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2	Free on Amazon Today, "Get the Girl in 30 Days or Less: 30 Step-by-Step Missions for PUAs, Naturals, and Guys Just Like You to Attract Women and Get Dates" Fellas, this shit is Free. Take advantage. And while you're at it, message the author. Not every day Josh fucking Maverick is hanging around r/Seduction. Dude is a straight legend out of ATL for those that don't know.	/r/seduction	22/01/14 02:04 PM
2	Why Yoga will help your game Go to Core Power if it is in your city.	/r/seduction	11/09/12 07:38 PM
2	Why Yoga will help your game Great post. I taught yoga a while back, and i teach game currently. In fact, several top instructors do yoga: Sasha Daygame, Vince Kelvin, Josh Maverick ... My favorite game/yoga overlap is continual improvement. Game is a gradual process that takes experimentation and thick skin. Yoga is the same way. You progress pose by pose. Maybe you start and you can barely touch your toes, but in 6 months your hands will be on the floor, and in 2 years you'll have an unsupported handstand. In case you're …	/r/seduction	11/09/12 07:37 PM
3	What is your greatest fear that is preventing you from becoming who you want to be? Surprised to hear that no fap is best answer for this. Sexual anxiety stems from psychical as well as neurological issues. I'll let you determine which route you would like to take. Psychical: buy The Orgasmic Diet. Follow said diet religiously for 2 months at minimum. Are you in any way constipated or do you have poor circulation? If yes, contact an Ayurvedic practitioner or Naturalist ... they will provide you with a solution. Do you abuse any particular substance OR is your diet complete shit…	/r/seduction	17/08/12 09:25 PM
3	Maxim's hottest woman in the world doesn't get hit on This is absolutely true. Look at it like this: she is the top 1% of attractiveness, the normal beta male absolutely does not consider himself worthy. Fuck, most PUAs would be intimidated by her level of attractiveness. The leftover % of men with the actual confidence to flirt (like have a normal conversation) is near zero. The last three i've dated were models. All said this exact same thing: guys will stare at them for ages, but never approach.	/r/seduction	24/05/12 03:07 PM
1	[VFR]: I guess you would call this super direct verbals I would say yes. I guess it depends on your expectations. I expect that my students at least go for the number and convert on that number. That's exactly what he did. Focus on the outcome ... learn from the method.	/r/seduction	23/05/12 03:33 PM
11	Women's relationship advice: How to Spot a Pickup Artist What pickup artist orders rounds of drinks?	/r/seduction	23/05/12 12:46 AM
3	7 years after learning about the game, I am yet to talk to a girl GET A MENTOR. HAVE SOMEONE HOLD YOU ACCOUNTABLE.	/r/seduction	23/05/12 12:42 AM
3	A little trick for bad AA Agree. Except for this: "and breathe deeply for ten to fifteen seconds." Wait even five seconds and she's engaged by her friends, approached by another guy, walks into a building ... The time is now, and that means right now.	/r/seduction	23/05/12 12:41 AM
5	[FR] - Used the old "fall off the couch" trick last night. Worked better than expected. Funny. Pick her up and take to her the bedroom works as well.	/r/seduction	20/05/12 06:06 PM
3	[Challenge] I'm going to cold call 100 people To get the most out of this exercise you'll need to sexualize the conversation. This is where most guys fall flat in converting their numbers into dates. So, if you're going to practice something, practice sexual escalation.	/r/seduction	18/05/12 10:05 PM
1	Every had anything really awkward happen in set? Ya, so this just happened ... My goal is to always get as close as possible. Notice that throughout the video she slowly joins my space. Humor isn't really my style ... never has been. I prefer leading and sexualizing (you'll see this is later video). Arms cross is something i have been perfecting for a while. I use it as a mirroring device (i.e. if she's standoffish i'll cross my arms to mirror that emotion). Agree with you about the opportunity missed. Try not to shit my pants next time :)	/r/seduction	17/05/12 01:36 AM
4	Every had anything really awkward happen in set? Ya, so this just happened ... The arms crossed thing is intentional. Notice her body language when the clip starts: it's horrible. There are two types of "arms crossed" 1) i'm a scared little bitch and i need security 2)i own my space. The later allows her to move closer into my space with comfort, as she did. 1 or 2 more minutes and we would have been squared up ...	/r/seduction	16/05/12 02:09 PM
1	Every had anything really awkward happen in set? Ya, so this just happened ... lol. you're actually right. I was completely caught off guard. i could have easily diffused the situation, or at least told him to fuck off and continued. Although, there was the fact that she stared directly into the camera ... next time.	/r/seduction	16/05/12 02:07 PM
