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You mostly went on about your situation rather than what you find immoral about seduction. I will fill in the blanks and give you my own interpretation. I think seduction can be immoral if utilised to the extent that you are no longer recognising the girls as people and are willing to lie to get what you want. But for the most part its not about lying, its about presenting the best form of yourself to attract partners. I think you should practice seduction, because it sounds to me like you are r…
/r/seduction12/11/17 10:46 AM
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Like I'm not sure how much further these would go even after he gets their numbers in these interactions. But what i must say is I respect his ability to just go. I think the ability to just be able to pull the trigger whenever like this is probably one of the best aspirations in seduction.
/r/seduction07/11/17 12:39 PM
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You can if you want to, but it doesn't really solve any of your problems. There are lots of ways to self improvement on this sub and if you stick at it you will get there.
/r/seduction29/10/17 01:03 PM
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"alright I'm gona head back to my mates, have a good night"
/r/seduction26/10/17 02:58 AM
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She wants you to cave to just friends whilst refusing to give you a shot as more than friends. If you have feeling for her, then stay firm, because otherwise you will be forever stuck desiring someone who won't be with you back. Stay the course man, but might i also recommend you try dating someone else if you haven't already. Seeing you with someone else might prompt a revelation on her part, especially seeing that you can be with other women, and won't be her fallback. If so, you might find yo…
/r/seduction23/10/17 10:46 AM
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yea i couldn't see her reaction as i was trailing at this point. I didn't take it personally at all, I'm just asking because i want to know if there is potential to improve. I was only physically escalating with the girl i was after. Thanks for the response.
/r/seduction02/10/17 01:54 PM
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Yea that's understandable. I am more confident than i used to, but still nowhere near the levels of the guys who do pick up videos. I think it all starts at the realisation that despite how people display themselves, everyone has doubts, uncertainty, insecurities and feel awkward at times. The difference is not that they aren't there, its that they don't give power to them and leth those things have power over them. Start off with mindset. don't look at someone thinking 'i might be bothering the…
/r/seduction20/09/17 08:10 AM
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"how tall are you" "5'10" "you are totally worth the climb" That's fucking gold.
/r/seduction19/09/17 02:46 PM
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My point was although you may not be an 8 or 10 like the other guy said, your look fine and don't really need much improvement. At that point it's more about confidence and communication skills. That said If you do still want to improve your looks, there is always something you can do. Going to the gym, takes a bit of effort, but will be the most rewarding for attractiveness payoff. Dressing nicely will help as a quick fix. The key is usually a good fit and simple style with a hint of flair. But…
/r/seduction18/09/17 04:40 AM
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i wouldn't go that high personally. That said, you are a good looking chap, and attractive enough that pretty much any girl is attainable.
/r/seduction17/09/17 02:34 PM
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I say its hard to get an average. Some girls are already looking for a date and can give you there number in 1-3 messages. Others are just mucking around on tinder and can take 10+ to be convinced. Honestly I usually try to ask pretty early, because if the conversation fades in to small talk it gets boring, and kinda takes away from go to talking topics for the 1st date. If you find and opportunity to ask smoothely, go for it. If you are running out jokes/things to say, then go for it.
/r/seduction15/09/17 04:29 AM
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i think planning things out is fine, but if your not replying to be mean, your conversations are just a play, then it removes the personal connection. Use game to enhance you, not replace you.
/r/seduction30/07/17 09:34 AM
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Yea he just sounds like a dickhead to me. He abused her at every opportunity he got, and I'm a bit disappointed that he was rewarded for it. It sounds like he has made his own value in independance attractiveness and success and would have got the girl either way, but decided to go further and be a dick, and praised that as the reason for success.
/r/seduction30/07/17 09:27 AM
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I think he is just putting it in to help market the video. It's decent, but no more insightful than any other video. Still it's nice to see it layed out for replication.
/r/seduction05/07/17 12:14 PM
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Yeas it is. I prefer to get into weird conversations and try to avoid small talk subjects. That said it's easier to do this, and although less fun, probably more effective.
/r/seduction30/06/17 01:35 AM
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Well this sub is about seducing women, not finding the girls that "really, really, really want it". You gave advice but it wasn't constructive. advice: don't have sex with girls who don't want to (solid 10/10 advice). Constructive advice: try seducing the women so they will want to have sex with you. See the difference.
