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| 247 | If you want to lay over and die, don't take the rest of us with you. Kick him to the curb nowI wish I could unread this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/22 06:34 AM |
| 12 | Pickmes contributing to the idea that women should be low maintenanceOh no what does blogilates say about that?! I watch her workout videos on YouTube, I didn't know she ever talked about relationships. I do have a vague idea that her husband works for her company | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 06:43 PM |
| 553 | Play stupid games, win stupid prizesLMAO!!! The best part was at the beginning when he mentioned how he gained a son and from the way he said it I thought "ah, he meant he finally has his boy that he always wanted after being 'stuck' with girls". Then he literally went on to confirm it! He "could not care less" about having a boy--yeah right. His daughters saw right through him What a trashy, mundane man. Cheating with the secretary is so cliche | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/22 12:45 AM |
| 263 | When they tell you to settle for the guy’s attractiveness and the moment he levels up, he dumps you.So he wanted her to stick to a diet plan bc now he thinks he's all "hot", but really it was just an excuse to bodyshame her and try to get her to be the bad guy and leave him? I literally know a girl who had a similar scenario happen to her. She was with this guy for TWO YEARS when he suddenly started telling her she was fat blah blah blah. She ended up quitting her job to WORK AT A GYM and developed an eating disorder. Guess what? He was cheating on her with her apartment roommate!!! Here's som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/22 07:27 AM |
| 34 | Porn ruins menGood god I couldn't even finish reading this if there are just soooo many women willing to have kinky sex with him, why didn't he marry one of them, hm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 07:47 PM |
| 299 | What are warning signs that the man may become physically abusive?If he makes you think everything is your fault I've observed this phenomenon over and over again with women who end up in abusive relationships. They reach a point where they can no longer see that anything is wrong with HIM, because the guy convinces them that THEY are the ones with the issue. Sadly had to get one of my relatives out of a situation like this (luckily she's okay now). She was convinced it was all her fault that he was acting terribly--it took an outsider perspective to break h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 05:27 AM |
| 79 | A quality 1ct diamond can be over 10k, BUT Reddit society agrees that $7500 on an engagement ring is INSANEI went and scrolled through the comments on the original post and feel fueled by righteous fury on her behalf NEVER let someone treat you the way this guy or any of the stupid commenters on that post are acting. They act like she's some money-whore for wanting something It's OKAY to want things. You should want things! We are not buddhist monks who give up their worldly possessions for spiritual reasons Also: redditors always insist the ring is "no big deal!" but clearly it IS a big deal or he w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/22 05:17 AM |
| 5 | A story from a recovering pickme & libfem. Embarrassed to tell my friends what happened to me and do not have family I can talk about this with. Hoping to find support here.I can't believe I actually read this entire thing. GIRL!!! First off, you are TOO GOOD for any of that absolute BULLSHIT you experienced. Secondly, I'm just going to offer some random stream of consciousness feedback because there is just so much to be commented on in this tale Never tell a guy your past sexual history. Don't tell a guy how many partners you've had or ANYTHING. The most I would maybe say is, "I've had a little experience but nothing major" or some version of that. The only other… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:30 AM |
| 59 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scroteI know it's so scary!!! I feel bad for this lady, her entire life has imploded | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:15 AM |
| 39 | Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scrotePOTENTIALLY cheating?! Honey he ain't cheating, he's a paedophile Don't confront this monster! She should file a police report and hire a lawyer and file for divorce. Before that, she needs a bug-out bag or something and a safe place to stay. Obviously she needs to get away from him ASAP and you don't want to confront a man who may up his crazy even more and hurt you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:13 AM |
| 9 | “AITA For Buying My Fiancée A Lab-Grown Diamond And Refusing To Exchange It For A Natural Stone?” What does FDS think? Disclaimer: Article is pretty old, but found it on my feed. Comments are saying that he should leave her…😩Yes it's important to get what you want! Once again, reminder that grown diamonds and mined diamonds are both REAL! They are made of the exact same compounds. I noticed you said lab vs. "real" (mined) diamonds, and I just wanted to clear that up for anyone else reading--BOTH are real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 129 | “AITA For Buying My Fiancée A Lab-Grown Diamond And Refusing To Exchange It For A Natural Stone?” What does FDS think? Disclaimer: Article is pretty old, but found it on my feed. Comments are saying that he should leave her…😩Now I'm all for women getting whatever is most special to them. Also I never want to side with a guy lol But grown diamonds are 100% REAL diamonds (regardless of what some people have commented). They are made of carbon just like earth-mined diamonds. Also, $20,000 for a ring is GENEROUS so I don't think he is being stingy. As far as resale value goes, in general diamonds are just not worth a lot (despite popular belief) and their price fluctuates wildly. If you want something with high resale v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 06:14 AM |
| 23 | Sigh. Ladies, tell me what you think.I'm going to be adding the phrase "woo-ass motherfuckers" into my daily repertoire now thank you 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 05:55 AM |
