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Specially with online dating or hookups, many are looking just for attention and never intends to come out. Vet better, if you both connect over few messages, ask to meet in person quick. Girls who are interested in you and genuinely want to meet you will come out.
/r/seduction12/04/21 11:16 PM
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This is GOLD, basically the whole non-needy texting game condensed down to few paragraphs. Right on point man. Will save this for future use.
/r/seduction27/02/21 01:51 AM
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Treat her as you would any other UNATTRACTIVE girl. Easier said than done but that’s the only advice that will work.
/r/seduction28/07/20 03:01 PM
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Can only work if you are extremely good looking but and she is into you.
/r/seduction11/06/20 12:33 PM
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These texts make me cringe. You come off as typical beta guy and she is just being nice. She has already friend zoned you.
/r/seduction11/06/20 12:32 PM
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Very well said!!
/r/seduction11/09/19 07:11 PM
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Totally agree with this.
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:16 AM
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It would’ve been good if you gave examples on how to implement these. Like how do you trigger her emotion and not be logical? How do you not sell yourself and be the buyer, what can you say to show this mentality? Any examples to implement during the set or date?
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:09 AM
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Your assessment is on point. My sets are maximum of 2 mins which is very short, I need to build comfort and vibe. I just run out of things to say during the set so that’s why I try to leave the set early. As you said I should open not so attractive girls just to get myself to talk more and practice building comfort.
/r/seduction01/08/19 02:08 PM
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Lol yea this is the PUA sub, what other sub are you referring to?
/r/seduction01/08/19 01:33 AM
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Wow this is golden advice...Solid!!! Great post man!
/r/seduction26/07/19 02:28 AM
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Approach anxiety
/r/seduction25/07/19 02:43 AM
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I just tell them I dont want to be your bf but anyways.... And continue the conversation. At the end I ask for their number again if they don’t give it then I move on to next girl.
/r/seduction25/07/19 12:34 AM
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Thanks man. I keep writing about my approaches so that I can learn from my mistake and have records of my approaches. In near future if I get good at game, I want to take a look back and see where I started from and how have improved!
/r/seduction25/07/19 12:05 AM
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I would say start small. If you have lot Of approach anxiety, make a goal of approaching 3 girls per session. And just give the compliment. You can just go out approach 3 girls and tell them “hey I saw you from there and thought you look really nice, have a nice day” this will make their day and you won’t feel nervous because you are not expecting to continue the conversation. After you’ve done this for few time, take it 1 step further and give a specific compliment, like you have a really nice …
/r/seduction24/07/19 02:55 PM
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Right, because every interaction is different so you can’t exactly say the things you watch in infield. You can say 1-2 general stacks but then you have to move your own conversation, which is tough.
/r/seduction24/07/19 01:20 PM
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That means your initial interaction is weak and there is no attraction on her part. How long does your set last. If it’s lasting less than 7 minutes, most of those numbers will be flaky. The average interaction is about 7-10 mins to build comfort/attraction. Try analyzing your interaction with the girl and see if it was man to women, was there attraction build up, was there any tension, etc
/r/seduction20/07/19 05:14 PM
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Thats a good start man! Just keep pushing yourself to approach whenever you see a cute girl. Doesn’t matter if you get a number or not, it’ll increase your confidence and make her day. Although after few approaches, do think about having an end goal of sex for every approach. But to kick approach anxiety, just keep approaching!
/r/seduction13/06/19 01:41 AM
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Instead of asking question, make assumptions and she’ll correct herself. You seem like an adventurous girl, Tell me about the most adventurous thing you have done..
/r/seduction05/06/19 02:53 PM
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I use direct opener always..”Hi iI saw you from over there and I think you look nice/cute so I had to come say hi” I cant answer your second question as I haven’t gotten any numbers yet out of my cold approaches. I feel like my interactions dies down quickly after my opener so the girl is not feeling comfortable giving me her number. Waiting for a day to get my first number close.
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:46 AM
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Yea this was my first time speaking to a 10 and it wasn’t bad. I felt comfortable talking to her!!
/r/seduction04/06/19 03:43 AM
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I usually say “ hey look I gotta go but let’s continue this some other time. I would like to take you out for a drink/coffee. Let’s exchange number”
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:44 AM
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Yea man I had AA when I started out but after about 10 approaches. AA is not an issue for me anymore. I can just open any girl I think is cute but my current problem is continuing the conversation after my opener. I am sure with more experience in the field, I”ll learn. Just do many approaches you’ll over come AA
/r/seduction04/06/19 02:26 AM
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Tom Torero podcast for Day game, the best free content out there.
