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I'm sorry 🫂
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/26 04:57 PM
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and also only for men so i dont know what you mean? I only found out I was a trans woman in my 20s so when I turned 18 I had to register for the draft just like any other man.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/26 04:44 PM
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well, you can still be hard working even without being a provider. think of a dad who is always taking care of his children or a priest who took a vow of poverty and is always caring for the sick and the needy. making little to no money is very different from being a parasite.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/26 04:26 PM
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Perhaps I should've restricted myself to Brazil only as here rape laws aren't gendered and the military draft is a bit of a joke (tho it scared the hell out of me when I had to do it).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/26 04:22 PM
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I agree with you. A good example of female privilege is how women tend to be seen as more trustworthy/less dangerous which especially useful for people who want to work with kids. However, I think that in the western world being a woman is a worse deal than being a man in general/aggregate because the advantages of being a woman only manifest in rare situations (e.g. working with children or early dating) or when you have a privileged background (e.g. having parents who paid for your education a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/26 12:48 PM
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Autistic ace/demi enby trans girl here. I broadly agree with you. Also, being a man isn't that great, especially when you have the debuffs I had. I unfortunately can't comment much on race as I'm the default race for where I live. As for people dividing everyone into oppressor and oppressed, I am reminded of this clip from Yes Minister: Bernard: Shouldn't [people] have the facts? Sir Humphrey: Of course not! They don't want them. Facts complicate things. All the press, people and their elected l…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/02/26 12:37 PM
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I didn't stick around long enough to check that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/24 07:42 PM
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Yep, they treat me better as a woman, despite being non-passing. However I have more experience with online interactions which change the dynamics a bit. One of the weirdest things that happened is that once a mod didn't want to let me in a uni feminism group but immediately changed their mind when I said I was transfem. The weird part is that said mod was transmasc. He and a few others just had this foxed idea that "when it comes to feminism cis men have to just shut up" which is something I ne…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/24 06:12 AM
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trans girl here. I felt this kind of issue both before and after my transition. In my experience it boils down to "woke people" (especially the humanities folks) having a large amount of knowledge and social experiences that most autistic men never had. Unfortunately all of that is a bit like culture in the sense that most people really struggle to explain that in detail to others in part because they are often triggered. And without a decent explanation most autistic people will never truly acc…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/24 10:48 PM
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Trans girl here. I too suffered with that. It's awful!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 05:19 AM
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Trans girl here. It seems like this guy is desperate for social status and acceptance and he is under the mistaken belief that oppressing others will grant him the place he wants on the social hierarchy. I would first try to gather info from him. Pretend to be interested in the media he is consuming and write down names of the content creators he is watching. Then look into these people and try to find "debunking" or critique videos that expose the problems in their content. Finally go for a dir…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 12:58 PM
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Transfeminist here. I feel that societal expectations are contradictory for both men and women. Overall, the biggest issue for me an autistic trans woman is the consent to begin conversations/relationships that involve intimacy. This is why I feel like dating apps are my only choice. I just cannot read people well enough and I sorta grew up in between cultures so I have a really hard judging what's appropriate when approaching strangers. On the issue of domination, the trick is to only exert pow…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/23 06:21 AM
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I've heard two explanations for it over the years: 1) Anti sodomy laws were originally anti-rape laws and this was supposedly evidenced by the fact that most prosecutions were against a single defendant. (I have never checked if this is true or not tho) 2) Ancient societies often times only considered something to be sex if it involved penile penetration. I.e. they didn't see lesbian sex as sex and thus it couldn't be "unnatural sex" (sodomy).
/r/MensRights25/08/23 04:46 PM
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Brazilian transfem here: mandatory military service registration. The problem isn't really the registration or the oath but the risk that you will be sent to a full year of military service against your will in fucking peace time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/23 12:21 PM
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The perpetrator was a trans man. "According to The Tennessean, Hale was a trans man who used male pronouns.[23] A police spokesperson said Hale was assigned female at birth,[24] but had listed male pronouns on a LinkedIn profile." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/2023_Covenant_School_shooting#:~:text=According%20to%20The%20Tennessean%2C%20Hale%20was%20a%20trans%20man%20who%20used%20male%20pronouns.%5B23%5D%20A%20police%20spokesperson%20said%20Hale%20was%20assigned%20female%20at%20birth%2C%5B24%5D%2…
/r/MensRights28/03/23 10:45 AM
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It's tricky because different people understand the word "traditional" differently. I tend to picture a well-educated late Victorian gentleman who earns most of the money and technically leads the household but doesn't micromanage, and who doesn't ignore his emotional side or his personal care (as in trimming body hair, showering frequently, being well dressed, etc.). This is very far from our current typical masculinity as today we say that men shouldn't cry, accept that men are shit at persona…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/03/23 04:03 AM
