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| 1 | Consent is sexyI mean I get the implication, but this isn’t something that works with every girl. Most girls with experience aren’t gonna be nervous. I’ve definitely been there before though and a “you good” works and does wonders. But some chicks will fall into whatever frame you’re projecting. If you’re constantly asking she might play the role and answer youre questions playing the innocent girl role. While with another dude she’s doing a bunch of slutty things you can’t even imagine all because the guy exp… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/22 10:29 PM |
| 1 | "Run, you fool!" Ramifications of a BPD user.Exactly my case in the past, fucked like crazy but physically and emotionally abused me. I thought I was winning, but slowly my spirit was being drained. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/09/22 04:20 AM |
| 2 | Ugly women will destroy youYeah same deal here, and now that I’m back I feel so refreshed. I was the dude that read all this, learned it. Thought I knew it. Then met a bpd girl who made me feel like god. I dropped everything I learned, and now a year later, my brain is twisted. I feel crazy, even like I got bpd. Hard to be around other people. She even slept with some of my so called friends. But I now see the light, my goals I want. I never stopped gaming tho, wasn’t committed to her so I can get other sexual options. It… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 10:32 PM |
| 2 | The masculine is the source of loveThis is true, I will add on for (some guys trying to be alpha) and say that some girls can bring the illusion that you are an alpha to her. They do this by giving you everything you want and giving her all (mind blowing sex, feminine energy, allows you to lead, everything, no shit test — or you “passed”) But now that they got there hooks in, and you’re feeling the validation from her (validating you’re alphaness), they can manipulate you to now get what they want. If you’re not truly alpha you’l… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 10:26 PM |
| 3 | If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin withAyyye a cover pickup brother, I see you on there too | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 10:17 PM |
| 7 | If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin withJesus Christ man, it feels good to be back here. I got into a relationship with a girl(didn’t commit) thought I had it made and neglected everything I learned from trp. I pretty much went through the same deal and you’re reply to it really helps me out. Chick was sleeping with my buddy who at 27 doesn’t have a job lives with his mom. And he doesn’t even have too much game. I’d go out with him and he’d always get rejected or blow up our sets. They deserved each other, and I did wayy to much for h… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 09:50 PM |
| 2 | If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin withYeah man they really can. Now that I’m away from my ex, it’s like the light is being shone over my life again. I got goals. Still hurts and I still think about it tho. The situ screwed my head up. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 09:42 PM |
| 4 | If she was stolen then she was never yours to begin withSame situ here. Ex slept with some of my so called my buddies I suspect. But one dude was 27 lived with his mom and was just an overall weirdo. I’d game with him and all the girls literally ran away from him, and he’d blow out so many sets. I stayed wit him mainly because it was easier to game with a wing, and he was available. Idk why she was fucking him till this day. Maybe to spite me since I was in the streets as well and she wanted my commitment. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Super simple “Basic Guy Game” structure that will help you begin meeting women.Yeah exactly happens a lil bit to me too. I’ve been in this rodeo for so long now, it’s like I expect women to talk to me. That frame almost extends to them and they kinda fall into it. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc.A year later, and I’m going through the same shit. I ended with her and I feel like I’ve lost my mind. Wish I woulda just hopped out when I saw this comment. Hope you’re situation is improving. Crazy women, are nothing to play with. The bliss at the beginning felt like crack. Probs why I couldn’t leave | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 08:36 PM |
| 3 | Met cute girl with bpd and now I'm lostLike you, I had a bpd girl in my life. She pretty much told me. That’s when I started researching. Thinking that stuff wouldn’t happen, because we were good. Mind blowing sex, great dates, felt I won the lottery. This shit ended recently and I wrote a whole post on it just in case you wanna refresher for what you might be in for. I’ll never fall for the tricks I fell for again. And I can tell you this. You read her spilling her guts to you as her opening up and connecting. She could look at it l… | /r/newTRP | 20/08/22 11:32 PM |
| 1 | How to recover after bpd relationship feeling insecure and need some guidanceThanks man, I definitely needed this. And yeah I was already on point with the music thing. I couldn’t touch that music. Haven’t listened to it in months. Imma get back in the gym and try to chill. I think the guys I gamed with smashed her as well, so it’s like I got no one rn. But imma make it through bro just like I did when I was with her. Again thanks for encouragement. I was so naive on every count | /r/newTRP | 09/08/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | How to recover after bpd relationship feeling insecure and need some guidanceIt’s crazy that this is a normal thing, like no one holds these chicks accountable. It’s just part of the game. Guess they go through the same thing. I guess I attached myself to the game too much and the people I met. I automatically trusted them. She fucked those guys too. My main wing. Crazy as shit. But like you said it’s all documented on trp. I can’t believe they banned it. I literally can’t. Like it helped me so much, and they all think it’s toxic. Mens issues don’t matter apparently | /r/newTRP | 09/08/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | How to recover after bpd relationship feeling insecure and need some guidanceYeah I guess I just didn’t think it’d happen to me. And I’m shocked at. But yeah man I’ll hit that sidebar again and remember what you said about vetting and promoting. | /r/newTRP | 09/08/22 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How to recover after bpd relationship feeling insecure and need some guidanceYeah I get you trust me. I suspected she had bpd and read the horror stories on here. But she made me believe I had her on lock. She played me. Yeah I got oneitis. Best I’ve ever had. It might be bland reading it but man living it is insane. I think I might have go to a therapist or something to be honest. I doubted myself so much I thought I was crazy. But hey man if this isn’t really trp appropriate, I’ll remove it just thought I’d share my story and see how others move on from such a situatio… | /r/newTRP | 08/08/22 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How to recover after bpd relationship feeling insecure and need some guidanceThis is a funny story because, before I met her I had read rational male, and a bit of the side bar about women don’t love men only what they can provide. Self improvement But I really discarded it all when I was with her. Exocet for lifting and keeping options around. But even with the options it was all flakey. So no real options. I literally felt like since she was pursuing me and wanting to be around me all the time, and was having sex with me like a pornstar lol, all was good. But she had a… | /r/newTRP | 08/08/22 09:44 PM |
| -2 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…Younger women look better. If you feel offended by that then go cry in a corner 😭 | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 02:37 PM |
| -2 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…My whole point. Who said two decades. Everyone’s assuming way too much smh. Thanks for the insult. Promptly leaving this sub. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/07/22 02:28 PM |
| -14 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…Never said any of that. And I thought girls like dad bods 😂😂. You’re just delusional it’s all good though. You’re not a guy so you wouldn’t get it lol. Men are just predators and pedophiles based off there preference even if it’s legal. Woman are never wrong about anything. They’re just sweet angels Also who said the older guy had to be unattractive | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…I’ve already said that not for marriage and relationships. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…Whatever you say | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…Whether they are or not is irrelevant. Men like younger women, which is why the red pill says this. Bottom line. Whether you agree with it or not is a different story. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 09:42 PM |
| -1 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…Yeah but for the thousandth time lol, red pill isn’t a dating or marriage strategy. It’s a sexual strategy Also, I didn’t know predators the girls were the ones attracted to them. They didn’t go for guys in the same grade always older. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 09:34 PM |
| -5 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…It is true lol. I used to know high schoolers dating 30 yo men when I was in hs. My ex used to mess around with older guys. Just because it doesn’t apply in you’re experience doesn’t mean it isn’t true. But then again how young are we talking. If we’re talking about a 30 yo women, then yeah maybe you won’t be attracted to some 50 yo guy. But plenty of women go for older especially when they’re younger in their early 20s. The older guys just have more experience and are more mature than the guys … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 08:15 PM |
| -15 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…Okay but that’s still older than them right lol? I’ve had girls tell me I was too young. That’s their preference. The statistics don’t reflect the opposite do they? | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 08:07 PM |
| -3 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…Yeah you can assume whatever you want about me and downvote me. But I’ve been with older women with stomachs that had stretch marks and been with 18yo women that have nice young tight athletic bodies and look like woman. I prefer the latter. To say 18yo women look like children is bullshit lol. Because look at all the 18 yo pornstars. And even if they didn’t look developed as long as she’s of age, there’s no problem with that because that’s what that man is attracted to. You can call him a pedop… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 08:02 PM |
| -4 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…I’ve studied red pill and no one mentions liking 18 yo girls cause they’re fertile. It’s because they’re hotter than a 30 yo women on avg. That simple. Why would I want a 30 yo women when I can get a 20 yo girl that likes me just as much and not tryna get me to marry and put a baby in her 😂😂. I don’t know where people get that a woman that has a kid is more attractive than a 20 yo girl who has an athletic body lol. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 07:20 PM |
| -18 | Why redpill’s whole idea about men being attractive to younger women because they’re “fertile”is bullshit…Lol so who are 18-25 yo women supposed to date in you’re world? And how old do you think red pillers are? Why do people think women can’t make decisions about who they date, but 17-18 yo men could decide if they wanna go to the military and war, and no one questions that lol. Aren’t women supposed to mature faster? Women like older guys anyways so why is everyone calling red pillers pedophiles for dating 18-25. That’s crazy. They’re just the hottest to date and have sex with it’s that simple. If… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/06/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?I honestly have no idea what that means. I think I made my point clear. I didn’t mention emotions are in play. You’re assuming that. Please believe whatever you want. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?Lol reality tv isn’t the only example, since I’ve stated most women in my life agree with me. Honestly, I don’t know why it’s so hard to believe that men find younger women more attractive then older women lol. Like what’s the problem with saying that. Not tryna get into whether reality tv is fake. Not tryna argue what men are attracted to when I’m a whole man speaking from my experience and other mens experience. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 05:12 PM |
| 0 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?I didn’t mention 15 yo girls. If women think guys on the red pill are trying to have sex with 15 yo girls then maybe they don’t know what the red pill really is lol and probably should really read the posts. For movies I said television but i shoulda just said reality tv. For example love is blind. If you watched that show. Jessica is a perfect example of what I’m talking about. She knew she was getting older and wanted to settle down. Wasn’t trying to imply anything if I did my bad. I just feel… | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Honest answer, did any of the RP dating coaches you use to watch get you laid?I was getting laid before. But red pill helped me understand my past situations. Things the regular internet thought I was stupid for noticing. Like if I was in public with a girl, all the girls would be staring at me giving signals lol. I looked it up and everyone thought it was coincidence. Turns out that’s preselection. When I was younger girls would say “Neil you’re so shy” but they’d be talking to me and always up on me. As soon as I started talking more they disappeared and lost interest. … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 12:27 AM |
