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That must be part of the anger phase.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/14 01:14 AM
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So my question, how have you guys dealt with your neediness when you are in sexual scarcity ? I jack my dick, pursue my goals, and recognize that there are billions more out there. If she unhappy with me or i'm unhappy with her than she can be replaced with someone else. Learn to be content without them, the take it or leave it attitude is important. Secondly, are all women all the time trying to test us to see if we are needy ? With shit tests women are testing how strong your character is. The…
/r/askTRP15/04/14 01:31 AM
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"Why does it matter?"
/r/askTRP14/04/14 11:37 PM
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She "accidentally" flirting a lot with him and told me and how her friends told her not to tell me but she wanted to anyways Assume it's a shit test. She also said that she'll "try to contain herself around other guys to so nothing happens." If she values you enough she won't have to try. Be aware that this kind of behavior could occur again in the future and drop her if she ever "Accidentally flirts" Again.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 11:30 PM
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If your getting what you desire out of your relationship with this girl than there isn't a problem.
/r/askTRP14/04/14 01:37 PM
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The question is do you want to pursue other women?
/r/seduction12/04/14 12:32 PM
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That's the hallmark of the feminine mindset though: taking everything personally Solipsism.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 06:53 PM
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. You will find no shortage of women show up here claiming to be a unicorn princess totally worthy of marriage and completely trustworthy. I don't see why they would feel the need to pipe in unless they took it personally. Which makes it seems like a projection more than anything.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 04:57 PM
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"Lol hey! I just got off work. That sounds fine. just let me know when you finish and we can meet up." Than later on " Oh shit! I totally thought you texted me for plans tomorrow. Just reread the texts." Doesn't quite add up.
/r/askTRP03/04/14 12:15 PM
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I like to do nice things for people because I genuinely enjoy doing the right thing. I've learned to draw the line when my kindness comes from a place of weakness and not strength.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:30 PM
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How would you help him? I would be empathetic towards him as a friend and give him advice and support when it's needed. Keep in mind all the advice in the world won't make a difference until he's willing to accept it. You can show him the door but he has to be the one to walk through it. Sometimes lessons are learned the hard way and some lessons are best learned the hard way.
/r/askTRP23/03/14 08:28 PM
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A large portion of The Red Pill is Self Improvement. You wanna start implementing TRP into your life ? Than start taking the steps necessary to improve your current state of mind.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 10:44 PM
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Part of being a man is being able to own up to your mistakes. Apologize when an apology is due but make sure an apology is really warranted don't hand out apologies like breath mints. If people lose respect for you because you apologize when an apology is due than they didn't have much respect for you to begin with.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 10:31 PM
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Ask yourself if you would be apologizing if this was a guy you had no interest in.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 10:00 PM
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Post wall they want commitment so selfies and pictures of them and their girlfriends at the bar aren't going to attract the kind of men looking for LTR material.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 07:30 PM
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Asked her out twice, first to a movie second to a cafe. Rejected me both times, first time not interested in the movie and second time saying she's busy. She's not into you, don't waste your time pursuing someone who won't even make time for you. she still replies to my Facebook chats Her talking to you on Facebook doesn't mean anything women like to talk i'm sure your one of many. I could and can do things better. You can make things better by nexting her and pursuing other women.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 04:28 PM
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From my understanding you can't control what your attracted to and that this was determined at birth. A baby has yet to be conditioned about anything therefore blue pill concepts aren't ingrained until they older and by than sexuality has been already determined. If i'm wrong i'd like an explanation as to why i'm wrong so I can correct myself.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 11:32 AM
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She might be following the universal policy of 'Don't shit where you eat', and avoiding a fling that could potentially be detrimental to her job in the future, hence the wishy washy answer that avoids the confrontation a direct NO might have caused. Irregardless of if i'm right you'd be smart to pick up that policy yourself, if things go sour you can't predict the outcome it might have on your work environment and often times it's not worth the risk.
