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If you mean atlas likes macho proles rather than macho suit bros, sure. But her tastes have nothing to do with whether women are HAWT for pasty dudes with desk posture and underdeveloped muscles who talk about fantasy football leagues while nitpicking craft IPAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 10:14 PM
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I agree with both atlas and moody, oof. But to expound maybe differently, civilization creates a 7/10 split where most men who can hack it in the system are rendered primally unnattractive as a result. This means the “Chads” of late capitalism are basically just guys who can both look good rock climbing and know Python, at least enough to take credit from the squirrely little engineers doing most of the work. Basically women are drawn to the comforts and commodities of civilization but repulsed …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 05:22 PM
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Lol the last few undergrads I’ve dated said the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 06:20 PM
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I’m 5’6” and one of my exes has about half a million followers just for being hot. But I’m facially handsome, work in finance, and go HARD to date tiny size zero art hoes. I would probably be an incel with a few detail changes honestly, half because only a tiny (lol) fraction of American women are even attractive to me. I don’t mind taller women at all but LARGER, no thanks. The other thing is when you fall off the horse in a relationship it’s very hard to get back up, MUCH harder than it is to …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/21 04:55 AM
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Yeah again character vs person. I saw that doc and weirdly it probably prompted my use of the example bc so many adults have such a positive impression of him well after childhood. It’s that specific archetype of charisma that isn’t sexually magnetic but clearly has a good and lasting impression. First thought who wasn’t somebody i know whose decency makes me pity them, because they are still an actual human with desires and not a children’s show actor
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:47 PM
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I think both status and wealth are the kinds of things that easily get your foot in the door but don’t necessarily let you either close the deal OR keep up attraction after the honeymoon period. Oops question for women am man
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:21 PM
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Do i sound shocked to you? I was just tearing apart your clumsy dichotomy not looking for answers
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:27 PM
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so your definition is that if they have a sexually arousing vibe they are sexually arousing. Thank you for your service lol. There are plenty of nice sweet men who didn’t have millions of people watching them be nice and sweet for half a century. Not all types of charisma lead to the same place
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:25 PM
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I think charisma is a vague word that only means people are drawn into you somehow, doesn’t mean they want to smash. You’re honestly telling me a man with one of the longest running tv shows in history wasn’t charismatic in some way? Dude is very charming, charismatic etc. just not sexually My point is the flipside of yours, if everyone sees the man as a nice wonderful sexually neuter human... it’s likely his wife does too lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:19 PM
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And i never said my only rubric was my perception. I know plenty of people who are seen with great warmth and appreciation, who are always welcome at parties and loved by all... who are total sexual duds. I realize on PPD everyone is either an angry autist or charming slayer but IRL I think the real cautionary tale for straight men is being the Mr Rogers type dude everyone loves but nobody wants to FUCK.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 08:05 PM
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This is a totally false dichotomy. There are PLENTY of very warm charming people whom women and elders love (as neighbors) who are NOT arousing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 07:53 PM
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It has always been very easy for me to meet women and keep a sexually satisfying relationship for about two years. Basically i can START genuine infatuation and the kind of sex where her friends treat you different than before Unfortunately after a few years I always start to get the gay best friend treatment, and all i have learned about heterosexuality is that it’s WAY easier to replace her with someone new and more enthusiastic than it is to get things back to where they were meeting my needs…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/21 02:59 PM
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An an unmarried playboy from an evangelical family i am even more of a disappointment so i get it. That still doesn’t stop me from thinking a big ass aesthetically rich Eastern Orthodox wedding sounds awesome, bc it does (from the outside)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:55 PM
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Haha i like how poorly this is acted combined with actually shooting in the exact right setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 09:51 PM
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Ha, maybe the spring-summer hypergamy programming but the bleak coldness of cuffing season gives us soulful widower dads in little bandstand towns, i cannot say I follow the programming year round lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 08:46 PM
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Merry Christmas to the haters and the losers. I’ve been not watching a blur of Hallmark movies with my grandmother and they are ALL about sharp overworked city girls burnt out on fuckboys who meet conventionally masculine but honorable men in woodsy little towns over Christmas. One was named Chad. Anyway Happy Holidays to the tradcons and merry fucking christmas, have a white one, to the intersectional sjws Edit: also these christmas towns are outwardly wholesome but have like Juarez levels of f…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/20 07:37 PM
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It’s especially funny seeing niche perverts trying to micromanage sexuality rather than actual church marms too. Like “listen sweaty your furry drawings are not intersectional enough, we need better ace wolf respresentation 👏”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:29 PM
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Oh shit don’t mind me just doing DMT in a sensory deprivation chamber and emerging as a being of pure light
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:12 PM
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Sounds like a recipe for great work, i look forward to the speed influenced manifesto on aliens and the pyramids that gets blackout spliced into some cross border contract law gig
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/20 05:07 PM
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Same I think she actually did better indirect commentary that way too. I really like Kitty for that general vibe, as well as the stuff she does in the Pom Poms with her husband Sam Ray. Also Naomi Elizabeth does a more extreme version of the aesthetically vacant thing. It took me a while to appreciate her tracks Bc they are repetitive but it’s like religious chant done by an LA post-bimbo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 01:11 AM
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She has always been both more pretentious and less insightful than lana del rey, but she has some bops. This isn’t her best though! It has some decent rhymes but her sound had always had this white wine and xanax bounce to it, and ... it just doesn’t really have much gravitas no matter what the lyrics are. I’ll take bubblegum bitch any day! Lana made a better record about men recently too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 10:04 PM
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Male. I no longer pursue women i wouldn’t consider dating unless it is VERY obviously a hookup. Not out of any sense of altruism but I literally find either masturbation or skilled escorts preferable to that kind of messiness. That said. I don’t know i ACTUALLY want to date someone until fucking them, so i guess that means zero or negative time. Practically if we haven’t fucked by the third date i am ramping up the intensity such that i either get fucked or booted off as a hornball, both of whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 05:43 PM
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So much for female nerds being any less insufferable than male ones
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 01:28 AM
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I don’t think the change in connotation is entirely due to foreign autists. I just think there is less and less of any aspirational idea of what you have to look forward to in “settling” unless you are a milquetoast UMC assortive mating beaver builder type. For both men and women, the end state of settling down IS settling for less. In fact half the time when ppl still DO use “settling down” positively, it’s actually only about the negative space of what they no LONGER have to put up with: the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/20 03:13 PM
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Lol bunch of weak ass betas can only drive a woman to murder by locking her in matrimony. I can accomplish that over brunch
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 08:52 PM
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Dolly Parton, Loretta Lynn, Townes van Zandt, Billy Joe Shaver. More recently Orville Peck and Colter Wall
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 03:34 PM
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No Donny these women are nihilists, there’s nothing to be afraid of
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/20 01:52 AM
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I was thinking 7.5 until she sounded enough like Hope Sandoval to go up a point. Tho her Mazzy Star cover is pretty meh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 01:09 AM
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Ugh NEITHER are going to fuck you. You are a pathetic orbiter who ain’t really friends with either but your original friend has a cringe codependent puppy attachment to you and is annoyed that her puppy is wandering around pissing where he shouldn’t. Grow balls and cut them both from your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 04:20 PM
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Ok so you agree with me?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 06:04 PM
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I think underemployed gym bro with a 6/10 college educated sugarmomma is decently common, but women are less likely to acknowledge those couples as the guy being “hotter” bc said gymbro is generally unstylish and low value unless you’re fucking him. Cool, successful, and hot guys with uggos is not common. I think lower attractiveness couples where the guy might be slightly hotter subjectively is decently common but neither are hot enough for ppl to bother really debating which one is truly hotte…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 05:49 PM
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She and fatass diego are two of the sexiest unsexy ppl ever
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 07:13 PM
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Yea I definitely think it’s a combination of that and women’s SEX drive not liking monogamy and being a bit attention whorish. The fact that a girl “loves” you and wants to be in your life can mean jack shit for how much she wants to fuck after two years. I think focus on self improvement and accountability is good... but if all your efforts come to nothing with one girl, my experience is you just need a different girl way more than you need therapy or patience blah blah
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 05:43 PM
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Companionate relationships are very easy for me. I always turn into my girlfriend’s gay bff after a few years. When i used to be a better boyfriend, this resulted in ppl wasting years of my life telling me “oh we need to work on blah blah” then when we break up her next dude doesn’t satisfy any of the things she griped at me over but hits new tingles. Now i have learned to dump her immediately or just torch the relationship. Basically, a warm happy fuzzy low passion relationship is not just usel…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/20 04:57 PM
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Freal, if that “ethereal bisexual” from college had been more appreciative of his attempts to theory his way into her panties maybe he wouldn’t have had to overcompensate with all that commander in chief nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 04:24 PM
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Cmon she’s pretty, but you’re right nordic women are overrated and the men skew hotter. Everyone thinks about the tall ski bunnies but many plain nordic women are somewhat masculine. Slavic girls eternally where it’s at.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/20 03:51 PM
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Never met a woman worth hitting. Me and my urbane fake male feminist bros are just manipulative on a Real Housewives type level. Get with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 06:40 PM
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Part of being personally accountable is understanding your limitations tho. I’ve never struggled meeting women, but I struggle to keep them sexually passionate enough for ME after a few years. If i were less insightful, I might just try to keep improving and never address the choice of women. Because that would be simplistic accountability. Instead, thinking about how OTHER ppl see me is part of a more holistic sense of accountability. So it’s perfectly okay to think about what is OUTSIDE your c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/20 06:32 PM
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I think the manosphere fails by blending under socialized men—who DO need more female friendships and interactions— with OVER socialized men, who are likely to have a surplus of the WRONG KIND of female interaction. I have tons of female friends, enough that i literally purge them regularly when i notice our time is spent more in weird little quasi dates than in either fun party socializing or fwb situations. Women literally approach me wanting to know me more, even if they first think i am gay.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/20 07:33 PM
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The girl reading this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 10:04 PM
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Black girl is the only one I’d even glance at twice. The short hairdo blonde is facially nice but her body doesn’t match the energy she gives off. Asian is cool but not what we’re ranking
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 04:01 PM
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Dude did you know the heat death of the universe means nothing matters and you should just like do whatever? I know that’s really profound and most ppl can’t take those kinds of deep truths but when you come to my dorm room for weed it’s like a bonus. Hey where are you going i was just gonna talk about how god doesn’t exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 01:20 AM
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It’s funny i had this exact conversation with a group of old friends in the specific demographic you state. Many of them said each breakup gets harder and feels like an accumulation of baggage, and not surprised one of those guys is in a cold relationship with someone who clearly isn’t into him. For me... lol, it’s like getting a haircut these days! There’s some risk you come out looking stupid for a bit but in general it is WAY better than youthful heartache. Dating in general has gotten more f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 06:29 PM
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Yeah exactly, the problem is that girl I described is sometimes your girlfriend lol!! Feet are fast and point away from the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:16 PM
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Yeah I don’t care about romance from men, So i am one of those guys. And i very strictly cut out any women from my life who want lots of intimacy without sex. All attractive women are either party friends (worth knowing) or having sex with me. Only a few ex girlfriends or truly close friends get any warmth from me that isn’t sexual, and i get as much from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 03:11 PM
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To me it just means I maintain consistent access to heterosexual love despite being a gross bi deviant. It’s the charmed castle few reach! And no it’s a strict diet of like ethereal auteur hoe pop and trap music.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:59 PM
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No, as an apex bisexual male i am already perfect, and a gender bent version of me would just be introducing deficiencies.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/20 02:36 PM
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Lol my new orleans friend evacuated katrina and left all the film gear he couldn’t fit piled safely where he thought it would be fine. Somehow the only roof hole ended up in that room and flooded it all! He said it was like divine judgement on his creativity
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 03:18 PM
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I’m not married and not likely to be married, but your binary is a strawman. Requiring your house to have a roof doesn’t mean ALL you care about in the house is the roof. But yes a roofless house is utterly useless to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 11:11 PM
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All of this is absolutely true for the longevity of marriages as family units, and none of it talks about how to keep those marriages sexually passionate. So i could care less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 05:55 PM
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Absolutely, but I think empirically one of the things that often draws men to date such a draining woman is having a similarly draining mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 01:58 PM
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I feel like that trope revolves more around competing visions for the son’s effort / attention than the son himself. Like when I picture that situation it is a weak man who needs to tell BOTH women to stfu, often bc they are similar personality, draining, me-first narc types. I rarely even see advice column posts from normal sounding ppl where that isn’t my impulse. Again not trying to use the maury demographic as the gold standard on humanity, but mother in law issues almost NEVER make me think…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 01:03 PM
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Because the women who always lead with their desires are easily led out the door toward other desires. Especially in le modern world. That’s OKAY with me bc i get to go get a new younger girlfriend without being seen as a gross cad (my exes who leave me like to stay friends), but everything is a double edged sword. Most ppl are looking for a blend of passion and future time orientation (the virtue part of “boring” women), and typical joe schmo guys who aren’t ACCUSTOMED to any kind of authentic …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 10:48 PM
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What a strawman! So here is a different one. In most cases real ppl don’t desire a constant supermodel fuckfest instead of authentic hearth love. It’s frequently more “feeling like my desires matter at all” versus “a soul sucking denatured consumerist hellscape your media obsessed wife keeps trying to shove you onto.” I’ve dated badasses who learned to ride motorcycles in southeast asia switching the side of the road every country. Then i saw how neurotic and motherly she got over a CAT, and how…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/20 03:03 PM
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It’s not a bad point, but the gay eye is a lot less forgiving on the stuff you talk about. There are men teetering right on the edge of fatass who are PURELY for Bear loving pigs in the gay community who can just coast through with the right vibe in straightland. That is the important marginal case i am interested in, the declining number of attractive pairings between ppl who have some rote human attractiveness to them, who aren’t just hopeless. Again if the direction was in the opposite it wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:20 PM
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Who cares about BMI when relative size is more primary? And Yes ALLL of those women have natural figures sweetie lol, great example for the typical case. Like i love 39 year old kim more than your typical artfag but what i love is half the work she’s had done. Christina H and Megan are also both literal balancing acts right on the edge and age / gravity will be much less kind to them than thinner women. The vast majority of men will HIT IT on overripe women but wife down someone who strikes them…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 06:10 PM
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The issue is everyone getting larger shuts off sexual dimorphism in a way that is difficult for desire, bc yes fat men are gross but so are small men, sexually. The larger women get (and i believe they also have fundamental health issues in response to the factors you cite, they just aren’t as widely studied) the smaller the pool of attractive PAIRINGS becomes. If people were getting SMALLER, it would GREAT for men. They’d compete over women whose delicacy and neoteny was like “damn never seen T…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 05:49 PM
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Probably like 6 honestly but that’s for a woman who transcends degrees of depravity and dedication that would make JFK or Roman emperors blush
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 03:15 PM
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It entirely depends on what she offered me and how resilient her desire to give it was. And again “go” for what exactly? A bang or a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 02:05 PM
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I don’t rate that way. I am an utter twink so I cannot commit to women above a size zero, or perhaps 2 for curvier or taller women. I can be attracted up to about a size 8 but that is just short term stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/20 05:46 AM
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Honestly way more of it has to do with the level of guys you are fucking than men in general. The men who WOULD treat you well do not arouse you in the context of casual sex. The men who arouse you are viewing you like cheap nasty fast food; once you are done with it, it’s kind of GROSS. Those individual men would act entirely differently to women they saw differently. They would not over correct on coldness so you understood the deal. Those same men would love bomb you if they saw you different…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/20 04:02 PM
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This is your only chance to be fetishized as the older woman until you’re literally a cougar. And then at what cost? He needs a Kitsune shaped mark on his boyish heart! It will make a man of him!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 06:45 PM
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Not actually that’s the problem you can end up with a pillow princess lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:38 PM
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And a good fwb knows your body, often doesn’t care about condoms, is actually attracted to you. It’s a fantastic betty vs veronica kind of question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:34 PM
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I mean.... who does a better job lol? I just think the others are a lot clearer
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 08:25 PM
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New relationship sex > Sex with your longterm partner when things are good > fwb/sidegirls > good escort sex > hookups > masturbation > sex with your longterm partner when things aren’t good Actually sidegirls vs escorts realllly depends
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 07:49 PM
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Don’t let the door hit you...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:35 AM
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Then deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:33 AM
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Go lower and less hot if you want to avoid for this, for the millionth time . Or just deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:32 AM
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So you select the NICEST ones? That’s how you choose lol? You are not debating in good faith here or this is proof of how many men are invisible to you. If you want kinder treatment date the nice men you think you’re too good for. Or else just ENJOY what you are choosing. I’m good here
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:29 AM
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Lol if you chose them bc they are nice you’d fuck way more dudes lol. The ones being nice to you. There’s clearly more at play. Just own it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:25 AM
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This is a very austistic comment lol. If those ppl were naked and post cum in their apartment they would.these are the men you’re choosing, own it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 02:20 AM
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Believe so i just made it up in that comment lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:53 AM
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The difference in esteem between two people having random sex. IF they are having random sex, it is BECAUSE the woman respects the man more than he does her most of the time. Tbh many of the guys who are being polite are just doing what you described earlier: smoothing over good vibes, likely to have a second round.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:52 AM
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Okay? I sort of doubt that universal truth in other aspects of your life. But honestly plenty of women aren’t if they get bad vibes. But of course you’re kind to the dudes you are attracted to enough to reward with random sex lol. It’s a gender difference it doesn’t give you a good person cookie
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:29 AM
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It’s literally a visceral involuntary reaction borne of post orgasmic clarity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:24 AM
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Because they weren’t THAT attracted to you to begin with but wanted to get it in. This is by far the biggest reason. Your searching for other reasons is to evade this fact. If you hate this, you should try to only hook up with guys who show obvious signs of liking you. Or else just develop a harder shell and take the disposodick for what it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 01:22 AM
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This is the only version of that meme that needs to exist: https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/874/612/78b
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 04:22 PM
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The friendzone is generally a consolation prize from a girl who really doesn’t want much to do with you but is trying to make sure you don’t go elliot rodger on her, or sometimes just smooth over the vibe in a larger friend group. This is what most women consider the friendzone, so when guys complain about it they are like UGHGH. NOT THIS. The romance zone is something women PURSUE and actually get intimacy out of, they develop weird codependent relationships and get possessive if you start purs…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 03:15 AM
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Yeah. Thank you for context. I’d also add that for men who have truly been through that zone... I don’t NEED more female friends who are even MAYBE trying to shoehorn me into that role. I literally shit test women at this point, so if i lose out on the middle women or women who think my attitude is weird... truly no sweat, feature not a bug. But yeah I definitely made it a dichotomy whereas it’s a very human continuum.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/20 12:13 AM
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I don’t start the dick measuring. I END the dick measuring. (Bc it arouses me and weirds everyone out)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:54 PM
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Oh wow you didn’t really read my post at all (which was literally written to preempt exactly your take here). I said nothing about being a passive covert contract little bitch or else puppying after women who didn’t want connections with me. Women frequently PURSUE(d) me to extract affection and i had to learn to make them put out or gtfo. If that’s a problem with men, then idk what to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:40 PM
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The English language stays in my fucking frame baby
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:37 PM
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To me you are describing chill party buddies. And yeah I don’t bring them anything heavy. My FRIENDS (a much smaller crew) have to deal with the full package of my being, which may include romance (it has in the past when i was figuring more things out, and my actual female FRIENDS were indispensable, unlike my “friends”) Yeah it was a little jaunt out to colorado for the foliage, first flight I’ve actually taken since my last irresponsible trip was just a road trip
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:35 PM
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Hey i just got off a flight and reread my OP and saw that I actually don’t really give any matchmaking examples. The examples i gave were “some stranger hot chicks here tonight” and examples of tough love. So your response feels a LITtle Straw stuffed but i ger the idea. But to me the point is female FRIENDS should do more to encourage than discourage your romantic growth, if they are involved with it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 11:26 PM
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The operative distinction here is that men pursue and women are largely pursued. That has more relevance to your examples imo And again it’s more like if she NEVER has anything to help but ALWAYS wants quasi romance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:23 PM
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YES?. When i know patrick described Kim as a butterface but keeps booty calling her, I call that out (without that word) whether or not I wanna smash her IF SHE IS MY FRIEND
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:16 PM
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Often they are just acquaintances or chill folks from a similar friend group. And it’s not like female friends ONLY do this. But let’s just say i have a female friend who ALWAYS wants solo evenings and trash talks every other woman i pursue? She isn’t really a friend. And those patterns are rarely obvious in ONE hangout but they come out in the wash. And I already named the male equivalent of the fuckzone. It’s the booty call you park your dick in but never pursue for anything real or even intro…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:12 PM
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Ok I also did that too lol. But maybe they were just bros and not the type of overly soft men who women have been coming out of the woodwork to PURSUE and seek these weird connections with. The entire point of my post is that every man who talks about this kinda experience is NOT necessarily a delusional mouth breather nobody actually wanted to be friends with. Some of us actually had to learn how to get (the wrong) women OFF US so the right ones could get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 09:05 PM
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That people who are not actually interested in you sexually but are TRUE friends will not try and monopolize your romantic time, and will instead offer at least a little help in what is troubling you, which may include romance or sex. I’ve had both types of connections with women and the difference To ME is night and day—whether or not she will notify you about rave sluts. Maybe you just have male acquaintances?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:57 PM
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Dude does everything have to be a dick measuring contest? I still lost my virginity at 13 it was just a very ugly process lol and it didn’t mean dating got easier after that!. Your only point is “okay i agree but you used to be a loser... when you were 13.” 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:48 PM
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I guess we can’t be friends then. In all honesty i think you are intentionally misreading my point (i noted how weird that example was) but do you really not recognize (especially from youth) that dynamic at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:43 PM
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That’s sort of why I responded in an obnoxious fashion bc I didn’t believe it was your core idea but was what i got from it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:39 PM
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Yeh that is how cynical adults with plenty of experience work. Unlike you maybe, i was close friends with all the prettiest girls since middle school from art class. You’re really telling me you take a teenage boy and have gorgeous girls say things like “you’re one of my favorite people, you’re so sensitive why can’t all boys be like you blah blah blah”... I also accept the burden of masculinity in being hetero but Come on, we aren’t fucking robots
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:38 PM
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A little of both! It’s sort of the hand wavey “yes but most of them are nerds we don’t actually want to be friends with and they’ve all been warned so it’s their problem.” That’s the core behind your polite take. Doesn’t apply to me or many of the actual types I know. I will let you off the hook if you can wave away male players as kindly though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:17 PM
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Thank you for invalidating my lived experiences with generalizations about me that don’t apply. “I guess they had it coming.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 08:12 PM
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Possibly, but to me reddits pop just means you get 2000 word exercises in autism rather than one doomer meme and be done with it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 03:15 PM
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I won’t and i will dm you my normie one but NO SNITCHES
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 02:26 PM
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Oh god I don’t even listen to that or any podcast except when my girlfriend does and that sub is terrible now that they axed a bunch of similar ones. I’m actually probably going to self immolate this profile after purge week and start a normie one where i post my music lol!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 02:16 PM
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My biggest surprise has always been how funny and insightful so much core redpill sidebar type material is, whereas i discovered TRP solely by its surface community after i had already internalized an upbringing where i was friends with all the popular girls but nobody would FUCK ME (until i literally changed up my identity around things associated with fun and sex). Basically, I had already internalized a lot of the psychological stuff and sort of made my peace with the raw animalistic physical…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 01:58 PM
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Instagram face is a thing but those two look ... not that much alike. Plus that is actually Emily’s face but Kylie cannot say the same. Emrata looks more like kendall if anything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:46 PM
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If real, dude is an absolute legend for exposing himself to possible legal BS For the meme. Beyond that, at the cosmic scale, hell yea absolutely hilarious
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 12:40 PM
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Oh yes i make zero claims about nature (innate biology) versus nurture (gender ideas). Just what IS around me
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:54 AM
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I think that’s a valid if passive way of looking at it. But honestly i used to be much much more emotionally generous in my youth. I wouldn’t say I’m BAd or entirely closed off, but it’s definitely more the incentives and results of life that have driven my stereotypical maleness. The choices I’ve had to make as an adult, etc. that is what has shaped me more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 04:49 AM
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Joke answer: maybe they just don’t have the same in€entive$ but when they do that changes. Real answer: maybe they just don’t have the same incentives... (not just money)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 03:44 AM
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I just hope they can get Toto to license the theme song
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:46 AM
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Hell yes, there’s gotta be the “I’m not here to make friends” lady who fights all the other broads and shades them for not remembering The Great War
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:42 AM
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And people say men don’t have the capacity for emotional labor. Disgusting misandry: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8784285/Viewers-cringe-British-grannies-prey-Gambian-men-holiday-romance-Ch4-documentary.html
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 02:14 AM
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Yea that’s one thing i was thinking about. It was v well written both as literature and argument, and in general she is also just way less girlboss cliche than ppl make her out to be while still affirming femme rights lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/20 01:42 AM
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Lol I’m overall more of a neon genesis person myself when it comes to anime theology, but there truly aren’t enough series with that proto industrial European setting (ie howls moving castle) FMA has
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 09:44 PM
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“What about your beloved Epictetus? Or your beloved Emily Dickinson? You want your Emily, every time she has an urge to write a poem, to just sit down and say a prayer till her nasty, egotistical urge goes away? No, of course you don’t! But you’d like your friend [Mr PPD neckbeard’s] ego taken away from him.” Sorry this post made me think of that very funny dorm convo book
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:43 PM
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Yessss. Love her whole style / aura as well but you’re right she has incredible eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:30 PM
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Damn you started out crushing on literal personifications of christian virtues good on you. Or just very demanding!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:10 PM
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You assume my brutal categorization of humans stops there? I can name five different species of Bumble Dog Girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 08:01 PM
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It’s funny bc the entire wave is such a machine that makes american music scene look chaotic and indie, but it produces some GOOD fucking music. (Unfortunately I lived in korea during the early part of the kpop wave more like the super junior years before stuff got great)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:43 PM
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Lisa from Blackpink forever (even if she is thai not korean)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 07:16 PM
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That’s interesting, bc she is a smokeshow but yeah exactly: a big city or just Instagram desensitizes you, and i feel like what separates a 9 vs 10 for people is always pretty individual and OFTEN has to do with less concrete physical things. For instance Grimes has an objectively weird face but i think she’s beautiful. Female auteur musicians do that for me in a way like ... female tech CEOs NEVER would.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:31 PM
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Very talented and she’s beautiful but do you think the talent puts her higher for you? For instance yvette young is a cute girl but when i watch her play guitar she becomes beautiful on a different level.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:25 PM
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Uhhh yeah! She IS beautiful, seems to have a great disposition, and despite being a hippie dippie libfem icon, she quotes paglia and seems genuinely more intellectually curious than you’d expect. I think having a hyper long and specific personality laundry list for a future partner you have not met... doesnt mean you’re less superficial, but rather that you also want to micromanage all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:18 PM
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I talk a big game as a choosy finnicky artfag but ya know sometimes you can have basic bro taste and say emily rajtakowksi is just really fucking beautiful
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 06:08 PM
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Ironically this same user has a post explaining that at least 70% of men are undateable due to male psychology. I don’t think generalizations bother her lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 05:37 PM
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I agree with just about all that from my own perspective!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 01:15 AM
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Probably more me? I almost never lust after men as focus of desire. Men are almost like empty objectified golems of my libido that my own body is insufficient to contain idk. It’s hard to describe but I’ve just never had romantic feelings for men, and if women are ever creeped out by how cold or objectifying i can be... idk they ain’t seen NOTHING
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 11:36 PM
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The romantic differences are interesting to me, but unfortunately I truly am only mildly bisexual and have been exactly this bisexual for ages now. Sometimes i do wonder if I’d pursue that side more if i could never date women i was attracted to for some reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:57 PM
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Errr, bisexual “seduction” for me is parsing a billion horny grindr dudes and being like “okay, YOU.” It’s easy and entirely passive bc i am cute and take the pursued role. Unfortunately i am entirely heteroromantic so it’s just a short reprieve from the heavy lifting of heterosexuality
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:51 PM
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Lol as a bisexual man let me get out my little violin
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 03:36 PM
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It’s what zoomer trad hoes who don’t want to ID as trad call it the one time they make a homemade meal on IG
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:40 PM
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WAP is the cultural bulwark upon which the cottagecore / thot fault line is revealed. (U cant censor my maleness in chat!)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:38 PM
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Eh i am still dating a 22 year old but at some point even my boyish twink ass won’t be able to get young hunnies and I genuinely think I’d rather try and make it work in that context than a new family if those were my only options.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 06:01 PM
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Yes and this is literally why i would prefer to date a woman who has already had children (and thus her post partum body and libido are known entities, plus you know how shitty the kids are) than take the biological reproduction crap shoot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 05:31 PM
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I agree with her topline statement but the rest of the content takes a different path imo. It’s a motte bailey
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 06:45 PM
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I agree with your subject line point but omg how hysterical “feels awful” omg! Lol Like methinks the lady doth protest too much about “equality” and all that. Some chivalry in personal relationships is generally desired by the vast majority of hetero women, and i would rather date someone who has the self awareness to realize that, rather than try to delude me and herself that it’s purely an egalitarian gesture. Like very recently there was a thread about how most women would be repulsed to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 06:41 PM
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But that’s the POINT. a truly foul NEET basement space will never be something women complain about bc those men aren’t relevant. But that view shows the potential of a dateable man... who just doesn’t give a fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 04:30 PM
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DID YOU JUST USE THE DECORATIVE SOAP IN THE SOAP BOWL TO WASH YOUR HANDS?!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 02:58 PM
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I’ll let my girlfriend of two years, now 22, know
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 02:04 PM
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And of those hundreds you have the cognitive space for a tiny few that stand in for your values. Its nothing personal just your human brain. It’s as much a proof that marriage is on the decline and increasingly only pursued by middle class and above, assortively mating folk. IE people with both the means and disposition for it. That’s why the age goes up: fewer working class people (who get married earlier) are getting married. So the whole point of certain pill dynamic debates is that nice poli…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 01:40 PM
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You’re moving the goalposts at the end. First off it’s IDEAL that age gap relationships have gone from family formation and having kids to “something the moody girl from art class does during her early twenties.” That’s a step toward everyone getting what they want. It has nothing to do with there being fewer moody art school girls. In fact i think there are more these days. Next, your social media feed is literally curated to gratify your sense of identity and surround you with a reality that r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 01:12 PM
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Guess what the girls who fuck and date older men don’t fess up and blast it to brunch acquaintances who are super judgy about it? As a guy who has generally dated younger women it is RARELY the normie women who are into you. It is either women more precocious (and thus fun to talk to) or just wilder (and thus fun in other ways). Notice i said nothing about less attractive or smart. If anything I think highly intelligent women are often drawn to older men. Basically your specific friend group pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 11:50 AM
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You wish! I have glorious hair
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:13 PM
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My problem is my dick is pretty average but it looks HUGE on my tiny twink body. Whenever i have sent grindr messages in the past sometimes the supposed Top will get way too fixated and it’s like “listen dude i weigh 118 lbs you’re the masc one here”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 01:31 PM
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It’s almost like this is EXACTLY what i was saying: FDS can apply to situations outside the weird whitebread college MC / UMC dating scene. I never said anything about finding women outside that scene lower! I personally love prole girls lol! My point is whitebread college women are operating in a context that prevents easy application of FDS due to demographics and Female Choice
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:01 AM
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And women don’t NEED men for protection but still like dominant men. What’s your point? College is CORRELATED with social capital and networks of access. It’s almost a feature not a bug if it’s just a hellaciously expensive and pointless endeavor. The men on the other side of it still come out ahead, and the fewer of of them there are relative to elite overproduction women with useless degrees ... the better for THOSE men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:38 PM
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Doing it doesn’t make you beta. How much you’ve thought and agonized about it, how much meaning you’ve ascribed to its doing or not. How much space someone who isn’t fucking you takes up in your head. Probably all the shit you did earlier. THAT is what makes it ... the B word!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 11:04 PM
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That’s exactly what i am saying: people who have decently considered values and apply FDS sanely could use it. But be realistic a lot of those women get very very fixated on signals of providership and do focus on more conventional measures of value. And like TRP it has a “standards creep” problem where the users develop an internal “more selective than thou” hierarchy that quickly leads to any of their decent insights being sacrificed on the altar of autistic black white thinking (n count obses…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 10:36 PM
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Right? Or maybe just try music instead of painting instead of going right for fascism. In another timeline he was just an eccentric crooner in some extended weimar republic beer hall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 10:23 PM
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It just entirely depends. There is also a reason it’s full of minorities and immigrants and basically women outside the whitebread college educated scene: That shit would never work in it. We have 60/40 female male college ratios and women vastly prefer to partner assortively or UPWARD. This gives the exact men you’re most trying to attract just... great odds. Every successful culturally savvy decently attractive man in any major city is just so BARRAGED by so many women, you will never be able …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 10:12 PM
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Height standards are applied largely to men, and weight standards to both men and women. Men get different weight standards bc women like their men larger than them. So yes obviously hetero weight standards play out differently, but men are still held to them. I don’t think one is worse than the other and it depends way more how they are applied. If your standards make it easier to get what you value, they are good standards. If they prevent it they are bad standards. So fat women who want actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 07:52 PM
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I think you’re insisting on bringing your own wine to the party and only drinking that. If a man methodically had sex with a different woman every night would your first word for him be “disciplined?” The problem with the women you speak often isn’t their discipline but their priorities. Often the women who work hard also have INSANE consumption standards (private pre schools etc), little capacity for joy, and men often view those relationships as strapping into someone’s cold soulless pinterest…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:16 PM
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That’s the most emo Hitler i have ever seen
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:43 AM
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I like that! It fits on the macro and micro scale lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 04:08 AM
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I honestly have no clue. On the one hand it is tempting to think we are realizing our ideas of romantic love are overblown and that we need more human scaled expectations.. but actually maybe that means we are just atomizing all our desires and compartmentalizing vulgarly. The trouble is the greeks already figured this out. They had all those different flavors of love depending on whether it was your friend or wife or your friend’s son you had a pederastic relationship with so you didn’t have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 03:52 AM
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Most angry virginal manospherians say that’s how they express love bc they have never been loved by a woman. How would they know? Or else just bc it sounds like a good gotcha. You CAN express love this way but I think it should be obvious it’s not a good move if you are the higher libido half of a dead bedroom. Then again I’ve also thought it was obvious that romantic relationships are sexual. Obviously they aren’t all. The fridge door was a metaphor. You know how the light turns off when you cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 11:59 PM
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If you had one job where your boss was like “here’s what i need, as long as you’re doing it we are good.” And then another job that ALSO reamed you with constant orwellian oversight and bullshit bureaucracy... would you feel it’s accurate to say “job B is more attentive so they care about me more.” I don’t believe women are evil bureaucrats i am just reframing your argument to show why it says little about love. Also you confined the scope of your argument to the NEETiest arguments possible (whi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 11:32 PM
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Broke: wolves killing coyotes. Woke: wolves mating with coyotes and creating the super urban pest coywolf
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 10:04 PM
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So wait, now desire for their children’s health is toxic male ego lol? You started this argument with that motte bailey and have retreated to this point. If the woman was the parent in question that would just be direct nurturing. Next, yes, sex is one of the foremost ways men RECEIVE love. Not express love. Crucial difference for your point. When a woman claims to love you and continually demand things of you like a romantic partner but is done fucking you, you do not feel loved. You feel prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 09:05 PM
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I wouldn’t say i use this word everyday to describe things? I also probably try and use very common words (versus something more slang) when talking to ESL speakers even if Narnia is more literate than many americans. Idk i spend significant time in “art hoe” spaces frequented by younger women, much more than old bikers. and social cachet is very much people care about, whether the C word used or not. I almost prefer to use the CORE value over some weak wristed sublimation that someone is trying…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:53 PM
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Okay well this is semantic. If i had just used the word alluring we could have avoided this. I’m sorry you don’t like the word “cool” and find it juvenile. I think most humans still have a massive amount of that high school type neediness in them even if they update the terms. If you’ve honestly transcended that, praise the lord.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:30 PM
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You don’t understand people wanting to be cool? When cool = attractive human qualities that people like you for? I don’t get what you don’t get. Also didn’t we recently have a conversation about how TRUE Christianity is deeply uncool in current society and its values go against it esp in major cities?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:20 PM
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I genuinely think you’ve jumped the shark into cartoonish dehumanization here. First off you REALLY don’t believe that number three isn’t a direct corollary to why women do good things? To reify their sense of themselves as good and cement social value and bonds? I feel like it’s truly unfair to code such female behavior as altruism and male behavior as utilitarian but whatever helps you pursue the narrative! Your only real point in that paragraph is that women don’t usually try to favor their w…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 06:03 PM
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I know right how uncool of them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:42 PM
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Were you the person saying you wanted like a nice shy boy who had been ravaged by society? That’s pretty much the opposite of what most women want, so it makes sense that traditionally chivalrous forms of romance would strike you as empty or coercive. My point was other women love those same qualities. What about all the fucking dads who just dutifully plow away supporting women who don’t care for them? You’ve literally never met those guys? Plus I am sure your mom was great but half the time wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:36 PM
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Ask the Catholic Church, i feel like their entire model is Sin Now Pay Later lol. The more guilt the more confession! There is a great quote from some old italo renaissance author about a princess eating ice cream who said something like “it would taste so much better if this was a sin.” That’s always been the most succinct capsule of it for me. Christianity makes sin FORBIDDEN and thus alluring. Eastern religions are more like ghandi asking his friend why he was so attached to a sack of shit an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:27 PM
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You could say by the same token women don’t actually love the men, but rather they go along with a kind of dominant powerful masculinity that is socially and economically useful to them. That “toxic masculinity” isn’t a flaw but a 100% analogous benefit the woman receives so long as his toxicity is mostly spent outward into stuff and status. Personally i think both accounts are very incomplete, but i can understand why that form of love doesn’t feel like love to YOU, specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 05:20 PM
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I disagree that men don’t love women’s “negatives.” (IE, her passivity or some very typical “frail” trait emotionally or physically.) I just think that love often comes in the form of a chivalrous paternalism many women (certainly guess you) probably resent. But others love and DEMAND that very paternalism. Or else they want that paternalism when infatuated but DESPISE it when not. It can be confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:57 PM
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Lol i Love that the song exists in both the myspace era bright eyes version and the weird ass original.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:47 PM
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Yea that boredom has been more my experience. Honestly the end of the relationships are pretty banal but everything feels terrible and vast when you’re in a de sexed relationship that used to be great. (Oddly i am also friends with all my exes besides one. That fact is actually what has chiefly convinced me of the inevitability of this decline. In many cases we still loved and cared for each other. The problem was the sex but that’s the worst problem to have in a romantic rather than platonic re…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:33 PM
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I don’t believe that but let’s just assume it’s true. Do you deny that sea change in her attitude still takes place? And if it DOES take place, who cares about the underlying metaphysical “love” involved. She used to treat you well and now treats you poorly. That’s all i know, i am too practical for anything else
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:07 PM
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I sometimes have sex with men (these days only in threesomes with my girlfriend) but never date them. So obviously my account is limited bc i am not romantically drawn to men. (Best description is men are like coffee between perfumes or just a good counterpoint to emphasize femmeness). But honestly if you could take the ease and CHILL of homosexual sex and apply it to heterosexuality, it would be heaven on earth. You could actually relax, people could worry more about compatibility and goals tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:13 PM
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The problem with this whole thing is that women are the opposite when they’re infatuated with you. Sort of offensive old school ideas but the director tarkovsky said women’s driving force is ego death and shame in the face of love. It doesn’t feel like it when they’re like you describe. It DOES in the beginning. MY issue with heterosexuality is that it just fundamentally lacks chill if you want good sex. I’d be lying if i said i hadnt felt the dynamic you describe in my life, but i have also had…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:59 PM
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What ISN’T fake and gay on that sub if it has more than a few little reddit dingles at the top? The most damning part of this unhinged thread is how many people will bend over to excuse sociopathic behavior bc of “trauma” and emotional baggage. The idea that we are extending this mental weakness privilege equal opportunity to men as well (as if it will be applied practically that way) is NOT progress. OP was a disposable cuck from the beginning but now he’s just wallowing in it keeping that girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 01:37 PM
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Starfish sex is often just bad maintenance sex from a woman who resents giving it to you. Good maintenance sex is actually some of my favorite sex bc it’s like the best blend of a hired expert and your girlfriend. All about me! Basically the opposite of starfish sex isn’t hot crazy insane porny monkey sex. It’s just decent relationship sex from a woman who is happy to rock you that night. You likely have to compensate with nights more about her when she wants that. But seriously if you demonize …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:37 AM
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That is extremely true, and there is probably overall more evil committed in the name of Christ. I am just being the devil’s advocate for jesus ya know? If you were an American fundie I would not have said ANY of this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 04:17 AM
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Ultimately I think religions like buddhism make passive people who are easy to control like the people in myanmar. What good is 9/10 people being good if the 1/10 is the leader? Religions that preach the evil of humanity are often stronger to face evil in my opinion. Buddhism is better in many ways but this is its flaw
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:46 AM
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The only meaningful distinction between these two attitudes to me is that sin is COOL. But desire is just thirst. I’m being silly but honestly we will probably never know whether it’s better to tell people they are evil inside and need to improve or else OKAY and just need to stay okay. I prefer buddhism aesthetically bc it didn’t oppress me as a child. I would likely disagree if i grew up in Myanmar etc
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:32 AM
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I have often thought about how theravada buddhism is more bleak and harsh like the Old Testament of the Bible but mayahana is more like the New Testament. It seems like a pattern in the development of religion. (Random fun fact, I studied buddhism with Uma Thurmans dad in college, who is a great guy). I don’t know: i feel like early buddhism is similar in the idea that the physical world is full of sin and corruption due to desire. It seems like later buddhism that brings more warmth with the co…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:06 AM
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I believed that for a very long time and still do on some level. I think the base religion can be beautiful but i do agree that cultural forces come in and pollute most everything good. Weirdly i think younger people are making Christianity better in america but not in the big churches. America Is strange because we don’t have anything as centralized as the orthodox church. I am not Christian at all myself but i try not to judge the entire faith just bc of my background
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:25 AM
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I joke but i grew up in a Christian cult where hitting wives and children was encouraged and celebrated until my parents left it. It was a strange scene and all of it helped turn me into the weird pervert i am today! Spanking was always more for children tho
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 02:09 AM
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She’s always running backwards to try and reverse the cockodometer
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 07:04 PM
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People didn’t used to expect a constant euphoric fuckfest (or else a fully perfect romantic soul Completer) out of marriage. So the odds for a successful marriage were higher back then. Feel free to be skeptical of female sexuality in marriage and prioritize sex! I sure do. I personally think i can manage continuing the current level of euphoric fuckfest for at least another good few years. And I don’t feel guilty bc feminism gives women the opportunity to pursue their aims even if i could care …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 06:56 PM
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I just don’t know how anyone can do it with a straight face. I feel like one porny moan out of her and all my righteous indignation would evaporate
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:47 PM
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I am quite certain the tiktok panopticoneers in china are using it as anti western propaganda as we speak
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 05:01 PM
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My father had a dad like me: distracted from family life, hypersexual, focused on his interests and mistresses. It pushed him to be way too good and self sacrificing a dad in my opinion and accept an immense amount of stuff from my mother that would have driven me off the edge. I love my mother but she is a cautionary tale to me as a partner. I’m likely not having kids in part bc i think I would be a bad father like my grandfather.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:47 PM
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This is a GEM. Shane, Chase, brad whatever your name was, you are a fucking king. Oh okay it was Cole. https://twitter.com/nicolauria17/status/1287650085925302277
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 02:20 PM
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I mostly agree but women “into” fashion spend way more time hating on micro features (and many of the women are facially beautiful )than the fact that they’re skeletons
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 01:10 AM
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I didn’t say hookups, i said sex! And most of the LTR advice revolves around maximizing sexual agency in marriage/LTRs. But for the therapy stuff i meant therapy overall has a (maybe good! Deserving!) bias toward keeping families intact vs dicks wet. But if you know anything about men it’s that they’re gonna try to figure out how to have more sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:49 PM
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My point is the neurotic AESTHETIC standards of weird little BPD freaks on tumblr who tear down actual fashion models from their phones have very little to do with the SEXUAL standards of hetero women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 09:31 PM
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No of course it drops bc to men sex = romantic love! If MEN were okay with female love it would work. We aren’t, and so when women stop fucking us we shut down and stop loving them. and that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:48 PM
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Semantics based on your existing definition of romance, similar to the love problem. I think this is a distraction that speaks female language, but again if it works for you to devalue the feminine capacity for such love, DO IT. Enough women do.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:37 PM
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And i think men have a smaller place in their hearts for romance without sex and that’s why you say that. It’s not a material difference when both feel like soul sucking prisons to many men tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:20 PM
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No lol. Women nurture their family and surrounds. The love they have for post romantic former partners is of a different character. It’s arguably worse than your account lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:16 PM
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Absolutely. I think both camps on PPD undervalue the opposite gender’s ability to love by reducing it to either money / comfort or pussy. It’s easier to avoid dealing with their full humanity that way. That’s why i just kick out love. I believe in love but only to my girlfriends. It’s an imprecise word in this space that ppl use to further their incomplete agendas
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 08:13 PM
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Not exactly TRP but I’m sure cynical about heterosexuality. I think the closest summation is that women’s SEXUAL responses tend to cluster around rewarding classical sexual dimorphism and male egocentrism no matter what their conscious romantic values are. Feminist women may consciously value feminist men but it doesn’t mean they want to FUCK them more. There is a lot of sublimation from PPD men about love and stuff for rhetorical purposes imho. You’ll do better if you always remind yourself tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:21 PM
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I honestly never cared about it all until I realized how much it mattered to so many women. (I always knew it mattered; I didn’t always know how MUCH). I am attracted to thin women of any height, and when i hire prostitutes i often go for tall runway or bodacious Amazonian types, precisely BECAUSE i have tended to prioritize thin petite women for longterm relationships. Classic male collection impulse. Small women have started to feel Better and more natural, but both of my first major girlfrien…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 05:21 PM
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Haha, much like our entire dating mindset it promises the world and fails to deliver! Perhaps bc it is optimized for such a massive selection set: ie the 37% success holds similarly at n=x and n=1000x At the lower bounds, I’d argue that success rate is ... meh compared to good judgment. But if you truly insist on interviewing a whole city, then yeah you’ll need some game theory. IE the problem is optimized to our hopeless mindset so its success is also its failure
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:09 PM
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There is so much stupid crap in the manosphere but it is less insane when you remember so much is about SEX not love or social value. Lots of Redpill seems counterproductive bc it seems like the stuff that would torch a nice loving relationship. AND IT WILL! But that is by design if it’s a nice loving PLATONIC relationship. The therapy industrial complex is about preserving RELATIONSHIPS. Unfortunately that often rams sex down to the bottom of a priority list under a bunch of crap that is nice o…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:22 PM
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Not saying you particularly don’t but most women who date men aren’t nice pan queerfolk. They don’t date WOMEN so fat women go into a kitschy “oh so vibrant and strong” mental category they never have to actually unpack. They DO date men so they evaluate them like partners, not concepts. I STILL personally think you have a bias to female attraction. It’s in the word! Attractive people draw you TO them. Men PURSUE women. It’s encoded in the language.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 03:08 PM
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Women do that for other women but rarely men. The buttering up (lol) of fat women is likely behind your perception here
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:54 PM
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Men get confused by this tho bc women are always blowing sunshine up each other’s asses in public. My girlfriend was always talking about how this coworker of hers is so beautiful and great vibes and glowing and i am like “girl are you BLIND? She is shaped like a storage crate and you are a snatch waisted fox!” It’s part smarmy BS and also part that women don’t evaluate each other with the straight male gaze. If they are “cute” women often give barely fuckable women a huge pass. IE- That friend …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:49 PM
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The kind of men FDS women want do, but THEY marry early and to similar women. All the men I know like that were very “high beta” but attractive dudes who fit this description well were married by their mid MAYBE late 20s—certainly they were partnered well before then and often by college. This is coming out of an Ivy undergrad so they were highly demanded but the point is, these men are extremely in demand, and they pair up with similarly natured women. Those types of women are never going to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 02:39 PM
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Waist hip ratio! I’ve been attracted to women with somewhat “distinctive” faces (my one ex was a stark faced croatian girl with huge aquiline nose and generally harsh enough features she was recruited as a domme multiple times in NYC), and i can generally find beauty in faces many straight men find odd or too androgynous. (I also love neotenous dollface cuties but my point is i am v broad minded about what makes a good face). But a lower WHR is almost always better than a higher one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 11:10 PM
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Women are rarely going to be as sexually incentivized to reroute their sexual responses for better sex. It’s a minority of women who reach a sexual impasse in their relationship and think “oh wow i am going to BURN my instincts to the ground and rebuild them to appreciate my existing partner better.” I am not saying men are successful at doing this; i am saying men are the ones who think about it in those terms. Most women are vastly more responsive than proactive sexually, and that is proactive…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 06:09 PM
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These are just awkward men who all had the idea to deflect their potato faces in a picture with something goofy. It is just female duckface in that it becomes emblematic en masse. If you had a bunch of sour looking size ten plus women in greasy topknots making “ironic” bitchfaces or duckfaces or any of the myriad stupid faces women make in photos it would be the same. There’s more gawking than insight basically. I honestly think this has more to do with overexposure to hyper posed fake images of…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 04:23 PM