| -3 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?Yeah I didn’t mention long term, I said sexual strategy. If a guy has sex on the first date with this strategy (red pill) then it worked. That’s not long term. I’m just responding to why op said red pill says this. Red pill isn’t for relationships. If a guy is looking for sex he’s gonna wanna have sex with a hot young girl not an older women unless she’s hot lol. I’m not sure how a man going for a younger girl means he is a sugar daddy. There’s some good looking older guys that have money and a … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/06/22 12:01 AM |
| -5 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?I’m not sure why when I say guys attracted to younger women, women assume I’m talking about teenagers lol. It just shows where everyone’s mind is at. The op said 50 yo. Younger to a man that age could be 30. Look, all I’m saying is that attractive wise in a sexual lens, younger women are more attractive on a general scale. Bottom line. Not because they don’t have kids, not because of the media but because that’s what men like. My comment is based in reality because I know women who agree with me… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 11:49 PM |
| -6 | “Women peak at 18, men peak at 50” does anyone else find this extremely creepy, delusional, and hypocritical?I think it’s said to be true only in sexual market. Since red pill is really just a sexual strategy for men. Younger women are more valued then older, because of their looks. Older men are more valued because of their resources (if they have) maturity (if they have). How many times you’ve heard about younger women dating older guys. Just because it’s not something you do doesn’t mean a lot of other women won’t. Older women could be more valuable in relationships than a younger women though but s… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/06/22 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Are you basically undateable if you're obese?Lol you ever seen 600 pound life | /r/ExRedPill | 27/06/22 09:49 PM |
| 0 | Can a woman verify this for me?I used to consider myself a pua. Gotta be honest, I don’t really sense shit tests too much. A lotta times, they’re just turning up the heat to see how you react to certain things. | /r/ExRedPill | 26/06/22 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Whats the likelihood a woman will dump you just because she finds another guy better? AKA hypergamy?I’m not tryna sound ignorant, but I’ve known a lotta women in my life, yeah they’re not as horny as guys 24/7, but women do think about sex and get horny even with no stimulus (or maybe I don’t know what stimulus was for them in my case) Women have crushes on celebrities, fav pornstars, freaky fantasies and everything. Just like men. You guys wait longer to actually have sex because it’s riskier for you guys(pregnancy, safety etc). But that doesn’t mean you won’t be horny to have sex when you fe… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/22 02:11 AM |
| 2 | Whats the likelihood a woman will dump you just because she finds another guy better? AKA hypergamy?Lol maybe not wet, but horny for sure. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/22 01:33 AM |
| 5 | Whats the likelihood a woman will dump you just because she finds another guy better? AKA hypergamy?Hypergamy is just moving to better. Money, status, looks, personality. However, what I realized is if you have you’re girl, and she’s down for you and you treat her right(not nice guy, but respectful as a man), she’ll see those other options(might even get wet) but not really see them as date options, because she’s thinking and has respect for you. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/06/22 12:52 AM |
| 2 | (About PUA,not sure if it's redpill))Every 1,000 years, 75 per cent of the genetic information is lost. After 6.8 million years, every single base pair is gone, Why do men care so much about getting laid, being alpha and spreading their seeds?I actually read this comment in it’s entirety, and absolutely agree with this because it’s how I feel currently. I’m young 24 and it’s true that men view sex as if it has something to do with masculinity. It kinda does in a sense but not having sex doesn’t make you any less of a man. I thought I missed out not going away to college and barely having sex back then. I thought I missed out having gfs in hs. Then I actually went out and got the sexual experiences, probably some that the avg guy coul… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/06/22 08:33 PM |
| 11 | Am I a loser if can't get girls?Nah you’re not a loser, dealing with women is pretty much a rabbit hole. Just talk to girls you like, and find ONE you like. I’ve had my sexual experiences but I’ve just come back to the same emptiness I felt when I started lol. Lost confused, did I even want it? | /r/ExRedPill | 10/06/22 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Why should I leave the red pill?Tbh man, I don’t think anything you said has to do with the red pill. In fact, all they’re saying is become that rich cocky asshole. Yeah the delivery of the message is toxic, but what you’re talking about here is the opposite of what red pill is about. It’d about being the best version of yourself Reason why I started disengaging from it was because it made me toxic. I believe a lot of the things to be at least somewhat true in some cases. Some women even admit it, but to constantly think about… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/06/22 07:51 PM |
| 2 | I hate being black. Being darkskin is a curse unless you’re an athlete or rapper.Idk what type of girls you’re into or what you’re looking for but I’m black and haven’t really had any issues getting dates or having fun with different women. If you let you’re race,height, status money determine limit you’re life you’re not gonna get what you want. I know a short Pakistani dude with no muscle that has way more sex than I do and it’s because he puts himself out there. I know a black dude living in the pjs that goes outside and talks to everyone and has girls. Me, I do the same … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/05/22 06:42 PM |
| 8 | "Women don't desire stable guys and only go for them in their thirties"What makes you the beta in this situation. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 05:53 AM |
| 2 | "Women don't desire stable guys and only go for them in their thirties"It really isn’t lol, I’ve just had my fair share of that, and I don’t think anybody wants to go through that | /r/ExRedPill | 29/05/22 05:52 AM |
| 7 | What are some good ways for a guy whose not used to seeing himself as sexually attractive to get sexual validation?I’d avoid trying to get any sexual validation or validation in general right now. I gotta be honest man, all that shit feels good but it’s gonna fuck with any relationship you get in. How I know? It happened to me. You can read my post from on here a few weeks ago but that’s what happened to me. I feel like you, attractive, I go to the gym, I got money, nice apt, and have been with a bunch of girls who I have gotten complimented by. And when my girl didn’t want to have sex with me because she wa… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/05/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble accepting a womans sexual pastI just remember this. All they have to do is say “yes”, while us guys have to go out of our way sometimes to get options. So women are more likely to have sexual history and probably even more so than an average guy. That still didn’t help me though, I had the same problem with my relationship especially when she’d be crushing on other guys. Then she eventually did her thing. I’ll put it to you this way, her past doesn’t really indicate she’ll do anything in the future, so just be in the moment … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/05/22 03:43 PM |
| 17 | My ex-girlfriend confuses me!!Bruh just leave it alone man no response needed. I know this shit is hard man, but one thing I liked about the red pill was the whole oneitis and having abundance mentality. I just had to cut my girl off today after she told me she shagged some dude in a car last night. I mean there was other shit I put up with, but man oh man. Sometimes you just gotta let people go. Why’d y’all break up anyway | /r/ExRedPill | 15/05/22 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Anybody else feel in a constant state of anxiety when dealing with women because of the redpillGlad to hear I’m not the only one and yeah I definitely agree with this whole self fulfilling prophecy thing. Because truthfully we have no idea what people are thinking and too think that’s it’s as simple as what the red pill has you believe is kinda crazy. Sometimes I’m not in the mood to do something like “pay for a dinner”, and maybe I dont at that time or want to split, but it’s not because of attraction but maybe because of the 10 parking tickets I gotta pay off lol. Slowly trying to use t… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else feel in a constant state of anxiety when dealing with women because of the redpillI absolutely agree with you, we’re all subconsciously afraid of losing our girls. Abundance mentality is key | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else feel in a constant state of anxiety when dealing with women because of the redpillThanks for this comment, because in all honesty that’s the root of it all. It’s a confidence thing. Even with trp, I feel like guys are all afraid of something. Afraid of being a “beta”, so they try so hard to be “alpha” that they hyper focus on every detail. You’re right, certain behaviors from you’re SO don’t indicate a change in attractiveness. And even if they did, it shouldn’t affect me in any way | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Anybody else feel in a constant state of anxiety when dealing with women because of the redpillIt is for the most part | /r/ExRedPill | 30/04/22 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Anybody else feel in a constant state of anxiety when dealing with women because of the redpillYeah a while, I agree, thanks I’ll check it out Jane Austen guide to dating? | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Anybody else feel in a constant state of anxiety when dealing with women because of the redpillHaven’t really read anything red pill in like 3 years. I don’t really read anything, just live my life, but this is something that’s been playing in my head constantly. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | I can now see why women don't like men cold approachingLol thanks | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 04:30 AM |
| 11 | Anybody else feel in a constant state of anxiety when dealing with women because of the redpillI agree, I’ve been slowly doing that. I thought I was further along that and had accepted it, but being in a long term relationship really showed me | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | I can now see why women don't like men cold approachingI totally get this because some dudes are just really uncalibrated and don’t know how to read a room. However, I’ve done pickup and have been pretty successful with it. Yeah some women don’t like it but I’d say if I didn’t do pickup I wouldn’t have met my current girl or have any of the crazy sexual experiences I’ve had. I’ve also had a girl approach me cold on the train one time so it’s not a male or female thing. She winded up being a model, and we had a lil fun. I do get that some people are … | /r/ExRedPill | 29/04/22 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Approaching as a black manBruh I’m black in nyc, been approaching since the pandemic, and in all honesty, it’s hard especially when I grew up with people crossing the street and putting their phones away when they saw me coming. But after a while you just desensitize. I never had an issue approaching black women though, they seem to be the easiest and most receptive to me. I wouldn’t let a girl like that intimidate you though because tbh, she’s probably been approached all night so her response is nothing personal. I’ve … | /r/seduction | 21/02/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | She doesn’t care that you’re “nice” lolSo, I can’t really explain without thinking back to all my failed pulls lol, and it’s because I didn’t lead. When you think about it, when a woman is with you, and she’s enjoying you’re company and you see green lights, she’s probably thought about sex at one point with you. However, she’s never gonna lead it to sex, that’s you’re job. So, everything is on us. That’s where leading comes into play. You’re not letting her take control of the situation, you take control of it. Sometimes she’ll help… | /r/seduction | 20/02/22 06:19 PM |
