If you follow my posts, you know I mainly do cold approaches. However, for the last month I wasn’t able to go out and do cold approaches during the day due to my back injury. Last weekend I went to the club in NYC with some friends. I decided to have fun and goal was to make out with atleast 1 girl (i know you shouldn’t have this on your mind) and number close. I did have 2 drinks so there was no approach anxiety.

I was enjoying myself and dancing on the floor with drink in my hand. I approached total of 7 girls that night and danced with 5 of them. Majority of them were with their friends but I still approached and happy to see that they agreed to dance. I did talk to their friends too build more comfort level. I had a chance to make out with 2 girls but her friend took her away. So didnt make out or number close any girl.

Things I did good: no AA (prob due to alcohol), approached girls in groups of 2 or 3, physical escalation, took rejection very well, just enjoyed myself throughout the night.

Things I need to improve: isolate the girl from her friends, build more rapport with the girl, try not to have a mindset of need to get laid when going out (night game)