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 01:33 AM
1

I'm not offended, but I am genuinely curious, do you think that loving the color light pink and getting super bubbly and excited, especially over cute things, is a negative thing? I can still think as how I normally do, it's just that I gravitate a lot more toward cutesy things and spontaneously age regress for a little bit every couple of days if I don't purposely do it (though I think it's because I do it so often with my boyfriend and I welcome it). It's not something I dislike, and I do enjo…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 12:48 AM
1

Yep. This is exactly what I said to him and exactly how I feel. The thing is, as I explained in my comment, I can't really change who my Daddy is :/ EDIT: And he takes care of me and spoils me in day-to-day life though.. :/
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 12:27 AM
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Fwiw I've watched a very close friend of mine in a similar relationship: they're extremely sexually compatible in a particular kink, but they're not compatible outside of that. But they held on to the relationship for way too long because they were worried they'd never find a kinky partner again. It's not worth it. Honestly, the kink is half of the reason why I can't leave him. Can I ask for your advice? Full disclosure here, it's very against the norm, even in the kink community, so you don't h…
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/19 12:02 AM
1

Thank you for this. If this relationship lasts, I think I will. My mother actually had twins naturally when she was 41, so I think genetically, I'm on the safer side; I just hate gambling. I also didn't want to get pregnant too old due to it being harder on my body then, but I guess that's just more motivation to remain as healthy as I possibly can. We want two sons, and I don't think my boyfriend wanted me to drop at most 50K just for pregnancy because he'd rather me spend it on a house, but he…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 11:50 PM
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sigh thank you for your contribution :'(
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 11:43 PM
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Well, I showed him this post, and the very first thing he said was that I lied. I originally thought that it was a minor mistake, and that it didn't really change my whole argument. But he seemed upset by this, and I loathe dishonesty, so I wanted to be fair to him. I just wanted to make certain there was 0 bias in this post because I wanted truth, and relationships posts on Reddit that are full of one's bias are futile and harmful. After that, however, he admitted that the technicality didn't c…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 11:41 PM
1

A very valid question. For most of my life, I've had terrible self-esteem. I actually met my boyfriend three days after my first break up. The man I dated before him was the perfect man in terms of fitting all of my requirements, but the problem was that he loved me for my potential rather than the real me. This led to myself having the worst self-esteem of my life immediately following the break up. This man was perfect, but he wasn't kind to me. My current boyfriend is virtually the exact oppo…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 11:33 PM
1

I think I lot of XNTX females don't fit the RP mold. I'm INTP, and I don't follow a lot of the mold. When I speak to RP men, and they realize this, a lot of their walls are automatically torn down and I am able to actually converse with them. That said, I still follow A LOT of the mold, and still find RP worth it. But no, I think it's mostly geared toward XSFX women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 09:10 PM
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Did you see my other comment? Thank you for this.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 08:09 PM
1

I think physical therapy is worth it if he was trying to plan better for it, but he's going to go into almost as much debt and invest almost as much time as it takes to become a doctor. Unfortunately, he won't have the doctor pay. I agree with your view, but he does not. This is what he wants for himself, and I cannot change that for him. I'm going to become a dietitian, and if I decide to live with my family while I wait for him, I can basically save up enough to buy us half a house. Being a br…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 08:09 PM
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No, the former. He has been very clear that he has always wanted a family and children. He just says that he wants to take care of himself as well, and he thinks he has the right to do what makes him happy before he does have this family. And I mean, that doesn't really sound wrong to me? He is a very generous and self-less man, so I know he isn't doing this to be self-centered. He just wants to be happy.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 07:13 PM
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I showed my boyfriend this post this morning, and he pointed out a blatant lie that I wrote in my sleepy and desperate haze last night. He actually didn't get kicked out of university, as his cumulative GPA never dropped below a 2.0, but chose to withdraw after two years. So actually, he is coming up on his fifth year of undergrad and this is only going to be his third year at community college. I feel very deceitful and wrong because of this. Aside from that technicality, he agreed that everyth…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 07:10 PM
1

He is aware that the main reason I care so much is because of my biological clock. I talked to him again this morning, and I sent him this post. I asked him what a solution would be to the children dilemma, and he said that I could wait to have children in my late 30's. My mom had my sisters when we was 41, but I'm very unfamiliar with this demographic. Are many females able to have children in their 40's? I told him I could save up to freeze my eggs for him, but he says, he "doesn't like the so…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 07:06 PM
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Interesting @ the honesty point. Generally, women are seen as the vindictive and manipulative ones here. But everything else here was ironically hilarious. Thanks for the laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 08:43 AM
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Rip ://
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 08:41 AM
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EDIT for grammar Lol, you gotta change some of those "whom's", man. The erroneous "whom" looks more retarded than an erroneous "who" does. PS. Mods, only saying this because this is a low-quality post. Don't ban me pls
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 07:18 AM
4

Maybe she should have said, "No better options"?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 03:09 AM
2

I think being taught red pill from the beginning would have saved me a lot of trouble as a teen. I did stupid shit when I was 16 and didn't know otherwise. I'm not sure how these 22 year olds feel, but I imagine it must be similar.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 03:07 AM
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So really it's like an exclusive FWB dynamic but no using boyfriend/girlfriend or other official terminology. bruh. He's not your captain. Not saying he can't be later one, but this dynamic is heavily discouraged here.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 01:20 AM
2

Aww, this is amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/19 01:17 AM
1

I mean you're mostly right. Though, even the professional field of sociology is pseudo-scientific.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 01:00 AM
1

Well, it's the BP part that is most important there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 12:20 AM
2

"Never trust what anyone says" was the lesson I learned by 15. At least, not blindly and not without analytical critique.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:22 PM
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Yeah..I'm not autistic though I sometimes get asked if I am one. It's comical to me when AWALT claims that females are emotional and men are logical when the opposite it the case in my relationship. Don't get me wrong, I do think most females and males follow this paradigm, but the fact that I say "most" instead of "all" goes against AWALT. I've also realized how much of a facade a lot of these men carry. I'm INTP, and have had the ability to converse with quite a few from the communities. When …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:18 PM
1

Ah, so you don't think there is one true truth?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 11:07 PM
1

I mean, he's a blue-pilled liberal, makes sense to me that he would think otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:33 PM
1

Like a woman victim of rape have a hard time to trust men. Wow, thank you for this simile
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 10:26 PM
1

Is it not possible to construct an ideology with no flaws? Like, if they're aware of a flaw, why not change it to fix the flaw?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 10:25 PM
1

Truuuu
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:00 PM
1

Lol. I am not a better communicator nor better at reading emotions. My EQ is shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:00 PM
1

If they're fat, they're not a red pill woman
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:28 PM
1

Nice taste But ah, you didn't deny the opposite exists
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:01 PM
1

"Boring" "sloppy drunks who fuck around with lowlifes" Choose one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:58 PM
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Dang, what you described does sound like a unicorn; I didn't even know that type of man existed (sure some of those traits, but not all of them).
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 06:16 PM
1

Okay. I can agree with a lot of this. Thank you for that, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:27 PM
1

, I'm twenty-two and I think I'm always right. Okay, is your whole thing a shitpost?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:10 PM
1

Because AWALT generally refers to 100% of women, I often think that RPM are referring to 100% of women in their statements. As long as you agree that it's not 100% of women you're talking about, we have no dissent in our opinions. They didn't decide, they experimented and discovered. A large number of men trying their hand at an even larger number of women. Statistically, this is a poor measure because the sample bias is skewed. Also, if 3/4 of the girls in my college were going out with rich, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:09 PM
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LOLOLOLOLOLOL
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:05 PM
1

Oh wow..I should have asked you what your definition of "demanding" was. Never mind, carry on.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:04 PM
1

Wow...Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:59 PM
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I didn't mean that. I just meant to prove that not every girl is like that. Drunk is also a dumb term to use, and some people don't like drugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:58 PM
1

You could have just said "2000"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:22 AM
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I'm 20, but I wouldn't date a man in his late 20's either. Even something like 25 would be iffy for me. I think 1-2 years older than me is the sweet spot for me. No, I'm not retarded like OP and believe that I have more to offer at 30 than I do at 20. I just genuinely am not attracted to guys that are that old. It's gross. I do like older than me, but not that old. I've always like relative age though. When I was 15, and my friends were lusting over 22 year olds, I would personally find the guys…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:21 AM
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20-something chicks are all sloppy drunks who cuss like sailors and fuck around with lowlifes from tinder. that's how I like them but still. Yikes, the confirmation bias here. It's easy to find better girls. Visit r/redpillwomen. It's basic, but I'm sure I'm not the only one who has been there since 18. And yes, there are some sweet, 20 year olds there who love housekeeping.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:13 AM
1

