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[–]Pit_Sweat 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Ultimately you just gotta bite the bullet, unfortunately. There are always little things you can do such as approaching men and less attractive girls to get you "warmed up," but an approach is an approach, there's no way around it.
EDIT: Here's another way of looking at things. People make the analogy of biting the bullet or jumping in ice water for an approach. But the approach itself isn't unpleasant and I think you'll see that. It's fun to meet new people. The unpleasantness is created by you and only you, in your own mind.
[–]SwagToDaHuneys[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Do you think having a few drinks beforehand would be helpful or should I just do it sober?
[–]Pit_Sweat 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
A couple drinks will sometimes help. But don't get overly intoxicated
[–]blastncruise 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
And don't use it as a crutch. If you start to believe that you can only approach when drunk then that could lead to an even worse problem.
[–]SillyAmerican 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
try Caffeine+Theanine. Its called the peoples stack. its been reported to help with approach anxiety.
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[–]SwagToDaHuneys[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It wasn't even about hotness, I couldn't talk to any girl. I think it's more about interaction with strangers in general, with which i figure i should get more accustomed, but I don't really know how.
[–]TrinityBay 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This is a free 8 week, step-by-step program. Enjoy
[–]scenny 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Most people are usually receptive to meet someone new. If it doesn't seem to be going well, you can just say nice to meet you, and go find someone else to talk to.
[–]bl1y[M] 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Your submission was removed because there are already good posts out there discussing approach anxiety. Try reading them.
[–]SwordfshII 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
L-theanine is good for an anxiety. Give it a shot
[–]NobodygoingNowhere 0 points1 point2 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Fish oil aswell
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