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FIELD REPORTNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 01:52 AM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 04:48 PM
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FIELD REPORTNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 01:05 AM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 03:56 PM
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FIELD REPORTNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 05:18 AM
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FIELD REPORTNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 07:18 PM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 05:54 PM
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FIELD REPORTNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 09:35 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 04:01 AM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 06:30 PM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 03:57 PM
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FIELD REPORTNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 03:44 AM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 04:32 PM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 06:46 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 08:25 PM
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ADVICENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 09:13 PM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 10:40 PM
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SELF IMPROVEMENTNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 08:17 PM
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LIFESTYLENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen16/08/17 08:03 PM
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NewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen26/08/19 08:34 PM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen11/09/18 05:06 AM
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ADVICENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 10:03 PM
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OFF TOPICNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 08:20 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 07:00 PM
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ADVICENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 03:03 AM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 04:56 PM
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NewMindRedPill/r/askTRP16/10/17 09:03 PM
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OFF TOPICNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 12:21 AM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 02:29 AM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 04:38 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 09:29 AM
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DATING ADVICENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 05:12 PM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 10:11 PM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen11/07/17 06:30 PM
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RELATIONSHIPSNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 07:21 PM
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ADVICENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 01:58 AM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 05:56 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 04:24 PM
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DATING ADVICENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 11:40 PM
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ADVICENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 07:29 PM
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DISCUSSIONNewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 09:40 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 06:18 PM
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LIFESTYLENewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 03:02 PM
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NewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 07:41 AM
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NewMindRedPill/r/RedPillWomen04/09/19 03:35 AM
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Sorry I just wanted to point that I stated I know I'm only one person and this is my experience. And then you tell me the problem with my argument is that I'm one single anecdote. Which you then go on to give a singular male anecdote to prove your own point Just thought that was funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/19 06:00 AM
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I can only give my own example but I rarely notice an attractive man. I don't lust after any but my fiance. If I do look at another man it's very very rare. Men are more statistically likely to leave a sick wife than the other way around. A part of this is illness wrecks havoc on a person's appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 05:14 PM
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I found this subreddit before that one too so I didn't know about it for a while.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 01:43 AM
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I've been following her for a while and now I'm growing my own garden because of her! She's amazing!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/19 03:08 PM
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I feel this rings true. It isn't just breakups. I saw that after my friends found out what universities we got into, one friend didn't get into the school she was dreaming of her whole life and cut her hair really short immediately after.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/19 06:14 PM
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I've just copied what she just messaged to me a minute ago.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/19 04:42 AM
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I agree, this is the feminism I support. I don't label myself as anything because labels hardly mean anything nor reflect what I actually support.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:56 AM
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Yes, that's why I mentioned the root of feminism. Not what is the current mindset. Yeah so its definitely compatible. I definitely dont think its necessary to identify with anything. One can hold beliefs without labeling it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:46 AM
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We have most of what I would deem equal in the U.S. For example: -equal right to vote -equal law applied to us. Aka I do not need a man to testify for me. Basic human rights essentially. This to me is law focused. I also think we have equal worth. When I have kids the son and daughter will be equal in my heart. My fiance's mom openly values her son over her daughter to gender and its caused them a lot of issues. I do see men and women as having different talents, although there's always an excep…
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 05:41 AM
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Ok tbh I treat kids that young sort of like my cats. Let them approach you. I'll focus more on the adults when I meet a new kid until the parents introduce me to the kid. I'll say hi with an expressive voice and a big smile and then go back to the parents, usually I'll tell the parents how cute the kid is so it's not an awkward transition. Kids are scared of new strangers and need to figure out the scenario. If the kid is friendly and approaches you then hug or chat with them. I also sass them b…
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/19 09:12 PM
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Hot Pilates for me! When I do motivate myself to go I feel Soooooo good after!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/19 08:58 PM
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My fiance and I watched his niece(4 years old) and nephew (2 years old) so I got the entire gang to make home made gnocchi from start to finish! The moment they left, my fiance turned to me and told me I'd be a fantastic mom. :)
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/19 09:42 PM
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In my case, PIV could never get me off before and now with my current it's amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 08:59 PM
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My fiance is the best I ever had. Granted I didn't have a lot before him. I was his first though, definitely could tell based on our first time together and he took time to learn. Since then he has blown my mind on multiple occurrences. I never could get off on PIV sex before him. Now its nearly every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/19 08:58 PM
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So this is something my mom taught me: A lot of what you need to do is essentially prevention. Prevent it from becoming too familiar. She said to cover yourself soon after finishing. So he wouldn't get to see you for too long and get used to it. Also be somewhat covered but with tight clothing, leaving more to the imagination. Flirt, make him want it and then work for it. I saw her do this for years with my dad. She always flirted and teased him and he could never get enough.
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/19 01:54 AM
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Same!
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 10:39 PM
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Just because he doesn't say anything doesn't mean he didn't notice. This is in relation to negative aspects of a girl. He'll register things subconsciously and break up with her because he "wasn't feeling it." While girls will register everything consciously and have an itemized list when breaking up with a guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 06:20 AM
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A true nice guy will still have a backbone and stand up for themselves. They will also not automatically jump to serving other people but will be helpful when the time calls for it. Nice Guy TM will ask what everyone needs out of the blue and give give give and then will suddenly sulk in the corner for the smallest perceived injustice.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/19 05:15 PM
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My fiance and I are a young couple. He went through a stressful time and sex stalled. It didnt recover really. I gave him some all natural testosterone boosting tablets (he has other signs he was low). It was highly effective and I wasn't going way lower than the minimum dose. It just sort of jump started him and then I stopped giving it to him after a couple of months. Sex is more than before the tablets.
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/19 07:56 PM
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Not a mom but I can mention my own mom. She gained a LOT of weight when she first had kids but it was really because she ate ice cream all the time. She didn't really diet, she just lost weight. She's now super thin. Size 0 or 1? Thinner than what she was as a teen. She does eat but as just finally learned portion control and eating slowly. She's more interested in tea than food. She is never without her tea.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/19 02:43 AM
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Having guests come over is a great way to get over laziness as you now have a deadline to clean before they come.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/19 04:43 PM
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This may or may not be helpful but with my fiance (we've been together for 2 years) we've set up habits of self improvement. I always reiterate I want to keep growing and improving myself and he does the same. We check in with each other every now and then to see if the other has ideas for what we can do better. This would be one of those things I would bring up within that framework. Also the more active I am and work on myself the more he does too. Lastly, if you clean it he wont have ever hav…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 02:55 PM
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In general, observation and analyzing what's behind answers does a lot more than asking straight forward questions and taking their answers at face value. General and fun questions like, "What would be your perfect day?" Could instantly tell you a lot. Does he talk about materialistic things? Being with someone he loves (even if he doesnt know who yet)? Does he talk about partying? Sorry I wish I had time to write more but I hope this helped!
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/19 10:35 PM
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Most guys nowadays start to think of settling down in their late 20s and majority settle by 33ish. I read an article that the older a guy is past that age group the less likely they are to settle down at all. There are exceptions though. So I always looked to date guys 26-30. Even when I was 21. The thing is I acted, dressed, and even had friends who were older. Look at the 20 year girl in the 1940s. They seemed much more mature and dated mature guys. If you date a guy who is older and you appea…
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/19 03:23 PM
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I think a great way to add to RPW would be to look at historic advice to women in terms of tactics. Older movies and books tend to have a lot of little nuggets and then we could analyze it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 03:54 PM
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There is a lot of negative stigma about psychological manipulation but people don't realize it's similar to persuasion and can be used for good. I was taught it from my mom and grandma who are very traditional but I feel most here at RPW would see it as disrespect. It's the art of guiding someone to a conclusion and making them think it was their idea. If you watch Mona Lisa Smiles they allude to it. The mother said to her daughter, "A good wife let's her husband think everything's his idea...ev…
/r/RedPillWomen08/03/19 03:50 PM
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I don't have a lot of time to write but it really depends on the guy. Is your husband capable of making these decisions well? My fiance bought a house sight unseen while we were on a date. I thought he was just texting but it was a hot market and he had to move fast. Everything has been great but he knew what he was doing because he grew up seeing his family doing it. I wouldn't be surprised if he put an offer on a second out in the next 6 month. I trust he knows what hes doing. I have voiced wh…
/r/RedPillWomen06/03/19 05:17 PM
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His mom and sister are pretty oblivious. He can be too. They were all raised in the idea of focusing only on school and their career so I think they often miss subtle social situations between men and women. They all see men as the only ones with an answer and my fiance was raised to always have the answer. So it probably makes sense to them that she asks him for help rather than the sister or mom.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 10:49 PM
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Yeah I trust him. Still makes me uncomfortable haha but I'm not reacting to it
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 10:12 PM
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Coming from the Latin culture that is very common. The men can he very alpha and are looking for an alpha woman. It's a very fine line between the beautiful virgin Mary type (this is a thing) and also knowing your worth and putting him in his place when he's wrong. It also says you're the queen amongst the other women. I grew up around it and was taught it by my mom. It's still traditional and red pill but only works with certain men that expect it and like it. I definitely challenged alpha Lati…
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/19 09:47 PM
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To put a twist on this. My fiance is a very masculine man and is currently building an extra wall for his mom (to make an extra room), and used to be a college athlete. He also cooks and his cooking style is hella manly. He chops intensly and fast and looks hella serious. He totally commands whatever It does even if its cooking. A couple of my girlfriends check him out a lot but not that kind of guys who can cook but cook in a feminine way. They say they want a guy who can cook but a manly guy s…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/19 02:07 AM
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I wish I could but my company is super informal with a young crowd. Its expected to add each other on fb and would rub people the wrong way if I declined. I talked to my coworker about it when I first got hired. :(
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 05:34 PM
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Thanks girl. You guys are all right. I do think planning behind the scenes is very useful but not to the obsessive state I get into and it isnt necessary to share it all. :/
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 08:54 PM
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I think you're right on all fronts. It's so hard for me to relinquish control. I feel like I pretend to let him lead will doing things behind the scenes to keep control. I'm always afraid things will fall apart that I need to control and even manipulate life. I went through a lot and dragged myself tooth and nail to get to this happy point in life. But I had to plan and obsess to get here so I guess I'll go add to the list of things I chat to my therapist about. Lol :/
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/18 08:53 PM
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I made a list too! It's what really helped me focus and find my dream guy who not only met but exceeded my list!