| 5 | 'He proposed and a few days later we went ring shopping'I see thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 04:57 AM |
| 13 | 'He proposed and a few days later we went ring shopping'hahahaha see that's kind of how I feel. I want design control over something I'm going to wear every day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 04:57 AM |
| 101 | 'He proposed and a few days later we went ring shopping'I would never accept a proposal without any ring at all! That's crazy. And also, surprise proposals on Christmas can be reaaaally awkward (exhibit A - my aunt's ex boyfriend who got down on one knee in front of the entire family and she pretended to accept and then later rejected him in private, as to not ruin Christmas). However, I am really curious about proper engagement ring etiquette. Should a guy pick out the ring completely on his own? Should it be 100% a surprise? Or is it okay to go rin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/22 12:46 AM |
| 3 | We have a fragile one.This is random but your avatar is super cute!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:55 PM |
| 16 | We have a fragile one.You know, I read a book awhile back called "Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion" by Robert Cialdini. He mentioned we are biased to associate people who talk about positive things (like a sports team winning a game) as also being more positive people, and vise versa In FDS's case it's totally true. They think that because we point out injustice against women, we're somehow bad? It's total nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 10:51 PM |
| 181 | We are living in a clown world 🤡Ma'am, your daughter is not in a poly relationship, she is the other woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 05:45 AM |
| 26 | Valentine’s Day Is Coming UpHow long have you been seeing this guy? Are you official? If I'm officially dating someone and they give me a gift, I would get them a card. Do you live in the city or somewhere less populated? Tbh a video call/uber eats date isn't my cup of tea. If you live somewhere you can safely social distance and the weather isn't terrible, you could try a picnic date (but not a low-effort one. He should bring an actual picnic blanket and a delicious basket of food) or a nice restaurant with outdoor seatin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 03:55 AM |
| 343 | Guy is sexist and racist, shocked that makes him an assholeAt least the comment section was rightfully roasting him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 03:46 AM |
| 209 | I want your stories: Have you ever dated a guy who really looked up to guys like Elon Musk or Bill Gates & What was your experience?Similar but slightly different: I had a guy (we'll call him X) who pursued me that idolized Jordan Belfort, the man Wolf of Wall Street is based on. He's X's life aspiration and the reason X went into finance. I've never seen the movie but I was familiar with the general premise and thought he was joking. Why would you want to idolize a promiscuous drug addict who swindled people out of money? Needless to say X threw a temper tantrum and talked about how drugs are his life?! It was nuts. And som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 02:51 AM |
| 7 | When your husband sets a timer for how long you spend together each dayWow so she also knows that he's a creep or else she wouldn't have mentioned how he's helping a woman who is "young and pretty like I used to be." Barf. Hope she gets back on her feet in the literal sense and uses them to run away from him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/22 02:31 AM |
| 17 | Are they ridiculous, or do you have a husband that won’t do basic shit!WHY is this the funniest thing I've ever read 😭😭😭😂😂?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 09:23 PM |
| 50 | This made me throw up in my mouth just a littleWHOA, his 5th marriage?! Brb gotta go down an internet rabbit hole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/22 04:43 AM |
| 153 | Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much pornYeah I think the expectation that women "should" be completely hairless is CRAZY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/22 11:27 PM |
| 56 | Pretty Privilege is Real, But False and Fleeting.THANK YOU!!! I agree, it's not a privilege to have disgusting people fixate on you. I believe the concept of "pretty privilege" is just another way to control women, pit them against each other, and take the onus off of men for their behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:10 AM |
| 13 | Reddit does hate womenOH I SAW THIS ONE! She was rightfully annoyed that he (probably purposely) spelled her name wrong and clapped back accordingly. I mean come on, the name is in the profile! He dished it out but he couldn't take it when she turned it back around on him by calling out lying about his height in his profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/22 05:06 AM |
| 10 | Why you shouldn’t live together before marriage: 2 real-life examplesGreat question! Here are some of my thoughts, if anyone else has any tips feel free to chime in: Look at how he treats all of the relationships in his life. Is he good to his mother? If his family isn't in the picture, why? How is he with his friends? What are his political views? Does he donate to charity? How does he treat animals? See if you can find out about his past relationships. How does he talk about ex's? Even better if you can find out their names and do some digital sleuthing. Typica… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/21 06:20 AM |
| 114 | Why you shouldn’t live together before marriage: 2 real-life examplesI understand the people saying they want to see who a man really is by moving in with him in the comments or that it isn't financially practical to live alone, but the downsides of moving in before marriage are FAR greater. If it's financially impractical to live on your own, get other roommates who are women. Also, the secret to who a man is isn't hiding in his apartment--you should be able to figure him out without needing to live at his place. When the relationship goes south, you will be SCR… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 07:05 PM |
