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CULTURAL MISOGYNYNo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:44 PM
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QUEEN SH*TNo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:45 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYNo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:29 PM
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REMINDER 👑No_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:26 AM
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MOOD FOR LIFENo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:03 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?No_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:20 PM
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REMINDER 👑No_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:42 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYNo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:06 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYNo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:49 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESNo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:26 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTNo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:08 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?No_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 03:44 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨No_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 06:06 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYNo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:43 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFENo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:01 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYNo_Energy7768/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:59 PM
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I can guarantee you that no amount of internalized mysogyny is gonna make a woman right this bullshit. I refuse to believe it. It has to be a man in disguise. A woman wouldnt write like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 02:23 PM
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I know that people might say I am too young to decide but I dont have any urge for motherhood. It never seems part of my plan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 11:33 AM
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This story is fake as hell cmon now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:34 PM
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what I mean is I am simply shocked that now it is normalized as a kink and not an actual rapist strategy. I am simply shocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:35 AM
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Hella nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:16 AM
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so basically coercion is now a kink ? Wow ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:15 AM
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exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:27 PM
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I know they were depressed. I am not condoning that lifestyle. I am just saying that men cant expect women do be traditional ( cooking, cleaning and taking care of kids ) but if those women desire traditional traits from these men such as financial stability, social status and being a full provider, all of a sudden women are shallow gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:29 PM
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Many men cum from PIV and blowjobs. So they still manage to orgasm from both. Most women do not cum from PIV but with clitoral stimulation which like I said, oral offers which why so many women prefer it or require it in their sex life. PIV just isn't enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 05:18 PM
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The gag is many do so........... Your point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 11:58 AM
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I mean do men have a blow job fetish ? Because they do seem to see it as a requirement in bed so why cant women ? Most women dont orgasm from PIV and need clitoral stimulation which oral offers. I didnt know women wanting to enjoy their sex and orgasm was a fetish now. I guess men have a blow job fetish as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 12:18 AM
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Damn!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:27 PM
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We have exactly the same type of men emotionally and physically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:25 AM
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"a man cant be a good looking woman but a woman can just earn her own money" okay and ? Not all women are beautiful either and can turn themselves into a beauty queen either. Some arent attractive to get the establish guy. It is what it is. Some guys are too broke to get the supermodels. It is what it is. If a guy chooses an attractive woman over an unattractive one, why would a woman settle for a broke guy if she can attract a financially established man that makes 6 digits ? Exactly. Everybody…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 10:56 PM
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No if men are allowed to go after looks. women are also allowed to go after money. Both genders are shallow. Men cant want to have the cake and eat it too. Deal with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/21 09:59 PM
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This is really good news for you. I am happy, you found a loving and attentive man both inside and out of bed intimacy as husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 07:49 AM
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ohhhh okay thanks. it makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:36 PM
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Girl, sorry but you are looking a little bit too deep into something that is not there. I never said women should cease to talk about their issues or censor themselves because they are shocking or too violent frightening for my "gentle ears". I love learning about women experiences but I also empathize and feel upset at what they go through. It is a normal reaction. It wasnt even that deep. It was even kind of sarcastic. I wasnt actually SCARED. I was just showing signs of frustration at how man…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:59 PM
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All I see is sex coercion and sexual assault. That is ALL I READ.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:30 PM
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All I see is that the relationship is sex focused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:21 PM