/r/askTRP22/03/14 10:59 AM
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Really ask yourself if it's about the sex or being with her because from what i'm reading you just want to get laid. Asking her out because you feel like that's the only way she will put out and not because you genuinely want to be in a relationship with her is hiding your true intentions. As a man you should be honest about your intentions instead of misleading people and doing things you wouldn't do otherwise to get your way. If you only want her for sex than silent next her in case she turns …
/r/askTRP21/03/14 09:18 PM
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Biggie Smalls- Big Poppa
/r/seduction21/03/14 06:23 PM
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What i'm saying is the context of your relationship with one another matters. You can't go from having a platonic friendship than one day bringing up a dream you had where you both had sex and expect her to start fantasizing about you that's not how it works.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 05:58 PM
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I'm asking myself, should you tell a woman that you had a dirty sex-dream whereas she appeared in? If your relationship isn't already sexual this could come off as tad bit creepy and backfire on you. Does it start any kind of fantasizing in her mind? Only if she's attracted to you and you have a sexual relationship with one another already.
/r/askTRP21/03/14 05:32 PM
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Its probably a coincidence people do that sometimes it doesn't sound like something you should take offense to.
/r/askTRP20/03/14 08:50 PM
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'm being too generous in giving her the opportunity to act like a stable person. You are. She's acting in a way that you don't like and your still giving her your presence and attention when you should have frozeout completely till she realized that your not going to tolerate certain behaviors and that if she wants you around she's going to have to act appropriately. And also if she's just a fwb why are you investing so much energy into what she thinks or how she acts ? If she acts distant or in…
/r/askTRP20/03/14 05:04 PM
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Because what women think they want and what they are actually attracted to are generally two different things.
/r/askTRP19/03/14 11:42 PM
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And is there a better way to respond than what I say? Brush it off and just make a joke out of it don't take them seriously. Deep down whether they realize it they probably like the thought of man that can actually defend himself it makes them feel safer being around you and people talking about it legitimizes your power so it ups you status and ultimately their attraction to you. If your not coming off as a scary asshole this should only work in your favor.
/r/askTRP19/03/14 11:18 PM
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they think a date is some performance they have to put on to impress the girl. Fuck that. A date should be fun for the both of you. Great point.
/r/seduction19/03/14 01:20 AM
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The boys at RSD would like to have a word with you
/r/seduction19/03/14 01:09 AM
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Ignore her she blew you off several times. She's lost her chance your to busy cooking for the girl down the street you nexted her for after the last time she blew you off.
/r/askTRP17/03/14 05:11 PM
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Don't try to change your desires that's basically denying yourself of something you like out of fear of how others will perceive you. That's not alpha. You can be submissive in bed and still be the alpha of the relationship. What makes you alpha is that you have boundaries that you enforce when the time comes. Your still in control of what happens your even in control of her being in control of you in bed you decide whether or not she dominates you and you can take it away.
/r/askTRP17/03/14 05:07 PM
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Your over thinking it your situation doesn't apply to what I was talking about at all. I'm referring to instances where the guy has been rejected and the women claims she has a lower value than him to justify why they can't be together.
/r/seduction16/03/14 03:26 AM
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Taxi mate
/r/seduction15/03/14 08:23 PM
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The only time I've heard this was from a female friends who basically told me I didn't have enough frame to maintain attraction and put up with her other friends shit tests I was "Too nice of a guy". I would either get pulled around or completely turned down but the final result would always be against my favor. Often times "your to good" is just a nice way to turn you down. It would slap a women's ego to admit that you are better than her and disqualify herself so she would never say that direc…
/r/seduction15/03/14 08:06 PM
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Do it man. It's not easy but you have to value yourself more than her. If having her around is anything short of awesome than she's only bringing the quality of your life down. She lost the privilege of having you when you two broke up staying around is selling yourself short without a return.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 04:41 AM
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Maybe feminism was a subconscious way for women to weed out guys who don't fit the cut so they could go after the guys with the best genes. I mean if it's in their nature to desire the guys who exhibit Alpha behaviors because they tend to possess good genes than maybe feminism was just a sexual strategy for women to breed better and they didn't even realize it.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 03:44 AM
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Your perfectly fine man don't worry about it. I made this post so I could get some feedback on dealing with these kind of situations. You had a very good point and I appreciate your feedback. Brofist
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 01:46 PM
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you should fucking cut contact, don't send any message, it will only bring drama to the whole thing. I just ignored her when she responded deleting the message. But you have a point I should have just cut contact without a word
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:17 PM
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Yin and Yang Fantastic explanation you clarified a lot for me I never thought to look at it like that in regards to people and relationships or even the red pill vs the blue pill.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:59 AM
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Like attracts like. I really like what you had say but how does the term opposites attract fall into the scheme of things?
