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Football, basketball, those kinds of things. Cross country is not something I would personally advise any high school kid waste their time on unless that kid wants to try to pursue it to a highly competitive level. Let's put it this way: Women don't get tingles for skinny cross country runners. Football, basketball, baseball, soccer, lacrosse. At 15, if you are bulking up, reasonably tough, and reasonably fast, it's really not too late to get into football IMO. Basketball/soccer/baseball are goi…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 08:23 PM
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Don't put this kind of girl on a pedestal, that will be your mistake. She will be a a bit more of a challenge, but hopefully the juice will be worth the squeeze. She trains police/military dogs. Frame is a necessary skill to have to lead dogs effectively. Realize though that through time, if you can maintain a stronger frame+abundance than her, she will eventually reward you by letting her guard down. It's one big shit test but that submissive female is still in there, trust me.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 07:48 PM
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Why? You were the same person in the same place before and after. You showed you gots some balls kid! Don't start being a wimp now.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 07:40 PM
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Get rejected just once even. You realize it feels way better than not approaching at all.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 07:26 PM
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Are you very athletic? I think being a part of a team sport can do a lot for you. 15 isn't too late to learn some of them, but obviously you'd be too behind on some.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 06:58 PM
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Your lesson learned should be not to blow it when a girl blatantly tries to pick you up. She put herself in a position of vulnerability, she was your clay to mold at that point.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 06:51 PM
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She looks like Kenny Powers' girl.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 06:40 PM
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Let em have each other. Find better people. Any guy who would date my ex is no longer my friend.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 06:36 PM
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I'm not fat or anything You can take the bike part out of the quote and my point is the same. This quoted bit alone is just a nice way of saying that you aren't in great shape. Step one to being a better leader in bed is getting your swole on.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 04:47 PM
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I'd argue it's more depression, or rather a lack of self confidence and purpose, that leads to no sex. However, for a depressed person, it's a lot easier to whine that you aren't getting sex and that's why you are lonely/sad than to complain about not improving yourself.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 04:40 PM
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If you are not in debt then you are in a better place to realize independence quicker than many college grads. Finding a job (or multiple jobs if need be) that pay $15/hour + is not hard. If you have a clean driving record, delivery drivers make good money. Lyft, uber, etc. There are way too many ways out there to make money if you can put in the time. Accept that it will be process. Your first goals should be getting work, getting out of your friend's hair, and getting your own place. The harde…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:51 PM
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Improve yourself so that any changes in your attitude just seem natural. Lift and and improve. Lift and improve. If you stay the same and then act differently, they'll call you on the bullshit.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:33 PM
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She will back off a bit, seem to disconnect from you, and you will think it means she is looking for another guy. That will last 2-3 weeks. Ignore that shit and continue to have fun with her and just ignore that it was ever brought up. She's already displayed that she will stay as a loyal fuck buddy.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:25 PM
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Just stop replying to them or taking their calls. They'll get the hint.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:22 PM
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It's a fucking numbers game dude. Women are fickle as fuck. I've had women write paragraphs of enthusiastic response along the lines of "I can't do tomorrow but how about Friday or Saturday or next Tuesday. I'm definitely super down!" Then I agree to one of those dates and ask for their number and they go silent. Sometimes there is no good explanation.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:21 PM
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I think it's worth reading for entertainment and perspective.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:18 PM
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Her: "what's wrong with you? You know this is what I do?" (referring to the scene thing which was NOT why we were going out). "No way anyone is driving me that far back to my house", If a girl texting other dudes while you drive her places wasn't enough to show you that you are being her provider, this kind of response from her should be. When a girl really appreciates and respects you, they don't get all dominant like this. Sure, they still whine and complain, but they do it in cute feminine wa…
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:10 PM
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So I got a business idea. Let's make a gym where when we lift shit up and put it down, it generates electricity or some shit. Lifting has a purpose, it's getting swole.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:06 PM
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Lift and have options. You will automatically be less inclined to be the nice emotional tampon for girls because you got better options.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:04 PM
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I still have a long way to go in terms of weight, habits, establishing frame, establishing good habits. I still have a long way to go socially. I have not approached girls yet. But you have proven to yourself that you can stick to the habits that will one day achieve your goals. Once you do that, your goals are as good as achieved, it's just a matter of sticking to it. Grats breh.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:03 PM
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Sounds like she tried to use you to make the other guy jealous. Not a big deal, I hope you at least enjoyed the game.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 03:00 PM
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A great way to talk to most people.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 02:48 PM
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"My nickname is Gillette, cause I'm the best a man can get. Also I will cut you." Number one most common profile tagline I see for Tinderellas.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 02:35 PM
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You'd go to prison bro. You could film the whole damn thing and you would still go to prison.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 02:33 PM
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Meh dude these kind of guys help keep society in tact. Someone needs to get dese hoes off the street by a certain age and raise kids.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 02:30 PM
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I'm not fat or anything, and I put in a few hours per week on the exercise bike. Lift. this chick I'm banging says I'm not dominant in bed. Sex god method. wondering if she isn't just Chad's widow, maybe? Might be, but it sounds like you don't even know what dominant means, so I can't really blame her.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 02:16 PM
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Just relax and have fun man.