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Keep standards huhh but dont have expectations ? I am confused how ? If my standards are high, my expectations will be high no ? I am jusy trying to understand "The more standards, you have the smaller the dating pool" I believe in quality over quantity. I will only marry one man after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 03:15 PM
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"You seem quite young" I mean yeah... I am 18. "Is that really a life you want?" When did I ever said that ? I literally meant that women living an unfufilling sex life is unfair for us since it seems like such a common aspect of relationships that we must accept. I am just saying I want a fufilling sex life. I actually know the truth, but I wont accept it into my life because I will be very vocal about what I like, if the guy is a selfish lover or simply bad, it is the end. I know society teach…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:56 PM
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decent ? Just decent ? That sounds very underwhelming honestly Edit : sorry if your sex experience was so bad because the men in your life couldnt pleasz you right. I guess I'll have to be very upfront about what I like and never fake it either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:55 AM
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Girls, you are scaring me. I dont want to expect at such a young age for the sex to be trash. This isn't fair to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 11:37 AM
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I realized, in real life if we put celebrities aside because, most men are average looking. Most people are actually. However since many dont maintain their looks during their youth, I havent found a guy over 26 attractive because many late twenties or early thirties guys look much older. I know I am very young ( 18 ) so I mostly attracted to guys my age that look youthful as well but I think regardless of age, a handsome young man, with a head full of hair, a fit tight body and a fress face wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:33 PM
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At least a bad one off the market. Saves us ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:58 PM
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Exactly. Many strong women actually want THEIR EQUAL not a domineering man that is entitled to everything she does. They love strong men that actually admire their strenght and dont mind being challenged
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:52 PM
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Thank you Dorothy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:44 PM
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same this isn't marriage. This is prison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:15 AM
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I wouldnt care lf she did. Actually hope she does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:06 AM
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oh really ? What do you mean by that ? How was it flawed. I saw many people say it was flawed .Genuinely curious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:26 AM
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"Most men are garbage". He might as well be attractive and financially established if he is going to be potentiamly trash. Might as well benefit from it at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:10 AM
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Yea tinder and okcupid seem to suck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:09 AM
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I will never pity date just to make a guy feel validated. My interest comes first. Also, although I am atttactive and pretty, I dont obsessed over it thinking it will give me a man since many men no matter how kind, how beautiful, how self-giving and sacrificing a woman is. So being gorgeous or average to me does not matter to me, since if a man cheats it isn't because of a woman lack of beauty or lack of anything but because his character is flawed. Simple as that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:59 PM
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Reason number 4578# of why I am not in a hurry to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:51 PM
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I am only 18 so never tried OLD or dating at all but I dont think I'll ever do that. I have seen guys profiles on Reddit in general. Many of them are just that.....average. Knowing the type of guy I would want in the future, I think he won't be OLD either. Many guys that are on OLD are usually struggling. That is just a fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:09 PM
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I hope I dont sound mean. I am definitely not saying you are not a HVW. Based on many anecdotal references that I see multiples times on this sub or even on other dating subs, OLD does not seem to bring much success to anyone. Men complain because they dont get much matches. Sometimes dont get any at all due to the ratio of men and women on dating apps and also because many dont reach women's standards or some can be simply creeps. I mean many men use it for sex so I dont really care about them.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:35 PM
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. Based on the data built from tens of millions of preferences expressed in the act of finding a date, it showed that most women in their 20s found that guys only 1 to 2 years older than them attractive which means the 20-somethimg women find the 20-something guys the most attractive. Not the 30, not the 40 year old guy. The trend usually switches when they turn 30. They usually find guys slightly younger more attractive But in general they prefer guys around their age at ALL ages. It seems like…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 10:17 PM
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I mean this applies to both genders. There are exceptions but a 21 year old usually looks better than a 39 year old whether it is a woman or a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/20 09:14 PM
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Oh, I am definitely snitching
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:16 PM
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thank you for the reminder that many relationships are under average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:18 PM
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I received the same message hahahah 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 01:44 PM
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I feel the same. The only guys I am attracted to on on social media ( where their appearance matters and they actually have to put effort into it ) This post really made it clear that OLD isn't for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:43 PM