| 114 | Have any of you ever dated a widower? What was the experience like? Would you advise against it?I am not a widow but I have a positive widowed story from a friend of mine She's married to a man who was previously widowed and she's almost blissfully happy. They've been together for quite a few years now, maybe a decade? His first wife suffered from a rare illness and slowly wasted away while he took care of her the entire time. After she died, he waited a year or two before he began dating again and that's how they connected. They have pictures of the dead wife displayed in their house and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/21 06:08 AM |
| 68 | Was anyone else CONVINCED they were asexual?Omg the lingerie = "empowerment" argument KILLS ME. That's literally just a marketing tactic to get women to buy it that is now regurgitated by normal people. Like hello, unless my bra is gonna give me superpowers or something that's not how clothes work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 04:48 AM |
| 29 | FDS stance on men having sex toys?Uh...if I was your brother's friend I would feel deeply disturbed by that but pretend everything was normal until he left and then throw it away and avoid him for all of eternity. Would you buy one of your friends a sex toy? I'm gonna assume no. Unless you're in a sexual relationship with someone (even then that's dicey) that's super duper weird :-| | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 04:44 AM |
| 121 | Was anyone else CONVINCED they were asexual?This is an aside but you're 6'2"?! You have so much power. Please tell me you tell guys you're 5'8" just to bother them a little bit mwahahahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 01:12 AM |
| 186 | Forever GF finally done after being forced to care for BF's stinky slobbering furbabyShe should high five that dog he ironically saved her (maybe an air-five from a distance bc of her allergies) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 01:09 AM |
| 52 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?Glad he's your ex he sounds like a tool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 01:07 AM |
| 116 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?THIS is the one. I legit have wondered if a man I was close to was gay because he just seemed to prefer men in all regards. But he's not, it's like some dudes are just obsessed with other dudes???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 01:06 AM |
| 35 | Why do men act so nice to other people but seem to hate their own wife and children?I totally agree with you. You see it all over social media, people who brag just a little too much but in actuality seem really fragile. However I do think you can not hate yourself and be hateful to others. That's the type of cruelty I don't understand--the one where they dig the knife in a little bit deeper seemingly just because they can. Would you consider that a spectrum of narcissism or some other personality disorder, or is it just run of the mill misogyny or something else? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/21 01:05 AM |
| 4 | My Friend's Husband is About to Ruin Her Entire Career. This is why you should always be financially independentTHIS comment should be shouted from the rooftops. You are an individual before anything else!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 06:30 AM |
| 6 | Am I on a different planet? 🙃Do you wanna be friends? 😂 i feel like you're living the same life as me!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 08:11 AM |
| 18 | SeX iS eXpEcTeD - Man is trying to coerce9 woman to have sex with him and everyone is cool with this??Yeah I was thinking about the math on this. There's about 20 weeks in 5 months, and 10 dates mean she's seen him once a week for half of them. I see coworkers more often than that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 05:05 AM |
| 7 | I have cripplingly low self esteem.It sounds like your addiction stems more from your self-hatred than anything. You don't feel good about yourself most of the time so your body looks for anything to make it feel better . This article might be a good read for you: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/living-forward/201512/how-get-what-you-really-want As far as losing weight and exercise goes, the number one thing causing you to retain weight is stress. You should give yourself permission to wallow in your bad feelings right no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/21 04:59 AM |
| 12 | Why do men gain weight after getting engaged?😥oh no that's an interesting point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 04:45 AM |
| 19 | Why do men gain weight after getting engaged?ah i would say it's much more of a family culture here. everyone is ready to settle down quickly and it's very family-unit oriented | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 04:44 AM |
| 18 | Why do men gain weight after getting engaged?Really? I guess so I'm just surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 01:49 AM |
| 27 | Why do men gain weight after getting engaged?Really? See I always thought that was the norm but it's totally not been the case | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 01:47 AM |
| 879 | Ask Amy: I think my wife is lazy for not having a career while raising our kidsWow. He basically lists all the ways his wife is awesome and then tries to spin it like she sucks. I love how he acts like she's some rando who flew down out of the sky to take his precious sperm and money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/21 12:42 AM |
| 4 | If you’ve watched Selling Sunset, you know all of them would be better off without their useless men.Exactly. She shouldn't have had to be back immediately after her high risk pregnancy though. I think she clearly wanted more time off, but couldn't take it because of the threat to her job. Emma seems like a trust fund baby who inherited her family's money and biz. Which is fine, but she went on about how she was all a "boss babe" and powerful and they shot her in slow motion. When actually confronted, she couldn't hold her own | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 08:47 PM |