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Eh i have been anally raped and I will take it over the property loss any day personally. Not universalizing that of course but it isn’t even a question
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:52 PM
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Oh yes this is a misunderstanding on my part. Romantic love without sex doesn’t exist until i am impotent and old. And even then i am only making room for it theoretically
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:09 PM
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Relationships are gradual for me. I will actually agree to sex rules SUPER quickly bc they are easy to get out of once you’re done. Like you want exclusivity (except group sex) while we figure this out? You got it! I’ve literally done that on first dates! The things i lag on are the deeper life things. Moving in, binding finances, etc. Those are things people sort of grow into gradually. Takes years. This is also why it’s a meaningless question bc “relationships” are all unique. Now you wanna ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:07 PM
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No no i like them PLENTY without the sex. Just not enough to hold off romantic interactions with all billion something women on the planet for them! I will absolutely ALWAYS risk the vulnerability of sex to make sure I’m not wasting my fucking life on someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:00 PM
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That’s fine, it’s your personal belief and observation. But don’t pretend like it’s a universal value and any man who flouts it is BAD. Because honestly most of the incentive to be this way comes from women, from the male POV
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:47 PM
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I have only ever used sex to figure out how much i like someone (beyond how much i like them in conversation) and it’s probably the best method. So i guess that means i am incapable of ever finding a committed relationship? In fact your rule is pretty specific : don’t persist once YOU already know you’re only in it for sex AND they’ve already told you their values. This is a lot less forceful a statement than your first. Okay sure, but sometimes you have to fuck first to discover it was only sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:44 PM
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This woman, and arguably MOST women today disagree with you. And when men make your argument they are dusty pathetic incels who just don’t understand why women rationally fuck the hot guys whether they want marriage or not. https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/hv0sik/i_met_my_ltr_from_being_fwbs_why_do_people_here/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:34 PM
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This is such a terrible idea for a typical straight man and a good way to be dateless forever. If you were burdened with the role of pursual it would make more sense why. Also as OP states hooking up and relationships are not mutually exclusive. In fact a girl wrote a recent OP to that effect and many ppl scandalized by this post LOVED that one and told PPD men they were lame clueless fuglies for not being with it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:30 PM
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Other women say the same bc it gratifies their egos, just like men here say women ONLY go for evil tall dark triad chads and nobody else has ever gotten laid. You have elements of insight but you bury them under pretty lies designed to shield your ego
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:20 PM
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That is just NOT TRUE but explains why so many passive women are boring in bed. I agree that men often have a “gf or fwb” mental slot from the beginning but that stuff is often WRONG. The really pretty girl is a boring and brittle bitch you get bored of. The plainer girl turns out to like stuff you do and be fire in bed. If all you chase is hyper commodified numbskulls who never make those calculations i can understand why you feel that way tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:12 PM
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What could have happened... The sex wasn’t great? You give it a few more times thinking stuff will improve. It doesn’t. The mediocre sexual connection is evidence the relationship won’t work. Somehow I’m guessing women are familiar with the problem of meh sex and what it signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:59 PM
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Ppl talk about dark triad game but the male friend whose game i admire most was just such a moony delusional love addict it was hilarious. He’d come in after dates like “that’s the woman i will marry” unironically and i was like “mike that is the woman whose heart you’ll stomp the moment someone hotter arrives”. It’s not manipulation if you’re lying to yourself first!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:31 PM
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So.... that still amounts to a fuck ton of steps (the skincare plus then the makeup ). Thank you for this info though. One of them probably told me this while doing a cosmetics process involving many steps that took a while and changed the way she looked in a subtle but very noticeable way. Or maybe she didn’t bc american trendy girls in year X called their weird shit korean skincare bc of viral marketing. All of them were spending lots of time doing makeup
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:26 AM
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Jesus Christ my one ex hopped from every single hype shit foundation bc nothing was pale enough i am talking about a basic fucking philosophy they were the first major brand in, and that ppl understand. Thank you for clit measuring your consumerism for me tho
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 03:16 AM
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Then i have been scammed by like three separate girlfriends who had dozen step processes with all kinds of serums and shit. Unless you’re being purposefully obtuse i mean a philosophy of overall skincare/makeup that is time intensive but designed to look transparent and dewy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:00 AM
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Yea i agree you have valid points but look at those last two sentences! You’re trashbinning all the girls you don’t wanna think about. But those women are still incentivizing men, and honestly plenty of drop dead gorgeous women fuck around with tons of cosmetics just for funsies my personal experience is a bunch of bored art hoes and camgirls (my last several girlfriends) and rave scene thots. They produced geological sediments of foundation and eyeshadow on my poor bathroom surfaces! I am smart…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:55 PM
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those JERKS. It showed up for me when I first clicked it. Honestly that stats warehouse site is the worst with SEO. If you search it from your browser it will probably show up but anyway the sum for 18-29 was similar across “everyday + several times a week”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:36 PM
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Did you notice the 18-29 that summed to the same amount between daily and few times a week? You’re deflecting. And yes the transformations are more subtle than PPD NEETs allow, but REALITY is more subtle than PPD NEETs allow. That doesn’t mean makeup has zero impact on how women perceive themselves or more importantly each other. And i meant the hyper trendy korean skincare products every american femme i know was using or using derivatives of for a while. “Korean skincare” doesn’t ring a bell? …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:25 PM
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You’re right about some men here but are universalizing your own curated experience of women and citing a meh study. This one suggests it’s closer to 2/3 of women wearing makeup at least a few times a week. https://www.statista.com/statistics/713178/makeup-use-frequency-by-age/ The trouble is women often complain about men’s cluelessness in makeup the OPPOSITE way: that men think 45 min of glossier / korean beauty is “natural, how women should look” and that actually natural women look sick to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:08 PM
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Lol, porn is not a full relationship with another human being and all that entails.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 09:52 PM
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This is like asking why someone who Visits a theme park doesn’t want to work at a theme park.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/20 09:50 PM
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Angel is a hypergamous slut, sorry AWALT. If she were a bull she’d have been left to die. Yet here she is accepting the cash, prizes, and attention that society says only women deserve. You and your white knight should be ashamed. /s (She’s cute for a bovine).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 01:39 PM
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Being involved in standup or liking to see a lot of it live is a huge red flag for me. It’s like the annoying personalities of burlesque (etc) but everyone is unkempt and dark on the inside rather than just narcissistic. I genuinely forget it’s a thing people were still doing in 2019
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 07:10 PM
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The issue is this “epiphany” often comes along with a series of hyper stingy behaviors (anything is valid if you call it a boundary) that are all about withholding what men tend to value in relationships. And IF she really is pivoting to different archetypes of men, we just feel like it’s a shame she doesn’t just try being fucking pleasant instead of dumping her whole past baggage and blame on some unassuming guy who isn’t like her evil ex (she probably had hotter sex with). The autists here mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 10:08 PM
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Totally depends on the girl! This particular instance was a ridiculously charming moscow hooker i met at a place I specifically sought for seasoned girls. I agreed as much for my sake. If i was “sugaring” per date with the college girl down the block it might be different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 04:22 PM
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Clearly there’s more to it than that, as your own experience attests, but i suppose i will defer to the recent virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 02:28 PM
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Lololol this happens to me more with hookups i am trying to impress than escorts. I’ve had escorts do CONDOM blowjobs that ... blew your typical civilian girls out of the water. I understand the value of genuine intimacy (rarely felt on hookups where the girl just wants some entertainment). Escorts are there to make you feel good, and sometimes your own brain is your greatest adversary there Likely this would be your headspace no matter what. If you could learn to ease up and enjoy yourself with…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/20 01:26 PM
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And there’s where you go into crankery. For the record i truly know in my personal instance that the women I’ve been with have been there voluntarily. Both in the formats i met them and the conversations we had. I am not denying that trafficking exists and should be countered. You are the one who needs it to be an all encompassing terror, with a need to deny the increasing majority of developed world whores who are voluntary and at least as happy as anyone else in our corrupt late capitalist thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 11:21 PM
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These studies all rely on the fact that amsterdam and Germany have become magnets for all of Europe and even the Globe (you’ll be shocked at all the Japanese in berlin brothels) and that this entire effect would be smoothed out with global prostitution and normalcy. I understand you’ll never see it that way and just don’t care. The trafficked women already existed which is extremely sad. I’ve literally never met one and have dated whores here and whored about all over the world. I won’t let you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 10:31 PM
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Somewhere in the last year some whore somewhere posted an extremely good takedown of most of these studies (in this case i believe this one was loosely affiliated with swanee hunts thing at Harvard but whatever) that addressed all this from a good empirical framework. Most of these studies aren’t actually great even when they come from the second coolest uni in cambridge Neither of us care about that if i could guess honestly. I personally believe a woman has a right to rent her pussy as much as…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 10:15 PM
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Pretty sure you’d save more lives moderately reducing the speed limit (as if) than cracking down on the world’s oldest profession lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 06:16 PM
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That’s perfectly fine! Just getting it out there so ppl understand what kind of ppl oppose sex work. I myself will accept the temporary move of trafficking (which already existed) to new locations where they can be shut down through both competition and law enforcement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 05:40 PM
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The same study also shows less trafficking in authoritarian countries than democracies, so i guess if your primary concern is zero trafficking, let’s just become China. (The legal markets attract more pimping share in dense europe but if EVERYWHERE was legal, then you wouldn’t see this)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/20 05:36 PM
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How do you know your other qualities aren’t appreciated? This whole rant could be like a rich guy complaining that everyone only sees him as rich, when actually they just see him as rich FIRST, and his shoulder chip also prevents him from seeing how convenient all the rest of this can be. Nothing you said here invalidates the idea that you have an extra dimension of worth most men don’t. Valuable things often come with annoying stuff. Sort of like being rich. You’re still not poor. It’s just as …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 01:36 PM
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The trouble is this is only one half of hetero arousal: the part about reducing perception of risks. The other part is the magnetic part: what draws you to feel primal and sexual in the first place. And it seems like this requires a lot more mystery and tension than typical domesticity allows over the long run. So on the one hand you have everything you mentioned that prevents good sex with randos. Then read “Mating in Captivity” and realize why you can’t keep up great sex with husbands. The (of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/20 12:54 PM
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I said I’d never date a girl who did tons of coke. Like weed, party drugs, all fine, but i just found coke to be a suspect drug of choice. Then i met a girl i ended up dating for five years during a major coke phase of hers, and i spent way more time dealing with her cokehead friends than i ever would have considered doing. It was tons of fun and also incredibly tiresome. She eventually had a breakdown and stopped doing so much coke right around the time i finally started enjoying the drug a bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 10:43 PM
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I think it’s worst with millennial women actually. Tbd on zoomers. Millennials had helicopter parents themselves and came into the social media landscape at an awkward time for self identity. Tbh i think many millennial american women are terminal casualties of living in the heads of their imaginary peers and being nightmares to date as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:56 PM
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I’ve just become very suspicious of “therapy” or “talking” as much more than a way to keep delaying any kind of decisive compromises and keep things in the softer and more patient sorta thing where progress is Always one billing session away until she finally just leaves you for another guy lol! In all seriousness tho, you’re right; i have zero problem with women who keep things at a “let’s see” basis on commitment. The issue is women who want ironclad commitment and “let’s see” sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:41 PM
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It seems like it is male centric because you aren’t as obsessed with sexual access and incentivized by its deployment as the men here are, and until you can come up with a solution that satisfies that desire, it is just heaping a bunch of what YOU value (or want men to value) out of relationships. You think men are getting a good deal precisely BECAUSE your relationships are designed to overproduce feminine imperative comfort and warmth, and so it seems sociopathic that men would complain about …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 03:17 PM
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Yeah, and men like that are fully criticized in my circles and generally tolerated only if they bring in major bucks. My whole point is when you say “he is neglecting the house bc he wants sex” very few people will respect that desire ...no matter how little sex is happening and how great the house is already! But she says “I don’t want sex bc the house is messy and the kids need attention” it doesn’t MATTER how “messy” the house is or how many hours of constant helicoptering the kids already ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:09 PM
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Again i agree! I just think you are underestimating how ridiculous and inhuman American women can be about their domestic expectations, and how those expectations create a denatured sexless environment
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 02:00 PM
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Sex isn’t a “really basic” need in the minds of many american women who are happy to put it well behind making sure the house looks like a realtor lives there and making sure the neurotic kids aren’t encountering any basic life setbacks. And if you claim it is, ppl get super indignant. (None of them are truly “needs” but i am unapologetic about putting sex well before the other two, one reason i am not married lol).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:52 PM
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Absolutely, i agree with you on this... and honestly in general regarding best practices for long relationships! But that kind of genuine ability to feel other ppl’s needs is extremely rare, ironically among some of the most “empathetic” and “woke” ppl. I just spent so much of my youth trying to be so understanding of other ppl’s incentives and positions but was never rewarded for it nearly as much as when i led with my own desires. I imagine many women feel similarly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:38 PM
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Most people who need a job tell themselves it’s going to be a good job and they are happy to have it when they sign the paperwork. Six months later is the true test. Relationships are not jobs for women anymore, and fewer women treat them that way these days. However, marriages ARE a kind of work, and I think there are increasing women who have never needed a man until they have to start planning for a marriage / family. Then once they get into one, there is a vast cottage industry of pop girl b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 01:21 PM
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There’s rarely any bad feelings even for casual partners that i am attracted to, but i have very little sexual shame and honestly all my inter gender squabbles have to do with the finnickiness (and poor incentives) of the female drive, not hating on sex when offered. Sex is the most direct expression of love for me, zero irony. I DO have major post food clarity tho. Like especially for meat. I feel like I understand exactly what is going through the heads of those poor megachurch pastors who can…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/20 12:11 PM
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I’m with you but technically all my best relationships have started as passionate “who cares let’s fuck” situations. And OFTEN the difference between that and a hookup is only apparent in retrospect. Technically i prefer hooker sex to hookup sex. (Funny story right before covid i ran into a former hookup I didn’t recognize from eve but I’ve had WONDERFUL escort nights I remember for years while traveling.) Then also you maybe consider i downplay the quality of hookup sex bc the best hookup sex b…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 06:25 PM
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The definition of attractive tends to gratify female attractiveness and male agency. Attractive literally means “draws things to you.” And the grain of heterosexuality (men pursue, women screen male pursuit) is such that women will always be considered overall more attractive. If you’d used words like sexy, or having sexual agency, or yadda yadda this could be a more nuanced conversation. But “attraction” is largely a women’s game, so if you play by their rules, women end up ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/20 03:54 PM
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So basically you’re saying if it wore an unstructured bralette for you , you’d fuck his car
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 02:23 PM
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It’s my dick in a BOXXXX
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 08:57 PM
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Are you not going to address the central claim that she called you gay? Sorry this would be a demolition otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 07:02 PM
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Totally, yeah. I used to be a lot more emotionally generous with my time before i realized how many ppl have such a wide “romance” zone where they are much more intimate and even demanding than “friends” but it’s still fundamentally short of sexual feelings. It took a lot more honesty than younger me was willing to allow to admit i was not getting what I fundamentally desired from those connections. But honesty has been way more rewarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:35 PM
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Basically. Like obviously they’d probably be good enough not to give you an ultimatum but let’s say it became clear that pushing down the sexual feelings was painful to them and so they were withdrawing from you. Would you consider initiating a fwb sort of thing with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:10 PM
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If one of them you didn’t feel sexually towards felt that way about you, are there circumstances where you’d try to surmount that so you could enjoy the rest of their personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 06:04 PM
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Many men want to be rewarded in ways THEY value. Not the way their wives / partners are drawn to reward them. (Ie more sex). Totally different argument whether it’s a reasonable expectation to expect a seamless conversion from domestic / social value into sexual arousal. But all this is so much clearer when you stop thinking about all the social equity issues and realize even the angriest MRA would probably throw off his whole grievance checklist if it meant a lifetime of validation through puss…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:53 PM
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Definitely elements of it, but as a bisexual person (who is still fully heteroromantic), having access to both just reminds me WHY I put up with the parts of heterosexuality that can be a drag. The thing that IS frustrating is it does seem (at least in my own immediate hip woke circle) we put a great deal of effort into noting the ways men are either hypocritical or just kinda stupid and animalistic in sexuality, but we kinda do the monkey “hear no evil etc” regarding how female sexual imperativ…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 02:11 PM
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Only a few days in indo, that was the other problem, we had to get back to bangkok in time for a flight. So it could be my hurriedness and relative brokeness at the time (and also the islam hating lol!) Hikes weren’t bad but i was in fantastic shape then honestly. Worst part was honestly all the leeches.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:47 PM
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Malaysia is honestly very charming, and I’m an islamophobic asshole who loves drugs and whores. Penang is cute as hell, and they have a lovely butterfly preserve. Some great jungle hikes to be had. Indonesia is BeaUutiful but somehow both the tourists and locals were significantly less my speed. It obvs depends heavily on the island but i wish I hadn’t spent the time or money to get out there honestly. Bali is Bali but the rest of the place isn’t necessarily better than more accessible parts of …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:35 PM
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I think it was autumn? Vietnam had major flooding in some of the small towns, weather was still very good. Cambodia also has some beach towns people spoke highly of but honestly I’d not spend your entire time there by any means. Siam Reap is a tourist town but a lovely one. Some of the beach towns are nice and less crowded than thai beach towns, is the best i can say for them. Southeast Asia is in general lovely; Cambodia isn’t bad so much as definitely not the star pupil outside Angkor
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:22 PM
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Yes. The Angkor temples are incredible. I am almost always underwhelmed by warmed over world heritage sites but i spent days bicycling around them happily. Phnom penh is seedy as hell and honestly only mildly charming tbh. Bangkok is infinitely more fun, Vientiane in Laos is more charming as a weird se asia backwater, and all major vietnamese cities are also just more pleasant. I think the way to do Cambodia is shamelessly enjoy Siam Reap, meet good people, and branch out from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/20 09:15 PM
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The vast majority of the “sociopaths” you are talking about are just normal ass dudes with a cold shell who don’t let ppl see them “bleed” emotionally or socially in public. This post is a big projection / excuse acting as if there’s a binary gulf between ppl who dgaf and those normal decent humans who do. Some of us just front loaded all our humiliation early in life and learned how to roll with the punches. (Fun story:first attempt at asking a girl out in sixth grade was done under duress to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/20 04:21 PM
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Yes definitely much more common in that expression among working class women but not only seen there. I’d say the middle class version is the college educated NGO or PR / office manager betch whose boyfriend is a “freelance” graphic designer / “DJ” / insert some other non job. Either he grows up or she trades him in for a homeowner if/ when she wants kids. And while such women often look back on those relationships with eyes rolled sky high (thus less likely to see those guys as hot or “alpha”) …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/20 02:51 PM
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You should be having eight children with a “sovereign citizen” who drives one of those big white church vans with paranoid bumper stickers on them, yet here you are with the dregs of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 12:14 AM
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Cmon someone like this who had a RELIABLE and ACHIEVABLE rule set would be the ideal woman for the black and white, zero risk tolerance autists here. If female sexuality was truly formalized enough to be “satisfy condition” > pussy, many men here would LOVE that. The issue is humans aren’t rule sets. We drop rules for ideal exceptions, and we often see rote rule followers as weaklings to be exploited. That’s why trusting women to be perfect arbitrators of their stated values is a fool’s errand, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 06:48 PM
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I am in agreement with that. Where i think we disagree is that I don’t think much more than a tiny handful of individuals in any given church ANYWHERE come anywhere close to that level of social suicide, which would likely come from the people in the pews first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:51 PM
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Lol i have lived in nothing but major cities, including both LA and NYC. Being nominally religious is not the same thing as christian norms being deeply integrated into the culture, esp in attitudes on marriage. They are SHIFTING but i think it’s intellectually dishonest to pretend judeo christian norms aren’t part of our culture even when classical christian precepts arent. And your response doesn’t address my claims about the vast majority of Religious people, which was the real subject
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:47 PM
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I like this point, but when the religion’s rituals are culturally integrated into the dominant society, it is very difficult to have that authentic detachment from “the world”. I think it’s much easier to just shuffle along putting a biblical figleaf on what is really driving you, which is what the vast majority of religious people do in my experience as someone who grew up in everything from tiny evangelical churches that met three times a week to big impersonal mega ones. TLDR : the danger of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 05:09 PM
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Ihahahaha. I honestly stopped shading justin bieber even before his sleazeball edm phase. Dude even even went hep tradchristian early on the trend. Finally i think he elevated the soft butch game of a whole generation of lesbians as an icon. If the whippersnappers deliver I don’t begrudge them their jailbait harems. But yes we do mint a lot of talentless children into the fame void
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 08:37 PM
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It’s as much that it reminds men of the groupie tendencies in straight women, just like you see in the emergent space of teen boy influencers. (I highly recommend the documentary that shows the sociopath gay dude who literally ranches these boys out to young women who develop full parasocial obsessive relationships with these men every single bit as pathetic as bathwater boys). On some level men resent the confluence of both primal male appeal AND female social matrix obsession in a positive fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 08:14 PM
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They already are, might as well be naked
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:10 PM
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Okay now i agree with your edit. It is ALREADY perfectly acceptable for women to attention whore on Instagram and they already do whenever their partners don’t make them feel special enough. Again I’ve dated literal whores but I’ve never felt as threatened by ACTUAL rivals as when I’ve dated social media addicts who don’t even get fucking paid to attention whore. How pathetic. Your edit just encourages women to take it all off when they’re doing that, and i applaud that as more sexy and humanist…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:55 PM
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Porn isn’t culturally considered cheating by like ANYONE i know well, including monogamous and married people. I am aware other people see it that way! That view is just irrelevant in my personal surroundings so the restaurant analogy is fairly apt, because different people will see it differently. I would and HAVE dated literal prostitutes; I would never date a woman who wanted to run a restaurant out of our house.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:39 PM
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I mean, that is an arrangement individual people can make. I have certainly dated my fair share of cam girls. But as others have noted this is a stupid argument even when you take it beyond sex. “If a husband eats at restaurants on lunch break, it is acceptable for a wife to run a restaurant in their home during the day where she feeds hundreds of strangers.” Again, maybe that’s an arrangement an individual would accept but it hardly follows logically.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 05:17 PM
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This was very well written and human and probably actually effective (alongside growing a pair and getting hot if you want broad sex success rather than just enough romantic success). I think one of the worst things about the entire incel conversation is how dweeby shy guys (who have always and will always exist, and who sometimes stop being that way) get roped into the equation without their consent by supposedly enlightened people, as well as militant incels. Also most everyone in the comments…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 05:02 PM
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Ugh we do NOT need a GG Allin of thotting who keeps threatening to off herself on cam but just accidentally ODs on bad xannies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 04:02 PM
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Asian women are like nyc style thin crust pizza: perfect default option but with a ceiling on how amazing it gets until you get so ornate it’s no longer NYC style. White women are Neapolitan style: lovely blend of delicacy and lushness when it goes right, somehow both sloppy AND brittle when it doesn’t, plus you paid WAY too much for this. Hispanic women are chain pizza: underrated in collective imagination bc so common but actually brutally effective when done correctly. Like the dominos run by…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 12:44 PM
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Just looked it up! Such a big variety in capabilities but everything still looks very distinctively theirs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:51 PM
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WOW great work. The lines and watercolor details are so fantastic
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 03:47 PM
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It’s actually because the prophet really wanted to be an artist like hitler but instead of just dry mechanical street scapes literally all the dude could manage were stick figures. He actually tried to do the quran the first time as a zine but it was literally so cringe that his inner circle came up with the whole anti iconography thing. Sort of like lil wayne’s handlers tryna keep him off the guitar
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:28 PM
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Ugh i am lucky i live in a place where whiskey hipsters have bought up all the good japanese shit or else I’d be downing it in quarantine as well. Nothing tastes as good in confinement so no point in my opinion. Let me know when you get bored enough for mezcal
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/20 02:07 PM
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I disagree but SOMEBODY needs to have the sugarbabies for my silverdaddy years. So good on you!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 03:01 PM
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This is obviously a slavic meme bc the girls are hot / not fat and the infrastructure is even worse than the USA
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/20 01:42 PM
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I mean it’s well filled with women who just expect to show up and passively receive money the way they do attention while zoning out. Women who can really PANDER or else have that cult leader magic are rarer! How explicit are you willing to get on the regular vs in special more lucrative situations? And even within whatever hoe space you choose, probably still have to decide Would you rather spend more time being cleaner or less time being dirtier?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 07:02 PM
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Yea but the attribute spaces of “angsty ironic low effort hoe” and “obviously wishes she could just tiktok or ig for money instead” are super full. If you just want to earn some passive pocket income for the time you already spend attention whoring and have low expectations, don’t let that dissuade you. If you wanna be making actual money you probably need to invent a brand and like... do some pandering to some niche of very male interests you may find cringe. What male friendly interests do you…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/20 06:35 PM
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Ugh i had to turn this off after a few seconds i became so aroused pls mark nsfw
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:18 PM
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Or it teaches the least pleasant women to sit out the dance long enough for the more cooperative ones to snag all the actually good natured, non sleazy, AND successful men. Look at the college ratios and women’s marrying patterns. Those men do not grow on trees. Someone is gonna fuck that guy and take him before she will. This is different if you’re talking niche ethnic markets or highly religious people. For mainstream American culture it has just as many downsides as it gives upsides. There’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 08:57 PM
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Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 07:19 PM
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CULTURE OBSESSED? I have a rule in my house that when my girlfriend brings up irrelevant twitter shit too many times she is forbidden from talking to me. All other accusations fine, but i take issue there.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:38 PM
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Lololol poor jason. I also know posh rednecks who train actual hunting dogs and I’d say it’s NOT for anyone who has temptation or patience issues. If you’ve picked him for the fire more than the duty I’d get him sled harnessed myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:24 PM
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Okay but if someone had ever bothered to do this with me in my youth (it would have worked, and likely the right girl could accomplish it today easily enough),,, then i never would have grown so much as a ... dog. Like I probably only became a person bc most women are TERRIBLE at male clicker training, and the ones who ARE good generally apply it more for profit than for love. (Even when they’re quite good at training for profit!) To further riff on your metaphor, i find i funny how the genders …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 06:12 PM
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Things you search for are things you don’t passively find/browse toward. You don’t NEED to search teens bc every other vid is a “my slutty stepsister...” etc
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:47 PM
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Oh thank you and that’s a great point. These days a young lady can get burned out on men from the comfort of her bedroom without having to buy any pleasers, altho she may need to take down some vids later!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:09 PM
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I like this a lot but need to add gradations in the whores and libertines. I think with women who PROACTIVELY get into forms of hoeing today there’s a continuum between enfp / “leo” types who love both getting attention and brightening up clients. Younger women look at it as getting paid to be on tinder / ig. Other end of the continuum is more “cool” brained women who are like “fuck it this is good money and will save me time for my [weird art, fashion line, saving for a cabin and alpaca farm fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 07:42 PM
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Honestly i think there are two SEPARATE camps: the men who accidentally become their girlfriend’s gay best friends (often in youth) and watch how it kills attraction (raises hand) and the super stoic hyper male brained types who are getting enough human interaction thank you very much (okay actually that’s also me when obsessed with something) but don’t get why their behavior doesn’t translate to arousal. I feel this way bc i have a talent for careening between both of them, but when i avoid the…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 07:35 PM
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Okay well i liked my chadpocalypse but you’re right it needs way more gigolos.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 06:26 PM
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No. If this were true the Chads of the world would regularly have to be put down from exhaustion. Women would go psychotic over them like Karens go about HOA issues. Seriously you would see women kill each other over apex men regularly (at least as regularly as men kill their partners) since they’re so rare. I mention the killing bc the male sex drive comes from testosterone. Other stuff: STDs would be not just a moderate risk for freaks but would grind entire healthcare systems to a halt. Every…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:32 PM
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I think the main reason ppl suggest an exaggerated difference is american lifestyle and diets. It catches up to you if you don’t have good habits early. I agree someone with good habits will look better at 27 (or even much beyond) than their twin with shit habits at 24.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 05:10 PM
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That’s all incredibly true and it’s a great time to be a hot older woman. I just mean even these days i think a lot of older (American) women spend more time being neurotic about minor facial details than staying firm. I feel like attention to figure keeps people more sensually vibrant as they age, men and women. This is obviously for the few women who give half a fuck about the opinions of an oldish young bisexual man.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 04:14 PM
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Oh holy shit I haven’t READ the book since high school thank you lololol. I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:49 PM
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It’s actually specifically the Karen age i am least attracted to. Women who get over that with their figures intact are often lovely. Older women often reference that bardot quote about you can either save your face or ass, pick one. I am contrarian and say save the ass overall.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:42 PM
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Can’t be bothered to adjust my phrasing no, but full frontal FDS only works on their ghetto or at most grey collar idea of “high value men” bc the actual ones are in a deeply advantageous college dating market where women’s long term mating preferences and college gender ratios make that game effectively worthless for most. Some of the attitudes can be weakly applied to educated dating but only in ghostly approximations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:21 PM
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The redpill wants to strip mine thots of their sexual imperative for short term gains. FDS wants to strip mine “high value men” of their sexual imperative for long term gains. They just brand their marks better. Good work babes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 01:16 PM
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I mean i find actual older ladies with grey hair and wrinkles attractive if they’ve decently kept their silhouettes. Women significantly older than i am! But uhhh... sorry that does not change the immediate appeal that Classic Young Pussy has. I envy you tho! I think most men are a hybrid like that: their attraction widens as they age, but that changes nothing in the megawatt appeal that age range has, if just at a nostalgic distance or enjoyed at an hourly rate. Also keep in mind many of these …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 12:44 PM
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Well written version of a common post, enough that i mention the male equivalent IS hookers, and yes you have to pay but I’d PERSONALLY rather pay for (and control) my fake affection than depend on it from some mercurial fuckboy. That is a more male attitude to me. (And having enough money is the same as having enough beauty to be anything but a one off bang treated horribly. We all have different abilities to make stupid decisions of the sex and heart). Anyway i almost envy anyone who doesn’t t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 10:34 PM
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That stereotype of liberal men is entirely true for me except laziness! I resent the implication.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 07:08 PM
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Those things CAN be signals! Also remember money isn’t worth the same to everyone! I work in finance but am actually a hippie outside my fuckboy expenses, and so it is zero skin off my back to pick up a car. A man who doesn’t have as much money may not spend as much but if he cares he will show it in other ways. He will drive across town for you! I wouldn’t do that bc I want to hang out high and relaxed at my house until you get here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:56 PM
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Oh hell yes i lyft SIDEGIRLS around if that’s the only way to bang them. It’s better for me bc you really can’t underestimate how much i hate driving. Also i smoke a reasonable amount of weed so sometimes it’s just much easier to car someone over than deal with getting them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:51 PM
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It’s really a question for the ages of who will be more embarrassed : the thots uploading vids or the turbo simps who spent their good fuck years commenting “ugh u have the best tits on earth you’re a goddess pls DM”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:49 PM
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Yes i do that all the time bc i date cute younger women with less social capital and experience than i have. It is also not a major expense i really notice, so it seems easy enough if it helps my life. Some men who are far more marriage minded than i am would NEVER do this as it sets a bad precedent. I don’t care about a precedent bc I will only be dating these girls for a bit. So unfortunately this is one of those things that goes both ways. Some guys who spend on you are silly simps, and other…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 05:32 PM
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It just opens a new dimension for people to negotiate this stuff. Many married men seem to uselessly simp to the women in their life with equally little results but the moment some bathwater is involved errybody goes crazy. Also, men experience their simp relationships one way, but the women involved are often drowned in simp therapy they haven’t been NEARLY mercenary enough about monetizing—bc they are passive, eager to please young women. When you have seen a mentally deranged adult man try to…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:59 PM
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Girl you don’t have to tell me! Whole Foods is HARD to walk into sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:23 PM
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Nope! You are just being a very typical person who gets easily accustomed to amazing things and forgets how special they are. Harnessed electricity is very special. It stands out in the context of human and animal achievements. It is not my problem if you don’t see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:22 PM
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Now you’re just rambling. Men are horny all the time, many hate it. It is what it is. It’s your choice to expose yourself to it in ways that harm you. Again, not everyone is great at avoiding shocks
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:19 PM
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I SEE her point, just trying to make her understand why it is a bad one. Male sexuality is a potential energy that can be one of the most special and useful forces to women who channel it well. Women who channel it well do not see it like she does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:17 PM
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This is a debate sub about sexuality but also the closest you’ll come to taking that L i guess. Maybe civilization WAS a mistake: these bitches hate men, hate electricity, and wanna do everything by hand. Have at it babe
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:15 PM
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Lol when you ain’t got the height or primal appeal but you’re cursed with a turbo libido you figure it out or rot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:11 PM
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And in this sense male sexuality is “special” for being a force superior to being on your bumass lonesone, just like electricity IS special compared to doing everything by hand. Again, if you are so slack jawed at it that you can’t recognize what is special about electricity... sorry lol And last it’s okay if you disagree about the lonesome part- not everyone is good at avoiding getting shocked
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:06 PM
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That’s like saying electricity isn’t special bc it powers everything or the internet isn’t special bc it is ubiquitous. Male sexuality is a vital energy, and women who harness it well do very well for themselves and feel special. Those who don’t harness it well whine about getting tricked by something so obvious and supposedly unspecial as male horniness. Boggles the mind. You can use the internet to start a new company or veg out on netflix. Just don’t blame the fucking internet for what you do…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 04:01 PM
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The “i never respond to strong comments and just dunk on incels” fallacy is the most common one i see here
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:48 PM
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Then you have even less expertise on any of this! Is your boyfriend treating you like crap? Where does this post come from then? And anyway everything I’ve noted here is quite valid if not to you then the girl you’re describing
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:47 PM
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And this exactly is the root of your personal problems. Because the whole point of your essay is that it ISN’T actually validating to you once we’re done with you. You just keep thinking it’s GOING to be bc that’s how you judge your worth and then afterward come here and whine to men who aren’t getting laid. Do you really not see why that’s gross?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:36 PM
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A much better question to ask of female sexuality, which is inherently more Special than male. It’s not men’s fault if women are pissing away their sex energy and reproductive value on men who see them as disposable. It is obviously more the male drive to pursue broadly and the female to be pursued overall more narrowly. But your narrow pursuit only says anything about the men you let in and what you value them for. And they value your sex as worthless and freely given. Again: a personal problem
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:23 PM
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My point is that it is a declarative you have a very incomplete perspective on because you have a very incomplete perspective on men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:18 PM
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I think men underestimate the value of those things for SMP bc they are judging it by ongoing attraction (ie the money/status does not keep her aroused so they discount it). They should be looking at everything as what gives you a good shot at a girl. Once you have that shot, what you do with it is your problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 03:09 PM
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Sounds like you’re expecting something like philosophical precision but this is 2020 where accusations of ____ are an exercise in clout chasing and ego construction. I grew up with evangelicals who didn’t celebrate Christmas bc there was an arms race to see who could be more pious. Most people who care about ___isms increasingly strike me as liberal versions of such people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:42 PM
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Oh one last thing: YOU proved male attention is worthless actually, not men. The sexual attention you get from Special men isn’t special enough for you. But the special attention you COULD get from men just doesn’t come from men special enough. Oh well, sounds like a personal problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 02:00 PM
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Yeah, if you wanna be special to a guy, find one who treats you as if you’re special. But if you ARENT all that special, don’t look for that treatment from an obviously special man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:55 PM
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What you’re asking is hard! It is easy to be special to someone who sees you as special, or to see someone else as special but not be treated by them that way. That’s true for both genders, even if the manifestations are different. Also, it’s about the men you want. If the men you want to see you as special are the same men MOST women want to see them as special, sorry bish you gotta be Actually Special. Last thot: you’re sort of telling on yourself if you feel a woman’s natural place in her man…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/20 01:39 PM
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The supreme good is like water, which nourishes all things without trying to. It is content with the low places that people disdain. Thus it is like the Tao.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 07:48 PM
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Totally totally. A female friend of mine has a theory it’s more common in women who are on anti depressants snd have trouble FEELING in the first place. She lost her ability to orgasm regularly after getting on (forget) and said it made her want a lot Slammier stuff. Obviously i have also known plenty of just actual weirdos but they are ... different than the fifty shades ladies
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:55 PM
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The kindest interpretation i can give is women are taking the WRONG lessons from porn and trying to serve that up to men whose lust activates their ego. Because when you get AGTUALLY dominant and push them out of that act the sex is often better right? It’s just better for everyone when you actually try to enjoy yourself, like both people. The best sex plateau i ever ascended mentally was getting out of that “must hit her meter up high” always attitude bc the thing is many women barely know what…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:44 PM
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Very discreet lifts are not a bad idea. I don’t have any true ones because i have fully embraced the anime boi life but they are unnoticeable in public if done well. (My “lifts” are just thick sneakers that don’t pretend the soles aren’t big but even these 6’2 wannabe ig boys ar wearing them so arm’s race!) Also, most of the times i have felt MOST acutely aware of my shortness by my partner was social stuff, not the bedroom or living room. Or rather if she has bedroom problems with you it isn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:32 PM
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There is definitely a fundamental difference between women you pursue and women who are Lap Pussy. The thing is hookup apps have obscured this. This would be obvious in a physical space watching how men relate to the two different types. As for how men behave idk. If the woman looks like she is kinky he might be overcompensating like some Fifty Shades LARPer. Also so many women DO complain today about how effete and weak men are in bed that I think a lot of guys overcompensate toward “okay we ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:16 PM
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I think some women project an evil supervillain nature to male sexuality that is actually more ego comforting (they are VIOLENT BEAsTs whO haTe Us) than the less dramatic but equally unsavory reality that we are just a bunch of milquetoast poon hounds constantly assessing the relative bangability of women. Like there is ALSO male supervillainy, but that stuff you know when you see (Also i think attractive women who make sure they are treated well have a fundamentally different experience with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 06:01 PM
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Lol that is exactly it, also like i swear a lot of the guys who truly rack up Numbers rather than quality do it with a very generous lap pussy standard
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:51 PM
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After they hook up with men who were never attracted to them in the first place but wanted a nut Or honestly mean men here, cmon the guys barely seem straight to ME sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:43 PM
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Not saying this doesn’t exist for especially pathological men, but honestly the reality is often less violent but... you aren’t gonna like it any more. Maybe even less... A lot of the things women mistake for aggression or misogyny are honestly just post nut ick feelings from accepting the sex you can have versus the sex you want. Or even a future anticipation of that feeling but you know you’re gonna do it anyway Like Tinderellas often think “oh this guy is just this brute fuckbeast with no fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 05:36 PM
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It’s by far the easiest for strays visually. You could chip them but then you have to catch them to verify. And ya it’s whether they have been fixed as a stray. The shelters get slammed with kittens in cities that don’t T n R
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 04:10 PM
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I would walk behind him to the gates of hell unless there was a gap he needed to be thrown across, bc i don’t have that aragorn arm strength
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:22 PM
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Babe in texas, even the twinks are strapped . Ugh wait this account is a LARP!!! I just commented at another fellow short man. Feels dirty
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 03:09 PM
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I’d lay some unchopped firewood out back early in the morning, make myself some coffee and watch out the window to see what he did lol I mean no I would just have all the sex with him to perk him up
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 02:28 PM
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Yeah totally i might clean it up a bit more tomorrow The one with the obvious tldr is the other one. I am fine not disappointed and get why it’s not a blog but am also sorta burnt out after work and editing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 01:15 AM
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Nothing has historically beat skateboarding but it’s a good second. Def better than ppd posting
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:31 AM
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It was dinged but you can read it on my profile I think if you have nothing better to do. I am gonna play some guitar now. Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:25 AM
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Sorry you saw it that way; i tried to put effort justifying its length. Anyway maybe a good time to get back to normal life. See yall later
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/20 12:18 AM
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It’s hard willing myself to be the low value man this sub NEEDS rather than the ones it has, but... for once i have nothing better to do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:51 PM
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Okay just for this i May do the OTHER one first JUST so this piece of brilliance doesn’t mog mine omg. Thank you for this
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:37 PM
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I have two LONG pieces I actually composed this weekend rather than just fluffed out here. One is a fundamental theory of levels of straight male desire. I think the IDEAS are top notch for EITHER TRP or FDS. You just have to ... deal with the fact i wrote it lol, tho there is a clean TLDR. This one is both more filthy and cold than the other but still many truths i think The other is a long explanation about why neoliberals and “blue pill” people should take CERTAIN men’s issues more seriously …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 09:10 PM
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Wait actually holy shit they are right! They are wrong but right because I personally believe there ARE exactly this many tiers of male attraction counting zero. Post for the future. They don’t understand it but they do. Typical cels
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:54 PM
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If they understand it I don’t get why they don’t just become lithe nymphomaniac catgirls
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 06:52 PM
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Okay but your entire profile IS dedicated to ethnic takeover porn. Don’t get me wrong i enjoy a little miscegenation in the morning but it seems a bit “white” to complain in your shoes sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/20 12:35 AM
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PS i had completely forgotten the privacy theory of language. It makes so much sense when you see how well social mammals actually do without it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:05 PM
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Lolol this was one of those moments where it’s like “hah yeah man i am so right, this guy usually gets it, sweet vindication” And then I keep reading and by the end i just wanna go move to a small island somewhere or just forget i ever had sentience and return to circadian rhythms or whatever. jK JK bring on the cyberpunk!!! I never wanted a normal human life anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:01 PM
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I probably will soon honestly. My existing discord is unfortunately too close to my existing self and i am a shady type, but I may see what i can do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:52 PM
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PPD discord is basically the empyrean looking down at the filth and rabble of the OG sub. Well better to reign in reddit than serve in discord. NON SERVIAM!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:35 PM
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Everyone is ironically aroused and i am unironically aroused. Except everyone i know feels this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:28 PM
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I get that, definitely get that. I just think way more guys than YOU (who don’t think like you) would sign on the line for this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 08:07 PM
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If It does it’s Bc typical married schlubs see the writing on the wall and know there isn’t a pussy buffet for them so they support the service Women (who may have spent their youth on fuckboys) don’t THINK they will want strange during marriage (until they do) but their dating history with men (players) has made them realize the value of tagging their BF 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:37 PM
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Dang i hope so brah. If I’m right, it means i live in boring normie land and if you’re right, you’re stuck in sodom and gonorrhea
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:27 PM
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Non monogamous people will always try to fight this, but then turn around and brag about how special and unique their attachment style is. Pick one guys! I include myself here lol. (I think we are designed for serial monogamy based around a toddler rearing cycle and all bets are off afterwards, with a greater disadvantage for the incumbent dad the more [idk how to describe it but unfortunately it correlates with sexiness] the woman is)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 07:08 PM
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Nope but that’s a good place to end this. Again as a NON monogamous person my experience is the VAST majority of humans want monogamy for THEMSELVES. More than they believe they will want or have access to Strange. And if technology allows them to enforce, many would. You can disagree. Many Men KNOW they won’t have much strange access and support it. Women know they have access but don’t think they will WANT it (until they do) and KNOW their male partners WOULD want it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:59 PM
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Middle class jobs have gone down, but that has made middle class jobs much more valuable and hard to compete for. That’s the argument i am making here, sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:52 PM
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I ... really really feel like people still value it, and if anything it has become MORE valuable the rarer it is. The trouble is they only value it one sided.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:46 PM
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Sorry this is unfortunately literally how things naturally come out. It took me a few min. I’d have to soend more time to clean and it’s a busy Monday and tbh I’ve seen the state of this sub and felt it was still additive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 06:39 PM
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Yeah i think this stuff will play out less in “dating” and more as things get serious between two people. Like remember the problem of official social media relationships were when that came out? Like that but with way more personal weird standards. And yeah obviously creeps gonna creep i just wonder if it will start to require high levels of tech facility and even affluence to accomplish it. Again, my standard is less “this is what I would do” and more “i have learned NEVER to be surprised by h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:50 PM
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I got TWO PHONES, one for the plug and one for the load, i got twooo phones one for the bitches and one for the dough (Is that four phones? Two more mains and a burner? Someone needs to ask him)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:38 PM
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My serious answer is i overall agree with wtknight: the problem is less baldfaced dual mating simultaneously and more that there would be men who went right from missing out on the “yeah partyyyyy” part of life to being GPS logged by their partner (based off the partner’s experience with men)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:34 PM
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That’s exactly my point: the more clarity is exists, the more things push to EITHER ethical non monogamy or ethical monogamy. It makes it harder to cheat, however you define cheating. I agree on how much technology has made it easier to find alt lifestyles; i am just wondering if the next shift will swing the pendulum back for the normal folks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 05:27 PM
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Yeah to me it’s less an actual CCP overlord, and more that HAVING the digital infrastructure to do this will expand the consumer facing applications of such tech. It may become such a common part of normie COMMITTED heterosexuality that it may seem opt in in name only. Again it’s not a hard thesis of mine—we may just keep drifting. I’m fine with it either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:35 PM
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I sorta agree on the first half that GPS is often a fig leaf,. As for the rest, i am tempted to argue against that scenario being common, but i will admit there will probably be a daily mail article with that exact scenario in five years But i wonder if traditional men will end up demanding the same if they can get away with it
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:27 PM
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You’re right. “Force” is a bad word because it implies external control. I meant “will this just happen because of what individual men and women actually end up desiring” in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:24 PM
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I’ve been using that line for ages, agree
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 04:20 PM
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And If they don’t shag over the corpse she isn’t really attracted and will branch swing soon
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:41 PM
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If that’s the case you can probably afford to let things take their course, but you still MIGHT lose the friendship if he whiffs and you sweep in after even if you don’t go dark triad. Sometimes it doesn’t matter. You could probably accomplish a lot by subliminal conversations with her (that don’t break your promise) since women are often better at picking these kinds of things up. “X said y’all have been chatting a lot” that is literally all it takes if she likes you more than him
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:38 PM
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Two options: Pure Machiavellianism: act to her as if it’s common knowledge he called dibs, but suggest you always kind of liked her and realized you should have been more forward before. (But you’ll respect her wishes and etc) If he hasn’t already approached her with candid intentions he will look like a bitch, and if she isn’t already attracted to him she just might have an instinctive impulse to get his dibsy ass off her. Manly Neutrality: tell your friend you like her too and either the best …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 02:34 PM
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I read it as overall male camaraderie is low but small male friend groups are tight and high integrity. Overall female solidarity is higher in abstract, but groups of individual women are more prone to cattiness and backstabbery.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:04 PM
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I am aware of all that lol everybody knows Nietzsche was a crazy syphilitic almost virgin. Decent stache tho
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 09:58 AM
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Who DOESNT want to friendzone Nietzsche
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 12:04 AM
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I mean for some guys it’s cooking for them lol? I appreciate those things a bit but focusing overmuch on them is wasteful with me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:21 PM
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Blowjobs (Semi serious answer, the closest equivalent i can muster is basically proactive works of service that are specifically valued by the partner (not what the woman wants her partner to want) that show dedication. For me those are sex acts that are more oriented around me and show her ability to maintain enthusiasm. That kind of evidence allows you to trust her). I put this in automod bc it’s not a direct equivalent but it’s how i keep the books internally
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:14 PM
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I can say as a man who has chased and continually CAUGHT young women we are just as bad. Altho honestly i have spent enough of my life half listening to breakdowns of group text conflicts that I’ve done my atonement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 05:09 PM
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Agreed, absolutely agreed. Just needed to get some extra color in there but i agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:33 PM
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I agree with so much of this but the women today are honestly just as bad, and only heaps of male depravity obscure that. The same factors that create the boys you are talking about seem to have created a ... sow beast woman, for lack of a better term, who still wants to FEEL feminine but simply isn’t very feminine psychologically, physically, etc. So many WOMEN today go from basically jailbait to having the bloated looking bodies that are USUALLY a sign of having been productive mothers but in …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:23 PM
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Earlier in our relationship, My girlfriend had a job where she worked late (fine dining) for a while, and she’d come back as i was winding down for the night smelling vaguely like her restaurant and babbling a mile a minute bc she had spent the entire night yelling at customers over an environment designed to keep the tables packed in but not eavesdropping on each other. (Also she’d be mildly buzzed and on adderall but that’s mild for that industry). Sometimes while eating (she would be too addi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:04 PM
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I never said it was foolproof; sorry that was your wife. But there are bitches everywhere yes
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:25 AM
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That’s a lot to ask; i just started learning this stuff, but I will see what i can do. Just keep in mind sometimes the worst thing in life is getting what you asked for
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 12:18 AM
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I felt i owed it to you for your service in this time, sorry if it wasn’t what you wanted. (Actually you can order Laduree ones pretty much anywhere I think but they ain’t cheap). He (the algorithm) might argue and say he’s a real person but that’s just a decent machine learning library I Am futzing with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:22 PM
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It’s just an alt of mine i designed specifically to annoy you, sorry. I don’t even write these, they’re algorithmically generated from random shit my phone picks up. I bought my girlfriend macarons the other day and that got the pastry post
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:15 PM
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Probably for a similar reason those same immigrant women are notorious for hooking up with tall white guys on the DL before getting hitched back to some nice boy auntie found: just the grain of genetic diversity drive between the genders. If you think about it there’s a much larger tradition of sending men out of the village with a spear to come back with a wife. We need the spear less and less these days but there are comparably few traditions of RETAINING women when they marry outside a cultur…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 11:11 PM
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Okay fine so make sure she isn’t taking volunteer selfies every five min with the impoverished children lol. (That’s my favorite dating profile conceit for both genders tbh)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 10:45 PM
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Anybody can virtue signal from twitter easiest these days, and also you don’t get “likes” on your good deeds so if anything the people who still get out there are even more impressive
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 10:21 PM