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 04:14 PM
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Toastmasters. It's an international speech and leadership club. I would have never met him otherwise because he wasn't on any dating apps/sites. He had a preference for meeting someone organically. I went to many different clubs, activities, and did what high quality men would do. I found that if you meet a high quality man online, they've been chased by women more so than the ones in real life so many become players. My bf in particular I think was a special diamond in the rough. EVERYONE alway…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 04:13 PM
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My sister was able to get top grades, internships, premed, volunteer, etc and always had a bf. Key was these guys were just as devoted to a future career as she was. One was the leader of the club she was volunteering at. Another already owned his own business while being a premed. These guys were so busy they admired that she was busy. A lot of their time was spent at coffee shops studying or working together. She's engaged now. Now it was very hard and she scared away a lot of guys. But she al…
/r/RedPillWomen09/08/18 06:39 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-narcissus-in-all-us/201102/how-you-know-eyes-are-watching-you%3famp Noticing other men notice her does not mean her eyes are wandering. Its a normal human ability to notice. Read the above article.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/18 01:50 PM
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Getting rid of half the chairs was a brilliant idea! The party was amazing and exactly what I wanted! My bf was shocked at how perfect everything was! Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/18 06:26 AM
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I don't have as much experience in this but from what little I know I would say to be vunerable with him. I am fostering cats right now and when they bite I purposely make a sudden sound as if they really hurt me (they didn't). Right away they usually stop and lick where they bit me. People are very similar in that you teach them how to treat you. One of my friends can be very abrasive with his joking. I showed him very early I don't like that. I wasn't mad, I just showed that I was hurt and I s…
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/18 02:50 AM
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There are certainly some jobs that you can get without a degree but there is often a cap on how far you can go up and how much you can make even with those jobs. Yeah some people are unwilling to do certain jobs or are not willing to do certain jobs to get experience but that's on them. My company technically will hire someone without a degree if they are outstanding but when you look at the fact that 95% of the employees have a degree that shows what their preference is. As for men with degrees…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 11:03 PM
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My focus is skin. I've definitely improved a lot. People used to think I was much older due to premature aging (10-15 years older!) but now people tend to think I'm at least 3-5 years younger. I focus on diet and skin care. I will go as far as my budget allows really.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 02:43 PM
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I just graduated 6 months ago and I am working in Business Development at a tech company and loving it! My goal is to go into sales. I'm still decided what type because that can effect work-life balance. I also will be working on my voice narration side job that I hope will be something I can do when I stay at home with the babies in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 02:37 PM
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I would feel very uncomfortable dating a guy who had no career prospects for that long. Why did he wait? Why is he planning on starting now that you can come and support him? Was his plan was to rely on you all along? I've heard bad stories of guys dating and even marrying girls that would support them through college and then leaving them after. I'm not saying your man is using you but does he even have any plans to work or rely entirely on you? I didn't rely on anyone in college and instead ke…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/18 02:13 PM
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Both my parents had mental disorders, issues, etc. and my life was hell. I avoid signs of mental disorders or signs of feeling suicidal (my dad killed himself) in guys. I look for guys who are very strong emotionally, strong mental health, and no apparent issues. My bf has eventually had some very small issues we worked on (but who doesnt?). My first bf had autism and it contributed to us breaking up (among many things) again not an experience I would willingly go through again. I look for menta…
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 02:47 AM
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Nowadays college degrees are needed for even basic jobs (regardless of the fact the degree is entirely unrelated). They type of guy who can afford to pay for you to be a stay at home mom likely has a degree. I dont know any guy with a degree that would marry a girl without one. Or even date. They usually dont care about how much money she makes, just that she has a degree.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 02:45 AM
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You can still learn. I learned to cut my own hair while in college to save money. It's pretty easy and lots of YouTube videos are out there.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/18 02:43 AM
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I've never not once accepted an alcoholic drink date. If I told a guy I'm not into drinking for dates and then they offered coffee/tea/juice then yeah I'd go for that. I might be ok with it if it was a wine AND cheese bar and I had only one glass of wine but also food. I usually wouldn't feel safe drinking with a man I didn't know.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 04:47 AM
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I feel like I didn't have so much of a physical preference that was consistent. I met a Latino with a seriously sweet personality and for a while all the guys I thought were cute looked like him. Currently my physical preference has developed into exactly what my bf is. Lol Tall, tan, masculine build, slim waist, thick leg muscles, masculine jaw, Asian (I am attracted to his Asian features but not many other Asian guys look attractive to me for some reason. Actually I'm just not attracted to oth…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/18 04:42 AM
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Yeah I'm sorry about that. It just was pretty frustrating for me for a while. I'll keep it to RPW subjects.
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/18 12:38 AM
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I feel very lucky because my boyfriend takes on a lot of the mental load. He also tends to manage and lead me more. I remember complaining I was upset because I wanted to deep clean certain things and just I had been using tired as an excuse. When I came downstairs the couches were moved so I could vacuum and deep clean under. I didn't ask him to do that and he knows I wanted to do the actual work. He was doing other house work during that time as well. Side note, can I ask why so many people ar…
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/18 02:55 AM
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My boyfriend has all of the Alpha and Beta Green Flags (which is what I had been seeking) and only one red flag from the Alpha Red Flags: The people in his past are considered assholes In general my bf seems to be friends with quite a few Alpha guys and has a few very Chad-like guys from his past sports teams. Some of them have more red flags that make them seem more like a$$holes. For ex. Despite one of the guys letting his physique go, he still had a drunk girl crying about him at a party beca…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 03:34 AM
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In no particular order: lost weight -toned up -grew hair long maintain hair (oils, only washing once a week, careful about ingredients, etc.) -Applied oils/formulas to help grow my lashes longer & eyebrows thicker -Used candy lipz to subtly plump up my lips -practiced face yoga to help define my face and sharpen my jaw -practiced a good skin care -maintained nails -dramatically increased vitamins (through whole foods and supplements) -ate more alkaline diet -trying to avoid sugar etc.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/18 10:33 PM
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For some encouragment you should google, "no one is ugly, just broke." It often isn't about what youre born with but what you do with it. I used to be pretty ugly as a kid and I look a lot better now and get loads of attention from men but I had to put a lot of work into it.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/18 06:50 PM
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Miranda Kerr. If you listen to her interviews shes very RP.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 03:06 PM
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The best thing that has helped me was asking, at the end of the day in bed, what was his favorite moment of the day. I never ask about his stressful day which would bring back the negativity and associate it with me. I only ask about his favorite moment. Its now become a tradition, something we ask each other everynight. His day is so stressful that 99% of the time his favorite moment involves me. Lol This I also take as a bit of feedback and I remember the thing I did or moment that made him so…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 03:02 PM
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All my close guy friends are gay if that gives you an idea.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 02:57 PM
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Can I ask, what do you think he is doing with his alone time? 1)Building: working hard, growing, learning, etc. 2) Playing: video games, movies, chilling, nothing? I can respect this in a man who is working hard. When I first started dating my bf he wouldn't text much but I'd patiently wait because I knew he was building. In fact he was always working very hard and it was what attracted me to him. It left him with little texting time. If he wasn't building and just playing then I don't think I c…
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 02:55 PM
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I never thought of this. I don't say this outright to my bf right now either. I feel I would prefer to "trust in his guidance." If its a moment other people can learn from our relationship than I'll be using a phrase than can better convey it.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/18 02:46 PM
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haha Its not official but yeah I definitely know its coming. My father passed away and he will with my mom before he officially pops the questions. She's a gossip and would tell everyone before I'd want.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 12:51 AM
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Lol He already game me a timeline. By the end of the yearish but he says he wants to plan. He's taking me a jewelry store to check my size and find my style.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 07:05 PM
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"A real traditional women ought to just embrace a man's company and focus on what she can provide (not financially) for him!" You're saying traditional women wouldn't consider a man's finances? Not true. In fact traditionally society, women's family, and women themselves highly focused on what a man could provide in terms of resources/finances. Actually, nonwestern women are into finances more openly than western women. I've heard of men in some cultures showing their bank account/pay stub to po…
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/18 07:00 AM
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Hahaha no I like it clean. Im trying to increase my standards :)
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 02:27 AM
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Isn't just the cleaning but the whole story. The fact that I was miserably sick and dragging myself out of bed to clean because his family was coming shows both that he and his family means a lot to me. Doing these acts of love isn't always just the act but the expression of love that is underneath it.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/18 02:19 AM
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I read a lot, learn languages, I like making money (I usually have 2-3 odd jobs like walking dogs in addition to normal job), I like attempting to grow vegetables, and I like reddit.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/18 03:52 AM
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Can I ask, is there anything else he does that bothers you or annoys you? Do you feel like you second guess yourself around him or you often feel wrong or guilty? Can you tell us more about your exerience with him?
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/18 12:32 AM
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I think everything in moderation. Even if you are turned on by that its good to try to balance your life. You don't have to act 100% more mature but in certain situations try to act even 50% more mature. Like in serious situations or professional situations do you still act childish? In certain situations you need to act certain ways. When I'm alone with my bf I definitely act more childish, giggly, and bubbly. I easily switch into more of an adult attitude when I see his mom or other people out…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 07:25 PM
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I definitely agree with you here. This is definitely not new. In fact in the 50s-60s high class educated men going to Ivy Leagues liked women who went to a prestigious college for women (example Wellesley College). Their ability to go to a high level college showed that the woman was prestigious herself, was intelligent, and came from the "right" family. The women usually never used their degrees after marriage. Every guy I know has a college degree and when they list their ideal woman she is al…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 04:14 PM
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I know which study you're talking about concerning stressed men prefer curvier women. It was actually, stressed men prefer women with a higher weight. Most men prefer curvier women - the hourglass or the pear shape. But stressed men prefer at a slightly higher weight of the same shape. But what's funny was that the study showed that the women they chose were simply closer to a healthier weight and not fat by any means. The nonstressed group picked underweight girls as the most attractive. I know…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 04:06 PM
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Yes! I've been fasting and my skin is glowing!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 05:06 PM
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Ok this helps too. Before my bf I did try out tinder and would go on dates with high SMV guys. But it took a while to find a guy with both high SMV/RMV but people kept telling me my standards were too high (in terms of RMV) but then I met my bf so it just took some searching but I found him. Lol I just want to improve for him and increase my SMV for him.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 06:39 PM
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What I've done personally that worked was to just break the ice with a couple of questions and a smile. Just for fun when I saw a cute guy checking me out I'd ask directions or the time or suggestions on restaurants in the area. It works even better if you're in a group and are expected to see each other again. With my bf I asked him questions about the club and its process and thats something he remembers He thought I was so friendly. You dont have to lead the conversation but you can break the…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 06:34 PM
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Hmm thats a good suggestion to look at. My bf is way more fit than me though. Haha I've often attracted guys who were fitter than me. I'm very curvy so that might be why. Less SMV guys are attracted to me but its the higher SMV guys who actually make a move most of the time. But I would say there were few 9s and 10s but more often 7/8s. So I must be around 7ish. 6 on bad days maybe haha.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 06:22 PM
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The hardening of your core you mentioned is often activating the transverse absominis and other abs muscles so thats a pretty good way!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 06:09 PM
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Yeah be careful of weights. I don't use any weights when I work out my abs because they will gain in size, especially the obliques. However, there are a lot of balancing exerces that help work your abs without growing them. I think some yoga poses do this and pilates helps with smaller waist too.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 06:09 PM
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Yeah I've done that myself and my hip to waist ratio is about 0.65. I posted some exercises above but I also feel that my early training in belly dancing helped. I used to practice some of the belly moves in bed before I went to sleep for 10 minutes and it creates a similar feel to the "vacuum" exercise I did. I stopped doing those exercises for the last few years and my waist increases in size (but not my weight, I actually lost weight so I was thinner in my tummy but the appearance of my waist…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 06:05 PM
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Awesome! Keep up the good work!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 05:58 PM
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I never said to forgoe a healthy diet or other exercises... that is essentially to everything but your idea to just lift heavy and weight loss is very oversimplified. I have a very slim waist already but I want it smaller. Weight loss assumes there is much fat in that area to lose and I dont carry much in that area. If I did heavy lifting with my OBLIQUES then I would GAIN inches on my waist. As far as post pregnany women, this exercise is essential read the article posted above. You can do what…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 05:57 PM
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Try actually looking up the exercise before commenting. It works a specific muscle that pulls the waist in and the exercise isn't, "sucking in your stomach all day." Forreal...