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What the heck is this though ? -It does not look like it was done with care and love The food looks disgusting. I wouldnt even eat it if done myself. When a guy really wants to impress a girl when he cooks, he would really take the time to decorate the plate and make it presentable. I dont know if it is the French in me. But this looks offensive at this point The real question is HOW would guys respond to this if it was done by a woman. Trust me, she would have been dragged for that. I am keepin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:24 PM
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Yeah. The author is french and France has tried to ban it actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:11 PM
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I know right ? Like easily 95% were disapproving OP's claim in the comments with some good arguments. Most aggreed to the same thing. Women shouldnt approach a guy or ask him out because: They would accept just for an ego boost, NOT, because they are interested Which leads to the second point. They put less effort into those relationships thinking the girl easy to get. It simply does not work as well since the guy in most cases would only use her as an opportunity for sex or comfort, NOT, becaus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 12:09 PM
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This is so degrading at this point Where is the self-dignity ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:57 AM
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And this judge shows that educated ( having a degree ) does not mean smart since his critical thinking seems underveloped based on his reasoning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:54 AM
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I actually wished it was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 02:24 AM
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I hope he gets fired or his status taken away from him. This is a shame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:55 PM
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Thank you for finding the link for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 09:54 PM
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Marriage is supposed to be enjoyable, it isn't suppose to cause you stress you and take you on your death bed before time. What the heck ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 02:04 PM
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8 years ? If he does not start mentioning marriage after a year or two, I am out of this relationship. I dont like wasting time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:44 PM
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That is a VERY HARD PASS. I would have told him "nah, I already replaced you with someone else. I wont be entertaining you anymore. Have a nice day"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:23 PM
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and guess what ? The woman that works 40 hours per week still does the majority of the housework so she has all the right to nag. The girl is tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:13 AM
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What the hell ? They shouldnt be talking they are racists, sexist and unwanted sexually and romantically. They have no room to talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:26 PM
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I knew about bitter, fat and over 30 but never heard mockery about black women ? What is wrong with being black ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:09 PM
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Yeah I am under 20 ( I am 18 ) and so glad, I have access to this sub and have more knowledge to avoid mistakes in my 20s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:00 PM
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I know. I think most womem would agree that quantity isn't the problem. Quality on the other hand.....I will leave it there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 09:58 PM
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It seems like most women in FDS are in their 20s which kinda breaks the stereotype that FDS members are "bitter and desperate women over 40 who cant get a date and blames men for their shortcomings" ( By the way, I dont see women over 40 that way, just paraphrasing many sexist guys' thoughts on the manosphere )
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:48 PM
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I am glad, I came across this sub this early in my life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:52 PM
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You mean after 35. It is actually 35
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:18 PM
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I never said that but at the end of the day, many age gals relationship dont end well ( based on stats ) and are quite uncommon.. ( only 8 percent of couples have an age gap over 10 years ) The higher the age gap, the shorter the marriage and the higher the divorce rates. Not to forget, that even if it is outside of marriage, many age gap relationships tend to be short term ( dating ) So these men can try getting with younger women, doesnt mean it will happened. The trend of age gaps are actuall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:07 PM
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I was surprised as well. 60% of the comments kept repeating the sams thing to the point where Op said he would never do it again or date anybody else at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:57 PM
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I was wondering because I am 18 and dont want to date a guy over 28, not even over 21. So what am I suppose to do ? Men in their thirties dont seem that great either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:56 PM
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The thing is most comments said that he should have dated someone his age because since his ex and his son are peers in terms of age obviously she was more likely to cheat. Even some guys in the comments said obviously how did he expect to compete with guys younger than him. He got blamed a lot for dating a girl that young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:52 PM
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This is why women should believe men that shows them how lucky they feel to have them instead of just saying. Remember ladies Actions > words ALWAYS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 06:57 PM
