[VFR]: I guess you would call this super direct verbals

TofuTofu · 2012-05-23T02:50:18+00:00

That balls on that guy are huge, so props there. Something felt incongruent... like he was trying too hard to be dominant/alpha. If I was mentoring this guy I'd tell him to ramp up the self amusement a bit and let his natural personality shine through more. I never got the sense that he was truly enjoying himself nor that he was genuinely interested in building a connection.

That being said, he's well ahead of the vast majority of people. If he works a little on authenticity and just calibration in general he could be a killer. Like why didn't he tease her at the end? She set him up beautifully! I'd have had her laughing, red faced and in my arms! The interaction felt stale.

breadrising · 2012-05-23T02:33:20+00:00

Good, calm approach. Very direct and commanding ("Let's go over and chat. We're going to do this.") He made is intent extremely clear from the get-go as well ("Thought you were super cute and had to meet you. I'm going to flirt with you.")

But this was the biggest part: "I'm going to get to know you and if you're cool enough I'm going to get your number."

He makes it into a little "game" and puts the pressure back on her to impress him (even though he approached her)
Even though he led with "I thought you were cute..." he's immediately showing her that he's not going to be attracted to her solely on her looks. He wants to get to know her and see if she's interesting enough to take out.

Overall, very confident and solid.

sillymallard · 2012-05-23T04:21:24+00:00

That was ballsy. His body language at the end was a bit too dominating, and you could tell she was getting a little uncomfortable by not being able to think a little and spit out a time. There was also not a lot of fun/humor, but he got her number and closing is what matters in the end.

AZNParia · 2012-05-23T12:09:41+00:00

So I'm new to this subreddit...
Is this what constitutes a good performance?

Title	[VFR]: I guess you would call this super direct verbals
Author	pualive
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	May 22, 2012 11:22 PM UTC (14 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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