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You went rampage mode. Good experience. Keep it up.
/r/seduction24/02/19 08:31 PM
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Dance the fuck out of the dance floor :) Look at other people dancing and learn from them. Approach a couple of girls, build social momentum by making small talks with barmen, DJ, when he puts your fav song. And again approach. Primary goal - to have fun. Everything else is secondary. ​ I'll be honest, I have never brought a chick home, but its OK, as long as I had fun
/r/seduction24/12/18 09:38 PM
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I go out alone 80% of the time and it's equally good. You don't need nobody to go out, just like you don't need a gym buddy, you just go.
/r/seduction23/12/18 06:19 PM
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those are called sluts
/r/seduction14/09/18 08:33 PM
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It happened in the past. But again, men are different
/r/seduction13/09/18 09:18 PM
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Depends on the culture and the place. I think a lot of people here are of opposite opinion to authors, but I personally find even 5 to be a high number. A girl 19-23 yo can't have this many LTRs, and it definitely indicates girl having random sex in the past. For me this is a red flag.
/r/seduction12/09/18 09:27 PM
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alright, add me to your group please :) PMd my number
/r/seduction24/07/18 10:05 PM
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Man, I was becoming your fan until I read the line "for men who want to be better than women". Why it has to be a gender war? Why not just "men who want to be a better version of self"?
/r/seduction24/07/18 10:02 PM
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I'd do it anyways, unless I work in super-connected industry where people know each other
/r/seduction24/07/18 09:59 PM
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username checks out
/r/seduction16/07/18 11:43 PM
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I do something similar. The only difference - I miss a lot of days, and I usually call it a day with 1 approach. Good to see someone has a plan and reflects on his experience. You don't learn from the experience, you learn from reflecting on the experience. Adelante!
/r/seduction16/07/18 11:41 PM
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That's really interesting how todays' standard of closing is to get an Instagram. That's true across the globe - US, Canada, Russia whatever. Why? Maybe it just gives you an instant picture of who the person is with an option to bail at any moment, so it's sort of easier to share. Maybe something else. That of course does not lessen any of the work you did on Saturday, congrats :)
/r/seduction16/07/18 11:33 PM
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lmao, I'm going to go with this one for now
/r/seduction16/07/18 11:27 PM
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that's an interesting explanation. Could be it, although she only drank water.
/r/seduction16/07/18 10:38 PM
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OK, I don't hit on them in the gym either, but why not just start with Hi and be just friends? Also there would be a plenty of girls that need an advice during their exercise. And if you say you are muscled, you have an authority to give one. (Especially given the quality of so-called "personal trainers" nowadays) I am not maestro in this, but I had 2 or 3 normal dates from gym and they all went good. I find people in the gym have their priorities right. In my gym the list of who fucked who is l…
/r/seduction14/07/18 05:05 PM
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that sounds like an analogy that Michael Scott would do
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:31 PM
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> Women at the gym im at, meh Why?
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:29 PM
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what do you mean by find love? If it's quickies, then go to Russia.
/r/seduction14/07/18 03:28 PM
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That's how I got to r/investing
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:39 AM
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Not really. Looks alone won't change much. I had significant physique change from fit guy to really jacked (juiced up a bit). After a certain point it just doesn't matter
/r/seduction11/07/18 05:30 AM
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You look like the dude from New Girl show. And he was getting a pussy (at least on the show). So must be something in your actions or behavior
/r/seduction11/07/18 04:58 AM
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Quabbity assuance here
/r/seduction11/07/18 04:52 AM
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Lol no, that's not what I meant. But you can try that too, maybe it works. :)
/r/seduction11/07/18 04:40 AM
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its Cancun, it's beach. Everyone on the beach is involved in some sort of activity whether its just laying and getting tanned or workout in soldier mode. And I'm surprised he didn't covered it. I'm quite a shy person, and for me sharing physical activity on the beach is the most natural way of getting to know women. E.g you workout on the bar station, there will be girls (bonus - they most likely will be in a good shape) who come up to the bar and try to do something.
/r/seduction10/07/18 08:34 PM
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I'm surprised he didn't mention any physical activities - I. E playing a volleyball or going for a workout session will too bring you lots of interesting encounters (since like he says in the video - just cute is not enough)
/r/seduction10/07/18 10:58 AM
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because challenging ones might end up being a waste of time too. Just forced myself to go out with this girl, picked her up, was gentleman and all, but in the end there wasn't interest from her and at that point it was a waste of time and money. So that's the thing - wouldn't be it better to choose something in-between ?