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Transfem here. I notice and it's bad. The real trouble is that many people want to categorise men between safe and unsafe and anything that deviates from the cishet ideal is seen as a sign of "safety". I'm very much not exempt to this. Also, because we see masculinity as a dangerous or toxic thing, we tend to see any "safe man" as less masculine. Almost like a "light man".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/22 12:51 AM
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Basically anything that is somewhat outside the house (e.g. barbecuing, yardwork, etc.) or that has to do with the structure of the "house" itself (e.g. construction, wiring, assembling furniture, fixing machinery, etc.).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/09/22 07:40 PM
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It's expensive (on a national scale) It can be considered a privacy invasion If any institution holds the samples instead of just the results, that DNA could be duplicated and used to falsely accuse someone of commiting a crime
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/09/22 12:47 PM
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Even of your value was only in reproduction (which it isn't), you could still do a lot of good by being a grandmother. You might want to read this article: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Grandmother_hypothesis
/r/ExRedPill01/09/22 11:23 PM
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Only in places that are deeply homophobic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/22 09:09 AM
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Because the point of rape laws was to protect a pater familias's property. Because raped men/boys didn't "decrease in value" after being raped, there was no reason to pass laws against that under the same label as rape against women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/22 08:25 AM
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I'm transfem but when I still identified as man I suffered a lot of bullying. Does that count?
/r/ExRedPill27/07/22 12:26 PM
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Thanks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/22 12:00 AM
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Autist here. We can read social signs but it's hard and requires deliberate effort. It's like trying to read "between the lines" of a difficult poem in a literature class.
/r/ExRedPill20/07/22 11:18 PM
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I think you should add the meaning of OCR right at the top of the post as I immediately thought of Optical Character Recognition.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/22 11:03 PM
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Oh. No. This is just a joke.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/22 04:34 PM
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What trademark? I think you are talking to the wrong person.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/07/22 04:07 PM
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I think I got it now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/22 08:47 PM
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A prestablished signal whose utterance orders the immediate stop of the current activity and inquiry on the well being of who uttered it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/22 07:34 PM
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Fair point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/22 01:17 PM
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The word safeword was within a kink context.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/22 05:42 AM
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Not really. It's more a way to say you are disgusted by something that happened due to a man. A better example of hate speech would be kill all men.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 12:11 PM
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No
/r/MensRights09/07/22 06:07 AM
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Got it.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 05:37 AM
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Yes. But I can't read your mind so I have you a hypothesis for you to check.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 03:18 AM
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Well... You can always experiment with your gender. You might be a femboy, a trans woman or somewhere in between. Also, see r/egg_irl.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 02:33 AM
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When a space is segregated, it's easy to dehumanize those not present without consequence. It's incredibly tempting to mistake the sinner for the sin because people tend to personify just about anything. (e.g. cartoon characters and ancient gods that represented forces of nature)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/07/22 02:20 AM
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I think this tendency is more cultural than inate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/07/22 10:50 AM
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None that I am aware of.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/07/22 01:02 AM
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Not less than girls but less than a generation ago. I think this is true because of how the childhood of my peers differed from that of my parents. They have way more stories about playing in the open with thwir colleagues than I and my peers do. It seems we lock up children far too much in school and at home. Whatever time of play they have seem much more an exception rather than a rule.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/22 08:23 PM
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It's hard for me to speak on behalf of men since I've generally lacked social skills and potentially have social anxiety but it didn't really bother me until puberty. Then it did hit hard. Similar deal here :( Could you elaborate on lack of unstructured play? I've never heard of it. A wealth of research shows that unstructured play — play that isn’t organized or directed by adults or older peers and that generally doesn’t have a defined purpose or outcome — is a fundamental necessity for childre…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/22 09:10 PM
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Probably homelessness.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/22 08:40 PM
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I had this thought multiple times. I wonder if places that make prostitution illegal have higher rates of female violent crime.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/22 07:39 PM