/r/seduction17/06/17 02:05 AM
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No he is calling him rapey because a lot of LMR suggests that he is trying to push for sex with girls who are not warmed up to the idea. Rapey is a strong choice of term but you can see what he's saying. What the comment needs is something more constructive, like OP needs to set the mood better once they get back to his place.
/r/seduction16/06/17 02:02 AM
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It's not necessarily taken as a statement, but people are less inclined to interrupt you to approach if you are already engaged in the activity of listening to music.
/r/seduction20/05/17 05:49 AM
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I mean wearing headphones wont help your chances, as they may get the impression they are bothering you/keeping you from your music. As a guy, you are unlikely to get approached weather you are wearing them or not. If you are a girl then yea it won't help your chances, but listen to music when you want to and don't hold back from what you want to do on the chance of getting approached.
/r/seduction19/05/17 07:39 AM
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i mean they might just want to listen to music. But i agree with the conclusion that you shouldn't bother if they are wearing headphones as you have to fight for their attention.
/r/seduction19/05/17 07:34 AM
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If you have to ask then you are often missing build up elements like touch/kino that help set the mood. I have asked before but more so as a way to push existing closeness over the line. Really it's more like telling her you're going to kiss her rather than waiting for all the signs to align for a perfect opportunity. So things that could have gone wrong: 1) You guys weren't physically close enough, which meant the act of kissing would have required you guys to move closer, which makes it awkwar…
/r/seduction15/05/17 07:58 AM
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I'm trying to but your comments are baiting me back in. If my points were not concise, then that is my fault. But generally I lead with a sentence summarising the point and then follow with sentences elaborating/ explaining it. But If I need to keep everything in dot points to explain then i will take that on board. You're right I did make an assumption, but i confirmed it by quickly reviewing your post history to see something about 'going out solo', and 'not drinking'. Not doing so to judge, j…
/r/seduction14/05/17 03:14 PM
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You ignored them because they tie in to the points to complete an arguement you can't refute, however I will concede that i've laced my points with insults. The point on the psychopathic behaviour is not to say everyone on this sub is a bad person, it's to express how concern for others is not this subs strong suit. Thus discrediting this subs opinion on what defines creepy behaviour. Just because it works, doesn't mean it's not creepy. That aligns perfectly with the goalposts I outlined initial…
/r/seduction14/05/17 08:57 AM
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Well finally I agree with you. This is what we are both answering, however it is you who is questioning my response, and I am defending that standpoint. One of the main points I am pointing out is that whilst this sub may not find it creepy, the broader society does.
/r/seduction14/05/17 08:05 AM
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hey galactic fury, I'm back again. No it is not a separate question, it's in the post. Read beyond the title.
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:53 PM
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you didn't figure it out hey? that's a shame. You then made more extrapolations. That's embarrassing.
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:50 PM
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I'm not shaming guys who want to club sober. I'm saying if it's not your scene, as it clearly isn't for OP, then you don't need to make it your scene because you can pick up drunk girls. This sub provides plenty of daygame advice, and fundamentals about improving game. Why don't you give him advice on that instead?
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:48 PM
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I was trying to be civil about this, but alright let's go. I know what this sub is fundamentally about, and the principals of it. I also know that whilst much of the tips and advice is useful for self improvement, many of those who preach it on this sub use the same speil to justify immoral and psychopathic behaviour. and that's not just me talking shit, there is a well documented link between success in seducing women and psychopathic behaviour. Now I still appreciate them explaining the inner …
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:34 PM
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wow did you misunderstand everything i said that badly? I'll let you reread that, figure out how grossly you misinterpreted it and then try that reply again.
