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No problem! I'm with you on different flavors of male dominated profession bullshit. Do the engineers try the eager sub act when checked? The swing from egotistical ass to try hard flirt when shown a hard boundary took me by surprise. It gets checked too though 🤢 Why can't they just be normal?? I've never switched mine or my kids doctors so fast as when I started seeing the overt behavior the subtle ones likely hide. A fun fact, at probably every hospital the nurses all have doctor's they'd neve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:36 AM
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They are! One hundred percent habitual line crossers, self centered, power mad rat bastards. Not even kidding all but one at the hospital I volunteer at is a raging sack of shit. The one who isn't? Objectively hot if you're into tall dark and handsome. Polite. Dresses well. Is clean. Acknowledges absolutely everyone by name and will stop and chat with anyone if he's not in a hurry. Extremely highly regarded professionally. Not concluding he's a HVM, he could be an average guy gloriously unburden…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:10 AM
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It's so disgusting what most men will do with prestige, power, or money. Who won't they take advantage of or screw over or ruin entirely? His own wife and kid, wtf? I get why you're suffering through this but I seriously empathize with how hard it must be. Fwiw male Doctors aren't much better. Especially surgeons. As a group they're the perviest bunch of overt narcissists I've ever had the misfortune to be around. You'd think in the middle of a pandemic they might chill on the God complexes a bi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:47 AM
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Use it for the motivation it is and silver lining that ish knowingly! Don't seek him out, block on everything and that's all you can do. I firmly believe we become the things we do and am unapologetically high maintenance. Wasn't born that way, it was a decision to do the best for myself since I'm the only one who 100% will. Whatever your motivation is let your good habits become your routine then become your life imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:19 AM
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I find I mess up on when an interaction has a veneer of "nice" to it, or if it's something I've become habituated to. I rectify it if/when the situation presents itself later, but in the moment I swear sometimes I don't even notice it, it's only after that I kick myself. I'm getting better at squashing fake or testing the waters compliments or commentary from men though so I'm not throwing myself under the bus. I'd say I'm at a good 80% in the moment squash rate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 01:11 AM
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It's really that simple. They're playing stupid and acting like rejection is violence though for one big reason: FDS is actively poaching and rehabbing the pickmeishas they're so eager to violate, drain financially, traumatize, and discard or have a breathplay "accident" with without a single care. Get used to it scrotes. The war isn't on your wallet or your unimpressive peen. It's on limiting your access to women you intend to use, mistreat, or kill in the only meaningful way: getting the word …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:02 PM
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Seriously: fuck this guy. I volunteer in a hospital and get a mild anxiety reaction whenever a code blue or rapid response alert goes out hospital-wide. What the nurses do day in and day out is certainly beyond my ability to do or deal with and if one day they can't anymore, their spouse should be backing them up 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:07 AM
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"scrotemath" 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 10:08 PM
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I totally agree, my thoughts on this were pretty solidified during my formative years based on what my more sexually adventurous friends often said about it. Men literally don't appreciate nice things or getting what they want from women after asking. They're so LoGiCaL 😂 Anyone who thinks it's slim to impossible to find a man ok with this bj arrangement: he's out there. I'm exactly 'like the other girls👸' and married a man who doesn't ask for them but loves it when I'm in a giving mood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:23 PM
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It's such a great rule! I barely post anywhere else anymore and I don't miss it. On my main account where I post about my profession/hobbies I don't respond to scrotes, my block list is so long 🤣 Only the very highest comments of topic interest or information get traction anymore elsewhere on Reddit, and none of those start with a scrote announcing his scroteyness. Lurking scrotes giving themselves permission to get butthurt on behalf of all men are deep in the lvm identity box. Men with anythin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:27 PM
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My thoughts exactly. Men like to push the narrative that women are disgusted by a man's feelings, but nah. We're disgusted by men who only have feelings when they get caught being massive waste of oxygen fuckups. It's not our fault so many men are in this category, but blaming women is easier than not being a horrible human being. This guy for example breezed right past feeling anything during the birth of his son to sext camgirls and now thinks he can sell having a soul through performative blu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:52 PM
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Totally reads like a pathetic scrote, that stupid neg brings home the pencil dick energy. I love how basement dwelling losers give themselves the right to declare "male sexuality" in ridiculous blanket statements. No angry reddit man #98888887665432, unless YOU'VE been in relationships and having sex with MEN as a woman, take several fucking seats. Angry no prospect having pencil dicks who couldn't attract a woman love porn. Self aware lazy fucks love porn. Weirdos, nutjobs, terminally selfish s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:42 PM
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Let me just say that you should stop thinking about him. About why, who,where, when,what. It's not doing anything for you except for keeping you in a miserable mindset, he's taking up space in your mind that he shouldn't be. Block, delete. Erase and purge him from your life, any single reminder of him should be gone. If you want the brutal truth, the answer is because he could and because he wanted to. He liked hurting you, he like debasing you and using you. He was an abuser and you were his vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 09:59 PM
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I don't doubt that its an interesting topic, it just always ends up in a study linking war because there's just as many that say it's involuntary bladder emptying. I just want to know the troof!! screams at the sky I'm kidding, it's not that serious I just am cursed to be around true believers. Like "if you don't squirt is it even secks??!" types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 03:28 AM
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Oh Cosmo. I really want to give them good girl points for owning this but literally everything else they say about sex is garbage. 'Everything is perfect and wonderful as long as you're having tons of sex with any broke shlubby scrote that pants in your general direction, remember your plan b teehee!' All is forgiven if they can explain squirting though. I just don't believe there's a hidden fuckgland capable of unleashing a tidalwave of liquid sex magic that isn't called a bladder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 02:47 AM
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Op you just made my day 🤣😍 It's perfect, you did an amazing job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:20 PM
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Omg it's me! I'm unashamed to admit I bought this at Costco, and that my love of blankets as Netflixwear is known enough that I've been gifted a unicorn onesie. I need a penguin one now 🤣 http://imgur.com/a/vDczg2U
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:18 PM
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LOL A nest tree in the audacity field, living the nvm dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:59 AM
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LOL 🥂 I can't with mgtow trash that get lost on their way to the dumpster! He must be broke paying security to guard his audacity storage while he begs tendies off dates 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:12 AM
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🤣🤣🤣 Does he live on the ground outside above his surplus audacity storage tanks??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:54 AM
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Yeah she's fabulous and seems truly happy with her life. She's also done a ton to bring ballet to her hometown/state and make it accessible to kids. Professionally, personally, she's killing it. Part of me thinks millipede thought Portman would shrink behind his ego and retire to drop his litter. He'd have to be an idiot to think that though. Portman is not a damsel starlet. Maybe he wanted someone to ReSpEcT hIs KiNk of being career cucked? It's a puzzler. But I bet it involves ball stomping. B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:34 AM
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I don't understand how Millipede pulled that off. It breaks my brain that he somehow had a chance with Boylston or Portman, let alone both! I only know superficial stuff about Portman but am a fan, Boylston though is gorgeous inside and out. He was lucky to breathe her air. I think he took her for granted because their professions are so entwined, which isn't to excuse him at all just to say that if a man can, he will take a woman for granted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:15 AM
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I think it's a lot of work to get sex from someone whose real self I already know and am already into. I also wouldn't pretend to be someone else to satisfy a man's need for quantity over quality, a guy doing that seems like someone who couldn't pull off attracting attractive women and I'm not helping the unfortunate. Sex with extra weird public steps is a no from me. Edit: autocorrect pwnt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:39 PM
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I've been going insane with cabin fever for the last month or so, everyone working and doing school from home should be crazier but the routine is like clockwork now. I looked up local volunteering opportunities but Covid has everything halted. Then a friend in hospital admin told me her hospital has turned the volunteer program into paid positions and...long story short I just signed on for the early morning "volunteer" shift 2-3 times a week! I have to get a ton of vaccinations so it's not a q…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 05:48 PM
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This numale gaming-as-a-lifestyle, chase me like the hottest IG "thot", coffee and fields are dates evolution is so incredibly revolting. I remember having my first child and my Dad being an enthusiastic source of skill with babies. Now we exalt lazy pieces of man-shit for innovative ways to do the bare minimum dangerously. I honestly think these men see right now as a pinnacle of achievement. A golden age for dick encumbered. Pickmeishas, gaming consoles, porn, sexual predator fraudsters can be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 11:03 PM
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Daaaaaaamn Megan went hard on the Covid horndogs...and their beards 🤣👏🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 11:52 PM
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My husband's dad never bothered to learn any Korean either! They divorced many years ago thankfully for her, and she upgraded to a man who actually cares about her culture, history, and wellbeing very quickly 💅 I swear not bothering to learn even common words is probably the #1 way to filter out fetishizing assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:29 PM
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Imaginary is the key word here! I'm 100% sure I recognize this karma farmers post style. This is a fat slob with an LDR he's massively insecure about. She magically became a fiancee when someone laughed at him for his rl posting not matching his patented mra+ niceguy persona karma farm efforts. Irl this guy is sitting in some Eurodump flophouse eating his way through his feelings while posting ThIs CoUlD Be YoU pr0n for angsty incels. Edit: yup, it's him. PPD needs to give him the very goodest b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:40 PM
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Holla!! Totally agree, it's what you do, how can you not? My husband grew up like our kids with English and Korean, but English is his mom and extended family's second language so it's usually a mix of both when spending time with them. His mom, sisters, and aunts taught me all the 'bad words' in Korean when we were making kimchi one day (THAT was an experience. Seriously epic!) and I had fun dropping filthy words at random for awhile. He was fake scandalized his mom would do such a thing lol. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:00 AM
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I wondered the same thing. Our two are much better at speaking Korean than me at almost six and nine. They love to tease me when I don't understand something despite me not being totally clueless. Our son thinks I'm practically handicapped when we go to the Korean market or the Korean owned donut shop in town because he gets candy and treats for his efforts to converse only in Korean lol. I'm leaning towards them not having kids because he wouldn't have escaped their notice and shaming!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 05:11 PM
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Thirty years?? He's got to be trying to be that awful, especially if her native language is her first. He's relying on the "language barrier" to do stupid and mean shit and get away with it. I've been married for ten years to someone who grew up bilingual with a white and Korean parent. I've still picked up on a ton of Korean. Not fluent, but I always know the gist of a conversation. This guy is a low effort slug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:16 PM
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That's exactly what they're doing, and they're counting on you to let it continue because of the family bond. It's just another way to hold someone emotionally hostage. Give him nothing I say, if that's what a sibling means to him he doesn't deserve the connection. I'm sorry my brother criticizes me too, but only because I'm cringing for him lmao! I was a professional ballerina for 10 years and have been nitpicked over looks by actual tastemakers with an aesthetic goal in mind. That he thinks hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:18 PM
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I'm sorry you have an ass of an older brother! Toxic is toxic whether they're family or not, so I'm all for blocking or going no contact if that's what you need to do. If destroying your self esteem or potential happiness is the nature of his relationship with you then by all means cut him off! He's not only wrong, he's petty and mean and doesn't know how to act. Probably jealous that what you want is totally attainable tbh! Fwiw I have a brother that's 6 years older than me whose a jackass. He …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:57 PM
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I use a different account for all things not FDS. I don't post in FDS to talk to scrotes and would like to avoid them everywhere. I definitely don't want to give account creeping scrotes an opening to swoop in somewhere they're allowed to speak with their ShOcKiNg DiScOvErY that people post in varied subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:27 PM
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Omg this was me just an hour ago walking through my daughter's school to grab something. The security guard yelled at me from 50 feet away because he couldn't see my visitor pass. I'm not proud of it but he definitely got this look while I waved it around obnoxiously 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 07:55 PM
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I'd be out so fast if he decided abusing me to get his rocks off was "fun!" He'd never (and has never) come at me like a pornsick sexperiment in pain thankfully. Come to think of it, I'm guessing men obsessed with pain and humiliating women are the ones mystified by the clitoris. Their "kink" is just shame camouflage, because men who can get the job done are lil too busy for ScEnE bullshit. I might be wrong, but I'm happy to never test the theory lol. MiSaNdRy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:12 AM
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Absolutely! Also what he's not mentioning is that 99.99999% of PPD men view "sexually liberated" women as damaged goods that come with red flags and exist just to be further damaged by horny sociopath scrotes. That he had the audacity to type this combination of words there like it's in any way in a woman's best interest to be a fuckdoll is truly hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:27 PM
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Lmao okay. If my husband decides he can't live without anal, ripping my hair out, throat fucking me, threesomes, or beating me to get his sick rocks off he's free to leave. I'll happily move on without bemoaning a blown out asshole, patchy scalp, overactive gag reflex, scars, bruising, humiliating clown threesome memories, or cringing at the very idea of sex ever again. What a goddamn tragedy for me! I mean wow I really must want to hurt myself by NOT letting men abuse and degrade me. This scrot…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:02 PM
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I don't have the mac and cheese cred you do, but it's a venerated food group for me! This picture gave me 'I don't have custody of my kids for a few days and lots of their snack foods laying around' vibes🤣 It's so basic yet cutesy it screams chain restaurant kid menu!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:24 AM
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She's been fantastic, I really like how she's handled Trump's lapdog while answering on behalf of her own campaign. Efficient, polite, fearless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:05 AM
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Totally, I just saw the link to that bronze/leather/plastic thing and thought it's still stupid expensive at $99 for something that might get slung on my vanity to smile at before eventually tossing it into the nether. I think you're right about him not buying her gifts because he's so God-awful at balancing cost, sentiment, and quality. Pretty cringe that he's butthurt at her for playing at grown man equipped and acting like a lovestruck 8th grader.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:45 AM
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This thing in my guts is called a 'uterus' not a 'easy bake oven' my guy. I'll judge the shit out of not only looks, but the contents of a medicine cabinet, and nonsensical dark triad actions. Your DNA as a man is absolutely auditioning for the rights to carry on after your lifetime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:53 PM
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Truth! I scar really easily so I'd be all over it if it comes down to it. Men though? Nah just spray it with windex and call it adolescent war wounds 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:46 PM
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This guy would probably need some laser resurfacing. Idk if it would get rid of it all but it would likely improve a ton!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:38 PM
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🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️ Dear God, this is some silly shit you do when you notice a memorable or cute thing at the store or online shopping for something else. Cheap sentimental stuff is just a thought that counts thing done for a smile, it doesn't replace anything of significance! Random related coincidence: my husband just gave me a necklace, but the envelope beneath it was a receipt for a Noemie graduate ring for our niece to be delivered in May. She's bummed about her Covid trashed senior year, in FAFSA…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:39 PM
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I love that the kind of guy who worries about this thinks his snaggly dirty nails and cheese dick are a-ok! There's no scented smegma and crust palette for even the fakest "faker," but do go on dear incels 🙄 I have no idea what they get out of pretending normal men haven't mastered object permanence. Imagine shrieking and wondering where the IG-ready lady disappeared to just because someone washed her face 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:18 PM
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Seriously lol! All the upvotes he got for demanding to be allowed to gawk at female genitalia are incredibly gross. It's not the patient's responsibility to personally educate his oh-so-special self! Just wait until he's a big boy doctor and finds out people can and WILL write him off for any reason they see fit when choosing a doctor. He's in for a really bad time 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:58 PM
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Does he go to The Walking Dead or Skynet Survivors med school? In the event of the zombie apocalypse or nuclear war survivors sure, a woman would have to take what she could get regarding medical care. In the real world though? Is he aware there are whole Dr review websites? Google reviews? Patient reviews on insurance websites? Like how deep does his resentment of informed patients making the best choices for themselves go? Look at him though being brazenly sick about not giving women a choice …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:25 PM
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My thoughts exactly, this asshole is really aiming high to disguise his true intentions. He's so full of himself he thinks he can hide behind it to declare his actual goals! Meanwhile men refuse to believe women are rightfully concerned about sick fucks everywhere in society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 06:02 PM
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No problem, I've made every mistake in the book to serve as a warning to others 🤣 One other thing I didn't mention is that pea size amount is a pain to spread, but a very thin layer is all you need. Best way so far has been to squish it on my index and middle fingers of both hands, then lightly dot it all over my face and neck, then go nuts rubbing it all in to get it evenly spread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:00 PM
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I love it, I put it all the way down my neck. I've been using it since I was 28 and am 33 now, so far no lines or elasticity loss. I know where I'll eventually have them from my facial expressions, but none have set in permanently yet. I had oily skin and Retin-A has really helped with skin cell turnover and finding a normal that isn't Sahara or oil slick. There was definitely a few months of peeling but it was worth it! Also make sure to build your tolerance, I went full steam ahead with daily …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:19 PM
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Most of my expenses are months apart or yearly because how long the products last. I have a long post but with Covid what else is there to do but really get into skin/hair/nails when you have free time? A lot of this I do with my mom, kids, nieces since we're basically in a family Covid social bubble. I use mostly Avène skincare for face and body after trying samples at the dermatologist. They're roughly 40 bucks a pop but big sizes, and a little truly goes a very long way. The Xeracalm cleansin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 07:00 PM
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In the beginning of the documentary she says she went through an awful marriage and bought her house at 25, pre Watts. That's what I was referring to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:20 AM
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I just watched it last night, and his passive attitude + suddenly getting in shape screams why we shouldn't give socially awkward uggos a chance. They think they not only can, but deserve to upgrade once given a script to blend in by a woman willing to deal with them. In this guy's case he thought it so much he rationalized killing to do so. For her part in how she treated Chris, I speculate after her first abusive marriage Shanann thought vetting for a guy who passive enough to be bossed around…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:24 AM
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Hahahaha I feel that way about so many sayings here. We need a compilation thread to gather them all up for those of us who are crafty 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 11:24 PM
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I still have no idea why he tried me like that, never asked! All I knew was this is a guy who does laundry, wipes counters, irons, puts his stuff away etc. It was like a dare to follow through on the threat and I'm good for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 09:11 PM
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The nerve to expect you to bank on his presumed effort, for a future that isn't guaranteed, to let him skate in the present! You did right by blocking. 🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:22 PM
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Once upon a time as a gf my otherwise perfect bf left dishes in my sink, unrinsed. I asked him to stop. He did not. I told him he'd be buying me new ones if it happened again. Came home from work one day to a sink full of crusty dishes. I threw them in a trash bag and walked them out to my apartment dumpster, got his wallet, and bought myself some Lenox dishware online while he watched. He wisely shut up about it and magically knew how to care for these dishes, we still have them as a married co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:24 PM
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I'll even go halfsies with him for it and use the discounted rate to pay for his (hopefully EX) gf's much needed extra long massage and pedi.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:14 AM
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He spends money he doesn't have on women who wouldn't fuck him with an incels dick in person...but has to ask if he's an asshole for yelling at his actual gf over his need to keep paying while in debt already for the pleasure of humiliating himself?? My vet has a neuter special this month for large breed dogs, WIBTA if I offer this guy the contact info totally unironically? He really does seem to be plagued by his boner and need to spray all over the place totally inappropriately 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 04:04 AM
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I totally agree! Every person I know defending "choice" is a pampered first world faux intellectual whose life experience doesn't include slavery or desperation. They literally can't conceive of any sex workers that aren't UMC barely legal women turning themselves out for fun. It's not a radical act of empathy to acknowledge reality, but performing wokeness, rationalizing their own choices, or validation from strangers means more since they can do all of the above under a feminist label. And r/F…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:12 PM
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They're such ReSpEcTfuL horny goodboyes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:46 PM
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What the fuck r/Feminism ?? At it's very core feminism is about women's experiences being heard, there's no controversy about that. We know how disgusting the world can be to us, and how eager it is to sweep concerns about our reality under the rug. Way to be champions of the patriarchy dipshits. Damn the man, fight the power (by being okay with child sex work. Also plz send our male mods empowering nudes) Hope the op isn't hurt by the lack of reception and discussion in the place that fakes bei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:51 PM
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2020 has been the weirdest, but I'm not mad. Work was crazy at first but once we found a doable rhythm good things happened. I found a safe well-lit place to take my kids fishing at night because lol@sun damage. I learned I actually do like fishing minus roasting. Dad can keep the day shift for that particular activity! It was the only thing both kids liked to do with everything closed so I have a freezer full of trout. Turns out the best bait for them this year was indeed canned corn like a fri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 06:31 AM
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Then you throw them out, you already know how! I didn't see the massive age difference at first but no. That's not a viable compromise, that's selling yourself way short still. Don't give old pervs access to you, their generosity is just an up front investment to act out their entitled porniness on you in their heads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:13 AM
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It's bad enough they do this, but why do they add that cringe blush emoji? It's so bizarrely juvenile to assume we're under the shared delusion that sending unsolicited near nudes is the act of the very shyestboi around. Anyway. This one is a dumpster tragedy. At that age he looks great but should know better and do better. The gym will never be a substitute for decency and an actual personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:32 PM
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I can't stand the pregnancy/fertility fetish. It creeps me out on the deepest of heebie-jeebies levels. It's bad enough that it's core it's some bizarre child centered thing, but add the whole beauty standards and weight thing in and 🤢 I remember my first pregnancy having really bad morning sickness when my Korean mother in law was over. Just this awful puke, eat, repeat cycle. She went to the store and came back with a whole farm I kid you not. Spent hours cooking and checking on me and trying …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 07:04 PM
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He was unemployed when she got her latest degree, she moved with the kids to do that and work while paying for the house he probably wanked all over. This is going to end well for her though. In the guise of her helping his dreams come true she made the contacts that got him his current job. All part of her escape plan, so I have to shut up now so he can be bLiNdSiDeD and take getting his MGTOW papers like a man 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:15 PM
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This also makes me soul catch on fire. I will vehemently defend any woman from any man making fun of her body. I will shame and degrade any and all men with words that bite and bleed - I have caused parties to shriek to an icy halt, I have made men leave their own damn houses, I have publicly cut men down to absolutely nothing in front of all their friends and family because they tried it. You're my hero! I can totally picture this and I love it ♥️ A part of me thought my friend would be mad, sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:08 PM
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Oof this topic is the only one that made me so mad in person I had to be held back. The husband of one of my best friends thought he was funny making jokes about how "fat" she was before lipo because of kids. She and I were in the kitchen and he was going off loudly in the next room and I snapped. This is a chubby pos with man tits and a receding hairline, whose wife is more educated and makes twice as much as him. Her lipo was a vanity moment that was barely a ding in her check or the scale, an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:08 AM
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I hear you. My people are the artsy type who are all over the place on the topic 🙄 Some are libfem koolaid drinkers, some are full on "my body is my temple" types. We argue a lot on this issue, and I don't see libfems ever giving ground (currently) because it would mean admitting to being played. They care less about the sex than they do about losing the empowerment label in my experience. We need a really big record scratch holy-shit-wtf unassailable massive study moment to rip off the empowerm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:40 AM
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This makes me rage. Little boys putting their little dicks ahead of human beings while the self anointed "woke" cheer is revolting. Liberal feminism joining hands with pornsick trash is the head fake of the century. We're only just now beginning to see long term porn study results. It's going to get so much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:29 AM
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Lol I can't even with this. Why. WHY. I don't even hate the vidyas, but unless it's literally his job competitively it gets zero sanctity. She's over here like "He's close by I can holler at him if I need him!" Ummmm is he playing in a sensory deprivation tank? Is he pretending to not be aware of the general flow and necessities of the day and slinking off to shirk everything on her for hours? Or just declaring he's opting out of life for hours and telling her to be glad he's not gambling?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:40 PM
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Totally. That and they want us cheering on pro-hoe "male feminists" to encourage the fake wokeness and "empowerment" of said abuse and kink. Why do they think we don't know they just want to see ass and titties? So covert, wow 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:28 PM
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So glad you blocked! Bothering women for what is already plentiful (because men have ensured free porn is basically a human right 🙄) is just a tired power trip. If he "needs" nudes, he wants the ability to screw with your life even if he doesn't plan on following through because he's a sick power tripping fuck. It's not validating to be someone's wank hostage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:24 PM
67

"She was, quite literally, from a FIELD in the middle of nowhere." Nothing good comes from random fields men 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:30 AM
10