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I never actually believed that myth honestly. Even if it was the case if I had to date a 30 year old guy at 18 for him to reach my maturity level or be more mature, he isn't really mature. If you need a decade over me to be mature, maybe you arent mature enough. Also, I value compatibility and similar life stages much more than maturity. It isn't a quality that I find SOOO attractive in a partner. I can find wisdom in friends and family. haha. Plus, I want an equal partner in terms of maturity. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:10 PM
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Good and you are welcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:45 PM
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"women in their 20s should only be dating 1-2 years above their own age." Yes, I totally agree. I actually commented something similar actually. I am under 20. I am 18 actually and would up to 19 years old until I reach 20s and within the 1-2 years younger or older. I will stick to guys my age range for the rest of my life pretty much. I know what power dynamic age agaps can lead to. Plus, I am not into older men so it is not like it is a rule that I need to follow against my own will. My prefer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:02 PM
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Quantity and quality arent the same thing. Some men think that women enjoy having sex and hooking up with dozens of guys and that every piece of attention is warranted or desired. It is not. Most of the attention is sexual while many women rather be viewed as potential partners, not just piece of meat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:26 PM
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Well, I wont feel bad when she gets cheated on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:17 PM
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Throw the whole man away. That is not a compliment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:05 PM
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Never respond to new accounts ( especially those fresh like a day or two ) They are more likely to be trolls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:01 PM
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Wow, did this person ever studied English ? How can you use "loyal" and "unfaithful" in the same sentence to describe somebody ? It is such an oxymoron gosh. It is embarassing. Women know your worth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:15 PM
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Let's not forget that men have a tendency to overestimate their attractiveness whereas women underestimate their attractiveness. It is actually PROVEN FACT This girl would be considered a 9 in most cases, by many people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:13 PM
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bruh, I wished she said that haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:40 PM
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bruh, I wished she actually said that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:40 PM
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When I am going to date a guy, I'll make him wait a long time. I probably will make him wait until marriage to see if he really cares about my personality. I am petty enough for that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:35 PM
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Well that is scary. Going to keep my age range from 3 years younger or 3 years older as I grow up. Thanks for the reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:30 PM
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but isn't the red pill SUPPOSED TO BE HATED ? The red pill literally advocate manipulating women and using them for sex. They literally call women "plates" I am proudly hating on the red pill. The lack of awareness baffles me all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:25 PM
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I mean for many women, girth is where it is at do yes women prefet thicker in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:02 PM
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Gosh, why is he so rude ? What is wrong with him and no being drunk does not excuse being emotionally abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:58 PM
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so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:22 PM
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It isn't for the weak-minded my child. Bewareeeeee. 😭 It wont only inspire you to be single, it will also inspire you to be childfree. Just wait and see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:17 AM
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I stopped as well. The lack of common sense from these posts is killing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:05 PM
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Breaking mom scares me. This sub gives me some serious depression. I am not even in the situation but damn their life sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:41 PM
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Never date potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:42 PM
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Hum lower standards ? You mean not being used for sex than ghosted ? Yeah, the bar for men is on the floor at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:42 PM
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She is totally right. Some married women mock single or divorced women just because they are still married. They forget that they get gaslighted, cheated on or emotionally abused which isn't cute or worth envying at all. But they put so much value in a marital status that even if the marriage is on the verge of failling, they settle for mysery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:35 PM
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And he has the audacity to post that on social media ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 06:31 PM
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That is why I dont like guys, because of men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:43 PM
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Thank you for your detailed explanation. I found it interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:17 PM
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hum, is it a negatibe or positive reaction ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 03:47 AM
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Heck nah. Dating a 16 year old at 18 for me feels soo wrong. Now if I am 30 and he is 28, I wont feel weird as we would be both over 25 and both of our brains should be biologically fully developed by then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:12 PM
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Yeah, I know. I am 18 and would only go up to 19 because even 20, 21 feels too much for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:06 PM
