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The problem is that you're throwing yourself at her, practically. You clearly nodded in the direction of a relationship, whereas she was just getting out of one and clearly not looking for anything serious at the moment. That's why she told you to 'chill out' when you texted her you wanted to kiss her, and what eventually led to her thinking she doesn't have the time or patience for this right now! She's just not looking for a new relationship, so fast after the previous one. My tips to you; kee…
/r/seduction07/05/15 11:56 AM
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What is that? Can you elaborate?
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:54 PM
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That's along the lines of what I said to her. I said: I don't think I can give you what you are looking for at the moment, and I think it's best if we break it off now, because I don't want to hurt you. She then asked me why I suddenly 'knew' I didn't want a relationship now, just after we had sex 2 days ago. So I told her; I knew that all along, I have told you that from the beginning, and only after the sex did she begin to ask me questions in that direction...
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:44 PM
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Personally, I don't like all this manipulating and over-analizing everything. Just tell her the truth? Why did you choose her. Something must have attracted you to her. It may be her eyes, long blonde hair, long legs, her smile. Just tell her what made you come over to her in the first place, and don't treat that question like a shit test. It can be an opportunity to build rapport with her. Make her feel like you're genuinely attracted is always better than coming up with some bullshit and makes…
/r/seduction29/04/15 08:29 PM
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This hits the nail on the head. I have never had to struggle through school, everything came easy to me and I was always one of the 'cool' kids. I tried playing piano, I've got talent for that, and it comes fairly easy, but it still takes a lot of practice and determination. I didn't have the perseverance to continue practicing, (although I'm about to pick it up again). Same goes with fitness, (when gains take a long time, I get demotivated), guitar, seduction / dating... One question left is; i…
/r/seduction03/12/14 07:53 AM
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This subreddit is not devoted to giving out advice on how to get 'that one specific girl'. It's about self improvement and pickup skills to get girls in general. There is a special sub for asking advice about specific situations, but I can't remember, someone else will probably reply that. That being said, I'll give you my advice anyways ;) I am personally always one for honesty, and in situations like this in particular I think it's always best just to tell her. I don't know your situation spec…
/r/seduction15/10/14 04:44 PM
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I haven't finished the book yet, as I stated. But you're right... that's what I was thinking by reading it! But because I heard about it on here as a 'must read' I really thought it was a book about how good all this is and stuff... Anyways, thanks for your reaction ;)
/r/seduction02/05/14 04:59 PM
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Hmm yeah I guess I understand! Thanks!
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:58 AM
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When I started reading in this sub, there were a lot of posts, articles and tips that boosted my confidence. That's why I come here. To find video's of, for example, TED Talks about body language and stuff. I tend to remain my confidence when I regularly keep watching that stuff =P So that's why I look at these boards
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:41 AM
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You are awesome. Really believe that you are and you won't need anyone's approval or validation to feel that way. By not needing anyone else's approval you automatically come over as more alpha, and therefore getting more approval of others! It's weird how that works, huh?
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:12 AM
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I was a pretty introvert guy, too. I didn't easily talk to people I didn't know. For example, I could be walking in town with a buddy, he starts chatting with a girl he knows and I don't, and I would easily stand there waiting for the convo to end for like 10 minutes. Never introducing myself. Anyways, lurking here on this subreddit for a while I really picked up some good things to get into the right mind set. Don't give a flying fuck That's easily the most important I've learned! YOU are your …
/r/seduction01/04/14 01:14 PM
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https://www.joshsway.com/articles/view/one-itis-and-the-standard-cure Here you go bro... Read this. You have one-itis. Stop thinking that there is only "This one girl". This makes you not desirable, not attractive to her and will not help you get the girl...
/r/seduction26/03/14 08:43 PM
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I had an attitude like this for a while... But what I kept hearing was that I was turning into a smug, arrogant asshole... So how do you keep yourself from seeming arrogant? 'Cause, in my experience, girls don't like that
/r/seduction23/03/14 08:40 AM
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Haha Russel is one of my heroes! I actually went to see a show of him here in Amsterdam! Dude's a legend! Anyways, thanks for the reply
/r/seduction18/03/14 11:42 PM
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You just kinda described me 😋 minus the girls... And I don't want to take so long getting ready xD 15 to 20 mins tops haha But thanks! That guy will now be my role model xD
/r/seduction18/03/14 08:08 PM
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I don't have a squeey voice. I do got a strong, low voice. It's more.. I dunno.. I can't grow a beard / mustache to save my life, I've got very long, slim fingers, I'm pretty tall, although I am building pretty good muscles nowadays =P
/r/seduction18/03/14 06:09 PM
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I don't have flamboyant clothing or hairstyles... However, I did just get a haircut with one side of my head shaved and the hair waved to one side (like macklemore or something). But I only got positive reactions. I do work out. Like 4 times a week and I run 1 to 2 times a week. I'm beginning to see real good gains lately and I'm being complimented on it too.
/r/seduction18/03/14 06:01 PM
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I was in a similar situation... I had had a girlfriend when I was 15, and after that nothing. Until I was almost 20. It gets to you because you get the feeling you're not good enough, no one likes you and all this stumps your confidence even more, which makes it even harder to pick up girls! Confidence is key, is all I can say. When I was in your situation I was depressed, low in self esteem and didn't dare to talk to girls or anything. I started working out and started getting in better shape, …
/r/seduction17/03/14 01:42 PM
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