Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much porn

fdshandbooksarmy · 2022-01-07T02:16:54+00:00

My ex boyfriend lasered all his pubic hair. He did not complain mine. He said he felt better without hair for him to do cycling and swimming.

_mooness · 2022-01-07T01:40:20+00:00

One time I went on a beach date with a guy and when I took off my clothes I guess I had some hairs poking out of my swimsuit bottoms and he’s like “oh! You must’ve forgotten to shave, haha!” And I dead ass looked him in the eye and said “oh! You must’ve forgotten what grown women’s bodies look like!”

lybid8 · 2022-01-06T23:27:03+00:00

Another reason why we vet before sex… I have found that asking a man “what kind of porn are you into? ;)” has been VERY telling on the kind of person they are. This question assumes they do watch porn and does so in a casual/flirty way opening the gates for them to tell on themselves. One such time the guy tells me he’s into teenage and voyeurism porn, immediately no.

Rheanne · 2022-01-07T00:02:29+00:00

Was HE fully hairless down there? Because that’s only fair… but I’ve yet to ever be with a guy who is as hairless as they expect us to be.

KindredMaximus · 2022-01-07T00:45:16+00:00

I had a convo with the Author of Fat is a Feminist (susie orbach) issue about the fact that men don't even know what real breasts look like, women are declining to breast feed their own babies so they don't ''ruin'' their breasts (for who?), women are getting labioplasty - so now men don't know what real vulvas look like and now they want hairless, vulvaless, balloon breasted women who have pumped up their lips so they look like their vulvas are on their face.
I sat next to a table of women at a very swanky, international womens day event and the whole table of women, looked like clones. I'm not exaggerating - they were all clones of each other. All of them clearly went to the same surgeon. We are literally wiping out the existence of difference in women. Turning them all into plastic dolls, from a surgery factory. And those lips might look ok on the screen but in real life - they look utterly ridiculous (to me) but obviously not to the men who have decided that having a real life plastic doll with the ever ready BJ mouth is the ultimate.

And god forbid, they have a personality, strong views or ever gets strident or passionate about anything that matters. Like porn, prostitution or sex traffiking - that would make her a shrew and we know what needs to happen with them. They have to be tamed. I doubt if Greta Thurnberg had been a teenage boy that men would have said the deplorable things about a boy that they said about a girl.

thewetdog_ · 2022-01-07T01:55:52+00:00

I had a boyfriend who did not like bare cat for the reason you’re saying. He hated it said it creeped him out and felt women should keep at least some hair to not resemble a plastic doll or a little kid. He also said it was icky when it grew out, like stubble on a man’s face, and better to just keep it normal. Edit: he also wondered aloud why wax if it must be so painful and why not just shave on the sides. Bless his heart.

Ggusk · 2022-01-07T00:33:38+00:00

I asked the OP if he was shaved down there too. We need to stop normalising scrote hypocrisy

laylaloolah · 2022-01-07T03:20:26+00:00

I dated a guy who after a few dates told me he really prefers clean shaven. I went into his bathroom, found a razor, and said “right after you”. Never went out again. He was also really “attracted to women in heels”. Again, be my guest dude. Shocker, he’s over 40 and still single despite dying to have a family.

I am never fully shaven. Ingrown hair isn’t worth it. I’ll do a buzz but that’s it.

LadiesOpinion · 2022-01-06T23:57:08+00:00

This pube shaving trend isn't a thing among gay women. I've had eight female sexual partners in my life, only one was fully shaved. Most trimmed.

Have to admit the fully shaved lady bits turned me off, because I associate it with pre-pubescent girls.

No_Research_7869 · 2022-01-07T00:27:37+00:00

If he won’t shave why should I?

IAteTheDragon · 2022-01-06T23:55:30+00:00

How about I decline sex cause he doesn't look like Henry Cavill?

sewingmachinesavior · 2022-01-07T01:34:34+00:00

I’ve actually been rejected for having pubic hair/being adamant I will not shave for any reason. I thank my lucky stars for avoiding a pedo. I don’t care how you slice it, being completely repulsed by women’s body hair is not a healthy trait in a man.

w0rmsongs · 2022-01-07T00:42:01+00:00

I don't find this to be a hot take at all. I've dated some immature as fuck men and even they agreed that pubic hair is normal and healthy. Definitely pedophilic tendencies if a man wants bald (like he even has a fucking say 🤣).