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Yeah i realized my blunder on this post not EXPLICITLY noting that non profit employees and especially management are widely known for being toxic incompetent imbeciles, but that just makes the people who show up for free or low pay and put up with it all the more valuable That’s a great way to meet your husband. But again it may not have made you LOOK kinder than other women but you may BE that way even if fundamentally kind people are not necessarily quick to see themselves that way—especially…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 10:16 PM
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I do think there is a pretty wide variation in innate human personality, for both men and women. I also think there is often a decent tension between how agreeable/kind someone is and how vital/sexy they are, though. I think recognizing that tradeoff pushes men to roll the dice on sexiness... certainly does for me
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:44 PM
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This has been my exact experience and i wish I had clarified. The shit really floats to the top in certain non profit leaderships, but the volunteers are often (not always) human sunshine.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:07 PM
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And nurses are not volunteers. Highly valuable ppl! I got distracted standing up for them but they aren’t the focus of this OP
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:33 PM
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Yeah just my point is nurses aren’t volunteers but this can be true for young nurses yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:29 PM
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Yeah i am not saying this is the cheat code to heterosexuality, and you still have to seduce these girls lol. Quarantine is just making my bored enough i am just TRYING to be helpful haha
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:24 PM
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I already said volunteers not employees. I actually agree with your assessment of the women in charge many times
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:10 PM
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Nurses get MONEY tho, and it is one of the best jobs for smart prole girls. Volunteers do it for different reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 06:09 PM
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No I didn’t really say any of that beyond rhetorical fun. I merely said i think my strategy is a better pre selection indicator. I agree church is probably a decent thing for MARRIAGE minded people but unfortunately i am talking about kindness
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:59 PM
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Oh sure again this is not arguing against women’s primal sexual responses. Just a thought for our more gentle brethren in terms of personality fit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:39 PM
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This is the best criticism of the strategy so far. I will say like all things there is a difference between the people who actually DO shit and the people who have Twitter fingers. But valid point. Conceal ur jokerficiation brah
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:35 PM
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OMG ZERO KIDDING I encountered a girl like this. She was like 20 and only at the animal shelter for a weed bust and even tho she was wearing a volunteer shirt she had full 1 am whore makeup on. Feature not a bug of the system
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:34 PM
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No specifically not this lol. Or make sure it’s church volunteering. I grew up with a church gossip for a mom. Y’all whitewashed sepulchers not fooling me By their fruits you shall know them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:32 PM
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I agree it’s the most entry level stuff and you’ll have a more basic assortment, but on the plus side DOGS?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:30 PM
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You’re not wrong but it’s way more of a continuum than a binary. Again i am not recommending this to classical redpill men. More to the defensive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:27 PM
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Tell that to everyone with a job who would quit it if they could. The male drive for a partner is a Will. This sub is full of men who don’t get out but won’t go to bars and only see femininity through their fucked up screen. I fail to see how experimenting with getting outside yourself is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:25 PM
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I like this distinction a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:21 PM
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I specifically agree NGO employees are often insane. I should clarify this is for volunteers but yes many are sorta codependent just like many club sluts are mean and selfish. take the good with the bad
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:20 PM
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All the nurses I know are either cool AF or tough and useful enough to justify their bitchiness and i would be too I will clarify i mean VOLUNTEERS not NGO employees many of whom ARE batshit
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:18 PM
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That is also true, kind and slightly less attractive women if you want a gold standard relationship. I cannot argue honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:09 PM
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I thought i did
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:19 PM
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I think women often say this NO FEELINGS stuff, as it softens the blow by imagining you’re hooking up with someone who doesn’t feel. The TRUER and oddly more painful (to many women) truth is that they are NICE MODERATE FEELINGS. Sidegirl feelings, in a word. They exist, they just don’t prompt you to either reorganize your life around this chick or do whatever it takes to lock her down. It’s more like “Sarah is a rad girl with a nice body and she’s fire in bed. Great girl, hope she marries a nice…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 07:03 PM
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Of course lol, i edited and added too late
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:18 PM
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Thank you lol. I am being catty and joking that her dom is such a femme fiction creation he is either a knowing grifter or just dutifully shoehorning his sexual identity into a female created archetype that only lives in trashy novels for most women. Thus Likely he will only ever top from the bottom. Hence the arch and fake tolstoy quote. And also hence this being the second identical guy But thank you 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 04:09 PM
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What a simp (I think it was tolstoy who said dominant men are all alike, but every weird desperate male sub is different)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:59 PM
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You do you dude. Maybe you are a dick salesgod on a plateau a mortal like me cannot understand
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:14 PM
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If you walked into a store and a clerk said “oh hey you look poor are you sure you can afford to shop here” would you buy anything??? This is my point: women don’t come up to you and tell you you’re a gross short man randomly (i would know). You generally have to be tryna sell them dick!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 02:11 PM
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I’ve heard once someone literally asserting that getting drunk and fucking an ugly girl who came onto you hard was a form of sexual assault. People are getting OFF THE HOOK with this stuff. To be clear that is not rape. The issue is you have a LOT of women blurring the lines of what IS rape in a way that really gives cover for dumbasses like that unless you want an explicit double standard. After all, that dude up there MAY have felt violated, and who knows maybe his crush seeing him hooking up …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:40 PM
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That’s great. We all must wrap ourselves up in the Cloud of Unknowing somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:05 PM
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Yeah honestly i am getting to that period myself where i need to start thinking about what a more “middle period” of life looks like for me. ABSOLUTELY some things I considered necessary in my 20s seem silly now, and yet others i never considered are more important. I DO feel for men who never got to have what felt like a good Rumshpringa, genuinely. Just like I genuinely feel for women who had too much and then ended up short on their reproductive timelines. At some point we all gotta live in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 01:00 PM
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That’s perfectly fine; i am PRETTY SURE those girls still exist, but i haven’t looked bc I don’t give a fuck. Just don’t expect your girlfriend to have a threesome on molly with you and her bff from the hometown. I think again knowing SOME girls have threesomes with their boyfriends these days triggers guys into appreciating their “loyal and chaste” girlfriends less. Or maybe their girlfriend IS holy grail of relationship minded AND a sex freak for their man, but maybe she isn’t as hot as he’d l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:45 PM
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On paper my life has been degeneracy, heartache, and romantic tumult, but I considered them all “good” LTRs because that was roughly what i was after. The women I went through that with are still mostly friends with me (the one who isn’t i don’t blame). They were good women! A good woman leaves you honestly for the guy she met at a rave; she doesn’t try and tie down your effort and keep his passion. (That’s if you want your “good woman” to be a feral 19 year old EDM thot with a banging body and …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 12:09 PM
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Absolutely and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. That said the times i see this “stick” best the girl is usually kind of a cheerleader girlfriend type who is into his interests and ... basically makes it worth his while. Not saying he doesn’t as well but my point is she gets in his zone. I am a bi male who prefers thin women, so i absolutely note when i see couples where i am like “dude wtf”[and for this judgement to occur he also has to be decently successful not her couch dog] Crucially som…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 11:05 AM
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true, but I always thought of all this stuff at a subliminal level. Like OP seems to be talking about EXPLICIT references to their bodies. I’m not saying it can’t be done, but i am a mere mortal who will stick with their socioeconomic background for negging lol Also the issue with bodies especially is you need women to feel sexy. Many can feel sexy feeling like a dirty whore, but not an UGLY dirty whore
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:36 AM
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“This is without a doubt the third most beautiful vagina i have ever seen in person” . I always forget to neg until too late
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:15 AM
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I mean you CAN. It’s just not a good idea to criticize the bodies of the women you’re tryna fuck lol. That’s the thing ; when they’re ragging on you it’s usually Bc you’re there trying to fuck them. You standing there trashing her body and then asking to fuck it is a bad look.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 03:03 AM
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If I’ve learned anything tho it’s that women have just as psychotic parasocial relationships with like... influencers or brands or random shit. Male OR female. Women simp to other women (or have you seen that documentary about those poor straight (?) boys being funneled over as teen girl influencers by this sociopath gay dude. Recommended!!!) Like the fundamental problem with whore simping is honestly that it’s shamed on men who “should” be supporting the hearth. That’s literally it. Women resen…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:57 PM
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Lol but we ARE putting things in the water that reduce testosterone (and thus theoretically thirst) but it seems like the thirst comes from somewhere deeper. I’d sooner try to abolish eating, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 08:32 PM
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No i mean judgement is fine, but it seems like many men stay fixated judging something they claim not even to want. Only you know whether you’re letting go of those feelings and focusing on what you DO want. Didn’t mean to be patronizing. I meant i had no judment on your judgement sorry so unclear lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 05:03 PM
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Okay that IS hot lol. Yes that is my favorite position: either normal or reverse cowboi riding. Classic power bottom; I don’t like losing control but i DO like making use of the male g spot
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:58 PM
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Oh not at all. I have zero judgment on this. You’ll even see a comment i wrote below elsewhere: “i worry too many of the normies are TRYING to live like me and failing”. The only reason I’d suggest you tone down your vitriol is to have a more grounded soul. But please leave the whores to me yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:55 PM
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A common attitude but honestly i find bi tops redundant if they are really more heteroromantic. I APPRECIATE them don’t get me wrong. Like the only times i have topped men it has been a favor to them bc they were such studs otherwise . Bi male bottoms are the ones who have the true apex sexuality bc it is so complete. If it gets us judgments that’s okay lol. (Btw i don’t see myself as being dominated by these men; they are like... horses i ride (literally i am on top)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:49 PM
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Two things lol. First, Terrible secret is i like kids in small bursts. I just know what the entire thing involves for typical hetero marriage and how incompatible it is with my lifestyle. You truly underestimate how humanly indifferent an INTJ aesthete is lol. I know exactly what kind of FATHER i would be (my grandfather) and it pushed my own dad to try way too hard domestically.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:30 PM
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If everyone put drugs in the water that made women okay with male anal play with ZERO SHAMING (even the kind of pride it has in certain circles).... but then you shut the supply of those drugs off... the world many women woke back up into would cause them to off themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:17 PM
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Haha I’m 5’6” so unless she was trying for a daughter I’d ask her to reconsider once. (She is 4’11” the kid would be mini sized). But i don’t know honestly; she is well adjusted and would make a good mother i think, and I don’t think there would be major financial risks for me. But again I don’t expect to be chosen. I myself would choose a more “high beta” type person in her shoes honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:09 PM
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Why bother the trouble of collecting them all at once and keeping that drama together when you know you can always cycle through girls. It’s just simpler having a majn girl you focus on and lower tier sidegirls. I ACCIDENTALLY ended up with three plates once. (Not chaddy) Nothing on earth was as sweet as silence and a wank to myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 04:04 PM
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All completely relevant. My issue is it really seems the normies are increasingly trying to live like me and FAILING. I am basically just wondering (only wondering) if only people like me should live like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:36 PM
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Again i am speaking specifically of what i see in the younger folks. I am not saying it is a terrible impossible dystopia. YOU AND POPPY are the ones distorting reality imho. I am just saying this type of thing is more and more prevalent among young people. It is OK to acknowledge there are effects of it. It doesn’t invalidate the history of feminism or female autonomy or anything
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:27 PM
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The sex is irrelevant to her. She wants it to be someone she has known intimately and admires not some blank sociopath from a sperm bank who proactively thinks he should be a father
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:23 PM
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Last figures i saw for YOUNG people (ie the most relevant leading edge) showed nearly half relationships starting from OLD, then include social and it is genuinely ridiculous to discount the impact of this. I am unsure what the actual figures are but they are simply way too large to discount without looking like the “hear/see/speak no evil monkey” Also the dating apps have ALL tinderized in recent years (streamlining content and interface down to MAXIMIZE number of matches women see)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:19 PM
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The things women get out of sex aren’t all sexual, and there are more of them (certainly tangible things) than what men do. Men of course are overall MORE okay with pure sex. But that hardly means women get nothing sexual out of sex. Even since antiquity you have the story of Zeus and Hera using Tiresias to ask about male vs female pleasure. Tiresias made the classic mistake: he told how much fun the women were having For the subtley challenged: female sex pleasure may be rarer but it’s more int…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:44 PM
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Sorry i have food issues like most people have sex issues, especially with meat. A steak hits me like a meth and rentboy night for a mega church pastor: intense temptation and then feelings of nausea and death
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:24 PM
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All of the most sexually successful men I know (i am literally talking fashion photographers, etc people with HIGH amounts of sexual access) have always had girlfriends and relationships. Do they cheat or run sidegirls? Sure. Dominant men love having women close enough to them to shape to their ideal. Sidegirls are often not close or even SPECIAL enough for this. Casual sex is exactly that: casual. The manosphere idealization of it shows their inexperience
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:07 PM
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“They” will appreciate it for one nanosecond before they begin complaining about the lack of strident and confident male interest (from men they want). That’s “they” if your collective understanding of women is inane shitlib drivel like thot catalog or huffpo or whatever garbage the the manosphere recreationally mines. You should pay attention to the sexual norms of the women you want to fuck. Ignore the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 01:13 PM
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It actually surprises me you can’t see how obviously different this is, especially the more dominant it becomes as a first meeting format. I understand you’re trying to instigate better attitudes, but it seems like you are denying reality. The better attitude can only come from acknowledging reality
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:58 PM
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My favorite couple (as in they are friends of mine and they make me happy) does a really cute version of this song.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:50 PM
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I’ll leave OP (who hasn’t said anything lol) Is this a bit clearer? I live a well planned sexual life bc it is easy and practical for me to do so. But let’s say someone gave me the choice of having a TYPICAL american lifestyle OR dying of AIDS at 50 and living like a rockstar. Not ONLY will i take the rockstar life, but it doesn’t even strike me as morally or aesthetically more corrupt than typical american life. That is what i am telling him. Both are driven by mindless excess and end in squalo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:07 PM
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For me It’s 5, but that’s how i roll. Parry everything from the side of maximum enjoyment, because she’ll get bored of you eventually (hopefully) and you’ll regret not having made the most of your time. (I took fencing in college for gym, and i always thought those gay stances were for nothing but silly vestigial combat poses, but the instructor told me something i have remembered about life forever. You hold the foil way out to one side so that you never THINK about which direction you parry. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:43 AM
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If i had them I would tell people (i dont). But also i would accept it because sex has been important to me. And for the record i am a huge boy scout about safe sex (well, for my lifestyle) because i am not STUPID. What i am arguing against is his moral revulsion and it is easier to do that from an extreme position, not be a schoolmarm about condoms. I don’t need any advice on the practicalities of my lifestyle at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:27 AM
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Yes my point is i would happily take a lifetime of UNSAFE sex (and the risks entailed in this article) than worry about keeping my n count low while living anything like most americans do. The problem is not sex or even unsafe sex but rather a “stuff my face mindlessly” attitude. The risks of unsafe sex do not revolt me; i accept them. the risks of american late capitalism DO scare me; I don’t accept all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:19 AM
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I’m aware, but as a healthy eating degenerate who still fits into high school pants in his 30s I think i will take my chances. What terrifies and demoralizes me is the typical american lifestyle without the sex
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 11:11 AM
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The greatest sexual power these days for BOTH genders is the ability to change out your current commitment partner for one of your liking quickly. Men here are jealous of Chad, but my experience around a lot of pure casual sex is there’s just a lot of drunk sloppy ugliness. Once you’ve had your share of that, relationship liquidity seems more important. It’s worth noting that even if women still naturally hold the nominal advantage, this is a field that’s VASTLY more male friendly. Women have im…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:57 AM
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“I’d rather have herpes than diabetes” - Riley Reid This is like arguments against tattoos looking ugly when you’re old; if my busted ass tattoos are the WORST thing about my 75 year old body i am VERY happy, but also only for a few more years anyway. Also the study is GARBAGE from a scientific POV (yes sexually active ppl get HPV) and god those numbers are fucking low. I mean what’s the point once you’ve already fucked a bit? Put it all on red bb!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 10:38 AM
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Not currently and i say I’m against them but more totally indifferent, i just have a very realistic idea of what they entail (in your version not my friends) and I would not choose it lightly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:07 AM
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I grew up in a healthy environment. Look upon my works!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:03 AM
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I see a lot of redpill truths but to be honest no I don’t see that. I think male influence is like all forms of power: only as good as who is wielding it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:01 AM
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I can understand how you’d see it that way. But it wasn’t her attitude AT ALL. She was sorta... idk alternately scared and respectful toward men. She was grappling with how best to channel their.. vitality. Also here’s how it works: Redpill: this is platonic AFBB. She is a pretty and well groomed southern girl AND a crypto sex worker (as in secret). She KNOWS there will always be a man in her life. She wants to choose the best one at all times. The genetic material only needs to be best ONCE Blu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:54 AM
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I don’t know what pill this is anymore but i just remembered it: One of my ex girlfriends (we were already exes but crucially NOT fucking at the time) once told me that when she turns ... actually i forget the age, she is going to send a blast email out to a shortlist of the Men of Yore (and also several she has never slept with but knows and admires) and OF THE BEST OFFER, basically let them have it ceremonially if they wanted ... but then DEFINITELY somehow get pregnant. (She was informing me …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 02:24 AM
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Well i am literally an eagle scout but the tao gives birth to both good and evil 👹
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:51 AM
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Lololol it’s the truth. Probably happens staring out at new haven for four years
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 12:45 AM
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Oh absolutely true. I am saying this as someone who went to columbia / spent many years in the City. But yes to some ppl i am a dark triad narc and to others the stay puft marshmallow twink. It depends on your norms and also how you view the person. It’s just worth remembering that how others see things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 11:13 PM
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Have you considered that in his eyes every single one of these traits is possessed by successful NYC hedonists? Like you don’t recognize it bc it’s your whole friend group! Even the ones you think of as kinda sweet potatoes who need to buck up for women (bc of the women they are chasing lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 10:50 PM
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You just told me nearly everyone else on earth has a crappier attitude than my exes! (Did you misunderstand? My exes had the GOOD attitude). Why would i seek people with BAD ONES? My failures are because i have tried to keep a fucking supernova in the oven. I am well aware of that and welcome it gladly. That is WHY i cannot afford to date unreasonable people!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:36 PM
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Well, basically all the women I’ve stopped my life in any way for have had a similar attitude, especially once the dust settles. But i do value wisdom in women (it is very different from either intellect or education, neither of which i care about). And I’ve also had my heart stomped over and over again and while it has made me intensely cynical and sometimes quick to end things, it has not poisoned either how i saw the relationship or how much i give of myself (at the beginning) in new ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 08:13 PM
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Then you won’t look back on those men poorly if you have a good attitude; you won’t see it as “unlucky” that is just life. Someone else noted we may be miscommunication on “unlucky.” Possibly. Also the things you talk about aren’t SUPER conducive with a chaotic life. Like the women you described would strike me as way too sedate for me and too fixated on basic stuff. I realize you may have written this in response to men who cannot fathom n=3. All of those things should make a woman look back at…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:33 PM
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He can think that. I’ve met all my longest relationships but one on OLD
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 07:02 PM
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When did i say felons or any of this? The issue is ASSHOLES, specifically men the women THEMSELVES deem assholes; that’s literally it. If you are over 27 and have had more than a few relationships and you think of the majority of those men as ASSHOLES (not sorry losers, or rapists, or abusers... ASSHOLES). If the majority of men she dated SHE thinks of as jerks / bad people, it says a lot about her to me. And no i just used the word OP used. She used unlucky so i tried to deconstruct that assump…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:57 PM
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And to be sure, men THEY THEMSELVES deem assholes. Don’t accuse me of just projecting onto hot guys; I’m way too bi for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:40 PM
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One of the saddest things about this state of relationships (the bad part of commitment) is the “higher quality men” (unless they are literal saints) just dump your ass bc there’s so much better out there it’s almost impossible not to. The lower quality guys just stick around until you take them out back and end it. Which is funny bc the men women would actually invest / “work on things with” are usually gone by that point and the ones women REFUSE to invest in are... well, he’s right there on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:27 PM
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The issue is patterns and consistency. I will forgive an experienced young woman those experiences. But when i date age appropriately, this is one of the biggest things i look for. I am friends or on decent terms with nearly ALL my major exes. Not saying you have to be but if they are ALL ASSHOLES, something is off. Also half the things you are talking about as traumatic are pathetic as problems; dump your limp dick loser boyfriend. That’s not the kind of “unlucky” i am talking about. Also the u…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 06:14 PM
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So actually I don’t care about n count all except as a positive tell (this girl is open to a rich life) but lol i ABSOLUTELY judge women for being consistently unlucky in love. If you are CONSISTENTLY unlucky in love as a woman it is your fault. Full stop. If you’re attractive the whole world wants you and you CHOOSE garbage. If you’re not attractive and keep ramming against the wall of male indifference it shows stupidity and probably refusal to face reality. PS : tho to be honest i feel like n…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:42 PM
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There is absolutely a struggle in maintaining distance and distinction. (Someone mentioned Esther Perels Mating in Captivity yesterday an this is a good book for any man or woman with this issue). I think it’s especially good bc it’s very even and unless you are a total fringe trad essentialist or self blinding SJW type it will offer something of worth
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 05:16 PM
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Repeating your same argument and downvoting people won’t help you grow. The problem here is I’ve learned more from you than you have from me, even tho I still believe my original point is stronger. I believe that mental resilience is part of why OLD doesn’t bother me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:46 PM
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I am getting your point the more you say it, but again just consider there are entirely different men (me) who USED to consider themselves lower value who have found online dating INFLATED their value. It is simply my experience, but you do you. I absolutely grant there’s a superficial aspect to OLD that will benefit me more than you, but i truly think it has as much to do with subculture and psychology as face
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 04:28 PM
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Commitment with the right woman is feeling something so complete even a self indulgent narc like me registers it. Commitment with the wrong woman feels like being trapped in a small prison cell slowly filling with poison and sewage. Unfortunately the Right vs Wrong girl is sometimes the same girl at a different time.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:52 PM
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Too much. My mother was a really angry and disappointed 1970s proto FDs straight second waver. Yet she married a man with a family history of philandering (my grandfather had his second honeymoon at the Playboy Club), and whenever my dad was “working late” my mother would corral my sister and i together and give long “men are trash” rants while playing joan baez records i shit you not). I have always struggled with accidentally becoming my girlfriend’s gay best friend and then she forgets who i …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:43 PM
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What I’m tryna say (kindly) is that if you’re right for yourself it is partly bc you’re a boring lug. I’m vaguely cute facially, sure, but i routinely out fuck men who could instantly turn me into a blood smear, and it’s very hard for me to believe it is ONLY bc i look like you could cast me in mediocre twink porn, given straight women being what they are
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:32 PM
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Your insightful comment about the ... totality of male value compared to a face can be flipped on its “head” lol. There are men who offer far more than stodgy standard issue commodity masculinity. Some sort of ineffable... something an individual girl values. OLD can serve as an ideal “frame” for that value. I understand if you haven’t found the groove
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:24 PM
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I only need to match with one at a time. I am talking about the NET not the bucket. I’d rather cast a net around a thousand girls, have a barely measurable success rate, and end up with one really cool girl. The thousands i never spoke to are exactly as relevant as what i DIDNT eat for breakfast yesterday. Meanwhile your typical house party (even among the prissy image conscious ppl i hang with) has what... three girls maximum I’d even go on a date with? Your typical music show or art might have…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:04 PM
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Yep: the random distinctive stories are there not only to make you stand out but start convos. I also think the manosphere has convinced men to attack OLD with a fake alpha mindset and judge their worth by casual sex. Imho the OLD mindset is more “Schrodingers Beta.” While your girl or date delivers what is important to you, you ARE her ideal man. The nanosecond she doesn’t, you’re magically gone (not angry or petulant, ABSENT). Your relationship qualities are a key aspect of this, and if you ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:40 PM
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Better pictures! Definitely better pictures! Start there. Then honestly the phrasing of the profile REALLY does matter the less you look like Chris Hemsworth, and so does the first message. I always have several short “templates” that i can use to quickly customize my message to an individual girl. Any girl I give a fuck about absolutely gets such a “custom” first message. It’s not long but it always shows some evidence of having looked way more deeply than just her pics. Every message MUST incl…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:07 PM
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Smooth yourself over to your most meme friendly appeal for Tinder. You still need to be distinctive but you are advertising broadly to dopamine addicts with the attention spans of goldfish Put your best relationship minded full package self forward on Bumble. Downplay your terminal nerd qualities and play up your medium ones. OkCupid is for being most honest, imo (for both you and me even if we are targeting different girls)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:55 PM
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If it genuinely seems more “optimal” to haul your meat frame around yakking at individual women than just passively talking to thousands at a time (while STILL doing stuff like yakking at individual women at parties) i have no clue what to say. I think you are too scared of the rejection in OLD. I don’t even SEE it as rejection. And finally, one more time: with the right OLD mindset there IS no average man. It’s not my fault if you can’t find something distinctive about yourself beyond your heig…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:39 PM
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Again, the problem may be that you are not distinguishing yourself much as a “brand” and are competing as a masculine commodity. Perhaps that’s my weird advantage : when you are 5’6” it would never occur to you that you have the OPTION to compete as a commodity. Here’s a bone for you: if i truly were worth only the sexual lot of a median american male I’d just import thai hookers instead. I refuse to accept that, and i marshal every advantage at my disposal to make sure i never do. You’re right …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:30 PM
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I was extremely disappointed to learn i had 98% masculinity ratios bc i have always thought of myself as a twink but i was informed these were “gracile” features on top of masc ratios. I have glorious hair. But despite being a bit faggy I don’t grade myself on a 10 scale like a frat boy rating girls. The women i have cared about thought i was handsome. Some women think i look like i stepped out of bad yaoi. The most important thing i think i have is shutting off my ego when it benefits me, and b…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:10 PM
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No that’s what I’m saying, it’s actually way less true than you think. Here’s the best way i can phrase it: Yes, You have a better chance with some rando bar pussy IRL. But OLD gives you a chance to find the girls you actually IDEALIZE. The ones who are well matched for you. And if you do it right, you fuck a bunch as a side effect trying to find that girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:03 PM
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The problem is too many men assume they are only average bc of their collective traits when OLD is good for anyone with ANYTHING notable about them. If you are any kind of niche industry at ALL, you should be on OLD. I’m 5’6” and OLD is GREAT to me. All platforms. I get laid in tinder even if it’s terrible. I don’t actually use bumble much but if i wanted to pretend to be a nice marriage minded yuppie for pump and dumps I’d be there all day. People make fun of OKC but that’s where I’ve met the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:54 PM
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What men fail to realize is the sexual power women have is only the power to charm or not charm you with her pussy. She has to use it you you, ya dumb simps! EVERY WOMAN has X ability to hurt you and 10X ability to make you happy by looking pretty and spreading her legs. When you understand that difference, you realize women have absolutely no stick and only carrots. Women know that on Some level ESPECIALLY in relation to the men they actually desire (even if they try and pretend to have sticks)…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 12:25 PM
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The fundamental issue with so much heterosexuality is that too many “results” of female sexuality confirm the guy is a loser by male standards, but she still needs him to show up in a relationship. So for instance, The problem with dead bedrooms is it proves the guy is a loser because only a loser pisses away his life and productivity on a woman who isn’t fucking him, and that means the girl is dating a loser. How unsexy. The longer he stays the more a loser he confirms himself to be, and her ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 02:15 AM
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I think it’s uncharitable even to neoliberals to assume they are too dishonest to admit men love young pussy! Come on, we know the MARKET VALUE of pussy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 01:09 AM
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I’m aware this is a common complaint among women, but is that the whole truth ? The misdirection in this case is the individual woman’s receptivity to that passion. Simply put, every year there is more Pinterest and PTA in her head and less passion. That is HER natural drift. I think it’s obvious it takes greater and greater effort for less and less results, and a man who knows he can always find a new partner quickly loses incentive to put up with this. Again I’m not saying it’s RIGHT. I am jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 08:58 PM
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There has been a major difference between the attitudes of the career sex workers (girls who started stripping right out of high school) and the LARPing suburban girls for whom it’s half an aesthetic project and half avoiding a shitty part time spending money job. That’s obvs a continuum not a binary. The part of me who thinks about my exes is not pleased at all. The male part of me who has also enjoyed prostitution in Europe and elsewhere is... unfortunately less annoyed. It’s getting bad bc th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:48 PM
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The issue is it sometimes feels as if every time it dies down domestically, it reaches a lower ceiling state of potential intensity. So that it’s easier to lose ground but harder to gain ground the longer you stay in the relationship. Meanwhile I haven’t been single for more than a few months at a time since the Clinton Administration. Girlfriend hunting is FUN and if anything i often shut it down too early. When you are the type of man women heavily value for relationships, it’s paradoxically m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:44 PM
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Global Financial Crisis; it just could be that i was closer to the laffy daffy wall street rates girls i knew were getting in 2007 (at the time i would never have considered working in finance and was in design), but it genuinely feels like prostitution was more of a sellers market in that cycle
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:30 PM
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Very little i can argue with here. Just curious what do you think is a bigger barrier to women getting their goals, because despite this fair handed assessment, women SHOULD have the sexual advantage over men during the early run when MOST partnerships are being formed. Do you think it is MORE universal male ‘depravity’ (ie a lower appetite for commitment among TYPICAL men than manospherians suggest) or more female selectivity issues? Or will we never know on balance?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:19 PM
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You are just WRONG. The entire past year of this sub has been refugees from blasted manosphere subs literally coming in here and fantasizing about BEING Women and then mean mommy Atlas coming down and yelling at them. It’s like you don’t even KNOW us They are admitting it to themselves TOO MUCH
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 04:03 PM
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PPD MEN: write immense lyric odes to the innate superiority of fresh tight, luscious slim thicc young women ALSO PPD MEN: wHY mArRied cOupLe hab age gap
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:43 PM
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Listen i personally am really happy the SJWs have given us cover for myriad micro psychological issues. I myself suffer from extreme mental priapism and can only cope by always having a tinder and okc account even in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:36 PM
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Thank you for your service; if you fuck her well enough she might enjoy one of your misogynist tirades during the afterglow. Or hell maybe as foreplay
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:35 PM
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I’m sorry but that girl deserves a big stud bull guy to come over and show her bf how it’s done. I say that as a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:29 PM
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Well i work in private equity, firm well over a billion Aum, and i report only to the CEO. And my girlfriend’s hourly sugarbaby rate is still higher than my hourly income. So there’s that. And tbh i think this has been a buyer’s market compared to the pre GFC sugar scene (which my college gfs at the time were also involved in) There IS an element of what you’re talking about but we need to drastically reduce the hoe shaming and get way more normie girls hooking if you want a TRUE buyers market. …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:17 PM
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“Neo reactionary” is not a license to sweep someone off the overton window by fiat!!!! One of my best friends on earth is neo reactionary. Others are anarcho hippies living in the wilderness. Try this on for size : the REAL reason you’ll never see your feminist utopia is this weak bureaucratic impulse you have to censor things you can’t directly change. It will never work; it just grows rhizomes of thought under the surface. People who don’t shrink from scary views neutralize them faster, and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:39 PM
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Because I don’t judge that cohort by its craziest people any more than i judge feminism by the kooky fringes of the radfem crowd. And this truly just shows your selective hearing; the core tenet of classical TRP is absolutely none of that. It is actually just enjoying the transition process to the ACHIEVABLE version of the culture you want from the male view. NO MARRIAGE, full freedom for women. Classical trp is letting women drown themselves on freedom and ‘hypergamy’ and predicting it will lea…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:30 PM
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I’ve tried to help you see that you are nearly the same degree of gender extremist. You want a denatured huxlyean neoliberal hell in which masculinity is literally washed out. (You’ll never get it bc of NORMAL straight women btw). Your vision doesn’t make me angry btw. I LOVE IT AND WOULD VISIT IT if it existed. But it’s genuinely goofy of you to be so shrill a schoolmarm about the boys’ tree fort over there. Let them have the fort! Honestly i WANT many of them to stay there and not be at the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 01:16 PM
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It is seen as the norm because it is either what men here desire or despise. Generally a bit of both. The relative lack of talking about nice boring girls like you proves the male aspect of redpill, ie the parts of it that are driven by MALE nature. I myself LOVE the hyper urbane urban sluts these men complain about, but I’ve spent long enough here to become more ... receptive to the more reasonable concerns among them. Not the promiscuity, the idea that it’s a non sustainable system. (At some p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:59 PM
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To be honest I have absolutely no fucking clue. I say this bc i am perfectly capable of negating all ego for a good sensual experience. But I probably have a lot more self worth than I’d like to admit invested in main partners. Basically i am the opposite of a manospherian but still disgusting to certain women. Casual sex is exactly that to me: casual. I genuinely don’t care whether it’s a hookup or a whore. But what ego i have is tied up in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 12:35 PM
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Satire_VI#The_themes_of_the_poem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 09:37 PM
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Weird. One of my family friends In youth’s dad literally had a secret nazi memorabilia room with various flags and handguns etc. If one of THOSE guys ever makes the news it’s gonna be unreal
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 03:44 PM
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The fake cop car detail is... some stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:50 PM
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Roughly two kinds of dirty old men: the delusional ones who yes really have trouble adjusting to reality, and the others for whom a beautiful young woman’s interest in them as a weird story or funny experience (or yes grey prostitution) is just as pleasant as a different woman’s raw attraction (and sometimes a lot less trouble to deal with). It’s funny how much time some women here talk about all the ineffable parts of male attractiveness but as soon as you bring up age gaps, the girls who find …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 01:01 AM
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Hey your soulless libfem pseudo Collaborator here. I’m super supportive of sexual assault issues and have supported women who being them up. I do acknowledge it is rampant and sucks and happens in VARIOUS ways to both attractive and unattractive women. That said i HAVE known personally a woman I believe heavily benefited from her boss relationship on the backs of coworkers and then benefited from leveraging the impropriety of it further. And I think as long as the media around this issue is conf…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 04:13 PM
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My personal situation is that i can always conjure girlfriends, sidegirls, whatever very very easily. I am smart in productive ways but not a dweeb, creative in ways bright to women, and genuinely good in bed at giving orgasms—but also a 5’6” twink who flies off the rails of any individual woman’s primal hetero esteem after a certain point. Sometimes days, sometimes years. Or else bc I’ve never done anything but date beautiful young sexually open women i have an impossible benchmark for what a c…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:25 PM
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Except to me the female sex drive is lower frequency higher amplitude, and the male is higher frequency lower amplitude. In non nerd terms she needs you to bring it harder when she needs it, and you need her to throw you some decent fucks in the meantime. Those fucks are vEry important evidence of her care from the male view. Your strategy just makes me want to show my cards while you keep yours and take blue balls in the meantime. No thanks i am wayyyy too high “Rmv” (but surprisingly realistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 02:13 PM
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Accepting the platonic love of a former romantic partner who cannot see you primally is like being asked to drink a huge bucket of lukewarm piss and be told it will make you feel better. Meanwhile girlfriend hunting feels like sunshine comparably. “Maybe we’ll all know what to do on the next go round.” (I’m fine not knowing tho, but is she?)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:37 PM
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Honestly the marriage market would completely fall apart except for UMC beaver builder types who compensate via their soul lack or their hotel hookers/salsa dance instructors. Chaos and confusion and depravity everywhere. Maintenance sex is one of the most central and under acknowledged human practices on earth. Avoiding it won’t get your post-male utopia but rather the opposite. Women shouldn’t be PRESSURED into anything. But if they have half a brain they probably understand the value of maint…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 01:09 PM
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I absolutely HATE being in front of the camera. I did some chaturbate shows with an ex and honestly hated every second. The people were crude; i hated, hated following directions/requests, especially when they were cringe. But that’s just because i prefer either private sex or being BEHIND the camera. Many of the ramifications I’ve vaguely exposed myself to. When you search my legal name you see my ex girlfriend’s porn LLC (we are still bffs) so that’s out there. I have also exposed myself to si…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 03:16 PM
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If you REALLY did you’d fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:51 PM
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I’ve dated plenty such women but i would NOT let the camgirl of my house conduct biological reproduction work because some things are just beyond the pale
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 12:25 PM
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Oh not at all. Also this OPs special talent is taking the thought process of a basic whose pussy has always been treated like gold and TRANSLATING it into male language that can hurt. I don’t even think most women like her consciously think like this at all. But she hits a truthful pulse of a certain american girl and it’s a public fucking service
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/20 01:10 AM
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I was going to argue but then i read your username and i am now going full valerie solanas. I’m not even female i just hope they castrate and kill me last
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:57 PM
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Wow! U say U detest literalness but watch what they do! Srsly tho that is absolutely mind blowing that Anthony Hopkins did a porno i am totally gonna check it out. (That’s a much better assessment and clears up all the disparate things I’d picked up from memes. I literally ONLY watch the tv my gf at the time is watching and even then i come in and out bc I don’t have the same tv stamina but won’t hold things up. I’ll get around to it bc love everything about that synopsis)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 09:07 PM
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I thought the humasn in westworld pre existed the robots so wouldn’t dolores not be first? Sorry I haven’t seen west world it’s about sexdolls right? Are we still in the thread about sexdolls?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:47 PM
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I meant the first to acknowledge it of herself. IE i am the first to acknowledge i am an insufferable ponce at times. That said i was not LITERALLY the first to acknowledge it alas
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 08:43 PM
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This should be FREEING. the women society keeps telling you to pedestalize (and ESPECIALLY the ones most pedestalized) are assessing you like livestock/ATMs. OP is the first to question the esteem she is given by men and note how little it correlates to her inherent virtue. This is a GIFT.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:38 PM
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That’s a good word lol bc some ppl here VERY invested in what “low value males” doing with their time
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:21 PM
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I think one of the creepiest thing is the women drawn here are overall more “male brained” in various ways than your typical basic, and yet even that doesn’t bridge things for some of the men here. (Not in terms of AGREEING, but like... being able to have coherent communication). I think YOU, particularly posting this will cause men to push back, understandably (and don’t change, if all basic hoes could be this caustically honest the world would be much clearer). But overall i agree with the cor…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 07:14 PM
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I have to admit i am very confused by this whole story : people actually masturbate to hollywood stuff?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 04:17 PM
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No not at all their fault, definitely didn’t mean to imply that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:48 PM
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Necrophilia and pedophilia are both “meta fisherian runaway” cul de sacs of male sexuality that are incentivized in less grotesque forms. Necrophilia is a weak otaku fetish for male violence that is literally arousing to women. (The necro fetish is gross. The root it sprung from has wet PLENTY of panties. The pedophilia is gross. The hyper protective / hypercontrolling and domineering impulse it springs from is often arousing to women.) Basically you are looking at the rancid end tendrils male s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:32 PM
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No my claim was that women incentivize male aggression and low grade perversity. And that studying niche forms of male perversity (that as a semi professional pervert i have never encountered) is a sideshow. Here’s the most concise way: men WILL always be more perverted than women due to male variability. (We are in agreement) but female desire incentivizes male variability as a flipside. Are we in agreement there?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 08:07 PM
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Lol i clearly misunderstood HOW niche she is talking but i guess bc I’m just a perv pig not reading the same slash she is. Serious answer tho: the women who gravitate toward these kinds of issues and think they are a massive part of male sexuality are fundamentally off and cannot speak for normal hetero female sexuality. I am a bisexual filth pig who has organized orgies and seen all manner of depravity and have never encountered balloon otakus. Women who spend time really worrying about how man…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:59 PM
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I never said they spoke for all women, but males are massively overrepresented among Rapists so yessss male sexuality is vastly more important in studying rape than female sexuality this is only difficult if you are dishonest or dense. Literally look at american representative democracy. Likely voters are “sluts”: the system caters entirely to likely voters. (And this assumes everyone’s vote is worth the same which is obviously false in sex). Women who don’t fuck / women who aren’t hot are the s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:45 PM
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First part was a misunderstanding but fringe tumblr fetishes are... fringe but the source is male aggression. That was my point. But yes a minority of people can absolutely speak for the majority in so many things from business to politics to sex. Who votes/transacts is who matters
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 07:30 PM
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I’ve read Catullus and the Marquis de Sade and plenty other stuff suggesting to me that much of what women (like you) object to in male sexuality is innate or just VERY easily unlockable. Look at semi homosexuality in both greece and rome among the culture’s highest classes of men. The other thing is there really is another sizable class of women—i will admit they are a minority, who have STRONG arousal responses to many of the very same things you object to in male sexuality. You can keep telli…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 06:58 PM
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I’m especially not sympathetic to it bc the women given the biggest soapboxes are all the same entitled PMC mediocrities / wannabe CEOs who probably had Wing memberships before that imploded. Like oh no i am sorry our nepotistic corrupt lizard people are slightly sexist at the highest levels of economic grift When we start talking more about nurses / teachers (and then also disenfranchised grey and blue collar men) i will stop rolling my eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 03:52 PM
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There aren’t so much specific complaints as DEGREES of complaints that lose my interest. So for instance when cunty types (esp not hot ones) whine about the lack of hot 6 figure earners with husband / dad dispositions i have absolutely not one tiny shred of empathy for them. It wouldn’t make me HAPPY for such women to cry over pump and dumps but I’d still let a close friend of mine run tricks on such a girl without saying anything. But when women have more nuanced takes on how income inequality …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 02:55 PM
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I’m sorry it was not flaired as a question for women when posted
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 01:03 PM
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The girls who don’t have a little mercenary in them end up in tatters (especially for in-person work of any kind), and the less attractive women probably need to be a bit more mercenary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 09:10 PM
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And it’s routinely acknowledged how hard that hyper aggressive frame is to maintain even for men with male brains and hormones. Also consider the DOWNSIDES of the male brain. Like half the men here would go terribly viral for losing their shit and troll flaming a bunch of NEETs who would just laugh at her and record it. Being a mediocre camgirl can be like being on OLD and whiffing for hours on end and ppl watching you whiff. And making fun of you! And then you have to beg them for money! Scout’…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 07:36 PM
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Dated four camgirls here. All were cute AF and under size 2. Precisely ONE of them made bank (and yes actually makes bank). It is an over saturated and difficult market that flips heterosexuality on its head and rewards assertive women who dgaf. The idea that a chubby wallflower would do well is ridiculous. Mediocre hotness women who do well camming almost have the mentality of PUAs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 06:47 PM
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God this is fucking brills. You need to write this all down and put it in ur bra for when you’re re awoken with a vagina that prevents you from this kind of piercing vision
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:56 PM
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Lena Paul is an icon of porn financial savvy. (My ex in the biz started with an LLC but recently moved up to an S Corp. I’m still listed as agent of record to avoid doxxing. Makes a big diff if you religiously deduct like she does. https://mobile.twitter.com/lenaisapeach/status/995744684411670529
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:41 PM
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It vastly depends how psychologically assertive AND intelligent i am. If high on both i would work on myself like a good little libfem and keep men at arm’s length (or just as hookup studs) until i was both thinner and more financially stable. If i am neither psychologically assertive or intelligent i would still have low expectations for overall romantic bliss but try and make my peace with heterosexuality earlier—trying my best to find kind and not super toxic partners and hoping to hell their…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 05:08 PM
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Your role in dating younger women is either to be a fully formed man who does not have the insecurities of their peer group or an emotionally consistent counterpoint to the chaos of their young lives—ideally a bit of both. The point is SHE gets to be the one asking neurotic questions about life and YOU get to be the one who is either too egoistically set or experienced to bother her with that. Women today who seek older men either understand this dynamic or are too volatile/crazy to bother with.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 01:59 PM
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My gosh getting hung up on a little of my poetic phrasing here. Thank you tho: between my arch fuckery and your moral indignation (equally effective), we may have convinced a few men to stop being such cheapskates against their own happiness. What the girls i date get out of it besides money isn’t relevant to this particular discussion, but it exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:56 PM
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Men here think any kind of treating is beta weakness. Do you think they will understand the nuance of give and take? If i can illustrate the hardline narcissist position, someone with a warmer heart can find a middle ground. But yes I’m not sure what point you’re making; they’re generally early twenty something young trendy girls with more taste than money. If your point is that you’re harder to impress than hot young PYTs I’m not sure why that’s a point in your favor. If your point is you’re a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 12:21 AM
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Or maybe it means something from a guy you like beyond the literal monetary value. Sometimes gifts like that are important for gauging a girl’s appreciation of you: a girl who genuinely likes you will see it more the former. A girl who sees you as a commodity / ATM will see it as you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 11:40 PM
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Absolutely yes. I have also happily taken “trades” like i take you somewhere fancy and then you get us both street tacos or coffee and we treat it as equivalent. BECAUSE IT LITERALLY IS when you are chasing around the young broke cuties. Also if at that state you can’t use your money as some kind of basic incentive /control system you have no business with (longer term) heterosexuality. It’s when things get domestic that all of this gets harder. My personal (and libfem approved) position is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 08:56 PM
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I will admit first i thought this was a monument to autism, but your method is original. I LOLed. The trouble is the entire insight of this formula involves the time element of pussy, as your great comparison between terrifying Girl 1 (what would cause that) and comparably normal Girl 2. This means you need way too granular data for the insightful stuff to work. You CANNOT just multiply the end N figure; you literally need a time series of her fucks. Maybe in the black mirror future you hack the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/20 04:38 PM
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Because “path of least resistance” also involves the internal sex drive of the subject. IE fucking guys on the side = pure animal lust, zero relationship qualities. Why would this manifest as a GUY less hot than SHE is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:37 PM
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Relevant: http://dearcoquette.com/on-the-realities-of-an-open-relationship/ “If your boyfriend could regularly fuck other women on your level, you wouldn’t be his girlfriend. He’d be in a relationship with someone above your level, and he’d dip down and fuck women on your level to satisfy his open relationship sport-fucking needs. That’s one of the differences (and double standards) that exist between men and women in open relationships. Men tend to fuck below their partner’s level, and women te…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 08:09 PM
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Again: I am a man, and when i come up for attention i am dressed fabulously, charming, and know what i want. It goes well enough. The entire point is I control the flow of attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:17 PM
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Hence my last sentence, which acknowledged that possibility. For me it’s perfect: everyone is matter, and i am just ‘potential’ that materializes when i want something and drifts undisturbed any old other time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 05:06 PM
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When I heard Elon Musk unfollowed Grimes before she’d even delivered i was like “hell yes it’s my chance now boys!” Basically it depends on the single mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:33 PM
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Why do you think that? I’m a physically slight man. Unless i decide to explicitly seek attention that’s like prime time for fading into the woodwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 04:16 PM
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It’s both; but we are DEEPLY culturally aware that men are rampant horndogs ready to spread the seed wide and only somewhat discriminately. The issue is assuming that pickiness is “better, more judicious, more selective”... but of what? One early strength current TRP has abandoned is to remove this exact moral dimension on heterosexuality: men bad hornballs, women good selectors. If what women are selecting for is red clawed, sociopathic, or at the very least just a crass inverse of the male inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:58 PM
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I would be very jealous of the total anonymity and lack of concern men complain about if i were a woman. It’s one of my favorite things about being a man: taoist uselessness. It would strike me as freeing likely, especially if i was attractive and used to being a sexual focus first. This is of course assuming i am an attractive woman. And yes it makes absolute sense; i would quickly become annoyed with sexual advances and having to reorient people back to my internal subjectivity and away from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:23 PM
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Gayyyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/20 12:52 AM
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Oh that’s funny so all the men who hang out here complaining about having to chase women are sensible enough to have tried prostitutes and agree it’s the best compromise to that problem, is that what you’re saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/20 01:59 PM
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The benefits of retention are days at a time at most. Long term nofap is actually just a different route to self immolation of the male drive just like the terminal coomertude it seeks to avoid. If you don’t use it you lose it. But yes if you have no other way to avoid living in the modern sodom and Gomorrah than putting on horse blinders that’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 07:58 PM
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This myth that men value humility and decently (and do not instinctively respect many of the same physical tells women do) is hilarious to someone who works with finance frat boys. Men absolutely prefer a stoic masculine resolve to a tryhard attitude, but only at a similar level of overall status. That is all you’re saying. Also don’t confuse your male FRIENDSHIPS for male hierarchy at large. There is still absolutely a shit ton of more crude dick measuring occurring, and anyone who disagrees is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 04:18 PM
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Your title made me think this would be more insightful but i found so much wrong here. Chiefly You are sooooo so wrong about the things that drive respect between men it’s funny. They are many of the same things you listed here; those same factors drive the overall social status among men that is attractive to women. Men are not anymore insightful about that stuff than women are. In fact men even have their own “meta fisherian runaway” in the form of steroidal obsession and idolization of achiev…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 03:25 PM
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It highly depends on the kind of engineer but come on—engineers are not KNOWN for being charming. The reality is i know some who are incredibly charming but certain types of engineering are absolutely going to make for better bar chat than being in ppls fucking mouths all day. Notice how your friend isn’t ACTUALLY talking about engineering; he is taking it back to things relatable to them. But yes all you need to sometimes is fill the space with words and be charming in vibe The better question …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:03 PM
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I miss taking my old dog to greenbelts and one of the things i want about settling down more geographically is being able to have a dog. My only cats right now are stray porch cats i feed, have no business owning a dog
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:58 PM
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My friend got a cat who likes to play fetch! He is so inbred and doofy it’s one of the few complex tasks besides food begging he’s capable of, but playing fetch with a cat is actually very fun. (Probably easier in footprint than a big energetic dog)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:45 PM
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It’s weird: certain forms of sex are completely nothing to do with love, but sex is still so completely interwoven that it’s impossible for me to feel love or loved in the context of sexual rejection from a partner. In fact a woman’s love is literally aggravating or foul tasting if it does not come with her sex. A “get it off me” kind of thing. Basically there have been patterns in relationships of mine where women lose primal attraction to me and try to compensate with incredibly sweet gestures…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 01:14 PM
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From the male perspective, a beautiful young woman’s curiosity and aesthetic interest in you as a funny story or odd situation can feel just as intensely good as the “genuine interest” a woman in the “time to lock something real” state offers. Also keep in mind that single women from 27-35 are about as crazy as teenagers, at least romantically. Once you get over that hump again their relative maturity jumps beyond men’s as well but i swear that age is the danger zone. Basically a lot of those ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 12:48 PM
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I absolutely agree with a lot of this. The issue is I don’t particularly care at all about my male peers or how i am perceived by them. I know many men do. I just Never have, way too arrogant. So when I think about what has driven my “toxic masculinity” very little of it has to do with male status or hierarchy or intimacy. MOST of it honestly has to do with heterosexuality. The vast majority of the insensitivity, narcissism, and aggression i feel incentivized toward (as in i am rewarded for it) …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:34 PM
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This is a belated response but we don’t actually see hookups as “cock socks” that’s just how it makes you particularly FEEL. Here’s a funny libfem polyamory story: i spent over a year devoted to a main live in partner who was DONE with me, meanwhile had a rotating assortment of girls i had... idk i considered them really great connections. Just not anyone id reorganize my life around. Some of those girls ended up feeling bad about it, and just as many or more of them are still buds with me. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 10:03 PM
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I’m not saying it’s every zoomer or younger millennial woman but i swear it’s so much more common than you would imagine. I already mentioned it once today but harry styles and one of the other 1 D guys stopped being friends bc they couldn’t cleanse their brains of the gay slash fiction horny fangirls wrote about them. HAUNTING STUFF
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:27 PM
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Honestly I’m barely sure what qualifies as normal porn anymore lol but yes true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 06:03 PM
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I am glad the slash fiction appears to be slowly working on the youth lol! You are a minority but a deeply welcome one. For that degree of consistency I’d put up with my partner consuming terminal cringe in porn. And again I have zero issue with trad or even bi women who appreciate normal sexual dimorphism; it’s this specific issue that confuses me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:59 PM
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same!! Too much scruff and hair everywhere and male o faces are so bad. I understand many of these schoolgirls are reading stuff or looking at smoothed over magic anime boys, but my fwb literally watches men butt fuck each other and i had to pretend to be an innocent. Blows the mind