A 5'10 time Nazi?? Sign me uppp DaDdY 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:53 PM
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Ewww she's texting you about playing pretty pretty Princess to commit to your trash? I don't even get clown Pickmeisha from that, I immediately picture a nutjob in a wedding dress gloating from inside a dumpster full of hot garbage and rat piss. What a hilarious self own. May they last forever and ever 🤣 Enjoy your ice cream and car detailing! These ridiculous trash people are beneath you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:17 PM
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So. Many. Men. want to be lusted after, pursued, and wooed like women are. Then they angrily declare that women aren't really for getting rid gender norms because they want all of the perks with none of the downsides of being a straight woman. Socially awkward anxiety ridden men putting forth zero effort really think insta hotties should be breaking down their doors 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:33 AM
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It's great you recognize it early enough to change it! So much of their lives is dictated by social media and pop culture, and the theme that's dominant is still the edgelord one. It's so cynical and gross, but it's also so well hidden as "jokes" that's it's not necessarily a character flaw on their part for falling for it. I have teenage nieces and nephews so I feel you on stopping it, examining 'cool' stuff with a marketing lense was very helpful. I'll be there with my own kids soon enough!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:31 AM
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You know, I never thought of it like that but: holy shit you're right. The idea that women "boss men around" on stuff like weddings and home renovation never made sense to me. They're just passive lvm's. It's not the passivity that makes them lvm, because I do think some men defer to their gf's or wives wisely out of cluelessness. It's the intent to use that inaction as a weapon later. Or hoping something doesn't work out so they can loudly proclaim they would've done it differently and strut de…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:11 PM
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Agreed on all counts. I don't do weird kinks, floppy dicks, 3 hour blowjobs, or "that's okay, let's cuddle" if I don't have an orgasm. Sex for me is a contact sport as much as a bonding mechanism. He better not have a broke pornsick dick or a shitty selfish attitude or it's going to be a really bad time. However, if he's a master of the lost art of fingering, has a dick with working sexual stimuli responses, and can read nonverbal cues? Yes plz. Wait, sure absolutely. But getting hitched to some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:22 PM
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It sounds more fun than it is! Mostly it's them torturing your words into a completely different meaning (because this level of NVM scrote has zero empathy or common sense) and then lots of 'bitch' thrown in. My favorite thing about it though is that THEY put themselves in the NVM box by messaging their zero reading comprehension nonsense. We mock specific examples or NVM as a group, but these DM scrotes never once think "I as a hvm don't do/approve of these things, and having a dick in common w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:00 PM
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Anybody else confused about conservatives who think like this being terrified of TyRaNnY? Their pet hobby is working against a government that's representative of all people. Stuff like this, making women's votes disappear or copies of men who think like them. Like forcing a vote on a new Justice through. Are they dumb? Or just hoping we are? Rhetorical question of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:25 PM
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Incel Jesus knows the only way to relationship salvation is through Him. He died on the Cross of unsplit checks so that ye may know the truth of happiness being in fluffy damsel bois who art broke!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:37 PM
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Omg yes. It is known on PPD that his 'fat ex incel reformed by the love of a good woman' is a front, but he's an incel hero since faking perfect waifu-gf so he won't stop. She likes cuddles and splitting checks and chasing him like he's the girl in the relationship of course 🙄 His problem is he thinks nobody there remembers him posting anxiously about his angel-gf requiring special time getting coffee and clubbing with her ex while not caring about his jealousy. So. Many. Threads. Pepperidge Far…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:04 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 He's a little kid that karma farms PPD all the time with threads about how women "should" ask men out. He's obsessed with FDS since it came out and is probably singlehandedly the reason PPD had to make a FDS megathread. He literally couldn't stop himself from rapid fire FDS thread posting there. Considers himself some kind of relationship sage, which is loltastic. He's admittedly only ever had one (LDR) gf and is a very young chubby reformed(?) incel. After getting called out for his weird …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:44 PM
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Okay I just sent the links in chat since Reddit got mad at me for them in a reply. hopefully you got them 🤞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 03:59 AM
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The ego thing can't be stressed enough! The men I've known who pull the victim card over common courtesy for others are always the biggest swaggering assholes. They truly believe not being allowed to steamroll everyone is violence directed at them. Believe them when they make it clear!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:42 AM
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Good on you OP! Nobody has time for that kind of mean spirited negativity. What a weird way for them to show off to one another. Shared disgust over imaginary bs...inspiring. I have kids, but I'm good with people who don't. I get it, it makes total sense. I'm in love with every story about best friends giving society the finger and going lady commune! It's my retirement plan with my bestie if my husband takes a lvm nosedive or I outlive him as a matter of fact. There's tons of stuff we all still…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:34 AM
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Run! I've told this story before, but a guy I was dating I'd known since childhood once flipped out and lectured me on male victim abuse. My crime: I grabbed his arm for half a second when I almost slipped in the rain. Thin skinned jerkoffs aren't actually sensitive, they're nutty gaslighting control freaks out to make you question your sanity. Of course it's okay and not mistreatment for you to finish your sentences, it won't bother him from the dumpster where he belongs <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:07 AM
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No worries at all! I was more mad at them personally than at feminism or anything else. When it happened me and my husband knew that their swinging was bullshit, because we'd never heard of it before from them and got to know them really well. It was a faux liberal shield to hide a boundary obliterating kink. I get mad at libfem for a lot but this one is squarely on the couple in question!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:41 AM
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Dear Lordt it's another "mai feminism of the gender pronoun genitalia terfing of swerfs yay men intersectional pro hoes wymyn bad!" Feminism-as-fishing-for-dick word salad. Hope she gets picked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 10:18 PM
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My heart is gonna explode 💓 His Insta is wonderful too, what a gem he is! https://instagram.com/blacknoah1?igshid=1cyvn10flwkjz
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:38 AM
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I completely agree. Between that and horror stories of one night stands from friends it was a hard no from me. Caught a lot of shit for it too from the very same friends which sucked. Men I expected from and didn't care about though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:28 AM
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I really hope guy #2 went to the cops and helped guy #3 in some meaningful way. He's friends with a sick piece of shit. I can't imagine having that conversation like it's nbd and doing nothing with the info he has!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:15 AM
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I've read about this being common in politically unstable places and war zones. It's one of their favorite psychological dominance torture mechanisms. A lot of countries America has allied with in recent history are all about it, and it caused some turmoil between countries. It's disgusting. Human rights groups have a helluva time helping these victims because it turns out funding for the monolithic perpetrator gender is very hard to come by. I've never heard of anything as casual as this though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:11 AM
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I mistakenly thought it was just an entitled asshat thing, this thread has been a big eye opener for me culturally! Now I see how pervasive and suffocating it is and I'm furious for women who can't escape. Your ex is a real piece of work! To have such a narrow minded and self centered attitude...there's just no excuse for it in someone well traveled and savvy enough to present himself as together. They have to know it's small and petty, how do they not care? Such a trap, I'm so glad you ditched …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:44 AM
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He was so casual about it too, like of course I would fall all over myself to get a piece of him after hearing a fetish checklist. I went from cringe, to bad joke maybe, to pissed so fast. What you wrote brought him immediately to mind as the kind of bullet you dodged because I'm 100% sure he's the will of their kink even if she's the brains. His wife though ugghhh. Killed me. You're right about that no-no and what makes it worse is that her PhD's are in psychology and sociology. Even outside of…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:14 AM
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Wtf is up with men and pregnancy fetishes?? I've been pregnant twice and both times all I wanted to do to anyone who touched me was bite their hands off for a snack after slapping them up with it. Seriously don't get why they want to play with their lives, some of us are crazy hopped up on hormones. I just got done telling the story of one in another thread so it's on the brain tonight. Blech!! Block and delete this creature for sure. Let's all hope he shoots blanks. Ideally into his greasy hot …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:01 AM
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Then I met an India-born man here in the US who seemed like a HVM unicorn. Well-educated, dream job, bespoke suits, amazing and generous in bed, owns his own condo that looks great and is very clean. Seems great right? Nope. The entitlement that Indian culture breeds in their men is horrible and never goes away. You dodged a BULLET! Do we know the same man, because I might be telling you your future if you'd stayed with him. This is the weirdest, grossest story ever, we can cringe together. My h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:33 AM
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Reading this made me want to sew my vagina shut and take a vow of celibacy for this woman after such a spectacular fail. Just gotta relax the full body cringe enough to reach it! I have to believe this isn't real 🤦‍♀️🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:52 PM
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Thanks! All the clownass lvm's before definitely had me wondering if he was just pulling a fuckboy with extra steps lol. Nice for what? was my whole mood at the time. He's been an asset professionally and domestically for years now on top of being rock solid dependable and great person in general so it's worth it! I'm a big believer in sending the clowns back to the circus now. There's no saving or training them. It's not us, it's them. They'll happily waste our lives and rob us of happiness if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:23 PM
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He's probably mastered the art of faking a nut adjustment on the incline bench while getting sWoLe with the bros. He's definitely mastered loudly announcing he's "not gay lol!" much too loudly and taking his marble balls home to shower rather than using the locker room ones. Which doesn't help the body acne! It's a vicious cycle 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:55 PM
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If you want a man who will be of service to you then I'm not sure why you have a problem with men being of service to you? My first eye opening experience with this was teaching a ballet class for kids in foster care at a children's foundation. A guy volunteering there had moved recently and donated his piano. He did it through the foundation, but I said thanks anyway because I knew people who could play it for the class and it was a unexpected but very welcome. Sometimes he played for them even…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:01 PM
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He's got the spirit, what a devoted fan 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:07 PM
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Imagine being covered in steroid acne and noticing your balls shrinking to marbles and thinking: time to DM idiocy to women on Reddit! They can't even roid rage right. Go pick a fight with one of the multitudes of men who disrespect you irl, guy. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:56 PM
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That's very sweet, what a great friend 🤗 Men like this are missing out, it feels good to celebrate people's effort, talents and thoughtfulness. More evidence we need to just make all women living compounds imo. I'm not as good of a cook as pictured but I can definitely garden for the women who are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:39 PM
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I'm glad to see it said explicitly. Saw a post this morning where the downvoting was out of control and was like ??? but I was working, so couldn't tag myself in. Taking something offered freely doesn't diminish you in any way. Who cares about "but what if he thinks x" or the "implications?" Who. Fucking. Cares. Of course you could do it yourself. Of course you could pay full price. Accepting doesn't change reality and make you helpless or poor. Declining doesn't add time to your life or money i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:33 PM
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Her food looks amazing, I would gush over it and her if we were merely friends, and this is her "man." I can't imagine setting it down in a clear spot on his desk and slinking away like a servant. Depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:07 PM
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Yes! It doesn't have a name since the Rx was just a mix of a tiny bit of hydroquinone and some tretinoin sent to the compound pharmacy to mix, but I can tell you what I was wanting to fix by getting it. I was getting hyperpigmentation spots despite using sunscreen, and some random ingrown hairs from hell on my legs. My leg hair is stupid fine too, so trying to dig them out just tore up my skin. The hydroquinone got rid of hyperpigmentation, and the tretinoin was because I wasn't getting rid of d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:46 PM
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I'm sorry you had to wade eye deep through the depravity, but I love your posts! Let it never be said you didn't put in the work to declare what should be common sense absolutely true. I enjoyed the worshipfulness search! Exclusivity is great and all, but if I'm not getting serious adoration vibes he can keep the D. I'll swear an oath on that, even after marriage. I want to hear it said to my face, read it in texts, feel it when he walks into the room, and I'm getting mine first or I'd rather ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:33 AM
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I don't think they're stupid, never let them use that as an excuse because they'll hide behind it! At best it's a distinct lack of empathy that frees them from pesky moral dilemmas, allowing them to indulge like sociopaths. They know what they're doing and set it up in ways that give them a mental pass to not give a shit. Sex workers, one night stands, and (this one kills me) children/anyone viewed as 'weak' have probably seen the very worst depravity. Avoiding casual sex is very much an act of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 08:12 AM
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Yup 🤣 Skincare is reliable and never lets us down, there is no walking date that will ever compare! My dermatologist sent a Rx to compound pharmacy, they can make a tretinoin mix for body usage. It's like lotion I love it and use it a few times a week. It got rid of scars I had since I was nine. My skin looks ridiculous even and feels even better. It's worth all the sun dodging and then some!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:46 AM
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I like museums and aquariums as date ideas. They still involve effort, especially if there's a special exhibit or something going on he's aware of and specifically wants to go to with you. They're public and give you plenty to talk about in the moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 05:47 AM
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If they could feel shame they wouldn't have time for anything else!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:13 AM
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PREACH! We have uv protection in our very hair and they think we're going to do the Susan G Komen 5k for Sad PP's?? I think the fuck not. She typed, while in her backyard at night surrounded by white flowers and fairy lights because the sun isn't a motherfucking game
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:19 AM
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Him: MUH PEENUS!! ME: MUH RETIN-A hiss 🧛‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:56 AM
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💯 That's why men labelling women gold diggers over a cup of coffee is so necessary for them. It's not all about their financial brokeness as it is hiding a general brokeness. If they're young so be it. Be a man and level up instead of sniveling about women not going halfsies on cappuccinos. Lord knows women can find their own financial success. What drives them truly nuts is men of means having a higher chance of showing a myriad of positive traits that helped enable their success. Foolproof? No…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:16 AM
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I've often wondered the same! How do they function in modern society with their views on effort as it relates to achievement being so warped? Are they furious at their bosses for requiring effort to earn a promotion too, or just women whose panties don't drop at a finger snap? How frustrating their lives must be on so many levels!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 11:57 PM
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Christ. I can't get over how she chose the tub to make it intentionally harder instead of going directly to the washing machine. Suffering doesn't get 'em cleaner sis. But really I can't get over how she didn't just throw the whole health hazard man out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:15 PM
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My mom used to say that to me growing up, and I definitely needed to hear it. I was very stereotypically into Disney princesses as a small child and spent a bajillion hours a week at ballet from about 12 on and it made me a starry eyed believer in truuuuue looooove. Yiiiiiiiiiikes. Guys probably think that advice "ruins" women on men, but men do that just fine on their own!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 09:20 PM
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Indeed. People can get really granular and break relationships down to find the personality flaws that lead or contribute to a bad outcome, but it's kinda like sifting through trash. Definitely not what men hiding behind personality as a low effort defense are interested in. Just fooling women so they can be used for as long as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:16 PM
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My husband and I took the big corporate version of this test years ago, took forever but was pretty interesting. I'm INFJ, he's ESTJ and apparently we're supposed to not get along at all lmao. I'm not sure about the rest like turbulent or assertive anymore. I know people vary in their belief of personality typing, but I found it to be pretty illuminating. INFJ gets a lot of "good girl, artsy, intuitive" attributes to it, but there's a definite downside. Tunnel visioning on things/people, being a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:11 PM
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Same on all counts lol. I'm scared of potentially giving my kids anxiety issues in an effort to get them to look critically at the things being said everywhere. It's definitely an acceptable risk to take if it means sparing them normalizing abuse and sending them into the world. Gonna have to model the crap out of healthy behaviors and give them plenty of positive online options to contrast the super kewlness of baby Pickmeishas and teenybopper porn addicts treating gf's like objects for the wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 05:05 PM
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The "only woman worth simping for is your wife" thing KILLS me! These are the same men pissy and screeching about women taking responsibility for their choice in men. Riddle me this, Manosphere Mike: why in the fuck would any sane woman have sex with a man who boards the struggle bus for coffee? Because if he marries her she'll get to upgrade to him pulling out a wadded up coupon for Taco Tuesdays at Pedro's and not split the bill? OoooOooOOhhh sign me the fuck uppp!! EDIT: Mmmmkay, I have dm's …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:32 PM
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Imagine going for coffee with some stingy dope hoping for a crumb of pussy for the low low price of house brew 🤣 Or even worse paying for your own coffee while he fluffs himself to the sounds of folk music in the bathroom because he's sure you're duped and it's too early to admit the required porn to get it half up? He AiNt No SiMp!!1! Enjoy, pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 04:11 PM
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Disgusting stuff and keeps me up at night due to having young daughters. You and me both! Last night I was on IG and I swear it was all tiktoks meant to be "funny" about guys physically stopping their gf's from showing their asses off. First: girl, why? Second: it looks like depravity/abuse training for both of them in the form of jokes. The stuff young women are forced to normalize never ends, because if they don't laugh along like everyone else the entire world will jump down their throats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 03:27 PM
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Seconding cuticle oil! Also OPI Nail Envy, it's a nail recovery treatment that goes on like polish. I go through spurts of keeping my natural nails and doing gel extensions so I know your pain. The OPI is great for brittleness and hides any damage pretty well, but the damaged parts of your nail plate will have to grow out to be rid of completely. If you want to make cuticle oil it's super simple too! I use jojoba oil, vitamin E gel, and lavender essential oil, and put them in lip gloss tubes wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 02:07 AM
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I feel the same as you comparing exes to my husband! It's been 10 years and he's still got a clear vision of what he expects of himself as a husband. Meanwhile my exes probably just figured out paper plates aren't dishes and a gift certificate is lazy as hell 🙄 It sounds like your fiancé gets along well with your dad which is great! Congrats to you both, don't blind anyone with your unsnaggable bling lol 😍💎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 01:58 AM
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Same. I've actually read her pinned posts to my husband because he was right there both times it happened and I was seriously chortling like a graceful creature lmao. My niece was around for the libfem one and was howling 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:27 PM
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You're very welcome 👸😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:17 PM
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I see where you're coming from and absolutely agree that there's a lot of trauma out there women are dealing with that deserves empathy. We should encourage good choices and standards for sure. Individual women and circumstances vary so much I don't even want to make a declaration that sounds like a blanket statement except to say I don't think that accountability and empathy have to exist separately. That together they are a pretty powerful combination that can help someone take their life back…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 11:09 PM
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Yup I agree, and good on you for taking back control!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:27 PM
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I agree with both you and OP, the Pickme dilemma straddles both takes. On one side we know Pickmes promote potentially dangerous and/or exploitative ideals for women in general, and often dangerous conditions for their kids. It shouldn't be ignored to spare feelings and at best is a warning to others unless they get themselves out of that cycle. On the other, we have a patriarchal culture that practically molds Pickmeishas at birth through no fault of their own. That's so prevalent it's in marke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:04 PM
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I bet he wants/expects a PS5 tho 🙄🤴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:41 PM
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It's so sad. I'd literally sooner bleed than teach my daughter to pay up for the privilege of said weeding. Especially since not paying is such an effective and low effort method by itself with minimal investment by either party! It makes so little sense to hobble her right out the gate that in my response elsewhere I totally wasn't kidding about not registering a mom wrote the post. I certainly wouldn't throw her to the porn drunk wolves at 14, and I definitely wouldn't think she was somehow le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:32 PM
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I saw the responses about "boys owe her nothing!" Maybe they could talk about how 14 yr old girls aren't allowed to have a childhood anymore because boys get an early start on porn? Or how mommy says it's empowering to practice paying for her half of pretending to be grown because she needs a nice karma boost from strangers? After all, the sooner he gets to groping her, the sooner he can say something he's too ignorant to know will scar her about her body! Then mommy can karma farm about the imp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:46 PM
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EDIT: I literally read that as her Dad encouraging this. After reading it again I see it's the mom, but my brain actually rejected the possibility a woman would do this to her daughter. I've reached peak levels of "can't even" apparently. That she went to go farm karma for making her daughter pay for the privilege of male attention broke my brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 07:09 PM
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So accurate. Gonna add smokers with beards to this, they absolutely reek. If their teeth can use that dingy face bush as camouflage they should exile themselves to the land of fleshlights as a matter of shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:54 PM
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Exactly! The effort to make them jealous isn't a wake-up call. It won't teach them regret. They view it as an opportunity for them to try and enable the outcome they want: a low effort nut. Blocking is magic. It both frees you up from a waste of energy, and is probably (maybe) the only thing they learn from going forward because it's blunt enough for them to understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:21 AM
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I'm saying this in the spirit of helpfulness rather than condescension: read the handbook. There's a lot of info in there that will be very useful to you as someone new to dating. We all start somewhere, it will help you roadmap your experience to your benefit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:06 AM
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This can't be overstated imo! Men will jerk it to boob shaped clouds and fuck McChicken sandwiches. Cheap validation is cheap, there is nothing to be gained and potentially dignity to lose. The jealousy of a man you're done with who is probably so well versed in game playing he'll see through it is worthless. Potentially even worse if he knows he can spin it into wasting more of your time. He will look jealous and pathetic if he thinks you'll be his McChicken on a cloudless day...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:38 AM
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Block. The idea is for them to fuck right off into the void because they don't deserve an ounce of your consideration or effort. Free up that mental space for things and people who add to your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:04 AM
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It's a myth. Ugly men with a woman out of their league start believing he's at her level and try to play catch-up getting with other hotties because he doesn't see it was a fluke. Then they get bitter and useless while looking for women to take it out on when it dawns on them. I've actually heard variants of this from hot guys: "After getting hit on by incredibly aggressive gay men it made me think of what women go through daily. Being taken to the point of almost having to violently discourage …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:34 AM
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I have to do a mea culpa here and say in my original reply I should've clarified better between Marvel/comics fans and the basement dwellers freaking out over stuff like women's screen time, casting women, adults calling for boycotts over Star Wars not capturing the exact same feelings they had as kids, etc. I just used "fanboys" as a catch all which was lazy. So to you and any fans not in that category I meant no offense! I'm really looking forward to Jensen Ackles as Soldier Boy too! I got suc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 12:03 AM
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Agreed! I watched that whole series twice years apart and cringed at being so critical of Skylar the first time around. The nerd in me loves we have another show like Breaking Bad that shows us so much about ourselves. This is going to be one of those series that keeps on giving! The other part of me feels like this lol: http://imgur.com/a/3M58GFb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:46 PM
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Totally, I love how the show draws from reality in a way that rips on it so hard. It's so over the top that literally everyone should be in on the joke(s) but the people it's aimed at are the most oblivious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:57 PM
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I'm really enjoying how much Marvel/comic fanboys love the show because they all think they'd be Thor or Superman anyway, but nah. They'd be The Deep. Horny, desperate for recognition, needy, and awkward despite cool powers. Their kink would switch easily from waifu pillows to dolphins. Homelander has too many grooming, social and manipulation skills to be anything but aspirational still tbh. Edit: I would bet my left tit they're arguing somewhere online that since The Deep can talk to sea life …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:03 PM
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100% true. Mine was helpful as could be even before we got married with what I wanted to do, even when I started thinking maybe it would be impossible, and didn't shirk kid duties once we had them. We're both working from home with two kids in different grades doing distance learning. He could choose to be a lazy ass and bluster about how he makes more money than me, but instead he's tech support or lunch lady as the situation demands. This ties into that whole 50/50 lie for me. It would be so n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:19 AM
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It kills me to see women putting up with it too! I would 100% rather have had my friends and a vibrator in my dating days than a guy who side-eyes me for ordering what I actually want to eat or thinks he has a say in how I spend my money because he wants to make sure I can still go halfsies at the level he prefers. Speaking of which, men at a higher living standard while dating younger are just as bad as couch creatures. They're just subversive and meaner while trying to look smart about it rath…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:49 AM
41

Ahhhhh the sweet sweet tears of inadequacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 05:04 AM
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What a fucking headache tallying everything and calling "true looooove" sounds like. Boring conversations to split everything, constantly checking each other to keep things "fair." The feeling you owe someone for anything extra they take on that they can easily afford. Their advice sounds like a relationship without spontaneity or sexual tension and full of walking on eggshells to avoid being taken advantage of. How is a vibrator not better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:03 AM
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That's the truth. At this point expecting any sort of decorum is dangerous self delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 07:04 PM
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Yes! That's when my daughter was over it, Littlest Pet Shop toys became the new thing for her and her friends. She learned how to braid on MLP tails and loved doing their hair. Go figure it was pervs and man-children ruining things for actual kids. Kinda weird they had the buying power to win out over parents now that I think about it, but I guess I shouldn't be surprised. Fetishists buy year round for a fix.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 05:43 AM
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Everything you wrote makes total sense in a civilized political world. Recent history makes me not trust that steps toward replacement will be measured and considerate, but I'd love to be pleasantly surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:33 AM
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Wonderful news! I'm cautiously optimistic it won't happen. I didn't realize how anxious I was until reading reports of this possibility had a physical lightening effect on it. Whoever was big mad enough to dv the hope Trump won't get to confirm a Supreme Court Justice gets my heartfelt thanks for the laugh. I mean, RBG just died but look at you passing out the karmic justice that matters. Truly not all heroes wear capes 😂👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:59 AM
25

I hope we get to Mad Max level soon if we're stuck circling the drain on humanity. I'm feeling pretty stabby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:52 AM
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Same. I'm torn between 'Handmaid's Tale' and the hope that this will make people scared and angry enough to vote. Then again, we all know how effective the popular vote is. The uncertainty of anything except things can always get worse is killing me right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:06 AM
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Yup I'm going through his greatest hypocrisy hits right now. Aaaand I'm looking at people Trump has mentioned as potential candidates. Currently on Tom Cotton, whose September 9th tweet of "It's time for Roe v Wade to go." confirms that terrified is the correct feeling. https://www.vox.com/2019/5/29/18644061/mitch-mcconnell-supreme-court-hearings-2020-merrick-garland
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:55 AM
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Thank you for posting this. Seeing this news made me want to go to sleep for the rest of 2020, but that's not what RGB was about. I'll wallow this weekend and get my head right for Monday and whatever we can do in uncertain times for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:11 AM
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RIP Notorious RBG 😞 I'm equal parts sad for her family and all of us here in America losing an icon and terrified for the future. Congress wouldn't confirm Garland at the end of Obama's term because they thought it would be "unfair to voters" to do so in the final year of his term. Somehow I doubt they'll have the same crisis of conscience on behalf of voters this time around. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:01 AM
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Savage, I love it. Also I guess I'm old at 33 for seeing all this PS5 talk everywhere and associating it with actual children. I can't believe adult men are losing their minds over them like the "it" children's toy at Christmas season. Then I remember how hard it was to buy some My Little Ponies for my young daughter a couple of years ago. I googled it expecting a limited edition thing or manufacturing shortage. No. One of the first things Google spit back at me was "Cloppers" (MLP adult pervs) …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 11:13 PM
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Same, Pickmeishas are romantic?? Wat?? If I warp my brain hard enough to understand I guess they are to the swarms of men who want to be women with regard to being pursued and appreciated for existing. Hard pass on performative masculinity hiding a damsel that still expects to run porn experiments on women between PS5 binges. Fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 10:17 PM
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You can’t turn a scrote into a husband. That belongs on a needlepoint pillow!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:06 AM
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Asking the real questions! They really should think more about how their word choices reveal they're either predatory or too dumb to function. Or both. Not a good look guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:59 PM
10