/r/askTRP31/03/16 02:06 PM
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Regardless, practicing acting as though you are feeling more positive than you are is a good thing to practice.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 07:14 PM
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"lol yeah?" = 0% interest. She is toying with you
/r/askTRP30/03/16 07:01 PM
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she tells me she's sick. I tell her I'll bring over some ginger tea. Cringe Don't be her provider or caregiver.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:57 PM
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Living is the reason to live, as pointless as that might sound. In the grand scheme of things, what you do in your life, even if you did reproduce, will have a negligible effect on the world and a non-effect on the universe. Just enjoy it and then one day you die.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:49 PM
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i've told her casually "that the guy from work?" Don't ever do this when any guy texts her. You should be so secure with yourself that you don't give a shit who is texting her. Can't offer much more advice really, but if I was in a 2 year LTR that is in a "rough patch", I'd be seriously considering why I want to keep it going so badly. Sometimes the best form of dread you can display is the ability to walk away.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:40 PM
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Honestly, I think it's best to lower expectations for a first date, unless the first date involves alcohol, in which case you should be trying to get laid. Otherwise, don't put too much pressure on it. I like setting up simple coffee dates or drink dates with girls and just getting a read on them early. If there isn't strong attraction from her early on, and you don't feel like your chances of bringing her back to your place are high, just try to communicate that you are not putting her on a ped…
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:20 PM
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If you are spending time/money on a girl and not getting sex, you are a cuck, relationship or not.
/r/askTRP30/03/16 04:04 PM
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No, this advice is "keep doing the same shit that made her flake on you for chad last time"
/r/askTRP29/03/16 09:21 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 09:10 PM
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He should certainly pump and dump her if he wants to. I disagree that pretending she didn't disrespect him and "taking her out" again for a third date where he will once again find "conversation" and "kissing" as signs of success when this girls is clearly just looking for dick. He shouldn't act butt hurt either, but some like abdada's response or "You can buy me dinner/drinks" would be the best way to actually achieve getting laid. You are basically telling him to just do what he has already be…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 09:03 PM
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I'm not, I find this to be a great example of the male hamster in action. Your rationalization of continuing to pursue a girl that isn't at all interested in you is hilarious and deserves a main sub post IMO. She could smash one of your testicles and you would come back here and say "Well yeah but she left me one! That was pretty nice of her."
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:56 PM
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Worst advice I've seen on this sub today.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:54 PM
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Oh. My. God. Dude, it's me again. The guy who told you to stop giving this girl attention. Now you got hit with the "lol yeah?" Translation: I'm not meeting you but I want to see you keep begging and acting pathetically for me. How's that feel? I would hope that you learned something from this, but since you are going to text her again, you clearly haven't. THIS ONE IS DONE. DON'T BE A BITCH WITH THE NEXT ONE. NEXT TIME A GIRL BLOWS OFF YOUR TEXT, DON'T KEEP TEXTING HER. -- Your RP friend who is…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:34 PM
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Lower you expectations for freshman year in regards to women. That's not saying you shouldn't try, but just don't think that freshman year will be a great indicator of the rest. Freshman guys, especially ones living in dorms, simply don't have as much to offer to the freshman girls as the upper class guys do. Freshman year is a great time to focus on yourself and picking out what clubs/frats you want to join. If you are going out of state, I think joining a frat is a great idea. If the other bro…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:31 PM
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Sean sounds like a much more positive influence to be around.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:26 PM
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Sounds like you need a girl. Start with the sidebar. If you were at your maximum attractiveness, this wouldn't be a concern for you.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:22 PM
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If nothing else, it's a good practice in self control.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:22 PM
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Gotta get your snap game strong. When you are on the phone, and she is being distracting, hold your hand up and snap as loud as you can until she gets the hint. Women respond pretty well to being treated like children when they know they are acting like children, even in the workplace. Once it starts working, just do it when you aren't on the phone too once in a while. Eventually, she will think twice before blurting out across the room. If she ever confronts you about it, just say "I couldn't h…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:21 PM
