Today in my ponderings: I've been reading the Book of Pook this week on and off. What struck me is the Pooks emphasis on what the average person might call, 'self-centeredness'. Let me explain.

Pook emphasizes that it is not we who should be wooing, chasing women. Instead they should chase, want us. The Pooks main point, which is reiterated unto redundancy, is how we men ARE the center of the world. Rather than worshiping women, they should worship us! Woah dude, that sounds a bit 'messed'. Ok, allow me to continue.

Ok, so what is the point of this? I came to seddit to learn how to pick up women, plain and simple; I've read a lot of material- kino, negging, blah blah blah. After reading Pook I'm not so sure that's the right thing for me (Emphasis on ME). I'm not saying kino and other methods don't work, far from! To me these things, when used as seddit prescribes won't get you anywhere meaningful in life. Enough with the feelings bro! No! I shall continue.

I really came to seddit to improve my life. I knew that to improve my life I must get with women, I needed it. I still yearn for them, this is what boys do.

As a man I feel that Pook had some good points. Rather than trying to figure out how to make it with women and tailoring your soul, character, personality to meet these goals we should instead focus on what we actually want to do in life, focus on hobbies, focus on your passions.

  • Note, do not tell me your lust for women is the only thing you can do. I'm sorry if you don't have other passions in life.

I think that our obsession with women and how we worship them, how we focus all of our attention on them is incorrect. WE should instead focus on ourselves and improve ourselves. Most of us can't even think of other things do with our spare time, real things. Instead we sit and fantasize about women, women women women...What do you like to do?! What are you good at?!

How do you improve yourself? I think it begins with doing things you love to do regardless if they have a practical application. For example, I love to draw, but I never do because I'm a science major. Logically drawing is a waste of time, effort, and money when I'll never use it in my line of work. HOWEVER, I am not being true to myself.

How does this apply to women? Honestly I'm thinking on my seat here, but I think that by working on yourself the women will come to you and not just any women, but the ones that will be more compatible to you; thus you'll have to work/search less (Boom: optimal foraging theory).

Instead of wasting your time being what is dubbed here as AFC, Nice Guy, ect.. and yearning after women and doing nothing, get up and work on YOU. I see this as making the most of your time.

No you don't have to ignore women, but when you don't focus on them as much you'll be doing it right, they'll notice I'm sure- you'll be 'mysterious' oooooh.

All in all, I think some people confuse getting women with success. Hey I'll be jealous if you're getting tail more than I am (wouldn't be difficult), but I fear that by playing these shallow games with women you will stay a shallow person. I'm not trying to attack anyone here. Guys that are good at the game are good for a reason, they know who they are and are not afraid of that. It's the guys here that think getting laid or a girlfriend will change their lives, they're the ones I worry for. If you want something meaningful in life, stop living for someone else and begin to live for YOU!

  • If you can't stand to live with yourself, why would anyone else want to live with you?

Link to the Book of Pook