1	Every had anything really awkward happen in set? Ya, so this just happened ... yup	/r/seduction	16/05/12 02:05 PM
4	Me and conversation starting Let them break eye contact and then approach. I assume you know most of these people, so you should be giving at least the select ones "hellos" regardless of whether they look at you or not. You are a social dominant, this is your job. As for the conversation portion ... what would you like to say to them? Say that. Or, if you're looking for some generic advice: Example (men): Hey Bobby, did you see ... blah blah blah. Example (women): Hey Victoria, i just had to tell you ... blah blah blah. Sta…	/r/seduction	16/05/12 03:10 AM
1	Question on "moving chains" I'm imagining like 20 different "chains" of girls moving through the club. That would be hilarious. Just stop the set (get in front of them physically) and open as a group set. Alternatively, grab the girl being pulled (by the wrist) and tug her in the other direction. Be playful. You might try something like "where are you going ... i'm right here" (smile).	/r/seduction	16/05/12 02:53 AM
1	Are instant dates seriously this easy? My night game is a little different. My opens are more specific to the type of girl i'm talking to and the environment. So, if i'm in a club then i'll go high energy. In a local bar, something more low key. For night game i'm concentrating on one thing only: get isolated. So i'll do whatever let's me do that.	/r/seduction	09/05/12 11:14 PM
1	Are instant dates seriously this easy? exactly	/r/seduction	09/05/12 01:45 AM
2	Are instant dates seriously this easy? Only the open, transition and close were scripted ... so maybe 15 seconds in total. The rest is out of his brain.	/r/seduction	09/05/12 01:43 AM
3	Are instant dates seriously this easy? Lol. I think he was just nervous to be on camera for the first time. This was also his first set of the day which left me very impressed. Verbals, not bad, but outcome, pretty baller!	/r/seduction	09/05/12 01:19 AM
7	A question about text game. Is this normal? (More of a social value question) Like most PUA problems, this is ultimately a value issue. You have not fully defined yourself as a "connector" (i.e. the person to go to when you want to have fun). Women you have already met will almost always play nice when they see you again. Beta male or alpha male, women are brought up to be nice. Women just saying hi is totally different from looking to you for something fun. You need to create more value. Can you list 5 different ways you offer value. How about 5 different events that are…	/r/seduction	07/05/12 08:02 PM
2	It's hard to run game in a noisy bar. Any protips by bar frequenters? I can barely hear myself think over the loud ass music. 1) Develop stronger voice 2) Use more expressive body language 3) Find quite area(s) in bar -- there are always a couple 4) Use "the claw" (RSD terms for grabbing chick by the arm) 5) Go more direct	/r/seduction	07/05/12 07:55 PM
2	I got no sober game, and it sucks. Alcohol dependency is an extremely common "side effect" of becoming a PUA. The eventually fix is mix in some day game with your night game and become a more well rounded PUA. The longer fix is discover why you feel the need to drink when you are out. Do you use alcohol as a state booster, as a medication to dull the pain of rejection, or do you simply use alcohol to take yourself out of the game (i.e. form no lasting relationships)? End of the day, if it's making you feel physically ill then it'…	/r/seduction	07/05/12 07:53 PM
1	Why 1 minute is all you need: Just a reminder that you always have enough time I have a live-in student that goes there. I'm sure you're right about the slimmer pickings during the summer. But then again, it's summer and the streets provide just about all i will need. Anyhow. Message me or email me if you'd like to join. Looks like i'll be in town on Monday.	/r/seduction	04/05/12 02:29 PM
0	By request, indicators to assist in going for kiss-close. This is all body language stuff, which is mostly good. Two additions: 1) Verbal. Without going into too much detail. Get to hook point. (3-5 minutes). Achieve at least micro-isolation. Have direct body language, and strong eye contract. Catch eyes and say: "if you don't stop looking at me like that, i'll be forced to make out with you." If she stays in front of you, the kiss is imminent. 2) Inner Game. The whole concept of IOIs is fucked. The only indication of interest you need is that she's in…	/r/seduction	03/05/12 03:43 PM