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I think that it is more a problem of your environment. Most women tend to be between cordial to fond of men with the expectation being apparently caused mostly by trauma with bad men.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 06:50 PM
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Trans men can get pregnant.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 12:38 AM
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So sorority/sisterhood is a lie?
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:18 PM
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Part of the movement definitely has a anti-cismale bigotry. However, the growing presence of trans men is showing to more female liberals and feminists that men aren't that well and that constant misandric jokes harm people, specially closeted trans men.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 02:35 AM
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Liberals generally don't make promises that are intended to hurt vulnerable people. Liberals are generally too "feminist" for angry men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/06/22 02:25 AM
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I agree. But I would further add that kids really need frequent unstructured play time, the lack of which seems to me to be at the core of many issues men face.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/22 11:14 PM
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It's a messy situation. I agree.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/22 08:56 PM
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Because what the conservatives promise all align to what they feel pain. No more immigrants -> less competition for jobs Feminist is bad -> more women who need a man -> easier time getting married No more affirmative action -> less job competition for white folks
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/22 08:33 PM
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All these influences are a part of the problem but shame doesn't automatically turn into hate.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/22 02:38 PM
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They seem to be a product of strong sexism and deliberate invitation of hate probably for political motives (i.e. angry men tend to vote conservative).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/22 04:19 AM
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Yes and no. The "light incels" are partially the results of the forces you described but the hateful ones are a more complicated beast.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/06/22 03:30 AM
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Perhaps it's a shower vs grower differences? The only non sexual contexts in which I even heard of erections happening were: During hangings. Morning wood. (i.e. after sleeping) Randomly during early puberty.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/06/22 09:07 AM
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all boys from birth can have erections, I didn't know that and I'm AMAB. I thought erections only start becoming possible around puberty.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/06/22 10:22 PM
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"false accusations don't ruin lives". Tell that to the people who spent years in jail for crimes they didn't commit.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 07:27 PM
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I’m actually astonished how many feminists are still unironically supporting Heard. Sunk cost fallacy is very real
/r/MensRights02/06/22 07:23 PM
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Well... She said many popular games were sexist (e.g. emphasizing only female butts) and that their marketing was even more sexist (e.g. using female protagonist voice in a horney tone simply to tell consumers that the game was ready to order or pickup). I think most of her criticisms were valid but she came across as that angry feminist who understands nothing about gaming even though she spoke very calmly in her videos.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/22 09:07 PM
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One big offense was they she took Kickstarter money for her videogame criticisms videos and then "stole" gaming footage for her videos. (and as far as I can remember she neither created the original gamers nor got a license from them) That's a short funny video that shows how gamers see her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/05/22 09:04 PM
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While there's some transphobia here, I don't see any misandry. Also, the case seems to be mostly about domestic abuse with the protestic penis being more a detail rather than the central focus. "Tarjit Singh, who was born as Hannah Walters, presented himself as a man, wore men's clothing and used a man's name. He tricked three innocent women into believing he was male and when questioned, he violently attacked them and intimidated them into continuing relationships. When the victims began to ask…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/05/22 03:42 AM
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"The ideal Athenian woman did not go out in public or interact with men she was not related to, though this ideology of seclusion would only have been practical in wealthy families. In most households, women were needed to carry out tasks such as going to the market and drawing water, which required taking time outside the house where interactions with men were possible." https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_in_Classical_Athens#:~:text=The%20ideal%20Athenian,men%20were%20possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/22 02:09 PM
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I was talking about freedom of movement within one's own city.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/22 01:26 PM
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My guess is that this comes from how restricted women's freedom of movement were. If a group spends most of their time at home, it's both hard and somewhat irrelevant to criminalize their actions. (hard because there will be few if any witnesses)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/22 10:36 AM
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I'm reluctant on classifying this as misandry as it seems more like a typical case of police being sadistic jerks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/22 10:29 AM
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Thanks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/22 05:59 PM
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Good points.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/22 03:48 PM
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virgin shaming and bullying Good point. killing emmett till What?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/22 03:13 PM
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Good point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/05/22 03:11 PM
1

Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:41 PM
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Besides church, sometimes women just see things from another angle as well. You didn’t bring this up in your post but, for instance, the temperance movement in the US which led into prohibition was led by women. Their main arguments were that alcohol led to psychical abuse and the men spending all their money and leaving their families in poverty. Fair point. I knew about it but didn't realize the connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:38 PM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:37 PM
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Makes sense. So the sjw girl got a similar stereotype because they too often have free-ish time as they are mostly students? There's still the question of why so few moralistic male sjws but I guess that's because social and humanities degrees have mostly women as students.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:35 PM
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Yes, the leadership is male, but enforcement and lower ranks seem to be mostly female.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 01:29 PM
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I think part of the problem might be because most men don't have the emotional support structure necessary for dealing with the push backs. Also many might be too traumatized to become activists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/22 09:16 PM
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Lower life expectancy in the general population but not in monasteries suggesting that the difference is mainly social, not biological.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/22 04:28 AM
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Interesting point.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/22 11:30 PM
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Probably foreigners and felons.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/22 11:30 PM
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I got my memory a bit screwed up and she doesn't use the word misandry but does criticize other feminists for how they see men. Feminists’ past privileging of femaleness over femininity has also enabled misogynistic acts that target men who have feminine traits to remain unnoticed and unarticulated. For example, when a gay man ridicules another gay man for being too “flamboyant” or “effeminate,” he may be accused of harboring “internalized homophobia”—a nonsensical turn of phrase to describe som…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/22 06:25 AM
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Julia Serano, a feminist transwoman, wrote in 2001 about how feminists don't accept that misandry exists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/22 04:18 AM
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left out of the equation higher expectations aka positive stereotypes That's a big point. Even black people complain of positive stereotypes being used like “I thought you were going to beat me in a race, you are black and blacks are fast “ … what you are pushing is for both genders being treated the same, not better necessarily. Asians being good at math might be a more well known example.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/22 05:07 PM
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I disagree with most quota systems but "light" affirmative action such as directed marketing are fine in my book. Also, the mensplaining and manterrupting problems seem to be far older than gender quotas.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/22 03:23 PM
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There's some privilege in being considered qualified for being a man. This is most often noticed in the tendency for men to be less interrupted than women and the tendency of women to be explained the very basics of her field.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/04/22 03:18 PM
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I have never heard of an "Uncle's Barbeque" Perhaps this isn't that common outside of Brazil. The vice president of the United States of America. I pretty much only complainints about her, mainly for being a "cop" (actually she was a prosecutor).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:28 PM
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Makes sense. I think we really need to come up with some better terminology for sjw¹ issues. ¹ Yes, male issues are SJW stuff in my book.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:18 PM
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Yes. I already knew of some of these problems and already expected some negativity. But I expected people to actually focus on the masculinity vs male part instead of the privilege part.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:08 PM
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No person in a position of power is celebrated for masculinity. Apparently you have never been to an "uncle's barbecue" in which he proclaims how good it is that his favourite politician is manly. there are feminine people in positions of power. Plenty. And they are celebrated for the fact that they are feminine. Do you have examples? I'm really out of depth here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:06 PM
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Really? The experiences I and my friends had points to parents being far more controlling of girls than boys.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:04 PM
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Do you mean circumcision? I think thay cosmetic surgeries should be banned for kids. And non-necessary genital surgery should be restricted to people over 18 (or whatever the adulthood age is in the place in question).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:03 PM
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Can't believe you mentioned the pay-gap! Each country has a different situation.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:02 PM
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Many custumer facing jobs, including restaurant server, require makeup for women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:01 PM
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Fair points.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 02:00 PM
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they are much more likely to be incarcerated, to be shot by the police, to be a victim of violent crime, to be homeless, to commit suicide, and to die on the job or in combat than women. Furthermore, they have a shorter life expectancy and are less likely to be college educated That's some pretty serious stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 01:59 PM
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Favour dialogue over decision. Attempts to lead as a "mother" of "young kids". Pays more attention to how things make people feel than the practical effects of those things.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 01:56 PM
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Thanks! That's a lot of interesting stuff.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 01:55 PM
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It's important to remember that privilege also has a legal meaning. For example: attorney-client privilege.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/22 12:03 AM
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Pretty much no person in a position of power today appears and behaves feminine. It's always masculine or neutral.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/22 11:59 PM