Just hearing about what he eats makes my arteries weep harder than a coomers noodle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 09:45 PM
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Agreed, I have no problem letting someone lead in areas that aren't my strengths. My husband does the finance stuff because he's actively interested in 401k's, investing, high interest savings, opportune times to do a home refi, taxes, etc. I very much understand paying bills, student loans, and cc interest rates but that's about it. Anything I know beyond that is just whatever I've learned from what he's said. I should probably make an effort to understand it more, but he's got a leg up on me f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 08:40 PM
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Good Lord lol I'm glad he's your ex! You dodged a bullet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:45 PM
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Omg I am deceased this is the TRUTH 😂🤣😂 Story time! One of my husband's good friends (I'll call him David) has a co-worker (Jim) whose 6'5, 300lbs, total MRA and Drudge report fanatic Trump lover. He's attached himself to David after David was the one to train him at work. David is a very nice person that thought maybe this guy is just a lil weird and needs bros, so despite nobody in their circle of friends sharing his politics-as-a-personality he invited Jim to stuff they do. They come to find …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 06:36 PM
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Oh nooooo I'm sorry! I can't imagine trying to go out and have a nice dinner just to be hit with that. People just blathering that assumption out loud are such assholes. Thanks libfems and pornhub for this wonderful reality, so empowering wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:54 PM
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Jesus, this was a gutshot. My husband is half white and half a mix of Korean, Japanese, and Lebanese. I'm so white I'm pretty sure my dating history excluding purely white guys was my genetics screaming we'd make two headed babies with forked tongues and tails and every genetic disorder known to man. Op could've been describing our daughter, nobody ever thinks she's mine! I felt actual rage reading this for OP. I'm pretty sure I'd get a sitewide ban for going into detail so I'm at a loss for wor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 09:47 PM
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It's so frustrating. I can't understand who benefits from the status quo other than abusers and/or dead weight either. Makes no sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:41 AM
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Totally lol! I remember it being so easy to make babyfood and freeze it in ice trays because it's super bland. Puree one or two ingredients, then freeze! Pinterest mom moment was a big letdown 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:36 AM
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Nerdy and random but I just saw an article on this interviewing the actor that plays Homelander and someone in the comments linked an essay on the history of drinking milk in cinema that was REALLY good but I can't get the link to work from my phone. I c/p'd a portion showing the method to the madness! "Classic cinema has shown its heroes drinking milk as a sign of purity; however, nowadays the antiheroes and villains are the ones who consume this pure beverage. It's evil defeating the good, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:04 AM
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There's no surefire guaranteed one trick way to do it, but the handbook covers it well over time. One thing I like to do after we're exclusive and the initial bs detector hasn't gone off is invite to an activity he enjoys with either a friend or family member there as well. Mention the activity first, if he's all about it and looking forward to meeting someone close to you: green flag. It's a sign he wants to understand you better and see how he fits into your life in general. If he backs out wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 02:25 AM
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Agreed. It's very sad, it's also like slamming your head into a wall. Enough people tried that they got butthurt and preemptively banned is all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:09 AM
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Oh wow, it's the how-to guide on raising a weak-willed manbaby or Oedipal complex sufferer of every mother's dreams 🤮 I have a son. If any of these suddenly make sense or seem urgently necessary, me and his dad seriously screwed the pooch on this whole parenting gig. Imagine having options and choosing to treat a son like a helpless damsel instead of teaching him discernment and empathy before dating is even on the table. Ew. Not trying to bring up a spineless hand wringing loser who will follow…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:01 PM
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Pretty messed up that they've confused 'care, wake-up call, and intervention' with 'hate!' Just gotta hope those ladies develop backbone in their own with minimal collateral damage ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 10:00 PM
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For real! They say it's to vent but holy shit. Idk how the mods read some of the posts there with their own eyeballs and not question their own role in normalizing the bar being in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:54 PM
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They hate FDS because people from here told them to leave NVM wastes of space. Preserving their autonomy, dignity, and kids wellbeing was somehow very offensive to one of the groups that need to hear it most. The mods there are possums guarding their trash fiercely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:35 PM
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So fucked up. No grown man is eating their kids food out of hunger. They really think they're asserting themselves vs a child Wow, such a man 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:31 PM
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Oh good! I'm messing around on Reddit during the zoom meeting part of my day hoping I didn't contradict you because we agree. I keep having to talk at today's meetings so it's entirely possible I derped my way into it. Gotta keep those eyes open, the worst guy I ever dated I'd known my whole life up to that point. The personality switcheroo they can pull should give them all whiplash so they can be known by their neck braces! And of course, their mommy-gfs. His mom changing was the weirdest I sw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:49 PM
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Right, we're not at odds I just used a rl example. Who tf did this piss off? I wish downvoters would use their words because I'm curious as to how stating agreement is so very controversial in someone's mind. Unless it was some scrote dv wildin, meh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:09 PM
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Congrats how exciting! Glad your husband is taking such initiative and that his job has such an awesome program! Honestly if they do all the things you're listing that's a massive help, sifting through options on a timeline can be exhausting even when you aren't making a tiny human lol. That's an awesome resource! Get lots of sleep, and if you get morning sickness I found gingersnaps really helped. I kept them on my nightstand and in my car for whenever it struck. Ginger is supposed to help with…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:06 PM
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This is something I think is so important, but potentially confusing. I know it was for me anyway because so many factors are involved and some men very slowly reveal the truth of their upbringing. For instance before we were dating I knew my husband didn't get along with his dad growing up. Or his mom, but really liked his stepmom. Turns out his dad was cheating on his mom and actively hid it from his sisters, but not him because boys will be boys hurr durr. As a kid he watched it destroy his m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:36 PM
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It's adorably stupid that they think women are men with tits who thirst and gauge their value by their notch count. In a world where dick is a swipe/text/poorly timed trip on a sidewalk away they still reach for "female incel" as an insult. Big. Brain.Thinking. Note to any young women sensitive to Reddit opinions: you aren't broken because your 5 year plan doesn't include onlyfans and "finding yourself" at gangbangs; or forcing yourself to try kinks you don't share because some guy made mouth-so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:30 PM
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Then he's going to haunt you without paying rent flexing like he ain't no simp! The ghost of coomers past has no shame! 🤣👻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:36 PM
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I wish I could say I'm shocked but that sounds par for the lvm course! This is a realm of compatibility men think they own because...they're thirsty? Nah. The only thing to learn from their attitude is if he's got no dick game from the start he will never ever learn and would rather convince you you're nuts than figure it out. Or turn into a pathetic sniveler begging for crumbs of pussy he has no intention of reciprocating. The only way to win is to leave him to his hands, they'll always treat h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:33 PM
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Wow. Anyone else getting 'Homelander' creep vibes? Makes me mouthpuke whenever a breast milk scene in 'The Boys' happens, and now irl they slap their moms over it? 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:32 PM
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Yes. He'll get lazier, or get all up in his feels and react like a whipped dog if you try to give him direction. Communicating is a trap where you continue to put out for nothing and he guilts you for wanting to enjoy yourself. Just cut your losses and skip unpaid sex therapist work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:51 PM
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He just wants to probe (with his dick) your inner world (read: colon) and discover all your secrets (you lyin' about corn with dinner last night??!) and not being OpEn MiNdEd makes his (cock sores) weep for you! He is so clearly the most seckshual guy 2 have evr sexd!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:25 PM
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Yessss the empowerment flowed straight through my phone and into my unenlightened non-poly brain! I'm now poly af, thank you for showing us all how to be out and proud!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:04 PM
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This is the update I didn't know I needed💀🤣Gonna need updates on all you ladies working the scrotation so that I may live vicariously through you visionaries. You're👏braver👏than👏the👏soldiers! Revolutionary 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:45 AM
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So many intelligent baby boomers demonized physical strength, and thought they were raising "sensitive" smart boys, but they raised men who are weak mentally, weak physically, self-pitying, self-centered, cowardly, indecisive, mealy-mouthed, no good for themselves or anybody else. Totally agree, hadn't thought of it that way until now but damn. Idk what the perfect trick is either but hopefully finding a sport a kid enjoys and helping them advocate for themselves to coaches and teachers before s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:38 AM
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That's awesome! Most of the little things they could be doing but weren't was all me just thinking about getting something done fast. My husband is much more strict about results oriented tasks like chores and such so it works out thankfully. The dressing and grooming stuff is just fun to him, the stuff they say to each other while getting ready is pretty funny. With food I was slipping because of Covid I swear, practically all there was to do for awhile was eat so the kids have got used to some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:30 AM
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Mine is still very young (he'll be six soon) but we've definitely started, so much of it is modeled behavior. My husband and I are considerate of one another, period. Our casual still includes "please, thank you" etc no matter how busy we are. We expect that with both of our kids as well, which involves praise for good manners and a gentle reminder if they need it. They usually forget because they're excited rather than thoughtless, especially our son. HYGIENE IS A THING. I read somewhere that "…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:09 AM
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Yesterday I was doing henna on my niece's hair and the whole time one of her long time pickme friends was blowing up her phone. It's all these tiktoks and memes about "that one friend" whose essentially the unpaid therapist of the group because teehee her friends r liek tolly a mess! Niece looks like steam is about to come out of her ears and is ignoring so I ask her why. She says this friend has a long history of ignoring advice and running directly into trouble of the abusive bf sort then frea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:00 PM
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Death first. The ego management alone (because all of their feelings relate directly to their ego lmao) on even a good one can get time consuming. Multiple egos and dicks sounds like one of the mythical levels of hell 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:31 AM
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Totally, plus super egotistical and snotty in general. I'm guessing it was a combo of him hiding it from me and my blinders because we'd basically known each other from sandbox to college. We both were heavily into arts that took us away for the summer and ate up the majority of our free time outside of school so I think it turned into a friendship of convenience because we got each other's situations so well. I think the real turning point for him though was getting a very prestigious college s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 02:25 AM
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Good! It's not interesting because we already know most men's dream is a parade of strange. To get some for the low low price of merely saying there's feelings involved?? Sign them up. The only people who think you're woke, enlightened, and edgy for participating are fellow lady crabs in the polyamory bucket and men who view you as holes they'd like to use while feeling all ethical about it despite offering nothing of value in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:03 PM
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The weirdest guy I ever dated was a Taurus. While walking next to him on a rainy day in Catalina I tripped and grabbed his arm but immediately let go because I wasn't going to fall. He'd been looking away from me and missed it and actually thought I'd hit him. He goes off about how I should NEVER hit him EVER and then got mad when I just started laughing at the absurdity. Even after I told him what happened he wouldn't STFU about how I laughed at male victim abuse. We actually grew up together a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 09:05 PM
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Hahahaha I love you for turning it around like that🤣 Self serving slaves is a terrible angle, he needs to work on his desperate approach methods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:49 PM
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This is what normalizing kink has gotten us I think. Maturity levels aside, buying into the notion that it's both harmless and that people (ahem: men) are capable of compartmentalizing and having hard boundaries makes so many women lambs to the slaughter. Working as intended for men of course, though they'll shriek and deny it and hide behind kink shaming being a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:39 PM
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It's so bad my face literally swells up and tries to turn inside out, but I love them. I've developed a series of allergy meds, hand washing, and clothes changing protocols in order to play with them still though lol. My childfree friends with cats and dogs definitely get mother's day presents and cat moms thankfully make videos 🤭😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:15 PM
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Yeah talk about threatening someone with a good time! I say this as someone deathly allergic to cats who still loves on them like an idiot when I'm around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 08:09 PM
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I agree, it makes zero sense as anything but fiction and could only fool the desperate and foreveralone guys there. We all know pickmes or used to be them and I just have never seen or heard of anything like this shit working. If anything pathetic fixer upper man projects have better luck than this alphalpha male fantasy, the narc/audacity controlling shit comes after. I guess that's why it comes off as tryhard closet porn because it looks like how to impress then fuck a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:32 PM
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How in the fuck do these edorks have time to write all this pervy word salad? In the time it takes them to write these treatises on depravity they could have gotten promoted 5 times and 3 degrees and possibly have developed an actual personality and grooming routine. Are they all just closeted and looking for validation from their fellow dry dick losers in a "no homo" way? There is no average situation where normal human males spew this garbage to actual human women off the cuff so this must be …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 06:05 PM
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Real talk I've never understood fucked up lumpy pillows, there's no excuse. I was replacing pillows at Costco with like birthday card money at 13 because you could get a damn 4 pack of ergonomic memory foam ones for $10. We just won't talk about how I needed them because I was sloppy with overnight hair masks. But still, that was just because I couldn't deal with stains after washing the outer AND inner cases. Imagine having someone you intend to stick yourself inside of lay on a dingy lumpy ass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 07:51 AM
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What in the fuck?!! If I had a choice and chose my husband while letting our child burn to death he'd probably (rightfully) leave me for it. Do these pickmes think this declaration makes their men look good? Yiiiikes. They think they're going to have some weird romantic soulmate bonding over their child's preventable death ashes? I say again: what the fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:56 AM
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Patented formula safe enough for daily use on all sensitive areas, yet destroys scroteskin!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:40 AM
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You're so right, I sometimes forget who we're talking about here! I like your reasoning to flip it as a reason to go to the gyno. Mine sends out an appointment confirmation link to my phone, and one of 3 questions asked there is if you're experiencing domestic violence. If hers does something similar it would be a great way to notify them in advance. I'm absolutely rooting for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:34 AM
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This is so true. It hurts my brain to know there are men with actual hate for women who aren't obsessed with their dicks. How do they even function in the modern world? They are the softest manbabies ever to whine yet they think they have a grasp on the future when the present confuses and frustrates them? I mean maybe he's right. The trash will go the robo waifu route. HVM's who see women as complex individuals with our own merits and skills are going to be laughing at those sad dorks with us t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:29 AM
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Oh and I'm gonna need you to go 50/50 on this ring. Shouldn't be a problem, unless you're MaTeRiAlisTiC. (But if you ever decide to make my Dom BDSM dreams come true I will totally eat the cost of a premium sex dungeon because only the best 4 u bbgurl) Thnx for the gold! I'm going to pay it forward to the next comments I see where a woman unapologetically expects a real ring in the wilds of Reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:04 PM
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I experienced this, and the doctor that finally treated me was pissed at all I went through to get there. I was told there are soooo many women being referred to psychiatrists and on anti-depressants over.....get ready for the big women's health mystery reveal of the century....hormones. Because if a lab says something falls in the normal range most doctors accept it at face value. Despite labs having different normal ranges. Despite clear symptoms. Despite having plenty of room to supplement th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 09:54 PM
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Word! It's funny to me that my previous comment is on some karma rollercoaster like it's somehow controversial. Scrotes mad! They'll really enjoy this then: my husband says it's more likely he'll drop dead than become a broke ass porn surfing cheating piece of man-shaped shit, and wholeheartedly approves of keeping our kids away from the perils of sifting through the perverted predatory masses. What a simp gender traitor right?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 08:50 PM
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Yes, after the initial insertion the strings are very stiff for a few days. They have to be cut long enough that they bend out of the way after they soften up over a few days. Too long or too short and they'll feel stabby. If he comes at her within 3-ish days for sex or the strings aren't cut right he'll know. I'd go with injection too in her case for secrecy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 07:27 PM
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100% true. Already made a bestie pact to move in together if our husbands go scrote. These pornsick freaks aren't getting a crack at our kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:29 PM
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Who cares let's do it anyway and tell them to calm their scrotes when they do their best imitation of righteously pissed. 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:19 PM
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This! I'm here for the report confirmation, the internet is too much for this precious scrotes mental capacity to deal. Reddit needs to get him gone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:14 PM
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Oh WHAT?! This is hitting me in the feels, I love all things nails. Seriously ever since Covid I've gone to YouTube University to learn how to do as much as I can myself. My gf's come over and we go nuts. Some of us are clear polish on short nails, some of us are polygel extensions, some of us are blinged out like crazy. It's all good because we're somehow evolved enough to know and accept we aren't the same. I love that the women in the thread are giving this joyless scrote an education through…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:35 PM
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"I would've ate your pussy from the back" OooOh nooooo, whatever will she do for missing this golden opportunity for a UTI because her clitoris isn't on her taint...🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:18 AM
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Me: drinking a psl and laughing along with how right this is. Gets to the hates Kardashians part and feels called out, but the end of that blurb mentions hating all things mainstream when I remember I'm drinking a psl. It was an emotional rollercoaster lemme tell ya 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:32 PM
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Wait, wait...is...is the single post lil dick brigade busier than the multi subreddit anti-FDS brigade that was supposed to be today? Because I can totally see that happening and not being surprised at all still somehow makes it funnier 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 08:35 PM
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The irony for me here is that on IG it's pickme dm's allll day 🤭 I started the day with a cheery "dumb whore" from one who got big mad I agreed with a woman who said men who ask if they need to hold their baby probably shouldn't be fathers. She didn't even look old/developed enough to have her period yet. Indoctrination starts young!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:13 PM
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Was about to go to bed but stumbled upon a bumbling idiot dad meme on Insta. Something about how "cute" a man is for waking up a sleeping mom at 3am to ask if he has to hold his own infant after feeding and changing. I thought: Not today Satan, and got up to go to bed. Then, a lone female voice of sanity jumped out in the comments. She was getting jumped on by angry scrotes for pointing out new moms just birthed a whole human and could use sleep. Soooo I tagged myself in. IG numales are a specia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:52 AM
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My favorite too. Weirdly effective when said out loud to a man primed and ready to let you down ime. Simple acknowledgement and dismissiveness of a man's disappointing nature doesn't give them much room to argue or a fight to DARVO with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:32 PM
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He's fighting a losing battle trying to manage your sleeping patterns. I'm a night owl, my husband is up practically at dawn, and after almost 11 years the world and our marriage hasn't fallen apart. We're at our personal bests at different times, who cares? You can handle your responsibilities and still spend hours a day together if you want. It's not a hill worth dying on. You mention a time difference though, so if this is an LDR and you're having issues staying in touch at a time he can actu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 08:04 AM
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+1 for thank you! I'm sure this is the least autopilot friendly subreddit to mod, doing as great a job as you all do takes some serious time and attention. It's a great place 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:48 PM
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Nice, Rose ftw! I hear you on the Achilles issues it's so annoying. At least when a bone breaks or a muscle tears it heals reliably under a doctor's care. Never connective tissue though, those have to fake you out as healed and haunt you forever ugh. Casper the ligament ghost lives in my left ankle I swear. Can we get peas to perform injury exorcisms already?? And possibly get dm and life scrote exorcisms too? It's not asking much 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:53 AM
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Her thoughts on agency and coercion existing at the same time are so spot on. Especially the part where her head explodes over it, because mine does the same! What do you even do to reconcile the two? Can you? Should you? She's right too in pointing out that slapping the EMPOWERMENT label on everything is lowkey a good way to keep from examining ourselves and our interest possibly being part of that coercion. These last few quarantine months I've been replacing the things I buy with items from w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:44 AM
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Yeah it was crazy hectic with all the pre professional training, it almost didn't happen more than a few times. I had to audition an embarrassing amount of times for the company I wanted into, so I'll take that bow with a giant smile and a thank you lol! We've definitely got a mutual admiration thing going on, I love martial arts! Can't do it, but I absolutely feel a kinship with fighters. Not the same thing at all but my mom was a very competitive fencer and I totally wanted to be her when I wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:14 PM
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I only had sex in exclusive relationships with men I knew well...and I still have some I'd like to go back in time to throw out faster. Sorry Toni, can't relate 🤣🚮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:38 PM
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Hey girl, I'm out with my daughter and niece so I'm cutting my response to this shorter than I'd like! I just have to say while it's still fresh congrats on a leadership role! I mean it, more women in those please! Good luck and I'm excited for you truly 🤗 I don't underestimate the transition you must be feeling but I'm also excited for the change and challenge in store! Super glad you have your sister with you, have a great time tonight! Really hoping your labs come back great, but if not, I've…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 01:28 AM
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But he had the audacity to tell me that everything he told me about our future was not really true and that he doesn’t love me and while he “really really cares about me” he has no intention of changing. He wants to “see if he can grow to love me for real and see if someday he can see a future with me.” This sounds like a guy who's thinking he can do better or fuck around while keeping you on standby. Aaaand he's so chicken he's rewriting your relationship history rather than own his inability t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:02 PM
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It's always fun to share the tears! You're a bonafide badass, congrats on your achievements! I know it's not easy to condition yourself to that level and the training is an insane commitment. I did ballet professionally for years, I definitely appreciate what you put into your sport both physically and mentally. Which adds another level of humor to these dopes messaging you 😂 These fanbois couldn't scratch your confidence with their favoritest wolverine claw toys let alone what passes for wit to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:27 PM
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Yeah I didn't even use words to help over that tbh. If he's too dumb or selfish to pay attention to how I move or react then he should jerk off. Sounds bitchy, but 🤷‍♀️ it worked. Necessary disclaimer: that was almost 11 years ago before I got married. Idk if the porn-raised scrote saturation plus libfem domination has made that strat hopeless but once upon a time it worked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:42 PM
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The best part is that he doesn't realize the sting of that tired zinger is entirely his by virtue of him being such a sniveling dork he took the time to dm it. If he actually watched professional fights (UFC anyway) he'd know the women's cards are fucking 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥and have been a draw for quite sometime. They're tactical and downright mean compared to the shit talking hug-fest that are the men's fights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:29 PM
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The evaluation phase never really stops. Even after your married, adding kid(s) can change him for the worse. Life circumstances could bring out his inner asshole in ways that are one strike policies to your boundaries. Keep those eyes open!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:39 PM
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Yeah there's so much about that post that screams it's about attention rather than the pros and cons of your parenting choices during formative years. That little girl he screamed at is now possibly thinking it's normal for boys to get in your face rather than the Pretty Princess of the baby Patriarchy is an ass that should be avoided. Oh look there's Timmy with a basketball, I'll go play with him since he knows how to act regardless of what he's wearing, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:41 PM
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If I couldn't post there already I'd just get formally banned and the comment deleted anyway. I have a young son and daughter, my son sometimes joins us in hair and face masks, and I do Russian manicures on them for the cuticle care. For anyone who doesn't have kids: their nail growth rate is wild, and their cuticles can be halfway down their nail bed in a week. He's never being told "you are now the prettiest princess, hOw dOeS iT fEeL tO bE a GiRl?!" because it's hygiene and self care, not the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:00 PM
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After straight up spelling out his disgust at doing anything that might benefit a woman in a relationship he actually has the audacity to type "I’d like to find that beautiful type of relationship where life can be shared on a deeper level." Silly scrote. Beautiful relationships aren't for men who look down on investment in their partner, security, or viewing women as people. ....and wtf is with the "van life" thing?! Is that the old scrotes broke version of a tree house? And like four MBTI type…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:11 AM
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Same lol! Of course what she was saying is great, but dang that whole warm tones all over is a lewk on her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 09:19 PM
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Sounds like some really great steps for her, I'm hopeful she gets rid of him entirely. What a great women's group though?! Major props to you guys for being available when she needed someone, and you in particular for following through 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:57 PM
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Lol thanks, got it from my momma. The karambits anyway, she's a competitive fencer and general lover of all edged weapons. My dog was a happy accident but she's perfect imo. Sweet but fearless, loves small creatures, kids, and harmony. Get sketchy or aggressive though and she'll dogsplain the physics of the situation 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 03:40 PM
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Y, a 35-year-old married friend who still flicks his gaze at passing women the way other people flip channels, blames our national earnestness. "The problem for us as men is that we're in the wrong culture, and we're men at the wrong time. We're not a culture that empowers men with casual sensuality." Fucking what now? "Casual sensuality" he says? Why be casually sensual when so many men grope and rape even in this time of horrible so called male restraint? This guy acting like men have any incl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:17 AM
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Yes at least he showers but if skincare is something you're into and know a lot about drop some knowledge on him conversationally and see if he's smart and flexible enough to listen. There's so many men's skincare options out there he can stay in familiar territory while trying something better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:58 AM
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Barffff. But there was a time I'd have considered this good looking out. I was dating someone who used to have his friends and their gf's over for Lakers games and such when he wasn't busy. We all took turns hosting and got along great, so it was fun. My birthday comes and I got cards and flowers and chocolate from them, his friends. I remember thinking this was weird, why, what do I do with this? Awkward! Guy I was dating: say thank you? You and their gf's do a lot to make things fun, we don't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:04 AM
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Niiiice I feel so much satisfaction reading that! Any woman that feels like she's taking advantage: don't! Truly. You yourself being busy doing your own school or work hustle is a show of worth to any man worth a damn. Him being able to recognize it and not waste your time going halfsies on Taco Tuesday is recognition of that. Besides we can all make better tacos at home without having a mental breakdown 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:48 AM
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Why’s your friend acting like men in college can’t get a side job? I knew plenty who did just that & took their girlfriends out. I knew a lot who did this too! I don't feel sorry for them either, that's literally their level up process. Building his resume, making money, coping with pressure and delivering results, learning that his free time is valuable and being too busy for dead end Peter Pan fuckery is winning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:19 AM
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Absofuckinglutely! I see men on Reddit bragging about using some crusty ass bar soap from La Quinta (a business trip, so: FREE! I'm so fRuGaL gimme attention!) like they deserve a medal for being so stingy they treat their own bodies like garbage. Like clockwork they get 98799 updoots and 50 instant "atta boy!" responses from fellow leatherfaced men convinced they're aging like wine. Women on the other hand give them all the praise for being out and proud about hygiene...which would (should? Idk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 12:06 AM
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Let's ignore their internet working for porn and vidyas and pretend it's a damn shame he has no access to Google or can't spell 'instant/crock pot dinner recipes.' 😞🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:41 AM
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The list of totally average stuff that is "more intimate" than actually being inside another person makes me wonder how they function without handlers and helmets day to day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 12:54 AM
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We moved last year and have an HOA pool that is basically a water park. They've worked out chemical/cleaning/social distancing procedures so we can all still use it on a schedule. I'm here right now with my 5yo son who just helped up a little girl who looks about 2 after she ran and slipped. Boys 10+ in the pool he was playing Marco Polo with were yelling at him to push her in, she's fine (she is fine, but at the time she was upset), etc. Her parents get to her and he turns around to them and te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 10:02 PM
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Can't be said enough. It's the one dick shriveling shame experience lvm can't rationalize away because: vagina. Nothing makes them angrier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 07:23 PM
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God do I feel this. A young, gorgeous coworker of mine had an asshole bf who constantly cheated on her. Saw all of her vaguebook posts on "being strong" etc and nobody could talk her out of staying with him. We tried. After a brief breakup they got back together because she was pregnant. Wedding plans ensue! 🤮 Come to find out he's got 4 kids with 3 other women. Of course her FB+IG is filled with hardcore curated "so in looove!" pics with paragraphs of devotion by her that he doesn't bother to n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:33 PM
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💯 The new agey spin on totally average horny guy speak had me dying, your translation is even better! I feel cleansed 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:04 PM
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I have thyroid issues too, it really sucked getting that diagnosed! I take a thyroid pill daily now, but before getting that an insane amount of my hair fell out. It was waist length too, and because of my thyroid lost so much it was alarming. Which brings me to the book! I got a 4.99 eBook called 'Rehabilitating Damaged Hair Naturally' by Melissa Lynn Herold, I'll see if I can find the Amazon link. My hair is BACK. That book teaches how to microtrim, diagnosing hydration vs protein hair issues,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:52 AM
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Next up I am getting an alarm, a dog, figuring out how to use my pepper spray properly, and going to look into some more safety tips. I go biking, hiking, and walking pretty often so need to figure out how to stay even safer. For a dog I highly recommend a Great Pyrenees. They're originally bred to protect sheep, goats, other prey animals. I have one, she's the best. They're known for their discernment and threat gauging ability, farmers just turn them out with flocks and let them manage. As pup…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:22 AM
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Actual insanity to stay with a man like that. Mom isn't going to be around for every event that will require examination or care for a baby girl, and if he's too much of a pervert to trust himself it's time to take out the trash. "When they have a son" I hope she comes to her senses before that happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:32 AM
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I got one of these years ago when I was married and freaking pregnant for Christ's sake. After an old mutual friend told him I was pregnant he decided to find me on FB after not speaking for years and get maudlin and pathetic in a message. I read the first paragraph and just cackled like a unhinged maniac before blocking. They really think we're going to try and put them back together forever. Humpty Dumpty can kiss my ass, ain't nobody got time for that 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:51 AM
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Allergic to lotion, except for their dicks. Spread it around a little further my guy. Talk to a therapist about any false "gay" feelings you have (scary amirite?!), spread it a little further next wank session. Rinse and repeat until you can moisturize after showering like a normal fucking human being rather than a trash humping stray dog that's been kicked too many times 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:31 AM
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Those are definitely weird men who are in denial about perceiving baby girls sexually and creeped out at their own creepiness. I don't doubt there's a big group of pervs having mental breakdowns over being faced with their own creepiness and trying to hide behind fake propriety or a babies imagined discomfort over being cared for properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:24 AM
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Women working hard to make other women into neurotic and dead inside messes for clicks. Feel good job of the year right there! We need to be aware and supportive of each other more than ever in our day to day with gross messages like this everywhere. Levelling tf up is far superior to whatever sloppy soul destroying edgelord shit this is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 08:16 AM
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Women who subvert their own sexuality to pornify themselves for a man's gratification, or who convince themselves they're into degrading and/or painful acts to get or hold on to one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:21 AM
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Sounds fantastic I'm happy for you 👸🤗 I get you on being done if it doesn't work out too! Being married is no insurance, you never know what the next week brings let alone year(s) and I've come to the same conclusion. If I end up divorced or widowed I'm done. Me, my family, my best friends, and my pets. I'm good! No starting over here, I'd rather keep my happy memories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:18 AM
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Word. It's great that he thinks that way, no hvm is looking for a doormat. No matter how many incels snivel otherwise lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:55 AM
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It seems so normal right? Like a giant "duh" women have intact self preservation instincts. Even a fuckboi should be able to acknowledge it'll cramp his game but get why FDS appeals to women logically. But nooooo they have to hivemind victim status instead and act like spineless whiners. Even my brother is good with FDS because my 17yr old niece who I adore is surrounded by douchy horndogs doing inappropriate degenerate nonsense. FDS has literally overridden social media and peer pressure progra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:36 AM
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Definitely not too snarky, he needed to take several seats for trying. I appreciated the retort! Negging is so insidious and predatory and ridiculous I despise it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:15 AM
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What a piss baby this guy is 🤣 I'm married, my husband knows I'm on FDS, and he doesn't have a problem at all with it because he's not blind or stupid. None of FDS is offensive to him as a man because the stuff we seek to avoid isn't anything he ever inflicted on women. Certainly isn't anything he wants for his daughter or his nieces, best believe he'd turn on his gender to give them all the insider info to avoid assholes and lvm's and think less of any man who wouldn't. These fake sadbois are j…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:17 AM
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Agreed, it's also why so many men think they can throw on a dress and a wig and Ta-Da they're a woman! Which usually means invading women's spaces, taking advantage of our social pushover tendencies, and getting us to shut up about every part of being a woman that reminds them putting on "the uniform" isn't the same thing as being a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:43 AM
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Absolutely do, there's one I help pick up furniture donations for locally that I love. Come to think of it I mentioned that on Reddit a few years back on a related topic and got a lecture on hating men from a man 🙄. Because of course they can't comprehend that when women leave, they often leave with children who are terrified and that includes boys. In their heads do they think shelters deny counseling, toys, food, and shelter to boys or are they just that stupid and bitter? Bah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:45 PM
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What in the actual fuck I'm horrified. It's done, cancelled. Time to sit in a tub of bleach and think about my choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:37 AM
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Truth! We started donating in 2016 (three guesses as to why!) and they never mention any of this in their member newsletters of course. Time to dig around and be disappointed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:42 AM
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Number two, the collusion of the American Civil Liberties Union with the pornographers, which includes taking money from them. It includes using buildings that pornographers own and not paying rent, it includes using pornography in benefits to raise money. It includes not only defending them in court but also doing publicity for them, including organizing events for them, as the Hugh Hefner First Amendment Awards is organ- ized by ACLU people for Playboy. It includes publishing in their magazine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:42 AM
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Completely agreed. I love your username btw, Spirited Away ftw!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:27 AM
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Yup it was like a mental breakdown in my dm's. I said something shitty about incels and one of them decided to SiMp for his brethren. Expressed as paragraphs of brain vomit naturally. I replied with a suicide hotline number and turned off dm's. I've blocked 6 men who don't know and probably wouldn't care just because I felt dumber for reading what passes for thought in MRA circles. Now that I understand them, they can rot. PPD was good for confirming mra's and red pillers are exactly as hopeless…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 09:23 AM
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You don't have to at all. Please Please PLEASE internalize everyone here saying so. I never did until I met who I married. Didn't have a reason aside from just not wanting to. I never explained it, and I suppose they were too chicken to ask. But what's the worst that could happen if they did? I would've said no, they'd make sad "muh peenis" arguments, and we'd break up. No big deal, bye. Or the one time an ex cheated and tried to blame me being too busy with a side of letting me know she blew hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 12:51 AM
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I started and stopped writing like 6 times after reading this so I think I have no words too. Internal screaming sums it up pretty well. I will say I've breastfed two kids. Both times my husband brought me water, pillows or blankets while nursing. Sometimes he'd change a diaper between boobs if necessary. If he'd looked at our babies nursing like anything less than a miracle I'd have stopped his world. Pornsick men and their disgusting kinks trying to overtake infancy, as brief as it is, just wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:45 AM
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Nail on the head right there. He doesn't give a Fisher-Price fuck about his kid in this situation and is hiding behind her for being called out in front of his gf. I like how he mentions how uncomfortable it makes his gf too, disguising his chicken shittery behind supposed care for her. How inconvenient it must be for him to have his sister interrupt all that lying to herself about who she's with! She's working hard over here to keep the lie alive and along comes sis with her accurate observatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:49 PM
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"ya'll females" even. It's like they think downhome country fried misogyny is folksy or endearing. Idk what else he's going for there aside from downright dumb so it's fascinating that he thinks he's some kind of tinder guru there for the masses 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:13 PM
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I saw this sitting next to my husband and he absolutely died inside when I showed him. This is a guy with a white collar job who will watch YouTube videos on car, air conditioner, and electrical/plumbing repair because he thinks it's fun. When he's fixed something he's like a kid that got that Lego Death Star together lol. He gave my phone side eye and said if that's ever him he'll dig his own grave happily but his Dad might beat me at putting him in it. No lie there his dad don't play when it c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:00 PM
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And yeah, people who aren't even married yet who go to couples therapy probably do need therapy. Apart. Broken up. Totally agreed! My jaw drops every single time I see the whole skidmark rainbow of abuse posted on r/relationships or r/sex and everyone is screeching over one another for couples counseling. Over a bf that's basically a demon wearing scroteskin. I'm perplexed, when did this become a thing?! Imagine being encouraged to continue victimizing yourself because online randos want to virt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:17 AM
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Nope not brigading, I scrolled through the comments and it's a sea of dumb bro jokes, mod fellating, and the mods telling everyone their sub sucks, has always sucked, and is full of shitty voices they can't seem to squash. They're right again! Will they edit further for the offense of being agreed with?? 🤣🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:47 PM
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I like it, she's giving a how-to lesson in being direct instead of throwing a very public hissy fit in his safe space for the crime of being agreed with. He definitely hasn't read the sidebar here or comprehended that women aren't men so I doubt it will excite his faulty brain synapses out of their current porn + Reddit validation firing pattern anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:43 PM
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This is why I lmao every 4-6 weeks when some guy karma farms with a post about how women "should" approach. Sure buddy, women should ignore every forever gf horror story for the all important male ego stroke memory.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:19 AM
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FYI, the part I'm actually shaming men proposing this mandatory testing for is the fact that they want to hide their mistrust behind the government's skirts. If you don't trust your wife, then do the test yourself discretely, or tell her you think she's a gross slut. Hiding your mistrust and accusations of cheating behind an (unconstitutional) government mandate is pretty weak. This is how I see it too. Literally nothing is stopping them from testing but their own inability to navigate the situa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 12:17 AM
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your entire post history Deep thoughts about the lack of belly button stench was my personal favorite. I wonder what ridiculous regimen he'd (say he makes) his gf do if he ever discovers q-tips and alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 04:04 AM
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Truth truth truth. Reading this post has made me glad redditors generally despise children and parenthood. Imagine taking libfem sex ideology seriously enough to tell a daughter "yes sweetiekins, a man who can dry fuck your ass while yanking your hair out and spitting on your face loves and adores you above all others. It flies in the face of logic and is impossible to explain, so go out and try it until you understand!" 🤮 Over my dead body. Men used to have to work to turn a girl out with no gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 07:03 PM
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Nope. I love a good side boob dress and idc who notices what.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/20 11:48 PM
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No, I'm married to someone like this. I'd only hear about how I'm dressing if I started to look like I gave up on life or discovered church mouse fashion. OP's bf sounds massively insecure in a way where if she disregards him she's a "slut" and if she doesn't, she'll get dumped for her clone. I'd bail if I was her, no win scenarios are 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 08:27 AM
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It’s pointless to teach men to be better in bed, their egos can’t handle it. 💯 Should be blasted off the rooftops. Men are very vocal about "jUsT SaY wUt U wAnT iTs nOT hArD" and (illogical! emotional! /s) women think "Good idea, I'll try that!" not knowing the maze of hurt ego is a warzone full of insecurity landmines. Cut your losses every single time. They are not the eager lil sex learners they say they are, it's a trap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:48 PM
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Quality sex ed incoming! https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/gyh6bi/weekly_community_chat_megathread_07_june_2020/ful9f44?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 12:57 AM
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HOW could you forget?! You had someone seriously arguing against such obvious absurdity, it was a thing of beauty. As someone with a butt and kids I was there for it. Beats n-count arguments or whatever was going on at the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:59 PM
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And so it is, no matter how much you ridicule these cunts for their clueless privilege, they'll only ever take notice of personal attacks. How dare you, I remember Voltaire and took notice of your based stork/buttpill from last week.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 11:26 PM
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INFJ and Cancer?! Double feels whammy! I'm starting to wonder now if Virgo actually helps deal with ESTJ lol. He's an ESTJ Cancer too though, so 🤷‍♀️ Was thinking about your comment from last night about your ESTJ dad for a long time. I felt like practical advice was in order but it was the middle of the night for me and I was between conference calls so I failed. There's a few things that might be helpful (some of it is from him directly) so here goes. When you're very emotional about something…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 07:15 PM
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I'm sorry, I can definitely see that type being really rough as a parent in a relationship. Just dating someone like that you have to have ready to walk boundaries because they are relentless, full of themselves, and if they happen to be right usually they can be downright insufferable when you disagree. We have two kids, but they're young at 5 and 8. Their personalities have a lot to do with how they get along of course, but my husband had a definite idea of fatherhood, his own dad was over the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 08:41 AM
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It's nuts, I tried to do it myself once and went right back to paying tho...it didn't end well lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:14 AM
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Idk much about astrology besides daily horoscopes which I view along the lines of fortune cookies. I have a friend whose very into it though and gotten in depth on natal charts of everyone which was way more interesting than horoscopes. Still, with stuff like "Your hair being red is definitely an Aries moon thing!" I view it as more entertaining than revelation. Mbti is very accurate for me, infj, and mostly accurate for my husband, estj. Whatever I read about estj seems to be an extreme of eith…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 01:39 AM
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A woman gets nothing out of it Not entirely, the sound effects are quality. You can break the most ninja silent fucker with a blowjob.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 08:07 PM
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It's so sad that these girls have been brainwashed to believe that this dissociation is the ultimate goal. I totally agree. For context my experience was a 19 hour baby delivery where absolutely everything that could go wrong did go wrong, but it all worked out and everyone is fine. I was able to follow instructions but not talk and I don't have HD clarity memories of the ordeal. Hearing about it from my husband and doctor afterwards was bad enough. I'm equally grateful bodies can work in this w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:58 PM
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The whole concept of subspace creeps me tf out. Add to that the idea of after care and it's truly a horror show. I've never been into bdsm, but I've experienced pain so thorough and lasting that every emergency switch in my brain and body flipped. It's not a blaring shriek, that's pain, even excruciating pain. It's a sudden deadening acceptance that your fate is out of your hands and you should just relax. It's almost peaceful. That's what descriptions of subspace sound like. It's only after the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 12:59 AM
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Ok? You think he played her and it doesn't appear so because they both got sex out of it. Hooking up isn't getting played, especially when the guy couldn't swing those "cherries on top" that would've been him getting more out of it than her. But you're correct, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:39 PM
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It seems they broke even so it doesn't look like anyone was played. He wanted more that he didn't get, but he tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:16 PM
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That escalated quickly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:05 PM
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They parted without him getting the nudes or raw dogging he wanted, I think that's where she judged him a "bad" player because he failed there. Now he's just some guy things didn't work out with instead of someone passing around her nudes because she fell for his shtick.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:03 PM
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Not ime, beta qualities are nice and contribute to a guy not being a bastard with bad intentions but they don't make me dtf. I might trust or listen to someone with them more which can translate to a guy getting what he wants from me but not me being so turned on I initiate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 07:58 PM
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He's standard American white guy on his dad's side, his mom is Korean and his great grandma is Lebanese. I'm jealous, he'll be 40 at the end of the month and I'll probably be gray and bald before him lol. Guylashes, these natural tidy straight eyebrows that are still awesome. Meanwhile I'm over here at 32 holding mascara with microbladed brows because the tail end of mine got the fuck its and bounced. I love them though, microblading ftw! The only thing that sorta sucks is my skin freaks out at …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 05:39 PM
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Found out my dog has a CCL problem and likely needs surgery We went through this a few weeks ago with our dog, it sucks I'm sorry. She's 9 and has a partial tear so the vet doesn't want to do surgery. If it's not totally severed might your vet non surgically treat it? Our dog was high af on tramadol for a few days, takes a Rx anti-iflammatory and will do some doggo swimming soon to strengthen the area after she's healed up. I hope things start looking up soon, idk much about the rest but non sur…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 08:41 AM
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This is exactly how I feel. Woe. I remember that scene where he rides back over the hill with long hair, how have you not banned scissors from your house?! Edit: in the time of covid anyway lol. I keep forgetting you can go get hair cut usually, sigh.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 05:57 AM
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Sounds like we could trade parents! So far no ginger kids from me or my siblings, I'm done though so it's up to them lol. My daughter got hair a little lighter than her dad's and my son looks like the blueprint from boys on my side of the family, blond and blue eyes. They don't look like siblings, their teachers always fail to hide their surprise. Genetics are wilding over here! I got the same red as my mom too, and tomorrow I'll have blond because my friend came through! I'm playing with it whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 05:53 AM
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Lol yes gingers unite!! Edit: is your mom ginger too? Mine is, all my brothers and my dad are blond. One of my sisters got blond hair but it's super curly. She hates it of course, because if it's not long enough to weigh the curls down she goes full Shirley Temple lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 01:35 AM
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Put giga-anal on the table in exchange for absurdly long hair 😂 You're doing it for not just his beautification but as a public service to all that would see the fabulousness! Mine hated the feeling of it around his ears and neck so he buzzed like 2 inches around his head, but you couldn't see it with it down. Gogo Korean and Lebanese heritage hair! I'm very sad the show ruined his hair too, but I will have my revenge. He acted like it's nbd. Excuse me sir, but I went full Vikings stylist on tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 12:16 AM
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A tragedy has struck. I was really really feeling my husband's ridiculously long covid hair. Then our neighbor came into our backyard to swipe our beer and said "AAAY SUP NANDOR." as a greeting. It was all fun and games because we watch 'What We Do in the Shadows' but I just saw a good five inches of his hair in the trash. 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:40 PM
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I don't get it either, this stuff perplexes women too lol. Stories like that are why women get all up in our feels about demonstrations of value and put off sex for what feels like forever with men. Nobody wants to be a booty call cumdumpster but some of us can lie to ourselves about what is happening. I've said before that friends who lost their virginity before me had stories awful enough to make me disagreeable by comparison straight out the gate. People would wtf or hol'up in response and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 11:07 PM
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That hvm fart thread is quality though 😂 Edit: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hat5m1/a_little_levity_but_entirely_hvm_behavior_lol/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share I'm going to be very disappointed if there isn't major simpfart backlash by the manosphere. Everybody knows girl farts are a gynocentric weapon of mass destruction.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 10:41 PM
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Same, I'm not mad at it but also feel no urge to prove my value to anyone outside of my marriage. What's the point? There's no real way to do it without quantifying intangibles and I'd rather watch paint dry. If our spouses/so's answered that would be a good read 🍿
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 09:32 PM
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Nope, my husband is 7 years older than me so too late now! The married people in my family all have 5+ yr age gaps so it's pretty average as far as what I know and grew up accustomed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 01:04 AM
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There's definitely perks for the guy too! Yeah they can go off about something if they choose to, but if she's reading you well you don't have to. There's so much posted here about men being "unable" to express themselves, but ime it's that they'd rather not but will if they want to. Being able to skip drama or petty bs because you're understood is priceless. Again it's more of a sure thing over time but being receptive from the start is a very good sign.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:33 PM
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Seriously. It's such a cheery way to suggest being a forever gf is empowering. "You got this ladies!" 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:25 PM
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There's honest, and there's actively blowing up the outcome you're going for. If they're friends I doubt he's clueless about her tendencies, the way he phrased it connected directly to wanting a relationship is just lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:09 PM
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There is no keto doctrine that says you have to eat like a cow lmao! Do whatever works for you, but keto and if work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:05 PM
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I thought this is what I’ve wanted all along, but I met a girl who I’ve been dating that really likes me. This is good The part that shocked me was that she revealed she would relegate herself to my fuck buddy if I didn’t want a relationship. I don't blame you. Wtf are you supposed to say to "I'd like a relationship, but I'll settle for being a wet hole." She said it’d be hard since she likes me so much, but hasn’t had trouble fucking guys who she didn’t really like (remain detached) in the past…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 08:01 PM
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Check out r/keto and the sidebar info, it's very comprehensive! The short version is it's a low carb high fat diet. I eat between 40-70 carbs a day and stay in ketosis. When I first started there wasn't many low/no carb store options but now there's tons. My biggest advice no matter what you end up doing would be to get rid of sugar. Monkfruit is the best 1:1 replacement so far I've found, it mixes and bakes very well. Intermittent fasting + keto is pretty fantastic for losing weight, it's post …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 06:10 PM
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I just like food so much lol. I get it, me too! I'm keto and it's easy because it includes the food that makes life worth living to me. Every 4-6 weeks I have a carb filled weekend and it's like heroin.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:52 PM
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Yes, but it's something I care about myself. A lot of my life revolves around physical activity and by extension what I eat, anyone who isn't with it is going to get bored or annoyed quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:48 PM
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Studies actually show that the strongest connections are usually formed when the woman initiates with these signals and the man acts on them. I believe it. Why even bother with someone who can't read your signals imo, needing to have a UN summit over every little thing seems ridiculous, boring, and time consuming. Initially I get it, but starting with a good sense of what your so is thinking or feeling is damn near cheat level goodness that shouldn't be passed up. Over time it's definitely an ad…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:45 PM
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Word I'd do the same thing if I were you, but: kids. If they end up in therapy there won't be any pants free mom stories, success 😂 That's probably why I end up in bed if I fall asleep elsewhere, kids have trained my husband to put sleeping people where they belong lol. The snacking thing is something I've definitely adopted from my childhood. Gotta protect furniture from kids at all costs!!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 05:36 PM
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😂😂😂 SAME on quarantine life and the sin of not getting dressed! If she knew I spent some days in (very nice I swear) pajamas her head would actually explode. Falling asleep on the couch too used to make her mad, she thought it was trashy "to act homeless when you have a bedroom." Tell that to quarantine Netflix mom, also husbands are good couch to bedroom transportation!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 12:27 AM
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I feel the same way, she's my go-to for advice. I've accepted if she's irritating or made me mad it's time to check myself and reevaluate. Edit: I just don't let her know stuff like going full manicurist tools crazy during quarantine was so I wouldn't have to hear her say "Covid is no reason to look like a dishrag." Or some such mom-ism lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 11:56 PM