| 12 | She doesn’t care that you’re “nice” lolMy biggest thing, I coulda had so many more lays had I led. Btw for anybody reading, leading isn’t just saying let’s go here, or there. It’s really a frame, and a mindset that hey we’re gonna do this no matter what. Like I had a double pull to my house on Monday with my wing, and his girl wasn’t super down but my girl was calling me sir and sitting on my lap. My wing comes out of my bathroom in like a minute and I’m like “fuck”. Then his girl pretty much cockblocks me, saying to her friend they … | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | I have the confidence, but I have no gameThat’s good, then get out there and get rejected, and build more confidence | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Her real reason for datingThat’s dope, that you approached and she went out with you. What was you’re goal, dating or smash. Because I can guarantee and I’m about 99% sure she woulda smashed on the first date. She’s interested in older dudes for dating, but the fact that she went out with you solely because she thought you were brave means that she probably was looking for something else. She’s just backwards rationalizing why she went on a date with you, in the first place without sounding like a sl*t | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | The gym is not the end all be all solution to get you laidThis whole work on yourself is kinda bs, but not really to guys who really need it. The gym for guys, helps dudes boost energy, testosterone, gets them looking better. But nah, you don’t need any of those things to pull chicks. My first year of game, I didn’t go to the gym, and for about 6 months I looked like I still didn’t go to the gym because I wasn’t bulking, but I still got girls. Now, I guess it’s easier because girls think I’m jacked(little do they know it’s just extra calories) If anyth… | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | How do you overcome rejection?By becoming so used to it that it doesn’t matter | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately afterMaybe she had a bf or something. If everything seemed okay, it’s possible. Or, she’s been down this road before and didn’t want to get too attached to you since it was just sex with you and not too much of a connection | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Why can't I build the confidence to approach a woman i find attractive.You didn’t earn it yet. You’re gonna have to honestly force yourself to do it. You’ll do it enough times it becomes second nature | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 09:57 PM |
| 5 | [Question] How to deal with "White Knights"?Bruh, she pushed her friend away, that’s a huge green light. I understand how it is but you shoulda stayed in. You gotta be hungry. Don’t be aggressive or anything but don’t let some friends or randoms push you out of set. What makes that guy any more entitled to the girl. I used to go out clubbing with my girl a few times and dudes would hit on her, and I wouldn’t do anything unless she told me she wanted me to pull her away. Woman and men, like to check and make sure there friend is alright th… | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | [NSFW] I’m tired of jerking offJust start approaching and let you’re social skills catch up. You’ll get good it takes a while but you’ll get there. I went to getting blocked and left on read(still happens btw) to having a sdl car lay yesterday. Shit was wild. Just gotta grind man. | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Just got rejecter by co-workerProbs for the best since you work with her. But tbh, what did you say when you asked her out? | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 04:17 PM |
| 6 | Seeing two girls at the same timeBruh, this is a situation, I almost never wanna be in, because I see how I actually do start to catch feelings, and to break a heart would hurt me lol. Personally, I’d just put one more on the backburner, and see the one you like wayy more. Once they both got you hooked, it’s gonna be hard to push one out of you’re life over the other. This is more of a down the line strategy, because in all honesty, you can tell a girl, you don’t wanna commit or you’re seeing other people, and that’ll sometimes… | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 03:35 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being so damn shy (28m)Yeah I’m all honesty, you’re just gonna have to throw yourself in the deep end. I’m 24 but when I was younger like 15-16 I couldn’t go order some food if it was a cutie taking the order. I’d just not get anything lol But after a few years of cold approach I don’t feel that way | /r/seduction | 01/02/22 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?So I look at this two ways. One: - She seemed to genuinely like you. - An obstacle was in the way of you getting what you want. - You tried to battle toe to toe, and do the logical thing ie. Remove the friend by telling you’re date. No biggie that’s what most people would do. And of course now the date is gonna pick her friend over some guy she just met. Two: You didn’t have to go toe to toe like that. Of course the friends gonna win. The friend will most likely always win unless the date is hyp… | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 10:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I can see why you lost attraction | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 03:51 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah I agree, I actually prefer to meet them in person, or use audio messsages/FaceTime But maybe this dude had a girlfriend or a spouse, which is why he didn’t want to call you. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 03:45 PM |
| 4 | Do anyone else see being a male cockblocking friend a dick move?White knight 🤡. I actually had a wing do that shit to me and it blew me completely outta the set lol. Some dudes just be tryna amog though. I’ve had it done to me, and have done it to other people. Part of the game | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 05:07 PM |
| 3 | Anyone who got fit and saw huge difference with women?It helps but it’s not the end of the world. Really just gets you in the door. You gotta lead and be charismatic | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Gym girlsYeah especially on them squats haha | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Gym girlsNo one said nothing was believable. In fact you didn’t say anything that was either believable or not lol. You do whatever you wanna do. At the end of the day, that doesn’t change what I said. If you wanna approach then go ahead. Like I’m just saying what I personally do. All I’m saying is, I go to bars and do daygame specially for it. I use the gym to rest and meditate away from women and life. Sounds like you’re salty if you keep going back and forth about what a man decides to do with his tim… | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Gym girlsI actually go talk to women just not at a place where I go to work on myself. Where are you’re field reports at bruh? I got my receipts where yours at? Read my previous comments up on here | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Gym girlsYeah she was both times. A girl could give you signals and still do shit like that, if she doesn’t like you’re vibe or you’re personality | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 04:17 AM |
| 9 | Gym girlsI approached a chick at a gym one time. She was staring at me. Got her ig, and she unfollowed me lol. Last time I’ve ever wasted my time talking to girls at the gym. The gym is where I work on me personally. It’s my meditation away from that shit. Get this, I saw her again few months later, and she was staring at me again. This time I ignored her ass. I go to bars, or just do some daygame for girls. | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 12:48 AM |
| 1 | How?I mean 6 dates is a lot. Questions though, has she been paying or contributed if not, you might be being used. If not though, you need to be pushing things forward as the man. Have you invited her over to you’re place? Gotten sexual with her? What do you think she sees you as? Yes there are shy women but I can gamble that she’s definitely been wit someone sexually after only one date depending on her age. Either way bro, I think you just need to make a move and lead her somewhere. If she rejects… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 06:45 PM |
| 2 | My current problem seems to be not having that much of the ‘bad boy’ vibe going for meA lotta times it’s about toeing the line between being too explicit and implicit. Like the top comment said don’t let this me too shit fool you, because imo women are way more overt sexually than you would think. They talk about sex with their friends all the time. Like they even go into crazy detail. So you have to just be comfortable with you’re sexuality as a man, and risk that she might feel uncomfortable. But that shouldn’t really happen, unless you’re making really uncalibrated moves, or s… | /r/seduction | 18/01/22 07:31 AM |
| 2 | The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once.It’s a lot of things that go on to get an instapull, but I think the main thing is to have you’re mind set on pulling her somewhere instead of just getting a number. In nightgame, instapulls are pretty much the norm, so it’s easier. Haven’t had an instapull yet in daygame. Only one time, I pulled a girl to my house that i met in the street but I screwed it up when I got home with her. It’s a mixture between, comfort attracting and leading. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Tips for going to bars alone?It’s actually normal tbh. I prefer to be alone, that way you’re in full control of talking to the girl. You can’t control how a girl feels about you’re wing. You’re girl might be interested in you, but her friend may not be interested in you’re wing. Then it becomes a battle of finding the perfect set. I had a pretty bad situation that happened yesterday. I was talking to a girl (girl A)in the bar and she was completely ignoring me, and my buddy was talking to the other(girl b). However, he said… | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 05:46 AM |
| 2 | The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once.Tbh I agree with this but I find myself doing a lotta nightgame and just get one night stands which I honestly prefer, along with having a main squeeze. So not a rotation just a main girl with a bunch of random sex. You don’t commit to the main though and you let her know what’s up. I don’t even do a lotta dates at this point, I’m just going for instapulls. It’s also really cold so I slowed down on street game | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | how to be good in bedYeah man it was actually a girl I was with for a minute and still with. We’re just friends now though. Anyways, she wanted more aggressiveness from me, like I thought I was doing enough but she felt like she wanted to see the real me, and really ravage her. Man I grabbed this girl while we were doing our thing and put her in front of the mirror, and just started saying “look at yourself in the mirror, smile at yourself”, I said a couple of other wild things but I think that smile at yourself bro… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 08:51 AM |
| 29 | how to be good in bedMan one time, my girl woke me up and we did our thing at 3am but after I finished man my chest hurt so bad, I wasn’t breathing right during the act, and it felt like I had just completed a marathon lol. So yeah cardio is a definite | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:15 PM |
| 14 | how to be good in bedIn all honesty, over the years I’ve gotten better and more aggressive. I’ll pull the girls hair, slap there ass whisper dirty talk in her ear, rag doll, different locations of my crib, foreplay. Don’t just stick it in, finish. In all honesty sex to women is all about the experience in my opinion. Like you could make a girl orgasm and cum as many times as you want, but after a while I’m talking months and years they get bored and may even stop putting out. I’m not saying she won’t want to fuck yo… | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Is driving an hour to meet up with a woman doing to much?It’s all experience and like those top comments say, you can learn other areas to take you’re other dates | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Should I be going after a committed relationship if I know I am not presenting the best version of me at the moment and need time to self improve?I wouldn’t say you’re best, but if you feel like she’s not the best for you. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:53 AM |
| 1 | The concept of alpha/beta/sigma males is bullshit. Independent, self-assured, centered men don’t care about labelsIt’s just different ways of understanding the same shit imo | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 07:46 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]With women: got tired of seeing girls check me out clearly and not doing anything about it. For years this would happen With life: got tired of being too routine and wanted more for myself | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 03:12 PM |
| 0 | On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year?This year I slept wit 10 different women. I plan to do way better next year and probs coulda slept with more, because I’ve had way more near pulls, but it’s better than my previous years of 1-2. Just for age I’m 23 turning 24 in a week. Not gonna lie though, it’s not all that though. I remember I slept with 3 girls in 3 days and sat in the car the next day wit my wing and cried wit him. It was a horrible day for daygame and we just kept getting blown out. It started to feel pointless and all I v… | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 12:07 PM |
| 0 | Why nothing turns a woman on more than radical honesty plus an indifference to needing her validation.Haha well nah, sometimes I see her in person even after the breakup. We’re like friends you know. But yeah texting and FaceTime. | /r/seduction | 09/12/21 02:02 AM |
| 0 | Why nothing turns a woman on more than radical honesty plus an indifference to needing her validation.Nah street game and night game | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 08:30 PM |
