| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 11 | Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer? | Notmyrulname_ | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 10:33 PM | |
| 9 | I got the numbers, but I can't seem to close | Notmyrulname_ | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 05:36 PM | |
| 9 | Open men, not women? | Notmyrulname_ | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 02:55 AM | |
| 4 | Problems with at the bar | Notmyrulname_ | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 12:30 PM | |
| 3 | Mood and Mindset: How do you influence yourself? | Notmyrulname_ | /r/seduction | 01/05/12 01:15 AM | |
| 2 | You see an attractive woman, of course she has a BF. Or does she? How many people are actually dating? I'm looking for stats here. | Notmyrulname_ | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 03:36 PM | |
| 1 | Why are you here, what are you looking for? | Notmyrulname_ | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 01:41 AM |
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| 6 | Finally started reading "Models" by Mark Manson.A quick google search of "Models Mark Manson" shows there is a free pdf version. Can anyone confirm if it is legitimate? | /r/seduction | 10/09/13 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Should I even try since I can't get it?as /u/Jaricho said, go to her place! There are a number of places that'll suffice in the heat of the moment. It's SFW, don't worry. Also, you're already ceding the fact that you could get 'to home base' anyways. Try to get that far and see what happens, don't give up before you even try. Go out there and get some women. Wouldn't the knowledge that you could've gotten laid and had to simply give her a kiss goodnight be better than keeping yourself out of the game because you already gave up? If i… | /r/seduction | 30/08/12 03:20 AM |
| 14 | 6 Things That Nice Guys Can Learn from AssholesHere it is!- No More Mr. Nice Guy | /r/seduction | 21/06/12 07:44 PM |
| 2 | You see an attractive woman, of course she has a BF. Or does she? How many people are actually dating? I'm looking for stats here.Hmm, I didn't expect this type of answer at all. I think a lot of other guys would like to know. Not everyone has a 'doesn't give a fuck' attitude yet, so I think the actual knowledge here would be helpful. I ask b/c this would be a nice little confidence booster for myself. Thinking, 'Hey, stats show that she's probably not seeing anyone, go for it!'. I see your point though. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 20/06/12 03:49 PM |
| 2 | Using Social Anxiety in My Favor as a "PUA"?As better Redditors have already said before me, AA and SA are unfavorable traits because they prevent you from doing things you might otherwise. I'm leaving out the physical attributes here b/c to me those are not holding you back. You may be able to use it to your advantage if you appear nervous and are, but you're still able to chat up people. It'd be even more impressive if you're clearly nervous, but you speak in a thoughtful manner. Perhaps this would be endearing? I think you could tell p… | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever get the feeling that you're not as good looking as you think you are?I've always wanted to...I will if you do...Nah, not really I'm too chicken shit. | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 03:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you ever get the feeling that you're not as good looking as you think you are?Upvote for use of the word dearth. The more you know! | /r/seduction | 15/06/12 03:42 AM |
| 1 | I've started experimenting with getting girls to buy me drinks.I do like the dynamic change as so much of the advice I get from girls is to buy the girl a drink...Yeah, but then you look inferior and I know a lot of girls that go out with the intent to get guys to solely buy drinks for them all night, but then ditch the poor man at bar close. And let's be honest, we're not all made of money ladies. I'd like to try this, but alas I in the AFC stage if you will. FR about this some more perhaps? | /r/seduction | 13/06/12 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Open men, not women?Thanks for the info. When approaching the mixed set, do you speak to only guys or other girls besides the target? Btw, could you link to any mixed set info you have handy? | /r/seduction | 02/05/12 03:30 AM |
| 1 | I got the numbers, but I can't seem to closeYour feedback was incredibly constructive and helpful. Thank you. The workout part I of course can improve on. I said it like that because I don't think me physically is holding me back. Body language and over thinking is definitely holding me back as well as flirting techniques. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer?They do! and don't...It was a fairly unlikely incident, but I have seen it so I thought I should include it as a caveat. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer?Nah, it's not that. I was simply speaking of how guys need those couple of drinks to loosen up before they can talk to women. You know? Also the setting (bar/clubs) kind of encourage drinking too, so if you've nothing to do...well you go grab a drink. If you don't mind me asking, have you ever felt like you've relied on alcohol to 'get loose'? | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 04:12 PM |
| 2 | Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer?I go to a catholic University...maybe it doesn't apply to most situations. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 04:04 PM |
| 1 | I got the numbers, but I can't seem to closeOh dear...that sounds like a lot of work Cicero. Now when you suggest these...I'll call them 'moves', such as encouraging her, or teasing, are you scripting from seddit (kino, escalate, etc..) or are you advocating that I should just act like my normal self? I feel that seddit is all about not being yourself sometimes, so advice is a bit confusing. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 08:01 AM |
| -1 | Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer?Are you asking as a DD? I just did this tonight as a designated driver; instead of drinking I just grabbed my buddies empty bottles, using them as props, when he was finished, making it appear that I was drinking a bit. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 07:24 AM |
| 1 | I got the numbers, but I can't seem to closeVery nice, thank you! | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 03:03 AM |