| 14 | If you’ve watched Selling Sunset, you know all of them would be better off without their useless men.LMAO this article was so right. I have to say I have mixed feelings about Romain. I initially strongly disliked him, but I think some of his anger at Davina was justified. Davina definitely has crossed a few lines However, my biggest shock is at how they've all had the audacity to treat Christine. I really feel like they took advantage of her pregnancy to be as terrible people as possible. Yes, Christine is not some innocent victim. But it seemed sort of apparent that her being the "villain" was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 06:33 AM |
| 71 | Is FDS a new take on dating or just the pendulum swinging back?This is an underrated comment. You just summed up what I have subconsciously thought throughout my dating life and watching my other friends get married. It makes me feel the ICK when women I know say "Well, at least he doesn't beat me" or that he has a good job so they tolerate his reprehensible behavior (when they themselves have good jobs?! It's like the cultural narrative is so strong they don't know that they can just...leave) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/21 09:41 PM |
| 12 | Tropes I’m tired ofTHAT'S ONE OF THE ONES I DROPPED!!!! But so many people love that one! I thought it was creepy. They draw her so much smaller than him also it makes her look like a child! And then they make her act all sad and desperate for some guy who is basically her rapist. YUCK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 01:32 AM |
| 11 | Tropes I’m tired ofomg which manga are you describing? that sounds like so many I've picked up and then dropped because ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 10:35 PM |
| 101 | Acrobatic sex from his poor wife still isn’t good enough for this hypocritical idiot! (Reposting)"I hadn't considered how scary my disinterest and apathy in my marriage would have been to my wife"--you haven't considered how your wife feels about anything, ever, buddy. posts like this make me want to never marry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 09:06 PM |
| 239 | Posted in reddit 'Made me smile'. The bar is in hell.The mom of one of my childhood friends was diagnosed with breast cancer, and I kid you not within 3 months her husband filed for divorce. But plot twist she LIVED and I'm glad she's free of him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 07:15 AM |
| 6 | Male Friends StandardsUh hmm. I don't think you should always have to be the one going to them. They should definitely be coming down to visit you sometimes. But taking the train to the city occasionally is fine if you want to be in the city and happen to visit them However, remember to be mindful of male "friends". This sounds like a somewhat awkward situation. I feel like more info is needed about how long you've known this guy and why you say he's your friend but you're posting about him on a dating sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/21 07:10 PM |
| 258 | Is the collapse of the middle class producing more LVM?I think you've made some compelling points, however, I wouldn't glorify the Boomer generations values and culture. My grandmother, a boomer, wasn't allowed to wear pants to work. When she became pregnant they fired her because seeing a pregnant woman's stomach was considered "indecent". Also, there simply wasn't the same access to porn and some of the negative addictions we have today because technology wasn't as advanced. Boomers didn't have phones and computers that could bring up any type of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 06:06 PM |
| 3 | How to Maintain High-Value Energy and Attract the sameHmm this is interesting. I see texting someone first as making the first move, at least for my generation. If a man is really interested in you he will be in contact. Also I'd like to advocate for a little more discretion. Why does he need to know who else you're seeing, or if you're seeing anyone else besides him? I think that's your own private business. And I would not pay for anything, ever, on a date. You do not need to be grabbing the popcorn on a 3rd date. That seems rather not FDS and go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | How do you establish financial independence?You're totally right about health being so important. It's amazing how expensive it is to get sick. Sometimes there's no avoiding it, but trying to do what you can to protect yourself from poor health is always the number one priority | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | How do you establish financial independence?I follow her on social media but haven't tried the podcast out yet! I'll have to do that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 07:57 PM |
| 8 | How do you establish financial independence?I LOVE you! Thank you SO MUCH for posting, this was really different from anything I've ever heard. My question for you is--how did you decide which high yield field to go into? Was tech/investing something you were already interested in, or thought you could more smoothly pivot into? I haven't learned how to accurately survey the market and profit landscape and really decide which would be the right path to choose I too recently graduated with a degree in an underpaid, female-dominated field an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:13 AM |
| 30 | How do you establish financial independence?Omg what you said about realizing money isn't evil was difficult for me! I've honestly only recently gotten to the point where I understand that money is a tool for a better life and not something evil that will make me "bad" for pursuing. I think we're socialized to think money is bad because people are so hush-hush about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:36 AM |
| 35 | How do you establish financial independence?Damn the broken jaw line was chilling. Thanks for your advice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:34 AM |
| 20 | How do you establish financial independence?Wow this is comprehensive! Thank you so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:33 AM |