3	EXTREMELY Bold openers – David X – has anyone tried this? What were the results? At some point every guys needs to push the boundaries with his openers and sexual escalation. For 1 month, i opened with 1 word only "blow jobs." It was an average month in terms of immediate success, but it created a long-lasting sense of independence from outcome and personal enjoyment. In terms of how direct the David X opens are, i give them 8 out of 10. The apocalypse opener is the end all be all of direct: You: Hey. I just saw you, had to come say hi. Her: Hi. You: What you are up to? Her:…	/r/seduction	03/05/12 02:08 PM
1	Trouble when making eye contact, low confidence She is always looking at you and checking you out. Ingrain this into your belief system: i am the man of every woman's desire. What is the alternative, you suck with women? This is a choice. Would you like to be appreciated for who you are, or shat on? The answer is obvious. Give yourself credit, where credit is deserved. At the very least, give yourself a chance. Years ago, i did a John Sinn e-book course. One of his suggestions that helped me was: write down 5 things that you are really really…	/r/seduction	03/05/12 03:40 AM
9	what do you do when your friend acts like an ass and blows you out of conversation Create. The reason people keep the asshole around is because he has some value. If you replace his value, you replace him.	/r/seduction	03/05/12 03:28 AM
1	Still a virgin at 19 I think you may have watched fight club a few too many times. No one on these boards can help you identify your desires. It sounds like you are plagued by too many choices, which translates to a lack of focus. Identify what you want out of life and then do it. If it take money, then focus and get some money. If it takes a specific type of knowledge, then surround yourself with that type of knowledge. It sounds corny, but we are the things we do most frequently. It doesn't sound like you are doin…	/r/seduction	03/05/12 01:57 AM
1	Why 1 minute is all you need: Just a reminder that you always have enough time ALWAYS GET THE NUMBER!	/r/seduction	03/05/12 01:49 AM
2	Why 1 minute is all you need: Just a reminder that you always have enough time Your campus, is one of my favorite places shoot video. I'll possibly be there again next week. Message me if you would like to join.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 02:26 PM
2	Why 1 minute is all you need: Just a reminder that you always have enough time That's a fair point. Not the next video, but the video after that will be an instant date. My conversion rate is typically between 50-75% and i'll start thinking how to show that to you guys. Flakes happen for a variety of reasons ... i'll post a video in the future on how to convert your numbers.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 02:25 PM
4	IOIs from previously friend zoned women? Simple Test. Is she kinoing you? If she is, you would be out of the friend zone. The compliance test is a good idea, but not with a friend ... assuming you would like to keep her as a friend, yes? Just keep spending time with her and other people. Do subtle esclation.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 02:21 PM
3	I'm torn between working my way out of the friendzone and just saying "Fuck it" and moving on. Any advice? It seems you are lacking abundance. Any other women in your life? My advice to any up-and-coming PUA is expand your social network. You're giving her too much attention and she's noticed. Go out, make some new friends, create an event, bring everyone together, and invite her. Then, she's have a reason to chase you. She'll be drowning in your value.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 03:38 AM
1	Open men, not women? You say practice on friends (no homo). I would actually say game everyone, always. One of the better things i did for my game when first starting pickup was hit the game club. Kind of like the movie Dodgeball. If you call kino a dude, you can kino a chick.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 03:14 AM
1	Solo game as a beginner, good idea? "(if you're not in an awesome situation, she's most likely not about to come home with you, so the best you can hope for is a number)" You're really going to like the video I post in a couple weeks :) Instant dates are much easier than you think. And SDL (same day lays) are just as easy, if not easier than SNLs (Same Night Lays). Keep you posted.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 03:10 AM
2	Solo game as a beginner, good idea? thanks for the heads up. Looking into it right now. EDIT: Site is still under development ... needs a shit ton of work. Right now there is nowhere to go when you click those links. Meeting developer on Saturday to fix. Thanks again!	/r/seduction	02/05/12 03:04 AM
2	Solo game as a beginner, good idea? Didn't do doubles with any of these girls, but i have before. The point i'm trying to emphasize is always go for the number no matter what. It becomes a habit.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 03:04 AM