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Translation: I chased a Chad, he pumped and dumped me, now will you please take me back. I personally just wouldn't bother because when a girl does this it's pretty telling of what light she sees you in. Her flaking on the date you were supposed to finally get some is pretty telling. However, /u/abdada has a great response that kind of turns that around. This is a good opportunity for you to turn this to a more sexually oriented relationship, which is probably what she is looking for. You could …
/r/askTRP29/03/16 08:12 PM
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"I never learned how to smile." Just fuck with them right back. They are just flirting with you.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:29 PM
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Somebody call the waaaaaaambulance.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:10 PM
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Go for you if you think you would enjoy it.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 06:09 PM
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I feel like guys linking their tinder profiles would give us more to work with than their walls of text honestly.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 04:20 PM
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The only "green flags" that you have listed that are actually even worth mentioning is that she is a great cook and that she doesn't do drugs or drink. The rest are your hamster trying really hard to justify LTRing her. Cares for animals.... lols. Your yellow flags are red flags. CAlling them yellow is your hamster once again trying to talk yourself into LTRing her. Your red flags are legit. Met on tinder, pierced and tatted, fucked first time you met. That's all I would need to know to never LT…
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:54 PM
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I have to listen to or deal with their dumbass. No you don't. Walk away. You are letting these people have a form of control over you by making you angry.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:50 PM
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You are being a a pushover and it's very obvious you need her more than she needs you. She gets you to break you schedule to hang out with her, dress how she wants you to, etc.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:46 PM
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The last thing you want to do is treat it like a missed opportunity for you. You are the prize, not her. I'd respond with "Maybe next time" and leave it at that. Girls pull this shit on purpose sometimes. She might have just legit wanted a fuck, but girls will also often dangle out the fruit to get you to chase it. She probably knew damn well you were asleep.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:32 PM
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Lols grats dude. Go buy her that drink.
/r/askTRP29/03/16 02:28 PM
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Sure pal. Dat book gives ya lots of power.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 09:49 PM
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It looks fucking pathetic. But hey man this is how you will learn, from mistakes. She's gonna drag you along, waste your time, and if your lucky, she might let you buy her some drinks or dinner but there is a 0% chance she sleeps with you after degrading yourself to her like this and communicating that your time is worthless. Well I tried. Good luck.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 08:31 PM
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it just meant I would ignore her and the end result of that is pretty obvious. You would have been able to walk away with your head held high because you would have stopped wasting your time on a girl not interested in you. Instead, you have confirmed that you are not capable of facing reality when it's right in front of you. You confirmed that you have such low self respect that you are willing to look more and more pathetic in this girl's eye just for a date one afternoon.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 08:13 PM
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You expect to control the eyes of everyone around you by dressing your woman a certain way. That is grade A delusion.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:59 PM
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She still hasn't texted back has she? Your hamster has probably rationalized that she is just too busy to respond or hasn't seen it yet right? I understand that that dating game can seem childish, but think about this: You were not worth her readjusting your schedule. All she had to do was fill one hour of time with anything and she could have met you. When you experience a woman legitimately having enough interest in you to enter your frame and follow your leadership, then you will understand w…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:49 PM
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Your hamster is strong.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:32 PM
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No need buddy. You have already lost. You are bending to her frame. She doesn't view you highly enough to meet you one hour later. Grats that she is willing to give you a sympathy date if you work to her schedule though. I guess that's worth something...