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In general, I would say within 1 to 5 years maximum. Statistically over 5 years can affect relationships ( yes, the bigger the age gap the shorter the relationship ) Usually the perfect gap according to studies in just one year. Edit : under 20, 1 to 2 years as we are still going through the growing phase. Although, they are both minors a 12 year old dating a 16 year old is icky. The same way a 12 year old dating a 8 year old is disturbing. See, how they are all minors but all are in different s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:55 PM
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Care to explain ? I am genuinely interested. I thought that what was said was 50/50. It depends on the man, like it depends on the women. I would agree however that men leave quicker but tend to come back as their options are drier than the average woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:25 PM
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I hate when women dont see their worth and step down as such a low level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:19 PM
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That is exactly what I think. If I were their ex, I would be glad that the trash took itself out and wouldnt take them back. I dont beg for crumbs of attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:54 PM
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Very true. I agree with your opinion. However, it is true that men leave quicker but have a tendency to come back when they realized that theur options are slim or cant find any better than their last ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:29 PM
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Exactly. I want a child free partner like me in the future but I always get the : "but what if he wants kids?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:55 PM
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I date for both. I cant totally disregard looks. However, personality is indeed very important and matters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:15 PM
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About the children, same thing happened to me. I announced to my family that there is a 80% probability that I wont desire having kids. My dad responded : "what if your husband wants kids?" I replied : "ok and ? What does he have to do with me not willing to alter my whole body to have a kid ?" Why is everything has to be according to a man ? I wont have kids and choose somebody who shares the same idea. If he changes his minds, I leave him. I wont compromise just to make a man happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:13 PM
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I checked his name, yeah very attractive dude, much more attractive than the average guy. I mean that is why I said most of the time, the boys I find attractive are mostly on social media where their appearance matters a lot thus why they are much more attractive than average.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:24 PM
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Always value actions more than words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 04:06 PM
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Yeah, it is just an image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:03 PM
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I would say 50 to 60 percent now as social dynamics between men and women are changing now. As more women are making their own money and getting high paying jobs, they focus a bit less on money and status as the sole reason to pair up but also looks. Teen boys and young men are more and more insecure than before and depression related to body image and social media are all time high because now they are facing physical expectations that they cant attain. Have you guys seen how young lean attract…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:58 PM
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I found men less attractive even before FDS. They are attractive on insta or tik tok ( some ) but the ones in real life dress poorly or dont take care of their appearance. It was never new to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:11 PM
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How is this article even allowed ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:07 PM
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How can you be 32 and have such a childish username ? "have options" right.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:43 AM
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Totally agree on that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 01:39 AM
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I am not victim blaming her. She said they have been dating for 6 years right ? But how didnt she know he wasn't a scumbag. Was be pretending to be a good man and then switched ? Or she was ignoring blatant red flags It is confusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:11 PM
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Sexual assault is so normalized in relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:25 PM
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This is sad. Very sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:04 PM
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He is not bringing anything to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:54 PM
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"I love him to death" proceeds to describe a useless lazy man child that adds absolutely nothing to her life. I am sorry but what is there to love about him ? She literally listed all of his flaws so what made her fall in love ? I am confused how can some women settle for men like this. Everyone in thr comments under that post don't understand how she has been with this guy for 4 years already. Everybody agrees that she is NTA and wonder when is she going to dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:31 PM
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7,117 languages are spoken today and still somehow this persom decided to speak FACTS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:08 PM
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its okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:04 PM
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If you need to stop having sex with a man in order to get "respect" from him, sometimes is very VERY WRONG The fact that she needs to hse sex as a mean to be heard is disturbing. She needs to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:02 PM
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bruh hahah that is creative 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:56 PM
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Can I receive a link ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 08:47 PM
