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| 845 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age. | NICE FOR WHAT? | NitzMitzTrix | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:33 AM |
| 460 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing. | RED FLAG 🚨 | NitzMitzTrix | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning? | DISCUSSION | NitzMitzTrix | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:36 PM |
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| 8 | If A Man Chokes You, He Hates YouBDSM is an assault on women. It's disgusting how much of my generation has been brainwashed to see it as "empowering". It's not, there's nothing empowering about being abused during your most intimate moments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/23 11:32 AM |
| 28 | Stupid rant about Kim & KanyeKim put up with a lot of BS from Kanye, too. Good to see she's finally cut him off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 09:02 PM |
| 6 | No. FDS is not about clapping back at men who neg youSeeing them try harder and harder to get a rise out of us, only to keep failing, is its own reward. That alone is worth faking it even if they did manage to get under your skin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 01:15 PM |
| 129 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Housewives need some goddamn OSHA standards yesterday | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 11:17 AM |
| 15 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.My former coworker told me to never clean when he's present because then he'll get used to the idea of me cleaning. FUCK that noise, I'm not cleaning any more than he does. I'll have a fucking career, he can either tend his own room or walk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 11:16 AM |
| 8 | Professor's controversial interview defending 'minor-attracted persons' prompts statement from schoolPosts like this make me wish rule 10 wouldn't exist. Then I could describe what should be done to "help" "MAPs". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:45 AM |
| 41 | Professor's controversial interview defending 'minor-attracted persons' prompts statement from schoolThere never was a need. It was all about controlling women and guaranteeing paternity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 08:34 AM |
| 17 | Grown ass 30+ year old men taking highschool/college girls way too seriouslyBecause they're LV and they know it. Also, these girls sound like queens in the making. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:47 AM |
| 72 | Grown ass 30+ year old men taking highschool/college girls way too seriously"well-adjusted normal, healthy 30 something men" are in short supply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/21 01:46 AM |
| 43 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”Well said. Hold men accountable, offer women and especially girls a hand. Once we're no longer pit against one another the real fight for liberation can commence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:44 PM |
| 47 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”The reason for that is male dominance. When men are people and women are things, are you really surprised that women are expected to constantly be available to be abused and men exonorated for ruining women's lives? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:41 PM |
| 63 | A wishful Narrative flip about “naive young girls”It's okay to hate men though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 1 | I need advice on how to respond and keep my composure lmao. I thought I deleted all my dating apps because I felt burnt out and this person found me (my name is unique so not that hard to find me on instagram). I have school/work going on anyways to "make friends"Either ignore him or block him. If you simply HAVE to reply, go with something like "fuck off". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:36 PM |
| 6 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.Which is disappointing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:27 PM |
| 19 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.Because in this sub, it should be obvious. Isn't it in the handbook as well? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:25 PM |
| 22 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.And that's a best case scenario with a lower class means. Imagine if he'd have dumped her for a teenager girl like so many scrotes do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:25 PM |
| 22 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.Alimony laws won't protect you. Courts will grant women the bare minimum required by law, which makes scrotes feel "divorce raped", meaning they think that's a great deal for the woman. A deadly that won't even save her from homelessness in many cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:22 PM |
| 12 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.I think paying from separate accounts and keeping the receipts as proof should be a viable alternative, shouldn't it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:18 PM |
| 22 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.On the one hand. On the other hand, I wouldn't trust a man, even a HVM, to actually do that. Some LVM are excellent at masquerading as HVM and then financially abusing their wives when the act is up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:17 PM |
| 11 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.I hope so as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:15 PM |
| 37 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.They're socialized to only care about themselves and demand women to take care of everything they were supposed to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:14 PM |