/r/seduction12/05/17 11:55 AM
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well 1st up, 'creepy' is a subjective social opinion, and thus the best way to define it is by broader social opinion. But my main issue here is that you are trying to reframe the issue as 'picking up at a club', when the issue is going alone and sober to pick up at a club. The creepy aspect isn't necessarily how you carry yourself in the club, but the reasons you have decided to do this. You are correct, we are all out for an experience and for many hooking up. But the issue is the disparity be…
/r/seduction12/05/17 02:29 AM
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While I do agree with you to some extent, I think there is a point where that opinion becomes legitimised. As I stated they probably will be too drunk to notice or care that you are sober. And you're right, drunk dudes in clubs do probably creep some chicks out, but part of the idea is you are all on the same level and it's fair game. The problem with this scenario is you are coming in to seek someone whose inhibitions and ability to think have been notably lowered below yours. What i'm saying i…
/r/seduction12/05/17 01:54 AM
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I'd say yea it's creepy, although i know almost every guy on this sub would say otherwise, and many probably do it themselves. I just think it's weird for a sober guy to go where girls are at their drunkest to be on the prowl. Are people there gonna think you're creepy? probably not most are too drunk to give a shit about what you're doing. But if your not there to dance and just to find drunk women to boost your odds of scoring that's creepy. That said going to a bar is fine. Not drinking is yo…
/r/seduction11/05/17 02:16 PM
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I find girls that are that tool are often still open to guys shorter than them within reason. Because they don't get approached by a lot of the smaller guys, they are a bit more receptive to when someone does approach. That's my experience anyway.
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:27 PM
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6ft is a nice marker for being tall. But your probably not looking at any significant problems unless you are shorter than the girl.
/r/seduction27/03/17 12:17 PM
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yea, i mean my plan was to go an intimate bar, but when she declined drinks i didn't really have a backup plan.
/r/seduction15/03/17 11:35 AM
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well its understandable for someone to make an excuse rather than gho with such a blunt and harsh option. calling the other dude a bad guy is a dick move on her part. The benefit of working on yourself is not so much to get assured results but to increase your chances, and in the mean time you have a better self to fall back on. It's hard to give comments on what you are doing wrong when i don't know the nature of your interactions. I sometimes have similar problems conveying my interest so some…
/r/seduction12/03/17 12:44 PM
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Honestly although it sucks, she probably just wasn't interested. I'm sure she does feel some of those reasons as to not date people from work, but only uses them as justification on top of the primary reason of her not finding you attractive enough to go for the commitment involved in dating a colleague. Maybe if you knew her in another scenario she might be willing to give you a go, but in the work place it should be a strong yes off the bat for both of you, not a yes and hmm i guess so. So yea…
/r/seduction12/03/17 06:12 AM
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This sounds like a much more reasonable way of putting it
/r/seduction25/02/17 02:13 AM
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Everyone here seems to be saying you should make a note to stare at her cleavage, and to make sure she catches you. There is nothing wrong with your eyes drifting down for a peek, and even for her to see it, but this really does not sound like a viable way to go about seducing women. Am I taking crazy pills here?
/r/seduction21/02/17 11:15 AM
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I wouldn't say people who use hard pick up are fake, but i would say they are disingenuous. I feel fake is just a poor choice of synonym for that. That is not to say all interactions and aspects of game are disingenuous, but enough of it is to make such a claim.
/r/seduction09/02/17 01:37 PM
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I feel plenty of people here have drifted the line into being an asshole, and are either ignorant of it or don't care. The fact that you are questioning it is a good thing. As for what was your advice like? well it kinda depends on the situation and who was at fault. But generally speaking telling someone to fuck off will not resolve any dispute. From what i can tell though, I don't think you are properly distinguishing pick up game from relationships. Having the power in pick up helps cultivate…
/r/seduction07/02/17 01:58 PM
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For me i always feel like im being a creep by staring. I have a hard time shaking that.
/r/seduction06/02/17 01:09 PM
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geez man, chill out and stop trying to kill it. The premise is similar enough to be funny.
/r/seduction02/02/17 12:24 PM
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the post was about deleting posts, then the top comment is a deleted post
/r/seduction01/02/17 01:16 PM
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hahahahha
/r/seduction01/02/17 12:11 PM
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Masturbate less, and you will become more horny and more motivated as a result. Also there is nothing wrong with taking a break from the dating seen, but you don't want to become too complacent about it. alternatively you could try dating girls that have similar interests to you so you can hang out more naturally without it feeling like work and preperation. good luck.