2	Solo game as a beginner, good idea? That was me. Actually all three of those were just for demo. I had a girl friend at the time.	/r/seduction	02/05/12 03:01 AM
9	Why 1 minute is all you need: Just a reminder that you always have enough time PUA vision ... and those heals	/r/seduction	02/05/12 02:38 AM
-7	From beta to PUA, couple of pieces of advice seddit doesn't want to hear. From PUA to PUA ... of course you are right. For instance, i've had tons of people tell me you can't get a number in a minute. Well ... video	/r/seduction	02/05/12 12:10 AM
1	coffee shop game Roosh V. endorses the sit down at her table approach which can definitely work. I still prefer direct game. Usually i'll sit somewhere not nearby, especially if i have actual work to do. I'll work, she'll work. When she's done and leaving the coffee shop, i'll go direct "Hey. I was just grabbing a cup of coffee, saw you, thought you were xyz ... and had to say hello." The advantage here is 1) you have balls enough to go direct 2) low pressure because she's leaving and you're entering 3) short, q…	/r/seduction	01/05/12 04:03 PM
1	coffee shop game Not sure why you are asking for her number. Can you explain asking versus telling ...?	/r/seduction	01/05/12 03:59 PM
1	Seddit: How do you feel about this advice I was given? OP: ask him out, but do it casually. If the great fear is hurting the friendship, and this is something you cannot go without losing, simply invite him to something casual that you do with friends. Tell him to bring friends, and then at some point isolate. By isolate i mean talk to him 1-on-1. Make sure to "reverse kino" him. That is touch him lightly throughout the conversation. Gage his response and adjust your asking him out accordingly.	/r/seduction	01/05/12 03:48 PM
2	Any book suggestions for a "nice guy" wanting to be more of a "player"? What you want is to be more assertive and for lack of a better word, selfish. I hesitate to recommend this book as it sometimes sends people down a spiral, but if you're up for it read Spiritual Enlightenment The Damndest Thing by Jed McKenna. Good Luck.	/r/seduction	01/05/12 03:44 PM
3	Women are Emotional? (Men Vs Women Explained in PUA Context) By and large it a nice article. Although, i have to heavily disagree with this "Regular displays of romance are expected." Relationships are truly a matter of framing, and expectations. If you go into the relationship as "the romantic guy" then that will be expected of you. On the other hand, if you go in as a brooding selfish prick, she'll expect very little romantically, and perhaps more sexually. End of the day, you are offering SOME type of value, but you determine what that value is.	/r/seduction	01/05/12 03:33 PM
4	Final shot with a girl I like tomorrow. Going to be coming from a vulnerable place. Thoughts? Comments are headed in the right direction, but no one is actually telling you what to do. Scale it back. Do not invite her to anything serious, and trust me i'm all direct, all the time. You've tried that, it has failed. Your only option at this point is go "social." This is college so you have an event you can invite her to, right? Pick the best event bring it up casually, tell her to bring friends. Remove the pressure and she'll come to you. Add more pressure by confessing your feelings, and …	/r/seduction	01/05/12 03:21 PM
1	Final shot with a girl I like tomorrow. Going to be coming from a vulnerable place. Thoughts? Wow. This is horrible, deceptive, and kinda desperate. You think an alpha would really go to this lengths to "slow play" a girl. I know i wouldn't.	/r/seduction	01/05/12 03:17 PM
29	Solo game as a beginner, good idea? Short Answer: Gaming solo is easier. When most guys start in "the game" they develop a crutch. Usually it's either a wing or alcohol. This will distract you from focusing on self improvement and evenually pulling. Get selfish. So, if you really would like to start in the right direction, start with day game by yourself. The other thing to remember is to boil everything down to its lowest common denominator. First, focus on approaching. I imagine your AA is quite high at this point, right? Well, …	/r/seduction	01/05/12 03:06 PM
1	Can anyone suggest good audio material? Having conversations with people. Create your own audio.	/r/seduction	01/05/12 02:43 PM
7	The Tension Point I would go even further than this: it's crucial to hold tension even when you transition from just dating to LTR. Tension creates sexuality, and tension is driven by fun things like being challenging, not having time, and, well, creating drama. Eye contact and general non-reactiveness will go a long way in creating tension, doing exactly what you want when you want to will go even further ...	/r/seduction	01/05/12 02:42 PM
3	Seddit, need advice: How to maintain game when you've got no cash to spend. not smart, just good with chicks :) thx tho	/r/seduction	28/04/12 08:12 PM
