Q4E: what are some stupid things your preferred gender has done that made you less attracted to them?

WastingOrchid · 2020-04-26T15:00:42+00:00

guy thought he could put his dick in my urethra and thought that was a really hot “sexual position”
anatomy in general, tbh. Not knowing how periods work (thinking I can just “hold it in” for example), not knowing where a clit is, thinking nipple stimulation doesn’t make sense because “all that’s inside a boob is just fat, right? You can’t feel much, can you?”, thinking I just wouldn’t have a hymen because I’ve had sex with other guys, thinking my unbroken hymen = I’m a virgin, and so on, and so on...
worse than not understanding anatomy: thinking they can explain to me how my own body works.
fighting. It’s so dumb. Just knock it off.
thinking sexual harassment is fun or cool, or thinking I’ll somehow appreciate it when they walk up and slap my ass without any warning.
a guy in my university class thought that if he used a pencil lighter than a #2 on one of those bubble-in exams, it would be too light for the computer to pick it up as a wrong answer but that the laser used to find the right answer was different and could detect it? So he just used a different pencil and colored in every choice. Then he turned it in first, giving it directly to our professor with a big smile. Professor was like “dude, what the fuck.” The guy failed. It was the dumbest thing I’ve ever seen anyone do in my entire life.

Cobra_x30 · 2020-04-26T14:19:58+00:00

The worst thing I've seen women do is get ugly ass pointless trashy tattoos.

Ran into a girl at a bar last year that had a cheese grater tattooed on her right breast. It's a great conversation starter, but fucking stupid to look at. I guess when she get's the money the left breast is going to get a block of cheese.

LittyKitsune · 2020-04-26T14:37:37+00:00

Hearing I'm a 21-year-old virgin and then thinking I'll magically drop my panties just for them. Yeah, I've never met a guy as hot as you before, and these lines have never been tried before. You're special. Of course.

Tyler_Gatsby · 2020-04-26T14:54:06+00:00

Hearing someone doesn't drink water, or eats lettuce or fruit. What are you, 12?!

BruhMoment45886 · 2020-04-26T14:43:34+00:00

My ex took a fat shit in my toliet and plugged it up because she was also on her period and tried to flush her bloody pad down with it. The water almost overflowed and she had to call me into the bathroom to unplug it. Watery shit mixed with blood. The worst sight of my life.

On a broad level, women with a lot of tattoos. They remind me of fat smoker biker moms. Women with hairy legs. Farting a lot.

PhospholipidB · 2020-04-26T20:40:56+00:00

dick pics. Unless I specifically ask to see your junk (not likely), that crap is offensive.
blaming me for his behavior or his feelings. Double turnoff if his negative feelings are based on wrong assumptions about me, my motives, etc
men who expect sex the first time we meet. Men who make explicit sexual comments when we barely know each other. Yeah I get it, you're a horn-dog. I enjoy sex, too, but I need to know you see me as more than a moist hole.
any man who defends sexual assault, has zero empathy for rape victims, finds rape jokes hilarious. Or any sort of sexism or bigotry in general.
entitled to sex or particular sex acts. The more you pester for something like anal, the more I'm confident it'll never happen between us. Entitled to getting oral but thinks he doesnt have to reciprocate.
obviously any man who is ogling, flirting with, or otherwise fixated on other women while we are out together. That is grounds for me immediately departing.
those PUA tactics and redpill manipulation. I can sniff that out a mile away. Go ahead, neg me. Or those tired pick up lines. Is "Hey beautiful" really the most unique opening line? It's amusing and Block worthy.
once a met a guy for 2 hours in a public place but didn't feel a connection, so we never met up again. I forgot to block him on messenger. Two YEARS later he sends me a message saying only "when could see me again. He cant wait to get a closer look at those big tits". Two years later..?! Of course my computer is left on and my new long-term bf saw it and assumed the worst. Guys: Do NOT assume a woman is still single. And never open communications with the sex things you want.
tattoos arent necessarily an improvement, especially when they're poorly drawn cartoon character or whatever fad 'edgy' thing was popular at the time.
men who insist on keeping longer facial hair but do NOT wash their face often. If I kiss him at 5pm, I dont want the flavor of his slightly rancid breakfast food. One of my guy friends loves joking his beard is a "flavor saver" (and wonders why he cannot find a girlfriend)
men who think the stuff that they see in porn is good sex for real women or the best version of sex for them. Double annoying is when I nicely say "too rough" or "would you please rub me this different way" and he keeps doing the clumsy porn-type movement.
men who don't try hard to pleasure their woman, he assumes she is satisfied with quality & frequency -- then he calls her "insecure" for not being thrilled how often he sneaks away to use porn. If you're in a relationship, put that &^%# porn habit away; pour all your energy into her

2020-04-26T16:31:01+00:00

Nagging.