What's the cutoff?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:07 AM
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Okay, before I say this, just know that I'm RP and disagree with the original comment (I actually laughed reading it), so I have minimal bias.. But why do people say some of the things you listed as absolute laws? Like, what proof do you have of a 32 year old woman being more demanding than her 22 year old self? Are they personal anecdotes or actual stats or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:06 AM
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Honestly, we need both. I literally had an old friend tell me today that I feels horrible because he really likes the personality of the girl his seeing, but the looks just aren't there. It's super obvious to me he's not really in it, and despite him not being red pill, he seemed almost relieved when I told him that was a perfectly valid reason to not be into her. Now, I've also had guys come back and tell me that they're jaded and bored from all the vapid girls. I know the type of girl these gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:00 AM
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No amount of red pill will ever really fix a relationship where someone cheats on you. And remember, if some cheats on someone, it's never the fault of the person that got cheated on. There's literally zero valid excuse for it. Try again, improve yourself, and catch yourself a man who is actually worth your time and love.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/19 05:49 AM
1

I literally convinced myself to have anal despite my extreme distaste towards it with my ex because of red pill. Because I'm sexually submissive, and because I'm into rape play, it was basically always a forced anal sex scenario (we never had normal, vaginal rapeplay). I told myself it was closer to real rapeplay and submission because I was doing something I genuinely hated. If I didn't cry during the act, I would always always cry in my car on my way home. I thought I was during the right thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:33 PM
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It's the most logical conclusion I've found to the premises that living in human/western society brings.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 07:50 PM
1

Lol. Didn't be damned to read your post, but how the fuck do you expect commitment when you can't even bring it? Bruh.. tbh I don't even think it's possible to cheat in "poly" relationships. Have fun and good luck dude EDIT: read the comment below and Lololololol, she wasn't even your gf but a FWB?? Dude, you're a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 06:01 PM
2

Didn't read the article, but lmao, in my experience, this goes for females too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/19 10:36 AM
2

How old are you exactly?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 12:52 AM
3

I always thought that Bumble was more prone to submissive men because of the nature of the app; is that not the case?
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/19 12:38 AM
3

sigh It was the opposite in my experience
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:53 PM
2

The fact that marital rape is a legal thing really highlights this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:51 PM
4

Wow, I thought you were about to detail you showering him.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 04:50 PM
2

I've done it before, but I wouldn't recommend it. I was a foolish, wannabe-stoic 16-year-old. If I could do it all over again, I would have followed red pill from the beginning, but I didn't know any better due to my leftist/liberal surroundings.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 04:24 AM
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Yeah, that makes a lot of sense actually..I was just trying to find compromise for OP, but it does make sense. I do think it's possible, but yeah, it would be very difficult.
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/19 02:19 AM
1

Why are you stalking me?! >:(
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 11:07 PM
3

Yeah, intuition is feminine because it's basically a subconscious pattern you witness that one is unable to logically, consciously analyze. But anyway, I suck at intuition, and both of my partners were vetted by conscious decision and analyzing the way they responded to my questions.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 10:53 PM
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If you really don't want to let go of your personality, perhaps try remaining strong to the rest of the world but allowing yourself to submit only in your relationship? So it would be like, "No one is the boss of me, except for my SO."
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 10:16 PM
2

Careful with that. I'm more logical than my current boyfriend (he's more feelings-oriented while I'm more logic-oriented), and it really poses issues in our relationship. He is otherwise a very good man, and most of the time, I choose to submit to him regardless, but again, that's going against your approach. Of course, if you're like most females, however, and your man is like most males, this probably isn't an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 10:13 PM
1

Goddamn is it hard for me to understand you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 07:07 AM
1

Yeah, it's not worth it imo. It's usually best to just start over and try again.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 05:02 AM
2

Ah, nvm, yeah, you did cheat. Sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 05:01 AM
1

I never said anything about it aging one better. Extra fat rakes havoc on the body while aging, makes everything saggy and gross lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/19 03:05 AM
1

Okay, so I really hate cheaters, and I stalked your profile to find out more. I'm a bit confused. You broke up with your boyfriend, after a week you made out with your coworker, and then you later got back with your boyfriend? I'm sorry, but that's not cheating. You guys were broken up.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 02:40 AM
5

I literally only wear lace things because they are the most comfortable for me. Most of mine just come from VS.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/19 02:00 AM
2