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:53 PM
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This is random but I’m a bisexual man who constantly hides my bisexuality around hookups (not girlfriends) because even bisexual women are grossed out by bi men, but so many of these same girls literally watch and read gay porn. One of my fwbs said she’d never do an MFM (even tho the idea is hot) bc any man even in the same room as another boner is too gay. But she watches gay porn. Even i NEVER watch gay porn. Is this you? I’m very curious! Nothing you say could offend my scorched earth heart, …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:46 PM
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Honestly i know within five seconds if she is attractive enough for an LTR for just a hookup. There is an absolute difference, and if you are consistently on the hookup end, it is partly the guys you are choosing. Some could be college guys playing the field with everyone, but i PROMISE you many of them will happily commit to someone else. It’s absolutely true that many girls cling their way from hookup to relationship but it’s not organic and the moment her effort stops his attraction will. It …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 05:24 PM
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I think the underlying assumption is most men aren’t attracted to anything in particular beyond a tight pussy on a good body. The issue is if you’ve never encountered chivalrous male romanticism (which can be annoying but let’s agree it’s a thing) that says at least as much about you as men. There is a fundamental lack of warmth and humanity in the vast majority of FDS posts that is every bit as reptilian as current TRP. I personally can find cold women attractive in sinister situations, but the…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:49 PM
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Idk if you are talking girls from your area or not, but DMing random women from their instagram does not work at all for average men. It is a pointless activity you should stop. If is girls from your area, you really need to stop coming on so strong. I think you should write them specific things about their interests instead of just “hello. I want to date you”,
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:40 PM
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Oh that’s funny I thought a literal state theocracy that controls sexual mores would issue girlfriends to shy boys. I guess the “convert to islam for pussy” strategy is suboptimal! (I’m sorry this is mostly a joke for american manospherians) What is your usual first message to these girls? Where do you find them? What kind of girls are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:27 PM
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According to one of the absent demiurges of this sub, rpw were often not encouraged to date RP men. I think the entire focus was to snag and APPRECIATE what they term a High Beta. Honestly i absolutely used to see the typical RPW as Angela from the Office and i still think that’s valid on some level, but maybe FDS has just acted as a magnet for all the truly deranged lost souls and it makes current rpw look well adjusted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:13 PM
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I can understand the notion but it seems to me more that rpw is actually attempting some kind of consciousness bridging and cooperation where the others aren’t. Sort of like our much maligned male feminists. I have found some of their archetypal classes of men illuminating and insightful, even if just rehashed jung. (I myself am going for The Magician in his Fullness lol but only bc my The Detached Manipulator game is already strong). Fds and current trp on the other hand both try to convince pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:52 PM
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Valid notionf, but The hot cold transition seems too extreme for that. I’ve experienced female infatuation in every serious relationship Ive started; it is almost suffocating. What surprises me is how rapidly that state of almost embarrassing obsession can give way to her looking at you like old leftovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:40 PM
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My zoomer girlfriend says i came of age in the perfect time to be inspired by the digital frontier but not fundamentally warped by it. I told her to get back in her cage and meow about it. My favorite online tidbit is knowing that horny fangirls ruined the friendship between two of the guys in One Direction bc they couldn’t get the slash fiction out of their heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:13 PM
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My opinion (from comments not OP) is that Redpill women is apparently oddly wholesome and sane compared to FDS, and this mirrors the similar descent into insanity from earlier incarnations of the manosphere to the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:04 PM
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It’s like asking for beer that makes you smarter and cures headaches but... I wish women retained even a fraction of the brightness they have when single in relationships. When women are in that mate seeking mode, they’re just so much prettier, more fascinating, and more fun. (Even if they are restless and unhappy internally at the time, one of life’s ironies) Domesticity kills it. I have tried egalitarianism, I have tried supporting kept women, etc. It just seems like women in relationships go …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:19 PM
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I’m honestly impressed by anyone whose insanity barometer is so sensitive to extreme cases. Mine is highly calibrated to a certain range, and PPD effortlessly redlines it even on decent days
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 01:02 PM
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Am bisexual but heteroromantic and in decades of sexual activity have never dated a man. So honestly i cannot answer this question. I do find men tiresome for many male specific reasons just as i do women. But they’ve always been more like coffee between perfumes than the main focus. A nice virile strapping male human is just a good sexual prop idk. Talk about objectification ; women really should appreciate the small scraps of romanticism i throw their way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:46 AM
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I’m not trying to sound compelling! I am fully owning up to my own fussy twink issues while ALSO noting the uphill climb of dealing with women’s primal sexual responses.I think fussy smol boi issues ARE behind a lot of stuff here too tho, and it’s okay to recognize that. Idk about TN girls but always associated North Carolina women with being hot, even if everyone is a little larger down south. Am originally from football country myself. But zero irony i would have no shame in getting a small fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:19 AM
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I have eyes and existed in the real world before we all turned into NEETs. You know plenty of homely and plain and even fat people are intelligent or socially positioned to be successful. One of the smartest women i know is an overworked fat woman who went to yale. You make it sound like my life should be caroline calloway meets wolf of wall street. I go to the fucking grocery store too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 07:02 PM
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There is way more female cognitive dissonance on the subject of primal attraction. Many ARE being honest about relationships. It’s just for many hetero women “relationships” = “a fun warm fuzzy state of affection and mutual support with some sex.” Whereas manospherian men see relationships as “the full sexual buffet of everything i have always wanted or else no point.” again, if you were to ask women how you can slay pussy and live a life of easy sexual validation with little effort, then you wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 05:50 PM
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Short man text wall: Is and isn’t. I’m 5’6” and have gotten AROUND; one one of my exes has 200k twitter followers chiefly for being hot (she is in that business). So i am tempted to say it’s fine. But... i am also facially handsome (high masc ratios and glorious hair), went to two Ivies, work in finance but look like I’m in a band, have really cool artistic side projects, and finally i am good at giving orgasms and have converted curiosity fucks into relationships ... basically i have spent my e…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 04:33 PM
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Could it be “the attractive masculine men normal hetero women give a fuck about and who show up in shitlib rich white lady rags like this are emotionally closed off with each other”. Because if you spend any time here at all it’s very clear many of the men here are founts of emotion who love circlejerks with each other, no girls allowed. Just food for thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:39 PM
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So first off most of the hyper miniaturist lookism stuff isn’t even redpill. That is men convincing themselves redpill is pointless! It’s literally the opposite community within the manosphere, so partly they arent confused: YOU ARE. But You’re right about the binary black-white thinking, and arguably when autistic / socially clueless guys find such materials it supercharges everything bad about how they see the world. Here’s the problem tho: those guys were hopeless in today’s world and relentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:19 PM
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I’m genuinely confused by the point this post is trying to make. It feels like it’s “redpill seems to accurately explain patterns in heterosexuality but fails to account for the underlying psychology and isn’t a perfect map of reality.” Just FYI: if it increases sexual success then it accounts for female psychology enough for its purposes. I am not personally part of TRP but I’ve been here long enough and read the sidebar materials (and not just gawked at the cringe community) to know this and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 02:10 PM
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Is she the same one who routinely chicken littles about how we are supporting FASCISM AND RACISM AND THE ALT RIGHT HERE, and it’s a huge problem! But btw the y chromosone is genetic trash to be consigned to the wastebin of history and nobody gonna miss it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 08:56 PM
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This is one of the better “let me rationalize things such that i look great here” shares. But if being high T makes you prefer Girl 1 please just hook me up to the soy Edit: that woman is fine... when she is in her 20s. The real reason to prefer girl 2 over girl 1 unless you are an absolute chubby chaser is those gravity defying thicc figures give up the fight way sooner and less charmingly than thin women’s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 04:17 PM
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Yes i do. I’m not saying there’s no trouble but americans misread europe. When french men put up with the bullshit about paternity testing it isn’t JUST bc they’re cucks. It’s also bc Everything is just less a big deal when attractive Polish and Ukrainian women just materialize naked for a few euros when you need it. Even if YOU don’t partake in hookers, their existence is the “risk free rate” of pussy, a benchmark if you will. In the same sense feminism allowed women to pursue their imperatives…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 05:34 PM
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I’ve fucked a vast variety of women and I personally think there’s sex with someone you love and EVERYTHING else. I’m not needy enough to seek validation in sex; pussy is sufficient, and escort skills frequently embarrass those of civilian women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:22 PM
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Because perversely there’s a whole nother set of romantic and family drives men “simp” for beyond pussy. Americans are just more pussy blinded and obsessed with the mechanical aspects. If they were more liberated I believe it would just play at the family level, but the NEETs would be less annoying. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 04:11 PM
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You should get too deep into a relationship based purely on sex inspired by this time of panic and then get bored of it when the disaster subsides.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:26 PM
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Yes it does. Huge difference much fun. It doesn’t change much for ppl who think sex is their problem when it’s actually something else
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:22 PM
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Woah didn’t even know about that one. I enjoyed Devil in the White City.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 03:09 PM
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Getting knifed is generally more traumatic than getting punched! So clearly punching people is no big deal. If you are going to pathologize neurotic hookup regret sex and treat it along the same plane as actual rape, then you are going to leave the door open for neckbeard trolls who don’t take this seriously plus random fuckheads who actually believe forcible female rape is a major issue. There is simply no way to avoid this without encouraging greater personal accountability AND nuance into thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 08:15 PM
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Full disclosure these are stilt boots and I’m only 5’6 but i can keep them on later if it helps
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 07:02 PM
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USED to? I just added fuzzy rave boots to my psychedelic monkey fur top hat. FLAIR UP BITCHES
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 06:38 PM
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Your username says you waltz. Heterosexuality is most frequently a dance where the man leads and the woman does the rest backwards and in heels, as per some old quote. What good is a dance leader who can’t lead? Yes you are right: i know what you’re talking about on some level, but you err in assuming it would be BETTER with communication. On some level her body does not want someone she has to tell “three steps back and a side step and ...”. She wants someone who leads the dance, sexually at th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 02:09 PM
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It’s a long read but have fun: https://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2013/03/dont_hate_her_because_shes_suc.html
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 08:46 PM
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Sure you can: just break up with her, works like a charm.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 07:07 PM
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Aside from the fact that most americans are fat and thus unattractive, you assume “attractiveness” has a set of behaviors that naturally go along with it. What if women are “attracted” to average men in a nice warm “you’re useful and decent and make me happy” way but attracted to other men in a “fuck i am AROUSED” way. Both men are attractive! Or what if men TODAY just expect a much higher degree of passionate obsession than standard heterosexuality has ever provided them? What if women ARE attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/20 02:32 PM
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Listen all the social panic and death is arousing to female sexuality. You just don’t understand what it’s like, so stop trying to apply your piddly “always on” horniness to this situation
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/20 02:28 PM
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Sorry but u had me until “owo”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 11:40 PM
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I think less Covid itself and more the pendulum swing of recession and defensive thinking it catalyzes. You’ll see the same thing on the male side as the Bilzerians et al of the world seem less realistically aspirational and more like cartoon characters out of trend. Basically don’t confuse “risk off” thinking for a genuine wave of gender traditionalism even if they end up correlating for a bit. As someone else noted, what happened after WWI and the Spanish Flu? The Jazz Age.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/20 02:31 PM
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Wow that was sort of a smoking pile of rubble. But hey that essay is never gonna get a bunch of dudes pumped for a sales kickoff
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 04:26 PM
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I thought the answer was blowin in the wind?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/20 03:24 PM
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I just Kitten sat my girlfriend’s younger sister’s cat! It came from some petri dish dormitory. I thought the fur demons were safe. Oh god I’m going to die now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 12:49 PM
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Ha! Without a Palomino Blackwing? No chance
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:37 PM
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Other ppl hoarding necessities here i am stocked with new guitar pedals. This is the way to ride out a fauxpocalypse
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:34 PM
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You have to be REALLY gay. I’m heteroromantically bisexual: men are just amusing beasts of the field to ride around on for a while and put back in their stables. But heterosexuality is where all the real counterpoint and substance is for me. But where there is more love there is also more hate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/20 10:20 PM
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I actually really like what happened with the last nuclear cultural reset we imposed on japan, and I’m not really sure i wanna roll the dice on another. What if they RE militarized but kept the whole kawaii thing and we all get killed by cyborg catgirls
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:59 PM
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You’re just proving that men care about appearance more consciously, not that they are less shallow. How is liking someone for being successful or popular more shallow than just appearance? Also: plenty of women will tell you they wear makeup for each other. Yeah male attention is part of the currency they are competing with each other on, but it’s as much about stunting on each other with details most straight men don’t even notice or like. And women DO watch porn but they have less spontaneous…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 03:48 PM
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Not at all! I’m an Eagle Scout (truly) and it’s at best a funny aside when I’m trying to be a charming non monogamous bisexual fuckboy. Like these girls don’t care at ALL that i once renovated an old church when I’m trying to get it in.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 07:05 PM
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It’s one thing to do pepe silva math with invisible and unquantifiable ‘gina tingles but you could have just looked up who gets married and to whom. It’s not that bleak at all if you value marriage. (I don’t, just fyi)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 05:34 PM
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sometimes life is like that. I may be an artfag but I’m from texas, and I’ve had horses, own guns, and my family has rural land with barns full of (more advanced) guns all over the place. Also please consider supporting our president in these trying times. He is building a coalition that includes both effete artfags and red blooded union member factory workers who don’t want their AR 14s taken away.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 02:36 PM
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Narnia is the more advanced one i think, bc rus employs too many cheap tricks. Ages ago i was testing a bunch of early chat bots and the most convincing mini turings were just smarmy trolls who made bad jokes whenever they lost the thread of the convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 02:11 PM
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Actually as even some Uber TRP folks have noted, you are describing what ppl here call a High Beta. If you’re skeptical, Think about it this way: are people overall selfish or unselfish? The fact that ppl are selfish means those who add value to the lives of others are remembered especially fondly. Most “studies” show that trusting and open hearted ppl are happier in most measurable ways. Both being happy and having deep friendships generally requires an open and generous heart. And any funeral …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 07:50 PM
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Yeah totally overall i agree with you. I just think it’s another example of men limiting themselves BC it isn’t quite as binary as you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 09:02 PM
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I don’t dispute the general trend, but there’s been more than enough noise in it for me. The ex i was hung up on by FAR came from literal white trash, like a dying town in the middle of fracking nowhere PA. The internet gives the “exceptions” the ability to start crafting a self outside their surroundings. Like when i was in college i dated those women but when i look for girlfriends now the LAST thing i am doing is sniffing around that circle for whoever isn’t married. I will trawl “low rent su…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:54 PM
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Yes see i am saying THOSE girls are often out of my league if i am into them physically. (And physically i am a twink so not i vastly prefer very delicately framed ppl just for them to feel feminine). But i am not so desperate to stay in my class lane that i will go for some meh managerial class girl like so many of my peers do. I would VASTLY prefer to date a less posh girl who is culturally savvy enough but not from my same class level. Also do not under estimate my artfag abilities of enablin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:23 PM
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Just never really been the “kind” of girl i am drawn to. Fwiw i went to columbia and an equally fancy grad program, grew up in that environment. Those hoes basic, man! So much money to look so boring. I am open to the possibility that i go for lower poshness art hoes bc i can pull much more attractive girls of that archetype than i can UMC women, but at this point if you give me twins styled A/B, i am always going for the one who looks like she DOES NOT already have a Pinterest of kitchen renova…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 08:09 PM
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I agree with you. But i hate to call the markers of UMC grooming “aesthetics” even if it’s literally descriptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 07:57 PM
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Pretty clearly said i disagreed with the post, so I’m not gonna engage that point. I felt drawn to ask bc of the entire dismissal and scripted shitlib moral posturing, not individual points of disagreement. I’m just letting you know i think ppl with your attitude are much more effective manosphere recruiters than most manospherians. It makes the “other” side look so lame and humorless
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:59 PM
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Depends on the mental issues. Yours? Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:52 PM
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It’s because a brief glance at your profile shows someone with harrowing mental issues
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 09:46 PM
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Is your canned YIKES actually genuine? Like do you actually have a strong emotional reaction to those words? It’s just foreign to me. That post missed a few marks and is standard TRP but the idea that it’s uniquely evil or crazy seems silly. Women CAN be quite manipulative and use their sex as leverage; do you disagree? Basically it’s exactly these kinds theatrical reactions that have made me MORE sympathetic to TRP bc it seems so obvious the reactions are more about in group moral posturing tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 07:46 PM
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Finding friends as a bisexual man is INCREDIBLY easy. Just tell the women you’re casually fucking that you’re bisexual. Bam! New friends!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/20 05:29 PM
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Very insightful and great choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:55 PM
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I’ve never asked on the first date. The closest i ever did was walk to the bar and close the check before ordering more bc she was paying attention to her phone the whole time. Only time I’ve ever felt like only one of us considered it an actual date. I don’t consider first date check behavior to be all that reliable a gauge of how she feels about me. Mostly i just take girls to fancy cocktails as a first date bc i find it cuts off long phone convos and gets them tipsy enough for lowered inhibit…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 08:51 PM
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It’s more that i think he discusses how indirect communication works in ways normie folks aren’t self referential enough to ponder. Maybe he’s a hybrid type with one foot in both brains
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:37 PM
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It’s a huge disadvantage, especially for men. Just like being very short or having a disability. That said i think a lot of men here make it even worse for themselves by invalidating the existence of everything THEY don’t understand. This is why autistic ppl can be very annoying: blind ppl don’t generally try to explain colors to those who can see. And yes occasionally non neurotypicals have insightful things to say about humanity from the outside (ie slate star codex), but it’s much rarer than …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 07:21 PM
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The scent of fear/hate/inhibition
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 06:43 PM
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Sorry but if it’s recognizable human culture to an american, then it isn’t REALLY Eurovision
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/20 02:14 PM
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If i could find a bear in this suburban wasteland maybe! Probably have to make do with an old Blockbuster tape return bin or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 08:28 PM
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Collecting bad McMansions like status symbols. Imma grab one for my collection of shelter pitbulls i can’t keep in this dense ass urban nimby zone bc of all the barking and smell. Out in the exurbs as long as you keep the yard in order you’re fine. I’m gonna be running a pitbull and meth emporium out of some Frankenstein Toll Brothers shit in a cul de sac.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/20 05:26 PM
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Where this fails is the artificial “you need to keep playing” assumption. In lab experiments you generally do need to keep playing so they can validate results of different approaches fully. In real life, when ppl mess with me I’m a vapor trail of fancy cologne out the door and she comes back on her knees or not at all. You can’t have four out of seven good days if you only get three days.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 09:22 PM
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This conclusion is why i think this kind of reasoning is both valid and also reductive garbage. Non cooperation can look like a million different things: is it abuse or just not bending over backward for someone else? Again, relationships aren’t binary (cooperate or not) and doled out in little bits but are fluid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:54 PM
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It’s like saying that cities or cultures are just collections of infrastructure or bodies collections of cells. It’s gross and reductive not just of the sacred ineffable (which I don’t take much stock in) but it produces a repulsive false sense of knowledge or scientism. The trouble is, those types of constructs or memes aren’t just bad models; they influence reality. Rejection is arguably more cooperative than keeping a bad relationship on life support, or maybe less. But the very fact that ppl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:44 PM
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I mean, within the construct of game theory, cooperation occurs in single instances. If she is cooperating, i am cooperating. The issue is relationships ARENT divided into single instance transactions. So to me it’s sort of a look back. It’s like: I’m never going to get butthurt about getting refused once for sex, but a few times in a row? Basically deciding when someone is or isn’t “cooperating” is part of the issue. Also, this conversation is neoliberal hell but fwiw probably a good way of ass…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:32 PM
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Yes but you get better mileage turning into a multi step (vs single iteration) prisoner’s dilemma via cooperation at the beginning. If anything i think the emerging dominant strategy is to value-bomb ppl at the beginning so they invest in you, THEN get stingy once they also start pulling back. The trouble is FDS and current-TRP is both shoot themselves in the foot over the long haul with their miserly initial behavior. Those who can afford to make initial investments and inspire reciprocation wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 08:24 PM
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His sign said he was meme’d as StBack2school, not blackops. Seems he was memed BECAUSE he was handsome but uber short.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/20 12:50 AM
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Because when everything is skewed heavy, it disproportionately affects men, since many women LIKE men on the solid side. Imagine instead if we gave everyone drugs that made people tiny and thin. It would be a wonderland for men, and women would be all “man this SUCKS, these guys are all twigs.” This is the reality for “typical” men: most everyone is packing more weight than they should be, but for an average guy, his prospects are just much less feminine. It isn’t QUITE as true for more typical …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 09:42 PM
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Many can be closer to the prestige level of a really respected face control door guy, versus a mere bouncer.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 09:25 PM
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I think this could fly in parts of queerland or like super goofy poly / slut land. But i think with most normie women whatever you’d gain by having this ritual would be lost by how unromantic it would seem. Again maybe for some player stud who just LOOKS like a walking case of the clap it will help him seal the deal at 3 am, but i highly doubt it would help charmless guys much at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 09:23 PM
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Ah hell yeah. As a bi male, these horny homoerotic posts are my fave. Brb getting my ornamental fan to read this one. These girls lie though; you really have to ask in detail. Could she get her hand around it? Was it a heavy or light one? (This has been a PPD discussion before). The world must know!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:51 PM
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Yeah totally I know i guess I’m saying he probably didn’t remember much of that bc he’s busy and was just on autopilot. Again, YOU aren’t the Karen, but from his lens, everyone could be the Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:44 PM
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It’s also that ppl are bitchass Karens who flip shit over weird men in their yard arriving early. And if you’re a prole doin shit, it’s sometimes optimal to just make sure you don’t ruffle the yuppies at all costs. Yours was probably just one in a string of houses with dogs and angry ppl who complain about nothing etc. Just something to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 07:32 PM
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Woah! Thanks for telling me. Is it also 2017?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:16 PM
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Absolutely, give it its own bucket. I’ve absolutely known that guy. That’s all I mean though: it deserves contemplation on its own, not to be thrown into the uniform beta blackhole
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 05:16 PM
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Do you think this should maybe recontextualize the value of money and success for men who AREN’T psychologically subordinate to their partners? Basically. Do you think it’s useful to put these “subordinate bfs” into the same reductive beta bucket alongside men who simply aren’t ONS-only fuckboys? So much of the current manosphere involves discouraging men from basic forms of courtship because apparently spending money ever in a woman’s eyesight = BETA. I think this is a deeply stupid attitude th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/20 04:55 PM
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“US,” americans. Orwell seems more insightful in other countries
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 02:53 PM
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Yes, sex comes before love. Fucking her doesn’t distract you from her personality (like you said); it distills her personality in the ways important to a partner. I could lust after or obsess over someone I wasn’t fucking (tho i choose not to), but i could not choose to LOVE someone I wasn’t fucking. They may not be the same but are completely intertwined; if i twist them apart, the love that is left is NOT romantic love. It is something much much smaller and less special.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:56 PM
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Glad i caught this after the link above. That’s such an interesting read on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/20 01:09 AM
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All dystopian horror that focuses more on overt authoritarianism than somatic brainwashing feels cheap and masturbatory drama in america. Huxley was right about us not, not Orwell. This is also why such saccharine garbage like the hbo series plays well with the pussy hat crowd. All theatrical indignation, no uncomfortable identification. Good call on wardrobe tho: imagine all that trouble to build a patriarchy for such terrible aesthetics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 11:12 PM
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Sheesh, the problem is they don’t leave quickly ENOUGH once they’re done fucking you. In my youth i found it so perplexing that girls who had stopped loving (ie fucking) me still considered us dating. I genuinely figured they’d just leave next. Why wouldn’t they? And how would you have it otherwise?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:56 PM
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I think it’s a good analog for a certain slice of reality. But not all of it. Try to spatialize each one and think how you’d behave in its real world analog. Not only WHO you find there but how those ppl behave are influenced by the space. Tinder is a crowded meat market club, one of those big obnoxious ones with a “VIP section” that’s just part of the floor they roped off for the bottle service tools. Bumble is a yuppie networking happy hour where everyone is smiling and talking about their ped…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:37 PM
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Think about it this way: OP already lives in the world where confident girls who know what they want approach men. He is not getting approached. He wants to know why we can’t have nice things and it seems INSANE to him why women behave as they do. I think My answers explain this far better than your eager hand raising about what a great exception you are, and also I specifically said it wasn’t purely physical. I’m not saying my answers are universal; i think they describe typical human condition…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 02:28 PM
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Goals and life too different for the exercise you have in mind. I think you should get good at a musical instrument and find a place to showcase that. I say that bc you suck at ppl, and honestly that’s a terrible quality for dealing with women. You talked about strength stats but why would that ever matter for a small man? The physical things that matter about me are that I’m a good dancer, and I have also been good about connecting over things women are into : i like art and music (but not in a…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 04:15 AM
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I don’t see them as rules, more like patterns. Some patterns are weaker than others, even if they’re the chief visible order in a system. Also If you don’t fit into the positive space of a pattern you can use the negative (to blend meanings).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/20 12:37 AM
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I’m 5’6” and 118 lbs, and i grew up in texas football god country, but I’ve been overcompensating for that fact since losing my virginity at 13. I’m fairly handsome despite that, and I’ve put a lot of work into grooming and styling, but i promise you i was not born a fucking chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:27 PM
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Yes. And yes that girl is right to assume so. If the man at the bar was available and interested he’d have taken the opportunity. When i walk into a room I instantly catalog the fuckable and more than fuckable girls, not even a conscious activity. If i was that guy and actually interested in her i would have been watching for that hair twirl and eye contact bc she’d have popped up on my fuckboy radar as “hot girl from earlier now at bar.” If he wasn’t interested enough to risk embarrassment, he …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 11:11 PM
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And those women would be stupid to double down on it bc the guys aren’t into them that much. Again, most women do not WANT to be someone’s whiskey dick cum repository just bc they were there at closing time. They want men who feel things about them and pursue them and fuck them passionately. Those girls were throwing out sloppy come ons and the guys were dignified to let it slide bc they probably know how the next morning fallout would be.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:25 PM
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Women only courting men they find attractive is a great way for male wallflowers to never get a glance at a real life vagina ever again. You could argue it’s also backwards and stupid for so many other reasons that even a liberal gender egalitarian bi artfag could realize, but i promise you: encouraging women to chase men more is not going to help shy men. It will help already magnetic men get even more pussy. This isn’t even about lookism as much as psychology but unless you are a GORGEOUS broo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:18 PM
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Ask any hooker or stripper who spends as much time listening to married men gripe about their lives than getting them off and you’ll realize men aren’t nearly that simple. Men’s complexity is buried by their insistence on their primal simplicity to satisfy the cultural male role. Similarly, female simplicity is buried by the feminine mystique and sublimation. It’s on balance fine, because most women don’t have the guts to follow through on the trails their fantasies would carry them down (nor wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 05:05 PM
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I’m sorry but even as a guy this OP is so stuck within its own hamstering lens of view it’s ridiculous. MOST women don’t even want the low commitment type of connections you’re talking about, and when they Accept it, they accept it to be with men who don’t need an instruction manual or handicap to get into their pussy. So basically you are saying “it’s too hard for me to get non committal sex you don’t want from me, so can you make it easier on me?” If you want women to make it easy for you, you…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:54 PM
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That’s unfortunately how it often goes w places that don’t Need to be good. If you end up in austin i think the best place to avoid waiting in line is Leroy and Lewis if you want trendy stuff, but stile switch is my favorite non pretentious place
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:16 PM
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Yeah I think memphis style handles pork ribs better, but obvs i have home state bias for the rest
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:11 PM
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Only because texas is its own category as always.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:05 PM
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This is a sneaky motte bailey i only agree with half of. I agree status (either attractiveness or pedigree) trumps pussy for more committed arrangements, especially in higher dad type men. But you’re also saying there’s an active revulsion men have for women who are sexually forward. That’s a higher claim. Then also you’re conflating effort and degradation. I can agree many dad type, normal straight men have a small madonna whore complex with dirty stuff, but it’s an entirely different claim tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 05:34 PM
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Yesterday i had the house to myself and some guitar pedals came in. That’s basically all i did.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:57 AM
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Or... that I don’t speak whatever ancient chinese dialect it was written in?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:33 AM
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This exchange did make my mind weaker lol. And clearly you’ve never had an insanely intense prostate assisted orgasm, bc it’s very aptly named the male g spot. The fact that SOME men like this and others don’t should suggest that your ideas are reductive beyond usefulness. And the way thoughts weaken the mind should be apparent every second on reddit or ppd that you see computatively gifted people chattering away in grey autistic babble that doesn’t match life or that cartoonishly distorts it bc…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:19 AM
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The quote has nothing to do with literal organs and it’s amazing to me this is how you took it. It’s about life experience. Anyway frigid women who hate sex also have way more nerve endings in their clit than men do. Also men have more nerve endings in their prostate than they know what to do with so i guess that means your fifth grade conception of science means they’re all deep down anal freak bottoms
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:52 PM
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Okay so this formative human work didn’t resonate with your eight pack crayon materialism
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:40 PM
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I feel like the nature of things is the constant Olde Faithful of the male drive results in a lower ceiling of pleasure, whereas the more finnicky female sex drive has greater potential. Basically just that old taoist axiom: Colors blind the eye Sounds deafen the ear. Flavors numb the taste. Thoughts weaken the mind. Desires wither the heart.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:20 PM
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Every single period of unemployment i have, later i look back when i get hired and kick myself for being so down and worried and not enjoying myself more.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:12 PM
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Now I don’t avoid women, mandrake, but i do deny them my essence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:44 PM
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Generally it’s so my partner can echolocate her way back to me through the writhing mass of arms in the orgy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 08:42 PM
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I think for me it’s an especially hard landing bc of how not physically masculine i am and how good i am at compensating for it at first. I don’t blame them when the illusion shatters, but I’m also not gonna work at putting the pieces together with her either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:35 PM
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I’ve personally experienced it as the guy! And actually that’s what drew me to the whole pill discussion. I’ve never had issues getting girlfriends. It’s keeping them after a few years. It’s crazy how rapidly a woman’s attitude can go from “omg this bitch is a hot wet blanket of obsession” to “wow she just looked at me like something that’s been in her fridge a week too long.” Sometimes it feels like my asshole behavior caused it, but I’d say the larger majority is me probably getting complacent…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:09 PM
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Lolololol yep! Probably after showing up at your house thinking it was somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:30 PM
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It’s a cheap web store that specializes in a certain... robust hoe look. They started taking leger style bodycon dresses and making sluttier cheaper versions and now carry all manner of strange clothes that exist in this wonderful haze where athleisure meets clubwear with random view holes poked everywhere. It’s... effective clothing for its purpose. For instance someone i know in porn buys many of her disposable set outfits from it, except she often considers it a bit too tacky even for a porn …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:25 PM
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So fucking accurate but some girls gonna matador
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 05:01 PM
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Why if i just don’t really care about having children? Like at best i would go into it as a sacrifice for a partner. No sense making it harder than it needs to be
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:59 PM
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I wonder who will cop to doing this in a positive sense. I imagine it has more to do with screening. Ie i do not want children but I would not have a son with the thin petite women i like bc i am a short twink myself. Being a short guy can work if EVERYTHING else about you is good but I wouldn’t impose that on someone who wasn’t myself. That said one of my exes was 5’10 and she’s the only person I would even consider having a son with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:45 PM
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The relationship zone absolutely exists, even for men with options. It depends on the man (and of course a three month “relationship” can feel significant to young ppl). This is clumsy like saying women are ALL demisexual (or “chadsexual”) or just rigidly AFBB just bc women tend to be more responsive. It’s a cartoonish overgeneralization. Also I literally work with nothing but ex frat boys and many are such straightforward simps (including under 25 analysts), in part bc they haven’t had to reach…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:11 PM
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Jackie Treehorn treats objects like women, man. Also I hate the fucking Eagles.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:54 PM
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YES and I can’t even fully vocalize what hit me about it. I promise it was more than being triggered by the bear suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:44 PM
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Truth: gotta live for the fight not the choir preaching. Even if you spend half the time fence sitting and flogging both sides
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:24 PM
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I don’t know why middle class shut-ins do that either. I think it makes them feel better about themselves. Sort of how women who will never interact with NEET incels IRL have a morbid fascination with tapping the glass on their misery instead of focusing on the fuckboys who aren’t calling back their sour faced ass bc they know there aren’t enough men with decent college degrees for every woman who won’t consider men without them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:20 PM
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Because it’s a weird frankenstein of a worldview you create that’s composed of “my successful close circles of people i like and admire” and “unhappy fringe shut ins who post tinder screencaps to each other.” There’s an entire missing middle you’d discover not just by being less cool than you but ... having a dating profile. But yea overall i agree there’s not necessarily a huge difference between the ppl who end up in a “good” state vs bad. . . At the beginning. My point is shitlib pink hat mes…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:55 PM
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The issue isn’t whether or not the majority of women or specifically your successful happy friends follow this trend. It’s IF a woman is unhappy, how is she likely to be unhappy? I believe my description fits the typical unhappy middle class and above woman way better than your strawman ghetto girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:40 PM
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I think that’s an easy strawman, although we have plenty of actual strawmen here on ppd. IRL, I there are MANY independent middle class women who have always been able to keep men on an entirely “at will” basis until they finally stare down the prospect of their biological clock/goals. The transition from want (boyfriends) to need (husbands for family) can be ugly. I know plenty of women who get really gross and indignant about their options, and unlike cringe incels, there are plenty of people …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:19 PM
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You sound like a more systematic person who has specific goals and benchmarks. Before you told me you were a girl i pictured you as the frat engineer with a small shoulder chip about the hotter brothers running through your ideal “girlfriend material” as a weekend treat. Most 19 year old women are not thinking like that, god bless them.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:50 PM
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Ah then your over identification. Honestly plenty of those girls probably ARE just shooting in their fuck zone but out of their relationship zone. There really is a stark difference in those zones for men with options, and you’re deluding yourself if you think attractiveness isn’t one of the main deciding factors (if not THE factor) at that age for men. It’s nice to think “boundaries” will solve that, but just as frequently they’ll just get you nexted more quickly by the guy who only saw you as …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:43 PM
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There was that study around accusations of sluttiness in college women that they were most frequently lobbed cross class: as in sorority girls looking down on unaffiliated women for fucking “their” guys. My point is a woman’s reputation sexually is defined differently and by different ppl in college vs high school. Even if it “matters.” Also, the gender ratios in most universities compound this issue: FUCK ton of women competing for the “dateable” guys. I swear there are probably times when the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:35 PM
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How is this a CMV? I think I’d just find different parts of existence that I’d have to hone the contentedness / improvement ratio. Different things to be unhappy vs happy about. Happiness is overrated as a central driving value.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 05:00 PM
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No i think this is silly. Everyone understands that MALE sexual attention is cheap; people get confused over individual males and their attention. I think any shifts you recognize have more to do with larger and less “high stakes” social networks. One of the sluttiest girls i know didn’t lose her virginity until college bc she was so paranoid in high school about how any sex she had would be discussed by people she’d grown up with in a small suburban town. Going right to NYC lets you do what you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 04:57 PM
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Okay but just wait a decade and they’ll all look different.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 03:54 PM
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I find it exhausting how much she has to discuss her meta narcissism (her self conscious anxiety over her narcissism) with the reader, it’s as forceful as herzog talking over his subjects. Trick Mirror was just an overdose of it. Useful for this piece tho!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 03:38 PM
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I mean He’s still just joanna newsom’s beau to me but yeah he is pretty great
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:04 PM
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Andy Samberg just seems totally unflappable. His wife is one of the most brilliant musicians on earth who wrote some insane “love and death” songs about her prior partner, but he’d never let that past get to him. Just wakes up on his grind, puts that dick in the box, and lives in the present.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 10:02 PM
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My girlfriend is learning guitar and bass and seeing which one she likes more. This means i have heard this one mac de marco song like three times and then every once in a while it gets punctuated by MCR. She is learning it off this game and complaining the selection is too 90s
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/20 12:51 AM
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I actually think most “younger sis” incest porn is actually a roundabout depiction of the friendzone: women who are “like siblings” to men in their life that they want to fuck. It’s also because it’s an incredibly cheap way to make basic ass porn scenes more thematically charged. Margins in the industry are pretty shit. Finally, it’s a dying trend anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 10:59 PM
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I mean it’s not False in the sense that bio drives are heavily influenced by culture. Look at the shit neurotic way we parent now. I am personally quite indifferent to children. If i could be one of those 1950s dads who doesn’t interact all That much with the kids and whom they’re low key afraid of annoying i would consider it for an otherwise perfect partner. However the current batship neurotic helicopter way we do it is viscerally repulsive to me and I’d rather just skip it. This was actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:32 PM
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Pssshaw. Even by early 20th century style and German female standards, Eva Braun was nothing to write home about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 05:22 PM
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This is funny bc i was trying to transpose a joanna newsom song on the guitar last night and i was just thinking about how brilliantly it was assembled and how the lyrics were so great. And the thing is even her songs about relationships are fucking profound. Don’t get me wrong i also love the candy pop puppets you’re talking about but you’re just not very right at ALL beyond that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:02 PM
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Oh holy shit, Anything more than three dates and i assume she just isn’t feeling it. I am very used to first date sex and that’s not the rando shit i mean. I just mean i think too many inexperienced men have been discouraged from basic ass seduction
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 02:11 PM
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I feel like EVERYONE on that list besides my girlfriend would actually wreck a life more than a little simple consensual backwoods incest but no, it is not my sister. (Is her boyfriend)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:51 PM
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Basically just that instant zipless anon monkey sex is the highest form of sexual validation. I’m sort of a degenerate who is avoiding the family man life to have fun, and that strikes even me as both a vulgar and self defeating attitude. I think most men here are fated to have most of their sex in some kind of relationship, and honestly it’s women who end up wasting more of their time in fuzzy undefined LTRs than men. Telling inexperienced dweebs it’s not “real” sex unless she is begging for it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:42 PM
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Having and experiencing options gives you a more forceful sense when you’ve met someone who exceeds your typical options in ways important to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 01:17 PM
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Truth! I just can’t watch them buy eighth or quarter bags anymore, but what i get out of it is a dozen lovely strains I’m very excited for.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:14 PM
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Well I’ve already been a pro bono pimp and auteur pornographer but now i can add being a non profit drug dealer to my resume. Just got a half pound of excellent weed in this currently non legal state at even cheaper rates than i get in Cali. It will be split between my girlfriend, her sister, MY sister, her boyfriend, and the front desk girl at the same gram rate i got it for. And only one of them is fucking me. What a cuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:55 PM
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Also it’s criminal we don’t have the same deep suspicion of their protected little priesthood the way we do financiers and lawyers. They are every single bit as scummy. And most of the vital work is done by nurses anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:43 PM
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Haha i look way more down on insta thots than actual sex workers. Never really try for those types of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:15 PM
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It’s probably not all that applicable as I walk right past the “nice” marriageable girls to date literal whores. I think the main thing is men with stable jobs think their selling point is stability. In fact it is the opposite: having a boring “stable” job is what lets you be FUN. It lets you invite women into your weird world where there are surprises and experiences, bc you are never worrying or stressing about dumb shit (or if you are it’s never visible). It’s ironic bc the men who are able t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:55 PM
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Absolutely. It’s funny tho my ex was from the little texas town named after his family, and a lot of old people still see him mostly as the state rep who “lit up the hill country” (which didn’t have power) even more than the president. Also dong so big he had to get custom pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:59 PM
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No, it literally ATTRACTS people (in the sense it draws their attention to you) and then YOU have to fuck them. Money does not make women FUCK you unless they are prostitutes. Too many men think their social success is intended to REPLACE your romantic/sexual skills. It is simply there to allow you to audition your romantic / sexual skills, but anyone who thinks it isn’t an advantage is delusional. It is VERY much an advantage when used properly. But i look like I’m in a band but i work in finan…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 05:50 PM
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Smh why we can’t have nice things honestly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:26 PM
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I think she has that regal but don’t fuck with me vibe amber heard had before we all discovered what a wife beating chad she was
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 04:19 PM
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Bad bot
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:53 PM
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I realize i will lose my ephebophile cards for this but I actually think she has gotten significantly hotter in the later ones. I don’t think she ever had one of those big eye dollface looks that can fade in your mid twenties.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:47 PM
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I think there is also a ceiling above which too much beauty seems too effete and youthful. The ideal leader is midway. There aren’t enough Kennedys in that sweet spot and also jfk was an ineffectual little skirt chasing meth head compared to Daddy LBJ.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:34 PM
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I genuinely thought this was just you saying she’d attain MILFhood at 24 and i was like “jeez geyges you’re harsher than the porn industry”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:26 PM
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eh i feel our democratic party has been trying to trot out its new goods before they were ready. Beto could have matured into a genuine silverdaddy with gravitas but he will forever be remembered as a poser fuckboy trying to grin his way into office. Mayor pete is a ratfaced technocratic teachers pet. I think if they’d left him in the lizard person machine longer he might have seemed ... done. aside from the fact that it believes in nothing, the dnc has a weird problem where too many of its opti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:15 PM
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I do agree it is a much more viable option for decent and financially stable guys who suck at talking to women. It can absolutely demystify them in the way those guys may need.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 02:08 PM
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Because you sound insufferable and it’s a stupid valentines idea, very stupid. I love hookers, and have dated hookers who were my girlfriend (didn’t pay them) and also fucked hookers who weren’t my girlfriend (totally paid). But I’d never do the latter on valentines day bc it’s just a very stupid idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 01:56 PM
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The question was “why do women avoid such men.” My answer was “they don’t”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:13 PM
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Thank you for doubling down on the tirade i never asked about or cared about your opinion on. My point was these men are not ugly and had decent enough options and vibe to be successful and married
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:10 PM
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Because she is a skilled service provider. I personally think most ppl who see therapists are annoying narcissists whose friends are tired of hearing them complain. I look down on ppl who see them a bit; but that doesn’t mean i think it’s evil to see them, or that my weird ass opinion on therapy should guide anyone’s opinion on whether it adds value to their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:08 PM
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That’s fine if your impressions of most men idc. I’m just noting it’s absurd to think johns are all gross unappealing men with no other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:05 PM
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Not at all in a vacuum but it matters in tandem with her goals. So for instance my literal NIGHTMARE scenario is a type A woman who gets an MRS degree and channels all the effort that formerly went into production to consumption (renovations, tutors, etc). I have seen this happen to ppl and holy shit no thank you. I’d MUCH rather date the unambitious stoner chick i always low key support from the start. But someone who always keeps a job for autonomy? Or who has a passion career that keeps her b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 08:01 PM
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Hormones for a start and then the feedback loop of social incentives. Women are rewarded for being sad more than men. Men are rewarded for being angry bc strong angry men get appeased and weak sad men get run over.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 05:46 PM
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Gentle reminder that most consumers of higher end prostitution in the USA are successful MARRIED men. They are doing just fine; they are not sickly furtive “johns.” They are just as likely to be precisely the kind of nice “high beta” the same women will then turn around and tell manospherians to be more like (when they aren’t ordering pussy to their hotel rooms on biz trips).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 05:34 PM
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I’m answering why they may like it MORE, so don’t accuse me of ignoring some aspect of gender essentialism a) it is exhausting being den mommy and professional lady and also note taker bc nobody else will do it. Yes a lot of this is self appointed “having it all” and “emotional labor” but it still feels good to spend some time under the consistent pressure of daddy’s boot, where nobody is asking where the [thing she takes care of] is. b) they are more distrustful of GENUINE male authority so the…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 03:15 PM
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I’m trying to imagine the universe where men are like “it’s totally fine my wife won’t fuck me; if that was important i could just go be an urban playboy.” Your posts genuinely concern me, bc i worry you’re going to accidentally redpill more men than atlas and then nobody will produce the next generation of sugarbabies
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 02:12 PM
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Only if you have no respect for western civilization. I understand some of you foreigners don’t understand our long lineage of free thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:58 PM
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My favorite trait of russian women is they are always telling you what gold digging whores most russian women are. Like I’ve been en route to a hotel with a moscow escort covered in LV merchandise and all she wants me to know is don’t trust these bitches— all they care about is shopping and stuff. Such soulful women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:45 PM
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It’s funny i think ellis is underrated, but I’d much rather come across as a nabokovian or even houllebecquian (?) parody so i need to try harder i guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:49 PM
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See here this is why being neurotypical looks effortless but requires strategy. What you should do is just ask probing questions about which presidential administrations or non media facts of life they recall. Just remember if you’re constantly asking random bits about clinton’s second term they won’t know you’re secretly asking how old she is. Humans are tricky. You gotta do this bc Zoomer factoid knowledge can be WILD with the internet. My girlfriend knew wuthering heights was a kate bush song…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:42 PM
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I agree with you (as a bi guy, and one you dislike!) I used to get butthurt about this when i had a different vision of myself, but OP even notes he is heteroromantic, which sounds pretty non monog to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:32 PM
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Pure Tops don’t even count as male bisexuals, sorry. That’s like ancient greek straightness.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:00 PM
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I agree but bc she’s a combative asshole not bc she used to be a slut. Trouble is that’s why it’s still relevant bc lots of combative assholes think they are good girls
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:46 PM
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wokescold (and frequently decent writer) alana massey on her younger years: “And though I am often accused of hating men, I am what might be considered rigorously and aggressively heterosexual so I am drawn to men forcefully and frequently. There have been countless times when I have been positively intoxicated by toxic masculinity. I fell in love with a man whose deep voice and substantial height were complemented by a possessiveness that looked like care and a habit of infidelity that I excuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:40 PM
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Personally i prefer my old hill country tx uncle’s aphorism: “she been rode hard and put up wet” (Has more to do with life than age)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/20 07:31 PM
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Someone hacked the “blocked users” folder of my Grindr account and posted it here! This is a violation!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/20 08:24 PM
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I was 15, new high school. She was an art class weirdo, and we went to the Tori Amos concert. She wanted to go four hours early to get good seats but I compromised on two. When we met, she told me her ex boyfriend had found out she was there with a guy and drove across cities with scalper tickets. The concert was very crowded but we found seats on a blanket. They spent half the concert making out right next to me. She had to drive me home and spent the entire time muttering “i hate him” and apol…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 02:03 PM
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Oh dang I actually hadn’t heard of this one. Early xtian mysticism so hot rn
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:37 AM
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Yes all religion everywhere. Even satanism and pastafarianism and the kind of gnosticism that helpfully explains why this place is like it is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/20 12:09 AM
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Concerning lack of Nazbols as well
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 11:08 PM
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All i know is I’m not going in the bear suit
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:46 PM
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It’s not a detriment if you want to be “happy” / existentially content. It can definitely be a detriment if you want to be successful. same largely applies for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:43 PM
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Okay this is a good bit, but you could say the same thing about sixteen year old girls. Or attractive women who don’t want to sleep with me. Or other people’s belongings. Or super fatty carby foods that never would have existed in nature. Or the tender necks of annoying people that hunger for the blade!!! Arg help I have no internal locus of control and am helpless toward natural drives!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 10:40 PM
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The ladies have Jeremy Meeks, gents i give you: sara jane isbister: https://twitter.com/mugshawtys/status/1107339583950217216?s=20 Personally I think she looks best in “possession of a controlled substance” and “grand theft.” Just a very wild Gia Carangi sorta energy, like you know this girl is feral in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 09:38 PM
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I agree with this, and I’ve said some many times. But if in wanna introduce a little complexity... you yourself acknowledge women aren’t EITHER crazy or low key. You yourself contain multitudes. And the issue is women themselves are just much more alive and interesting in that single “mate seeking” state. Take better care of themselves, more vivacious, just more interesting all around. Chaotic girls never leave that state, whereas stable girls are much more likely to recede into sweat pants and …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/20 07:16 PM
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I would place you in the category of person who sits down at a crowded party and starts playing the opening chords of Lennon’s “imagine” over and over on a piano until someone asks you to stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 10:38 PM
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YES! The chief part of my men’s rights platform is that when the girl is really hot but I’m just off my game or maybe she was feeling kinda weird that day, i am owed a mulligan. I didn’t build western civilization so that i only had one shot to score with individual chicks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 05:36 PM
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It’s true but these days so many women walk around with a massive sense of their unacknowledged worth that they are too chickenshit to actually test out
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 05:05 PM
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Yes and i think you are another good archetype of someone who is laid back and CONTENT with the results of their efforts and enjoys their life. I’m much less “warm” but i think both paths are entirely valid and superior to self hatred and trying to either trick out a prettyboy frame into impossible jock standards or else just lie and rot bc you’re not fuckin rambo
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:53 PM
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No it’s just that this confidence is incentivized by every single facet of maleness: professional life, personal interactions, etc. Show up, demonstrate value, or be completely ignored in the sense of never thought of / invited around etc. If you are noticing the trolls who overshoot this imperative and come across as ridiculous, that’s still okay for them: you’d never have pondered their existence otherwise. The men who do not think this way shuffle silently around the corners of society like g…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:33 PM
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It’s hard because i am a genuinely handsome and attractive TWINK. High masculinity facial ratios with the pretty boy features, good body ratios and... 5’6” and 118 lbs. This means a HIGHLY niche industry; most median attractiveness women will frequently pass me right by as an immediate primal sex appeal candidate. But i have dated nothing but extremely attractive and demanded women—in part bc i know i PERSONALLY will not be able to maintain conventional hetero attraction to women who are too lar…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/20 04:18 PM
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People can keep telling me it’s hopeless if you’re not buff, but i would never have attained my level of narcissism and obnoxiousness if that were true.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 07:45 PM
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You of all ppl should know this isn’t the flower child era of PPD, but the bad part after all the assassinations when everyone took up the trash drugs and got militant. Your nemesis LFK is basically the Hells Angels hired as security at that pop festival where everyone did the brown acid and got nasty. But you were always one of the rabble rousers. Don’t try and give us some Don Mclean bit now boyo!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/20 03:52 PM
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I think that’s the best take
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/20 02:47 AM
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What a fake betch trend fucker. She’s not a REAL weeb neko girl
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 10:43 PM
3

