After reading seddit far too much, I realized that the focus was always on women. How to get women, how to make women like you, how to get women to sleep with you, etc...women.

The major problem for many guys here is that WOMEN are superior to them, or at least that's how they feel. Whether it's true or not physically/actually, the fact they believe it's true in their minds makes it true in reality.

As I was not doing homework, I was thinking of the best way to open a group. I'd heard that if there are guys in the group that you should make sure to include them in the conversation easing their doubts about you and making you appear more alpha.

However, the end goal is still the WOMEN. You're focusing on them, and I bet they know it if you're anything like I am- not smooth.

Another thing I think many men have issues with here, is that they lack confidence- especially with women, but also with men, people in general. You and I both seek to enrich our lives, but are so damn hung up on women that any opportunity is blown because we're focused on the peak, the pinnacle, the summit, the ultimate aspiration, which is getting the girl.

Along the way though you could have been making friends, they may not be your best friend in the future or you may never speak to them again, but by speaking to people you aren't afraid of (men) with whom you wouldn't talk to normally you gain something; it's called confidence, status, value, etc...

Who are the people you could've been talking to? Men! Other guys! Don't tell me you don't want more friends or that you have enough already. It's all about connections and confidence; the more friends you have the more people you meet, the more confidence you accumulate - you will also accrue higher value as you gain more friends.

So instead of talking with other guys just to get with their female friends, value what the men have to say also. By doing so you enrich everyone's lives and who doesn't want that!?

  • In long, practice on Men first (no homo), then talk to women.

  • Gain confidence first, practice on guys since there is far less to lose.

  • Also by knowing more men you'll know more women. Win Win.

  • More friends=more confidence