| 28 | "Should universities be offering sex work advice to their students?"Would you mind dropping an excerpt in the comments? Most of the article is behind a pay-wall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 12:36 AM |
| 17 | Karen has just become another word for “Bitch” and we all know it.I get what you mean. I do think they've been a little...spicier? now that they have money. More cocky. A lot of their comedy came from them seeming normal and now they're less relatable. Also Cody's hair is a disaster 😂 but that's beside the point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 10:49 PM |
| 825 | I feel like there are no good menBecoming a woman is a hell of a time, ain't it? I really never thought about the fact that I was a "woman" at all until I got older. It's sombering experiencing misogyny from the men closest to you, realizing your dad isn't so good to your mom, realizing your grandma suffered too, learning that almost all of your friends have been raped. It's also difficult to stomach that men KNOW. They KNOW. And I've realized I have to be a lot harder, a lot colder, and way more on my toes at all times. We do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 10:41 PM |
| 22 | Karen has just become another word for “Bitch” and we all know it.Oh no I've been a fan of Cody Ko too, but admittedly haven't watched much of his stuff lately because I've had other things to do. Has he done something problematic? (besides using Karen which ugh I hate) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 10:32 PM |
| 9 | Britney Spears is Free!!! After 13 years she's finally free y'all! This is amazing and I hope it leaves the way for more change with conservatorships. And that everyone involved in what happened to Britney faces jail.Omg yeah what is up with people liking him?! Didn't it come out in one of the court documents that he was also on Jamie Spears payroll too? I thought he was listed as a "caterer" or something on one of the documents. He was definitely used to keep her in line and is now jumping ship trying to milk Britney for money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 10:14 PM |
| 13 | Britney Spears is Free!!! After 13 years she's finally free y'all! This is amazing and I hope it leaves the way for more change with conservatorships. And that everyone involved in what happened to Britney faces jail.Oh I 100% agree with you that the judge is corrupt. Pretty much every single person (except her current lawyer) is dirty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 05:54 AM |
| 48 | Britney Spears is Free!!! After 13 years she's finally free y'all! This is amazing and I hope it leaves the way for more change with conservatorships. And that everyone involved in what happened to Britney faces jail.I'm so happy for her! But SO MAD from a legal standpoint. Britney and her lawyer were fighting for her rights to be restored but for the conservatorship to still be legally in place. Why? Because if the conservatorship was still in place, her lawyer would have a lot more power to subpoena and go after those monsters. Since they dissolved it, her lawyer has way less ability to properly try to take down all the evil people involved in this. They didn't free her, they are trying to run away from ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:46 AM |
| -2 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?She is though https://twitter.com/ashnikko/status/1396622094721601543?s=21 She stated as of this March she's genderfluid and pansexual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 02:49 AM |
| -4 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?You're right, she's not a lesbian. But she isn't bisexual either https://twitter.com/ashnikko/status/1396622094721601543?s=21 She identifies as genderfluid and pansexual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/21 02:48 AM |
| -3 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?Also here is an official interview from Genius https://genius.com/a/ashnikko-princess-nokia-break-down-the-meaning-of-slumber-party talking about the song At the 1:50 mark: "I love what the song represents which is about, you know, sapphic romance and queer/lesbian intimacy" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 11:35 PM |
| -6 | Ashnikko and her songs: are Gen-Z ladies finally getting fed up?Okay I have to step in here and defend Ashnikko a little bit. While I agree with some of what everyone has commented, she is NOT in the same category as Megan Thee Stallion or other sex pozzi rappers. ASHNIKKO IS GAY!!!! Listen to slumber party; she's talking about sex with other women. It's not about men. As far as I'm aware, she has never written a song about sucking you-know-what. Her lyrical content always centers her as the agent of her life; she is never a passive object for anyone, let al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 09:09 PM |
| 22 | An observation regarding hair loss in men versus womenHahahahaha 😂 you know what, next time I will As for the job thing, obviously employer's can't SAY it's because of your hair. But they can insinuate that you look "unprofessional". But I'm pretty sure a balding guy has never been told his thinning hair is unprofessional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 03:27 AM |
| 140 | An observation regarding hair loss in men versus womenThis hits so hard for me. I'm currently severely anemic and my hair has been falling out in droves (I'm actually on FemaleHairLoss too that's a great sub). The FIRST thing I was worried about is my job prospects! If you're a woman you just don't get to be balding without facing a TON of backlash. Meanwhile bald men can be-bop around. Sure, a girl might occasionally reject them for being bald. But people generally aren't going to comment on it. The worst part is how my own family and the people a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Friend is being bullied by PickMe roommate over a guy, what would you do?Really?! I'm so sorry! Idk why I'm shocked by anything anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:40 AM |
| 6 | Friend is being bullied by PickMe roommate over a guy, what would you do?YES this is what I've been telling her, that her roommate's behavior is beyond petty into terrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/21 06:27 AM |