What is the “aim” of scientology’s truth explanation? Enlightenment for its adherents or money for the org? How can you test whether it is successful? What is the “aim” of TRP? to increase sexual success in its adherents. Pretty clear if it works of not. (Empirically en masse, i do not believe it does but individuals credit it with their salvation so ymmv) The better and less repulsively academic sounding hot take would be “redpill MAY explain human nature but turns most men exposed to it into t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 09:24 PM
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Do you really think it’s that you have genuinely fewer options, or that you are just internally more content and feel less compulsive about not missing any of them? Because honestly even if you don’t see the 20 year old hypebeast club kid as husband material, you could presumably be doing absolutely nothing but cycling through options right now. Like whoever your boyfriend is, you could probably get someone hotter /cooler etc if you worked on it. But aging has a way of making you say “been there…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 08:44 PM
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Excuse me that’s “having a kid” with her IE the highest compliment a stemlord ubermensch could ever deign to bestow upon a mortal femoid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 07:11 PM
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PS- how dare you compare my waifu Grimes to some kind of urinal when she’s clearly more of an alien bidet partly meant for non human genitals, if we are continuing this vile metaphor
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:59 PM
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I... would not word it so strongly but I’ve always been intrigued by how she is objectively pretty (and talented imo) but yeah... that archetype of girl has the sex appeal of a vase of flowers to me. But obvs i have niche tastes and i was curious about what ppl here think
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:55 PM
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All right everybody, thicc taylor swift: yay or nay? Has she officially gone off the neckbeard hate boner circuit now that she’s gained some weight? Does she look BETTER now to actually hetero men not part of the gay mafia? Discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 06:15 PM
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I mean as much as it seems like this is what late capitalism turns us into, we actually don’t behave like this about MOST things. Like I’ve seen ppd pets and honestly half the cats y’all think are incredibly adorable are pretty basic domestic shorthairs compared to fancy breed cats. Why don’t you just immediately turf your pets once a cuter animal comes along?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:22 PM
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My girlfriend keeps saying how good it is but the world just doesn’t appeal to me. Not just bc filthy post apocalyptic dystopia but just the specific tone for it they chose
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 08:21 PM
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The specific word answers to that don’t matter. In the past we might have had higher proper noun ideals like “the holy church” or “the fatherland” but those were generally just covers for the same bullshit it has always ever been.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:40 PM
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Yeah by teasing i meant visual slow stripping, basically showing off in ways that make most women self conscious or that they don’t care about. And I’m not even talking about natural rough fucking but rather the bells and whistles and tone that makes up “dominance” for many ppl. My point is the entire word is one in which women use the male ego, and men are so blinded by their obsession with being the top high T big dog that they basically compete over who can best be a female defined archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:31 PM
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I feel like those people will always get a different kind of adulation. Also, i feel like the rewards for human achievement are human, and the rewards for cosmic achievement are cosmic. Like anyone who burns the midnight oil for the infinite could never be satisfied for any kind of acknowledgement a bunch of shitting meat puppets / sinners (depending on your worldview) could offer. A lot of the things you listed sit across both sides of the aisle and the people chasing them need to be satisfied …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 06:08 PM
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I mean organized sports is just sublimated war? The past “heroes” these men are aping were literally just generals and fighters who were formerly celebrated for the killing and plunder NFL guys only get to do in the off-time. ALSO CTE is a thing. Finally, i find it hard to tell when you’re trolling and genuinely moralizing. I’m genuinely curious: who do You expect people to idolize in close to the way they idolize sports stars. Of course i agree it’s a form of cuckery to be so obsessed about big…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 05:22 PM
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Whenever i get hookers i spend half the time making them show off and build me up through teasing and just do all kinds of stuff that tends to BORE women (not overwhelm them) when you’re just being natural. We have BOTH probably been trained to fuck civilian girls in an aggressive way, and the male bragging that inevitably follows this blinds many people to whether this particular form of dominance is the WHOLE story. It’s pleasurable and i have no complaints and it’s a good solution. But i thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:48 PM
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Idk I think when you ask men if they like being dominant in a sexual context, many of them picture some 50 shades facebook meme and think Nah, I’m not into that. That’s what I’m saying, this is also USEFUL for social interactions as i think it’s only a small minority of even female SUBS who think submission = “treat me like an actual fuckhole devoid of free will.” (Even if they want you to say that exact sentence)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:34 PM
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Yes the 1880s were great. Sorry I trigger u but like every unhinged reality show contestant “i am not here to make friends” thank you though
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:30 PM
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I am literally a half gay artfag who finds so many lad mag girls forgettable and porcine looking but even I’m not delusional enough to call those women 5/10. It’s clear OPs entire worldview is shaped via a screen and the tendies crowd
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 04:03 PM
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“Being dominant” often means a femme centric cheesy bdsm top-from-the-bottom dynamic. It’s both a lot of work and can be kinda ridiculous. The female feeing of “being dominated” is the key success metric here, and some women have a very specific and borderline micro managey sense of what constitutes male “dominance.” So anyone familiar enough with that specific dynamic may just actually be dominant enough to be like “nah I’m good I don’t need to be part of your bad tumblr suit guy meme”
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:58 PM
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I wonder why someone who thinks katie holmes is a 5/10 struggles with women huh? Far be it from me tho to question this connoisseur; he has a 1-10 system so he must understand women better than i do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/20 03:54 PM
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Traps engay everything they touch. Everything. I used to be a middle aged polish steelworker, but one night of too much drinking in queer company, and i turned into this horrid self indulgent artfag trolling up your troll question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/20 12:57 AM
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What if you agree with a LOT of this but you just... don’t wanna take your ball home? What if you think this sounds like a kiss off excuse that may be fine for some beaver builder dad type but not you? What if you think it’s actually kind of condescending to women assuming their default state is some kinda warm fuzzy altruism, when female desires are just as ridiculous as male ones and NEED an opposing force? What if you think this guy sounds like either a clever well meaning wuss or, worse, som…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:35 PM
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Just curious, FDS enthusiast, how you intend to use this mega empathy of yours to cross bridges with men who have ended up in similar psychological issues with women? It’s a trick question bc neither of this actually care about this on a macro level, but only one of us has the decency not to bloviate about our own pet issue as if we aren’t just as gross as what we are complaining about. I’m not redpill but that community is every bit as much of an embarrassing collection of toxic losers as TRP. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 07:13 PM
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Idk what gamer bros say, assassins creed odyssey is a GORGEOUS map to get lost in. I was on complete gaming hiatus for all the old AC games so i never played/got tired of them. But the UI was clearly made for part timers, and it’s not super difficult, but i find it engaging. I agree with others that witcher 3 (only rpg i have ever finished) and red dead 2 (equally impressive but I just got busy) are worth while. I just think Odyssey is a bit smoother if you don’t play a ton of things. Also it sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/20 01:36 AM
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Yeah my point WAS that not all social media is alike and draws different ppl/values, so maybe think about what REALLY bothers you about social media before a blanket ban. But even still, the lack of face doesn’t change that a reddit karma whore and insta thot are both playing a similar dopamine feedback loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 07:17 PM
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Why do you need a consistent definition for something whose core identity is opposing something that ISN’T consistent. I’d say Atlas and mayyybe a handful of others here have an internally coherent and consistent sense of what they are advancing when they say redpill. All the others choose from a chaotic hodgepodge of shit that often directly contradicts other parts of their worldview. Thinking you need Consistency To argue with that kind of nonsense is ridiculous. All you need to do with those …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 06:16 PM
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Reddit is social media. Anyone can have whatever standards they like but SOME critical thinking and more specific judgments probably help. So for instance i PERSONALLY consider wannabe influencers and lighter crypto whores far more vulgar and embarrassing than actual whores. Like i will and have dated girls who fuck for money, or someone who thirst traps for their onlyfans. But some girl whose entire livelihood revolves around her persona and appearance, but who thinks of herself in any way BETT…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:40 PM
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Inside the mask, another disguise
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:15 PM
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The hyperfocus on minimizing shame versus maximizing pleasure / happiness is the true cuckery bc you are letting other people fuck your life for you. A genuine libertine would never think like this. It’s too easy for me to say only 4 seems like true cuckery bc i have the superpower of bisexuality. The details don’t matter; if you are worried about being a cuck, then you are a cuck. Some guy actively and ecstatically cleaning up cum after his wife’s bull is living a more honest and admirable life…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 05:06 PM
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I think smaller people have a “bobble head” effect that makes their faces “pop” more in a variety of angles. This is important for narrative or character, whereas taller people foreground entire figures better. I think Models and people who need to be passive “bodies” benefit from tallness. Interesting side point is most porn girls these days are also VERY short. Even many of the bombshell type ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 04:06 PM
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Totally makes sense, and it’s a coherent and compelling reading! I expected the intro of the gay “masc” ideal into heterosexuality but the end part about janet (and thus good american girls) basically becoming gay men was fun. I will totally watch for that scene next time. It also makes sense of Frank’s transgression with the folks from back home
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/20 02:11 AM
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I can guess details but if you don’t mind I’d like to hear the thesis!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 11:17 PM
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I’d rather be a pleasure outlet than a life utility outlet for someone else personally. I agree neoliberalism/late capitalism commodifies everything and turns a lot of geimenschaft into gesselschaft but it does that for EVERYTHING. Arguably, mutually beneficial sexy arrangements are less “transactional” than traditional marriage. Basically people are chomping at the bit to reduce themselves to commodities or at best “brands” in most aspects of life; sex ain’t that special or unique. And yet peop…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 10:52 PM
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I was at a nude swimming area recently, and there were three muscle guys mogging the shit out of every guy there. Except even from a distance you could tell they were all gay by the detailing. My friend said “you can see the male gaze on them.” She meant men just consciously care about it more and physique is a larger component of value for people who date men than women. When women say men care more about physique, they mean they sense the constant scrutiny and assessment on women’s bodies down…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:40 PM
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Omg omg they just INHALED that. This is not convincing my evil artfag side that will always prefer the inherent elegance of horses, but these are good cows. Very good cows. It’s funny my uncle took that herd begrudgingly but now he is growing them alfalfa etc etc. clearly ppl be catchin cow fever
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:23 PM
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And then not ONLY get stung by those things but systematize it all into a neat little 1-X scale. (Okay maybe that habit is less endearing but equally valuable at times) https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schmidt_sting_pain_index#Overview
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 08:13 PM
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Women do a great job convincing men they are chaotic and passionate, when most are quite plain and unremarkable. Men do a great job convincing women they are flat and stoic, when most have seas of unprocessed feelings churning in them. Did i do that right?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 07:56 PM
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What a GOOFasaur. I love it. Even tho gosh i just cannot stand to look at them. You are probably correct about their unmatched usefulness, and i have no standing to question their sense of humor. I clearly just cannot appreciate them, but honestly I’ve never seen cute cow behavior like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:55 PM
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Is there a noticeable difference in meat cows vs dairy cows in terms of how deeply they interact with humans? My uncle accidentally ended up with a herd of meat cows on his ranch (my great uncle got ill and had to drop his herd off), and i ... just cannot imagine really connecting with cows. Horses yes! Even pigs! But the pasture cows just seem so blank and ... bovine? Is it different when they are hanging out all day in a barn and socializing closely, or am i just an asshole who hates cows?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/20 06:30 PM
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Yes! Reading this made me feel trapped in an edgar suit i could neither escape nor appropriately communicate my displeasure from
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:15 PM
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Closest i can get is that cockroach alien from Men in Black stealing a human skin suit and trying to make facial expressions through it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 11:08 PM
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We still sort of hated each other and were hiding the fact we were still fucking from friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 10:52 PM
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I grew up in a crazy fundamentalist church, so I know all about pendulum swings (as a bisexual deviant). Funny thing was we had this one couple who had come from a literal cult—like with a leader and onsite housing, etc. Basically I feel like there are some life decisions so extreme and wacky the only place you can go AFTER them is evangelical Christianity Roosh now knows this too. I’d take it all more seriously if my own upbringing hadn’t been some silly “morning in america” fad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:35 PM
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I Always prefer anything with dosage ease! And i feel similarly with pills vs coke: I like the ritual of coke but the actual feelings and onset pattern are better with adderall etc if i want party uppers Interesting about speedy euphoria lacking here; i haven’t done enough mod to reaaaally notice the diff but that makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 09:29 PM
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Actually i think median is VERY hard, and that’s PART of why this conversation always sucks. Super ugly and beautiful people are easy on consensus, but individuals in the middle have totally vague place, and their league simply IS what they make it. But it’s all moot because I don’t think looksmatch is a useful concept at all, much less how you’ve defined it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:42 PM
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Buymoda.org apparently. It took a while but they arrived, and I haven’t gone insane yet so idk if that means they’re working or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 08:00 PM
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I don’t understand anyone who claims to have “salt” barometers hearty enough to register shifts in mood here. Feels like it would just be trying to take the sun’s temperature with a lil under the tongue thermometer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:46 PM
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Some site that shipped through switzerland, i forget, can ask. Is there a best place?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 07:09 PM
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I’m sorry but I’ve literally NEVER seen it that way here, not saying it has not occurred but i think this is a rare occasion of someone thinking PPD men are crazier than they are. I always see it as “median individual.” Like take the median individual in attractiveness. The worst Manospherian men think there is something wrong if they are not EQUALLY drawn TO each other. Better ones acknowledge the pursuit direction of heterosexuality but still think there’s something wrong about the median woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:56 PM
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I think i just need to get over the fact that everyone recommending it is either a cracked out tech finance hustler or else a crypto doomer... such is the price of innovation.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:46 PM
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I’m SUPER curious Bc i am a short skinny long haired bisexual twink with non typical style, and my total lack of “gay voice” / obvious gay signifiers still has people assuming heterosexuality most of the time. Either you are more physically androgynous than i am (unlikely), you just live in some part flyover country where the slightest male style codes as gay, or else you just have super gay mannerisms. The world must know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:43 PM
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Anyone done modafinil for an extended period of time? My gf just ordered a bunch, and I’m intrigued but i hate that nauseating upper feeling, and if it fucks with my tea habits (can kick coffee) i have no interest. The short term effects seem intriguing but one of my most manic friends said it made him crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:37 PM
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And the natural outgrowth of THAT process is social shame and ostracization, since the remaining men are happy to get rid of those bad vibes guys scaring the hoes. And the hoes are OBVS happy to get rid of them and now everyone is happy except the unhappy guys. Maybe they should try a different tack or just not be angry about “natural” processes
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:30 PM
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... Most manospherians? The incel difference is largely “these stupid whores will always win” vs “we can game these stupid whores to get what we want.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 06:03 PM
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Absolutely! Well, it can happen. The trouble is one of the things you learn is that much of this is just “new relationship energy” and it’s dangerous to mistake this entirely for something different. NRE is a BONDING feeling, it doesn’t mean you are BONDED. Also I’ve totally had that feeling for random hookers and NOT had that feeling for women i pursued normally. Basically that feeling is a really good feeling, but so are party drugs. When you’re on molly it doesn’t mean much more than you bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/20 05:48 PM
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I mean the “hiding it” eventually segues into not FEELING that inadequacy. And that’s the goal irrespective of whether other people can feel it or whatever. I don’t mean like..”ppl are dogs who sense fear”. Or that women see your feelings of shame, only YOU feel those. They just perceive a lack of good vibes energy directed at them bc your consciousness is focused internally on your feelings of shame. You could be thinking about golf and might as well be in that moment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:44 PM
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I was talking about boarding school girls but even at Columbia i knew some messy ass rich bitches who disappeared off campus the first week and barely surfaced from the club scene at all. And that’s Columbia; imagine NYU lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 11:07 PM
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Dating drug dealers and/or running away from home to a major city when underage. Blowing multiple guys in the bathroom of a bar just bc it’s the last week of school. Abortions all the time, everywhere! Not just party drug usage but constant use of pills all day every day. Also it was a trick question bc those were all prep girls. (The “fun” prep girls versus the hyper serious ones who have been planning their wedding and gardens since birth). Basically i think there’s a horseshoe effect going on…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:59 PM
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If i wrote out the habits of many umc boarding school girls with zero markers of class/status i could probably make you think i was talking about trailer park meth whores. And I don’t just mean being slutty, but rather just Messy. Rich and hot girls get to be destructive femme fatale it girls ppl write songs about. Ugly and or poor women behaving badly end up on the Maury show or whatev Second is basically lots of habits to file under minor bitchiness. Like even super masc guys like it when thei…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:33 PM
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Truth, and also there are certain behaviors that look like haughty princess behavior on attractive women and dirt squirrel trash panda behavior on ugly women. (Not saying they ARE that, just how we often perceive it)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 10:04 PM
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I spent a significant amount of time going out with my fashion photographer friend whose partner was a six foot tall russian runway model; she had to bend like a willow in her stilettos to talk to me. I am 5’6”. I know what you are talking about. It was still good for me bc there were plenty of hot girls in those scenes closer to my size and charmable, and there are few scenes that more brutally teach you how not to give a fuck. I realize that stuff sounds obnoxious but basically at core i know …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:55 PM
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My two least favorite genres! No I totally get that it’s more about the people than style specifically. and honestly even if it sucks comparably i feel like staying close and social with friends who have girls in their lives has to help.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:20 PM
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Didn’t you say you were in the bay area? I have decent confidence but that place has become TOUGH for male dating unless you’re specifically hunting the bay’s primary special unit: the ABG on molly. Even she is difficult to pick up, but at least is fun and unique. Everything else is STEEP competition for quite mediocre goods compared to Los Angeles or NYC. But yes might as well do something that also improves your life and social set. What types of music could you picture playing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 09:09 PM
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For each individual sex opportunity maybe, but I agree with FF (not you) bc you’d think after YEARS someone who likes sex would have had a decent amount of sex in a variety of situations. If i said I liked alcohol but it transpired I’d barely had any over a decade except at weddings and church mass, ppl would justifiably say “lol maybe u don’t like drinking”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 08:15 PM
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I am certainly tempted by this aloha widow. Even tho I stick with mostly indicas as crowd pleasers i love hyper sativas too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 06:50 PM
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It absolutely applies to me! I have spent my entire adult life dating only twentysomething sexually open nymphomaniacs, most of whom helped me set up threesomes and orgies. When the passion dies down we pack up, stay friends, and move on. This is a GREAT system but it makes me skeptical about truly lifelong commitments bc my experience is that stuff sounds great the first three years and then implodes. Anyway. It’s not even conceivable for me to date women who have anything close to typical sexu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:55 PM
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It depends entirely but anything past body 1 is overkill for the vast majority of straight women. Also: What looks good jacking up a big truck will NOT look good on a Civic. Too many men assume that just because the best selling models are trucks and luxury SUVs that that’s the best thing to do with THEIR body. If i did that it would just be tricking out a tiny roadster with a bunch of retarded looking truck detailing. And the people who only buy trucks would still pass me by. I benefit by decid…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/20 05:09 PM
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I mean a drunk guy making the grabass rounds might get punched, most likely ejected; it is what it is. I’m not really angling for the privilege to keep blackout humiliating myself in public. Zero clue based on your hypothetical. Depends on way more than that, but yes it could totally GET creepy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 08:08 PM
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When attractive women are creepy it’s just different. I was at a show recently and this drunk hot mess was grabbing my ass, and also THAT guy’s ass, and oh trying to make out with that girl. Oh and now falling down and leaning on the trash. She was just attractive enough you got the sense she experiences much less negative feedback when acting like a drunk hobo than others. My instinctive reaction was to check my wallet lol. I did NOT expect she was going to rape me, mug me, kill me, harass my d…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:34 PM
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Yes exactly you are just agreeing with me that IRL vs OLD have slightly different appeals and strategies. Both a good natured understanding that it’s just part of the game, as well as certain patterns are expected in IRL. Same for online dating; most men just need to improve their chops (on both, probs). And YES IOIs etc but again, OLD lets you flirt with ten girls at a time, IRL does not, usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 07:04 PM
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Because it is actually good for niche industries and people who take the time to get into girls’ heads. Imagine you are at a show or house party and see a hot girl you don’t know. You go up to her and make some basic ass intro, and both of you know you’re really being judged on general vibe just like on OLD. If not moreso bc it’s obvious you know nothing about her and are just flirting. Meanwhile maybe she has a bf/really just came for the food/etc. Again there is nothing wrong with this and i a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/20 06:46 PM
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My jealousy issue is I don’t feel enough jealousy, so obviously it tends to work nicely for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 09:12 PM
1