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:25 PM
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Haha ok please do.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:22 PM
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Take her on an even longer walk and cry even more. You clearly didn't cry quite hard enough the first time.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:19 PM
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As far as the definition of soft next that you quoted, that is for situations in which a girl is not behaving how you would like. You take away your attention from her as a form of dread and subtle punishment for her actions. You are not in that situation. This girl doesn't care about you or your attention. She soft nexted you when she completely ignored your first attempt. You are wasting your time with this girl.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:16 PM
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"She said if it was earlier I could meet." That's an excuse, not offering an alternative. Want brutal proof? Go ahead and move the date around to fit her schedule. She will stop responding to you again.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:13 PM
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Dude getting a a text back is not success. It's not success til your p is in the v. This is also not soft nexting in any form. You re-initiated contact. Soft nexting is going no-contact until they contact you. What you have done is got rejected, waited two weeks, and gotten rejected again. If she was interested in meeting with you, she would suggest another time or date. She did not. She is not interested in you. Accept it and move on. Game other girls.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:06 PM
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I understand completely. I remember one of the things I said to my last gf of 3 years shortly before our breakup that we both knew was soon to come do to her moving away. I said "I wish that we could escape to some place out of this world and spend an eternity with each other and then I could come back and live the rest of my life without you." She agreed completely. Even when you both know it's time to let go, it can be hard, and it takes practice, but that's part of life. On the bright side, l…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:01 PM
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This just sounds like rationalization to me. Disgust, anger, whatever you want to call it. You have to accept it and stop letting be able to get an emotional pull on you. By letting it "disgust you", you are letting it control you in some form. Come to terms with it and move on. Be above it. It's their nature and it will always contrast the nature of a man.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:57 PM
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It is their nature. Once you come to terms with this, there is no hate and no resentment.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:49 PM
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Said I was drunk, didn't realize, gave correct spelling . Cringey dude. Rereading stuff you sent her and making it clear that you reread stuff you sent her is the opposite of an aloof, DGAF frame. After that she goes into demeaning you with "not quite enough for someone with a girlfriend". Look pathetic and get treated pathetic. Not trying to be a dick, that's just how it is.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:46 PM
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Whenever a plate drops, it still makes me more than a little uncomfortable in ways I don't quite understand. Does anybody else still experience this feeling? I've let the worst of women disappear from my life and still every single time my mind can't help but wonder "what if..." or "was this the right decision." It's completely normal and has nothing to do with abundance mentality IMO. If you find yourself doing embarrassing things to hang on to these women, then yes, that is a lack of confidenc…
/r/askTRP28/03/16 06:44 PM
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Seriously. Go buy stuff that you don't even really have to attribute to "money I spend to get laid." Get a baller ass tailor made suit. Get a baller watch. Get a baller haircut. Go fucking act like a baller everywhere you go. You'll never have to spend a dime on a woman, you just spend money on yourself and they'll convince themselves you are going to spend it on them.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 08:02 PM
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I was being helpful. You got all smart ass on me. You had to fucking ask how to avoid a website for crying out loud. Unreal.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:58 PM
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No it's not. read the sidebar. Derrrrrr hey guys talking about getting laid, where can I go to not think about getting laid derrrrrrr
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:50 PM
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You have to ask how to avoid a website? Don't type "reddit" into your browser.... TRP is for sexual strategy. ASKTRP is for asking about sexual strategy. If you aren't interested then get out of here.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:47 PM
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6'4 and make 450,000 a year? That's high smv. Sounds like you need confidence and game.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:39 PM
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Well if she didn't shave, you know she wasn't too serious on having sex with you when she left her house.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:37 PM
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Of course it feels great. People don't get addicted to drugs because they don't like how they feel.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:36 PM
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Seriously, this is why all the people in anger phase here never made sense to me. Do you realize how much better every single dude has it compared to women? It's not even close.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:32 PM
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Why waste time learning how to game with low smv? If you become high smv, that learning will be borderline useless because it a whole new world when you raise your smv. They have the ripped body and the big and active social circles on top of the great jobs and skills. Now all that stuff takes years to acquire. You are telling yourself you can't achieve high smv because you don't want to. Stop bullshitting us. Gettin jacked takes 6 months if you do it right and aren't massively obese to start wi…
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:30 PM
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Money rules the world and sex sells better than anything else because 99% of people want it. Just stay away from mainstream media and social media. What else is left to be sexualized around you?
/r/askTRP25/03/16 07:26 PM
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You go in everyday and basically have someone tell you that you are making yourself better. It's instant gratification, at an hourly cost. Apply this same method without giving money to a therapist. Give yourself instant gratification that you are working to make yourself better in the form of developing positive habits and sticking to them. Gym, diet, work, skills development, reading, etc. You won't instantly feel better, but if you are able to stick to your habits, you will reach your goals. …
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:44 PM
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out of curiosity, does she use bitcoin for this?
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:42 PM
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I am giving them back their sexuality. I am a feminist hero.
/r/askTRP25/03/16 04:40 PM
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Work out, get rid of that facial hair, and try to look a little less nerdy.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:58 PM
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Increasing my sphere of influence within my career world of choice is the plan I've been running with since the new year. Women want to be loved for what they do and not for who they are. Men want to be loved for who they are and not for what they do. Both have to face the reality that the real world is the opposite. Your career can raise your value as a wife, but not your SMV. That said, I can speak for at least 50%+ guys that if you have a fit body (not just "I'm kinda thin cause I never eat b…
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:55 PM
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Personally, I'd be a janitor at a bowling alley for $100k a year before I'd be a doctor for $50k a year. Some people get their happiness out of their work. I get my happiness out of the money my work pays me and what I can do with it in my free time.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:51 PM
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Act like a vag get treated like a vag.
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:49 PM
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"If the only thing keeping a person decent is the expectation of divine reward, then brother that person is a piece of shit; and I'd like to get as many of them out in the open as possible." -Rust Cohle
/r/askTRP24/03/16 07:01 PM
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