| 25 | Friend is being bullied by PickMe roommate over a guy, what would you do?It's so messed up. I think Z has been jealous of her for awhile, because outwardly she's beautiful and looks put together and like she's never suffered hardship (even though she has). I think they've dehumanized her I'm looking into her apartment complex's matching system to see right now if there is anyone needing a roommate. Money is tight for her, but if possible maybe she could switch within the apartment complex without her rate going up. Ideally, it would be awesome if she wasn't even in t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:30 PM |
| 57 | Friend is being bullied by PickMe roommate over a guy, what would you do?Yes X is in college right now. I've told her she needs to report them but she's terrified. I'm going to try and reassure her and convince her to do it. She does have some proof via abusive text messages, though it would be good if we could get a voice recording of them. I do worry that nothing will happen even if it's reported, but at least it would be something. Unfortunately I think there are zero girls on her side. I initially thought maybe there was truly some misunderstanding and that thing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:22 PM |
| 23 | Friend is being bullied by PickMe roommate over a guy, what would you do?These are great ideas, thank you! I'm taking her out for lunch today to talk more in detail about everything and what I can do to help so I'll bring some of this up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:13 PM |
| 39 | Friend is being bullied by PickMe roommate over a guy, what would you do?X and I are friends and I kind of know her friends, but only through her. I've hung out with them some due to her but they aren't my group and I don't run in their circles. Most of the girls won't listen to me because we're not close enough. I actually did clarify the situation with one of the girls in the group who I truly don't think knew what was going on because she only recently moved back in town. About her rooming situation, yes she has a good deal right now and money is tight for her bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 02:09 PM |
| 16 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeReddit is the reason I found this gem https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DTsdKycVZZ4 so i'm sharing it all with you so you can appreciate its artistic genius 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 05:52 PM |
| 24 | Study: "Men’s Motivation for Dominance Over Women Affects Their Tendency to Sexually Objectify Women"This was such a great read! Unsurprising, but good to reinforce | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 06:30 PM |
| 6 | Lies “body/sex positive” influencers tell 🧐 (Mega-post about self-objectification and posting sexy pics)Is this from that Try Guys video? I typically love their channel but I tried to watch this one and just felt so strange | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 16 | Whenever I think men cannot possibly get worse…Was...was he a vampire????? Wth 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 11:14 PM |
| 2 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?YES this has happened multiple times. Like, what do they think they're going to accomplish???? I certainly don't like them at ALL after they pull that nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 03:21 AM |
| 56 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?I wear red lipstick all the time. This inadvertently weeds out sexist guys who tell me things like "Did you know whores used to wear red lipstick? I think you're too respectable to be wearing that." "You're so beautiful, why do you wear so much makeup?" I've gotten these comments SO often it's actually baffling. Meanwhile guys who aren't super sexist don't even notice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 06:20 PM |
| 18 | Dealing with embarrassment after dating poorlySO TRUE. When my friend broke up with her cheating ex, she felt so ashamed and embarrassed that they had ever been together. But we knew she was too good for him the entire time they dated, and were just happy and relieved to see her break free! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 07:12 AM |
| 89 | Gabby Petite’s cause of death has been released as strangulation. Does anyone else think Laundries team will try to use sex as a defense?Damn. That is terrible. I feel so, so sorry for Gabby. Yes they most likely will use sex as a defense. However, there's been so much public outrage that if they do manage to catch him I don't think any defense will save him (however crazier things have happened, but hoping in this case she'll get the justice she deserves) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 06:08 PM |
| 504 | "WIFE 💍"I notice this over and over again that women will list all their titles in relation to other people, but never actually say anything about themselves Example: Wife 💍 Mother of two beautiful boys 👶👶 | Ephesians 5:22-33 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 06:27 AM |
| 24 | Your opinion doesn't need to be validated for you to have it.This is short, succinct, and all around a Handbook level post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?This is gold! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?That's totally understandable. It sounds like money used to obtain financial security would be more meaningful to you than anything else, in which case that would be a great engagement gift | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?That's so sad! Is he your ex now? That would've been such a cool opportunity to make something meaningful. That's the type of thing you pass down to your kids with a great story behind it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?🤔 I'd be curious to know how those statistics work in relation to what a couple can afford. Maybe divorce is more likely for couples that are spending outside of their means, and this causes financial problems down the line? Or do you mean like an actual larger sized stone = more likely to divorce? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:44 PM |