If it were larger, wouldn’t the potential for family stability be even lower? wouldn’t all the branch swinging people complain about be even more rampant? Like tradcon manospherians are all about pair bonding, and female hyper selectivity is part of that glue, sorry. My answer is I don’t know the exact percent, but it’s ABOUT right for human purposes. Much higher and sure I’d like it as a male slut, but it would probably be chaos. Much lower, and women would have zero sense of romanticism for me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 06:15 PM
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They matter in a variety of ways. So for instance the last thing i EVER want to do is take a Type A working woman and try to make her domestic. All the constant ... activity will get moved from production to consumption. Then god forbid you cannot hack her envisioned life on your income solo. I would much rather date an easygoing girl with an existing passion pursuit she just barely gets by on. Not because it makes her dependent on me but because she is not hugely focused on the accumulation of …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/20 05:10 PM
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For $420.69? Indeed i do. It’s called “How to Beta Like an Alpha and Do Other Awesome Sex Stuff Girls Love but Say They Hate.”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:54 PM
2

I said nothing about avoiding working through the anger phase. I said they can’t just taken that anger right on the track and use it directly on women. If they COULD they would already be players. You keep coming up here and telling me I’m saying something I’m not. I don’t care how they work on it as long as it looks nothing like the guys here understand it. Probably the one place we truly disagree is that despite whatever truths OG redpill may have, i believe the current culture actively hurts …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:25 PM
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Omg no. “Good vibes” is basic bitch speak for “hot and charismatic but I don’t wanna sound shallow.” The meek weirdo who keeps doing unprompted favors is not “good vibes.” Also the way you avoid the friendzone is not being a little bitch, communicating your desires, and moving on. That so many men see the vast gulf between zero filter assholery and wet tampon weakness is just ... frustrating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 10:10 PM
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Yes exactly and my point is when socially inept and autistic men read a guidebook to sex that tells them to consciously ape expert social manipulators (who are ASSHOLES (tm), which women love (here are studies), the women don’t leave those conversations smiling. Because there is a lot of social “color” those men are usually blind to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:52 PM
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Lemme explain this differently then lol: you need to have the sausage before your CFO can smoke it. Too many people here trying to start with the smoke. IE I don’t have it backwards: you have to be improved and hotter and more internally confident before your asshole qualities will seem like a halo vs horns. Starting with the big bad asshole stuff is appealing for some men but i personally think it will PARTICULARLY hurt those ones if they start there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:40 PM
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I’m a 5’6” sexually successful man arguing that male improvement is more complicated than the manosphere makes it but is attainable. My mere existence is anti blackpill. You didn’t read this very well but that’s okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:34 PM
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So basically You are telling me my assumption is wrong, while somehow i am describing the appeal perfectly. then you are agreeing with me that manosphere dweebs can’t replicate the feeling DT men impart. Nowhere did i say the positive feelings come across as being an asshole chud; that’s the flawed manosphere interpretation i am arguing against. It seems like you are disagreeing with me more in principle than content
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:33 PM
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You’ve “always been an asshole” and didn’t need to learn how to ape one on the internet plus had a WIFE when you learned this. My entire point is you are probably starting from a better point than you imagine if this benefited you. Again, having relationships and sex pretty much confirms that. So it improved you as a Brad. Thank you for coming to my ted talk and agreeing with me. Automod please
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:19 PM
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True dark triad people spend much more time coming across as prosocial, fun, sunny etc. The idea that autistic dweebs should consciously try and fake what they conceal is classic backward thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/20 09:16 PM
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Okay but only if we can remove rights for: Sports car guy who changes lanes every nanosecond, cuts you off, but slows down to a crawl to protect his undercarriage. Aggressive truck guy who drives like a marine getting back to the green zone in fallujah. Deathwish bicycle guy is annoying mostly bc it’s gonna suck to run him over.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 04:49 PM
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I would probs last like three days before getting killed for obnoxiousness but yes worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:36 PM
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Idk if it was an ad hominem and also i am hoping to seduce LFK’s husband with my wit
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:37 PM
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There is nothing weaker than people who need to ask for permission to be scummy. You’re like some betch at brunch prodding her bffs to give her some yass kween reason to go fuck an ex or cheat or do dumbshit. Just go fuck her on the DL, lose a friendship when that fails, and decide if it was worth it afterward
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 09:28 PM
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Do you want 8’ height minimums on Tinder? Bc this is how you get 8’ height minimums on Tinder. Sasquatch gonna mog the shit out of human men. Probably too mentally simple to bore her with his sperg rambling too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:56 PM
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https://www.vice.com/amp/en_us/article/3kmmb5/the-hsbc-banking-executives-daily-routine-has-enraged-the-internet I don’t hate this woman. I simply want nothing whatsoever to do with her personally
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:38 PM
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I never said programmers. “Technocrat” has a lot more to do with values and ideology than specific technology
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:25 PM
2