/r/seduction28/01/17 12:32 PM
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I'm no expert, but as far as my understanding of theory its something like this. For a indirect approach the fact that you are starting a conversation with a stranger showcases your confidence. I feel like the indirect approach allows them to gain comfort with you without having to make a snap decision if they are interested or not. So maybe after you have made the indirect approach you need to utilize opportunities in the conversation to make your intentions clear. With a direct approach (depen…
/r/seduction17/01/17 10:39 AM
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thanks
/r/seduction12/01/17 01:47 PM
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I knew i had decent looks, but I almost never got laid, and never really felt like i knew what to do. I blamed it on a number of things, growing up in a guys school with only brothers. Not being popular in school. Just being the nice guy. But having excuses are bloody useless. I started by just trying to get instructional videos on how to dance better, and kept finding more videos until i realised there is a whole art to seduction.
/r/seduction06/12/16 02:33 PM
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I think asking her to go get coffee is better. I'm no expert buit this is how i see it in my mind. Coffee is does not say date, but its suggestive enough to make her think maybe it is maybe it isn't. that gets her thinking about you in the right way of would i date him, and then after the coffee you can ask her out again and get her number. Giving her the number in scenario A puts you out there but its no longer something she can just go along with until she makes up her mind, it becomes make a …
/r/seduction01/12/16 10:15 AM
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I think I saw something on another post here suggesting that you make an effort to get on with her friends at some point. If they like you, then they will allow her to like you.
/r/seduction24/11/16 01:52 PM
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I feel obligated to say hi
/r/seduction22/11/16 10:31 AM
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Your look might amplify this image, but the solution isn't neccisarily in how you dress. I think its more about how you carry yourself and how friendly you come across. From a distance this may seem the case but if you are friendly and smile a lot when you approach then this won't be an issue.
/r/seduction22/11/16 10:30 AM
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That sounds painful. you need to explain to him how the friendzone works. If you are going to start something up with someone its when you 1st meet them, see them for the 1st time in a long time, or one of you just gets out of a relationship. There needs to be something to spark it, because people don't just change their mind.
/r/seduction15/11/16 01:23 PM
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You're correct that not being able to pass these tests will reflect poorly on you, however it doesn't necessarily destroy your chances. How you go about answering these questions can make the difference. Try to avoid answering with a tone of descent, where you try to explain and over explain the areas of your life that aren't going as strong. Try to keep it short, positive and optimistic, maybe convey that you kind of like the way things are.
/r/seduction15/11/16 08:37 AM
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You might be able to, there are no guarantees. It depends how bad she wants to see you, as lots of girls don't want to confront guys in the friendzone as its generally pretty uncomfortable. Even if it does work, he is likely to still feel bitter towards you, but thats mostly his problem, and your friendship might still be able to go on. If she does confront him, i think he would have a harder time saying no to her, and it might help him move on.
/r/seduction15/11/16 08:26 AM
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You need to talk to mark and try help him understand that what he is doing is not working and try get him to move on. Mark is the unreasonable one in this scenario, but knowing how he feels it would be a bad friend thing to do to proceed without his blessing. I have a best friend who tried claiming a girl who was giving me vibes. We both had a bit of an argument over it but i argued the case of this is happening for me now, and i won't make a move (beyond flirting, to keep the tension alive) wit…
/r/seduction15/11/16 08:10 AM
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I can't say i have been to a rave, but this how i generally handle dance floor hookups. priority 1 is dance and have fun, as women are more attracted to people having fun, and even if things go wrong, at least you had fun. Don't go for big conversations, you won't be able to hear each other and that level of groundwork is not a necessity. In saying that, if there is a quiet place away from the noise don't be afraid to start conversations. because although its not a necesity in this scenario, it …
/r/seduction06/11/16 02:45 PM
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I think some people just prefer a video medium. It can make the information easier to ingest.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:56 PM
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Yea definitely. It's not just that someone is secretly filming the interaction, but i find the interactions themselves always look so uncomfortable, forced and awkward. Despite that i still find them useful as it shows how you can get results, even if it's not a perfect and smooth scenario. Its one thing to be told to go up and try something, but actually seeing it helps you think, yea i can do that.