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Haha do you appreciate your mom more as an adult? I've always been close with mine but she was a lot to take while growing up some days. Now I just appreciate it when she's right and have learned she can take as well as she can dish it out!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 11:28 PM
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The part they always leave out is that a woman who isn't damaged, abused, or mentally ill isn't an empty headed fuck doll that lives on cumshots and to stare adoringly at a man. To coexist with a woman's healthy sense of self preservation a man inclined to lead has to be sincerely happy with responsibility and know her goals and abilities well enough to make accurate decisions with her well-being in mind. Not typically skills in the toolbox of a guy just hoping someone will touch his pp.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 10:45 PM
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We have opposite moms lol. If she was Anne Boleyn I bet she'd have kept her head😂 She thought I was too trusting and naive when it came to dating and thinks guys that are just hot after high school are wastes of space. I think you'd like her, but she's got insane girling requirements. No fat chicks and your hair and makeup better be on point so growing up with her had its own eyeroll moments.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 08:54 PM
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I agree with you, especially on the kid raising part. So yes we don’t need each other the same way I don’t need to eat vegetables or I don’t need to have close intimate relationships with other people but if I want to have a healthy and happy life then I probably should be doing both of those things. Here though I'd go with a decadent item over vegetables. All the little technicalities that add up to a woman being able to get by or raise kids on her own are the vegetable life. A guy whose fun, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/20 12:38 AM
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Other women know what goes on the West (in fact some even have an exaggerated view), and they still don't kill themselves over not having it. Some would, I'm sure. But the majority would not. True, I spent a few years as a preteen overseas and there were a lot of Middle Eastern girls at my school. They were very into brands, labels, seriously expensive shit and thought American women were vulgar and gross. I thought they were snobs, and they thought I was a whore. What I took away from it at the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 11:40 PM
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None of those places are post sexual revolution America, it's not a stretch at all to say women here with the life/culture we're familiar with wouldn't choose death over slave pussy cattle life. A stretch would be to say we'd form armed lady strongholds and slaughter male strangers on sight. With all the guns and shooting enthusiasts it possible it might happen here, but certainly a stretch. I can't shoot for shit, but I have a mom who was a competitive fencer for decades who loves edged weapons…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 11:21 PM
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I’d rather kill myself than have sex with a guy I don’t like and if they tried to make laws along the lines incels want I’m sure many other woman would too. +1 any would be legal rapist better be into necrophilia because I'd chew through my own wrists if I had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 09:35 PM
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As a famous and beloved author her stance and the backlash are both newsworthy items in a 24hr news cycle. Combined with sjw "concern", popular opinion, and trans rights being a heated topic we were never going to escape coverage. I only found out about this from recommended articles being foisted on me through social media. I can't fault her reasoning and think it's ridiculous that cancel culture and faux wrong think crimes overrule thoughtful consideration. If they want to come for her armed w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 06:49 AM
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It's being done by a bunch of virtue signaling dipshits that are more concerned about groupthink than the well-being of people. They're too busy being social media clowns "in solidarity" to critically examine Rowling's concerns let alone the usefulness of their mob mentality reaction to them. J.K. Rowling explains herself very well, they look ridiculous coming at her the way they are when they could be having a much better (inclusive even!) discussion. https://www.jkrowling.com/opinions/j-k-rowl…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 05:12 AM
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Based and...storkpilled? Buttpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 07:29 PM
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So cringe! I can't imagine having to manage your overbearing mom's feelings while dating as a hs guy, it's such a no win. He could be totally amazing but no smart girl is going to fight his mom for him in that situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 10:33 PM
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if it was incumbent on you to charm, impress or otherwise get the attention of a man you were interested in how would you do it? Be myself doing things I enjoy teehee In all seriousness though everyone I've dated I've known from social situations so this is not a leap. Talking to people doesn't terrify me, especially in situations of shared acquaintances or hobbies. If you were to expected to lead sexual encounter with a passive partner how would you do it? I wouldn't, passivity is a huge turn o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:14 PM
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The best thing a mom can do for a boy is make sure he has male role models around and get out of the way. Related lol story, my hs niece had me pick her up from a date before covidpocalypse because the guy was getting text slammed by his mom the whole time. They had rescheduled twice because she threw chores and driving his siblings around roadblocks up too. He was going to drive her home but she wasn't done eating and grossed out by the whole situation. He felt bad but it's his mom etc. I ended…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 08:21 PM
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Is sex a special moment of intimacy that should only be shared between romantic partners or spouses? Yes, but the idea people are into casual sex isn't offensive just not my deal. Hotness by itself doesn't make me dtf even if it does improve the view. By the time I had sex with someone they'd been the best part of an otherwise average sex free day for a good while. Is sex simply cold hard biology, with emotion playing little role in it? Sometimes it's this even in a relationship lol. As long as …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 06:53 AM
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I love it. School, dating, travel, career, marriage and kids were all sort of front loaded in my personal life script. Where I'm at now at 32 feels downright indulgent compared to any other time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 11:47 PM
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I didn't live a hover parent life either so yeah they're as weird to me as I am to them. Me and two of my siblings went hard on stuff that barely allowed time for school, and I saw my parents at drop off and pick up. My friends with parents who stuck around were miserable because they'd get grilled after class about perceived slights or fuckups. Couldn't be me! Gym option during swimming class has me jealous, ngl. I hope things get back to normal soon because that's ideal!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:33 PM
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Sorry for the crass link, but I figured I'd overkill more for doubters and bring the receipt for saying it's a foreign perspective that gets curiosity. It's not bait to see a trend you're not living or never experienced and wonder what gives so do you philomexa!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 08:28 PM
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When in doubt, always use more buzzwords! Seriously though no I don't think you're off, I don't find you insulting or intentionally bitchy you're just asking for clarification on an experience you admit to finding foreign. It's not a gotcha setup. I find it foreign too, if I'm in mulkvistee-land and my husband wants to get laid with zero effort on his part I get something like this. Direct, no wistful sighs, is what she's doing really more important than meee sniffles or mind reading required. h…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 07:01 PM
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I'd guess it's this part of her op that points right at the "I'm alfalfa and a MAN, plz don't notice I want to be the girl in the bodice rippings of life" thing here. CMV; this concern with a woman's motivation and a desire for her sexual validity is deeply off-putting. I mean they skipped right over the pervasive urge to be chick level objects of desire and went right to sperm jacking and nobody caring what she personally thinks. Testy!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:14 PM
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It's a bigger thing than often suspected I think. I've gotten surprised looks from (very few, but it happens) friends when I say I don't stick around for my kid's 2+ hour activities. Like sure I could sit in a lobby and watch them paint or dance or whatever, but that's a block of time I can do something with close by and they have all 8766788 contact numbers. When I come back to get them all the parents have their faces in their phones, so I don't feel bad for grabbing dry cleaning or last minut…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 06:01 PM
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Explaining BB to my husband is still one of the best gifts of PPD. His over the top shock that life costs money was quality lols. What will he do when I tell him kids are expensive?? I mean we have two but I also have two boobs so I'm sure I've concealed this reality like a goddamn ninja.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:53 AM
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This and letting kids (if they have them) start dictating their whole personality and life. It's so weird watching people you knew in college get as or more excited about Disney shit than their kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:24 AM
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I've never been asked directly, but I knew everyone I ever dated for at least a year before because they were part of my social group so it wasn't some big mystery for either of us. Only one person wanted any sort of detail and I didn't lie because his brand of rubber gloving the unknown was downright thorough in everything, not just sexual history.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 09:30 PM
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i was talking more about the notion promulgated in the previous thread that women are "Talking about their feelings" to their own men all the time and men are gently and sweetly listening and empathizing, like the angels they are This is foreign to me, like the somewhat recent threads about "letting" your brothers and/or sons do stuff. Once I make my husband aware of something current it's often out of my hands and that's not always a good thing. My friends, mom, sisters are my first line proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:58 PM
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Hahahaha take it, take allll the bukkake flair! It's kind of (what I imagine lolol) it would feel like. My face was doing the whole range of wtf tics/flinches the angrier it got in there until I tapped out. The most interesting thing about it wasn't even their reasoning, it's that they formed man rage Voltron so quickly and flawlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:58 PM
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Idk I thought she wrote it as an option to channel feelings that already exist in men who believe women don't care about them to make them care. Like whether they agreed or not, I didn't see it as cunty, mean, or destructive but it was somehow perceived as a direct attack to all men everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:46 PM
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I figured the responses to u/philomexa ’s thread about being a moody artistic type would be negative, but I was suprised at HOW negative. Same I got maybe 5 comments in and realized rage comment bukkake is a choice. Edit because my phone is super sensitive today: what stands out is the offense that "women" might be attracted to something that requires effort. Do these guys not have parents, teachers, bosses, professors, etc that had or have expectations of them? Bettering yourself for a bump in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 11:30 PM
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Fuck men Married wannabe cheaters for sure. Come on rp, she's just enjoying the decline. What fun right?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 08:30 PM
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Right, thanks for the heads up you've never been in a relationship longer than a hangover. Maintenance sex could be, but is not always, starfish sex. The clue they aren't interchangeable is in how in the terms don't share the same name, but this is very confusing clearly! Some couples find themselves maintaining (that word again! Context clues r fun!) for periods of time. Obligations of life that are time consuming or stressful that don't make sex the #1 priority in an otherwise successful relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 12:55 AM
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I saw it, it was just spez being a long-winded blowhard. I read the whole thing looking for concrete actions or measurable goals that never came. I'm guessing there's several more months of hand wringing and word salads before anything concrete happens or the Purge is threatened.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 04:45 AM
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That was the first thing I thought when seeing this, no way I'd give that up. Giant male ego is a decent redundancy but dicks are practically joystick controllers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 10:28 PM
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That's the spirit! Crush their puny attempts at oral superiority!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 08:07 PM
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No. Men who aren't attractive enough for maintenance sex when it's the only thing possible get dead bedroomed or relegated to jerking off. Stay mad though 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:27 AM
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No, you're bringing up maintenance sex as some kind of catch all for the death of attraction itself. I completely disagree and you acting like a pissy toddler slinging sick sandbox burns doesn't make your point any smarter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:08 AM
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Yeah no shit, couples have sex even when they don't desire it for the sake of sex itself but because their partner wants it. You can keep saying it like it's a revelation and I'll keep saying "no shit." The issue isn't that it exists as a part of people's sex lives, it's that spergs think all sex must be 100% fantasy ideal sex or it's the end of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 02:01 AM
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Yes, of course maintenance sex is for people you're attracted to. If you're adults with any semblance of a life with its own demands and/or kids of course you don't have time to fuck like pornstars all the time. How is this some giant sex Boogeyman lady conspiracy? Grownups have obligations, this is not news.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 01:53 AM
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Yeah it's gotta be some kind of finance hang up I imagine. Which is weird because if you find something with quality fabric that's sewn crazy fixing it is more cost effective than a bad quality fabric otr item designed to fall apart after 5 washes. There's perks to having a tailor, I loved a jacket Dolores wears in Westworld this season. You can buy it online for a stupidly high price, or have a tailor custom make it for the cost of materials and flat fee. There's no downside lol. Yeah they have…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:48 AM
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He's not hearing it, it's "pointless" etc. Idk why some men need to believe this, but the ones who don't are the real MVPs. You tried! I do wonder how many "stuck up bitches" they pass over as high maintenance who actually know how to shop a sale and get minor essential alterations done cheaply. Or even gasp do it themselves!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 08:16 AM
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For real. If my marriage ends (which would suck) it's pets and friends 24/7. This is not the threat they think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/20 01:43 AM
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💯 Absolutely every cheater I know of irl has been the man cheating on his Bob the Builder wife. My father in law and dad among them. They all have the public story people in general know about but the real deal always comes out in the family. This whole "honorable and devoted man from the get-go" ideals thing is a fun mental wank. Who doesn't want to think they'd be the aspirational ideal? Reality is much messier though. People want who they want, and there's no nobility in build-a-man once that…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 10:37 PM
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We're only openly transactional when we're making stupid jokes. I've gotten some "thanks for last night!" Amazon gift certs or fantasy football winnings stuffed in my bra and the like. Same with objectification, that's just fun. It's funny reading about the great instathot plague here knowing how disgusting my husband's and his friends ig can be. But day to day? Sex is not awards for good boys. I suppose if you got really granular on the topic it could broken down as the result of general happin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 09:37 PM
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Wow, on a truck like spraying crops even. I'm sorry to hear it but not surprised. I work in the arts district downtown in a major city and we're along many protest routes. Many of the people brought into our building were medics and journalists wearing credentials after getting sprayed or roughed up by police. I don't think it's a stretch at all to say they're targeted. Sorry to go all "mom" on you but be careful, medic posts are high risk. I'm glad nobody was seriously hurt, I hope it stays tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 05:33 AM
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You saw the tag so you know I did. But congrats on being older and wiser.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 12:17 AM
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32F N=4 I don't care about N counts. Some people like casual sex, some don't it's not that deep imo. Men I dated had a higher n than me, didn't care. Edit: people are defining what "counts" so: I count everything sexual up to and including piv sex. I knew everyone I dated a long time beforehand either through work or friends so there was no lmr or escalations to nowhere once it was on.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 12:15 AM
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It glues on you. On this note, it sticks to clothes too. Found that out the hard way. u/QueenCousland86 if you go back bring a trash bag with an extra shirt at least just in case. Put the sprayed clothes in the bag until you can wash them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 12:04 AM
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Shit I'm sorry. That happened to me when the occupy protests were outside my work. Cops just started spraying like it was febreze. I'd swear they were trying to get people to riot. I never knew my face could produce so much snot in milliseconds while on fire.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 11:58 PM
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Mine is like that with most family, but not friends. He's gonna be the old man at the nursing home organizing off road wheelchair racing and talking people out of their pudding cups or some such nonsense lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 08:08 PM
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Lol one of mine was, she used to smack us with wooden spoons if we got even close to a kitchen she was cooking in. Could always count on her for a backhanded compliment too. The other was very nice but my parents are in overdrive by comparison. I'm starting to suspect it was because I was a stubborn horrible child until around 5 and they're just enjoying a bit of payback 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 05:46 PM
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That's awesome, in a perfect world everyone would have someone 100% in their corner. My kids are in elementary school, we got emails about how their grades won't go down over the sudden shift, both knew. When I showed him the texts he went from grade cackling to a "Grandma is soooo right alllll the time!" show lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 05:28 PM
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Well it's so obvious yet you blithely disregarded where kids come from while commenting "women privilege" with what I presume was a straight face. Now you're an average man again? I thought you were an engaged man of money and status looking to buy a baby while somehow not dealing with modern women. Are you gay and skipping women all together or...?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 08:38 AM
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Accusing others of privilege as you snap at people then act like the wounded party would fit into the thin skinned man with money playbook. Did you buy your fiancee from overseas or is this a gold diggers Barbie dream wedding?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 08:25 AM
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Assuming you're representing said average guy, privilege has little to do with our failure to communicate. A guy poster (who is married and a dad btw) was trying to understand your "hate women/want babies" stance and you reacted angrily with him too. I don't think I'm alone in wondering how you plan on snaring a ladybrain-addled uterus to incubate a child for you; but I'm leaning towards this just being garden variety manospherian anger disguised as reproductive jealousy so whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 07:56 AM
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It wasn't sarcasm, it was observing the obvious. You probably could too but you're really committed to the whole So AnGrY act at everyone around here like it's new and different. Nice downvote too, this account is literally PPD specific for adorable tantrums like yours, do your worst my lil damaged man!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 07:22 AM
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There are many guys like me who want kids but don’t want to deal with women. Wait til you learn where babies come from! Or what baby girls turn into! 🤯
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 06:40 AM
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Totally agreed. We've actually never had a division of labor fairness talk, I work less so I do more around the house. We both have things we're more particular about so we just stay out of each other's way on those lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 11:02 PM
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She works, but as he wrote it it's by choice rather than financial necessity unless I misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:31 PM
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His situation sounds a lot like mine but I have 2 kids. With kids messes are random and something needs to be cleaned pretty much all the time. It's usually a parent proximity thing here. It doesn't matter to me what my husband is doing if I'm on mess maintenance, and he doesn't micromanage me either. It's just handling stuff as it comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 10:23 PM
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I'd like to formally submit Grandmas as a force for how men perceive women that is stronger than Disney. My mom was on the phone with my daughter while I was opening up report cards, so she heard me and my son laughing about Covid grade Christmas. He openly admitted to screwing up some math assignments due to carelessness and was shocked he had a 90% in the class. Phone call ends and she immediately starts texting me about it. He's got the very whitest of knights in her 🤣 http://imgur.com/a/jmBw…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:54 PM
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No I don't think it's ugly or unreasonable as portrayed in fiction. My opinion is likely skewed by experience though from childhood. My dad is a chemist whose 13 years older than my mom, who was a sahm but also a really good competitive fencer and pretty hot if I do say so myself, and I do. He has a lot of hobbies and is ridiculously sentimental, most of what he does comes back around to her in fun ways. For her part she is thrilled by this, I know (I really wish I didn't) that they're still get…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:21 PM
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It's not strictly about getting laid though. Grooming is definitely about presentation which counts for every category you mentioned. My mom and dad and gay boss don't have a sexual interest in me, but if I stopped showering and started wearing burlap sacks they'd be understandably concerned to put it lightly. Presentation not existing in a vacuum is why women are surprised men are shocked women care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 07:14 AM
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Yup variety is everything especially during this weird quarantine limbo time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:56 AM
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Very nice! Just having the better stretch options make it so worth it, enjoy!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:50 AM
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It's a bar used for ballet and/or general stretching and balancing during workouts. The barre here is a portable one by the windows, but they can also be attached directly to a wall. http://imgur.com/a/B2JaBtx
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 02:47 AM
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It's all good I love rabbit hole discussion. For my part I agree because my history backs it up. My career is in a very feminine thing too so I'm surrounded by girling, which I love. So maybe that has something to do with it as well. Very obvious downright stereotypical men who put themselves in my way aggressively are my kryptonite. I like plenty of effeminate men and can appreciate their personalities or talents but I'm not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 12:07 AM
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Raises hand I can appreciate a beautiful woman and not want anything more from her than possibly what her skincare routine is. The thought of sexually touching one is repulsive to me. But I do unreservedly like things like muscles and long hair on men. Starting to think I'm cro magnonsexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:47 PM
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True, such paragons of virtue! I for one can appreciate the danger of possible dehydration or muscle cramps while enduring the degeneracy. Not all heroes wear capes!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:39 PM
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A true giver, taking one for the team right there 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:17 PM
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Chad is a mainstream trope. Yeah I knew the Chad trope before incels or rp because it's everywhere. Idk why people are holding on so tightly to Reddit being some fringe website only the edgiest autistic cutters visit. Reality disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 02:36 AM
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Reddit is the third most popular site in the US, last I checked it was 4th in the world. It's not a niche place and hasn't been for years. As far as the sub itself, rp and incels are mentioned in other media and with subs on quarantine or gotten rid of entirely PPD is what's left.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 11:43 PM
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The incel invasion has made them way too comfortable blathering for baseless wahmen hate karma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 02:16 AM
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I really wonder how much family phenotypes affect our preferences, but so many couples I see look like siblings to me I doubt it's much lol. Like you though I'm attracted to way outside what my family looks like. My family got blond/blue eyes and redhead/green eyes down so well me and my siblings probably would've had trog babies with tails or 3 eyes if we stuck with 100% white spouses! My 23 and Me is pathetic, my husband's is a pie chart color explosion.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/20 02:05 AM
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I like any length of hair where it still looks healthy. As soon as the ends start looking like a barnyard nag's tail it's over. I went to a Children of Bodom concert forever ago and guys there had seriously long hair that still looked good. Usually it looks kind of lank because the weight of all that length, but metalheads have got that worked out. I honestly think most men have good hair, probably because they don't mess with it as much as we women do. So to me, yeah, most men would look better…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 08:37 PM
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I'm with you on brown eyes absolutely, I feel the same about dark hair. Idk why I like long but damn I really do. Blond and blue eyes don't do it for me at all. I blame having older brothers of that variety, they've become too strongly associated with childhood annoying the shit out of me experiences I guess lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 08:04 PM
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We can respond as an informal poll! I love long hair on men, I always notice it. Even if the rest of him is unremarkable long hair stands out. But it's gotta be good hair, not frizzed, dry, greasy, etc. Covid closing salons has made for great people watching! My husband's hair is on the long side normally and now it touches his shoulder blades. I'm unashamed to admit I mess with it constantly.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/20 07:53 PM
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Yeah on mobile just click a username and the option comes up. I use it for the anger phase nutjobs with rage tourette's using this place as some kind of sad revenge. It's great 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 02:26 AM
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Same that's why the insurance circus kills me to hear about. If due diligence has been done and every criteria but one is showing a critical need idk how it's denied.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 11:02 PM
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Yup! One of the things PPD has legitimately taught me is that so many men see themselves as more honorable, friendly, tolerant, etc than women. They also agree that they have a wider attraction window and want to give dick away like Oprah and cars. Yet it never occurs to them that those "nice" traits are often in service to casting a wide fuck net, or how often they disappear once they succeed with a woman. Nah, women must just be simpler and meaner creatures. Couldn't possibly be that women's i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 07:19 PM
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I'm honestly not sure what an ideal timeline is for diagnosing and treatment because as you say, there's later growth spurts! Though it does seem like a process and half to even get the diagnosis because it seems like they rule absolutely everything else out first. Their first trip to an endocrinologist was just taking his height and weight, getting his eating habits and health history and scheduling again in 6 months. Kid eats like a horse lol! In that time period he fell way short of average h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 07:03 PM
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I disagree, and your all caps mention of emotional jealousy looks like you Googled and saw the studies that show men are indeed sexually jealous while women get jealous about other women their man obviously cares about. They're not the same thing, it's not shameful or weird at all, especially with all the emphasis on cucking around here. I don't see "jealousy is jealousy" as anything more than not wanting to be pressed on male sexual jealousy because something something terper abundance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:22 AM
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Yeah, I'm not seeing virtue in men saying they wouldn't block. Why would they shut down an avenue for sex by being choosy like a woman in the preliminary phase of knowing someone? If they end up getting blocked after smashing they can skip on into the sunset with both fingers in the air singing "doesn't matter, had sex!" I'd bet my left tit it's taking away the smash opportunity by blocking that's offensive rather than the term low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 05:10 AM
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As far as jealousy goes, women are far more jealous and possessive than men will EVER be. lol. What? Sexual jealousy is practically a male hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/20 01:53 AM
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I just got done talking to a friend about growth hormone insurance hell for her son and damn. The US doesn't make it easy to fix delayed growth, despite it being an apparently easy (injections) fix. They have the highest tier BCBS insurance and still went through a circus of denials and appeals, all of which got denied. There were 5 qualifications to be met and he met all but one, a bone growth test that shows he's a little over a year behind chronological age size. Insurance requires being over…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 11:48 PM
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Same! I had a bunch of time to try different nail polish stuff on me and my daughter. Watched YouTube videos on how to trim hair, all stuff I previously didn't have time for but was fun to try.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:25 AM
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Agreed. I know so many men that care that the ones who don't stand out. Hell I handle my husband's cuticles or busted nails at home when I do mine, his hair is on the longer side (VERY long now I love it) and I slap on some protein or moisturizing masks on it when I do mine as well. He would think I'd been body snatched if I didn't and cares about what he looks like so it's all good. He had a skincare routine before we met. I can't imagine ever wanting to touch a filthy person's genitals. If the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:07 AM
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Yeah don't lol. It didn't even hurt, I just woke up the next day black and blue. There's a reason people go to school for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 01:01 AM
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I sincerely doubt he does. I got to the part where he said something about women who "truly" do it for themselves looking ig done up at home and stopped. Home is where we have exfoliating and skincare routines, face and hair masks, avoid heat on hair, etc so that we can look the way we do if/when we put in effort in public. Men who've mastered object permanence as toddlers aren't confused by our obviously literal total transformation 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:56 AM
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I'm sincerely curious where they get the idea that sun damage, acne, ingrown hairs, crusty hangnails, wrinkles, and weed whacked hair is attractive. It's not even merely unattractive, it's gross and unhygienic in some cases. They're sticking their dicks in women who qualify for merely having a pulse I imagine and calling it good enough as a reason to not try. Or telling themselves it's over already so why even bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:45 AM
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It beats trying to diy wax. I got lured into trying once ages ago, bruised so badly it looked like I got hit with a sledgehammer. Never again. I'm gonna start calling my husband Charlie because he's done a plague tour in the jungle!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 12:15 AM
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Np!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:29 AM
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Soap on just the very external vulva area. Just water for cleaning around labia, nothing in the vagina. There's an assortment of products made for vaginal cleaning that have smells but every gyno I've had has said they're garbage that will throw off your natural pH and put you at risk for stuff like yeast infections.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 02:23 AM
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Literally nothing I do with or for my son is done with specific intent regarding his future sex life. I don't even think "betas" are necessarily losers so it would be a strange thing to parent specifically to avoid. Saying that's dad realm stuff isn't foisting a responsibility either, what they do and how they interact has it's own flow that isn't the same as mine and his.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 01:21 AM
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The only thing that comes to mind is drinking tons of water. I carry around a 24oz bottle I refill at least 3 times a day. On days I go hard on coffee/tea rather than water I swear there's a difference. Yes to condoms every time, regular soap and water showering.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 12:47 AM
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On the other hand you are more likely to second guess yourself and suffer from analysis paralysis if you take it too far, like I have. Same boat man. Even though I'm aware of it I still do it, it's really frustrating. My friends, family, especially my husband will point it out and it's like the self disgust at being caught doing it is some kind of sick motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 09:21 PM
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For sure, they're triggered. They argue elsewhere on Reddit that women want this when reality is more like the post you shared. They seek out damaged and/or young women to guilt or intimidate into violent and degrading sex then apply to women who'd never look at them twice let alone fuck. Well, the ones who can find victims do. Dry dicks tell themselves that women's self reported kink/rape fantasies in porn or literature means they want it irl because they have no idea how fantasy works once sex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:22 AM
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True lol, it's a testament to their girl game that men continue to think such absurd things about them. Speaking of which my husband got me a very nice necklace for my birthday last year. When my mil saw it she went off about it being "a 'spensive one" in front of him like it's nice but a waste of money. As soon as he left the room it was her guessing carats accurately and telling me he should "do better next time, k?" 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 11:15 PM
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I think most dudes don't realize that "trad" places like eastern Europe/East Asia are not nearly as traditional as a lot of dudes seem to think they are Whenever guys all tradfeels over Asian women raised in their native country I crack up so hard. My mother in law came here as an adult with a bunch of female relatives in her family. Talk about ruling households and finances with an iron fist. They've all made at least one American white guy tap out of marriage and have no regrets or trouble rep…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 11:06 PM
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I see what you mean but it's a necessary oversimplification to get ideas across to a wider audience. On a macro level (people in general) it works. Micro level (relationships) it leaves a lot to be desired and can definitely be wrong or destructive. I don't always agree with what those terms are describing on a macro level but I can see why they're being used to diminish confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:51 AM
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Yes but so much of it is from an AFC/former incel/incel pov. They stay angry at women even if they get laid, and getting laid is their only goal. Actually getting laid seems to reinforce their anger. The economic terms for a shared understanding are dry in comparison to their casual misogyny. Men who "get it" are like a different species in comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:22 AM
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There are a lot of experienced and older candidates that Trump either doesn't want or won't work in his Administration. I'm not sure how many people with impressive political resumes are left to choose from at this point. McEnany has an honestly impressive education, but more importantly she worked at Fox News as a producer and got frustrated about not getting a job in front of the camera. Fellow law interns gave her the idea to jump on the Trump train as an opportunity, so she changed her rheto…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 06:14 AM
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I'm married too, the transactional nature of the terms here are strange from that pov. In general though when speaking of "people" and "society" they're useful terms. In a LTR or marriage stuff like equal value and effort can be random based on circumstances, the intangibles get you through and ideally everything is roughly balanced over time.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 05:49 AM
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So is (was) he. It totally sucks all around. She wants to get together after the house sells and she moves so I'm glad for that. He and my husband are pretty tight so hopefully it doesn't get weird on top of sad. I'm not totally sure what the drill is for good friend divorces but my grand plan is to stfu about anything one says about it to the other I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:16 AM
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Yeah that would definitely be a good reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 12:53 AM
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They both look amazing, they work in the entertainment industry (not actors) but very looks conscious. He said it was early menopause, not doing anything about it forever, and eventually he just didn't care. I remember her talking to me about it a few years ago, she just never got hormone therapy for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 12:29 AM
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It's generally agreed that male thirst is greater than women's, so it makes sense women would focus on filtering options. If none of those options are great that's where the FDS level up part comes into play, because it makes sense a hypothetical hvm isn't trying to be with a hs drop out busted betty working a dead end job. Becoming more = better options but you still have to filter. They just don't worship every man who brain farts a "wyd" text or "has the vulnerability to ask for nudes" so big…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 09:55 PM
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I rebelled all over the place, I could write a book about the objectively nonsensical rules my parents had. They meant well but I noped hard at being treated like a child criminal for my own protection. My mom and I especially had some great fights that my dad somehow always managed to disappear for lol. We worked it out but 14 to 16 were volatile years.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 09:42 PM
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Definitely no longer compatible, but Covid and being around each other 24/7 were the catalyst to act decisively. He said essentially that he was navel gazing while telling himself it was actual contemplation as an excuse not to do anything. It's very textbook wife becoming LL deadbedroom stuff minus sinking another decade into the marriage. I was pushing for reconciliation until that bomb dropped with all the effort that went into trying to fix it. It's just over.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 07:30 PM
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Hits like a ton of bricks as an outsider looking in, I can't imagine actually going through it. He's very set on going forward though, they already have the house on the market and picked out new places to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:20 PM
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Yeah honestly was so shocked. Really drives home the point it's impossible to go off appearances when it comes to judging couple happiness. There's two kids, both teens. They're being very amicable about the divorce so it sucks but it's not going to be petty or high drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:09 PM
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Well Covid claimed the first marriage of people we know 😞 They'd been together 17 years. I saw this very official sanitized social media announcement right as my dm's blew up because we've been friends forever, and the real story was a DB for years and he couldn't stand her anymore. Covid just made the whole thing inescapable.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:22 PM
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I'd like to think I could, that the whole remorse/therapy thing would work and everything would be fine after awhile. I just don't see myself getting over it. I could see myself becoming a distrusting mess that goes in anxious circles and becoming contemptuous husk of a human in a marriage. I'm not proud of it but I think that's likely if I tried to forgive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:18 AM
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I too feel cheated out of my supposed birthright of a simp army 😠 Have to agree with his assertion women don't need to rely on OLD. But...muh army! Sads
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 12:06 AM
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No worries! I'd write more of a response but I'm about to be elbow deep in food prep, I definitely read what you wrote though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:41 PM
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Why would he, he didnt know any better... You don't need to know anything to rebel, you just have to want what you want or believe you're right enough to not care about or endure the consequences. He answered why though, his parents were into beatdowns.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:05 PM
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If I tried I got beat That explains a lot, sorry they did that. Overbearing and beating is designed to make a kid fearful and compliant.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:01 PM
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I can definitely see some blame going to helicopter parenting and practically bubble wrapping kids before leaving the house. Severely limiting them socially or never letting them advocate for themselves with authority figures like teachers is a handicap I think. My parents never let me leave the house at all to hang out with my friends or even go home by myself. It was always school, church and home every day until Uni, eventually I didn't have any friends left The word "let" stands out. Growing…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:22 PM
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Truth? IncelsTM didn’t exist in my day because they’d get their asses kicked by other men for saying the dumb shit they say now. Absolutely, the reaction of other men to incels radicalizing themselves online to violence is one of the most interesting things about their circus. Outside of the manosphere kick the shit out of them prevails. The social justice empathy warriors don't tend to stick around after a few murder sprees!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:22 PM
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Preach. I find it bizarre to the point of fake that he's a "dad" who doesn't see the sex crazed potentially violent abuser in all of them. So much of it looks like a Reddit rage-bait karma farm. If he really feels this way why is he on Reddit looking for good boy points while allowing this (totally not fake!) character flaw to continue? Unless of course it's been video games and porn while his wife raised her and now as a teen she'd laugh in his face for trying to "learn her good about men." Fak…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:46 AM
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You're going to have to call them out purge week style then. When I see women saying they found looks and personality they're very happy with they get told that's impossible and that they're liars. I'm fine with being thought of as shallow here, you won't find me worshipping dad bod despite being married to a dad. Being called a liar about who we're with really discounts a lot of male vanity and effort so that's kind of funny. "Lift motherfucker" isn't exactly recently translated Sanskrit from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:34 AM
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I was talking about myself rather than generally, so it had everything to do with marriage because moving in with a LTR was not going to happen. Generally speaking it's possible, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:26 AM
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Women, especially women on PPD, like to pretend height and looks are not the be all and end all of male attraction I doubt any woman here thinks looks aren't the end all be all to merely fuck someone. It's just generally not all "we" want. There's nothing controversial about factors like personality counting for LTR's and marriage. Smv/rmv etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:22 AM
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Yeah but every time you meet you have sex. True! I can't imagine being in a house with a woman all day and not fucking her. I can honestly say 10 years married, 2 kids, my bitch timer counts down extremely rarely, usually due to travel. People bring up women saying what they want sexually to help a lot. I can see it, makes sense. I think also though that the lure of stable routines, especially with kids, is as sneaky a sex killer as contempt. It's easy to equate respect for a routine to respect …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:07 AM
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I find it opposite lol. LTRs were unreliable sex due to erratic schedules and not doing the move in together thing. Married I've got about a 3 day bitch timer where the entire world starts to annoy me through vitamin D deficiency.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 12:29 AM
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Lmao you beer criminal! I think there's definitely an aspect of ownership in names that isn't trendy to acknowledge by progressives or the abundance obsessed. As weird as it was for me that he cared I didn't have enough care myself over the name to fight it, you know? So I didn't really dig at the time and just did what I'd already agreed to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 05:18 AM
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Yeah I'd already said I would there wasn't any disagreement about it when talking about getting married. It had been a few weeks and I was getting all the documentation together to do it the next day. That's what made it so weird, if I say I'm going to do something I'm good for it. To me it was so obviously a joke for so many reasons but he was ready to stop the world. Not angry, but it was a triggered Inquisition way outside of the norm. Edit: just asked him about it, he tried to dodge with som…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:47 AM
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Lots of theories here but surprisingly I have seen this one trigger even some progressive men. My husband can be categorized as progressive, definitely triggered him. I was already going to, but on a phone call with my mom was discussing the process (tedious) so joked maybe I'd skip it before hanging up. Before I even put the phone down I got the last name Inquisition and some residual side-eye after that I never ever would've anticipated. He was 29 at the time, born and raised in Southern Calif…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 02:36 AM
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They're 100% the worst to date because of this ime. They expect a goodboy pat on the head for everything they do, get irrationally pissy, and see villains everywhere rather than self regulating and self examining reliably. As a group they're so often thin skinned and entitled as to be damsel level helpless; and I'm not fighting to be the girl in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 01:20 AM
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I can't with that, they want to be viewed as masculine and desirable but actually believe this unironically. Fuck people, won't someone think of the poor wallets??! I type this having been a poor college student/starving artist. Buying people food has always felt nothing less than great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:21 PM
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For real, as much as they claim to hate "normies" they sure congregate where they are. While pretending Reddit is some niche nerd shit of course because denial of reality is strong. Their own instability is what's getting their gross hidey holes found out, their own heroes are destroying their so called culture lmao. They all want to be noticed until it's a reporter giving them the rubber gloves treatment as they shriek IT'S JUST MEMESSSS!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 10:15 PM
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It's really bizarre how offended reddit gets when this is stated. Like on one hand there are terrorism and radicalization experts saying they are, and on the other a bunch of nvm's in denial telling us to have "empathy". Who do we believe??! Gosh it's so hard to choose! 🙄 Then again, the reddit manosphere is pretty much where male value as a person goes to die so idk why I'm surprised. I'm not fooled though so there's that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:48 PM
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If he ever gets in trouble for the SoCal one he'll have to try that logic 😂 High carbon steel is just chicken bro! This is fine!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:44 PM
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We had to follow city ordinances on braziers that don't cook or melt at our old house. There were rules about distances from living structures, materials, inspection was required etc. He didn't set his up stupidly but he definitely just bought it and used it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:15 PM
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Lol agreed, I didn't even notice the brother mention at first because it's so out there. If my brothers bring a doubt up to me, they're going to listen to what I say but it doesn't mean they're going to act on it . If I tried to tell them who/if to marry out of the blue? Yeah....no. Their gf's could be total cunts and it wouldn't matter. You could tell them straight up she must put out because my God what a cunt and they'd ignore it or talk shit. The moment cuntery was aimed at them and they'd a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:18 AM
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Nice! I hope you guys can get a good Zoom session in, Covid is the gift that keeps on giving it seems 😣 Me and my siblings have been doing shopping and errands for our parents because of the risk factor of going out. I think they were going insane though, they're now doing the mask and sanitizer thing just to get out of the house lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:09 AM
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What are you guys getting your dad's for father's day? I just found out mine is out of state building a whole friggin forge at their house. He had a small (pretty sure illegal one) here but he's committed to going big finally. In the last couple years he's been turning out beautiful stuff so I'm pretty happy for him. Happy to have present ideas too, I know he's going to cheap out on protective gear in favor of more tools and materials so that's what he's getting from us. I have lots of googling …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:34 AM
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How, exactly, do you think I can stop my son from marrying, if he wants to? Same reaction 😂 I spent a good 5 minutes today talking my son down from a tree he was 100% sure he could jump from to a trampoline without killing himself. He was moving like molasses until his dad yelled ARE YOU TRYING TO BREAK YOUR NECK? THATS DUMB! from inside the house. Like magic he could climb down in seconds. Pfft I can't even talk him out of breaking his neck I'll have no sway over marriage I bet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:25 AM
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On top of that they seem to accept the idea of bettering themselves yet resent it at the same time. It's a concept you can't escape whether it's a hobby, for parents, teachers, job opportunities, or a specific boss. How is improving yourself only a special kind of hell over attracting a great partner? Because it may not work and isn't guaranteed? No aspect of life has guarantees, so the angst over it baffles me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:20 PM
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+1 Too often lack of "vetting" is used as merely a weapon here by men to justify all kinds of shitty things happening to women. It's convenient to ignore that when done correctly it's a tool to weed out predatory, unattractive, douchey, narcs, cunthounds, etc so many of them idolize or aspire to be. If their dating pool is damaged women, they might wonder why they got vetted out of better but it's easier on the ego to assume all women are damaged.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:32 PM
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A lot of this is cultural. I have friends in Scandinavian countries who wouldn't blink over sex in their parents place as teens. It wasn't a big deal to anyone. I grew up in Southern California, my parents were definitely not of the same mind. I'm pretty sure I'd actually die of embarrassment running into a bf's parents after clearly having sex. Or the dead giveaway post sex pee flush at a random hour. Yup I'd die.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:51 AM
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I get the financial reasons for living with your parents. I just wouldn't try to force a relationship with someone where I'm an adult sneaking around like a sex criminal, or I meet someone's parents (assuming either of us even want me to) the first time the morning after. His good financial decision doesn't make that less awkward. It's a trade off that's narrowed his options unless he's doing the virgin til married thing. Idk how casual sex would work because that's not my deal but I can't imagi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:37 AM
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I just can't imagine fucking a grown ass man under the same roof as his mommy. I'm going to get called all kinds of bullshit names over it but idc, zero people had to worry about my dad being down the hall so fair is fucking fair. How do the logistics even work? Are you expected to walk of shame at dawn to avoid parents or pretend you weren't getting dicked down over breakfast in the morning? Both are an absolute no-go. Nope.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 10:03 AM
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Eeeewww ugh take my grossed out upvote 😂🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 10:02 PM
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Agreeing with it raising RMV rather than SMV. If I was starfishing I sincerely doubt I'd be married, I wouldn't marry someone I had terrible sex with that's for sure. It's also a tragic waste of a wife goggles tool to be catatonic in the sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:42 PM
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I did read your post, it's a lot of saying what it looks like you actually mean (they are your words after all) while saying it's not for brevity. You'll write a lot saying libfems are a big enough cultural movement to influence in the way you claim, but men in feminism are what? Getting a pass in the name of brevity? Sublime wrote like 15 posts trying to nail down the basis of your claim and got a lot of words that weren't a basis so waves hand Ignore how many MEN are libfems and libfem allies …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:40 PM
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It's in the very title of this post, why even try to squirm out of it? You can be quoted in the comments as saying you go out of your way to encourage women to do these things. Unless you've got a secret to share with PPD you are a man, no? Do you think you're aparticularly unique man regarding nudes and slut appreciation or perhaps the majority share your view and encouragement? Is this a cmv or Jedi mind trick practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:41 PM
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Period education is one of those PPD---> rl topics that totally went unexpectedly for me. Like you, I thought obvious thing was obvious. Did my husband nominate himself to talk to her about this? Yes, yes he did. It wasn't ego driven "gtfo bitch, I got this!" but more of a earnest desire to do good without knowing what he doesn't know. We're gonna go ahead and NOT do that but he's like "if she asks I'm tagged in!" I'm just lol. He's told me I'm to let her know when the time comes he can buy tamp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 09:54 AM
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My dad loved Mr. Arthur; they'd stay up until all hours of the night kicking and scratching and drinking wine and talking about history and arguing about baseball and F1 racing. It is now a source of great comfort to me that my father embraced my husband to the extent that he did. That's awesome, shared memories are priceless. It's really great your husband had his own unique relationship with your dad and stories to share and remember him by. But it is a greater source of comfort to me that my …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 06:20 AM
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Yup. I'm an adult with my own kids and I still wouldn't idly bitch over trivial husband things in front of my dad. It would get a total overreaction because he's team daughter 100%. He's good for if I'm not sure if what I'm doing will help or hurt an otherwise average situation from a male perspective. Everything else is mom territory, she's much more realistic about who I am, and not even tempted to hold basic bs against my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:11 AM
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💯 I think the best thing my dad did on the topic was to take all his knowledge about periods and use it to ignore me rinsing an article of clothing or sheet if he walked by at the wrong moment 😂 We both knew what was happening there. No escaping it in the same house, no need to pretend bond over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:46 AM
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An rp guy should take his understanding of female nature as acknowledgment the female imperative should be taught by females. Which isn't to say do nothing. Acta non verba applies, she will see how you treat women. Teach her they're treated well (at least in front of her) then go write a really kewl field report about what a master of push pull dynamics you are to get rid of any icky feelings about it. If you have specific guy concerns tell her mother and let her handle it. Acknowledge and appre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:06 PM
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Are you still having affairs And just like that him giving her happy plate advice makes sense 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:22 PM
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It was the first thing that came to mind when my husband brought it up because I just couldn't picture it. Went full retard. I already have enough free time despite parent/house responsibility. I suppose I could find "ladies of leisure" friends but meh. I already do lunch, nails, and botox, I just have stuff to talk about aside from kids while doing it and can pay for it. To quit would seem like throwing money away, not to mention I actually love my job. If my family and social life were built a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 10:54 PM
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Top and bottom earners also are more likely to have friends staying home too. It seems like a small thing but if you aren't working what are you doing while kids are in school? My mom was a sahm and she always had friends around that did stuff together. Cleaning and maintenance aren't an all day task, especially if you have a sahp getting militant on kids not being pigs. I work part time, my husband has been prodding me lightly to sahm since December, but Covid has turned it up a notch. It's all…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:48 PM
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Yeah she's super invested, nobody is going to bust her bubble that's for sure. Their daughters are all over it, I don't envy that whole situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:00 AM
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I could see them going this route eventually, she still seems into him though. Instead of talking about what he's doing or stuff they've done together it has to come out as excusing all the things he hasn't participated in. It's equal parts sad and odd.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:45 AM
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I only know one couple like this, they're an extreme version. Met in college, married, two daughters early on, wife got a great job, his longest employment is a year before tapping out, she got another degree, makes lots of money as an exec. She's structured her life around doing work and kid stuff, he has no idea what he's doing day to day or even when he's going to get up. They have a service for everything that requires labor she has no time to do. He spends a small fortune on crossbows and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:49 AM
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You better not skip the opportunity to call plates 'poundlings' with that flair!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:44 AM
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Exactly, I don't know for certain but I doubt they talk like that at random irl. TRP says just as bad stuff huddled up in their internet "locker room" that I doubt they'd be saying to some girl whose pants they're trying to get in. Neither space is designed to be palatable to the opposite sex so they don't apologise for how they're perceived.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:40 AM
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Blue curly ponytail meme girl ftw
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:57 PM
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The selective reading skills have got to be some elaborate self preservation mechanism at this point. I can say there are low value women in the world without my pussy melting off, sudden cluster B symptoms, or spawning a herd of cats from the void. Idk why it's impossible for some men to acknowledge there are low value men. If the manospherian kool-aid is so good it replaces reality or requires smelling salts to exist online they might want to ease off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 08:08 PM
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Where's the lie in any of it? Are there men who think dating an uggo with a chip on her shoulder is better than a non uggo minus the baggage and bullshit? Rhetorical question, the answer is obviously no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:53 PM
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My husband: I'd have to think of a way to double cross so we could Bonnie and Clyde our way out of there 10 million richer. But if I couldn't, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 02:18 AM
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That's what I mean, my handjob experience is limited to one person and there doesn't seem to be one tried and true way. It's confounding, but doesn't happen too often so maybe that has something to do with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:35 AM
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I have my doubts on it being trainable, dicks are finicky. I've gotten my husband off with handjobs that varied pretty widely, maybe 5 times. The one time I got an "ouch" I swear I was barely touching him. There doesn't appear to be a method to the hj madness
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 01:26 AM
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Walked through a parking lot and saw a car with those sportsball decals that have kids names under the team. Kids names were "Christian" and "Grey." Saw them getting out, they're twin boys. It's like purge week has bled into rl, blast me into the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 10:57 PM
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It was truly glorious, the regular PPD slap fights just don't compare to that brawl.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:15 PM
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I'm convinced Purge week being memes, muscles, and Poppy vs Kandy would be pretty ideal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:10 PM
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The income is definitely great because kids are expensive, but a man who wants kids and doesn't shrink away from hard realities and can laugh at things is often a very good dad. Kids are needy and demanding by nature when they're little so having a partner to tag in or who can adjust on the fly is priceless. A man who is legitimately a nuisance, burden, or easily triggered by small things should expose all of the above in vetting and get a hard pass if kids are the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:52 AM
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Well...I mean I post on PPD, it's pretty much what I deserve as far as sporadic time wasters go lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 08:27 AM
1

