Hi Seddit,

I'm having an issue at the moment.

I've read up on PUA, self-improvement and a lot of other things on here, the rest of the web and in books. And I'm pleased to say it's working!

However, I am facing a small bump in the road right now. Because seemingly every girl I get involved with develops 'boyfriendly feelings' to me. Apparently I'm the perfect boyfriend type of guy.

However, in this phase of my life and with the seduction of women going quite well, I am not ready to commit myself to a relationship.

So my question to you is; how do you keep women from developing these feelings and, when they do, how you end the situation without hurting her too much.

I've tried being honest from the beginning; I tell them how my point of view is, that I'm not looking for something serious, just some flirting, and maybe even throw in the word 'fuckbuddy'. I've noticed that this works 50/50. Either the girl completely shuts down, because obviously she wants something more than that, and that's fine. The other option is the girl thinks in the beginning that she's fine with that, but as she gets to know me she develops more feelings and tries to communicate that to me, which I ignore.

After 3 instances of the latter, in which the girl blames me for 'using her' and not accepting my 'I was honest with you from the beginning' I think I need help from you. So... How do I go about this?

TL;DR -- I tell girls up front I'm not looking for anything serious, but as time goes on they all seem to develop feelings for me and I want to know how to put it to an end without hurting her too much.