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:30 AM
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But there's little reason to actually completely tell her off when she might move back to town and jump into your lap later. If the circumstances where different I might agree But shes more toxic than good shed only hamper my development as a person if I kept her around.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 12:18 AM
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i assume this was post-TRP. Correct indeed. It's because I found the red pill that I was able to form the conclusion that her contacting me was a petty way to get something out of me. I needed seasoned red pillers to reconfirm my suspicions because frankly she's still a fresh wound and emotions tend to cloud judgement. I consider this a valuable learning experience that just solidifies what I have learned so far.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 07:32 PM
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Why not just ignore the call?
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:38 PM
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you did lose already by feeding her need for attention A mistake I won't make again Thanks for your feedback and I am proud. It was good learning experience.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 06:00 PM
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YOU LOSE. Nope I win I cut contact and I'm the prize not her. Go lift and go meet more women. Already on it cheif!
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 04:37 PM
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I'm thinking I understand enough to realize her real intention. But some reassurance is nice when it's harder to be objective about a situation that hits home.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 01:10 PM
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I cut contact She doesn't have any value to add to my life. She sent me some messages trying to sway me claiming her love but I just ignored them. It's easier to ignore when you realize it doesn't come from the right place. She might think she feels that way but her actions don't align.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 01:07 PM
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Thanks for your feedback Pre-redpill I would have stuck around but this time I saw through it. I'm still in the process of incorporating the red pill into my actions so some reassurance from more seasoned redpillers was important.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 01:02 PM
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That's exactly what I thought. Here I've been self improving, and trying to get over her and she's already downgraded to the next guy no effort at all. That alone made it seem apparent that her intention to contact me was for her benefit alone.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 12:58 PM
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Women want validation. That's what I was thinking There really is no other benefit to talking to me other than to have me listen to her problems and boost her ego when she's down.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:25 AM
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I wouldn't say it was a death stare, I was more/less processing the "well It's not interesting to me" line. I was kind of caught off guard and I genuinely wasn't really interested in her and didn't care if she found it To her it might have been. She doesn't know you well enough to be able to tell your intention behind the stare and you weren't too friendly to begin with so all that's left is for her to conclude that the stare wasn't a good thing especially when you broke the silence with agreein…
/r/askTRP12/03/14 10:35 PM
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I felt like a fucking pussy at how I handled her. I didn't insult her or show anger. I just sat in silence, because of this, I still have a lot of anger towards her. Nope you handled it like a man. You didn't stick around after she did this you cut her off completely giving her no emotional feedback for her to feed off of. You handled it right. I've not yet been able to figure out a way to get rid of this. It's been bothering me a month and a half later. I just want to go up to her and tell her …
/r/askTRP12/03/14 06:33 PM
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her: "you're so quiet back there come here were blowing up baloons" She had an interest in you and wanted you to spend time with the group so she could too. You blew her off entirely when she was trying to talk to you than basically shot her a death stare. Shes either: really set back by the rejection Intimidated of you
/r/askTRP12/03/14 06:24 PM
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If she has a desire to see you she will make sure she gets to see you. That's why I usually do a 3 strikes your out deal. The first time you give her the benefit of the doubt. The second time you silent next and than sometime later if you want you can ask her out a third time just for fucks sake. Regardless of whether or not it is a shit test acting like it's not a big deal always works to your benefit.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 05:09 PM
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How can I change this? Honestly its probably going to be hard for you to change your reputation. If your known as 'that guy' your immediately going to draw in the girls who are just looking of hook ups while repelling the girls who want more than that. Your not a loss though, it really doesn't matter what other people think when a girl can't help her attraction to you so just do what you normally do but this time around keep your dick in your pants. If you really care about the girl than exhibit…
/r/seduction12/03/14 05:01 PM
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She rescheduled plans last week if she flakes this time thats two times in a row for a failed meetup. If she really wanted to see you she would. The idea behind going cold and seeing if she hits you up is that it show that you don't have time for people who don't make a mutual effort to see you. If you never hear from her again than so be it she wasn't that interested anyways and you saved precious time.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:48 PM
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You should only be talking to her when your making plans to meet up with her. It seems like she wants the benefits of a relationship without the actual commitment which explains why she likes to tell you about her problems and personal life. Personally I wouldn't put up with it. Like she said your only hooking up hooking up doesn't entail being her emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:36 PM
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Shoot her a text days in advance reconfirming plans. If she makes up an excuse be cool about it but go cold and see if she hits you up asking to get together.