That I can understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:22 AM
1

Right on thanks, I'm glad there's a way to Wrath for real. One of the things I've derped into is Molten Core for a thunderfury transmog and it had me wondering why Classic is a thing. The suppression room in bwl is balls too wtf. Between grinding and those 2 raids I don't get it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:20 AM
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Yeah I can't imagine actually levelling a character, it seems pretty boring from how it's described. I loved how Wrath looked despite not playing it. We moved out of state and logging in once or twice a week with his friends is how my husband stayed in touch pretty much. Nax looked sick, ICC too. Taking a 120 there is as close as I've gotten to playing it, but I did get Invincible after 4 times! And I finished his Shadowmourne questline. It didn't look as cool as I hoped but the chest of stuff w…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:12 AM
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"play" is a strong word for what I do ngl. I see stuff other people have, inspect them, then go get it if I can. I pvp'd once in Korrak's (sp?) revenge and had someone log into Ogrimmar on an alt after shrieking about me cheating somehow. Apparently soul drinker's leech didn't scale down and I was dual wielding them and pretty much unkillable. Do you play classic?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 06:01 AM
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Truth lol :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:56 AM
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A tiny tiny portion of quarantine has been playing one of my husband's wow alts. I've learned: I suck but it's kinda fun, and that getting stuff he's been trying to get forever makes his jaw drop in an oddly satisfying way. Now I get to keep my phone glued to my hands foreverrr
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 05:53 AM
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Higher, at least make it shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:48 AM
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For me it was the tits not squishing when squeezed freaking me out way more than I thought possible lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:45 AM
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It's pointless to say because all women are lying liars, but four. I started dating who I eventually married at 19.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:33 AM
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Why are you acting like it's my job to define your fantasy? Picture me on whatever cock you like, I can't stop you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:31 AM
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It's thousand cock stare, not thousand black cock stare. Your fantasy aligns with my reality, isn't that nice?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:27 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 04:01 AM
2

+1 for making me imagine a evil Betty White
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:44 AM
2

If I was whoring who would take care of the cats? Those cat hair mittens aren't going to knit themselves!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:41 AM
2

Nobody can stop Betty White old lady carefree energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:36 AM
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I'd go full cat lady. Make cat lady friends and do the whole Golden Girls thing. But with cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/20 01:33 AM
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That's me, and I agree. I live in sunscreen and cover tf up after seeing sun damage at the dermatologist. I thought I put enough sunscreen on before but those were rookie numbers compared to now.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 09:12 PM
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None. I'm just going to sit with my coffee and smash the "no" button he got me for a mother's day gag gift until the end of time. Real talk though what advice he gets depends on what is happening, and if he asks me. Right now he's 5, it's about balancing doing what you want and not being a jerk on the playground. And brushing your gd teeth. All small children are self centered and pig-like so rising above that isn't gender specific. He just said he wishes I had a "yes" button and his dad yelled …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:49 PM
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"Feel and responsible are words used to oppress the alpha male" 😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 04:59 PM
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My husband is gay for you in the one where you kill Russians. You've cucked me. It's overrr
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 05:54 AM
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Mine, yes (edit: as in actually love). What won't be popular but is nonetheless true is that men who think they're likely "better than" step to you all day long without knowing what they're competing against.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:23 AM
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I went out with my husband tonight to one of the 30 places open with 25% capacity limits and he got me pist drunk. I brought up some PPD topics like prostitution and MGTOW wooow. I had some gaps in my knowledge about his friends. He started dumping his margarita into mine like he caught on too lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:14 AM
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I aim to please, here's your downvotes so you aren't completely full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 01:02 AM
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Just make sure to hobble them, wouldn't want them to do anything for the sake of enjoyment or staying fit like ubergay dancing on an island with no bills to pay lawlrofl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 12:16 AM
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Imagine being purposefully obtuse in deeply ignorant ways as a vehicle to get your "dumb bitch" posting quota in. You can't downvote being that needy for internet attention away but by all means, try.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:58 PM
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Dancing is barely even a job. Interesting, it paid my bills for the years I did it professionally. Society could easily go without it, unlike actual manual labor Banging rocks together and dancing predates "society" but okay. I guess I'll ignore the modern day tastemakers appearing at culturally significant events rather than watching Bud and Hank pour the 89654789 McDonald's foundation. You’re absolutely delusional if you think dancing being a physically inTeNsE job means shit. You're kind of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 11:46 PM
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She's fantastic, and so quoteable when dealing with obstinate or defeatist attitudes in pre professional students particularly. "Shut up and do what you love" goes over way better than "Shut up you're at a totally replaceable time in your career" that's for sure. Aaaaand a lot of company teachers go for the latter, been there. It sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:54 PM
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Teach dance at a ballet company, I can't wait to go back later this month. Quarantine has really screwed up the schedule just in time for intensives and everything involving international travel so it's going to be hectic for awhile yet. I'd rather be scrambling than quarantined at this point though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:28 PM
1

Asking the real questions!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:09 PM
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hug 🤫
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 10:39 AM
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From what I've heard about how you feel with 'rona I have questions about the 4 who powered through to provide samples while sick. Mostly what fap material wins vs breathing issues, coughing, fever, and feeling like hammered shit? That's true dedication to science right there!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 09:00 AM
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Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 07:59 AM
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I couldn't believe my own nerve 😂 It ended up working out. It was for one of his artsy friends who went next level and made it into this crazy ornate thing. It will never be subjected to me or soap again!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 04:20 AM
2

I did something similar to a drinking horn my husband bought on a trip. An actual carved out horn, it reeked. Apparently you're supposed to follow some care protocol then seal it to get rid of the stench and make it usable. Well he left it on the counter without saying anything (for days) and I committed the sin of touching it with soap. The look on his face...like I'd pissed on his pillow or something lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:37 AM
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I choked on my drink at that, don't care if it's a troll 10/10 would read again 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 03:19 AM
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She's probably had 10 strongk sons by now since husband isn't dusty who make her pull plow.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 02:43 AM
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TouretteCel I'm gonna need you to use even more exclamation points and expletives when addressing me. I feel cheated, I've seen what you're capable of for free and you're just not giving me your best you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:25 AM
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About as realistic as you thinking the incel army can do anything about female "privilege."
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:20 AM
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We tired of the incoherent retardedness they spew!! It's like the irony is actually trying to slay me through my phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:14 AM
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Go tell Chad you're putting pussy in a time out and find out how team man he is 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/20 12:10 AM
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I'd rather get fucked by your revenge fantasy tranny dick than an incels. Lol this should be a poll
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 11:45 PM
3

Only if the car is made of adorable doggo mist exactly as pictured.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 09:29 AM
2

Imagining it leaves a lasting impression is good enough. Like people who talk about going to the gym feel they've improved somehow without ever actually going. Mental masturbation.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 08:39 AM
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It's much droopier from the front I promise, looks like it gave up! I think I need to practice on my poor bp siiiimp...Lord knows his hair is long enough now and he can't run away working from home on a conference call 😈
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 05:02 AM
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It works! Medium hold gel works well too to keep things frizz free without gooping and flaking, I just like the smell of styling cream because I'm tragically high maintenance. Probably works even better when done by an adoring bluepill simp😉 YouTube has been my quarantine best friend. Tried to get waterfall braids right on my daughter at my parents place last week but one side always ends up lower. She doesn't mind but it drives me nuts. http://imgur.com/a/2HtrqCG
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 04:44 AM
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Hahahaha why must life be so complicated with technicalities and obstacles?! My hair is in a really obnoxious place between straight and curly. Parts are wavy and others just hang there mostly straight, it makes no sense. When I straighten it I use a fine tooth comb to put tension on the piece I'm straightening with one hand, with the flat iron just above the comb, pulling both down slowly at the same time. I can usually do one pass straightening this way instead of the usual 3 without the comb.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:42 AM
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That's good. Honestly right now is the time to do new and different or edgy things with quarantine and all. Schools aren't in dress code Nazi mode, but also salons have been closed so long there's a bunch of decent YouTube videos out from stylists to help manage damage control when clients come back in! Punk rock baby mamma #1 is a great resource though so she'll probably have something up her sleeve. This could end up very Bob Ross, no mistakes, just a happy hair accident. 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:10 AM
1

How's she doing? If she's good with it hopefully it will curb some ex wife drama.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:57 AM
2

Tfw you want to make bad jokes but you learned what the dogpill is a few hours ago. TOO SOON! He looks like a goodboye tho, give him pats
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 12:17 AM
1

Maybe flairing the conflict keeps it alive and it's all part of her dastardly plan. We are all pawns.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:11 PM
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I hope she rides the money and fame train for all it's worth before flipping the script if that's what she does because they'll throw her on the altar of cancel culture. She seems pretty savvy though and after seeing others get burned maybe she can guide the fallout. Will be interesting if it happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:09 PM
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Salty because his name is very confusing to my tiny lady brain. He's way too chill and normal to be either salty or a bastard. Fuck that guy!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:58 PM
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Me too. I've actually really enjoyed quarantine for the most part, it's going to be weird having normal schedules again.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:52 PM
2

Adele had that too but was way more dl than Lizzo and they turned on her hard for losing weight. She said something about trading tears for sweat and triggered so many people without saying anything outright judgy. If Lizzo ever loses weight they're going to absolutely destroy her because she actively took on the role of body positivity champion.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:50 PM
5

Jewess rock star You guys write her the best flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:38 PM
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Gwyneth Paltrow told us to dip our tampons in Carolina reaper powder mixed with stem cells and angel tears that are blessed by silent monks. We're all lemmings terrified of the wall so we do it. It's expensive too so: bonus! Just dump some milk on your dick you'll be alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 10:01 PM
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Yeah I'm unashamed to admit I'd stand in the blast zone for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:55 PM
1

This song is legendary 💯
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:52 PM
1

Every waking moment would involve innocent bystanders lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:35 PM
2

I'd eat carbs all day in a consequence free world. Perhaps while having sex but getting arrested and fat would be a two hit combo of suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:17 PM
1

Hey you kept your dignity so this is a good thing. My husband says he's the same as you and sends a fist bump because you have to be practically flawless to buck company culture and live, it's not easy. Is there a way to leverage the current healthcare needs as a springboard to something else? Avoid United Health Group though, they're crazy-happy culture fwiw.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:12 PM
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Hahahaha I'm team older man, I'll have to work on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:07 PM
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I'm sorry about the culture clash, I feel like it's rarely about actually horrible people. The real bads get fired in obvious bad fit clashes. People who are about the work and conscientious rather than schmoozing get caught in the wake of those who lean on likability often and it sucks, both have value of a different sort. And like you say the whole name recognition playing into a cartoon happiness standard doesn't help. Places always need the go getters, hard workers, and crunch time all stars…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 09:00 PM
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Don't kink shame me 😂 Edit: here's my eyeballs, I have been shamed lol http://imgur.com/a/058qbRE
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:17 PM
1

I blurred the background in a setting with extreme lighting difference + wind because I didn't want to put randos on PPD and it broke my phone apparently 😣
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:05 PM
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Ded
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:52 PM
2

What the fuck that is the RIGHT answer and don't let their bullshit make you think differently. Everyone else was fishing for brownie points or giving the man what they wanted to hear. Snacks on the cheap and caffeine in high stress environments are life. I'm sorry you got in trouble, like actually mad for you. Politics are stupid, let people be happy about snacks and coffee damn!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:47 PM
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I sympathize on the masks and shields! Headbands and ponytails give me headaches. I use those spin pin thingies to put my hair up to avoid rubbing or pressure. Friends in healthcare here feel the same way as you, it's easy to run your mouth about "scared" when you aren't on the front lines. We're dogsitting for a couple because they barely have time to sleep, eat, and shower with demands on the job lately. They're just glad they don't have kids to worry about with the reopening. Hopefully the st…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:31 PM
2

60 hours! Yep I would've wussed out, cheers on seeing it through!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:43 AM
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One cock 2704 times stare. I did the cock math with a conservative estimate over 13 years. It takes a toll considering I hit the wall 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:41 AM
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The hat saved people from my hair lol, it got windy and it was all over the place! How are you? I hope things are starting to slow down at least a little on the work front!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:26 AM
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That day yes, it was some sportsball thing my husband's friends wanted to meet up for.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 11:19 AM
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Awesome, how long did the tat take to finish? Out of curiosity did it hurt more near the spine? I have a small tattoo where a bone is near the surface and I'm embarrassed at how badly it hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 08:22 AM
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Idk why he won't accept such a fantastic compromise honestly. I mean the dick is gonna be there it may as well have his face on it 🤭
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:17 AM
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He said I'm a bitch for stifling his creativity by not allowing him to use deepfake software to put my face on a pornstar, and that I would've let him back when I was 19 and more awesome. Not true, I told him he could if he put his face on the guy's dick
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 03:06 AM
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Ahhhhhh so being a parent has definitely armed you well. I too have had to put peroxide or alcohol on kids and it sucks but 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:31 AM
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TOO OLD I'm pretty sure the wall is a girls 12th birthday at this point!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:25 AM
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Are you mad at the bottom tier whining and invoking of your name, or is it an acceptably thankless job to have considering the crowd that does it? Do you perhaps even find it endearing that they bond over you if nothing else in life? Does it give you hope their "pair bonders" aren't irreparably damaged when they find their barely 18 virgin who whores only for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:18 AM
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Lol. They were under the impression purge week was supposed to be their average Q4W response circle jerk x's 10 and are big mad it's not a safe space. I'm shocked, shocked I say!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:10 AM
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Of course not, ew. Doing stuff is for -cels Edit: why are you retards downvoting during purge week? Get it together and spew impotent rage in a mod free environment jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:06 AM
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There's a clapn dem cheeks opportunity here you should make the most of imo!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 12:02 AM
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And doesn't that make you feel better? PPD women are just giving the manpeople what they want. They say it's sympathy, but it's really rage. Now go build us a society or whatever 💕😘
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 11:33 PM
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I thought this would be way more fun to ask my husband, but his response was "This is something you gotta ask after I nut. Not immediately after though, give it a good 10 minutes to an hour." So now I wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 09:41 PM
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This sounds really good in theory, but so many cheese and wine lovers and have a vagina. Incels know this and would probably cultivate something like smegma cheddar or taint fermentation. Too risky. Have them perfect and assemble sex toys like elves for whom Christmas never comes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 11:56 PM
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Litter while jaywalking or stay virgin foreva
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 10:37 PM
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In a situation where everything is great and he's normal + attractive then the weirdest thing about the scenario would be him telling me. Idk what my reaction would be exactly, but no small part of me would be wondering if he's testing for other sex worker related bombs to drop. What does he want from me? Approval? A shame kink satisfied by a stern talking to? It would be unsustainably awkward going forward I imagine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 07:58 AM
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Drop a litter of his bastards. This is good, I need to figure out how to incorporate this into my next mentoring session. Lemme know how it goes, I've got a few years to work on delivery before making sure my daughter skips the forever gf life 🤣 Honestly though, what women in her right mind would agree to give birth to children that would be seen as bastards in the eyes of the law. Maybe religious women in that sweet spot between not loving The Lord their God enough to be abstinent and too scare…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 06:06 AM
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No, it translates to what I mean: someone who can take on risk and has what it takes to make a marriage work. Why do you think so little of men that this is impossible to you? Edit: lmao of course you got all emo on behalf of my husband despite not knowing either of us. He's a little grossed out at manosphere pity fwiw, but thanks for the lols
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 03:04 AM
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What's romantic is being all in, knowing the gravity of what you're doing and doing it with eager anticipation and joy. It's the total opposite of a panty drying "government something something muh risks." In women-speak (for those who want marriage) it translates to "I'm terrified and guaranteed to fail so can we skip all the weighty stuff because I'm a bad long term bet. But I'd really enjoy fucking you while it lasts so can you shut up and get to that?" Men will do shocking and sometimes amaz…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:11 AM
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Congrats!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:28 AM
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Lol no, the paper is the part that counts. The rest is very nice though. For all the reasons listed by others and because I'd never drop my pants simply because a guy could squeak out "I love you" let alone drop a litter of his bastards. I'm just not dumb/low self esteem enough to go all in for half measures on his part. I don't feel bad in the slightest either. He's not a hostage and can go find the forever girlfriend of his dreams if that's what he really wants because it's never going to be m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 01:24 AM
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No worries at all I get it and didn't mean to come off as mad, sorry if I did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:44 PM
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You ever see the old animated Charlotte's Web film? Templeton the rat was ruined for me after knowing what else was probably happening at the fair smorgasbord 😂 https://youtu.be/-bTSs3hTNRE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 08:13 PM
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Literal mating preferences of the entire animal kingdom wasn't the point, but your focus here doesn't disagree with my expressed preferences at all. If you're disagreeable and discerning enough to have only the sex you want with only men who meet strict standards then I think picky lady animals aren't feeling judged for their nature. Fwiw I did marry someone who brings me shiny things with a great nest so mother nature approved lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:58 PM
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Right on, congrats that's exciting :)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:18 AM
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Right, a purely instinctually driven urge is what you'd expect from animals. The article describes the same act with "higher" motivations associated with people and shaming tacked on for those who don't partake. I'm kind of entertained by the notion of humans with free will, risk aversion, intelligence, and choice being looked down on for not banging like instinctually ruled dumpster rats; but I also find it actually gross rather than empowering to let any random on in. I can't imagine being mor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 09:53 AM
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Exactly, it's why I hope Mr Rat was barely a blip of awareness as she ate tasty noms at a buffet of plenty lol. Saying "no" 99.9999% of the time and knowing who I dated forever before sex was on the table did find me a few good Manobos though 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:56 AM
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Right around the age my friends teen sex (horror) stories started, I went to San Francisco and experienced an eye bleach moment. Down at Fisherman's Wharf around dusk was a bunch of overly full trash cans. Random garbage strewn around, fish guts, chowder, etc, and rats were running to and fro. When I went to throw something away I peeked around to make sure I wasn't going to have a close encounter with one and saw a 2 rats going at it, the girl rat with her face smashed into the remnants of a so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 11:13 PM
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Idk either, zero effort slobs aren't attractive whether male or female. History definitely disagrees with hygiene and presentation not mattering. Vikings were slaying literally and figuratively in their conquests that's for sure. So much it's historically chronicled In the chronicle written by John of Wallingford (Chronica Joannis Wallingford), he wrote as follows: The Danes, thanks to their habit to comb their hair every day, to bathe every Saturday, to change their garments often, and set off …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:03 PM
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Nice score! Are you still in Nicaragua? Tropical gardening sounds pretty awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:28 PM
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I don't see the damage to society done by making sure kids eat. I've seen the arguments that it makes some men mad that they might end up with a kid if they have sex which isn't the same thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 09:13 PM
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Ahhhhhh. Context is everything!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:35 PM
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I don't understand the non logic of men who get pissy it takes effort to be attractive. Do they think those curated social media photos they drool over are just out of bed 🤣 To me the funniest part is them acting slighted on behalf of men who can pull attractive women for having to deal with the fact we don't wake up covered in our Fenty/Natasha Denona best. Like reality is somehow frightening to all men just because it makes them shrivel. Incels totally don't want to put in effort. Like Pickmei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 08:34 PM
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If they're commenting on kids or child support 99% chance they either don't have kids or take some "friends" half baked story as truth. Divorce and custody arrangements aren't so rare in the real world that made-for-reddit horror stories are average, but rage is too fun to wallow in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 08:27 PM
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Totally agree. I don't live with or share finances and kids with my best friends. It's easy to be totally relaxed around them because of that which is great. My husband though, I AM way more thoughtful in what I say, and he is with me. By thoughtful I don't mean careful, there's no anxiety around saying what needs to be said it's more about care and consideration that's easily given. It's a relationship you don't get a break from and you have to be able to take on challenges together from a real…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 10:17 AM
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Hahahaha my favorite thing ever lately is the crusty shampoo/body wash/conditioner 3in1 guys claiming not having hangnails like shards of glass and an actual haircut is gay 🙄 Speaking of crusty, we know they know what lotion is when it comes time to beat their meat. Would it kill them to spread it out a little further? Maybe their dick skin being all moisturized and smooth compared to the rest of their body has them thinking it really is magical. It's just lotion dudes not sorcery. http://imgur.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 09:49 AM
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Just block him he's only here to fill his wahmen hate post quota. Nothing of value would be lost.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:43 AM
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Oh yes, you're definitely here in good faith. For discussion. Right.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:41 AM
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Lol wouldn't be surprised if he thought umbilical cords are "penetration." Can't wait for the manospherian best seller 'Cucked from Birth: Hypergamy Starts in the Womb' I'd rate it 5/5 whole sympathies 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 12:36 AM
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If you want to see it as shaming I can't stop you, it just doesn't make sense. If the goal is to make women "froth at the mouth" over supposedly not wanting them, figuratively blowing dudes screams they didn't want women in the first place. How rage inducing 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:16 PM
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They're too busy with armed protests in terrifying places with underwhelming odds like Target.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 09:04 AM
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No, my relationships (save 1) ended over moving for school or jobs rather than some kind of unresolvable conflict or drama. While they were good they were great. The one that ended in conflict was him wanting to fuck the entire Western world with a gf, which was a no-go on my end. He did bring it up before doing it so I'm not mad at it. Better than finding out because of a sudden itching and burning sensation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 11:26 PM
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It could be as simple hot girl telling her friends not to let her fuck randos if she gets drunk and thinks it's a great idea. We don't vibe kill our friends for no reason though even if they aren't apparent, otherwise we'd have no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:10 AM
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It's not necessarily a cockblock, if she went out with her friends they aren't going to strand her. Especially with some guy they don't know! Being out at a bar or club is a social thing, you start out as a group of say 6 and by the end of the night you've bar hopped with the fun randoms you've met, and if they aren't giving off serial killer vibes someone is probably getting laid. It gets weird when someone makes it clear they think the evening is strictly about their dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:55 AM
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I don't begrudge them that, presumably everyone wants fidelity for marriage. It's strictly those that claim to love slutting it up with sluts while secretly hating sluts or whatever their thought process is. Someone in a non-committal hoe phase should be quite happy with what they've got if variety is what they're after. So it looks suspect as fuck to see guys who are supposedly happily banging sluts acting butthurt about sluts existing. As in it doesn't happen off PPD so I'm going with sideline…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:47 PM
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I hate slut shaming bc I like getting laid. That's the only honest take from guys who actually are getting laid and enjoying themselves. The bitterness commonly passed off as "slut, erhm women knowledge" just look like sideline fomo rants. They'll get pissy and dv without realizing if it keeps them from ranting it's well worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:24 PM
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You're assuming a lot by what I wrote instead of responding to it. My dad is 13 years older than my mom, my husband is 7 years older than me, all of my brothers are older than their wives by 5+ years and we've all been married 10+ years. Duh, obviously it can be done I already said so above. People who can do it sincerely and happily don't erase the reality that there are obviously predatory men who do it too and people have a normal bad reaction to it. I've seen it irl, it's not "awesome." Yeah…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 11:08 PM
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Also so many women DO complain today about how effete and weak men are in bed that I think a lot of guys overcompensate toward “okay we are gonna leave nothing but a blast mark here.” Lol in college we called these guys slamborghinis. Whatever they ended up doing would be memorable, not necessarily good though. Slamborghinis are often best noted and not fucked. You get the behavior you incentivize. Whiiiich brings me to the good. Lipizzaners, you know those horses that will jump and pose and car…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:50 PM
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Yeah but pussy power is inherent. The men making threads about age differences aren't the ones who can pull it off, they're just riffing. We've seen it pulled off irl, it's either a) completely and obviously predatory or b) the man is so hv in ways women appreciate the age difference doesn't matter to anyone. There is no real middle ground here for the average man, and certainly not bottom tier ones, so why the focus on it? It's watching "have nots" ego stroke the "haves" and telling each other …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 09:16 AM
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I'd guess most women are aware of it but how to deal with it is where things can get dicey. I have older brothers so I was definitely aware of it (projectile vomit emoji) and it definitely put shields WAY up regarding any guy I wasn't related to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:01 AM
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Never into hooking up but I would've hooked up with who I ended up marrying. Even straight up autistically said I would because it was bad relationship timing but it was shot down. It wasn't a case of virtue signaling, he made it very clear he was over casual. There was no appeal to it in general though. Hotness as a factor couldn't overcome the general "meh" and I'd rather sleep than fuck a random.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:48 AM
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Yeah if the item or the $250 really means so much why did he chuck them on the floor with his pants like garbage? Just love how she gave him a heads up and he blames her for not having enough firing synapses to conclude airpods + washing machine = bad. Empty your own pockets and use a hamper manpig, jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:46 PM
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Not all heroes wear capes. Dust off your dandiest internet attire, throw your pinkie up, and teach them what it is to slum in good taste.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 10:57 PM
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That assholes brother shows up here for a cuckfest too! Bitches get the tingles for something they can really sink their teeth into. Despite this my husband is online looking at jeweled leather necklaces for ours. It's like if you pant and wiggle your butt enough for men they'll excuse anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 08:22 PM
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No not that one specifically. My 3 minute concealer, mascara, and lip gloss routine is very consistent lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 07:54 PM
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"Hey! Ginger girl! You ever let a n*gga lick your butthole?!" yelled at me while rushing through the parking lot trying not to be late to class. I did crack up, but no buttholes were licked. "You'd be so hot without your glasses" said by an idiot in a lab that somehow didn't know what safety goggles are. I made him aware of both things.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:44 PM
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What the bottom tier men of the manosphere want is to cut to front of the line because they want to win and it isn’t fair that they are not winning simply because they want it. This is why I'm not surprised they think Pickmeishas are just swell. They're doing that same obsessive transactional analysis as a "relationship" that ends in being a forever bangmaid. Accounting for everything but themselves and confused as to whyyyy it never works out. Nobody likes a cutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:29 PM
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But you do you It was tempting for half a millisecond to be an enemy of fun and see monsters everywhere but I'm backing away from the ledge and sticking to what I know, good call. whew that was close, good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:32 AM
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I mean sure if you're a bunch of uptight Puritans pretending to be virgins after getting married and having kids, etc I could see how it might require a fainting couch to joke. Otherwise it's pretty nice to be completely absolved from kid watching while they're with their grandparents.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:03 AM
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Yup I still get rage tics over it. If they were going to off-road the plot at the very least Brienne could've gotten with Tormund instead of that poncy sister fucker Jaime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 04:36 AM
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I love them too, you're going to have a great time with them! Both of those breeds are very cute I'm so tempted by both lol. I hear Cavalier King Charles are super cuddle buddies and corgi's are so fun. We have friends with Corgi puppos and they're great. We're just babysitters for this one, friends in healthcare got her before Covid and now they're hardly home. She never stops playing, ever. Even now my husband is watching something and has one hand pulling on her rope toy. It keeps her from ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:26 AM
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Both my parents were very into our marriage and theirs was obviously great so I agree. Their motivation is likely drawn from their own experience whether good or bad. My dad did say to wait to have kids. My mom on the other hand built a small guest house after most of us kids got married despite having guest rooms. Pretty big friggin hint but she had no problem outright saying it too lmao. All the kids/spouses refer to it as the fuck hut, breeder bungalow, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 03:15 AM
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Spur of the moment decision to open our relationship up! There's a surprising amount of sugaring, but she's young so it's worth it. I'm definitely going to have to talk to her about actually leaping onto my husband's dick. Here she is on the very special gear she requires because she's so hot. http://imgur.com/a/TrUppWr
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:51 AM
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Done. Like lady Olenna I want them to know it was me!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 02:19 AM
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Yeah and literally all of the arts. Talent is literally a means to attract the attention of people who matter so you can do things like eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:56 AM
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Tiiiiits....asssss....must....have....age ain't nuthin but a number bb...muh penis I can see why they think their lizard brains are superior 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:32 AM
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I'm good with people having n count preferences, it just seems pointless to try and manage what others value. I value not banging friend leftovers, it's gross to even consider like they think high n counts are gross. I sideyed friends (well one friend) who seemed to think sportfucking exes was awesome. So weird, it's like preselection taken to mentally impaired levels because men aren't a scarce resource.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:38 PM
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the social skills women select for was useful in hunter gatherer societies, not advanced western civilizations Anybody with a job that can't be done purely from a computer disagrees. Socializing, networking, getting to know people of worth or renown in your field, capitalizing on opportunities to display your own qualities are all still very much a thing. Industries like healthcare require social skills to handle a wide variety of patients. People that provide high level customer service/sales i…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 11:08 PM
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I feel the same way. This wasn't a thing after high school thank God! The men who think it's virtue signaling to say so don't understand an n count of faceless randoms is very different than the snail trails of your friends 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 10:52 PM
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Age and demographic don't matter when talking about "men" when it comes to fathers, because bad ones come in all varieties. Specific "bad" people who may enter the picture matter more than a specific demographic. If you want to focus on that one specifically you should take it up with who wrote it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:20 PM
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Would you take someone precious to you and cast them out to the whims of those who would gleefully destroy them? Or would you teach them how to fend for themselves and see in others high value traits they themselves possess? Age and demographic don't matter when talking about "men" when it comes to fathers, because bad ones come in all varieties.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:10 PM
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This is from my experience so grain of salt time, but I think it only appears that mom is the one with the influence when it comes to daughters vetting. My dad never acknowledged anyone I was dating beyond minor pleasantries but he had plenty to say to my mom about it, and I'm 100% sure his opinion was in the advice or observations she shared. I kind of have a glimpse of that now. My daughter lives and dies by what her dad says, it's a big deal and just how she is. She's only 7 though so no dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:47 PM
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I don't think you're wrong for having this as a pov, and my mom/plenty of women I adored growing up were sahm's, so I'll never bash it as a choice. But ime dads are the ones that push you. They see things in you that as a kid you don't see the potential in and help you manage struggles and setbacks until one day you're like "oh, that's what he meant when..." It's not a cautionary or safe role in terms of the parental figure with expectations. Selecting for a sahm future seems like more of a moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 10:21 PM
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Because fathers know the depths of male depravity and aren't beholden to groupthink when it comes to their daughters. It's a delicious bit of irony that a good father is gatekeeping by example vs the low effort hordes who think all men are on the side of women as fuck toys. They'll deny it, but they circle jerk women with daddy issues as easy fucks too much to be believed.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:50 PM
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100% agree, and fwiw just had some guy elsewhere try to peddle that intuition is "useless and vain" so they're definitely onto women making correct defensive decisions without needing to suffer mountains of shitty male behavior and awful sex as "evidence." They really think we should examine every microsecond we spend and make decisions based on what's best for them and that we can be false logic shamed into doing so. Fuck that noise. There is no LVM fomo but they'll try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 09:40 PM
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I would never! Aside from the fact they turn me into a sneezy, wheezing, itchy eyed pile of allergic misery I enjoy those tiny murder machines. I wish I were kidding, I'm dumb enough to pet even though it feels like my face is turning inside out while being scratched off. Cats being psychotic seem to enjoy it too 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:11 PM
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Women like dogs, some more than cats, being nice to dogs is fantastic, any woman who disagrees is she-monster, shhh don't tell the manosphere they're all supposed to think death by cat lady is guaranteed and terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 09:00 PM
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Eeeeeewww no that's disgusting!! And really stupid, you have to go full retard to think you can flush a pad! Fun tmi fact about period shits because there's no going back now: decreased prostaglandins and higher progesterone right before a period contribute to bloating and constipation. They switch for a woman's period to flush the uterine lining and all that bloated backflow is affected too. It's truly a horror show and I feel so bad for you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:58 PM
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Well a lot of women (myself included) have a post-wall or suddenly single plan that prefers dogs over cats. My dog is an angel I'd do just about anything for and my husband treating her as such is lady affection erection material. Just don't tell anyone, we're supposed to keep those meetings secret.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:43 PM
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i wanna fuck tonight and you're killing my libido with all that caring for your sick dog. I know this is hyperbole, but any woman who'd actually say/do this is either an alien or needs to be staked through the heart. Yeesh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:37 PM
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Don't try get rules lawyer after asshurt downvoting because I'm not debating your feelings. Call it insight, call it experience adding up to not needing to breakdown every experience down to the millisecond like some dork slave to self doubt. Do you!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 08:02 PM
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I'm not sure what you want from me, if you want to think intuition is vanity you're free to do so. I'm not going to argue you out of it or pretend I have fomo of the bad experience variety over it 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:02 PM
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I disagree that intuition isn't a part of filtering itself, but ymmv. After getting a bad vibe I didn't feel compelled to potentially put myself at risk to prove it wrong. If good results are the goal success was achieved so I found it neither useless or vain. Certainly no more useless or vain than taking a bunch of crap or dick from dead end men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 11:28 AM
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If men need intimacy that they can't get from women, then maybe legalizing prostitution and removing the stigma around it is the best way to help these men. I'm not convinced this is their issue since prostitution is legal in places incels exist. On top of that, outside of PPD when reading on the topic sex workers have reported these meek and horny guys making arrangements to meet just to flip out and call them whores in person and block them from leaving. Sex workers also report getting flooded…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 06:56 AM
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Yup but if she's got a pump and dump past and doesn't trust herself to make the right decision in the moment it's a risk of loss she's probably accepted. A woman who just heard it's a "good thing to do" and adopts it without any grasp of her own good intuition is hobbling herself imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:33 AM
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there is sexual tension and an interest in moving forwards Hitting the brakes in this situation is flying plane into boat. Women with dependable intuition do well in going ahead. I see the 3 month rule as a forced defensive measure for spotty vetting or intuitive choices ending badly in the past. I wouldn't expect a man to get it or wait so it's definitely a risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:16 AM
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Some sure, but mostly they come off as wanting "sluts", finding them and getting laid(?), getting pissed they exist at all, hating all women, pedestalizing 18-24 virgins and non casuals, then pissed that category of women says no to them like they do practically everyone else, hate women more. They can't just go get laid and "take their turn" like people 100% aware of what they're doing, it doesn't count unless you hate women in general while claiming you don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:44 AM
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I can't really disagree with any of your health points, but I got married at 22 and know other people who have around the same age. The "vibrancy, naivety, youth" answers here from a male perspective might be true, but the female commonality I see in successful marriages at that age are women who knew what they wanted early in general, not in a man specific only way. Like drive your parents insane, no compromise, no chill kind of temperament that only concedes to someone of greater skill in an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 01:23 AM
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My husband hasn't been feeling well today and blamed it on a carnitas burrito from yesterday and carried on. I got him some ginger ale, Gatorade, otc meds, sick people food and thought he'd be fine. Well not 10 minutes ago he dropped into bed with a low fever. Tells me he's fine because "ass of fire isn't a Covid symptom." Google it, nope. It's not high on the list but it's there and now I'm bizarrely hopeful for food poisoning. I can't imagine a scenario where everyone here doesn't have it alre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:52 AM
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Mine does this too, with the added bonus of not just elaborating already! He'll say something like "Doug is really not happy with Jerry right now." Then: silence. Like I HAVE to ask why or what happened. With everything. It's become a game where I just wait until it should be awkward but he's on to me and won't crack lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:31 AM
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Downloaded, this is perfect timing. I think I've worn out the allure of Netflix 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:21 AM
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Yeah i realized my blunder on this post not EXPLICITLY noting that non profit employees and especially management are widely known for being toxic incompetent imbeciles, but that just makes the people who show up for free or low pay and put up with it all the more valuable 100% the best people are the ones throwing money at a cause from the sidelines and the ones neck deep in the dirty work. The dabblers, ew I don't do that types, power mad management and gossips with influence are such a drain.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:12 AM
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Yup I use it in my ballet classes too, you get sick of piano sometimes lol. I didn't even know there were books! Are they good? Idk why I'm asking because I'm definitely going to read them!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 10:06 PM
2