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 05:35 PM
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😂 you guys are always so cute
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 04:29 PM
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Health will make an average girl shine. If your skin and hair looks amazing from health then that will bump you up a surprising amount. When you're healthy, even your eyelashes grow longer (at least mine did) and your skin will have a glow to it. Start there because if under everything you look bad then you can't keep a quality guy. I agree with everything aNationofTwo said. Improving your value is a long journey, you'll do well if you constantly look for a way to improve. You'd be surprised how…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 04:23 PM
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Yes I never officially initiate. If he catches my flirting I jokingly say, "whaat? I wasn't doing anything! Bad boy where is your mind going. ;)" I might bite my lip, looking at his crotch and pretend to be embarrassed if caught, or bite my lip when working, I might stretch sexily (but not obviously in front of him) and he's looking at me and I pretend not to notice. I wear tighter outfits that don't show skin which I've found best to attract the guy without seeming desperate. I might play with …
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 08:07 PM
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Shes just a girlfriend moving in. Prenups are ok for marriage but general house rules are a bit much to be signed imo. My old roommate wanted whoever came in to sign a legal house rules document. She scared everyone away it was a nightmare. Even people who would have no trouble following the rules were scared away because of the signing. People who request signing often had bad experiences before or issues with previous roommates/girlfriends. Even if it wasnt their fault its like showing all you…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 07:30 PM
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Wasn't she just moving in? Not getting married? Prenups are different. She was just moving in.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 07:27 PM
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I mean if he still had the rules written out and showed it and put it somewhere close like a kitchen drawer after she agreed. I still think signing is too far. Its like when you make a profile on a dating site and say, "i expect this and that or it wont work out." It tends to scare many people away and seem like a red flag. There are some cool with it but most see it as a red flag.
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 07:26 PM
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Too much porn has been shown to cause issues in the bedroom. This is really hard because its something that he is doing rather than something you're doing. What I'd recommend is doing: 1)Stop giving him sexual favors (I know we usually recommend to try to always accept but hear me out. It might be hard for him to see the problem if he's getting whatever he wants. Decline in a nice way until he notices. Dont do this to hurt him nor act angry. If anything act a bit sad and dont instigate. Maybe fo…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 03:44 PM
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I agree with everything except alternating. I have a small appetite and sometimes an appetizer is enough. Most of the time 70-80% of the bill were things the guy ordered. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 03:29 PM
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I live with my bf. It was a bit unexpected. I was just graduating and had a crazy roommate and needed to get out but didn't have a job yet etc. He invited me to stay until I get a job. A month in he was so excited he kept hinting for me to permanently move in but I wasnt taking any hints, only direct requests, so eventually he asked me to just stay and live with him. We have a timeline for engagement/marriage as well. I never thought Id live with someone before marriage but now I cant imagine be…
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 03:27 PM
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I think giving house rules is fine but taking it so far as to sign a legal document is definitely a bit much. I think verbal agreement should be fine. It just seems like he is a bit controlling because the act of signing. All the expectations are reasonably but again, verbal agreement should be enough and her input should be considered. What if Tuesday is better for the formal dinner or tea instead or coffee? These things are minor but show that he is the type of leader that considers his woman …
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 03:23 PM
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I've gone through a lot of traumatic events in my life and my grandma knows most of them. She gave me the advice to not tell until you both know each other well and even then only tell what is absolutely necessary with as little details as possible. If in time you feel more comfortable and they ask, then its ok to say a little more. I don't think you should trust your private pain with someone you barely know. I think there are some things, that if they are not effecting your current life, can b…
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 03:47 AM
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I agree and disagree with this. Firstly, I disagree that it makes it fair that after 20 years a women is free to do whatever. That's not true when grandchildren come into the picture. Besides it makes it sound like a women shouldn't live her life for about 20 years. lol Secondly, I do think its fair, but for different reasons. I read somewhere there was a difference between women's and men's energy. Think of men like the sprinter and women are the long-distance runner. (of course there are excep…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 01:14 AM
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If the rest of reddit and Red Pill agree this is a bad situation then I hope you listen. I know its hard, my mom was abused too and couldn't accept it. Just know that these situations tend to get worse, not better. Your child will be effected too if you stay. They will not grow up in a normal environment. Children can be very sensitive and even if you don't say anything, they can feel the energy and fear in the room and will grow up with that. Please please, if its hard, just try taking some tim…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 01:02 AM
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Try eating 1tbs of kelp powder in a smoothie each day. Its like $10 on amazon and has shown the biggest difference for my hair. Btw my hair was like yours and took forever to grow. I put a lot of work into it and now its hip length and very healthy.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 03:04 AM
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I second what others have said. I consider manners as a form of kindness. You brushing your teeth when you have stinky breath is a form of kindness. You're being kind to him because now he doesn't have to smell your stinky breath! Haha btw try using Uncle Harry's Toothpaste, Mouthwash, etc. Its expensive but absolutely amazing and I never have bad breath when waking up.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 02:48 AM
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I think this is probably based a lot on the mindset going in. When I first started going over to my bf's place he always had dishes in the sink and he hated doing dishes. I started doing them and he was always amazed and complimenting and happy. I know it makes him happy and I actually love doing the dishes. I do a LOT of dishes. The sink is completely full every night because we cook every meal from scratch. I still love doing the dishes because for me its an act of love. The kitchen feels like…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 03:10 PM
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Your situations sounds like my mom's. She always told me money wasn't important and its the heart that matters. Now that she's older the message has changed to, "the heart is important but so is money! He needs to be able to make money!" The thing about climbing the ladder from nothing (I am doing it myself) is that people become depressed and fall off if they try to go to high. They become workaholics and sick. My dad became depressed and fell of the ladder and then killed himself. The biggest …
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 02:52 PM
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I remind myself of the reasons we broke up and I start imagining the kind of guy I want.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 06:41 PM
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Hahahah I love this comment! Its so true! "Because you are smart, you can get away with dumb beliefs just by arguing well." I am so guilty of this. Sometimes it wasn't a dumb belief but rather something I wanted but didn't need. I knew I could argue for what I want and logically convince my opponent (or date). I've grow up and only rarely use these powers.
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 06:00 PM
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Ugg I have to agree with this. I'm not trying to say I'm a genius but my iq and social anxiety are both up there. My grandfather was an absolute genius to the extreme and was talented in many different ways. He ended up escaping society and became a monk when my dad was 17. I read his obituary from the temple and even they said how intelligent he was but also how he essentually isolated himself. My dad was the same way. Extremely intelligent man and his end wasn't good either. I know its weird t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 05:55 PM
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*I also would like to add that it might be worth looking at the different types of intelligence. * I score very highly on intelligence tests and have found very few men can keep up with me. I was dating a Neurosurgeon at one point and he started asking for my help in figuring out what health supplements to take. I was able to figure out what he was deficient in quickly by observation and analyzing him and he even took a test after that proved I was right. I would thus like to suggest that everyo…
/r/RedPillWomen03/04/18 05:44 PM
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My bf wouldn't ask for me to bring him a drink but I do it anyways. He tends to make the major decisions as well but does discuss it with me, not to get my permission but to get my thoughts. He values my input because I always have intelligent advice. If I don't have intelligent advice I say that I essentially say that and if need be suggest he speak to his dad. In general I think I'm more attracted to my bf when the leader/obedience roles are the most obvious.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 09:24 PM
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I'm the type of person that plans in secret so no one knows how much I worked to look good. If I were you, this is what I would do. Start drinking a LOT of Lemongrass tea every day for a couple of weeks prior. It essentially kills your body odor and you won't smell. Bring some for the trip. Pack an emergency mini beauty kit: mini deo, sample face creams, tweezers, mini mirror, mini brush, mini mouth wash, qtips, mini perfume spray, razor, mini toothbrush, hair oil, etc. When there, do a final ri…
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 09:13 PM
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Yes I second this!.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 09:00 PM
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Yeah it will start to mold with your voice. Its kind of like taking on an accent - you will start to lose it if you never practice (or listen to the voice you like. I love Audrey Hepburn's voice and so I just watch her movies every now and then). If I moved to a Southern State I'm sure my voice will start taking on a subtle southern accent My voice is still my voice, it just sounds far prettier. I get complimented on my voice all the time.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/18 09:00 PM
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My grandma drinks wine like its cough syrup each day. She has a miniature old fashioned wine glass she pours her wine into and drinks that for good health. She tries to do it every day for her heart and brain but she often skips it. Thats a sharp contrast to the article. I don't want to entirely demonize wine but the level its drunk in the article is pretty bad. I'm actually trying to drink more wine for health. My goal would be a 3 ounces of high tannin red wine every other day with dinner but …
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/18 05:34 PM
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I don't think women should drink (with the exception of a little wine) because its so incredibly damaging to us. It ages us and we all know that its important to retain our youth. It also destroys your body and since we will be carrying children we should keep our bodies as healthy as possible. I think keeping your body as healthy as possible is respectful towards yourself and your family. I also don't think men should drink a lot. When I did drink, it was always guys who wanted me to drink beca…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/18 03:24 PM
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I agree with what everyone has had to say thus far. I also want to add something else that I learned recently. My boyfriend was going through depression. It had been about two weeks and I talked to my mom about it. She's had experience with studying depression and is a nurse. The first thing she told me to do is a get a blood test right away. If you look online for "nutritional deficiencies to test for if depressed." This includes Magnesium, vit Bs, folate, and I would also like to add Testoster…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/18 03:10 PM
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The way you speak is something you can change. Many actors train with a speech specialist to get a certain style of voice that is more appealing. If you find an actress on TV whose voice you really like, play their movies and say their lines with them. Eventually you'll take on some of their speaking and it will blend with your own. I did this with Audrey Hepburn (my favorite actress) and people always compliment me on my voice and how I speak. In the past girls were actually given elocution les…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 05:27 PM
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If people generally look at you like you're odd then there must be something that appears odd. I think you're in Socal right? I think you also said you wear dresses a lot. Are you wearing a dress style that fits in with Socal? A lot of a guy's interest in dating/marrying a girl partly related to societies acceptance of that girl. If you are pulling attention as someone "odd" then thats something that might dissuade a guy no matter how much you're attractive unless he is also odd or appearing odd…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/18 01:08 AM
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I second this. Sometimes you have to fake it. Every if they're doing shots, it won't seem weird if you turn it down because you already have a drink in your hand.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 04:38 AM
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I am female, millennial (25), red pill, and found my partner. There are red pill men but you need to notice the trends. Usually they will show it right away, whether or not they are respectful towards you, others, and themselves (a man acting ridiculous and getting wasted isn't respecting his reputation nor his body for example.) And if they're confident without being arrogant and seem like an actual adult. Red Pill men, from what I've seen, tend to be very active mentally and/or physically. Exa…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/18 04:34 AM
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Not vegan but vegetarian!
