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We do this too. Now that my oldest two are teenagers its more difficult and we end up retiring to our room to be alone. The teens don't want to go to bed early, but they are willing to baby sit now and then:)
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 05:22 AM
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My date nights are quite like yours. Took me years to realize that it was fine and we didn't need to go do something. I wouldn't mind sometimes but kids make it too difficult. Just having quiet time together or sometimes running mundane errands together like picking out trim for our house this weekend are enough.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/16 04:41 AM
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I do these but I use my toddler as the weight. She tends to climb on me at all times anyway and for these exercises it works perfectly.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/16 04:39 AM
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My husband is 43 and once a week wouldn't work for him. He acted like he was dying and I was the cause after our last kid was born and I only made him wait 9 days.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/15 10:09 PM
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I guess I was taught to do this by watching the women in my family ignore any off color joke. Either pretending like they didn't hear it or that it went right over their head. It's sort of a way to appear moral and decent in company you wouldn't want to think otherwise about you. Older relatives, strangers, or your children for example.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/15 03:30 AM
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I sort of have this issue too. Except I almost always host the family gatherings and I end up doing all the cleaning up. No one ever helps, they say things like, "you're so fast I'd just be in your way", and "it's just so much easier for you to hold parties". Both said to me when I was heavily pregnant! The women go off and talk about the most banal things. Purses, coupons, kids homework. It's painful. I mean they are all things I deal with but not interesting conversation. I'd rather clean than…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/15 04:36 AM
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Yep. I tell my kids that any sentence that starts with No offense should not be said. You already know it's going to hurt the feelings of the person you are speaking with.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/15 01:10 PM
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When you hold your first child things change. I didn't see giving up my career as a sacrifice (although financially it is). I felt so lucky I could stay home and didn't have to leave my baby. I still feel that way. If my husband had to move for work I couldn't imagine staying. I'd go anywhere he went. I bet your mother made the choices she wanted to make not choices made out of guilt or obligation.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/15 04:02 AM
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Get them around masculine men. My boys have several uncles, grandfathers, as well as my husband. They take them shooting, hunting, fishing, teach them boxing. We farm and my boys are usually found fixing something, building, digging etc. Learning skills like basic electrical, plumbing, and carpentry are very good for boys. It will help them go out into the world as more confidant men. My dad and my 15 year old son built barn doors last weekend and my dad who has a few health issues stepped away …
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 08:18 PM
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My 15 year old son loved reading American Sniper and Lone Survivor. My boys (and girls) go to a spring fishing camp and a fall hunting camp through the Lake and Trail Org which the love. Their dad takes them and it's the highlight of their year.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/15 07:49 PM
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Do you have children? I just wondering how you work your advice around raising kids.
/r/RedPillWomen25/08/15 01:52 AM
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Because at lest 2 or 3 children will whine and in our big family every meal has at least one person who won't eat it. Switching it up keeps it from being the same kid. Leftovers are eaten but for snacks not as meals. With 8 kids in the house leftovers are not leftover for long. We rarely have enough food leftover to be a meal for everyone anyway.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/15 04:16 AM
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An easier thing I use is an extra large Chinese prefold. The toddler size. They are huge and perfect for changing a baby in and very easy to wash. I buy a dozen for each baby and they are great for burn cloths, changing pads, quick blanket, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/15 05:18 PM
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I try to keep a very well stocked freezer and pantry. I have a pretty big garden for fresh items and harvest as needed. Having a large chest freezer helps. Then I just resupply at the grocery store and figure out the meals later. I cook three meals a day for 8-10 people (we have 8 children) each meal. It's hardest when I have morning sickness but I usually don't repeat a meal during the week except during breakfast. If you have a good supply of things to pick from you can cook what you are in th…
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/15 07:01 PM
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I think the diabetes and the hygiene are really the same issue. They are both self care and he is struggling with it. My other suggestion would be to help him through his depression by taking off as much pressure as you can and making your home as supportive and comfortable as you can. Let the 2nd baby issue go until he is doing better, keep the house tidy, cook, keep his childcare to a minimum of fun times, and be as upbeat as you can. Try to handle financial matters for now so he doesn't feel …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/15 02:05 PM
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You are right though. It took all my willpower to say goodbye to my first "love" who was not interested in a serious relationship but kept reappearing every time I began to move on. I'm so thankful I never had sex with him because it Would have been much harder. I ran into him years later, happily married, with kids, and I still got nervous and had butterflies in my stomach. I never felt like that about my husband. Glad I followed my brain and not my emotions.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 11:07 AM
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I feel sad for her. I don't think she realizes she is worth more than that.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 10:58 AM
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A keto diet has worked really well for me. I don't feel deprived or hungry and still lose weight. For exercise walking is a great place to start and if you ask your SO to join you its a nice way to talk about your day, plans, dreams, etc while you walk. My husband and I would walk a few miles everyday before kids and it was my favorite part of the day. On weekends we would often find a park or town with interesting things to see to walk in. We both lost weight together doing this and it never fe…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 06:34 PM
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Firemen around here work 24 hours on 48 hours off. I could see it with volunteer fire or EMS in some areas though.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 04:09 PM
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What does he do that requires those strange hours?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/15 01:13 PM
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I met my husband at 17 and married him when I was 20. He's the only man I've been with although he's a bit older and had a couple other partners before me. I used to think maybe I settled down too early, but after 16 mostly great years of marriage I know I made the right choice. I don't regret it at all and in fact sex and love feel really special and something just for us. If something happened to him I'm not sure I would ever want to date again. I don't even fantasize about anyone else. It's r…
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 11:19 PM
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This pretty perfectly describes my husband. I think I understand him a little better now.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/15 05:09 AM
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It's not that easy for everyone. Nearest gym is a 20 min drive in good weather. I have 8 children and a husband who works 80 hour weeks. No sitter, and I couldn't ask him to take care of them after a long day of work. I walk with my little kids every day when the older ones are in school, but now it is much too cold. I have a treadmill and use it when the kids go to bed if it isn't too late. I've tried working out at home, but the phone rings, kids fight or need something, baby cries or climbs o…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 03:39 PM
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I found it was older concerned relatives and friends who said I was too young. Adults in their 50s or older so they were not thinking those things. Just wishing they hadn't rushed into adulthood I think.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/15 11:08 PM
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