/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:31 PM
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So my question, is if I should ditch him to make myself better off? If I were you I would pull him aside and have a bro talk. Be straight up with him and explain to him that the way he's acting isn't appropriate and that you value the friendship but he's making it unbearable to hang out with him. I had the same situation with a friend who one day I got fed up and told him he needed to check himself and that hanging around isn't fun anymore and that he was starting to draw negative attention to m…
/r/askTRP12/03/14 04:27 PM
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Your right rationalizing it away as something else without being totally honest with yourself is practically going two steps back in progress. I've learned to look at it like a win-learn. It doesn't matter whether or not I succeed i'm always gonna walk away with experience and knowledge that will help me improve my game for next time.
/r/seduction12/03/14 03:34 PM
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Honesty is the best policy the quicker she knows the better.
/r/seduction12/03/14 03:03 PM
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What should my next moves be and how should I act in order for her to quit the bullshit? First off you have to ask yourself if this girl is worth the arguments and frustration she's bringing in to your life. She's stirring the pot and bragging about it to her friends is this someone worth being with? Moving forward every time she starts a lame argument I would go cold, don't feed into don't respond just walk away and leave her to her thoughts completely shut her out. She's used to you arguing an…
/r/askTRP12/03/14 03:13 AM
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Ask yourself, "could I still trust this girl as anything more than friends, or would there be doubt?" The better question is what's going to change in the future that's going to make her all of a sudden be attracted to me? There is absolutely nothing wrong with being friends with a girl if all you want is friendship. The problem with the friend zone for most guys is you've allowed yourself to devote your time in effort into a girl that isn't attracted to you expecting her to change her feelings …
/r/seduction11/03/14 10:59 PM
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Never be clingy or needy always have a proper balance of Alpha behaviors and Beta behaviors. You want to show you care and that she can be comfortable around you but make it clear that you still have boundaries and that certain things will not fly.
/r/seduction11/03/14 10:48 PM
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In the mean time my stupid fucking beta brain develops some kind of feelings for her, even though we barely knew eachother. First off don't be so hard on yourself. It's okay to feel how you feel just don't let it dictate your choices. Remember you just met her so although in your mind you really like her the truth is you really like the image of her you've built in your mind. Now, what next... I don't plan on trying anything with this girl anymore, but we'll definitely see each other, and I'm no…
/r/seduction11/03/14 10:42 PM
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Fish oil aswell
/r/seduction08/03/14 08:41 PM
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Regardless of what happens your better off than you were. This will be a new experience to learn from. Best of luck mate have fun!
/r/seduction08/03/14 03:09 PM
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if I'm not interested in a woman I don't have the fear or anxiety or my ego on the line. Rather than walk away from these women I'm going to use the interactions to practice and make mistakes, so that when I do meet that one that impresses me I won't be a giant puddle. Golden advice
/r/seduction08/03/14 06:24 AM
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its your repsonsibility to make the conversation interesting. I'm never sure what to bring up without seeming nosey or whatever. How do I make the conversation interesting? Do I bring up more thoughtful discussions Such as the ford model of discussion?
/r/seduction07/03/14 05:31 PM
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Thanks for the advice, can you explain your reasoning behind this?
/r/seduction06/02/14 03:50 AM
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You didn't say anything I didn't already know and admit to. If I thought it was her job I wouldn't be posting this asking for advice. My issue as I already stated is that I don't have anything to say, my question was how can i work with or improve my quite nature. So let me ask you this should I just put myself out there, and keep trying till I get used to conversating with people?
/r/seduction06/02/14 03:48 AM
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That's an excellent way to look at it, I couldn't agree more.
/r/seduction30/01/14 03:20 PM
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