I totally agree! I died watching that, especially after all they went through to get the Pegasus with Admiral Cain. And everybody clapped like he was the goodest boy for scrapping a state of the art ship for nothing. The song Prelude to War during the episode they sent Marines to torch the hull and rescue their people is my personal Eye of the Tiger. Bear McReary is doing music for all kinds of tv now, I notice his name when it pops up.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:53 PM
2

Very true, the writers strike was a plague! I remember hating how they made Starbuck an alcoholic power slut just for kicks. Like I get the whole self destructive angle but they went crazy far with it. Watching a Battlestar burn through the atmosphere while launching vipers at New Caprica made up for it though holy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:34 PM
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Not religious, sci-fi genre enjoyment, hygiene habits that border on decadence, eating healthy, being physically active are all things me and former partners had in common. One of them tried to say Stargate SG-1 was better than Battlestar Galactica and I had to throw the whole man out though /s
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:29 PM
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INFJ, can totally relate. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:16 PM
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I actually met my husband volunteering at a children's foundation. I don't think it made me appear kinder though, if anything more savvy. I started at a formative enough age that I wasn't looking at it from an adult perspective at first. When you work with children who've been mangled by their parents, hear stories from social workers and lawyers, sit in family courts and watch what goes on, it makes you realize one thing exceptionally clearly: sifting through someone's garbage personality and s…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 09:12 PM
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If he had remained short and met you, he would have seen a cold, dismissive, callous part of you that is hidden to him right now He's seen every shortcoming of mine, we've been together 13 years. Being tall, black, white, gay, straight, etc doesn't save your partner or yourself from witnessing weaknesses over time. There is no hiding the "bad" that comes with the good, only refusal to see it for what it is or deal with it constructively. Being tall didn't just open the floodgates to strictly hap…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:23 AM
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Maybe, but we'll never know. The point was in a parent comment a short guy who got tall remembered anger from women. Not all men do. This isn't directed at you personally, but it's really made people feel some kinda way to say it looking at the emotional karma rollercoaster. I think it has less to do with adult height or life experience than it does with everything guy related needing to align with wahmen=bad here lately. Not everyone is treated the exact same way, not everyone is ruled by their…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:21 AM
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Hope not!! I hope it isn't any of the typical shit reasons either and she just got sick of PPD and/or reddit. I'm guessing some pissy incel got disgusting in her DMs. The things that make people rage here are bizarre, and the psychos are bored in quarantine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:30 AM
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Maybe your husband had a good face to offset his insufficient bones during that time? He has a fantastic face, but I'm hugely biased. I see your point though. Or perhaps a demographic thing. Go to certain cities and towns and average height changes. A demo filled with short men and women aren't going to raise eyebrows. He grew up in Downey, SoCal until he was 16 and moved to Laguna Hills. When I asked him about demographics he said the only one that mattered regarding bad treatment was skin colo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 04:42 AM
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Anecdotally my husband was super short until his junior year in hs and is 6'2 now. He describes being seen as "harmless" or cute like a toy. He said riding the bus in Jr high was awesome because girls didn't watch themselves around him at all. Changing, legs flopped open in skirts, etc. He could even comment and they'd just laugh like teehee oops. He saw it as a free show and never said anything shitty to lose the front row seat 🙄 The variation in experience really makes me wonder if height is t…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 03:51 AM
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Damn, sucks. Love her or hate her she kept it pretty real
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 12:17 AM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:48 PM
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So would it even be the kind of thing that has a negative impact on marriages/relationships, or dating? The only 2 things I know will trigger the average adult are money or kid issues. Those very often result in knee-jerk emotional responses. Stress from either could definitely have a negative impact. If you have kids and lose jobs that's a double whammy. Even if you don't have a "problem" with money within your marriage or relationship it's still very relevant at times like these. Right now we …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:25 PM
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Both the marriages and divorces were in the US, California to be exact.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 09:12 PM
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Lol, I was picturing a mix of that Gregory kid from the South Park movie and the snobs kid from Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt. "Hello, I'm Gregory. I attend St. Coutil's School for Fancy Boys and have a 4.0 grade point average." breaks into Les Miserables song about about golf cart etiquette instead of revolution
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 10:10 AM
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making women orgasm is LITERALLY what makes men good in bed Porn got them thinking we came so hard watching them nut or something. Such a man! However could we replace him with another capable of the exact same thing after we do?! Impossibru!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:34 AM
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You're going to have to be specific about how far back you're talking, because sluts and thots and single moms were around 10-13 years ago too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:53 AM
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I wouldn't say FDS is at all how dating used to be but anyway. As of 10-13 years ago it definitely was. Maybe things have changed so drastically it's not anymore, but then trying to grab your wallet had a guy wondering if you were sizing your purse to fit his balls. It was not "cute" or endearing to fight over a check. Men didn't show off to women like they do men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:39 PM
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I think intuition is the biggest friend when it comes to knowing when is the "right" time. Agreed I have never personally been led on and dumped after sex (thank god) because I can tell men's intentions and it's hard for men to fake openness when they are actually not feeling it. Same, but the ymmv aspect is another reason I don't bother contradicting the advice. I just couldn't follow it personally lol Also, I think if you are both into each other and wait too long feelings might fizzle out.. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:17 PM
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Totally same, I've never waited that long. I don't say anything to criticize it because I was dating 13 years ago from within my extended social group rather than OLD. I had plenty of opportunities to know what I was in for so it wasn't fucking blindly even on the first date if it worked out that way. If all I knew was a profile though I'd very likely wait....but idk about a full 90 days lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:30 PM
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But he'd like, wish her well and stuff and explain how the break up hurts him more than her and ohhhh a short skirt with an intact ass just walked by, have a nice life byyyyye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:47 AM
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How much you want to bet this bf doesn't have a colostomy bag kink and will nope out if it happens?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:44 AM
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Yup I bet the gyno gave her the damage news straight and it's being left out to add damsel points to her sad kinkmeisha tale 🙄 There's no way this would happen as told in a professional setting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:41 AM
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No, he has to show up and understand the court process. Can't be too hard if so many women can do it. Dad (forty years ago) and brother (eleven years ago) both got primary custody of their kids and they didn't have to do anything beyond the court process. They actually wanted primary custody though so there's that. I swear Atlas has linked the stats on men not being interested in custody 898899 times idk why this fable lasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:27 AM
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They should really run with this stuff and make a manosphere apocalypse cult or something more interesting than neurotic navel gazing. I picture them hunched over desks like monks in a monastery and quills dipped in Cheeto dust. Furiously scribbling away on expired unopened condoms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:12 AM
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I seriously can't picture more than 3 of them actually getting laid in a way that doesn't involve prostitution or creepy 2 am last call stalking. Those dicks are straight up kindling. I take back the FDS hate orgy thing though. The collective force of that busted rage-nut would probably take out the sun. The resulting scrote singularity would really ruin our day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 12:08 AM
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I said this on PPD forever ago because incels and dry dicks there are obsessed with FDS, they had nothing but "MuH GoLDdigGer! OLd waHmen! CATS!' in a never ending circle jerk with each other that totally ignored the whole debate aspect of the place. I'm surprised they haven't had a big scrote emotional support orgy. BROOO it's not gay if it's focused on hating FDS 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 11:46 PM
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Same but married, I'd have to be injured or sick to pass up sex. My husband isn't autistic enough to try or neurotic enough to have a monogamy sucks meltdown in those circumstances. Idk why some men here think effort is worse than death. The things that obviously take effort feel effortless with the right person. Now to sit back and watch the angry manboy downvotes that don't change my sex life or marital effort levels one bit, you guys never disappoint 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:29 PM
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Again if you have that buffet and you consistently choose the poisoned lobster, I Will judge you on that... This is understandable, we do it to each other too. We all have (or had) that one friend who was always going off about shit men in her life completely oblivious to the fact that she chooses dipshits every single time. It's fine in your teens but around your early 20's it gets old and you start pointing out the field of red flags hoping to avoid the fallout. It doesn't work. It's not even …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:57 PM
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Of course people have passwords, laptops leave secure environments all the time so I don't know how you made that leap. We just aren't freaks acting like we have super secret private online double lives the other can never know about. Who cares if we pick up each other's phones to Google something, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:10 PM
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No it isn't, plenty of men want to look, earn, and achieve their best regardless of women. This isn't even a strictly gendered thing as most people set out to do exactly that since those 3 things are pivotal to a wide variety of life's goals and successes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:20 AM
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I can't imagine having the time or inclination to care enough to police online habits. Neither of us is secretive though so it's easy to say. If I married a guy scurrying around with his phone constantly tilted away from me or a laptop with a password I'd very likely care more.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:33 AM
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Awesome thank you! I did do a trim after buying scissors online and did it like you mentioned but don't currently have bangs. Blunt cuts bad for newbies doing their own trim! Now that I have the tools I gotta work up the guts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:34 AM
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Yeah it's funny watching this get "called out" as a bloop thing when the first Q4W I saw waking up at an ungodly hour was a terper circle jerk in disguise about women's "hypocrisy" regarding n count because they don't want to fuck bi guys. But it's bloops in blinders here. 🙄 X's infinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:58 PM
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That's a valid point, although I'm to understand that most "real" bisexual women are very upfront about turning down men's requests for threesomes. I'm friends with quite a few, they have some very very high hotness standards for men because they prefer women. Women being generally choosier than men, adding a preference for other women makes men a potentially fun but non-essential novelty. If anything they complain about not enough men they'd be into being actually bi, and they'll throw a dick t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:46 AM
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My guess is men like women, they find a larger portion of women attractive than women do for men...so it's just math. One hot naked chick is great but two hot naked chicks touching each other who would also touch a (read: their) dick is a great fucking time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:29 AM
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It's simpler than some deep down disgust of men taking a dick. I don't, and never will, have a dick. He clearly likes dicks. He should go find the dick that makes him happy. There are just too many devoted vagina lovers to bother with a double dipping dabbler.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 07:10 AM
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Agreed. Ailes is an opportunistic sleazebag with enough money to pass it off as alfalfa behavior while the getting was good. But I'm sure there are plenty of newsrooms that came with just as legit work minus the labia length skirts and a conservabarbie makeover required for that particular job. Everyone's the asshole imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:58 AM
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You're my hero, did you find a good tutorial or wing it? I'm scared but tempted.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 06:35 AM
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The tiny minority always sounded suspect to me too, but I chalked it up to SES/situational stuff and shrugged. My mom didn't work and my dad a very demanding career so it made sense since they had a lot of kids. Now that I'm older I've heard my mom say she'd never have gotten a nanny, it's like the lady version of cucking yourself to hear her go off about it lol. I worked full time until kid #2. Speaking of which the whole "men are rising up and demanding that bitch pull a plow if that's all she…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:47 PM
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I'm pretty sure they think all women are whores because 90% of women they're exposed to are porn subreddits with the last 10% being actual prostitutes. Maybe their moms thrown in somewhere. Their chosen demographic is somehow magically all women and complete happenstance, as everyone knows "nice girls" roam the streets passing out cookies and hugs to strange men when not in church. Riddle him why he's never met one, checkmate whoooores! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 07:31 PM
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I'm skimming Reddit listening to my husband tell me he had a dream that the 10 years ago version of himself wouldn't let him fuck the 10 years ago version of me. This is in a shocked tone that he'd cockblock himself of course "what's his is mine, what an asshole!" so your comment made me lol. I asked if he felt unfairly oppressed and got "What's. His. Is. Mine." Mmkay.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 04:00 PM
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Their post fits in with that consistency so you don't disagree. Divorce spikes around the holidays and summer break because people that can't stand each other are spending more time together, exactly like Covid quarantine.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:42 AM
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Finding someone you can love and is worthy of your love and loves you the same way is a miracle. Always has been. I agree. With this in mind I can see the conversation/debate value in topics like general attraction and dating and/or marriage stats. Bitter people throwing out weird transactional relationship requirements or statements of relationship (non) value as 'absolutes' are just venting somewhere they won't get banned or jonesing for a angry mental rub n tug with peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 08:30 AM
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Idk what's so hard about this to understand, they literally think all a guy has to do is be hot and women are scrambling to fend off multiple orgasms from eye contact...or something? When they bitch about starfish sex, I agree because that sucks. Obviously. Duh. Yet the zero effort male equivalent is somehow a legend in the sack in their brains.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 07:58 AM
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Why would she "want" him if he can't fuck? You mean pretend to want him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 06:09 AM
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I feel I should honor the Southwaistern flair of the situation and divorce him while sitting on his face. That feels right!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:08 PM
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Not in general no, but circumstances can change that. Even so it's not the chores themselves that do anything for me, usually it's more to do with consideration or accommodating without being asked. The example that comes to mind was changing these valve cartridge things for the showers in our old house. I watched a YouTube video, it looked tedious but not hard, so I was just going to do it since it was early in the day and it requires shutting the water main off. By the time I got back from get…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 10:19 AM
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Direct from my daughter's Frozen book: "Hans will not kiss Anna. He does not love her." I haven't expanded on the thought because she's seven, but before she starts dating she'll know Hans may not want to kiss Anna but he wouldn't mind a quick fuck. Oh and condoms suckkkk he's totally clean pinky promise http://imgur.com/a/BM3JP3s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:23 AM
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So tonight I'm cooking dinner with my husband and our kids are so bored they're flopped over dining room chairs asking important questions like "what's your most favoritest food?" Husband answers "Southwaistern" with such a straight face they don't correct it and instead ask what it is. I already know what's coming and am down the hall when he tells them "ask your mom" while cackling. They tell him I'm gone and he yells down the hall "Dats waist-ist!!" while cackling even harder. This definitely…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:08 AM
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The fact that this won't hit anyone who needs to hear it where it hurts makes it better. ThOtS and CofFeE and SpLiT tHe ChEcK mouthfoamers inc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:56 PM
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The only way I can conceivably see myself doing that is if his and my kids are adults already. I have no interest in a new and exciting stepmonster challenge in life. Not interested in likely having to be a whipping girl for whatever real and imagined crimes his ex committed either. Even less interested in living with the ghost of a saintly dead ex. I say this knowing I'd be hell to be in a relationship with if I got divorced or widowed so it's not in the spirit of thinking I'm "better than" sin…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 09:55 AM
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I'd suck oxygen's dick in a filthy bathroom and thank it after! Teehees in Pickmeisha
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 01:41 AM
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Pfft I'll keep my pedestal and the one my husband is on, they're nice places to be. No DB, great jobs, haven't gotten fat or given up, healthy happy kids, no major worries...who tf else would we revere if not each other? That whole ball & chain or manchild act to make others feel comfortable is never going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:29 AM
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She did include personality in there but related it to traits her bf appreciates which are specific to him and unnecessary to delve into in detail to make her point. You making "special" into some super elite unique category of person that hardly anyone can attain is your choice, it doesn't make her experience wrong it makes her realistic. Most of humanity aren't supermodel geniuses and adjust our special pedestals accordingly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:23 AM
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No. Physical attraction to me in order of importance is face, height, shoulders. Dicks aren't relevant by themselves, just that they're attached to someone I want to have sex with. That involves not having a revolting personality even attractiveness can't overcome, or being so fun to be around idc if he's got tentacle peen or is a never-nude.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 09:17 PM
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Every single time I see simp as it's used here I'm like "welp, me and every person I know is a simp!" Effort and consideration aren't edgy enough for the black pilled hordes, pussy drops from the sky and men only commit to women with x amount of IG followers and...and...ding my tendies are ready.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 08:18 PM
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I swear it's like quarantine has me absorbing dad joke energy, my husband has been entertaining himself waaaay too much watching us react to his!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 07:46 AM
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Can she ever get an ego boost from a man choosing to “give” her his seed? Nope, while dating I liked men how I like my grapes: seedless. Condoms ftw.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 02:40 AM
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I agree and it really pisses me off. It sucks for everyone but some special snowflakes can't handle FaceTime or Zoom temporarily. One bizarre local thing I've noticed is the senior citizens giving zero fucks about social distancing. Even regular "wait here" signs at the pharmacist they totally ignore. Had an old lady shoulder me while paying at a store yesterday so she could yell at my cashier for not taking returns during Covid-19 protocols! Come to think of it, yesterday was old people quarant…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 11:16 PM
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That wasn't humor, that was me noticing you being clueless with an extreme opinion on some very basic girling things, you getting tradcon disguised as internet wisdom, and our final stop: your version of internet mad. I'm not taking it personally, I'm sure you believe it's makeup and fashion that make women unbearable while scrolling through ig or online dating 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:49 AM
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There's nothing wrong with middle of the road, plenty of occasions call for it. However I was responding to this makeup and fashion are frivolous wastes of time. Which is nowhere near a middle of the road opinion. It's the internet frustration of a guy who looks down his nose at femininity while still hoping a woman will touch his dick enthusiastically someday. His comment following does nothing to make me think otherwise. Except perhaps imply that he's mad hot potato sack wearing virgins don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:33 AM
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If women wanted to impress men they wouldn't care about make up or fashion but about modesty. You should just lead with being a tradcon, the rest just reads like: wahmen bad plz touch peen newayz
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 12:24 AM
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If you think makeup and fashion are a waste of time as you said we disagree. You don't get brownie points for being culturally or socially retarded as a woman. Well maybe from high inhibition male introverts but that's not a category women strive to impress.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:30 PM
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The tone deafness of this post is truly quarantine quality. Makeup and fashion are part of knowing how to girl. Social awareness and the ability to fit in many or most situations isn't frivolous or a waste of time to anyone with a life that doesn't end if their router craps out.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 06:24 PM
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you wont get sex, you will get a tombstone with your name on it. They don't seem to realize when they talk about a group of dry dicks angry enough to "burn it all down" they aren't talking about men as a whole. More of a tiny subset that aren't content to game and jerk off until they're shooting dust bunnies and one day auto asphyxiate peacefully to the great pornhub in the sky. Most first world normies and sexually successful men aren't going to stand by and let them burn anything more than a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 12:08 PM
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I think there's nothing nefarious about not wearing them all the time. I don't wear mine to work or at home but if I go out adulting otherwise I do. Learned the hard way not to wear them at the park when my son took a chunk out of himself slamming into me accidentally! Active kids and prongs/sharp edges are bad town.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 07:51 AM
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It's like showing up to work on time every day, knocking it out of the park and then the job you're supposed to get goes to your VP's slacker son who never even went to college. This actually happened to my husband right out of college, he was furious. If you were 50+ and/or had the right last name you could be a total fuckup and they'd rely on the educated to clean up the mess. He left after turning the other invaluables without the right last name and directly competed with the old workplace. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:19 AM
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Current relationship. Married 10 years, together 13 total. Female, purple pill
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 01:07 AM
1

The real reason to prefer girl 2 over girl 1 unless you are an absolute chubby chaser is those gravity defying thicc figures give up the fight way sooner and less charmingly than thin women’s Also post pregnancy recovery is a crapshoot in the best of circumstances. Every thicc link I see here just looks genetically predisposed to large.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 07:28 PM
1