Ahh, sorry, I thought you were being satirical. Anyway, yeah, a lot of, if not most, girls are stupid and retarded and don't really encroach on more profound, philosophical subjects. But remember, AWALT; I refuse to believe I'm some special snowflake. I'm also certain there are other females out there not just as intrinsically curious as me, but also smarter, more intellectual, and more rational. Again, I'm not that special; perhaps not necessarily the norm, but definitely not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 07:32 PM
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Idk dude, I know it seems different now because of social media, but most 15 year olds still look like kids. Though, I guess it does depend on how a girl ages (if she is a late or early bloomer). Also, women have a higher body fat then men do; more fat translates to less wrinkles (wrinkles are literally getting filled up by fat). Not trying to go SJW on you, but I still think they're valid counterpoints. But I'd guess we'd have to find some stats to back up either of our claims. EDIT: Also, I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:14 PM
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My boyfriend went from an overweight BMI to a normal BMI during our relationship. Man have so much more muscle mass, as long as he lifts two or three times a week at this least, that BMI chart really isn't gonna be too accurate for them, and I say that as a dietetics major and someone with an eating disorder (I glamorize thinness). My anatomy professor, who is ripped and lean as hell, has actually been overweight by BMI's scale since he was 12. My boyfriend gained weight back, as I heavily encou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:09 PM
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I mean, if you're strictly talking about physically, then yes, imo, you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 05:00 PM
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Lol, I agree. Anything relating to baldness makes me go :////
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:59 PM
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Yeah wtf, this is like my dream guy, and I know I go for dominant males. This is not a stereotypical beta man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:48 PM
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I mean, both parties would need to find stats.
/r/ExRedPill07/01/19 04:43 PM
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I'm a fan of Nietzsche. I made my Reddit account during my crux of existential depression and nihilism, when I was obsessed with Nietzsche's work. Your point is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:38 PM
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Yep. I mean, we can get into personal anecdotes all day, but the stats are there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:36 PM
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Yes yes, of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 04:34 PM
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Bruh, it takes less than one day of research to find the nitrogen method. The website "Lost All Hope", in which this method is detailed on, is literally like the fourth website to pop up when you search up "best ways to kill yourself". Granted, it would take a little longer to actually attain the kit, but I'm sure it wouldn't take any longer than getting a gun. No one kills themselves due to being depressed for one day. It takes at least months of depression, months of wanting to kill yourself. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:32 AM
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Well, if what you say is true, if they did more research, they would find the painless and easy way to die: nitrogen asphyxiation. It would be the cleanest way to die, and would almost guarantee death if the suicide hood is made the correct way. What you say is really no excuse though. If you really wanted it, you would find a way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 03:07 AM
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Well yeah, I'm saying they use unsuccessful methods because they don't actually want to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 02:38 AM
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I'm not saying emotional need is a negative thing, but when females utilize suicidal feelings to manipulate the situation to get what they want, that's when I harbor contempt for them. If it's emotional attention they need, then be a woman can get it the genuine way, but don't give a half-hearted attempt at suicide you know probably won't even work just because you want to feel validated. If you're not going to put research in and do things the right way, do you really want to kill yourself? I v…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 01:40 AM
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Statistically, more females "attempt suicide" and ultimately fail. There are less male attempts, but they are more often successful. Lol boiiii, I'm red pill afff. I'm pretty sure I'm subscribed to the Blue Pill subreddit too; it doesn't mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 12:57 AM
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Yeah, most females are pussies and attention-seekers when it comes to suicide. I'm always too lazy to read long posts fully, which is why I was specifically mentioning a section. But if the reason you mentioned it was to add on to you evidence for the claim that the book was gynocentric, that's fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:51 PM
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Heh, that was the only reason I felt compelled to comment at you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:33 PM
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Your CV. Your social history is much like your CV, do you have a string of hot exes and a some cool friends? Well great, normal women will see you as a stronger candidate because most of them are intellectually quite shallow and so just use social consensus to establish perceptions of value. I dislike reading this because I'm in disbelief that there are women out there that actually do this, and the disdain caused by this gives me a pseudo sense of superiority complex. I'm really not that specia…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:32 PM
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Next topic is body issues. Six pages talking about teenager girls (zero mention that this affects boys too) and the terrible effect that media has on girls. To be fair, the strong majority of people with major body issues are female. I understand that it affects some males too (my boyfriend being one of them), but statistically, most are female. If it was an intro book, because there is supposed to be a lot of material covered, I'd write this off as mostly forgivable (at least a sentence would p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:25 PM
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You dropped this: /s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:20 PM
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I go to CBT, and tbh, a lot of what I'm taught there goes against RP theory. This is very evident for me in group therapy (though literally everyone there is female because it is an eating disorder group), but depending on the therapist, 1-on-1 therapy can be more tailored towards my own views. For instance, in my group therapy, there is a huge emphasis on acting upon feelings. I myself find this disdainful, and my personal therapist (who actually originally was my dietitian) is in love with how…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/19 09:11 PM
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Yikes, be careful about the classroom thing. In this political climate, there's no chance of that happening right now.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:37 AM
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Well, you're not romantic with or kiss your friends, do you?
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:36 AM
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Ahh, the difference between an ardent red-pulled and a purpleish-red piller.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:33 AM
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Red pill is against this line of thinking. Red pill says you pretty much need to have sex as quickly as you did for previous partners, if not, faster. So, if you're a virgin, you can wait till marriage. If you fucked Chad on the third date 5 years ago, you must fuck the guy you're seeing now by the third date or you're not as attracted to him as you were to Chad. I understand you don't want to go through mental pain again, but red pill says tough luck. I'm not saying this is necessarily what I b…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:28 AM
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Curious, is this the case for BDSM too? Because it's almost unheard of to go to jail for BDSM. I've read some cases, but I'm sure it's less than 1% of the BDSM community that this ever happened to.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:24 AM
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Funny, I find the racial slurs a literal non-issue. But I do agree that the cheating should have been the breaking point. But I guess it depends on what a person values
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:22 AM
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Yeah...that's disgusting, namely the cheating on you part. As soon as you learned about his infidelity, you should have left.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:21 AM
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If I could have kids in my mid or late 20's, I would. Your 20's really are your prime childbearing years biologically, as much as society likes to think otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:15 AM
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If we're talking about women who enjoy being forced to submit, isn't it implied we're talking about consensual actions here? If a woman didn't actually enjoy it, that would be a different matter.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:13 AM
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Yes, I am in a 24/7 BDSM relationship we're I'm 100% submissive, and my boyfriend is 100% dominant. He gives me rules, and his word is always law. If he gives me a rule, and I ask him, "Why?", if he chooses to answer with, "because I said so", I must honor it and follow it anyway. Being as I'm so inquisitive, I'll usually repeat asking "Why?" multiple times, and if he says, "Stop asking or you'll get punished", I stop (yes, he administers punishments such as lines, timeouts, and spankings). It's…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/19 05:11 AM
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idk, tbh I'm turning more and more purple the mentally healthier I become. Of course, I still think blue pillers are the scums of the Earth, and I'll most likely always lean red, but I guess I just don't have to hate myself as much now as when I did when I was an ardent, flaming red piller. It'll probably always be there, but now I'm beginning to see that I'm actually important too. And that men really aren't always these angelic creatures portrayed by red pill. And lastly, to be quite frank, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 10:11 AM
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Don't let the family dog be the one more excited to see him again.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/18 09:11 AM
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Probably because BPD is stereotypically a female thing. In the same light, autism is stereotypically a male thing (not to say it isn't statistically a male thing either). EDIT: Actually..how can I word this better...BPD is an exaggeration of the poor versions of feminine qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 09:03 AM
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Wow, I'm gonna have to look this up. Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:57 PM
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Yeah, I think I kind of conflated the two a tinyyyyyyy bit. Nonetheless, I was wrong and now it's your turn to call me the retard \<sup>-</sup>^ See ya around
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:47 PM
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Don't minority of a minority means 23% or less? I guess it's unfair of me to assume definitions. I didn't really consider 49% to be a minority when it comes to soft people sciences, because for instance, that would make the world male population to be a minority, and no one really colloquially considers males to be the minority. Regardless, that fault is on me. From now on, I'll be certain to clarify definitions first, because that really is basic. No need to try to defend a position I snuck up …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:29 PM
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I guess I just mean more introverted than extroverted, or moderately introverted. But I understand what you're saying and can mostly agree. And especially if you're talking about extremes. Males tend to be more extremist under all categories, not just introversion, so I would agree that there are a lot more extremist male introverts than extremist female introverts. Tell me one and I can give you a perfect percentage of how much women are "introverts". But I will tell you. In most reasonable cas…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:08 PM
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Good job arguing against a position I never took, retard. I'm not arguing that introverted women are more common than men. I'm not arguing that they are equal in numbers as introverted men. Heck, I never even made the claim that they are anywhere near in numbers. But I do think that introvert women are a minority of a minority. I'm arguing against this. You make it sound as if introverted women are like 5% of females. Your studies listed say nothing about this, and I'm not paying $12 each for th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:43 PM
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Well, props to you. I personally could never be with another sub, nor even a switch. Most of your answers can be found on r/BDSMcommunity
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 07:33 PM
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I was catcalled a lot when I was an early teen (imagine a 13 year old with the tits of a grown woman). It rarely happens to me anymore, though that might be in part due to the fact that I dress very modestly now. About 2 years ago, I was walking downtown of my city with a loose, long-sleeved shirt and spandex booty shorts on, and it was one of the scariest times of my life. I met up with my guy friend later on that day, and I had two separate cars honk on me, and my friend said, "It's as if I'm …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 07:28 PM
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What do you mean "disagree"? These are my personal dating preferences. It's not a matter of debate. Lol wtf, how do you disagree with a person's subjective, romantic interests? lmaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:09 PM
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What the poop is the pink pill??
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:06 PM
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Where do you get this information from? Which study? Your biased anecdotes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:03 PM
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20F, mostly red Deal-breakers are: -stupid (pretty much 100 IQ or below) -has a mental disability -over 27ish years old or younger than me -5'6 or under -Uses hard drugs -submissive in the bedroom at all -non-monogamous under any circumstances (this includes kinks like exhibitionism) -rates anything other than 0 on the Kinsey scale -male feminist -hyper-liberal -doesn't believe in marriage -a BMI that resembles the people of "My 600 lb Life" -doesn't actually love me (I've been here, it sucks)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:01 PM
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Yeah, no shit. Introverted males and females are a thing, dimwits. The other commenter was littler describing the most basic and retarded female. Plus, there's a difference between the dichotomies of extraversion vs introversion and outgoing vs shy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:50 PM
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1) Dietetics for me and physical therapy for him. SoCal. Unfortunately, my GPA is over a 3.8 (I had some fuck ups at the beginning), whereas his isn't even high enough to transfer from community college to a university yet. 2) Yeah. I've told him that if we're not financially stable by our early 30's, I refuse to have kids because I don't want to have my children raised by nannies. He knows it's an issue I have of him, and he's trying to change (which I won't believe until I see action), so I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 08:47 AM
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Yeah, I was strictly speaking about more normalized BDSM, as it pertained to OP's post, not scenes. I'm not too familiar with irl BDSM communities, sorry. EDIT: I should have said online BDSM communities in my original post. Rip. Gonna edit that. Sorry and thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:42 AM
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I'll accept this in terms of munches and dungeons, though both of these I have never attended and probably will never attend. Though, I don't really know what your point is, at least not in terms of OP's post. Could you expatiate please?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 07:28 AM