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Yes, but in physical labour jobs if a woman gets turned down it’s because of size and muscularity. She could make the case that she got discriminated because she is a woman. That doesn’t make it true tho. While men are stronger on average, there are many women who are stronger than many more men. Also experience and technique is often more important than raw strength. Also in babysitting jobs, a male can be turned down because he doesn’t look trustworthy for some reason Masculine men are usually…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/22 09:02 PM
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See my other comments in this post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/22 09:00 PM
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Being considered a lower risk in security screening.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/22 09:00 PM
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Makes sone sense but being "traditionally masculine" is often a status symbol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/22 08:58 PM
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Being seen as more confidant and capable. Lower risk of sexual assault. No strong expectation of being very well dressed and wearing makeup. Making more money for the same work in many places. (yes, exceptions do exist) More stuff was designed with men in mind, e.g. seatbelts, crash dummies, laws, clothing numbering standards, medical studies, etc. Lower amounts of parental control while growing up. That's not to say men don't have serious problems. In fact, some of the worse seem to be: - Lower…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/22 08:58 PM
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I think understand what you're question is about. You're trying to determine if male privilege is really systemic, I think that "male privilege" is indeed systemic but I don't think the cause is more the expectations we place on masculinity rather than the male status itself. I'm currently inclined to disagree with both interpretations. The idea that men are systemically privileged is leftwing misandrist propaganda. The idea that men are privileged because they do things differently to earn them…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/22 08:47 PM
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I don’t know a single boss that hires solely because you are a male. There are so many different types of males these days that hiring based on it would be just bad for business. I think that such a boss would be really rare. However, refusing to hire someone just because of their gender is somewhat more common. Example: refusing men for babysitting positions. Refusing women for hard labor construction work. That is, hiring because of gender amidst never happes but refusing to hire because of ge…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/22 08:41 PM
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Women's should be included as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/03/22 04:09 PM
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War, Epidemics and Natural Disasters.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/22 02:22 AM
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I disagree. Conscription is a valid tool to be used in cases of extreme emergencies.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/22 05:26 PM
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Same. The exception should be for caretakers regardless of gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/03/22 05:25 PM
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I think it already is in some jurisdictions but proving this crime is even worse than proving rape.
/r/MensRights21/02/22 03:01 AM
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I don't think it is such a good comparison as the percentage of the people who pay child support is far lower than the percentage of people who pay student loans. Also, students loans are taken in the hopes of earning more money in the future. Nobody today has kids as an investment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/02/22 02:58 AM
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I don't think the patriarchy was created by some evil men ages ago, but rather it gradually evolved overtime as men prioritized themselves over women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 08:20 PM
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Makes sense. I'll delete it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/02/22 11:48 PM
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Sex and gender are intrinsically linked, except in cases of true gender dysphoria (a condition for which someone must be diagnosed by a mental health professional, as per the DSM-5). At least, far more linked than some people on the left are trying to claim right now. We must be careful to err on the side of science. Right now, though, there's a bit of "feels > reals" going on. Also, being trans likely has a large genetic component ao it may be more accurate to say that gender determination is h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/22 07:20 PM
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It would make far more sense to mark cooperatives with special icons or labels like "worker-owned".
/r/MensRights02/02/22 08:15 PM
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The most attractive men don't need dating apps in order to get sex. Women spend far more time and money taking care of their appearance.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 10:06 PM
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I'm Brazil they already are if I recall correctly. And transwomen who transition before 18 are exempt from even registering. https://antrabrasil.org/2018/11/14/abglt-lanca-guia-de-orientacao-sobre-o-alistamento-militar-para-pessoas-trans/
/r/MensRights27/01/22 08:16 PM
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Yes. I'm of the opinion that in the modern world, femininity and masculinity should be mostly fashion styles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 07:58 PM
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Masculinity becomes toxic when it is defended regardless of the costs. Being a straight man is okay, but trying to assert your straightness all the time or at the cost of your respect to queer people is toxic. Positive masculinity is when a traditional masculine style is used or embodied without harming oneself or others. (e.g. the stereotypical father who is a provider and leader of his family but that listen and considers others opinions and that doesn't turn his leadership into a dictatorship…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 06:39 PM
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but it's absolutely insane to me how not only do all of the feminist principles fly out the window when it's a man that's victimized, but the healthcare system thinks that behavior is tolerable. This is a serious problem. My guess is that it comes from a mix of weak male activism (remmeber how bad suffragettes were treated) and a desire in many feminists and Marxists to divide the world between oppressors and opressed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 06:24 PM
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Why? As a dude I wish there were more male only spaces where I live. I think it is fine to make male focused spaces that almost no women would want to visit, but I think it is wrong to make it an absolute requirement. The reverse also exists, but ofc virtually nobody gives a fuck. Yes. And if we open an exception for women it should be open for men as well.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 06:20 PM
3