/r/seduction09/07/18 09:27 PM
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I meet new girls in the gym by smelling their sneakers while they are at yoga or doing stretching. Itś wonderful, creates a special bond.
/r/seduction16/06/18 11:51 AM
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Ended up going to a local restaurant, had good time. Felt like she is still a kid rebelling against parents, and she was all over the place, but at the same time there was something about her that made me want to ask myself whats next? We both were slightly nervious. Her last relationship was over year ago, so I felt like she was a bit uptight when I tried holding her hand. I think next date will be crucial in determining whether we want to continue or not
/r/seduction12/06/18 06:37 PM
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1.First date was on the spot. I made a cold approach, we kind of clicked and went to get a coffee from there Not really, just want to get to know her a little better. Will see how it goes.
/r/seduction12/06/18 01:38 PM
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Speaking for myself here: Im a shy type, just like yourself. Gym environment is closed one. You see her there this or next time. If not here then it's someone else. Gym is place where people come to workout in the first place, so I can't imagine it's a good idea to start bar conversation while being anxious. Using same weights /same machine? Great opener there 'Are you using this? Thanks, it's hard to find anything not taken in this gym'. Bashing gym always work. It's a good topic to shittalk eq…
/r/seduction08/06/18 08:56 PM
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OP is actually the women in her 40ies with gov job. She is testing waters looking for younger species and their reaction to older authoritative woman as significant other
/r/seduction08/06/18 08:44 PM
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I think everyone has that bitter feeling when you are supposed to approach, but pussy out. In those cases I try to move forward to the next target without dwelling too much on the failure.
/r/seduction08/06/18 08:41 PM
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No, I did not. Usually old grandmothers do that kind of thing - block the second row of the elevator as if they are trying to claim the steps, and the last minute cutting in to the line of people who are on static side.
/r/seduction04/06/18 11:32 AM
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yea, he put it so eloquently lol
/r/seduction03/06/18 08:46 PM
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Good, then it's not physiological. You'll figure it out.
/r/seduction03/06/18 08:37 PM
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you mean you never get hard or something? Even in the mornings?
/r/seduction03/06/18 08:31 PM
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Have you considered the fact that maybe you in the first place just don't want to go physical? It's all about you and what YOU want. Society in general and seduction communities place so much value in having multiple partners, loads of interactions, being all around connected guy that anyone who dares not to open himself up to the world doomed to be considered weird. I thought the same thing in my early 20ies. Now I'm 30 and I know that when it's the right person I will open up, and I'm not goin…
/r/seduction03/06/18 08:17 PM
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I have this feeling all the time. There are restaurants I frequent at the local mall. I go there mainly to get work done, but sometimes I do approach women as well.I don't know if it's just me , but everytime I go there security starts showing up or walking back and front. Or maybe they are indeed attracted to me? Who knows how they hire security personnel these days...
/r/seduction03/06/18 07:56 PM
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why didn't you go down on her? :)
/r/seduction03/06/18 07:42 PM
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it is hard to find good books after reading a lot isn't it? you consider this a bad opener? This is like an alpha-male game to me. It's almost like saying "I'm so smart, i don't even know what to read to get smarter". This is confidence! BTW, what's your native language?
/r/seduction03/06/18 07:27 PM
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I guess we've all got our issues :D
/r/seduction31/05/18 08:57 PM
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Why not focus on people who view you as God? I'm sure there are plenty, we, people, like to ignore them. That's really powerful exercise trying to hang out /befriend someone you would think is not equal to you
/r/seduction31/05/18 07:26 PM
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I'm scared of being one of those guys that would get called creepy for doing nothing....... I'm not expert in relationships, but ALL people are weird. I've seen so many times hot girls acting like creeps when they are on receiving side of unresponsiveness. You would notice that too, if you would take your head out of your ass.
/r/seduction31/05/18 07:22 PM
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Wouldn't higher concentration of beautiful women together with higher women to men ratio create more demand for men?
/r/seduction28/05/18 09:04 PM
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That's really good explanation. You work in sales, by any chance?
/r/seduction27/05/18 07:32 PM
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You are right. Still I think specific mindset would lead you to asking a girl different kind of questions in each case, making screening process easier on both sides
/r/seduction27/05/18 06:18 PM
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I live in Russia, just came back from a daygame. (well, technically I went to work in a coffeeshop, but approached couple of girls during the work / on the way). Ratio or men to woman in malls her is very low,its true. But you still have to be able to communicate effectively. Also, I've lived in the US and I think part of daygame is easier there (specifically approaching part) So yeah, grass is greener on the other side :)
/r/seduction27/05/18 06:00 PM
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