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Ah, so I take it your comment was satire rather than a hyperbole. My bad, dude. PS. I'm so much more accustomed to seeing the word "corporeal" instead, so "corporal" made me laugh for some reason when trying to pronounce it in my head 😹
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:58 AM
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Tbh, I've personally been more attracted to outcasts than I have to the stereotypical Chad. For me, when other girls like a guy, it makes me view that guy as less attractive. I always attributed it to not enjoying competition, but I think I see now that part of it is also due to a superiority complex with other females. Or maybe it has to do that I always considered jocks to be more stupid. Idk, consider this a shitpost
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:46 AM
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How is hedonism in any way seen as the ideal way to live in order to attain happiness? This path garners little genuine fulfillment, and it would leave me feeling vacuous and full of existential angst.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:36 AM
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Unfortunately, everyone wants to be the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:32 AM
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No, you're right. Going out on a limb like this is a very far reach, but I made these statements with a few assumptions: 1) We're going into similar fields in the same location with basically the same level of education, if not, me with a higher level of education. 2) I'm taking into account the time and debt during our early lives. I am going to have my career and be debt-free by 25. My boyfriend, on the other hand, has made academic mistakes, and wants to go to a school away from home. He's go…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 06:23 AM
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1) Feminism is stupid. These men are stupid. 2) BDSM isn't inherently evil. It's built upon full consent. Just because the OP doesn't like BDSM doesn't mean BDSM is misogynistic in any way. To add, in most polls I've seen, submissives are a lot more prominent in online BDSM communities than doms are. EDIT: Sweeeeetttttt, I've spent like three years on Reddit, and I've never been gilded before...thanks so much, anon!!! PS. I know lots of people are gilded on this sub, but this still makes me hopp…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:54 AM
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What the fuck? As a member of the Reddit BDSM communities, I haven't seen this ANYWHERE.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:50 AM
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I originally wanted my future husband to be my financial superior. By my current estimates, I'm going to be making more money than my boyfriend does, with him perhaps matching and remaining the same as me once we hit our 40's...the things you give up for love :')
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 05:48 AM
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Well, you can't have a dead bedroom for a year and then all of a sudden try to seduce him and get upset when it fails. The precedent has already been set. Did you deny him sex when the beginning of this dead bedroom year commenced?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:41 AM
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Is this one of few attempts, or so you do these kinds of these and get rejected on a regular basis?
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/18 05:36 AM
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I agree with you? Nothing in my post stated otherwise. You misconstrued it. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 03:39 AM
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Most is not the same as all. I can definitely get on board with most. Also, your last statement makes it seem as though you're talking about all. If the case is most, then what would have to be necessitated is that most red pill tactics work on most women, rendering some women to require some things from red pill, and other women to require other things from red pill, making variations of red pill necessary for different women. This would mean it is not as clear cut as it appears to be, because …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 03:21 AM
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To be completely honest, that's where a lot of the debate lies, and I'm not sure. I'm a Red Pill Woman, so wouldn't say I have the authority to speak for a Red Pill Man (I'm actually banned from the r/TheRedPill sub). I will say, that I have seen both views from red pillers. The issue is that there is no central doctrine, so you will most likely have differing views from different red pillers. I would go as far out on a limb to say that most of the main posters over there would claim that they d…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:13 PM
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Yes, I agree. I still consider myself to lean red, but actual, intellectual debate is discouraged there, which makes it lose a lot of its credibility. I understand that TRP doesn't want their sub to be swarmed by blue pillers making pathetic attempts at counterarguments, but when they completely eradicate all debate, it makes it nothing more than a dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 11:08 PM
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I have no doubt another red piller would be smart enough to devise another argument supporting AWALT within my parameters. Well that didn't take long, did it? I agree with this view for the pragmatic sense. This is a similar view that I ascribe myself, which is why I consider myself to lean red. The main issue I see, however, is that your argument kind of defeats AWALT. As you said, not all guns are loaded, so similarly, not all women will divorce rape you. And unfortunately, I do not believe th…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:59 PM
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Yikes, I wrote that under the assumption you were talking about red pill in general; I didn't know you wanted me to remain in the confines of OP's topic, so my post appears tangential and off-topic. That is my own mistake; I apologize. That said, I can still relate to OP's topic because AWALT is the reason red pillers disregard happy marriages. That said, building this case leaves me more vulnerable to debate, as I would most likely have to disprove AWALT, and that one isn't as obviously straigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:42 PM
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Yeah, I agree with you, that's not really a point..A low blow, sure, but not a valid counterpoint at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:26 PM
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See above. I replied to the person before you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:19 PM
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I'm just gonna copy/paste some of what I wrote on a different sub: RP does work on a certain subset of women, but the main issue is that they go on and slap AWALT onto it. To believe that 4 billion of the people on this planet follow exactly the same rules is simply bad statistics and bad sociology. A single woman deviating from the rule would account for a 2.5x10-8 % difference, but that infinitesimal number would be the difference between AWALT red pill being right and being wrong. Yeah...try …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 10:18 PM
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Confirmation bias and flawed logic, most likely. It's quite a shame because this irrationality causes me to lose a lot of faith in what otherwise would be a full pledge to TRP. As much as red pillers hate to admit it, there are quite a few logical flaws in their conclusions. Granted, it's not as disgustingly littered with flaws as TBP, but they're still there.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/18 09:55 PM
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Agreed. Facades signify weakness.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/18 09:34 PM
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To be fair, there's a lot of confirmation bias going on involved with the type of woman TRP attracts. RP does work on a certain subset of women, but the main issue is that they go on and slap AWALT onto it. To believe that 4 billion of the people on this planet follow exactly the same rules is simply bad statistics and bad sociology. A single woman deviating from the rule would account for a 2.5x10-8 % difference, but that infinitesimal number would be the difference between AWALT red pill being…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/18 09:31 PM
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That wasn't the point though... Why the fuck would I care about what a random redditor thinks about my n-count? I'm not trying to prove myself to you. I'm expounding upon the idea of hypocrisy. Yes, it's hypocritical, but there's a reason why I am the way I am. But if you don't care to hear the reason, then that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 04:01 PM
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I mean, I think there's a reason for it, but OK. shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:48 PM
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Hey! I think you should definitely look at r/RedPillWomen then :) I think you'll be very pleased.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:43 PM
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Mmhmmm, my n-count is due to a stupid phase when I was a rebellious, blue-pilled high schooler. My heart always lied in monogamy though. It's why I'm quite empathic and lenient with this subject with my counterpart. As long as he didn't participate in any threesomes (I never did because again, monogamy), and as long as he values monogamy as much as I do, then I can see past his past. People make mistakes, me, him, everyone. I WISH my parents parented differently, but I'm glad I made the change t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:41 PM
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Ah, alright. I think my/our views line up most closely with RPW. Thanks for being a good sport about it ;) I'm usually not that brash online anymore, but I couldn't resist the last day of purge week
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:25 PM
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I'm just giving my personal tastes...I only phrased it that harshly because it is still purge week after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:16 PM
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Yes, retard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:13 PM
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I'm a pretty big hypocrite because, at this point, there's been 9 lollipops in my mouth, 3 of which have been in my vagina. My boyfriend's lollipop has been in 5 vaginas, which I have no problem with whatsoever, but I read about Red pillers who have n-counts well into the double digits, and it's just disgusting to me. I try to be lenient, so I don't get grossed out until 20, it doesn't problem a problem until 30, and it doesn't become a 'you're-a-disgusting-man-whore-that-literally-causes-me-to-…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:24 AM
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Male promiscuity disgusts me as much as female promiscuity. No r/TRP, you don't get a "biological free card because girls prefer high n-counts on males". Morality, standards, etc., is the same to me regardless of gender. On top of that, I tend to get quite possessive over my man, and for that I highly value monogamy. The degenerate men who fuck degenerate females are as bad as the females themselves. Be a good person. Fuck your SO wildly. I don't want AIDS and I don't want your nasty ass dick th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 03:15 AM
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I tuned 20 less than two months ago. The wall is brutal. Enjoy your youth while it lasts. I wish I could go back.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/18 06:12 AM
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What do you mean by over?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 06:35 AM
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So bitter
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 06:31 AM
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This is a question I also have. Noting for more responses. I'm currently hoping I can work part-time when I have children so that I can do all the cooking, cleaning, and childcare (with the exception of 'manly' house jobs and the father-son parenting), but I'm 20 and no where near that stage of life, so who knows. I imagine a lot of this will be dependent on how much my future husband makes: But I'm investing $35k+ in tuition, so I have to put that to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 10:45 PM
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Same. Reddit and YouTube are the closest forms of social media that I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/18 10:30 PM
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Ew, seriously, dude? I've been ignoring your comments on this sub for weeks in both the effort of this sub remaining the enjoyable place that is has been for me for years, and also out of respect for my current relationship and the respect I have for ex relationships, but I can't do this anymore. You owe me nothing, so you can stay on this sub while I leave, but not before saying how horrendous the delivery of this information is. Yes, we both agree on your position, that's not the point. The po…
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/18 04:10 AM
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Fuck that. One of the biggest reasons why I'm dating the man I'm with now is because he isn't like that. He only speaks of me with the upmost respect, and I do the same. But the part that bothers me most is thinking that flirting with other women is acceptable behavior. Both my partner and I are fiercely monogamous. I find great solace in the fact that I am not conscious of a man more monogamous than him, and he mentioned to me once that "[I] wont even as so much as walk to class with another ma…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/18 10:05 PM
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In my opinion, the most you can do is prompt her for some profound introspection. It's really difficult to get others to listen to you, especially in huge lifestyle changes. Moreover, I think it's best when people either learn or think for themselves. Is she receptive to RPW-type of material? If so, you can expose her to this sub. Then afterwards, ask her certain questions that require her to analyze her relationship through the filter of red pill theory. But, all in all, you can't force her to …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/18 09:49 PM
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One question though: have you brought up your concerns to him?
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/18 06:08 PM
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Ew wtf, don't keep dating him while you "improve yourself for someone else". That's low. You can improve yourself for another relationship, but don't lead him on.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/18 04:36 PM
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Yeah, there was this huge thing on Reddit called The Banout 2018 (r/RPW was on the secondary list and r/TRP was in wave 4 of the primary list), but I just checked on it again, and apparently there was a fallout, as r/TheBanout2018 is closed, so we should be okay now. It was just a bunch of hot-headed, liberal mods (some mentally ill) thinking they were buddy buddies with the Admins because they shut down SOME subs. There's a bunch of theories going around like how the subs mocking Serena William…
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/18 04:24 PM
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I saw that this sub was on the list a few days ago..I was wondering if it was going to be addressed here.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/18 03:33 PM
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Blowjobs, at least my my relationship, usually lead to penetrative sex anyway. I'm sure you could replicate it to a similar effect with your own relationship, with time of course.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 02:47 PM
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r/TRP does many pragmatic and tangible field reports; I think r/RPW should do something similar.
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 05:57 AM
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blowjobs
/r/RedPillWomen14/09/18 05:45 AM
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I'm almost the same way. Dread makes me lose interest, but not because I'm haughty. It's because I reason either: A) he isn't interested in me, at least not as much as I would like or B) he is weak to have to resort to that game. I actually see guys who have the most females ogling at him less attractive and vice versa. I loathe competing and want to feel like the only one.
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/18 02:47 PM
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No, I completely agree with this. It's red pill that keeps this passion alive and burning. It's red pill that teaches me to always hold my partner to the deepest of respects. It's red pill that teaches me to always be pleasant. It's red pill that teaches me to adore his masculinity. I can't attribute it all to red pill, but a lot of it sure is. I know that if I treated him in the same way a blue-pilled chick would, this feeling would quickly dissipate. My man doesn't even follow red pill, but I …
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/18 06:23 AM
4