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/18 08:03 PM
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Wow! I would be so angry if my bf acted like this. Honestly, he acts like a child, I personally wouldn't be with a guy who acted like that. Imagine you guys are married and you're pregnant and he is still doing these things! When pregnant you sometimes can't drive yourself if you're not feeling well. Imagine him saying no to taking you to a doctors appointment or flaking. Imagine you being 8-9 months pregnant (a very difficult and vulnerable time for you) and him telling you to just take public …
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 10:02 PM
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I know it may be hard to get attention now and honestly it will probably remain hard. I have a constant confusion going on in my head even though it was years ago that I was so big & ugly. I know I am attractive, many consider me above average. I get looked at a LOT and am hit on the moment I'm alone. I am told I am pretty by people at least once a day if not more (if I go out lol I'm a hermit). I've had a few girls stare at me in the bathroom when I'm putting on makeup and then say I shouldn't …
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 09:54 PM
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I wouldn't ever do it for minor things like making the bed. I don't even expect anything from that its such a simple chore. Lol When I do something that made a big impact I'll tell him because its a visual impact. "Did you see the fridge! It looks so good now!" After I cleaned and organized it. He opened it and was impressed and thanked me. "Look how shiny your shoes are now!" After I had shined and polished them. He was so shocked and thanked me, saying they looked like new shoes from the store…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 06:27 PM
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Its hard to say because my bf loves almost all my dishes. I am very experimentive in the kitchen and most of my friends say my food is better than a restaurants. Its always my goal that when I cook something that its so good I can see shock on people's faces and they talk about the food long after the meal. The dish that received the above reaction with my bf and several friends was a complex mango stir fry. It had mango, mushrooms, onions, spinach, either egg or tofu, and many spices and sauces…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 06:21 PM
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You'd be surprised but guys don't often ask. My current would never have known about my previous bf if I hadn't mentioned it. No one I went on dates with asked either. However, guys would often ask me, "How/Why are you still single?" To that I would reply something that raises my value (rather than lower it). Id said, "I have high standards." (if they asked Id say I have high standards on how a man's heart is.) Or "I don't want to just accept anyone as a boyfriend. I am very careful because I am…
/r/RedPillWomen19/03/18 06:04 PM
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I personally don't find it demeaning when someone (MIL or not) cleans for another person. Its a way many people show care and love. As for it hinting to the DIL that she is not capable. I also disagree with this. Traditionally MILs acting more like OPs MIL. They have decades of experience and often knew better ways to do something. When I cooked for my MIL I was doing the wrapping inproperly and thus was a lot slower at it. She insisted on showing me and I felt humbled rather than disrespected. …
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 10:46 PM
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You should definitely accept. You might want to watch, "can we get married" a korean show on netflix. It has a lot of MIL situations. When I met my bf's dad at his house I would try to clean and cook. His new wife is traditional and would tell me not to. But I would still do a little bit when they weren't looking. The whole family loves me and kept talking about how nice it was I kept trying to help and wasn't lazy. Its an awkward balancing act. When I was coming over to my boyfriend's place I e…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 04:39 PM
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Good job on this! I'm sure it took a lot of discipline and your relationship seems like a very happy one. I'm sure your boyfriend is falling deeper and deeper in love with you because of how amazing you treat him. :) I've been thinking of the old saying, "Women should not speak unless spoken to." Although I completely disagree with the absoluteness of this advice I do agree sometimes it is very necessary. Whenever my boyfriend is in a bad mood, stressed, upset, handling things, etc. I employ a "…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 04:23 PM
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Basically the opposite if what you want. A touch of foundation on lips so they're no longer pink. A little bit of foundation on eyelashes (my sisters eyelashes are amazing and look like she is wearing fake eyelashes/mascara all the time), dont add anything and if needed use a dark shadow to create a bit of dark circles under eyes. My sister was offered a lot of modeling jobs and looks amazing without makeup so this actually helps her look a bit more chill.
/r/RedPillWomen15/03/18 03:29 PM
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Thank you, this was really good advice. I messaged him telling him that I loved him and could either go visit friends for a few days or go take a class and come home late. He called me and said he would be happier if he could take me out on a date. So we're going on a date this evening, I think he'll go in and out of this depression so I'll definitely keep your advice for when I start sensing his mood is low and try not to engage him on a mental level but be there for him. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 06:31 PM
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I just had a brilliant idea from talking to you. Im going to start a science-health blog. I think I need it to be a part of my life and this might fulfill that! Ah I cant tell you how excited I am for this idea. I can nerd out so hard on a blog!
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 05:17 PM
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I was double majoring in a science field and a liberal arts degree. I was working in a lab from campus. I ended up just finishing the liberal arts degree and Im going into sales. It turns out I can make more money from sales. Lol you can definitely transition to sales with a STEM degree like medical device sales. I am a bit sad sometimes because science is so fun for me and I still read scientific journals and am learning about epigenetics (for fun) right now but I realized I would probably comm…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 05:15 PM
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I used to be in STEM and can definitely agree with this. My sister is in it also and taught me how to do "ugly makeup" to make me look less attractive. She uses "ugly makeup" at every interview and has had a better time getting jobs/internships since. We both look like we are wearing makeup when we aren't so that may be part of it. When I worked at a lab my PI also hated laughter and happiness (just a side note) and was tougher on all the women.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 04:44 PM
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When I was takig early STEM classes/labs I would brush my hair and add one drop of argan oil the night before and sleep in braids. Literally no hair care or brush in the morning. I would just slip the bands off while running out the door and my hair would unravel from the braid mostly on its own.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 04:39 PM
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As long as I dont dress frumpy and my hair is combed I feel good. I put a lot of time and effort into skin care so I feel good about going out without any makeup. I will usually apply red wine, moisturizer, and spf before I go out. Red wine gives me an instant glow that looks like makeup but isn't. ;) My goal is to make myself as presentable via skin care, hair care, exercise, and good health as possible so if I just need to run out with my hair up and no makeup on I know I still look good. P.s.…
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/18 04:36 PM
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He made comments about mutual coworkers being sexy to his buddy? Thus this buddy is a coworker of his as well. This isn't very professional and seems a bit childish. I can't even imagine my boyfriend doing that because he is so focused on advancing upwards in the company that he wouldn't ever do anything that was below professionalism or that would give him a negative reputation. Now if he talks amongst his friends I would never know but even then I think he wouldn't. However, it is a pretty com…
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/18 03:03 PM
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Can I ask, when you say you become overly emotional? Are you emotional in an angry way? Or saying things you wouldn't often say? Or do you show yourself as sad and vulnerable?
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/18 02:49 PM
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haha thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 10:43 PM
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I know you mean well but a lot of what you suggest is both a bad idea and contrary to a lot of what we teach here at Red Pill. In fact, I would like to suggest that most singles nowadays do not spending enough time analyzing and strategizing. In the past, women taught each other the ways of women, men, and the relationship between them. In the past much more time was dedicated to what we learn in Red Pill today. When you suggest to simply blurt out anything that comes to mind, you are essentiall…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 10:06 PM
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May I ask, what are the other subs? I originally joined reddit for this sub so I didn't have any experience in the blue pill subs and wanted to look out of curiosity.
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/18 09:41 PM
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Men like him are probably talking to several other women. He may even be seriously contemplating all of them. Don't invest anything emotionally just yet. Be warm and friendly but keep your heart to yourself. You should parallel him. He is really busy with work, when he messages you, "what are you doing?" Do you say watching TV? He won't respect that. Keep busy and work as hard as him but on things you love. Cook something delicious (that will be good in a photo) and send it to him around the tim…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 06:43 PM
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Aww thank you! <3
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 06:16 PM
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what fb group?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 01:42 AM
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Omg! My bf loves braiding my hair! I've had to bite my tongue several times as he tugged and messed with my hair. Now he's pretty good though and I ask for French braids so my hair will be wavy in the morning! He'll see a cute braid hairstyle he wants me to wear and makes me sit down as he starts trying to make it. Btw he refuses to watch tutorials so half the time I end up looking hilarious!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 03:11 AM
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Seriously I can't get over how cute they are!
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 03:06 AM
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Yeah the men in my bf's family have been asking when he will lock me down. Funny enough my family is too. Everyone approves of us together so much that I think its quickening when he will propose. He just asked my ring size (but I didn't know it darn it!) But then again he is 28 and in that stage.
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 05:09 PM
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Yeah I don't agree with her there but at least it spurred on good research
/r/RedPillWomen23/02/18 12:14 AM
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Yeah I thought the same. I know he wrote a book by that title so that might be worth looking into.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 08:14 PM
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I think you should start trying to find men that you would be attracted to. Figure out what you'd like and go to groups that might have that. Its hard to tell you what to improve on if you don't even know what you want and btw you're not even close to the wall. The "perfect woman" is different to different men. Try to imagine the kind of guy youd like to marry then imagine the type of girl that imaginary man will marry. Might help give you some direction.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 07:57 PM
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This is a very good point! Thanks for bringing that up! Telling your marriage-minded date that you love to party, drink, can't manage yourself, will definitely not end well!
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 07:33 PM
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Its funny you say that because I used to debate in my high school's MUN team. We had a saying that, "a good diplomat can say 'go to hell,' in such a way that you're excited for the trip. I actually just googled this to find the origins and I believe it must be from Winston Churchill, "Tact is the ability to tell someone to go to hell in such a way that they are excited for the trip." I think the modern way of speaking is often without tact and charm and that seems to leave more people upset than…
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 06:43 PM
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I think this is for comment op but I'll throw my 2cents in. It can depend on your body type. I have a very curvy figure with a thin waist and big hips/bum/chest. A more boxy/slender girl can put on a dress in her size and go to a work event. I can put on the same dress in my size and its entirely inappropriate. Cleavage, short, or tight quickly looks innappropriate on my body type.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 06:15 PM
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Wow! I've wanted to sometimes but both my bf and I are very conservative (and he expects conservative). Once I tried on THOT dresses at the mall and had him stand near the dressing room so I could come out and model just for him. He was floored it was so funny!
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 06:09 PM
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Sometimes he softly pushes me to more reasonable and comfortable shoes when I was leaning towards heels. Lol My bf has a pretty good sense of style and isn't afraid to say something doesn't go together so I occasionally ask him for advice. We have very similar styles so its not an issue.
/r/RedPillWomen22/02/18 06:03 PM
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I think you can communicate certain things in a charming manner rather than a forward manly manner. Also you can see early by simply observing if he is in the marriage mindset. I am pretty good at telling at what stage a guy is in his life. If he is in the career phase vs family phase. If he is in the career stage he will talk a lot about money, fancy cars, travel, etc. And all the plans are easy to imagine in terms of how long they would take to accomplish based on finding out where he is in hi…
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 04:22 PM
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Oh yeah my first boyfriend was very insecure. I tried my best to dress down (one friend joked I was starting to dress like a nun) when we went out but I still got a lot of attention which made my first boyfriend feel terrible and then he would try to make me feel terrible. I promised myself I would only date confident men in the future. My 2nd (current) bf is very alpha and confident and these tactics only increase my value in his eyes. He never feels threatened by other men and he doesn't feel …
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/18 04:01 PM
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Yeah I have two Aprons, one very frilly and it looks like I instantly put on a dress when I wear it, the other less frilly with sunflowers. I usually only wear the frilly one around my boyfriend and the regular one when serving guests.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 11:42 PM
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I think you're honestly assuming way too much. Just because I am putting effort doesn't mean I am desperate nor orbiting. I come from a very traditional family-centered background. Honestly just focusing on me and my boyfriend seems very Americanized and individualistic. I don't like that method of living and I have seen the fault in that. You can live the way you want but I prefer to live with a focus on family. I came up with the idea for the present, Paid for part, put my own gifts in aside f…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 12:05 AM
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Just a thank you. lol nothing more! My sister's boyfriends have all had a culture more similar to mine and right away they seek to form a friendship with me. Her fiance calls me his sister and puts a huge amount of effort when I come to visit. I also put in a lot of effort to get to know him like a brother. I was just thinking about this more and I think its part of the cultural difference. They are very Americanized in terms of thinking of family. In my family, meeting a girlfriend is a huge de…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/18 12:00 AM
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Thank you for your advice! I definitely feel a lot better and not emotional lol. It really is that time of the month. lol However I still care a lot about working towards a good relationship with them. I think its part of my latin upbringing. Even if we haven't ever met a cousin/aunt/uncle we instantly shower them with warmth and friendly love even just via facebook. Since we have this family-centered culture, we have been able to have a strong family across 6 countries and I want that for my ch…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 11:51 PM
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Thanks to you and "girlwithabike." You guys are adorable and I've always come across the best advice from you both!