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The vicious cycle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:22 PM
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I love how so many women in the comments are simply disaggreeing hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:30 PM
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Thanks. I will take your advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 02:23 AM
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Yeah totally agree. Just going to focus on being succesful and making bank haha. Relationships dont interest me anyways. I still enjoy this sub because it helps with personal growth. When I'll start dating probably early mid twenties, I know what to expect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:00 PM
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So personally, I am single by choice and desire to focus more on building a future and a succesful career. FDS has helped me as it confirmed that having or being in a relationship isn't the most important thing tied to a woman. It also confirms that many relationships aren't worth it. Being single brings peace, enables personal growth and self-love. I am glad that I am surrounded by like-minded women that won't gaslight me because I am questioning a guy's behavior that is normalized in society b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:25 PM
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Yeah, I still prefer meeting people in real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:20 PM
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oh I'll never date a guy in his mid to late twenties at 18. That is not the problem. I still rather date guys my age. However, I am not willing to commit at this age either. I am more into my education, building a career and my projects. I was just asking as I grow older myself ( mid twenties-late twenties ), would online dating be worth it ? I have a hard time connecting with people through a screen so maybe not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:11 PM
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They live in their parents' basement ? That is embarassing dang.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:58 PM
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Yeah I know. That is why I am not really into dating right now because although I am physically attracted to guys my age, many aren't relationshios material. I am not even ready to commit myself. Also, I am not willing to date guys older than me or in other age groups as I am not attracted to them physically or emotionally. Therefore, I guess I'll have to wait a few years before dating. I am more into my education and hobbies so that is not an issue. hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:56 PM
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Is online dating even worth it ? I am 18 and honestly could not date online. I feel like at this point, it will be a disaster. Plus the emotional drain from texting multiple guys kinda discourages me. I never online dated or opened a dating account but I feel like it isn't worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:41 PM
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It happens way too often. I often hear about situations like that happening where the guy opens the relationship thinking he'll be surrounded by super atttactive girls. However, reality is much different..It seems like many women disagree at first out of jealousy then accepts to make their partner "happy", they start meeting other men or women or both and start enjoying the perks of hooking up with people which comes as ease. When the guy realized that he isn't getting any options to hookup wher…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:09 PM
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I live for this kind of petty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:05 PM
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I just wanted to give more context haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:45 PM
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I dont like sounding mean but this man is really old and unnattractive. I can't believe he thinks a woman is willing to pay 250$ rent to be friends with benefits with that old guy. Many women could have sex with much younger guys, by young I mean 3 to 4 decades younger than this guy ( I think he is probably 60 ) for free. He looks scary and a bit mentally unstable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:35 PM
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This is why I only believe in actions. I dont trust men who claim to be feminists. I need to see it in their actions. Also, you treating women with basic human decency is not going attract me to your bed because if a guy thinks it will, he isn't a feminist in the first place. I usually check a guy's intentions and see if he does not expect me to bow down, have sex or be his gf just for claiming to be a feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:22 PM
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Red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:22 PM
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So he wants an insecure girl ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:20 PM
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CONGRATSSSSS GIRLLLLLLL. MAKE SURE HE TREATS ( OR SHE )YOU WELL. 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:51 PM
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As a 18 year old girl. I find 18 years old guys hotter as well. I am not dating any guy over 30 either no thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 03:22 PM
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I know rightttt ? I have seen so many stories like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 11:34 PM
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Many people suspect that this video is a whole act. But if not, that is embarassing. VERY EMBARASSING. Why would you propose to ANYBODY after 10 days of dating. This screams desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:17 PM
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good girl. Get yourself a fine man If women are expected to be beautiful and desirable, so should men. I have no shame about it and you should not either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:46 PM
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The bar is on the floor. Christtt hahaha. Even my dad who isn't the most progressive man, would never want me to date a man offering me less than this. A challenge ? Even my dad argued with me to never pay for a date. NEVER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:40 PM
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I guess the handsome guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:27 PM