| 12 | Why nothing turns a woman on more than radical honesty plus an indifference to needing her validation.I’m actually going through this now with a girl. Ive been gaming since June 2020 and I’m still dedicated. However, I met this girl who I winded up being in an open relationship (she never messed with anyone according to her) with for 6 months. Very tumultuous relationship, but she ended it and keeps reaching out to me and wondering have I fucked any other girls and wants to be friends. I’m a lil emotional over it since I’ve never been in a serious relationship like that. But she keeps thinking I… | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 05:46 PM |
| 1 | The best thing to say to a woman when you approachCold reads after the opener (which doesn’t matter that much you could say “hey thought you were cute had to come say hi” Then cold reading “You look like you should be on Broadway” “You seem like a communications major” “I bet you’re into fashion” And what not. It doesn’t really matter if it’s right or not it’s about breaking the set open and getting her smiling and feeling more open so you can work the rest of you’re game. | /r/seduction | 07/12/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | What actually helped you overcome Approach Anxiety?There’s no way, but if you’ve done 1000 approaches and don’t feel somewhat comfortable then it might be time to start pushing you’re comfort zone. For me, I’m black and I find I have no approach anxiety when I approach black/Spanish or even Asian sometimes. But with white girls I find it harder. But that’s because I don’t approach them that much percentage wise. (I still approached a bunch of them) You just gotta approach and push yourself to stay in. Also getting a wing will lower approach anxi… | /r/seduction | 04/12/21 09:27 PM |
| 7 | Im new to this, i have a question: masksThat’s how I started my journey, and I actually was successful. I don’t think it matters whether you have a mask on or not | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Need help with dirty talkPretty good advice already, and I’m not a pro, but make sure, you’re dirty talk, doesn’t sound negative. Like there’s dirty talk, where you can say things like “Yeah you dirty slut you like this big dick, you’re only job is to take this dick you understand me” That’s cool and will work but you don’t wanna keep saying shit like that because she might start feeling a certain type of way. It’s really about where you’re coming from emotionally and mentally when you say those things. If you sprinkle … | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 11:32 PM |
| 11 | Message for the guys that feel like giving upTo get validation yeah | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 02:34 AM |
| 8 | Why did this smoking hot girl turn cold?Honestly who gives a shit. Find more girls. I feel like a lotta dudes on this sub get too invested in one girl. I’ve had so many flakes and ghosts it’s ridiculous. But I’ve had great experiences on the flip side with women(pulls, instadates, cool extravagant dates, sleepovers, ons, fbuddy, cool conversation). To answer you’re question though, another dude coulda came in the picture, you coulda creeped her out, she didn’t like you and just liked the conversation/validation. Don’t feel hurt, becau… | /r/seduction | 17/11/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else lost girls because you didn’t chase her enough?Yeah. But it depends on what you mean. I’ve done the whole delay response thing and have lost girls to that. I’ve also lost girls due to not wanting them when they wanted me. At least in terms of commitment. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Where to get laid when you live with your parents?Thanks man I appreciate it. Shit happens | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 08:23 PM |
| 10 | Where to get laid when you live with your parents?Hotels. But you could also find different spots that you think are cool. Last 2 girls I smashed was on top of a rooftop. So wherever you want just lead to the locations you want and frame it as an adventure. Last night was hell though. I had a down girl, and was tryna pull to a few hotels. They were all booked. Rooftop spot was compromised and the parks were closed. We just mainly made out and grabbed on her, but couldn’t do much else. My apt was on lock so couldn’t use it last night | /r/seduction | 14/11/21 07:57 PM |
| 2 | What do I do when a woman is ranting about her ex's on first date?Yeah I feel you and you’re right to feel that way. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 11:11 PM |
| 2 | What do I do when a woman is ranting about her ex's on first date?Also, just to let you know you can let her talk about whatever she wants. As long as she’s talking that’s investment in the convo. You just have to make sure you’re leading to the result you want. Did you try to touch her, kiss her, invite her to your crib? If you didn’t do any of that then you don’t truly know where she stood. It’s probably better that they talk about other guys because if they don’t they probably see you as bf material. | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | What do I do when a woman is ranting about her ex's on first date?Not necessarily. I see how that can look like that, but if he just leads to the result he wants and she follows then he can be the side guy, or the main guy. If he sits back and doesn’t do anything(has a date and doesn’t try to pull, or push things in a direction he wants) yeah he’ll be her best female friend | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 03:58 PM |
| 1 | What do I do when a woman is ranting about her ex's on first date?I remember when I was in a date with this Turkish girl who lived in Italy but came to my state to visits. I met her via daygame and instadated her. Then had a follow up date. On the date she started talking about this guy who she pretry much came to the US to hook up with. I thought I was done, and friendzoned. I think she was 30 as well and I was 23. She started giving me momma energy. However, I let her talk about her ex and just sit there pretty much, and acted like I wasn’t fazed. If you’re … | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 03:55 PM |
| 21 | How do I avoid boyfriend vibes?Most women will develop feelings especially for someone they can’t have. To be nsa, a lotta that shit has to be conveyed early. But still even if a girl knows you’re a fuckboy/player, she’ll be attracted to the chase (especially if she’s young). If they start developing feelings and that’s not what you want then you should leave because what’s gonna happen is that you’re gonna get attached. You may not even like them like that but they’ll slowly reel you in. After that they’ll start demanding mo… | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 04:08 PM |
| 4 | Hooked up at the party but she left with her friends after she said yes when I told her I’m taking her homeAt night you gotta stay hooked with the girl. I’ve lost so many girls because I didn’t stay with them. Try to get her to introduce you to her friends and see what the blocker to her coming home to you is. Also it’s not uncommon for girls to makeout with you and be all into you, then switch off like a lightswitch like they don’t know who you are. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Nah it’s definitely confidence or a certain aura surrounding you. I’d say if it’s not confidence, it’s a guy that knows how to have fun, and has good energy. So really just having good charisma | /r/seduction | 03/10/21 09:33 PM |
| 25 | The reason you’re having so much trouble finding a partner who likes youThis is not really true for everyone. For me daygame and writing field reports made me who I am today. I used to sit in the house all the time. But game forced me outside, learning my neighborhoods/environment. Brought me wings/friends, and made me the leader of certain wing groups whereas in high school I was more of a follower. Brought me to nightclubs, and gave me the women and experiences I would have never gotten, just focusing on myself. I’ve slowly become the guy that my friends (who got … | /r/seduction | 02/10/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you talk to women in general?Once I started gaming it was all about getting laid for me but I met this girl a few months ago. This girl is really cool even outside of sex. So now when I’m “gaming”, even if the girl doesn’t want to fuck but she’s cool, I don’t have an issue just being friends and having that bond you feel me | /r/seduction | 25/09/21 03:24 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Yeah but it’s an up and down thing. If you have sex with a girl then for another year you don’t have sex, you kinda lose that feeling. That’s why you should always be looking for backups. | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 12:58 AM |
| 2 | I did it!!Keep going bro! 🔥 | /r/seduction | 22/09/21 01:41 AM |
| 1 | How do you go to bars solo without looking like a loser/weirdo?Talk to other people | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 01:09 AM |
| 7 | If you want to date 9's and 10's, daygame is the way.I agree. Still need to get my skills up but I had a tik tok model on an instadate interlocking arms and putting her head on my shoulder. Didn’t close and forgot to get the digits. Didn’t even get her name or tik tok. But the whole experience validates daygame and this post for me. | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 10:42 PM |
| 0 | So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc.What kinds of abuse? Was she putting you down | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 07:45 PM |
| 3 | So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc.It’s called love bombing. They get you attached and then they’re true colors start showing. Not saying that’s what’s happening here but these girls usually have some unresolved issues. I’m involved in something similar and the relationship is a fucking roller coaster, arguments, breakups she even cuts herself even in my crib sometimes. But I got attached lol. It’s honestly like a drug. Sex is off the walls After a year and half of daygame and nightgame and getting rejected over and over, I thoug… | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 05:13 PM |
| 2 | How is any of this supposed to work if you don't have any women interested in you to begin with?Grind it out. I started daygame when I was 22, got rejected a lot. Now over a year later, I have an open relationship with my main girl who seems to be crazy about me and game on the side. Before this, girls liked me but I was too shy to do anything. Gotta grind it out and work for it. So I never knew if I could get a girl all over me. Kinda similar to you. Look at my old posts. | /r/seduction | 03/09/21 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Should it be this hard?Sounds like a booty call fwb type shit. I’d just keep it where it’s at for a bit. Let her bring up her wanting more which she will eventually if she likes you. I had a situation like this, and eventually the girl wanted to hang out with me and go to concerts. But it never really came to fruition mainly because I wanted to just keep it at sex. | /r/seduction | 01/09/21 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Be careful approaching women especially with the mask mandate going onDoesn’t sound like you did anything wrong. I’ve been approaching since June 2020 and it just sounds like she was having a bad day, or just didn’t wanna talk to you. Which is totally fine. Props for taking control of your life so early though. I started taking daygame seriously at 22. | /r/seduction | 27/08/21 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Never listen to a girls tips on how to get girlsLol this is kinda funny actually 😂 | /r/seduction | 16/07/21 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Cold ApproachFor sure | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 1 | Cold ApproachYeah that’s the perfect mindset to have. You got this 🤙🏾 | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Cold ApproachWhen I meant daily goals I meant daily goals in relation to approaching. So like shit like: tonality, leading, voice, approach anxiety. But yeah you’ll get there just stick with it. You’re already further than I was by approaching 5-10 girls as a beginner. I didn’t really get to that point till a few months ago | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Cold ApproachYeah for sure, as well as meeting other wings and people more experienced. However, for the most part the more you do it the less fucks you give and the more confident you get. The confidence + a lil game will get you some results. At the end of the day this shit is a process. It takes time and right now you should just be focused on your daily goals not sex. | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Cold ApproachYou’re toughening yourself up. You’re not supposed to see results initially. I’m 11 months in and at just starting to snowball. Just got 2 notches in 2 weekends from daygame. (This week and last week) It took months of dry spells and rejections, mental breakdowns, frustrations, contemplating quitting. It was pain but now I’m starting to reap the rewards. I had dates and insta dates, makeouts and shit so all that kept me going during the 11 months. But as a straight up beginner I feel like you sh… | /r/seduction | 23/05/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | When she gets back in touch after you distance yourselfYeah bro. Don’t be butthurt, obviously she’s still down just go for it. I had a girl that blew me off because of the rain and other shit on my side like 3-4 times then she ghosted me. I reached out a week after and she’s like she just wants to focus on herself lol. I kept meeting other girls and somewhat forgot about her. Now she wants to meet up after like a month. In fact she wanted me to pull up at her job right then when she messaged me cuz she was bored lol. I flaked cuz I was chilling with… | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 09:06 PM |