I wonder if I can make a religion that demands social integration and start filling lawsuits to priest against their lawsuits.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 05:30 PM
5

As a transgirl I think most single-sex/single-gender spaces should be abolished. I'm fine however with some sex segregation in "sub spaces". For example: a nudist gym reserves one floor for men and one for women. Or a social club has a "husband's section" and a "wife's section". It's still not great, but I can live with that. One case I'm a bit more unsure about is therapists and therapy groups. Some women get incredibly traumatized by make abusers that they start panicking just by being close t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/22 05:29 PM
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Why would any women oppose this? Some may consider it a government overreach.
/r/MensRights12/01/22 06:45 AM
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I think that segregation can at best give a short term benefit at a major long term cost. The only kind of gender segregation that I think can work in schools is a partial one. Examples: Segregation only in some classes, e.g. physical education. Segregation only in some days of the week. I still think it would be better to have comissioners in change of defending the interests of different kinds of students, e.g. a comissioner for boys, one for blacks, one for disabled students, etc.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/01/22 08:32 AM
3

That I would support. But it seems more likely that they would go to fascism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/22 12:14 AM
2

Men generally aren't the bottleneck in human reproduction. Yes, but most women don't want to single mothers and polygyny is still not rare in the West.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/22 10:00 PM
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I think that the rise of incels¹ is a political threat to the State. To many young disgruntled young men almost always end up in trouble and very often bloodshed. Additionally, a rise incels increases the downwards trend of birth rates which poses a very problematic threat to our economies that are based on assumptions of growth and poses a very direct threat to our retirement systems. ¹ I'm not including involuntary celibates who, despite wanting sex, don't really care about their condition.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/22 08:38 AM
3

I thought the same thing (Im not Indian though) but can't they say "raped" or raped* or something else that uses the word rape with a disclaimer/qualification?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/01/22 01:30 AM
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You need to add a backwards slash \ before the asterisk * to avoid italicizing your text. So replace n*gger with n\*gger.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/22 05:00 AM
2