| 0 | Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer?And of course 9000+ is full on riot starting and flipping said pissed on cop car. That's another thing. How to hell is whiskey delicious to anyone? Acquired taste kinda thing? | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 03:01 AM |
| 1 | I got the numbers, but I can't seem to closeSorry, if I don't text her back soon I'll be easily forgotten so three days later she'll be like 'who' or 'meh'. So by texting her soon you'll reinforce in her mind yourself and the good time feelings she had so she is more likely to want to go out with you. That's what you were saying originally? | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 02:03 AM |
| 1 | I got the numbers, but I can't seem to closeGotcha, so by not texting the day after she's wont to forget me? Right? I've just always been conditioned that that's what 'creepers' do. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 01:30 AM |
| 3 | Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer?Obviously you're a very self-controlled individual who need not rely on anything to get what you want. Good for you. This post is for people, a lot of people, who are not as self-controlled as you are my friend. If you'd like, please shed some light on how you do things without a 'crutch' like other people might tend to do and as always, please keep things constructive. Thank you for your input. | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer?Yes! I like this idea. Knowing your drinks is very alpha, especially when you're getting stuff nobody's heard of. Oh, and it could be a great conversation starter. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 29/04/12 12:19 AM |
| 5 | Alcohol and Opening: Is it a Game killer?Hmm, if you could elaborate on that thought please? | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 11:59 PM |
| 4 | I got the numbers, but I can't seem to closeOkay, didn't think of it that way. they want to feel some kind of sparks there Sparks are exactly what have been missing for me and for them too when you put it that way. We're talking, but never connecting. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 28/04/12 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Problems with at the barSame situation for everyone. However, some people are louder, thus having an advantageous trait. This trait was strongly selected for. My friends and I left almost immediately since we couldn't have a conversation. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Problems with at the barYour name aside...you've actually done this? Has it actually worked? It would appear very alpha...or very creepy. There is a very, very fine line there. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Problems with at the barI thought about it...it would be a bit tedious. However, it might actually be closer to real life interactions for some people nowadays. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Problems with at the barKino potential was there to be sure, but you can only go so far when you keep yelling 'WHAT?!' at each other. I don't want to completely give up on these bars, as I've only been out to one once, but...I'm trying to get out of my shell a bit. I was a bit shell shocked after last night. | /r/seduction | 27/04/12 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Unexpected observations on the road to becoming alpha...9, absolutely agree with you there. Once you stop having ulterior motives for everything...well things just happen. Now if I could just start being okay with myself. It's interesting that path you took to get there, the result is almost the opposite of who you were at the beginning. | /r/seduction | 26/04/12 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for people to be flaky, or am I being taken for granted (and if so, how to get people to stop)?First: I'd say you're being too demanding. People can't predict the future, so if they have to cancel...well that's life. They're not necessarily liars. Second: If this occurs consistently, either you're paranoid and are taking offense where none was given OR they're trying to let you down easy and then make excuses to not be with you. I'm not sure how to determine this. I am actually in a similar situation myself. Who's a friend and who isn't? What I'm doing is keeping my current friends, but t… | /r/seduction | 24/04/12 05:19 AM |
| 3 | ok so now what do i do? help pleaseWhy is it that everyone refers to hooking up as making out? Making out already has its own term (i.e. making out). I'd just ask her what she wants to make things simple. | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 02:30 AM |
| 1 | On being mysterious"I never know what you're thinking!" Really? I would think this to be a bad thing. It's burned me in the past on several occasions. I've gotten feedback that I was too closed up and that they never knew what I was thinking. However, I was looking for relationships too. It worked initially, but it didn't last long... Also the smiling and not saying anything...I feel like it makes girls self-conscious rather than intrigued. I've been told it makes me appear not entirely genuine. Please, everyone, … | /r/seduction | 23/04/12 02:28 AM |
| 1 | For those who fear approach, perhaps a silent approach has already been made?Wow I was thinking the same things today! Nice post. I think the major flaw, at least for me, is that my primitive brain so efficiently blocks these PAM's that I either simply don't notice or I'm not getting any...Want to look over my shoulder for me? Also opportunities lost to create for TLA's in your post, fyi. | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 04:07 AM |
| 3 | What does Seddit think of telling the friend of a girl your interested in about your interest, knowing full well she will relay this information to the girl.This method is easy, too easy. Think about it. Did you like it when girls played the 'she likes you' game? It's very immature and confusing and you're not immature, so don't do it. Another reason is, think about how this makes the friend feel. By going up to the friend she may think initially that you're going to talk to her b/c you like her, etc..but then you start talking about her friend?! She might sabotage you and the relationship you might've had. The last scenario is unlikely, but I've se… | /r/seduction | 18/04/12 04:02 AM |
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