| 1 | This girl put her legs up on my chairs leg rest. I jokingly grabbed her legs and threw them off. Then she smiled at me and put her legs back up. Is she flirting?Haha yeah man read the sidebar and lift | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 07:39 PM |
| 1 | How did you increase your confidence to approach people?There’s no way other than to do it enough times, that you feel comfortable with it. I’ve been at this for months and still find it challenging at times. This is why I purposely set aside time to focus solely on approaching so when I see an opportunity I’m capitalizing. | /r/seduction | 16/05/21 02:03 AM |
| 150 | Don’t let anyone put doubt in your mind about how you’re perceiving an interaction is/was goingGood on you for not listening to your buddy. Unfortunately he has the mindset of “impress her” you don’t need to wait or impress anybody lol. You just shoot your shot. If anything shooting your shot is impressive. If it fails, learn from it and move on. You still win either way, because you’re gaining a reference experience. | /r/seduction | 15/05/21 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Women say they don't feel a romantic connection. What am I doing wrong?You’re probably coming off more as a friend. How’s your body language eye contact. Don’t be so agreeable, challenge her, tease her. Play around. You will be able to feel if it’s man to women or friend to friend. It’s really less about the conversation and more about subcommunication. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | That chick with the vacuum [field report]I stopped writing FRs on this sub because it seems like people call everything creepy and uncomfortable. It’s not helpful. In fact, they always say the same shit. “Women are scared”. It’s bullshit. Women aren’t scared. Don’t even waste your time explaining yourself like for real. This subreddit is turning into, a bunch of theories and seems to shame anybody who actually puts work in. | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Daygame way more harder than before?I wasn’t daygaming before Covid but I’ve gotten respectable results during the pandemic. Lots of flakes but I did get a notch, couple instadates and dates, k closes, flirty encounters. It all validates to me that this works. You say you approached 11 for 1 but I’ve had even worse than that. In October I went out nearly everyday avg 2-3 approaches and didn’t have a single close lol. When I do get a number most of them flake as well but hey it’s part of the game. I do think that it’s the pandemic … | /r/seduction | 12/05/21 04:33 AM |
| 1 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesThis is how I got my first notch from daygame. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Does sex play a role in keeping girls around for a long time?I would say no not necessarily. Really all depends on the girl. I’ve had girls finish with multiple orgasms but when it came down to it I wasn’t tryna be locked down so guess what after a few times I didn’t hear from them. | /r/seduction | 04/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 2 | How much do you get rejected from cold approach?A lot but it’s also gave me great experiences had I not left th crib | /r/seduction | 02/05/21 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Being nervous is ATTRACTIVE (and why it is) + ExamplesI kinda agree but I think it depends on how attracted she is to u at the start. I felt the tension with this chick when I approached because I felt everyone was staring. I went up to her started talking and she seemed into it. Then I said I was a bit nervous and the whole frame flipped. It’s like she went into mother mode lol. She wanted to introduce me to her boyfriend who was working in the pizza shop. I winded up staying and meeting him feeing awkward asf lol. Bottom line, it depends | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Y'all are making it too complicated again. Improve yourself and approach, that's all there is to it.I agree. Been approaching for about 6 months. It shows me how much being in my own shell prevented me from having awesome experiences. I’m on a break right now currently trying to move out. Things are only getting better | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 04:12 AM |
| 5 | Covid daygame full approach footage - shy girlI gotta get back in the game been out about a month looking to move out of my parents crib. But for sure staying in set is a sticking point of mine. I feel like once I’m hanging with her like on an instadate, or regular date I’m more comfortable. But on the initial approach I run outta things to say. Or get in my head | /r/seduction | 25/02/21 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Is it ok to not want casual sex as a guy?You gotta be true to yourself. Don’t concern yourself about what things look like. You’ll find the right person for you when the time comes. | /r/seduction | 23/02/21 03:27 AM |
| 3 | How to interact without being friendzoned?If you don’t want to be friend zoned then don’t act like a friend. I know it sounds cliche but it’s true. I had a girl in hs that I wasn’t sure about. Everyone kept saying she liked me but I wasn’t ready and was kinda nervous to be in a relationship. I kept her around and essentially became friends with her. When I tried to ask to her prom and poured my feelings to her she didn’t react well lol. Know where you want to go with this girl and lead it that way. There’s no waiting period. If you want… | /r/seduction | 22/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Daygame statistics around the worldI feel you. Story of my journey except on a larger scale. I’ve had so many flakes and I’ve been on this journey since June. I only got one lay from it and i practically went out everyday at least from June-December. It makes it harder that I don’t live on my own yet plus approach anxiety. Currently taking a break to move to my first apt. And learning some more. Last month things started to ramp up with a couple of dates but I couldn’t close any. Keep it up though. Although my results aren’t that… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Daygame statistics around the worldThose are some pretty good statistics for a beginner. You sure you’re a beginner lol | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | On dates I often act intensely platonic.I feel like you’re in a good spot. Keep doing what you’re doing tbh. She wants to see you again. Anything else is just overthinking. I’m not sure what you’re trying to lead to but think about the end goal. To answer your question I mainly tease girls which you somewhat did calling her a cougar. I say don’t overthink you got this. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | I missed a shot todayHappens all the time. I think this is why some guys can benefit from just making it a habit to talk to women in general (daygaming/night gaming)so they don’t miss opportunities. It was approach anxiety. I still get it and I’ve been approaching for a while now. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 06:23 AM |
| 3 | Always worried about what people think. How can I snap out of it?I’ve experienced others do it and have approached under those circumstances as well, but my brain still can’t get over it. It’s my biggest weakness when it comes to pickup. | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 1 | FR Had a pretty good instadateI suggested we drink at a hotel bar. It was cold outside but she didn’t want to go. I was out with a wing who got with a girl the same night that day. Some girls are more adventurous than others. | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | FR Had a pretty good instadateGot her ig and she brought it up | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 06:52 AM |
| 1 | FR Had a pretty good instadateYeah I agree about her being comfortable. Even me i would feel the same way if I was a girl. I’d probably give my number and not text back. I feel like I overtalked on the instadate, and maybe that’s all she needed. Maybe going more mysterious and keeping things brief would be better. | /r/seduction | 31/01/21 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Ability To Cold Approach = SuperpowerYeah man it is pretty cool. Had a pretty nice instadate today. Cold approach has changed my mindset on a lot of things tbh. However this is not an easy journey by any means. There’s so many rejections you gotta pile up. But hey it’s fun and I like it. | /r/seduction | 24/01/21 09:19 AM |
| 2 | FR Date after Cold approach K-closeField Report | /r/seduction | 19/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 2 | FR Date after Cold approach K-closeThanks for the encouragement | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 06:30 PM |
| 2 | FR Date after Cold approach K-closeThat’s what I was thinking will do. And yeah man, I knew I shoulda left. I feel like I’m boutta get ghosted lol. I gotta work on accepting that I can’t always pull a girl just because the situation is setup that way. If only I just said “okay” and left lol | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | FR Date after Cold approach K-closeThanks bro. I feel the same way it just never seems to pan out that way with me. They usually move on. But I’ll wait for a bit and see what happens. | /r/seduction | 18/01/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Looking For Wing In NYCI sent u a pm | /r/seduction | 29/12/20 08:31 PM |
| 0 | Dates go well but girls become flaky after?You’re bugging out and changing the frame of what I’m saying. All I said was to pull back and try again after changing subjects and waiting a while. What’s wrong with that. Try again. IF SHE SAYS IDK NOT A COMPLETE NO Maybe at that point wait for her to initiate like another comment said. | /r/seduction | 27/12/20 12:38 AM |
| 0 | Dates go well but girls become flaky after?Lol whatever you just don’t get it and that’s okay you’re not supposed to as a heterosexual woman I’m guessing. I’m not gonna argue with you. I said what I said. | /r/seduction | 27/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 0 | Dates go well but girls become flaky after?I didn’t say if they show signs of disinterest. Disinterest is different from “I’m not sure”. I said he should try again given his circumstances. Which were: kissing and blowjobs. Disinterest is don’t touch me, put a pillow up and avoiding eye contact lol. I’ve had that before and that’s a no go. But yeah it’s possible what you said about Op guess we’ll never know | /r/seduction | 27/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Dates go well but girls become flaky after?Well like I said if she’s giving signals that she doesn’t want to(doesn’t want you to touch her), back off. It’s uncalibrated/rapey. If she’s giving you blowjobs and kissing then that’s an entirely different story lol. I think you know that. He’s probably not hearing back because the girls were probably just interested in a one night stand and he didn’t bring it on home lol. I understand what you mean but some girls just want it to be the guys fault. “It just happened”. You’re right it should be… | /r/seduction | 27/12/20 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Dates go well but girls become flaky after?Lol well he did back off and they ghosted him haha. All of them. And I saw he said that one actually wanted to fuck. So what is he left to do. He should TRY AGAIN in a couple of minutes. Maybe she’s warmed up at that point. If not maybe the juice isn’t worth the squeeze. You’re say that they may not be into it but that’s not what he said. Those are complete no girls I’m just giving my experience nothing more nothing less. You can say all of this(things that should work in theory but actually don… | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Dates go well but girls become flaky after?She didn’t say “no” lol She said “idk“. That’s not a refusal. And then he said the girls were saying that one of the girls wished they fucked so what is it lol? That’s why I don’t like to comment on here because if you really were in this, you would know a girl never just says yes. Sometimes they do but it always has to be on the burden of the guy because she doesn’t want to feel easy. Explain how you would do it as a guy maybe I’m missing something? | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Dates go well but girls become flaky after?This was happening with the last girl I was with. The key is you gotta pull back when they say “idk if I want to have sex tonight”. Don’t completely dismiss them. Just say “that’s fine” Pull back a little bit, switch topics and then try again in like 5-10 minutes. You’ll know if it’s a complete “no” girl because she won’t even let you touch her. | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 2 | What if I really, really want to focus in one girl?I don’t think there’s anything wrong with focusing on one girl as long as she’s not your main focus. | /r/seduction | 26/12/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Got my first lay from cold approachYou’re stats are definitely better than mine in terms of getting completely ignored. I mainly go on the street(NYC). Maybe I should give stores and malls a try. One of my wings say I seem to go for the introverted type or ones that don’t seem open as well. When I went for chicks that seemed more open(bright colors, fancy clothes) I got more conversations. Tryna work on that still. But yeah covid is a big blocker. Can’t wait till it’s open season | /r/seduction | 13/12/20 03:54 PM |