What about Ivy Leaguers who work at McKinsey or in high finance suggests “nerd programmer” to you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:22 PM
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Sane OG redpill men don’t. I specifically said manospherians Bc that’s a broader tent covering a shit ton of REEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 08:21 PM
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I grew up almost entirely around striving UMC technocrats and i see a LITTLE of this but not a lot. Ironically most manospherians here VASTLY underestimate how much most OTHER UMC men really really care about the pedigree of their LIFE partners and are willing to take hotness discounts on the women they marry. I went to an Ivy and then a top 10 MBA program and there were TONS of true Triple 6 dudes happily engaged to fairly plain box shaped women (who worked at McKinsey) compared to what they co…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:59 PM
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Cheap drugstore shit, go hard on it, and then make sure she does all the eye makeup AFTER the setting spray used on everything else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:45 PM
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Lololol Her: “ur penis too small” “Bitch you just need to fill in these internal spaces with insulation foam: idk how much it’s costing you to heat and cool that thing.”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:43 PM
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Flashbacks to testing the right combo of mascara/eyeliner etc to make an ideal watercolor bleary makeup mess during sex. (In group chat i can freely ignore your q4w and answer rape you)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:26 PM
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I am a tea fiend but i find chinese style (gong fu cha) steepings of oolongs and even blacks make my teeth feel less gross than british style steeping. I don’t mean the whole ritual but the water/tea ratio, temp, and steeping time
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:03 PM
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If i thought this way I’d never meet anyone. I’m a short long haired pretty boy twink. MOST straight women aren’t immediately aroused by me primally. But i spent five years dating a girl whose measurements were 35-23-35 and has a huge social following for being hot. That is what i was used to seeing/feeling every day. The rest of my partners have been at a similar physical level but better in other ways. That IS my reality and “league” and some rando pissy bitch who will never like short guys ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:49 PM
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Or just focus pretty well on the people you value? Despite being non monogamous i am very “main person oriented.” Also I am so small it’s hard for me to seriously date someone over about a size two if she wants conventional heterosexuality. That alone removes most american women, so idk how that is low standards. If my answer seemed too jokey, i think you have to control for “tribes” before leagues, because different archetypes of people have different value within different scenes
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:33 PM
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Every single fucking time. Like Madonna and Geena Davis i am in a league of my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:26 PM
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My non answer: it’s easier for me to find “weird” female faces than figures attractive. For instance one of my exes had a strong aquiline nose and a resting fierce bitchface. I think she started working as a domme just bc random ppl kept telling her she looked like one. However i also love neotenous dollface cuties. Basically if she doesn’t look OFF, it’s possible for me to find beauty in strange faces However it’s almost impossible for me to prefer a girl with a 0.9 WHR over a 0.7 WHR.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:18 PM
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I wouldn’t know them closely enough to know or care if I didn’t want them in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:50 PM
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If you consent to be in a relationship with a man, you consent to any and all consequences of it including beating and marital rape. (/s clearly) I personally do not pull shit on women i sleep with. If i ever end up as a father it is only bc i was LIED TO or the woman changed her mind AFTER the fact. If you genuinely view this as still my problem, idk whatever. I wouldn’t end up in your bed anyway, but i promise you your response didn’t change my moral instinct on this at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:47 PM
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It isn’t your child if you didn’t agree to have it. It’s merely biologically related to you. That of course doesn’t invalidate any legal obligations you have, which is a different question. For instance, a shitty politician may legally represent my district, but he isn’t MY representative. I didn’t vote for him; I don’t view him as speaking for me. People can make you pay child support; they cannot make you acknowledge a child you did not consent to have. Edit: Not redpill but i think aspects of…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:39 PM
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Yea i mean as a twink the OG kate moss quote governs my own life better but hey just trying to be helpful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 07:03 PM
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NOTHING TASTES AS GOOD AS JACKED FEELS BRUH -Chris Moss
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:58 PM
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Lol okay got it I will definitely take moral direction from you. (I won’t risk my life over another culture’s shitty internal governance, but when they are trying to expand a genocidal empire over western civilization i guess I will get off my ass, but I’m not HAPPY about it)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:29 PM
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WAR is extremely despicable and vile. The idea that i should go halfway across the world to DIE to protect OTHER cultures and then treat the women who supported those horrors like i would treat peers in my own culture is retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 06:05 PM
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Any culture that created a war so horrific that i would be involved with it is doing far worse things than rape. If they were nice communists of course not. If they were communists that had me traveling halfway across the world to watch people next to me die horrifically, then yes. Contextually i would have dodged every single 20th century american war besides wwii.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:56 PM
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A lot, but I don’t think raping nazis is part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:47 PM
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Okay so all the dudes who say they’re not into monoGAMY are really just talking about marriage. Got it. Nobody ever uses that word to talk about sexual exclusivity, and using it that way just muddies conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 05:32 PM
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His entire conception of Cultural Marxism smells of the worst academic 20th century mothballs, just like the tenure track humanities deadwood he ridicules. His conception of western history fumbles by failing to realize that ALL societies have the dumb confucian (it’s really more confucian than western) sense of dignity and family he espouses. What is SPECIAL about western culture is half the stuff he hates. His other work on cleaning your room and getting your life together is fine. As contrapo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 04:53 PM
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51) women are less frequently so autistic they write a manifesto that has no direct connection to the original thesis
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/20 03:33 PM
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No one knows what it’s liiiike To be the Chad man To be the sad man BEHIND BLUE EYES
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:25 PM
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Pls see my edit. I KNOW they love dunking on big scary thugs when they get the chance. I am saying that rape as a whole seems less important than dime bags to our system judging by the resources expended
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 08:01 PM
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If you are brown and caught sometimes. But if there weren’t just INSANE amounts of untested rape kits while we’ve spent fuck sums prosecuting ppl for dime bags you’d have a leg to stand on. The legal system doesn’t give a fuck about rape. They like throwing the book at scary thugs
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 07:47 PM
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Eh i feel like women are attracted to the sinister bad boy, so if you make someone sound bad or intimidating that CAN backfire. Women are LESS enthralled by borderline alcoholics with erectile dysfunction whom many of their friends think of as a cringe story they roll their eyes at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:41 PM
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No, not at all. Here’s a funny example. There was this rapey chad in an old friend circle of mine who was known for condom stealthing girls, especially when he had whiskey dick. I used to make fun of him so much for it to other ppl. Not like some kind of “he is bad and we should cancel him” thing but more gossipy like “if you’re gonna take your turn on Patrick make sure it’s before he’s drunk bc he’s not gonna be able to keep it up and will probably condom stealth you. Just ask X or Y.” I did it…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 06:21 PM
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The issue is that some men are so rapey it creates a grey area between the sort of behavior any normal human should abhor to the kind of thing you are talking about. Basically the kid gloves we use on actual predators have made it easier for narcissistic attention whores like the “aziz ansari girl” to have a soapbox. I agree the cultural chaos around MeToo has provided cover for some unhinged bitches to destroy lives and act in deeply sociopathic ways. And plenty of women cannot be bothered to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 05:53 PM
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Yes most of the women here are more autistic and or curious about goofy shit than your average broad. Much less dramatic seeming. Thus the irony of manospherians here being like “uhh ppd women so crazy.” Like throw those guys into a brunch with a bunch of woo girls and I’d pay to watch.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:32 PM
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Basic bitches are typical american middle class and up women. It’s not that they’re evil or stupid; many of them are lovely humans. Not much deeper to it. I just prefer fun confident sluts personally. And TRPs emo flipshit reactions to female sexuality are why I don’t respect it so idk why you are asking me to defend those reactions. Males of any species are burdened with a drive that makes them kind of retarded at times, all for the progression of the species as a whole. If they’re just whining…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:17 PM
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Humans are just monkeys with a few changes. Tomatoes are just belladonna with a few changes. The redpill cohort as it exists today is cringe as hell and I don’t consider myself part of it. However I’ve slowly come to think that people like you do more harm than good with condescending little posts that minimize the vast difference between the dating landscape men and women face. I agree gender commonalities outweigh many other things, but redpill discourse is about human sexuality. Telling the k…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 04:05 PM
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Yeah totes as long as he deals with enough of her bullshit and i get enough of her fun, and i mean that pretty seriously! Like I’m not big on marriage but I’d organize a life around them in some way possibly
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 03:57 AM
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Yea having dated TWO pro dommes who were subs in civilian bedtimes makes me less prone to question whether this reflects just your social network vs the cohort of “kinky ppl” or even ppl who don’t think of themselves that way but have kinks. Even if it’s limited, it rings true/accurate to me
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 01:22 AM
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My whole point is that under modern non chivalric feminism she is NOT a protected class, and that’s nice for every single man on the planet who isn’t dating her. Potentially it is also nice for a man she dates, bc she has grown up with more expectations of self sufficiency (from liberal feminism with its underpinnings of... liberal autonomy) rather than expecting all men everywhere to cater to her bullshit. Women like that exist^ but my point is pissy manospherians leave a lot of mind peace on t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 12:17 AM
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True gynocentrism assumes that ALL WOMEN (including the random married middle aged karen who wants my subway seat), are more special and deserving of things. Now granted i do nice things for old and disabled people, but fundamentally what i mean is middle aged karen is not one single iota more of a protected or special class than i am. If she wants to feel that way, she needs to find an individual man who will make her feel that way. Modern liberal feminism exists in a framework where we are all…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/20 12:07 AM
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Also the treatment of many”mothers of the species” in the animal kingdom is basically “hey babe that was a fun thirty seconds but now imma go wander off and knock up your friends and relatives and hope whatever offspring you have doesn’t get eaten by lions but idc either way” Again: your words not mine on the central organizing something something life mothers
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:43 PM
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Well if it expresses itself in that many different ways then of course you cant verbalize it coherently or at all usefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:32 PM
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Because “treatment consistent with the mother of the species” is a completely fucking meaningless concept Also i never mentioned any of those things, but those are things women should do if they want good dick, not respect. I thought the point of feminism was that respect comes from innate humanism not fuckability
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 11:05 PM
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Yes because among the hundreds of millions of women i am not having sex with in this country, I’d rather approach them as simple peers in this disgusting human experiment than dainty special beings I have to be chivalrous toward and like... protect and shit. Basically the paradox of feminism is that women who want the feeling of traditional chivalry have to be traditionally feminine (in ways that matter to men) to get it. You can have your selfish “have cake and eat it too” vision of feminism to…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 10:43 PM
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If you ever want to LAUGH, watch two inexperienced bi femmes (ok kinky mostly straight girls) try to flirt with each other and make plans, like not just send each other memes and compliments but make plans for a date. Like not all of them, some are super assertive hoes, but there are plenty of women who find themselves in a less vague pursuit framework and instantly become these completely ineffectual dumbasses who can barely form basic greetings much less actually follow through on a date. The …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:50 PM
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ah so it ISNT just the height. Yes shortness is a disadvantage, like baldness. Tell it to a super hot bald guy. For me shortness was an invitation to develop better skills and develop a super good self protective skin of cynical self preservation. I wouldn’t change it if it meant being someone other than myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 08:08 PM
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If you are a defeatist short guy, you believe it’s OVER. But srsly some of us shorties refuse to surrender, and enough success can genuinely make you believe it doesn’t matter. I used to genuinely think height didn’t matter much! As a 5’6” dude! Simply bc I haven’t been single for more than a season since the clinton administration and i have zero clue how many girls I’ve fucked. Then i realized i am also handsome, witty, fun, and completely fucking shameless and unfazed by minor rejections bc i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 07:21 PM
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Yep, and btw thanks for citing some good studies from the side of light! The issue, i think, is that the lower sociosexual orientation girls just aren’t fucking as much (randos OR their boyfriends). If they WERE, we could see whether they have different values. Idealists want to say their sex drives are more enlightened and less crazy than fun sluts. However the competing thesis is that their sex drives are similar but simply less expressed or focused on. IE, they may value sex with dominant guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 06:51 PM
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I actually think it’s that culture keeps progressing at a much faster rate than ever in human history but we crave some sense of tradition or repetition. Feature films are a dinosaur form anyway and thus attract the most insipid cash grabs. Serial shows and video games are where cultural innovation lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:53 PM
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What is current american culture but cushy people whining about about bullshit? Like to continue the NYC angle, every five minutes some bushwick twit tries to spin their trust fund hipster life into some big bad urban tale of alienation that is supposed to feel simultaneously sordid but also so aspirational. Manospherians whining about their cheap easy lives free of angry fat frigid wives and screaming yard apes is another. People are just insufferable whiners and it’s up to YOU to ignore them. …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:26 PM
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I’m aware this is acknowledged in the classical redpill as formulated by jawsus and passed down to heartiste and atlas B and yadda yadda. That seems to matter less in how manospherians empirically perceive it, and i think this concept never really stuck coherently with a bunch of guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:12 PM
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It really sucks how valid points get washed out in a sea of black white harsh absolutism. Why would women “love” this. I think it is more akin to new yorkers or bay area bros complaining about high rent. “Oh but hey you could get a house in peoria for...” Yeah, they’re gonna look at you like you’re stupid. They don’t like the high rents, they hate the high rents; they just cannot conceive of living elsewhere. This is a different and more subtle point. First bc they are Already “living in new yor…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 05:03 PM
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What I personally see is an entirely self imposed wall formed by WOMEN’S relationship goals. Young women do not often care about babies. As they get into their late twenties, they start caring about babies, and this INTERNAL shift can manifest in different relationship goals. That’s why men often perceive a marked difference around the late 20s early thirties. The point is the male attention she is getting is likely constant. This explains the valid male EXPERIENCE of “the wall” while also expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 04:56 PM
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Rabbit island is worth it if you’re into that sort of thing. Even the trip out takes you through tons of quaint little Miyazaki looking rail stations that are totally different than the shinkansen. And this is coming from someone who otherwise starts with the right urban neighborhood, hookers, and nightlife when planning trips.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 04:47 PM
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Hey being short isn’t so bad as long as you are also handsome, affluent, successful, stylish, charming, good in bed, and romantically attentive! And even then it’s a great opportunity to build character and learn not to give a fuck when all that still doesn’t matter for many people! I’d complain about it, but i don’t LTR women over a size two myself. (Half just bc anyone larger doesn’t feel feminine to my twink ass even if they’re objectively hot). Anyway yes pls leave me the shorties
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 04:31 PM
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Wait but I thought pornography is this terrible scourge that brainwashes men into these crude beasts when women just want gentle lovemaking! The women who don’t like weird/intense sex don’t usually like porn (not claiming the reverse; plenty of super kinky women are indifferent to porn). They generally assume the most weird deviant shit is what mainstream guys are watching. This is simply untrue but they are too triggered by the whole thing to care. Meanwhile it is the other GIRLS who are increa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/20 03:51 PM
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It really only does if you believe god = anthropomorphic sky being who cares about your actions and judges you. That’s the unspoken assumption, even for atheists who feel it necessary to say NAH UHHH. Agnostics are like “yeah maybe there’s some spiritual core to creation like mariannes orbs or whatever ppl see when they do ayahuasca but IT is indifferent to us.” Or maybe we’re the creation of a gross gnostic demiurge we wouldn’t want much to do with anyway. Basically it’s a big cosmic shrug. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/20 05:58 PM
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It’s fascinating, and aspects of it are a perfect mirror of the way TRP shoots itself in the foot trying to kneecap everyone else. My reaction is much more akin to rubbernecking a really horrid highway wreck than anger or indignation
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 08:01 PM
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I personally think it’s a low percentage of women who have the hyper pragmatism, risk tolerance, and disgust tolerance for direct sex trades for money. Most amateur girls on seekingarrangement chicken out and never really follow through. And those who do are rarely super pro and cutthroat about it. I think most people are good at deluding themselves into thinking they have higher reasons for whoring themselves out in all ways: romantically, professionally, etc. It’s like that old GSElevator twee…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:58 PM
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I mean, when someone writes something that directly echoes manosphere thought but from a female vantage, that’s a valid response! That said, I really think these FDS groupies are selling themselves short. The whorish libfems i know would never bother leaning so hard into femme fatale domme talk without getting paid for it. Much like the manosphere, seems like a cohort of keyboard warriors with shitty attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/20 07:56 PM
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Male. Worry i am not enough of a cold hearted person to throw out the gaming loser, whereas i am definitely confident i could throw out and disown the druggie fuckup, so I’d probably go with him. If the gaming loser understood he’d be fully on his own come 18 that’s fine. Merry Christmas Eve everyone!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/19 10:50 PM
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There is a pretty common insistence on more voluptuous figures, like with bellies and thunder thighs and cellulite, especially in genre paintings where the subject (venus, etc) is understood to be a paragon of beauty. Knowing these were insanely important and expensive works commissioned by kings and kingmakers to hang in palaces makes it even less “some weird chubby chaser artist.”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 10:37 PM
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Oh thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:55 PM
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Lower waist hip ratios on women will be more attractive even after nukes gangbang this planet into some weird mutated post human shit. It goes DEEP. More surface level stuff is more mutable. Beauty standards in minor details like faces go in and out of style. In recent history, women used to be valued for a kind of soft chinned Gibson girl “moon face” that looks tubby by today’s standards. And gosh the women in old paintings made when everyone was starving look like cottage fucking cheese. Artis…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:49 PM
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??? At very least they are yin yang. Both required for a good lasting relationship but investing in yin does NOT get you yang; quite the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:40 PM
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How could you do all this and forget “eat hot chip and lie”. Like seriously i know you implied it but i cannot look at a wall of vitriol like this without that phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 08:02 PM
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I agree in principle (bc I don’t accept TRPs alpha beta dichotomy as stated) in the sense I’ve seen the same woman behave ENTIRELY differently in committed relationships depending on how she views her partner. Here’s where the simplicity breaks down; It’s self fulfilling bc pushy dudes PUSH. She did anal bc she felt obliged, and if anything she is less wild today NOT bc she is alpha widowed but bc the sex she had with pushy players wasn’t fulfilling. Genuinely believe i have seen more of this th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:44 PM
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Largely bc men do not want to commit to unattractive women but will happily fuck them in private as long as their friends never see. There are likely also some impulse control issues in there as well, but largely i would say the women are probably Fairly similar overall in their romantic and sexual instincts, but thin women hold onto men a lot easier than fat ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 07:33 PM
3