Wow, that tl;dr is amazing
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 09:12 PM
1

Seriously? That's amazing. Thank you so much for sharing!
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 03:32 PM
1

Gahh, I have the same thing. My ex was extremely unhappy with my "progression" in life and me during the 9 months we were together, to the point where it greatly affected his affection towards me, so I left, coming to the conclusion that he didn't truly love me. I felt like I was doing him a favor, and still, to a degree, believe that. I couldn't make him happy, and while he wanted me to improve to reach his expectations, I feel that he could find someone else that better fulfills his wishes. Ev…
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/18 06:36 AM
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Not on the market anymore, but I still follow RPW despite finding it when I was single at 18 because I want to give my boyfriend the most I possibly can because he deserves it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/18 05:34 AM
1

I hope to reach the same, except not by taking a bunch of illicit drugs.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/18 07:36 PM
1

Thank you for listening :) feel free to analyze mine and everyone else's words and pick and choose as you see fit.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/18 09:31 PM
1

Okay, there are two main possibilities imo: 1) he has a low sex drive or 2) mental blocks with sex I also read your other comment. It seems like introducing him to sex by being you being on top is the best idea. But to be honest, wanting to always be on the bottom is lazy and selfish. Sex isn't physically easy. When my boyfriend is on top, especially after he lifts, his arms hurt but he pushes through it. When I'm on top after working out, my legs hurt so badly that they lock up after we finish.…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/18 09:28 PM
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Yeah, if I'm going to be honest, it sounds like he's having mental difficulties more than anything, and putting pressure on him to figure it out quickly is definitely not helping. The chances of every single position being uncomfortable for his whole body are slim. If he does have something wrong with his appendage, go to a doctor. If he doesn't, go to a therapist. One last question: how adamant does he seem about rectifying the sex difficulties?
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/18 09:15 PM
1

Hmm, okay. I do think it's commendable that he still chose to accept you even with his own emphasis on chastity. And if that is the case, it perplexes me even more on why he would get so upset over a joke. I'm also still trying to get my mind around how narrow hips have anything to do with anything. If you're too tight, that's your vagina. If you're hurting him while on top, that's your ass. I'm sorry I can't be of assistance to you on this because of my confusion on the subject.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/18 09:07 PM
1

Jesus, RP advocates for chastity before marriage, but honestly, this would pretty much ruin the marriage for me. This selfishly makes me feel better about my decision to have sex in my LTR, but I applaud you for still wanting to make this work. Though, it does make me curious about how important sex is to you. I'd also like the point out that it sounds like a lot of immaturity on his end. Referring to the "jocular" comment about your husband sticking his foot up your ass, people use humor to mas…
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/18 08:52 PM
1

You're about halfway on the way to normal. Don't give up yet.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/18 08:05 PM
2

Actually, most RP'ers would say AWALT is for 100% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/18 11:11 PM
7

"Do not mistake feminine meekness for weakness."
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/18 04:13 PM
1

And now an ad hominem..fantastic. Any valid counterarguments to my position?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 01:05 AM
1

Which I welcome, if the point is understood by other successors, but I asked a nuanced question. The point you gave is obvious and unnecessary; all you did was repeat the point of the original commenter, and it was redundant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 12:47 AM
1

Hence my second point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 12:40 AM
1

First off, I didn't ask you. Second of all, your example doesn't even follow my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/18 12:31 AM
1

I'm thankful for this community. I was thinking back to a little while ago when I was with my boyfriend and a group of friends. We were playing games similar to Cards Against Humanity when this couple showed up that only one person in the group knew. So it was their first turn of the night, and the question that was directed at the girl was, "What are your turn offs?" The first thing she said was her boyfriend's name. I remember my boyfriend just looking so hurt for the guy, and I took great ple…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 06:34 PM
1

I agree with the latter paragraph. One question though: do older women who fell madly in love with a man when they were younger and still stayed with their men throughout the years stay madly in love with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/18 05:57 PM
1

True, to an extent, because the hormonal balances of men and women vary greatly. The amount of testosterone that has an affect on men is not proportional to the amount of testosterone that would have the same effect on women. Also, other hormones, such as estrogen, can skyrocket a female's sex drive because of these varied balances, while the same hormone all but plummet's a male sex drive. While I definitely agree with you that statistically, women have lower sex drives than men, to allow no re…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/18 05:32 AM
1

You realize that testosterone isn't the only hormone responsible for sex drive, right?
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/18 05:24 AM
3

Promiscuity is never acceptable, but one has to uphold some amount of solipsism for their own happiness. While on a macro-scale, I completely agree, I'm just saying that sexual incompatibility would completely end a relationship for me. It's just way too important to me, and if it ever came to that point, nothing else matters.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 07:39 PM
1

Wow, this is the first time I've come across a good counterargument for this position. You're right. If I couldn't live out my submission fetish, I'd be dissatisfied with my sex life for the rest of my life. If my partner wanted to be submissive for me, it would honestly be a deal-breaker in our relationship..and some people never know what their kinks are until they explore..And I know it's taken me a journey to find the kink that leaves me the most satisfied and is my holy grail of kinks.
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 02:05 PM
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Women are so surprised that their husbands would rather go to the bar than come home to a nagging wife. I can't wait until I get to the stage of my life where my goal is to create a welcoming home environment that my future husband will want to return to after a long day's work.
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/18 12:32 AM
1

Gorgeous post. This is something fundamental to RPW, and it is a powerful tool women can equip themselves with, if educated on the matter. I also appreciate the lack of patronage towards women on this post, which you, and many other men who post on this sub, sometimes let slip. It's simply extreme masculinity and femininity, nothing condescending about it here.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/18 04:03 AM
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Yes, but I don't care. From being one of the first people in my school to convert to atheism, I'm accustomed to going against the grain and believing and doing what I think is right.
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/18 01:13 PM
1

Polygamy and RPW are incompatible.
/r/RedPillWomen03/08/18 02:05 AM
1

r/breeding
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 08:09 PM
1

I'm in exactly the same spot. I get off on my boyfriend wanting me all to only himself. It's just me and my Daddy, always and forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 04:17 PM
1

Nope. I don't want any part of polygamy. The RP mantra that states "women would rather share a high-quality man" is BS to me. I want nothing to do with being part of a harem nor having a harem. I'm definitely hardwired for monogamy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/18 04:15 PM
1

It's not going to work unless you want it for yourself.
/r/RedPillWives27/07/18 11:48 PM
2

No, I would settle for a nonvirgin, but I would prefer a virgin. Did you even read what I posted?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:35 PM
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If I had the choice, in an ideal world, no, I'd go with the virgin. Though I'm okay with low and moderate n-counts too, depending on other factors, and especially pragmatically. I just get easily jealous, so that's why.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 09:16 PM
2

What a vapid and superficial marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:46 PM
0

I think TRP does wayyyyyyy over-exaggerate this, but it does happen. I'm just glad I'm aware of it, so this won't be my future.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:43 PM
5

raises hand female here who prefers my partner to have less experience
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/18 08:40 PM
2

Ikr lol, total grounds for an ethos attack
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 03:49 AM
1

One can only try his best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:21 AM
1

I'm glad I only like good, honest men then. And btw, the purpose of this isn't to find loopholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/18 01:08 AM
1

Funny because my man just flirting with other women means I will instantly break up with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/18 03:59 PM
2

lol wtf, this is a train wreck
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 06:14 AM
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I'm grateful for my boyfriend, for being so empathetic towards me. Every time I have a mental breakdown and my mental illnesses shine through, all he does is endlessly tell me how beautiful he thinks I am and how much he loves me. I'm grateful for my mother, who is working so hard to help me financially for my upcoming rhinoplasty and breast reduction. And finally, I'm grateful for myself. This is the first time I've pulled straight A's in years, and I'm working so many hours at my job. I got em…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/18 11:45 PM
1

You, sir, are very intelligent.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/18 06:08 AM
3

Now THIS is the kind of men we need on RPW
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/18 03:52 PM
3

I think it's part overcompensation and part I honestly-think-my-boyfriend-is-the-best-I've-ever-had, in all facets. I have zero intention or desire to ever stray from him, and there are no "what if's" in my mind. However, I do think a lot of it can be attributed to the fact that my n-count is due to me wanting sex for sex's sake. I'm not like a lot of girls who used sex for a means. However, numbers 8 and 9 were/are relationships. That means that 1-7 were strictly casual. But now that I've assoc…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/18 02:35 AM
1

I completely agree. I go against the grain here when I say I think a lot of women on this sub should check out r/TheRedPill just to gain some more perspective.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/18 05:05 PM
1

Honestly, because of this sub, I now count oral in my n-count. It spikes mine up from 3 to 9, but hey, I'd rather go with a worst case scenario, and thankfully, I don't believe that my n-count totally defines me. Affects me? Yes. But defines me? No. I think my n-count actually makes me more loyal.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/18 05:31 AM
3

Lol, why has no one here pointed out that he's sub?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/18 03:50 PM
1

I just hope this doesn't become codependent behavior and/or it fails because it's not for yourself. But if not, I'm happy you found what works for you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/18 08:45 PM
1

My boyfriend seems to touch me more often than I touch him. He never asks for anything from me, but it compels me to give him the 2+ blowjobs a day he thrives on and actually enjoying what I'm doing. It is amazing finding someone who is unselfish too.
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/18 05:26 PM
2

Deliberately, however, I think I have natural and yet-to-be-discovered proclivities toward being RP.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 04:42 PM
3