| 4 | Any good tips on not beating yourself up about not approaching?Man I’ve been approaching for a while now and still miss opportunities. I even missed a cute girl today but hey it is what it is. If you’re talking about approaching in general, you just gotta force yourself until you get to a point that you start gaining momentum and it becomes a habit. Choose a time and take a walk everyday same path and do your thing. I never feel guilty about not approaching because I constantly force myself to go outside and do it especially when I don’t feel like it. Now a… | /r/seduction | 12/12/20 06:12 AM |
| 1 | Got my first lay from cold approachI believe you man. Do you’re thing | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Got my first lay from cold approachThe odds are not in my favor at all. I consider a lot the rejections/flakes/etc part of the experience. If I had to break it down I’d say out 10 girls: - 4 would ignore me completely - 2 would acknowledge but not stop - 3 conversations - 1 number close ~10%number close I met up with some of the girls. One time I went to a girls hotel but she wouldn’t let me make a move. I’ve gone on instadates as well. I must have had about 30 number closes but some I gave my number and never heard from them. Mo… | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Got my first lay from cold approachYeah covid is a big blocker next year will be better for sure | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Got my first lay from cold approachI’m in the US | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Got my first lay from cold approachDo your thing and be unapologetic about it. I still have some resistance too lol. Just visualize yourself doing it and imagine the worst that can happen and really imagine how you would feel in the moment. Be realistic about it. Every time I visualized and really thought about it, it was never as bad as my mind would have me believe. | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Got my first lay from cold approachCool to hear from the other side. Thanks for the insights. | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Got my first lay from cold approachI’ve just been approaching around my neighborhood with my mask on. Started off very slow just saying hi and seeing how people would react. It was mainly pleasant so I just continued from there. Most women don’t view it as creepy imo. Most were smiling and happy. I would just mess it up via text or I would jump outta the set too quickly for anything to happen. I actually feel like I didn’t get rejected a lot. I feel I rejected myself my leaving too quickly. | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Got my first lay from cold approachThanks! I felt like I had messed up when I said that lol. | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Got my first lay from cold approachThanks! And yeah I try to avoid sex topics early on and just try to get to know them, vibe out. I’ve gone that route before though but never got anywhere with it even if she seemed she was down. | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 1 | How to stop obsessing over getting womenLol wish I could say that I have a lot more but just a bunch of flakes. I hear what you’re saying though. I think it’s the validation from the smiles or hugs I get. Gotta work on getting them to follow through. But good luck start slow and work your way up | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | How to stop obsessing over getting womenI feel like I stopped obsessing with this when I started daygaming. My whole problems stemmed from being quiet. I watch wayy less dating videos or read a lot of seduction stuff anymore even though I need it cuz i could be better. | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Got my second daygame pull, game is realFor sure man! | /r/seduction | 27/11/20 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Got my second daygame pull, game is realYo man that's awesome! I've been having problems getting dates just a bunch of flakes. Even after interactions that seemed positive. My most recent approach the girl hugged me after and was smiling and responding to my messages. But doesn't follow through. All the yt guys say go for the date quickly but I like how you waited to ask her. Maybe I'll try that. Again congrats bro. I'm gonna be up there with you. | /r/seduction | 26/11/20 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Approaching girls IRL is WAY FASTER than online dating.Yeah for sure. And you can get better quality. | /r/seduction | 26/11/20 02:27 AM |
| 3 | If you are not getting results, this may be the reason why...Not op but strength isn’t something you experienced unless it’s pressure tested right? You can’t see strength so you’ll just have to push and have faith in yourself. I went on my first instadate today. After 4 months of bullshitting getting flakey numbers. I just said fuck it. And I found out I have a lot more strength than I thought I did. You can’t see strength. You just have to push yourself to see how far you can go. You’ll never know if you can bench 200 until you do it. Sometimes you don’t… | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 04:29 AM |
| 1 | If you are not getting results, this may be the reason why...What’s the difference between an inauthentic interaction and an authentic interaction on the surface? I mean I’ve mindlessly approached and i didnt see much of a difference in how the woman responded to me. Even if you’re mindful and the interaction feels genuine there’s still a chance you will be rejected maybe not right when she’s in your face but maybe when you try to do a day 2 with her. | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 12:46 AM |
| 5 | If you are not getting results, this may be the reason why...Honestly as a guy, I agree with you. Women value different things than men. I agreed with the original comment but you make a good point here that we value different things. Women definitely get approached more than guys. However, you still want to find the right guy. When a guy hears that women have options approaching them, they feel women have it easier, because we (at least I do) value options while a woman might just be looking for the perfect guy. A guy might just be looking to get laid or… | /r/seduction | 02/11/20 12:31 AM |
| 3 | Have you ever seen a girl who is very attractive and you get all anxious and standoffish towards her? Even though you would love to get with her?That’s been me all my life and I still do that. It’s approach anxiety, and fear of rejection. It’s an ego thing. If I act like I don’t give a shit she can’t hurt me. Only way you can get rid of it is by going through the fire lol. I had a crush on a girl and we would talk and then I’d pull back because of fear of rejection lol even though we were talking. | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman in NYCI’m down. I’ve been daygaming in bk | /r/seduction | 26/10/20 12:15 AM |
| 6 | What was your worst experience in cold approachI didn’t chase her she came back to me | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 03:44 PM |
| 5 | What was your worst experience in cold approachIt’s never that bad as people say but I approached a chick and she started running away but she came back and eventually calmed down and just rejected me lol once she knew what I was there for. I haven’t had a chick seriously yell but there are some chicks that just sound hella aggressive when they say I don’t give my names to strangers. Just remembered I did have a chick yell at me when I approached and she was on the phone. I still went out the next day and continued approaching lol. Literally… | /r/seduction | 24/10/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Pushing past a little resistance on cold approachThanks! | /r/seduction | 24/10/20 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Pushing past a little resistance on cold approachMaybe there’s something I’m not seeing. I’ve had plenty of successful interactions during this journey so far. It’s just that there are some women I say my opener and ask for there name and they don’t give it and say I’m in a rush but they’re still standing there. I feel like I’m not pushing the interaction as much as I can with these approaches. My question is around staying in these particular interactions. A clearer example would be if she says I got a bf as soon as you open but stands there … | /r/seduction | 24/10/20 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Pushing past a little resistance on cold approachOkay I do go for there number after I’ve been talking for a little bit and she seems cool. I’m talking about when theyre giving some resistance to being met. I’ve had successful interactions but I notice with some girls they don’t want be met which is fine. But some just stand there as if they’re waiting for me to say “okay I didn’t mean to interrupt have a good day bye” or continue the conversation forward. Ive gone for the number here as well. It works but there’s no point in asking if she doe… | /r/seduction | 24/10/20 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Fellas, be careful out there... These women existI remember I was talking to this girl a couple of years ago in college. I hung out with her and one day we’re at Starbucks and one of my classmates tagged along. This chick had the audacity to say that we would both pay for her starbucks. I started laughing and said “you woulda thought lol”. She looked so sour. My classmate was looking at me like he was getting ready to pay for her. | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Fellas, be careful out there... These women existI’ll go back to the streets and find another lol | /r/seduction | 23/10/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | Girl very interested before and on first date, then cold-ish after?Lol I thought you were gonna say she stopped responding to your messages based on your title. I think some girls do this when they’re either playing the field or wants to see if you’re gonna chase. I think it’s the former though. So that means to not get attached and continue talking to other women as well. I had a girl that was like that but I’d hit her up once a week or every 2 weeks and she’d respond like within 5 minutes that she was available. | /r/askTRP | 20/10/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Exactly how is someone suppose to go out and do stuff with all the madness going on right now?You’d be surprised how many people are open for conversation. | /r/seduction | 16/10/20 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Cold approached yesterdayGreat job bro keep it up. Just honestly get in a habit of closing. Im on this journey too and it can be very fun. | /r/askTRP | 12/10/20 07:49 PM |
| 5 | “Focus on you and the women will too”I feel a lotta people including my past self think that this means lock yourself in a room and just lift weights, do your hobbies and nothing else. I actually did that last year. I went on dates here and there and approached extremely little but I had my life. How I used to respond to women before I had my life vs now is very different. If a chick flaked on me I’d get upset . Now I’m like well I could always go make that beat, or go to martial arts or just chill and watch YouTube. I think that y… | /r/seduction | 02/10/20 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Is there an "ultimate" reason for a girl to stop being interested in a guy she was really interested in?Lol it’s always happened like that for me as well. And yeah no prob | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Is there an "ultimate" reason for a girl to stop being interested in a guy she was really interested in?Probably another guy. Like maybe an ex hit her up. In terms of things you could have possibly you did wrong: - Pursue too quickly - Show interest too quick - Talk too much - this is a big one. I don’t know what it is but if you just reveal too much too quickly you’re no longer interesting to her. I’ve had girls ask me if I was shy and then I started being more open and they lost interest. The above are just ideas. It might have went well to you and maybe her as well but sometimes the universe ju… | /r/seduction | 30/09/20 09:26 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone had a successful cold approach with covid mask on?If you mean like got laid no but I’ve had successful conversations one even invited me to her hotel. Most don’t mention covid tbh | /r/seduction | 13/09/20 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Upped my picture game and the amount of effort I need to put in has drastically went downOhh haha. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Upped my picture game and the amount of effort I need to put in has drastically went downI saw a comment that you’re friend is a girl. Preselection is real my man. | /r/seduction | 05/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Truth.Yeah it’s definitely an upward climb but well worth it. Still rough at times especially when I compare my progress to others. | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Truth.Don’t shit where you eat. I wouldn’t want you losing your job because some girl thought you were trying to sexually assault her by saying hi. | /r/seduction | 02/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Based on some posts and comments I've seen here, as well as my own experiences, I feel like this is tangentially relatable and relevant for people.It’s true. But you have to be willing to take immense action | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 3 | How to handle and get over nervousness when trying to approach a girl? Nervousness I get not her specifically but people around us.You’re right about rejection stories being hella funny. I have so many. I’m still in my beginning stage so my goal is just to approach and try to get a number. When I do get a number I hardly really remember or care about how I got it because it’s the same process every time. The rejection stories are actually more entertaining. | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | How to handle and get over nervousness when trying to approach a girl? Nervousness I get not her specifically but people around us.I have the same issue and it causes me to lose opportunities. When I do it around people it’s almost never that bad but it’s hard to be consistent with it. Just the other day I was trying to talk to this girl at the crosswalk and I kept saying hi but she totally ignored me (probably headphones and I didn’t make myself clear) and this guy was standing behind us and saw everything. I just walked away and laughed. Another time I tried to approach this chick and said hey excuse me so loud everyone t… | /r/seduction | 27/08/20 04:11 PM |