Who knows? I am open to the hypothesis that gayness is just too Easy for me. I’m a handsome twink. This means i am a NICHE industry for women. One of my exes has well over 100k twitter follows just for being hot, but most women are not going to be drawn to me immediately in a club. Grindr on the other hand is just like... stupidly easy and i have to almost invent artificial screening just to make a damn decision. And tinder when my current girlfriend (who likes mmf) is down is just this hilariou…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:29 PM
6

Eh i am bisexual in the sense i like messing around with guys and their dicks but there is basically none of the romantic tension, counterpoint, and ... completeness in homosexuality for me. Men are a fun way to get off or ideally have some MMF fun. You order them off tinder/grindr, and then they go back to their stable once the ride is over. It’s women i am drawn to build a life with. In over a decade of debased bisexuality i have never dated or had romantic feelings for a man. So basically if …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 05:14 PM
1

This outlook on things will definitely get you the relationship you deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/19 02:41 AM
1

No it just assumes women who are less neurotic about self image will be less neurotic about self image in a relationship. Which is good for men who think too many women are self absorbed and attention seeking about their image. Merely dealing with the problem OP stated. You are the one moving the goalposts so you don’t have to make meaningful distinctions among individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 05:41 PM
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No, then you are the person who gets a plain but decent girl who doesn’t care about that shit while all the little hornball NPC bros chase the same caked on foundation thots.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 05:04 PM
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That’s Fine, but there really are tons of women like that. They just aren’t as eye catching in public so it leads you to write these sky is falling sorta things.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:58 PM
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This is just like the big titty paradox or the douchebag player paradox or the nuclear weapons paradox. Everyone SAYS they hate the stuff and fake tits, obnoxious fuckboys, or nuclear weapons are bad. Then when nobody is looking everybody rushes right to them. You just need to be the change you seek in the world. There are oodles of very plain women who haven’t been in a sephora for years. No, not that girl: she’s wearing an hour’s worth of “natural” makeup. Yes that very very plain looking one …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 02:51 PM
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It doesn’t matter how i see it. Individual Women will be pathetic boot-licking stockholm syndrome idiots for an obvious shithead who offers little OUTWARD benefit to her life, and the same woman can be a total bone crushing parasitical abuser to a different man she uses as a plow horse. Thus her view of how valuable i am is meaningful only in how she chooses to show it to me. I don’t consider myself red but i HAVE found the fastest way to turn women off from SEXUAL passion is to be an accommodat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 05:33 PM
1

When the person being fetishized doesn’t feel like the fetish matches their self. Like say a rich guy has a self image, and girls who like him for being rich feed into that self image. Not fetishizing. But say a black guy ends up with white women who see his blackness as something “naughty” and primal, and he resents it. Or maybe an asian girl feels like the white guys who fetishize her actually just like some azn bb archetype that isn’t her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 04:25 PM
1

Oops!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/19 09:19 PM
4

They hate glam quasi drag queens looks except when it gives boners. They just think the dewy korean skincare routine with a billion steps is “natural”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:10 PM
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Everyone SAYS they hate fake boobs until they have great ones in their face. My ex got a crazy boob job that took her to a 28 ... whatever they made above DD depending on the brand. I thought she and the doctor were psycho. Then i saw them and was like YES. OKAY! And that was before they settled over a year. She also cammed and many guys were always complaining about her tits or asking if they were “real” (her: “they’re hyperreal”). But they also tipped her way more per session than the other na…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/19 08:02 PM
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Yeah like. Classic take but This ad’s greatest sin is posting cringe. I realize the twitter rainbow gestapo is reeeing a bit on this but mostly i just see ppl dunking on how silly it all looks
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:25 PM
2

What is with the woman’s EYES in this commercial. She looks so weird and dopey.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/19 03:21 PM
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Gosh, isn’t THAT true, good call
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 03:49 PM
2

Is it better when a super talented chef makes you a meal or when your partner who loves you and knows how you like it does? That’s a hard question. But super talented chef vs like... microwaved trader joes is easier. Sure there is the question of cost and convenience, but overall much better yes. If you look at it more as a service offered by someome with unique skills (including merely the female skill of fucking men you wouldn’t fuck recreationally) then yea, lovely, no ragrets. This also mean…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 02:22 PM
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Loving infatuation sex > new connection sex > good escort sex > LTR maintenance sex > masturbation > decent date so might as well fuck sex > ONS “need to fuck” sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 01:46 PM
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Almost as good as: https://mobile.twitter.com/evopsychgoogle/status/1161954467400441856?lang=en The thing is, many of the women I’ve known with endometriosis WERE pretty hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/19 06:58 PM
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I think this is clever and has SOME truth to it, but it breaks down. I live balls deep in libfem slut land and ya know how much i hear words like that? Zero. The people really going on about “pick mes” are rarely popular uber libfem sluts; generally they are weirdos, ethnic minorities in entirely different dating pools (“that pickme talkin bout makin her man a plate”), women left out on the margins either bc they are less attractive/pleasant than their romantic ambitions or else just cultural is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/19 09:24 PM
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Fashion is not body coverage. Fashion is the perceptual difference between a half naked “trashy” thot and a half naked “wow who is that goddess” type of woman. (Fashion can of course be the CHOICE to look like a thot). Or a “wow she so interesting” woman vs “tennis mom past her vineyard vines days who chases her libido killing antidepressants with white wine and can only cum from a kitchen renovation” type of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 08:28 PM
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Overall i agree, but i have also noticed women’s overall presentation has a TON to do with how men perceive of women for commitment versus just a fuck. (I agree women’s fashion has little bearing overall on boners). The marriage material finance frat bros i work with are HIGHLY susceptible to assuming markers of UMC grooming put a girl into Wife Zone when some of those girls are psycho trash monsters. And that girls with markers of less fancy grooming are for fucking. This has as much to do with…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 06:28 PM
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Who knows why? Perhaps your attraction filters are diametrically opposed to your conscious romantic goals, and the only men who can push intensely enough for your interest are Players. Maybe you work or hang in a fuckboy rich environment. Maybe they aren’t actually super fuckboys but just basic dudes, and your expectations of male sexuality are just unrealistic for today’s dating. Like if you are making men wait ages for sex and you aren’t a supermodel, you are either selecting for losers, highl…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 04:46 PM
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Someone is paying you WAY too much if you cannot recognize the difference between fuckboys getting hung up on a title vs getting hung up on EXCLUSIVITY which prevents them from fucking other women. Hell, I am happy to take the boyfriend title for a girl who is fine with and encourages me to fuck other women. You are dating guys who want to fuck You and other women. They beg for you back when they hit a dry spot with other women. If you really follow your whole arc of logic through, you are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/19 04:34 PM
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Even luckier, you got to fuck them for a while but not deal with the lingering effects of it. Wasn’t trying to say they are a SAFE choice, just more an option that guys here are comically overblown about. Question for an individual is do the benefits outweigh the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 09:39 PM
1

Who said anything about not cheating?! Where is that mentioned once? The entire thing is about understanding the libido of your partner and not getting blasted with a fat frigid mommy cow
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:16 PM
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We are not talking about getting divorced or not. We are talking about maximizing the quality of the time you spend with people. Unless you want to be a super dad type building households (in which case behave yourself) you should at least entertain the idea that five years POST KIDS (and no marriage) is better than five years PRE KIDS (plus Marriage and divorce)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 08:06 PM
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i am saying it is a benefit to a man to be cut loose when the passion is over rather than being kept around as a placeholder. Wasn’t commenting on your specific situation as much as the general one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:47 PM
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You’ve clearly never belted out Blank Space at karaoke and realized how self aware much of her lyrics are. Also literally every song is about some tall mysterious dude who charms her and then fucks her over and then she SINGS. So bluepill. If anything her music is more about women who are grappling with traditional femininity while navigating modernity. I do think a lot of her music sucks, but just for formal reasons. Segueing from Taylor, Pop music in general is where all the ACTUAL disclosure …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:40 PM
2

Thanks it took twenty minutes over lunch and I didn’t have time to make it less obnoxious or shorter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:33 PM
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Well, at least you’d cut him loose early rather than dragging him around out of some sunk cost fallacy or optics maintenance while resenting his existence
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:28 PM
2

You just went from “protect assets” to full on Michael Scott “a family is friends who can’t leave you.” If you need that much certainty I’d avoid humans altogether
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:18 PM
2

Who said anything about marriage. Marriage is to have kids. She already has them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:14 PM
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Ah yes, tis better to have loved and lost a machiavellian booty pic thot than to have never had one at all. Question is if he could have pulled her in the first place if she wasnt. But yes agree all around.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 07:05 PM
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Lol one of the first things i read is from some batshit crazy person trying to understand why her equally batshit ex doesn’t do it for her anymore. https://www.reddit.com/r/love/comments/dwsklz/he_likes_me_but_i_cant_seem_to_like_him_back/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf The rest is mostly self indulgent oversharing of the kind everyone wants to hang the perverts over at r/sex for. Personally I’d rather get some dirty details rather than watch people wash their clean laundry …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/19 04:12 PM
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Oh holy shit i would just coast along on career and education and completely ignore men except occasional booty calls. (This is assuming i have the same parental drive. If i had baby rabies of any sort i would choose RADICALLY for husband material including how he responded to my appearance). Sexually? Given my deviant nature I’d probably end up like one of those middle aged wine cougars who goes to poor developing countries full of dark studs and gets all sloppy on them. Romantically? There is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/19 06:15 PM
2

A vague platitude that barely scratches the visceral feeling of revulsion from remembering that hamburger you’d never have touched sober
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:58 PM
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Pass the blunt, eboy, and let me tell you about this stuff called EATING. Srsly it’s so fucking gross, just like ingesting dead organisms (even you vegans) in public even tho everyone knows you’re just going to shit it all out later. And get this, it’s REQUIRED for staying alive. Do you ever look at a plate of food simultaneously starving and already disgusted with it? In all seriousness tho sometimes i think my sense of sexual shame got incorrectly placed on my food sense. My filthy MMF nights …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 08:49 PM
1

Knew some nola townies who roomed with one of those guys and he’d often come in totally faded and pass out in his paint
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/19 09:55 PM
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Lol at the assumption that who goes into sports has nothing to do with starting genetics. The old dudes you are talking about eye these boys like 4H livestock and cream their pants when they have a promising young hoss. (I’ve often wondered about the subculture of that whole scene, it seems like a weird fixation for heterosexual men but i think with only a few penn state exceptions these guys just truly have a platonic fascination with how much muscle mass the boys put on over the summer). You a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/19 07:36 PM
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Not at all. New mothers are justified assuming any rando is having an easier time they are, but something invisible like that is at least equivalent to the point you are peachy. She probably just figured you looked nice and capable and able to fit in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 03:34 PM
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Yes please try and give anti feminist edgelords a wider perspective on gender relations with your churchmarm norms. I am deeply shamed. Gonna flog myself for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 09:28 PM
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Usually wealthy and or white and or pretty / media adjacent women. Don’t get on their bad side. Uglies and poors and browns and yokels? Probably gonna be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 09:13 PM
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True rape is taken less seriously than it should be. Regret “rape” of the wrong women is sometimes taken more seriously than it should be. (IE situations where we don’t know what happened). Regret rape of the right women can also be treated less seriously than should be. And genuine false rapes are usually treated less seriously than they should be. (IE situations where it is proven the woman lied). Those simultaneous truths sort of constantly knock against each other like bumper cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 06:13 PM
2

Banter is great and useful as flirtation, and good banter acts as a sussing out of the landscape of interaction: what’s appropriate? What’s arousing? Etc It’s sort of like dirty talk in being subjective, and also being one of those things people can simultaneously REQUIRE when it’s good but also cringe hard at when it’s bad. And like dirty talk it has a very irregular map of appropriateness unique to individuals (ie an ex: “like whatever call me a useless cumbucket whore it’s great just don’t ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 03:19 PM
2

I talk a big game but i really miss that annoying ass (and deceased) shelter pitbull I only put up with at the time bc of the girl who adopted it. “I wish there was a way to know you’re in the good old days, etc”
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 01:11 AM
1

One of the biggest commonalities among the gloriously uninhibited nymphos I’ve dated has been an EXTREME attachment to animals. The mindset that creates the kind of feminine attitudes i value results in misanthropy and pet obsession. But you know? I fucking hate having a dog watch me fuck someone while it waits to go right back to its thirsty ass bullshit. And one of the biggest compromises I’ve ever made in a relationship is letting a dog on the bed. Cats belong on the bed; dogs belong on the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/19 12:45 AM
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Semi joke but here was my answer from the past. I have a Michelin-like ascending star system on plateaus of attraction I believe to be more honest and informative than 1-10, in part bc I believe consensus on a 1-10 scale is really only possible for tail ends at either side and thus it’s useless for the vast majority of people. This rates ppl solely by how you, the rater, feel about them. Zero stars is just the world around you with no attraction, whether neutral or actively ugly. Why bother pars…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/19 06:53 PM
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“Whales” is a gambling term loaned over to some forms of sex work referring to the small number of customers who spend obscenely and keep the place riding high IE really rich dudes spending stupid amounts of money
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 05:00 PM
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Yeah as a child of grunge/shoehaze i was basically trained to find it corny and do, but I’m glad someone made that aesthetic, bc it makes great kitsch In my hometown there was this duo of clubs (same ownership) where the choice was basically make meh money at a seedy portland style place where you could dance to all the trap music and sadgirl industrial you wanted, or else gyrate to Cherry Pie and make bank.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:41 PM
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It’s classic stripper music for the types of places where the manager won’t let the girls choose hip hop bc it makes the whales uneasy
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/19 04:30 PM
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I think your point is overdone a tad but has a lot more to it than is acknowledged here. For instance the ppl talking about age of marriage should arguably be talking about importance of marriage. Aside from assortive mating for UMC ppl it means increasingly less to everyone these days
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 06:03 PM
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And also fully socially enforced 1:1 monogamy creates the conditions for this by enabling a mass dysgenic overproduction of people (versus carrying capacity of infrastructure not ideal potential), thus necessitating expansion and conflict. But yes i agree. And now nukes make that mode of existence largely irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/19 03:44 PM
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One of the most depressingly stereotypical northeastern academic couple relationships I ever witnessed melted down when the guy got on another layer of anti depressants that finally killed his libido and it made him realize how little he actually liked his partner once the carrot of pussy was no longer effective. So, probably a bit like that. Otherwise it might be good for like basketball players who just can’t help going bare in every port or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/19 01:10 PM
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Sort of snowballed. My earlier ex is decently known in porn and i have three camming setups in my house and i am good at recognizing which tinder girls either cam or would
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/19 12:01 AM
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Uggff that AND the Egypt one are on my backlog. Did you see the thing about how the internal structure of the Great Pyramid they used was only theoretical whe they designed it, but after release the archaeologist whose work they referenced was vindicated by (I think) sonar?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 11:00 PM
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Lol at this jabroni who doesn’t know to keep prized pussy indoors and out of the sun. My girlfriend hasn’t left the radius of the chain she’s connected to the heater by in MONTHS
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 10:00 PM
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Ms Hammond I’m not sure who you are or how old you are or whatever but there are some incels who could probably use some ... uh affection and maybe if you were of service they’d pipe down around here. I’m sure they’re uhhh nice boys once you get to know them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:59 PM
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This is an excellent shitpost
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:53 PM
1

Fuck You don’t take away my agency i am my own problem nobody fucks shit up for me that I don’t want fucked up go fuck yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:46 PM
2

Only if i get to film and you can keep it up while I’m changing lenses or adjusting the lighting and the chick takes breaks to adjust makeup. Also when you’re hitting it doggie make sure to go in at an angle so i can get the penetration. And I’ll be hanging over your shoulder in the POV sections. Finally could you suck in a bit more? This genre IS as much about the guy and we want to make sure your figure looks aspirational. Also, gosh I don’t know how to say this but could you be a little more.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 09:01 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:54 PM
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Ah loove 'at easy access. naethin' loch a strang laddie passed oot frae buckie oan th' sidewalk in a bonny kilt https://i.pinimg.com/originals/53/a8/11/53a811ae3e0b372eb5f99ec1ff526851.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:46 PM
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GO BACK TO UR SJW SAFESPACE MANLET TRUDEAU IS CANADIAN JFK WHICH JUST MEANS HE IS NEPOTISTIC BUT TOO POLITE TO FUCK MARILYN MONROE AND ALL THE INTERNS WHILE JACKED UP ON METH LIKE AMERICAN JFK THAT IS WHY HE HAS TO PICK UP THOTS IN BROWNFACE. PLS DONT SHAME HIS DISABILITY OF BEING CANADIAN
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 08:39 PM
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[deleted] is clearly always going psychotic on the dionysian revel and having her hoplite husband drag her back to the oikos for her wifely duty. She closin her eyes and thinking of sappho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 07:36 PM
2

traditional western values ONLY for this twink
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:58 PM
12

Yay! I promise I’m smiling, you just can’t tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:46 PM
0

Shame about your racism. He’s probably better hung than a non black manlet
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:45 PM
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Sorry babe this your future: https://i.kym-cdn.com/photos/images/original/001/383/682/b9f.jpg
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:36 PM
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Oh god I cannot imagine. I don’t have boobs but it seems like natural ones would be even more cumbersome when you’re doing anything active. My ex went to a brilliant doctor and they look good but they definitely seem stay in place more than naturals
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:19 PM
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My ex who was a camgirl had 28 F tits (really basically just 28 and whatever cup they had over DD) and ppl always complained about fake tits and also always tipped her way more than the other three camgirls i dated who had natural tits
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 06:12 PM
2

Lol he taking your intellectual sloppy seconds. Pathetic! Then again who isn’t if you’re really a quantum manospherian present in multiple states via infinite alts
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:59 PM
1

If i want my eboys to have opinions I’ll tip you on cam and make you recite my favorite zizek passages. Now get out that dick pls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:27 PM
1

and stuff was in a much more clutch state centuries ago when al ghazali was grappling with the history of science and philosophy while europe was worshipping the pope’s shit. It’s all been a blur of unpleasantness to me since (minus some ottoman decadence) but if i had to choose I’d be on team Sunni just bc y’all have the Sufi tradition
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:24 PM
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I’ve always wondered what it felt like to be a world power supplying third world shit flingers with weapons of mass destruction just for laughs
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/19 05:04 PM
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