| 3 | For ladies who don't like/can't wear rings, what do you prefer instead?Lol! I'm the ring poster from earlier today and I have to say I'm loving your ideas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 04:29 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Your husband sounds great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Lol may I ask what you do for a living? Your salary sounds amazing 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?That sounds great! Polling her friends and family is a good idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:35 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Oo you're savy!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:34 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?I'm so curious about Tiffany settings! They patented their 6 prong setting years ago and supposedly the design gives max impact to the stone and makes it really sparkle. Do you feel like your Tiffany ring does sparkle a lot more than others? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Thank you! I love garnets your ring sounds amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 11:30 PM |
| 23 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?WOW. Sorry you had to learn a hard lesson, but your insight now is powerful. I hope you have a nice transition away from him and find happiness <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Lmao a tattoo proposal sounds great! As long as it's for a nice piece you've been wanting and not a cringey couple piece I think that's cool. My ex-uncle-in-law had my aunt's name tattooed on him 😬 it was a nice tattoo but I bet he regretted it when things ended and he had to have it covered up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:53 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Glad for the info! I thought emerald was higher on the scale than it was. I had no idea alexandrite was so high; it's not a stone I see often | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:51 PM |
| 30 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?You did an excellent job using his own way of thinking on him, props to you. It's good he's your ex. Also, who wants to propose with a ring from a failed marriage? Not superstitious but that just sounds like a bad idea | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:50 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Well said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Oof that's horrible! It seems like a lot more effort to emotionally torture someone with an engagement that you purposely tried to make bad so they'll end things with you, than to just...step up and end it yourself. I like you're take on it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?You're right it's definitely difficult to put a set dollar amount on the ring price. A lot of that due to the fact that similar rings can cost wildly different amounts depending on where they come from, is it customized, etc. If it feels like a commitment or if it feels like a throwaway is a good way to think about it. An oak leaf sounds beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?I love that you bought yourself a nice ring! I've actually considered buying myself something as well for my birthday--how did you find one you liked that didn't look too engagement-y? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?hahahahaha omg I totally get what you mean 😂😂😂 great example | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:41 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Dang snaps to your wife for being awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Hello cool butch lesbian :P! So you would talk to your fiancee about what she wants beforehand? Would you want general guidelines of what she wants or would you rather she picked it out herself and then you surprised her with it? Why do you think you'll be the one to propose? Actually, how do you decide who proposes in a wlw relationship? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:39 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?You explained this really well, thank you. Why do you think a ring shouldn't be on a payment plan? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:37 PM |
| 12 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?I like your take! I personally think I'd want to choose mine, just because I am particular about what I wear. But you've made me think about the significance of seeing what your partner does with some info but a lot of autonomy. Maybe I'll have to rethink my opinion about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:36 PM |
| 6 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Oh it's very common where I live for everyone to be engaged by the end of college, hence Ring by Spring" (aka: engaged by spring graduation) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:29 PM |
| 43 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?hahahaha, I like your benchmark | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:27 PM |
| 27 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?What you said about how it shouldn't feel like any other gift emotionally is spot on! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 05:26 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?oh that's so cool! why did you choose something other than gemology? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:42 AM |
| 41 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?I don't know you but I've decided you're a genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:42 AM |
| 29 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Did you choose platinum because it's more durable than say white gold? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:30 AM |
| 44 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?Oo I appreciate your insight about the cultural aspect. You're right, cheap stuff in general seems more like a Western thing. I'm not sure why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:30 AM |
| 77 | Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost?totally agree with lab diamonds! Learning about blood diamonds was horribly eye-opening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 08:28 AM |