| 1 | My first ever cold approachYeah my dude!! My biggest fear is approaching in front of people. Even though I’ve been approaching for a while now (almost two months), if there’s too many people that I see around I hesitate and wind up not doing it. But you’re right most of the time it’s not that serious and you won’t give a shit. | /r/seduction | 06/08/20 01:55 PM |
| 2 | Cold approach on a girl shopping didn’t only just get me a date, but made her day. Keep trying guys. But always work on yourself 👌🏻I approach as if they’re not wearing one lol Most chicks I’ve approached haven’t said shit about the pandemic. | /r/seduction | 05/08/20 11:02 PM |
| 21 | Is it normal for girls to lose interest quickly if you don't make a move?Girls interest fluctuates heavily. You can have a girl texting you constantly one day and the next she’ll be ignoring your texts. For no reason sometimes. Honestly she just lost attraction and it’s okay move on to the next bro. Maybe she’ll hit you back up maybe not. If you chase after her she’s gonna lose more interest. | /r/seduction | 31/07/20 11:48 PM |
| 0 | First day of approaching girls - FailedI’m not attacking you. You seem to be getting offended. All I’m saying is that if you sit and read the internet all day and don’t actually go outside and communicate with the women around you. Then you really have no say in how they’ll really act. Unless you do approach? I’ve approached countless amount of girls and the most any of them did was ignore me or just walk away. I’ve never been pepper sprayed or anything. Just because one or two say that theyll pepper spray doesn’t mean others would. … | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Getting someone back to your place?I’ve always used movies/tv shows as an excuse. It doesn’t really matter but don’t just say it outright. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | First day of approaching girls - FailedThere is none. Honestly the fact that everyone’s hating and telling you what you should and shouldn’t do means you should continue doing it. Many women don’t have to do this because guys come to them. As a man you have to create your options and seize the moment. It’s a means to and end. When you’re successful and smooth down the line would anyone woman care about what you did to get there. No. All that matters is you’re there. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | First day of approaching girls - FailedThis is self improvement lol. It’s working on your social skills and getting out of your comfort zone. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 04:40 PM |
| 0 | First day of approaching girls - FailedMaybe this is what he wants to work up to. Ever thought about that? This isn’t a one size fits all approach | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 04:25 PM |
| -1 | First day of approaching girls - FailedYou’re right because if you’re just asking for the time you’re gonna get pepper sprayed. You’re bugging out bro. I understand though if you just live on the internet and don’t actually try things in real life. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 02:16 PM |
| 0 | First day of approaching girls - FailedLol he can do whatever he wants. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 02:14 PM |
| 4 | First day of approaching girls - FailedNice man keep going bro! I’m in this journey with you. When you start full on approaching you’re definitely gonna get a rush even if you get rejected. It’s incredibly rewarding regardless of outcome. I’m at the point where I can approach some girls but not others. Like if they maybe give me a look I’ll approach. But I get just as much rejected if I approach from behind or they don’t notice me. Most girls seem to appreciate you approaching though. It’s still rough though. Keep at it! | /r/seduction | 25/07/20 09:53 PM |
| 1 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - First DateGood shit bro! I’m on the same journey hope to get there soon. | /r/seduction | 20/07/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | 100 approaches and still nothingI’m in it with you. Haven’t done 100 yet since I started consistently but I can quickly see this a number game. One thing I learned is that some girls just won’t like you. IMO I think that you did pretty good and should keep going. You’re beginning and you already got a date. Imagine another set of 100. 2 dates. Another set 3 dates. And that’s just if you don’t improve. I’m also not starting completely from scratch. I’ve approached in college and have gotten laid from it but I always quit after … | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 08:19 PM |
| 9 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 51 Progress Report (First Kiss)Ayye man congrats bro. Moving up in the world haha 🤙🏾 | /r/seduction | 18/07/20 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Learnings after my 50th approachI just started as well but I’ve only approached like 20 and yesterday a girl completely ignored me even though she was looking at me. I thought she was giving signals to approach. That kinda threw me off and almost made me want to stop approaching. I’ve been completely ignored before but this one just threw me off. I felt myself cringe for the first time lol. After seeing your post however I’m gonna keep going I can’t believe 23 completely ignored you and you still had the willpower to push thro… | /r/seduction | 05/07/20 08:44 PM |
| 2 | This sub in a nutshellThat’s the post that caught me too bro! I just stated cold approaching and that shit almost made me not go out. But I did anyway🤷🏾♂️ | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 06:25 PM |
| 2 | One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 26 Progress ReportI started approaching as well consistently like 4 days ago. And man it is it hard. Most chicks don’t really give the time of day. However I spent all these years running from away from girls giving choosing signals or girls I found attractive. So I feel like I’m doing for all the times I took the easier route. One thing I need to work on is stopping the girl. I’ll just keep walking if we’re going the same direction. Looking back the individual approach doesn’t matter much to me. You quickly deve… | /r/seduction | 24/06/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Did I give up too easily? I know I did but how can I proceed or what should I do next time?Will do thanks | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Did I give up too easily? I know I did but how can I proceed or what should I do next time?Alright will do thanks! | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 09:55 PM |
| 4 | Did I give up too easily? I know I did but how can I proceed or what should I do next time?I agree with having other pussy I don’t though so I gotta start somewhere. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Did I give up too easily? I know I did but how can I proceed or what should I do next time?Alright pretty much what I thought. That’s why I pulled back during that time. Still gotta learn to trust myself. Question though what made it seem like I came off as butthurt so I can try to improve it? | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 07:33 PM |
| 2 | [17m]Should I try to hide the fact that I’m a kissless virgin?I wouldn’t mention it. If you fail with this chick in the kissing department at least you will have experience kissing and can move on to other chicks | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 03:02 AM |
| 5 | Got a shitty job for the summer. Advice plsIt gets better that’s all I will say. Summer after freshman year I thought I was gonna get a decent tech internship but winded up at a record label which was just a warehouse lol. Was on my feet all day saw all these vinyl records and packaged the shit but never listened to any of it. It was pretty wild because I thought I was gonna get a decent tech internship but nah. Now I work a 9-5 internship sitting on my ass programming(qa work). Thought I wouldn’t get there but I did. Still more to go be… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Alright thanks for the comment. Will do. And also yeah I suppose so. Won’t be doing that again. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Funny because I have kino and escalated in the past but idk just didn’t yesterday for some reason. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 06:09 PM |
| 1 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Agree. Will definitely keep on working on improving my game. Funny I actually kino with this chick a while ago and I did escalate and she was in. So I will try to do this again. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 04:49 PM |
| 1 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Ight thanks for reading man. I get what you’re saying. I think different things work for different people. If she didn’t want to keep talking then she would have made it a bit more clear that she wanted to do something more which I didn’t see at all. Furthermore she was doing most of the talking. Maybe it was a bit cringe but I’m not cringing from saying that at all because at the end of the day she did kiss me. The girls I was with were average and I’m not ugly so yeah maybe that’s why it worke… | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 03:32 PM |
| 1 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Honestly that’s what I think now when I think about it. It was either end the date early or find a place to escalate. I was more or less on the end early side because I didn’t have a place to escalate. It would have left her wondering about whether I liked her or not and really get her hamster going. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 03:11 PM |
| 2 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Thanks man really appreciate the advice. This filters out the women that just wanna waste your time. Yeah will remember to have fun as well sometimes I get caught up thinking and I’m like not enjoying the moment. I have to be someone to follow. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 03:08 PM |
| 1 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Lol worked for me plenty of times before but I feel you. I’m trying to change more to that anyway. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 02:17 PM |
| 3 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Yeah I feel you. It’s funny because we both were into music and the college she goes to I had almost went to. We had stuff in common but I feel you because truthfully it was pretty visible. At times I was walking ahead of her like when we left the cafe like I didn’t wait for her that long. Little things like that. So yeah I feel you. I still would have liked to get with her. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:57 PM |
| 2 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Okay yeah that makes sense. Now that I think about it I wonder how she would have reacted if I just said I’m gonna kiss you now or some shit like that instead of asking like that. I want to ge to the point where I’m not blatantly asking or saying statements guess it’s a fear of rejection tbh. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:54 PM |
| 2 | I can’t seem to get second dates with some chicks can someone tell me what I’m doing wrong.Yeah I feel you. I always do that shit haha. So I shouldn’t have went for the kiss or anything just leave the date and get her hamster running? I guess I was also looking for her validation in a sense because I wanted to see how interested she was which made me go into her frame by kissing her or asking. She would have made it easy if she wanted it. I was reading to also maybe cut the date early while it was going good. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:51 PM |
| 3 | Is the background reading on the sidebar necessary to read before proceeding to the rest?Haha well the question was should you read the sidebar. Wrong choice of words when I said you’ll just have an abundance mentality but you’ll know what it is and strive towards it instead of asking oneitis questions that litter asktrp. But true you’ll grasp the concepts if you see for yourself you just have to know what they are | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | How to manage my destructive EgoGreat book! | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:14 PM |