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 11:41 PM
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I think you are jumping to conclusions. Being nice and taking the proper steps that I have learned from my traditional culture when meeting the family is not desperate but polite. I never said she was wrong to thank her boyfriend but she said nothing so me. I did pay for a portion and added in my own private gifts. The entire idea of what to give was mine. I was raised to thank others and its basic manners. I think to only focus on my and my boyfriend is bad advice and the sort of advice I'm sur…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 11:40 PM
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I wonder if you understand the concept of blue pill? Having a very strong family drive is also in part from my culture and extended family who is very red pill. Its only in the United States have I seen people act this way. Being a girlfriend isn't nothing in either his nor my culture. I am the first girl who has ever met his family. They have asked him when he is proposing. Being a girlfriend is only thought of lightly in more western cultures. In most cultures its a big deal. You should recons…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 11:35 PM
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I'm not ok with porn either and my bf knows this. There are actually a lot of men who are trying to give up or decrease porn and masturbating because of the negative effects. I think they're called "No Fap"?
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 10:37 PM
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My 2 cents. I think the only issue I see is that you are not able to keep up in conversations at times. I once read, and this was advice from 100 years ago or more, that a high class lady should be well educated on numerous subjects in order to keep up with stimulating coversations. Even though society women didn't have careers then they were expected to be very well educated, eloquent, and speak several languages. They were expected to prompt and keep up with stimulating coversation with others…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 10:02 PM
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So first off I want to say I'm a huge Audrey Hepburn fan. This movie is not Audrey though its a character she is playing (who is not a good role model because she act over the top). She does play it so well because she was very good with men in real life. There is an art to making a man jealous The way its done in the movie is the overt sexual way that will result in a short romance or fwb. There is a much more subtle way it can be done. Its so incredibly subtle that the woman is completely inno…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 09:06 PM
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I agree with everyone who spoke about wife goggles. I've seen my dad have it with my mom and my grandpa with my grandma. Youth is important but I think that when a woman is charming she can have a man chasing her for decades and courting her at an older age. Ex. Audrey Hepburn being courted by Robert Wolders at 49 years old. She also had another actor proffess she was the love of his life after she died at 63, I forgot who. Ex. My mom has two men waiting on the sides for her if her current marri…
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/18 08:25 PM
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I know you mentioned you'd like to go to Black Panther with him. I might do something like, "I'd really love to see Black Panther sometime soon." While smiling (smile till it hurts) and looking him in the eyes. Then if he didn't pick up the clue I might be more overt, "do you think seeing a movie is a fun first date?" If he says yes then giggle and say, "If you were going to ask me on a date, how would you do it?" Then he says it. You can say, "how would you like me to respond? If he likes you t…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 10:16 PM
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Thank you! We met at an international speech and leadership club.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 09:33 PM
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From what I've seen, a lot of high-quality men start to think about marriage around the time that their friends are getting married or having children. That is usually around 27-32 in my area. It can be even sooner if the man comes from a traditional home with Red Pill immigrant parents that promote earlier marriage (like asian immigrants or in the Muslim community). So why? Societal pressure, wanting to have children, and finding a good mother for his children are generally the reasons. Since I…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 12:00 AM
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I've actually seen this a lot. Short rule: Its easier to get a guy who is going to become successful rather than one who already is.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/18 09:50 PM
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A ton of my friends had the second version and they're Muslim. I haven't seen it in nonMuslim groups
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 06:44 PM
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My mom accidentally influenced me in this way at a very young age. We watched oldie movies 80% of the time which are Red Pill in general. She had me reading books from the 1800s as young as 9. 14 is going to be difficult to start. Maybe try offering her $X money if she reads one of your books? I know its not ideal but the lesson is most important. I'd definitely introduce her to classic movies (before the 60's). There are a ton and even if it isn't centered on a woman, the woman in general tend …
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 06:41 PM
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Did you plan the day and it came up to $400? Or did he plan it and expects you to pay? If he planned it, just tell him its out of your budget. I don't think he should expect you to pay for a major birthday. My boyfriend by default pays for almost everything and does more for my birthday (financially) than I do for his. Actually he upstages me in everything. Lol! My bf and I discussed in general how we are minimalists and prefer experiences over gifts. We had agreed no gifts for christmas (but he…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/18 06:31 PM
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In my mom's country they eat a lot of maca. My bf is very focused on building an amazing life for us and growing in his career. Sometimes the stress decreases his libido (but mine is always pretty high). I just give him one of my smoothies. The main ingredient is maca powder (about 1 tablespoon but start with half to see how much it energizes him). Its good for overall health but it also makes men and women pretty horny. Just give it to him only when you know you can be intimate within the hour …
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/18 09:48 PM
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Was this in response to me or op? It doesnt seem like its for me as I already mentioned my career goals and my bf supporting them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 05:51 PM
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I feel like I wrote this post, 100% this is me right now! I bit the bullet and am living with my bf (it was until I found a job) but now he wants me to stay permanently. It was very very hard for me to do it too. He pays for everything right now. I didn't want to end up like my mom who just goes from man to man, depending on them like a child. After seeing my sister finally accept help from her boyfriend who is renting her two apartments. One where her school is and one where he is so she can st…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 05:20 PM
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I LOVE waist training! I currently use and love: http://bombshellbunny.bigcartel.com/product/latex-bombshell-trainer Soon I want to buy a 2nd from this youtuber who I love and support (she's super red pill too): https://youtu.be/6Wz1qVNiMdo I definitely have a curvy waist but the waist trainer increases it. If I have a tighter outfit I want to wear at night I wear the waist trainer for 9-12 hours and my tummy will be temporarily super flat. I already have a pretty flat tummy so don't expect mira…
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 05:05 PM
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I am INTJ as well and actually have found a few other female friends who are INTJ. They all happen to be Engineers but 0% are Red Pill.
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/18 07:05 AM
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I wouldn't keep pushing and going after him. The only thing you can do is take a step back. Honestly, when these things occur it may be a lost cause, especially if you chase him. I messed up with one guy before and I simply took a step back because it didn't matter to me if I lost him despite his high value, but the lesson was important. Then, 6 months later he hit me up and I mentioned I'm not dating until after college (I told this to many but it wasn't...exactly true. I would go on 1-3 dates …
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/17 06:14 PM
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I have a hard time with this too. I'm told I'm beautiful randomly all the time by guys, girls, strangers, aquaintences, friends, family, etc. I've done a tiny bit of modeling/commercial work, been offered top internships based on my looks (didn't take 'cause I'd have to date/sleep with boss), I can easily get free things from most guys, and my bf's smv/rmv is pretty high. But when I look in the mirror or of me in a photo I just can't stand how I look. I feel so ugly, I pretend to be confident, b…
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/17 04:24 PM
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Thank you :) I just wrote a post about positivity and learning to STFU. lol But also the level of effort I put has increased. I always put effort but now I do things a bit more. More importantly I've started paying more attention to body language. Also if I want something I don't usually tell him outright. I use traditional methods women would use in the past, "Get him to think it was his idea." I don't use this tactic very often but its very useful. I want him to remain a leader but sometimes I…
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 09:54 PM
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I think there is a bit of a problem with how he is acting tbh. I honestly wonder if you did lose those last pounds would he honestly find your attractive or have something else to complain about. Do something but at the same time try to love yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 03:04 AM
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Although as adults we can easily choose where we get moral guidance from, teenagers watching this follow more by example. That's my problem. Regardless of whether its comedy or supposed to be outlandish, there will be younger impressionable people copying it. I've been watching TV from other cultures now that are more red pill and in general the people I know from those cultures also act more red pill. Whether its just comedy or not, it creates an influence.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 12:34 AM
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Husband comes first always. When the wife/mother puts the children first the whole family begins falling apart. I even read somewhere that its healthier for the children to see the intense love between parents and that the father is #1 for the mother.
/r/RedPillWomen06/12/17 12:24 AM
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It was so fun and amazing! The decorations looked beautiful and all the girls kept taking pictures of it. :) This is the first party I really planned and it turned out really fun and classy!
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/17 05:10 PM
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I'm really wondering though... who tells these women to stick it out? I'm wondering, is that a part of blue pill? My family in general is pretty red pill and when it comes to dating the advice is more likely, "drop it like its hot!" As in if there is something about that man that won't translate well into being a father, husband, then you drop him quick because you don't want to waste your youth waiting on a guy. I am wondering about her though because she told me that guys she has dated before …
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 10:01 PM
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Busy as hell right now. Some tips: -keep a small mini perfume in each bag (its about 1/4 weight of phone) and dab it before going home -braid hair at night so you don't have to brush in the morning -keep a lint roller in the car and house -do the most visual chores first (like dishes make a larger visual impact than swept floors) -tooth brush/tooth paste in bag and brush in random bathrooms at work if you had to leave in a rush -natural supplements that help with mood/energy -lots of water. Your…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 11:58 PM
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You guys haha <3
/r/RedPillWomen20/11/17 10:10 PM
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Wow Congratulations!! I actually feel like Facebook and Instagram is more of a tool, specifically for networking and presenting an image that will get you further in life. I keep it clean and classy and keep in contact with people. This has helped me in numerous circumstances. Other than that I don't pay attention to what people post but I will like pictures quickly and sign off. Its more of a "social task" than a distraction for me. I network also for the sake of my future children. I've met ma…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:38 AM
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Honestly, if my husband has a very silly name like "snowflower" or something that would be hard to be taken seriously I probably wouldn't take it, but how often does that happen? In all seriousness, I like my bfs name. In my culture we have two last names. I still have mine but I also have his. Its similar to hyphen I guess. So our children would be: First name, His name, my name...the rest of my last names. Latin culture. But the would be commonly referred to by my husbands last name, same for …
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/17 08:34 AM
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I've been reading about the same topics! I think it often overlaps with Red Pill. Do you have any further reading suggestions?
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/17 04:42 PM
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I think a lot of people already explained it pretty well but I'd like to add in a quick example: I was salsa dancing with my bf on Halloween and there was this girl (7) who was fairly attractive sitting alone right next to the dance floor. Although she was dressed to attract she looked so incredibly pissed off and gave the impression she had a huge ego. Girls far below her in looks but with big smiles were being asked to dance but she never was asked until she finally left. I think how friendly …
/r/RedPillWomen06/11/17 05:11 PM
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I want to challenge myself to do intermediate fasting. My eating windows would be 5-7pm dinner on weekdays and 12-7pm on weekends. I also want to finish selling/giving away obvious things in my room to reach my minimalism goal. I want to get back to doing skin care every morning and evening. I want to wake up every day at 6 and sleep at 10 (messed that up just now.. woops!)