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Yes some ugly men can be sweethearts but it does not mean that some of them can't be resentful and bitter jerks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:14 PM
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I was about to say the same thing. I still rather still date guys my age. I am 18 years old and many older men are literal creeps. Older men oversexualizing barely legal girls is even worse to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:54 PM
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Is that supposed to be some sort of challenge ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:19 PM
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Very interesting. Actually the myth that is widely circulated as truth for me is that going with a unattractive guy will guarantee loyalty in the relationship because him being ugly means he is more humbled and had more time developping his personality to have a good heart. Also, women thinking going for a unattractive guy or at least a less good looking one will reduce the percentage of them cheating. Thus, many would avoid dating a good looking guy because they'll automatically believe that si…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:18 PM
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I am really disgusted by this guy's post. Men like this are the reasons why I dont befriend them in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:46 PM
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Wait, aren't they known to be a toxic relationship ? Why in the heck would I want that ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:00 PM
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attract* courting women is a thing attracting them though 👀 is another thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:58 AM
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As you should
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:53 AM
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I agree one hundred percent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:39 AM
7

Some thoughts have to be kept inside the brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:37 AM
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Honey, I am so sorry. Just a reminder, women like Beyonce, Marilyn monroe, Elizabeth Taylor ( literal beauty goddesses ) got cheated on. You aren't the problem a cheater will cheat no matter what. Remember cheating did not happen because the woman lacked something but because the man's character was flawed. I know for sure, I will have no shame and won't hesitate to destroy this guy's self esteem and ego if that had happened to me. I am too petty for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:36 AM
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Oh wow. Never got cheated on but hey I could always use this to destroy his ego in the future
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:32 AM
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Maybe both. I wouldn't be surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:54 PM
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I was confused as well too in the beginning By societal standards did he mean, he is so ugly because he does not take care of himself thus can't find anybody ? Or Of course, today raping anybody regardless of gender, in this case, women, is severely frowned upon and punished by the law. Thus, maybe he meant he is frustrated that he can't sexually abuse or do anything sexual to a woman without her consent which makes him upset for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:52 PM
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I wonder if getting easily aroused just by seeing an attractive woman isn't more about social conditioning than biology.. I mean it is a social stereotype that women can't be very sexually stimulated, at least not as much as men. However, I get visually stimulated easily but also turned off very easily visually if I am not attracted to somebody and I am not a man. However, I NEVER had the desire to sexually assault, rape a man or even kiss a man without his consent. C'mom. Some men need to do be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:16 PM
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That is something that I never understood from men though. As a woman, I can say I am very visual and get arouse visually quite easily within the right context. However, when I see attractive guys in the streets, I dont feel anything sexual. I admire their beauty and move on. So what can't men apply the same thing and leave women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:01 PM
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Women can get sex anytime. Men can't. Feminists dare talk about male privilege /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:20 PM
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I swear some of them are exposing themselves as potential sexual assaulters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:10 PM
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How can you sexualize a hairstyle ? A HAIRSTYLE ? I always find pigtails cool and cute especially with curly or kinky hair. Some men really need to stop oversexualzing everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 07:00 PM
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Lana Del Rey is very creative and makes amazing music but she is not really a model in terms of relationships. I am not going to lie. Some lyrics are very questionable and unhealthy. So I dont listen to her as often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:55 PM
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Wow that would have been a red flag in the first place. He would have not been able to get the "ex" status since I would not have dated him at all. It he can lie on something as obvious height. What else can't he do. I hate starting on bad foundations Thank gosh he is an ex now sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 06:46 PM
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I still think they dont understand that the vagina is a muscle that can literally expand 200% its actual size when aroused and still come back to its original form. So no Kyle, not even a 8 inch pe ** s is going to affect a vagina. You genital does hold that much power sit down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:52 PM
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Yep. Received dms hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:36 AM
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Why do you have to spare him ? If he told you he was with bigger and/or curvier girls before. I dont see why you couldn't tell him 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:29 PM
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Smart counterargument
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 09:18 PM