| 2 | Is the background reading on the sidebar necessary to read before proceeding to the rest?I mean I believe it is. But I went about it differently. I read the rational male and a couple of other self help books and when I would read the sidebar it just reinforced what I had already learned. I haven’t read the whole thing but I definitely understand. If u read it you probably won’t need to ask questions on here. Because literally you’ll just have an abundance mentality or you’ll be outcome independent or you’ll just understand you’re not her top option. | /r/askTRP | 30/06/19 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else have a habit of ignoring girls?Ight so I’m 21 and have been doing this bs since I was 13. Long ass time right... What I realized is that I’m not the type of guy who’s gonna play around in a gray area with women (staring across a room). I’m either gonna make an approach or not. If you sit in that gray area you risk becoming that orbiter if u ever approach. How do I know? Happened to me many times. You’re giving her free validation. So what I do is approach the girl before any of that gray area bs can happen or I just ignore em… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone internalizing the red pill experienced the tug of war between the blue pill and the red pill?I’m weird in a sense that before I found the red pill I was i didn’t want relationships but when I went out and talked to girls(cold approach) I acted as if I did. Society made me believe that I was being a dog and it wasn’t cool to do that so I suppressed my desires and would eventually stop talking to the girls because the whole thing felt meaningless lol. Positive masculinity is what I’m trying to adapt. So the switch was an easy flip in my mind in that aspect lol. I’ve been alone for years a… | /r/askTRP | 29/01/19 03:16 AM |
| 2 | No matter how things start, girls just end up not being into me. I'm feeling drained and don't know what I'm doing wrongHow do u go about fixing it if it’s the first issue? Is the answer just to approach more chicks. Or is there something more you can do about it? | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | A problem i have as a 20yo guy.Outcome independence and abundance mentality. Monogamy is a byproduct not a goal. I just turned 21, still trying to drill this in my head because like you I’ll see a quiet girl in college think she’s quality, and special and start over talking about relationships, validating her, over pursuing and then she loses interest lol. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Hard To Get Motivatd To Read?It’s just something you have to do if you want it. I personally am on my grind to being a better person so that includes filling my head with knowledge of life. I needed a mindset change and I have loads of books in my queue that I will be reading. I couldn’t just sit there and watch YouTube vids of other people’s perspectives. I wanted to think about how I act and how I could use this. I wanted the underlying knowledge of things which is why I gravitate towards red pill and rational male. You n… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Post breakup with baby, need advice.I don’t have much life experience in this but for your number 2. Yeah it is insane that she got over you quick. I just finished reading the rational male and something that stuck with me was about how women might have developed some type of mechanism to get over emotional events relatively fast. He had stated men are disposable while women are the preserved sex. I’m war men are killed the women however have to be able to move on quickly to find other providers. Chapter is hypergamy if you’re int… | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 06:31 AM |
| 2 | Is the Gillette video racist?You got my upvote. I didn’t get that out of the commercial at all. Mostly because I’m used to seeing 99% white people in a commercial lol. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/19 10:31 PM |
| 2 | NoFap and TRPBefore I knew about trp I knew about nofap. I tried to go on long streaks but I always winded up losing out. That caused me to be in despair for the next couple of days until I got a good streak up again. Here’s the thing I did feel the “superpowers”. I started to become more talkative, felt more in tune with things in the world, girls were more attractive. I felt I needed to be on this journey to experience all of this. Then I found out the truth about a year ago when I went back to martial art… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/19 01:03 AM |
| 1 | Why do I auto reject women? How can I move passed this?After doing some reading and introspection I found the answer. Bottom line is take action. I haven’t finished reading the rational male I’m up to the game chapter but what I read so far has put everything in perspective. I am also finishing up how to win friends and influence people and that has changed my mindset about a lot of things and the way I look at them. I plan to read ego is the enemy as well to find ways to get over my ego. It’s mainly the ego man. I’m afraid of getting rejected so I … | /r/askTRP | 10/01/19 02:55 AM |
| 4 | Why are girls so flakey? What the fuck?Alright I don’t want to jump to conclusions but not all women are going to jump at him. He just mentioned one girl. Women are interested in what they’re interested in just like men are. No game will make a woman have genuine interest unless she had some initial interest even if it’s low. That’s what I feel we should take as a lesson. But honestly if he’s projecting that he’s tired of women it may have happen times before so maybe he’s doing something wrong. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 07:02 PM |
| 3 | On Mastering YourselfMan funny I was going to go down this path this year. Before I found red pill I had already developed a stoic personality because of my experiences, i used to be a jokey kid had lots of friends but also enemies. Now I want to let my guard down which is what I got out of your post man. I walked around with the scowl and poker faces but it’s barely gotten me anywhere especially in college as I commute to and from. If anything it’s protecting my ego from getting hurt. What I needed to learn instead… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/19 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Got lunch with a girl and it seemed it went fairly well. Invited her again via text and she never responded. What's the best way to handle that if I see her again in person?Where would you take a girl on a date? | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 08:34 PM |
| 5 | Got lunch with a girl and it seemed it went fairly well. Invited her again via text and she never responded. What's the best way to handle that if I see her again in person?how is getting lunch with a woman lame? Where do you take your dates? | /r/askTRP | 23/12/18 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Women gives insane amounts of IOis in club then rejects meMaybe she was an attention whore and just liked the attention. You didn’t do anything. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/18 04:41 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: Cold after encounter. Have some questions and need some opinions guysI agree man thanks for the insight! | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Cold after encounter. Have some questions and need some opinions guysYeah im going to have to get off of it. You’re right it’s totally different. Furthermore sometimes it’s a shortage of girls actually responding. There’s more choice in real life. Don’t want to stay in this trap haha | /r/askTRP | 17/12/18 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Cold after encounter. Have some questions and need some opinions guysYeah thanks man. The shame went away pretty fast haha but yeah thinking back to it, she did seem cool with it. Honestly I wanted to slowly get back into talking to girls and escalating so I went the online route. I'm trying to get off this however and back in the real world. I called tinder girls preliminaries haha. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/18 09:49 PM |
| 17 | How To Generate Interesting Conversations Out Of Thin Air (And Never Run Out Of Things To Say Again)Man I swear I’m glad I found this sub. Everything seems to come at the right time. Thanks man. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/12/18 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Cold after encounter. Have some questions and need some opinions guysAlright man thanks. I didn’t realize that that was inexperience thing tbh. Women feel sex differently most definitely | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: Cold after encounter. Have some questions and need some opinions guysYeah I feel the same way. Guess my mind is psyching me out. | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 01:41 PM |
| 1 | [Tinder] Do you guys have exemples of convs where you get her number or set up a succesful date ?Honestly just bring it up after a couple of texts. “Hey I’d love to take you out for coffee when are you available” What you’ll hear from a good amount of girls is “probably the weekend”. With those probably’s I just say alright text or call me back at this number when you have some time. I actually made it to home base with a girl because she reached out to me. It put the power in my hand. The other girls just gave me their number but one winded being a probably girl having a bunch of excuses a… | /r/askTRP | 11/12/18 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl with higher SMVI don’t really have an answer to your question but I can share my experience. I had a tinder date last night and have another one today. (First one by the way. I called these two dates preliminaries because I hadn’t talked to women for months and I wanted to apply some rp strats) Honestly just no validation have a great convo. I didn’t tease the girl or flirt with her yesterday but honestly I don’t think it really mattered because I got to home base on the first date The way I think of it is she… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Why did my wife cheat on me with a younger man?Alright I have a question a need a little help with applying red pill in this situation. So guys the guy she cheated on was a 19 year old. The only answer that makes sense to me is the fact that her and op we’re high school sweethearts. Because of this she didn’t experience sleeping around at a younger. What I don’t get is why it’s hypergamy. Doesn’t that only mean that she would look for someone more alpha. Not saying the teen couldn’t be alpha but let’s say he’s not for instance. How is that h… | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 12:19 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond from her shit test (Friend who rejected me)Respond something nonchalant like you have 50 girls you can talk to and let her pursue you. Take your time responding. | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I respond from her shit test (Friend who rejected me)I like this honestly. Leave her wondering. He’s the fucking prize not her. Let her ask him on a date | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 04:37 PM |
| 5 | Is this a normal response for being "nice"?Agreed! | /r/askTRP | 23/11/18 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do I auto reject women? How can I move passed this?Yeah definitely going to more research and take this noporn shit seriously. Known about this for almost two years but have never gone longer than 35 days. During those longer streaks I felt good but that rejection shit was still there. I will do research and push through this block man been in it too long and I only have one life to live. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do I auto reject women? How can I move passed this?Yeah I’ve had that issue. I see a girl that is interested. I’m a tad interested and then find every reason why she’s not the one for me | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Why do I auto reject women? How can I move passed this?Yeah I definitely have that as my next goal. I do martial arts and that helped out a whole lot but I want a better looking body that can be achieved with weights. Also yeah I focus too much on the future. These days I’ve been lowering my expectations on girls a lot. However it’s not there fully so yeah I’m just going to focus on approaching. Then the battle is with myself solely. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Why do I auto reject women? How can I move passed this?Yup you’re right been watching a lot these days haha. I did the nofap thing and was convinced it worked in the beginning but stopped working. It’s not so much masturbation for me but porn + masturbstion as a combination. Notice I said 14. I was in the 8th grade and that’s when I started masturbating with porn summer 2011. After that I didn’t feel like being involved in relationships with girls. So thanks you bring up a very important point and that is to stay away from porn. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 10:40 PM |
| 2 | Why do I auto reject women? How can I move passed this?Nah man that’s just another bs excuse I made up I like women. My deal is the lengths I’d go to justify my behavior. It’s really simple but when I go out in the world I go in default rejecting everybody. I’m scared of rejection when I move forward in the relationship but I have to live my life and that has ups and downs. I will be real and say that there are some girls that I personally don’t want to waste my time with but for the most part it’s just nerves | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do I auto reject women? How can I move passed this?Thanks man really needed this. I’m trying to move pass this shit but yeah I keep making up bullshit excuses. Fuck all of that I’m trying to see what things really are and this just put things in perspective. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 10:28 PM |
| 3 | Why do I auto reject women? How can I move passed this?Yeah you’re right bro. I’m gonna do some research on this and move forward with my life. Been here for a long time and for me to be aware of where I want to be and still not make a move because of some bullshit really upsets me. I like making posts like this because I can come back in a year and look where I was. I’m going to try to put my fears aside and unleash my true potential. | /r/askTRP | 22/11/18 10:27 PM |
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