As someone who has been on both sides of the spectrum now (OP's when I was 16 and yours now at 19 [and these are literally the same guys that would only sleep with me at 16 that are asking for relationships now]), I completely agree with this. Honestly, I think if you implement red pill women philosophy, you're already miles ahead of most females nowadays.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 07:06 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/8fujkz/back_to_the_basics_hypergamy/?st=JHRR0AKG&sh=90d0863c
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 01:59 PM
2

I actually had your exact post in mind when I was posting my comment.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 03:51 AM
1

It irks me that you're looking at this so transactionally. Yeah, I know, red pill yadda yadda yadda sex is a transaction yadda yadda yadda, but it seems like you're really not enjoying it. I think you're not too enthralled with your boyfriend, which is the real issue here.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 02:34 AM
1

If you don't want to do this for your boyfriend now, you're not going to magically want to do this for your future husband later. Find a man with a lower libido. They're definitely out there; I had the opposite problem as you until recently. My boyfriend and I go at least 2-3 rounds when we spend the day together (even if done in succession), and even that's with many short bouts of sexual teasing in between. The difference with you and me is that I actually genuinely enjoy it and want it just a…
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/18 02:16 AM
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Agreed. If the vetting process is over and you've already recognized him as a good man, there's zero reason to nitpick over things like this, especially because, as OP mentioned, he was already working hard to keep the ship afloat elsewhere. With your unwavering support, he'll probably eventually surprise you, but I still see it as my job to take care of my man in the same way he does me, regardless of anything that happens.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 02:42 AM
3

With the right person
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/18 05:27 AM
1

He doesn't love you. Swallow this pill and move on.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 02:16 AM
1

Honey, you literally told us he was on a dating site.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 02:06 AM
1

He's accusing you of cheating because he cheated.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 01:14 AM
1

He's projecting.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 12:58 AM
1

If my boyfriend was apathetic to them, I'd still want to do them for myself, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/18 12:01 AM
1

I'd love giving blowjobs even if it didn't make my partner feel great.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:52 PM
1

My boyfriend shaves, and I love it But from a non-biased standpoint, yes, I still much prefer shaved. EDIT: should be noted that I don't care about stubble
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 11:50 PM
1

that they have much less time than they think At 19, my father looks down upon me whenever I mention planning my life around a future family. He tells me that I'm much too young to be thinking about any of that stuff and that I have so much time to leave that thinking for later on in life. Well, my parents married at 38, both of them rushed into it because they ran out of time for their biological clocks, and now they're extremely unhappy, waiting until my younger sisters turn 18 so that they ca…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 11:37 PM
2

This is why I'm so happy I found TRP at 18. I wish I had known earlier because I made stupid mistakes in my teenage years, but my case is definitely salvageable enough for me. I definitely wouldn't be saying the same had I gone through my 20's still bluepilled though.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 10:56 PM
2

Yeah, I received an interesting DM, but thank you :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 07:55 PM
1

Omg, how did you know? Lol, you're such a good mod.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 07:45 PM
1

No
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 07:17 PM
1

I completely understand where you're coming from. I too was afraid that what I was doing was manipulation, but I figured it wasn't because: 1) It was a complete accident, as I originally completely accepted him for the beta man he originally was, and this came about naturally...and 2) He says he wouldn't be doing it if he didn't like it; he says he's a lot happier now and is sure this is what he naturally was like anyway. But yeah, I completely agree; if I went into the relationship wanting him …
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 05:50 PM
1

Hi, I'd just like to say that you have a very powerful tool with RPW. My boyfriend was pretty beta when I met him, but after just a little over a month of treating him as a RPW should, he has the perfect balance of beta and alpha traits for me. So, this means he leads and doms the relationship, makes me feel as though he has unconditional adoration for me, and provides me with endless and unwavering support. He wants to protect and provide for me, and I make sure I always support and build him u…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 05:25 PM
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I don't know why people said she was snooping. HE was the one who commented on her post in the first place. Snooping is going through his phone to find his account; accidentally stumbling upon it due to his own fault is not snooping. Him commenting on her post was either manipulative or stupid on his part.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/18 05:00 PM
1

no woman will ever feel the tingles for a really good programmer, alas. Speak for yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/18 04:48 PM
1

I was thinking the same. Her husband had no idea the other couple didn't want to host them. She can't credit him for that. That said, if she finds this approach works for all her other situations still, good on her.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 05:55 AM
1

He may desire her in addition to you, but he'll only want to trade you in for a newer model if you become a turnoff for him physically, emotionally or mentally. Sorry, I'm stalking you rn, but holy fuck, I have never heard nor fathomed this, but I have never immediately thought something was so true so quickly on here. This is gold. Perhaps you aren't as bad as I previously thought you were. I apologize if I come off as rude.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 02:21 AM
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This. I have a higher IQ than my SO. Because intellect and rationality are my guiding virtues in life, this is something that originally automatically disqualified him from my dating pool. That said, he was so giving to me, I would be an idiot not to date him. I make a conscious effort to recognize how superior he is to me in other aspects of life. There's the most pronounced physical superiority (comes quite handy in BDSM), but there's also the fact that he has a higher EQ than me, is much more…
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 01:49 AM
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OP, I usually think what you spout is 50% BS...but this piece of work is immaculate. You showed that it is in fact possible for women to love a man, something that many of the men over at r/TRP disagree with. Granted, many bluepilled females would still think that you're painting women in a negative light with this post, but that is not the intended case. This is accurate and simply how the general trends of human nature are. I am quite pleased with this.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/18 01:37 AM
1

This is an interesting question. So is it that if a woman is passionate enough about a man to have sex before commitment, it's a sign of having enough passion to fully commit to him?
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/18 07:27 PM
3

You can use the same logic on like every holiday. Sure, Christmas has roots in religion, but the way it's celebrated colloquially is pretty commercialized.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/18 07:17 PM
1

It's differences in love language, which is totally a legitimate incompatibility.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/18 07:15 PM
1

This is one of the things that makes me a little more bluepilled. I think oneitis is illogical, but it sure does make you feel good. If you want to place emotion over logic, that's a personal decision.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/18 07:13 PM
2

You can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/18 03:38 PM
1

Great ad hominem
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:13 AM
9

Fuck the red pill BS that say women would rather share a high-quality man than have a low one. Nope. Fuck that, rather just be single for the rest of my life. And if I had to choose between the two, it would be the latter. Not every chick is a Stacy. I could have the otherwise perfect man, but if he cheats on me, nope, I'm out. No questions at all about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 06:12 AM
3

As someone who has only slept around in her past, when I broke up with my ex, I promised myself that I wouldn't sleep with someone ever again without commitment first. Fast forward two months, I was talking to this new guy and was pretty involved. He knew about my promise to myself because I told him after he kept cranking up the sexual touch and tension, and he was completely fine with upholding it. Well, we found ourselves cuddled up together in his empty house, and after weeks of restraining …
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/18 01:46 AM
3

Was this on r/RPW or r/RPWi?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 06:54 AM
4

Tf? Why is this here?
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 01:11 AM
1

I'm so fucking sick of these personal questions masquerading as general questions fit for this sub. Like, the initial question is fine, but going on and saying, "What would you do if specific x, y , and z all spontaneously happened?" is like, really bruhhh?¿?¿¿?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/18 11:43 PM
5

Saw this sub linked on r/askTRP. I'm so happy that the sub name is ironic.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/18 05:27 PM
1

INTP here. Though my will to debate isn't as strong as ENTP's, INTP's tend to be even more masculine than ENTP's, and I have no issues with being feminine. I think in terms of masculinity, my belief is that it generally goes ENTP>INTP>INTJ>ENTJ (not 100% sure between ENTJ and INTJ though). But chill, MBTI doesn't even mean anything besides some trends. You're not doomed/condemned to your personality type. Any personality can click with each other, as people are more fluid than the rigid, 16 cate…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 09:25 PM
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Comments like these make me aware of how much pseudoscience and generalizations take place in TRP theory
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/18 03:02 AM
1

You know how AWALT isn't true? Like how you stated, it's confirmation bias in TRP. It's the same for guys too, right? I found my Prince Charming, and it's just hard for me to shake the idea that he might not have the desires that red pill men do.
/r/ExRedPill02/05/18 02:50 PM
1

I love this. Help his mother with the domestic chores and show off your femininity around his father. Of course, you should have a very sweet demeanor towards both of them. You should also make quite obvious how well you treat their son; don't hold back here. Good impression on his parents, while not everything, goes a long way.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 07:43 PM
1

Yikes, he is definitely not even "virtually" your first sexual partner. He is your flat out second. Accept these kinds of things.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/18 07:37 PM
1

Wtf is this shit
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 01:53 PM
3

Honestly, the idea that any guy participates in cuckolding makes me cry; it's the saddest and most pathetic kink.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/18 05:47 AM
1

I guess..though the females are also culpable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 08:18 PM
1

RP guys are bad in bed? This is news to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:48 PM
1

I mean in a separate place because it was a response to mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 05:47 PM
1

Could have stated your opinion off of my own comment. I didn't perceive it as a personal attack, only as an attack on my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 01:04 PM
1

It's not a slippery slope to argue that; it's slippery slope to change my argument like that. I'm also from SoCal.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 12:21 PM
1

Slippery slope fallacy. Piss off.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/18 12:16 PM
1