True. I'll just pinky promise they'll go directly and only to my ass and I'm good for at least one Netflix series.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:26 AM
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I believe it for sure I've just never seen it. Maybe that will change personally with this quarantine, got me snackin' likewhoa. That's a good pic, mebbe I should trade these Doritos for blueberries and not test the limits of marital attraction in a time of plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 06:03 AM
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Same, it's gotten way more incel-ish since quarantine though. Makes sense I guess, but I can't decide if it makes the train wreck better or worse. Still a decent time waster 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:16 AM
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They locked it to moderate for awhile, I think they went after the real tea comments. What's left is pretty reasonable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:08 AM
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I agree, did you get dv'd for saying so like me? Some chubster/chubby chaser is all up in their feels over it. Should probably go get a snack.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:41 AM
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She should toss him back so every woman his own age can laugh then shun him appropriately. Lol for thinking he's amazing she's living with him rent free because he "loves her." He tried. Motherfucker it ain't free if you're collecting by way of exclusivity in her youth. Free to him maybe, but certainly not her which is pretty fucking fishy for a guy who swears he's all about splitting everything evenly. Now her 20's are going to be filled with memories of this asshat instead of someone aggressiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 01:37 AM
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I've never seen that either. I can't imagine taking health seriously enough to work out and eat well regularly just to hook up with a sedentary garbage disposal for more than a quick fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 12:38 AM
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He's never been to a dermatologist and it shows, like most men on PPD who think women are born with Instagram face and the ones who weren't have 50000 orbiters paying eleventy million (totally real!) dollars for the privilege 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/20 09:56 AM
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Fillers and/or retin-a don't cost 300k a year. Not even close.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/20 07:58 PM
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They say they don't like entertaining people who talk shit about their partners because then they themselves feel like they're expected to join in. I totally empathize with this. Mine and my husband's friends are very different, but it works because everyone in a relationship is doing their best. Between our friends and family there are 3 divorces but it's never something vile that was broadcast with battle lines drawn or high drama. They're downright amicable. Ime it's not family and friends th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 10:24 AM
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The magic one shoots happiness silly string, gotta toss 'em all! 🤴🌈😍🤞😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 01:39 AM
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Only three types that I'm familiar with: the busy lives kind that will straight up tell a guy it's time for him to leave permanently if he can't take the hint(s), insecure women, and fucking is fun women. Looks don't factor into any category. One isn't looking for a lifelong thing, the other is throwing dicks into the pussy void like they're faulty happiness probes, and the last for the fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:53 AM
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Yeah the hottest/busiest people I know look at monogamy as the obvious choice to streamline their social lives amongst other things. You get to a point where if you have a solid group of friends or socially active work life constantly introducing them to a new so gets old fast. It's not looked at with exploration envy it's just tiresome and kinda sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:35 AM
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+1 because the texting requirement doesn't go down the longer you're together or get married or have kids. That's primary logistics communication for people with jobs at the very least and fun at its best. If it's too hard while dating he ain't it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 12:27 AM
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Stupid work indeed! Maybe when things finally start getting back to normal you'll have at least a few days to make up for lost time 🤞
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 08:07 AM
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Awesome thanks :) I hope your healthcare friends and family stay safe through this! My friend is trading her desk for scrubs starting next week and mentioned having her nursing orthotic inserts out again lol so I got her some Nikes to match her scrubs. That will surely keep Covid at bay 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 08:03 AM
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Bad sex, bad mouth noises, they're best observed and interacted with as little as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 03:11 AM
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It's mostly up, we're pretty entertained by each other so that part has been great actually. Made up songs, stupid gag Amazon purchases and the like. His toes are a lovely duo chrome shade of blue currently because boredom. We also planted a whole bunch of flowerbeds and strung up the trees in the backyard with tiny fairy lights. I almost broke the week he had 4 friends over every day to work from home and use our home gym. I felt like I was staff at a frat house at times because they are loud, …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 11:13 PM
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Glad he's recovering! Aside from medicine and the very necessary puns did anything make him feel better while recovering? I'm asking for a friend I hope doesn't get it, but she's a nurse in a hospital with not enough PPE gear so I worry. It's crazy right now. Her job is actually administrative with a health insurance company but she's qualified and there's a shortage so she's going in. Right now I'm just making sure her family has toilet paper and crossing my fingers lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 10:37 PM
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For sure, baby boom and divorce boom, I read somewhere attorneys saying divorce spikes around the holidays and summer vacation. Sudden quarantine is going to add to forced happy and miserable togetherness.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 11:29 PM
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WHO DID THIS?! 😆 http://imgur.com/a/vlMqGyJ
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 10:01 PM
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"us guys" when it's YOUR requirement to be able to treat an so like a business partner that matches your financial buy in. I guess I'm just glad at 22 my 29yr old husband didn't think "lazy bitch didn't even get the same degree, job, paycheck as me!" There's such a lack of nuance to your often mentioned, totally necessary for you requirement that it reads like a financial kink. Just the opposite of whatever the one is where guys go bankrupt paying bossy hoes Lmao got mad huh? Dv away, this accou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 09:10 PM
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Oh you're one of those. Rewrite history, invent intense drama, have a play pretend rage wank for quarantine fun. Have a nice life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 08:15 PM
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Not rewriting history to make your points based in reality, sorry not sorry. It does make your ego whining especially chefs kiss though! When will mean women reject reality and replace it with whatever the man talking to her is saying?! How dare they pay attention in a Humanities class or have Degrees and jobs in the arts! I am a man with with a badly formed argument pay attention to meeEeeeEE asdfdftdx feminism! 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 07:54 PM
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You know a lot of the artists you're naming were considered downright scandalous in their day right? Eras where perception mattered had no wiggle room for women in the name of artistry unless they wanted to end up disowned on a street corner. Men and women of those times weren't on ANY kind of equal social footing, and there's plenty of history on creative women that got smothered to fit in and protect their reputations. Not to mention all these lovely poetical men having the leisure to ponder s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 06:46 AM
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https://giphy.com/gifs/116IV3mcR0klc4
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 03:07 AM
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My hair isn't even purple and I could care less what scumbags think. I'm a redhead and it doesn't stop scumbags from scumming. I'm sure blondes and brunettes can agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:26 AM
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Shame over imaginary whoredom was the whole point of your last post. We don't sell girls for goats and political alliances anymore so that leaves: weird freak dad obsessed with daughters fuckability for some bizarre reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:12 AM
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Little girls do this crazy thing called growing up that replaces rather than taints their image of us as little girls. Source: have Dad that wasn't obsessed with my fuckability that hugged me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 01:06 AM
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Thanks! That was originally a text to my mom like 2 years ago who had a heart attack thinking it was real lol. I second your bf: do the pink! The timing is perfect :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 11:47 PM
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Lmao awesome you know what's up. Do it! I have one I ordered for the color test that I totally loved. One of my friends cut it and when I'm feeling pink I totally bust her out instead of ruining my stupid fine hair. http://imgur.com/a/OnufBFE
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 11:36 PM
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If you're not sure about the color try one of Amazon's super cheap wigs, it beats jumping in if that's your worry. There's human hair extensions if you don't want to fry your own too. I had dark purpley-blue highlights most recently but stopped once I found those.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 11:29 PM
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More. It's gone to a really random silly place where who tf knows what will lead to sex. I made fun of that this morning singing a really pervy husband specific version of the Adventure Time theme song. One of our kids is on a roll with that show lately so it's on the brain, but it totally fits 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:39 PM
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My hair has been a lot of weird colors, I have one very small tattoo, I've been with who I married since I was 19. These things are very common in artsy crowds so with "my people" they don't stand out at all. Friends that are corporate types don't expect me to look like a brassy blonde paige boy cut PTA president. By itself these things aren't indicative of relationship worthiness or sluttery, they have to big pictured into a overall account of the person in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:30 PM
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Yup, even men you don't want to fuck don't want you to speak unfiltered truth to them, despite wanting an accurate account of the topic at hand. Hi Dad! Enter: indirect communication, which the manosphere and especially rp is aware of. Men who are mad about it don't possess the ability to read between the lines. Or they see the value in doing so as strictly sexual in nature which is a bad social handicap.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:23 PM
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Idk that a lower sex drive is separate from either settling in general or marrying a guy who let's himself go after/decides he wants a mommy more than a wife. I think both being common enough would make nailing down an identifiable complex too hard so AF/BB pretty much covers it. Men who are fun to fuck tend to be fun in general ime. Fun plans, fun banter, not tryhard assholes, etc. Putting great fucks in a damaged/criminal box is a distinctly manosphere and Reddit thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 10:08 PM
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You are here with me on Reddit,you are just as much a loser.Stop fooling yourself I'm not a man on a badly concealed lady hate spree pulling absolutes out of my ass as fact. You're focusing on the being on Reddit part of what I wrote because that's easier than acknowledging other men getting what they want out of women long term. I'm sure they'd line up to agree "bad moms are the only ones who still like sex" 🙄😂 Also a Man isn’t defined by his choices in women. Defined? No, but definitely examin…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 07:09 PM
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I fuck my wife for kids not for pleasure. In fact a good mother is usually less interested in sex. You're running around calling specific women bitter when it's clear you couldn't pull a woman interested in both your dick and your kids. Some men can. Which is probably why they aren't on Reddit making up bizarre absolutes that have nothing to do with anyone's reality but their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:12 PM
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Ozark is back on Netflix, finally decent plague entertainment! I missed Ruth ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 02:51 AM
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Yes, once. We've known each other since I was 17, started dating at 19, married at 22. It was time consuming and almost always inconvenient in the beginning due to our schedules but I didn't care. Previously I was happy enough in relationships, but I wouldn't have extended myself much if at all beyond basic couple stuff. Now we have kids and careers and getting here required a ton of consideration and adjustment. But it never felt dreadful or hard or reluctant. Rather than tallying up "value" on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/20 09:44 AM
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Or maybe masculinity is something that men can’t help but display because they are men and men tend to be masculine. Yeah you see this in much smaller groups than "society" like the op describes so it serves some purpose. The day my youngest brother kicked the shit out of my older brother is probably a top 3 moment of his life. I could describe some of the stuff my husband and his friends have done to each other in practically South Park episode titles. 'We don't use MMA moves on our friends' co…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:14 AM
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Oh man I can't imagine finding out the night before that school was still out! That really sucks, but your situation at least seems flexible enough to deal. We have one kid in public school and the other in private, the private school was immediately like fuck everything, come pick up your kids laptop because we're online school until the beginning of April at least so take your login and stay away from people! Public school hinted at it all during Spring Break and caved last Saturday by email. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/20 12:21 AM
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I'm basically a SAHM now, but it's not boring during coronapocalypse! Locally people have used what was Spring Break last week to prep for extended school closures by taking over the HS cafeteria or stadium (depending on the weather) to get kids out of the house and provide breakfast and lunch. Men are very much a part of the local effort, a few are restaurant owners that brought all the extra food to prep and serve. Spent today vacuum sealing pork that came from a giant grill that could fit a w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 10:11 PM
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I wish, coronapocalypse has turned my house into plague entertainment central 😭 My house sounds like that Ewok planet with all the kids running around I swear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/20 06:27 AM
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I can see that, I can also see people aren't eager to declare what a "man" is beyond chromasomes because you want to get all granular and microscopic on it between behavior and biology. Some men thrive on conflict and some don't. It's not that deep. Unless it is to you, and that sounds like something you should expand on rather than going "behavior or biology?" at people like we've given it more thought than brunch on a Saturday.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 03:29 PM
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I work with extremes when it comes to men. Super effeminate lady boys who think tears and dramatics will make the answers to life's problems fall out of their twat, and overbearing clearly compensating dickbags who think they can force people and circumstances to their will. Both categories are still men. It sounds like your question is more asking how to "man" in the most attractive way possible rather than simply how to man.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 03:10 PM
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Idk about mentally healthy exactly, but mentally durable sure. Assuming he isn't derping around into conflict like a fool or creating drama to overcome like a hs girl. Choosing your battles, anticipating outcomes, and doing what's necessary is an act of discernment that leads to achievement. People tend to feel fulfilled when they do what they set out to do, so it would make sense that it adds to their emotional happiness. I wouldn't say it's the totality of emotional happiness or being a man th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 02:41 PM
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1) You can tell by the way she sucks your dick. 2) You can tell by the way she kisses you. 3) You can tell by how she treats your cum (specifically in regards to her mouth). I can get behind the first two, but the third isn't a sure thing because not every woman whose into blowjobs is a full on cumslut. Some are. They don't go hand in hand 100% of the time. As far as girls who have never done these things, and never liked them at all, I'm still inclined to believe that if she's in love she will …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 10:20 AM
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Hey at least you didn't let the possibility scare you off. Mama ain't raise no bitch, etc etc. I'm sorry it didn't work it's gay magic how you wanted 😂 Our son is five, his response was to call them dumb. Which was pretty fair but I bet he runs downstairs after to tell me he's definitely gay now because they'll think it's hilarious. I've got my holographic gel nail polish ready to go, let's get fabulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:53 AM
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Coronavirus has turned my house into work from home and gym central for 4 of my husband's friends since Monday. As I type they're upstairs with our son watching whichever Rambo is the Russian killing one, I know this because I just heard "This one might make you a little gay <son's name>. The hair, the body, the slaughter... it's a risk and that's okay." My answer has always been NO when the topic of multiple men for a woman comes up on PPD, now it's: death first. The noise. The eating. Send hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 01:28 AM
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Generally speaking yeah but even hot and/or fit people can screw up placement and that makes the whole thing more of a tragedy. See this in UFC ppv's all the time and wonder how the tattoo artist didn't assert themselves on a ridiculous canvas that could've been a walking promo. I had a few tattoo artist friends in college and those mofos go off about form + function + aesthetics more than bitchy queen choreographers and fashion design students do.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 12:23 AM
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I cook all the time so it hasn't been too terrible, but stores being badly stocked is messing me up a bit. Everything being closed has made an embarrassing portion of my entertainment figuring out meals with just what's in my pantry and fridge. Discovered things I forgot I even had and struck absolute gold in xanthan gum. I bought it for making ice cream last summer then promptly forgot about it. It's my go to for sauces now since I can't find any common thickening agents like flour anywhere!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 12:14 AM
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Cartoon characters on a lardbody: hard pass. Pretty much anything else on done in a way that is aware of and works with their anatomy: yesplz I like tattoos in general but if it's sloppy work or jokey-kid shit it's a no from me dawg.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 09:28 PM
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Basically! I was kidding when I answered but thinking about it now what literal transformation comes without pain and discomfort? Pregnancy and child delivery involving both is only suckful on the surface. Minus the God aspect, discomfort and pain are very good teachers of adaptation and endurance that Nature makes excellent use of. You'll learn how, what, and when to eat or suffer. Prioritize sleep and eating or suffer. Empathize instead of resent a tiny screaming human who is hungry because yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 01:57 AM
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Idk a lot of appearing virtuous is just putting your best foot forward rather than calculated shrewdness. You'd have to be pathological to hide a character defined by violence and contempt and the like from people close to you for long. Or relying on being able to attract people damaged enough to gaslight themselves and leave them to it. Everyone has asshole triggers or topics. Different people have varying asshole tolerance thresholds. There's plenty of room for the average meek and hardass peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 10:32 AM
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Totally worth it because God so loved the Earth he gave men oneitis and wife goggles. Big brain thinking sky daddy! I feel punished.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 09:04 AM
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I agree but in the case of love and sex "admitting" things seems even less necessary. The value isn't so much the information as much as that it was offered up freely by someone comfortable enough to be vulnerable. Or in the opposite direction, they don't have to "admit" to or examine something weird because their partner has an intuitive understanding of them and no desire to put them on the hook for the fun of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 11:17 PM
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Maybe not to you and the wide world of online manosphere sports, but I'm sure whoever is ball gagging her is well aware. This whole idea of "admitting" anything to randoms is lol. What's a random going to do with the info? Get more mad? Disbelieve it at their convenience?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/20 09:15 PM
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Some of the ones around here have added a recess for elementary kids which puts it at 3, but it's still very regimented in general. I haven't looked at boy vs girl public school stats but my daughter is much much happier there than my son was. He utterly destroys his shoes now because he runs around so much and they used to stay practically new looking until he grew out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 09:17 PM
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Very important, but not in a porn performative kind of way. For all men talk about sex in general terms they often get downright cagey about what they're actually into if it doesn't fit generally accepted ideals of masculinity or whatever is coming out of their mouths. Their dicks don't lie though and are far more honest. I enjoyed the stick of truth game though so it's nbd. Though it's a much more vulnerable position for a man to be in than simply owning what gets them off, that's a guy you can…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 08:36 PM
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Mmmhmm. If you're bringing a young boy to a private school they put their recess, phys ed, and outdoor class spaces at the top of their sales pitch for that very reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 05:06 AM
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It's always been this way here. They're blind to educated attractive men or fantasize that they're always abusive or reeeee about commitment to self soothe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 08:17 PM
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I remain unconvinced that wishing all women were super chill free use holes who disregard attraction is deep cosmic man-thought of the highest spiritual plane. I guess I just like orgasms too much, how average of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 09:36 AM
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I'll check it out, thanks! The book I was quoting from is actually a long history of covert ops and the origins of the CIA. It's by a Pulitzer prize finalist investigative journalist that got FOIA clearances and interviewed CIA Senior Intelligence Service members to show how covert ops fits into foreign policy and how it's either legal or made legal. It's not written as judgy, but it deals with some pretty dark stuff by definition so even dryly delivered it's got a lot of drama and wtf. This is …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/20 06:32 AM
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Their version of straight includes raping each other when women aren't around and thinking nothing of it. There are a ton of books that are on the topic of wars in Afghanistan, every one I've read includes shock from Western militaries at this. They literally had to decide if they were going to hold the Afghan forces to the same 'hey, don't rape' standard as everyone else and eventually gave up trying to police it under the guise of accepting another culture to keep allies. One (Surprise, Kill, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 01:37 PM
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I feel really bad for the mods here sometimes. The Scary Dildo Pill: not even once or them laydees might figure out how to jackhammer themselves and somehow magically like it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:34 AM
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Hahahaha men calling each other simps is somehow "women" not taking "responsibility." Stay dry dicked boyos!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:22 AM
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For real though! Trying to make consideration to women specifically awful while simultaneously enjoying the benefits of civilization is crazy. Just move into the chimp habitat at their local zoo already if they feel this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:43 PM
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And have a dresser full of porn costumes for their incoming robo-waifu. She's a blow up doll now, but just you wait evil laydees. You'll be sorry!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 09:39 PM
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Yup and they may get some converts in the form of niceguys who got lucky a few times in life and of course the fuckboi whose tinder matches start dropping as women grow up and discover standards. But men who are happy and value the women in their lives? Not a chance. Like I try and picture my brothers giving my dad shit for being a 'simp' to our mom and it ends with corpses. It makes me wonder whose raising these manimals to think the way they do. The only rl comparison I have is my husband host…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:14 PM
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It appears 'simp' is having a moment because my niece was telling me a story about guys in high school throwing the word around in class. It was very clearly uggos giving guys with girlfriends shit over basic consideration. What's funny is that guys with gf's didn't care, and it ends up being them and girls vs the butthurt thinking calling someone a simp is ruining their day. The butthurt are a much smaller group so ultimately they're just exposing themselves and doing God's work in letting girl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:25 PM
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While back in the day it was seen as a goofy awkward past time. It seems to me that it was similar to rap music some people didn't like it but thought it was joke. I'll never forget the day I was running from my car to class and some 250-ish pound Samoan guy yelled: AAY GINGER GIRL, YOU EVER LET A N***A LICK YOUR BUTTHOLE?! I was so shocked I stopped and was cracking the fuck up. He had time to introduce himself in a much more normal way, but he never did lick my butthole. I'm a big fan of 80's …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:34 AM
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My favorite comment is a guy going off about how pointless and wasteful a 15k ring is and how he can't imagine being with a woman who "needs" that when he assumed the guy bought it. As soon as the person he responded to said her friend's family bought it all the sudden his attitude changed to congratulatory to the guy involved. It's literally cheapness masked as some kind of snotty morality that's just as absurd as literally caring more about the ring than who you marry. If I'd tried some teehee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:12 AM
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I think so, but as others have pointed out it totally depends on the person. I'm not autistic but I don't have much regard for the lifescript timeline. I got more shit from people for choosing summer school and AP credits to graduate hs early and have my diploma mailed to me than getting married at 22. I had my college one mailed too, college was just back up plan covering bases for me, I don't worship at the altar of academia and couldn't give less of a fuck about caps and gowns. But when you t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 12:29 AM
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To our dads, husbands, brothers and sons maybe. Who as adults wouldn't want us taking in man strays on a fuck rotation out of sympathy or spamming tinder with charity fuck offers. It's easier to just say we don't since that's what it would take to convince the manosphere "women" empathize with them. Sexually successful men aren't cheerleading the cause.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 05:15 AM
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I swear this show gave my husband an oddly specific narcolepsy, he'd fall asleep within two minutes of us turning it on every single time. It was bizarre because he's a weirdo who can thrive on like 4 or 5 hours of sleep, but this show was tranquilizer effective no matter when we turned it on. For me it was just a lot of overblown special effects and needlessly complicated plot that weren't able to make me care about the characters at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:49 PM
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It's true I would never date a man with that reaction, but it's not something I actively selected against like religious guys. I wouldn't go so far as to say I wouldn't consider that guy a man, just a man whose dick I'd never see or have a reason to comment on.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 09:00 AM
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No I'm purple, I just can't imagine saying something like that, in a public way or in front of friends no less, and thinking it would all blow over with anyone I dated. Which is the only way I can consider this question because I'd never do the hypothetical as presented. They'd have been done and at most embarrassed for me at acting like that. I wouldn't have been in physical danger but there is no way it would've ended with a nice long talk about hurted feels
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 08:52 AM
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Any where he could pull off dumping me on the spot without looking like an angsty child or insecure psycho and carry on with his evening like it was a minor blip.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 08:39 AM
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Uhhhhh I'd only ever say that if I was in a getaway car with a guaranteed head start and never planned on seeing the guy again. Idk how I'd "want" a guy to react to that, but I'm damn sure every reaction possibility is on the table and none are good. Nobody I ever dated would've picked the butthurt silent option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 08:30 AM
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Seriously, juggling ego management and multiple men's deviance I feel chafed just thinking about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 03:06 AM
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It's a standard assumption by some men here attributing their thirst to women. That and all of us fuck randoms in bathrooms. If you stick around you get used to them being unable to make a point without an unsubtle dig, and start developing a sense of which male posters don't have incurable sex fomo from their teens and twenties. They also get up in their feels and dv a lot if you post about what they do openly so get used to that and use a strictly PPD account for them to throw karma tantrums 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/20 01:22 AM
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I'm glad, honestly very often I hit reply and immediately back out because I'm not very internet tenacious. Naivety was a bad word choice though, idealism is more precise. It would be easy to say it's as real as a person chooses to make it, but I know life experience certainly plays a role in people's ability to be or stay idealistic. I've never been badly treated or abused by men, so I'm certainly no example of rising above anything and accept that men or women who have been burned will likely …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 06:32 PM
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I would think the answers to be generally "yes" but also very circumstance dependent. My husband had a front row seat to his dad being a flagrant cheating pos in his first marriage and formed a pretty big anti cheating stance early in life due to it. I might have to get PPD Cosmo quiz on him and ask because now I'm curious.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 06:06 PM
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32, F, purple then and purple now. When I look on TRP I see them owning a lot that flaired reds here seem to not so secretly hate. Approaching women as the norm and women's reactive sexuality immediately come to mind. The actual self improvement I don't hate either. The rage phase theatrics and women = bad disguised poorly as fake acceptance that women have different imperatives is tedious. I can think and say men like to own things and fuck women very easily and not feel a twinge of hatred. Wow…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:49 AM
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I feel personally attacked lol. But if what you do requires extensive education (not necessarily college, specific art institutions or apprenticeships count) then you can make a lot more than 40k.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:27 AM
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They remind me of Vegans with their need for everyone to respect and acknowledge them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:50 PM
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I've never been asked directly. The only "care" of the sex kind I've experienced on the part of men is regarding specific things I was into or had no interest in. I actively avoid religious guys and am not from a tradcon culture or background so those conversations were either "lol" or comedic disbelief I wouldn't want to do whatever was being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:22 PM
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Thanks! I just wish I had a herd of baby goats now because they're hilarious and obviously great babysitters 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 09:01 PM
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It didn't! I'm 32 now and we've been married for 10 years and have two kids. We just went to brunch on a cheese farm and he was catching the baby goats that were leaping at them while they ran around in a crazy kid/goat herd of chaos lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 08:44 PM
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I know you weren't advocating, I was in agreement and eye roll at the pretend seriousness of the whole idea of kink shaming as a thing to care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 05:50 PM
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"hey, don't discriminate against the BDSM community now!" These choked out cut-fucking bound spit receptacles are super sensitive considering what they're into. Kink shaming as an issue is right up there with mime rights in my mind. If you wave your freak flag, some people are gonna point and laugh so deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/20 04:56 AM
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I did close enough to this, 19 when he was 26. How it plays out in reality is very dependant on the couple. We never heard anything, but we didn't inhibit each other's goals, move in together or have weird power dynamic issues. If anything we got what we needed to do done faster with each other so we could screw off and do pointless fun stuff. If he'd tried to change my major to dick studies, or I tried to make paying attention to me his primary job I'm sure plenty of people would've had somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:18 PM
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This. I've always worked and you never know what's around the corner. Either me or my husband could pay our bills solo if something were to happen, peace of mind is priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 10:08 PM
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Noooo I picture a beta guy being super accommodating to deny jealousy. Like when women post about feeling so guilty about cheating they fess up alone late at night and find out their bf/husband is good with it, mildly butthurt, or even has a secret cuck fetish, how convenient! Meanwhile other women end up divorced or in shallow graves immediately over the same thing or just keep the secret forever to avoid an imminent showdown.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/20 02:13 AM
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ive pretty much never grown attracted to a guy who acted meh or detached for me. Same, the who cares least game is pointless and keeps my panties up around my ears basically. Being an apathetic ass isn't hot sorry not sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 09:42 PM
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Women CAN be quite manipulative and use their sex as leverage... On this point, which I agree with, as it relates to the linked thread it's disappointing to see it always about material manipulation. The level of suspicion and transactional reee is just boring. There's so many fun ways to "manipulate" as a woman that aren't wallet centric or evil. Trp needs more drugs or something because they're missing out always being so hypervigilant over perceived manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 07:29 AM
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Do you have racial preferences when it comes to casual sex or/and LTR ? Don't do casual, and no. I do like dark hair/eyes and am not attracted to blondes. Well, now that I think about it 80's Billy Idol is the only exception. So I guess I like my blondes heavily bleached lol Have you ever dated out of your race ? Yes Are there racial types of men/women that you find unnattractive or that you will never date ? Nope Do you see your race as an asset or as a disadvantage in dating ? Or is it neutral…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 06:50 AM
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I honestly think it’s so far out of their frame of understanding of the world that they can’t really grasp it. You're probably right. Now that I think about it the manosphere is "team man" for some (understandable) and "my whole identity" for others. Like the difference between a healthy interest and participation in politics and going straight off the deep end. The latter seem to be the ones obsessing and creating their own FDS monster to battle with like-minded bros. I mean they can acknowledg…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:16 AM
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Because it's a bunch of angry dudes publicly fellating over what they think FDS is rather than what FDS actually is/why it is. Their very special thinking process demands it's very own thread each and every time. They don't have to agree with or endorse FDS, but would it kill them to use the search function or read the sidebar to facilitate actual debate? Apparently it would.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 04:00 AM
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So we understand each other then.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:13 AM
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Because it's more fun to go somewhere awesome with someone you enjoy and have sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:08 AM
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I don't see that there, they're posting screenshots of actual interactions with men who attempt to gaslight, pump and dump, get back in contact after a break up, etc. They aren't wistfully pining away and resentful Khal Drogo hasn't stopped by in a Prius instead of a horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 10:37 PM
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Totally, it's so obvious that it's girlporn, like we can watch it and get it. It doesn't mean it doesn't align with what you want or would like but it's in no danger of making you replace reality with Hollywood fiction. Idk how anyone with average exposure to modern media gets past 14 without a distinction between the real world and so called bp lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 10:33 PM
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It's probably that and a mix of men telling other men that no matter how hot/bossy/badass/accomplished a woman is, she'll always look up to a flabby dirty average schlub by virtue of having a dick. This is such an inescapable truth that said guy can be clueless or insert both feet in his mouth and she will bend over backwards to accommodate his irresistible obvious masculinity. It's their version of the Disney Dream. Also Atlas mentioning Judd Apatow made me remember this scene. Idk what movie i…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:48 PM
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Yeah I admit I'm seeing it a bit through my blue-colored lenses, since the line to connecting was quick and easy for me. Same, things have gotten so clown world here lately because it's just oddballs raging about FDS. Honestly think anti FDS needs it's own pill because it looks like a bunch of pimples on TRP's ass are flair-ing up riding their coattails. Yes I just made a bad flare joke, I'll see myself out. It does do my head in. There was a post just today talking about how face tattoos are th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:48 AM
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This is like the undamaged people interpretation of HVM though. PPD has taught me that trp views drug addicts fucking their way through a trailer park while purposefully not committing (and hopefully gaining 20 baby mama's!) is the most alfalfa. I mean just consider how much his DNA got passed on and how many DQ flurries his hoes put on their ebt card. What's great is I think I'm confounded by what men here peddle as "based and redpilled" or "alpha fucks." It's nothing compared to gainfully empl…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 06:45 AM
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Lol it was just a self observation thankfully. Nobody on Reddit has called me specifically a cunt, but I have no doubt a very sizable portion of the manosphere would oblige so it kinda loses its power 😂 The sex descriptions and spats here are some of my favorite threads. Women saying that doing what men mad about female passivity here suggest gets ignored or translated to an ego pounding by men, those same men ignoring it to excuse their angst and preserve ego. It's almost like some men are capa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:11 AM
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Yes it's gross. I'm trying to be entertained online because I stupidly chose to paint my nails late and all I'm learning is I'm a cunt by Reddit standards. Even the hobby/humor subs have sob stories and killjoys lately.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:30 AM
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What I wrote was my own process, not a decree, so I'm not really considering the entirety of humanity. Certainly not the capabilities of "men" in general, just the ones I'd have repeat sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:58 AM
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Right, I don't mean strictly piv any road to the promised land counts imo! I'm not of the "any sex is fine for just for closeness" persuasion and am definitely looking to get what I put into it without having to be a teacher forever or micromanager. I like paying attention and figuring out what gets a partner off, if they need a sentient manual I'm out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:37 AM
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It's totally 100% true. I once thought I was having issues with my IUD because I had pain that was really close to feeling abdominal in nature. Nope, bruised cervix. My OBGYN gets points for maintaining professionalism while I broke down laughing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 05:02 AM
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Have you ever given a man direction on how to fuck you? They very often steamroll it to do whatever they want, ignore it, or get asshurt and take it is a shot to their ego. I get the temptation to go with your view but it's why I find the rp assumption women have cornered the market on hypoagency laughable. Frankly I don't get why women endure shitty sex or play sex ed teacher or fake orgasms. All of the above was NEXT material for me, and I don't feel bad about it in the slightest. I can't imag…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 11:32 PM
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I'm seriously wondering if their need to make every woman a covert lesbian is Chadsexual projection at this point. I find it very easy, and generally pleasing, to notice good looking men and women. It doesn't mean I'm secretly hungry for pussy or have any interest in a randoms dick at all. I have no idea how people that only think in terms of sex function in life or if they're just playing totally obsessed as some kind of online "personality."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:43 AM
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I eagerly anticipate OP ignoring this comment despite being eager to describe what a hvm is; and how like .002% of the female population has even a chance of getting breathed on by one let alone experience the magic of a pump & dump or the completely imaginary scenario he might willingly contract girl cooties by being in a "relationship." Edit: even better, he didn't ignore and made HVM literal Disney princes 😂 👏
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/20 04:02 AM
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Yes probably because I think these preferences are misunderstood often. Like the feeling special one for example. Men often start an association with a woman, not even a relationship just sex or whatever, as very "special." Not his max potential, but something about him was special enough to have potentially painful and awkward first time sex with. If they continue having sex, the letdowns (if they exist) will erode his specialness until its not worth it anymore and why bother. If they get into …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:45 PM
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"Expecting" is a more loaded term than reality aligns with and only serves to allow free use of the term "entitled" as you want to use it for your argument. It's more common for men and women to treat each other as modern day flesh lights from what I've seen irl of the dating scene and certainly online. Liking or preferring something isn't an expectation or an entitlement just because a guy that can do it is getting laid more than one who can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:37 PM
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Nope you're not projecting, I totally get what you mean. This OP as it stands is a perfect foisting of any responsibility for his choice onto the nearest vagina even though it's his mom. It's bizarre and needlessly (as written) dehumanizing and casts something sad in an oddly dark way. Maybe OP left out details that would illuminate the word choices made. It's super late for me and I was drinking earlier but I was wondering about projection myself. My Dad was married and had sons with his first …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 10:30 AM
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I'm going to sit realllllly fucking high on my high horse for a moment and say this is absolutely shameful language: "she is good enough for a pump and dump." It's a shame RP thinking brought you to this conclusion. I don't know your mom, but no woman deserves that kind of judgment, least of all from her own son. Yeah I was following along, got there, and my brain broke. I absolutely get that there are horrible, abusive, destructive, or narcissistic parents in the world that could inspire this r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 09:40 AM
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Hahahaha do it shirtless!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:48 AM
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Whaaat? Are...are you saying that providership is masculine? Or that cleaning is girly and gross and men should skip it unless it involves a woman bent over an ironing board?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:34 AM
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I blame vodka. My kids are at my parents house until Saturday and I don't have shit to do tomorrow. But if I made anyone mad they can take comfort in knowing my parents used having my kids as an excuse to blow me up with texts. About politics. Death is kinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:29 AM
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Me too. I have to know too many people that are into it because it's trendy. Like Gwyneth Paltrow GOOP trendy, which is so much worse than the True Believers. I got a damn water bottle with crystals in it from one of them. My husband makes fun of it. My daughter thinks it's pretty. My son is thisclose to cracking it to get at the "rocks."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:14 AM
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Blech if men change themselves based off HuffPo they're a lost cause anyway. I still don't see it as a female imperative given how pointless it would be to make yourself a mommy-gf to a guy who obviously needs one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:26 AM
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Hey for couples who can swing it I'm all for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:13 AM
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Progressive kool-aid sure, but female imperative seems like a stretch. It reads like unfuckable fantasy musings to me. But maybe it's an OLD "empowered Kween" thing
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:06 AM
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This seems so obvious, and yet when you say so the angry incel hordes show up ready to do dork battle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 03:58 AM
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Ugh yup property is out of control in CA. Insane. You can do different floors for sure! We have travertine in the entry and hardwood everywhere else. I think it's pulled off better with different materials rather than like 2-3 different hardwoods but if you're going to be living there for a long time do what makes you happy. That's how we ended up with a black pool at our old house lmao! Have fun picking out your floor and redecorating :)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 02:50 AM
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If he don’t earn, he’d better be a competent househusband. Because the standards are so low for that. I wouldn't keep the standards low! He'd have to be at least as "pretty" as all the housewives in the car pick-up line at school that are keeping it tight and put together. Sweats and a ratty ponytail aren't going to cut it. DTF at all times and a guaranteed orgasm, an excellent cook, and knows how to dress and conduct himself when you bring him to work functions.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 02:31 AM
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This is the depth and intensity of my thoughts on the matter as well! But also: if you're with someone and haven't traded "lol this one time..." stories, are you even dating? That shit is hilarious and has never been ammo ime. It's just funny or at best gives you insight on what NOT to do!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:30 PM
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I've actually never changed the flooring in any house I lived in, but have painted lots and had to work with it. Your floor is going to take priority over paint because it's a much larger investment and pain in the ass to change. So if you love a flooring option but are not feeling it with your walls, change the paint for sure. Once you have your floor settled, you need to decide if you want more of a monochrome color scheme or contrasting one. If your floors are oak for example with gold undert…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 08:14 PM
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To me the vows are the obligatory parts of marriage. There's nothing light or happy or romantic about them. If you're looking at marriage as a contractual agreement the vows are the legalese. All the fun, happy, romantic, memorable, good things come from not screwing it up by forgetting, not caring, or being at odds with what you agreed to do in the first place. It's a pretty huge undertaking to be all those things to one person for presumably the rest of your lives, I remember that part of my w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:40 AM
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Oooohh how bad was it when you got it wrong? I got it wrong ONCE because the ego, butthurt, and drama a teenage guy is capable of was exhausting. People talk all the time about how catty girls are but we're really not giving boys their due. After 17 any guy I knew from a certain friend group or activity stayed in that box, mixing them into your wider life gives them random ideas. Unless I was dating the person that is, they were clearly a different class of person I held in high regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 07:10 AM
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It's a mixed messages thing. Along with hearing "all guys everywhere want to fuck you at any given moment" is the message "nobody likes a stuck up bitch who thinks she's hot shit everyone wants to fuck, men are people capable of platonic friendship idiot." I saw a comment further down about not communicating feelings directly in this situation, and it struck me as the exact scenario where you want no ambiguity at all because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 08:53 PM
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About as pathetic as wanting women to act like defective men by calling them stupid and whatever else you went off with that mercifully got removed. The only men that want women to act like this are the ones the majority of women don't want, but I guess you got some good negging practice? Also: Charles Dickens, it was a literary reference whoosh as well as a rejection of acting like a guy for the ease and comfort of undesirables.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:58 PM
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You guys keep posting for us to approach men we actually like as if we're dumb enough to take the bait. Is there a side bet happening on discord or IRC or something? I just picture a Dickens novel sex-orphan begging for a crumb of dick on the street like "p-p-please sir! My vagina is as empty as my bowl! Won't need to commit or nuffin! But if you do you won't have no regrets!" desperate sex-orphan eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 10:07 AM
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Awesome I hope it helps you as much as it helped me! Being able to move your samples to different walls is 👍 Just don't forget to write which color you're using for each one if they're similar, I did that with 4 different whites ugh. I encourage sample craziness, good luck and go nuts!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 09:54 AM
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I work part time to be around my kids because I'd go nuts not working, and housecleaning definitely isn't a big chunk of time I agree. Where I find it counts is when you need to get major home repairs done (getting estimates, being there to let workers in) and car stuff. For instance a few months back our water main sprung a small leak and our water heater died, I went through five plumbing companies before finding one that wasn't going to rape and pillage our wallet. Literally took showers at t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 10:00 PM
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I'd probably do the same thing. I can't imagine giving someone I've never actually met access to the way I communicate with some of my oldest friends. Too much to take out of context or make assumptions about. It would feel like letting them go through my room and dig around without me knowing lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 09:28 PM
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We bought a new house recently so I know the feeling. What worked for me was going to Michael's for big cold pressed art boards, cutting them into quarters, and painting sample colors on them. I taped them to the walls of the room I was considering them for to see them in natural light and with the artificial light at night. If you have no idea where to start, googling paint colors for the direction the room faces helps. Natural vs artificial light and morning vs afternoon do very different thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 08:54 AM
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I'm coming off of being deathly ill so hopefully this makes sense but I can answer to taking a career hit and marrying someone older. For background, I knew I wanted to be a dancer when I was tiny. I don't remember wanting to be anything else. To pursue that professionally requires a ton of travel, pain, criticism, repetition, auditioning, competition, and not eating whatever the fuck you want or going to sleepovers or spring break trips and whatnot. Your childhood and teens are essentially your…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 11:57 PM
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I agree with Penny on active sex and that a lot of black & white hardline views on sex come from youth. Kandy isn't totally off the mark, I think a lot of us knew or saw someone more unfortunate looking bragging about how fast or strangely she could get a guy off very loudly. My younger self had a much bitchier hot take on that than my 32yr old self though. As far as being ugly or mentally ill for not totally agreeing, it's got as much power over me as men talking about the wall so it's a non is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 11:16 PM
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Same!!! Especially with the pillow cases! I'm not doing a full on skin care routine just to ruin it by marinating overnight in hair and skin oils transferred to them for God knows how long. This guy is a walking biohazard, so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:38 AM
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Yeah I've been here once. Banality is a good description, like I just zoned out with no real reason. It was worse because he totally noticed and tried to be funnier, make interesting plans, and I just... didn't care. It was so awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 07:17 AM
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I think some men operate from scarcity and try to lockdown depravity, mistakenly believing it will last. Agreed. Either that or they haven't figured out they despise femininity, but still want the sex without all the icky feels and talking and makeup and whatever else is a common "wahmen bad" boogeyman. I love the sex I have, it would not be enough to sustain my marriage to the exclusion of all else because experiencing the world as a woman isn't disgusting or offensive to who I married.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:40 AM
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Friends, family, prior SO's, coworkers, customer service randoms, etc provide plenty of info on a person's general attitude and cunt levels. Unless he's too dense to extrapolate or so neurotic that not being able to control for every factor and predict every single outcome is too much to deal with. Are you saying men only vet for a place to stick their dick or something? Because if you aren't vetting against red flags of the character and mental issues sort I'd argue you're not actually vetting …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:27 PM
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True, but hopefully he's picked up at some point in the vetting process that I'm not into hurting or torturing my friends let alone a person I'm romantically interested in. It doesn't excite me to be a giant bitch to whoever I'm dating, I actually want to know them and have the best time possible. If we end up breaking up, not scar (or be scarred) for life over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:22 AM
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No, because the ideal LTR material man is someone I know or met irl and has plenty of opportunity to vet me in different social situations without his dick or his wallet in play. It's not like I'm going to morph into an entirely different person the moment he expresses interest out loud. If he's paying attention at all he knows there's zero chance his dick is a lure for commitment maaaaybe because he's never seen me go that route. We're either into each other or we're not. Having said that I've …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:07 AM
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Most guys I knew in my 20's did 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 02:44 AM
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By itself I'd say that's too broad an assumption. Plenty of guys visit fuck-around-ville in phases between LTR's. If anything recognition of people worth a relationship vs a fuck, and not being driven by mere thirst because sex isn't hard to come by, shows discernment and better than basic social skills. If it's clearly a guy that doesn't have success at casual or relationships and is waiting for his Disney Princess (any! He's not picky!) to fall in his lap then yeah, low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 01:58 AM
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I think women want to be treated like children What kind of 'daddy' you want? The whole fetish or kink (whatever it is) looks like some need to pornify giving half a wet shit about your partner beyond their genitals. Or a need to be edgier than those averagefags with standards or boundaries. I'm home sick puking my guts out and my husband brought home ginger ale and soup without needing to be asked. Better grab a puke bucket and sit on "daddy's" dick so he won't feel emasculated for anticipating…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 09:09 PM
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Same, it seems like a minefield best avoided because of the whole feelings thing. I wouldn't want to experience that or be the reason someone else did. The fwb label is flimsy protection against feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:26 AM
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For the married redditors, why did you marry? Allllll the most BP reasons. I was very happy, totally in love, my husband was and is my favorite person. I love his sense of humor, extroversion, quick thinking. He's always handled his shit/come through on what he says he's going to do, he's never looked like or been a slob, and wasn't jaded or bitter about women, romance or sex. The latter is always a great idea, he's good for it and didn't require a how-to manual. Have gender issues such as unequ…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:22 AM
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Raise the adopted one. Having 10 kids in the world I could never know would break me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:31 PM
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Yeah what I meant by my answer is that attractiveness in men matters to me, and I'm pretty typical in that regard in that I care about height, face, overall fitness. It wasn't about kids at the time but I'm definitely happy they got what they got. If I were to skip the marriage and/or relationship part of parenting I'd totally go designer sperm shopping. Looks and IQmax potential kids all the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:47 PM
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No not intentionally, if you mean seeking out specific physical or personality characteristics I'd hope to see in kids of mine that is. But I'm not a saint and very awalt when it comes to choosing for attractiveness and aggression (not the crazy kind but the professional+sexual kind) when it came to men. So what I see of my spouse in our kids makes me happy, which is great because one is a carbon copy of his looks and the other his personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:58 PM
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Also consider the audience of men on this sub- it's mainly unsuccessful angry dry dick autists who couldn't pay a woman to take an offer of his commitment let alone NSA sex. Because of their innate thirst this makes them rage and assume all men are like them. What a fun game!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:54 PM
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I'm going to really put my foot in my mouth and say that I love makeup and pictures but I don't get facetune or insta-face plastic surgery. I've done it irl when making the mistake of complimenting specific features of my niece and her friends face after they promised each other not to post pics until they'd been appropriately edited. Her friend got all huffy like I'm an old who "liek tolly doesn't get it!"and I was like "if this is the part where I feel bad about liking your face you're going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:39 PM
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Truth, and it's not always "omg living the porn spouse dreeeeem!" Sometimes it's just the kind of pervy funny that becomes an inside joke.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:35 AM
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This is what goes through my head whenever someone whose admittedly never been married complains about the impending doom of married sex. I literally picture...idk like the guy going full autist on his gf on how to put lotion on after a shower efficiently instead of enjoying the view, then choosing to jerk off while his gf blow dries her hair and wondering why sex is rote and boring. Maybe watching her flip her hair to dry isn't instant gratification but if he can't turn something like that into…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:22 AM
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Nope. Part of me wishes I could because 10 years and two kids is a lot to nuke, but I'm not good with it. I would never want him to touch me ever again, every "wifey" perk would be gone, I don't need his money to live, so why endure that or model it for our kids? Our kids would definitely know at some point why we divorced too. Not at their current ages but 16-17 sure. I wouldn't feel obligated to cover for their father's inability to keep his dick in his pants by then.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:49 AM
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The idea that you failed because you suck and are a bitch pussy beta, is like red pill 101. Nobody should be placing blame on women for being female. The entirety of the red in my purple flair right there. Any guy who thinks women are hand wringing to the incel/mgtow chorus of "women ain't shit" while we make the most of what we have on the smp is deluded.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 12:39 AM
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My husband is seven years older than me, so I guess we're right at the edge of arbitrary "gross." I never heard anything terrible, but I think the reason for that is we knew a large group of shared acquaintances and friends independently before we got together so it wasn't a massive shock when we did. He was an established non-creep with his shit together, and I wasn't a damsel in distress thirsting for scraps of male attention. If a wild unknown suddenly appears there's going to be a lot more t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:17 PM
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Assuming it's not the same degree that is free or dirt cheap elsewhere is where you lost me. It's such a tired talking point that exists to make someone feel "better than." You've created a narrative that you're married to, may you live a long and happy life together.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:09 AM
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And hiring foreigners with a degree that was free or cost 30 rupees is good for Americans? Creating a generation(s) that go into debt and put off everything to be corporate wage slaves to their student loans is dandy as long as shareholders are happy? Put average life out of grasp then bitch about low morality "whores" and the collapse of society: boot licking logic ftw. Most women aren't turned on by boot lickers 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:51 AM
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Most people (at least in TRP circles) think a high value man is the one that gets more sex, the one that is more sexually attractive. I think the confusion is men seeing this as an absolute marker of value, while women see levels to it. A guy who fucks last call leftovers and can dick down the entire trailer park plus the occasional 7/8 drunk house party ho isn't considered high value to women no. He's just not. Scavengers gonna scavenge. That's the guy we laugh at and people watch for funsies w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 01:13 AM
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Uggghhh why is yelling at her for doing what they both know he wants her to do??? It's so petulant and unnecessary. If this is what he expects from you and you don't do it exactly how mom used to do it, there's 100-110% chance he's going to be yelling at you too ☹️ I would really and truly tell him to stop yelling at his mom and do whatever it is himself next time he does it in front of you. Or help her the way HE should be doing. That is if you don't just bail. I think you know where this is he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:54 AM
20