/r/RedPillWomen02/11/17 07:23 AM
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Aww that is really sweet!! I'm so excited for you!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 05:16 PM
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Aww that is so sweet! I completely understand what you mean. When the guy leads and takes care of everything it feels so nice!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 05:15 PM
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That's really great that you looked into your love language! I think that is especially important to know in order to understand each other in a relationship. I made my bf take that test. We matched up pretty well. My lowest one was words of affirmation actually! I come from a Latin culture and we're taught not to believe the sweet words guys say or let it effect us (because they're likely saying it to all the girls) however its also part of culture to say words of affirmation. We just don't put…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 05:14 PM
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I think all of these things are nice when they are exceptions! Like in all these situations imagine the wife/girlfriend sick/depressed/pmsing/exhausted. Then it seems beautiful and loving. Now imagine her totally able and just sitting around watching tv while he does these things. Not so cute, she just seems lazy. I imagine my future as a very disciplined and hardworking wife/mother. I am constantly up and making sure the home is clean, hubby has lunch made, children are well-taken care of and I…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 04:07 PM
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In terms of how my bf and I operate (we're together 1 evening/morning at my place and usually 4 days at his): Is that he generally does things that require more muscle power/sun exposure (I don't like working in the garden) like taking out the trash. Or something that is gross. For example I took in a starving stray cat for a couple days before taking to the SPCA and it actually pooped on some of my things and the carpet. I felt terrible but instead he sent me out while he cleaned it up. He thou…
/r/RedPillWomen01/11/17 03:45 PM
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I wear what I would to go out. (Leggings and a long sleeved shirt). We often just are on the go so I'm ready to leave quickly. I dress conservatively but form fitting clothes. As in no skin is showing but my clothes are showing my curves which turns him on. For sleeping I wear underwear and one of his shirts ~ he likes that. I don't usually wear makeup except for events/dates. I wear a bit of lip color every now and then at home but he likes me natural. I am trying to cut out using foundation al…
/r/RedPillWomen24/10/17 04:53 PM
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My boyfriend and I are pretty busy (not at your level but still). We ended up creating a google doc of activities that will quickly reinvigorate us mentally and give us some quality time. We have the activity, the time needed, and side notes. Some quick ones would be a 5 minute walk/jog. We get to talk during that time. Also even if we just have a few seconds he will hold me on his back and do squats. A quick game like Uno (10 min max), a couple of songs on karaoke (7min), grocery shopping (Its …
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 10:22 PM
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Firstly, If he is going into this looking for a hookup and he "isn't looking for something serious," you can look like top girlfriend material and it wouldn't matter. Secondly, be conservative well-mannered, kind, use minimal makeup, give yourself an at home facial, get plenty of sleep/liquids the day before, and read up on how to be a good conversationalist. Be humble yet confident, act reserved but fun. Flirt in a subtle way and be light-hearted.
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/17 03:15 PM
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I feel like I'm in a similar mindset although I don't have kids yet. I love working and am really great at it. I was to do more and more. However I know I want to stay home for a while. So I can understand what you're going through. You're also facing family pressure on top of all this. You might be worried that maybe they're right and you will regret it. But what if you don't regret it? I don't know what work you do but whatever it is there might be a way to further your career while taking car…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 10:35 PM
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I feel like part of my relationship revolves around food and cooking! We love going to the grocery store together and picking out things to cook. (He pays so thats part of it. He tried to pay for the ingredients for his birthday cake! I was trying to make it a surprise so I had to shoo him away) When I'm at his house before he gets home I cook dinner for him. I love surprising him with a new dish! He usually cooks breakfast because he likes to and is particular about eggs. We do cook together of…
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 10:14 PM
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Honestly, I had a hard time with it based on my experience but I'm glad it was shared. There is a problem with sexual harrassment/rape/assault and its good to bring awareness.
/r/RedPillWomen18/10/17 10:02 PM
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Hahaha yeah dont worry love food too much
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/17 05:11 AM
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Oh sorry I said I was eating lunch. I don't really snack but I do tend to eat lunch or dinner while watching some tv because its my only chance otherwise I'm working. Thanks though :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 11:59 PM
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Good quote! I think I might frame it haha
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 08:57 PM
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My boyfriend wouldn't even try to be intimitate when I'm sick or super tired. He's very observant and I haven't ever turned him away because of this. I have a great immune system so I bounce back quickly but if I'm even a bit sick my boyfriend gets very commanding and tells me to stop working/cleaning/whatever and to go lie down. He then brings me tea or might cook. Even after my first pilates class I was exhausted and he made me sit down while he cooked dinner. To an outside observer he might s…
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 06:09 PM
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I really want to watch the whole video but right now things are so crazy busy. Can someone give me some bullet points on it?
/r/RedPillWomen13/10/17 05:19 AM
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The Blue Pill mom has higher income and spends it a bit recklessly. The Red pill moms I mentioned have lower but are very careul with spending.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 02:44 PM
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Thank you for being respectful as well. I agree that in developed countries it is the norm for children to eat sweets and cake often. However that doesn't mean its healthy. If its unhealthy I would try to go against the norm. For centuries many have happily lived with rare desserts or even fruit as dessert, what we have now is cause for concern. As for her throwing out the gatorade, she was sacrificing for her developing baby. https://www.healthymummy.com/10-reasons-avoid-much-sugar-pregnancy/ h…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 04:08 AM
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There is nothing wrong with eating a small slice. As I wrote in the post above, "Even simple changes could make a difference like brushing her hair or not eating a big cake slice which she also gave some to her 2 year which made the child hyper and start screaming for more." As I wrote it was a big slice. My boyfriend couldn't even finish half of his and neither could I. I think you're changing a lot of what I said. I never said small I said big slice of cake. I never said never to eat it but co…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/17 03:51 AM
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I think you're right that more often than not the differences are subtle. I guess coming from my background the red pill doesnt seem extreme. Even my aunt who had 7 children and worked had a perfect house, always home-made healthy food, well behaved kids, happy hubby, and stayed thin and attractive. Idk SHE is the extreme to me. All that with 7 kids. Lol
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 10:54 PM
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I only reflect on what I see after meeting someone. I analyze the situation and everything yes but afterwards. I'm always polite and very friendly during the fact. She definitely warmed up to me as my bf let me know she texted about me and said she liked me. At first though she was a bit rude.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 10:41 PM
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I have to agree. My family is from a latin country but heavily influenced by spain and italy. What I see in the US I've never seen in our country. I'm sure it exists I've just never seen it.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 10:34 PM
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I completely agree!
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 10:32 PM
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Her looks were from the moment she opened the door. I was focused not on judging her but making friends with her and she was distant right away. She was even rude to her brother and husband.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 10:32 PM
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I can see why it might seem extreme. The "Blue Pill" mom seemed extreme to me as well but the "Red Pill" mom did not. She is only not giving sweets to her children when young and I agree with that. There are so many harmful chemicals and sugar itself is bad for a developing child. I never see my aunts give their children unhealthy food with the exception of family get togethers where we have banana bread and tea. Even that is super healthy compared to the sugar cakes I see kids in the US eat. An…
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 10:29 PM
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Thank you! This is good advice. I want to make sure I show enthusiam even if it hurts a bit (its been a long time and I'm pretty tight.)
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/17 10:14 PM
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Good old sugar and oil (coconut oil is my favorite). Whenever I'm at a friend's place or my boyfriend's place and need to take a shower I grab some sugar/oil from their cupboard and just scrub my whole body with the mixture. This is great because nearly everyone has these two ingredients and I'm always on the go/visiting different friends/cities. Also I pour a little bit of my face cream in a ziplock bag and I have a ziplock bag in every single purse and bag I own. I always have cream when I nee…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/17 07:23 PM
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I think there is a bond like a friendship between me and my SO but its just so much stronger and deeper than any friendship I've ever had. I agree with SouthernAthena about not calling it friendship because its just so much more. We treat each other better than friendship entails. We feel more like we're extensions of each other sometimes. He mentioned recently we're a team and we operate like that. For example I had to change clothes at my apartment and do the dishes before we went to a party. …
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/17 07:19 PM
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1.What is it like? Amazing! everything moves so smoothly and we each know our roles so there is rarely any bickering or arguing. 2. How do you feel when you are with your Captain? Like I'm safe and guided. I feel stronger against the world and more confident. I feel like everything is easier, even dieting. I'd rather kiss him than eat dessert. lol 3. Is it fun? Do you ever get tired or bored around your Captain? I'm always so excited to see him and we have loads of fun! He's actually better at h…
/r/RedPillWomen05/10/17 06:57 PM
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On the opposite side, I'm in 24 and have 3 more months left to graduate. Although graduating a bit younger than you, others might consider me old and behind in life. I used to feel really old when I was 18-22. I was missing out so much on life because I had to work crazy hours and study even crazier hours and never had a chance to do anything fun or relaxing. I looked WAY older than I do now. So 18-24 I was working and studying like crazy and dealing with so much pain but even if it takes longer…
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/17 04:44 PM
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Don't just focus on calories, you need very good nutrition especially since you're breast feeding. Focus on building good habits like eating a portion size and stop eating after 7. Eat less grains (wheat/rice) and that will free up more room for protein and veggies. I eat a LOT of veggies every day and it fills me up. Also eat more coconut oil which helps you lose weight. Walk a lot and if you're watching tv try at least stretching rather than just sitting.
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/17 11:21 PM
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This is a gift which he is giving from his perspective. He obviously cares about you and wanted to do something nice for you. You should accept these sort of gift with grace as a lady.. However, you cannot get mad at him about things he doesn't know about it may seem obvious to you what is romantic but not to him. He will not know what to get you unless you tell him, or give repeated clever hints. I mentioned I love sunflowers, stopped in front of flower displays when I was with my bf, mentioned…
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/17 09:44 PM
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In my mom's country, where they are very red pill, the idea of NOT hiring a housekeeper is weird. Apartments are made with a "servants room/bathroom" which is usually next to the kitchen and washing machines. My grandma has a whole seperate house next to her house for a maid to live in (which is being rented out). The idea the woman has to essentually be superwoman is going to end in disaster. Even as a college student I hire someone to deep clean my bathroom 1-2x a year. I maintain it otherwise…
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/17 08:38 PM
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Your looks will fade so that is when your true strengths (or weaknesses) will show and you will be respected for that instead. Work on your skills and eventually that will show.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 11:46 PM
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It can be uncomfortable but I definitely use it. Even my grandma uses my beauty. She has me open the door for her potential renters because apparently more rent after seeing me. We have a shorter amount of time to grow in our careers if you think about it. We eventually dedicate our time to children. So use your beauty while you can. However if you're essentually modeling for the company you should be paid a bit extra for that. The most bothersome is when time is wasted because of it. I had some…
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/17 11:43 PM
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I really needed to hear this. I didn't think it was such a problem until you pointed it out. Thank you ♡
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 08:45 PM
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I would usually write, "I'm here for you. Whatever you need." Let him know you'll have dinner ready. I would also give him a quick massage and let him fall asleep during it. Making sure everything is clean and soft music is playing as well. Dress nice and smell very nice. Help him with his things when he gets home. Be ready to hug him. I dont hug him right away but with arms open I let him hug me. This is because stressed people can be more resistant and defensive so going towards him might not …
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 08:22 PM
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I haven't been doing much except trying to increase my NEAT activity and eating more coconut oil (said to increase metabolism and help with thyroid). Overall I've been healthy before but recently I just haven't been much interested in eating. I force myself to eat a lot of vitamin packed foods to keep my skin nice but otherwise have lost interest in food. Bread and dessert dont tempt me anymore. I think I've gained muscle because recently the scale hasn't budged but my measurements are down. Yea…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/17 08:15 PM
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I have to agree with this. I was at a good weight to start but since dating my current bf (4-5 months ago) I've lost 10 lbs.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 07:19 PM
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This reminds me of "The Triple Package" by Any Chua. She also adds in "impulse control."