I didn't say it should always be applied.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/01/22 04:58 AM
1

asexual? they need sex advice? The term asexual also includes demisexuals who do feel sexual attraction but only after having an emotional connection. Why is everyone so terrified of writing to the 90%? Because: We want to get as much support as we can. Getting the queer crowd onboard will give the project some legitimacy and protection against accusations of bigotry in the writers. Being inclusive allows schools and other institutions to more easily adopt the manual as an import text. The suppo…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/01/22 12:44 AM
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I'm of the opinion that the golden rule should be a fallback for when the platinum rule cannot be applied. Platinum rule: treat others as they want to be treated.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/12/21 06:30 PM
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It's not about waiting for women, but trying to get them to support the project and its prescriptions, mainly by asking their opinion before publication so as to minimize any potential social media chaos.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/21 05:18 AM
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Is your claim that never happens? No. My claim is that most of the time a woman looks like she is dressing provocatively, she is actually dressing comfortable. There are a few exceptions, specially in clubs and parties. As for the air conditioning part, there are a few issues at play: Women's clothes being generally thinner. Social pressure to not dress to conservatively as it can make you look older. Differences in metabolism. Differences in fat placement due to hormones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/12/21 12:14 AM
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Good points.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 01:41 AM
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A woman makes an effort to be sexually provocative I highly disagree with that. Many women wear short or revealing clothes simply because of the weather and not because they want to sexually provoke others.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/12/21 12:46 AM
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Brazil has a similar thing but it is merely out of tradition.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 04:06 PM
5

Some of those right-wingers might just be social democrats without free healthcare or some weird theocratic-leaning folks but I have no clue. Or maybe they are just future leftists.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/21 05:55 AM
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I wish there was a male-only political party that I could be a part of and support. This sounds incredibly dangerous and potentially unconstitutional in many countries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/21 05:53 AM
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I want to see how it applies to trans people, specially before HRT. If it matches their gender identity, we've found good evidence that trans people don't become trans, they are born trans. (This seems to be the most common hypothesis among trans people but I don't know how true it is.)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/21 02:37 PM
2

What's the source for those numbers? I can't share it in my college groups without some "intelectual backing".
/r/MensRights19/11/21 09:25 PM
3

The part about men not rapping their daughters worries me a bit as the fact that they wrote a rule about it suggests me it was not that uncommon for men to claim that it is okay to have forced sex with then as "it's my daughter my rules". However, better have a rule against it than have it legal.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/21 12:03 AM
2

The name feminism is controversial in Portuguese and Spanish speaking countries as its translation, feminismo, sounds a lot like machismo which means male chauvisim.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/21 08:04 PM
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My take as a transgirl: don't aim to fit your gender and don't try to define what it means to be a "true" man or women. Instead, try to be a good person and let yourself "fall" into whatever gender or style best fits you. For example: I want to have a very feminine body (I wish I could get pregnant) and don't really mind being "forced" into what womanhood entails so I call myself a women instead of a man or an enby. If you really want a male role, I suggest being the protector and provider who d…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/11/21 04:13 PM
2

This could a bit like The Prince by Machiavelli: a manual for how to do harm that is widely published as a warning on how harm is done.
/r/MensRights10/11/21 05:16 AM
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For some feminists, yeah, they probably would.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/11/21 01:30 AM
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The name feminism is limiting. At best they can include feminine people (like femboys and some enbies) but never men. Many people on the left seem to have this idea that the oppressors can't be oppressed, at least on the same trait. For example: many leftists would agree that poor men are oppressed according to class and oppressors by gender but it seems hard for many of them to accept that men can be both oppressors and oppressed by gender.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/11/21 09:49 AM
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You made some interesting points.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/21 07:36 PM
0

I don't think it is a matter of disposability but of danger. Women and kids often get a pass on creepy behaviour because they aren't that dangerous as most violent crimes are committed by men between adolescence and young adulthood. It is still wrong to let women get a pass on touch without consent but it is understandable why the reactions are do different.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/21 01:52 PM
2

Interestingly, all the anecdotes of men being drugged at parties that I have heard were related to organ harvesting. I don't think that it is common, but it goes to show how men and women are often seen as very different when they are victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/21 06:24 PM
3

Fraternities¹ are basically a group of college males who live together usually in a house separate from the dormitories. The trouble is their party culture that favors frequent sex and drinking over safety and body autonomy this leading to numerous cases of rape and other sexual violations such as groping and non consensual recordings. To add insult to injury, they often have humiliating initiation rituals that encourage loyalty to the group at the cost of the well being of others. Some have bee…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/10/21 06:20 PM
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It would be amazingly funny if a TERF was expelled from a women's restroom for "looking trans" while a trans women was inside.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/21 09:22 PM
0

