So I didn’t really want to write this post but here I am. 6 months and a little over 200 approaches later.

I met her about 10-12 days ago, while I was out doing some cold approaches. Got her number. What I did differently was use audio messages instead of just texting back and forth.

We went on a date and I had some fun we talked about different things, did a little bit of touching she touched me as well. We just talked about random life stuff.

I still live with my parents so I couldn’t bring her over but I mentioned that and she said I was invited to her house anytime and she would cook for me.

Couple of days later, I went over to her house ate some good food and watched some movies.

She would let me touch her but didn’t want to take it further. We pretty much cuddled. Then I said “give me a kiss”(I know I shoulda just used my actions and pretty much up to then I was using body language but it just slipped out). She asked me “are you worthy of a kiss”. Of course I answered “yeah”. Then she backtracked on what she said and apologized saying that what she said was rude. Then I pretty much went in but she wouldn’t let me take it to the next stage.

So I went back to cuddling and about 10 minutes later we made out again but I couldn’t move forward.

After that getting shut down twice I was like I didn’t know if it was gonna happen. So I started withdrawing and not touching her as much and seeing how she reacted to me not touching her. She started getting more fidgety. When I touched her she would relax. So I went for it a 3rd time and it worked.

Had a blast and she’s really cool meeting her again soon.

Things I learned: it’s not important to do everything right. You dont have to answer every question in the best way. As long as your vibe is good and you’re escalating and you’re confident that she wants you just as much as you want her you’re good.

Also I see that this cold approaching process works for me and if I learn to approach more women I could repeat this quicker.

Also this journey was not easy I was getting rejected, flaked on left and right. Didn’t even think shit like this was even possible lol.