/r/seduction03/06/19 12:21 AM
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My experience is similar, i’ve done so far around 20 approached and wrote FR of all on here. I feel like I don’t have AA anymore and I can go upto any girl I like and open. But the problem I am currently facing is what to say after my opener to build more comfort and vibe with the girl. I’ve learned about stacking but still can’t find myself enough topics to talk about with the girl. I quickly run out things to say and because of that I eject from the set very quick. What are some things that he…
/r/seduction02/06/19 10:56 PM
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Nicee..mind sharing how you convinced her to come back to your car? And how did you escalate? I have bad logistics too so sometimes thinking of pulling girl back to the car.
/r/seduction02/06/19 10:35 PM
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So I always use direct opener for all of my cold approaches. “Hi, I saw you from over there and I think you look really nice so I wanted to come say hi” then immediately go to “What I noticed about you was that you look....” but both of the girls I mentioned werent giving me good responses. Just mainly yes. No, thank you. So I ran out of things to say and ejected early Read my previous FR posts, I’ve provided some details in those too.
/r/seduction02/06/19 09:16 PM
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How did you pull her back to your place from the street or wherever you cold approached her?
/r/seduction02/06/19 09:11 PM
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“Hi, I just saw you from over there and noticed that you look really nice. So I had to come say Hi” thats my opener for all of my approached. I follow tom torero’s day game model as I find him the best guide for day game.
/r/seduction10/05/19 01:39 AM
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Thats super needy. Never ask if you can buy them a drink. Just use direct opener, such as you girls look fun and wanted to come say hi. What are you celebrating tonight? If its 2-3 set, ask how do know each other?
/r/seduction22/04/19 07:04 PM
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I agree, the main thing is I am not approaching enough girls. As I said before right now I may approach only 3-5 girls per week but I am making it my goal yo go out 3 days a week and atleast approaching 5 girls per day for those 3 days.
/r/seduction20/04/19 01:03 PM
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Would like to know this too. I was thinking of going to cancun during college spring break times just for pick up.
/r/seduction19/04/19 11:56 PM
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Agree and I have no intention of leaving daygame. It has actually helped me build my confidence and social life. I feel more confident now talking to people at work or any stranger at the bar. It’s amazing and I am sure if we put in the work, we’ll definitely get the results. Right now I am approaching may be 5 girls per week but I should be approaching 5 girls per day for 3 days of the week. I also don’t do night game, I approach girls at the malls, shops and grocery stores.
/r/seduction19/04/19 11:49 PM
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Same night or on a later date?
/r/seduction19/04/19 10:10 PM
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For me it’s keeping the conversation going, I’ve worked on my AA, still get little nervous while approaching but I do it anyways. But then I run out of things to say and mumble a lot of nonsense which gives away weak vibe.
/r/seduction12/03/19 02:55 AM
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Thats great man..this is how you’ll get good at the game. Watching pua videos and reading online will give you the basic concepts but they don’t really help until you actually go out and talk to girls. Also you’ll get good at this after you approach certain number of girls and that experience will teach you what pua or books can’t. I also do cold approaches and learning to be better at the game. Good luck!
/r/seduction22/02/19 07:39 PM
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I feel like if the girl starts talking to you she is definitely interested but her friends get jealous or whatever and pulls her away. I try to engage with her friends too so they don’t feel left out, that makes them engaged in the conversation and not feel isolated.
/r/seduction16/02/19 03:37 PM
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Good luck man..it’s all about taking initiative to approach. I do only cold approaches and haven’t had a success in getting a girls number. I post all of my field report here on this sub, but I’ve not approached in a while. Looking forward to your posts.
/r/seduction13/02/19 01:41 AM
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This is indirect approach. However, I do prefer direct approach. Direct approach saves the time and lets you know which girl is interested in you. I prefer direct approach but It’s individual person’s choice on which one to use
/r/seduction16/01/19 03:58 AM
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Thanks guys for all the positive comments..I think you learn a lot from your actual approaches than just watching PUA videos at home. Don’t get me wrong, watching videos and reading PUA stuff is necessary to learn the game but until you actually apply it in real life by approaching girls, it wont help you improve.
/r/seduction12/01/19 01:58 PM
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Learning PU stuff has helped me boost my confidence at my work and in social life. I have a strong eye contact now with everyone that I talk to. I joined the gym so I am gaining muscle mass and feeling confident about my body. I still haven’t had any success in getting a girls number but I definitely see some improvements in my personality.