Your partner is mostly likely insecure about it. If that's the case, as someone who has severe insecurity issues herself, "It's not so bad" translates to, "It's still ugly, and you'd look better otherwise." On the flip side, my partner has cystic acne and scars across his back and chest that he's apparently insecure about. He's refuses to take his shirt off in front of most people, but you wouldn't even know he was insecure about it if you watched a private encounter between me and him. While it…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 12:26 AM
1

idiom Lol that's a metaphor, idiot
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/18 03:04 AM
1

I fucking hate facial hair (besides stubble), and I think beards are the ugliest fucking thing. Love me some clean-shaven face
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/18 11:52 PM
4

Support support support. Your captain needs unwavering and devoted support. It's difficult to form an opinion on your situation because, imo, this is too condensed and I'm sure there's more to it. But regardless, while your relationship with your SO is probably damaged a bit because of this, I wouldn't say it was unsalvageable, if you make the necessary changes that is. You should support, but not try to direct. Your man can direct himself, but he wants you for your emotional support. Of course,…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 11:44 PM
8

To be completely honest, I know myself, and half the stuff that TRP claims about women does not apply to me. I'm sure I'm not the only exception.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/18 03:42 AM
1

Jesus Christ. I'm so glad I'm a female with a high sex drive. I enjoy spoiling my boyfriend sexually, and if the sex ever drops off too much, I'd honestly might even be more disappointed than him about it...and I'm really glad I can be authentic about my sexuality. Posts about how women are getting a better deal the less sex they have with their partner is something I can't even fathom for myself
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 02:24 AM
1

I'll add my $.02 My new boyfriend was vanilla when I met him, with a history of abusive and what I assume to be more domineering girls. I'm extremely submissive, but I'm of the camp that you should not go into a relationship expecting people to change. I was fully ready to give up my submissive side just because he had some beta qualities I enjoyed so much. This weekend was our third time being intimate with each other. In a matter of about two weeks, he went from being vanilla in our first enco…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/18 01:48 AM
1

Okay, that's what I thought you might of meant, but wasn't sure. Sorry for my confusion, but thank you for your clarification.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/18 10:04 PM
1

Holy shit, #2 is extremely true for me. Is this a theme in psychology? I've never heard of it before, but I'm super intrigued
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 11:08 PM
6

I also struggle with this. I'll be frank. I had anal with my ex because I knew that if I were not to have it eventually, our relationship would probably end. He was my first boyfriend, and he met me when I was on the verge of suicide, so he was my world at the time. I couldn't imagine us breaking up at all. I remember the last time we had it, he had me ride him anally with no warmup. Now, we were no strangers to sadism/masochism, so he had no idea that my tears and his spankings were actually ca…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 08:44 PM
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r/strongcurves
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 07:46 PM
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excuse you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/18 05:42 AM
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Read the sidebar
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 05:46 AM
1

Okay, but it's come to be accepted that TRP and TBP have different meanings from the Matrix on these subs on Reddit. But I do completely agree with your last paragraph
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 01:37 AM
1

What do you think of a RPW with a BPM?
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 01:15 AM
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Damn it, none. Low key a bit disappointed in myself because I should find them attractive. Idk, maybe it's the age gap that's throwing me off
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 03:47 PM
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I think that people should be able to do whatever the hell they want, and be able to leave for any reason. However, it still doesn't mean it can't be shitty. There's a baseline of projected growth/loss for everyone. If someone deviates from this projection (i.e. a skinny woman gets fat), leaving is completely justified. But if a person is just following natural progression (i.e. a woman simply ages), it's kind of shitty for getting with them in the first place and leaving when you knew what woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/18 08:44 PM
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Good on you.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 06:16 PM
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I read all your comments on this thread, and I would just like to say that you described me perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 12:01 AM
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I'm sorry; I'm a bit lost. What are you trying to say about a monogamous fantasy?
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/18 02:42 AM
1

Aren't most RP men just pumping and dumping?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/18 12:59 AM
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Lol rip dude, there's really not a cure for this
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/18 12:51 AM
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Oh, yeah, I guess... I have more specific tastes than conventional tastes honestly. I also feel zero attraction to people I at least don't know their personality on some level
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 03:46 PM
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Yeah, it kind of drove me to nihilism and then started my suicide plan. If I didn't force a change, I wouldn't be alive rn. I was disgusted by society and myself. I already had natural affinities toward monogamy, loyalty, and honesty, but I kind of didn't care because I was a nihilist lmao. If it's time that you want, then sure, but I literally can never go back to who I was before without wanting to kms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:58 PM
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Yep, like I said, that's completely fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:47 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/18 02:27 AM
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Meh, I just think no one serves anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/18 05:47 AM
1