| 37 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.I'm disappointed that it needs to be said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:13 PM |
| 14 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.That's excellent advice. I'm thinking of where to stash cash right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:13 PM |
| 8 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.Same. I really want kids but will never show myself to become dependent on a man for their sake. It'll end up risking both my life and their future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:11 PM |
| 8 | I feel like there are no good menTrue, the handbook is the best. Looking at what men think of us is the best reminder of why we should listen to the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 03:10 PM |
| 183 | "Being economically dependent on a man leaves you in a vulnerable position." - This is what the handbook looks like IRL. being tossed out like a rotten piece of meat while he goes out to groom someone your daughter's age.Oh God, this is why you DO NOT DO JOINT ACCOUNTS!!! EVER!!! NOT EVEN WITH A CONFIRMED(or as close to it as possible) HVM!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:12 AM |
| 3 | curious why men send dick picsIt's definitely to assert dominance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Never Help Men With Their Woman-Seeking MotivesIt honestly feels like betrayal. If you can't get a date yourself, what, am I suppose to lead women to be trapped in your arms? I'm supposed to help her get out, not pull her back in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:59 AM |
| 31 | I feel like there are no good menIt's against their interest, that's why. They shift the blame on women so they can keep getting away with being absolute trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:54 AM |
| 112 | I feel like there are no good menI'd say most ARE evil. And the few who aren't are such a tiny minority it's not worth saying "Not All Men". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:53 AM |
| 225 | I feel like there are no good menI was born without value, gained it when i became old enough to gawk at, and I'll lose it again once I hit 30. This is the biggest lie they feed you. You have value and you don't lose it once you're too old to groom and exploit. Keep your eyes open and work for your own future. You're better off without men, especially LV ones, anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:52 AM |
| 32 | I feel like there are no good menBeing up to date with what redpillers and incels and the like say is the best way to keep yourself safe. These bitter scrotes say what all men think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 01:49 AM |
| 2 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.I don't think it's right to blame her for trying to move on with her life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 10:54 PM |
| 33 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.Good Cannot Comprehend Evil. That's the trope you're looking for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 04:04 PM |
| 67 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.Only reason I tried to be subtle about it than just commenting on all caps "DUMP HIS ASS" is because I'm still on probation on that sub. But she got the memo well enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:21 PM |
| 23 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.I think this advice depends on the individual woman. If they're over it enough to always know, both intellectually and emotionally, that male reactions will always speak for them and not you, it's a great filter to stop them from wasting their time for the months building a trust a LVM is never worthy of. If they're still vulnerable to that pain your advice is gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:20 PM |
| 59 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.I wouldn't call OP a pickme, more like a woman not yet familiar with FDS. She has potential. Fact being, she has enough sense to listen to her gut over the "GiVe HiM a ChAnCe" brainwashing to have this be a real dilemma. I was a pickme and ignored my gut when it came to more obvious red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 02:05 PM |
| 163 | New guy feels the need to talk shit about a dead HVM. Smells like LV/NV from where I'm standing.I cropped the title because I want to avoid brigading. OP already sees through the guy. Don't brigade. I think we can all learn the lesson OP learned here: A guy who feels insecure about your HV ex, especially a dead HVM, is probably LV and knows it. Avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:52 PM |
| 11 | One of the biggest lies sold to women is the importance of upholding the relationship at any cost"You youngsters switch through relationships like socks, where's the commitment? Loyalty? The willingness to make it work out?" Fuck, I wasted some of my best years internalizing these messages bombarded since birth. Even blocking out people who gave me actual good advice and told me to dump my LV ex before he wasted my teens and half of my young adulthood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:37 PM |
| 14 | Britney Spears is Free!!! After 13 years she's finally free y'all! This is amazing and I hope it leaves the way for more change with conservatorships. And that everyone involved in what happened to Britney faces jail.She was enslaved to this degree because of her fame, as well. Guardianship reform is sorely needed, as well as protective laws for child professionals like Britney, Judy Garland and basically every A and B-lister from the Disney Channel or Nickelodeon were. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/21 01:03 PM |
