Straight for a man's thoughts.

slythergin23 · 2020-12-02T16:45:23+00:00

i mean, yes. these statements however never take into consideration that the guys we can apparently all easily get are mostly pretty disgusting. i'm sorry i have to put it like that, but it's the truth.

lack of hygiene, not taking care of themselves, excess alcohol, drugs, unacceptable living conditions (like literally living with mold and trash and shit), misogyny, sexism, racism... the list goes on and fucking on.

and then they whine about us being "picky". like no, i just want someone who matches what i'm doing for myself. get lost.

Sage_Planter · 2020-12-02T17:14:49+00:00

I am so sick of Reddit's constant argument about who has it "harder" in dating.

Both genders experience difficulties in dating, and the whole modern dating scene is a farce. For the most part, comparing a man's and a woman's experience is like comparing apples to antelopes. Men often say it's harder for them because "women get so many matches," and that equals success to them.

All that said, dating is SO MUCH riskier for women. I'd take "I only get a few matches" over "this man could rape and kill me" any day.

honeybeeroll · 2020-12-02T17:18:45+00:00

Funny how the entirety of male reddit (and many men otherwise) thinks this, BUT NOT ONCE does it occur to them to think "if it's so easy for girls to get guys, then what does that say about men's standards?" Only ONCE did I speak to a man on reddit who recognized that the only standard most men have is "she's a woman," and they'll date any woman, usually because he wants a sustainable source of sex, but also maybe he's lonely, or cuz he likes the idea of having a gf and the status it brings him, etc. These guys talk a big game about how their perfect girl has gotta be so hot and and whatever, but men are men, they'd die without pussy lol so they'll fuck and date any willing woman.

It is SO CRUCIAL for women to accept that most men are like this, and that a guy giving you attention and being into you does not mean he actually likes YOU. This is also why women asking men out/making a first move anytime usually ends badly for women. Most men have no standards, so they'll take whatever women are offering, even if they're not all that into you.

And yes, many women don't have standards either, for various reasons, but usually it's not because they want to get laid. Usually it's because women are lonely, afraid of being alone, and feel they're a failure if they don't have a man.

cinnamonketchup · 2020-12-02T17:31:48+00:00

It's harder for guys to get pussy than for girls to get dick is what he meant. But then again, dick is abundant and low value. I don't know about him, but I'd much rather have all the social and physiological benefits that males do and have fewer desperate weirdos trying to get a sniff of my cooch.

2020-12-02T20:43:29+00:00

That is because 99% of straight men are desperate and will fuck anything with a pulse

Misswinter69 · 2020-12-02T19:17:39+00:00

Yep easier for us to get guys... But they ain't the ones we want 😂

ItsFreezen · 2020-12-02T18:59:47+00:00

Gee Scrote, just put the effort in. You know try harder. But that's penis privilege for you.

2020-12-02T17:24:21+00:00

Shall we discuss why this is?

Lawl.

2020-12-03T07:08:04+00:00

It’s because most men only want sex, and because women get sex easier than men, they think men have a harder time dating. What they don’t think about is that most women want LOVE. Not just sex, but actual love, and because most men are selfish and heartless, women have much harder time dating than men. For them, having sex once with their date is a success. For us, being used for sex once and then getting ghosted is the opposite of success.

AyemHerself · 2020-12-02T20:56:23+00:00

Good.

fireforestfairy · 2020-12-03T05:45:21+00:00

They're projecting their own sexual desires onto women. Some LVM are willing to fuck/date anyone who wants them as they're that desperate. They think women are the same. While it's true that it's easier for a girl to get laid if she has zero standards, most women are not like that. Even pickmeishas would rather stay single than date/fuck some creepy guy with poor hygiene.

Title	Straight for a man's thoughts.
Author	Responsible_Exit_315
Upvotes	215
Comments	25
Date	December 2, 2020 4:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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