I'd honestly cut ties amicably over this and run far far away. He wants adult independence from his mom, all while benefitting from the work she does for him. Best case scenario he lives at home to help her with his dad, but this reads like enabling a busybody, complaining about the inconvenient parts, then giving himself a gold star because doing his own laundry sucks. If he feels too obligated or guilty to set boundaries and truly handle his own business then he's just putting his gf at odds w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 08:34 AM
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Life isn't fair. They could take the abstinence route and/or improve themselves to level up beyond fatties. When it comes to sex the only man feelings I care about is the one I'm having sex with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:14 AM
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I was shocked to learn this too! Every guy whose pissed about arbitrary waiting on sex should present his prospective breeder lady with a tastefully done Punnet square and microchromasomal array results to really drive home the romance and excitement of propogating with only the very best 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 02:06 AM
2

Lmao! Was wasting time in the car on Reddit, time well spent. You don't have a posting stick up your ass and that's always a pleasant surprise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:08 AM
2

Joke's on you there, my face comes with a jizz deflector shield. No guy I've ever had sex with expressed less than disgust at the notion and never tried.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 01:00 AM
3

Well, shit. At least I get to keep my face...but without t&a I'll have to teach myself how to apologise 🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:51 AM
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95% of men that women interact with daily aren't worth reproducing with I'd bet my face, both my tits AND my ass that 95% of men aren't thinking "daaaaaamn I'd like to reproduce with her! What an unbelievably amazing kid we could make!" when seeing women that make their dick twitch. I don't even know why they try to sell this line of thought as anything that happens in real life and we're just so silly for not considering it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/20 12:40 AM
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This is like saying not eating out of a trashcan because it's available means a woman takes food for granted. Some things are gross, risky, and not worth the hit to your self respect in partaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 11:54 PM
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He's a real pos according to a dancer I know that worked on The Mask. She had to actually dance with him in a scene, and he'd randomly toss her around and yank on her to be "funny." He ignored her telling him to stop, so she went off on him on set. Literally everyone ignored it because the moment she lost it he turned his own noise up to ludicrous levels with idiotic jokes and flailing about to make himself the center of attention. Whenever I see an article on his current anti Trump art and soci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:33 AM
1

Since we're talking brands, if I had an OLD profile alllll my photos would have a vanilla theme in common 😂 Shit my profile photo would be an actual bottle of vanilla. But like an organic exotic spicy kind that would look boring or pretentious to anyone who doesn't know vanilla because I'd have high hopes to ruin lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 03:42 AM
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It’s the “punk” outfit bought at Hot Topic of kinks. 😂😂😂 I'm starting to think kink is a personality replacement in the days of OLD "We barely know each other, how do we smash in a way that just screams "me"...to pornhub! FOR RESEARCH PURPOSES ONLY I SWEAR!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 02:38 AM
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Absolutely, the stereotype exists for a reason: it's commonplace. It's not an absolute so I don't disbelieve you or need to challenge what you're saying. In thinking about it, the no game having isolationist STEMlords that look down on people in general for being, well, people, but still expect to get laid in their awkward ways are probably super drawn to rp. In saying it's about understanding women in combination with the harsh language surrounding the methods they get to think it's something h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 01:21 AM
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I woke my husband up with something way better than his alarm at an ungodly hour because he's one of those bizarre morning people I can't imagine being. Slept in then went to a day spa with my daughter and we got massages and pedicures. We had plans for tonight but our son went from good to a coughing miserable mess in the last two hours. He's passed out with me on the couch after the Motrin kicked in so our daughter is playing dinner stand in for me since it's too late to cancel. She's very exc…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 12:45 AM
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+1 I just block this level of retard, he knows what he's doing. It's a debate sub not a public lady rage wank show.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 10:16 PM
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Hahahaha it's hilarious that they don't understand that women are capable of observing the world around them. I'm an ArtHo, but I crossed paths with exactly this guy in college over core class requirements, just as they suffered in my world with electives. I remember group project hell very well. I lived off campus with friends also of the arts persuasion. STEMLords did not know how to deal with a 6ft tall bronze peacock sculpture in the backyard. How absurd and stupid! Nevermind that it was bea…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:38 AM
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They aren't hearing it. It's a total freak accident when STEMlords without game or personality end up married in suburbia with an average wife who could stand to lose 15lbs but can't be bothered. She still looks as good or better than everyone in the PTA and the company Christmas party so there's that. Perhaps one of those Mormon looking family portraits of everyone in jeans and a white shirt over the mantle. Maybe he "gets" to spend his money on a hobby or two, but mostly he fits in with "the g…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 11:58 PM
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Same, but my reason is I'm totally repulsed by any man with pronounced hip movement. It's extremely girly. SWR almost takes over face even, I've noticed guys who move through the shoulders+chest before knowing what their face looks like. The face, and hair tbh, could still make or break though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:18 AM
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My mom did the same, her thing was very fancy (to me as a kid) body lotions and hand creams. As an adult I do it for her now, and when she tells me "not to waste my money!" I get to tell her my mom taught me better than to look at self care as a waste! My husband beat me to our daughter for Valentine's Day tradition, but I'm not mad at it because it's the spa with her mom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 05:56 AM
5

It's over for DEERcels!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:49 AM
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He's gotta be practicing his DEERing form for the trp 'lympics. As a spectator from the PPD wine mom booth I think he missed a prime opportunity to Fog and it could cost him some updoots. But let's see if his form improves before this gets locked! 🍷
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:35 AM
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I just saw your earlier response about her being an old money gazillionaire, probably has never considered the cost of a destructive tantrum in her whole life 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:03 PM
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I can’t go to a gas station without making a new best friend. But women don’t notice it at all. My husband bought his dream car around the time we got married, I knew the brand but don't know or care about cars. If I was driving it for whatever reason the very same best friends popped up asking very specific questions I had no idea how to answer. They'd have this obvious disbelief that I didn't know these things. On the other hand if I took it for maintenance the people working on it would immed…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:53 PM
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Yeah I imagine a place with an open door policy gets a lot of weirdness and sideline droolers that add nothing to the experience. But at those prices damn, the talent better be extra deviant!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:24 PM
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Probably also a pricey premium to screen or outright block uggos and undesirables.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:18 PM
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I often say people bring in their bad relationship habits into marriage because they don't understand how things will change. Women can articulate to me how marriage is so much different, but when I ask how that changes their behavior, a lot of them can't really say. I agree with you on the habits point, but the topic of how long to wait before sex is complicated for women not looking to be a cumrag. It exists independently and sometimes in direct conflict with her own sex drive because self pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:11 PM
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This is one of those topics that singles and marrieds are going to differ on apparently, as a married woman it made total sense. The OP bringing up DB made me automatically think of the topic in terms of marriage, but the notion of how long to wait before sex is early relationship days. They're tooootally different relationship stages that can't be peered. By itself as a hypothetical sure love can exist without sex. In practice, assuming hetero and everyone is bringing their A overall relationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 06:10 PM
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All of the things you are listing are not kinks for men. It's really weird that you're coming at her from a place of "not understanding kink" with this. To use her examples, men being into deepthroating is not new. Just because a woman participating has her own reasons for enjoying it doesn't erase his. Same with tying a woman up. There's a well known name for the category of kink about getting off on total control. This notion that people who aren't kinky are automatically sex negative is as la…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 04:22 PM
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I'm so chill I blocked both of you for being a waste of words and phone notification 😘
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:04 PM
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No shit? Wow. I for one am shocked...that you didn't quote the whole sentence just to deliberately warp the context for that knowledge bomb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:49 AM
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Can confirm the dislike of popular scrawny guy, he looks like a FTM transsexual to me at 32. Mamoa looks like the child of a man + yak combo though so idk. They both seem like extreme examples with most men (thankfully) between.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:24 AM
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Your age barrier is stupid, 30+ year old women have whole careers in creating the art 20 something's consume. The level of ignorance at assuming the consumers you want to fuck are the creators is astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:18 AM
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No, she sounds thorough. Pretty exhaustive list as to why a woman wouldn't be into a man who flogs his dick into flaccid submission on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 01:15 AM
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It's really not as deep (or simple?) as outright homophobia. If dick is something a man requires to be happy he'll never be happy with me. If that's the case, why bother when plenty of others could be happy without side dick? I don't want to share a man with another woman and the biggest thing I've got going for me is that her biggest draw (not being me) is also potentially her fatal flaw. A woman can't compete with someone offering something she can't, like a dick. Or the experience of playing …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:54 PM
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I'm a fan of extended families because it's how I was raised, but I also don't think there's only one way to family right. If you've got stability and some friends you can count on that goes a long way too. Especially for people who've escaped toxic families or family members. As a kid it made things a lot easier to resolve without parents butting in. Sibling disputes, cousins being jerks, whatever. There was kid justice at work and when it got heated an adult close by to moderate or pull someon…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:13 AM
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Yeah if she's all boobs, no face, no ass, no style, and mediocre talent then finding out what people appreciate most about you is boobs is gonna hurt. IF that's even the case, that's worst case scenario. Even so, it could be temporary. All of the above can be fixed given time and effort and taking criticism and results with the aim to improve, but it's super easy to curl up and die. Art is personal, so it's easy to spiral and give up as a matter of self preservation when bad things happen. Tell …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:31 AM
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She's going to have to get into a brand mindset then and start pushing photos that align with how she (and her band) want to be seen. Boobs aren't even 'bad' when it comes to a band image so if anything toughening up for her would likely be coming to terms with sex sells. Use it pointedly as a way to drag the thirsty to the more musically geared media. If she's after purity of image and art though she's going to have to go Sia with her wig + Billie Eillish (sp?) potato sack clothes, because she'…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:14 AM
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How old is she? She's confusing interest in her tits for interest in who she is as a person. Easily enough done when you're young, but at some point you realize men liking tits =\= them liking you. If she's just out of school or something I'd get it. And over a 'like' discrepancy?? It gets so much worse. I danced professionally for 10 years, even on the Company social media there's guys graphically describing what they'd like to do with a "bendy bitch" after seeing something like an arabesque an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:01 AM
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I just told him I told this story and he said where disgust ends the cringe begins! The next ons he had he straight up blurted out that he wouldn't be putting anything in her ass as clothes were coming off 😂 Luckily she just laughed and was good with her ass being left alone. Sort of related is how loaded the topic of sexual history is here on PPD. I think irl the youthful fuck up and lol moments are very endearing. Everyone seems to be raring to go as an adult but not having it all figured out …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 01:11 AM
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Yeah lol, the look on his face when he told that story was great. When you think you're hot shit and get upstaged by actual hot shit 😂 I hear you on sheets, it's a necessary splurge and a no shit zone!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 12:04 AM
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Nope :(
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 12:02 AM
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Word, I actually heard the grossest sex story ever from my husband before we were married. I'm gonna tell it because fuck it why not. He was 19 and sneaking into clubs in LA with his friends, met some random early to mid 20's thot that wanted to bang. Very into anal, he was whatever about it thinking it was regular old anal. No. She was into having abnormally large random objects stuffed into her asshole and was weirdly proud of how much it could take. At this point she's become a kind of sex sc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 09:54 AM
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I can call triple A and keep a current membership. There's no way I'm wrestling tire bolts on the side of a road just to prove independence for randoms online.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/20 05:43 AM
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I saw an askreddit post on circumcision, there was a whole slew of men denying the dick cheese as a con. It was a great circle jerk of perfect hygiene until nurses from countries where circumcision isn't a thing chimed in with their 100% of men who needed a catheter were crusty ass smegma coated cheesers. 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:34 PM
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I finally watched Marriage Story after seeing all the critic and social media love. Superbly acted on all fronts but watching it with my husband was a distraction. He was definitely hate watching it and had such stellar commentary as "Why does he even want custody of a kid that needs to be told pooping is its own reward?" 🙄 I get the critic angst about Adam Driver being shut out of awards season over the Joker fosho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:35 PM
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Yup I'd be weirded out enough to ask why the "traveling vagabond" front just because I'd wonder what else I'd misjudged. It would definitely trigger a shields up no sex reaction until who the guy says and shows he is matches what I think I know of him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 09:12 PM
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His perception is comedy considering he leaned on people "never reading trp" yet the entirety of his own commentary reads like a bitchy slap fight that would get him laughed at there 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/20 01:14 AM
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Oh I thought you were actually wondering if treating yourself like a piece of meat or a helpless slave to your hormones from a very young age might not be an ideal way to form opinions on the opposite sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 04:01 AM
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Doubtful. Have teen girls in my family, they get spammed by classmates looking for nudes all the time because they think instathotting is something everyone does. No. Then you have your girls that are so desperate for validation from some pizza faced hs horndog they decide it's worthwhile to throw a filter on her camel toe and teehee to greatness 🙄 You end up with women whose short life experience validates the need for FDS to weed out creeps and freaks, and men's that validate women are awalt s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/20 03:44 AM
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I love cuddling as much as the next girl, but never with a guy I wouldn't have sex with. It's a risky combination of intimate and ambiguous, even if they agreed it wasn't a sex thing people often say what others want to hear. The risk of playing with feelings and awkward boners is too high to make it worth it. Neither are something I'd want to do to anyone I'd be comfortable cuddling with for the hell of it. Body pillows? Paid cuddle service? Go nuts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 09:43 AM
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The poor dog though... (She's good, the kids are actually pretty neat because if they get wild on a indoor mess they know whose cleaning it!)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 06:02 AM
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💯 The most recent one is: Me: And if they're dumping cereal all over the place running around shrieking? Him: That's why we have a dog, duh. Logic!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 05:46 AM
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Mmmhmm, this is in the marrieds bag of tricks too. Kids up at the crack of dawn playing loudly so you can't sleep? No no why bother seeing what they're doing when you can hear it so clearly? Let's just cuddle. Admiral Ackbar approved: it's a trap 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 05:37 AM
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No, I was 18 and he was 20 and it was one of those things where he took it way more seriously than he had any reason to. We had fun together but it wasn't some once in a lifetime feeling. It was run of the mill college exclusivity, as long as it wasn't bogged down with expectation aside from being a +1 at stuff and doing the odd favor for one another it was great. Then he just started going off about future stuff and plans I was never consulted over, and get pissy when I'd walk it back. So that …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 11:33 PM
2

Very common from what I see and in my own marriage with two kids. That whole "put upon sorry dad" shtick where the man works and then acts too tired or dumb to play with kids or change a diaper is old news. Like actively repulsive to any man I know with kids. They had 'em, they're theirs and they're more likely to tell Mom to chill out and do something crazy with them than mope about sighing about their childfree days. Which makes sense considering how many couples both work with kids. It's most…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 10:08 PM
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Ime they wrangle, cajole, lie, etc to get their kids to some otherwise awesome event just to nuke the whole thing with their intent to smash you up against some guy they approve of and start the grandkid clock countdown. They get their friends in on it too, you develop a spidey sense for it pretty quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 09:38 PM
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Lol your dedication to chaos is admirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:29 AM
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My 5yr old son just stole my husband's phone to call from Zurich. Yesterday he got a "spazz powered" (mechanical, that required translation) watch and they went to museums where he managed to find toilet paper art. For a hot milisecond I had job regret and it's like my husband could smell it. Talking about just randomly getting on a plane. Which I'm definitely not doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:26 AM
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Ohhhh oh wait are you the guy that doesn't go down on his wife and writes odes to baked bread? You're an agent of chaos in both deed and word.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:14 AM
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Dear God...are you okay? That's a lot of random unrelated topic word salad. The internet, social media, and Reddit are not a mystery to anyone. Anyone acting like it is just doesn't want someone sniffing around uninvited. Thassit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 07:52 AM
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Reddit is one of the premier places online a woman can exist in her interests without her availability as a sex object interfering if she doesn't want it to, and without her entire social media network in her ass. "Reddit?" is easier than "You're not invited to my unfiltered inner thoughts, long time interests, guilty pleasures, minor curiosities, expertise, or life experience. But you have a good day, okay?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 06:19 AM
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My husband and I were joking that by the time it's sorted the DNC will have found a way to make Hillary the winner! What an embarrassment of a process.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 09:28 PM
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If both are HV they can agree to fairly assess each other but shit-testing is TOTALLY out of the table for any decent man. Lmao sounds about as hot and realistic as 2 people spontaneously agreeing to turn their emotion chips on at the same time after synchronizing their fitbits. Or perhaps this is just further proof the Chad that the manosphere is gay for isn't the one women want. In real life people have things called boundaries, expectations, goals, and egos. How all of those things end up mes…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 07:59 PM
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Why aren’t more women secure enough in their relationships? Idc about strip clubs so long as they're relegated to a bachelor party, but you lost me at that line. As a method of "fun" in an everyday sense? Ew, no, ew. Has nothing to do with security and everything to do with the image of a bf or husband pathetic enough to be panting after some random who is pantomiming being attracted to him to get at his wallet. It's buying into the man as a dumb animal trope that's gross. I've never had to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 04:14 PM
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I'm not mad at it, in his case he's actually pretty busy but I don't doubt it's also a lack of concern over missing it because he's there for the things he thinks matters. He does appreciate not looking like a thoughtless slacker and having his sister give him shit about it though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:55 PM
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This can't be emphasized enough. In most households it's the woman with a calendar full of birthday reminders. My husband had no idea his niece turned 18 yesterday and his sister's birthday is today but they're blissfully clueless because it was handled and his name was on the cards.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 03:39 PM
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It's less about the money and more about the attributes that come with it. I married someone whose started and sold one business then started another, and when I put the question as to why to him he said "I make money because I can't make time." He likes the autonomy that comes from being his own boss, he likes to pick and choose when he wants to travel for work and not have to answer to anyone if I go too or he brings a kid, or some days say fuck it and work from home. He's very involved with h…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 02:45 PM
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I'm good with people having and fulfilling kinks and fantasies, I just don't see the controversy in it weeding a person out of consideration for sex or a relationship. Or a downside really, because nobody in a presumably healthy relationship wants to deal with spite or jealousy or disgust over their preference or past. Like I know I'm not a good option for anyone super kinky in a way that involves more partners. I narrowed my own options down by being that way and don't see it as missing out on …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 06:58 AM
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Baby Yoda I can understand just for the memes lol. The worst are those stupid yellow things...I'm brain farting but they're a Pixar deal that speak gibberish? Minions! Those things. Dear God the mom-as-my-whole-identity crew go apeshit for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 03:06 AM
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Normie people shit, idk any man proud of fucked up skin and ingrown hairs but maybe it's a SoCal thing. I just didn't assume off the bat that washing your face in accordance to it's particular needs was a regional thing in the first world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 02:55 AM
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Yeah I don't care what people do but whichever way you swing, power slut or super prude, you're going to alienate a portion of the fuckable or commitment offering population. It just is what it is. Gang bangs are just a personal EW that makes my vagina cringe into desert wasteland before blowing away like ash.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:42 AM
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I don't even fuck women and I'm grossed out for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 12:31 AM
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Definitely. I refuse to believe any of this is real life, the nails or the ring 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:28 AM
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Mmkay you seem really dedicated to dying on the hill of wrinkles and blackheads. Enjoy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:54 PM
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Preach. Also you bringing up lotion reminded me of the Bill Burr bit on it. My husband sent it to me after my first "wtf?" at PPD men acting like skincare is gay so it's appropriate lol. It's not an attitude I see expressed by men irl and will forever surprise me. Spoiler alert: "Lotion: it's for more than your dick! You need to increase the circumference of your lotion distribution!" https://youtu.be/vWJphD0sg1I
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:52 PM
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There are whole consumer websites on active ingredients in skincare that are actually worthwhile. OP is on the right track with tretinoin and sunscreen. This only needs to be about marketing hype if you're unwilling to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:47 PM
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Lunacy
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 09:28 PM
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Oh yes, it was one of the more memorable backtrack shitshows. He shouldn't have run, in a perfect world he could've ducked and covered behind her and taken what refuge her perfect size 2 ass could offer.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 02:06 AM
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If a guy said it they'd be like "type it in caps for all the old fugly PPD wine moms who can't seem to get it!" 🤣 A long time ago someone posted about a woman who got held up at gunpoint while her bf ran. Allllll the "manly man protective instincts are a given its part of what we bring to relationships it's who we are duh" chest thumping screeched to a halt. It was hilarious to read. Meanwhile my husband opens things for me to protect my nails let alone my life, but sure he'd be stoked if I stuc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:44 AM
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I thought identity politics were bad, now we have identity fucks! To your point though the terps who do as you describe also have "pet laydee peeves" they've disguised as GREAT MANOSPHERIAN CONCERNS as an excuse to hang comfortably from their cross and comment to the masses. Would probably work better if they didn't reveal their universal woman truth came from a certain ex who scarred him for life but PPD is cheaper than therapy. If reds were actually fun guys with abundance openly not looking f…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/20 01:29 AM
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This is interesting to me because men of the manosphere are constantly lamenting or mocking women "following their tingles" to their detriment. "If only she could use her brain and make a rational choice!" they say. The assumption being that all misery is feels+tingles driven and women are doomed to be clueless and miserable. It appears that FDS are taking stock of what will and won't work for their sanity, circumstances, and life goals. You'd think the manosphere response would be happiness at …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 09:16 AM
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I'm into muscle, but I think a lot of it was situationally driven. Food as fuel gets beaten into you in pre professional and professional dance companies. I don't do junk food, loads of alcohol, binge eating on holidays or Netflix and snacks. Those habits never got a chance to form. Men who don't think this way are annoyed or frustrated with it, even if I didn't care what they eat. It's a day to day irritant that gets old long term since people eat multiple times a day and it's a very couple thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 08:38 AM
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Exactly, idk why the FDS testerical ladyboys here act surprised or shocked or pissy about this. They really think some guy showing up with his dick in his pants instead of his hand is the prize. Dream big ladies 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 04:31 AM
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We travel with our kids a lot, they're in activities outside of school, etc. Not even factoring in food it's expensive in terms of time and money. Do you ever post on RPW? Real talk I'd love to see a 'gangbang and dinner on the cheap to keep your man happy and lady brain sane' thread. I honestly think you could swing it and the responses would be glorious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:37 PM
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Oh good laydee lovely larp has chimed in from pickmelandia.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:23 PM
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Uh huh, downvote the pain away darling.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 08:22 PM
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I hope someone upvotes this astounding insight and gives you the internet validation you so richly deserve. (That's a lot of words for "Here's your internet attention.")
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:46 PM
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I'm not the one having a mental breakdown over who can afford coffee so I can't explain that mystery to you. It exists to be mocked. As far as the rest: if what I read here is to be believed he'd want to "sire children" with whoever is barely 18 with the correct waist hip ratio. Which also doesn't align with observable reality so we can all laugh at that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:37 PM
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And yet high value to men is also supposedly not a cum dumpster with an ability to "pair bond" that is apparently diminished by taking every swinging dick that comes our way. Personally I'd rather gnaw through my own wrists than be a cum-hungry for any guy with a pulse and texting ability. Not an uncommon stance for women tbh. Women are very willing to be seduced, convinced, dazzled, dickmatized, etc but it takes more than existing in our presence. It's a feature, not a bug. Unless a guy is in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:12 PM
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I've been married 10 years and I love it, but if I were suddenly dating again and had to wade through a sea of "want sum fuk? U like dik, I hav dik. Wyd? Hey." I'd definitely be resentful, it's so obviously cause and effect. I'd tap out and get the cats I've been promised way sooner than normal if I end up divorced or a widow. Edit: oooohhh what about this one pissed off my dv buddy? Probably that I'm married. He still buys dinner too, it's truly tragic. He cries himself to sleep on his very man…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 07:01 PM
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It's not "my" term, and using it the way I did was intended. It's shitty to be referred to in such a way and be expected to be taken seriously while calling the other side hateful. Obvious thing is obvious, eyeroll emoji really put it over the top but I guess not. Yes rp uses those terms and then backpedals with "Ignore the vocabulary! It's the message that matters!" These are old news items. You're either new or hoping to tap into some agreeable laydee brained part of me that would acknowledge …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:53 PM
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I need to preface this by saying I generally agree with you, but this ringing true for me and essentially everyone I know makes me laugh at men who "want kids someday" but have a mental breakdown over who pays for coffee. But because women are specializing while men are specializing to minimize the massive cost of having children. Saying kids are more expensive than a series of cheap dates ending in lackluster sex is peered with extreme examples of obvious gold digging and it's so crazy. Anyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 06:26 PM
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Hateful to who? Guys who message asking for nudes, if she spits or swallows, her availability for a quick fuck, how hot she'd be if only she was <porn scene description> , or asking if she's "crazy" like his exes? Lmao if that's you then I'm sorry but those categories of men exist to be a warning for women and avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 05:44 PM
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The irony is delicious. Women to them are children bitch cunt whores to be lined up and fucked but FDS is "hateful." Right. Uh oh scrotes mad and downvoting! Don't be mad at the language guys it's the message that counts or whatever 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 04:39 PM
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Yup I'd agree. As a woman my guess would be if his life is great enough not to nuke he's going to actively avoid following his dick to ground zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:26 PM
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And this is my fault specifically or should this prosecutor be doing more about the broken process than sharing the hot inside gossip is my point. They could start with doing things like not being a court that releases the accusers name or emails sealed transcripts to the media. Another factor in the woman’s decision to ask prosecutors to drop the case was mistakes by the tiny court in Eagle, Colo., that her attorneys said caused her to lose faith in the judicial system. Her name was mistakenly …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 02:07 PM
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Why would I think that's okay? I wasn't there, were you? His case went to court, is due process not a thing anymore? It's literally the courts job to study the evidence and find a verdict and they didn't consult me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 09:56 AM
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Well I'm not a woke progressive so I'll let them white knight themselves. Kobe was the basketball talent of our generation, did a ton for the sport in other countries, brought a lot of foreign talent to the NBA, was a known mentor to his peers throughout his career and after retirement, a generous founder and supporter of philanthropic causes, and an outspoken and active father. Unless it comes out that he directed the wrath of LA personally or paid Leykis to leak his accusers name that's how he…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 07:10 AM
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All of LA did, starting with Tom Leykis revealing her name on his radio show. The reaction was pure lunacy and it was spearheaded by men who love to call women lying whores. God knows they bragged about it enough. I was sixteen or seventeen at the time and totally self absorbed but I remember that well because it was so shocking. I also remember the case threatening to bankrupt Eagle County because Kobe's lawyers were turning their court system out and all the related expenses involved. Idk what…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:50 AM
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Not really cover ups, but he was the poster boy for slut shaming at first because his accuser showed up to her rape exam in panties crusted over in jizz and pubes that weren't Kobe's. His attorneys took that info and made the case that her vaginal tearing was merely an overuse injury in her consensual sex shenanigans and the world's jaw dropped. They also brought up his accusers 'recent mental instability' citing months spent at a mental health rehab program. Then he was a joke for buying his wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 01:34 AM
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Some people understand the currency of reciprocity and want to define a thing so they can set their own expectations while understanding the other person's. Doing so makes it much easier to assign the correct meaning to their actions if you're actually watching what's being done rather than listening to what's being said. It also gives someone a heads up to take you as seriously (or not seriously) as you take them, which is only a drawback to a person that was hoping to win a 'who cares less' co…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:43 PM
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Never seen that irl. Strength is only a bonus if you can get close enough to use it, but you're assuming the tall guy is a lanklet and the short guy is an Olympic wrestler who wouldn't move if he got hit with a wrecking ball for your example so of course you'd be right.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 10:01 PM
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It's less about actual fight and ability and more about not even having to fight. Most shit talking potential fights end in the shoving match where the short guy learns a practical lesson in reach as he goes flying. Bigger is just more intimidating generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 09:54 PM
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