More rights for women Less gendered expectations
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/21 07:11 PM
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Feminism isn't a lie and we still have a patriarchy but the process of "deconstructing" it is a difficult and "bumpy" one.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/10/21 03:47 AM
1

I want to make sure she doesn't feel pressured to answer one way or the other. By handing it in writing, she is free to take her time to decide and doesn't feel the urgency of a normal social encounter.
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:57 AM
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I would give her a note with your name and phone number and maybe some thing like "I noticed you keep looking at me. Do you wanna hang out someday?"
/r/seduction01/09/21 08:21 PM
2

Sometimes people want attention and sometimes people don't any interaction. If I treat them by both with common courtesy, I will probably let down the second group and annoy the first.
/r/MensRights29/08/21 06:56 PM
1

Merely asking how a person wants to be treated can be impolite and even considered harassment.
/r/MensRights29/08/21 06:21 PM
1

The system is not intended to stop rapists, it is meant to stop misunderstood and unwelcome attention.
/r/MensRights29/08/21 06:15 PM
1

Why?
/r/MensRights29/08/21 06:12 PM
1

Yes they seriously do and in part that's because of how broad the definition of rape can be. Example: in Brazil, rape does not require any physical touch or proximity, only libidinous activity through force or severe threat. A notable case was a guy who order a 10-year old boy to produce nude pictures by threatening to release the previous nude pics. He was convicted of rape and the media nicknamed the crime as "estupro virtual" (virtual rape). https://g1.globo.com/rs/rio-grande-do-sul/noticia/2…
/r/MensRights21/08/21 08:39 PM
1

Maybe you can claim that circumcision is a violation of God's work.
/r/MensRights20/07/21 12:16 PM
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This is more of a courtesy and politeness thing.
/r/MensRights02/07/21 03:55 AM
1

I would say it is more like: the king > the elite > the capacity to reproduce > the capacity to wage war > the capacity to work Basically, rulers would only protect women when it suited them. For example: they may protect women from war but let bride kidnapping happen without lifting a single finger.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 04:04 AM
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I didn't know.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 12:33 AM
0

In a sense, yes but people have a duty to not reinforce the patriarchy. E.g. not tell men to "men up" when they are having emotional distress.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 12:29 AM
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I disagree. It was for the benefit of rulers (i.e. fathers of the land) and they only portected women because it was advantageous: more women mean more people to fight in wars.
/r/MensRights30/06/21 12:27 AM
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I always thought humanity as a whole was patriarchical.
/r/MensRights29/06/21 12:31 PM
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I think it is more of consequences of the patriarchical idea that men active and women are passive.
/r/MensRights29/06/21 09:18 AM
3

I now read it and it's way worse than I imagined.
/r/MensRights20/04/21 06:26 PM
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Depending on the jurisdiction, having sex with someone as young as 14 is perfectly legal. (E.g. Brazil)
/r/MensRights20/04/21 04:23 PM
1

http://g1.globo.com/ma/maranhao/noticia/2015/07/de-biquini-estudantes-protestam-contra-normas-de-conduta-na-ufma.html In Brazil there seems to be little in terms of official dresscodes for public universities. (But most people will never wear bathing suits outside of protests and maybe schools on costal cities)
/r/MensRights19/04/21 05:52 PM
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Nudity is not necessarily porn.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 09:07 PM
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It am saying it could be a mistranslation.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 01:14 PM
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It is common in some languages and places to use the masculine as a sort of "neutral gender". In Portuguese, for example, the pronoun they can be either elas if you are talking only about women or eles if you are talking about a group that has at least one man.
/r/MensRights15/03/20 09:29 AM
0

The idea of minority has more to do with power than numbers. For example: blacks in Brazil are 50.8% of the population, but only 4% of congresspeople are blacks.
/r/MensRights09/03/20 03:22 PM
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