ChgItToRayGunYouFuck · 2022-01-07T02:00:59+00:00

Seriously, though. Their obsession with teens is fucking sickening, especially the older they get.

I've found that I'm not attracted to guys 5+ years younger than I am.

But if you ask any guy, no matter what age they are, they'll respond that girls in their early teens/20s are very attractive. The fuck is wrong with these men??

Davina33 · 2022-01-07T07:49:06+00:00

Men can come as hairy as they are but us? We are expected to have no hair below our eyelashes and we are nowhere near as hairy as them anyway.

supportivepistachio · 2022-01-07T01:33:54+00:00

I saw that post earlier today and people had the audacity to compare this preference to a woman not wanting to have sex with a man who isn't shaven (I've never personally known a woman who has outright rejected sex because of this) and another commenter who compared this preference to A BEARD. ON A MAN'S. FACE. Ummm what?

Pubic hair should not waver whether or not you are attracted to someone. It may appear less attractive to you, but if you are going to get up and stop sex from happening, I question your attraction to them at all.

Davina33 · 2022-01-07T07:45:58+00:00

I was so shocked by that. Going hairless down there can cause so many issues for some women, like bumps from ingrown hairs, intense itchiness when the pubic hair grows back and so on. Then if you're like me, the same height and weight as a 11/12 year old girl, I feel much more comfortable having my secondary sexual characteristics. There's something wrong with men like this.

2022-01-07T01:31:21+00:00

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melympia · 2022-01-06T23:24:06+00:00

I must admit, I've given this (for me hypothetical) scenario more thought than I should. And come up with the following solution:

1) First of all, I don't shave everything down there. It's horribly itchy when it grows back, and if I shave it again, I'm full of even itchier little pimples. Thanks, but no thanks.

2) Should some scrote actually try that with me, I'd suggest an appointment for both of us for de-hairing. Whichever way works for wherever I can get the appointments. And I'd let HIM go first. I don't mind if I have to hype it up as THE BEST THING EVER and promise countless BJs to get him to do it, I'll do it. (Hint: Promises can be broken.) HE will go first. And he will suffer the same way he expects me to suffer.

3) I'm not even sure I'd want to go through with this. *shrugs* I'd probably pay for the appointment without doing it. And laugh at the idiot who fell for it - will have to bear the consequences for the next several weeks.

NotMyRealName814 · 2022-01-07T02:57:43+00:00

Why not both?!

the-worst- · 2022-01-07T14:22:06+00:00

I once had one of those "women who are 30+ have expired!" Type of guys on tiktok try to justify that and this preference. I told him he's probably jacked off to many porn stars who are 30+ without even realizing it.

He refused to believe any women over 30 are in porn, or ever have been in porn in their 30s.

These idiots tell on themselves.

slayeroftruth · 2022-01-07T03:25:16+00:00

Its great indicator to dump him.

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ifhewantedtohewould · 2022-01-07T01:15:28+00:00

Pubic hair is literally one of the first signs of maturing into a woman. Men who “pReFeR” women to be shaved down there are creeps and have paedophilic tendencies.

anonsecrbelohidd · 2022-01-07T03:24:46+00:00

Personally, I shave/keep based on how I want it to feel; hair is better for just rubbing, bare is great for that silky, slippery feel like I'm in a bath ❤️

I did foolishly used to shave for one boy who insisted (and stood me up 6 times) and the stinging of growing it back for no reason hurts worse than most inconveniences :/ so my pubes have been reclaimed!

Title	Hot Take: Whenever I see stuff like this, I assume the guy has paedophilic tendencies or has watched too much porn
Author	Mysterious_Call_924
Upvotes	1003
Comments	107
Date	January 6, 2022 11:15 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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