| 142 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endTesteria | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:52 PM |
| 17 | When you can’t handle rejection. Wait until the endWhat the FUCK?! Sexual harrassment AND destruction of property, which as another comment pointed out is a veiled threat of violence?! Hope the scrote does jail time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 11:50 PM |
| 3 | People over-glorify youth. Specfically, the 18 to 24 demographic.You already objectify us. Go ahead to stage 2. Abandon us. We're sick of your entitled, self-pitying ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 02:56 PM |
| 3 | People over-glorify youth. Specfically, the 18 to 24 demographic.Go ahead, "abandon" us. Go MGTOW, you won't be missed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/20 02:44 PM |
| 27 | Almost made me cryThis is what being with a HVM after being raised by a LVM feels like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 01:54 PM |
| 10 | 8 types of LVM from How to Spot a Dangerous Man Before You Get InvolvedGuilts you into being with him and changing your plans for him. Threatens to kill himself or "never date again" if you leave him. Evokes pity from you to keep you in a relationship with him. You try to boost him up so you can leave, but his self-esteem never gets better. When you do what he asks, he stabilizes a bit, but then he needs even more. He is socially awkward. God, I wish I recognized these all those years ago. I'd also like to add warning signs to sort at your discresion: Has a problem… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Is she serious?Well, the other men here don't seem to think so, so the question still stands for them. | /r/MGTOW | 15/11/19 07:19 PM |
| 0 | Is she serious?Of course men can be victims of rape Consent must be given. Not assumed. | /r/MGTOW | 15/11/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Is she serious?Rape is non-consensual sex. Do MGTOW agree? | /r/MGTOW | 15/11/19 04:17 PM |
| 0 | Is she serious?Ah, no. Answer my question. | /r/MGTOW | 15/11/19 02:33 PM |
| -1 | Is she serious?What is the MGTOW definition of rape, then? | /r/MGTOW | 15/11/19 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?I'll copy another reply of mine: Wealthy men can hire people to siege you in a house, hire shady lawyers that will try and often succeed in ruining your life, get every witness to say that they're amazing, kind people and even if they don't manage to frame you as the "bad guy", they can cater to the judge with the extra money. Oh, and they can bribe the judge. I've seen a man try to do all of it, it only failed because his own vileness kept undermining his efforts. A man slightly more competent … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 10:01 PM |
| 0 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?Unfortunately, unless the woman was already known to be filthy rich BEFORE being with the man, even if she makes more than him, she'll be seen as a golddigger. I think a woman who gets guilted like that should stand her ground at the first request and dump his ass if he either demands or asks with anything less than pretty please my queen OR guilts her. The benefits is that dumping him is less of a hassle when he can't hold you hostage with money, and I've seen a woman held hostage by money desp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:54 PM |
| 10 | Stay away from misogynistic sexist men- Disrespects his mother If you want the logic behind that one I'll explain - Is homophobic but mostly to exclusively watches lesbian porn - Is any sort of devout Abrahamic - Wants you to change your last name to his - Thinks compound surnames are "cucking" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:51 PM |
| 47 | The "Cool Girl Monologue" aka stop being a "pick me woman"As a former Cool Girl, who learned this lesson the hard way, I only have this to say: Be yourself. If males can't take that, return them to the dumpster they came from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:45 PM |
| 73 | Too Good Not To Share 😂Hopefully in a century they'll have no descendants cause all women would know better than to settle for shitstain. ...I'm living in a fantasy I know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:38 PM |
| 0 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?Then kick him to the curb. No great loss. Men who don't do housework should be boycotted out of the gene pool. That's literally the only thing men might care more about than themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:36 PM |
| 8 | The fertility mythAnd even in places women aren't blamed for that, couples with only daughters are pitied. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:33 PM |
| 180 | Too Good Not To Share 😂Ugh. Someone should point out that natural selection mostly works by filtering out undesirable men. The problem is that there's too many of them and they've been united for millennias. Edit: I'm permabanned from commenting but thanks for the gold! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?Wage gap, which is not going to go away no matter how many laws will pass, because men will keep finding ways around it. The control over women is too precious for them to lose. As I said, this sub advocates finding someone higher-earning than you, which combined with fact #1, is what I take issue with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:30 PM |
| 0 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?Kids can be manipulated by money, that's where I take issue with letting him have the top earner status. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:24 PM |
| -3 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?I wish. Men are fucking trash and we women have to be vigilant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:23 PM |