/r/seduction20/10/16 01:54 PM
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I would't say i'm an expert yet but to me it does sound like you have been a bit too passive about this. If you're chatting with a girl at the club and doing kino then thats a great start as it builds a bit of familiarity with you. If you are in a club, then you are in a good position to escalate, and you should be looking to land a kiss either way. For me i usually find it easiest to go for the kiss on the dance floor as you can get in their space, grind with them, lock eyes and kiss. Probably …
/r/seduction13/10/16 12:27 PM
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You are correct that she is not legally owe me anything. But the most basic social expectations implies that she does. No one makes people follow these social expectations, but those who don't are assholes. It sounds like the girls you're used to have zero standards and are likely plagued with std's, hopefully one of these std's will remove you from the gene pool. That's assuming your lack of basic intellect doesn't find a way to do it 1st.
/r/seduction06/10/16 09:11 AM
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Because this wasn't some girl I randomly met on the night, so yea there is an unspoken level of commitment for the that relatively short time period we are out on our date. Beyond that she's all good to meet and fuck whoever she wants. Is this another case of your poor literacy skills misunderstanding the situation or are you actually the only guy in this thread (possibly seddit) who can't comprehend that. Your attempts to white knight this girl you don't know are so cringe.
/r/seduction05/10/16 12:43 PM
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Wow, i could go on to explain this to you again, and point out how you once again made the same errors in this post but more condensed, but i doubt you would be able to comprehend it. It seems almost as if you defend this girl so hard because you relate to her, and i must say i never expected to finish on this thread by feeling sorry for you. At least you don't have to suffer the shame of being capable of understanding why.
/r/seduction05/10/16 11:14 AM
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Sorry buddy I appreciate the effort here but i really don't think this is a very good response. You seem to be completely misreading the circumstances to project what honestly seems like an unreasonable arguement that this whole date was a fuck up. The date had been going well up to that point, and we had been making out tonnes just before i left. Now you make a good point about maybe breaking the connection, however I obviously didn't think it was going to take that long. But you ruin your poin…
/r/seduction04/10/16 08:04 AM
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Yea it's kind of hard to walk into such an unexpected situation and then take a game approach over your natural inclinations. I didn't get angry or raise my voice but when i started talking to her she just remained silent with her head hung low. The next day she blocked me on fb & snapchat and cut off all contact, so there is nothing more to savour. She was pretty embarrassed by the situation and just didn't want to face me.
/r/seduction04/10/16 07:16 AM
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Thanks for the tips mate much appreciated. I was hoping to find something to take away from this experience and your comment has delivered. I chose somewhere to dance because its a scenario i am familiar with for transitioning to hook ups. I was mostly after a root in this so i thought escalating on the dfloor might help
/r/seduction03/10/16 02:02 PM
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yea I'd just bumped into them so i was doing the hey how are you going with them. If I had known things would go south i would have considered that.
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:32 AM
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well we had hopped to a few places but i called the venues, although the cover charge was larger than i thought. she had a couple of drinks but she didnt really have many she liked the taste of. we were both sober on meeting and rocking a light drunk by the end.
/r/seduction03/10/16 11:30 AM
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I went to get a drink and asked her if she wanted one too. I waited in line to get a drink but the service was slow. My mates just happened to be there.
/r/seduction03/10/16 03:27 AM
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I agree with this so much. Its one of my biggest problems with this sub.
/r/seduction26/09/16 04:45 AM
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PLEASE FUCK ME - very satisfactory.
/r/seduction24/09/16 11:11 AM
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I don't think i agree with this. You shouldn't have to curb your humour. Maybe you just need to make sure you are not relying on humour alone. You need to flirt and touch her too, and maybe just make sure you don't blow opportunities to make a joke.
/r/seduction24/09/16 11:08 AM
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I don't know the what the vibe so take all this advice with a grain of salt, but you could try using the messaging side of snapchat and try get a date. If you wanted to try integrate the medium a bit more you could send her a picture of you somewhere and write would you like to join me next time. Honestly we all like to play safe and try build rapport and transition organically, but sometimes you just got to be bold. However if you are more so looking for a sexual partner/nudes over dating maybe…
/r/seduction24/09/16 10:45 AM
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nah im sure you're fine, i just suck at trivia, and only know the ones everyone knows.
/r/seduction01/09/16 10:24 AM
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No your a lying piece of shit. You are just here playing with our hearts and emotions and i hope you get near fatal wounds in a pit of fire and snakes forcing you to live out the rest of your life in a wheelchair! And one of the wheels on the chair periodically jams for like no reason.
