I'm alright with coffee or a bar where i can sit up next to her and usually touch her leg or dance with her, but sometimes I find myself taking a girl to dinner or lunch and I'm not sure how to build the contact and my physical presence. I also consider doing some physical dates like rock climbing or trampolining, but i feel if i do this then i once again forgo the ability to get close and establish a kino presence. i'm new to thisa sub, what advice can you give me on this type of seduction?