/r/TheRedPill21/09/17 07:01 PM
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Mmm I think I've always been selective on looks but now I focus more on health indicators. A good healthy mental and physical state are very important to me as well as high intelligence. Good skin and clear eyes are very important to me as they (generally) show the person's genetics/diet. If there is a genetic reason for bad skin that might be passed down. I am even more selective on the character traits of the man because that will be passed down/taught to my children. I look for a man who has …
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/17 11:20 PM
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I think I can see this trend happening even before people have children. I sometimes mention how I would raise my children and I get excited about this. I'm positive and looking forward to it even now! My (fewer and fewer) blue pill friends never talk about the future in that way and look down upon it. They take no mental preparation for how they would raise their children because they don't even spend that much time thinking/dreaming about their future family! When they do talk about it they ta…
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/17 01:30 AM
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Try it! Its really been helpful to me. Something like this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdAG1OnucPA its a stream so it'll be different each time ok you can just find your favorite video and use that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 05:54 PM
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Lol no nothing like that.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 05:53 PM
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I use an app called "easy alarm" and set it to play a motivational video from youtube (the specific one I use is a stream so its different every time) and I wake up to some sort of motivational advice and its usually a bit dramatic. Even if I don't get out of bed I end up listening to it and it replays if I don't turn in off. By the time I do turn it off I'm very motivated and don't even need a normal alarm. (I do keep a normal alarm as a backup plan).
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/17 02:21 AM
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I believe alpha guys typically have high standards so its important to keep yourself and aspects of your life at a high standard. (ex. always looking nice/keeping house nice) Aside from that it depends on what type of alpha guy you are looking for. There are alphas in every avenue of life and each have different preferences.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/17 08:34 PM
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Wow that's a really cute outfit! I try to be low-key too and dress down to win other women's favors as well. It depends on what the situation is too. Definitely if its a job interview with a woman dress less attractive. I think you should talk to him about it. Don't tell him its not realistic but use words that might illicit a protective reaction from him. Tell him you feel venerable cause guys look at you more and approach you more. He's not going to want that. Tell him you'll start doing it mo…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 09:28 PM
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"would stick out like a sore thumb." I actually think this is important to consider. People undermine reputation often in the United States and similar countries but its actually very important (I think this is actually a related result of Blue Pill). There is a reason we care about what others think. I have received jobs/opportunities based on my reputation alone that I keep stellar. People I don't even know have talked about me but everyone always talks about me in a nice way (because I'm care…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 07:43 PM
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I know how you feel. My first boyfriend was exactly like that. The moment I stopped pushing him he floundered. He depended on me pushing him like a child depends on his mom. That's definitely something to avoid. I think the #1 thing to look for is a man-of-action. If says he's going to do something he ALWAYS does it. He doesn't hesitate or procrastinate. That is the kind of many I think you can work with. Otherwise it'll be like pushing a boulder up a hill. Good luck!
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 07:33 PM
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Are you an overachiever? If you are it might be difficult for most men to outdo you. I have this same situation. Although I'm not earning a lot of money right now I have a very impressive resume and multiple awards that intimidate most people and most guys can't compete. My current bf can compete but I didn't know that at first (he keeps it on the down low). I stopped looked for men with achievements/jobs that could rival me but rather what their atributes are. I look for men who are: hard-worki…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 06:14 PM
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The complete separation of work/finances and home life. I think there are varying levels of opinion on this but this is how I feel about it. I do want to continue working when I have children but I also want to be a stay-at-home mother while they're young. I am starting my voice acting/narrating career on the side right now so I will be established by the time I have children and will be able to work from home. Reasons to continue to work: 1) Your husband might die and leave you with a ton of de…
/r/RedPillWomen30/08/17 05:30 PM
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what did they say?
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/17 07:04 PM
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"he just wanted 30 minutes alone time" "then I remembered all the times it has already happened in the past and realized that if I don't tell him, he won't be able to fix it." If this is reoccurring it seems to me like he values alone time and you need to see that. Time apart is good for the relationship as well. Think about you want: to not be sent away and for him to crave more time with you/cuddles. Think about what he needs: alone time. It seems that he isn't communicating that to you (as it…
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/17 08:00 PM
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I completely understand how you feel. I had depression/anxiety since I was little with varying levels. At one point two years ago, something really awful happened that pushed me over the edge. I missed all my final exams because I was completely mentally gone. It was the scariest time of my life I thought I had gone crazy. Turns out I had developed depersonalization/derealization disorder. It took a while to properly diagnose as they thought I had PTSD. Sometimes, very rarely, I slip into it and…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/17 05:25 PM
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"Yes, we'll all be exposed to the ugly, smelly, grimy, burps, carts, bad moods etc from our spouse and they will be exposed to all of that from you. I get it. However, it's my opinion that this exposure should be minimized as much as possible." I don't know how to properly quote but I completely agree with this. Yes its important to open up to your SO but exposing them to 100% of the worst will cause them suffering and might result in the end of a relationship. Its always important to consider t…
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/17 05:12 PM
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I've worked in one of the toughest labs at my school before. It was like this but even more extreme. You couldn't make ANY mistake because it could ruin months or years of prior work. Every singly minute and mundane detail was a huge deal and we were given work not usually given to an undergrad. It was extreme and the other undergrad who started with me developed a nervous tic around our boss. However if you did well, a recommendation from my boss could land you the top jobs. My boss told me on …
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/17 04:42 PM
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I think this is good advice but its situational. I'm currently trying to present myself more and more as a classy and conservative lady. Im very down-to-earth but I also like to look polished (note: not glam, simply well-put together). I love business casual looks for ex. Woman who I want to become closer to: polished, conservative, feminine, health-conscious, traditional, hardworking, etc. are thinking BETTER of me. So I do care what THEY think because I want to have more friends like that and …
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/17 08:34 PM
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Im new to reddit and dont know how to put a flair yet. Im 24. Idk myself! Im trying to think of different solutions. I guess I can go to the nearby starbucks but she randomly will say no. I guess we'll just do our best
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/17 10:16 AM
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I've been looking to get into pilates and ballet workouts! How much cardio do you do?
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 04:33 AM
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Wow 500 pull ups! That's impressive!
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 04:31 AM
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I haven't been the best at getting to the gym right now. Things are crazy atm but I'm not using that at as an excuse. -After every 50 minutes of study/computer work I walk and do push-ups/squats for 5-10 minutes. -Most mornings I do a quick 10 minute workout with my boyfriend (he leads so its usually push-ups) -I try to sneak in a 10 minute run in the evening if its not too late. -Plus whenever I'm alone I do standing leg lifts, calf raises, squats, etc. and I always take the stairs). -I'm addin…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/17 04:23 AM
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I think it depends on how the intelligence is portrayed. Men have flirted with me saying how they liked how intelligent I was but I started talking with my ridiculously large vocabulary thinking they would like that, (im a bookworm that loves challenging books) it would turn them off and most people for that matter so I stopped doing that. However I have met one guy who had a vocabulary as large as I do and as we began speaking we realized how much the other knew and slowly we began using more c…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 09:43 PM
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I can somewhat relate to this myself. My bf has VERY high standards and there are moments where I feel like I'd disappoint him when I make a mistake or break a commitment (like diet). He isn't so much impatient but he might give me a talk to help. I can tell him if I get an A- but he'll say something like "think about what you need to do to get an A." I told him once I got a B+ and man he looked so disappointed and didn't say much after. He doesn't believe in breaking commitments so if I tell hi…
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/17 09:15 PM
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This is a really interesting question! I just googled it and this came up: http://www.statisticbrain.com/alpha-and-beta-male-demographic-characteristics/ I don't know what the source is or how accurate it is. I feel like it depends on where you live. Like in some countries more men might be alpha like in Russia but here in the US there will be more Beta.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/17 04:46 PM
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My first boyfriend had a genetic condition and the first time he was in a wheel chair was at 17/18. He was in and out of it depending on his health. The self-esteem does take a blow. I used to sit on a rolling computer chair a lot when hanging with him so the contrast of me walking didn't hurt him more. Sometimes, I'd sit on the carpet next to his chair and lean my head on his lap and he'd love that. I do that with my current bf too, something about it makes them feel so much bigger and stronger…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 06:59 PM
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Yeah I do agree with that. Conversion is a problem. I tend to have a lot of Muslim friends who don't try to convert you but will offer education if you show interest. Even if a person isn't religious, if they grew up in a religious family they're RP without trying to convert you because they themselves might say they're "spiritual" instead of religious. Yeah I've seen that too with immigrants. Those that value the Western culture tend to lose their RP and have more problems than even some Wester…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 03:56 PM
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That's really amazing that you've found a community where you can feel at home in. I want to add two groups that tend to have a lot more RPW: women of faith and women who are immigrants or their parents were. Most of my friends are either religious or immigrants (many immigrants where I live) . These two groups tend to have many RPW. My best friend is confused between BP (american culture) and RP (her parent's culture) and she's often confused and upset and when she has larger BP tendencies. My …
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/17 03:22 PM
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What kind of guy do you see yourself hanging out with? What hobbies do you imagine him having, is he conservative, a professional, well educated, religious, down to earth, etc? This was the whole question. Not just hobbies.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/17 02:21 PM
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If you don't know what to focus on and what you want more specifically then you will have a harder time. May I ask how old you are?
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/17 12:15 AM
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Aww that's so sweet!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 05:20 PM
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Love this!!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 05:19 PM
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Thank you! Yeah I'm looking forward to hearing some other people's stories. I'm so happy with my man right now, I feel so overwhelmingly happy! I can't share it so much with girls I know in real life because they're often blue pill and unhappy in their relationships. It takes work to remain happy and handle/prevent problems but its worth it!
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 05:18 PM
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lol
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 03:59 PM
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The thread of discussion you're in comprises of me, you, and OP.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 03:42 PM
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Well it wasn't for you but someone else entirely so what you understand as the basics might not be for someone else. I was starting a conversation with her to find out more before posting pictures. Posting pictures without any knowledge of what she's going for or her body might not be helpful at all.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 03:28 PM
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I hope things get better for you soon! It seems like a terrible place to be and you must be feeling overwhelmed. I've read before about how exercising together helps brings people closer and boosts sex drive. My bf and I have started exercising together and we also tend to kiss a lot more right after. I hope these articles help! https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/meet-catch-and-keep/201401/5-reasons-why-couples-who-sweat-together-stay-together https://www.fitness.com/articles/1019/the_top_3_wa…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 03:24 PM
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What kind of guy do you see yourself hanging out with? What hobbies do you imagine him having, is he conservative, a professional, well educated, religious, down to earth, etc?