/r/seduction01/09/16 10:23 AM
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top comment, its got 2 points dude
/r/seduction30/08/16 11:48 AM
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and also reveal that you got nothing between yours
/r/seduction30/08/16 11:47 AM
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Yea dude I feel ya. Seddit and other people that have mastered seduction come across as very ingenuine, and often willing to lie to help get the girls. My attitude is to take the valid reasoning that supports the actions and lines of this sub, but just use that knowledge to help bring some strategy to your own game rather than mimicking theirs.
/r/seduction29/08/16 09:55 AM
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Although im sure i will get downvoted heavy for this, I hate this stuff, where they are making the girls so uncomfortable at times, as seen in the early the body language. Don't get me wrong, i understand it is one of the most effective forms of game, and she is obviously keen enough to stick around. I just prefer to build up over a longer period of time rather than such rapid escalation. Being so methodical and forceful just feels a bit rapey to me. I have respect for his game, confidence, conc…
/r/seduction25/08/16 10:17 AM
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I agree with this. Electronic communication is a bit of a false connection. You build up rapore and connection, but then a lot of it fades when you meet up with each other because communication is so much more than just verbal. Talk online to draw them in and maybe aquire a bit of interest, but don't over indulge on it. if you get the like button, then they are acknowledging the last thing you said but they are not trying to further the conversation. The ideal scenario is you end the conversatio…
/r/seduction24/08/16 03:16 PM
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yea this has happened to me before, i don't really get it and i'd love to know what's going on when it happens. I Just decided to move on when it happened to me.
/r/seduction21/08/16 07:30 AM
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yea I know, that's why i went on to describe the gender roles and how a confident male feeds into that, in most scenarios anyway.
/r/seduction12/08/16 09:40 AM
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Well the way i see it, the positive traits i described require confidence, confidence doesn't require stupidity.
/r/seduction11/08/16 02:22 PM
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Not a female, but i think i could offer some theory. Confidence is attractive in anyone, not just males. People are drawn to and want to hang out with those having a good time, hich confidence often comes hand in hand with. And to guess why it's considered a more attractive trait in men is because the male gender role is often to take the lead and often be dominant. Confidence is a crucial part in fulfilling this role.
/r/seduction11/08/16 11:34 AM
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I feel its the wrong sub, but it has motivated me to finally get out of bed today, so theres that.
/r/seduction02/08/16 04:15 AM
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thanks mate
/r/seduction01/08/16 10:47 AM
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Im going to be getting myself off in my room tonight, wana cum too?
/r/seduction01/08/16 08:24 AM
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fair enough, you too.
/r/seduction26/07/16 10:05 AM
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Most girls are already keen for it at that point, and i can tell you from experience you don't have to commit to being a complete sleaze to bring back girls. I was giving you some polite feedback, then you chose to make groundless extrapolations about me. So why don't i do the same and say that you sound like you've been accused of rape several times. But don't worry it's a numbers game as i'm sure you swear your life by.
/r/seduction26/07/16 04:21 AM
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I appreciate your contributions to this sub and there is some good information in here. I must say, although i love your premade responses to situations, i do feel like you cross some lines. I think its fine saying we don't have to have sex, but saying we are not is definitive, and pretty much a straight up lie, which im not a fan of. When you go back you have alright odds of persuading them after making out and feeling up for a bit but i believe if you say we don't have to have sex, you need to…
/r/seduction26/07/16 03:57 AM
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I had a similar situation. basically after she didn't respond to my message, i sent her one saying something along the lines of, if you don't wana see me thats cool, but its a bit rude not to respond. I got the wishy washy i was busy, im not sure if i want to be seeing anyone right now, had ex problems last week.
/r/seduction24/07/16 11:51 AM
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I've heard stuff like blue eyes, make you come across as less trustworthy, and some people just have a more stern type of attractiveness. However to have that attractiveness is never a bad thing. You're problem clearly isn't your demeanor, but the fact that your not approaching, and making them feel comfortable. You're doing what i always used to do and making excuses that are unsolvable to take the blame off yourself. The way you carry yourself and approach will have more affect than any of the…
/r/seduction05/07/16 01:08 AM
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What do you propose in its place. Some girls aren't keen to go home with you up until at least the 3rd. so other than drinks, could you suggest at least 2 other dates, that might help me build towards sealing the deal?
/r/seduction04/07/16 02:49 PM
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