| 7 | Having standards is not a hate crimeWow! Your first sentence 🥇🥇🥇take my fake gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 07:53 AM |
| 171 | Father playing devils advocate when it comes to sexual child abuse, but wife’s not sure what to do?! Raising daughters is terrifying.Dear God That poor, poor daughter. He will assault her if he hasn't already. I fear this woman will stay with this child abuser though. Her doubts should not be "creeping in," she should be freaking out and fleeing in the night | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 07:51 AM |
| 46 | "Do you want to hang out?" Vs "Can I take you out on a date?OH MY GOODNESS thank you for saying this!!! I was asked to "hang out" by a childhood friend who I hadn't seen in awhile. I said yes and ended up having a cringe-worthy evening where he thought it was okay to make a pass at me. I didn't realize that "hanging out" is now used as some cop out way to pseudo-ask someone out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:04 AM |
| 37 | Greys Anatomy LVMI know it's written by a woman but it feels like a man's fantasy. Another beautiful, successful career woman falls for the inappropriate antics of a man much older than her. Derek Shepherd is called "McDreamy"????? More like McCreepy. I don't know why the entire hospital acts like he's super cute; he's just some dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 10:51 AM |
| 8 | What does FDS think of men who post a lot on social media?In my early 20s, I've read the comments and there's a lot of great points brought up. I'm going to take it in a slightly different direction. Firstly, it's all situational and really depends on the type of content they're posting (for both guys and girls). For example, is he trying to grow a business/personal brand/become an influencer? I don't immediately write that off as a bad thing to do. Many people in my friend group are young actors who really have to push for their presence to be seen. I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/21 09:29 PM |
| 74 | IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD HAVE 💍This was sad to watch. I wanted to jump through the screen and yell "run!!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 06:05 PM |
| 10 | Romance Books for FDS?Oo! "Ghost Walk" by Cassandra Gannon has a hot pirate ML who is 100% awesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 09:13 PM |
| 43 | FDS cured some major wedding FOMOOMG. A lot of people I know are getting engaged/married and every. single. time. I see an engagement announcement or wedding day photos, the girl always looks BEAUTIFUL and the guy always looks dead behind the eyes with unkempt hair and clothes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 06:48 PM |
| 3 | FDS Translates VICE - "Adult" Men with their Mattresses on the FloorTotally different situation! You're not using your lack of bedframe to "weed out gold diggers" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 05:25 PM |
| 54 | Screenshot of a comment under a YouTube video titled: "Mrs. America" and the fight over the ERAAnother reminder to myself to work hard and stash away money like a squirrel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 10:43 PM |
| 110 | It Never EndsAh yes, because impending death has been known to do wonders for the complexion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:23 PM |
| 7 | Is Internet Misogyny Seeping Over IRL?Wow, both of you have made some really great points. I definitely agree u/LonelyWineAunt that regardless of race or gender, being poor is HARD. What I don't understand is the white men who are NOT poor or disadvantaged feeling victimized. And even for those who are poor white guys, I don't understand the level of vitriol they feel for those who are doing "better" than them that are minorities. Even in my darkest hours, I've never wished for other people to suffer. So I relate to u/shinyjewels in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:19 PM |
| 42 | Is Internet Misogyny Seeping Over IRL?It's quite disturbing, isn't it? I understand that misogyny has always been apart of the world, however it seems like I've been watching a new version of it mutate from online | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:17 AM |
| 59 | Is Internet Misogyny Seeping Over IRL?OMG I just had a conversation about Melinda Gates. Guys don't appreciate all of the domestic issues women take care of. And in her case, she's also been a co-head of their foundation forever! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 07:13 AM |
| 63 | Men were not socialized the same way you were. Keep that in mind when you listen to them talk about women.Goodness gracious, I actually just felt inspired to go check out some of the classic derogatory subreddits and what's listed there is far more heinous than the examples you gave (also, it's amazing how they throw "LogICaL" around like a badge of honor). FDS truly is a new frontier on reddit. Thank God for this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:56 PM |
| 7 | Bangers! A long list of FDS AnthemsHow about these additions! Sorted by what Playlist they would go in Level Up Sis! or Self Care Sundays: Qveen Herby - Chakras/ All about protecting your energy from soul-sucking people and establishing boundaries! Break Up With Him Sis Hey Violet - Fuqboi / This song needs no explanation Carrie Underwood - Cowboy Casanova / A CLASSIC!!!!! Carrie Underwood - Good Girl Beggin' On Your Knees - Victoria Justice / This was a song they did on the "Victorious" TV show. It's about getting over a dum… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 09:46 PM |
| 2 | I doubt it shocks anyone here that Evan Rachel Wood is calling out Marilyn Manson for abuse. He has been such a crucial normalizer of sexual depravity. Out your abusers. Let’s help end this libfem sexpos mindset.Good news about RATM (so far)! Tom Morello, their guitarist, is a Harvard graduate and one of the coolest musicians ever. Highly recommend checking out his instagram Yes the tool fan base is terrible. I have never been more harassed at a rock concert than I was at their's. It's like Tool attracted the very dudes they're named after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 02:26 AM |
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