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 03:11 PM
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This is RPW not defined by you but by the community. You may not appreciate it but there are many intelligent women here who like to use their mind analytically but if that's not your cup of tea that's fine. There is a depth to life not everyone can see because they have not experienced that depth themselves or have knowledge of it. If you don't like to consider psychology, culture, biology, evolution, etc. when considered your decisions that's fine. Not everyone has the knowledge to do so and t…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/17 03:07 PM
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Do you know what type of guy you're trying to attract? What you're trying to convey with your outfit? What type of venues and what time of the day? I always "test out" outfits in public/club meetings before wearing them on dates. See what type of men respond/approach you and if women are friendly to you. If too many men (and the wrong sort) are approaching you right and left it could be that the outfit is too revealing/tight and it makes you seem "easy." When women are friendly that is good beca…
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/17 10:06 PM
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Anything written before 1914 aka before World War I. I've always had red pill ideas and thoughts and I think thats because the majority of books I read were from the 1800s when women acted in a different way.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 09:08 PM
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Both my parents were a bit messed up but my dad unfortunately pushed my mom into having some terrible issues so I can relate. My whole family is in the healing process so these are some things that either my mom, sister, or I have tried: Counseling, group therapy, religion, time spent in nature, exercise (solo & group), time focusing on projects to help others (too much time on self causes more suffering.) And lots of reading. She should fill her mind constantly with other thoughts and ideas bec…
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/17 09:01 PM
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I think that's so great that you can lean on your husband and that he can make you laugh! I'm sure that will keep you strong and close. :) I tend to be very cool-headed for the most part but when I'm not my boyfriend is very supportive. I agree the crazy outbursts are off putting. I've seen it before and then the girls complain that no guy wants to date them or that the guy is in the wrong.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 08:21 PM
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:)
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 08:17 PM
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Its ok, thank you for asking to clarify! The majority of people make quick assumptions in regards to other people and in their own lives so it never bothers me. I do aspire to be of a higher financial status in life and I think there is nothing wrong with that considering that it will mean better healthcare for my children, a cushion in case something happens, learning opportunities (instruments and languages), and the chance for my children to grow up with stability.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 08:04 PM
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I took it to mean negative emotions and outbursts too. In general, I try to see if a problem is better to be discussed with a girlfriend or a family member before my boyfriend. (Obvious example would be female cramps or fashion I direct to a girlfriend). I completely agree about texting, emailing, and calling. I had a boss in the past who used emailing as if it was texting and would be angry if we missed it despite the fact that I had limited data. No I'm not hoping to socially climb into a high…
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/17 07:55 PM
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If you become very diligent then there is a possibility of aging more like your mom. Dry skin is common as you get older. I started with dry skin unfortunately. Try massaging that area and using a derma roller once a month. As for your question with the wall: I originally hit it at 13-14 (not joking GOD I looked terrible and people thought I was in my 30s 40s) I took a yoga class around that age and older women asked me how many children I had... I had premature aging (wrinkles on forehead and a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:55 PM
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A huge aspect is how well you take care of yourself both internally and externally. (of course genetics play a role as well). Some books I'd recommend: Feed your skin, Starve your Wrinkles by Allison Tannis The Japanese Skincare Revolution: How to Have the Most Beautiful Skin of Your Life by Chizu Saeki These two books will give you the basics but there is so much you can learn! Skin care is a rabbit hole of obsessive knowledge for me. :)
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/17 02:31 PM
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It seems strange but drinking veggie juice or eating a salad makes me feel a bit better. If I'm under a lot of stress I will turn to a mostly plant based diet and a lot of exercise. There is a biological reason though, when you're very stressed your vitamins/minerals are depleted or blocked at a much higher rate. Regular exercise helps to control cortisol (which is released in response to stress). Just avoid extreme exercise. http://www.livestrong.com/article/436561-vitamins-that-deplete-under-s…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/17 06:29 PM
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This is really sweet! I hope you don't mind that I borrow these lyrics to share with him one day. :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 06:20 AM
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I haven't used abuse as a scapegoat. I don't see how age effects anything but I am 24. What other information? I'm sorry that you experienced something that has put you in a painful position.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 06:07 AM
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I'm 24. What history?
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 06:03 AM
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I began with, "I''ve asked people often how they perceive me and this is what they said..." sorry I didn't make it clear but that is how other people perceive me, That I come from a good family. I've found that when people have assumed I came from a good family they would treat me better. I was only homeless for a short time and we weren't always impoverished, I think it was around 10- 11 things went downhill.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/17 05:59 AM
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Thanks for the interest. Honestly, I'm not completely recovered. I still have the effects of trauma hindering me and feelings of low self-worth. However, these issues of mine have been slowly decreasing over time. Its a never-ending battle and I simply refuse to give up. I've come so far because I have an overwhelming urge to reach higher and safer levels of society (statistically they are happier and healthier) and to provide my future children with the best start in life. The idea of my future…
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 10:17 PM
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We've been official for only a week haha but have been dating for a few months and got close very fast.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/17 07:45 PM
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Over the weekend I went camping with my boyfriend and his friend. We agreed no PDA so his friend wouldn't feel like a third wheel. We usually are very affectionate so it was a struggle for both of us. While I was reading my bf had blown up a small inflatable boat and insisted I go with him. He rowed us out to a small lagoon so we could kiss in private. It was very cute and romantic. :)
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 08:50 PM
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I'm not talking about spot reduction. "training your TVA will help make your stomach and waistline pull inwards and make you look smaller and thinner around the abdominal area." Belly dancing and Pilates help to train your Transverse abdominis muscle - also know as the corset muscle. http://us.myprotein.com/thezone/nutrition/workout-transverse-abdominus-tiny-waist/
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/17 08:36 PM
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A lot of men still want a woman who is educated. To many, a college education represents status. If you look at the elite, the women, on average, become housewives, however they are almost all educated at the top Ivy League Universities. They often use this education in the development of their families and children. Family psychology would be a good major to study in this regard. Speech Pathology is a VERY popular career because you can primarily work with children and finish around the time th…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/17 02:07 AM
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I think you're right, it seems like it really makes him happy to help/take care of me. Even if its something like opening the door for me. I can see it on his face. I've learning more and more about myself and my difficulties with leaning on someone by talking to everyone here. First step is understanding! lol
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 08:41 PM
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Ok this is my misunderstanding. Thank you for clarifying!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 08:35 PM
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I tend to date traditional guys who pay for dates but if I'm going to cook for them I buy the ingredients. how many dates should he pay for before the bill gets split I've usually done the reverse. If I felt the date wasn't good/unsure I would try to split and most guys didn't want me to cover it. As far as meals go, the guy always paid (unless I didn't want another date then I'd try to pay). However, at the beginning I'll try to buy my own coffee or a drink for us to split. Now, my guy insists …
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/17 07:19 PM
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I agree with you and thank you for your mature and kind response. Its not really that he gives me any reason to distrust him. Its more like I've never trusted anyone and I guess I need to get past this mental block stemming from abuse but I like your idea. In fact, you're right about everything, going from 0 to 100 is dangerous but working up to it in baby steps will probably help.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 05:07 AM
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Honestly, why are you so negative? Best advice: break up, break up! Without knowing anything. I argue you should question more and understand more before assuming these things.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 05:05 AM
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He gave me his phone to play a song and it was literally there the moment I opened the phone. Don't assume the worst.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 05:04 AM
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Nice. You and and Shia LeBeouf should get together and scream, "Just DO IT!" at people. The "How" is lost on you. You know nothing about me yet assume so much.
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 05:03 AM
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I'd recommend you look into "depersonalization/derealization" which are dissociative disorders. I am not sure if that is what you are dealing with from the brief description but check it out and let me know if the symptoms match. It is what I am dealing with and honestly my captain has been the only one that has helped me snap out of it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/17 11:37 PM
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I do think that there are factors that people are not paying attention to when attracting men. Although your "league" is mainly based on physical charism, this can go up or down depending on "special" qualities. Have you ever noticed very high level guys dating somewhat average looking girls? To these guys, the girls have a certain special quality. A certain charm. I've compiled a list that will improve your chances based on my weird research: Feminine Ambition: Men love to see when a woman is p…
/r/RedPillWomen06/06/17 10:04 PM
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Thank you, you seem very analytical and I understand you meant it with well wishes, at times its difficult to relay personality via text when the people are new to each other. I understand that what you mean by Alpha being more of a shark. That makes a lot of sense, he just didn't seem to fit in what I've read before. As for the guy, I can admire his characteristics and handsomeness but I am not attracted. It is very hard for me to be attracted to someone. Even though I don't feel attracted or t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 10:45 PM
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I dated the guy that I had a crush on for 4 years (we dated for 3) and despite the fact that we had a lot of problems and he essentially became crippled, was far below me in academic/career accomplishments, nor was affectionate, I never once wanted to cheat on him. I had a lot of guys try to take me away from him (why I don't have guy "friends" anymore) or try to hit on me at parties but I would just walk away. This does remind me though, I never would go out dancing because I didn't want to dan…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 08:18 PM
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Thank you for your candid response. I didn't respond right away because I am in the middle of finals with my study group. I do realize I haven't learned everything there is to learn from red pill but at the same time I don't appreciate the condescending tone. It isn't necessary to deliver a message. You don't have to suggest I keep my legs close, trust me that isn't a problem and never has been. There are a few other things that I disagree with you on but I do agree on keeping my distance. I had…
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/17 04:16 AM
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Anti-Aging Smoothie 1 cup Spinach, 1 cup pure Carrot Juice, Almond Milk, Spirulina, Pure Chococlate Powder, Chia Seeds, Aloe Vera Juice, CoQ10, L'Carnosine, BCAA, Chlorophyll, Flax Seed Oil, Matcha Green Tea, Vegetarian Vitamin/Protein mix, and Lysine. I might be missing some I will edit when I get home. I know the cost adds up so if you're looking for the most effective I'd say: Matcha Green Tea, CoQ10, and L'Carnosine. Bulk Supplements is the best seller I've found. In general try to have as l…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 10:35 PM
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Yes! It definitely helps slim waist but can be so hard to stick to!
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 10:23 PM
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Basic Facial! 1) Cleanse face 2) Lightly Exfoliate wet face in circular motions & wash off (1 tbs sugar, 1tbs oil, & a tiny bit of water) 3) Steam face for 15 min (boil water opt. w/ green tea. Place in bowl and cover with towel. Put head under towel and relax). 4) Rinse face with ice water 5) Repeat 3 & 4 6) Apply toner (my recipe: 1/3 rice water fermented for 24 hrs, 1/3 aloe juice, 1/3 rose water.) 7) Apply a sheet mask for 20 minutes (masksheets.com, favorites: JayJun & Elensilia) 8) Apply N…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 10:21 PM
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I've gotten a few professional facials and let me just say, unless oxygen/light machines are used they're easily replicable for much cheaper. The last facial I got was $300 and I spent two weeks recovering (they really screwed up my skin). If you want me to list how to replicate a basic facial let me know!
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 08:23 AM
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Goal for 06/02-07/02 1) Run 10 minutes every evening (at least two days with a new girl friend) 2) Lose 1in off my waist (30-> 29) which is about 10 lbs off the scale 3) Drink my home-made anti-aging smoothie every morning 4) Get to bed by 10pm every night 5) Don't eat past 7pm
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/17 07:52 AM
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