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Also, some men are afraid that women with experience can tell apart between good sx and bad sx which pushes her current boyfriend/husband to put into work. Men are competitive and compare themselves to each other. This can make them insecure since they tied their value to sex or how good they perform or their body count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 08:30 PM
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Honestly such a beautiful woman who has been desired even decades after her death. It did not stop her partners from cheating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:58 PM
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What ? Is this even scientifical ? It makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:56 PM
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Age and looks matter to me. Age is actually one of the first things I take into account actually. I dont see myself with somebody 3+ older than me. Looks are also something that I take into account. I have a certain type : _young tall guy, fit ( I love sports ) _takes care of his hair and skin ( I am into skincare and potencially want to become a board certified dermatologist ) _dark curly hair
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:48 PM
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I totally agree with this. That is why I said it is a choice. Love is more than just an emotion. It is a commitment, a daily promise that you make towards your partner. People need to know that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:16 PM
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Yeah it makes me very uncomfortable. I am in my late teens and dont even see myself dating a guy in his early twenties. I dont even pay attention to old men, they dont really exist to me or quite invisible. Middle aged men can be very persistent and creepy and I am very wary of that. Thus, I make them feel invisible or ignore them. If they stare at me, I stare at them back with annoyance and disgust or show them how creeped out I am. They usually are taken aback as if it hurt their ego. Sir, you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:30 PM
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Beyonce has been cheated on. Literally a woman that many men have been fantasizing for years. Elizabeth Taylor, one of the most beautiful actresses of her time, got cheated on. Many models have been cheated although they literally work to be beautfiful. You can be the most beautiful, the kindest, the most devoted partner, if a man wants to cheat, he will cheat. People need to stop the whole statement "try keeping your man through sex, food, affection, etc..." There is nothing you can do to keep …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:02 PM
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And what if I simply do not want to do it. I understand that men rarely get complimented and receiving positive remarks can boost comfidence regardless of gender. But men sometimes take compliments way too far. I can't compliment a guy's shirt or shoes that he already wants to ask me out the week later. As soon as you compliment a guy, he switches on you and starts having more sexual intentions which sucks What do they expect ? Plus I dont want to randomly compliment a stranger. they are enough …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:50 PM
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Yeah sure we all know men are known to be commited and supportive partners in marriage /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:06 PM
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Wow that would have been an instant red flag that would cost our relationship. For me a man that is invested and pays attention to details is very very important to me. Being invested and always putting effort in every thing he does in a relationship is a must. I am the type of person who gives a lot when I love ( any type of relationship ) so for me it is expected. Just for that I would break it off. What makes her think, that he'll be any different when obstacles arrive in the marriage ? When …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:42 AM
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Because as soon as you reject them, they dont have such a "woke" atttitde
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:38 AM
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I won't praise him because what he said is basic human decency but he isn't wrong. We can't normalise men for being faithful, being clean, taking care of themselves, being invested fathers if we glorify it. I personally don't. When a guy tries to self-praise implicitely by proving how much he respects women as human beings or would never assault a woman or is faithful to his gf. I always have a "as you should" attitude. Nope you arent going to be praised for something that is expected, that shou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:37 AM
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Yeah they always complain about women "divorcing ra*ing" them but they also won't check the reasons behind it either. Not all divorces are bad. Some women divorce their husbands because of abuse, infidelity, lack of money management or financial abuse ( financial power dynamics ) amd more. Should a woman stay in a situation just to please a person who does not care about her ? I think not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 10:29 AM
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I just saw that one today 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:13 PM
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I have been raised under christian values and dressing "provocatively" isn't something I usually do. I have been sexualized even with a tom boy style. Baggy shirt, baggy pants with a bonnet and no makeup. That is bullcrap. I still get sexualized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:54 PM
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Great tip. I will use it next time 🤔. I usually dont laugh out of awkwardness. I just stay silent and stare with annoyance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 11:38 PM
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I am in my late teens. I am not sexually experienced and I dont take pride or neither am ashamed of it. I am quite neutral. Unfortunately, men make a big deal about it so I never talk about it. It is none of their business. A guy once asked me if I was a virgin and I said yes. He replied "You dont look like a virgin, NOT with a body looking like this." What is that supposed to mean ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:05 PM
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I want to avoid toxic people as much as possible. My mental health depends on it. Maybe I will attract toxic people without wanting it but they definitely won't stay in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:58 AM
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