You sound a bit entitled tbh
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 12:13 AM
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Oh, I definitely wouldn't continue a relationship if marriage was off the table, regardless of who he is. I would want children, and I think marriage is a requirement for a stable household. I'd want to share his last name. But, I'm also not sure if I'm the best person to ask that rn because I'm seriously reconsidering a lot of TRP and starting to go a bit more purple-pilled tbh
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 06:56 PM
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This is where r/RPW and r/TRP collide...
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/18 05:58 PM
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Yeah, I can see that argument. I still don't like the whole idea of living just for my benefit though; it feels too selfish. And again, I'd rather seek truth/knowledge than anything else. Ah, I see. So it's better for a woman to just remain BP than try to convert?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 06:00 AM
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You realize I'm female, right? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:36 AM
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Yeah, tastes definitely vary.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/18 05:18 AM
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What the hell, I didn't even realize the sentiment I felt for that claim was this common.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/18 02:59 AM
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Regardless if I can hedonistically benefit off of it, it doesn't make it any more virtuous or truthful. Could you expound about your last paragraph a bit though? I find it a bit confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:36 PM
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Ah, these were potential mates then? I apologize, I thought you were referring to random classmates more so. Point taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:24 PM
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Of course, but isn't this something that a woman should vet for in the beginning?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:23 PM
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Meh, most people don't change that much fundamentally. Circumstances are often volatile, but I don't think you could possibly know these people well enough to make a valid prediction, no offense to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:19 PM
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Agreed. I also don't like the idea of marrying someone just so you can have children, as I imagine that's one of the reasons why divorce rates are so high. I'd rather get to really know the person for years before devoting my entire life to him. If you can't survive ages 20-25 together, how are 30-90 going to be any better besides convenience? That's not true happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:15 PM
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I'm so glad I found TRP before my 20's. This is just so disheartening.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/18 10:08 PM
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No no, I meant, what would your advice be for someone who is actually fat?
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 04:53 PM
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What if you're actually fat? Lol
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 04:10 PM
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Perhaps I'd have a different man, as I'd trust him not to share the information to do any harm to our ship. But yes, it's quite pertinent information, I could never hold that from my captain. He's the only one that deserves that much honesty.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 03:16 PM
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Why haven't you told him already?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 06:30 AM
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What did he do that made him abusive? (If it's not too personal)
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/18 06:29 AM
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I apologize if my comment came across as hostile. As someone who was/is struggling with a slew of severe mental disorders including depression, BED/bulimia, and BDD, I'm completely empathetic toward you. I should have clarified that in my previous comment, that while I don't think you should have children in your current state, I do not believe it is not impossible to rectify your situation. I'm glad you already see that, and I'm on journey to doing the same as you. I appreciate how you took my …
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/18 10:46 PM
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Why would you want to bring children into the world when you're so mentally ill that you're on disability? It's impossible to be a competent, red pill mother in your situation.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/18 09:28 PM
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+1 *So N>1 at least
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/18 08:37 PM
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I'm of the opinion people can change. And I'm sure most females on r/RedPillWomen would agree with me in that we would not want a partner with a high n-count. Sleeping around is trashy, no matter what gender does it. I think what would be the most ideal would be a guy who has the ability to sleep around if he wants, but chooses not to because of morals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/18 08:05 PM
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If a female were a virgin at that age, would that be a red flag?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 06:58 PM
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I don't. But if I were to: eye contact, smiling, laughing at their jokes, breaking the physical contact barrier, positioning my body toward them, and making them feel masculine would probably be the most important. EDIT: Didn't read the situation, oops. I've never approached a guy and probably never will. I'm attracted to dominance, so if he doesn't make the first move, I probably wouldn't like him anyway. That said, looking available is definitely something I could/would do.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 06:45 PM
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We're talking ideals here If you notice, an n-count from 0-50 are all acceptable to me. Keep in mind, I'm 19, so my mate age range is 20-23.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 06:30 PM
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No, I had oral sex with 6 people in HS; that was my CC. Yeah, I guess I don't have the background experience to say for certain if that's true or not for me. Guess I will experiment with toys when I'm older shrug
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 05:57 PM
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I mean, it's just a dick in a vag. It's hard for me to know that for sure because I've only had penetrative sex with two partners, and the first was characterized with pain, as I only did it with him a couple times to lose my virginity, but it really seems as though anatomy is basically the same everywhere you go, and feelings, desire to try new things, effort, etc, matter way more.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/18 02:02 PM
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I think I've interacted with you before when my alts were active lol But, growing up in Southern California where everyone I knew was liberal, I leaned left for most of my life. This led to me sleeping around in HS and having the "idgaf" mentality. And then, I became atheist, and let me tell you, atheism with no structure will lead you to a very dark path of nihilism. I met Artful Man on Twitter last year (he was friends with Illimitable Man at the time and some other red pillers) by chance beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 08:09 PM
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Well, my background story is that I slept around (only oral) with multiple guys in HS, found the red pill after I turned 18 and have had one LTR. The guys I slept with as a teen obviously didn't care much, as they were only fwb's; our relationships basically consisted of me just blowing them and them sometimes reciprocating, and that's it. My ex, while he cared a bit at the start of our relationship because he had no issues getting his ex to cum, realized the problem wasn't him, and kind of stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 04:28 PM
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I think it's more so to do with the psychology at play. I'm masochistic and submissive, and I prefer pleasing and idolizing my man at my own degradation to the converse. However, I'll also say that I derive little physical pleasure from the actual act of sex, as I can only cum through masturbation, so I'm sure doing something solely for my pleasure feels a little off given the prior information.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:49 PM
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19F I enjoy giving. Like, really really enjoy. But I don't enjoy receiving. Most guys are quite happy with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:26 PM
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Female, 19, red Basically being a submissive doormat, if a female has any semblance of intelligence, is wrong. She's just an extension of her mate rather than her own person at that point. I realize now one can be too selfless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/18 03:19 PM
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My base is literal trash. It's hard to give a fuck with 7 am chem lab. I'm in nun-mode rn, so I'm not trying to impress anyone, but I realize now I should work on that as I approach my 20's this summer.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 07:08 AM
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+1 (side note: jesus, I've been giving out these "+1"'s like candy recently)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/18 09:10 PM
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I'm a point in my life where I'm not distracted by novelty and I'm not interested in the men that hit on me when I'm out I was unaware the opposite was a prior point in females' lives. I believe I have the best prize at home I'm of the opinion that this is false. One, he's not a prize. Two, he's not the best. Three, he's not the best you can get. And four, the best is an impossibility anyway. Conversely, you're not the best for him either. If this is idea is what keeps you committed, you'll even…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 08:00 PM
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Was going to add a comment, but looks like everyone here already agrees.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 04:58 PM
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I actually think that holds true for males more so than females.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 12:12 AM
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The women around here on average Did not specify that. Nonetheless, most models like that have a BMI of 16, not 14.5 like he claimed. I'm just saying his numbers are distorted. I even have him the benefit of the doubt by going with the shortest number he gave with the largest possible weight. Had I shot even in the middle, say 5'11 and 90 lbs, well, a BMI of 12.5 would usually kill you. The girls there are thin, yes, and probably gorgeous like you said (I myself have an affinity towards underwei…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/18 02:31 PM
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5'9+ 80-100 lbs Lol dude, most anorexics don't even have BMI's that low.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:30 PM
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Just wanted to pop in and say that Wellbutrin is the only anti-depressant that doesn't have a correlation with weight gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:27 PM
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Same here (tbh, it'd almost be a bonus for me). I actually agreed with every quoted thing on the OP, and I consider myself pretty RP. Idk, maybe I'm weird. But I am only 19, so maybe the story would be different if I were in my late 20's or beyond.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/18 09:16 PM
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I'm glad this comment got more upvotes than the others. This sub seems to agree.
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/18 07:14 AM
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Yeah, the only times I was attracted to someone other than my ex in that regard where: 1) I stopped seeing him as much, and 2) right before I broke up with him. I don't think we should be thought-police however, so I don't believe those thoughts are necessarily immoral, no matter how guilty I felt about them at the time. However, I do think it should prompt some introspection about the state of your current relationship. Where I definitely think the line would be crossed, however, is genuinely c…
/r/RedPillWomen10/03/18 07:03 AM
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half-nun mode Oh wew, I didn't know that was a thing
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 05:41 PM
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There needs to be a balance, just like anything else. Neither overbearing/independent nor meek/dependent, but somewhere in the middle. You're not his mother nor child; a balance is fair.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 03:43 AM
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They're the same imo. Issues arise when one attempts to be more privileged and either patriarchies or matriarchies develop.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 03:40 AM
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Lol no, that's almost worse.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 10:55 PM
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I'm happy for you, OP.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/18 12:41 AM
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Great :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 08:34 PM
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Mods?
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/18 08:19 PM
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Not sure if I'm a huge fan of Whisper or not on this sub, so I'm just gonna write this here OP, so you get the notif anyway. While what Whisper said is true, I think the converse is also true. Your past would be a detriment if it held you back, but it can become a positive thing if you become a stronger person than had nothing had occurred otherwise. Of course, that involves being proactive about your self-improvement, but it definitely can be done and hope is definitely not lost bc u r woke now…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 04:41 AM
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Agreed ^ OP, look at your scars as reminders from where you've grown and become stronger from. I'm doing the same.
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 07:15 PM
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INTP with an INTJ SO here as well
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 07:08 PM
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Yikes, now I finally understand my boyfriend's reaction when I did almost the same with his singing.
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/17 05:40 AM
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Why don't you start by swallowing your ego?
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 10:39 PM
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Not judging at all, but I'm genuinely curious: what's the point of attending college if you're just going to be a SAHM? Are you never going to apply your degree?
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 10:30 PM
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Agreed. The same technique can be applied for other facets in life as well.
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/17 10:25 PM
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Go to Tacobell.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 05:03 PM
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As this is the only comment that says you should probably end the relationship, I'm going to piggyback off of this and say I agree. I'm sorry, but, especially in your situation (you sound like a good wife), cheating is kind of a deal-breaker. Maybe you're different, but I would never be able to let it go. I mean, externally I might be able to, but I would be tormented by those thoughts nightly, and being trapped in that state for the rest of my life would be hell. Also, a man who does not emphas…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 03:46 AM
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Agreed. This is disgusting.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/17 06:57 PM
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Lol, tf is this? I thought this sub was better than this..
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/17 07:52 PM
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Agreed, especially with the latter part. This chick has already cheated, at least emotionally.
/r/RedPillWomen09/09/17 01:24 AM
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Wow, this is such a quality post. Much impressed. Good job.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/17 09:34 PM
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You really don't understand, do you? I'm not condemning you for the relationship itself as much as I'm condemning you for your hindsight. You labeled the relationship abusive when it in fact was not, thereby placing the blame on him rather than on you. The reason why you're getting such negative responses on a supportive forum is because, on this particular one, there is a fine line between dominance and abuse. Any time someone conflates them, she's met by hostility.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 06:42 PM
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He was a very weak person, and so are you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 03:00 PM
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So...where's the abuse?
/r/RedPillWomen02/09/17 05:40 AM
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EQ guys are not my type..but let's say you took Jordan Peterson's head and placed it in a 500 lb 4'11 70 year old man's body, then no, I'd be repulsed actually. There's a line, and a guy has to be at least average.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 03:03 PM
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I mean, if a guy looks like total shit (0/10), then ew. But 10/10 looks on guys for females are just meh. We're not males; we're not as visually stimulated as you guys. I'd choose a guy with 5/10 looks and 10/10 personality over the opposite any day. *All my scales were slightly hyperbolized [0/10 and 10/10 don't really exist]
/r/TheRedPill01/09/17 06:38 AM
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God, posts like these make TRP sooo fucking cringey. Why the mods don't at least temp ban the betas pretending to be alphas is beyond me. Fuck, I'm a sub female, and I'm less beta than you.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/17 04:46 AM
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I also don't expect women to understand what true friendship is. Lololololol says the beta cuck
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 07:37 PM
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Of course there is. If the friendship wasn't mutually beneficial in some way(s), there would be no friendship. And yes, it's also biological; just read Darwin.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 05:58 PM
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I think we've found our problem.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/17 05:54 PM
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His Google account was restored pretty soon afterward, thankfully.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/17 08:45 PM
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This. Though, I do think there is a slight nuance between feminine and submissive. Nonetheless, the idea of submitting to other men disgusts me, and considering that you're in a position of power, there is zero need or want for that. (Ignore my outdated flare [mobile rn])
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 04:54 PM
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Lol, why are chicks so retarded
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 09:32 PM
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Holy shit, your irrationality is embarrassing all us females who are trying to lurk on this sub.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 04:38 PM
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That wasn't OP's question, idiot.
/r/askTRP17/07/17 03:22 PM
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Goddamn, why are there so many cucks in this sub?
/r/askTRP16/07/17 07:12 PM
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You know there are chicks out there stupid enough to fall for this kind of shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 11:09 PM
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This is why I can't deny TRP.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 08:49 AM
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Oh, how infantile you sound compared to him..
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/16 06:33 AM
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I agree; appealing to the pathos of emotional people can potentially hold great influential power. Logistically, it should not, but the majority of people do not systemically heed the validity of logic.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 10:42 PM
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I feel so girly posting in this forum. What is this femininity?
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/16 06:15 AM
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I have repeated this exact monologue time and time again to all the females I know, especially the penultimate paragraph. Thank you for posting this.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/16 05:39 AM
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no woman will ever love you like you want to be loved As a female who experienced the exact opposite in her relationship, this pisses me off to no end.
/r/ExRedPill
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Of course it does. And though not as drastic, it's the same with males. But remember, females aren't as physically-oriented as males are.
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