| -2 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?It's not insecurities. It's more akin to security breaches. If a man rots from whatever boosted his ego and you kick him to the curb, when he calls you a golddigger, the judge will listen. I ask why this sub leaves that breach open. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?As I said, that's what men say, and judges listen to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:18 PM |
| 0 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?No. But I know how men are. Especially divorcees. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:16 PM |
| -1 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?In an ideal world, you would be right. In the real world, this is how men lull you in, like dealers getting you hooked with free samples. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:11 PM |
| -2 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?Of course it isn't, that's just what men say and the judge listens to men. The children listen to their father because he will bribe and manipulate them and accuse you of using up the child support money even if you put all of it in trust funds for your kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:11 PM |
| 0 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?And it's only a man's role because that is how men maintain control over us. I'm not a pickme, I refuse to bow down to the patriarchal structure that dictates the man does the Important Work(read: paying work) while women are their cattle. I thought this sub would think twice before leaving itself open to attack like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:09 PM |
| -1 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?And yet high-value men lose their value when their wealth gets to their head and you become a "trophy wife, a golddigger" and everything bad men tell to women who marry successful, regardless of your own personal wealth. And it will go to their heads. Humility is temporary. Edit: clarified I don't actually think that, I just think every single woman who marries successful will be accused of this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:06 PM |
| -1 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?And yet kids raised in more money don't care if you can support them. They care that daddy takes them out to the amusement park and buys them cool stuff. Why have a man with such leverage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 09:05 PM |
| -3 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?And every child? A lot of working mothers, many in upscale job, have to go and beg for their ex's money for their kids' sake and if they don't, the kids start thinking of them like "the B-h that ruined daddy's life and took everything good from us", because you know divorcees spin shit like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:55 PM |
| 6 | You need to respect your man.Perhaps, but humility is in a constant war over male ego. I wouldn't take the risk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:53 PM |
| -3 | Why be Financially Dependent when You Can be Breadwinning?I am well aware. But I argue that having a male partner who earns more than you makes you financially dependant whether or not you intend to be. That's men's trap to keep you under their heel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:49 PM |
| 15 | “For Every Hot Chick, There’s A Dude Who’s Tired Of Having Sex w/ her”Correction: For Every Hot Chick, there's 10 men who are too intimidated to ask her out because they actually know they won't deserve her and 1000000 who ask her out despite being far lower quality than the former 10. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:47 PM |
| -9 | You need to respect your man.I tend to agree, but I still think to be on the safe side it's better to pick someone from below you than someone from above you, lest being even marginally above you gets all the piss up to their heads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:46 PM |
| 20 | Stay away from misogynistic sexist menViolets are Red, Roses are Blue, Men are Trash, You Watch Over You. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:45 PM |
| 18 | Stay away from misogynistic sexist men- Makes faces when you hang around with other guys(ur straight) or anyone but family(ur bi) - Hates your family and tries to drive a wedge between you and them, even if they're not abusive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:44 PM |
| 6 | GOLDDIGGING WHORE = Responsible Woman Who Selects Partners Who Can Actually Afford to Care For Their Offspring.And this leverage is why I made my post. Money is men's best means of emotional blackmail. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:41 PM |
| 9 | The boyfriend who treated me the absolute worst was super short, like 100 lbs, alien-looking, broke, and had an annoying loud personality.Yeah I wouldn't listen to men's deflection of their flaws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:38 PM |
| 10 | What our lurkers/ Superfans 💌😍💦 look likeYou forgot 2 things: The blowup dolls need to also clean and give the best feet rubs for an ALPHA won't settle for any less! Traditional men exploited the shit out of women, which makes the entire point moot. Traditional men belong in the trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do taken guys approach me ALL THE TIME? (TW)Men are trash. Wear whatever the fuck you want and don't even try getting dates - the highest quality men are found by accident more often then not. You are your own person, not a sexual object, and outside of physical concerns(such as back aches and breast cancer), your body shape has NO BEARING on that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/19 12:23 PM |
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