Being physically and mentally abusive.

Never initiate anything.

Saying stupid feminist talking points.

Shit testing.

yuckyuck13 · 2020-04-26T16:54:06+00:00

Both genders, selfies. It screams narcissism and thats a huge turn off not just in attraction but general interest in them as a person.

coolerdrop57156 · 2020-04-26T23:06:54+00:00

Pretty much women who dont know about potential danger

Oppubb0 · 2020-04-27T04:42:28+00:00

Expecting to be worshipped. Huge turn-off.

throwaway9183940 · 2020-04-29T05:18:43+00:00

Pyramid scheme...

petrichordium · 2020-04-26T16:04:38+00:00

Earlier in our relationship, My girlfriend had a job where she worked late (fine dining) for a while, and she’d come back as i was winding down for the night smelling vaguely like her restaurant and babbling a mile a minute bc she had spent the entire night yelling at customers over an environment designed to keep the tables packed in but not eavesdropping on each other. (Also she’d be mildly buzzed and on adderall but that’s mild for that industry). Sometimes while eating (she would be too addied to eat on shift so i got to hear her chew and talk lol). At first i was polite about it but at some point she caught me in a half asleep zombie state and i told her my candid feelings on the matter.

Basically i never process my day at my girlfriends but ALL of my girlfriends have processed their day at me. I am GENERALLY happy to oblige, but it’s not my favorite activity and under circumstances it can be genuinely off putting. But when she is coming back grody from a long shift she doesn’t care whether i find it arousing lollolol

Hungry-Nebula · 2020-04-26T16:32:21+00:00

I don't really feel like I am worthy enough to feel less attracted to someone. Like, how dare I say that the way that anyone acts makes them less attractive to me when I am an incel?

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2020-04-26T17:54:20+00:00

Mostly how women present themselves on social media. Not all, but most, try to craft this “better than thou” image with a certain follow-to-followed ratio, with pictures of exotic places and cool events that are completely funded by their rich simp daddy, etc.

Their pridefulness is unattractive.

sadomasochrist · 2020-04-26T19:09:23+00:00

I'm super duper independent.

So you're a bitch. k.

OPs_Real_Mom · 2020-04-26T20:05:35+00:00

Women, always making things about themselves.

Never taking responsibility for their own decisions.

Lying when it's convenient.

Mind games in general.

reluctantly_red · 2020-04-26T17:53:45+00:00

Women who can't check the oil and fluids on their car. My ex-wife wrecked two engines and a transmission because she refused to learn.

2020-04-26T21:19:06+00:00

The behavior of 1 person of my preferred gender has nothing to do with the gender as a whole.

The behavior of a few people of my preferred gender has nothing to do with the gender as a whole.

The behavior of the vocal minority of my preferred gender has nothing to do with the gender as a whole.

The behavior of the majority of my preferred gender has nothing to do with the gender as a whole; I am looking for someone extra-ordinary, nor someone ordinary.

Reisiluu · 2020-04-26T22:39:28+00:00

Assuming false things about me, believing in conspiracy theories and being strongly religious. Rigid and dogmatic thinking is a sign of stupidity. Also paying for porn.

Sid_Insidious · 2020-04-27T00:01:50+00:00

Having a baby with a guy she just met only to break his heart (idiot looooooved her) when it was clear to anyone with a brain she was doing the "need more child support" thing. Women who use children for income. Super gross. Aka job - "full time single mother".
Women who look down their nose at their actual equals, fuck guys out of their league using promiscuity and automation, then whinge that "all men are assholes" when Chad breaks her heart because he's fucked 20 other women just like her.
Lowering standards for female fitness while expecting men to be in good shape.
Having degrees and being independent, but still looking for partners who out-earn them or have higher social status.
Saying they want love and LTRs and marriage but then buggering off at the first sign of a bigger better deal - monkey branching and vine swinging. Also, the "clearly planned" Frivorce to an otherwise decent guy who didn't even see it coming.
Bring "strong and independent" one second and then "whinging helpless victim" the next, whichever suits their needs at a particular moment.
Shameless materialism, spending money for spending's sake, retail therapy, buying things that have "shiny" factor but no real utility. Paying more for stuff due to brand recognition and "social status" badge. (Won't drive to her $25/hr job in anything less than a BMW SUV.)

Basically, acting like toddlers with no accountability then blaming everything wrong with the world and their lives on men.

rubbooyuri · 2020-04-26T14:11:42+00:00

Did purge week start without my noticing?

Title	Q4E: what are some stupid things your preferred gender has done that made you less attracted to them?
Author	Throwaway9478927823
Upvotes	7
Comments	77
Date	April 26, 2020 2:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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