/r/seduction12/01/19 12:42 AM
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The best tip I read in some PUA program is use texting to set up dates only. No small talks or how was her day or whatever. Keep those talks for actual date. If you talk a lot via text then you won’t have much to talk about during the actual date. So once you get the number, use texting strictly to set up dates.
/r/seduction12/01/19 12:38 AM
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My accent and people around watching me
/r/seduction07/01/19 12:50 AM
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I did want to number close her I asked her would you like to hangout sometimes? If she said sure then I would’ve asked what’s your number? I didn’t ask her to hangout at that night. I usually go to malls, target, grocery stores. That’s where I find many cute girls. I use direct opener so she know why am I talking to her. I say, “hey I was passing by and noticed you look cute so I had to come say Hi” then continue the conversation.
/r/seduction24/12/18 06:18 PM
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Btw which rave are you going to?
/r/seduction22/12/18 10:53 PM
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Haha I hope so man.
/r/seduction22/12/18 08:46 PM
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I don’t think rave is the best place to take girl home. Majority of the girls are there to enjoy the music and environment. Your best bet is to just make out with them and move on. Unless you are making out with a girl at the end of the rave, you might have a chance to take her home. But I wouldn’t go to rave with expectation of taking a girl home. Just dance, enjoy, approach girls and make out. You’ll have a great time.
/r/seduction22/12/18 06:27 PM
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Say “fuck it” to yourself and go approach without thinking anything
/r/seduction22/12/18 06:00 PM
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Were you born in US or are you an immigrant? I am 28 YO indian guy who moved to US 10 years ago and I have a strong indian accent which reduces my confidence somehow during my approach. My mind thinks she’ll reject me since I have an accent, even though I have made out with 2 russian girls during my college days without an issue. What tips do you have for me to just go and approach and overcome AA and not think about my accent? Also what openers did you use and where did you mostly approached?
/r/seduction21/12/18 01:32 PM
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Thats great man. I also practice the game in mall. Which openers do you use usually? And how do you continue the conversation after opener? I use direct openers and sometime find it hard fo continue the conversation after my opener.
/r/seduction21/12/18 04:13 AM
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I started approaching few months back too and still face AA. But the thing I found helpful was to feel good about yourself before going out to approach. Dress well, look good, have a clear mindset and just be in a good mood. It’ll help you tremendously in approaching girls when you feel confident and it shows in your approaches. I have tried to approach girls when I was feeling down and it’s just not a good experience. Also writing down field reports helps to see your mistakes and your improveme…
/r/seduction19/12/18 05:09 AM
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I would say 7 if you grow your hair and do some kind of style..your build of the body also affects the rate so without looking at the whole can’t say for sure but facewise 7
/r/seduction19/12/18 05:00 AM
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What are you usual openers during day game? Like in a mall or on the streets? I am a brown guy too in USA and I usually run out of things to say after my openers. Need to practice more on how to carry the conversation, any suggestions or advice on what to say after your opener?
/r/seduction01/12/18 02:40 AM
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Best statements/conversation starters after opening during day game? I approach most girls in the mall in grocery stores. I do cold approach where I go up to them in the mall and tell them Hey I was passing by and saw you look cute so I had to come say hi. Then they say thanks but then I blank out what do I say to them after that? I know I showed my intent but I dont want to ask stupid general questions like where are you from and what do you do?
/r/seduction30/11/18 05:22 PM
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Haha thanks man. I’ll be posting all of my interactions on this sub as writing it down helps me analyze my approach and keep track of growth. Stay tuned!!!
/r/seduction22/11/18 02:46 PM
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Thank you. This gives me more confidence. I believe I’ll get better with more approaches and learn from the experiences.
/r/seduction22/11/18 02:44 PM
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Thanks man. Appreciate the kind words. I try to implement what I learned from the videos. So I can see how it looks in real life.
/r/seduction22/11/18 06:34 AM
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Thats what I am trying to do. Approach within 3 seconds of looking at the girl. If I wait any longer I start to get negative thoughts in my mind. So approach as soon as you see the set.
/r/seduction22/11/18 06:33 AM
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I’ll be cold approaching this weekend in the mall too. Looking forward to reading your field report. I took up a challenge to cold approach for 7 straight days and then I’ll post the results here
/r/seduction21/11/18 07:45 AM
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Nice man..keep it up.
/r/seduction17/11/18 02:21 AM
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Awesome man!!! What she said if you don’t mind sharing with us
/r/seduction17/11/18 01:49 AM
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