3	How to approach in a specific location People are LESS "on guard during the day." I understand the apprehension about doing day game if you haven't done it, but let stay away from making blanket statements like people are "on guard during the day." The difference between day game and night game is this: night is you versus her bitch shield, her logistics, and the million other variables possibly distracting her. Day game is you versus yourself. Think people are "on guard during the day," this may be a projection. Me, opening people d…	/r/seduction	28/04/12 01:57 PM
4	How to approach in a specific location Guys, i'm fine with the cool, spontaneous and creative ideas, but let's start simple and actually do something rather than think about something extravagant and cool and do nothing. This one works in all situations: "Hey you guys look cool ..." pualive.com	/r/seduction	28/04/12 01:53 PM
5	Turns out I'm not a very good kisser. Help me seddit? I'm guessing high school, and possibly a high school dance of sorts? Your lack of leading is the issue. Instead of saying "lets slow down," you should have moved her. Why? Simple frame control and leadership tactic. You move her, you're the one calling the shots. Next time, break the kiss (you stop the kiss first), and tell her "come her." Take her by the wrist important) and move her to a more isolated location. Several reasons 1) avoid asd (anti-slut defense ... if her friends are nearby that …	/r/seduction	28/04/12 01:30 PM
10	Seddit, need advice: How to maintain game when you've got no cash to spend. So glad you've asked this question. When i first began pickup i spent so much money. Ultimately, the only things you need to do pickup is 1) a place where you can meet a woman 2) you. Everything else is just a crutch. Stick to day game. Meet women at the grocery store, on the street, on college campuses ... everywhere aside from bars (you can still do bars for free if purposeful). I guess the bigger question is what to for a free or low-cost date, or low-cost relationship? My method revolves aro…	/r/seduction	28/04/12 01:13 PM
2	Some texting tips compiled after 100 sets of number closing. I didn't really picture seddit as taking such banal advice such as this and upvoting it. You really want the key to text game? Either get the date right away or have sex right away. Mystery solved. Spend more time with her right away, get the investment, and then release. This will a) eliminate flakes entirely b) create massive responsiveness to ANY text game. That is all Seddit.	/r/seduction	27/04/12 07:55 AM
2	Two Big Elephant in the Room, and no one wants to talk about them Not familiar with this particular guru, but i haven't seen him do any sets, so i don't know what caliber of game he has. Two Points: 1) Looks don't matter. I'm a good looking dude, but my mentor is an ugly fucking dude. It's all about self perception. If you think you're ugly then you are and vise versa. If you really want to build self esteem and create an outlook of "i'm fucking sexy" then get invested in your look. Go to the gym, work on your skin, and max out your sexiness factor. Simply mov…	/r/seduction	26/04/12 01:59 PM
2	REALLY important lesson learned tonight and some thoughts on anxiety. You might be interested in James Marshall. He is the king of "Icey" or non-reactiveness. I model most of my body language after this guy and Ratisse. You noticed something really cool here: damage control. It's unfortunate that the mystery fellas have perpetuated the "close every set, every time" ideal. This isn't realistic, in fact, most pulls are sloppy and put together of equal parts awesome game and "what the fuck did i just say" moments. The difference is how you deal with the what the fuck…	/r/seduction	26/04/12 01:45 PM
6	Here's all the scientific proof for kino Not sure what the link rules are around here, but on ALL of my videos i open with touch. The reason: it get's them used to being touched by me. Not only does this prime for sexual escalation, but it also set you above as "o, this guys is confident enough to do what he wants." No sense in delaying something that will inevitably happen, right? video of me kinoing on open ... more to come	/r/seduction	26/04/12 01:03 AM
1	People seems to run away from me. Fundamentally, it all comes down to what do you have going on in your life. It seems like you may have satisfied what is socially acceptable behavior (e.g. i have a job, a car, some money, a suit ... etc), but these things don't really identify you as a person ... so people can't really see you in their conversations. You're scrapping by. How to fix this? First, identify things you want people to know about you/are interested in. Make a list of at least five, and get started doing one. Then, you…	/r/seduction	26/04/12 12:46 AM